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Why Are You Not Achieving Your Goals? 05 Feb 202500:41:22

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EMBRACING YOUR TRANSFORMATION JOURNEY

EPISODE OVERVIEW

Welcome to a powerful episode that will shift your mindset, fuel your confidence, and remind you that everything is working out exactly as it should. This episode is all about transformation—helping you see your greatness, trust your path, and step boldly into your best life. If you've been searching for clarity, motivation, or just a reminder that you are unstoppable, this is it. Tune in and let's make it happen!

KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Mindset Shift: How to reframe challenges as opportunities for growth
  • Self-Confidence: Practical techniques to recognize and embrace your inherent greatness
  • Trust Your Journey: Understanding why your path, including its detours, is unfolding perfectly
  • Taking Bold Action: Strategies for moving forward despite uncertainty or fear
  • Finding Clarity: Methods to cut through confusion and identify your next steps

POWERFUL MOMENTS

  • The truth about transformation and why discomfort is actually a sign you're on the right track
  • Why most people miss the opportunities hiding in plain sight during difficult times
  • The simple daily practice that can completely rewire your confidence
  • How to differentiate between fear-based decisions and intuition-guided choices
  • A powerful visualization exercise for connecting with your future self

ACTIONABLE STEPS

  1. Morning mindset routine to set your day up for success
  2. Journaling prompts to uncover limiting beliefs
  3. The "Evidence Collection" technique for building unshakable self-trust
  4. How to create a personalized mantra that resonates with your specific journey
  5. Building a support system that elevates rather than limits your growth

MEMORABLE QUOTES

"Transformation isn't about becoming someone new—it's about remembering who you've always been beneath the stories and limitations you've accepted."

"Trust isn't blind faith. It's recognizing patterns of growth even when they don't match your expectations."

"Your greatness isn't something you achieve—it's something you uncover by removing what stands in its way."


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Get Unhooked Podcast - Becoming Your Best Self28 Jan 202500:16:25

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The Get Unhooked Podcast - Episode 1: Becoming Your Best Self

Episode Overview

Welcome to the premiere episode of The Jason Coombs Show, where host Jason Coombs introduces his vision for personal and professional transformation. Drawing from his experience as a behavioral health treatment company owner and author, Jason establishes the foundation for this journey of growth and positive change.

Key Topics Covered

  • Introduction to the show's mission and vision
  • Jason's background and expertise in behavioral health
  • Overview of future episode themes: 
    • Addiction recovery and mental health wellness
    • Effective parenting strategies
    • Leadership development and influence
    • Building positive company culture
    • Goal setting and achievement
    • Establishing productive daily routines
    • Financial prosperity and success principles
    • Entrepreneurship insights
    • Building healthy relationships
    • Fitness and physical wellbeing

Highlighted Quotes

"This show is all about how to help you become the best version of yourself."

"Join me on this journey of growth and change, and let's work together to create a life that you are proud of."

About Your Host

Jason Coombs brings his extensive experience as a behavioral health treatment company owner and author to this podcast. His unique perspective combines professional expertise with personal insights, offering listeners practical tools for transformation.

Coming Up Next

Tune in next week as we dive deeper into Goal Setting for a new year.

Your Guide from Chain Breaker to Change Maker


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The Gap: The First Step to Success and Influencing Others13 Feb 202500:10:46

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Hey guys, Jason Coombs here. Today we're going to talk about something that's been on my heart lately - the gap between wanting something and being willing to do what it takes to achieve it. You know, in my years of working with families affected by addiction, I've noticed a universal truth that applies not just to recovery, but to every meaningful pursuit in life.

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Embracing the Cactus: How Pain Transforms Identity21 Feb 202500:56:34

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Get Unhooked Podcast - Episode Notes

Episode Summary
Jason Coombs hosts this insightful episode of the Get Unhooked Podcast, focusing on the transformative journey of identity change throughout recovery. As an influencer and industry expert, Jason shares his personal evolution from addiction, introducing the powerful metaphor of "embracing the cactus" - accepting life's struggles as essential components of personal growth.

Key Points
- Identity transformation is a crucial element of sustainable recovery
- Jason's personal journey illustrates the power of redefining oneself
- "Embracing the cactus" concept: viewing struggles as valuable, formative experiences
- Participants encouraged to see themselves as future storytellers and influencers
- Finding purpose beyond personal recovery creates lasting motivation

Actionable Tools
- Daily vow of silence: Dedicated time for self-reflection and internal dialogue
- Journaling practice: Document thoughts and insights during recovery
- Service mindset: Shift focus from self to helping others in similar situations

Takeaway Quote
"Your story isn't just for you—it's a beacon for others still finding their way through darkness."​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Actions: Spend time in meditation and journaling every day for one week and see how you feel. 

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The Decision-Making Framework That Changes Everything04 Apr 202500:33:27

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In a compelling episode of The Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs celebrates 16 years of sobriety while revealing his proven three-step process for making critical decisions when supporting addicted loved ones. Through candid conversations with coaching session participants and reflections from his book "Unhooked," Jason provides a roadmap for families struggling with the complex terrain of addiction recovery.

Episode Highlights

  • Jason outlines his three-step decision-making process: research thoroughly, make the best decision possible, and seek spiritual guidance
  • Jason emphasizes keeping a "personal revelation journal" to document insights and breakthroughs
  • Important reminder that addiction is a mental illness requiring treatment - "they're sick needing to get well, not bad needing to get good"
  • Jason reflects on his 16-year sobriety journey that began March 19, 2009
  • "Instead of looking for God's hand in our lives, look for his fingerprints" - finding guidance in seemingly small moments

The Decision-Making Framework That Changes Everything

Jason outlines a straightforward yet profound approach to making decisions when helping someone battling addiction:

  1. Research thoroughly – Weigh the costs, benefits, risks, and rewards of each option
  2. Make the best decision possible with the information available
  3. Seek spiritual guidance through prayer, asking for discernment if the chosen path aligns with divine will


The final key? Follow through on the course of action once determined.

The Overlooked Power of Journaling Personal Revelations

Jason emphasizes an essential practice for lasting recovery: maintaining a "personal revelation journal" to capture insights during moments of clarity.

"These calls aren't just a one hour of, 'okay, I feel better now. Now what?' Think of these calls as opening up the channels of light and love to heaven and to your higher power," Jason explains.

He recommends:

  • Writing "PR" (personal revelation) in margins to mark significant insights
  • Reviewing past journals regularly to recognize patterns and growth
  • Recording "aha moments" to reference during difficult times


From Selling Hot Dogs to Saving Lives: Jason's Journey

March 19, 2009 marks the beginning of Jason's sobriety journey. His path from selling hot dogs outside Home Depot to founding Brick House Recovery illustrates the unexpected ways recovery unfolds.

"At the time I was like, my whole life squandered and I'm starting over," Jason recalls of his early sobriety at 31. "I was comparing myself to others that I'd gone to school with that were on their fourth kid and were vice presidents in their companies."

A pivotal moment came through an unexpected sign – literally. While contemplating educational directions, Jason noticed a utility box marked "communications" – the exact program he'd researched the night before. This led him to meet his future wife and ultimately establish his treatment center.

The Fingerprints of Guidance

Jason introduces a perspective shift for those seeking direction: "Instead of l

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Fear is a Lack of Mental Discipline: The Fear-Faith Connection in Supporting Loved Ones with Addiction26 Mar 202500:38:30

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Fear is a Lack of Mental Discipline: The Fear-Faith Connection in Supporting Loved Ones with Addiction


In this "Get Unhooked Podcast" episode, Jason Coombs (Brick House Recovery) discusses Chapter 11 of "UNHOOKED" – the Hope chapter. He explores establishing boundaries, effective communication, and transforming struggles into service opportunities.

Key Moments

  • 2:26 "Fear is lack of mental discipline" - Mental choices precede emotional responses
  • 6:10 "Empathy isn't empathy without boundaries" - Proper boundaries bring hearts closer
  • 8:03 Faith vs. fear - Challenges refine us "like a rolling stone down the river"
  • 10:08 Service as path out of fear - Helping others alleviates obsessive thinking
  • 13:03 "True recovery is identity change" not just abstinence
  • 19:03 Two categories of fear - Not getting what we want; losing what we have
  • 29:04 Testimony - Service transforms self-obsession into purpose
  • 32:14 Recovery coach certification opportunities

Mental Discipline: Foundation for Change

Jason establishes that managing addiction – whether our own or supporting others – begins with mental choices, not emotional reactions. "Every day, what I have control over is how I choose to view any situation," he emphasizes.

Three Guiding Principles

  • Boundaries enhance empathy – Referencing Brené Brown, Jason shows how boundaries actually bring hearts closer
  • Faith as mental discipline – Contrasting faith (cultivated mindset) with fear (default state)
  • Service as freedom – Serving others provides the fastest path out of fear

Identity Change: The "Sober Secret"

True recovery requires identity transformation beyond abstinence. "A lot of people can get sober, but the true recovery is identity change," Jason explains, sharing his transition from seeing himself as a failure to recognizing his qualification to help others.

Understanding this distinction helps family members better support the whole-person transformation essential for lasting change.

Understanding Fear

Jason identifies two core fear categories that drive anxiety around addiction:

  1. Fear of not getting what we want
  2. Fear of losing what we have

Service: The Antidote

Participants share how serving others transformed their journeys. One notes: "Serving with other struggling parents has made such a difference. All my things about myself get lost in being of service."

Actionable Takeaways

  • Pause before responding emotionally
  • Establish empathy-enhancing boundaries
  • Identify your loved one's stage of change before communicating
  • Distinguish between sobriety and recovery
  • Find service opportunities to escape fear
  • Join recovery communities for shared strength

Resources

Jason concludes with gratitude for the community, acknowledging that transformation occurs through connection with others and a higher power.

For more res

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From Crisis to Catalyst: How a Teen's Drug-Induced Psychosis Became a Path to Healing11 Mar 202500:29:33

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In this episode, Jason Coombs of Brick House Recovery shares how a teen's frightening drug-induced psychosis transformed into an opportunity for healing and growth. After using psilocybin mushrooms and high-potency cannabis concentrates, the teen experienced severe hallucinations, mood swings, and panic attacks lasting five days.

Through building trust, identifying underlying issues, and reframing anxiety as a potential strength, Jason demonstrates how even the most challenging situations can become catalysts for positive change.

The Unexpected Emergency Call

When Jason Coombs received an urgent text from a concerned mother about her teenage son experiencing a drug-induced psychotic episode, he knew immediate action was necessary. The teen had been suffering from audible and visual hallucinations, mood swings, and panic attacks for five days straight—a situation requiring careful, informed intervention.

What began as a crisis evolved into a powerful lesson about modern substance risks, trust-building techniques, and transforming traumatic experiences into opportunities for growth.

Episode Highlights

  • 1:06 A teen facing drug-induced psychotic episode after five days of symptoms
  • 4:02 The dangerous combination of psilocybin mushrooms and THC concentrates
  • [5:03 Cannabis education: Modern concentrate forms, potency levels and administration methods
  • 9:36 Physical and psychological side effects of concentrated cannabis products
  • 12:52 How Jason developed rapport through non-judgmental questioning and normalization
  • 17:32 The three strategies: Transforming a nightmare experience into personal growth opportunities
  • 22:16 Personal application: Jason's journey with anxiety as both a curse and a motivating superpower


The Reality of Modern Cannabis Concentrates

During conversations with the teen (referred to as "Troy" in the podcast), Jason discovered the crisis stemmed from a combination of psilocybin mushrooms and highly concentrated cannabis products. This reflects a dangerous trend facing today's youth.

Modern cannabis concentrates present significantly heightened risks compared to traditional cannabis:

  • Potency levels: Concentrates contain 60-90% THC compared to just 15-25% in traditional cannabis flower
  • Common forms: Wax, dabs, shatter, butter/batter, crumble, live resin, honeycomb, BHO, sugar, sauce, and more
  • Administration methods: Vape pens, dab rigs, nectar collectors, edibles, tinctures, and infused joints

The physical effects can include rapid heart rate, increased blood pressure, impaired coordination, respiratory issues, nausea, and headaches. More concerning are the psychological effects: acute anxiety, panic attacks, paranoia, hallucinations, memory impairment, and potential triggers for psychosis in vulnerable individuals.

Creating Trust Through Non-Judgmental Communication

Jason's approach to helping Troy demonstrates the critical difference between gaining trust and building rapport with teens in crisis:

"Trust is a firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability, and strength in someone. Rapport is a close and harmonious relationship in which you understand each other's feelings and ideas."

Jason employed several ke

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What a Relapse Really Means—and How Families Should Respond09 Jul 202500:40:15

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When your loved one relapses, it feels like the ground gives way beneath you—again. You might wonder: Did we miss something? Did we fail? Is there any hope left? In this episode of Get Unhooked for Families, we challenge the panic and shame that so often accompany relapse and offer a new lens to see what it really means.

You’ll hear how relapse isn’t the end—it’s often the turning point. Jason and the team explore how relapse can resolve ambivalence, why it’s a natural (though painful) part of the process, and how families can respond in a way that promotes healing, not control.

If you’re feeling stuck, exhausted, or defeated, this episode will help you step off the emotional rollercoaster—and step into peace, clarity, and purpose.

Highlights Include:

  • The unexpected value of relapse on the path to recovery
  • Two surrender processes: the individual’s and the family’s
  • Why doing “everything right” doesn’t always bring the results you hoped for
  • What to celebrate (even now), and what to let go of
  • The difference between boundaries and control—with real-world examples

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10 Secret Truths About How to STAY Sober That I Learned After Rehab03 Jun 202500:57:09

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Did you know that recovery isn’t just about the person struggling—it can ripple through and heal an entire family?

Most families facing addiction feel heartbreak, frustration, and helplessness. What if the path to healing starts with one person—and the lessons learned go far beyond sobriety?

In this episode, you will:

  • Discover the story of the Newport Beach weekend that changed Jason’s relationship with his dad and family
  • Hear how one person’s commitment to recovery and boundaries can inspire hope for everyone involved
  • Learn the 10 most powerful recovery tips Jason gives anyone in early sobriety—plus how families can support lasting change
  • Understand why emotional sobriety, empathy, and small daily decisions are at the heart of real healing
  • Get practical wisdom on overcoming shame, negative self-talk, and the challenges of rebuilding trust

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Quick Preview of Jason’s Top 10 Recovery Tips:

  1. Stick with the winners: Surround yourself with people who are growing and honest.
  2. Watch your SUDs: Notice the “seemingly unimportant decisions” that can trigger setbacks.
  3. Practice Gen Shy: Never treat anyone—including yourself—in a way that makes them feel small.
  4. For it is in giving that we receive: Service to others is key.
  5. Practice Namaste: Honor the divine within yourself and others.
  6. Convalescence: Give yourself time to truly heal.
  7. Feel it to heal it: Allow yourself to experience and process emotions.
  8. Chase emotional sobriety: Balance neglected areas of your life.
  9. Find new fishing holes: Keep your recovery fresh with new connections and experiences.
  10. What is to give light must endure burning: Growth comes through facing—and enduring—hardship.

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If you’re a parent, sibling, or love someone in addiction, this episode is for you.
Jason’s story is proof that healing is possible, hope is real, and you’re not alone.

🎧 Scroll up ⬆️ and hit play now to learn how one person’s recovery can bring light to an entire family.

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Can One Person’s Recovery Heal an Entire Family? A Tribute to My Dad, and the Weekend That Changed Everything22 May 202500:46:48

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“Can One Person’s Recovery Heal an Entire Family?” A Tribute to My Dad, and the Weekend That Changed Everything

Episode Description:
This episode is deeply personal. It’s more than a conversation—it’s a tribute to my father, Dr. Douglas Coombs, who was not only my dad, but my best friend. He graduated this life last summer, and I’m honored to share this recorded moment with him, alongside my sister Melissa Jones.

Together, we talk about how addiction impacted our family from the inside out, and how healing became possible—not through quick fixes or ultimatums, but through boundaries, vulnerability, and the slow rebuilding of trust.

You’ll hear about:

  • The weekend in Newport Beach that changed everything
  • How my dad and I reconnected after years of distance
  • What it really looks like to set boundaries that protect, not punish
  • And how emotional sobriety can ripple through an entire family system

If you’re a parent, a sibling, or someone who loves a person struggling with addiction, this episode will speak to the pain—and the possibility—of recovery that goes beyond the individual. My dad’s wisdom, humility, and quiet strength shaped my own journey. This is one way I get to honor that.

Listen now on your favorite podcast platform or right here on YouTube.

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  • For Families: www.liveunhooked.com/family
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📚 More Resources:
Grab my book Unhooked on Audible or Amazon
Visit www.brickhouserecovery.com for addiction recovery programs and support

This episode is for every family who’s ever held onto hope through heartbreak. I see you. And you’re not alone.



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The SHOCKING Truth About Overcoming Addiction Nobody Tells You 13 May 202500:42:34

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In this episode of Get Unhooked, we welcome Jeff and Bree—real-life warriors in recovery and marriage. Jeff shares his experience of hitting rock bottom, finding God, and rebuilding his life. Bree vulnerably walks us through the pain of loving an addict, and the spiritual and emotional journey she had to take to find her voice, her boundaries, and ultimately, herself.

This is a conversation about surrender—not just to recovery, but to the process of becoming whole. Whether you're the one struggling or you love someone who is, this episode offers powerful perspective and encouragement.

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From Heartbreak to Hope: What Mothers Wish They Knew Sooner28 Apr 202500:27:08

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When a loved one struggles with addiction, it doesn’t just impact them—it shakes the entire family to its core. In this powerful episode of The Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs sits down with the real experts: mothers who have lived through the chaos, grief, and heartbreak of a child’s addiction journey.

In their own honest, unfiltered words, these courageous mothers reveal what they wish they had known sooner—the mistakes they made, the boundaries they finally learned to set, and the powerful shift from enabling to true support.

You'll hear raw reflections on:

  • Facing the pain of "losing" the child they once knew
  • Overcoming the guilt and shame that addiction brings to families
  • Learning that real love sometimes means stepping back, not stepping in
  • Finding peace even when their loved one’s path remains uncertain
  • The practical tools and mindset shifts that changed everything

If you’re a parent, family member, or someone who loves an addict, this episode will help you feel seen, understood, and empowered.
 You’re not alone. There’s a way forward—and it doesn’t require sacrificing your own sanity or happiness.

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Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction
4:06 - Facing painful questions about your child
6:33 - Counterintuitive parenting strategies
11:31 - Grieving the child you once knew
14:16 - When pride turns into painful honesty
19:49 - Emotional depletion and finding renewal
21:32 - What families truly wish for most
25:07 - How to connect with a support community

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How to Become a Best-Selling Author with Bridget Cook-Burch22 Apr 202501:01:26

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In this illuminating episode of The Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Combs interviews his mentor and "book whisperer" Bridget Cook-Burch about transforming personal experiences into powerful published works. As a New York Times and Wall Street Journal bestselling author, Bridget reveals the process of creating transformational books—from initial concept to final publication—while Jason shares insights from his own journey writing "Unhooked."

Episode Highlights

[04:01] Jason reflects on the various motivations behind writing a book, from professional credibility to changing lives

[08:05] Bridget explains that great storytelling requires vulnerability: "In the darkness often lies the seeds of your greatest glory"

[13:27] The critical importance of creating a timeline to see patterns and meaning in your life experiences

[15:31] The powerful shift from writing for yourself to writing specifically for your readers

[19:11] Bridget shares how author Melissa Moore wrote for one specific "avatar" yet reached countless others

[32:05] Winston Churchill's quote about writing being a journey from "toy" to "tyrant" that you eventually "fling to the public"

[44:01] Jason reveals how his book "Unhooked" helped parents who lost their son to an overdose find peace

[51:33] The origin story behind Bridget's Inspired Writers Retreat and her promise to help others tell their stories

Writing for Your Avatar: The One Person Who Needs

Your Message

A critical shift occurs when writers move beyond self-expression to focus on serving readers. Jason describes his own breakthrough when reading "Millionaire Messenger" by Brendan Burchard:

The Hero's Journey Framework

Both Jason and Bridget reference Joseph Campbell's Hero's Journey as an essential structure for transformation stories.

The Writing Timeline: A Churchill-Worthy Warning

For those expecting a quick process, Winston Churchill's quote offers sobering perspective:

"To begin with, it's a toy, then an amusement, then it becomes a mistress, then it becomes a master, and then it becomes a tyrant. And in the last stage, just as you were about to be reconciled to your servitude, you kill the monster and fling him to the public."

Jason candidly shares that his book appeared on his vision board for ten consecutive years before publication. Rather than being discouraging, this timeline allowed for deeper insights and experiences to inform the work.

Action Steps for Writers

Create a personal timeline to identify patterns and meaning in your experiences

Identify your specific "avatar"—the one person who needs your message most

Watch "Finding Joe" documentary to understand the hero's journey framework

Consider reading "Aspire" by Kevin Hall for an example of layered storytelling

Start with vulnerability rather than trying to appear perfect

Begin writing sessions with intention (meditation, prayer, or reflection)

Recognize that significant books often take longer than expected to complete

Resources Mentioned

"Unhooked" by Jason Combs

"Finding Joe" documentary about Joseph Campbell's Hero's Journey

"Aspire: Discovering Your Purpose Through The Power of Words" by Kevin Hall

"The Witness Wore Red" by Rebecca Musser and Bridget Cook-Burch


"The Shack" by William Paul Young

YourInspiredStory.com - Bridget's website with various writing programs

This episod

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Common Family Mistakes in Addiction — And the System That Finally Worked16 Jul 202500:45:39

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Why does helping hurt? In this episode, Jason Coombs unpacks the 3 common family mistakes—enabling, rescuing, and bargaining—and reveals the system that finally brought peace to his home. Hear raw stories from his mom and Archie Swenson, and discover how the Live Unhooked Family System™ helps families move from chaos to clarity.

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Hyper Sensitive? The Secret to Reframe Emotional Vulnerability to Heal From Addiction22 Sep 202500:08:14

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Episode 23: Hyper Sensitive? The Secret to Reframe Emotional Vulnerability to Heal From Addiction

What if the trait you’ve spent years hiding could actually be your greatest strength?

In this episode of the Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs shares how hypersensitivity—often seen as a flaw—can become a powerful tool for healing, empathy, and connection. Through his own story of addiction and recovery, Jason shows how emotional sensitivity is not a weakness to overcome but a superpower to embrace.

Highlights include:

  • Why sensitivity often leads to perfectionism and people-pleasing
  • How addiction is less about rebellion and more about seeking relief
  • The “allergy analogy” that reframes addiction without shame or judgment
  • Reflection questions for families to better understand what addiction solves for their loved one—and for themselves

Jason’s journey is a reminder that recovery begins with honesty, not perfection. If you or your family have ever felt “too sensitive,” this episode will help you see that the very thing you’ve been running from might be the key to lasting transformation.

📘 For deeper insights, check out Jason’s book Unhooked on Audible or Amazon.

🌐 Learn more at brickhouserecovery.com.






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“What Hooked Him?” The Hidden Moment That Starts the Addiction Spiral11 Sep 202500:17:51

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Episode 22: “What Hooked Him?” The Hidden Moment That Starts the Addiction Spiral

What if the addiction didn’t start with a party, a choice, or even curiosity—but with a moment his brain responded differently than yours would have?

In this raw and eye-opening episode, Jason Coombs breaks down “the hook”—the invisible turning point when substance use becomes something much more powerful and dangerous. He opens up about his own experience, the voice inside that addicts wrestle with, and why some people can walk away after using… while others get trapped instantly.

Whether you’re a mother, spouse, or loved one desperate to understand what happened to him, this episode will give you a new lens. You’ll learn:

  • What “the hook” actually is—and why it’s not about willpower
  • The internal battle between the addict voice and the rational mind
  • How mental health issues like ADHD and anxiety make addiction more likely
  • Why some people spiral faster—and how to spot the signs early
  • How empathy (not enabling) becomes the turning point for healing

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “What happened to him?”—this is your answer.

Featuring tools and insights from Jason’s book Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover, and his work at Brick House Recovery.

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Listen now, and share with someone who feels lost and alone in their loved one’s addiction.


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How One Daily Affirmation Can Change the Way You Handle Addiction in Your Family08 Sep 202500:29:35

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When addiction takes hold of someone you love, it can feel like your whole life is consumed with fear, anxiety, and constant exhaustion. In this episode, Jason Coombs shares how one simple but powerful tool—a daily affirmation—can transform the way you respond to the chaos of addiction in your family.

Drawing from his own journey through depression during his wife’s cancer battle, Jason reveals how morning routines and affirmations helped him rebuild resilience, restore peace, and show up differently for the people he loves. Whether you’re a parent, spouse, or family member walking alongside an addicted loved one, these practices can help you reclaim your strength and hope.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • [00:30] The Miracle Morning framework for rising above daily challenges
  • [04:44] The SAVERS method: six daily practices for mental wellness
  • [08:08] How the Ideal Life Vision Course reshaped Jason’s future
  • [14:24] Seven affirmations for seven days of intentional living
  • [17:29] The meta-affirmation: I am healing
  • [18:02] A question that will change how you speak to yourself
  • [20:32] Understanding “Genshai” — never making anyone feel small (including yourself)
  • [22:49] How to receive compliments with gratitude instead of deflection
  • [25:32] Why authentic communication builds trust with addicted loved ones

Practical Takeaways for Families:

  • Start small: 10 minutes of silence, affirmations, or journaling each morning
  • Use the seven-day affirmation framework to reset your mindset
  • Try the mirror exercise to shift your self-talk
  • Practice Genshai—treat yourself and others in ways that never make anyone feel small

Even when your loved one isn’t ready for recovery, you can find healing, peace, and strength for yourself. As Jason reminds us: “The future is bright and beautiful when we commit to daily practices that align us with our highest selves.”

📘 Grab Jason’s book Unhooked at https://a.co/d/c357XBz

www.brickhouserecovery.com for more tools and resources.

📖 Explore Dan McCormick’s book and affirmation framework at affirmiam.com.

🎓 Register for Jason’s free web class at www.livunhooked.com to learn how to break free from the cycle of addiction in your family


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Why 31 Years Sober Still Wasn’t Enough—Arlina Allen on the Deeper Secret of Recovery01 Sep 202500:46:42

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After 31 years without a drink, bestselling author and recovery coach Arlina Allen realized something powerful: sobriety alone doesn’t guarantee freedom.

In this episode of the Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs sits down with Arlina to explore what recovery really means beyond abstinence. Arlina shares her journey of hitting bottom at 25, the tough love that saved her, and the simple daily practices that keep her grounded today. Together, they unpack why the 12 steps are so often misunderstood, why emotional sobriety matters just as much as physical sobriety, and how to move from merely surviving to truly living.

What you’ll learn in this conversation:

  • Why abstinence doesn’t automatically equal recovery
  • The role of mentors and hope in long-term healing
  • How “I statements” can transform relationships
  • Practical routines that keep recovery sustainable (without perfectionism)
  • The real gift of emotional sobriety—and why it matters for families, too

About Arlina Allen:
Arlina is a Certified Coach, bestselling author of The 12-Step Guide for Skeptics, and host of The One Day At A Time Recovery Podcast. She is also the founder of Sober Life School, where she helps people achieve sobriety and create lives they love. With 30 years of research and personal experience, Arlina brings deep insight to the process of transformation. Originally from Sunnyvale, CA, she now lives in Idaho with her husband of 30 years, their two sons, and their silly English Bulldog, Teddy.

Whether you’re in recovery yourself or love someone who is, this episode is packed with wisdom, encouragement, and practical takeaways you can start using right away.

👉 Ready to go deeper? Register for Jason’s free webclass for families and individuals at www.liveunhooked.com
📍 Learn more at the12stepguideforskeptics.com


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When Faith Feels Forced, Recovery Shuts Down—Here’s What Works Instead20 Aug 202500:26:04

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When Faith Feels Forced, Recovery Shuts Down—Here’s What Works Instead

Families often hear that spirituality is essential for recovery—but what happens when your loved one resists it at every turn? In this heartfelt episode of the Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs shares how his own hardened ego and spiritual resistance nearly cost him his life in treatment. What finally broke through wasn’t pressure, lectures, or rules—it was unconditional love.

Jason recounts his fifth attempt at treatment, where pride, shame, and defiance collided with a group that refused to let ego poison recovery. At the breaking point, he packed his bags to leave—but an unexpected moment of divine intervention stopped him. What followed was a vision that revealed God’s love in a way he could finally receive.

For families, this story offers a crucial insight: faith cannot be forced, but it can be nurtured. Validation, patience, and steady boundaries become the soil where a spiritual awakening can finally take root.

Episode Highlights

  • [00:01:18] Treatment as a Mirror – Why group living exposes hidden defenses and becomes a training ground for real life.
  • [00:05:01] Ego vs. Willingness – Entering treatment arrogant, rule-breaking, and masking fear with pride.
  • [00:07:48] Protecting the Culture of Recovery – How Jason’s peers (including his brother) confronted his ego head-on.
  • [00:11:36] The Fork in the Road – Packed and ready to leave, Jason faces divine intervention that keeps him in treatment.
  • [00:16:33] Spiritual Anorexia – Why “force-feeding faith” doesn’t work, and the power of gentle encouragement.
  • [00:18:28] A Vision of Nathan’s Face – The breakthrough that revealed God’s unconditional love.
  • [00:21:40] Hope for Families – Trusting that God’s providence is always at work, even when change feels delayed.

Key Takeaways for Families

  • Faith can’t be forced: Pushing spiritual conversations often makes resistance stronger.
  • Validation melts walls: Simple acknowledgment of where your loved one is can open doors pressure never will.
  • Ego is fear in disguise: What looks like arrogance often masks shame and insecurity.
  • Secrets keep people sick: Encourage safe spaces for honesty and truth.
  • Boundaries create space for growth: Small, consistent commitments can nurture lasting transformation.

Closing

Jason’s story reminds families that spirituality isn’t about coercion—it’s about creating the conditions where God’s love can be received in His timing. Families can’t force awakening, but they can nurture it by validating, holding boundaries, and trusting that God is already at work.

For more encouragement, read Jason’s book Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover (Amazon & Audible) and find family support resources at brickhouserecovery.com.

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“The Night I Packed My Bags to Relapse… and the Secret That Kept Me Sober”13 Aug 202500:19:06

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Episode 18: “The Night I Packed My Bags to Relapse… and the Secret That Kept Me Sober”


In Episode 18 of the Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs takes listeners back to his fifth and final treatment center experience at age 31. This episode reveals the pivotal moment that changed everything - a moment balanced precariously between walking away from recovery forever and embracing the uncomfortable truth that would save his life.

Episode Highlights

[00:27] Jason introduces the person-centered approach and the "oxygen mask" principle
[03:43] Defining success as earning respect and trust from those closest to you
[05:39] The reality of being in his fifth treatment center with previous failures
[08:49] The dangerous mindset of thinking you have "treatment figured out"
[13:48] The miraculous moment of falling asleep instead of leaving treatment
[15:08] Kris's direct confrontation: "You gotta feel it to heal it"
[16:16] The two non-negotiable requirements to stay in treatment

The Moment Everything Changed

Jason's story reaches its climax at what he calls "the jumping off point" - that critical moment where addiction either claims another victim or loses its grip forever. After four failed treatment attempts, Jason arrived at his final program thinking he had mastered the art of appearing compliant while remaining unchanged.

But this treatment center operated differently. The staff refused to coddle or enable. They wouldn't co-sign his manipulation tactics. Most importantly, they challenged him to step outside his comfort zone.

The pivotal night arrived when Jason packed his belongings in anger, ready to walk 20-30 miles downtown for drugs. What happened next defies logical explanation - he simply fell asleep. "I don't even remember thinking about falling asleep," Jason reflects. "The reality is it may have well has been and probably was [divine intervention] because I don't remember thinking about falling asleep."

The Power of Therapeutic Confrontation

Upon waking, Jason encountered Kris, a counselor who would deliver the message that changed his trajectory. Her approach wasn't gentle or accommodating. Instead, she offered stark clarity:

"I could tell you're struggling, but I want you to feel it. In fact, you have to. You gotta feel it. You gotta heal it. Don't run from your emotions anymore."

Kris presented Jason with two simple requirements if he wanted to stay:

  1. Follow the rules
  2. Make amends to the patients he had wronged

These weren't suggestions or therapeutic recommendations. They were boundaries - clear, firm, and non-negotiable. Kris risked losing a client and the associated revenue, but she prioritized Jason's genuine recovery over financial considerations.

The Speed of Change and Pain

Jason introduces a fundamental principle that governs transformation: "We change at the speed of pain." This concept explains why some people remain stuck in destructive patterns while others breakthrough to lasting recovery.

Pain serves as the catalyst for change, but only when we stop running from it. As Kris taught Jason, emotions become teachers when we honor them rather than numb them. "Those feelings will be the gurus to teach me things if I don't numb and run and stuff 'em."

Wiser individuals learn from observing others' journeys rather than requiring perso

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She Planned to Leave Him After Sobriety—Then This Happened…with Jeff & Bree Crabtree04 Aug 202500:55:39

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Episode 17: She Planned to Leave Him After Sobriety—Then This Happened…with Jeff & Bree Crabtree. 

 Recovery doesn’t end at sobriety—it begins there. In this raw, hope-filled episode, Jeff and Bree Crabtree return to share what happens after the first year, after the promises, and after the chaos settles… or doesn’t.


🔹 Bree opens up about the moment she planned to leave Jeff—even after three years sober.

🔹 Jeff reveals the daily routines that helped him transcend recovery “ceilings.”

🔹 Together, they unpack how trust, communication, and faith transformed their marriage, family, and even their business.


🎯 This episode isn’t just for individuals in recovery—it’s for families walking through the long game of healing.


⏱️ Episode Highlights:


  • [00:31] Follow-up with Jeff & Bree
  • [04:59] Breaking through recovery plateaus
  • [12:58] Bree’s moment of truth: “I was going to leave him.”
  • [21:15] The long road to rebuilding trust
  • [34:03] The turning point at 3 years sober
  • [40:59] Their daily spiritual + recovery routines
  • [51:06] How recovery influences their tattoo business



✨ Whether you’re married to someone in recovery or navigating your own healing, this episode gives tangible hope—and a reality check.


📍 Jeff & Bree’s business:

Lighthouse Tattoo | Boise, Idaho

Website: lighthousetattooidaho.com

Instagram: @lighthousetattoo.id

Email: jeff@lighthousetattooidaho.com


📚 Get Jason’s book Unhooked on Audible or Amazon

🌐 More resources: brickhouserecovery.com


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Rewind 90 Days: I Couldn’t Get Out of My Funk—Until I Did This One Thing30 Jul 202500:34:47

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Rewind 90 days ago to when I Couldn’t Get  Out of My Funk—Until I Did This One Thing

I was stuck. Stuck in compulsive overeating. Stuck in brain fog. Stuck in a post-surgery slump. And with the Ironman on the horizon, I knew something had to change.

In this episode, I walk you through my first-ever 3-day fast—from the mental battles on day one to the surprising spiritual clarity on day three. This wasn’t just a detox. It was a wake-up call that reset my body, mind, and soul.

If you’re feeling stuck in your own life, this might be the spark you need.

➡️ Listen in and find out how doing less helped me find more.


If you’re ready to break free from the cycles keeping you stuck—whether it’s with food, substances, or just the noise of life—I want to invite you to go deeper.


Join me for a free webclass at liveunhooked.com, where I walk you through the same framework I use at Brick House Recovery to help people not only get sober—but stay unhooked for good. This is the deeper work that transforms relapse into lasting change.


Also, if you haven’t already, check out my book Unhooked—it’s available on Audible and Amazon. And if you or a loved one are looking for treatment or support, visit us at brickhouserecovery.com.





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Discover how to stop enabling addiction and start creating real, lasting change. In this free webclass, Jason Coombs shares the proven framework behind The Brick House Way and the “Get Unhooked” system to help individuals and families experience breakthrough—not burnout.



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Nothing Has Worked. You’ve Tried Love, Logic, Boundaries, Bargaining—and You’re Still Stuck23 Jul 202500:43:54

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In this episode, Jason Coombs shares the exact 3-step framework that finally brought peace to his family—and has helped countless others stop the cycle of enabling, anxiety, and burnout.

Through powerful stories, practical tools, and the unforgettable “get off the beach” metaphor, you’ll learn how to:

✅ Recognize and exit the B-E-A-C-H cycle (Blame, Enabling, Anxiety, Control, Hopelessness)
✅ Support your loved one without sacrificing your own well-being
✅ Build a daily “emotional raincoat” to protect your peace
✅ Understand the six stages of change and why your efforts keep backfiring
✅ Apply the 3 phases of surrender when nothing seems to be working

This episode features Jason’s personal story, a raw family moment involving his cousin Amanda, and practical tools your family can use starting today.

If you’re exhausted, discouraged, or wondering if anything will ever change—this episode might be your turning point.

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Why Your Addicted Loved One Won’t Listen (And How to Fix It)06 Oct 202500:31:19

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Episode 25: Why They Won’t Listen (And How to Fix It)

“People don’t recover in programs—they recover in relationships.”

You can’t help someone who doesn’t feel safe with you.

In this episode, Jason Coombs reveals the real reason your loved one may resist change—even when the consequences are obvious. Spoiler: It’s not about logic, advice, or control. It’s about what the relationship feels like.

Programs don’t change people. Trust and connection do.
Jason shares why rapport opens the door to healing—and trust keeps it open long enough for change to walk through.

Whether you’re watching your loved one spiral, or trying to rebuild from another relapse, this episode gives you a new way to engage that actually works.

What You’ll Learn:

✔️ The difference between trust and rapport (and why you need both)
 ✔️ How the PACE method helps you build influence without enabling
 ✔️ The story of Amanda: a real-life example of connection over control
 ✔️ How to stop reacting in fear—and start responding with strength
 ✔️ Why relapse doesn’t mean failure (and what it can mean)
✔️ Practical daily habits that rebuild emotional safety
✔️ What to say when they don’t want to talk

📣 Free Webclass for Families:

How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover—Without Wasting Another Dime on What Doesn’t Work
If you’ve tried everything and nothing is working, this is for you.
Learn what actually helps—and what quietly sabotages recovery (even with the best intentions).
➡️ Register at www.liveunhooked.com

📚 Resources:

  • Jason’s book: Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover – on Amazon or Audible

  • Learn more about faith-based recovery and support at www.BrickHouseRecovery.com

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Why They Keep Slipping: The One Truth Families Miss About Relapse29 Sep 202500:09:39

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🎙 Episode 24 — Why They Keep Slipping: The One Truth Families Miss About Relapse

You watched them take the first step.
 You hoped this time would be different.
 Then out of nowhere… they slipped again.
 Why?

In this eye-opening episode of the Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason Coombs unpacks the most overlooked truth about relapse — and why families so often misread what’s really happening when their loved one "falls off track."

You'll learn:

  • What relapse actually means in the recovery process
  • Why your loved one may be in two different stages of change at the same time
  • How ambivalence (not defiance) drives the maddening back-and-forth behavior
  • And the one shift families can make that changes everything

Jason also shares raw personal stories — including how he ignored finances and gained 90 pounds after getting sober — to show how recovery impacts all eight life domains, not just substance use.

If you’ve been caught in the cycle of hope, disappointment, and confusion, this episode will give you clarity, relief, and the tools to finally support your loved one without losing yourself in the process.

👉 This is the episode every family needs to hear.

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The Essential Ingredient — Why Consequences Are the Most Loving Thing You Can Do20 Oct 202500:10:01

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The Essential Ingredient — Why Consequences Are the Most Loving Thing You Can Do

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What if the most loving thing you could do for your addicted loved one… is let them feel pain?

In this powerful episode, Jason Coombs opens Chapter 4 of The Brick House Way and pulls no punches: without consequences, there is no change. Families often believe love means rescuing, softening the blow, or giving one more chance. But those well-meaning instincts? They may be keeping your loved one sick.

Inside this episode:

  • Jason’s personal story of hitting bottom—prison, homelessness, and losing everything
  • Why “change happens at the speed of pain”
  • The Get Off the Beach metaphor that changed everything for his parents
  • How rescuing rewires the brain to expect escape instead of growth
  • Why boundaries aren’t punishment—they’re protection
  • Simple boundary examples families can set today

Whether you’re a parent, spouse, or friend, this episode will challenge you to rethink what real love looks like in the face of addiction. Because sometimes love sounds like:

“I won’t stop you from facing the weight of your choices… but I’ll still be here when you’re ready to rise.”

Resources:

Jason’s book Unhooked is available on Audible and Amazon.

Explore support options at brickhouserecovery.com

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The 4 Questions That Can Unhook You from Obsession09 Oct 202500:24:37

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Episode 26: "The 4 Questions That Can Unhook You from Obsession"

If your loved one’s addiction has taken over your thoughts, your sleep, and your sanity — this episode is for you. Learn the four simple questions that can free you from mental obsession and restore your peace.
 Listen to Episode 26 of Get Unhooked now, wherever you get your podcasts.

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It’s not just their addiction keeping you up at night — it’s your thoughts about it.

In this mind-opening episode of Get Unhooked, Jason Coombs introduces Byron Katie’s transformative framework The Work — four powerful questions that can help you stop spiraling in fear, guilt, and “what ifs.”

Whether you're obsessively tracking your loved one’s behavior, stuck in a loop of self-blame, or emotionally drowning in their addiction, these four questions can help you break free — without abandoning love or hope.

Inside the episode:

  • The number one thought that traps families in suffering — and how to flip it
  • How to stop trying to control what you can’t (and start healing what you can)
  • What “radical acceptance” actually means — and why it’s not giving up
  • The mindset shift that turns fear into calm, chaos into clarity
  • A personal story that shows how accepting what is can change everything

This episode is a must-listen for anyone caught in the exhausting cycle of fixing, pleading, and over-functioning. If you’ve tried everything and still feel stuck, start here.

The 4 Questions That Can Unhook You from Obsession
You can’t control their addiction. But you can learn to live free — no matter what they do.

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When Loving Them Means Letting Them Fall03 Nov 202500:17:31

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Episode 29 – When Loving Them Means Letting Them Fall
Jason on why boundaries aren’t rejection—they’re redemption.

What if the most loving thing you can do… is let go?

In this episode, Jason Coombs unpacks one of the hardest lessons in family recovery: sometimes love means stepping back and allowing natural consequences to run their course. Sharing his own story of homelessness, addiction, and the night everything broke open, Jason explains why rock bottom—while painful—is often the starting point for real transformation.

You’ll hear:

  • Why rescuing can prolong addiction
  • The truth about “the gift of desperation”
  • How boundaries create space for breakthrough
  • A simple text that pierced through the darkness
  • What families can do when they feel powerless

If you’ve ever wrestled with when to step in and when to let go—this episode will help you find clarity, courage, and hope.

📕 Want more? Get Jason’s book “Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover” on Amazon or Audible.

🌐 Visit brickhouserecovery.com
to learn more.

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“How to Stop Getting Pulled Into the Spiral: Finding Peace When Addiction Takes Over”27 Oct 202500:09:11

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“How to Stop Getting Pulled Into the Spiral: Finding Peace When Addiction Takes Over”

When addiction takes control, it doesn’t just destroy the person using — it pulls everyone around them into the chaos. In this powerful episode, Jason Coombs explains the spiral — that heartbreaking stage when addiction hijacks logic, love, and trust — and shows families how to stop getting dragged down with it.

If you’ve ever felt torn between helping and enabling, this episode will give you the clarity and courage to step back without giving up. Jason shares practical tools for detaching with love, setting healthy boundaries, and protecting your own peace while your loved one finds their bottom.

In this episode:

  • Why promises keep breaking — and what’s really happening in the brain
  • How to recognize when you’re getting pulled into the spiral
  • The truth about rescuing: why helping often hurts
  • The “Emotional Raincoat” — a mindset that lets you stay loving without losing yourself
  • What it means to be powerless over them but powerful over you

If you’re exhausted from trying to fix someone else’s addiction, this episode will show you how to find peace, strength, and hope — even when they’re still in the spiral.

👉 Resources:

Jason’s book Unhooked is available on Audible and Amazon.

Learn more at brickhouserecovery.com.

If you or someone you love is in crisis, call 1-800-662-HELP (4357) or text 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.

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