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Trauma & Supporting Someone in Crisis Without Losing Yourself with Coach Liz10 févr. 202600:08:18

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Episode Description

In this episode of the Get Trauma Informed Podcast, Peer to Peer Wellness Coach Liz Blanding explores what it means to support someone in crisis without derailing your own trauma recovery. When someone we care about is going through a painful life transition, such as divorce or betrayal, it is easy to slip into overfunctioning, emotional waiting, or self-abandonment. This episode offers a grounded framework for offering care without rescuing, attaching, or pausing your healing.

In This Episode, We Cover:

  • Why support should never cost your stability
  • How over-extending for others can reactivate trauma patterns
  • Why divorce and betrayal are forms of trauma, not just transitions
  • How silence can be a signal for self-reflection rather than self-blame
  • A practical framework for offering brief, grounded, non-rescuing presence

Key Takeaways:

  • Support should not cost your emotional or nervous system stability
  • Reduced communication is often a survival response, not rejection
  • You can care without attaching and step back without abandoning
  • Pausing your recovery for someone else’s crisis is self-abandonment
  • Your recovery is the foundation for healthy connection

Reflection Prompts:

  • What does silence trigger in me?
  • Am I responding from care or from anxiety?
  • Does this connection support my recovery or challenge it?


Closing Reminder:

We are recovering one breath at a time. Give yourself grace and stay fearless.



Support the show

Remember, Trauma was not your fault, your were collateral damage on someone else's warpath. Trauma was not your fault, however Recovery is your Responsibility. I am your host, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding, and this is The Get Trauma Informed Podcast.

Contact us at:
http://oasiswellnessctrs.com
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/blog/blog
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/contact
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Trauma in Business Betrayal & The Price of People-Pleasing with Coach Liz03 févr. 202600:09:22

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Episode Description


Trauma does not stop at the door when we step into purpose-driven work or entrepreneurship. In this episode, Coach Liz explores how unresolved trauma shows up in business relationships and decision-making, often leading to over-giving, people-pleasing, silence, and financial loss.

This conversation brings awareness to how early wounds can repeat themselves through business betrayal, misalignment, and unhealthy partnerships. More importantly, it offers a path forward grounded in boundaries, clarity, and emotional confidence.

What You Will Learn in This Episode

  • How trauma influences business behavior and partnerships

  • Why business betrayal can reopen childhood wounds

  • The role of boundaries in ethical and aligned business relationships

  • Key questions to evaluate partnerships before committing or continuing

  • How trauma recovery supports confident, values-based decision-making

Episode Highlights

  • Trauma’s impact on business relationships (0:11)

  • The deep wounds of business betrayal (2:42)

  • Establishing boundaries and alignment in business (4:28)

  • Guiding questions for evaluating business relationships (5:34)

  • Reclaiming confidence and emotional power (7:40)

Reflection Questions

  • Am I operating from purpose or from fear in my business decisions?

  • Do my partnerships honor my values, time, and emotional well-being?

  • Where might I be over-giving to earn safety or approval?

Call to Action


If this episode resonated, you may be ready for Level 2 Trauma Recovery, where we focus on financial trauma, emotional confidence, and boundary restoration so your calling is protected, not compromised.

Closing Reminder

 Give yourself grace. Stay fearless. We are recovering one breath at a time.



Support the show

Remember, Trauma was not your fault, your were collateral damage on someone else's warpath. Trauma was not your fault, however Recovery is your Responsibility. I am your host, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding, and this is The Get Trauma Informed Podcast.

Contact us at:
http://oasiswellnessctrs.com
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/blog/blog
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/contact
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When Their Charm Becomes Your Trap – Trauma Recovery with Coach Liz27 janv. 202600:09:24

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Episode Summary


In this episode, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding explores how unresolved trauma can make survivors more vulnerable to narcissistic manipulation. What begins as charm, attention, and emotional safety can quietly shift into control, self-doubt, and emotional harm. This conversation brings clarity to patterns many survivors sense but struggle to name.

Coach Liz breaks down the stages of narcissistic manipulation and offers practical trauma recovery tools to help listeners assess emotional safety, rebuild boundaries, and reclaim their emotional authority.

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

  • Why trauma survivors are often targeted by narcissistic personalities.

  • The five stages of narcissistic manipulation, from love bombing to discard.

  • How self-blame and tolerance of inconsistency keep trauma bonds in place.

  • A simple 3-question tool to assess emotional safety in relationships.

  • Why discernment is protection, not fear.

  • How Level 2 trauma recovery supports identity rebuilding and boundary clarity.

Key Discussion Points:

  • Narcissistic manipulation and trauma survivors (00:00)

  • The stages of narcissistic manipulation (03:41)

  • Trauma recovery tools for boundary assessment (05:57)

  • Reclaiming emotional authority through recovery (07:28)

  • Recap and encouragement (08:11)

Reflection Question:
Where in your life has charm slowly turned into confusion or control?

Next Step – Trauma Recovery Support:
If this episode resonated with you, you may be ready for Level 2: One Breath at a Time Trauma Recovery. This course supports you in breaking trauma bonds, strengthening boundaries, and choosing relationships with clarity rather than self-doubt.

👉 Learn more and begin your next step in recovery today.

We are recovering one breath at a time. Give yourself grace and stay fearless.



Support the show

Remember, Trauma was not your fault, your were collateral damage on someone else's warpath. Trauma was not your fault, however Recovery is your Responsibility. I am your host, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding, and this is The Get Trauma Informed Podcast.

Contact us at:
http://oasiswellnessctrs.com
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/blog/blog
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/contact
https://linktr.ee/dlblanding
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The Prison of Someone Else’s Trauma with Coach Liz20 janv. 202600:09:39

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Episode Overview

In this episode, Coach Liz explores the unseen cost of loving someone with unprocessed trauma. Drawing from lived experience, she unpacks how unresolved trauma can quietly enter relationships, creating emotional instability, fear, and numbness that the partner often feels responsible for managing.

This conversation invites listeners to reflect on the difference between compassion and self-abandonment, and to release the belief that love requires rescuing or fixing someone else.


Key Topics Covered

Loving someone with unprocessed trauma (1:12)
Coach Liz shares how she was repeatedly drawn to partners carrying deep emotional wounds. She believed love could heal them, until she realized their unresolved trauma became a third presence in the relationship.

The burden of secondary trauma (4:42)
When you absorb someone else’s fear, triggers, and emotional weight, it can lead to secondary trauma. Over time, this creates burnout, blurred boundaries, and a loss of self.

Choosing yourself over rescuing others (6:02)
Healing is a personal responsibility. Healthy love is mutual, safe, and grounded in peace, not emotional labor or survival mode. Coach Liz introduces a “trauma brain vs. recovered brain” filter for relationships.

Stepping back to allow healing (6:53)
Sometimes the most loving act is stepping back and allowing others to do their own trauma work. Choosing peace may mean releasing familiar but unhealthy dynamics and trusting what God has prepared next.


Reflection Question

Where in your life have you mistaken rescuing for love, and what might choosing yourself look like now?

Next Step: Continue Your Recovery

If this episode resonated, you may be ready for deeper support.

Level 2: Trauma Recovery — One Breath at a Time is designed for those who recognize the patterns, understand the cost of secondary trauma, and are ready to move from awareness into intentional recovery. This level offers structured guidance, reflection, and support to help you strengthen boundaries, restore emotional safety, and choose peace without guilt.

You do not have to recover alone.
 You do not have to carry what was never yours.

We are recovering one breath at a time.
Give yourself grace and stay fearless.
Bye for now.






Support the show

Remember, Trauma was not your fault, your were collateral damage on someone else's warpath. Trauma was not your fault, however Recovery is your Responsibility. I am your host, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding, and this is The Get Trauma Informed Podcast.

Contact us at:
http://oasiswellnessctrs.com
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/blog/blog
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/contact
https://linktr.ee/dlblanding
https://www.lifewave.com/oasiswellnesscenters

When Love Hurts: Domestic Violence and Trauma Bonding in Adulthood with Coach Liz13 janv. 202600:10:44

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Episode Overview

In this deeply personal episode, Coach Liz shares her lived experience with domestic violence and trauma bonding, tracing how early exposure to emotional and relational instability shaped her adult relationships. She explains why survivors often confuse intensity, fear, and inconsistency with love, and why leaving abusive relationships is far more complex than outsiders understand.

This conversation expands the definition of domestic violence beyond physical harm to include emotional, psychological, spiritual, and financial abuse. It offers understanding without judgment and truth without shame.


What You Will Learn

  • Why trauma bonding keeps survivors emotionally attached to unsafe partners
  • How unhealed childhood trauma trains the nervous system to accept chaos as normal
  • Why strength is not the issue, but unresolved trauma is
  • How domestic violence can show up emotionally, psychologically, spiritually, and financially
  • What recovery has taught Coach Liz about deserving love that does not hurt


Key Takeaways

  • Trauma bonding is a survival response, not a character flaw
  • Intensity and fear are often mistaken for love when safety was absent early on
  • Staying does not mean weakness. It means the nervous system learned familiarity, not peace
  • Healing begins when the body learns what safety actually feels like
  • You deserve relationships rooted in consistency, care, and respect


Reflection Question

Where have you mistaken intensity or fear for love because it felt familiar?


Call to Action

If this episode resonates with you and you are ready to begin your recovery journey, consider starting with Rebirth of Her. This is a safe, private, and spiritually grounded program designed specifically for survivors of domestic violence and trauma bonding.

If a group setting feels like too much right now, you are invited to begin with Level 1, a gentle, trauma-informed starting place that allows you to learn, reflect, and rebuild emotional safety at your own pace.

Your recovery matters. Your safety matters. Your story matters.


Closing Reminder

We are recovering one breath at a time. Give yourself grace and stay fearless. Bye for now.



Support the show

Remember, Trauma was not your fault, your were collateral damage on someone else's warpath. Trauma was not your fault, however Recovery is your Responsibility. I am your host, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding, and this is The Get Trauma Informed Podcast.

Contact us at:
http://oasiswellnessctrs.com
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/blog/blog
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/contact
https://linktr.ee/dlblanding
https://www.lifewave.com/oasiswellnesscenters

Growing Up in Chaos: Trauma, Alcoholism, Shame, and Losing Yourself Early with Coach Liz06 janv. 202600:08:52

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Episode Overview

In this powerful episode, Coach Liz explores how growing up in an alcoholic or emotionally chaotic home shapes identity, self-worth, and survival patterns long before adulthood. You will learn how shame forms early, why hyper-independence becomes a coping strategy, and how many people lose their authentic selves while simply trying to survive.

This episode creates space for understanding, not blame, and offers gentle awareness for those beginning their recovery journey.


What You Will Learn

  • How alcoholism in the home impacts emotional development

  • Why children often take on responsibility that was never theirs

  • How shame quietly replaces identity in chaotic environments

  • The connection between early chaos and adult people-pleasing or self-abandonment

  • Why naming your experience is the first step toward recovery

Key Takeaways

  • Chaos trains the nervous system to stay on high alert

  • Shame thrives in secrecy and silence

  • Survival roles can follow you into adulthood if left unexamined

  • Awareness brings choice, and choice brings freedom

  • Recovery begins with compassion for the child you once were

Reflection Question

What parts of yourself did you learn to hide just to stay safe?


Call to Action

If this episode resonated with you, consider taking the next step with the Level 1 Pathway to Trauma Recovery Course. This foundational course is designed to help you understand trauma, identify survival patterns, and begin rebuilding emotional safety, clarity, and self-trust at your own pace.

You do not have to untangle this alone. Support, structure, and guidance are available as you begin your recovery journey.


Closing Reminder

We are recovering one breath at a time. Give yourself grace and stay fearless. Bye for now.



Support the show

Remember, Trauma was not your fault, your were collateral damage on someone else's warpath. Trauma was not your fault, however Recovery is your Responsibility. I am your host, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding, and this is The Get Trauma Informed Podcast.

Contact us at:
http://oasiswellnessctrs.com
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/blog/blog
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/contact
https://linktr.ee/dlblanding
https://www.lifewave.com/oasiswellnesscenters

The Day My World Shattered: Childhood Trauma & Broken Trust with Coach Liz30 déc. 202500:08:27

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Episode Summary


 In this deeply personal episode, Coach Liz shares the moment her world shattered at just three years old when she witnessed her mother being violently stabbed. She reflects on how this early trauma, combined with the absence of comfort and emotional support, shaped her understanding of safety, trust, and emotional regulation throughout her life.

This conversation explores how childhood trauma that occurs before language develops can fundamentally impact brain development and create lifelong relational patterns. Coach Liz also introduces the concept of childhood emotional neglect and explains how unprocessed trauma teaches a child that their needs and emotions do not matter.

To support listeners who may feel stirred or triggered, Coach Liz offers a gentle grounding exercise and reminds listeners that recovery includes learning how to comfort the parts of ourselves that were never protected.

The episode closes with encouragement and an invitation to continue the recovery journey with support rather than isolation.

Key Topics Covered

  • Childhood trauma and broken trust

  • Trauma before language and brain development

  • Childhood emotional neglect and attachment wounds

  • How unprocessed trauma impacts adult relationships

  • Grounding and self-compassion practices

  • Reconnecting with the inner child

  • Finding support in trauma recovery

Grounding Practice Shared

  • Deep breathing

  • Gentle affirmations

  • Adult self-reassurance for the wounded inner child

Next Step for Listeners


 Listeners are invited to continue their journey through the Trauma Recovery Course, a supportive space to learn tools, understanding, and self-compassion without having to navigate recovery alone.


We are recovering one breath at a time. Give yourself grace and stay fearless. Bye for now.



Support the show

Remember, Trauma was not your fault, your were collateral damage on someone else's warpath. Trauma was not your fault, however Recovery is your Responsibility. I am your host, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding, and this is The Get Trauma Informed Podcast.

Contact us at:
http://oasiswellnessctrs.com
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/blog/blog
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/contact
https://linktr.ee/dlblanding
https://www.lifewave.com/oasiswellnesscenters

Trauma’s First Wound: When Safety Is Broken Before Birth with Coach Liz23 déc. 202500:08:12

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Episode Summary


 In this deeply reflective episode, Coach Liz explores how trauma can begin before birth. Long before memory or language forms, the nervous system is already learning whether the world is safe. When a mother experiences fear, stress, or violence during pregnancy, the developing baby absorbs that emotional environment. This early exposure can shape identity, safety, and relationship patterns later in life.

Coach Liz introduces the concept of womb trauma as the first unspoken wound and explains how unresolved early fear can become an invisible bottleneck in adulthood. She shares how the Bottleneck Breakthrough Method helps individuals identify where fear first entered their story so recovery can begin.

Grounded in faith, the episode closes with reassurance from Psalms 139, reminding listeners that even if their beginning was marked by fear, their identity and purpose were never lost.

Key Topics Covered

  • How trauma can begin in the womb

  • Early nervous system wiring and safety

  • Why the body may recognize fear before love

  • Trauma’s impact on identity and relationships

  • Identifying the first bottleneck in your story

  • God’s intention and purpose despite early trauma

Scripture Reference

  • Psalms 139

Next Step for Listeners


 If this episode stirred something in you, you are invited to explore Level 1: Pathways to Get Trauma Informed. This program offers a safe and guided space to understand your story and begin your trauma recovery journey.


We are recovering one breath at a time. Give yourself grace and stay fearless. Bye for now.



Support the show

Remember, Trauma was not your fault, your were collateral damage on someone else's warpath. Trauma was not your fault, however Recovery is your Responsibility. I am your host, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding, and this is The Get Trauma Informed Podcast.

Contact us at:
http://oasiswellnessctrs.com
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/blog/blog
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/contact
https://linktr.ee/dlblanding
https://www.lifewave.com/oasiswellnesscenters

Trauma, Red Flags vs. Healthy Traits — Learning to Discern Safe People with Coach Liz16 déc. 202500:09:46

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Episode Overview

In this episode, Coach Liz breaks down one of the most essential skills in trauma recovery. Learning how to discern red flags from healthy relational traits. You will discover why unsafe relationships can feel familiar to a nervous system shaped by chaos, and why peace may feel uncomfortable until the body relearns safety.

This episode offers practical tools to help you evaluate relationships with clarity, confidence, and compassion.

What You Will Learn

  • Why red flags are often subtle and not always obvious
  • How healthy traits feel steady, consistent, and emotionally safe
  • Why your nervous system provides valuable information
  • How to discern who belongs in your inner circle
  • A grounding question for clarity:
     “Does this person bring me closer to peace or closer to emotional chaos?”

Key Takeaways

  • Red flags show up through patterns like gaslighting, boundary violations, and blame
  • Healthy people demonstrate consistency, honesty, empathy, and responsibility
  • Behavior matters more than words or promises
  • Consistency matters more than chemistry
  • Emotional safety is foundational for recovery and identity

Red Flags vs. Healthy Traits

Red Flags May Include:
Confusion, guilt-tripping, dishonesty, boundary violations, silent punishment, jealousy of growth, manipulation, and repeated apologies without change

Healthy Traits Include:
Respect, open communication, emotional grounding, accountability, honesty, encouragement, and safety

Reflection Prompt

What does emotional safety feel like for me, and how can I honor it this week?

Continue Your Recovery Journey

If this episode resonated, your next step may be Level 1: Pathway to Trauma Recovery Course. This program provides a safe and supportive space to deepen awareness, rebuild emotional safety, and strengthen discernment skills as part of your recovery journey.

Support the show

Remember, Trauma was not your fault, your were collateral damage on someone else's warpath. Trauma was not your fault, however Recovery is your Responsibility. I am your host, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding, and this is The Get Trauma Informed Podcast.

Contact us at:
http://oasiswellnessctrs.com
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/blog/blog
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/contact
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Building a New Life: Healthy Love, Faith, and Community After Trauma with Coach Liz13 déc. 202500:09:19

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Episode Summary


In this deeply encouraging episode, Coach Liz explores what it truly looks like to rebuild your life after trauma. She takes listeners through the journey of transitioning from survival mode into a life grounded in peace, healthy love, faith, and community. This episode is a reminder that recovery is not a solo journey and that it is possible to build again with confidence, clarity, and support.


Key Topics Covered


1. Rebuilding Life After Trauma

The episode opens with a compassionate reflection on the experience of stepping out of abusive or traumatic environments. Many survivors are so accustomed to chaos and hypervigilance that learning to receive love, rest, and joy becomes a new challenge. The conversation walks through the shift from fear-driven survival to heart-centered living.


2. Defining Healthy Love After Trauma

Healthy love is consistent, steady, and peaceful. It supports your recovery instead of silencing it. It celebrates your growth, honors your worth, and mirrors the character of God. Healthy love does not confuse, disturb, or require you to betray yourself.


3. Reconnecting with Faith and Community

Recovery includes finding your way back to faith—not from fear, but from joy. Coach Liz speaks about the importance of safe spiritual spaces, ministries, and trauma-informed support systems. Community restoration is a vital part of rebuilding because survivors heal more fully when surrounded by people who speak to their worth.


4. Practical Steps for Rebuilding

Coach Liz offers reflective questions to help listeners identify what abundance looks like in this season. Listeners are encouraged to examine where boundaries need strengthening and where they can courageously open up as they build a new foundation.


5. Resources for the Journey

This episode highlights key recovery resources such as the Pathway to Trauma Recovery book, journal tools, and the All Things Recovery online community. Rebuilding becomes possible when survivors are supported, seen, and empowered.


Closing Reflection

Coach Liz closes with a powerful reminder that surviving the storm means it is now time to plant your garden. There is peace ahead, and there is purpose in every step forward.


 We are recovering one breath at a time. Give yourself grace and stay fearless. Bye for now.



Support the show

Remember, Trauma was not your fault, your were collateral damage on someone else's warpath. Trauma was not your fault, however Recovery is your Responsibility. I am your host, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding, and this is The Get Trauma Informed Podcast.

Contact us at:
http://oasiswellnessctrs.com
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/blog/blog
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/contact
https://linktr.ee/dlblanding
https://www.lifewave.com/oasiswellnesscenters

Forgiveness vs. Reconciliation After Trauma with Coach Liz25 nov. 202500:09:12

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Overview:

 In this episode of the Get Trauma Informed Podcast, Coach Liz explores one of the most misunderstood topics in trauma recovery—the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation. Drawing from biblical truth and lived experience, she unpacks what God truly requires of us when we forgive and how to protect your peace in the process.

Key Takeaways:

  • Forgiveness and reconciliation are not the same. Forgiveness is about releasing emotional pain and resentment, while reconciliation requires accountability, repentance, and safety.

  • Forgiveness is a spiritual detox. It’s a process that cleanses the heart, removes bitterness, and restores clarity so you can move forward in freedom.

  • Boundaries are sacred. You can forgive someone without inviting them back into your life.

  • Practical tools for walking in forgiveness: Pray for peace instead of proximity, write a release letter, and bless your surroundings to replace resentment with gratitude.

  • Faith connection: Forgiveness aligns you with God’s will, but reconciliation mirrors His grace only when both repentance and responsibility are present.

Reflection Prompt:
What are you still holding onto that belongs to God? What would it look like to forgive while still protecting your peace?

Resource Mentioned:
✨ Pathway to Trauma Recovery book and journal — continue your forgiveness journey and discover emotional restoration, one breath at a time.

Join the Recovery Movement:
Continue your journey inside the All Things Recovery Patreon Community — where faith, forgiveness, and freedom meet.
👉 Join here



Support the show

Remember, Trauma was not your fault, your were collateral damage on someone else's warpath. Trauma was not your fault, however Recovery is your Responsibility. I am your host, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding, and this is The Get Trauma Informed Podcast.

Contact us at:
http://oasiswellnessctrs.com
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/blog/blog
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/contact
https://linktr.ee/dlblanding
https://www.lifewave.com/oasiswellnesscenters

Learning to Feel Safe in Your Own Skin Again After Trauma with Coach Liz18 nov. 202500:08:57

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Summary:


In this episode, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding takes listeners on a journey to rediscover safety, presence, and peace within their own bodies after trauma. She reminds us that while the mind may want to forget, the body remembers, carrying the echoes of past pain in the form of tension, tightness, and guarded breath.

Through Scripture and grounded wisdom, Liz reframes the body as sacred ground, not a battlefield. Each breath becomes an invitation to God’s peace, each step toward reconnection an act of worship.


Key Topics Covered:

  • The body’s memory of trauma and its survival responses


  • Understanding the body as a temple of the Holy Spirit


  • Three simple body-based healing practices:


    1. Purposeful breathing to invite peace


    2. Grounding to stay present in the moment


    3. Gentle movement to release trauma energy


  • Trauma recovery as worship, restoring both the body and soul

Reflection Prompt:
How can you begin to treat your body as sacred today, not broken, but beloved?

Connect with Resources:
Visit Oasis Wellness Centers for guided trauma recovery tools, journals, and programs designed to help you reconnect with your body, breath, and spirit.

Signature Closing:
We are recovering one breath at a time. Give yourself grace and stay fearless.

Support the show

Remember, Trauma was not your fault, your were collateral damage on someone else's warpath. Trauma was not your fault, however Recovery is your Responsibility. I am your host, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding, and this is The Get Trauma Informed Podcast.

Contact us at:
http://oasiswellnessctrs.com
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/blog/blog
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/contact
https://linktr.ee/dlblanding
https://www.lifewave.com/oasiswellnesscenters

Finding Your Voice After Abuse and Trauma with Coach Liz11 nov. 202500:07:17

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Episode Overview

In this powerful episode, Coach Liz invites you to explore one of the most transformative questions survivors can ask:

 “Who are you when you remove the pain?”

Abuse often strips away self-worth, replacing truth with lies that silence the voice within. This conversation is a reminder that your true identity has never been lost; it’s waiting to be reclaimed.


 Key Topics


1. Reclaiming Your Identity After Abuse
Learn how trauma distorts your self-perception and how to rediscover the person God created you to be, whole, worthy, and fearless.

2. Alignment: Bringing Mind, Body, and Spirit Back Into Agreement
Coach Liz introduces the Bottleneck Breakthrough Method and explains how healing requires harmony between your mind, body, and spirit. This alignment allows truth to flow freely through every part of your being.

3. Rebuilding Boundaries and Restoring Your Voice
Using the story of Nehemiah rebuilding the walls of Jerusalem, you’ll learn how to protect your peace through strong, healthy boundaries, one “NO” at a time.

4. God’s Promise of Restoration
Drawing from Joel 2:25, Coach Liz reminds listeners that God restores not only time but identity. Every lost moment, voice, and dream can be rebuilt through faith and resilience.


 Resources Mentioned


💬 Reflection Prompt

Where in your life are you ready to say “NO” to what no longer serves you, and “YES” to your true identity?


💖 Closing Message

We are recovering one breath at a time. Give yourself grace and stay fearless.
 — Coach Liz Blanding, The Trauma Informed Girl

Support the show

Remember, Trauma was not your fault, your were collateral damage on someone else's warpath. Trauma was not your fault, however Recovery is your Responsibility. I am your host, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding, and this is The Get Trauma Informed Podcast.

Contact us at:
http://oasiswellnessctrs.com
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/blog/blog
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/contact
https://linktr.ee/dlblanding
https://www.lifewave.com/oasiswellnesscenters

When Love Hurts: Recognizing Trauma Bonding and Breaking the Cycle with Coach Liz04 nov. 202500:10:11

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Overview:

In this deeply emotional and educational episode of the Get Trauma Informed Podcast, Coach Liz Blanding unpacks the painful reality of trauma bonding. This psychological and chemical attachment keeps survivors tied to abusive relationships even when they want to leave. Through compassion, truth, and faith-based insights, Liz helps listeners understand how to recognize the difference between real love and trauma-induced attachment.


Key Discussion Points:

💔 Understanding Trauma Bonding (0:00)

  • Trauma bonding occurs through repeated cycles of abuse, apology, and reconciliation.

  • The brain becomes conditioned to associate pain with comfort and fear with love.

  • These emotional highs and lows create chemical bonds that mirror addiction.

💞 True Love vs. Trauma (2:11)

  • True love aligns with 1 Corinthians 13—it is patient, kind, and never controlling or humiliating.

  • Love should build your strength, not break your spirit.

  • Real love honors boundaries, encourages peace, and supports your freedom.

🔁 The Cycle of Trauma Bonding (3:23)

  • Abusers often begin with charm, gifts, or affection to create a deep sense of attachment.

  • This is followed by emotional or physical abuse, then an apology or promise to change.

  • The apology releases oxytocin (“the bonding hormone”), reinforcing the emotional tie and making it difficult to detach.

🛑 Breaking the Bond (4:29)

 Coach Liz outlines three steps to break the cycle:

  1. Awareness – Identify and name the unhealthy pattern.

  2. Acceptance – Face the truth without denial or excuses.

  3. Courage – Choose to end the cycle, even when fear or hope tries to pull you back.

She reminds listeners that journaling, prayer, and supportive communities are powerful tools for rebuilding clarity and strength.

✨ Call to Action (7:35)

Final Message:

You are not bound to your pain. Love does not hurt, manipulate, or control. Love restores, uplifts, and heals.


Tagline:

We are recovering one breath at a time. Give yourself grace and stay fearless. Bye for now.


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Trauma in Emotional and Spiritual Abuse with Coach Liz28 oct. 202500:08:55

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In this powerful episode of the Get Trauma Informed Podcast, Coach Liz Blanding explores two of the most insidious forms of abuse—emotional and spiritual abuse.

 These forms of control often hide behind the appearance of care, faith, or love, leaving survivors questioning their worth, intuition, and even their connection to God.


Key Discussion Points:

🕊️ Defining Emotional and Spiritual Abuse (0:13)

  • Emotional abuse is a pattern of behaviors like gaslighting, name-calling, guilt-tripping, and public humiliation.

  • Spiritual abuse manipulates faith, scripture, or divine authority to shame and control others.

  • Both target identity and create confusion about one’s relationship with self and with God.

👁️ Recognizing the Signs (1:30)

  • These forms of abuse can be subtle.

  • The abuser often disguises control as “love” or “spiritual guidance.”

  • True faith produces peace and freedom—not fear, confusion, or control.

🌿 The Bottleneck Breakthrough Method (4:35)
Coach Liz introduces a 3-step recovery process:

  1. Awareness – Identify and name the abusive behaviors.

  2. Acceptance – Stop blaming yourself and recognize the abuser’s brokenness.

  3. Alignment – Reconnect your mind, body, and spirit with the truth of your worth and freedom.


✍️ Reclaiming Your Voice (6:37)

  • Journaling becomes a sacred act of recovery.

  • The silence imposed by abuse can be broken by writing, reflecting, and reaffirming your truth.

  • You may have been silenced, but your power was never stolen.

🌼 Resources and Community (6:44)


Final Message (7:16):

You are not alone. You are supported, seen, and safe. Remember—emotional and spiritual abuse may have silenced your voice, but it did not take your power.


Tagline:

We are recovering one breath at a time. Give yourself grace and stay fearless. Bye for now.



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Understanding Trauma in the Context of Domestic Violence: When Safety Isn’t Safe - Coach Liz21 oct. 202500:06:56

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In this powerful opening to the Mini Trauma Recovery Talks: Domestic Violence & Trauma Recovery Series, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding helps survivors and supporters understand why leaving an abusive situation doesn’t automatically mean the trauma is gone.

Trauma is not just about what happened — it’s about how those experiences reshaped your body, brain, and spirit. Liz explains how the “trauma loop” keeps survivors stuck in cycles of triggers, fear, and shame, and how awareness becomes the first step to breaking free.

Drawing from The Bottleneck Breakthrough Method and scripture, Liz reminds listeners that God’s plan was never for us to live in fear. True recovery is a process of renewing the mind and learning to feel safe again — one breath at a time.


In This Episode You’ll Learn:

  • What trauma really means in the context of domestic violence

  • Why the body struggles to recognize safety after leaving abuse

  • How to identify and break the “trauma loop”

  • Why awareness is the first step in The Bottleneck Breakthrough Method

  • How faith and renewal of the mind lead to lasting peace

  • A simple reflection exercise to begin redefining what safety means today


Scripture References:

  • Psalm 34:18 — “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted.”

  • Isaiah 61:1 — “He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted.”

  • Romans 12:2 — “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”

Reflective Prompt:

🪞 What does safety mean to me now — and what would it take for my body to believe it?


Resources Mentioned:

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Trauma & Dignity in Housing: Rent-to-Own Solutions with Diego Giraldo14 oct. 202500:18:35

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In this powerful conversation, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding of Oasis Wellness Centers sits down with real estate innovator Diego Giraldo of RTO Enterprises to explore the connection between trauma, foreclosure, and housing. Together, they discuss how foreclosure compounds financial and emotional trauma and how dignity can be restored through creative rent-to-own housing solutions.

Listeners will learn:

  • How RTO Enterprises helps distressed property owners avoid foreclosure and protect their credit.

  • Why foreclosure adds layers of trauma, and how rent-to-own offers a pathway to dignity and stability.

  • How the rent-to-own model allows families with credit challenges to begin building equity while renting.

  • Why brokers can benefit from offering rent-to-own solutions and expand their value to clients.

  • How Oasis Wellness and RTO Enterprises’ missions align to provide wraparound services and trauma recovery support.

  • The shared vision for expanding these housing solutions in Michigan, across the U.S., and even globally.

🎧 This episode shines a light on housing as more than real estate; it’s a foundation for recovery, dignity, and hope.


Resources & Links:

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If you or someone you know is facing foreclosure, seeking stable housing, or interested in supporting our mission, connect with Oasis Wellness Centers today:


 📞 Call: 616-320-0703
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Domestic Violence: Breaking the Trauma Cycle and Finding Light on the Other Side with Coach Liz07 oct. 202500:06:56

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 In this heartfelt episode, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding shares a powerful story about a friend’s daughter who was brutally harmed in a domestic violence incident. Drawing from her own journey as a survivor of domestic violence, Liz unpacks how unresolved trauma fuels the cycle of violence—and how it can escalate from “one hit” to life-threatening situations if not addressed.

She highlights the ripple effect of domestic violence on families and loved ones who often feel helpless when someone they care about is trapped in an abusive relationship. Liz also discusses the comprehensive resources available at Oasis Wellness Centers—from trauma recovery coaching to financial guidance and safety planning—to help survivors take steps toward freedom, safety, and restoration.

Faith remains central to Liz’s message as she shares scripture that assures listeners: God never intended for anyone to live in fear or harm.

Timestamps:

  • [0:10] Domestic violence and unresolved trauma


  • [2:17] The ripple effect of domestic violence


  • [3:09] Resources and support for recovery at Oasis Wellness Centers


  • [4:41] Biblical perspective on domestic violence


  • [5:19] Call to action and closing


👉 Resources Mentioned:

  • Oasis Wellness Centers: Peer-to-peer trauma recovery coaching, safety planning, financial guidance, and support groups


National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233

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Trauma-Informed Leadership: Why It Matters Everywhere with Coach Liz Blanding30 sept. 202500:06:58

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 In this episode of the Get Trauma Informed Podcast, Peer-to-Peer Wellness Coach Liz Blanding explores why trauma-informed leadership is essential in every environment — the workplace, church, schools, and community.

Liz shares a personal story of returning to work too soon after her first car accident and being re-traumatized by a supervisor’s angry response. This experience highlights how unresolved trauma and non-trauma-informed leadership can cause lasting harm.

You’ll also learn the four principles of trauma-informed leadership, plus practical steps to begin creating safer, more supportive spaces.

Timestamps

  • 0:06 – Trauma’s presence in every space


  • 0:28 – Defining trauma-informed leadership


  • 1:05 – Personal story of non-trauma-informed leadership


  • 2:40 – Why trauma-informed leadership is imperative


  • 3:14 – Four key principles


  • 4:04 – Practical action steps


  • 4:37 – Transformative power of trauma-informed leadership


  • 5:15 – Oasis Wellness Centers’ masterclasses and courses


Key Takeaways

  • Trauma is always in the room — leaders must recognize it.


  • Trauma-informed leadership shifts from blame to understanding.


  • Four key principles: Awareness, Empathy, Boundaries with Accountability, Model Regulation.


  • Leadership that is trauma-informed helps people not just survive, but thrive.


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What is Trauma? Relationships, Readiness, and Opening the Conversation with Coach Liz23 sept. 202500:07:33

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 In this episode of the Get Trauma Informed Podcast, Coach Liz dives deep into the question: What is trauma? 


Trauma is not just about the events we’ve lived through — it’s about how our mind, body, and spirit respond when life feels overwhelming, unsafe, or unbearable.


We’ll also explore what trauma looks like in relationships, why timing matters when sharing your past, and how to protect your energy in those conversations.


Timestamps


  • 1:07 – What trauma really is


  • 2:44 – How trauma shows up in relationships


  • 4:08 – Discerning when to share your trauma


  • 6:04 – Why trauma does not make you unworthy of love


  • 6:30 – Closing thoughts and consulting God in your decisions


Key Takeaways


  • Trauma is an imprint, not just an event.


  • Relationships built on unacknowledged trauma are like houses on shaky ground.


  • Share your story slowly, with discernment and awareness of your partner’s response.


  • You are not unworthy of love because of trauma. You are human — and worthy of trust, safety, and grace.


👉 Learn more about trauma recovery and explore resources at OasisWellnessCtrs.com


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The Power of Peer-to-Peer Trauma Recovery with Matthew DeWard16 sept. 202500:43:02

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 In this powerful episode, host Liz Blanding sits down with trauma survivor and sound healer Matthew DeWard. After surviving a near-death stabbing and enduring extensive facial reconstructive surgery, Matthew found healing through music and peer-to-peer trauma recovery. Today, he channels his journey into helping others heal at Stillwater Temple, his sound-focused recording studio.

Together, Liz and Matthew explore:

  • How trauma shaped Matthew’s life and his journey back from the brink


  • The unique healing power of peer-to-peer trauma coaching vs traditional therapy


  • Why forgiveness and self-awareness are crucial to recovery


  • How trauma-informed approaches helped him overcome substance dependency


  • The importance of uncovering buried trauma to prevent unconscious reactions


This episode is a heartfelt reminder that “who feels it knows it” and that healing is possible when we walk together.

Resources & Links:

Quote from Matthew:

“Peer-to-peer recovery is like having a travel companion instead of just a map, we walk together.”



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Partnering with us will provide crucial support to many who need it on their recovery journey. 


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Mini Trauma Recovery Talk: Trauma in Transit Workers with Coach Michael Bart Mathews09 sept. 202500:17:46

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This episode of the "Get Trauma Informed" podcast addresses the significant challenges transit workers face, including high levels of stress, frequent traumatic events, and long-term impacts on their mental health. Featuring insights from Coach Michael, a retired Chicago Transit Authority worker, the discussion also highlights the "Pathway to Trauma Recovery" book, offering readers strategies and resources to foster trauma recovery.

Key Takeaways:

  • Transit Worker Trauma: The daily pressures of avoiding accidents, managing passenger safety, and dealing with verbal abuse expose transit workers to trauma. Notably, assaults on transit workers reached a 15-year high in 2023.
  • Coach Michael's Story: As a retired transit worker, Michael shares his realization of unaddressed trauma years after retirement, leading him to become a certified trauma recovery coach.
  • "Pathway to Trauma Recovery" Book: With contributions from 13 authors, this book guides readers through various trauma experiences and offers tools to overcome trauma, achieve balance, and recognize personal triggers.
  • Resources from Oasis Wellness Centers: Oasis provides support groups, trauma recovery sessions, and additional recovery tools to help individuals on their journey.

Topics Covered:

  1. Transit Worker Trauma Exposure:
    • Incidents of physical and verbal abuse, risk of accidents, and the constant pressure to ensure passenger safety contribute to anxiety, PTSD, and health issues.
  2. Personal Experience of Coach Michael:
    • Ten years after retiring, Coach Michael identified unrecognized trauma symptoms, leading him to collaborate with Wellness Coach Liz in trauma recovery.
  3. "Pathway to Trauma Recovery" Book:
    • A comprehensive resource featuring strategies for managing trauma symptoms and reaching life balance.
  4. Oasis Wellness Centers Resources:
    • Support groups, live sessions, and trauma-informed resources are available through Oasis Wellness Centers.
  5. Importance of Trauma Awareness:
    • Educating transit workers and managers on trauma's impact can foster a supportive and trauma-aware work environment.

Next Steps:

  • Explore the "Pathway to Trauma Recovery" book: A must-read for those looking to understand trauma triggers and work towards recovery. 

Visit Oasis Wellness Centers: Additional resources are available, including group sessions and recovery tools.

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From Military Trauma to Market Success with Justin Moore02 sept. 202500:31:29

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In this episode of Get Trauma Informed, pre-recorded July 2024. We sat down with Justin Moore, a former Air Force jet engine mechanic turned entrepreneur. Justin shares his inspiring journey from military life to business success, and how a trauma-informed approach has helped him navigate life’s challenges. He discusses the impact of mental health awareness and the importance of shifting away from unhealthy coping mechanisms.

Justin also introduces his sustainable business, Agoge Hemp Protein, and provides insights into launching a wellness-focused startup. Tune in to discover how trauma-informed living, community support, and entrepreneurship intersect on the path to recovery.

Key Topics Covered:

  • Justin’s Background (0:00) – Military service, business development, and entrepreneurial journey.
  • Understanding Trauma-Informed Practices (1:32) – How past experiences affect present decisions and relationships.
  • Mental Health & Managing PTSD (1:32) – Tools Justin uses to maintain mental wellness.
  • Launching Agoge Hemp Protein (5:02) – Building a sustainable product and promoting healthy living.
  • Connecting Resources & Community Support (19:00) – The role of community and trauma-informed initiatives in healing.
  • Next Steps & Encouragement (27:23) – Agoge Protein benefits and future plans.



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Wk. 12 Military Trauma: “A New Mission: Moving Forward with Meaning After Trauma”26 août 202500:08:04

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Episode Summary

In this closing episode of the Warrior Within 12-week series, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding celebrates the journey we’ve taken together from understanding trauma to building emotional safety, recovering from financial trauma, reclaiming identity, and experiencing the power of peer support.

This week, the focus shifts to your new mission: moving forward with meaning after trauma. Trauma may always be part of your story, but it doesn’t define your future. You’ll learn how to embrace post-traumatic growth, reclaim your goals, rebuild relationships, and redefine your life around purpose.

You’ll also hear Liz’s personal story of transformation, from devastation to strength, wisdom, and compassion — and why “the air is so much better” on the other side of recovery.


Timestamps & Key Takeaways

0:11 — Recap of the Warrior Within Series
Highlights from the past 12 weeks: understanding trauma, PTSD vs CPTSD, emotional safety, financial trauma recovery, identity, purpose, and peer support.

2:32 — Moving Forward with Meaning
How recovery shifts your focus to reclaiming goals, relationships, and purpose, and stepping into post-traumatic growth.

4:28 — Personal Recovery Story
How trauma broke Liz open to become stronger, wiser, and more compassionate.

5:12 — Spiritual Reflection
Jeremiah 29:11 — God’s plan is to give you hope and a future, not just survival.

6:01 — Your Next Step
Invitation to join Oasis Wellness Centers' programs, like The Rebirth of the Veteran and the Pathway Professional Mentor Association for aspiring trauma recovery coaches.


Your Next Step: Continue the Journey with Us

Recovery is just the beginning; now it’s time to thrive. At Oasis Wellness Centers, you’ll find programs, resources, and communities that help you keep moving forward. Whether you’re a veteran ready for your next chapter or you feel called to become a trauma recovery coach, we have a path for you.

💛 Join our All Things Recovery Patreon community for weekly support calls, tools, and a safe, faith-filled space to grow alongside others.
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Reflection Prompt:
What has this recovery journey taught you about who you are and the life you now want to live?





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Wk. 11 Military Trauma: “The Power of Peer Support: Why You’re Not Meant to Heal Alone”19 août 202500:08:14

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Episode Summary:

In this episode of Get Trauma Informed, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding explores the transformative role of peer support in long-term trauma recovery. Trauma can make us feel isolated, unseen, and unsafe, but connection changes everything.

You’ll discover:

  • How peer support rewires your beliefs about safety, belonging, and worth.


  • The neuroscience of co-regulation and why your nervous system needs safe people to fully recover.


  • A biblical reflection from Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 reminding us that “two are better than one” in the journey of restoration.


  • How to choose healthy communities and distance yourself from toxic influences that hinder your recovery.


This is your reminder that you were never meant to recover alone and that the right community can become your lifeline.


Timestamps & Key Takeaways

0:04 — The Power of Peer Support
 Why validation and shared experiences help dissolve shame and break isolation.

3:40 — The Neuroscience of Safe Belonging
 We are wired for co-regulation — calming in the presence of grounded, non-judgmental people.

4:51 — Biblical Perspective
 Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 affirms that God sends people to help us rise when we fall.

5:14 — Choosing the Right People
 Healthy communities are essential; replace toxic influences with safe, positive support systems.

5:38 — Reflective Prompt
 Consider the spaces where you feel safe, seen, and supported — and where you need more of that connection.


Your Next Step: Join a Loving, Supportive Recovery Community

Recovery is hard work, but you don’t have to do it alone. At Oasis Wellness Centers, we create safe spaces for trauma Survivors and Thrivers to connect, share, and grow together.

If you’re ready for ongoing encouragement, guided recovery tools, and a faith-fueled, non-judgmental support circle, join us inside our All Things Recovery Patreon community. You’ll get access to:

  • Weekly connection and support calls


  • Recovery tools, journal prompts, and affirmations


  • A safe, loving community that truly “gets it”


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Reflection Prompt:
 Who in your life offers you a safe space to recover, and where might you need more of that support?



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Wk.10 Military Trauma: Relapse Isn’t Failure: Building a Plan for the Days You Fall Apart12 août 202500:08:14

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In Week 10 of The Warrior Within, Liz Blanding addresses a critical — and often misunderstood — part of the trauma recovery process: relapse. Whether it's returning to old habits, toxic relationships, or emotional shutdown, relapse is not the end of your healing. It’s a signal from your nervous system that you need support, not shame.

Key Topics Covered:

  • What relapse looks like in trauma recovery (isolation, shutdown, avoidance)
  • Why relapse happens: trigger stacking, shame flare-ups, emotional fatigue
  • The difference between failure and falling
  • How to build a safety plan for hard days
  • Personal story of grace in relapse moments
  • Scripture reflection: Proverbs 24:16
  • Reflection prompt: “What does relapse look like for me — and what safety plan do I need to put in place for those days?”

Call to Action:

Join the Warrior Within recovery program at oasiswellnessctrs.com to continue your journey with guided support, journaling prompts, and spiritual healing tools.

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Wk. 9 Military Trauma: “Boundaries and Brokenness: Learning to Say No, Learning to Stay Whole”05 août 202500:07:33

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In Week 9 of The Warrior Within, Liz Blanding tackles one of the most transformational skills in trauma recovery: boundaries. For many survivors, especially those from chaotic homes, military environments, or abusive relationships, boundaries were broken before they were ever built. In this episode, Liz breaks down what boundaries are, how trauma disrupts them, and how rebuilding them can lead to self-worth, peace, and emotional wholeness.

Key Topics Covered:

  • Understanding the types of boundaries (physical, emotional, financial, spiritual)
  • How trauma, especially military and CPTSD, disrupts boundaries
  • Common trauma beliefs: “I can’t say no,” “Love means overgiving”
  • Personal story of learning to say no and reclaiming peace
  • Scripture reflection: Proverbs 4:23
  • Reflection prompt: “Where have I been afraid to speak up — and what would change if I did?”

Call to Action:

Join the Warrior Within recovery program at oasiswellnessctrs.com to continue your journey with guided support, journaling prompts, and spiritual healing tools.

You deserve boundaries that protect your healing. Visit oasiswellnessctrs.com to access boundary-setting resources and trauma-informed support.

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Wk. 8 Military Trauma: “Tell Your Story: Identity, Purpose & Reclaiming Your Voice”29 juil. 202500:06:45

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In Week 8 of The Warrior Within, Liz Blanding leads us into one of the most transformative aspects of trauma recovery: telling your story. Trauma teaches us to stay silent, shrink, or hide. But healing begins when we reclaim our voice and shift from surviving to storytelling. This episode explores how testimony transforms, why telling your story in your own words matters, and how it aligns with both neuroscience and scripture.

Key Topics Covered:

  • Why storytelling is essential in trauma recovery
  • The neuroscience behind testimony and memory integration
  • Reclaiming identity through voice and purpose
  • Personal story of naming trauma and reclaiming power
  • Scripture reflection: Revelation 12:11
  • Reflection prompt: “If I could share my story with someone who needed hope, what part would I tell?”

Call to Action:

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Wk. 7 Military Trauma: The Trauma of Financial Instability22 juil. 202500:09:56

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In Week 7 of The Warrior Within, Liz Blanding opens up a vital yet often overlooked topic: financial trauma. Many trauma survivors — veterans and civilians alike — carry deep emotional wounds around money. From poverty and job loss to financial abuse and instability, money becomes more than a resource — it becomes a trigger. This episode explores how to recognize financial trauma, understand its symptoms, and start healing your relationship with money through spiritual truth and self-compassion.

Key Topics Covered:

  • What is financial trauma and who it affects
  • Signs of financial PTSD: anxiety, panic, guilt, shame
  • How trauma rewires our beliefs about money
  • Personal story of financial collapse and recovery
  • Scripture reflection: Philippians 4:19
  • Reflection prompt: “What messages about money did I receive from trauma — and what do I want to believe instead?”

Call to Action:

Rebuild your relationship with money by starting with healing. Visit oasiswellnessctrs.com to access trauma-informed coaching and financial empowerment tools.

Join the Warrior Within recovery program at oasiswellnessctrs.com to continue your journey with guided support, journaling prompts, and spiritual healing tools.

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Wk. 6 Military Trauma: “Rebuilding Emotional Safety: Regulation, Relationships & Trust”15 juil. 202500:10:46

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In this powerful episode of The Warrior Within, Liz Blanding explores the essential trauma recovery theme of emotional safety. From nervous system dysregulation to broken trust and relational isolation, Liz breaks down how trauma impacts our emotional world—and how we can begin to heal. Whether you're a veteran or a civilian CPTSD survivor, this episode guides you toward regulation, rebuilding trust, and reconnecting with yourself and others.

Key Topics Covered:

  • Emotional regulation: understanding hyperarousal and hypoarousal states
  • The difference between emotional survival and true emotional safety
  • Why trust gets broken after trauma—and how to rebuild it
  • Rebuilding relationships with boundaries, not barriers
  • A personal story from Liz's trauma recovery journey
  • Scripture reflection: Proverbs 4:23
  • Reflection prompt: “Where have I confused emotional survival with emotional safety?”

Call to Action:

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Wk. 5 Military Trauma: “When the Body Remembers: Triggers, Flashbacks & the Path to Safety”08 juil. 202500:09:13

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This week on The Warrior Within, Liz Blanding dives into the complicated and often misunderstood world of trauma triggers and flashbacks. With honesty and compassion, she explains how the body remembers what the mind tries to forget. Whether you're a military veteran or civilian survivor of CPTSD, this episode provides insight, validation, and practical strategies to navigate flashbacks and build a sense of safety.

Key Topics Covered:

  • What is a trigger? Understanding how the nervous system reacts to sensory reminders
  • Flashbacks: Why they feel real and what they mean
  • How the brain responds: Amygdala, hippocampus, and fear responses
  • Stories from Liz's own trauma recovery journey
  • Practical grounding tools for immediate emotional safety
  • Scripture reflection: Psalm 56:3
  • Reflection prompt: "What has my body been trying to protect me from?"

Call to Action:

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Wk. 4 Military Trauma: “Moral Injury & Survivor’s Guilt: The Wounds We Don’t Talk About”01 juil. 202500:07:57

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 In Week 4 of The Warrior Within, we’re addressing two of the most hidden—and spiritually painful—wounds many trauma survivors carry: moral injury and survivor’s guilt. Whether you're a veteran grappling with what happened in combat, or a civilian struggling with shame after escaping abuse or outliving others, these wounds go beyond the emotional—they cut into the soul.

In this episode, Coach Liz shares the truth: you are not defined by what you saw, did, or survived—you are being refined through recovery.


 Key Topics Covered:

  • What is Moral Injury?
    Soul-level pain from actions or events that violated your core beliefs


  • What is Survivor’s Guilt?
    Deep shame or questioning after surviving something others didn’t


  • The Shame Cycle:
    How guilt can spiral into isolation, addiction, self-sabotage, and fear of joy


Spiritual Reflection:


Psalm 103:10 — “He does not treat us as our sins deserve or repay us according to our iniquities.”

You don’t have to carry what Jesus already covered.


Reflection Prompts:

  1. Where do I still feel ashamed for surviving or for decisions made during trauma?


  2. What would it feel like to forgive myself—or accept that I’m already forgiven

Call to Action:

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Wk. 3 Military Trauma: “The Hidden War: Military PTSD vs. Civilian CPTSD”24 juin 202500:10:34

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 In Week 3 of the Warrior Within trauma recovery series, we explore two very different trauma battlegrounds that lead to similar internal wars—Military PTSD and Civilian Complex PTSD (CPTSD). Though their sources differ—combat vs. chronic abuse—their effects often overlap: emotional shutdown, hypervigilance, flashbacks, and deep identity wounds.

In this heartfelt episode, Coach Liz unpacks the trauma responses common to both groups and emphasizes that no one’s pain should be minimized—your healing matters, regardless of how the trauma began.


 Key Topics Covered:

  • Differences in military PTSD (combat trauma, moral injury, survivor’s guilt)


  • Characteristics of civilian CPTSD (chronic neglect, emotional abuse, systemic trauma)


  • Shared symptoms: flashbacks, altered stress responses, isolation


  • The danger of trauma bonding and how unhealed wounds can recycle in relationships


  • The power of honoring your pain without comparison


 Reflective Prompt:


“How is my trauma showing up in my daily life and relationships—and what would change if I stopped comparing my pain and started healing it?”


Call to Action:

Join the Warrior Within recovery program at oasiswellnessctrs.com to continue your journey with guided support, journaling prompts, and spiritual healing tools.



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Wk. 2 Military Trauma: “Rewiring the Wounded Brain: Neuroplasticity, Recovery, and God’s Design”17 juin 202500:10:26

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 In Week 2 of the Warrior Within trauma recovery journey, we dive into the science and spirituality of neuroplasticity — the brain’s miraculous ability to heal, rewire, and recover after trauma. Whether you've endured the battlefield, childhood abuse, or chronic stress, this episode reminds you that your brain is not broken—it’s wounded, and wounded things can heal.

We’ll explore how trauma rewires the fear, memory, and decision-making centers of the brain, and how practices like journaling, prayer, rest, movement, and safe relationships can begin to overwrite those trauma-coded patterns.

This episode is your proof that healing isn’t just emotional—it’s biological. And it’s built into God’s design for your recovery.


Key Topics Covered:

What is Neuroplasticity?
The brain’s ability to form new neural pathways — meaning recovery is possible and natural.


How Trauma Affects the Brain:

  • Amygdala: Goes into survival overdrive
  • Hippocampus: Shrinks, distorting memory
  • Prefrontal Cortex: Shuts down, impairing logic and clarity

Recovery Through Practice:

  • Journaling
  • Therapy
  • Prayer and Affirmations
  • Movement
  • Intentional Relationships

Biblical Backing:

Romans 12:2 — “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind”

Isaiah 43:19 — “I am making a way in the wilderness”

 Takeaway Truth:
Your brain is not defective—it’s adaptable.
Your recovery is not optional—it’s divinely designed.


 Reflection Prompts:

  1. What thoughts, beliefs, or habits feel like they were written by trauma?


  2. What truth do I want to start writing over them?


Call to Action:

Join the Warrior Within recovery program at oasiswellnessctrs.com to continue your journey with guided support, journaling prompts, and spiritual healing tools.


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Wk. 1 Military Trauma: “Veteran vs. Civilian PTSD & CPTSD — Understanding the Difference to Begin Recovery”10 juin 202500:12:29

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 In this powerful launch to our Veteran Trauma Recovery Program, we dive deep into how trauma changes the brain—and how the brain can heal. Using the science of neuroplasticity, Coach Liz breaks down how trauma survivors, whether veteran or civilian, can retrain their minds and rewrite their stories. If you’ve ever felt stuck in survival mode, this episode will show you that your brain isn’t broken—it’s wounded, and it can recover.

 Topics Covered:

  • The difference between PTSD and CPTSD

  • How trauma affects the amygdala, hippocampus, and prefrontal cortex

  • What neuroplasticity is and why it matters in trauma recovery

  • How journaling, rest, prayer, movement, and intentional relationships rewire the brain

  • The spiritual and biological truth: “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind”

 Reflective Prompts:

  1. What beliefs or behaviors were written by trauma?

  2. What truths do I need to write over them?

  3. What would a new chapter in my healing story look like?

     Scripture References:
  • Romans 12:2 — “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind”
  • Isaiah 43:19 — “See, I am doing a new thing…”

Call to Action:

Join the Warrior Within recovery program at oasiswellnessctrs.com to continue your journey with guided support, journaling prompts, and spiritual healing tools.



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Mike Murphy on Turning Trauma into Empowerment and Intentional Living03 juin 202500:23:37

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 In this deeply moving episode of the Get Trauma Informed Podcast, host Liz Blanding welcomes Mike Murphy — author, speaker, and founder of Mountains of Hope Wellness Retreat. Mike shares his personal story of growing through childhood trauma and how it shaped his mission to help others reclaim their power.

💬 Key Takeaways:

  • [00:00] What it truly means to “get trauma informed”


  • [05:47] How trauma can transform you into a powerful creator instead of a passive survivor


  • [07:41] An inside look at Mountains of Hope, a retreat nestled in the Andes focused on deep holistic healing


  • [11:57] Practical tips for those in the midst of trauma — from journaling to spiritual support


  • [20:06] Discover The Creation Frequency — how thoughts, intentions, and feelings shape your life’s path


Mountains of Hope: 

Pozo Rubio Vereda El 

Tablazo, Rionegro 055437 

Colombia

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welcome@mountainsofhope.com



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From Insanity to Acceptance: Healing Trauma and Addiction with Mike Shooty27 mai 202500:32:02

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 Episode Summary

In this eye-opening episode, host Liz Blanding sits down with certified family recovery coach and author Mike Shooty to explore the deep connection between trauma and addiction. Mike shares his 20-year journey battling substance use disorders and how uncovering unresolved trauma became the turning point in his recovery.

Drawing from his book Lost in London: Journey from Insanity to Acceptance, Mike takes us through the cycles of relapse, the pain of unhealed wounds, and the power of holistic healing—mind, body, and spirit. If you've ever struggled with addiction or supported someone who has, this conversation offers truth, empathy, and real tools for transformation.

 Key Takeaways

  • Trauma is often the hidden driver behind addiction.

  • Sobriety is only the beginning—healing happens when we address root causes.

  • Vulnerability and storytelling are powerful tools for both personal and collective recovery.

  • Community, connection, and compassion are essential for long-term transformation.

  • Everyone deserves a second chance—and there is always a path to recovery.


 Mentioned in this Episode

  • Lost in London: Journey from Insanity to Acceptance by Mike Schuette

  • Family Recovery Coaching

  • Trauma-Informed Healing Modalities

💬 Favorite Quote

"You can get sober, but if you don’t change the behaviors rooted in trauma, the cycle will continue." — Mike Shooty


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Resources for Trauma Recovery and Emotional Well-Being: Pt 8 Trauma Informed Leadership with Coach Liz22 mai 202500:08:45

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In this final episode of the Trauma-Informed Leadership Masterclass, Coach Liz Blanding closes the series with a powerful reminder: healing is ongoing, layered, and deeply personal. She shares accessible recovery resources through Oasis Wellness Centers and offers reflective practices that help leaders stay grounded, self-aware, and purpose-driven as they lead others through recovery and resilience.

 Key Talking Points:

  • Trauma Recovery Resources: Free and low-cost programs including peer groups, a 12-week trauma recovery series, and community-based healing spaces.

  • Reflective Leadership Practices: Journaling, meditation, and silence as tools for inner awareness and emotional regulation.

  • The Ongoing Journey: Recovery is not a quick fix—it’s like peeling back layers of an onion to uncover purpose, power, and peace.

  • Call to Action: Keep going. Show up whole. Support others in doing the same.


 Resources & Next Steps:

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Transformational Self-Help Modalities: Pt 7 Trauma Informed Leadership with Coach Liz Blanding20 mai 202500:06:55

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In Part 7 of the Trauma-Informed Leadership Masterclass, Coach Liz Blanding shines a spotlight on what many leaders overlook: the critical role of self-care and nervous system regulation. Trauma-informed leadership starts with YOU. This episode dives into daily practices and micro-moments that restore balance, build resilience, and model healing in motion.

 Key Talking Points:

  • Inner Work = Outer Impact: Over 75% of trauma-informed leadership is about self-regulation, self-awareness, and nervous system health.

  • Accessible Self-Care for Leaders: Breathwork, herbal remedies, energy grounding, movement, meditation, journaling, and calming rituals.

  • Leadership by Example: Regulated leaders create safe, emotionally attuned teams. Self-care is not a luxury—it’s a responsibility.

  • Vagus Nerve Technique: A calming neck exercise that releases stress and enhances resilience.

  • Closing Encouragement: True leadership starts with taking care of your own inner terrain first.


 Resources & Next Steps:

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Developing Action Plans for Trauma-Informed Practices: Pt. 6 Trauma Informed Leadership with Coach Liz Blanding15 mai 202500:06:20

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In Part 6 of the Trauma-Informed Leadership Masterclass, Coach Liz Blanding shifts the focus from trauma awareness to practical implementation. Leaders will learn how to translate empathy into action by incorporating quick wins, structured check-ins, emotionally safe feedback, and long-term culture shifts—all designed to support healing, trust, and team resilience.


 Key Talking Points:

  • Awareness is Just the Start: Action is the true transformation tool.

  • Quick Wins to Start Now: Daily check-ins, emotional debriefs, coaching-based feedback, and flexible boundaries.

  • Culture Building: Why consistent communication, trauma-aware hiring, and emotionally safe policies matter.

  • The Power of Rhythm: Trauma doesn’t heal in chaos—it heals in safety, rhythm, and consistency.

  • Holding Space, Not Control: Leaders don’t fix people—they model boundaries, emotional regulation, and trust.


 Resources & Next Steps:

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Empowerment Recovery and Paradigm Shifts: Pt 5 Trauma Informed Leadership with Coach Liz Blanding13 mai 202500:03:52

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In Part 5 of the Trauma-Informed Leadership Masterclass, Coach Liz Blanding explores how we move from fear-based control models to empowered, purpose-driven leadership. This episode is a deep dive into how trauma-informed leaders foster autonomy, accountability, and inner transformation—while equipping others to rise.


 Key Talking Points:

  • Reclaiming Power: True trauma recovery means reclaiming your voice, your choices, and your power to lead from wholeness.

  • Leadership That Uplifts: Purpose-driven leadership empowers rather than controls. It replaces fear with trust, rigidity with resilience, and performance obsession with meaningful connection.

  • Equipping, Not Enabling: Trauma-informed leaders set high standards—but equip people with tools, trust, and encouragement to rise and meet them.

  • Cultural Healing: When leadership transforms, so does the culture. Healing ripples from individuals to the entire organization.

 Resources & Next Steps:

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Organization Trauma: Triggers and Responses: Pt 4 Trauma Informed Leadership with Coach Liz Blanding08 mai 202500:05:25

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In Part 4 of the Trauma-Informed Leadership Masterclass Series, Coach Liz Blanding explores a topic often overlooked in professional development: organizational trauma. In this eye-opening episode, listeners will learn how trauma exists not just in people, but in systems and workplace cultures, and how it can be healed through trauma-informed leadership practices.


 Key Talking Points:

  • Organizational Trauma Defined: Trauma isn’t just personal—it’s cultural and structural. It’s embedded in how an organization operates.

  • Warning Signs of Workplace Trauma: Silence, high turnover, emotional outbursts, disengagement, or chronic micromanagement.

  • Triggers in the Workplace: Unaddressed trauma leads to disproportionate emotional reactions—often misunderstood by untrained leaders.

  • The Trauma-Informed Shift: Effective leaders ask, “What happened here?” instead of “What’s wrong with them?”

  • How Organizations Begin to Heal: Consistency, clarity, empathy, and predictable leadership are the building blocks of healing organizational culture.


 Resources & Next Steps:

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Mindset, Trauma, Abuse, and Recovery (Self-Determination Theory: pt. 3 Trauma Informed Leadership with Coach Liz06 mai 202500:07:03

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In Part 3 of the Trauma-Informed Leadership Masterclass, Coach Liz Blanding focuses on the mindset shifts necessary for trauma-informed leadership. This episode takes listeners deep into the role that beliefs—especially limiting ones rooted in trauma—play in a person’s leadership capacity and emotional recovery. Through the lens of Self-Determination Theory, Liz highlights how leaders can foster environments of autonomy, competence, and connection.

Key Talking Points:

  • Limiting Beliefs from Trauma: “I’m not good enough.” “Success isn’t for people like me.” These narratives sabotage leadership and healing.


  • Leadership Reflection: Are you leading from fear or vision? Burnout or belief?


  • Self-Determination Theory: Unpacks the three core needs for psychological healing and growth: autonomy, competence, and relatedness.


  • Empowered Leadership: Trauma-informed leaders create safe spaces for others to regain agency, confidence, and connection.

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Addiction, Relapse Prevention, & Emotional Intelligence (EQ): Pt. 2 Trauma Informed Leadership with Coach Liz Blanding 01 mai 202500:05:13

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In Part 2 of the Trauma-Informed Leadership Masterclass series, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding dives into the critical connections between unresolved trauma, addiction patterns, relapse prevention, and emotional intelligence. This episode challenges leaders to look inward and recognize the subtle yet powerful ways trauma shapes behavior—and how self-awareness can be the greatest leadership tool of all.


 Key Talking Points:

  • Addiction & Trauma: How addiction (to substances, habits, or success) often masks emotional wounds leaders carry.
  • EQ & Leadership: The four key areas of Emotional Intelligence—self-awareness, self-regulation, empathy, and relationship management.
  • Relapse Warning Signs: Avoiding hard conversations, controlling behaviors, burnout cycles, and emotional shutdown.
  • Trauma-Informed Action: How recognizing these patterns can help leaders re-center and cultivate healthier environments.

 Resources & Next Steps:

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Understanding Trauma and Its Effects: Pt.1 Trauma Informed Leadership with Coach Liz Blanding29 avr. 202500:06:42

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In this powerful kickoff to our 8-part podcast series, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding introduces the foundational principles of trauma-informed leadership. With up to 80% of the population having experienced trauma, this episode breaks down why leadership today must shift to become more aware, responsive, and human-centered.

 Key Talking Points:
The Need for Awareness: 70-80% of individuals have experienced trauma; 20-30% are caring for someone with trauma.

  • Types of Trauma: Understanding the differences between acute, chronic, and complex trauma—and how they affect the mind and body.
  • Workplace Reactions: Fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses in professional environments.
  • Leadership Gaps: How unprocessed trauma leads to miscommunication, burnout, low trust, and high turnover in teams.
  • Building Safe Environments: Why awareness, empathy, and education lead to responsible, authentic leadership.

     Resources & Next Steps:

  • Explore more at oasiswellnessctrs.com

    Interested in deeper training? Register for the 3-hour Trauma-Informed Leadership Masterclass or join our 9-week online leadership journey.

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From Trauma to Trust: Trauma-Informed Leadership with Dr. James Chitwood22 avr. 202500:27:59

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In this enlightening episode of the Get Trauma Informed Podcast, we sit down with Dr. James Chitwood to dive deep into the powerful intersection between trauma-informed care and organizational leadership. With decades of experience leading systems and shaping leaders, Dr. Chitwood shares practical strategies for building trauma-informed cultures, creating psychological safety, and redefining employee value.


 Key Topics Discussed:

  • Why leadership alone isn't enough: Without foundational management systems, leadership falls flat.


  • The hidden cost of poor communication: Up to 25% productivity loss comes from avoidable breakdowns.


  • Psychological safety as a performance driver: Why listening without punishment builds loyalty.


  • Treating employees like assets: Unleashing potential begins with investment and belief.


  • How trauma survivors often become leaders driven to serve, not victims of their past.


  • An introduction to the C-Suite for Christ movement and its growing national presence.

 Memorable Quotes:

“Undeveloped potential of people is the greatest asset in any organization.” 

– Dr. James Chitwood

“Trauma may build hyper-awareness, but it should never define your identity.” 

– Dr. James Chitwood


Resources + Links:

✝️ Interested in C-Suite for Christ (Chicago)? Reach out to Dr. Chitwood for involvement.

We are dedicated to providing support, education, and resources to individuals recovering from various forms of trauma.

With a dedicated listener base, our podcast offers a unique opportunity for sponsors to connect with a deeply engaged and supportive community.

Partnering with us will provide crucial support to many who need it on their recovery journey. 


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Remember, Trauma was not your fault, your were collateral damage on someone else's warpath. Trauma was not your fault, however Recovery is your Responsibility. I am your host, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding, and this is The Get Trauma Informed Podcast.

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Mini Trauma Recovery Talk: Pt. 3 Functioning While Traumatized: Breaking the Cycle of Silent Suffering with Coach Liz15 avr. 202500:13:14

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Episode Summary:

In the final part of the “Functioning While Traumatized” mini-series, host Liz Blanding shares powerful insight into the emotional cycles of trauma and addiction—and how to begin breaking free.

You’ll learn about the biochemical patterns behind emotional cravings, the connection between trauma and addictive behaviors, and practical steps to shift from survival to true healing.

Liz also opens the door for listeners to become co-authors in the Pathway to Trauma Recovery anthology, encouraging others to transform their pain into purpose by sharing their journey.


 In This Episode:

  • 0:07 – Recap of the “Functioning While Traumatized” series


  • 2:53 – Addiction, emotional cycles, and biochemical reactions


  • 8:08 – 7 powerful steps to break free from silent suffering


  • 10:17 – Invitation to share your story in the upcoming anthology


  • 11:21 – Liz’s personal journey and gratitude for community support



Key Takeaway:

Healing begins with awareness, support, and a willingness to face your pain with compassion. You are not alone—and your story has the power to help others.


Resources:

Learn more about becoming a co-author in the Pathway to Trauma Recovery anthology


Support the show

Remember, Trauma was not your fault, your were collateral damage on someone else's warpath. Trauma was not your fault, however Recovery is your Responsibility. I am your host, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding, and this is The Get Trauma Informed Podcast.

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Mini Trauma Recovery Talk: Pt. 2 Functioning While Traumatized: The Toll of Unresolved Trauma with Coach Liz08 avr. 202500:18:41

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Episode Summary:

In Part 2 of the “Functioning While Traumatized” mini-series, host Liz Blanding takes a deeper dive into the hidden costs of carrying unresolved trauma. From emotional distress to physical illness, from mental fog to broken relationships—this episode uncovers the real toll that trauma takes when it goes unaddressed.

You’ll also explore the reasons many of us hide our pain, and the danger of simply “getting by” without seeking true healing. This episode is a powerful reminder that recovery is not just possible—it’s necessary for a joyful and fulfilling life.


 In This Episode:

  • 0:00 – Recap of Part 1 + overview of how trauma affects us


  • 2:04 – Emotional, physical, cognitive, and relational impacts


  • 8:59 – Why people hide their trauma: shame, fear, and stigma


  • 13:39 – The dangerous consequences of “just getting by”


  • 17:00 – A look ahead: Empowering pathways to recovery



 Key Takeaway:


You may look like you’re functioning—but unresolved trauma takes a toll on every area of life. It’s time to do more than survive. It’s time to heal.

Resources:

Join our support group or book a discovery session to begin your healing journey.


Support the show

Remember, Trauma was not your fault, your were collateral damage on someone else's warpath. Trauma was not your fault, however Recovery is your Responsibility. I am your host, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding, and this is The Get Trauma Informed Podcast.

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Mini Trauma Recovery Talks: Pt. 1 Functioning While Traumatized: The Silent Struggle with Unresolved Trauma with Coach Liz01 avr. 202500:16:07

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Episode Summary:

Have you ever smiled through pain or kept moving just to avoid falling apart? In this eye-opening kickoff to the new “Functioning While Traumatized” mini-series, host Liz Blanding explores what it means to silently suffer from unresolved trauma—while still going through the motions of everyday life.

Through personal stories, common signs, and practical recovery guidance, Liz sheds light on the hidden toll of masking trauma and offers a pathway toward healing and wholeness.

 In This Episode:

  • 0:00 – Introduction to the mini-series


  • 5:21 – What it really means to “function” while traumatized


  • 10:00 – Key symptoms: from anxiety to emotional withdrawal


  • 14:33 – Pathways to recovery and reclaiming your life


  • 14:56 – Encouragement and next steps


Key Takeaway:

Trauma wasn’t your fault—but recovery is your responsibility. You don’t have to keep surviving in silence. Support is here.

 Resources Mentioned:

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Remember, Trauma was not your fault, your were collateral damage on someone else's warpath. Trauma was not your fault, however Recovery is your Responsibility. I am your host, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding, and this is The Get Trauma Informed Podcast.

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Trauma - From Punishment to Compassionate Legal Interventions with Attorney Mark Astor25 mars 202500:30:29

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Episode Summary:

 In this powerful Get Trauma Informed conversation, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding welcomes attorney Mark Astor of Astor Simovitch Law. Mark specializes in helping families with loved ones facing mental health and substance use disorders. Drawing from his past as a prosecutor, Mark shares how the legal system has traditionally failed to address the root of these issues: trauma.

This episode offers a compassionate look at how trauma-informed legal action can transform lives, empower families, and break the cycle of suffering.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • 👨‍⚖️ About Astor Simovitch Law: A law firm focused on helping families intervene in the lives of loved ones battling addiction or mental illness when all else has failed.
  • 💔 The Trauma Connection: Why trauma is the root cause behind many mental health and substance use issues.
  • ⚖️ Criminal Justice Reform: How punishment without healing only worsens trauma.
  • 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Family Empowerment: How families can legally and ethically step in to get help for resistant loved ones—and why their healing matters too.
  • 🛑 Breaking the Silence: Liz shares her personal story of surviving domestic violence and the barriers that exist when looking for trauma-informed support.
  • 💡 Next Steps: Learn how to reach out for legal support and connect with trauma recovery resources.

Resources Mentioned:

Connect with Us:
💚 Host: Liz Blanding, Trauma Recovery Coach
🌐 Website: Oasis Wellness Centers
📘 Book: Pathway to Trauma Recovery
 🎧 More Episodes: Get Trauma Informed Podcast 

We are dedicated to providing support, education, and resources to individuals recovering from various forms of trauma.

With a dedicated listener base, our podcast offers a unique opportunity for sponsors to connect with a deeply engaged and supportive community.

Partnering with us will provide crucial support to many who need it on their recovery journey. 


Support the show

Remember, Trauma was not your fault, your were collateral damage on someone else's warpath. Trauma was not your fault, however Recovery is your Responsibility. I am your host, Wellness Coach Liz Blanding, and this is The Get Trauma Informed Podcast.

Contact us at:
http://oasiswellnessctrs.com
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/blog/blog
https://oasiswellnessctrs.com/contact
https://linktr.ee/dlblanding
https://www.lifewave.com/oasiswellnesscenters

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