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The secret key to anal sex
10 Oct 2023
00:17:13
Listen, I know its been a minute but this episode was TOO good to leave in my drafts from a few months ago. Have you wanted to know the secrets of mindblowing anal sex, surrender and what it means to call in more connectedness during penetration? Tune into this 15 min riff on everything NOT practical you need to know to create the most delicious anal sex of your life.
Feeling disconnected from your sensuality?
08 Apr 2023
00:17:45
Listen, we all need a good reminder every once in a while; myself included. This is for you if you want to reconnect to your sensuality, your feel good place or just feel re-inspired about how easy it can be to build intimacy with your self or your lover.
The 1 thing that will suck the fun out of your sex life
14 Sep 2022
00:25:04
If you drop this one thing, I can almost guarantee you'll have more fun in your sex life. There is a place and a time for it though.. In this episode I drop some gems on how you can make your sex life + the rest of your life a little easier by taking inventory of this 1 thing. We all need these simple reminders, but often times we don't think too deeply about them. So of course as the Pussy Fairy, Im here to remind you, myself and everyone who tunes into this podcast to ditch this one thing so we can all get back to what we are really here for: More Pleasure! xo The Pussy Fairy
Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course. This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other! https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easy
Ancestral work, motherhood + sexual healing with Mina Aidoo
31 Aug 2022
00:45:37
After a week off I'm back and with a real special conversation around ancestral healing with Mina Aidoo. Tune into this conversation that sparked so many aha moment's and brings the real honest truth about how sometimes we need to go deeper in our healing through ancestral healing, the sexual healing journey as a whole and of course motherhood. Come and catch the vibe with us!
" Hi I'm Mina, I am a Healer, Embodiment Coach, Artist, poet & trained professional dancer / choreographer. My story involves turning down a West End World Tour to find myself spiritually, drinking plant medicine, shaving my head, learning all about sacred sexuality, healing my mother wound, releasing a book of poetry and so much more.And my book ‘Inky Black Woman’ went to Number one on the Amazon African Literature Chart. I now teach Women & Femmes how to access the hidden power of their bodies so that they can heal trauma, reconnect to their sexuality & sensuality, reclaim their wildest desires and fully step into their pleasure and purpose." Mina offers 1-1 Sessions, Groups and workshops. Click here to follow her on Instagram or find Mina's Link tree here
xo The Pussy Fairy Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course. This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other! https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easy
Start your day feeling like the confident bad bitch you are. Need a little pick me up and feeling low on confidence? Need to remember your power and who the fuck you are? These Affirmations will get you back in your groove baby. 8 minutes of high-dose empowerment coming your way. This is all you need to spark that fire back up! xo The Pussy Fairy
Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course. This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other! https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easy
Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples and shared about it on Instagram live. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course. This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other! https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easy
Do you like edging? Edging alone vs. partnered, what are the best things about it and what are the things that aren't that great? I sit down with my friend Anna + my partner Ry to talk about our experiences edging and offer 4 hot tips on how YOU can make your edging experience soo much more fun! We also get into airplane sex and thoughts on edging with toys vs. fingers. Whether you have tried edging before and consider yourself a pro or if you have no idea what I'm on about you're in for a treat. xo The Pussy Fairy
The stories around fantasy's can be varied, but in this episode I share why I love them so much and why they can be such a powerful way of connecting in your relationships. What do they show us? How can we make them fee more expansive? Do we have to live them out? How can we use them to our advantage? Drop into this episode and leave feeling inspired - its a quickie that will definitely have you curious about your next sexual brain adventure!
Parent Tell interview: The roller coaster that is sex after baby
20 Jul 2022
00:53:26
If you've ever wanted to hear stories about my sex life after having a baby here you have it! I was invited on the Parent Tell podcast and I'm pretty sure my most awkward post-baby sex story lives on that podcast and now I'm letting you hear it. Kaila and I talk about all the ups and down's that come with the changes of kids + small babies in particular. Parent Tell shared: "Azaria highlights the importance of honouring your body's wants and needs, whatever they may be, while getting creative with what it means to be intimate with your partner. Because yes, since you've become a parent you are short on time, patience, energy, you name it. But that doesn't mean that your love life should suck." - True dat. Whether you just gave birth, are about to, have a small child or even curious about all my funny stories.... tune in. I promise you.. you'll leave with a lot of gems some that will change the way you view sex after having a baby, some that will definitely make the journey easier and some that will inspire you to feel empowered and bad ass!
This is one of the biggest questions I get - "How do I talk to my partner about my desires" and also "How do I convey a feeling that I want". In this episode I'll share with you a really simple way to look at this, something that will really change the way you approach the conversations you have around desires and fantasy's. I go over things like: What happens when we share our desires and our partners don't get the hint. How to even talk about your deepest fantasy and wants, what gets in the way of communicating this and is it really about the technique? Tune in this this practical episode to understand the ins and out's of sex + communication. xo The Pussy Fairy
Learn the art of surrender and receiving in the bedroom
28 Jun 2022
00:22:04
If you've ever been curious how to tap into deep surrender in the bedroom, this practical episode will give you the tips! I share: What happens in the mind-body connection when it comes to surrender? Whats the damm thing that stops us from surrendering? The one big thing you need to know about surrender and receiving, and the one pre-curser to surrender. I share some juicy journal questions and share my easy go2 personal favs to drop into my body during/before lovemaking you don't wanna miss.
We didn't have sex for almost 4 weeks.... tips for you too!
21 Jun 2022
00:26:40
OMG, the sex coach isn't having sex wtf? What our most recent dry spell looked like and how you can get out of yours. This episode was as long awaited as the sex we weren't having! I go over : What happens when you have a dry spell and what causes them? How can you have bad ass intimacy with out sex? The sex or nothing phenomenon I see so often among couples and how to transition from no sex - sex. Ya'll know I like to get personal, so I shared my recent experience and the things we did before to ground, connect and create a safer space for re-entry (see what I did there) . This episode is one you don't wanna miss. Grab your cup of coffee or tea, pull on those fuzzy socks, or tackle that laundry pile and tune in for a dose of Pussy Fairy Tea. xo The Pussy Fairy
Search for these episodes about the sexual seasons I mentioned in this episode: "The best kept secret about your libido" "Why periods of low libido are important"
Don't listen to this if you don't want to know what could happen at a kinky birthday party! Meg and I sit down for a slightly chaotic and engaging chat about a juicy event I hosted for Meg's kinky birthday. Meg shared their favourite and sexiest moments from the party, what it was like to be spanked, teased and worshipped and you may or may not find out what big role honey plays into all of this. If you have ever been curious what could be possible at this type of event, tune in. We discuss how consent, communication, preparation and intention can set a really good foundation for yummy and delicious experiences! Do I drop some bombs about cake sitting fetishes, my Domme work and all the kinky contraptions I have in my house... ? I don't know you'll have to find out you curious little cat.
Meg Froehler is a Métis, queer, gender fluid, photographer who specializes in creating safe spaces for her subjects to discover self empowerment and to witness themselves in a new light. They love to work in the realms of kink, sexual health, queer weddings and motherhood. You can find them on Instagram @meg.froehler and they are open to inquiries at froehler.photography@gmail.com
How I feel about my Ex's partner!
14 Jun 2022
00:17:17
This episode might surprise you a little! I spent the weekend celebrating pride with my hubby, my ex and her partner and I felt really called to get up-close and personal with you all about how I feel. We have a choice in how we show up in the relationships in our life. Sometimes just sometimes, things don't go the way we planned. In this episode I share what happened when I said yes to staying close with the family of my ex , my ex and how I feel about her partner! Can it work? Is everything falling apart? Is there a war or are we all super tight? Tune in, you might be inspired or triggered or find that this is something that is already present in your life. xo The Pussy Fairy PS: Grab the guided pussy massage I spoke about in this episode here https://www.azariamenezes.com/shop/make-her-purrr
What's that thing blocking your pleasure and intimacy?
31 May 2022
00:31:00
If you want to know what that thing is thats often blocking you from greater pleasure + intimacy, or what that thing is that totally stops you from doing the things you KNOW would be the game changer in your sex life... tune in. We all have this in one area of our lives or more. When it comes to sex and relationships; I see this one come up ALOT. In this episode I share what that thing is and all the practical ways you can overcome this. If you want to learn how to understand what happens in your body, who the hell is stopping you from bigger orgasms or better communication in your relationship, if you wanna finally catch the villain of your relationship that stops you from doing the things that will mov the needle forward in your relationship tune in. You won't wanna miss out on the fucking gems I drop in here for you! You'll walk away with so much insight on your internal cockblocker :P xo The Pussy Fairy PS: Grab the guided pussy massage I spoke about in this episode here https://www.azariamenezes.com/shop/make-her-purrr
Boundaries, self trust and self love with Veronica Puryear
23 May 2022
00:41:17
Let's unpack all the ways you can use boundaries, self love and self trust for your relationships with yourself and others. Veronica a Somatic Sex, Intimacy, and Relationship Guide sits down with the Pussy Fairy to chat about all the ways we can celebrate all of our parts so we can show up feeling more grounded in our self trust. If you have ever wondered what it could look like to deepen your intimacy with self trust, what it could look like to create a more loving relationship wth setting boundaries and how we can actually find joy and silliness in the parts of ourselves we lovvve to loathe. Veronica drops some serious gems in this episode and you might wanna tune in if youre ready to get intimate with a double whammy of 2 intimacy enthusiasts! Grab your cup of coffee or tea, pull on those fuzzy socks, or tackle that laundry pile and tune in for a dose of Pussy Fairy Tea. xo The Pussy Fairy
About our guest: I'm Veronica (aka Indelicate Coaching) and I'm a Somatic Sex, Intimacy, and Relationship Guide. I go deep into emotional experiences to help you to transform from lonely to a leader in love, from frustrated to erotic mastery, and from disconnected to fully embodied pleasure. In addition to my degrees in psychology and management, I have trained with the Somatica Institute and a very humorous Universe. I'm a Scorpio moon, cat mom, HSV+, and stone cold fox. indelicatecoaching.com Find Veronica @indelicate_coaching on instagram
What's the real reason couples get into arguments? Why do these arguments even start? How is it that one small thing can turn into a silly debate? What is the thing that triggers an argument in couples? This instagram live was too good not to share on the podcast! This has been a common theme amongst my couples clients in the last two weeks. These 22 minutes will give you sooooo much insight on what sounds the alarm bells off in your body and what you can do about it! Grab your cup of coffee or tea, pull on those fuzzy socks, or tackle that laundry pile and tune in for a dose of Pussy Fairy Tea. xo The Pussy Fairy PS: Grab the guided pussy massage I spoke about in this episode here https://www.azariamenezes.com/shop/make-her-purrr
*Disclaimer: By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition in either yourself or others, including but not limited to patients that you are treating. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. Anything said should NOT be taken as a replacement for medical, clinical, professional advice, diagnosis, or medical intervention. If you take any action or inaction as a result of any of the content you consume on this Podcast, this is based solely on your decision, and Azaria Menezes and her guests cannot be held liable for any of the consequences of such action or inaction. This podcast represents the opinions of Azaria Menezes and also the opinions of her guests on the show and my guests do not necessarily reflect any agency or organization or company that they work for.
A past client shares all the tea about the work we did
10 May 2022
00:35:55
We want the real tea from real people. I caught up with Sky, a previous client of mine and she shared all the HOT details of her dating life, how our work together has changed and shifted how she feels about herself and her open relationship. What it means to see the results and how the tools from our coaching supported in all of these intimate and juicy hookups. Sky shares the way she opened up to her incredible worthiness and vulnerability and how she infused all the pussy magic into her current relationships today. Sky is incredibly smart and funny and just a dream client, so tune in if you want the real real. Grab your cup of coffee or tea, pull on those fuzzy socks, or tackle that laundry pile and tune in for a dose of Pussy Fairy Tea. xo The Pussy Fairy
You want more orgasms? This episode will give you everything you need to know! Allow The Pussy Fairy to blow your mind, because I'm about to tell you the opposite about everything you may have learned orgasms to be. I dropped all the goodies in this one, and you might be surprised at how much is possible for you after listening to this episode alone. You are ready to take your orgasms a step deeper or maybe even experience your orgasm for the first time? I would not miss out on this episode. I share all the different ways you can orgasm, what it takes to expand your orgasm, what anatomy has to do with all of this and even have a mini orgasmic experience for you mid chat. So if you want to know what all the fuss around orgasms is all about and you're ready to look at all the ways you can be part of the fuss because it's not just limited to specific folks. NOPE you can have your cake and eat it too! Grab your cup of coffee or tea, pull on those fuzzy socks, or tackle that laundry pile and tune in for a dose of Pussy Fairy Tea. xo The Pussy Fairy PS: Grab the guided pussy massage I spoke about in this episode here https://www.azariamenezes.com/shop/make-her-purrr
Do you want all the deets on how to move through heartbreak? Well, this week you're in luck because Lucy Price - The heartbreak expert, is in the house. We dive deep into what it looks like to tend to your heart during a break-up, how to navigate finding empowerment in the healing stages, how to deal with heartbreak grief, and how to navigate the loss of not only a lover but maybe some family, friends and even the life you thought you would create together. We dive into questions like: What does it look like to consciously uncouple and can you really be friends with your ex? (YES YOU CAN, I share a fabulous example of how this works in my life) Heartbreak is something we all go through but the process is something society loves to ignore and just sweep under the rug with a " you'll be fine" bandaid. Nothing is too intimate for The Pussy Fairy and her guests, so pause those heartbreak songs honey and tune into this!
Lucy price is Empowerment & Relationship Coach. I help people heal from heartbreak and toxic relationship patterns to reclaim and rise in their power so that they can have the relationships and life they crave. Find Lucy here on Instagram and the website https://www.shiftyourstory.net/
Menstrual Magic and Blood Rituals with Laura Carmody
19 Apr 2022
00:35:31
Have you ever wondered what rituals you could do with your menstrual blood? Maybe you've been curious as to what sacred menstruation means or even how to create your own blood magic ritual. In this episode, we dove deep into menstrual magic with my special guest Laura Carmody, who is a menstrual health and empowerment educator. Whether you're a newbie and looking to learn a super accessible and gentle way to connect to your cycle or a seasoned ritual lover and you're wondering what things to take into account when ingesting your moon blood, this episode might be for you. I had my own questions for laura and I was so excited about the answer I got! Our menstrual blood and cycle can show us so much about our health and wellbeing. Laura shares some tips for those of you who want to deepen or just start your own journey to sacred menstruation. Tune in to get super inspired or surprised, you might learn something super new and amazing all at the same time. Grab your cup of coffee or tea, pull on those fuzzy socks, or tackle that laundry pile and tune in for a dose of Pussy Fairy Tea. xo The Pussy Fairy
Laura Carmody is a menstrual health and empowerment educator. She loves to support people as they cultivate deep and meaningful relationships with their bodies, blood, and cycles. Laura’s approach to sacred menstruation recognizes the systemic inequities that have led to period poverty and global menstrual taboos. She believes that all menstruators deserve to bleed with dignity. She is devoted to playing her part in stewarding a world where menstruation is truly celebrated. You can find Laura here: https://www.instagram.com/threadedred/
*Disclaimer: By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition in either yourself or others, including but not limited to patients that you are treating. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. Anything said should NOT be taken as a replacement for medical, clinical, professional advice, diagnosis, or medical intervention. If you take any action or inaction as a result of any of the content you consume on this Podcast, this is based solely on your decision, and Azaria Menezes and her guests cannot be held liable for any of the consequences of such action or inaction. This podcast represents the opinions of Azaria Menezes and also the opinions of her guests on the show and my guests do not necessarily reflect any agency or organization or company that they work for.
The practice that showed me the shame and judgment my pussy held
12 Apr 2022
00:29:49
I share how one powerful practice showed me all the judgment and shame I had around my pussy. I thought I loved the way she looked, but what I didn't know is what she felt. I honestly assumed this would be the most amazing spiritual practice ever until I was met with a shit ton of BIG emotions. This practice was one of my first lessons in self-love and the start of building a relationship with my pussy that felt sensual and vibrant. I had to get through all the feelings of judgment, and disconnection first. If you have ever wanted to connect with your pussy on a deeper level, feel more sensation during sex, or even expand your capacity to love yourself more, tune in. I share my personal experience + the simple practice so that it inspires you to cultivate your own ritual. Grab your cup of coffee or tea, pull on those fuzzy socks, or tackle that laundry pile and tune in for a dose of Pussy Fairy Tea. xo The Pussy Fairy
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to consciously transition from monogamy to non-monogamy? In this episode Carla Crivaro a sex, love, and relationship coach, spills it all. We talked about the hard conversations that had to happen, the incredible growth that came from them, and the infinite possibility's that non-monogamy brought into her relationship. Of course, no details were left out and Carla even shares what it was like to explore dating, navigating family life with kids and what exciting things are next for their relationship. You don't wanna miss out on this one. If you've ever been curious about the ins and outs, how to's, AND what it looks like in real life, pull up a chair because it's about to get intimate. xo The Pussy Fairy
If you're feeling inspired by Carla, connect with her below and especially connect with Carla if you're wondering about all things opening up your relationship!
www.carlacrivaro.com Follow Carla on Instagram @the.sexuality.sanctuary @the.sister.sanctuary Carla has many incredible ways to work with her!
Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!
The wild ride: medication and libido
15 Feb 2023
00:47:47
If you have ever noticed the subtle or not so subtle changes that come with taking anti depressants or ADHD medication and your libido this episode is for you. I share my experience of my plummeting libido on some of these medications and how things are affecting me today. You'll also get to hear some incredible experiences of folks who shared how medication affected their libido in positive or negative ways. This is a great podcast to learn a little more about the intricacy and layers that contribute to your libido and what you can do to feel more balanced in the game of mental health, medications, desire and sexual wellness advocacy.
*Disclaimer: By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition in either yourself or others, including but not limited to patients that you are treating. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. Anything said should NOT be taken as a replacement for medical, clinical, professional advice, diagnosis, or medical intervention. If you take any action or inaction as a result of any of the content you consume on this Podcast, this is based solely on your decision, and Azaria Menezes and her guests cannot be held liable for any of the consequences of such action or inaction. This podcast represents the opinions of Azaria Menezes and also the opinions of her guests on the show and my guests do not necessarily reflect any agency or organization or company that they work for.
5 journaling prompts for thriving sexuality
30 Mar 2022
00:05:28
5 journaling prompts for your sexual thriving. Who doesn’t love a little potent quickie?
Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!
Fertility Cycles and Hidden Ovulation with Elsa Marie
22 Mar 2022
00:37:32
This is an episode I was soooo curious to explore because I have never heard about hidden ovulation. In this episode, I dive into it with Elsa and she shares how astrology plays into fertility and the possibilities of hidden ovulation. If you're anything like me you're always looking to expand your mind to new ideas and concepts, especially if you're into astrology or into conscious conception this might just be a really fascinating episode for you. Elsa shares how your chart could play a role in conception, fertility, and ovulation and what it is you have to know to figure out your hidden ovulation. Also, something juicy that I love is the idea that there's more opportunity to play in conception than we might think. Now who doesn't want a chance to have more lovemaking during conception.. here's your chance! Want the tea? Tune in
Elsa is an experienced advanced astrologer, certified clairvoyant seer, energy healer, and spiritual mentor, startup founder- on a mission to end unplanned pregnancies and hormonal suffering and promote conscious conception. You can connect with Elsa via Fb Elsa Marie or find her on IG connect.cosmicfox , She is also hosting a masterclass called Your womb and the moon lunar ovulation Masterclass you can find it here https://linktr.ee/Cosmicfox www.cosmicfox.co
*Disclaimer: By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition in either yourself or others, including but not limited to patients that you are treating. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. Anything said should NOT be taken as a replacement for medical, clinical, professional advice, diagnosis, or medical intervention. If you take any action or inaction as a result of any of the content you consume on this Podcast, this is based solely on your decision, and Azaria Menezes and her guests cannot be held liable for any of the consequences of such action or inaction. This podcast represents the opinions of Azaria Menezes and also the opinions of her guests to the show and my guests do not necessarily reflect any agency or organization or company that they work for.
Want more pleasure? Think about these things
15 Mar 2022
00:29:44
Eyyy, This week we are dropping into all the richness of what pleasure has to offer us. IF you're craving more pleasure in your life or you just wish your partner could give you more pleasure in the bedroom; tune in. I share some really practical and simple ways to get in touch with your own well of pleasure and also give you some really great questions to ask yourself when you feel like your pleasure cup is empty AF. We all need a good reminder of the simpler things when it comes to our sexuality and how we experience this and this podcast episode will give you just that. Grab your cup of coffee or tea,pull on those fuzzy socks and sit back for a dose of Pussy Fairy Tea. xo The Pussy Fairy
A full guided practice for you and your lover - Inspired by my 14 Days to hotter intimacy ebook
08 Mar 2022
00:11:33
Okay, I am soooo excited about the launch of my new 14 days to hotter intimacy E-book, that I am sharing a connecting practice from the ebook with you here. BUT you know I love you, so I am dropping a FULL guided audio practice for you to tune into. I share all the juicy info about my new eBook and then you'll drop straight into your practice. All you need to do is carve a little time out of your day ( 10 min) and hit play at the guided practice part.
This practice is one of my favorites, it's simple but so so powerful for those of you who just want to melt into each other's arms. This practice is mild on the spice level but if you take your clothes off and do it naked, it might just bring all the heat you need! Feel free to check out the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-book and grab yours for 27$ CAD (22$USD). If you want more intimacy and deeper connection this might just be the easiest and most fun way to do it. You'll get a full 14 days of practices that just keep getting hotter and ... you might not make it to the end of the ebook. Or at least be VERY excited for the end to near. Tune in
2 things that contributed to having the best sex ever last weekend
01 Mar 2022
00:20:38
Yall, you know this podcast is gonna be good because this week, ya girl had the best sex ever! I'm talking like out of this world, into a different dimension, multiorgasmic, blackout sex. Now you might be wondering HOW, and I always like to rewind the process and think on: What actually was it that made the sex this good? I can tell you one thing, it wasn't the technique. In this episode I go over: What type of best kept ( and obvious )secret we need to be harnessing more, what it means to understand your sexual spectrum of turn on and desire, what really happens when we put the expectation of HOT sex and peak pleasure on our everyday life. You'll also learn how you can recognize what type of sex your body needs and wants and where you can really turn up the heat by checking your internal desire barometer. I know you're here for the TEA so you know I'm going to share about my multiorgasmic, soul left my body orgasm as well. Tune in, you'll definitely be inspired to GET YOURS
Let's talk about my favorite thing ever: Roleplay! If you are one of those people who think role play is super awkward or maybe you just really want to be inspired and bring a little role play spice into your life... this episode is for you. This isn't just your 101 roleplay episode, I talk about how to actually get super embodied in role play and make it feel really fun and incredible to try. I share how role play can spark that element of surprise in your relationship, how you can shift that whole rejection thing you might get worked up about when it comes to role play, what it means to create a judgment-free zone, the lengths I've gone in my scenes and role-play and how you can use role-play in your everyday life ( even to slay interviews). This episode has sooo many nuggets in it, even if role play is not something that is up your alley, I totally double dare you to tune in!
How I deal with my low libido when my anxiety hits hard
08 Feb 2022
00:26:31
OMG yall, when that anxiety hits my libido and desire to be intimate go straight out the window. I mean obviously, I wouldn't expect a different response! The body is prioritizing and just trying to get by during survival mode. In this episode, I share why we shouldn't run from connecting with our partners when we feel anxious even though it's the first thing to go. How can cultivating intimacy that feels good for us support us when we feel dysregulated? What are some things that actually help in getting us back to balance? How can we even figure out how to find a balance in our intimacy when we don't even find balance within ourselves? is this even possible? YES, yes it is, we just have to tweak things a little. Tune in to this episode or really, save it for when you need it most ;). Because YES we can still want to experience meaningful moments in intimacy + relationships while also going through a shitstorm of anxiety (is this my daily life or what?). In life, there is so much duality and we get to have both - as in we get to choose what feels good for us while we work through hard things. The Pussy fairy is spilling all the juice, come sip. xo The Pussy Fairy
Everyone loves date nights, guess what? So does Pussy! This episode is going to be a little different than all the usual ones. It's time to take a little action and take your Pussy on a date. We know that it can feel really hard to connect with our bodies through all the rush and hurry of the days. I'm going to make it super easy and juicy for you to plan your own version of a date with Pussy. Just click this link Take your Pussy on a date fillable PDF and it will take you right to the Pussy Date night workbook. It's all fillable and super easy to plan. Think Pussy wants to be wined and dined for hours? Maybe, but really Pussy is just as happy with 10-15 min. A little quicky if you say ;) Enjoy!
Tune in because The Pussy fairy is spilling all the juice, come sip. xo The Pussy Fairy
This was a recording of a juicy workshop I did for all the honey's in my "Getting Intimate" Facebook group. Pull up a chair and pull up your boobs because this workshop is dedicated to THEM. Do you want to cultivate more self-love? Feel more confident? Connect to your source of power? In this workshop, I go over things like : Why is it so hard to love our breasts? How can loving our breasts contribute to better sex? What happens when we aren't connected to our breasts? How are breast and heart connected? How are our power and our breasts connected? How to form a relationship + ritual with our breasts.
Alll the juicy things in this episode, and if you want to watch the video and are curious about all other workshops in the future just search up " getting intimate" on Facebook and hit that join button!
The Pussy fairy is spilling all the juice, come sip. xo The Pussy Fairy
"Okay, how do I tell my partner exactly how I like it in bed?" How to ask for what you want
10 Jan 2022
00:32:12
This is for my Pussy owners who are never quite sure how to explain how or what they like in the bedroom. Have you ever struggled with the pressure of how to say exactly what you like or maybe even just abandoned ship and pretended to like something when you damn well know you didn't but you already tried to explain how a few too many times? I hear you, this is something that we have all been through at some point and you're certainly not alone. In this episode, I drop all the tips on how to ask for what you want, why you might be overcomplicating things, what it means to take up space, and why it feels hard to explain yourself in the first place. Don't worry, obvi you'll learn how to do the explaining too because... that's what we are here for am I rite ;). Tune in because The Pussy fairy is spilling all the juice, come sip. xo The Pussy Fairy
I was triggered hard during sex, and I wanted to share (after processing) how I navigate a trauma response showing up in my own personal sex life. I've done tons of work on my sexuality - and there are always new ways my body integrates things on deeper levels. Some things I share out of this experience are: understanding what my body needs and how it helps me process triggers or big emotions during sex, shame and guilt associated with sex and feelings during sex, the fear of getting triggered happening again and what we did to navigate that time to have sex. I also shared how the intimacy I created with my body helped me process things much quicker, the complexity of limiting sexual experiences of the past and the most important thing to practice mastery in when it comes to integrating big feelings + hard experiences.
Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course. This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other! https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easy
An Intimate reflection on new years rituals and our sex life in 2021
03 Jan 2022
00:32:00
Damm okay well I guess we are welcoming 2022! I wanted to do an episode that was a little more intimate than I usually do aka. I have a very special guest where we talk about our sex life and intimacy in 2021. I also share some things around new years rituals and if you listen all the way to the end you'll receive a special gift with a link below to start your news year ritual. In this episode we go over questions like: How have we found this year as individuals in our relationship, what has been the best thing about our sex life? What's been the worst thing about our sex life this year? Where do we want to thrive and grow in our sex life and intimacy? We also share about what it means to navigate parenting and our sex life and how we manage to figure out the whole sex thing with the baby in our bed and still have it be great. There are some juicy moments in here you won't wanna miss!
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The Pussy Fair is spilling the Tea, come sip. xo The Pussy Fairy
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group where we talk all things sex and pleasure! Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at www.azariamenezes.com or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!
Feeling triggered or activated? Let's regulate together
20 Dec 2021
00:14:48
Feeling triggered, activated, or feeling like your nervous system is taking you for a ride can be overwhelming. I know personally how scary it can feel to be in this state of activation. The more tools we have to support our nervous systems to find back to balance the better. Tune into this guided support to invite some calm back into your nervous system. Let's regulate together. You're not alone. Remember: if you feel like you can't self regulate always, always reach out to your support systems (friends/family/professionals) xo The Pussy Fairy
*Disclaimer: By listening to this podcast you agree not to use this podcast as medical advice to treat any medical condition in either yourself or others, including but not limited to patients that you are treating. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions. Anything said should NOT be taken as a replacement for medical, clinical, professional advice, diagnosis, or medical intervention. If you take any action or inaction as a result of any of the content you consume on this Podcast, this is based solely on your decision, and Azaria Menezes and her guests cannot be held liable for any of the consequences of such action or inaction. This podcast represents the opinions of Azaria Menezes and also the opinions of her guests to the show.
"I want deeply connecting sex" 3 non-sexual things to cultivate this
13 Dec 2021
00:26:23
This is the one I hear the most " I wish I could just feel more deeply connected during sex" because FUCK yes we all want to feel this. I mean sex is good but have you ever had deeply connected, present, totally in your body + pleasure sex? That shit is next level baby. The three things I share with you today have actually very little to do with sex and are non-sexual ways to go deeper in your sex life. We go over things like: What happens when we don't feel connected, what are the things that get in the way of this depth in sex? Why is this something we actually have to cultivate? How can we implement these three things into our daily life? What does worthiness have to do with all of this? Tune in because The Pussy fairy is spilling all the juice, come sip. xo The Pussy Fairy
The one thing people are forgetting about their sexuality
06 Dec 2021
00:21:04
OOOO Okay, so this one is a juicy one. I share the one thing that people easily forget about their sexuality. Have you ever found yourself in the post-honeymoon phase of your relationship, wondering where the hell your sex life went? Or wondering why your connection to your own sexuality is feeling like a distant memory of the past? In this episode, I go over why everything we have learned about our sexuality has contributed to this and how we can shift our experience of sexuality. I also go over how to have that deep, connected, and vibrant sexuality we all crave and what it's going to take to have it. Do you want to know what it takes to own your sexual power and not feel like your sexuality is reliant on external forces? Tune in because The Pussy fairy is spilling all the juice, come sip. xo The Pussy Fairy
5 ways you can increase your wetness factor in the bedroom
29 Nov 2021
00:16:43
Okay, soo this is a juicy little quicky I took from the Getting Intimate Facebook group because it was too good not to share on here. Have you ever wanted to know what supports your personal wetness factor in the bedroom? Do you ever wonder if there's any way you can increase it? Of course, a woman's wetness factor is going to vary depending on what's happening in her life. Ex. : Breastfeeding, different stages in her cycle, menopause, stress factors etc. but there are ways you can support your personal wetness factor and how you feel about it! I share 5 ways that support your vaginal lubrication in the bedroom. The Pussy Fair is spilling the Tea, come sip. xo The Pussy Fairy
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group where we talk all things sex and pleasure! Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at www.azariamenezes.com or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!
The one thing you can do to feel alive and connected with your sexuality
22 Nov 2021
00:25:42
Have you ever felt like you wanted to maintain that connection to your sexuality + aliveness? You know you see these women just oozing in their sexuality and you're like " Shit, I want that". Well, guess what, I have the damm secret for you. In this episode, we go over the one thing you can do to feel alive and connected with your sexuality always. We go over things like: The reason you're disconnected from your sexuality in the first place, How to actually reconnect with our sexuality in the most simple way, the complicated relationship we can have with our Pussy's, how to heal the relationship we have to our Pussy, what it looks like when we feel empowered around our sexuality, how to come home to your sexuality and so much more. Pussy fairy is spilling all the juice, come sip. xo The Pussy Fairy
"I feel awkward initiating sex with my partner" How to feel more at ease initiating sex
15 Nov 2021
00:27:18
Oooo Okay I know there are some people out there that this might benefit. If you've ever felt like initiating is awkward, you resist it because maybe you fear getting rejected or you just don't even think about initiating because you don't think about sex this is for you. In this episode, we go over topics like What's the deal with initiating anyways? The expectations we place on our partners when we don't, what the common fears around initiating are, how to make rejection feel less awkward, and how we can tap into feeling more empowered around initiating sex! Pussy fairy is spilling all the juice, come sip. xo The Pussy Fairy
Are you sitting in the passenger seat of your sexuality?
08 Nov 2021
00:20:27
Have you ever wondered how you can shift your perception of sex? Ask yourself this: Are you sitting in the driver's seat or the passenger seat of your sexuality? In this quick little episode, I go over what that looks like and how you can shift it. Sometimes we just need those good little reminders in life to get in the driver's seat. Pussy fairy is spilling all the juice, come sip. xo The Pussy Fairy
A quick 10min practice to start your morning feeling juicy and grounded
01 Nov 2021
00:11:59
Trick or Treat - Always treat. Happy Halloween, I have a treat for you. Pussy owners! A Juicy morning practice to start your day. This one is best done before you start your morning, still in bed, your eyes barely open and you're still snuggly in your sheets. You can do this practice every morning or just on those days where you just want to start your day feeling grounded,sensual, and juicy. All you need is this 10 min audio, some alone time, and yourself for a happy morning. Enjoy. The Pussy fairy is spilling all the juice, come sip. xo The Pussy Fairy
Yalll, I know you want to have great sex because; same. In this episode, I drop my favourite ways to shift mediocre sex into great sex. Now we know that sex isn't mindblowing all the time, but we can definitely shift into having great sex A LOT of the time. There are a million ways to have great sex, trust me I discover more and more every day but I'm sharing my favourite ones from today ;) Want to know what makes great sex? How to shift from showing up with blah energy to YES energy? What can happen when you drop the expectation and move into play? I share what two activities can create the perfect container for great sex and what part of you you should connect with to have incredible sex. The Pussy fairy is spilling all the juice, come sip. xo The Pussy Fairy
An update on the Italy trip, why I didn't really miss anyone at home and what it means to take space away from the hustle and bustle. In this episode I share about my struggle of slowing down, what it means to learn enjoying time with myself and the way I honor my identity outside of being a mother and a wife. I also share all the ways you can practice taking space in your relationship, what it means to seek sacred and inspiring experiences in your life and how you can support your relationship to feel spacious. I also share how this all intersects into motherhood, relationships + identity. If you've been craving a bestie catch up with me, grab your giant tea mug and tune in!
Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course. This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other! https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easy
Why periods of low libido are an important part of your sexuality
18 Oct 2021
00:26:50
Have you ever felt really frustrated by your low libido or quiet phase in your sexual desire? In this episode, I dive into rest and how important this phase is for your sexuality. We go over the seasons of sexuality and what this means when you have low desire. We look at what rest even has to do with pleasure and how one can truly honour the season of not feeling aroused. Rest is a powerful tool you can use to heal your sexuality and I share how you can utilize this tool in a way that supports your peak sexual experiences. If you have ever felt frustrated with your low libido or have a hard time with it on either side of the spectrum you'll love this new perspective on your sexuality. Are you curious? Don't worry I spill the TEA and you're invited. xo The Pussy Fairy
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group! If you loved this episode show me some love + support by rating this podcast 5 stars or leaving me a love note in the review section. Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at www.azariamenezes.com or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!
Wait so you can have less sex and feel more aroused and turned on?
11 Oct 2021
00:31:33
Did you ever think that having less sex could increase your connection and intimacy even more? In this episode, I go over Ry and I's 3-week sex detox and how setting an intentional break from sex with the intention of doubling down on the intimacy + connection actually lead to multiorgasmic sex. I also share why not having sex can do wonders for your communication, what the difference is between not having sex and intentionally not having sex is, what actually happens when you give your sex life and your sexuality room to breathe, what it means to let your sexual energy lead other parts of your relationship and what actually happens to your sex life when you truly start honouring your YES, No and MAYBE'S ( this one might surprise you !) Are you curious? Don't worry I spill the TEA and you're invited. xo The Pussy Fairy
Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group! If you loved this episode show me some love + support by rating this podcast 5 stars or leaving me a love note in the review section. Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at www.azariamenezes.com or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!
All things Safer Sex, HSV + Safe Sluts with Tricia Wise
27 Sep 2021
00:24:19
Ohhh haaaaaaay we are back and feeling Sluttier + Safer than ever. In this episode, The Pussy Fairy gets to sit down with Safe Slut and chat about sooooo many important + empowering things. This episode is filled with sex positivity and we go over topics like What it means to be a safe slut, the shame around STI's, Genital Herpes and Tricia's story, Navigating conversations around disclosing and rejection, and what it means to deeply find pleasure in being a Safe slut. If you don't want to miss you on ALL the tea that is spilled in this episode you better get those headphones out! xo The Pussy Fairy
About Tricia: Tricia Wise aka the safe slut witch is a holistic esthetician, herbalist, reiki practitioner, writer, makeup artist, and sexual health and slut advocate.
With already a passion for holistic vaginal and vulva wellness care and products, she created the Goddess oil for her herpes outbreaks when she was diagnosed with GHSV2 in November 2019.
Tricia then created her Instagram account @safe.slut to help end shaming towards those with STIs, promote safer sex practices and sex-positivity, witch tips for healing and reclaiming your power, and also help end stigma surrounding slut-shaming. In addition to this, she wanted to share her passion for herbal potions and reiki healing.
There are so many ways to hang and work with me. Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group! Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at www.azariamenezes.com or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!
How to eat and worship pussy like a boss (listen to this with your partner if you have one)
13 Sep 2021
00:35:21
Oooo This episode is dedicated to ALL my pussy owners. Grab a partner, grab a friend, grab anyone who plans on eating pussy for this one because it's about to get WET. In this episode, I share my passion for eating + worshipping pussy and answer all the questions like : Why can it sometimes feel really hard to relax during oral, what the first thing is you might have to relearn when it comes to pussy worship, what type of environment does pussy worship need. We don't just get into the concept of Pussy worship and eating, we get down to the practical stuff too like Pussy worship foreplay, Massaging Techniques, How to make the pussy owner mentally wet, tongue techniques, and more! xo The Pussy Fairy
There are so many ways to hang and work with me. Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group! Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at www.azariamenezes.com or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!