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145: From a 25-Year Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess: Breaking the Rut with Dr. Alisa Kriegel06 Nov 202501:12:01

What happens when a psychologist in a 25-year sexless marriage decides she’s done living without desire?

This week,Dr. Alisa Kriegel joins Elle and Vee to share her raw, transformative journey from disconnection to deep erotic empowerment — the story behind her upcoming memoir From Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess.

We talk about:

  • How up to 40% of marriages are sexless — and why no one wants to admit it
  • The power of communication, curiosity, and skin-to-skin contact in rekindling intimacy
  • The truth about genital fit and why “one size fits all” is a myth
  • The healing that comes when you finally feel desired again
  • Using dating and non-monogamy as tools for self-discovery and growth
  • Why becoming a “sex goddess” is about owning your body, your boundaries, and your pleasure

If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your desire, trapped in routine, or unsure how to find your way back to pleasure — this episode will remind you that it’s never too late to reclaim your erotic energy.


CHAPTERS

Introduction to Alisa Kriegel (00:00)

Sexlessness in Relationships: How It’s defined (3:46)

Prioritizing Intimacy (5:37)

The Sexless Marriage (14:47)

Self-Discovery through Online Dating and into Swinging (19:43)

The Worst One Night Stand Experience (25:11)

Below Average, Average and Slightly Above Average Cocks (27:30)

What is Genital Fit? Kama Sutra (30:41)

Understanding Body Changes and Sexuality (32:41)

Sex First Mentality (36:40)

What is a Sex Goddess (39:06)

Dating to Learn Revelations Desire and the False Emotional Protection of Dating Men In Relationships  (47:36)

Men Love Pussy (56:20)

Can Someone Else’s Orgasm Trigger Your Orgasm Without Any Manual Stimulation? (59:53)

A List for a Relationship Blueprint: Manifesting Your Partner (01:03:32)

The Problem with Traditional Dating (01:07:18)

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Dr. Alisa Kriegel
Psychologist • Author • Sex & Relationship Expert
📖 Book: From Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess — available November 4, 2025
🎧 Podcast: Let’s Talk About Sex, Really
🌐 Website: alisakriegel.com
📸 Instagram: @alisakriegelauthor

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144: Rough Oral Sex: Face Fucking Tips for Topping, Bottoming, and Keeping it Safe30 Oct 202500:48:19

This week Elle and Vee chat about rough oral play: aka face fucking.

What is face fucking? What is the difference between fellatio and erumatio? (00:34)


Do you like rough oral sex? How our relationship with it has evolved. (4:11)


Running mascara as marks. (11:04)


CNC. (12:24)


Roman showers: throat sex to the point of throwing up. (14:25)


Things to think about for the giver/top. (17:52)


Tricks and tips for the receiver/bottom. How to deal with gag reflex. (21:30)


The best positions. (25:45)


Safety precautions. How to communicate when you’re being bottoming. (30:56)


Breath: listening to the breathing cues of the bottom. What makes you “tap out” when you’re in the bottom position? (33:17)


Blow jobs vs F.F.: the origin of the phrase “blow job”. (36:12)


Listener questions and comments: “Am I supposed to suck or just keep my mouth and throat open?” (38:30)


Spit: does your spit taste ok when you deep throat? (40:30)


How do you suggest this to your partner? (41:28)


Do guys like to be deep-throated, and how many people can? (45:46)

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135: Sex Mishaps: Anal Oopsies, Lost Tampons and Condoms, Blow Job Gag Reflexes, and Near-Arrests25 Aug 202500:58:24

This week, Elle, Vee and repeat guest Athena spill all the messy, hilarious, and downright disastrous sex stories you never hear about. From sneezing out cum and fishing out lost condoms to broken furniture, tampon mishaps, and anal surprises, nothing is off-limits. We share our own awkward moments along with wild tales from the community that prove sex fails are equal parts mortifying and funny. Because at the end of the day, sex is messy, bodies are human, and sometimes the best aftercare is just laughing it off.


Cum In Your Nose, Snorting and Sneezing Cum. (00:00)


Where Do Your Play Partners Cum Most Often? (4:42)


Condoms Stuck Inside the Pussy & Condom Clean Up Etiquette. (6:12)


Stuck Tampons. (12:38)


IUD Pokes and Issues (17:01)


Anal “Oopsies”. (20:41)


Furniture Fails. (29:54)


Throwing Up While Sucking Dick. (35:10)


Blow Job Hang Ups And Desert Dry Mouth. (42:01)


Ridiculous Mishap List. (48:42)


Almost Arrested for Public Indecency?  (53:57)


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043: Hoes in Hoboken Sex Party: The Role of Substances in Enthusiastic Consent, Exercising Your "No", and Getting Out of Your Head to Squirt02 Nov 202301:03:08

In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up about Vee’s latest sex party that she hosted with J, including squirting, enthusiastic consent, substance use, six-handed massages, listening to your body, and so much more….


Our top five episodes according to the numbers! (1:44)


The benefits of having new people at a small sex party.  (12:16)


Squirting: how to overcome the threshold and let go. Waterproof blankets, sensory deprivation, hydration, trust and muscle memory. (15:16)


Setting expectations for a sex party: what to include in a pre-party email or text; “Fears, Desires, Boundaries”(personal and as a group). (22:45)


Enthusiastic consent and substance use. How substances can inhibit connection. (29:15)


New toys: what’s a thruster? (37:35)


Deciding which events to go to, FOMO and exercising your “no”. (39:01)


Listening to your body, going to sleep when you need to, and Vee’s six-handed massage. (48:28)


Ask Doctor Elle: What should I do when I get a yeast infection because of antibiotics?  (50:20)

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042: Sexual Somatic Healing, Erotic Embodiment, and Embracing Spirituality through Sexuality26 Oct 202301:00:36

Elle and Vee bring Leia back for a part 2 to discuss Sexual Somatic Healing and so much more! 

What is somatic healing? How does it differ from typical talk therapy?  (0:43)


 Three cornerstone beliefs of the Somatic Healing method. Transformation through pleasure. (4:50)


 What does a session look like? Is there physical contact? An animal play session recounted. (6:28)


The impact of current events and shared tips on how to get out of your head and into your body. (11:49)


Leia leads us through a 3 part breathing exercise for Erotic Emobodied Healing. (20:47)


Elle and Vee share their feedback after that exercise. (26:29)


Leia shares her experience being the demo student with her instructor. (29:39)


Putting your hands on your crotch to help you sleep and for comfort? (31:00)


Who is an ideal client for sexual somatic healing? What challenges are people looking to overcome? Deshamifying sex, and differentiating shame vs. guilt. (33:29)


Do you have to relive the trauma in order to heal it? (40:59)


Our thoughts on healing trauma through psychedelics: psyllicibin, ketamine, MDMA. (44:04)


Sex and godlike experiences? The connection of this lifestyle and how it impacts spirituality. (48:06)


What to look forward to on how to learn to live your most vibrant life with Leia. (54:02)


Work with Leia! 
 Find her on Instagram at @vibrantbyleia

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041: Transformational Experiences of ENM: Sexual Healing, Self Love, and the Benefits of Dating Couples19 Oct 202300:48:13

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with their friend Leia (@vibrantbyleia), who gets deep about being a single bisexual female in the lifestyle, dating couples (versus prioritizing finding her own primary), and sexual healing.

"Catalyst couples", awkward first dates and enthusiastic consent: how Leia was introduced to the lifestyle. (1:31)

Where should the couple sit at a 3-way date?  How women hold a lot of power in ENM. (12:24)

"AHA" moments from being in the open lifestyle. (16:57)

Single and open. (20:51)

What have you learned about yourself through polyamory? (24:03)

How have these experiences changed your sexuality? Using the label “bisexual”, strapping, doing anything 3 times, pegging, shibari and BDSM. (29:30)

BDSM as a form of therapy and healing, and the similarities between impact play and yoga. (34:32)

Sexual somatic training. (39:34)

How breast augmentation changes your relationship with your body. Accepting compliments. (40:25)


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040: Sex with Pregnant Women, The Pussy Pump + Other Sex Toy Reviews, and Period Sex 12 Oct 202301:07:48

Elle and Vee catch up and chat about sex with pregnant women and talk about new sex toys, offering their reviews and opinions. 

Being pregnant in the ENM lifestyle. (3:47)


Elle’s hormonal and body changes during pregnancy. Horniness, sexual desires, nipple changes, deep throating updates. (5:58)


How pregnancy changes relationships, and the feeling of being left behind. (15:02)


Sex with pregnant women and fulfilling fantasies:  Cream pies, lubricated vaginas, and conception fantasies. (22:41)


Sex Toy Review: Mini Wand (33:40)

How the menstrual cycle affects libido. (36:14)


Elle and Vee share how and when they like to use vibrators. (39:33)


Sex Toy Review: Strap-on-me dildo (a vibrating strapless “strap-on”; competitor to the Feeldoe).  (41:11)


Sex Toy Review: pussy pump. (45:58)


Sex Toy Review: Cock Ring/Ball Stretcher. (49:48)


Sex Toy Review: vagina spreader 5-pronged speculum.  (51:37)


Period Sex. (58:16)

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039: Stretching Fetish: Fisting, DVP and Vagina Spreaders; Shaved vs Hairy Pussies; and Introducing a Partner to ENM05 Oct 202300:55:02

This week, Elle and Vee chat with T Money about what he's learned in his twenty years in the lifestyle, including:

Introducing someone to ethical non-monogamy, being on traditional dating apps, and dating people who are monogamous. (8:16)


Stretching Fetish: DVP, vegetables, and the elasticity of vaginas. (17:24)


Fisting: how to fist, the “goose” technique, and slow exits. (27:27)


DVP: double vaginal penetration tips, and the benefits of being the "top" or "bottom" giver. (32:33)


Speculums and Vagina Spreaders. (37:21)


Daddy Doms: What is a Daddy Dom? Dominant personas, and how to make chores sexy. (40:21)


Shaved vs hairy genitals. (43:46)

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038: How to Keep it Sexy in a Long Term Relationship: Esther Perel’s 4 Things to Foster Erotic Desire21 Sep 202300:42:18

Elle and Vee dive into the work of Esther Perel, a relationship expert, on relationship dynamics, how to keep things sexy and how to foster erotic desire:

  1. When your partner is in their element and confident.
  2. Surprise.
  3. Seeing your partner though the eyes of another.
  4. Longing and absence.

Who is Esther Perel and what is she about?  (0:38)


When you ‘have’ something it takes away the wanting, and how the lifestyle helps with this. (2:47)


When do you  feel most drawn to your partner? (6:46)


Desire requires focusing on your own pleasure. (9:15)


The balance of neediness in a relationship. (10:24)


In relationships, certain behaviors bring out contrasting behaviors in the other. (11:51)


Two types of people in a relationship: one with the fear of losing the other and one with the fear of losing themselves. (13:50)

 

Relationship dynamics develop around security and freedom and also self reliance and interdependence. (16:19)


How the lifestyle supports admiration and surprise. (20:30)


When you see your partner through the eyes of someone else. (23:54)


How absence and longing helps with desire yet sometimes has a paradoxical effect in the lifestyle group of friends. (25:15)


Sameness kills desire: Elle and Vee share how they keep it spicy. (29:05)


Forget 1-on-1 First Dates: Try this alternative first date scenario and learn why! (33:32)


PSA: We’re taking a break next week! See you in October!  



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037: Edging: The Advantages of Withholding Orgasm, Electro Play and Spanking14 Sep 202301:07:04

Elle and Vee have two special guests in today's episode, Ace and Jess who share their lifestyle practices with edging and other kinky  experiences


2:32 Why edge an orgasm? What does edging do for Ace?  


3:44  Aces edging discovery and how he uses it his advantage in the lifestyle


5:57 Elle Vee and Jess explain the differences of their personal orgasms 


8:05   Multiple orgasm for female, but what about men? 


10:50  Who is charge of finally cumming, edging to cum together and a women perspective when her partner doesn’t finish often


15:49  Quantity, taste, consistency from the edging load 


17:12  Edging for spiritual reasons and transferring that sexual energy into day to day life


20:00 The evolution of stopping an orgasm, self awareness and being a better lover in bed


28:27 Cum fetish, shooters vs dribblers 


36:41 The countdown to an orgasm vs the pressure of being told to have an orgasm


39:32  Being in tune with your body and knowing what you like through sexual curiosity 


42:37  The violet wand discussed, eletro play and how to use it


46:00  A male perspective on spanking


49:13 Spanking lesson by Jess and impact play discussion, 


57:39 A first fisting experience


59:59 the recipe for successful new sexual experiences and the surprise pleasure from a double sided dildo


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036: Triggered: Bringing a Third to a Sex Party, The Stories We Tell Ourselves, and Perception Vs Reality07 Sep 202300:51:48

Elle and Vee share their experiences and challenges of bringing a third to a weekend getaway and how they worked through being triggered.


Vee shares her fears, desires and boundaries for this episode. (2:26)

A challenge of having a third partner: balance. (3:57)

Codependency, projection, and the stories we tell ourselves. (6:41)

Elle discusses another potential challenge of having a third: feeling left out. (13:32)

Elle's example of "the stories we tell ourselves" and the lessons learned. (18:16)

Avoidance as a coping strategy. (26:36)

Confirmation bias to support our stories. (28:47)

Elle's plan/tools to deal with triggers in the future. (30:15)

What Vee would do differently the next time she brings a third. (31:49)

The Four Agreements. (45:08)

How instagram impacts our mental health. (48:56)

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035: JOYsey Shore: Partying Sober, DVP Tips, and Sybian vs F*ck Machine31 Aug 202300:47:05

In this episode, Elle and Vee debrief on the highlights, challenges and takeaways from their most recent weekend away with their ENM friends.  


“A glimpse into a lifestyle party,” and one of the challenges of bringing a third to a party. (1:46)


What’s the point of having themes? (5:35)


Sobriety: the challenges and benefits of staying sober for an entire lifestyle weekend. (9:10)


Sobriety and sexuality. (18:02)


Highlight: FFF threesome and goal-oriented fucking. (21:57)


Face-sitting: the benefits of being distracted/focused when you’re getting action both up top and down bottom. (26:46)


Highlight: Fivesome and creampie. (29:41)


Fuckit List item: DVP, and Elle’s tips for success. (32:06)


Breakthrough: Getting out of your head, and cumming in front of a group. (38:28)


Sybian vs Fuck Machine. (41:37)


Highlight: Using a speculum to see inside the vagina. (43:55)

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034: How to Squirt: Tips and Tricks, the Peeing Sensation and Social Stigmas of Squirting24 Aug 202300:47:03

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with M, the squirt master. He shares his tips and tricks on how to make a girl squirt and the girls share their perspectives and experiences.


Vee shares her fears with squirting. (2:12)


What makes squirting different from orgasm? (7:17)


M shares how he discovered his squirting skills. (8:36) 


Why squirting is hot: a male perspective.(15:00)


How to make a girl squirt: finger placement, feeling, movement and more. (16:36)


The challenges for the squirter and working through the ‘I have to pee’ sensation. (24:29)


The scientific difference between a clit orgasm and the G-spot orgasm. (26:41)


Do women have a prostate? What is squirt juice made of? (27:49)


Squirting as a party trick, the importance of hydration, and something every squirter needs. (30:21)


A different position to try if you have a hard time squirting. (35:32)


Squirting expectations and stigmas. (37:04)


Orgasming and squirting at the same time.(41:30)


 
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134: Unpacking Submission, “I Can’t Get Over My Ex”, and How To Push New Boundaries Healthily With Briana Cribeyer 14 Aug 202501:18:54

In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with Briana Cribeyer, a sacred sexuality facilitator, guide, and founder of Sacred Sexuality Rising. They explore various relationship dynamics and the challenges that can arise while navigating an ENM (ethically non-monogamous) journey. Briana answers listener questions and shares tips and tools for handling difficult situations, balancing masculine and feminine energies, doing inner child work, and using thoughtful questions to open communication around how to successfully push a new boundary. 


Intro: The Balance Of Masculine And Feminine Energy: Releasing The End Goal  (00:00)


Practices For Embracing Femininity: Ask Yourself What Am I Trying To Prove And Who Am I Trying To It To, Being In Your Body Moment To Moment, Making Sounds, Letting Go Of The End Goal (06:46)


Empowered Femininity, Sloppy Doms and Exploring Submission  (14:03) 


“Subbing to Source”: Create Space to Choose to Trust and Let Go (22:25)


Adults as Children: Inner Child Work And Its Impact On Relationships (27:46)


Nervous System Dysregulation Signs: “If It’s Hysterical It’s Historical” (31:25)


Listener Question Answered: How I Keep From Feeling Not Enough to My Primary Partner (34:12)


Grief Work, Acknowledging Childhood Pain, Misdirected Complaints And how This Effects Relationships (37:41)


Fighting: The Power Of Breath To Tap Into Emotional Awareness and Resist “Fire Fingers”  (42:31)


Radical Self-Responsibility And Hormonal Influences (47:43)


“I Can’t Get Over my Ex” How Attachment Styles Play Into This (51:05)


Listener Q&A: Wife and I have been a soft swap couple that dirty talks about full swap, but we aren’t sure about taking the next step to full swap? 4 questions to use. (58:35)


Nuggets: The 3 of us summarizing our takeaways  (01:09:30)


What Briana has coming up! How you can work with her (01:13:43)


Instagram @she_boldly_goes_

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033: Intimacy Inventory: Questions for Introspection, What You Bring to Your Relationship, and Taking vs Being Taken (including CNC)17 Aug 202301:01:16

What is an Intimacy Inventory, and why is it important for our relationships? (1:52) Get Access  here… 


What strengths do you bring to your relationships? What is a dilemma that you carry with you? (5:32)


Stubbornness and fighting with your partner; how to put a sexy, fun spin on it. (9:44)


When do you feel most free in your relationship? (14:28)


When you’re out at a bar with friends, do you have a hall pass?  What agreement do you have with your partner about what is allowed?  (17:04) 


Independence as a turn on. Separateness and  mystery and their impact on relationships. (21:36)

 

What do you like to experience in sex? (27:40)


Being taken, thoughts on CNC (consensual non consent aka rape fantasies), extreme desire, safe words, and using BDSM as a healing experience. (29:59)


Seeking a release, freedom from responsibility and timelessness during sex. (35:35)


How setting time boundaries impacts sex and mental state. (37:05)


How the dominant messages around gender norms shape your sexual beliefs. (42:10)


To ask, to take, to give, to receive and to refuse: which are you most comfortable with? Which would you like to stretch? (48:44)


Rapid Fire final questions of the intimacy inventory questionnaire. (54:21)


What is a difficult conversation for you to have around sexuality? Uncomfortableness with not feeling attracted to someone who is interested in you and turning them down. (56:38)


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032: Sexual Shame: Unlearning Religious Messages, The Stories We Tell Ourselves, and Healing Through ENM10 Aug 202300:57:44

Elle and Vee chat with their friend Kit, who grew up in a strict religious home. The girls chat about their formative sexual experiences and messages they received about sex early on in their lives, and how finding the ENM lifestyle helped to heal them.  

Early messages around sex when you grow up in a strict religious community (for example, Mennonite or Pentecostal). (1:50)


How did you work through/unlearn all the shameful messages around sex and adultery that you had grown up with? (11:55)


Common shameful messages we receive, and ACCEPTANCE as the antidote to shame. (20:12)


How do you work through the stories you tell yourself? (30:11)


How has working on shame translated outside of the lifestyle? (36:20)


Early shame messages we recive in high school and the effects of repression. (44:25)


Finding your tribe, showing up for our monogamous friends, and using fears, desires, boundaries in all aspects of life.  (48:19)


Processing and healing trauma through EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) therapy, and BDSM. (50:29)

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031: Opening Your Marriage, Throuples, and Falling In Love With Someone Besides Your Husband03 Aug 202300:45:29

In this episode, the girls sit down with Slutlana, who is Elle and her husband M's best friend and girlfriend.  They cover a range of topics, including:

What’s it like being a third for a married couple? What fears come up as a third? The importance of communication in a throuple. (1:20)


The benefits of being a third and not having a primary partner. (8:44) 


Opening a marriage with the help of a sex therapist. (10:49)


Transitioning from swingers to open, and falling in love with someone outside of your marriage. (18:07)


Personal growth through dating, retreats, psychedelics, and meditation. Shamanism. ( 28:51)


Double penetration (DP) with a strap-on. (37:16)


Butt plugs, and taking anal virginity. (38:45)


Theme nights. (41:15)


Slutlana’s major “aha” moments, and the birth of fears, desires and boundaries. (42:03)





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030: How to Transition to Sexy Vibes in Group Sex (Especially with Longterm ENM Friends)27 Jul 202300:44:37

What happens when you’ve had the same group of ENM friends for years? 

In this episode, Vee and Elle sit down with M to chat about the catch-22 of having sex with your friends: how sometimes you sacrifice the quantity of sex for quality when you develop stronger friendships with your ENM partners.


Strategy to turn the vibe sexy in big groups: “orgy boards”, taking a group vote with eyes closed, changing locations/spaces. (4:22)


Why is it so much more challenging when trying to transition into sexy time with a larger group? (9:34)


“Open door policy”: communicating intentions to the group when going off with one person. (12:19)


“Emotionally weak people”: not taking answers personally as the asker of the question, and taking responsibility for your own triggers. (19:00)


Strategy to avoid the challenge of transitioning into sex altogether: day orgies, new energy, and what creates desire according to Esther Perel. (23:41)


Building sexual things up in your mind when you know there will be more opportunities. (32:53)


How to disentangle from someone in an orgy when you want to move on to a different person or position. (36:45)


M’s responses to past episodes: grinding while eating out and face-sitting. (40:04)

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029: Cum: Ejaculating vs Squirting, Spitting vs Swallowing, and Tasting Yourself20 Jul 202300:55:49

In this episode, Elle and Vee talk all things CUM, including 

Ejaculating vs Squirting: and is there pee in squirt juice? (2:54)

Taste: modifying your own taste, and what affects it. (10:36)

Male ejaculation: the focus on male orgasm. (21:06)

Orgasming: the hottest place for a guy to finish, “shooters” vs “dribblers”, spitting vs swallowing, and creampie fantasies. (28:35)

Female taste: tasting yourself, and what to do when you encounter a stinky pussy. (43:08)

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028: Navigating Emotional Triggers in Group Sex, and The Beauty of Day Orgies13 Jul 202301:01:29

In this episode, Elle and Vee cover a range of topics, from dealing with the emotions of multiple partners in threesomes and foursomes, questioning how to be an ethical porn consumer, and recapping Vee's weekend at a lifestyle party, including:

How to deal with it as the unicorn in a threesome when there is an issue with the couple. (1:27)


Listening vs giving advice when someone is triggered, and where to have the conversation. (8:26)


What to do when the vibe is off between a CNM couple in a group sex situation (reading energy and holding space). (12:40)


Fears, Desires and Boundaries: a tool to clear the air, break the ice and set expectations before the orgy. (15:38)


What to do when you're triggered during group sex, and giving the couple space to regroup and get sexy. (18:22)

Paying for porn: how do you find what’s worth paying for?  (27:30)


How do you know you’re watching porn that’s being ethically made? (30:30)


Gemini Party Recap (34:32)


- Connecting with and prioritizing your partner at the beginning of a lifestyle weekend. (35:37)


- The difference between pool parties in the ENM lifestyle and vanilla pool parties.  Friendships with the opposite sex. (39:34)


- Day orgies, why having repeat partners makes for better sex, and compersion. (45:00)


- Sitting on faces.  (50:07)


- The “comedown” from a big weekend: Strap ons, “pegging” vs “strapping”, how to have an awesome seven-person orgy, and how can you feel sexy in a big group? (53:33)

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027: The Joy of Porn: Connecting with your Partner, Formative Sexual Experiences, and VR Porn06 Jul 202300:47:39

In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss all things pornography, from their use of it to their first exposure to it, including: 

How do you use porn? Authenticity in porn, “daddy” and age play, searching for specific vs playing porn roulette. (2:22)


Masturbation and porn. (7:04)


Using porn as a tool to connect with you partner. (9:30)


Favorite porn sites. (11:01) 


How does porn affect teens’ ideas of sex? (11:49)


How can porn contribute to and affect sexual confusion and sexual identity in teens? (16:46)


Do we watch what we want in real life? Erotic blueprints, porn rabbit holes. (22:48)


Negative effects of porn, and training yourself to like certain things. BDSM hack for associating pain with pleasure. (25:46)


Is watching porn cheating?  (31:04)


What would we sound like in the bedroom if we had never watched porn? Personal porn. (37:19)


Virtual Reality porn and AI porn. (40:53)



Links: 


Female-created porn: Bellesa.co


Erotic Blueprint: missjaiya.com


Real Sex Porn: makelovenotporn.tv


Soft Porn: stasyq.com


Crowd-sourced porn: xconfessions.com

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026: Going Deep with Spicy Vanillas: Emotional Intimacy, Sexual Satisfaction, and Questioning Societal Norms29 Jun 202300:58:11

In this episode, Elle and Vee and their monogamous friends answer each others’ questions, including: 

What does the word vanilla mean to you, and is it offensive? (2:40)

What do you think of when you think ethical non monogamy or open relationship? What words or concepts come to mind? (4:38)

What changes have you observed in your friends since they started exploring the nonmonogamous lifestyle? (9:55)


What questions do you have for people in the lifestyle?

  • How does it work? (14:27)
  • How can you watch your partner with someone else, without feeling jealous? Jealousy, hotwife, and cuckolding. (15:55)
  • How can you be friends with someone who has sex with your husband (your metamour)? Friends with benefits. (21:44)
  • How does emotional intimacy work inside versus outside the primary relationship? (26:38)
  • How do you protect against STD’s when you have so much sex? What is fluid bonding? (32:38)
  • How do you tell your family and/or children about your open lifestyle, or how much do you tell them? How do you balance your time between kids and your partners? (35:37)
  • If you’re trying to get into girl-on-girl, how do you get comfortable playing with women? (44:46)
  • Will you ever be totally sexually satisfied? (48:09)
  • What happens when you get older or ready to settle down? Will you ever be with one person? (51:38)


“Serial monogamist and flirt with a high sex drive and little inhibition” poses some thought-provoking ideas and questions about polyamory and religion, and questioning your own choices further.  (55:02)

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025: Baconfest 2023: Merging Swinger and Traditional Friends, Threesome Takeaways, and BDSM Tests22 Jun 202300:46:24

In this episode, Elle and Vee recap their weekend at Baconfest 2023 at their friends' house at the Jersey Shore. It was a mixture of ENM and vanilla couples, which lead to some interesting dynamics.  The girls talk about their learning moments and more, including:

Merging friend groups: What is it like having traditional couples at a play party? How do lifestyle couples interact differently at a party than monogamous people? (1:20)

Going to bed early: Vee overcomes her FOMO! (14:00)

Going down on women: Elle and Vee debrief their threesome with J, including squirting, do all women have a more sensitive spot on their clit?, and morning sex. (16:33)

BDSM test: the girls analyze their results and compare them to their past results. How and why do our sexual tastes change? Exhibitionism, voyeurism, riggers and rope bunnies. (28:19)

Listener response: Boundaries follow up. (38:36)

Listener response meme follow up: gender wage gaps and income imbalances in relationships. (40:02)


Take the BDSM Test: www.Bdsmtest.org 

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024: Going Deep with Safe.Slut Tricia Wise: Genital Herpes, OnlyFans, and Energy Healing15 Jun 202301:14:04

In this episode, Elle and Vee sit down with Tricia Wise, aka Safe.Slut, who is a sex activist (Instagram @safe.slut), an OnlyFans content creator (safeslvt), and sex toy business owner (safeslut.shop). The girls go DEEP on these subjects and more, including:


Destigmatizing Herpes: What is the Safe Slut mission? What are HSV-1 and HSV-2? How is it transmitted? What is prodrome? What triggers an outbreak? What are the symptoms? (2:08) 


Herpes Testing: What kinds of tests are there, and how do you get tested for herpes? What do you do afterwards? (14:02)


Disclosing Your Status: How do you tell past or current partners that you tested positive? (16:49)


Safe.Slut: What is her mission? What does it mean to be a slut? Overcoming slut shaming from high school. Confirmation bias. (20:23)


OnlyFans: What’s a day in the life of an OnlyFans content creator like? Herpes in porn. Embracing your imperfections, waxing vs shaving your pussy, and ingrown hairs on your vulva. (25:57)


Talking to your friends and family (or not) about OnlyFans, your herpes status, and your sex life as a sex positive activist or sex educator. (31:24)


Trauma: Flipping negative situations on their head and taking your power back, from herpes to bullying. (36:24)


Creating Content: Asking dates to film on OnlyFans.  Chaturbate. Exhibitionists and BDSMtest.org. Dating a porn content creator. (39:31)


Disclosing: How do you bring up your STI status with a new partner? (44:49)


Support Tips: Natural remedies to help herpes outbreaks. (48:50)


Vibrators: Clit sucking, multi-use, and heated vibrators. Butt plugs or dicks? (51:18)


Unconventional Science and Spirituality: Astrology and other “woo-woo” magic. What is reiki and energy healing? What is quantum entanglement? (54:38)


Whoreible Life: Sex on the beach. Slapping across the face while fucking. Impact play. (1:02:33)


Takeaways for polyamorous people: Testing regularly, what to ask for when getting an STI test, and gonorrhea and chlamydia in the throat. (1:07:37)

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133: Girls Gone Shallow and Other Ice Breakers with JJ of The Sexie Show07 Aug 202500:55:21

This week, Elle and Vee chat with JJ of The Sexie Show podcast, and play Girls Gone Shallow, a sex-themed game testing how well they know each other. Play along with your partner, and we invite you to make the stakes interesting ;)


Battlestrip: what is it? (1:57)


What is the role of games in a sexy environment? Pushing our growth edges, getting silly and reducing anxiety.  How can we carry the energy over from the icebreaker games to sexual scenes? (8:01)


Exxotica: porn convention. (17:10)


Most successful icebreakers? Depending on size of party, vibe of the crowd etc. (19:49)


Would you rather... (23:38)


Most divisive sexual ice breaker question: which Harry Potter house would you want to fuck? (25:23)


Best ice breakers for small parties/intimate gatherings. (26:37)


Activity games vs verbal games: which is better? (30:48)


Girls Gone Shallow! How well do Vee and Elle know each other? (32:54)

  • Who has had the most time with dicks inside them? (36:31)
  • Would we fuck 70% of who’s been on the podcast? (39:44)
  • Who would be the top if we were gay men in a relationship? (43:16)
  • Would you accept $10k for globally televised sex with a stranger? (44:10)
  • Would you fuck a sex robot? (45:08)
  • Who would be the more handsome drag king? (46:10)
  • Would you rather fuck yourself from 5 years in the past than 5 years in the future. (47:27)
  • Would you be able to have an orgasm suspended upside down? (48:53)
  • Have you paid for or received money for sexual acts? (51:35)


Links:

Website: sexieshow.com

Battlestrip 4: tickets

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023: Solo ENM with Holly: Being a Unicorn, Group Sex Dynamics, and What is Comphet?08 Jun 202301:07:41

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Holly, who gives the perspective of a single twenty-something in the ethically non-monogamous dating scene in NYC, juxtaposing the girls’ married and partnered perspectives. Their conversation includes:

First experiences in CNM (consensual non-monogamy): Holly’s first threesome; common types of group play and the girls’ preferences; being discreet with “incognito mode”on Feeld. (1:05)

Group sex: Even vs odd numbers; dynamics. (7:12)

Single and Poly: Going to mixers and meetups; the experience of being single vs partnered in the lifestyle; what considerations does a unicorn need to think about in play situations? (11:15)

Sexual Labels: “lifestyle”, “queer”, “fluid”, playing with women who don’t identify as gay, the different dynamic of having a penis in the room. (15:48)

Comphet: What is Compulsory Heterosexuality? Questioning your thoughts due to internalized homophobia. Is it still a problem in society? Calling men vs women for a booty call. (23:32)

Best Threesomes: Being dommed by a women vs a man; what makes a successful unicorn? (36:12)

Boundaries: the case against taking sexy nudes. (41:05)

Coming out as open to friends and family. (43:13)

Growth through sexual experiences: being celebrated for who you are; taking back the word SLUT. (46:40)

Main Nuggets: Guarding your heart, finding the right people, misconceptions of people in the lifestyle. (52:49)

Listener Question: How to go to a mixer solo. (57:49)

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022: Setting (and Pushing) Boundaries in ENM Relationships01 Jun 202300:56:46

In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss all things boundaries and agreements in open relationships, from the early rules they had when they entered the lifestyle, to how they evolved them.  They get into all the dirty details, including:

Boundaries vs Agreements vs Rules: What is a boundary? How do you set a boundary? Elle and Vee give examples of the agreements and boundaries they have in their partnerships. (3:23)


Typical Boundaries: What are some common boundaries to discuss when entering the lifestyle? What limits have Vee and Elle pushed throughout their relationships? Sleepovers, showering after sex, emotional intimacy, and other boundaries between couples. (12:43)


Breaking Agreements: What happens when you violate your partner’s boundaries? Vee talks about not prioritiing J at Hedonism Swing Breakers. AFOG (Another Fucking Opportunity for Growth). Elle shares her learning moments. (30:48)


Solo kinkster dating story: how to be safe when a date doesn’t respect your boundaries. (40:04)


Challenges and Communication: What are the challenges in setting boundaries? Getting curious about emotions. “Emotional Dumping.” What are some good ways to communicate with your partner about boundaries? (45:33)


Fighting: Setting boundaries when having an argument. (51:00)


The Ethical Slut: Slut skills - setting limits. (54:10)

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021: Alternative Dating Apps for ENM and Kink: Exploring Desires, Finding Events Near You and Defining “Heteroflexible”25 May 202300:51:11

In this episode, Elle and Vee were inspired to chat about the alternative dating apps and websites that have worked for them in the lifestyle, including:


Feeld: what’s so special about this dating app? Is it harder for men on dating apps?  (2:08)


Exploring desires: What kinds of people do you find on Feeld? Can you find a third, other couples, or a dom on Feeld? (8:10)


How quickly should you move from the app to real life? (12:15)


Safety and dating: what does Vee do to keep herself safe when dating solo? (14:05)


Sexual orientation: how do Elle and Vee identify themselves on Feeld? Changing your sexual orientation with more experience. What’s the difference between heteroflexible and bicurious, and is heteroflexible an offensive term? Defining heteroflexible, pansexual, asexual, and skoliosexual. (15:22)


Gender options on Feeld. (27:40)


Labels: the American versus European mentality around the need to label ourselves. (28:31)


Work and Swinger Apps: what happens if your boss finds your profile? (30:45)


Fetlife: BDSM website, meeting up and finding events. (36:55)


Kasidie: lifestyle events website, backstage passes and connecting with couples before an event. (41:24)


Traditional vs swinger apps. (45:07)

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020: Weddings from an ENM Perspective, Divorce, and the Meaning of Being "Settled"18 May 202300:47:36

In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up on Elle’s trip to Florida with the Joy Fam, while Vee was at a monogamous friend’s wedding… which prompts the girls to go deep on weddings, divorce, and what it means to be settled.


Elle’s sexual mishap with The Builder in Tampa, and how she moved forward from her Hedonism trigger. (1:51)


Integrating lessons from podcast episodes: was Elle able to enjoy herself on marijuana? How was Vee able to work through her FOMO (fear of missing out)? How important it is to have friends you can be your authentic self with. (6:30)


Gravitating towards curious, open-minded people at “vanilla” events, and setting boundaries with monogamous friends at weddings who might be interested in playing while drunk. (14:48)


Avoiding being the “talk of the town”: What to do and what not to do at a monogamous wedding when you’re ENM (ethically non monogamous). (16:22)


ENM Weddings: What could a non-monogamous commitment ceremony look like? Elle describes a BDSM/lifestyle wedding that she attended, including a master/slave ceremony, shibari, and primal play. (21:01)


Marriage and Divorce: How important is a wedding or marriage? Why do people stay in unhappy marriages? (33:40) 


How do you know when it’s time to leave a marriage? How Vee knew it was time to get divorced. (36:40)


What does it mean to be “settled”? (41:36)

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019: Arousal Styles, FOMO, and Running Into Ex Lovers11 May 202300:53:59

In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss what turns them on based on Dr. Emily Morse’s (@sexwithemily) article, “These Are the 5 Arousal Styles, Which One Are You?” The girls also go super deep and share the tools they use to work through FOMO (fear of missing out) when they miss out on activities with friends, plus they share some listener responses!


Dr. Emily: Arousal Styles. What’s the difference between desire and arousal? What’s your sexual arousal type? How to get aroused when you’re stressed out from work. (2:00)


FOMO: how do you deal with FOMO? How does having the choice to miss the experience or not affect your FOMO? How does social media affect your FOMO? (5:13)


What is the core of FOMO: what is behind the “fear of missing out”? (18:56)


JOMO: “The Joy of Missing Out”. (24:39)


Do you experience more FOMO with your lifestyle friends than your traditional friends? Does longevity in a relationship affect FOMO levels? (28:12)


FOMO when you miss out on an event you weren’t invited to. Vee applies the tools for working through the stories her mind tells her when she experiences FOMO. (32:11)


Listener responses: Vanilla is derogatory, and book club ideas! (36:49) 


Listener response: Hedonism Swing Breakers - what’s the best flow for the week? (40:27)


Does the word “lifestyle” imply hetero-swinger? (44:25)


What to do when you run into a past lover: should you approach an ex for “closure” or to “clear the air”? Who should approach who: the dumper or the dumpee? (47:11)

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018: Female Friendships in ENM: Support, Finding Your People and “Zhuzhing”04 May 202301:06:19

This week, Elle and Vee chat with their friend “Mommy” about the importance of female friendships in CNM (consensual non-monogamy), including:

 The importance of female friendships, and the differences between lifestyle and monogamous friendships. (1:22)


How does being sexual affect your friendships - female and male? (13:01)


Friends you’ve had from childhood vs friends you make in adulthood. (18:30)


What do you think when you think women in the lifestyle? (20:51)


“Girls’ girls” vs “guys’ girls”. (31:00)


Comparing ourselves to other women. (32:20)


Evolution of friendships: is there anyone who you originally didn’t vibe with who you’re good with now? (34:34)


How do you get over initial relationship anxiety? Putting in the time and work to create solid relationships. (39:32)


What can we as women do to support each other better in non-monogamous environments (sex parties, social mixers, lifestyle resorts, etc.)? (45:52)


Dealing with intimidation and self-comparison when meeting new women at mixers, sex parties and lifestyle resorts. (50:38)


Compersion when your partner is playing with your female friends. (59:19)


How has being non-monogamous affected mommy’s relationship with herself? (1:02:41)



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017: Guys Gone Deep on Approaching Women: Body Language, Turn Offs, and Panty Droppers27 Apr 202301:01:46

Elle and Vee continue their conversation with Chet about how to approach women in the lifetsyle, including:

Body Language: how can you figure out if someone is into you based on nonverbal signals? The importance of verbal communication. Should you ask for consent before touching someone (even non-sexually)? (1:46)

Organic Connections: Chemistry, and how does an initial “no” turn into a “yes”? (12:02)

Single vs partnered men: as a man, is it easier to play when a women is involved in the interaction? The dynamics of playing with partners. Aggressive men. (19:20)

Making Assumptions: The boundaries when playing with couples.  Taking liberties based on signals.  (29:16)

Panty Droppers! (33:32)

Turn-offs: how substances affect your ability to make connections, men taking liberties, asking for consent every time, aggresive dominance, and being creepy.  (41:27)


How to hit on a woman in the lifestyle: using your partner as a wing woman or wing man, using activities as a way to break the ice, and being vulnerable. (53:30)




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016: Guys Gone Deep: Chet on Leaving Mormonism, Navigating ENM, and Approaching Women with Authenticity20 Apr 202300:46:35

This week, Elle and Vee talk with Chet, whose journey into the non-monogamous lifestyle is unique in that he was raised in the Church of Latter Day Saints (aka he was Mormon).  He talks about everything from his upbringing to the challenges of approaching women.

This is part one of two, because their conversation was too juicy to cut off!

From Mormonism to non-monogamy: How Chet and his wife found the lifestyle after being raised in the Mormon church. How he overcame the guilt and shame he was taught around sexuality.  What did his early sexual experiences look like? (1:40)

Transitioning to CNM (consensual non monogamy): mono-normative thinking, and overcoming the traditional thoughts taught in childhood. (9:20)

Your relationship with yourself: what has being the lifestyle taught you about yourself? Learning to be okay being alone, and gaining confidence. (13:32)

Navigating the lifestyle: What were your resources in the beginning of opening up your relationship? (20:20)

How to approach women in the lifestyle: how women in the lifestyle are different, and what makes men hesitant to be too forward when transitioning into the sexual space? (22:39)

Where do you start the conversation when hitting on a woman? What are some good pickup lines to get someone’s attention? (32:34)

Communication: dividing your time between partners, and the importance of communicating clearly to get what you want. (39:28)

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015: Going Deep with Julia Lange, the Woman Behind Hedonism Swing Breakers10 Apr 202301:10:13

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Julia Lange, the brains behind Hedonism Swing Breakers, and the daughter of Harry Lange, the owner of Hedonism II in Jamaica! Then, they answer all your questions submitted on social media about Hedo.

How did Hedonism II and Hedonism Swing Breakers come about?  How did it become a family business? How nudity levels the playing field. (1:34)

How can ethical non-monogamy  (ENM) enrich your relationship? (8:52)

All about HSB (Hedonism Swing Breakers) - How many guests are there? What's the difference between typical weeks and HSB? Are throuples allowed? (11:40)

What types of people and age groups go to Hedonism II in Jamaica? (14:13)

What are the rules at Hedo? What does Hedo do to keep it safe for guests? (17:26)

How the workshops and theme nights help you explore different sides of yourself. (20:22)

Permanent residency at Hedonism II Resort. (26:46)

What do the Jamaicans and staff think of Hedonism guests? (27:39)

How has being in the lifestyle affected your relationship with yourself and with your partner? (32:15)

Social Media Questions:

  • Tips for newbies! 
    • "What should I pack?" (36:22)
    • "Is there anything I should know about the resort?" (39:10)
    • "Which excursions should I go on?" (41:51)
    • "Should I go see the shows?" (43:53)
    • "Is there anything I should know about the Jamaican airport?" (44:15)
    • "How do I get from the airport to Hedonism?" (46:41)
  • Where do Elle and Vee get their sexy rave theme outfits (costumes)? (50:20)
  • How does Hedo compare to other lifestyle resorts? (55:46)
  • Rapid fire questions! DP (double penetration), anonymous sex, sexual numbers,  roses and thorns of the trip, how did you accomplish a desire you set for yourself. (1:00:34)

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014: Hedonism Swing Breakers: Being Naked in Public, Prioritizing Your Partner, and Orgy Highlights06 Apr 202301:17:06

In this episode, Elle and Vee record both during and after their week at Hedonism II Resort in Negril, Jamaica for the theme week Hedonism Swing Breakers.  First, they set intentions and afterwards, they reflect on their experience - all the highlights, learning moments and dirty details, including:

Hedonism: What is it like being nude in public, and how does it affect your interactions? How do you know what a couple’s boundaries and interests are? Theme nights and entertainment. (00:24) 

Setting non-sexual intentions for the week. (9:44)

Sexual intentions and “Fuckit List” items: double penetration (DP) and gang bangs. (14:31)

Prioritizing time with your partner at swinger resorts, and how to deal with FOMO on group trips. (17:51)

Sexual mantras, sexual female connections and impact play sessions. (20:26)

Overall assessments of Hedo: does being nude in public get easier throughout the week? Comparing past Hedonism experiences and HSB 2023. Tip for newbies: get off the resort and go to Lobster Island! (24:16)

Using a banana as a sex toy: crazy silly memories with friends AKA the “Barnarnar” story. (34:46)

Major takeaway: friends in the lifestyle, the sense of community at HSB, and picking up where you left off the year before. (37:30)

What is Nuru, and why is it a highlight for Elle? (38:48)

Did Vee fulfill her DP intention? (43:10)

Vee’s first MFM: what’s the secret ingredient to enjoying and thriving in an MFM? (47:12)

What it’s like to have the party room. (51:15)

Triggers: How Elle worked through a triggering moment, and how she grew from it, the importance of speaking up and doing fears desires boundaries, and making everything about us. (53:44)

What is the Fetish Night show at Hedonism like? (1:02:57)

Re-learning the same lessons with your partner until they sink in: how do you deal when two partners have different libidos and aren’t on the same page at a lifestyle event? How women lead a lot of the interactions in the lifestyle, and the challenges for men when their partner isn’t in the mood. (1:04:27)

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132: Bite Marks, Next Level Anal Play and Role Play vs Fantasy…What’s the Difference?31 Jul 202500:51:51

This week, Elle and Vee catch up on all their latest play, from Elle’s long weekend with lifestyle friends to the reason underlying Vee’s horniness, kinky date night takeaways and why some fantasies you don’t want to role play.


Ass play/vegetable play, caving, and Elle learns what a bussy is.


Fears, Desires, Boundaries with old friends; ebbing and flowing playing with others in your ENM partnership.


Craving touch: asking for what you want (spanking) but being ok if your dom isnt in the right headspace; crygasms; make up sex; alchemizing emotions.


Have you ever had blood after anal play?


Upping Vee’s masturbation game: audio porn?


Visualizations for fantasy: replaying old sexy memories, replaying recent scenes.


Adoration fantasy.


Role Play vs Fantasy: are they the same? What’s the difference?


Kinky date night: creating a container for a scene.


Biting.


Scratching.


Hair pulling.


Choking.

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013: What Does "Vanilla" Mean to Swingers?30 Mar 202300:40:35

After some thought-provoking conversations with monogamous (non-lifestyle) friends, Vee and Elle discuss what the word "vanilla" actually means to them, and pose the same question to a few of their CNM (consensually non-monogamous) friends at Hedonism II in Jamaica.

What does “vanilla” mean to Elle and Vee as people in the lifestyle? (2:07)

What is “spicy vanilla”? (7:24)

Are we meant to be monogamous? (11:49)

Using "vanilla" to describe career choices. (13:58)

Offending monogamous friends with the use of "vanilla". (16:56)

Polling ENM (ethically non-monogamous) friends at Hedonism on what "vanilla" means to them:

  • The Builder (20:18)
  • The Magician and Nikki (21:44)
  • Chet (26:10)
  • Slutlana69 (29:14) 
  • Josh (30:55)
  • Chantelle (33:10)

The final verdict: what does "vanilla" mean to people in the lifestyle? (38:40)

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012: Guys Gone Deep: The Builder and M on Double Penetration, Short Men, and Friendships in the Lifestyle22 Mar 202301:08:54

This week, Elle and Vee chat with M and their friend The Builder, who are known as the "DP Duo" in their friend group.  The girls ask them all the dirty details about double penetration, as well as go deep on The Builder's journey with his wife in the lifestyle.  

What does DP (double penetration) feel like for the guy? (1:12)

How did The Builder get into the lifestyle, how has an open relationship affected his relationship to himself and to his wife? (5:32)

Sex with strangers vs. friends: the connections and friendships in consensual non-monogamy. (10:20)

Setting intentions, and prioritizing reconnecting with your partner at play parties. (17:06)

Should you check in with both partners before playing with someone? (22:36)

Back to double penetration: the difference between anal and vagina, logistics, anal prep, and positions. (28:26)

Connections between men in ENM (ethical non-monogamy). (38:30)

Short men: what it’s like to be a short man in the lifestyle, what gives them confidence, and how the lifestyle inspires us to stay in shape. (40:41)

Talking to your vanilla friends about your lifestyle, and how openness is not for everyone. (52:37)

Growing with your partner: differing sex drives, developing feelings for a unicorn, communication and acceptance. (57:39)

How to find new play partners: online, apps, and in person energy. (1:01:45)


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011: Vagina Health: How to Prevent and Treat Yeast Infections, BV, and UTIs15 Mar 202300:52:56

In this episode, Elle and Vee have one of their most important conversations to date: all things vaginal health.  Elle is a medical professional - a nutritional therapist and wellness coach with a Doctor of Pharmacy degree, so Vee uses this opportunity to pick her brain about how to prevent the most common of vaginal issues, including:

Chronic yeast infections and BV (bacterial vaginosis): natural solutions, vaginal PH balance and probiotics. What specific probiotic strains should we look for when buying probiotics? (5:22)

Yeast infections: how do antibiotics affect our vaginas? Medications vs boric acid. How do condoms, lubes and sperm affect our PH levels? (11:41)

Online medical solutions: WISP (@hellowisp), and finding the right resources online. (17:01)

Can our body be trying to tell us something? Irregular PAP smears, precancerous cells and LEEP procedures. (20:42)

How does our diet affect our vaginas? Sugar, antibiotics, muscle testing and getting yeast infections in foreign countries, plus coconut oil has anti fungal benefits! (24:42)

UTIs: peeing protocol, the right cranberry supplements, the right things to wash with, and why Elle doesn’t recommend douching. (31:57)

Vagina upkeep: how to keep your vagina healthy on lifestyle vacations, at sex parties etc. What do Elle and Vee have on hand during, and what to use beforehand and afterwards. (40:42)

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010: Love Languages Gone Sexy: Taking the Five Love Languages into the Bedroom08 Mar 202300:38:30

This week Elle and Vee talk about how to apply the Five Love Languages to your sex life, including:

What are the 5 Love Languages, and how important are they to know about your partners? (1:36)

Words of Affirmation, and when to start foreplay. (9:34)

Physical Touch, sensual massage and the benefits of sensory deprivation. (15:02)

Quality Time, and how can you prevent the sexual rut in long term relationships and bring back new relationship energy (NRE)? (17:14)

Acts of Service, and giving your partner a special experience. (23:03)

Receiving Gifts, and giving the gift of pleasure. (25:56)

This conversation was inspired by a Woo newsletter email - thanks, Woo!

Find your Love Language: https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language


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009: Threesomes: Finding a Third, Being a Third, and What to Discuss Beforehand01 Mar 202300:49:33

In this episode, Elle and Vee record in the same room for the very first time! And they've saved a topic very close to their hearts: threesomes.  For many, this is a first step into sexual exploration or opening up a relationship, so the girls reminisce about some fun threesomes, as well as compiled some of their tips and tricks for having a successful threesome, including: 

What are the different types of threesomes? Defining FMF, FFM, MFM... (2:05)

MMF: is it GAY to have a threesome with another dude (MFM)?  The stigma of men being in sexual environments together. (11:56) 

 

How to find a third (aka "unicorn")? (20:24)

 

Being a third for another couple, being able to be selfish, and being a good third by reading/navigating a couple’s energy. (24:08)

 

Communication: What should you discuss beforehand? With your partner? With your third?  Boundaries, aftercare, and "Fears, Desires and Boundaries" conversation.  (26:51)

 

Negative threesome experiences: when not to have a threesome, and how to deal with being triggered. (42:31)

 

BONUS: Fun FFM threesome positions! What Elle and Vee love about threesomes. (45:44)

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008: Rejection: How to Turn Someone Down at a Sex Party and Ethical Rejections22 Feb 202300:51:19

The girls chat with Bibi, Vee's friend in the lifestyle, about all things rejection, including:

Open lifestyle and rejection: How do you reject or turn someone down in the moment at a sex party? How circumstances, headspace and how well you know the person comes into play: private play parties, organized play parties, lifestyle resorts, etc. (8:15)

The do's and don'ts of rejection.  Rejecting over text, ghosting, and being clear and respectful. (13:54)

Vee gets rejected over text, and how to deal with being rejected. (20:15)

Couples and rejection: just because your partner plays with someone does not mean you will play with them or their partner.  (22:28)

How to reject someone during group sex when you’re not into one of the people. (25:13)

Being approached vs approaching: The gender norms in pursuing, and how we subconsciously consider feelings differently between men and women. (32:11)

Turning down couples with different boundaries. (35:19)

Common Excuses: “I have my period.” (39:38)

Common Excuses: “I’m polysaturated.” What is polysaturated, using it as a way to turn someone down, and how to deal with polysaturation. (42:05)

The concept of “veto”. (46:29)


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007: Sex and Weed: Powerful Orgasms, Anxiety, Surveys and Science16 Feb 202300:43:42

The girls explore how weed affects their sex lives, inspired by a Vice article connecting marijuana use with more powerful orgasms.  Including: 

Vee and Elle’s relationship with weed, the difference between edibles and smoking, and its effects on the body.  (1:24)

Social anxiety and weed: the girls share their experiences of the inability to connect in certain social situations and sex parties. (7:39)

How weed affects sex and sexuality: how weed helps Elle get into her body, how her sexual behavior changes when high, the importance of set and setting, and how sensations are heightened during play.  (13:11)

The benefits of regulated marijuana and its different strains, comparing weed to alcohol and other drugs’ contrasting affects on our health and social experiences. (22:40)

Vice survey results about sex and weed. https://www.vice.com/en/article/pkgndn/sex-and-weed-study (28:00)

Science and weed: How does marijuana physically cause changes in our bodies and brains? Elle weighs in with her medical perspective. (29:20)

Elle walks Vee through studies: cannabis and relaxation, sexual desire, orgasms, etc. (32:30 )

Men and weed: the link between testosterone, libido, ED (erectile dysfunction) and weed.  The Sexual Health Inventory for Men (SHIM) Questionnaire: https://www.pcf.org/c/the-sexual-health-inventory-for-men-shim-questionnaire/  (34:04 )

Women and weed: A study of women show increases in sex drive, improvement in orgasm, and no change in lubrications. (37:00)




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006: Freaksgiving: Hosting a Sex Party, Impact Play and Cultivating Joy08 Feb 202300:36:57

Every November, around Thanksgiving, Elle and Vee's group of lifestyle friends (aka Joy Family) throw an annual Freaksgiving sex party weekend.  After the 2022 edition, the girls debriefed their weekend, including:

How to throw a great sex party! Valuing comfort: what’s on the checklist when setting up as a host? (2:42 )

The girls share their intentions, and what they learned from implementing them, including communicating your desires in the moment, and acting on your sexual feelings. (8:33 )

Elle shares a fun, sexy moment and the girls talk about the benefits of private versus public play. (10:20 )

Vee shares a story about a foursome, and how that experience helped her exercise her intention of acting on it when you feel sexual, and how “breaking the seal” of sexuality gets you in the mood for more sex. (14:45 )

BDSM and Spanking: Elle gives the play by play of a BDSM impact play scene, Vee talks about what she gets out of being the sub in an impact scene (spanking), and how BDSM can help you go deeper. (19:10 )

Observing the difference in your energy when you’re at a party solo versus with your partner.  (27:45 )

Prioritizing time with your partner at parties. (29:19 )

How to break the ice and force yourself to socialize with everyone at a party! (32:55 )

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005: Guys Gone Deep: M on Compersion, Staying Hard and DP01 Feb 202301:05:02

Guys Gone Deep is a regular series of Girls Gone Deep, in which Elle and Vee pick the brains of men in the lifestyle to get the male perspective.  In this episode, the girls go deep with Elle’s husband, M, and nothing is off limits! Their conversation covers:


How they got into ethical non-monogamy, learning from roadblocks, forgiving yourself, and how exploring new things with your partner builds a foundation of trust. (00:47)


How the lifestyle has affected his relationship with himself and how it has increased his confidence. (13:24)


Getting hard: what he’s learned about getting and staying hard in sexual situations. (15:30)


The girls revisit the advice they would give themselves when starting consensual non monogamy, and M talks about why he wouldn’t give himself any advice at all. (27:05)


DP (Double Penetration): Is it considered DP if it’s not two human dicks? Elle shares her New Years intentions progress with anal and double penetration, and M shares his insights and what’s so hot about being one of the men involved in DP.  (32:58)


Compersion: what it is, when M and Elle first experienced it together, how trust is achieved, and how compersion and jealousy can exist simultaneously. (39:29)


Deep throating: to gag or not to gag? Gag reflexes, power play, and whether it’s necessary to deep throat to give a good blow job. (54:49)


M’s deepest takeaways of his experience of being a man in the lifestyle. (1:02:10)

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004: Lifestyle Vacations: Lifestyle vs. Vanilla Resorts, and Playing with Couples who are on the Same Page25 Jan 202300:43:17

Vee tells Elle about her vacation with a lifestyle events company.  They talk about resorts, takeovers, and what they’re like, including Temptations in Mexico and Hedonism in Jamaica. (00:38)

The differences between vacations at traditional vanilla resorts, and how you meet more people on lifestyle vacations. (12:58)

Setting intentions for a lifestyle vacation: Vee wanting to get more comfortable with women, channeling her inner Elle, and prioritizing play over partying. (16:20)

Takeaways from playing with couples who are on a different part of their lifestyle journey, Elle's tactic to help transition from friendly flirtation into a sexual vibe, using WHOREible Life as an icebreaker/way to transition into play time. (26:46)

The benefits and fun of playing with a couple that's on the same page as you and your partner.  (34:52)



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131: So You Got Cheated On… Now What? Can You Rebuild Trust? With Britton & Carolee of Magical Story of Us24 Jul 202501:18:22

In this episode, Britton and Carolee Beckham crack open the raw truth of what it really takes to heal after infidelity. From betrayal to breakthrough, they share the messy, brave journey of rebuilding trust, rediscovering themselves, and confronting the emotional landmines of marriage, family, and faith. With vulnerability at the center, they unpack the weight of growing up Mormon, why they chose to leave, and how that choice became part of their transformation. This isn’t just about cheating—it’s about what happens when your entire belief system gets flipped, and you choose to fight for something deeper.


Raising Children With New Parenting Style  00:00 

Magical Story of Us: Mormon to Free to Courage to Change  07:35 

Who Cheated? Steps Taken in and out of Mormon Church Begin Rebuilding Trust 13:35 

Coming Clean to How Will I Survive After This? 24:36 

Breaking Free from Mormon Church: Doors Closed and Others Opened 35:09 

Breaking Down Societal Norms and Realizing Old Programming 41:20 

Radical Honesty And Facing Fear: The Key to Connection 47:58  

Navigating the Aftermath: The Decision to Repair, Rituals of Letting Go and New Beginnings  54:33 

Implementing Radical Honesty 01:00:00 

Shadow Work and Manifestation: Are they the same thing?  01:05:33 

Courses and Offerings for Transformation 01:13:12 


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003: New Years Intentions: Sexual, Personal, Professional, and Fuckit Lists19 Jan 202300:42:25

Elle and Vee catch up in the beginning of a new year to fill each other in on their holidays and set some personal, professional, and sexual intentions for 2023.  They cover everything including:


Multiple orgasms: Elle reaches a new personal record, how the intensity of their orgasms change depending on substances, number of orgasms, and mental state.  (00:44)


New Years Intentions: the difference between resolutions and intentions.  (12:22)


Elle’s professional intentions to say yes to everything. (14:15)


Personal Intentions: when to say no versus when to say yes; setting energetic boundaries; how to divide your week healthily between yourself, your friends, your partner, your family, etc. (17:10)


Sexual intentions: “get out of your head and into your body with someone else”; prioritizing sex over substances; experiencing DP (double penetration); anal exploration, from anal training to DP to pegging. (26:35)


Vee’s sex party recap; compersion and how watching your partner doing their thing can be such a turn on; the differences between Elle and Vee and their “norms” with their partnersat sex parties. (34:22)

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002: Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) Part 2: Authenticity, Boundaries and Honesty18 Jan 202300:45:37

Elle and Vee take another dive into non-monogamous relationships (consensual non-monogamy) and share nuggets they have learned, including answering the questions:


How has practicing consensual non-monogamy allowed them to live their most authentic lives? (0:59)


Is there anything they wish they could've told themselves when they first started out in the lifestyle? (12:33)


What are some of the bumps and roadblocks that can arise in ENM relationships, dealing with jealousy and how Vee learned to work through it.  (20:09)


What are boundaries, what boundaries do Vee and Elle practice in their own relationships, and how to articulate boundaries with your partner. (27:50)


Negative experiences they've observed when ENM couples blur the lines of ENM and lose trust, and the importance of transparency and honest communication.  (35:41)


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001: Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) Part 1: Self-Love, Jealousy, and Communication18 Jan 202300:38:48

Elle and Vee have their weekly catchup on all things lifestyle and self-love, including:


-The importance of checking in with themselves and honoring what they feel in any given moment or relationship.


-What is ethical non-monogamy (aka consensual non-monogamy) and how they define it. (5:07)


-How Elle and Vee discovered ENM, how they practice ENM in their partnerships, and their early experiences with it. (6:18)


-What fears and uncomfortable feelings that can come up with the prospect of their partner being with other partners, how they work through the jealousy or anxiety, and the tools that they've developed in their relationships that make it work smoothly. (17:15)


-How they communicate about their lifestyle with their vanilla friends, and how their friendships evolve over the years with like-minded people. (27:10)


-How being in an open relationship has changed their relationships with themselves, self love, and honoring themselves and their own wants and desires.  (30:28)


-The importance of communication in the lifestyle, going at the pace of the slowest partner, and getting curious about pushing yourself beyond your normal instincts. (34:20)

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