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294. SOUND BITE – Hope, Trust, and the Leaders Who Are Coming11 Jun 202600:06:57

After my conversation with Sheryl Robinson in Episode 293, I found myself sitting with an unexpected feeling:

Hope.

Not because everything is suddenly okay.

Not because the challenges facing our communities have disappeared.

And not because the future comes with guarantees.

Instead, I found myself wondering:

What exactly is hope?

Is it optimism?

Is it trust?

Or is it something else entirely?


In This Sound Bite

In this Sound Bite, I reflect on the work of Brené Brown and psychologist C.R. Snyder, whose research suggests that hope is not simply an emotion but a way of thinking—one that involves goals, pathways, and agency.

I also explore the connection between hope and trust, why it's easy to focus on what's declining as we grow older, and the question that stayed with me after talking with Sheryl:

What's still growing?

What if hope isn't about ignoring reality?

What if hope is seeing evidence that people are still learning how to care, contribute, and lead?

And what if trust is what allows us to invest in that future?

  • Hope versus optimism
  • The difference between hope and trust
  • Brené Brown's discussion of Hope Theory
  • Why agency matters
  • What gives us confidence in future generations
  • The leadership lessons hidden inside the Girl Scout Gold Award
  • Why "The leaders are coming" became my takeaway from Episode 293

Inspired By

Episode 293:

🎙️ "Hearts of Gold: How the Girl Scout Gold Award Builds Leaders for Life with Sheryl Robinson"

Watch on YouTube:

Episode 293 with Sheryl Robinson

Or wherever you catch your podcasts.


About Sheryl Robinson

Sheryl Robinson is an author, podcaster, speaker, and leadership advocate who helps teens and young adults discover their gifts, talents, and abilities while creating meaningful change in their communities.

She is the creator of the Hearts of Gold podcast and the Hearts of Gold book series, which share stories of Girl Scout Gold Award recipients from across the country. The series is designed to help young people develop leadership skills, identify root causes, and create lasting impact.

Learn more:

Sheryl Robinson Website

Hearts of Gold Podcast & Resources

Free Resources Available:

  • Root Cause Guide
  • Volunteering Guide

Both are available through the Hearts of Gold website.


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293. Girl Scout Gold Award: Building the Next Generation of Leaders 09 Jun 202600:22:05

What gives you hope for the future?

In this inspiring episode, Yo Canny sits down with Sheryl Robinson—author, podcaster, speaker, and longtime Girl Scout volunteer—to explore how the Girl Scout Gold Award helps young women develop confidence, leadership skills, and the belief that they can make a difference in the world.

As a troop leader for more than 20 years and a member of the Girl Scouts of Wisconsin Badgerland Council's Highest Awards Committee, Sheryl has witnessed firsthand the transformation that occurs when young women take on meaningful community challenges and lead sustainable solutions.

Inspired by the remarkable Gold Award Girl Scouts she has mentored, Sheryl launched the Hearts of Gold Podcast, interviewing Gold Award recipients from around the world. She has now adapted those stories into the Hearts of Gold book series, helping middle school students discover their own gifts, talents, and ability to create positive change.

Together, Yo and Sheryl discuss what the Gold Award is, why it matters, and how young women are developing the skills, confidence, and resilience needed to become the next generation of leaders.


In This Episode You'll Learn:

  • What the Girl Scout Gold Award is and why it is considered the highest achievement in Girl Scouting
  • How identifying root causes leads to more meaningful and sustainable solutions
  • Why leadership is developed through action, not just instruction
  • The importance of moving from managing to mentoring
  • How asking questions can be more powerful than providing answers
  • Why volunteering helps young people develop confidence and purpose
  • How one young woman's Gold Award project helped transform feelings of cultural isolation into belonging and connection

Key Takeaways

✨ Leadership grows through experience.

✨ Confidence comes from tackling challenges and seeing them through.

✨ Great mentors guide with questions rather than answers.

✨ Young people thrive when given ownership, responsibility, and support.

✨ The next generation is already learning how to lead—and that gives us reason for hope.


What Sheryl Would Tell Her 20-Something Self

"Stay open and flexible. Life's going to take you different places than you plan. That's where the growth happens."


About Sheryl Robinson

Sheryl Robinson is an author, podcaster, coach, and speaker helping teens and young adults discover their unique gifts, talents, and abilities so they can create a plan to achieve their dreams.

She holds a Master of Arts in Servant Leadership from Viterbo University and has been involved with Girl Scouts for more than 25 years. Her passion for supporting high school Girl Scouts pursuing their Gold Award inspired the creation of the Hearts of Gold podcast, YouTube channel, and book series showcasing young women from across the country who have earned Girl Scouting's highest award.


Connect with Sheryl

Website:
https://sherylmrobinson.com

Email:
heartsofgoldpodcast@gmail.com

Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/sherylmrobinson/

Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/sherylmrobinson/

LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/sherylmrobinson/

YouTube:
https://www.youtube.com/c/sherylmrobinson


Free Resources

Visit Sheryl's website for:

  • Root Cause Guide
  • Volunteering Guide
  • Resources for youth and adults supporting young leaders


Hearts of Gold Book Series

The Hearts of Gold series shares real stories and leadership lessons inspired by Girl Scout Gold Award recipients. Through themes such as Inclusion, Advocacy, STEM, Health, Community, Creative Voice, and Earth Guardians, readers learn how to identify problems, uncover root causes, and create meaningful change.


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293. SOUND BITES | Your Worth Was Never the Problem A Reflection Inspired by Ep 292 with Marisa Handler04 Jun 202600:05:54

What happens when the way we've measured our importance no longer fits our lives?

In this first Girl, Take the Lead! Sound Bite, I reflect on a question that surfaced after my conversation with Marisa Handler:

If I am no longer defined by my title, accomplishments, or responsibilities, what makes me important?

After 42 years in corporate leadership, retirement invited me into a different kind of impact—one measured less by titles and achievements and more by conversations, creativity, relationships, and contribution.

Yet I found myself wrestling with an uncomfortable question:

Do I still matter?

In this reflection, I explore the difference between achievement and worthiness, why comparison can reveal deeper beliefs, and what it means to create a new definition of significance in this stage of life.


In This Sound Bite:

• Why gratitude and worthiness are not the same thing

• The hidden challenge many high-achieving women face after retirement

• How comparison can reveal old beliefs about success and importance

• Why achievement and worthiness are often confused

• The question: "Who am I when there's nothing left to prove?"

• Creating a new definition of significance and contribution


Reflection Questions for You:

Have you ever found yourself using an old definition of success to measure your value?

What might change if your worth was never tied to your accomplishments in the first place?


Inspired By:

Episode 292. From Shame to Worthiness: Living Your Creative Genius with Marisa Handler

Watch or listen:
https://youtu.be/XRSANQJ0l6k


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Thank you for joining me for this first Sound Bite.

These shorter reflections are designed for moments when you want insight but don't have time for a full conversation.

Until next time—

Listen inward.
Lead outward.


292. From Shame to Worthiness: Living Your Creative Genius with Marisa Handler02 Jun 202600:40:50

What if the shame you've been carrying isn't evidence that you're broken—but an invitation to discover your worth?

In this deeply moving conversation, award-winning author, poet, singer-songwriter, and creative coach Marisa Handler joins Girl, Take the Lead! to explore authenticity, creativity, leadership, and the journey from shame to a deeper sense of worthiness.

She is the author of Loyal to the Sky (Nautilus Gold Award) and the forthcoming Sanctuary.

Marisa shares her personal story of growing up in apartheid South Africa, immigrating to the United States, and navigating what she describes as a "dark night of the soul" that ultimately transformed her understanding of belonging, creativity, and self-worth.

Together, we explore how fear, grief, anger, and shame can become unexpected guides on the path back to ourselves. We also discuss why creativity is essential to leadership, how women can stop performing their lives and start living them, and why our worth was never something we had to earn.

Along the way, Marisa shares her beautiful poem Grace and treats us to a live excerpt from her song Seed and Star.


What Marisa Would Tell Her 20-Something Self

If you've ever found yourself striving to be impressive instead of being fully yourself, Marisa's wisdom offers a gentle invitation to come home—to your creativity, your voice, and your worthiness.

Because perhaps the path forward isn't about becoming someone new.

It's about remembering who you've been all along.


In This Episode, We Discuss:

• What it means to stop performing and start living authentically

• Why fear is often the doorway to growth and transformation

• How anger can reveal boundaries that need a voice

• Grief as a pathway back to belonging

• The hidden role shame plays in keeping us small

• Moving from shame to a deeper sense of worthiness

• Why creativity and leadership are deeply connected

• Trusting your intuition and creative process

• The difference between being impressive and being real

• Grace, authenticity, and living from your full aliveness

• A live excerpt from Marisa's song Seed and Star

"Stop trying to be impressive. Start trying to be real."


About Marisa Handler

Marisa Handler is an award-winning author, prize-winning poet, singer-songwriter, and creative coach whose work lives at the intersection of personal transformation and collective awakening.

A Fulbright Fellow and Iowa Writers' Workshop alumna, she has worked with thousands of people through her coaching practice, retreats, and teachings at Spirit Rock, Esalen, Stanford, and Gaia House, as well as through her signature program, Live Your Creative Genius.

If you're ready to stop playing small and step into the fullest, most luminous version of yourself, Marisa is your guide.


Connect with Marisa Handler

Website
www.marisahandler.com

Creative Archetypes Quiz (Free)
Discover your unique creative style and gifts:
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Live Your Creative Genius
Learn more about Marisa's signature transformational coaching program:
https://marisahandler.com/lycg/

Complimentary Unleash Your Creative Genius Breakthrough Session
Apply for a free breakthrough session (valued at $300):
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LinkedIn
https://www.linkedin.com/in/marisa-handler/

Facebook
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@marisasings


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291. Can AI Lighten the Heaviness? with Dawn Andrews27 May 202600:36:08

What if AI wasn’t about replacing people… but helping us carry less?

In this thought-provoking and surprisingly human conversation, Dawn Andrews joins Yo to explore the emotional side of AI, leadership, creativity, and the mental load so many of us carry every day.

Dawn is the Founder & CEO of Free Range Thinking, a boutique business strategy consultancy helping entrepreneurs and leaders build smarter, more sustainable systems without sacrificing themselves in the process. She’s also the host of the She's That Founder podcast and creator of the Female Leadership Accelerator.


Together, Yo and Dawn unpack:

  • why AI can feel both exciting and overwhelming
  • the invisible “mental load” many women carry
  • how AI can support creativity instead of replacing it
  • why discernment and human leadership still matter
  • the generational differences in AI adoption
  • how AI can help lighten the heaviness of work and life
  • the importance of curiosity, boundaries, and staying human in a rapidly changing world

One powerful takeaway from the episode:

“AI informs. You decide.”

Whether you’re AI-curious, already using tools like ChatGPT, or simply wondering how to navigate change without losing yourself in the process, this episode offers a grounded and hopeful perspective.


⏱️ Timestamps

0:00 – Welcome & Dawn’s background in leadership and strategy1:27 – Why AI feels exciting…and overwhelming4:16 – The fear of AI replacing jobs6:09 – Using AI for podcasting, creativity & discernment9:03 – How to make AI challenge your thinking13:15 – AI, mental health & emotional support17:00 – Dawn’s favorite AI tools right now20:20 – Multi-agent workflows & saving time23:09 – “What would you do with the time back?”25:29 – Boundaries, burnout & staying human28:28 – Curiosity, play & not trying to “keep up”30:20 – What Dawn would tell her 20-something self32:14 – “Drop the shame” around using AI


Connect with Dawn Andrews

🌐 Website: dawnandrews.com💼 LinkedIn Community: AI for Founders📧 Email: dandrews@freerangethinking.com🎙️ Podcast: She's That Founder📱 Instagram: @freerangethinking | @shesthatfounder


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290. Shattering the Mirror — What Breaks Can Also Heal with Lena Fein20 May 202600:44:39

Welcome back to Girl, Take the Lead! — the podcast where we explore leadership, healing, identity, and the stories that help us reclaim our voice and lead with intention.

In this deeply moving episode, Yo welcomes author Lena Fein to talk about her memoir, Shattering the Mirror, and the healing journey that unfolded after a lifetime of living behind distorted beliefs formed through childhood trauma.

Lena shares how achievement, perfectionism, and high performance became her armor — and how, later in life, she began peeling back the layers to rediscover her true self, her voice, and her heart.


Together, Yo and Lena explore:
✨ Healing in layers over time
✨ Moving from survival to wholeness
✨ Reclaiming the parts of ourselves we left behind
✨ Releasing shame and self-rejection
✨ Finding courage to tell our stories
✨ Learning to surrender instead of holding on so tightly
✨ The connection between voice, breath, heart, and healing
✨ Why healing and authentic self-expression are possible at any age


Lena also shares one of the original songs that became part of her healing journey and reclaiming of her voice.


💡 In this episode:

  • The metaphor behind Shattering the Mirror
  • How trauma shaped Lena’s self-worth and identity
  • Why achievement became survival
  • The role of somatics, singing, dancing, and writing in healing
  • Recording her audiobook and reclaiming her voice
  • Seeing both the loving and painful sides of her parents
  • Why mature women are resonating deeply with her memoir
  • What Lena would tell her 20-something self today
  • “Blessing the moment instead of cursing the moment”


🎧 Timestamps:
00:00 Welcome & introduction
01:30 What “Shattering the Mirror” means
03:00 Lena’s hope for readers and healing later in life
04:20 Achievement and perfectionism as protection
10:00 Reading her audiobook aloud and reclaiming her voice
15:30 The complicated relationship with her parents
20:00 The healing journey beyond writing
23:50 Singing, breath, and reclaiming her voice
27:00 Surrender and self-forgiveness
31:20 Why writing your story matters
35:30 What Lena would tell her 20-something self
37:45 “Blessing the moment instead of cursing the moment”
39:00 Lena’s butterfly card choice and brave wings metaphor


🦋 About Lena Fein:
Lena Fein lives in San Francisco and is a retired high-tech executive, nonprofit founder, artist, singer, dancer, and writer. Her memoir, Shattering the Mirror, explores her journey through childhood trauma toward freedom, clarity, authentic self-expression, and love.


🔗 Connect with Lena:
Website: https://shatteringthemirror.com
Book: https://www.amazon.com/Shattering-Mirror-Memoir-Lena-Fein/dp/B0FDX5R89C
Instagram: @lenafein.author
Facebook: Lena Fein
Contact: author.Lena.Fein@gmail.com


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289. What Do You Want? Reinvention, Gratitude & the Courage to Choose Yourself with Carmell Clark13 May 202600:44:52

What if the most important question in your life isn’t what should I do next… but: “What do I truly want?”

In this powerful and deeply reflective conversation, I’m joined by Carmell Clark, founder of the Center for Transformational Influence, executive coach, and global leader in advancing women’s leadership and sustainability.

Together, we explore what it really means to reinvent ourselves across life’s thresholds — from grief and loss to growth, purpose, and expansion.

This episode is a conversation about gratitude, conflict, identity, self-trust, and the courage it takes to choose yourself again and again through every stage of life.


🌿 What you’ll walk away with from this episode:

• A deeper understanding of why reinvention often begins with loss or change
• Insight into the emotional patterns that may be keeping you stuck
• A new perspective on conflict and why many women avoid it
• Encouragement to reconnect with your own desires, needs, and voice
• A reminder that healing, growth, and self-discovery are possible at every age and stage of life


💡 In this episode:

• Why reinvention is a path — not a quick answer
• How gratitude can become a healing force during difficult seasons
• The powerful question: “What do I want?”
• Why women often avoid conflict — and how to begin changing that
• Understanding emotional patterns: fear, obligation, guilt, and shame (FOGS)
• The difference between internal vs. external conflict
• How to carry your own sense of safety
• Why aging invites us to either expand or contract
• Letting go of external validation and reclaiming your voice
• The role of courage in becoming a pioneer in your own life


🌿 A few moments that stayed with me:

“Gratitude heals a broken heart.”

“Reinvention is a path.”

“I am the decider of my day.”

“We don’t have to sacrifice our lives to the expectations of others.”


👤 About Carmell Clark

Carmell Clark is the founder of the Center for Transformational Influence (CTI), a global organization focused on advancing leadership, sustainability, and gender equity across sectors.

With over 25 years of experience, Carmell has coached executives and professionals, launched women entrepreneurs, helped female-led businesses scale, and developed transformative leadership trainings for women across industries.

Through CTI, Carmell works globally with companies and entrepreneurs to create meaningful and sustainable change. She leads flagship programs, takes influencers on international adventures, and works directly with executives and entrepreneurs navigating pivotal life and leadership transitions.

Currently based in Salt Lake City, Carmell lives a life of exploration — rock climbing, running RAGNAR races, traveling internationally, and creating large-scale abstract oil paintings.


🔗 Connect with Carmell

🌐 www.carmellclark.com
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carmellclark/
📧 carmell@carmellclark.com


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288. Becoming Who You Are—Even as You Grow | Marques Ogden on Authenticity06 May 202600:40:35

A powerful conversation on authenticity, resilience, and rebuilding after rock bottom—why becoming who you are is a lifelong journey.

In this episode:

  • Living with authenticity—not perfection
  • From the Jacksonville Jaguars to losing everything—and rebuilding
  • Motivation vs. inspiration (and why it matters)
  • How ego can derail success—and what it takes to recover
  • Why rock bottom can become a turning point
  • The power of perseverance and resilience
  • Investing in yourself at every stage
  • Growing, evolving, and staying true to who you are

👤 About Marques Ogden:

Marques Ogden is a former NFL player, inspirational keynote speaker, founder and CEO of Ogden Ventures LLC, five-time best-selling author, business coach, and host of Get Authentic with Marques Ogden.

After facing a career-ending setback and losing nearly $3 million in a failed business venture, Marques rebuilt his life from the ground up—using his experiences to inspire leaders and teams worldwide.

He has delivered keynotes for over 90 Fortune 500 companies, including Amazon, Goldman Sachs, Intel, JPMorgan Chase, and Home Depot, and his story has been featured in USA Today, Forbes, Cheddar News, and Authority Magazine.

Marques empowers audiences to embrace challenges, grow through adversity, and turn setbacks into opportunities for success.


🎧 Timestamps:

00:02 – Welcome + introducing Marques Ogden03:00 – The Success Cycle: ambition, drive, and hard work07:45 – From NFL career to losing everything13:00 – Rock bottom and the wake-up call18:30 – Starting over and building a speaking career24:30 – Authenticity, failure, and self-belief30:30 – Mentorship, growth, and breaking through33:00 – What Marques would tell his 20-something self


🌱 Key Takeaways:

  1. Authenticity isn’t fixed—it evolves as you do.
  2. Your setbacks are not the end of your story.
  3. Investing in yourself is always worth it.


💬 Favorite Quote:

“Authenticity is knowing who you are—even as you grow.”


🔗 Connect with Marques:

  • Website: https://www.marcusogden.com
  • Podcast: Get Authentic with Marques Ogden
  • Email: Marcus@MarcusOgden.com

Want to go deeper into Marques’ framework for success?

The Success Cycle: Three Keys to Achieving Your Goals in Business and Life

📘 Marques’ Book:👉 https://www.amazon.com/Success-Cycle-Achieving-Goals-Business/dp/B08CVTDWV8



🎤 Upcoming Speaking Engagements:

If you’re inspired by Marques’ journey and want to experience his work live:

  • Global Scrum Gathering
    📍 Vancouver, BC | 📅 May 3–4, 2026
    From Locker Room to Boardroom: Building Agile Teams That Win Together
  • Big I New York Conference
    📍 Syracuse, NY | 📅 May 4–5, 2026
    How To Make The CEO Mindset Shift to Achieve Maximum Success in Business
  • MassMutual Sales Summit
    📍 Boston, MA | 📅 May 20–21, 2026
    The Road to the Summit: Elevating Your Success in Sales


🌸 A Note from Me:

This conversation reminded me that becoming who we are isn’t something we do once—it’s something we return to again and again.

There are moments in life when everything we’ve built shifts… and we’re asked to begin again. Marques’s story is a powerful reminder that those moments aren’t the end—they’re an invitation.

To grow.To realign.To become even more of who we truly are.


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287. After the Moment — What Stayed With Me: Confidence, Connection & Love (Part 3)29 Apr 202600:15:42

What happens after the moment you’ve been preparing for?

In this deeply personal solo episode, I’m reflecting on what stayed with me after my daughter’s wedding—and how the experience brought together a lifetime of growth, healing, and self-discovery.

What I didn’t expect was just how present I could be…
not managing, not controlling… but truly in it.

This episode is about what remains when everything settles—
and how those insights can shape how we move forward.


🎧 The Series: At the Threshold

If you’re just joining, this is part of a 3-part series created during this meaningful life moment:

  • Episode 285: The Good Daughter — Where It Begins👉 https://youtu.be/WtQ20qsLf04
  • Episode 286: The Quiet Grief We Carry👉 https://youtu.be/sXDRydYO_-w
  • Episode 287: After the Moment — What Stayed With Me (this episode)

(All episodes are also available wherever you catch your podcasts.)


💛 In This Episode:

  • A redefinition of confidence as self-trust—not control
  • How connection shows up in small, present moments
  • A new understanding of love as allowing, not managing
  • The deeper realization that our life experiences prepare us for these moments
  • Letting go of what went wrong—and reconnecting with what went right


✨ 3 Takeaways

👉 Confidence is self-trust.
Not about being in charge—but about knowing you can handle what comes.

👉 Connection comes from presence.
Not from managing or performing—but from simply being there.

👉 Love is allowing.
When we release control, we open ourselves to experiencing more of it.


🌿 A Deeper Reflection

This moment wasn’t just about one day…

It was about a lifetime of growth—
healing family patterns, moving through loss, practicing forgiveness, and learning to let go.

And what stayed with me most was this:

A deep knowing that my daughters will be okay.
That they are strong, supported, and surrounded by love.

And that everything I’ve worked through… made it possible for me to be fully present to witness it.


💭 For You

What has stayed with you… after a moment that mattered?

And what might shift if you focused not just on what went wrong…
but on what went right?


🔜 Coming Next

Next week, I’ll be joined by Marques Ogden.

After a career-ending injury and losing nearly $3 million in a failed business venture, Marques rebuilt his life from the ground up. Today, he helps leaders grow through adversity and show up more authentically.

After everything we’ve explored in this series, his story offers a powerful next step—how we move forward with what we’ve learned.


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286. The Quiet Grief We Carry: Identity, Loss & Letting Go - At the Threshold Series (Part 2)22 Apr 202600:15:34

Welcome back to Girl, Take the Lead!—where we explore leadership not just in our work, but in the moments that shape who we are.

This episode is part of my 3-part series, At the Threshold, created during a deeply personal time as I prepare for my daughter’s wedding.

And what I didn’t expect to surface in this moment… was grief.

Not just grief as loss—but grief as change.
As identity.
As what we carry forward.


💛 Why This Episode Matters

Weddings are often seen as purely joyful occasions.

But what I’m discovering is that they can also bring forward something quieter… more layered.

  • Reflections on who we’ve been
  • Awareness of what’s shifting
  • Emotions we may not have fully named

So for this episode, I’ve curated moments from past conversations—each one offering insight into grief, healing, identity, and letting go.

Think of this as an episode to keep nearby—especially when you find yourself in a moment that feels emotionally charged or unexpectedly vulnerable.


🎧 In This Episode, We Explore:

  • Why grief can show up alongside joy
  • The concept of ancestral grief and what we inherit
  • How to name and reframe emotional patterns
  • The connection between grief and identity
  • Letting go of control and releasing what isn’t ours to carry

✨ 3 Takeaways

👉 Grief doesn’t only show up in loss—it shows up in change.
In shifting roles, evolving identities, and meaningful life transitions.

👉 Not all grief is ours alone.
Some of what we carry comes from family patterns and inherited experiences.

👉 We don’t have to hold onto everything.
When we question, name, and release what isn’t ours, we create space for clarity and choice.


🎥 Featured Conversations

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💭 A Reflection for You

What might you be carrying…that isn’t fully yours?

And what might become possibleif you allowed yourself to release it?


🔜 Coming Next

In the final episode of this series, I’ll share what actually happened…
and what I learned walking through this experience in real time.


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285. The Good Daughter — When Pleasing Hurts At the Threshold Series (Pt 1)15 Apr 202600:21:25

This episode is part of a special 3-part series I’m calling At the Threshold—a real-time reflection on what this season of life is bringing up for me as I prepare for my daughter’s wedding.

And what surprised me most… was how much it brought me back to my own experience as a daughter.


💛 Why This Episode Matters Now

As I look back on my own wedding, I can see how much of it was shaped by my desire to be the good daughter.

The one who keeps the peace.The one who makes things easier for everyone else.The one who doesn’t rock the boat.

At the time, I didn’t have language for it.But now… I can see the pattern clearly.


🎧 In This Episode, We Explore:

In this episode, I revisit my conversation with Kathryn Fabrizio, author of The Good Daughter Syndrome, and share a curated set of moments that helped me understand:

  • Where this pattern begins
  • Why it feels so hard to change
  • And what it looks like to begin letting it go
  • How the “good daughter” role is formed early in life
  • Why guilt is often the strongest emotion keeping us stuck
  • The connection between people-pleasing and emotional safety
  • Why setting boundaries can feel so overwhelming
  • The powerful reframe: the opposite of a good daughter isn’t a bad daughter—it’s becoming your own person

✨ 3 Takeaways to Reflect On

👉 1. The good daughter role often begins as a way to feel safe and loved.
It’s not something we consciously choose—it’s something we learn.

👉 2. Guilt is often the signal that something is shifting.
Especially when we begin to consider setting boundaries or doing things differently.

👉 3. The real work is becoming your own person.
Not abandoning relationships—but showing up with awareness, clarity, and choice.


🎥 Watch the Full Original Conversation

If you’d like to watch the full, unedited episode with Kathryn Fabrizio, you can find it here:

👉 https://youtu.be/DzxYJwLPCbo


💭 A Reflection for You

As you listen, I invite you to consider:

Where might you still be playing the role of the good daughter…
and what might be ready to change?


🔜 Coming Next

In Part 2 of this series, I explore something I didn’t expect to show up in this moment—grief.

Not just grief as loss… but grief as change, identity, and what we carry forward.


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284. When Pushing Through Becomes Breaking — Rethinking Burnout with Lynn Blades08 Apr 202600:36:10

What if burnout isn’t something that suddenly happens to us…
but something that quietly builds over time?

In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, I sit down with executive leadership coach and author Lynn Blades to explore what she calls “The Quiet Burn”—the slow, invisible erosion of energy, identity, and self-worth that so many women experience.

Drawing from both her personal experience and her work with global leaders, Lynn shares how the constant pressure to prove ourselves, push through, and “hold it all together” can eventually lead us to break.

This episode is an invitation to pause…
to notice the signs…
and to rethink what we’ve been taught about strength, success, and sustainability.


✨ In This Episode, We Explore:

  • Why burnout doesn’t happen overnight—it builds quietly over time
  • The powerful “burnt toast” metaphor and how it reflects our lived experience
  • The progression from stress → overwhelm → burnout
  • Why “pushing through” is often what leads us to break
  • The hidden cost of constantly proving our worth
  • Why rest is not something we have to earn
  • How guilt, shame, and fear keep us stuck in over-functioning
  • Reframing self-worth beyond productivity and external validation
  • Why confidence is contagious—and how it impacts everyone around us


🎥 Cultural Reference from the Episode

During our conversation, we referenced the iconic Enjoli commercial — a moment that many women will remember, and others may be hearing about for the first time.

It’s a powerful example of how cultural messaging shaped expectations around women “doing it all” — often without question.

Take a look here:
👉 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N_kzJ-f5C9U


💬 A Few Moments You’ll Want to Sit With:

“If you normalize overwhelm, burnout isn’t a risk—it’s an outcome.”

“Rest doesn’t have to be earned.”

“No is a beautiful word.”

“There is no one more deserving of your own rescue than yourself.”

“Confidence is contagious.”


🌿 About Lynn Blades

Lynn Blades is the inspirational founder of Legacy Leadership, an executive coaching consultancy dedicated to fostering a diverse and inclusive 21st-century workforce.

As a distinguished Marshall Goldsmith Executive Coach with over two decades of experience, Lynn has guided leaders across industries—from finance and law to tech, media, and luxury—working with global organizations including Nike, KPMG, British Airways, Royal Bank of Canada, Sony Music, BBC, and Warner Bros.

Before her coaching career, Lynn was an award-winning journalist working with major international networks such as CBS, CNN, CNBC, BBC, ITV, Viacom, and Showtime.

She is also a champion for the next generation of female leaders, hosting leadership summits and retreats designed to build confidence, capability, and community.

Her bestselling book, The Quiet Burn, brings together her professional expertise and personal experience to help women recognize burnout early—and reclaim their energy, agency, and worth.


🔗 Connect with Lynn

  • Website: www.lynnblades.com
  • Email: contact@lynnblades.com
  • Instagram & Facebook: @execcoachblades

📰 Subscribe to her newsletter: The Power Play — featuring female leaders across industries

🌍 Upcoming Retreat:
Tune Out, Tune In Retreat for High Performing Women
📍 Corfu, Greece | June 4–8


💛 Final Thought

This conversation is an invitation to pause…to notice…and to ask yourself:

Where am I pushing through… when what I really need is to stop?

And what might change if instead of proving your worth…
you chose to protect your energy?


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283. Sisters, Secrets, and the Stories That Shape Us with Leslie A. Rasmussen01 Apr 202600:30:02

Families carry stories — some we share openly and others that remain hidden for years.

In this episode of Girl, Take the Lead!, Yo Canny sits down with award-winning author Leslie A. Rasmussen to talk about her latest novel, When People Leave, and the powerful role family relationships play in shaping who we become.

Leslie’s newest book follows three sisters who return to their childhood home after the unexpected loss of their mother. As they search for answers, they uncover long-held family secrets and discover how differently each of them processes the same experience.

In their conversation, Yo and Leslie explore the complexity of sibling relationships, the emotional layers of family dynamics, and how storytelling can help us better understand our lives.

Leslie also shares her fascinating career journey — from writing television comedies for stars like Roseanne Barr, Burt Reynolds, Norm Macdonald, and Drew Carey, to becoming an award-winning novelist whose stories explore identity, family bonds, and the resilience we discover in life’s most difficult moments.

At the heart of the episode is a reminder that the stories we tell — and the ones we uncover — shape how we see ourselves and each other.


In This Episode You'll Learn About:

  • How sibling relationships influence the way we experience life’s challenges
  • Why family secrets often shape our understanding of the past
  • How storytelling can help us process complex emotions
  • The importance of community and connection during life’s transitions
  • Leslie’s journey from Hollywood television writer to award-winning novelist
  • Why following your creative passion sometimes requires taking risks

Leslie A. Rasmussen

Leslie A. Rasmussen is an award-winning author and former television comedy writer who has written for well-known comedians and shows including Gerald McRaney, Burt Reynolds, Roseanne Barr, Norm Macdonald, Drew Carey, The Wild Thornberrys, and Sweet Valley High.

Born and raised in Los Angeles, Leslie graduated from UCLA before launching her career in television writing.

After stepping away from the entertainment industry to raise her two sons, she earned a master’s degree in nutrition and ran her own business for ten years. During that time, she continued writing humorous essays and has been published more than twenty times in the Huffington Post.

Leslie is the author of three novels:

  • After Happily Ever After — winner of more than fifteen awards
  • The Stories We Cannot Tell — winner of eleven awards and featured on NPR and XM radio
  • When People Leave — released in May 2025

She frequently speaks on panels about female empowerment and is a member of the Writers Guild of America, Women in Film, and the UCLA Alumni Association.

Leslie lives in Southern California with her husband and two sons.


Memorable Moments from the Episode


On family dynamics

“Sisters can argue, tease each other, and still know that the bond between them will always be there.”

On storytelling

“Fiction can help people see themselves in the characters and feel less alone.”

On life’s unexpected paths

“You never know where your life is going to end up.”


Leslie’s Advice to Her 20-Something Self


“Keep writing, follow your passion, and take more risks. Even if you fail, you might succeed.”



Connect with Leslie A. Rasmussen

Website
https://www.lesliearasmussen.com

Listeners can purchase signed copies of Leslie’s novels directly through her website.

Email
Leslie@Lesliearasmussen.com

Facebook
https://www.facebook.com/lesliearasmussenauthor

Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/leslierauthor

TikTok
https://www.tiktok.com/@leslieauthor



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Reflection Question

What stories from your family have shaped who you are today?

282. Energizing Your Happiness & Writing Your Outcome with Michele Phillips25 Mar 202600:39:08

What if happiness wasn’t something we waited for—but something we could intentionally energize?

In this episode of Girl, Take the Lead!, Yo welcomes back Michele Phillips, leadership coach, speaker, and author, who first appeared on the podcast in Episode 130.

Since then, Michele has continued her mission of helping individuals and organizations shift from operating on adrenaline to alignment—a powerful shift that brings greater clarity, energy, and purpose to work and life.

As President of Key Performance, Michele has spent more than two decades working with leaders around the world to help them harness their personal energy and create meaningful results. Her work blends positive psychology, neuroscience, emotional intelligence, and habit science, offering practical tools for building sustainable happiness and performance.

In this conversation, Michele shares insights from her newest book:

Energize Your Happiness: Tap Into Personal Energy and Shape Your Destiny.

Together, Yo and Michele explore how beliefs shape our experiences, why managing our personal energy matters, and how each of us has more agency in shaping our lives than we may realize.

As Michele reminds us:

“You may not have written your beginning—but you get to write your outcome.”


A Memorable Moment

Early in her career, Michele once received feedback on a performance evaluation describing her as:

“Alarmingly enthusiastic.”

Instead of dimming that energy, Michele chose to embrace it—and today she teaches others how to manage and direct their energy rather than suppress it.



The Belief → Thought → Emotion → Action Connection

One of Michele’s powerful insights is how our internal beliefs shape the lives we experience.

She explains that our daily experiences often follow this pattern:

Beliefs → Thoughts → Emotions → Mood → Actions

When we question limiting beliefs and shift our perspective, we can change the entire chain—and ultimately our outcomes.


Michele’s Advice to Her 20-Something Self

“It’s not that serious. Stop the drama.”

Looking back, Michele says many of the worries that once felt overwhelming now seem far less significant.

More About Michele Phillips

Michele Phillips is the President of Key Performance and a globally recognized leadership coach, speaker, and author who helps individuals and organizations harness personal energy to create extraordinary outcomes.

In 2025, Michele celebrates 25 years in business, marking a career dedicated to transforming how people lead, live, and work—with intention, clarity, and joy.

Michele is the author of:

Happiness Is a Habit: Simple Daily Rituals That Increase Energy, Improve Well-Being, and Add Joy to Every Day

and her newest book:

Energize Your Happiness: Tap Into Personal Energy and Shape Your Destiny

She is also the host of the Write Your Outcome Podcast, where she interviews leaders and changemakers about the inner work behind meaningful success.


Connect with Michele

Website
https://key2unlock.com

Email
michele@key2unlock.com

Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/keyperformance/

LinkedIn

https://www.linkedin.com/in/michele-phillips-9409707/

Podcast
Write Your Outcome

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Inspired by Michele’s message, Yo created a special card featuring Michele’s quote:

“Remember, you may not have written your beginning, but you get to write your outcome.”



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Reflection Question

What belief might be quietly shaping how you see your life right now?

And what might change if you questioned whether that belief is actually true?


281. The Light Within Us: Healing Identity, Grief, and Belonging with Michelle Madrid18 Mar 202600:44:22

In this deeply moving conversation, Yolanda welcomes Michelle Madrid — author, speaker, and midlife coach for women — to Girl, Take the Lead!.

As a former foster child in the UK and an international adoptee, Michelle has spent a lifetime opening pathways toward her truest sense of identity and purpose. Today, she supports women navigating what she calls midlife grief — the quiet, often hidden grief that appears as life shifts: children leaving home, changing bodies, evolving relationships, and the question many women ask in midlife:

Who am I now?

Michelle believes midlife grief isn’t something to avoid or suppress. Instead, she describes it as:

“Love colliding with change.”

In this conversation, Yolanda and Michelle explore grief as a messenger — one that can guide us toward healing, identity, and reclaiming our voice.

Michelle also shares the inspiration behind her powerful framework UNBOX, a process she created to help women unpack suppressed emotions and reconnect with their aliveness as they step into the next version of who they’re here to be.

This episode is both deeply personal and universally relatable — touching on adoptee identity, people-pleasing, trauma responses, and the courage it takes to live from our authentic voice.

And it leaves us with a beautiful reminder:

“The light around us is great… but the light within us is greater.”


Timestamps

00:00 – Welcome & Michelle’s work supporting midlife women through hidden grief

02:24 – Yolanda reflects on grief and joy as her daughter prepares to marry

05:27 – Michelle’s definition of midlife grief: when love collides with change

09:18 – The hidden grief many adoptees carry and why emotions were often suppressed

20:19 – Limiting beliefs and the moment Michelle realized the baggage of others was never hers to carry

31:17 – From ache to action: the small steps that begin healing

36:04 – A powerful affirmation: “The light around us is great, but the light within us is greater.”


More About Michelle

Michelle Madrid is an author, speaker, and midlife coach for women. She also hosts the new podcast: Most Myself

Her work focuses on helping women navigate midlife grief — the quiet grief that accompanies life transitions such as empty nesting, changing bodies, shifting relationships, and identity changes.

Through her UNBOX framework, Michelle guides women in uncovering the emotions they’ve suppressed and reconnecting with their truth, voice, and next chapter.

She is the author of:

Let Us Be Greater — a book for any woman in midlife navigating identity, grief, and the adoptee experience.


Michelle also hosts the podcast:

Unboxed, Unburdened, Unstoppable


Coming in 2026!

Michelle recently launched a free monthly online group gathering called Midlife, Together. She has also launched a 4-week 1:1 coaching experience guiding women through her proven Ache to Action formula. Look for more ways to connect and work with Michelle, coming in 2026. Visit her website to stay informed. 

Website
themichellemadrid.com

Free tools available on her website.


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@themichellemadrid


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280. The Leadership Skill No One Teaches: Intuition 11 Mar 202600:49:59

What if one of the most important leadership skills… is the one we’re rarely taught to name?
In this episode, Yo Canny sits down with Jessica Pryce-Jones — executive coach and author — for a grounded, research-informed conversation on intuition as a legitimate leadership capability.
Jessica shares what she’s learned after 25 years in learning and leadership development, why intuition becomes more essential the higher you rise (including the striking insight that 99% of CEOs say they use it), and how to strengthen your “inner knowing” without slipping into bias, ego, or wishful thinking.
This conversation brings intuition out of the “woo-woo” category and into practical leadership language — including simple tools you can use immediately, like Jessica’s Yes/No body-based exercise and the surprising coin-flip method that reveals what you truly want.
________________________________
In This Episode, We Explore
*   What intuition really is: a “feeling of knowing”
*   Why leaders often hide intuition — and how to “reposition” it in corporate language
*   The research behind intuition and senior leadership (and why it’s critical for strategy)
*   The different forms of intuition, including:
   *   Expert intuition
   *   Non-expert intuition
   *   Moral intuition
   *   Temporal intuition (timing)
   *   Social intuition
   *   Team intuition
   *   Creative intuition
*   Why a positive mindset improves intuitive accuracy — and how stress shuts it down
*   How to recognize an intuitive leader (hint: it’s not “I have a hunch, do it my way”)
*   A practical way to identify your internal YES / NO signals
*   The “coin toss” technique that doesn’t rely on the coin — it reveals what you truly want
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Memorable Moments
*   “Intuition is a feeling of knowing.”
*   “If you’re not using your intuition, somebody else will be.”
*   “Intention is the action. Intuition is inaction — you open the door to see what comes in.”
*   “It’s not where the coin lands — it’s where you want it to land.”
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Jessica’s Tools You Can Try
The Yes / No Body Check
Jessica walks us through a simple exercise to learn what YES feels like in your body (lightness, openness, expansion) and what NO feels like (tightness, heaviness, contraction).
Over time, those physical cues become your personal decision signals.
The Coin Flip Technique
Toss a coin in your mind — not to follow the result, but to notice:
Where do you want the coin to land?
That instinctive preference often reveals what your intuition already knows.
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About Jessica Pryce-Jones
Jessica Pryce-Jones is an executive coach, speaker, and author who helps leaders strengthen intuition, emotional intelligence, and authentic leadership. Through her work, she supports professionals in making wiser decisions, building trust, and leading with greater clarity and impact.
Jessica is passionate about helping leaders reconnect with their inner guidance and develop the confidence to lead authentically in complex environments.
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Connect with Jessica Pryce-Jones
LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-pryce-jones/?originalSubdomain=uk
Books on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/Books-Jessica-Pryce-Jones/s?rh=n%3A283155%2Cp_27%3AJessica%2BPryce-Jones
Email:
jess@jessicapryce-jones.com
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Your Turn
When have you known something — but talked yourself out of it?
And what might change if you treated intuition as a skill you can strengthen, instead of something you either “have” or don’t?

279. Reputation, Relationships & Results — The Power of Professional Equity04 Mar 202600:42:20

How women leaders build influence that lasts

Welcome back to Girl, Take the Lead! — the podcast where we explore stories of reinvention, resilience, and the courage it takes to lead lives that break old cycles and create new possibilities.

Today’s guest brings clarity, strategy, and grounded leadership wisdom to a powerful conversation about influence, visibility, and career ownership.

Meet Dr. Karen Hills Pruden — CEO of Pruden Global Business Solutions Consulting (PGBSC), bestselling author (30+ publications), global leadership speaker, and creator of the Professional Equity framework. With over 30 years of experience spanning corporate leadership and entrepreneurship — including 17+ years in senior leadership and the C-suite — Dr. Pruden has built a career rooted in service, strategy, and measurable results.

But what truly stands out is her belief that influence isn’t accidental — it’s built.

In this candid conversation, Dr. Pruden joins Yo to explore how reputation, relationships, and area expertise create professional equity — and how women leaders can leverage that equity to elevate their careers without waiting to be chosen.

Whether you’re navigating corporate leadership, preparing for your next promotion, pivoting your goals, or building influence inside your organization, this episode offers practical insight and empowering perspective.


🌟 In This Episode, Dr. Karen & Yo Explore:

💛 Why relationships — not transactions — are true leadership currency
🧭 The difference between management (tasks) and leadership (vision)
🫶 How to build relationships up and down the chain of command
👁️ Why “silence is not a superpower” for women leaders
🌱 The power of mentorship — including hiring the right mentor
🛠️ The Professional Equity (PE) Framework: Reputation, Relationships & Area Expertise
💎 “You are the pilot of your career — not the co-pilot.”
🧡 How to speak about your wins without apology
🔄 Navigating difficult bosses without losing your power
🌬 Why experience — not AI — remains a leader’s greatest asset


👩‍🦰 What Dr. Karen Would Tell Her 20-Something Self

“Don’t be so goal-oriented that you won’t remove a goal that no longer serves you.”

After pursuing law school simply to complete a lifelong goal, Dr. Pruden realized that growth sometimes means pivoting — even when the goal once defined you.


🧭 Memorable Quotes

“Silence is not a superpower.” — Dr. Karen Hills Pruden

“You are the pilot of your career, not the co-pilot.” — Dr. Karen Hills Pruden

“Managers do tasks. Leaders are visionary.” — Dr. Karen Hills Pruden

“If you’re good for them, you’ll be good somewhere else.” — Dr. Karen Hills Pruden

“My relationships are not transactional.” — Dr. Karen Hills Pruden


✨ Key Takeaways

• Build professional equity through reputation, relationships, and expertise.
• Advocate for yourself — promotions are not automatic.
• Develop a clear specialty — your “secret sauce.”
• Choose when to speak — and when strategic restraint builds credibility.
• Pivot when necessary. Goals should serve your growth, not trap it.


🌟 Connect with Dr. Karen Hills Pruden

🌐 Website: https://drkarenhillspruden.com
📧 Email: admin@drkarenhillspruden.com
👩🏾‍🤝‍👩🏽 Facebook Group: Sister Leaders Community
https://www.facebook.com/groups/620772105210546
📸 Instagram: @drkarenhillspruden

Dr. Pruden joins us to promote her coaching programs and leadership development frameworks that help women convert their expertise into measurable business success.


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278. From Performing to Presence: Influence, Shame & Authentic Leadership with Sara Anderson25 Feb 202600:39:02

What if influence doesn’t come from proving yourself — but from being seen?

In this episode, Yo sits down with leadership coach and founder of Lead Out Loud, Sara Anderson, to explore why so many capable women leaders feel like they’re acting their way through success.

From imposter syndrome and perfectionism to nervous system triggers in high-stakes conversations, Sara explains how leaders often adapt themselves into a version that works… but no longer feels like them.

And the surprising truth?

The more we perform, the less influence we actually have.

This conversation blends emotional intelligence, neuroscience, and lived leadership experience into a powerful reframe:

You don’t become influential by becoming more impressive.
You become influential when you become more present.


In This Episode We Talk About:

  • Why many women leaders feel they’re performing instead of leading

  • The hidden role of shame underneath imposter syndrome and overworking

  • How perfectionism protects us — but also disconnects us

  • What’s happening in your brain during fight, flight, or freeze

  • The space between stimulus and response — and where leadership lives

  • How “polishing” yourself can reduce influence

  • Moving from comparison → collaboration

  • The power of being seen in process, not just in polish

  • Why connection — not impressiveness — builds real leadership


A Key Takeaway

Many leadership programs teach communication strategies first.
But you can’t use strategy when your body thinks you’re in danger.

Real influence starts internally — by recognizing triggers, calming the nervous system, and allowing others to see you as human.

When leaders stop performing, they gain presence.


Memorable Quotes

“Perfectionism isn’t protecting you from shame — it’s a function of shame.”

“You can’t override the animal body you live in.”

“If you wait until you know everything, you’ll get left behind.”

“People are drawn to those who no longer feel shame about their story.”

“Be yourself — the world will adjust.”


Sara’s Advice to Her 20-Something Self


Stop trying to be impressive.
Let people see you in process.

Connection — not polish — moves your life forward.


Resources from Sara

Free Resource: Influence Audit (AI-guided self-assessment)

🌐 Website: https://www.saraanderson.co
📧 Email: sara@saraanderson.co
💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/saraandersoncoaching/
📸 Instagram: @sara.anderson___

Programs:

  • Lead Out Loud Cohorts

  • Invisible Influence

Lead Out Loud is a 12-week influence accelerator for women leaders who are done performing and ready to lead with real presence. Through nervous system regulation, embodied communication, and The Resonance Method™, participants learn to command a room without losing themselves in the process. Learn more at https://saraanderson.co/lead-out-loud-virtual



Sara chose the card:

“Be yourself and the world will adjust.”

A reminder that leadership isn’t about sanding off your edges — it’s about letting the right people find you.

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277. Transforming the Way You Move Through Life with Vicki Gold18 Feb 202600:35:40

What if aging wasn’t about decline — but about becoming more capable, more aware, and more confident in your body and your life?

In this episode of Girl, Take the Lead!, Yolanda Canny is joined by C. Vicki Gold, a retired physical therapist with more than 50 years of experience and the author of Aging Safely, Wisely, and Well.

At 80 years, Vicki is still learning, teaching, and standing tall — literally and figuratively. She shares powerful insights on the mind–body connection, fear of falling, slowing down, posture, breathing, beliefs, and how small daily practices can transform the way we move through life at any age.

As Vicki reminds us: If you’re lucky, you’re going to get old. This conversation shows how to do it with strength, awareness, and grace.


In This Episode, We Explore:

  • Why fear of falling is as much a mindset issue as a physical one

  • How fear and tension can actually increase the risk of falling

  • The power of simple, embodied language: “I am tall, strong, and confident”

  • Why slowing down improves balance, safety, and presence

  • The myth of multitasking — and how Start–Act–Stop can change how we live and work

  • How alignment, breathing, and centering can become everyday practices

  • Why aging well matters for every generation, not just older adults

  • Discovering purpose early — and letting it evolve across a lifetime

🧠 Vicki’s Two ABC Frameworks:

The ABC Mind–Body System

  • A – Alignment: Posture and body awareness

  • B – Breathing: Conscious breathing to reduce stress and restore energy

  • C – Centering: Mind and body working together

  • Plus: Slow Motion as a tool for strength, balance, and safety

The ABCs of Human Growth & Transformation

  • A – Attitudes: The perspectives that shape our experience

  • B – Beliefs: Often unseen, deeply rooted, and powerful

  • C – Choice (or Commitment to Choose): Where empowerment begins

    💬 Memorable Quotes

    “If you’re lucky, you’re going to get old.”

“Fear tightens the body — and a tight body can’t balance well.”

“I am tall, strong, and confident.”

“Nothing and no one is going to rush me.”

“Aging isn’t about slowing down — it’s about learning how to slow down.”

  • Keep going — you’re already on your path

  • Find your purpose; everything becomes easier once you do

  • Question mental limitations and beliefs about being “good enough”

  • Your uniqueness isn’t better or worse — just different, and needed

Vicki chose the card that reads:

“Wherever you plant yourself, bloom with grace.”

A perfect reflection of this episode — standing tall, slowing down, and moving through life with awareness and confidence.


🔗 Resources & Freebies & Connect w Vicki

🎁 Free Resources on the Website

  • 9 Mind–Body Tips and Tricks for Relieving Stress ⭐ (recommended)

  • Additional handouts on stress reduction and graceful aging

  • An 8-minute audio introduction to the book


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276. From Capability to Power: Women Need Access, Not Fixing11 Feb 202600:31:29

Women don’t lack ambition.They don’t lack skills.And they don’t lack drive.

So why do so many capable women — especially women from minority backgrounds — stall before reaching positions of power?

In this episode of Girl, Take the Lead!, I’m joined by Alexandra Gantier, a French public relations, public affairs, and leadership advisor with more than 18 years of international experience across France and the United States. Alexandra is the co-founder of The Poderosas, a nonprofit dedicated to expanding leadership access for women from minority backgrounds through mentorship and sponsorship.

Alexandra brings a deeply global perspective to leadership — shaped by her upbringing in France, her formative years in South America, and her professional journey in the U.S. She is currently completing a PhD at the Toulouse School of Management, where her research explores female leadership, representation in decision-making spaces, and how structural barriers shape access to power.

Together, we unpack a powerful truth:
Women don’t need fixing — they need access.

This conversation goes beyond confidence and skill-building to name the systemic and relational dynamics that determine who advances, who is sponsored, and who is invited into rooms where decisions are made.

We also explore Alexandra’s retreat work through Empowering Women Global Leaders, which creates space for women to pause, reset, and reconnect with their values — including retreats in Paris and the south of France.

  • Why women aren’t advancing — and why it’s not a confidence problem

  • The difference between mentorship and sponsorship (and why both matter)

  • Structural barriers that shape access to leadership and power

  • Navigating politics, relationships, and visibility at work

  • Generational shifts in how women approach work, ambition, and voice

  • Why you can do everything — just not all at the same time

  • The courage to stop shrinking and build your own room

“Keep your values as your inner compass.
Never stay in a space where you feel you need to shrink yourself — you can build your own room.”

She also chose the Trust Your Gut card — a reminder that leadership often begins by listening to what you already know.


🌍 Learn More & Connect with Alexandra


Websites

Email
📧 hello@alexandragantier.com

Follow Alexandra

  • Instagram & LinkedIn: @alexandra.gantier

  • Instagram & LinkedIn: @thepoderosas

Get Involved

  • Apply as a mentor or mentee with The Poderosas

  • Support the nonprofit through donations

  • Learn more about upcoming women’s leadership retreats in France


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275. Leading from Capacity — Nervous System Wisdom for Sustainable Leadership04 Feb 202600:34:08

Welcome back to Girl, Take the Lead! — this episode invites us to question a belief many high-functioning women have been taught to accept as normal:

That leadership requires constant tension.
That urgency equals effectiveness.
That burnout is simply the cost of ambition.

What if leadership doesn’t start with mindset, strategy, or productivity —
but with capacity?

My guest today is Kathryn Spears, a Neuro Somatic Practitioner who specializes in high-performance regulation for women whose nervous systems are carrying a lot — senior leaders, founders, changemakers, and disruptors who are holding big careers, big visions, and big responsibilities… often from a place of perpetual tension that society has normalized.

Kathryn’s work is deeply personal. She knows firsthand what it’s like to lead from survival physiology — over-functioning, perfectionism, and chronic stress — while appearing successful on the outside and silently burning out on the inside. Decisions made from adrenaline. Connection guarded by hyper-vigilance. Burnout disguised as ambition.

Today, Kathryn helps women stop working against their nervous systems and start leading with them — using applied neurology and neurosomatics to create real, physiological capacity for clarity, presence, and sustainable leadership.

This is not about fixing yourself.
It’s about learning the language of your nervous system — and reclaiming agency, energy, and choice.


Together, Yo and Kathryn explore:

✨ Why Chronic Stress Becomes Invisible
How stress isn’t just a feeling — but a full-body state shift that quietly becomes our baseline.

✨ Why You Can’t Mindset Your Way Out of Burnout
How the nervous system governs clarity, decision-making, and resilience before conscious thought ever kicks in.

✨ High Performance vs. Survival Performance
Why many high-achieving women succeed despite their physiology — and what changes when capacity replaces overdrive.

✨ Stress, Overwhelm, and the Protective Nervous System
How overwhelm, procrastination, imposter syndrome, and the inner critic are not flaws — but protective responses.

✨ Completing the Stress Cycle
Simple, science-backed ways to modulate out of stress and return to homeostasis — without pushing, forcing, or overriding the body.

✨ Why Regulation Is Personal, Not Prescriptive
Why nervous system work must be customized — because each nervous system is as unique as a fingerprint.

✨ From Self-Abandonment to Authentic Leadership
How early adaptive patterns shaped by safety and belonging can be updated — without shame.

✨ Capacity as the Missing Link in Change
Why habit change, healing, and growth often fail — and how physiological capacity makes change possible.

✨ Liberation Over Fixing
Why nothing about you is broken — and how real transformation happens when the body is heard.


🌟 Memorable Quotes

“You can’t mindset your way out of a state shift in the body.”
– Kathryn Spears

“Burnout disguised as ambition is still burnout.”
– Kathryn Spears

“You don’t need to be fixed. Your nervous system is doing its job — protecting you.”
– Kathryn Spears

“Capacity changes everything. It’s what allows you to respond, lead, and choose differently.”
– Kathryn Spears


💡 Kathryn’s Leadership Reminder

If what you’ve tried hasn’t lasted —
it’s not because you failed.
It’s because no one taught you how to speak the language of your nervous system.

When we stop overriding the body and start working with it, leadership becomes clearer, more grounded, and far less exhausting.

This isn’t about doing less.
It’s about leading with capacity instead of survival.


💌 Connect with Kathryn

🌐 Website: beyondyourmindset.com
📱 Instagram & LinkedIn: @kathrynspears.cohttps://www.linkedin.com/in/kathryn-spears/ 


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274. Laughing Our Way to Change — Humor as Power, Resistance, and Repair with Lynn Harris28 Jan 202600:49:51

⚠️ Warning: You may laugh during this episode!
And you may also find yourself rethinking leadership, connection, and how humor helps us survive uncertain times.

Welcome back to Girl, Take the Lead!

Today’s episode is smart, funny, and deeply meaningful.

Our guest is Lynn Harris — a culture-shifting producer, award-winning journalist, and author/co-author of six books whose comedy and campaigns for social justice and gender equity have helped change laws and conversations from Capitol Hill to NASCAR.

Lynn is the founder and CEO of GOLD Comedy — the comedy school, professional network, and content studio where women and non-binary folks build comedy careers or creative side hustles, find community, and make funny stuff with purpose.

In this conversation, Lynn reframes humor as far more than entertainment. She shows us how comedy builds trust, creates connection, signals confidence, and helps us navigate moments of fear, tension, and uncertainty with more humanity — and sometimes, more courage than we knew we had.


✨ In This Episode, We Explore:

  • Why humor is linked to leadership — and what research says about trust and connection

  • Reading the room as a form of empathy and emotional intelligence

  • Why humor is a sense, not a talent reserved for a few

  • Creativity, courage, and vulnerability in comedy and leadership

  • Comedy as social change — through what we say and who gets to show up

  • And why in 2026 we may all need a go bag… a snack… and a really good sense of humor


🎭 Comedians Lynn Recommends

When asked who she’s loving right now — especially voices that are original, fearless, and deeply relatable — Lynn shared these favorites:

  • Bob the Drag Queen

  • Cameron Esposito

  • Maria Bamford

  • Naomi Ekperigin

  • Michelle Buteau

Each of these comics brings a distinct voice, lived experience, and point of view — and together they reflect the diversity, originality, and connection Lynn is so passionate about creating in comedy.


🎬 A Pandemic Moment Worth Revisiting

One of Lynn’s favorite examples of comedy as connection came from early in the pandemic — when dozens of comedians and actors recreated The Princess Bride scene by scene from their backyards, kitchens, and living rooms.

If you need a smile (or a reminder of how creative humans can be), you can watch it here:

👉 The Princess Bride – Home Movie Version
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lR8pA_WV9QI

I loved seeing the cameo by Rob Reiner - RIP. Thank you for making our journeys a bit lighter!


🌟 Memorable Quotes

“Comedy doesn’t just take us out of reality — it puts us into it and helps us create the reality we want.” – Lynn Harris
“When everyone gets the same joke, it means they’re connected.” – Lynn Harris
“It’s a sense of humor. It’s just a sense — it’s not a PhD.” – Lynn Harris
“The more specific you are, the more relatable you become.” – Lynn Harris
“It’s not a distraction from the thing. It is the thing.” – Lynn Harris


🎓 About GOLD Comedy

GOLD Comedy is a comedy school, professional network, and content studio where women and non-binary creators build comedy careers, develop original work, and find a community where they truly belong.

With a community-first model and an annual membership approach, GOLD supports long-term growth, collaboration, experimentation, and connection — helping creators turn ideas into real projects, pitches, and performances.

As Lynn puts it: it’s easy to find a class anywhere — but the real question is, where do you belong?


🔗 Connect with Lynn & GOLD Comedy

🌐 Website: www.goldcomedy.com
📧 Email: lynn@goldcomedy.com
📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GOLDcmdy
📱 Instagram | LinkedIn | Social: @goldcomedy


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273. We’re All in This Together — Kindness, Courage, and the Power of One Moment21 Jan 202600:23:12

Today’s episode is a powerful reminder that leadership doesn’t always look like a title, a stage, or a strategy.

Sometimes, it looks like choosing kindness in a cramped airplane seat.
Sometimes, it looks like crying on the internet.
And sometimes, it looks like being gentle with yourself — and letting that be enough.

My guest today is Vanessa Confessore — a brand marketing and experiential leader by day, and a deeply human storyteller by life. Vanessa has spent over 20 years designing unforgettable brand experiences and global activations, while also navigating motherhood, partnership, recovery, and the invisible mental load so many women carry.

She’s also the creator behind Sober Spouse on TikTok, a space she never intended to grow — but one that became a lifeline for people seeking honesty, hope, and real connection around recovery and relationships.

In this conversation, Vanessa shares how leaning into authenticity on platforms like LinkedIn and TikTok transformed her personal brand — not through polish or performance, but through vulnerability, kindness, and truth. What emerged wasn’t just engagement — it was community.


Together, Yo and Vanessa explore:🌟

✨ Why the Most Powerful Personal Brands Are Human Ones
How Vanessa committed to showing up consistently online — and discovered that authenticity, not perfection, is what people are truly craving.

✨ Living Alongside Recovery
What it means to be a partner to someone in recovery, and how empathy, tools, and compassion shape everyday leadership at home and beyond.

✨ The Airplane Story That Sparked a Movement
Vanessa shares the vulnerable moment that led to her viral LinkedIn post — a painful encounter on a flight that became a call for kindness, humanity, and perspective.

✨ Kindness as a Leadership Practice
Why choosing compassion — even when it’s hard — creates connection, diffuses harm, and builds trust in ways no strategy ever could.

✨ The Ripple Effect
How small, seemingly insignificant acts — a smile, a compliment, a moment of grace — can create waves of impact far beyond what we see.

✨ AI, Community, and Lightening the Mental Load
How Vanessa co-created AI Moms™ to help exhausted moms reclaim time, space, and energy — and why human connection still matters most in a digital world.

✨ Friendship as Self-Care
Why long-standing friendships become sacred anchors through life’s hardest seasons — and why being known without performance is a form of healing.

✨ Less Pressure, More Joy
Vanessa’s intention for the year ahead — letting go of performative happiness and choosing quiet, everyday joy that multiplies outward.


Memorable Quotes

“When you feel good, you do good — and it multiplies.” – Vanessa Confessore

“Humans are craving connection. The more digital our world gets, the more important real connection becomes.” – Vanessa Confessore

“Friendships are the best form of self-care.” – Vanessa Confessore

“The plan doesn’t have to go exactly as planned to be beautiful.” – Vanessa Confessore

“You create the energy around you.” – Vanessa Confessore


💡 Vanessa’s Gentle Reminders

Not everything has to be polished.
Not everything has to be perfect.

If you’re thinking it — share it.
If you’re feeling it — honor it.

It takes one moment to create connection. And sometimes, that moment changes everything.


💌 Connect with Vanessa

@soberspouse on tiktok or Vanessa Confessore on linkedin

Her article in the NY Post


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272. Financial Confidence, Intentionally: Values, Partnership, and Clear Choices14 Jan 202600:35:44

Welcome back to Girl, Take the Lead! — the podcast where we reimagine leadership, challenge the status quo around aging, and share the conversations that help us break cycles, find our voice, and lead our lives with intention.

Money is one of the most powerful — and most misunderstood — tools in our lives.
And for many women, it’s also one of the most stressful.

In today’s episode, we slow the conversation down and take the fear out of finances — replacing it with clarity, confidence, and choice.

Our guest, Tiffany Irving, is a Senior Vice President and Wealth Advisor at Mesirow Wealth Management with more than 25 years of experience working with high-net-worth individuals, families, and nonprofit organizations. She’s also a proud mom of three and a fierce advocate for educating and empowering women and girls around money.

Tiffany’s journey into finance was shaped early — growing up with a single mom, watching financial stress up close, and quietly deciding that independence and stability would matter deeply in her own life. That lived experience now fuels her passion for helping women understand money not as something to fear — but as a tool to support the lives they want to build.

In this grounded and empowering conversation, Yo and Tiffany explore what it really means to build financial confidence — intentionally.


✨ In This Episode, We Explore:

✨ From Silence to Strategy

✨ Money as a Tool, Not a Test

✨ Financial Confidence Across Generations

✨ Partnership and the Money Conversation

✨ The Myth of “I’m Not Wealthy Enough”

✨ Why Written Plans Matter

✨ Choosing an Advisor (and Asking the Right Questions)

✨ What She’d Tell Her 20-Something Self


🌟 Memorable Quotes

Be bolder. Be more confident. Don’t fear failure — because growth lives on the other side of it.

“Money is stressful — even for financial professionals. That’s why learning how to use it as a tool matters.” — Tiffany Irving

“Financial confidence comes from clarity, communication, and knowing what you own and why.” — Tiffany Irving

“If you set a goal and do nothing to get there, that’s just a wish.” — Tiffany Irving

“Failure isn’t the worst thing that can happen. It’s how we learn and grow.” — Tiffany Irving

“There are no dumb questions. If you’ve never been exposed to it, how would you know?” — Tiffany Irving


🎯 Tiffany’s Intention for This Conversation

To promote financial empowerment and education for women — and to help more women feel confident engaging in money conversations, making intentional choices, and using available resources to support their goals.


🔗 Connect with Tiffany

  • LinkedIn: Search Tiffany Irving

  • Website: www.mesirow.com

    • Tiffany welcomes introductory conversations and questions — no matter where you’re starting from.


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    271. Capture the Culture — Intentional Leadership, Mentorship, and Meaningful Hustle with Erin Krueger07 Jan 202600:39:07

    Welcome back to Girl, Take the Lead! — the podcast where we explore stories of reinvention, resilience, and the courage it takes to lead lives that break old cycles and create new possibilities.

    To kick off 2026, today’s guest brings heart, grit, and a fresh perspective on what true leadership looks like.

    Meet Erin Krueger — top-ranked Nashville realtor, nationally recognized expert, bestselling author of Capture the Culture, and a woman whose leadership journey began long before she built one of the most successful all-female real estate teams in the country. Her team has sold more than $2 billion in real estate to date, with nearly $225 million in 2024 alone — but it’s her authenticity, intentionality, and heart-centered leadership that stand out most.

    Erin joins Yo for a candid conversation about building culture (at home, in business, and within ourselves), navigating adversity, choosing who we want to become, and leading with humanity in an era of rapid change.

    Whether you’re entering 2026 with big goals, seeking a healthier work culture, or looking to lead in a more intentional way, this episode is filled with wisdom and tools to help you design the life and leadership path you want.


    🌟 In This Episode, Erin & Yo Explore:

    💛 How childhood shapes leadership

    🧭 Intentional leadership (and why it matters more than ever in 2026)

    🫶 Culture as the heartbeat of a team

    👁️ Authenticity over performance

    🌱 Mentorship that changes everything

    🛠️ Her hiring and DISC process

    💎 "Some days are dirt, most days are diamonds"

    🧡 Meaningful appreciation

    🔄 Owning our mistakes

    🌬 Ralph Waldo Emerson’s definition of success

    👩‍🦰 What Erin would tell her 20-something self


    You’ll learn:

    • Why everyone needs a mentor

    • How to become a mentor who empowers others

    • The bittersweet truth that mentees will one day fly


    🧭 Memorable Quotes

    “Difficult days don’t define you. What you do with them does. Keep moving forward — better days are ahead.”

    “Not every day is a good day — but most days are diamonds.” — Erin Krueger
    “People want to be around leaders who look them in the eye, care, and tell the truth.” — Erin Krueger
    “Mentors help you see the opportunities others would miss.” — Erin Krueger
    “You can have a hustle culture that honors health, family, and joy.” — Erin Krueger
    “Feedback is a gift — and what you do with it defines your leadership.” — Erin Krueger


    ✨ Key Takeaways for 2026

    • Intentionality is your superpower. Paint the picture of what you want — then build toward it.

    • Culture doesn’t happen by accident. It’s created through clarity, consistency, appreciation, and trust.

    • Mentorship accelerates your growth. Find mentors who challenge your assumptions and expand your vision.

    • Authenticity wins — every time. People can sense when you're real, and they respond with loyalty.

    • You don’t have to do everything. Hire well, delegate, and let others rise.

    • Feedback keeps culture alive. Leaders grow when they listen, adjust, and own their missteps.

    • Grief, adversity, and hard days don’t define you. What you do with them does.


    🌟 Connect with Erin Krueger

    📚 Book: Capture the Culture
    🌐 Website: https://capture-the-culture.com
    ✨ Free quizzes and leadership resources available
    📧 Email: ek@erinkrueger.com
    📸 Instagram: @capturetheculture_
    🏠 Real Estate: The Erin Krueger Team (Instagram)


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    270. Becoming Whole — The Art of Kintsugi and the Beauty in Our Cracks with Laura G. Patac30 Dec 202500:44:02

    Welcome back to Girl, Take the Lead! — the podcast where we reimagine leadership, challenge the status quo around aging, and share the stories that help us break cycles, find our voice, and trust our own becoming.

    Today’s episode is a stunning way to close out the year.

    Our guest, Laura G. Patac, is an entrepreneur, author, poet, and former global corporate executive who has lived and worked in seven countries across five continents. After 25 years in sales, operations, and product leadership, she stepped into entrepreneurship — and the transition cracked open a profound identity crisis that reshaped her understanding of purpose, courage, and value.

    Rather than hiding the cracks, Laura learned to honor them — and ultimately, to treat them the way the Japanese art of kintsugi treats broken pottery: not as flaws to conceal, but as golden seams that make us more whole, beautiful, and true.

    Her journey — and her writing — will move you.

    In this intimate and heartfelt conversation, Laura shares how storytelling, poetry, and reflection helped her rebuild a self beyond titles and corporate identity, and how she now empowers others to do the same through her books Stories with Purpose and her newest release, Whole Not Perfect.


    Together, Yo and Laura explore:

    ✨ What Happens When Your Title Disappears

    ✨ The Five “Aha Moments” That Defined Her Leadership Journey

    ✨ Why No One Is Coming to Save You

    ✨ Storytelling as a Tool for Reinvention

    ✨The Kintsugi Metaphor

    ✨ Moving From Insight to Intention

    ✨ Redefining Success After Corporate Life

    ✨ What She Would Tell Her 20-Something Self


    🌟 Memorable Quotes

    “Every person coming into your life is teaching you something.” – Laura G. Patac

    “Nobody is coming to save you. You have to save yourself — and the answers are inward, not outward.” – Laura G. Patac

    “Your cracks are not wounds. They are the golden lines that make you whole.” – Laura G. Patac

    “I help people not just tell stories — but become a story.” – Laura G. Patac

    “Purpose is what gets you out of bed in the morning. Values are how you move through the world.” – Yo & Laura


    📚 Explore Laura’s Work 

    LinkedIn ⁠www.linkedin.com/in/laura-g-patac⁠       

    🎁 Free book: ⁠https://www.storiesholdpurpose.com/book⁠

    📧 Contact: laura@empower-quest.com

    📘 Books:
    • Stories with Purpose: Your Story Has Purpose Too
    • Whole Not Perfect — a powerful guide to embracing your strengths, cracks, and future story


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    269. A Single Candle — Love, Loss & Living Fully in a Life You Didn’t Plan with Becky Galli22 Dec 202500:38:49

    Welcome back to Girl, Take the Lead! — the podcast where we explore real, raw, and remarkable stories of resilience, healing, and what it means to live and lead with courage through every season of life.


    Today’s guest is Rebecca (Becky) Faye Smith Galli — author, columnist, and thoughtful observer of the human experience. Becky writes about love, loss, and healing, drawing from a life shaped by profound, unchosen challenges. Her journey includes the death of her 17-year-old brother, her son’s degenerative disease and passing, parenting a daughter with autism, divorce, and—just nine days later—paralysis caused by transverse myelitis, a rare inflammation of the spinal cord.


    Rather than turning away from grief, Becky has transformed her lived experience into a body of work that reminds us: life can still be good — not perfect, but good — even when it doesn’t go as planned.


    In this deeply moving conversation, Yo and Becky explore wisdom drawn from Becky’s books Morning Fuel and Rethinking Possible, along with reflections from her popular Thoughtful Thursdays newsletter.


    In this episode, you’ll hear about:

    🧋 The Milkshake MethodA story about Becky’s father and a failed ice cream experiment that became a lifelong lesson in optimism, creativity, and seeing possibility within the limits of the present moment.


    🌲 Unchosen Paths & Patterns of CopingHow Becky has learned to recognize her own patterns when navigating grief and major life disruptions — and why understanding how you cope can bring comfort, patience, and self-trust.


    💛 Practicing Gratitude as a Daily ResetWhy gratitude isn’t about denying pain, but about shifting perspective — and how noticing small moments of goodness can change how we move through difficult days.


    🌸 Beauty in What’s BrokenBecky shares how turning shattered dishes into mosaic art mirrors the healing process itself: gathering broken pieces, allowing messiness, and discovering unexpected beauty along the way.


    🕯️ A Single Candle (Holiday Reflection)A powerful reading about grief during the holidays, the love that remains after loss, and how lighting a single candle can help us focus on love instead of darkness — especially when traditions must change.


    This episode is especially meaningful for anyone navigating grief, major transitions, disability, caregiving, or the emotional complexity of the holiday season. Becky’s words offer companionship, perspective, and hope — like a steady candle glowing when the world feels dark.


    About Becky Galli💌

    Rebecca (Becky) Faye Smith Galli is an author and columnist who writes about love, loss, and healing. Her unexpected but prolific writing career emerged from surviving multiple life-altering losses and transitions. Her website, BeckyGalli.com, features more than 400 published columns, and she continues to write Thoughtful Thursdays—Lessons from a Resilient Heart, a beloved newsletter that shares reflections on staying positive and grounded when life is hard.

    📚 Books: Morning Fuel | Rethinking Possible💌 Email: rfsgalli@gmail.com🌐 Website & Free Resource: “Seven Strategies to Stay Up When Life Is Pulling You Down”👉 https://rebeccafayesmithgalli.com/📰 Thoughtful Thursdays Newsletter Signup:👉 https://rebeccafayesmithgalli.com/📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chairwriter/🐦 X / Twitter: https://twitter.com/chairwriter


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    268. You Can Have It All—But You Can’t Do It All with Dr. Denise Brown, The Fairy God Doctor18 Dec 202500:46:16

    Welcome back to Girl, Take the Lead! — the podcast where we talk honestly about leadership, womanhood, and all the messy, beautiful parts in between.


    Today I’m joined by Dr. Denise Brown, also known as The Fairy God Doctor — a Stanford-trained physician, former CEO, wife, mom, and now author of The Fairy God Doctor’s Guide to a Good Life: A Prescription for the Working Woman. Fairy God Doctor+1


    If you’re listening to this in December while you’re juggling holidays, work deadlines, family expectations, and maybe an elf on a shelf you forgot to move 🙃, this episode is here to give you permission to do less and feel more satisfied.


    We talk about why “success” is external but satisfaction is internal, how comparison and “shoulds” steal our joy, what it really means to ask for partnership instead of help, and how to reframe our lives and careers as non-linear wanderings in the woods instead of one perfect, straight ladder to the top.


    We also get teary (yep, both of us) as Denise reads the poem “If I Had My Child to Raise Over Again” and shares what true self-care looks like when your house is quiet, the kids are grown, and you suddenly realize what really mattered most.


    In This Episode, We Talk About:

    • Success vs. satisfaction

    • Non-linear womanhood & careers

    • Comparison, guilt, judgment & shame

    • Helicoptering, snowplowing & leadership at work

    • “You can have it all… but you cannot do it all.”

    • Real talk about the holidays & overdoing it

    • The heart of self-care

    • What she’d tell her 20-something self

    Memorable Quotes

    “Success is external. Satisfaction is internal.”

    “You can have it all, but you cannot do it all.”

    “If you’re asking for help, you’re still carrying the weight. When you ask for partnership, you’re sharing it.”

    “There isn’t work and life — there’s just life. There isn’t physical wellbeing and mental wellbeing — there’s just wellbeing.”

    “Someday your house will be quiet and clean. And you’ll realize what really mattered was the people, not the counters.”


    Resources & Links Mentioned

    • Book: The Fairy God Doctor’s Guide to a Good Life: A Prescription for the Working Woman by Dr. Denise S. Brown Amazon+1

    • Dr. Denise’s Website:

    • Instagram:

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    267. A Life Rewrapped — Creativity, Grit & New Beginnings with Michelle Hensley16 Dec 202500:36:27

    Today’s guest is Michelle Hensley — founder of Nifty Package Co., creator of the gig app FeteTango, mother of three, grandmother of nine, and a woman who rebuilt her entire life after losing her husband to metastatic melanoma.


    At 51, Michelle found herself navigating profound grief, financial uncertainty, and a complete identity shift. What began as a small spark — “Could I work when I want instead of when I have to?” — evolved into a thriving mobile gift wrapping business serving everyday families, luxury brands, celebrities, and even a presidential administration.


    This is a story of resilience, reinvention, and the courage to begin again — with creativity leading the way.


    Together, Yo and Michelle explore:

    🎁 How Michelle rebuilt her life after lossFrom pastor’s wife and nonprofit founder to entrepreneur learning cost of goods, pricing, networking, and profit — one brave step at a time.

    🎀 Why gift wrapping is a timeless artAnd how a 3:45 a.m. idea and an underused van sparked a whole new business model.

    🚐 The rise of the mobile gift wrapping movementIncluding the early client who hated wrapping gifts, the celebrity referrals, and the moment Michelle realized she was truly a business owner.

    ✨ Creating income opportunities for women 50+Why Michelle believes flexible, creative work is a powerful path to financial dignity and freedom.

    📊 Business lessons Michelle learned the hard wayPricing for profit, investing in quality, and vetting team members — with honesty and humor.

    📱 Introducing FeteTangoMichelle’s new gig app for creatives offering services like wrapping, decorating, porch pumpkins, cookie baking, and more — all with lower fees so women keep more of what they earn.

    🕯️ Her message to widows and women starting overGrief has no timeline. Identity must be rebuilt slowly. And new beginnings are possible — even when you have no idea what comes next.

    💬 Her advice to her 20-something selfFind a mentor. Listen to people who’ve lived more life. Be less judgmental. And soften your words, especially toward yourself.


    🧭 Memorable Quotes

    “Sometimes you don’t know your idea is good — you just take the next step and it leads you somewhere new.” – Michelle

    “Women are incredibly resourceful. What scares us most is not that we can’t do it — but that we don’t know it yet.” – Michelle

    “I’ve been in the wilderness so many times I can give tours. Mistakes are part of the process.” – Michelle

    “You don’t have to care what everyone thinks — listen to yourself and take the next step.” – Yo & Michelle


    ✨ Connect with Michelle Hensley

    Website & Coaching: michellemhensley.comFree Book & Downloadables: available on her siteGift Wrapping Business: Nifty Package Co.Facebook Group: Unwrapping Your Life and BusinessYouTube: Mobile Gift Wrapping CoachGig App for Creatives: FeteTango.comMasterclass: michellemhensley.com/masterclass-registrationEmail: Michelle@niftypackage.co


    💌 Connect with Yo & Girl, Take the Lead!
    Listen on YouTube & SpotifyJoin the GTTL Facebook GroupExplore the Heartfelt Card & Gift ShopFind Yo on LinkedIn & Instagram


    Because reinvention doesn’t ask whether you’re ready — it invites you to trust yourself, take the next step, and begin wrapping a new life with courage and creativity. 💖


    266. Reframing the “Good Daughter” Story — with Andrea Mein DeWitt09 Dec 202500:53:17

    Today’s guest is a dear friend of the show, Andrea Mein DeWitt — Professional Certified Coach (PCC), author, and creator of the transformational Name, Claim & Reframe® methodology. Her bestselling book, Name, Claim & Reframe: Your Path to a Well-Lived Life, was featured on NBC’s TODAY Show as the Best Motivational Read of 2023, and is now available as an audiobook, complete with a powerful PDF companion. Congrats to Andrea!!

     

    Andrea works with high-achieving leaders navigating challenging relationships, identity shifts, and life transitions — especially the roles we often inherit inside our families. In this deeply moving conversation, she and Yo explore the complicated terrain between daughters and aging mothers, including grief, identity, boundaries, and the “good daughter” narrative many of us have carried for decades.

     

    If you’ve ever felt unseen, responsible, guilty, or stuck in old roles with your mother — especially during moments of caregiving or family gatherings — this episode offers both companionship and real tools for the messy middle. Timing for this episode is perfect with the holidays which adds extra pressure around the good daughter/bad daughter trap!

     

    Together, they explore:

    💔 The cultural and generational expectations

    🧭 Integrity as the anchor

    🌪 Understanding the emotional hurricane

    🌗 Grieving the mother we thought we had

    🧱 Compassionate boundaries


     

    💡 Using Name, Claim & Reframe® in real time

    • Name the emotional trigger

    • Claim the belief or value that helps you stay in integrity

    • Reframe the moment so you don’t internalize guilt, shame, or projection

     

    🎧 Andrea’s new audiobook as a companion for healing

    Transformation doesn’t happen in one big moment — but in the pauses: the walk, the drive, the breath you take between conversations. Her audiobook was created for those moments.

     

    🧭 Memorable Quotes

     

    “You cannot have grace without grit. The grit lets you pause and choose who you want to be.” – Andrea Mein DeWitt

     “When you respond instead of react, you’re back in your power.” – Andrea Mein DeWitt

    “Not everyone deserves unlimited access to your energy.” – Andrea Mein DeWitt

    “Maybe what we’re grieving isn’t just our mother — it’s the story we carried about who she was.” – Yo & Andrea

     

    🌺 Key Takeaways

     

    Integrity — not approval — is your compass when navigating difficult family roles.

    You can be kind and clear at the same time — clarity is kindness.

    Grieving the mother you thought you had is real grief, and allowing yourself to feel it is deeply healing.

     

    Other episodes to check out on the topic

    Ep 248 When Pleasing Hurts: Healing the Mother-Daughter Dynamic with Katherine Fabrizio

    Ep 48 A Discussion with Andrea Mein Dewitt About Her Book: Name, Claim Reframe, Your Path to a Well-Lived Life

    Ep 72 Andrea Mein Dewitt, Name Claim & Reframe (NCR) Author, Returns and Relates NCR to Female Bullying

    Ep 153 & 154 Be Confident. Be Resourceful. Be Graceful. Name Claim and Reframe Workbook.

     

    ✨ Connect with Andrea Mein DeWitt

    🌐 Website: andreadewittadvisors.com

    🎧 New Audiobook on Audible (released December 2, 2025) — includes a PDF companion
    https://www.audible.com/pd/B0G2F5448H

    Leadership Quiz:  https://www.andreadewittadvisors.com/leadership-quiz

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AndreaMeinDeWitt

    Book links:

    Name, Claim & Reframe: https://www.amazon.com/dp/157826958X

    Workbook: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1578269962

     

    🧰 NCR Toolkit: https://www.andreadewittadvisors.com/ncr-toolkit

    💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrea-mein-dewitt-98694068/

    Be sure to check out her Beyond the Reframe Articles

    📸 Instagram: @andreadewittcoaching

     

    💌 Connect with Yo & Girl, Take the Lead!

    🎧 Listen on YouTube & Spotify

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    🔗 Connect on LinkedIn | Instagram

     

    Because leadership — and healing — begin when we have the courage to see ourselves clearly and choose integrity over old family roles. 💖


    265. Holiday Check-In: Your Health, Wealth & Worth with Nancy Griffin03 Dec 202500:22:51

    This holiday season, we’re inviting you to pause, breathe, and check in with yourself — because as this week’s guest reminds us, you are your greatest asset.
    In this uplifting and practical conversation, Nancy Griffin, founder of Women, Worth & Wellness®, joins Yo to explore the powerful connection between women’s health, wealth, and self-worth — especially during a time of year when stress, overspending, and over-giving tend to take over.
    Nancy has spent more than 30 years supporting women in building stronger financial foundations and stronger personal foundations. Her holistic approach to net worth, self-worth, philanthropy, and wellness gives us a fresh, timely reminder:
    Your life is a privilege. Take care of yourself first — so you can take care of everything else with joy.
    💛 In This Episode
    We cover:
    The hidden connection between women’s health and women’s wealth
    Why women need to think about health-related planning (and what great advisors look for)
    How generosity — not just financial, but emotional — strengthens self-worth
    Nancy’s powerful 5-minute morning holiday check-in ritual
    The danger of perfectionism and the wisdom of the 80% Approach
    Why you should consider repurposing old life insurance as a philanthropic legacy
    The importance of recognizing yourself as your number one asset
    Nancy’s inspiring message to her 20-something self
    Her signature mantra: “Stay vertical and keep smiling.”
    🎄 Why This Episode Is Perfect for the Holidays
    This time of year can pull us in a hundred different directions. Nancy offers simple, grounded ways to:
    -center your own well-being
    -manage holiday overwhelm
    -reset spending expectations
    -rediscover joy in small, spontaneous moments of generosity
    -choose what really matters as you head into a new year
    It’s the perfect episode to send to a friend who needs a gentle reminder to take five minutes for herself.
    👑 About Our Guest: Nancy Griffin (Boomer)
    Nancy is a connector and influencer. She attributes her success to personal courage, determination, and joy, especially when focusing on women’s health and wellness, which led her to create Women, Worth & Wellness®. Nancy enjoys every opportunity to inspire and inform women about their personal health and wealth, net worth and self-worth, philanthropy and legacy—so that women feel fabulous, generous, joyful, confident, and on top of their game every day.
    Nancy Griffin established Women, Worth & Wellness in 1994 as a Private Client Wealth Advisor for her female clients and their families. She continues to promote and inspire Daring & Caring Leaders, encouraging them to step up and lead in the world, following in the footsteps of many powerful women leaders before her. Her overall purpose is to connect and influence for positive impact every chance she gets.




    Connect with Nancy:
    📧 nancy@womenworthwellness.com
    🌐 WomenWorthWellness.com (brand updates coming soon!)
    📱 Social: @womenworthwellness across platforms

    ✨ Key Takeaways
    You cannot enjoy your wealth without your health — and both require intentional care.
    Women’s financial planning must include health-related what-ifs.
    Generosity strengthens self-worth — and it doesn’t have to cost money.
    A simple five-minute morning check-in can change the tone of your entire day.
    Don’t wait for perfect: aim for 80% and take action.
    You are worthy, unique, and capable — and your life is a privilege.💌 Connect with Yo & Girl, Take the Lead!

    🎧 Listen on YouTube & Spotify
    💬 Join the Girl, Take the Lead! Facebook Group
    🛍 Explore the Heartfelt Card & Gift Shop
    🔗 Follow on LinkedIn & Instagram

    Because leadership — and connection — begin when we dare to understand ourselves and each other more deeply. 💖

    264. Unlocking Neurodiverse Brilliance — Empathy, AI & Real Support with Derek26 Nov 202500:29:38

    Today’s guest is Derek, an educator at heart whose life journey—rooted in autism, ADHD, and dyslexia—has been shaped by a lifelong quest to transform confusion into clarity. Diagnosed at age 50, he finally gained the language, belonging, and understanding that helped him make sense of decades of feeling “different.” That clarity became his calling.

    Professionally, Derek’s path spans the trades, automotive manufacturing, entrepreneurship, process engineering, and ultimately talent development—where he became the architect behind Amazon’s highest-rated employee training program, earning an extraordinary 92 NPS and 4.92/5 rating.

    Today, he is the visionary behind Human-First AI, including his book, Human First AI, which lays out a powerful and accessible blueprint for building AI systems that augment humanity rather than replace it. His company, Practical AI, builds tools like Pocket Mentor, offering voice-based, just-in-time support so no one ever feels stuck, judged, or alone again.

    This episode explores what it really means to unlock neurodiverse brilliance—and how empathy and human-centered AI can change the way we learn, collaborate, and lead.


    📚 Featured Resource Recommended by Derek

    ✨ Dr. Nancy Doyle’s “What Is Neurodiversity” framework, including the plus-10/minus-10 graph that helps explain ALL human skill variation.
    🧭 Memorable Quotes


    “My whole life was trying to turn confusion into clarity — and that became the foundation of everything I build.” – Derek
    “Empathy unlocks neurodiverse brilliance.” – Derek
    “Judge people for what they do well, not for what they don’t.” – Derek
    “AI should make humans irreplaceable — not replace them.” – Derek
    “Just-in-time knowledge reduces cognitive load and restores confidence.” – Derek
    “We’re all different. The more we understand each other, the better we all become.” – Yo Canny



    🌺 Key Takeaways

    1. Neurodiversity is the human condition.
    Dr. Nancy Doyle’s work reframes neurodiversity as a continuum of strengths and challenges that all humans share.

    2. Diagnosis can bring healing—not limits.
    For Derek, learning he was autistic at 50 unlocked understanding and belonging.

    3. Empathy-based leadership allows brilliance to shine.
    His Amazon success was made possible by a leader who supported his strengths and covered his gaps.

    4. Human-First AI supports—not replaces—humans.
    Just-in-time learning tools like Pocket Mentor can reduce anxiety, boost confidence, and preserve institutional knowledge.

    ✨ Connect with Derek


    Support is rooted in celebrating strengths and releasing judgment.

    📘 Hero Book – Human First AIRead the first chapter free: https://www.humanfirstai.net

    🌐 Practical AI (organization & nonprofit community)
    https://www.practicalai.app

    👥 Community
    https://www.practicalai.app/community

    💼 LinkedInSearch “Derek” + “Human First AI”



    💌 Connect with Yo & Girl, Take the Lead!


    🎧 Listen on YouTube & Spotify
    💬 Join the Girl, Take the Lead! Facebook Group
    🛍 Explore the Heartfelt Card & Gift Shop
    🔗 Follow on LinkedIn & Instagram

    Because leadership — and connection — begin when we dare to understand ourselves and each other more deeply. 💖


    263. How to D.R.E.A.M. Your Way to Wisdom with Lori Pappas19 Nov 202500:39:28

    In this powerful and deeply personal conversation, we meet Lori Pappas, one of the first female computer sales reps in the world, an award-winning entrepreneur, and founder of the Global Team for Local Initiatives, where she spent over a decade in Africa helping more than 100,000 people.

    After years of chasing success, Lori discovered that the true magic of life comes from saying yes—yes to forgiveness, boundaries, curiosity, and self-discovery. Her journey inspired the D.R.E.A.M. Framework, a practical guide for transforming challenges into wisdom.

    In this episode, Lori and Yo talk about reinventing yourself at every stage of life, the myths that hold women back from self-advocacy, and how forgiveness and reflection unlock our deepest wisdom.


    💡 Key Takeaways

    ✨ The Power of Choice
    At 17, Lori learned one of her life’s defining lessons: she had choice. That insight—realizing we don’t have to “swallow” what life hands us—became the foundation for how she navigated every transformation that followed.

    💖 Turning Struggles into Wisdom
    Her years in Africa illuminated that our challenges are not obstacles but teachers. When we take time to reflect, our struggles become our superpower.

    🌿 Boundaries as Self-Care
    Drawing from her work, Lori shares common myths that keep us from setting boundaries—like believing others’ needs are more important than our own—and how self-advocacy is an act of self-worth.



    💬 Favorite Quotes from Lori

    “Our struggles and challenges really are the keys to finding our wisdom.”
    “Boundaries are the bedrock of self-care.”
    “Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting—it means dropping the hundred pounds of stones we carry on our back.”
    “Fear can become your rocket fuel.”
    “Wisdom is information minus the noise, over time.”
    “Let’s just clean the closet of the noise.”

    “Let’s really work on that noise. Let’s just get rid of that crap. If I had done that earlier, I could have traveled farther and touched more people.”


    📚 Resources & Links

    • 🌐 Website: loripappas.com

    • 💌 Free Resource: Download a free D.R.E.A.M. framework of your choice → loripappas.com/dream

    • 📘 Book: The Magic of Yes: Embrace the Wise Woman Within

    • 💬 Email: lori@loripappas.com

    • 💕 Join: Wise Woman Sisterhood Facebook Group


    ⏰ Episode Chapters

    00:00 — Lori’s story: from rebellion to resilience
    03:00 — The moment in the Sahara that changed everything
    06:00 — Saying yes to life and boundaries
    09:00 — The myths that keep us from self-care
    16:00 — Learning to self-advocate
    18:00 — Forgiveness and flipping the script
    21:00 — Lori’s formula for wisdom
    25:00 — The D.R.E.A.M. framework revealed
    29:00 — Turning fear into rocket fuel
    35:00 — Curiosity as nourishment for the mind
    37:30 — Advice to her 20-something self


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    262. Awakening Ancestral Wealth — Turning Wounds into Power with Michelle Jeovanny12 Nov 202500:41:37

    Today’s guest is Michelle Jeovanny — a renowned spiritual life coach, mentor, channel, and successful entrepreneur who helps individuals create wealth on all levels: spiritually, emotionally, mentally, physically, energetically, and financially.


    Michelle’s work blends ancient wisdom with modern consciousness — guiding her clients through ancestral healing, somatic freedom, ceremony, and spiritual power to unlock their truest potential. Her mission? To help people live in freedom, fulfillment, and flow.


    In this episode, Michelle and Yo dive deep into the alchemy of turning wounds into power — exploring how the stories passed through our lineage shape our beliefs about wealth, worth, and identity. You’ll hear Michelle’s extraordinary story of awakening, from her childhood connection to Spirit, to a near-death moment at sea that became a divine calling to step fully into her spiritual gifts.

    Together, they explore:

    • 🌿 What ancestral wealth really means — and how to awaken it within

    • 🔥 The process of transforming pain and grief into creative power

    • 💎 How our body is the first bank account — and what true wealth feels like

    • 🕊 Practices for stillness, surrender, and rewriting family patterns

    • 💫 Why money is the byproduct of who we become

    Whether you’re navigating your own healing, exploring spirituality, or simply curious about the unseen threads that shape your story, this episode invites you to see your wounds not as weaknesses — but as doorways to power.


    🧭 Memorable Quotes

    “Our body is the first bank account. It is our altar of wealth and abundance.” – Michelle Jeovanny
    “Beyond the wounds is a creative intelligence — the gold within the onion.” – Michelle Jeovanny
    “I was running toward success, but the more I ran, the further I felt from myself.” – Yo Canny


    🌺 Key Takeaways

    • True wealth begins with self-honoring — when you’re wealthy on all levels, money follows as an energetic reflection.

    • Ancestral healing allows us to see and release patterns we’ve inherited, transforming unconscious loyalty into conscious freedom.

    • Stillness and surrender aren’t weakness — they’re the portals to divine guidance and co-creation.

    • Writing down your desires and releasing limiting beliefs through ceremony can open you to a higher frequency of abundance.


    ✨ Connect with Michelle Jeovanny

    🌐 Magik Mystery School — monthly channelings, programs, and resources
    📸 @michellejeovanny
    💌 Mention “Girl, Take the Lead!” for Michelle’s free PDF: How to Create with AI — with Soul


    💌 Connect with Yo & Girl, Take the Lead!

    🎧 Listen on YouTube & Spotify💬 Join the Girl, Take the Lead! Facebook Group🛍 Explore the Heartfelt Card & Gift Shop🔗 LinkedIn | Instagram


    Because leadership — and healing — begin when we have the courage to see ourselves clearly. 💖


    261. Trust Yourself — Pathfinding for the Modern World with Hillary Spiritos 05 Nov 202500:34:42

    Today’s guest is Hillary Spiritos (Millennial) — a pathfinding coach and founder of Bat Outta Hell, where she helps young adults find the courage, creativity, and resilience to build lives that feel authentic, invigorating, and meaningful.

    A former university advisor at Duke, NYU, and Northeastern, Hillary has guided countless students and early professionals through crossroads moments — from choosing a major to choosing themselves. Her work now focuses on helping Millennials and Gen Zers define success on their own terms, navigate anxiety about the future, and trust that their unique paths can lead to purpose.

    In this conversation, Yo and Hillary explore how social media, uncertainty, and shifting definitions of success are shaping a new generation — and why trusting yourself might just be the most radical act of all.


    ✨ In this episode, we cover:


    • The challenges today’s young adults face — from cynicism to social media overload

    • How to redefine success based on your values, not your title or salary

    • How social media can inspire and overwhelm — and how to use it intentionally

    • The difference between satisfaction and success

    • Why authenticity is the new currency of connection


    ⏱️ Episode Highlights


    00:00 – Welcome & introduction to Hillary Spiritos
    00:33 – The mission behind Bat Outta Hell
    01:59 – From college advising to pathfinding: how it began
    03:55 – Empowering Millennials and Gen Z to create change
    07:55 – What makes this generation’s challenges unique
    09:51 – The role of anxiety and cynicism in today’s world
    15:26 – Redefining success through your own values
    21:11 – Is social media friend or foe?
    27:15 – Why authenticity beats perfection online
    30:09 – Navigating a tough job market with resilience
    35:27 – Facing fear, failure, and the courage to try

    💡 Key Takeaways


    • You define success — not your title, salary, or feed.

    • Awareness turns social media from a trap into a tool.

    • Courage grows through action, not perfection.

    • You don’t have to follow the rules — you can write your own.

    • The world needs your authentic voice.


    📚 About Hillary Spiritos


    Hillary Spiritos, M.A., C.L.C. is a pathfinding coach and founder of Bat Outta Hell, where she helps young adults and early-career professionals overcome fear and self-doubt to create meaningful, sustainable lives. She holds degrees from Duke University and NYU, has lived abroad, and led workshops on resilience, leadership, and thriving through rejection and change.


    🌐 batoutahell.net


    📸 Instagram & TikTok: @bat.outa_hell


    💌 Store Highlight


    Hillary’s favorite from our Girl, Take the Lead! Card & Gift Shop is “Celebrate — Life’s Too Short to Act Normal.”It’s a joyful reminder to embrace your quirks, follow your own rules, and celebrate the life you’re creating — one bold step at a time.
    Explore guest-inspired cards at girltaketheleadpod.com/shop.


    📬 Connect with Yo, Your Host


    🌐 Website: girltaketheleadpod.com
    📸 Instagram: @yocanny
    💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/yocanny
    📘 Facebook: facebook.com/yolanda.canny

    260. Life’s Too Short to Act Normal — The Wild, Witty Journey of Sue Hincenbergs 30 Oct 202500:23:32

    Welcome back to Girl, Take the Lead! — the podcast where we share real, raw, and remarkable stories of people breaking cycles, finding freedom, and leading with courage.


    Today’s guest is Sue Hincenbergs (Boomer) — a former television producer turned #1 bestselling author whose debut novel, The Retirement Plan, has taken Canada by storm. Now translated into 20 languages and headed for the big screen, this darkly funny thriller proves that it’s never too late to follow your dreams — or plot a little creative mayhem along the way.

    After three decades producing award-winning TV programs, Sue decided at 59 to finally keep a promise she made to herself (and Bruce Springsteen!) at 20: to write a novel. The result? A hit book, a movie deal, and a wildly inspiring story of reinvention.

    In this conversation, we explore the humor, humility, and heart behind her success — and why midlife might just be the perfect time to unleash your creative spark.


    ✨ Other Topics Covered:

    • How Sue turned a lifelong dream into a #1 Canadian bestseller

    • The 40-year promise inspired by Bruce Springsteen

    • Lessons from her TV career that made her a tighter, funnier writer

    • What makes a great storyteller — and why tension matters

    • The courage to start something new at any age

    • What she’d tell her 20-something self about patience, humility, and timing

    • Why “If not now, when?” became her personal mantra


    ⏱️ Episode Highlights


    00:00 – Welcome & introduction to Sue Hincenbergs
    00:57 – “If not now, when?”: deciding to write at 59
    02:20 – The Retirement Plan — murder, marriage, and midlife reinvention
    04:58 – The Bruce Springsteen concert that sparked a lifelong promise
    07:45 – From television producer to novelist: learning on the fly
    09:39 – How tension and clarity make a great story
    13:53 – Editing, rewriting, and the art of brevity
    15:43 – Her advice to younger writers and her 20-something self
    17:09 – Sue’s card pick: Celebrate — Life’s Too Short to Act Normal
    18:35 – “Why not me?”: believing it’s never too late


    💡 Key Takeaways

    • Dreams don’t expire — they evolve when you do.

    • If you don’t try, nothing can happen.

    • Good storytelling blends honesty, tension, and heart.

    • Courage grows with age (and a sense of humor helps).

    • It’s never too late to take your creative leap.


    📚 About Sue Hincenbergs


    Sue Hincenbergs is a former television producer who’s worked on multiple award-winning programs. She lives in Toronto with her (very much alive) husband, her scruffy, middle-aged rescue dog, Kramer, and the rooms full of stuff her three sons left behind. The Retirement Plan is her debut novel.
    🌐 suehincenbergs.com


    💌 Store Highlight


    Sue’s favorite from our Girl, Take the Lead! Card & Gift Shop is “Celebrate — Life’s Too Short to Act Normal.”Featuring a circle of dancing women, it’s a reminder that joy, laughter, and a touch of mischief keep us young at heart.
    Explore guest-inspired cards at girltaketheleadpod.com/shop.


    📬 Connect with Yo, Your Host


    🌐 Website: girltaketheleadpod.com
    📸 Instagram: @yocanny
    💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/yocanny
    📘 Facebook: facebook.com/yolanda.canny

    259. Speak Before It Feels Comfortable — Finding Your Voice with Salvatore Manzi 27 Oct 202500:39:56

    Welcome back to Girl, Take the Lead! — the podcast where we explore real, raw, and remarkable stories that inspire us to lead with courage and heart.

    Today’s guest is Salvatore Manzi (Gen X) — a leadership communication coach, speaker, and author who helps mission-driven leaders transform their insight into influence. With two decades of experience coaching executives from Silicon Valley to the United Nations, Salvatore believes your leadership goes beyond how you show up and communicate your truth.

    In this episode, Salvatore and Yo dive into the art and science of communication — exploring how content, delivery, and presence shape our impact. They discuss how introverts can command the room, why communication training often fails analytical thinkers, and how reframing fear into excitement can help you speak with confidence.


    ✨ In this episode, we cover:


    • How to own the spotlight no matter your comfort level with public speaking

    • The three pillars of communication: content, delivery, and presence

    • How to “reframe the rush” from fear to excitement

    • Why asynchronous communication (emails, texts) often misfires

    • The importance of intention and feedback in becoming a better communicator

    • How to adapt your communication style without losing authenticity

    • Taking up space — physically and emotionally — when you’ve been conditioned not to

    • What Salvatore would tell his 20-something self about voice and courage


    ⏱️ Episode Highlights


    00:00 – Welcome & introduction to Salvatore Manzi
    01:00 – The missing link in communication training for introverts
    04:40 – The three pillars: content, delivery, and presence
    06:55 – Why presence matters most in today’s world
    09:35 – Dialogue, not download — and why metaphors move minds
    11:02 – “You may be on mute, but your body isn’t”
    13:18 – Expanding what feels authentic
    15:31 – Reframing the rush: fear into excitement
    18:23 – How to add warmth to asynchronous communication
    22:17 – Setting intention before you speak
    23:42 – Why feedback fuels growth
    26:35 – Communication as context: knowing your audience
    29:15 – Taking up space and overcoming conditioning
    32:24 – Body and mind hacks to restore presence
    36:33 – “Speak before it feels comfortable” — Salvatore’s 20-something-self advice


    💡 Key Takeaways


    • Presence is built through self-awareness, not performance.

    • Communication is both art and science — it can be learned.

    • Fear and excitement feel the same in the body; label them wisely.

    • Every voice deserves space; every story deserves to be heard.


    ✨ Connect with Salvatore Manzi


    🌐 Website & Free Resources: salvatoremanzi.com/ccpb
    📸 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/salvatorejmanzi
    📘 Facebook: facebook.com/CommsCoachSalvatore
    📧 Email: salvatore@salvatoremanzi.com


    💌 Store Highlight


    Salvatore’s favorite from our Girl, Take the Lead! Card & Gift Shop is the “You Got This” card — a reminder to trust your worth, wisdom, and voice. Explore this and other guest-inspired cards at girltaketheleadpod.com/shop


    📬 Connect with Yo, Your Host


    🌐 Website: girltaketheleadpod.com
    📸 Instagram: @yocanny
    💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/yocanny
    📘 Facebook: facebook.com/yolanda.canny


    258. The Heart of Story — Sarah M. Eden on History, Hope, and the Art of Romance 22 Oct 202500:30:26

    Welcome back to Girl, Take the Lead! — the podcast where we share real, raw, and remarkable stories that inspire us to lead with courage and heart.

    Today’s guest is Sarah M. Eden (Millennial) — a USA Today best-selling author, screenwriter, and creative powerhouse whose witty, award-winning historical romances have sold over a million copies worldwide.

    Known for blending her obsession with history and affinity for tender, hopeful love stories, Sarah has written more than eighty-five novels and is now expanding her storytelling into film. Her upcoming movie, Seeking Persephone, reimagines the myth of Hades and Persephone as a Regency-era romance — and her latest novel, The Tides of Time, explores how love, guilt, and hope transcend centuries.

    In this episode, Sarah and Yo explore the heart of storytelling itself — why stories matter, how creativity lifts us through life’s oppositions, and why romance will always promise hope.


    ⏱️ Episode Highlights

    • How writers “train” their minds to see stories everywhere

    • The spark behind The Tides of Time and its time-travel premise

    • What adapting her own novel taught Sarah about letting go

    • How romance fiction empowers women and offers hope

    • Why joy is essential to creative longevity

    • How resistance and opposition help us rise — in life and in art

    • Sarah’s gentle message to her 20-something self


    Timestamps:

    00:00 – Welcome & introduction to Sarah M. Eden
    01:29 – How a dare launched her writing career
    02:25 – The story behind The Tides of Time — time travel meets the French Revolution
    04:20 – What makes a good storyteller — and how it can be learned
    07:42 – Letting go: when your story belongs to the world
    09:59 – Adapting Seeking Persephone for film and what changed in the process
    13:39 – Finding joy in creativity, even when it’s “work”
    14:38 – Sarah’s advice for aspiring writers: love the stage you’re in
    19:27 – Why romance fiction endures — and what hope it offers
    24:34 – The Finding Joy card story and how opposition gives us lift


    💡 Key Takeaways

    • Storytelling is an act of hope — a way to connect across time and emotion.

    • Opposition builds strength; resistance helps us rise higher.

    • Romance fiction celebrates women’s agency and resilience.

    • Creativity is joy — and joy sustains the creative life.

    • Every stage of your journey has meaning; don’t rush past it.


    ✨ Connect with Sarah M. Eden

    🌐 Website & Newsletter: sarahmeden.com
    📸 Instagram: @sarah_m_eden
    📘 Facebook: facebook.com/SarahMEden

    🎬 Coming Soon:

    • Mercury Raine (Books 1 & 2) — releasing October 2025

    • Seeking Persephone — film premiere expected late 2025


    💌 Store Highlight

    Sarah’s favorite from our Girl, Take the Lead! Card & Gift Shop is “Finding Joy” — featuring a hummingbird and flowers.
    She shared how her love of physics and birds reminds her that:

    “What allows birds to fly is opposition. As they flap down, they’re lifted up. Strength is found in opposition.”

    Explore this and other guest-inspired cards at: girltaketheleadpod.com/shop


    📬 Connect with Yo, Your Host

    🌐 Website: girltaketheleadpod.com
    📸 Instagram: @yocanny
    💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/yocanny
    📘 Facebook: facebook.com/yolanda.canny


    257. The Heart of Fairtrade — Leading with Purpose and Presence with Arisbe Mendoza 16 Oct 202500:35:17

    Welcome back to Girl, Take the Lead! — the podcast where we share real, raw, and remarkable stories that inspire us to lead with courage and heart.

    Today’s guest is Dr. Arisbe Mendoza (Gen X), Director of Global Impact, Advocacy, and Partnerships atFairtrade International in Bonn, Germany. A proud Mexican woman and passionate advocate for women’s leadership, Arisbe believes that leadership isn’t about titles — it’s about impact.

    In this inspiring conversation, we explore how Fairtrade transforms global trade into a force for equity, how women’s leadership creates ripples of change, and why joy, empathy, and authenticity are essential to leading with heart.

    ✨ In this episode, we cover:

    • The powerful origin story of the Fairtrade movement — and its deep roots in Mexico
    • How Fairtrade works with more than 1.9 million farmers and workers across 67 countries
    • Why true leadership is grounded in empathy, authenticity, and purpose
    • The Fairtrade Women’s School of Leadership and its impact on confidence and equality
    • How young people are driving awareness through the Fairtrade Ambassador Program
    • What sustainable livelihoods really mean — and how fair pricing changes lives
    • How global collaboration and trust build resilience across supply chains
    • Arisbe’s reflections on capitalism, resistance, and the ongoing relevance of Fairtrade
    • Her message to her 20-something self about trusting her voice and being bold
    • The leadership lesson behind her favorite phrase: “Joy in the everyday”

    ⏱️ Episode Highlights

    00:00 – Welcome & introduction to Dr. Arisbe Mendoza (Gen X)
    00:30 – Leadership as impact, not title — how Fairtrade reflects that mission
    01:49 – The Fairtrade story: from Mexican coffee farmers to a global movement
    04:42 – Why producers stay committed — and the challenges they face today
    06:45 – Connecting farmers to fair markets and meaningful partnerships
    09:29 – Empowering women through the Fairtrade Women’s School of Leadership
    11:24 – Youth advocacy and the Fairtrade Ambassador Program
    12:18 – Arisbe’s personal journey from Mexico to global leadership
    15:28 – The strategic vision for Fairtrade’s next decade
    17:18 – Sustainable livelihoods and the shared responsibility of supply chains
    20:36 – How listeners can support Fairtrade and ethical consumption
    24:00 – Why Arisbe remains hopeful amid global economic shifts
    27:07 – Her message to her 20-something self: trust your voice, even when it shakes
    28:34 – Her favorite pick from the GTTL shop — “Joy in the Everyday”
    30:03 – Final reflections and celebration of Fairtrade Month


    💡 Key Takeaways

    🌍 Fairtrade began as a movement for justice — and continues to support millions through dignity and fair pay.

    💫 Leadership thrives on empathy, purpose, and impact — not position or title.

    🌱 Sustainable livelihoods depend on shared responsibility across the entire supply chain.

    👩‍🌾 When women lead, entire communities rise.

    💛 Joy and purpose often live in the everyday moments that connect us.

    🗣️ Trust your voice, even when it shakes — that’s where leadership begins.


    ✨ Connect with Dr. Arisbe Mendoza & Fairtrade International

    📧 Email: info@fairtrade.net
    🌐 Website: fairtrade.net
    📘 Facebook: facebook.com/fairtrade
    📸 Instagram: @fairtradeofficial


    💌 Store Highlight

    Arisbe’s favorite from our Girl, Take the Lead! Card & Gift Shop was our “Joy in the Everyday” card — a gentle reminder that true leadership often lives in small, intentional moments. She also loved our You Bundle (“You Got This,” “You’re Amazing,” “You Rock!”) — the perfect way to lift others up with kindness and gratitude.


    Explore these and more guest-inspired designs at girltaketheleadpod.com/shop


    📬 Connect with Yo, Your Host

    🌐 Website: girltaketheleadpod.com
    📸 Instagram: @yocanny
    💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/yocanny
    📘 Facebook: facebook.com/yolanda.canny



    256. The Power of a Careerquake — Turning Loss into Leadership with Uma Thana Balasingam 14 Oct 202500:36:49

    Welcome back to Girl, Take the Lead! — the podcast where we share real, raw, and remarkable stories that inspire us to lead with courage and heart.


    Today’s guest is Uma Thana Balasingam (Gen X) — a powerhouse global tech executive turned founder, movement builder, and podcast host. Uma grew up in Malaysia, put herself through university, and rose from engineer to Vice President of Sales for global tech companies, leading more than 800 people across 48 markets and managing over $1 billion in revenue.


    Now, Uma is building her second career by launching companies and movements at the intersection of leadership, reinvention, and media. As founder of The ELEVATE Group, she’s architecting a future where five million women rise with her. Her hit podcast, RAW with UMA, amplifies raw, real voices across Asia Pacific — bridging strategy and soul, and inspiring women everywhere to rethink what’s possible.


    In this openhearted conversation, Uma shares what it’s like to experience what she calls a “careerquake” — that seismic professional shift that shakes your identity and calls you to reinvent. Together, we explore how grief and growth coexist, how sponsorship accelerates careers, and how to find belonging again when everything changes.


    ✨ In this episode, we cover:


    • What a careerquake really means — and how it can spark reinvention instead of regret

    • The emotional journey of leaving a beloved role: love, grief, and belonging

    • How to reframe career breaks as growth chapters, not gaps

    • Why workplace politics aren’t a dirty word — and how to play with integrity

    • The two currencies that drive careers: performance and relationships

    • How sponsorship (not just mentorship) accelerates opportunity

    • The leadership lessons from an inclusive boss who amplified women’s voices

    • The story behind RAW with UMA — and why she’s tackling the “hard things”

    • Uma’s powerful message to her 20-something self about colorism, courage, and challenging norms


    ⏱️ Episode Highlights

    00:00 – Welcome & introduction to Uma Thana Balasingam
    00:59 – Defining the “careerquake” and how it reshaped her sense of identity
    02:28 – From love to grief: what leaving behind success really feels like
    05:39 – Why workplace politics aren’t a dirty word — and how power truly flows
    09:28 – The inclusive boss who modeled how to amplify women’s voices
    11:22 – How to confidently reframe career breaks in interviews
    17:01 – The origin of Lean In Singapore and Uma’s Walk the Talk sponsorship platform
    23:11 – The backstory of RAW with UMA — turning eulogies into empowerment
    28:44 – Uma’s message to her 20-something self: challenge everything
    30:42 – Her favorite pick from the GTTL shop — and the birth of the “Careerquake” card


    💡 Key Takeaways


    • Careerquakes are breakthroughs, not breakdowns. Every shake-up reveals who you truly are.

    • Where there is love, there is grief. Transitions are emotional because they matter.

    • Belonging fuels leadership. Losing it can invite you to rediscover it within.

    • Workplace politics are simply the unwritten rules of power — learn them, don’t fear them.

    • Career breaks build resilience and perspective; own your story with confidence.

    • Sponsorship is the hidden accelerator for women’s advancement.

    • Challenge everything. Growth begins with asking bold questions, not having all the answers.


    ✨ Connect with Uma Thana Balasingam


    🌐 Website & Courses: linktr.ee/elevateasia 
    📧 Email: uma@elevateasia.org
    🎙️ Podcast: RAW with UMA (on YouTube and all major platforms)
    💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/umathana
    📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/uma__raw/
    📘 Facebook: facebook.com/profile.php?id=61564066752294


    💌 Store Highlight


    Uma inspired a new "Careerquake" card for our Girl, Take the Lead! Card & Gift Shop. Explore this and more guest-inspired cards here: girltaketheleadpod.com/shop


    📬 Connect with Yo, Your Host
    🌐 Website: girltaketheleadpod.com
    📸 Instagram: @yocanny
    💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/yocanny
    📘 Facebook: facebook.com/yolanda.canny


    255.  Go Be Great: Irma Neal on Resilience, Bullies and Chaos08 Oct 202500:38:11

    Welcome back to Girl, Take the Lead! — the podcast where we share real, raw, and remarkable stories that inspire us to lead with courage and heart.


    Today’s guest is Irma Neal — seasoned executive, entrepreneur, and author of Leading in Chaos: Insights to Lead Through the Storms. From her early years growing up poor as the oldest of eight, to leadership roles in government, Fortune 500 companies, and entrepreneurship, Irma brings hard-won wisdom about resilience, courage, and staying true to values even when storms rage.

    In this candid conversation, Irma shares what it means to lead in the midst of chaos and how every challenge can make us stronger.


    ✨ In this episode, we cover:

    • Why her father’s mantra “there’s no such word as can’t” shaped her entire career

    • The leadership lessons of asking for help, documenting facts, and not dumbing down your intelligence

    • How resilience is like muscle memory: the more chaos you face, the stronger you get

    • Light bulb moments that reveal when it’s time for change

    • Facing bullying, politics, and even extreme hate — and choosing courage and clarity

    • Why celebrating victories, big and small, fuels momentum and resilience


    This episode is a masterclass in courage under fire — and a reminder that storms don’t define us, but how we lead through them does.


    ⏱️ Episode Timestamps

    00:00 – Welcome & intro to Irma Neal
    00:31 – From humble beginnings to Fortune 500 VP
    01:26 – The lessons her parents instilled: “no such word as can’t” and “get an understanding”
    03:43 – Leading in Washington, D.C. amid chaos, overdoses, and politics
    06:05 – Leadership insights: documenting facts and asking for help
    08:21 – When problems resurface again and again
    09:46 – Light bulb moments: knowing when it’s time to move on
    12:40 – Building resilience through chaos
    15:28 – Staying true to values when the noise swirls
    15:56 – Not dumbing down your intelligence to fit in
    19:20 – Facing hate head-on: working for a KKK leader in Indiana
    21:49 – Learning to discern what’s racial and what’s ignorance
    25:32 – Bullying in the workplace: lessons and failures
    30:25 – Remembering we only know a slice of people’s lives
    31:51 – Irma’s advice to her 20-something self: “Go be great.”
    32:21 – Her favorite card pick: Celebrations


    💡 Key Takeaways

    • Resilience builds like muscle memory: every storm makes you stronger.

    • Good documentation is better than a character witness — facts matter.

    • Asking for help is a leadership strength, not a weakness.

    • Don’t dumb down your intelligence to fit in. Own your voice.

    • Celebrate small wins — they fuel confidence and resilience.


    ✨ Connect with Irma Neal

    🌐 Website: onyx2rise.com
    💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/onyx2rise
    📘 Facebook: facebook.com/onyx2rise
    📸 Instagram: @onyx2rise
    📝 Free Resource: Money Mindset Quiz


    💌 Store Highlight

    Irma’s favorite from our card and gift shop is the Celebrations card — because she believes victories, big or small, are worth celebrating. Explore it and more guest-inspired cards here: girltaketheleadpod.com/shop


    📬 Connect with Yo, Your Host

    🌐 Website: girltaketheleadpod.com
    📸 Instagram: @yocanny
    💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/yocanny
    📘 Facebook: facebook.com/yolanda.canny

    254. Rita Lussier on Love, Loss, and Rediscovering Yourself01 Oct 202500:39:10

    Welcome back to Girl, Take the Lead! — the podcast where we explore the real, raw, and remarkable stories of people breaking cycles, finding freedom, and leading with courage.

    Today’s episode features Rita Lussier, Boomer, writer, longtime Providence Journal columnist, and now author of And Now, Back to Me. Her debut book reflects on the bittersweet transition from hands-on motherhood to empty nesting, weaving together grief, gratitude, and the journey of rediscovery.


    ✨ In this conversation, we cover:

    • Why the empty nest often feels harder — and more layered — than expected

    • How small symbols (like a child’s blanket or a grocery-store snack) can trigger powerful emotions

    • Practical ways to “rewire” after years of care giving and start investing in yourself again

    • The importance of finding bliss in everyday moments — new windows, banana bread, or a neighbor’s smile

    • How strength, reinvention, and gratitude emerge through life’s transitions


    Rita’s heartfelt stories remind us that while change may bring loss, it also offers an invitation: to rediscover who we are, to create again, and to embrace the journey with joy.


    ⏱️ Timestamps📖 

    00:00 – Meet Rita Lussier: journalist, columnist, and debut author
    01:27 – Why she wrote And Now Back to Me and how it resonated beyond parenting
    04:18 – A moving passage about motherhood, grief, and creating again
    07:15 – Yo’s story of sending her daughter to college and the moment of grief that followed
    08:42 – The “power bar” story and how everyday objects spark emotions
    10:09 – Fat Pinky, blankets, and the bittersweet speed of time
    11:05 – Rewiring: investing in self-care after years of care giving
    13:28 – Finding joy in everyday moments and “the good old days”
    18:23 – Gratitude, new windows, and seeing with fresh eyes
    25:05 – How the empty nest brings focus back to relationships
    26:00 – Rediscovering your own voice beyond roles of motherhood and career
    27:44 – The strength that comes from embracing transitions
    31:07 – Stress and hardship as invitations to grow


    💡 Key Takeaways📬

  • Rewiring is essential. After years of care giving, investing in your own joy and self-care helps you heal and rediscover yourself.

  • Gratitude transforms perspective. A neighbor’s smile, a new window, or even laundry can become sources of joy when we learn to see fully.

  • Strength is built in the process. Grief, change, and even hardship become catalysts for resilience and growth.


    Resources & Links:

    Rita’s book: ⁠www.amazon.com⁠

    Available Now⁠Bookshop⁠ | ⁠Amazon⁠ | ⁠Barnes & Noble


    Connect with Rita:

    Website: ritalussier.com
    Email: rita@ritalussier.com
    https://www.facebook.com/ritalussierauthor/

    https://www.instagram.com/ritalussierauthor/⁠


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    Instagram: ⁠@yocanny⁠

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    253. We Got This: Thriving Through Cancer, Grief, and Community with Elissa24 Sep 202500:46:07

    In this heartfelt episode of Girl, Take the Lead!, I sit down with Elissa Kalver, Millennial author of We Got This, stage 4 metastatic breast cancer thriver, nonprofit founder, and advocate for re-imagining how we support one another through life’s hardest challenges.

    Elissa shares how her diagnosis just before her daughter’s first birthday reshaped her perspective on life, grief, and community — and how it led to her mission of normalizing support through her groundbreaking nonprofit registry, WeGotThis.org.


    Timestamps:

    • 00:28 – Elissa’s diagnosis and redefining survival

    • 02:26 – Her book We Got This and what it means to “beat” cancer

    • 04:40 – “Surviving is not enough”: choosing to thrive

    • 07:59 – Clarity in the midst of trauma

    • 11:19 – Lessons from grief

    • 13:36 – Why community and action matter in grief and healing

    • 18:46 – Passage from her book on grief as cancer’s parallel

    • 24:15 – Honoring the journey: why Elissa keeps her chemo photos

    • 25:43 – Eye-opening stats on metastatic breast cancer

    • 29:05 – WeGotThis.org Registry: practical and joyful support

    • 31:22 – How to donate and get involved

    • 33:10 – Elissa’s favorite passage: “Never forget to dance”

    • 37:18 – What she’d tell her 20-something self


  • Key Takeaways:

  • Thriving > Surviving – Elissa reminds us that it’s not enough to simply endure illness or grief; we deserve to live fully and joyfully.

  • Grief as Transformation – Grief can metastasize like cancer if ignored, but it can also open pathways to clarity, empathy, and new ways of living.

  • Redefining Support – Her nonprofit registry makes it easier for patients and families to ask for and receive help — from wigs and mouthwash to concert tickets.

  • Living Intentionally – Whether it’s dancing nightly with her daughter or driving an hour for the best olive oil, Elissa shows us how to savor the everyday.

  • Community Matters – Moving from “You got this” to We got this reflects the collective strength we find in supporting one another.


    Favorite Quotes

    • “I don’t need to be in remission or cured to beat this. I’m beating it by living my life fully.”

    • “Grief, like cancer, can metastasize if ignored — but it can also transform us.”

    • “Even if you’re facing the trial of a lifetime, don’t forget to dance.”

    • “It’s not wrong to say ‘You got this.’ But ‘We got this’ feels stronger — because it’s about community.”


    Resources:


    Store Tie-In 💌

    This episode inspired new We Got This card in the Girl, Take the Lead! Heartfelt Cards & Gifts Shop — a reminder that support is stronger when shared. Send one to someone in your circle who needs to feel the we.


    📬 Connect with Elissa:


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    252. Rewriting Memories, Rekindling Connections with Amy Weinland-Daughters17 Sep 202500:35:15

    Welcome back to Girl, Take the Lead! — the podcast where we share real, raw, and remarkable stories that inspire us to lead with courage and heart.

    Today’s guest is Amy Weinland-Daughters — Gen X keynote speaker, satirist, and author of both fiction and nonfiction works that explore memory, connection, and the surprising power of handwritten letters.

    In this heartfelt conversation, Amy takes us on two remarkable journeys:

    • ✨ Through her fictional book, You Cannot Mess This Up, where she time-travels back to 1978, revisits her 10-year-old self, and re-examines childhood memories through the wiser lens of adulthood.

    • 💌 Through her nonfiction experience captured in Dear Dana, where a single supportive letter grew into 600 handwritten notes that transformed her relationships, her perspective, and her sense of connection across divides.

    This episode is about more than books or letters — it’s about memory, healing, and rediscovering the value of slowing down to connect with each other in meaningful ways.

    00:00 – Welcome 
    01:20 – Meet Amy Weinland-Daughters: author, speaker, mom
    01:46 – Writing herself back to 1978 You Cannot Mess This Up
    03:14 – How memories shift, heal, and shape us
    07:37 – Honoring the fearless child within
    11:25 – Generational perspectives on change and rebellion
    17:56 – How 600 handwritten letters began with one old friend
    20:40 – The loss of Parker and continuing to write letters
    22:36 – Two years of modern-day pen pal exchange
    23:59 – Writing 580 letters: how it transformed Amy’s life
    25:55 – Reading a powerful excerpt from Dear Dana
    28:48 – How listeners can connect with Amy
    29:18 – Amy’s advice to her 20-something self


    Episode Takeaways

    • Memories are malleable. Revisiting them with fresh eyes can bring healing and compassion for ourselves and others.

    • Our real lives matter. Every story — even suburban childhoods or “ordinary” experiences — has profound value.

    • Connection changes everything. A single handwritten note can make someone feel deeply seen and valued.

    • Small gestures are powerful. Slowing down, writing, and caring intentionally can reshape relationships and even bridge divides.

    Amy reminded us how powerful handwritten notes can be. To make it easier for you to spread kindness, check out the Girl, Take the Lead! Heartfelt Cards & Gifts shop. Each card is designed to spark joy and connection — perfect for your own “Dear Dana” moments. 


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    251. Permission to Be You: Embracing Passion and Purpose11 Sep 202500:45:38

    Author, Boomer, and CEO of Purpose Linked Consulting, Alaina Love, is a nationally recognized leadership coach and purpose expert, helping people lead better lives for more than 20 years.

    Her book, Permission to Be You: Discover Your Purpose and Passions to Bring Your Best Self to Everything—and Everyone, just launched and reveals the power of passion-centered living to bring clarity and fulfillment to work, relationships, and life’s biggest transitions.

    Love was formerly a research scientist and executive director of global human resources at Merck & Co., Inc. She has served as a leadership columnist for Bloomberg Business Week, The Washington Post, Harvard Business Review, and SmartBrief.


    💡 We explore:

    • The concept of self-expansion in relationships and life

    • Understanding your passions and bringing them into work and personal life

    • Giving yourself permission to fail, choose yourself, and live authentically

    • How younger generations navigate purpose, passion, and practical life challenges

    • Practical ways to integrate passion-centered experiences into daily life


    🔑 3 Big Takeaways:

    1. You can bring your authentic self to any situation, career, or relationship.

    2. Giving yourself permission to fail and to choose yourself is crucial for growth.

    3. Understanding and nurturing your passions fuels fulfillment and connection.


    🛍️ Online Store Highlight:


    Check out our specially designed bookmark “Embrace the Journey”—perfect to accompany Permission to Be You or to remind you to honor your own journey: Girl, Take the Lead! Heartfelt Cards & Gifts


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    250. Empowering The Next Generation Girls to Lead with Mary Jane Strom09 Sep 202500:32:24

    Today’s guest is Mary Jane Strom, the CEO of Girl Scouts Northern California since April 2025. Mary Jane has over 20 years of experience in youth development, nonprofit leadership, and outdoor programming. She’s a lifetime Girl Scout member and a Gold Award recipient—the highest honor a Girl Scout can achieve.

    Mary Jane has been with Girl Scouts for decades, starting as a youth member, growing into a young adult staff member, and now leading the organization. She’s passionate about empowering girls to take the lead and creating opportunities that meet the needs of today’s youth.


    💡 In this episode, we explore:

    • How youth-led initiatives and task groups are transforming Girl Scouts.

    • The importance of moving at the pace of today’s girls.

    • Strategies to reduce barriers to participation and expand access to underserved communities.

    • The role of supportive adult volunteers in fostering growth and leadership.

    • The impact of outdoor programs, STEM opportunities, and entrepreneurship experiences.

    • MJ’s advice to her 20-something self: take action, don’t wait for permission.

    ⏱ Timestamps & Highlights

    • 11:45 – MJ explains youth-led initiatives and mentoring programs for girls.

    • 12:15 – MJ reflects on her personal journey from Girl Scout to leader.

    • 13:34 – Rethinking rules and letting girls take the lead in decisions.

    • 14:32 – Pride in Girl Scout properties and camps, preparing girls for outdoor experiences.

    • 15:27 – Expanding access through community programs and school partnerships.

    • 16:23 – Introducing the “third space” concept: Girl Scouts alongside home and school.

    • 17:22 – The importance of social connection, troop meetings, and sisterhood.

    • 19:17 – The role of supportive adult volunteers in guiding girls’ leadership.

    • 21:12 – STEM and entrepreneurship programs, including Space Cookies robotics and the cookie program.

    • 24:26 – How to join, volunteer, or donate to Girl Scouts Northern California.

    • 25:24 – MJ’s advice to her 20-something self: don’t wait to take action.

    💬 Notable Quotes

    • “We can’t afford to slow down. We have to keep moving forward. We have to keep progressing. We have to keep being what girls today need.” – MJ Strom

    • “If something bugs you about the place that you’re working or volunteering, ask why it’s done that way and then make the change you want to see.” – MJ Strom

    • “Girl Scouts is a sisterhood full of supportive adults and opportunities for girls to take the lead.” – MJ Strom

    🔑 3 Big Takeaways

    1. Youth-Led Leadership Matters: Girls thrive when they’re empowered to make decisions and take ownership of programs.

    2. Volunteers Amplify Impact: Adult mentors provide guidance, encouragement, and real-world learning experiences.

    3. Opportunities for All Girls: From STEM to outdoor adventures and entrepreneurship, Girl Scouts creates multiple pathways for personal growth and leadership development.

    🌐 Resources & Links

    🛍️ Online Store Highlight
    Mary Jane chose the Girl Scouts-themed card: “Lead with heart. Inspire action.”
    Her reflection: “Leadership is about creating opportunities for others to shine—and that starts with our girls.”

    📬 Connect With Mary Jane

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    249. Give Up to Grow – Overcoming Fear, Limiting Beliefs, and Taking Control with Lana Shepard03 Sep 202500:38:24

    Lana Shepard, Boomer, business coach, author, and financial literacy advocate, joins us to explore mindset shifts, transformational lessons, and practical strategies that fuel both personal and entrepreneurial growth.

    Drawing from her 40+ years of experience supporting over 1,300 small business clients, Lana shares how letting go of limiting beliefs, embracing fear, and leaning on support can ignite success and resilience.


    💡 In this episode:

    • Lana’s journey from bookkeeping and payroll to authoring the Give Up series

    • The pivotal lesson from her mentor: success comes from what you give up, not what you hold on to

    • Fear of failure and lifelong beliefs that shape our decisions

    • Transformative experiences, including Tony Robbins’ fire walk

    • Learning to ask for help and building supportive networks

    • Embracing financial literacy and overcoming fear of numbers

    • Practices to cultivate gratitude, courage, and momentum


    🎧 Timestamps (Major Moments)

    0:00 – Welcome and introduction to Lana Shepard1:30 – The Give Up book series and key lessons3:28 – Overcoming fear of failure and limiting beliefs8:59 – Stepping outside comfort zones: the fire walk 12:06 – The role of support systems and asking for help13:31 – Financial literacy: understanding numbers 16:45 – Practices to cultivate gratitude, courage, and momentum


    💬 Memorable Quotes

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    “Success is less about what you take on and more about what you give up.”

    “You can’t have fun until the work ends—and sometimes the work never ends, unless you let it.”

    “Once you take that first step, momentum carries you forward.”

    “Fear is often inherited from old beliefs—awareness is the first step to letting it go.”


    🔑 3 Big Takeaways

    1. Awareness empowers action: Recognizing hidden beliefs and self-talk patterns is essential for growth.

    2. Courage is cultivated: Stepping out of your comfort zone builds confidence, momentum, and resilience.

    3. Asking for help is strength: Support systems accelerate success personally and professionally.


    🛠️ Tools & Resources Mentioned

    • Give Up Ignition by Lana Shepard (amazon.com)

    • Tony Robbins’ Unleash the Power Within (UPW) fire walk experience
    • Byron Katie Judge Your Neighbor Worksheet https://thework.com/resources/


  • 📬 Connect With Lana

    Website: www.giveupbook.com


    📬 Stay Connected With Your Host, Yo

    Website: girltaketheleadpod.comEmail: yo@yocanny.comInstagram: @yocannyFB Group: Girl, Take the Lead!Online Store: https://girltaketheleadpod.com/shop

    248: When Pleasing Hurts: Healing the Mother-Daughter Dynamic27 Aug 202500:44:58

    Katherine Fabrizio, Boomer, psychotherapist with 35 years of experience, joins us to explore the often hidden dynamics between mothers and daughters. Drawing from her extensive clinical work and her book, Katherine dives into how good daughters navigate boundaries, individuation, and maternal expectations—and how understanding these patterns can unlock personal freedom.

    💡 In this episode:

    • Katherine’s journey from practicing alongside her mother to finding her own voice

    • Why the “good daughter” role can feel both protective and paralyzing

    • Differentiating narcissistic, borderline, and covert mothers in real-life dynamics

    • Recognizing internalized guilt and patterns of approval-seeking

    • Practical insights for reclaiming boundaries and autonomy

    ⏱️ Timestamps

    0:00 – Welcome and introduction to Katherine
    0:31 – Katherine’s early career and working with her mother
    1:56 – Making the difficult choice to leave the shared practice
    2:24 – Boundaries and individuation: why they weren’t taught
    3:22 – The inspiration for writing her book
    4:21 – Reconciling with her mother at the end of her life
    5:17 – Understanding different maternal patterns
    6:17 – Narcissistic, borderline, and covert mothers explained
    11:08 – Reading the 10 scenarios of the “good daughter trap”
    14:19 – How childhood patterns shape adult responses and shame
    16:40 – Taking charge of your inner child
    17:09 – Understanding the difficult mother


    💬 Memorable Quotes

    • “Staying would break me. Leaving broke her heart—but I survived. So did she.”

    • “Boundaries weren’t even a thing back then; learning them was revolutionary.”

    • “Many daughters carry guilt for differentiating. Understanding your mother’s patterns can be liberating.”

    • “The good daughter cycle is like an accent—you internalize it and it becomes normal.”

    • “Sometimes the kindest thing you can do for your mother is to step into your own life fully.”

    • “Healing isn’t about erasing the past; it’s about reclaiming your power in the present.”

    • “We often try to please to survive. Learning that you can exist authentically is life-changing.”

    • “Mother-daughter patterns don’t define you—you define your response to them.”


    🔑 3 Big Takeaways

    1. Awareness is freedom. Understanding the maternal dynamics you grew up with allows you to break generational patterns.

    2. Boundaries are essential. Differentiating from a mother—even a loving one—can be painful but necessary for personal growth.

    3. Healing is relational. Reconciling with the past, while not condoning harm, creates space for autonomy and self-compassion.


    🛠️ Tools & Resources Mentioned

    • The Good Daughter Trap by Katherine Fabrizio – available wherever books are sold

    • Psychotherapy insights on boundaries, individuation, and mother-daughter dynamics


    🛍️ Online Store Highlight

    Katherine chose a card representing self-empowerment and boundary-setting:
    "Know your worth, set your limits, honor your story."
    Check out our online store here!


    📬 Connect With Katherine
    Website: Are you a "Good Daughter" Free Quiz https://daughtersrising.info/good-daughter-quiz/
    Email: katherinefabrizio@daughtersrising.info

    https://www.facebook.com/thegooddaughter

    https://www.instagram.com/katherinefabrizio/


    📬 Stay Connected With Your Host, Yo
    Website: girltaketheleadpod.com
    Email: yo@yocanny.com
    Instagram: @yocanny
    FB Group: Girl, Take the Lead!

    247. Beyond the Budget: Leading Yourself to Money Freedom20 Aug 202500:32:17

    Veronica Deraleau—financial coach, Army veteran, fintech leader, opera singer (!), and author of Making Money is Simple—joins us for an eye-opening conversation about money mindset, debt, and the courage to rewrite your financial story.

    Through personal experience and her signature ARIA money model, Veronica helps us shift from shame and confusion into clarity and intentionality around money. You’ll walk away inspired, empowered, and ready to take action—from a place of alignment.

    💡 In this episode:

    • What it means to be “money stuck” and how to break free

    • The ARIA money model: Awaken, Reframe, Intention, Action

    • Why mindset (not math!) is the first step toward financial freedom

    • The surprising role opera played in Veronica’s money journey

    • How cultural and family beliefs shape our money stories

    • A fresh take on caregiving, values-based spending, and tough trade-offs

    • The myth of “having it all” and the power of ruthless prioritization

    🎧 Timestamps

    0:00 – Welcome0:30 – Veronica’s story: MBA, debt, and transformation2:00 – What “money stuck” means and how shame keeps us trapped2:55 – Excerpt: What is money freedom?4:24 – The ARIA model explained5:20 – Why opera helped fuel Veronica’s financial freedom8:39 – How our “autopilot” thinking gets in the way10:37 – Generational shifts: Comparison, social media, and caregiving12:56 – Hidden spending triggers (especially for moms)14:19 – Teaching kids trade-offs and modeling values-based spending15:46 – Money lessons from high-net-worth individuals17:43 – Shame vs. creativity: What truly motivates change18:42 – Who the book resonates with—and why it surprised her
    20:34 – Couples, money, and mismatched financial engagement22:31 – Breaking inherited financial scripts

    💬 Memorable Quotes

    “Debt will always be the abattoir of creative dreams.” – Elizabeth Gilbert (quoted by Veronica)
    “Money freedom starts when we change how we think—not just what we do.”
    “You can’t just budget your way out of shame. You have to reframe.”
    “Don’t pre-reject yourself. Even trying and failing is feedback.”
    “Your values—not guilt—should guide your financial decisions.”


    🔑 3 Big Takeaways

    1. Mindset is the foundation of financial freedom. Veronica’s ARIA model guides us to awaken, reframe, set clear intentions, and take action—with purpose.

    2. We must unlearn inherited money beliefs. From immigrant households to societal norms, we all carry invisible scripts that shape how we view and handle money.

    3. Caregivers need to prioritize sustainability. Spending out of love can still lead to burnout and debt. Teaching children about trade-offs is a gift for their future.


    🛠️ Tools & Resources Mentioned

    • Making Money is Simple by Veronica Deraleau – available on Amazon

    • Website: makingmoneyissimple.com

    • Social: @makingmoneyissimple (Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn, Pinterest)


    🛍️ Online Store Highlight
    Veronica chose our “Trust Your Gut” snarky cat card. Wrapped in red threads and full of attitude, this card captures her message of courage and trusting your inner wisdom.


    📬 Connect With Veronica
    Website: makingmoneyissimple.com
    Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn | Pinterest: @makingmoneyissimple


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    Website: girltaketheleadpod.comEmail: yo@yocanny.comInstagram: @yocannyFB Group: Girl, Take the Lead!Online Store: girltaketheleadpod.com/shop

    246. Centering Energy, Claiming Power, Creating Legacy13 Aug 202500:32:20

    Sylvia Rohde-Liebenau, executive coach, author, and global change agent, joins us to explore what it really means to lead with power in today’s chaotic world. Her book Who’s in Charge? is more than a leadership guide—it’s a call to consciousness.

    From energy and embodiment to legacy and self-awareness, Sylvia invites us to look inward before stepping outward.


    💡 In this episode:

    • The difference between transformational and transformative leadership

    • How leaders can claim their power by embodying presence

    • Why legacy starts with the choices we make daily

    • A deeply personal story of writing her own obituary as a turning point

    • How joy, art, and truth-telling are powerful leadership tools


    🎧 Timestamps

    0:00 – Welcome
    8:09 – Book overview: A guide for leaders in a chaotic world
    10:03 – Energy, Power, Legacy: The three core elements
    12:30 – Why energy management is foundational
    24:51 – Awareness, embodiment, and voice: The physicality of leadership
    27:00 – Joy in the process: Why embodiment brings freedom
    30:12 – Every action counts: Small-scale leadership still changes the world
    34:15 – Owning your voice even after past regrets
    36:10 – Humility as a powerful leadership trait


    💬 Memorable Quotes

    “Choose your actions—because when they’re made in choice, they’ll make a difference.”

    “Joy comes when we embody who we truly are—not just function how we’ve been conditioned.”

    “Leadership isn’t about being at the top—it’s about being in integrity with yourself.”

    “You don’t need to be loud to be powerful. You need to be aligned.”

    “Spill your story—even if no one’s listening. It’s yours to tell.”

    “Follow your bliss. It’s the path to fulfillment and, ultimately, success.”


    🔑 3 Big Takeaways

    1. Power is presence. True leadership comes from managing your energy, owning your voice, and being fully embodied in the moment—not from titles or external control.

    2. Every action builds legacy. Whether you’re a CEO or just starting out, how you respond to daily choices defines your leadership. You are shaping your legacy moment by moment.

    3. Leadership is a practice—anchored in truth. Sylvia invites us to “spill our story” and follow our bliss, because when we lead from authenticity, we lead from power.


    🛠️ Tools & Resources Mentioned


    🛍️ Online Store Highlight
    Sylvia chose the Frida Kahlo card: “Paint your story. Spill your truth.” Her reflection? “Dare to tell your story and your truth—even if no one’s listening.”


    📬 Connect With Sylvia


    📬 Stay Connected With Your Host, Yo


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