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090- The Priestess, the Dominatrix & the Tantric Path to Conscious Kink w/ Geneveve aka Mistress Kitty
18 Sep 2025
00:55:14
Host Samantha and co-host Anthony discuss this and so much more as they kick off a new series featuring local Houston voices. Their first guest is the incredible Genevieve Mistress Kitty, who shares her wild and inspiring journey from hosting spicy high school parties to navigating the monotony of corporate America. She talks about the serious health crisis that became her ultimate wake up call, prompting a life changing trip to Nepal to study yoga.
This journey did not just change her perspective; it changed her entire life, leading her to leave her job, her marriage, and the person she thought she was supposed to be. Kitty then opens up about rediscovering her queer identity and diving headfirst into the worlds of Tantra, kink, and conscious sexuality. Find out how an introduction to rope bondage felt surprisingly similar to aerial yoga and what separates a conscious kink space from one that just feels icky.
She gets into the importance of consent, boundaries, and that big "fuck yes" energy. Plus, you will definitely want to hear the story involving sex magic and what someone did with her hundred dollar bills at a play party. It is a fascinating look into building a life aligned with your deepest truths, even when you have to pioneer the path yourself.
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
Are you curious about Houston Tantra events or looking to connect with the Houston healer community?
Learn more about classes, workshops, collaborations HERE.
Click HERE to gain access to the Houston Tantra Community Telegram Chat and stay connected with local people on a journey of expansion and liberation, just like you!
If you're interested in being a guest, connect with us on Instagram and let's chat! Creating the "storytime" series requires listeners like YOU to be bold and reach out so that your story can be heard, because your story matters!
089- From Freaking Out To Holding The Flame: How the Houston Tantra Community Was Born
11 Sep 2025
00:41:47
Host Samantha and co-host Anthony discuss the hilarious and heartfelt origin story of their Houston Tantra community. In this episode, I get to share the whole story, from Anthony’s initial freakout about exploring a new side of intimacy to the powerful realization that changed everything for us. I’ll walk you through my personal journey of seeking a deeper connection that blended the spiritual with the sexy, and how a trip to Austin sparked the idea to build the very thing I was looking for in my own city.
I also get really honest about my complicated relationship with Houston. For a long time, I felt like my people and my passions were somewhere else, maybe in the mountains of Colorado or the hippie vibes of Austin. This part of our journey shows how surrendering to your reality can unlock a powerful new purpose you never saw coming.
Finally, we explore how our own relationship became the foundation for this entire community. It’s not about telling people to be just like us. Instead, we want our connection to be a beacon of possibility, showing what can happen when you prioritize communication, playfulness, and a whole lot of laughter. We talk about the importance of maintaining your own life even in a deep partnership and breaking free from the standard template of what a relationship is supposed to look like.
Click HERE to gain access to the Houston Tantra Community Telegram Chat and stay connected with local people on a journey of expansion and liberation, just like you!
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
Are you curious about Houston Tantra events or looking to connect with the Houston healer community?
Learn more about classes, workshops, collaborations HERE.
Click HERE to gain access to the Houston Tantra Community Telegram Chat and stay connected with local people on a journey of expansion and liberation, just like you!
If you're interested in being a guest, connect with us on Instagram and let's chat! Creating the "storytime" series requires listeners like YOU to be bold and reach out so that your story can be heard, because your story matters!
080- More Than Allowance: Tantra, Power & Conscious Sugar Dating
27 Feb 2025
00:50:59
Host Samantha, guest Kristen Birdwell, and co host Anthony dive into a topic that’s juicy, taboo, and full of potential for expansion—so, basically, just another day on this podcast. Today, it's sugar dating.
Our guest today is the incredible Kristen Birdwell:author, healer, Tantrika, and all-around love warrior. This conversation is going to take us on a ride. We’re talking about everything from sacred sexuality and Tantra to the sugar realm, an often misunderstood world but one Kristen has navigated from a place of empowerment, evolution, and deep self-awareness.
Kristen shares how her journey started. Seeking something outside of herself in her early 20s, stepping into sugar relationships without much intention, to later reclaiming that experience as an empowered choice. Her book, Sex, Drugs & Soul, is just as captivating as its title suggests, and she gives us a glimpse into the stories, lessons, and transformation that came with it.
Kristen didn’t just stumble into these experiences. She transmuted them. She took the wounds, the conditioning, and even the moments of toxicity and turned them into wisdom. And through this journey, she found Tantra—a path that finally allowed her to integrate her sexuality and spirituality instead of feeling like they had to exist in separate worlds. You know Samantha is all about that.
And of course, we get into the really fun stuff like rituals, pleasure practices, and how making everything in life sacred changes the game. Kristen shares how she started bringing intention into her world: cutting energetic cords with an underwear purge (yes, really), embracing sound and movement as healing tools, or taking her relationship with pleasure to a whole new level.
This is a conversation about owning your desires, breaking out of shame, and finding your way back to your most liberated self. If you’ve ever felt like your spirituality and your sexuality were at odds, or if you’re just wildly curious about a world that often exists in whispers and judgment, I need you to take a listen and let me know your thoughts!
Discover the transformative power of Waands, crystal wand products. Discover the art of slow pleasure, resensitize your body & come home to yourself. Offering crystal pleasure wands, yoni eggs, yoni steam kits, and more to support your journey of healing and sensual connection. These are the products I use for my own self-pleasure practices, these tools are crafted to deepen intimacy, sensuality, and presence by expanding and slowing down your self-love rituals.
Use code SAM for 10% off at WAANDS.com and start exploring t
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
Are you curious about Houston Tantra events or looking to connect with the Houston healer community?
Learn more about classes, workshops, collaborations HERE.
Click HERE to gain access to the Houston Tantra Community Telegram Chat and stay connected with local people on a journey of expansion and liberation, just like you!
If you're interested in being a guest, connect with us on Instagram and let's chat! Creating the "storytime" series requires listeners like YOU to be bold and reach out so that your story can be heard, because your story matters!
Host Sam and co host Anthony dive deep into a topic that’s often misunderstood yet incredibly powerful: lingam massage. But... wait, what is that even? Listen in to hear about the emotional release, energetic alignment, and a profound sense of receiving possible...
In many cultures, male sexuality is framed around performance and dominance, often ignoring its potential for healing and connection. But what if we redefined it? In tantric traditions, the lingam—often reduced to just its physical form, a penis— means wand of light. That sounds pretty cool actually!
For Anthony, this realization was life-changing. Accustomed to always giving, he never questioned the weight of guilt and resistance around receiving until he found himself fully immersed in a tantric practice that forced him to do exactly that. This is why the practice is so healing: it invites men into their heart, learning lessons in an incredibly tangible way.
Samantha’s journey into this work was just as unexpected. Having spent years facilitating women’s healing spaces, she never imagined offering tantric bodywork to men. But after a series of profound experiences—including a past-life reading that challenged her deepest fears—she felt called to explore what was truly holding her back. Spoiler alert, her avoidant tendencies might be a piece of it :)
Curious about getting or receiving lingam massage? Good, that's what we're here for! Reach out to us on Instagram so you can experience this healing work for yourself!
Discover the transformative power of Waands, crystal wand products. Discover the art of slow pleasure, resensitize your body & come home to yourself. Offering crystal pleasure wands, yoni eggs, yoni steam kits, and more to support your journey of healing and sensual connection. These are the products I use for my own self-pleasure practices, these tools are crafted to deepen intimacy, sensuality, and presence by expanding and slowing down your self-love rituals.
Use code SAM for 10% off at WAANDS.com and start exploring the path to liberated pleasure!
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
Are you curious about Houston Tantra events or looking to connect with the Houston healer community?
Learn more about classes, workshops, collaborations HERE.
Click HERE to gain access to the Houston Tantra Community Telegram Chat and stay connected with local people on a journey of expansion and liberation, just like you!
If you're interested in being a guest, connect with us on Instagram and let's chat! Creating the "storytime" series requires listeners like YOU to be bold and reach out so that your story can be heard, because your story matters!
078- What Are Chakras? A Tantra-Inspired Dive into the Chakra System
13 Feb 2025
00:56:16
Host Samantha takes you on a journey through the chakra system, Tantra, and Kundalini energy, breaking down these ancient concepts in a way that’s both practical and deeply transformative. If you caught her last solo episode on the throat chakra, you know things got a little spicy, and if you've been around a while, you know there's more where that came from. Heyooo!
Ever wondered if chakras are more than just a woo-woo idea? Samantha dives into their connection to the body’s nerve centers, weaving together science and spirituality in a way that just clicks. She also unpacks Tantra, but not as the media portrays it, rather as an expansive, liberating practice that integrates the physical and the divine. And of course, there’s Kundalini energy—the mysterious, coiled force at the base of your spine that, when awakened, can lead to profound transformation.
Get ready to explore each chakra from root to crown, uncovering how energy moves through your body and how blockages might be affecting you in ways you didn’t even realize. Whether you’re here for the science, the spirituality, or just a deeper understanding of your own energetic landscape, this episode will leave you with plenty to reflect on—and maybe even feel in your own body. Tune in, and let’s explore the power that’s already within you.
Discover the transformative power of Waands, crystal wand products. Discover the art of slow pleasure, resensitize your body & come home to yourself. Offering crystal pleasure wands, yoni eggs, yoni steam kits, and more to support your journey of healing and sensual connection. These are the products I use for my own self-pleasure practices, these tools are crafted to deepen intimacy, sensuality, and presence by expanding and slowing down your self-love rituals.
Use code SAM for 10% off at WAANDS.com and start exploring the path to liberated pleasure!
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
Are you curious about Houston Tantra events or looking to connect with the Houston healer community?
Learn more about classes, workshops, collaborations HERE.
Click HERE to gain access to the Houston Tantra Community Telegram Chat and stay connected with local people on a journey of expansion and liberation, just like you!
If you're interested in being a guest, connect with us on Instagram and let's chat! Creating the "storytime" series requires listeners like YOU to be bold and reach out so that your story can be heard, because your story matters!
077- Stop Watching TV: Grow Together or Grow Apart
06 Feb 2025
00:37:56
Host Samantha and co-host Anthony are diving into relationships again. They’re kind of our thing. This time, we’re tackling one of the biggest excuses we hear: “I just don’t have time for my relationship.”
Sound familiar? Yeah, we’re calling BS.
Nobody has time, everyone is busy... it’s about making time. And if your relationship feels like it’s slipping into autopilot, losing its spark, or becoming more about coexisting than actually connecting, then this episode is especially for you.
And listen, we’ve been there. There are seasons of life where you feel like you barely have time to breathe, much less plan intentional connection with your partner. But here’s the hard truth: you either grow together, or you grow apart.
So, how do you keep the fire alive when life is chaotic? How do you stop settling for Netflix side-by-side and start truly engaging with each other again? And what happens when one person in the relationship starts growing, but the other stays the same? We'll tell you this much for free: binge-watching your favorite show every night might be costing you deeper intimacy.
We’re also throwing in a little wisdom from Esther Perel (yes, the Mating in Captivity queen) about how long-term relationships can easily become routine and predictable—and why that’s the enemy of desire. Novelty, tension, and intentional distance might be more important than you think.
But before you panic and swear off TV forever, don’t worry, this episode isn’t about depriving yourself of your favorite show. It’s about asking the hard questions: Are you choosing connection or just defaulting to comfort? Have your evenings become a cycle of screens and silence? What small shifts could create massive change in the way you relate to each other?
Plus, we’ll get into the science of why relationships break down—not because of huge fights or betrayals, but because of the slow, unnoticed drift that happens when two people stop actively choosing each other.
So, if you’re feeling stuck, disconnected, or just want to shake things up in your relationship, this episode is your wake-up call. And if nothing else? Turn off the TV for one night and see what happens.
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
Are you curious about Houston Tantra events or looking to connect with the Houston healer community?
Learn more about classes, workshops, collaborations HERE.
Click HERE to gain access to the Houston Tantra Community Telegram Chat and stay connected with local people on a journey of expansion and liberation, just like you!
If you're interested in being a guest, connect with us on Instagram and let's chat! Creating the "storytime" series requires listeners like YOU to be bold and reach out so that your story can be heard, because your story matters!
076- Get Over It: Bridging the Gap Between Spirituality and Intimacy
30 Jan 2025
00:44:55
Co-host Anthony takes the mic while Samantha is away at a somatic priestess retreat. Nicknamed "Pastor Passion", today he brings that moniker to life.
Many listeners have reached out based on the episode on religious deconstruction, resonating with the tension between their religious upbringing and their evolving perspectives on sexuality. This episode, titled Get Over It, explores how we can reconcile spirituality and intimacy—two aspects of life that are often seen as incompatible but are, in reality, deeply connected.
Anthony reflects on his own journey, having been a religion major in college and immersing himself in Christian theology. Sex God by Rob Bell, a book that challenged traditional Christian perspectives on sexuality and spirituality sparked a deeper exploration into why these two aspects of life have been so divided, particularly in religious traditions where spirituality was emphasized while sexuality was shrouded in shame. He discusses how ancient traditions often viewed sex as a gateway to transcendence and connection with the divine, a perspective that has largely been lost in modern religious teachings.
He shares personal experiences of how sex education in religious settings was minimal at best and shame-driven at worst. But, through intentional means, he was able to find something more than just a new way of looking at sex... he found a way to combine the two into so something so divine, it can hardly be described. Experience is the best teacher here, as is often the case.
Tune in to hear how the gap can be bridged, and you can get your pleasure activated in a more fulfilling and holistic way!
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
Are you curious about Houston Tantra events or looking to connect with the Houston healer community?
Learn more about classes, workshops, collaborations HERE.
Click HERE to gain access to the Houston Tantra Community Telegram Chat and stay connected with local people on a journey of expansion and liberation, just like you!
If you're interested in being a guest, connect with us on Instagram and let's chat! Creating the "storytime" series requires listeners like YOU to be bold and reach out so that your story can be heard, because your story matters!
075- The Art Of Us: A Tantric Path to Transforming Communication & Connection
23 Jan 2025
00:38:53
Host Samantha and co-host Anthony discuss the Art (and science) of relationships... and how staring into your partner’s eyes for five seconds can feel like a high-stakes game of emotional chicken.
There's a lot of research into the way people relate to each other. Relationship experts like John Gottman blend science with heartfelt connection... but here's the twist: it's not about cookie-cutter advice. Instead, explore how to make these practices your own, bringing the art of individuality into the mix.
There's some deep vulnerability in their own personal experiences—like how an innocent eye-gazing experiment took a surprisingly stressful turn. (Spoiler: it’s a funny story now, but it taught so much about tuning into other’s needs in the moment!)
Whether you're single, in a long-term relationship, or somewhere in between, they've got ideas you can bring into your connections—and your connection with yourself.
Tune in and discover how to approach your relationships like a jazz musician approaches music: by mastering the basics and then letting the rhythm take you to unexpected, soulful places.
Join The Art of Us series to explore the dance of connection and leave with practical tools to elevate your relationships. Whether you’re single or partnered, this event offers a supportive space to grow, play, and connect. Register here!
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
Are you curious about Houston Tantra events or looking to connect with the Houston healer community?
Learn more about classes, workshops, collaborations HERE.
Click HERE to gain access to the Houston Tantra Community Telegram Chat and stay connected with local people on a journey of expansion and liberation, just like you!
If you're interested in being a guest, connect with us on Instagram and let's chat! Creating the "storytime" series requires listeners like YOU to be bold and reach out so that your story can be heard, because your story matters!
074- The Somatic Art of Pleasure: A Guide to Using Self-Pleasure for Emotional & Physical Healing
16 Jan 2025
00:52:54
Host Samantha dives deep into the concept of self-pleasure, the importance of somatic and bodily healing, and how intentional practices can transform your relationship with yourself. Can you have powerful revelations through the art of de-armoring, using tools like crystal wands, and embracing pleasure as a healing and spiritual journey? Of course!
Throughout the episode, Samantha introduces tools for intentional self-pleasure, including crystal wands and yoni eggs, highlighting her personal favorites like the cervix wand. The benefits of these tools for de-armoring and grounding and provides a link to her recommended brand, Waands. Any kind of healing self-pleasure practice brings in intention... and what your intention is can make magic happen in your life.
Check out episodes 25 for focuses on self-love and incorporating non-sexual pleasures into daily life, while Episode 16 explores how trauma is stored in the body and why movement is essential for healing. Episodes 57 and 72 provide introductory insights into Tantra, which Samantha describes as a path to greater embodiment and spiritual growth.
Self-pleasure is more than a physical act—it’s an opportunity for healing, connection, and profound self-love. By embracing our senses and nurturing our relationship with our bodies, we can create a more vibrant and pleasurable human experience... and, have more orgasms. Quite the win-win.
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Discover the transformative power of Waands, crystal wand products. Discover the art of slow pleasure, resensitize your body & come home to yourself. Offering crystal pleasure wands, yoni eggs, yoni steam kits, and more to support your journey of healing and sensual connection. These are the products I use for my own self-pleasure practices, these tools are crafted to deepen intimacy, sensuality, and presence by expanding and slowing down your self-love rituals.
Use code SAM for 10% off at WAANDS.com and start exploring the path to liberated pleasure!
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
Are you curious about Houston Tantra events or looking to connect with the Houston healer community?
Learn more about classes, workshops, collaborations HERE.
Click HERE to gain access to the Houston Tantra Community Telegram Chat and stay connected with local people on a journey of expansion and liberation, just like you!
If you're interested in being a guest, connect with us on Instagram and let's chat! Creating the "storytime" series requires listeners like YOU to be bold and reach out so that your story can be heard, because your story matters!
073- Relationship Funhouse: 3 Ways Relationships Mirror Our Own Issues Back To Us
09 Jan 2025
00:43:45
Host Samantha and co-host Anthony discuss relationships bringing up all kinds of emotions. Why do relationships sometimes feel like walking through a fun house of distorted mirrors? One moment, you’re laughing; the next, you’re triggered. Can you uncover the surprising ways relationships reflect your inner world—and why that’s actually a good thing?
Relationships aren’t just about love and connection—they’re also a mirror that reflects our deepest challenges. Explore how relationships serve as a “fun house,” exposing the shadows, triggers, and unresolved patterns within us. From humorous personal anecdotes to transformative insights, they share three powerful ways relationships reveal opportunities for growth, healing, and deeper connection. Through our shadows, triggers, and evolution, relationships of any kind drive us into deeper knowledge of ourselves and others.
Relationships are messy, magical, and full of lessons. They’re here to teach you about yourself in ways no other experience can. Embrace the fun house, lean into the reflections, and remember to grow as you go. 🌱
Discover the transformative power of Waands, crystal wand products. Discover the art of slow pleasure, resensitize your body & come home to yourself. Offering crystal pleasure wands, yoni eggs, yoni steam kits, and more to support your journey of healing and sensual connection. These are the products I use for my own self-pleasure practices, these tools are crafted to deepen intimacy, sensuality, and presence by expanding and slowing down your self-love rituals.
Use code SAM for 10% off at WAANDS.com and start exploring the path to liberated pleasure!
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
Are you curious about Houston Tantra events or looking to connect with the Houston healer community?
Learn more about classes, workshops, collaborations HERE.
Click HERE to gain access to the Houston Tantra Community Telegram Chat and stay connected with local people on a journey of expansion and liberation, just like you!
If you're interested in being a guest, connect with us on Instagram and let's chat! Creating the "storytime" series requires listeners like YOU to be bold and reach out so that your story can be heard, because your story matters!
072- Tantra 101: Building Tantra Community in Houston
02 Jan 2025
00:43:35
Host Samantha and co-host Anthony Talk Tantra... 101.
Think Tantra is just about Kama Sutra and steamy bedroom moves? Think again. Tantra is about weaving your spirit, body, and life force energy into a tapestry of liberation and presence. Tune in to find out why Tantra isn’t just sexy—it’s sacred.
Dive into the transformative world of Tantra with Sam and Anthony as they explore the foundational principles and practices that weave together the physical and spiritual realms. In this episode, Tantra becomes less mysterious, misconceptions are broken down, presence, intention, and self-acceptance are integrated into everyday life. Whether you're curious about the origins of Tantra or ready to deepen your spiritual journey, this episode is a blend of wisdom, playfulness, and practical insights.
What does “expansive liberation” mean to you? Take a moment to reflect on how you can bring more presence, intention, and self-acceptance into your life. Share your thoughts with us on social media or leave a review with your favorite insights from the episode!
Tantra is more than a practice—it’s a way of life. It invites you to honor your body, embrace your spirit, and weave together every aspect of your existence into a harmonious and liberated whole. 🌸
Discover the transformative power of Waands, crystal wand products. Discover the art of slow pleasure, resensitize your body & come home to yourself. Offering crystal pleasure wands, yoni eggs, yoni steam kits, and more to support your journey of healing and sensual connection. These are the products I use for my own self-pleasure practices, these tools are crafted to deepen intimacy, sensuality, and presence by expanding and slowing down your self-love rituals.
Use code SAM for 10% off at WAANDS.com and start exploring the path to liberated pleasure!
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
Are you curious about Houston Tantra events or looking to connect with the Houston healer community?
Learn more about classes, workshops, collaborations HERE.
Click HERE to gain access to the Houston Tantra Community Telegram Chat and stay connected with local people on a journey of expansion and liberation, just like you!
If you're interested in being a guest, connect with us on Instagram and let's chat! Creating the "storytime" series requires listeners like YOU to be bold and reach out so that your story can be heard, because your story matters!
Host Sam and co-host Anthony discuss happy holidays, or maybe not so happy...
A re-issue of episode 19 as it pertains to the holidays.
Seasonal depression happens around the time of the holidays, and most people are too busy trying to make it happy that they either don't confront their own sadness or run into someone who is having feelings and finds it difficult to create space. There are a multitude of reasons that grief can show up during the holidays and each reason is valid. These feelings lead many to think that they have to suppress their emotions to make everyone else in the house happy, when instead it's important to feel it to heal it.
During these holidays, family loss, loss of traditions, and even multiple holiday gatherings where before there were only one are all valid reasons to grieve. Even ancestral trauma can be a factor; things happened before we started our own holiday traditions and they can be passed on. Whatever the reason for grief during the holiday seasons, we want to give you the gift of being able to feel the grief and move through it when you are ready.
Below is an electronic copy of the poem spoken at the end of the podcast. Anthony's Poem Link
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
Are you curious about Houston Tantra events or looking to connect with the Houston healer community?
Learn more about classes, workshops, collaborations HERE.
Click HERE to gain access to the Houston Tantra Community Telegram Chat and stay connected with local people on a journey of expansion and liberation, just like you!
If you're interested in being a guest, connect with us on Instagram and let's chat! Creating the "storytime" series requires listeners like YOU to be bold and reach out so that your story can be heard, because your story matters!
088- How Two Men Ruined Me... In The Best Way Possible
01 May 2025
00:43:38
Host Samantha and co host Anthony discuss how two men have ruined her... but, in a good way!
Intrigued by the healing potential of yoni massage, which they have explored in previous episodes, Samantha decided to take it a step further. She shares her story of receiving this intimate bodywork not just from one person, but from two men simultaneously, including Anthony himself.
Why this specific setup, you might ask? Samantha talks about her ongoing journey with yoni massage, learning to connect with her body, release tension, and awaken healing energy. She touches upon the different dynamics of receiving this work from women versus men and her specific intention to heal wounds related to the masculine and her father. Find out how meeting a tantric practitioner named Dennis, who curiously reminded her of her birth father, sparked the idea for this unique session.
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
Are you curious about Houston Tantra events or looking to connect with the Houston healer community?
Learn more about classes, workshops, collaborations HERE.
Click HERE to gain access to the Houston Tantra Community Telegram Chat and stay connected with local people on a journey of expansion and liberation, just like you!
If you're interested in being a guest, connect with us on Instagram and let's chat! Creating the "storytime" series requires listeners like YOU to be bold and reach out so that your story can be heard, because your story matters!
070- SPREAD the Love: A Sexy Guide to Safer Sex and Consent
20 Dec 2024
00:59:57
Host Samantha and co-host Anthony ask the question: "Can I put it in your butt?" It might not be the sex-ed lesson you grew up with, but it’s exactly the kind of directness we need when talking about safer sex and consent. In this episode, we break down the myths, missteps, and missed opportunities of sex ed as we know it.
We have learned a powerful framework for creating safety, respect, and connection in sexual encounters, while emphasizing the importance of clear communication. This is the candid, judgment-free conversation about sex you didn’t know you needed. Imagine how different your first sexual experience would’ve been if you’d had these conversations!
Shame and fear have long been baked into discussions about sex, leading to unnecessary trauma and confusion. However, honest, informed communication allows for deeper intimacy and trust, creating a container for safer exploration.
Curious about SPREAD and its impact on intimacy? Start having these conversations with your partner, or share this episode with someone who might need it. If you're local to Houston, check out Sam and Anthony’s upcoming "Skin and Soul" play parties!
Discover the transformative power of Waands, crystal wand products. Discover the art of slow pleasure, resensitize your body & come home to yourself. Offering crystal pleasure wands, yoni eggs, yoni steam kits, and more to support your journey of healing and sensual connection. These are the products I use for my own self-pleasure practices, these tools are crafted to deepen intimacy, sensuality, and presence by expanding and slowing down your self-love rituals.
Use code SAM for 10% off at WAANDS.com and start exploring the path to liberated pleasure!
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
Are you curious about Houston Tantra events or looking to connect with the Houston healer community?
Learn more about classes, workshops, collaborations HERE.
Click HERE to gain access to the Houston Tantra Community Telegram Chat and stay connected with local people on a journey of expansion and liberation, just like you!
If you're interested in being a guest, connect with us on Instagram and let's chat! Creating the "storytime" series requires listeners like YOU to be bold and reach out so that your story can be heard, because your story matters!
069- How To Turn Your Bedroom Into A Temple Of Intimacy
12 Dec 2024
01:03:17
In this milestone episode, we’re diving into the art of transforming your bedroom into a sacred space for deep intimacy, connection, and soulful love. Gone are the days of seeing the body as a mere vessel for needs or sex as an obligation—this episode invites you to rediscover your body and relationships as temples of sacred energy.
What We’ll Explore:
The Body as a Temple: Moving from expectation and obligation to reverence and giving energy. Learn how to cultivate a sacred relationship with your body and your partner.
The Heart of Connection: How intimacy serves as a gateway to emotional and spiritual connection. We’ll talk boundaries, vulnerability, and getting out of your head and into your heart.
Three Practices for Sacred Space: From tantric date nights to sensual rituals, discover exercises to elevate intimacy—whether you're solo or partnered.
This episode is packed with insights and practical steps to help you reclaim sacredness in your relationships and create a temple of connection in your bedroom.
Tune in and start turning the mundane into the divine. 💖
Join us for a free Tantra event! Kickstart your temple space by learning some practices to deepen your connection outside and inside the bedroom.
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What happens when the beliefs you were raised with no longer align with who you’ve become? Host Sam and Co- Host Anthony delve into the complex topic of religious deconstruction and trauma with a dose of humor, heart, and maybe even a fiery chariot or two.
From the societal pressures of religion to the nuanced paths of recovery, they share personal stories and insights to help listeners navigate their spiritual journeys.
Religious trauma often stems from environments that prioritize conformity over individuality, using fear to enforce belief. But what can we do about that? Recovery involves recognizing subtle or unconscious ways these teachings persist and reclaiming personal freedom. And that's easier said than done.
On any journey of deconstruction, there needs to be a recognition of the ways in which religion has caused harm. You cannot be in a religious system without there being some damage because it is a system made by human hands. This episode invites you to step into your history with curiosity and courage. Whether you’re deconstructing long-held beliefs or exploring new spiritual paths, remember: growth doesn’t mean breaking down—it means breaking free.
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In this episode, we dive into the nuanced relationship between nudity, shame, and sexuality. I unpack the societal conditioning that has taught us to relate nakedness with sexualization & sexual availability and explore how this impacts our connection to our bodies. Together, we’ll reflect on the roots of body shame, the role of cultural and religious influences, and why reclaiming our nakedness can be a liberating, non-sexual act of self-acceptance!
Whether you’ve struggled with feeling at home in your skin or you’re curious about what it means to embrace your body unapologetically, this conversation will challenge the status quo and inspire you to rethink your relationship with nudity.
My un-official mission is to get everyone naked :P Which is why I'm hosting monthly Brunch & Boobie Gatherings starting December 1st, 2024 as well as Conscious Temple Nights, also known as Play Parties in the greater Houston, Texas area. Learn more here.
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066- How to Stop Overthinking & Start Trusting Yourself
21 Nov 2024
00:42:39
Why do we overthink? Is it trauma? Is it mustard? (Spoiler alert: It’s both.) Host Samantha and Co-host Anthony as they explore the chaos of too many choices, anxious attachments, and how to finally make decisions without spiraling.
From decision paralysis in the mustard aisle to parenting anxieties and navigating emotional conflicts, they explore why we overthink, how it’s connected to societal conditioning, and actionable ways to quiet the mind. This is your sign to stop second-guessing and start trusting yourself.
Overthinking is fueled by today’s Age of Information—endless choices and the pressure to always "get it right." It’s tied to societal conditioning (rationality over intuition), trauma, and anxiety about past and future outcomes. The truth is, most choices (even parenting ones) aren’t as high-stakes as they feel in the moment. The key to stopping analysis paralysis by is practicing “embodied knowing” and tapping into your intuitive wisdom... but what does that look like? Trusting your inner voice and quieting your mind through mindfulness practices and body awareness are a good start.
Overthinking is just anxiety in action—it’s trying to pre-solve every problem that might come up. But recognizing that not every situation is a problem that needs fixing can go a long way to slowing down those constantly working brains. And at the end of the day, give things a try and find out what works!
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This episode is different from previous episodes, a more candid share of her childhood. Host Samantha opens up about her journey of having an alcoholic & absent father. Revisiting key childhood moments that shaped her experiences with abandonment, consistency, and trust-- and where she's at today in those areas.
From early memories of separation and the heartache of reaching out to reconnect followed by disappointment, to the long years without contact, she reflects on how these experiences impacted her life and her own healing journey.
Samantha also shares insights on the lasting lessons of core wounds, the importance of self-trust, and finding faith to fill those gaps.
Join for a personal & raw look at healing and moving forward, and loving yourself where you're at in the process. Thank you for being here and witnessing my story, I so appreciate you listening. Would love to hear from you what resonated, what your journey has been like, and what you're learning as you grow through what you go through :)
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064- The Spiritual Art of Deepthroating: Throat Chakra Healing
07 Nov 2024
01:05:36
Deepthroating is often depicted in pornography as aggressive and the pleasure is for the man with questionable consent... But what if there was a conscious way to explore this taboo act?
Samantha discusses the sacred art of deepthroating from a tantric perspective, with deep reverence, presence, and intention. How to safely explore this and how to maximize pleasure for all parties involved.
Another aspect of deepthroating is the idea of de-armoring the throat, cultivating a space for deep transformational throat chakra healing. See the episode 043- De-Armoring: Removing Barriers Between You & A Life Of Pleasure to learn more about the benefits of de-armoring. Learn more about receiving tantric boy work from Samantha here.
Discover the transformative power of Waands, crystal wand products. Discover the art of slow pleasure, resensitize your body & come home to yourself. Offering crystal pleasure wands, yoni eggs, yoni steam kits, and more to support your journey of healing and sensual connection. These are the products I use for my own self-pleasure practices, these tools are crafted to deepen intimacy, sensuality, and presence by expanding and slowing down your self-love rituals.
Use code SAM for 10% off at WAANDS.com and start exploring the path to liberated pleasure!
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
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“I create a space for women to come home to their bodies and let go of what isn’t theirs.”
Host Sam, guest Adrianna, and co-host Anthony welcome embodiment photographer Adriana, who shares her inspiring journey from self-discovery to her career as a photographer.
Through her unique approach to "embodiment photography," Adriana provides women with a sacred, empowering space to shed societal expectations and reconnect with their true selves. Together, they discuss the transformative power of her sessions, the importance of self-expression, and the courage to pursue one’s calling. By focusing on embodiment, she creates a safe and sacred space where women can let go of imposed "good girl" stereotypes and embrace their true, wild essence. Adriana’s work encourages clients to see themselves in a new light, often transforming self-perception.
What would it be like to express parts of yourself for the first time, with you and another woman as a trusted witness to this powerful self-revelation? How would that open you up to seeing yourself as that woman and not what someone else told you you need to be?
Inspired by women who gave her permission to be herself, Adriana now passes on that permission through her work. Her passion for helping others find their voice and strength is the heart of her photography sessions, making her approach and your photo shoot one-of-a-kind.
Tune in to feel inspired to let go of societal expectations and embrace your inner wildness!
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062- What is a Play Party? Skin & Soul: Temple of Intimacy
26 Oct 2024
00:47:27
Host Samantha and co-host Anthony talk play parties.
You may have thoughts about what a play party is. Recently talked about on the podcast, Samantha and Anthony's first play party experiences were memorable, and have decided to host their own. But the journey into play parties isn't what you may think it is.
The expansion that's available in your life through intimacy, play, sexuality, and sensuality are deep and vast. Opening up to the possibilities creates an incredible amount of awareness, presence, and joy. But are all play parties this way? Certainly not. But at the Skin and Soul temple of Intimacy, play parties are designed to get you out of your head and into your body so you can fully experience all the growth, play, and sacred practices you receive in this way.
Choosing to get outside your comfort zone by having potentially difficult conversations are a thing of beauty. What would life be like if you could have such deep conversations around your boundaries, intimacy, fears, and desires with others in your life? A play party is the perfect place to be in the practice of this because everyone is equipped with the same tools. So, as you discover more about yourself, you may find yourself drawn to a deeper experience of your sensuality, sexuality, and human-ness. Join us for a fun and intentional way to grow as we go by applying for the Skin and Soul Temple of Intimacy, where you'll find out more about our play parties and the events we're hosting to deepen your relationship with your own self, body, and desires. See you soon!
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Host Samantha dives into feminine archetypes: a key tool for knowing your body and feminine essence.
"What is going on??" I'm sure you've said this once or twice before as a woman when things seem confusing or off in your body. You're not alone, Samantha knows what you're going through. After years of feeling confused, like she wasn't in charge of her body, and burnt out from being someone for everyone else except her, it was time for a change.
Being a woman had always meant one thing, but, what if it could be so much more? The truth is, your cycle holds keys to being able to express yourself fully as a woman. Samantha describes the cycle of the feminine archetypes: Maiden, Mother, Wild Woman, and Wise Woman. Each of these archetypes ties closely to a part of the feminine cycle: Maiden = Folicular, Mother = Ovulation, Wild Woman = Luteal, and Wise Woman = Menstruation. In a world where consistency often means doing and being the exact same every day, the feminine archetypes offer an alternative to this, giving women space to be authentic.
Understanding your cycle and being in full expression of your feminine essence means diving into archetypal work. Wherever you are on that journey, the good news is that you are able to borrow and pull from areas you have in abundance (perhaps this is your strong motherhood season) into areas in which you struggle. There is no one-size fits all experience, it's simply an opportunity to more deeply know yourself. The more deeply you get in touch with you and your feminine archetypes, they more deeply you connect with the world around you in a beautiful, authentic space.
DIY Yoni Casting Kits are now available! Although they are available at any time, if you order yours by July 1st you'll receive a free virtual guided workshop held on Sunday August 4th at 2pm CST. If you're like "say less Sam, I'm in" click HERE. If you need more information, learn more by clicking HERE or check out episode #27 HERE.
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087- King Breaker or King Maker? Feminine Power in Relationships
24 Apr 2025
00:48:59
Host Samantha and cohost Anthony dive into the fascinating concepts of being a kingmaker versus a kingbreaker in relationships. They explore the power of feminine energy, not in a bossy way, but in how it can uplift and inspire a partner to their highest potential.
They kick things off with a crucial disclaimer, acknowledging that this conversation is for healthy relationships, not situations of abuse or constant accommodation. Samantha and Anthony unpack the idea that women aren't responsible for a man's character, emphasizing individual accountability. They touch on the subtle ways everyone contributes to relationship dynamics, even when it's not obvious.
To illustrate, they delve into the captivating story of Antony and Cleopatra, using it as a framework to understand the kingmaker archetype. They discuss how Cleopatra's powerful presence influenced Antony, for better or worse. Anthony shares his perspective on feminine leadership, drawing unexpected insights from Game of Thrones about the "neck" influencing the "head." They also explore examples from Outlander and Game of Thrones, like Khaleesi's journey, to show how a partner's support can elevate someone.
Ultimately, they define a kingmaker as a feminine archetype who empowers their partner, inspiring them towards their greatest self. They touch on the archetypes of the muse and the oracle, explaining how offering a different perspective can be an invitation for growth, not a demand for immediate change. They highlight the seductive power of inspiring passion and purpose, moving beyond simply pointing out problems to creating a shared vision. It's all about understanding the subtle yet profound influence we have on those we love.
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060- Communication is Sexy: 3 Steps for Improving Communication
10 Oct 2024
00:40:35
Host Samantha and co-host Anthony discuss good communication.
There's nothing hotter than good communication. When someone makes you feel validated, seen, and heard, it's sexy. So, why do so many relationships have difficult communication habits?
Well, no matter how it happened, the pair have a few tools to increase your level of communication in all areas of life. Whether you're having a hard time fully accepting how you communicate or you can't seem to understand what someone else is saying, you can approach these situations with radical personal responsibility. What is the truth about your current circumstance, and are you willing to say it out loud? If you've done something wrong, can you stand up to it?
In addition, good communication requires openness. When we get defensive or close down, we aren't open to the possibilities in the lives of the people around us. And being closed leads to poor communication. What could your life look like if you opened yourself up to what another person has to say... and open to the idea that both of you can be right?
Finally, learning to listen is one of the greatest skills any human can develop. Supporting another person in being seen and heard can change the entire game when it comes to communication. The world is transformed by good listening because it turns merely talking into good communication: a two way street where all people participate in creating meaning out of what is said and what is received. Listening is going to involve curiosity... and, it's going to involve ACTION.
Tune in to hear these tips and tricks in picking up your level of communication and transporting it to new heights!
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059- The Unexpected Transformation of Grief, Death and Surrender w/ Inga
03 Oct 2024
00:58:26
Host Sam Special guest Inga, and Co-Host Anthony discuss the magic of grief and loss.
Every loss leads to grief, no matter how big or how small. If you know Inga, you know her Temple in Angleton, TX is a safe space for people to process through that grief with meditation, yoga, breathwork, and any number of embodiment practices. But, it wasn't always there. It came into being from a number of difficult moments in Inga's life, starting with the loss of her father at an early age.
Grief is one of the least spoken of things that happens on a regular basis. When it comes to death and loss, our culture is normally rather quiet. Funerals are held and go, losing people is "part of life". But, what is missed is the opportunities that come from grief. Inga speaks clearly and shares insight on how the grief in her life led her to a series of relationships that led to even more loss... death or otherwise. And in this conversation, a multitude of wise words around sitting with your grief come through. Inga has become a powerful source because of the things she learned from grieving, from holding space for herself, and from leaving communities that did not see her as she truly was. The identity shifts, the realizations of why her losses contributed to her strength and vulnerability, and her resolve to heal were all factors in her creation of a beautiful home for all kids of healing and wellness to happen not only for her community, but for her own soul as well.
If you aren't sure where your grief has left you, listen in on Inga's story. Her shares are worth walking away with if you're ready to sit with your grief instead of reject it. And find out more about Inga here!
DIY Yoni Casting Kits are now available! Although they are available at any time, if you order yours by July 1st you'll receive a free virtual guided workshop held on Sunday August 4th at 2pm CST. If you're like "say less Sam, I'm in" click HERE. If you need more information, learn more by clicking HERE or check out episode #27 HERE.
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058- How To Create Deeper Intimacy In Relationship
26 Sep 2024
00:49:44
Host Sam and Co-host Anthony discuss intimacy... and it’s not just about sex. What if true connection is about letting someone see into the depths of your soul? Buckle up as they explore the heart of intimacy: from authentic vulnerability to creating deeper relationships filled with presence and trust. A fun and heartfelt dive into intimacy that goes far beyond the bedroom!
In this episode, we open up a playful yet profound conversation about intimacy. Explore deeper meanings beyond sexual connection, focusing on vulnerability, presence, and trust in relationships. How does being truly seen by someone foster intimacy, why do simple distractions like phones interfere with building that connection, and the what's the difference between intimacy and sexuality? Learn more about how masculine and feminine energies play a role in creating polarity and attraction, as well as the importance of authenticity and honoring each other's emotional expressions in a relationship.
Also, there's a lighthearted story about how Sam experiences her first "anger-gasm" during a vulnerable sexual moment, reminding listeners that sex can sometimes evoke unexpected emotions—and that’s okay!
Tune into this illuminating episode and reflect on the ways you cultivate intimacy in your relationships. You'll be able to see how the playfulness and fun of intimacy can create amazing chemistry between these two... and how it can for you and the people in your life as well. Get intimate out there!
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A solo episode with Sam, as she shares her own journey through this fascinating landscape, seeking deeper intimacy and genuine connection. Sharing personal stories of searching for intimacy & connection, with a side of sacredness, honoring, & appreciation and how she's found it through the exploration of tantra.
The term "Tantra" comes from Sanskrit, where "Tan" means to expand and "Tra" means to liberate. Think of it as a magical weave connecting the physical and spiritual realms, where sexual energy isn’t something to shy away from, but rather a powerful life force that can elevate our consciousness. While many religions tend to sidestep this intimate energy, Tantra embraces it wholeheartedly, inviting us to explore our most authentic selves through practices that date back to the golden age of classical Tantra in India.
This teaching is a refreshing shift from body-denying practices, offering themes of presence, intention, and self-integration—allowing us to feel more alive, connected, and liberated. So, whether you’re a Tantra newbie or just curious about its implications in your life, join me as we rip the bandaid off and dive into the essence of being truly turned on by life!
Resources: "Sacred Sex Ed" book by Leola "Talk Tantra to Me" podcast with Leola
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Host Sam, co-host Anthony and special Guest Brittini discuss the power of shaking ass and embodying your full power.
What if fully embracing everything you were taught to ignore in you could completely transform your life? Join us for an inspiring conversation with Brittini, the visionary behind Big Pussy Energy (BPE), as she shares her remarkable journey of self-empowerment. Brittini opens up about her transition from seeking validation in codependent relationships to discovering the profound impact of sensual movement and embodiment. Learn how she created BPE to help women reclaim their power by connecting deeply with their bodies and embracing parts of themselves often shamed by society.
Through Brittini's candid storytelling, we travel from her nomadic adventures to the realization of her true self-worth. Facing the challenges of embodying "Big Pussy Energy" in a world that's not always ready for bold concepts, Brittini illustrates the shift from external validation to an authentic and fulfilling existence. This episode sheds light on the significance of inner work, the powerful role of sisterhood, and the contrast between masculine and feminine energies. Brittini's journey is a testament to the transformative power of self-love and intimacy.
Finally, we explore the profound societal changes in gender roles and mental health since the 90s, highlighting the rise of empowered feminine leaders. Brittini shares the importance of simple, daily practices in integrating transformative experiences into daily life. From provocative dance moves to sacred rage ceremonies, discover how embracing pleasure and personal power can lead to profound personal growth and community healing. Don't miss this episode packed with practical tools and inspirational insights for reclaiming your true power.
I want to invite you to the Reclamation Retreat, in Sedona this October. This retreat is for women like us who are on a journey of liberation from the world’s constant desire for us to be small, quiet, & contained. We’re meant for so much more than glass cases in museums, we are the dancing, singing, creative souls meant to heal this world.
Each day of this retreat is designed to empower you on your journey within, intertwining the divine and the taboo don’t miss this opportunity to celebrate your body as the altar, reclaim your divinity, connect in sisterhood, and find your voice.
Join Stacey & I on October 3-7th for an all inclusive
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Host Sam and Special Guest Suriya explore of how astrology and sacred feminine touch intertwine to heal and empower women.
Dive into a beautifully sacred conversation that bridges the divine and the taboo. In this episode, host Sam and special guest Suriya explore the power of intimacy, astrology, and holistic healing. Whether you're reconnecting with your body or curious about the magic of astrological patterns, this episode offers an empowering and liberating perspective on reclaiming your inner strength.
Suriya shares her personal journey of overcoming challenges with intimacy and trauma, leading her to discover a unique, body-based approach that honors the entire self. Together, Sam and Suriya discuss how understanding astrological signs can reveal patterns in how we experience and release trauma, embrace intimacy, and reconnect with the sacred feminine.
Discover how astrological signs can influence intimacy and emotional processing. Suriya explains how she incorporates astrology into her work, noticing patterns among different signs that reflect how people approach pleasure, trauma, and healing.
Women like us are on a journey of liberation from the world’s constant desire for us to be small, quiet, & contained. What if the next step in that journey is to dance, sing, and create your way into reclaiming your Divinity, celebrating every part of you, and finding your voice? Join Stacey & I on October 3-7th for an all inclusive experience in the Red Rocks of Sedona, Arizona.
I want to invite you to the Reclamation Retreat, in Sedona this October. This retreat is for women like us who are on a journey of liberation from the world’s constant desire for us to be small, quiet, & contained. We’re meant for so much more than glass cases in museums, we are the dancing, singing, creative souls meant to heal this world.
Each day of this retreat is designed to empower you on your journey within, intertwining the divine and the taboo don’t miss this opportunity to celebrate your body as the altar, reclaim your divinity, connect in sisterhood, and find your voice.
Join Stacey & I on October 3-7th for an all inclusive experience in the Red Rocks of Sedona, Arizona. Check out the show notes for more information and to register as space is limited. We cannot wait to see you there!
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
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Host Sam and co-host Anthony discuss their first ever play party.
If you're interested in play parties and diving into attending one, I am excited to announce we are planing Skin & Soul events in the west Houston area. Our first event will be in December 2024! Learn more here. I also highly suggest Leola's events, which has been inspiration for my own hostings (linked below).
If you don't know what a play party is, this will be an eye opener. Join us as we dive into the world of sacred sex head first. As known self-growth junkies, we thought a really good way to let stuff come up would be to attend a party where sexuality is celebrated and encouraged. And wow, did the lessons show up!
It's no secret that there is a lot of shame around sex and sexuality in our culture. Many people have found themselves suppressed and turned to the dark parts of themselves to satisfy those desires in secret. We believe that it is important to embrace ALL places of the human spectrum, including sexuality. While Sam and Anthony are in a committed relationship, this experience was one that developed out of a high level of trust. Can we each hold to our boundaries and not play the people pleasing roles we are used to?
Throughout this spicy experience, we created a lot of situations for discovery and play. If you're interested in how sex plays a massively important role in self growth, then the conversation and the laughs in this episode will have you gasping aloud. Let us know what part had your eyes wide!
Join Stacey & I on October 3-7th for an all inclusive experience in the Red Rocks of Sedona, Arizona. Check out the show notes for more information and to register as space is limited. We cannot wait to see you there!
Learn more about the Reclamation Day Women's Retreat in the country HERE
How to get in touch with Leola, host of the experience - Podcast Instagram
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
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053- Boldness, Play, & Stripping For God w/ Cleocatra
22 Aug 2024
00:57:54
What does it mean to truly embody your highest self? Host Sam, co-host Anthony, and Guest Chelsea, also known as CleoCatra, discuss her inspiring transformation journey. From discovering her powerful persona during a retreat in Tulum to embracing her creative expression through burlesque, Chelsea reveals how pushing through vulnerability can lead to profound personal growth and empowerment. You'll be captivated by her story of overcoming fear and finding strength in her unique identity.
In this episode, we explore the profound impact of embodiment practices on overcoming disassociation and addiction. We discuss the transformative power of EFT tapping, somatic therapy, and how the 2020 pandemic served as an unexpected period of self-awareness and healing. Listen as we dive deep into the liberating practice of ecstatic dance, which fosters a judgment-free existence by promoting free movement and emotional expression. Discover how these practices can help you set boundaries, understand attachment styles, and embrace your emotions without judgment.
We also touch on themes of sexual liberation, inner child work, and overcoming self-imposed limitations. Sharing candid discussions about overcoming fear and scarcity mindsets, and the importance of following your inner wisdom; you'll hear about workshops like "Embodied Goddess" designed to help participants connect deeply with themselves and their creative spirits. We end on a note of gratitude and excitement, celebrating the milestones and accomplishments achieved through these empowering practices. Don't miss out on this enriching conversation that promises to inspire and uplift, and check out Chelsea on Instagram here!
Join Stacey & I on October 3-7th for an all inclusive experience in the Red Rocks of Sedona, Arizona. Check out the show notes for more information and to register as space is limited. We cannot wait to see you there!
Learn more about the Reclamation Day Women's Retreat in the country HERE
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
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Host Sam and co-host Anthony celebrate one year of Grow as We Go! On this Q&A session, listeners send in their questions so that they can be answered live on Instagram.
If your relationship feels... off, then something is probably off. One question asked was pointing to this reality, that unhealthy relationships aren't always catastrophic. Sometimes, they're just not good. What do you do in this situation? Is it important to leave; get out of the situation as quickly as possible, or should you stay? The answers may be simpler than you think, but easier said than done.
And what about if that relationship does end... and there are kids to take care of? How do you have that conversation with them? It's not an easy one, for sure, but it's necessary. Learning some of the nuances of those conversations can leave you feeling a little more confident in your words and decisions, which is incredibly important in a time of separation. You've got some tools headed your way for this conversation in this podcast.
Once you do move on, how do you process through all the things you really wanted in this relationship? What kinds of kinks, exploration, satisfaction and pleasure have opened up after the relationship? Once again, there are some simple, yet not easy, tips to get you headed in the right direction.
This birthday podcast will leave you with some solid answers to things you've been wondering. And if you missed out on asking questions, feel free to send them our way now! This won't be the last podcast we do answering questions from viewers. Let's keep on... and Grow as We Go.
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
Are you curious about Houston Tantra events or looking to connect with the Houston healer community?
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If you're interested in being a guest, connect with us on Instagram and let's chat! Creating the "storytime" series requires listeners like YOU to be bold and reach out so that your story can be heard, because your story matters!
051- Freedom in Container: The Power of Safe Kink w/ Rina
08 Aug 2024
00:49:30
Host Sam, co-host Anthony, and Guest Rina explore a world of safe kink.
There’s little more taboo in the world than kink. People diving into and exploring the edges of their sexual boundaries in dark dungeons with chains and whips are often what come to mind, but rarely do people think about the spiritual, erotic, and powerful work that can be done through kink. Rina talks about her experience in the world of Shibari Art and dominatrix work. It is a deep dive into what kink can truly be when one is consciously exploring their limits, needs, wants, and boundaries.
See what’s available for you as you listen to Rina’s journey of discovery through her incredible life and the way she has come into the truth of her own voice and body. By doing so, perhaps you too can find the wisdom in choosing to be more conscious in your play, sexual life, and fantasies.
Women like us are on a journey of liberation from the world’s constant desire for us to be small, quiet, & contained. What if the next step in that journey is to dance, sing, and create your way into reclaiming your Divinity, celebrating every part of you, and finding your voice? Join Stacey & I on October 3-7th for an all inclusive experience in the Red Rocks of Sedona, Arizona.
I want to invite you to the Reclamation Retreat, in Sedona this October. This retreat is for women like us who are on a journey of liberation from the world’s constant desire for us to be small, quiet, & contained. We’re meant for so much more than glass cases in museums, we are the dancing, singing, creative souls meant to heal this world.
Each day of this retreat is designed to empower you on your journey within, intertwining the divine and the taboo don’t miss this opportunity to celebrate your body as the altar, reclaim your divinity, connect in sisterhood, and find your voice.
Join Stacey & I on October 3-7th for an all inclusive experience in the Red Rocks of Sedona, Arizona. Check out the show notes for more information and to register as space is limited. We cannot wait to see you there!
DIY Yoni Casting Kits are now available! Although they are available at any time, if you order yours by July 1st you'll receive a free virtual guided workshop held on Sunday August 4th at 2pm CST. If you're like "say less Sam, I'm in" cli
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086- Cheating, Monogamy, and the Rules We Never Agreed To
17 Apr 2025
00:43:11
Host Samantha and co-host Anthony dive headfirst into the murky waters of cheating. They kick things off by acknowledging the classic definition of infidelity but quickly veer into those gray areas that can spark heated debates. Is scrolling through adult content a betrayal? What about a seemingly innocent dance or a friendly chat that feels a little too close for comfort? They even touch on how cultural norms heavily influence what we consider crossing the line.
The conversation gets personal as Samantha and Anthony share their own experiences with being cheated on, highlighting the varied emotional responses this kind of breach of trust can trigger. This leads to a crucial question: how do you even broach the topic of defining cheating with a new partner, especially when past hurts linger? They tease some insights on navigating these delicate conversations later in the episode, so listeners should stick around.
They then explore how the definition of cheating shifts in non monogamous relationships, emphasizing that agreements and open communication are key. The hosts recount a relatable moment from early in their own relationship that perfectly illustrates how assumptions can lead to misunderstandings and hurt feelings. Ultimately, they underscore the vital role of trust in any relationship and how violations of that trust, regardless of definition, can lead to significant damage.
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
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050- Existential Kink: How To Get What You Want By Getting Off On What You Don't
01 Aug 2024
01:00:12
I love this book so much I'm doing a book club for it. We'll start August 22nd and me on Thursdays via zoom at 7pmCST. Sign up for the Existential Kink taboo-k club HERE
Host Sam and co-host Anthony dive into the kinky world of their behavior patterns. Have you ever wondered why something keeps happening, like attracting a certain kind of partner, never getting picked for a promotion, or always feeling like you're not enough? What if the truth was... you secretly like that?
"No, it can't be." Certainly, no one enjoys the suffering but, deep down, something in us wants it to keep happening. And that's ok. What if instead of beating ourselves up about it, we found the kinky side of it? Realized that maybe, just maybe, there's a bit of pleasure in the pain we keep repeating. And in doing so, we can begin to release the power of the pattern over us.
Diving into existential kink is a deep exploration into our own selves and the piles of shit that we love to stand in. It's not just about sex, this kind of kink is deeply ingrained into every bit of our decision making. And until we can play with it, we won't grow out of it.
Join us in this playful conversation with our shadow selves, and maybe you'll walk away flirting with your old patterns too.
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
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049- Surrender vs Giving Up: How to Surrender & Still Have Boundaries
25 Jul 2024
00:55:47
Host Sam and co-host Anthony discuss surrendering and boundaries.
There's a subtle difference between choosing to surrender and giving up altogether. Every choice that you make offers you the opportunity to accept the present moment as it is, or to resist it. In this choice lies the ability to be happy or to be miserable. In one decision, you leave the ability for the current experience to be exactly what it's supposed to be: an invitation into more consciousness and full acceptance of the present. In another, you give all power up and become victim of the circumstance you're in, thinking it can never be changed and telling a future story of how it's always going to be.
Which of these sounds familiar to you? If it's the second one, you may be succumbing to giving up, rather than setting boundaries and accepting the reality of the moment.
Certainly, no one gets to be walked all over. But you'll find the more that you surrender, the more powerful you become. Instead of always trying to be in control, you find yourself easily moving through life from this present moment, to this new present moment, to this new present moment, and on ad infinitum.
What if you could shift your presence to this intentional kind? What would change for you? What could be possible when you surrender to what is instead of trying to make the future into what you think it is going to be?
Women like us are on a journey of liberation from the world’s constant desire for us to be small, quiet, & contained. What if the next step in that journey is to dance, sing, and create your way into reclaiming your Divinity, celebrating every part of you, and finding your voice? Join Stacey & I on October 3-7th for an all inclusive experience in the Red Rocks of Sedona, Arizona.
I want to invite you to the Reclamation Retreat, in Sedona this October. This retreat is for women like us who are on a journey of liberation from the world’s constant desire for us to be small, quiet, & contained. We’re meant for so much more than glass cases in museums, we are the dancing, singing, creative souls meant to heal this world.
Each day of this retreat is designed to empower you on your journey within, intertwining the divine and the taboo don’t miss this opportunity to celebrate your body as the altar, reclaim your divinity, connect in sisterhood, and find your voice.
Join Stacey & I on October 3-7th for an all inclusive experience i
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
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Click HERE to gain access to the Houston Tantra Community Telegram Chat and stay connected with local people on a journey of expansion and liberation, just like you!
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Host Sam, guest Suriya and Rina, and co-host Anthony discuss yoni massage and sacred feminine touch.
Suriya and RIna bring a combined 20+ years of wisdom to the discussion around shame and women. It's no secret that women have been shamed time and time again, and that shame is often carried in the woman's pelvic region. Sacred feminine touch is an experience designed to allow women to regain sensation, allow de-armoring, and connect to themselves in a deeper way. While the women share about their own personal experiences with yoni massage, they shed light on the numerous ways that women can be supported by receiving a yoni massage themselves.
Releasing shame, trauma cycles, getting in tune with her orgasms, and connecting to the divine are just a few things that yoni massage offers. You might think, "how can I receive all that from something so foreign to me?" The thing is, it is the disconnect between the woman and her yoni that creates a lack of receiving. Can a yoni massage open you up to a new way of being... one where you can choose to lose the numbness and gain access to the magic inside you?
Learn more about receiving tantric boy work from Samantha here.
DIY Yoni Casting Kits are now available! Although they are available at any time, if you order yours by July 1st you'll receive a free virtual guided workshop held on Sunday August 4th at 2pm CST. If you're like "say less Sam, I'm in" click HERE. If you need more information, learn more by clicking HERE or check out episode #27 HERE.
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
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Host Samantha and co-host Anthony discuss the luteal phase of the Menstruation cycle and it’s affect on relationships. When men understand a woman’s cycle (especially a partner) it can lead to deeper connection, understanding, & intimacy.
As a woman, have you ever felt a shift in your attitude towards your partner, seemingly overnight, where they can do nothing right? Or, maybe you see pieces of your life that you want to transform? Or perhaps, you just get irritated at everything that people around you do? If so, you could be in the luteal phase. The luteal phase is quickly becoming one of Sam's favorites as she navigates the wonderful nuances and gifts of the season. Learning how to be in touch with your body is always important... but what about the men in the world who know little to nothing of 28 day cycles? How does a man create space for a woman who's not "consistent" in the same way that he is? Are we doomed to forever misunderstand each other and miss the power that all the phases provide? Not if we can educate and understand more about each other's unique needs.
The luteal phase is just one of the four phases of the menstrual cycle. If you'd like to learn more, check out the following episodes:
DIY Yoni Casting Kits are now available! Although they are available at any time, if you order yours by July 1st you'll receive a free virtual guided workshop held on Sunday August 4th at 2pm CST. If you're like "say less Sam, I'm in" click HERE. If you need more information, learn more by clicking HERE or check out episode #27 HERE.
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
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046- Conscious Thirst Traps: The Difference Between Empowerment & Objectification Online
04 Jul 2024
00:47:25
Host Sam and co-host Anthony discuss thirst traps and cheating.
On this episode, examine the ethics of liking hot pictures on Instagram. Inspired by real life conversations, you might wonder why this particular episode is showing up right now. We're curious too! Curious about what cheating means to different people in a relationship. Sometimes it can be as small as looking at someone the "wrong" way all the way to open relationships where multiple partners are the norm. Is there a reason that your man is liking some girls Instagram pictures? Maybe. But the only way you're going to know is by getting into a conversation... and, let's be honest, sometimes you don't want to have that conversation. The discomfort brought up is an incredible way to grow, but it'll push everyone involved. Is everyone ready for that kind of intentional conversation? Find out, and let us know what you think in the reviews of your favorite podcast service!
DIY Yoni Casting Kits are now available! Although they are available at any time, if you order yours by July 1st you'll receive a free virtual guided workshop held on Sunday August 4th at 2pm CST. If you're like "say less Sam, I'm in" click HERE. If you need more information, learn more by clicking HERE or check out episode #27 HERE.
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
Are you curious about Houston Tantra events or looking to connect with the Houston healer community?
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045- Energy Dynamics: The Forces of Nature That Drive Us All
27 Jun 2024
00:43:01
Host Sam discusses the vital forces of nature and their impact on our world, individual energy, and collective soul. Through an experience involving hape, a sacred tobacco snuff, Sam journeys into a world of nature involving an exploration of Mother Earth and Father Sky. What is the natural energy that is present in the world, and why does it matter? It’s true that nature’s movements impact us, from a scientific and spiritual standpoint. But how do we lean into what Mother Earth and Father sky have for us? Are we grateful for the soil and the sun, or do we take it for granted? Are we tuning in to what Mother Earth has to nurture us? The further exploration of the offerings of nature include going braless, getting off birth control, and returning to the natural way of being. Can this shift change you, your health, and your connection to your intuition? Find out on this episode of Grow As We Go.
DIY Yoni Casting Kits are now available! Although they are available at any time, if you order yours by July 1st you'll receive a free virtual guided workshop held on Sunday August 4th at 2pmCST. If you're like "say less Sam, I'm in" click HERE, if you need more information, learn more by clicking HERE or check out episode #27 HERE.
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
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Host Sam and Co-host Anthony discuss the wheel of consent.
Imagine interacting with another human without having any sort of agreement how it's going to go. No home buying without a contract, no romance without a discussion of boundaries, and no purchasing without a receipt. The truth is, every human interaction has some degree of giving, receiving, taking, or allowing.
The wheel of consent is a way to understand human interaction. In this podcast, we dive into what the wheel of consent looks like from an intimate relationship perspective, but this can be used as a source for any human interaction.
Understanding where you fall on the wheel of consent in relationships can be incredibly helpful for your growth. If you are a person who tends to give a lot, this discussion can open up a journey for you as you investigate why you give, and what you're searching for by giving so much. Giving is always tempered by a person asking to receive something. When we give without a pure heart, or give with expectation attached to it, where is the consent? The difficult answer is... not present.
The wheel of consent brings in many conversation and growth experiences in relationships. The next time you want to have a discussion with someone in your life, notice where on the wheel you fall. Are you trying to make someone take something they don't want to? Are you able to receive gifts and love without feeling uncomfortable? Relationship opens the gate for learning wide.
You might even find a few kinks lying around the deeper you look.
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
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043- De-Armoring: Removing the Barriers Between You and a Life of Pleasure
13 Jun 2024
00:58:12
Host Sam and Co-host Anthony discuss the art of De-Armoring.
When you started your journey through life, you had barely a care in the world, only to eat, sleep, and be loved. Along the way, we learned that some of these things were more difficult than others, based on the environment we were in.
In short, over time, you built up walls. You put on armor.
We all do it for one reason or another. We become more safe when we put the armor on, giving ourselves reasons to not trust others, not trust ourselves, and set up defenses to being hurt again.
De-armoring is the process of removing those walls. But how can you do that? How can you take the armor off?
The example of the Knight in Rusty Armor shows that through this one thing, the armor begins to fall:
Tears.
It is through our vulnerability and opening ourselves up to the wounds that we have and the feelings around them that allow us to shed our armor. It's not always an easy process.
Through this episode of the podcast, hear real-life tales of de-armoring that both Sam and Anthony have experienced, each in different ways. De-armoring of the heart and de-armoring of the yoni are ways in which you can engage in de-armoring through connection with another person or even with yourself. And when you commit to the process, you will begin to feel the armor melt away, making room for all the sensations life has to offer.
Learn more about receiving tantric boy work from Samantha here. If you'd like to learn more about Yoni Massage, listen to episode 48 on Sacred Feminine Touch or click here to explore having a session with Samantha (ask about discounted yoni-massage pricing).
If you'd like to have a guide for de-armoring, click here.
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
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042- How Being A Man Can Change The World: Interplay Of Feminine & Masculine Healing In Relationship
06 Jun 2024
01:04:54
Host Sam and co-host Anthony discuss how men have made a mess of the world and how they can also make a massive change in it.
It’s no surprise that men’s healing work is a strange animal. There’s retreats celebrating the masculine energy that involve muscular, shirtless men tapping into their inner child, immersive body-limit-pushing camps that test their mettle… and then, there are the opposite places, where men go to work 40 hours a week and come home with a paycheck. Somewhere in between there, the question lies: what is men’s healing work? And how does it benefit the world?
The truth is, a lot of men are not in tune with the healing that would support them. Most men are unconsciously living their lives as worker, dads, spouses, and partners. But, how could life be different if they chose to do the work?
There are many reasons they might not. But in this episode, Sam and Anthony discuss how men’s healing work brings about safety, wellness, and gifts for the feminine… as long as he’s willing to look at her gifts and receive the wisdom she has to offer. She elevates him, and he leads.
At least, that’s how it should be. Will it change the world if that’s the case?
Men can find out through Guy Skool, a monthly class and community designed to teach men what their dad forgot to.
Thank you so much for tuning in and being here. Any takeaways and support you can offer means the world to me so please leave a review and share on your socials & tag me @houstontantragirl
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Host Sam and Co-host Anthony discuss the ever flowing feminine energy present in the goddess known as Samantha Charles.
Since the beginning of January, Sam has travelled to countless cities, three U.S. States, and three countries. In the adventures of a globetrotting woman, the conversation turns to curiosity around Sam's busy life in tension with the life she desires to slow down in. These discussions lead to an interesting topic: parts.
Parts work is a branch of IFS (Internal Family Systems) that theorizes the ways we were treated as children end up as "parts" that we take with us into adulthood and often try and run the show in various ways. The parts work is incredible work, and it sets the framework for a lot of the discussions between Sam and Anthony.
Having a part come up means that it isn't the person's whole perspective, it just means that something they've experienced is reminding them of their past. There is a lot of compassion held for those parts, as none of the parts are bad.
Thus begins a deeper discussion: the ability to hear what parts have to say without taking it personally. What ensues is a powerful way to be able to communicate with your partner so that neither of you attack your partner, but still hear the part's concern. What results is a beautiful discussion that leads to a lot of clear communication, examined practices and beliefs, and a stronger bond between the participants.
If you want juicy details about how Sam and Anthony communicate, just give this a listen. You'll have a model for how to practice talking to each other in a way that leaves everyone seen, heard, and feeling intimate.
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Host Samantha and co-host Anthony discuss a recent lesson Anthony's been processing, playfully framed around the idea that Samantha is always right. They explore a situation where Anthony made a work-related choice, and despite Samantha having some intuitive hits and noticing subtle behavioral flags, Anthony forged ahead, convinced he knew best. They touch upon the dynamic between feminine intuition and masculine pride, how sometimes blind spots and projection can prevent us from seeing what is right in front of us, even when someone points it out gently. Anthony reflects on realizing he wasn't getting the results he wanted and the difficulty of acknowledging his own blind spots versus projecting them onto others.
They delve into the nuances of supporting a partner through their choices, even when you have a feeling things might not go as planned. Samantha shares her perspective on watching someone she cares about navigate a tough situation, comparing it to letting her kids learn through experience, while Anthony appreciates that she didn't try to 'mother' him but allowed him the space to learn his own lesson, albeit the hard way. They also touch on how the body sometimes forces us to pay attention when we ignore other signals. Tune in for an honest conversation about learning lessons, relationship dynamics, and the wisdom found in hindsight.
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040- Sexual Healing: How Crying During Sex Will Lead You To God
23 May 2024
00:40:52
Host Sam and co-host Anthony discuss crying during sex and the healing power of release.
Crying during sex can lead you to God? Sure, if you’re willing to go deep into both experiences. Tears are the body’s language and expression of grief, which can come up during sex. For women, as we’ve mentioned, the yoni and the hips hold a lot of shame and loss. Sometimes, in certain conditions, those emotions bubble to the surface. The question then becomes, how does your partner hold space for those emotions? Do they freak out, not knowing what to do about the fear, tears, or anger? Or do they sit with you, caring for you, and loving you tenderly through them? Perhaps they even keep going, allowing the energy to flow between the two of you in a safe and healthy way.
“Ok but, seeing God in sex? I thought that was where God isn’t?” Hell no. That’s the beauty of sexual energy is that it’s the creative source of all things. The breakthrough on the other side of learning to accept ALL the things that come up during sex is that the universe, source, God, is in you.
Are you a creative being during sex? Do you surrender to all that is in you, moving that energy through you with your hands, your partners hands, your breath, your movement, your pussy, your cock, your everything? This is how you see God. Open your eyes to all that is within, and source, universe, God will draw close to you.
If you’d like to learn more about holding space, the energy around sex creating places where you can see God, or sexual energy in general , you’ve found the right podcast hosts. Contact us on Instagram to connect!
Listen Next: Flowers, Bee, & Energies Releasing Shame For Better Sex & More Freedom Unspoken Sexpectations
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Host Sam and Co-host Anthony discuss the expectations around sex born from a real moment between the two. It’s no secret that the dance of sexual arousal between partners is a learning experience. As relationships grow and change, very often the frequency, passion, and dynamics around sex become vastly different than they were at the start. Why is that? The task of exploring more deeply the spoken and unspoken rules that each person in a relationship has come to assume around sex is one that can take a lot of effort. How do you manage disappointment around expectations? How does someone with a high drive discuss their actual needs with their partner? Does a high sex drive take exploration to further understand what’s the drive… and when might sex be used to cover up discomfort?
This episode exposes both hosts any listeners to the nuanced world that is sex life. And you’ll thank the stars that this discussion comes with a side of laughter, deep vulnerability, and authenticity that will leave you satisfied… without expectation.
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038- Christian Mysticism: A Faith Perspective on Intuition, Sex, & God Within w/ Carrisa Johnsen
09 May 2024
00:53:18
Join host Samantha & co-host Anthony as they chat with Carrisa Johnsen as she shares her take on the separation of God & religion, reconstructing & dismantling systems that are outdated, intuition & body wisdom, keeping it simple with spiritual practices, and so much more.
Notes for Carrisa episode: Deconstruction/dismantling of structures and systems— up leveling of consciousness
Religious constructs and redefining what it means to believe in God and are the divine in ourselves and in everything
Life force energy = sexual energy = creative energy = creation = God energy
Seperation of science & spirituality, god & sexuality, belief & practice, mind & body, church on Sunday & asshole the rest of the days
“Sex God” book
Reconnecting the disconnection. Sitting with God. Reconnect. So much reconnection.
Be the living prayer = spiritual practice
Listening to your body and practical how to for that. Intuition and guides.
Intuition VS instinct— parts & trauma, and disruptions to divine connection. Nervous system regulation as the way to uncovering connection to spirit guides.
Miracles in the mess— be the explorer of life.
“God is not outside of me” inviting people into curiosity around this connection. Helping people feel closer to God.
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037- Sedona Listens: Finding Medicine in Retreat & Self-Reflection
02 May 2024
00:43:44
Host Sam took a few days for a retreat in Sedona, Arizona and the lessons learned there will touch your heart.
What does a traveling girl do with her time and her energy? Sedona is naturally a high energy concentration location. When traveling alone, it creates a different kind of energy. Does she choose to take up space or quiet herself to not attract attention?
Sam also discusses the trending question of whether she would encounter a bear or a man in the woods, and a small experience of that. Taking up the space as a woman is historically a difficult thing, but what can be gained by doing so? It takes a huge amount of reclaiming what it means to be a woman, a wild woman, and all stages of her cycle.
Join Sam and Stacey Nelson as they open up a retreat for the woman who is ready to reclaim her feminine essence. If you're feeling disconnected from the woman in you, the energetic epicenter of Sedona coupled with the amazing opportunities offered by Sam and Stacey, this is exactly what you've been looking for.
Reconnect to your wild woman, give permission to fully express yourself, and immerse in sisterhood and community with the Reclamation Retreat.
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