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| Ep 273 - Haunted Trails and the Comfort of Trees | 25 oct. 2026 | 00:11:52 | |
A peaceful autumn walk takes a spooky turn when Mary Stone and her rescue dog, Jolee, discover the Haunted Trails at Mohican Outdoor Center in Blairstown, NJ. Amid dangling ghosts, creepy creatures, and a masked Friday the 13th visitor, Jolee's hilarious misadventure brings heart-lifting laughter. But beyond the Halloween mischief, Catfish Pond's beauty stirs tender memories of Mary's brother Bill, heart-shaped stones, and his Lesson of the Leaf. It's a heartfelt reminder that nature offers room for grief, healing, and laughter—and that joy often waits around the next bend. Because gardens, nature, and life are always teaching us something. Our role is to listen. 🍂 Haunted Trails and the Comfort of Trees: enjoy the companion column and photos from the adventure. Connect with Mary Stone Thank you for listening and for sharing the Garden of Life. 🌻 Explore more: 👻Halloween's History & Sycamore Ghosts–Visit Mary's earlier story about Halloween traditions and the happy ghosts circling a magnificent sycamore in Hope, NJ. 🎙️ Garden Dilemmas, Delights & Discoveries – More stories and lessons from the Garden of Life.
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| Ep 272 - Nature's Playground: Where Imagination Grows | 18 oct. 2026 | 00:13:01 | |
What looked like a renovation in the making, the Children's Garden at Fairchild Tropical Botanic Garden became a reminder of childhood adventures in nature. Mary Stone recalls climbing trees, building firewood forts, and growing up with a dad who worked in the space program—when Tang was the drink of astronauts. From Longwood Gardens to pinecone angels and miniature terrariums, discover how nature's treasures inspire imagination at any age. Plus, a fun update on Susan's battle with Japanese knotweed. Link to the companion post: Nature’s Playground: Where Imagination Grows Related Stories & Episodes Fairchild & Autumn Reflections Ep 271 – Meeting the Tree of Life & When Autumn Comes Early | Blog Posts: Meeting the Tree of Life | When Autumn Arrives Early Childhood Memories – Blog Posts Mary Stone's Brief Bio | Mom Jackson's Garden Miniature Gardens Ep 144 – Festive Partridge Berry–Terrarium Basics | Blog Post: Terrariums – A Mini Gardening Warmup | Festive Partridge Berry Knotweed Update Ep 270 – To Weed or Not Weed Knotweed Blog Post: To Weed or Not to Weed Knotweed?
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| Ep 271 - Meeting the Tree of Life & When Autumn Arrives Early | 11 oct. 2026 | 00:12:39 | |
A family visit to Fairchild Tropical Botanic Garden in Florida brings Mary Stone face-to-face with a much-adored baobab, known as the Tree of Life. Along the way, she discovers colorful tropical plants, a reluctant butterfly, and a touching reminder of how her mother's love of gardening continues to grow. Back home, Mary's beloved sugar maple is shedding leaves weeks ahead of schedule, while a seemingly lifeless baby tuliptree offers a surprise. She explores how drought stress affects trees, why lichen and moss are harmless companions, and the benefits of turning fallen leaves into leaf mold – far better than mulch. Holding on. Letting go. Beginning again. Sometimes growth is happening beneath the surface, even when we cannot see it. The same is true in our Garden of Life. Link to the Companion Posts: Links to Related Episodes and Blog Posts You'll Enjoy: Episode 270 — To Weed or Not to Weed Knotweed? Episode 61 — A Story of Treasured Tuliptrees Read: A Story of Treasured Tuliptrees
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| Ep 270 - To Weed or Not Weed Knotweed | 27 sept. 2026 | 00:17:19 | |
To weed or not to weed knotweed? An afternoon of weeding in a client's garden leads Mary to an unexpected dilemma—and a deeper dive into this beautiful but notoriously difficult invasive plant. Mary Stone revisits her first encounter with Japanese knotweed (Reynoutria japonica)) as one of September's roadside beauties and her neighbor Susan's success in eradicating a colony through persistent pulling. She explores what the research says about nonchemical management, herbicide treatment, and concerns about knotweed damaging homes. As often happens in the garden, sometimes answers are complicated. And sometimes our dilemmas invite us to remain curious, learn from one another, and grow from our mistakes—the same is true in our Garden of Life. Link to the companion post: To Weed or Not to Weed Knotweed? Connect with Mary Stone Thank you for listening and for sharing the Garden of Life. 🌻 Related stories and episodes: • September Roadside Beauties - Blog Post September 2018 • Knotweed Meets Crown Vetch / the story of Susan tackling Japanese knotweed, June 2022. Also featured in Episode 62 - Rethinking Weeds & Invasive Plants Nighttime Chorus of Garden Insects - Blog Post Also featured in Episode 177 - Nighttime Chorus of Garden Insects Weeding Mugwort – Picking up Litter - July 2022 Also featured in Episode 18 - Walking & Plalking, Queens & Bachelors
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| Ep 269 - A Memory Trail Through Nature’s Fall Palette | 20 sept. 2026 | 00:12:34 | |
A walk along the Paulinskill Valley Trail leads Mary Stone down a memory trail of beloved dogs, changing paths, and how we adapt through seasons. Memories of Sara—a tennis-ball-loving golden retriever who learned to play differently after two surgeries—lead back to the screen porch and a magnificent garden planted by Mother Nature. We explore Jewelweed with exploding seeds and White Snakeroot that nourishes pollinators but has a toxic history. Plus sweeping colonies of Hay-scented Fern turning toward autumn yellow. Then the memory trail returns to Miss Ellie Mae and Jolee, whose journey from a fearful rescue dog to a confident walking companion offers another lesson: sometimes a frightening road becomes familiar, and eventually we discover there is more than one way to go. Different dogs. Different walks. Different chapters of a life. And still, the Garden of Life grows. 🌿🐾 Link to the Companion Post: A Memory Trail Through Nature’s Fall Palette Connect with Mary Stone Thank you for listening and for sharing the Garden of Life.🌻 Related Stories & Podcasts: 🐾 Miss Ellie Mae — My Unexpected Furry Messenger- Blog Post 🐾 Jolee — Merry Season of Love Over Fear - Blog Post 🌿 Last week's story —Ep 268: Finding Our Way Again Along the Paulins Kill
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| Ep 268 - Finding Our Way Again Along the Paulins Kill | 13 sept. 2026 | 00:11:33 | |
A trail closure sends Mary Stone and her rescue dog, Jolee, in another direction for a restful walk along the Paulinskill Valley Trail, where late-summer wildflowers, remnants of railroad history, and the reestablished Paulins Kill River offer a reflection on change and restoration. Along the way, an old mile marker brings a profound, spirited lift. And memories of the former Paulina Dam, the river, surrounding landscape, and wildlife finding their way again remind us of life's transitions. Sometimes a familiar path is closed, and all we can do is turn in another direction and keep walking to find our way again. Enjoy the Comanion Post: Finding Our Way Again Along the Paulins Kill Related Stories & Episodes: Ep 267 A Not-So-Peachy Gel Dilemma A Not-So-Peachy Gel Dilemma – Blog Post Connect with Mary Stone Thank you for listening and for sharing the Garden of Life.🌻 Related Posts and Podcasts: Preservation of the Paulins Kill River – Blog Post Ep 185. Preservation of the Paulins Kill - Overcoming Hardships Helpful Links: About the Paulina Dam Design/Removal Restoring the Paulins Kill River
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| Ep 267 - A Not-So-Peachy Gel Dilemma | 06 sept. 2026 | 00:12:18 | |
From sweet peas and peaches as terms of endearment to squirrels stealing the only peach on the tree, Mary Stone starts this week's garden chat on a playful note. Then a jelly-like peach-tree dilemma leads to gummosis, Cytospora canker, peach scab, and how stress and wounds can leave trees vulnerable to disease. Mary revisits a similar weeping cherry dilemma and what trees can teach us about looking beneath the surface—where old wounds and stresses may affect what's trying to grow aboveground. Sometimes, despite all our careful tending, the squirrel gets the peach. But there will be other seasons and other sweetness still to come. The same is true in our own Garden of Life. Enjoy the Companion Blog Post: A Not-So-Peachy Gel Dilemma Related Stories & Episodes: Ep 266 — It's Not Too Late to Plant Again, Sweet Pea It's Not Too Late to Plant Again — Blog Post Ep 250 — Weeping Cherry Dilemmas: Trees Tell a Story When a Weeping Cherry "Bleeds": What Lies Beneath — Blog Post Ep 176 — Revisiting Cicadas and How Gardens Glow Ep 133. Ripening Fall Tomato Hand-me-Downs Ripening Fall Tomato Hand-me-Downs – Blog Post Connect with Mary Stone Thank you for listening and for sharing the Garden of Life.🌻
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| Ep 266 - It’s Not Too Late to Plant Again, Sweet Pea | 30 août 2026 | 00:15:22 | |
A neglected patch of vegetable garden, a disappointing spring harvest, and a few leftover seed packets inspire a late-season experiment—and a reminder that missed opportunities don’t always mean the season is over. Mary Stone revisits an old “Sweet Pea” story while exploring fall crops of snow peas and beets, and discovers that sometimes we need to clear a little space, plant again, and see what happens in our gardens and in the Garden of Life. Enjoy the companion Blog Post: It’s Not Too Late to Plant Again Related Episodes you will enjoy: Ep 265 - Tending What We Can in the Garden of Life Ep 254 - Leave Room for Wandering: Unexpected Greenhouse Treasures Ep 183 Honorable Harvest - Downsize Do-over Hello Sweet Pea – Blog Post Connect with Mary Stone Thank you for listening and for sharing the Garden of Life.🌻
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| Ep 265 - Tending What We Can in the Garden of Life | 16 août 2026 | 00:12:22 | |
Sometimes we can't tend to everything at once. Mary Stone shares her mission to manage the undesirable Mile-a-Minute weed and Japanese Stilt Grass, while heavy rains unexpectedly cleared the pond of favorable Duckweed. Along the way, an old stone wall, resilient Blackberry Lilies, and newly visible frogs offer reminders that while we can't get to everything in our gardens—or our lives—we can tend what we can and let go of the rest. Link to the Companion Blog Post: Tending What We Can in the Garden of Life Related Episodes you will enjoy: · Episode 177 — Nighttime Chorus of Garden Insects · Episode 264 Another Lesson from the Leaf—Help Is on the Way · Episode 107 — Mile-a-Minute Weed and Butterfly Magnets · Episode 215 — The Tiny Wonder of Duckweed · Episode 211 — Truth and Tale of Two Country Gardens · Blackberry Lily & Soil Remediation Blog Post A favorite "tool of the trade": · Farmer's Defense — Garden Protection Sleeves Connect with Mary Stone Thank you for listening and for sharing the Garden of Life.🌻
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| Ep 264 - Another Lesson from the Leaf: Help Is on the Way | 09 août 2026 | 00:12:19 | |
What happens when life tests the very lessons we hope to live? In this heartfelt episode, Mary Stone shares an emotionally difficult week that almost preempted the weekly chat. She invites listeners onto her screened porch, where a summer thunderstorm replaces the noisy cicadas, setting the stage for a conversation about acceptance, resilience, and hope. Inspired by a recent Call to Calm meditation with Panache Desai, Mary reflects on the image of a single leaf surrendering to the wind and explores how embracing our emotions—rather than resisting them—can help us find peace. Mary also shares an update on her book, The Lesson of the Leaf, and why one closed door has become the beginning of a new path. Along the way, she revisits a favorite summertime story about the Dog Days of Summer and the curious origins of the phrase "sweating like a pig," bringing a few laughs to a humid August afternoon. The episode closes with a heartfelt reflection on the love we share with our dogs, the pieces of our hearts they carry, and the reassurance that, even during life's hardest seasons, help is on the way. Enjoy the Companion Post: Another Lesson from the Leaf: Help Is on the Way 🌿 Related Links If you enjoyed today's reflection, you'll also enjoy my earlier Episode 234 Stillness Teaches Growth Through Nature, where winter's quiet offers another reminder that growth often begins when nothing appears to be happening. Episode 263: Doing Nothing Is Everything: Wisdom from Nature & Gardens Episode 69: The Origin of the Dog Days of Summer - (including the stories behind "Dog Days" and "Sweating Like a Pig") Blog: The Origin of the Dog Days of Summer Other helpful links: Panache Desai free Call to Calm Meditations Connect with Mary Stone Thank you for listening and for sharing the Garden of Life.🌻
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| Ep 263 - Doing Nothing and Everything: Wisdom from Nature & Gardens | 02 août 2026 | 00:11:43 | |
On a cool, humid summer morning from her screened porch, Mary Stone reflects on the richness of slowing down. From a modest vegetable harvest and the gift of one perfectly ripe cherry tomato to birdwatching, fledgling birds, wandering goats, and the hidden life beneath our gardens, she discovers that doing nothing is often far from doing nothing at all. Join Mary as she explores gratitude, presence, the wisdom found in simply noticing, and the many ways nature and gardens continue to nurture us—even when they don't produce as we'd hoped. In this episode:
Sometimes the greatest discoveries aren't found by doing more, but by slowing down long enough to notice what nature has been offering all along. 🌿 Related Links
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| Ep 262 - Beneath the Surface: The Mystery of the Missing Roots | 26 juil. 2026 | 00:12:07 | |
A thriving rose suddenly becomes loose in the soil, revealing a mystery hidden beneath the mulch. What first appears to be Chipmunk Damage leads to a closer look—Voles, a likely culprit. Mary Stone explores the differences between Moles and Voles, practical ways to protect treasured plants, and how gardens often remind us that what we see on the surface rarely tells the whole story. “Sometimes the greatest lessons, in gardens and in life, begin when we dig a little deeper.” In this episode:
Enjoy the Companion Blog Post: Beneath the Surface: The Mystery of the Missing Rose Roots Related Episodes to Enjoy:
Connect with Mary Stone Thank you for listening and for sharing the Garden of Life.🌻
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| Ep. 261 – Treasures from the Warwick, NY Garden Tour | 19 juil. 2026 | 00:13:50 | |
What makes a garden unforgettable? Sometimes it's a rare plant or a beautiful pond. More often, it's the people behind the garden. Join Mary Stone for a day exploring seven remarkable private gardens on the 32nd Annual Countryside Garden Tour, hosted by the Warwick Valley Gardeners. Along the way, she meets passionate gardeners, discovers clever design ideas, learns about unusual plants, shares conversations with fellow garden lovers, and uncovers the stories that make each landscape unique. Whether you enjoy touring gardens or appreciate the beauty and wisdom they offer, I invite you to come along for the journey. Link to the Related Blog Post: Treasures from a Countryside Garden Tour Related Episodes 🌿 Episode 260 – The Flag and the Knot: Growing Forward Anyway 🌿 Episode 259 – What We Carry Forward in the Garden of Life 🌿 Episode 257 – Love Lovage: Treasures at Well-Sweep Herb Farm 🌿 Episode 256 – Lessons from Spiderwort and Crooked Trees 🌿 Ep. 22 – Lessons from Spruce and Forest Pansies of Hope (referenced in this episode during the discussion about Norway spruce) Thank you to the Warwick Valley Gardeners, the homeowners who graciously opened their gardens, and my companions—Susan, Tara, Kathleen, and young Thomas—for making the day one to remember, Mary Stone Connect with Mary Stone Visit: AskMaryStone.com Garden Dilemmas? AskMaryStone@gmail.com Thank you for listening and for sharing the Garden of Life.🌻
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| Ep 260 - The Flag & the Knot – Growing Forward Anyway | 12 juil. 2026 | 00:10:47 | |
A "quick" Fourth of July project turned into an unexpected lesson in patience, perseverance, and letting go of perfection. After years of waiting to paint an old flagpole, Mary Stone decides it's time to raise a new flag. What follows is a comedy of mystery knots, weathered rope, improvised repairs, and a reminder that life rarely unfolds under perfect conditions. Along the way, she reflects on freedom, belonging, the wisdom of gardens, and how nature keeps moving forward despite imperfections. Plus, a brief update on a familiar garden nemesis—poison ivy. In this episode:
Enjoy the companion Blog Post: The Flag & the Knot – Growing Forward Anyway. Related Episodes: 🌿 Episode 259 – What We Carry Forward in the Garden of Life 🌿 Episode 258 – The Gift of Noticing: A Dove Tree That Didn't Bloom 🌿 Episode 255 – Growing Belonging in the Garden of Life 🌿 Ep 108. Value of Virginia Creeper vs. Poison Ivy Connect with Mary Stone: Visit: AskMaryStone.com Garden Dilemmas? AskMaryStone@gmail.com Thank you for listening and for sharing the Garden of Life.🌻
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| Ep 259 - What We Carry Forward in the Garden of Life | 05 juil. 2026 | 00:12:19 | |
In this Fourth of July episode, Mary reflects on a Victorian berry spoon gifted by a friend's son, a family table and long-forgotten letter from her father, a dear friend's journey to United States citizenship, and the lessons unfolding in the vegetable garden. From heirlooms and promises to volunteer tomatoes and a bird building a nest, this episode explores the stories, values, and acts of kindness we carry forward from one generation to the next. As we celebrate 250 years of our nation's history, may we pause to consider what we are planting, preserving, and passing on in our own Garden of Life. "Without context, they're just objects. With context, they become vessels carrying pieces of our lives." — Mary Stone Link to the Companion Blog Post: What We Carry Forward in the Garden of Life Related Episodes: 🌿 Episode 258 – The Gift of Noticing: A Dove Tree That Didn't Bloom 🌿 Episode 255 – Growing Belonging in the Garden of Life 🌿 Episode 256 – Lessons from Spiderwort and Crooked Trees 🌿 Episode 257 – Love Lovage: Treasures at Well-Sweep Herb Farm 🌿 Episode 28 – No-Till Gardening with Patti Doell of Little Big Farm Connect with Mary Stone Visit: AskMaryStone.com Garden Dilemmas? AskMaryStone@gmail.com Thank you for listening and for sharing the Garden of Life.🌻
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| Ep 258 - The Gift of Noticing: A Dove Tree that Didn't Bloom | 28 juin 2026 | 00:11:53 | |
On a humid morning after a much-needed rain, Mary Stone reflects on the celebration of the life of legendary New Jersey gardener and friend Marty Carson. From stories of children helping to prepare the gardens to the remarkable tale of the Dove Tree (also known as the Handkerchief Tree) to an unexpected gift from Marty's son, this episode explores how gardens teach us to notice beauty, kindness, and one another. Though beloved gardeners may pass, the gardens they create—and the lives they touch—continue to bloom. Link to the Companion Post: The Gift of Noticing: A Dove Tree That Didn’t Bloom Mentioned in this episode: 🌿 The Two Best Gardeners of the Garden State -Blog Post (June 8, 2017) 🌿 Extraordinary Gardeners, Extraordinary Plants - Blog Post (June 18, 2018) 🌿 Episode 25 - Baobab Tree of Life: Growing Kindness Quote from this episode: "The Dove Trees didn't bloom this year. But they will. Gardens bloom again. Kindness blooms again. Love blooms again." Thank you for listening and for sharing the Garden of Life.🌻
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| Ep 257 - Love, Lovage & Treasures at Well-Sweep Farm | 21 juin 2026 | 00:13:05 | |
A visit to Well-Sweep Herb Farm in Warren County, New Jersey, leads to unexpected discoveries both in the garden and in life. Mary Stone shares highlights from a tour with third-generation grower Patrick McDuffee, explores the beauty and lore of herbs such as Plantain, Scented Geraniums, Jewelweed, and Lovage, and reflects on the treasures often hidden in plain sight. Back home, a thriving 'Jethro Tull' Coreopsis, gifted to her years ago by her dear friend Marty Carson, becomes a poignant reminder that love, friendship, and the lessons gathered along the way continue to bloom long after people leave our lives. In This Episode 🌿 Touring Well-Sweep Herb Farm with Patrick McDuffee Link to the Companion Blog Post: Love, Lovage & Treasures at Well-Sweep Farm Thank you for joining me in the Garden of Life. 🌿💛 Related Episodes & Links
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| Ep 256 - Lessons from Spiderwort and Crooked Trees | 14 juin 2026 | 00:12:36 | |
Join Mary Stone as she reflects on Spiderwort, a native plant growing in the wrong place; a conversation with a dear client; the wisdom of the song "Crooked Tree"; and a reminder that what appears flawed or out of place may have a purpose we cannot yet see. Along the way, Mary shares a brief update on her vegetable garden, a surprising use for carrot greens, and a favorite story from The Lesson of the Leaf about a beech leaf that landed on her shoulder just when she needed it most. Link to the Related Blog Post: Lessons from Spiderwort and Crooked Trees In this episode:
"Spiderwort doesn't belong everywhere. But it belongs somewhere." Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life. 🌿🍃🌳 Related Podcasts and Posts: The Fall of the Leaf – Blog Post about the Prologue to The Lesson of the Leaf Growing Belonging in the Garden of Life - Blog Ep 255 - Growing Belonging in the Garden of Life Link to Molly Tuttle & Golden Highway’s song - Crooked Tree
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| Ep 255 - Growing Belonging in the Garden of Life | 07 juin 2026 | 00:10:34 | |
In this episode, Mary Stone shares an unexpected realization that emerged while revising her book proposal for The Lesson of the Leaf to Hay House Publishing. Along the way, she reflects on belonging, commitment, the wisdom of gardens, and the connections that sustain us through every season of life. Plus, a garden update featuring radishes, sunflowers, clover, and a reminder that growth often happens beneath the shelter of something larger than ourselves. Thanks for tuning in! Link to Companion Post: Growing Belonging in the Garden of Life Links to related Episodes and Blog Posts: Forest Bathing Helps Loneliness - Blog Post Ep 34. Forest Bathing, Willowwood Champion Trees Overview of the Lesson of the Leaf– Blog Post Ep 180 Overview of the Lesson of the Leaf Thanks for listening and sharing in the Garden of Life. 🌻
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| Ep 254 - Leave Room for Wandering: Unexpected Greenhouse Treasures | 31 mai 2026 | 00:14:08 | |
In this episode, Mary Stone shares a spring greenhouse adventure that begins with shopping for annuals and vegetables and turns into a delightful journey of unexpected discoveries. Along the way, she reflects on a bear emerging from a patch of skunk cabbage, bird nests tucked among flowering shrubs, a mysterious hornet visitor, and the wisdom that can emerge when we leave room for wandering. Mary also offers practical tips for selecting healthy annuals and creating beautiful kitchen gardens filled with flowers, herbs, and vegetables. Perhaps one of life's greatest lessons is this: some of the best treasures are found when we venture beyond what we originally came looking for. Special thanks to Steve Oken and Stonehedge Growers for inspiring this week's greenhouse wanderings and introducing me to some unexpected treasures. Companion Blog Post: Leave Room for Wandering: Unexpected Greenhouse Treasures Previous Podcast Episodes: Ep 94 - Starting an Organic Garden & DIY Soil Testing Ep 28 - Three Sisters, No-Till Gardening Ep 149 - Straw Bale Gardening Builds Community Related Blog Posts: Straw Bale Gardening Builds Community Old Farmer's Almanac Planting Calendar: Thanks for listening and sharing in the Garden of Life. 🌻
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| Ep 253 - Healing Beneath Mayapple: Skunk Cabbage Wisdom | 24 mai 2026 | 00:19:04 | |
Mary Stone shares reflections from a deeply meaningful weekend serving as a Big Buddy at Comfort Zone Camp for children grieving the loss of a parent or sibling to suicide. Through stories of Mayapple, Skunk Cabbage, Barred Owls, Nesting Birds, and an unforgettable Black Bear encounter near the creek, this episode explores Healing, Resilience, Emotional Courage, and the Wisdom Waiting Beneath the Surface of the Natural World. Along the way, Mary revisits earlier podcast stories about Mayapple folklore, Ken Roberts' beautiful song Mandrakes, and the remarkable lessons hidden within even the most unusual woodland plants. Link to Companion Blog Post: Healing Beneath the Mayapple Previous Related Podcasts & Posts Ep 252. Edible vs. Ornamental Rhubarb — Kindness Helps Heal Episode 31: Comedy of Crickets, Mayapple of My Eye (Featuring Ken Roberts' song: Mandrakes) Previous blog posts: Mayapple of my Eye Rhubarb Edible vs. Ornamental— Kindness Helps Heal Thanks for listening and sharing in the Garden of Life. 🌻 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories, as well as your thoughts on topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. You can also listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and your favorite podcast app. Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life,
8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories, as well as your thoughts on topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. You can also listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and your favorite podcast app. Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life,
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| Ep 252 - Edible vs. Ornamental Rhubarb — Kindness Helps Heal | 10 mai 2026 | 00:12:16 | |
This week, from the screen porch, Mary Stone shares reflections on edible versus ornamental rhubarb—both unusual, delightful, and deer-resistant additions to the garden. She also shares stories of rhubarb custard pie, overwintered parsley, blooming tea, pole beans, and other decorative vegetables woven among flower gardens. The episode wraps up with reflections on healing through friendship and community. And the garden lessons found in allowing others to help us through difficult seasons of life. 🌿 Link to the Companion Blog Post: Rhubarb Edible vs. Ornamental— Kindness Helps Heal 🔗 Links to Related Posts and Podcasts: Ep 96 - Mending Fences with Forsythia Ep 101 - Woodcock Dance — Making a Meadow Ep 247 - Nothing Is Wasted: Leaf Mold, Mulch & Letting Go Blog Posts: Woodcock Dance — Making a Meadow Leaf Mold vs. Mulch & The Lesson of Letting Go
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Thanks for listening and sharing in the Garden of Life. 🌻 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories, as well as your thoughts on topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. You can also listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and your favorite podcast app. Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life,
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| Ep 251 - A Changing Gardens Teaches What Belongs | 03 mai 2026 | 00:11:49 | |
What a Changing Garden Teaches - Finding What Belongs Sometimes what we see as a problem is simply a message. While visiting a longtime client in Sparta, New Jersey, Mary Stone reflects on shifting conditions in our landscapes—from struggling rhododendrons and declining pachysandra to the beauty and wisdom of moss. Along the way, she revisits an old dilemma—ants in a mossy patio—with a fresh perspective shaped by time, experience, and a growing appreciation for nature’s balance. Link to the Companion Post: What a Changing Garden Teaches 🔗 Links to Related Posts and Podcasts: Podcast Episodes:
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Garden Dilemmas? Visit AskMaryStone.com or listen on your favorite podcast app. 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories, as well as your thoughts on topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. You can also listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and your favorite podcast app. Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life,
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| Ep 250 - Weeping Cherry Dilemmas: Trees Tell a Story | 26 avr. 2026 | 00:12:40 | |
A weeping cherry tree begins to “bleed,” revealing what lies beneath—from soil stress to planting missteps. Plus, seed-starting tips and a reflection on where we’re truly meant to grow. In this episode, I share what gummosis can tell us about tree health and planting practices, and why repeated plant failure in the same spot deserves a closer look. We also revisit how weeping cherry trees are grafted, what reversion means, and how to care for them thoughtfully. Along the way, I share a few clever seed-planting techniques from listeners and a small correction from last week’s episode—because the garden is always teaching. Link to the Companion Blog Post: When a Weeping Cherry “Bleeds”: What Lies Beneath 🔗 Links to Related Posts and Podcasts:
Garden Dilemmas? Visit: https://askmarystone.com 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories, as well as your thoughts on topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. You can also listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and your favorite podcast app. Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life,
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| Ep 249 - Living Mulch: Layering with Native Plants | 19 avr. 2026 | 00:13:11 | |
Replacing mulch with living layers that nourish soil, support wildlife, and gently teach us patience. What if you could stop mulching—and let plants do the work instead? In this episode, we explore “living mulch” with native groundcovers and layered plantings that support soil, wildlife, and a self-sustaining garden. Along the way: spring planting timing, a client story, and a gentle reminder—plants sleep, creep, then leap. 🌱 Related Episodes If you’d like to dig a little deeper, these earlier episodes pair beautifully with today’s conversation: · Ep 247: Leaf Mold, Mulch, and the Lesson of Letting Go · Ep 206: Soil Temperatures and Sowing Seeds · Ep 121: Admiration for Ants & Safe Remedies · Ep 31: Comedy of Crickets, Mayapple of My Eye 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories, as well as your thoughts on topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. You can also listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and your favorite podcast app. Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life,
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| Ep 248 - Healing After Winter: In the Garden—and in Life | 12 avr. 2026 | 00:12:32 | |
After a harsh winter, Mary Stone reflects on healing in the garden and in life—sharing spring pruning tips, plant care insights, and a humorous tale of “hotdog flies”—all woven with a gentle reminder to slow down, notice beauty, and make room for joy. Link to the Companion Post: Healing After Winter: In the Garden—and in Life Links to related Podcasts and Posts: Ep. 92: The Secret Life of Pinecones Ep 155. Spacing Plants and Splendid Smokebush Blog Post: Rejuvenation Pruning & Smokebush Blog post: Remedies for Boxwood Leaf Miner 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories, as well as your thoughts on topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. You can also listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and your favorite podcast app. Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life,
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| Ep 247 - Nothing Is Wasted: Leaf Mold, Mulch & Letting Go | 05 avr. 2026 | 00:12:29 | |
As spring unfolds, I find myself reflecting on what remains, what falls away, and what—over time—returns to nourish us again. In this episode, I share a walk in the woods that took an unexpected turn, along with listeners’ questions about using leaves or wood chips in the garden. From there, we explore the benefits of leaf mold versus traditional mulch—how to make it, when to use it, and why it may be one of nature’s most generous gifts. With Easter upon us—a season that holds endings and beginnings in the same breath—I also reflect on a personal decision about letting go, inspired by the image of a leaf carried by water. In nature, nothing is wasted. Link to the Companion Blog Post: Leaf Mold vs. Mulch & the Lesson of Letting Go 🌱 In this episode: 🌿 Garden of Life Reflection: 🔗 Learn more: 🔍 Keywords: 🔗 Links to Related Posts and Podcast: Ep 103 - No Mow May & Marvelous Moss Early Spring Tending: What to Keep, What to Clear - Blog Post Ep 246 - Early Spring Tending: What to Keep, What to Clear
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| Ep 246 - Early Spring Tending: What to Keep, What to Clear | 29 mars 2026 | 00:11:56 | |
Sometimes tending isn’t about removing—it’s about redistributing, restoring, and making space for what’s ready to grow. As winter loosens its grip, early spring invites us to tend—clearing what’s too heavy, redistributing what can nourish, and making space for what’s ready to grow. In this episode, I share what I’m learning as I step into full groundskeeping—raking matted leaves, supporting soil recovery, and embracing a “tapestry lawn” of violets, clover, plantain, and dandelions. We explore: · When leaves help—and when they hinder · Why clover and “weeds” deserve a second look · What Creeping Charlie teaches about balance · And how tending the land mirrors tending our lives 🌱 Perhaps most of all, early spring reminds us:
Link to the Companin Blog Post: Early Spring Tending: What to Keep, What to Clear 🌼 Related Episodes and Blog Posts to enjoy: · Ep 157 Benefits of Plantain and Dandelion Weeds · Ep 168. Pollinators Love No-Mow Clover Lawns · Ep 203 - A Violet and Pansy Season of Happiness · Plantain & Dandelion Benefits - Blog Post · Violet & Pansy Season of Happiness - Blog Post Garden Dilemmas? Visit: https://askmarystone.com Thank you for tuning in!
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| Ep 245 - What the Roadside Reveals: Lesson of Belief | 22 mars 2026 | 00:12:54 | |
A roadside walk becomes a lesson in tending what doesn’t belong—and trusting what quietly blooms. From plogging to snowdrops, this episode explores how small actions and nature’s signs guide us back to hope, healing, and the “lesson of belief.” In this episode, Mary Stone shares how a roadside walk became a lesson in tending both the outer and inner worlds. What began as noticing litter turned into a practice of care—picking up what doesn’t belong, much like weeding the undesirables in the garden of life. Along the way, snowdrops appear as if overnight, a snapping turtle tests the thaw, and a quiet realization emerges: The Lesson of the Leaf may also be… The Lesson of Belief. Perhaps they are one and the same. Thank you for tuning in—and for walking alongside me. Link to the Companion Blog Post: Early Spring Reflections: What the Roadside Reveals About Belief 🌿 Related Episodes & Stories If this episode resonated, you'll also enjoy:
More reflections: https://askmarystone.com Small moments matter.
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| Ep 244 - A Late Winter Walk to Remember | 08 mars 2026 | 00:15:00 | |
Some walks stay with us long after they end. A quiet rainy walk through the late-winter woods becomes a meditation on healing, hope, and nature’s wisdom. On a misty morning, Mary Stone and her faithful companion, Jolee, head into the forest, where the rhythm of rain and the stillness of the trees create space for reflection. Inspired by an earlier column, March Folklore of Hope, Mary reflects on weather sayings passed through generations, the promise of snowdrops pushing through winter’s frost, and the reminder that storms eventually give way to new growth. Along the way, she recalls a lesson from her brother’s Tai Chi practice — the art of Pushing Hands, where strength comes not from resistance but from balance and redirection. And in a meaningful moment at the end of the episode, Mary shares a breakthrough toward completing the manuscript for her forthcoming book, The Lesson of the Leaf. “ Sometimes the most memorable walks are the ones that help us see the path ahead more clearly. Link to the Companion Blog Post: A Late Winter Walk to Remember & March Folklore of Hope Related Episodes & Stories 🌱 Ep. 34 – Forest Bathing Helps Loneliness/ Willowwood Champion Trees 🌱 Ep. 98 – Winter Flowers and Folklore 🌱 Ep 35 - Leaf Therapy, Essential Oaks 🌱 Ep 180 - Overview of The Lesson of the Leaf Blog Post: Native vs. Invasive Plants: Who Decides What Belongs? To view Blaine Rothhuser’s stunning photo. 📖 Companion blog reflection: March Folklore of Hope 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories, as well as your thoughts on topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. You can also listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and your favorite podcast app. Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life,
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| Ep 243 - Native vs. Invasive: Who Decides? | 01 mars 2026 | 00:13:56 | |
What does “native” really mean — and who decides? In this episode of Garden Dilemmas, Mary Stone explores native vs. invasive plants, urban gardens, biodiversity, and ecosystem balance. From dandelions to the marmorated stink bug, this episode reflects on what belonging means in a rapidly changing landscape. Inspired by Point State Park in Pittsburgh and the writings of Peter Del Tredici, Mary examines novel ecosystems, adaptation, and how urban environments balance native and non-native plants. A thoughtful look at nature, resilience, and coexistence. Link to the Companion Post: Native vs. Invasive Plants: Who Decides? May we tend wisely, welcome thoughtfully, and grow together. Related Stories & Helpful Links: · Ep. 99 - Wonders of Witch Hazel · Wonders of Witch Hazel - Blog Post · Point State Park, an Urban Garden- Pittsburgh, PA · Ep 157. Benefits of Plantain & Dandelion 'Weeds' · Benefits of Plantain & Dandelion “Weeds” - Blog Post 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories, as well as your thoughts on topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. You can also listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and your favorite podcast app. Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life,
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| Ep 242 - Inviting Beneficial Garden Guests | 22 févr. 2026 | 00:13:12 | |
Do hard winters curb garden pests? A listener’s question about whether cold weather reduces “bad bugs” leads to a deeper conversation about beneficial insects, biological control, and sustainable pest management. In this episode, Mary Stone shares insights from the NJ Nursery & Landscape Association’s Total Pro Expo, exploring why most insects belong in our ecosystems and how predator-prey relationships naturally regulate pest populations. She discusses the importance of native plants, plant diversity, layered landscape design, and nectar-rich flowers in supporting pollinators and beneficial insects. Nature reminds us that harmony grows not from elimination, but from inviting more of what sustains life in our gardens and in our garden of life. Companion Blog Post: Inviting the Beneficial Garden Guests Thanks for tuning in! Links to Related Podcasts and Posts you’ll Enjoy Ep 237. Roofs to Roots: Reviving Houseplants Harvesting Rainwater & Snowmelt Wisdom – Blog Post Ep 68. Gift of Meadows & Mountain Mint Gift of Meadows & Mountain Mint – Blog Post 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories, as well as your thoughts on topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 241 - Reflections in the Garden of Life | 15 févr. 2026 | 00:13:03 | |
On a slowly thawing winter day, Mary Stone reflects on the relationship between shadows and reflections—in nature, in garden design, and in the tender landscape of the heart. From Jolee's curious moment at the storm door to the science of the mirror test, from still water in gardens to the hidden wisdom in roots shaped by difficult seasons, this episode explores how gentle awareness can transform survival into growth. Thanks for tuning in! Enjoy the Photos on the Companion Blog Post: Reflections in the Garden of Life Links to Related Podcasts and Posts you'll enjoy: Ep 240. Nature's Shadows, Outlines of Love Nature's Shadows: Outlines of Love & Hope – Blog Post Link for more about Panache Desai Videos By Ellen Ebert: Casting Shadows
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| Ep 240 - Nature’s Shadows, Outlines of Love | 08 févr. 2026 | 00:13:27 | |
In winter’s long light, shadows reveal more than darkness—they outline memory, love, and quiet hope. Mary reflects on Groundhog Day, Peter Pan’s lost shadow, Jung’s shadow self, and the beauty of moonlit snow, weaving garden wisdom with personal healing. From plant care to letting go, this episode explores how light and shadow together shape resilience, reminding us that even in sorrow, hope gently walks beside us. Link to the Companion Blog Post: Nature’s Shadows: Outlines of Love & Hope Thanks for tuning in! Related Podcast you’ll enjoy: Ep 192 Groundhog Day - Ancient Origin and Accuracy Ep 123 Keeping Lighting Pollinator-Friendly 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories, as well as your thoughts on topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 239 - What Yellow Leaves Teach Us | 01 févr. 2026 | 00:13:45 | |
What Yellow Leaves Teach Us Tending houseplants—and hearts—through seasons of change. Yellow leaves on a fiddle-leaf fig often point to watering issues—but they can also offer deeper lessons. In this episode, Mary Stone explores common houseplant dilemmas, from root-bound money trees to yellowing leaves and sneaky pests, while sharing a tender personal chapter. Through gardening wisdom and lived experience, she reflects on patience, balance, and how tending plants can help us tend our hearts during times of transition. Thank you for tuning in! Companion Blog Posts: When Fiddle-Leaf Figs Turn Yellow and Related Podcast and Posts you’ll enjoy: Ep 146 Money Tree-Houseplants in Duress A Money Tree Brings Abundance - Blog Post Ep 237. Roofs to Roots: Reviving Houseplants Harvesting Rainwater & Snowmelt Wisdom - Blog Post 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories, as well as your thoughts on topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 238 - Hope Takes the Form of a Tree | 18 janv. 2026 | 00:12:08 | |
In this episode, Mary Stone reflects on the wisdom of trees after receiving the New Jersey Tree Survey from the Arbor Day Foundation. She explores how trees support mental and emotional well-being, the realities behind tree-planting campaigns, and the value of nurturing growth over time. A flashback to a fallen Eastern Hemlock and a thriving young beech offers a gentle reminder that even after loss, new life emerges. Hope, it turns out, sometimes takes the form of a tree. Thanks for Tuning In! Related Episodes and Posts: Hope in the Form of a Tree - Blog Post Ep 130. A Pet Painted Turtle, Beech Leaf Disease Worrisome Beech Leaf Disease – Blog Post Beloved Beech Trees – Blog Post 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories and your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 237 - Roofs to Roots: Reviving Houseplants | 11 janv. 2026 | 00:11:05 | |
Mary Stone discusses the benefits of using rainwater and snowmelt for indoor plants and how to revive houseplants in duress. She explores the quiet wisdom of water through stories of Christmas cacti, Jolee's water bowl, and flowing streams, and reflects on patience, renewal, and trusting life's natural flow. Thanks for tuning in! Related Episodes and Posts: Harvesting Rainwater & Snowmelt Wisdom - Blog Post Ep 89. Wisdom in the Rhythm of Water Wisdom in the Rhythm of Water – Blog Post Houseplants in Duress Turn Happy – Blog Post Benefits of Watering with Rainwater – Blog Post 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories and your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 236 - What We Release, What We Grow | 04 janv. 2026 | 00:11:42 | |
Mary Stone reflects on releasing what no longer serves us and setting intentions that grow in their own time, inspired by nature's rhythms and a New Year water ceremony hosted by Rev. Dr. Christina Tillotson. Through garden metaphors and personal insights, she reminds us that what we let go of creates space for quiet, lasting growth. Thank you for tuning in! Link for more about Rev. Dr. Christina Tillotson Link to Companion Blog Post: What We Release, What We Grow Related Podcasts and Blog Posts you'll enjoy: Essential Nutrients for Gardens and Life - Blog Post Episode 141. Essential Nutrients for Gardens and Life Benefits of Gardening - Blog Post Ep 139. Legends of Holly and Christmas Trees Legend of Holly & Christmas Trees - Blog Post Live Christmas Trees - Blog 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories and your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 235. What Nature and Gardens Gifted Us | 28 déc. 2025 | 00:11:51 | |
Mary Stone reflects on lessons learned from a year of observation in the garden and wild places beyond it. From copperheads and moths to healing land and personal change, she explores how slowing down, trusting nature, and paying attention to what often goes unseen can lead to growth, understanding, and quiet transformation. Thanks for Tuning In! Link to the Companion Blog Post: What Nature & Gardens Taught Us 🌿 Featured Podcasts and Posts: Ep 234. Stillness Teaches Growth Through Nature Stillness Teaches Growth Through Nature – Blog
Ep 221. Curious Copperhead Encounters Curious Copperhead Encounters – Blog
Ep 195. Healing from Hyper-Humus Peat Mining Healing from Hyper-Humus Peat Mining - Blog
Ep 217. Moth Surveying in a NJ Mountain Meadow Moth Survey in a Mountain Meadow – Blog
Ep 200 A Milestone in Our Journey Together A Milestone in Our Journey Together - Blog Post
Ep 230. Lessons from a Late No-Till Garden Lessons from a Late No-Till Garden - Blog
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| Ep 234. Stillness Teaches Growth Through Nature | 21 déc. 2025 | 00:12:32 | |
Mary Stone reflects on the wisdom of stillness as an essential part of growth. Through nature’s rhythms and garden observations, she explores how healing and transformation often unfold unseen, offering a gentle preview of themes in Part Two of her forthcoming book, The Lesson of the Leaf. “Stillness isn’t a pause — it’s where growth quietly begins.” Thanks for Tuning in! Link to the related posts and podcast: Stillness Teaches Growth Through Nature -- Blog Post Overview of The Lesson of the Leaf - Blog Post Episode 180 Overview of the Lesson of the Leaf 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories and your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 233. When the Garden Teaches Letting Go | 14 déc. 2025 | 00:13:40 | |
A winter garden project leads Mary Stone to reflect on invasive plants, memorial trees, and the tender wisdom of knowing when it’s time to let go—both in gardens and in life. This episode is a gentle reminder that healing, like gardening, is an ongoing practice—rooted in observation, compassion, and trust in nature’s rhythm. Thanks for Tuning In! Related Posts and Podcasts you'll Enjoy. The Garden Teaches Letting Go - Blog Ep 61. A Story of Treasured Tuliptrees / Treasured Tulip Trees - Blog Beloved Beech Trees and Worrisome Beech Leaf Disease - Blog Posts Ep 212. Beavers vs. Woodchucks – Barberry Alternatives Alternatives to Invasive Barberry - Blog Ep 68 Gift of Meadows and Mountain Mint / Gift of Meadows & Mountain Mint - Blog Post 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories and your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 232. Late Season Tasks into Décor and Healing | 07 déc. 2025 | 00:15:07 | |
Mary Stone reflects on late-season garden projects, including the removal of old telephone poles and the careful harvesting of boulders for new retaining walls—done with deep respect for the surrounding ecosystem. She shares tips for planting perennials with liner plugs, using Stress X to support transplanted shrubs, and managing fallen leaves to benefit both wildlife and soil health. Weaving garden wisdom with seasonal reflection, Mary Stone shares her tradition of decorating with roadside finds, turning late-fall garden tasks into natural holiday décor while honoring the beauty of gathering gently and respectfully from the land. This episode is a quiet meditation on care, change, and the healing that continues beneath the surface. Related Podcasts and Posts Hope Unfolds in Holly’s Renewal Ep 97. Etiquette of Pilfering Rocks Ep. 230 Lessons from a Late No-Till Garden Lessons from a Late No-Till Garden 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories and your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 231. Three Seasons Tribute to Ongoing Growth | 30 nov. 2025 | 00:12:43 | |
Mary Stone reflects on the life and legacy of her dear friend and design colleague, Marty Carson, who recently passed away. She shares memories of their collaboration and the impact of Marty's wisdom and generosity on the gardening community, including a lecture they gave on deer-resistant gardening, which shared humorous and effective methods to deter deer. Mary concludes with personal updates on her own garden and a poem by Rumi, emphasizing gratitude and the beauty of nature. Thanks for Tuning in! Related Podcasts and Posts you'll Enjoy: Two Best Gardeners of the Garden State – Blog Post Remedies for Buck Rub – Blog Post Springfest Lecture -Deer Resistant Plants - Blog Post Ep 117. Deer Remedies & Rat Snakes / Non-Stinky Deer Deterrents – Blog Post Ep 202. Pansies Bring Vicki Johnson's Garden Start / Violet and Pansy Season of Happiness - Blog Post
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| Ep 230. Lessons from a Late No-Till Garden | 16 nov. 2025 | 00:14:13 | |
In this episode, Mary Stone shares the surprising gifts of her late-season vegetable garden and highlights the benefits of No-Till gardening. She walks through ripening green tomatoes indoors, saving seeds for next year and putting the garden to bed without disturbing the living soil below — a gentle practice that nurtures healthier plants and fewer weeds. Mary also reflects on nature’s timing, the season of letting go, and the heartfelt loss of her dear friend and design colleague, Marty Carson. A tender, practical, and hope-filled episode for gardeners and nature lovers navigating their own seasons of change. Thanks for tuning in! Related Podcasts & Blog Posts: Lessons from a Late No-Till Garden— Blog Post 🌿 No-Till Gardening Essentials No-till Gardening and Starting a No-till Garden— Blog Posts Ep 28. Three Sisters, No-Till Gardening 🌺 Veterans Day Reflections Significance of Veterans Day Poppies — Blog Post Ep 135. Significance of Poppies on Veterans Day 🌶️ Hot Peppers & Kitchen Fun Growing HOT Peppers into cool Jelly — Blog Post Ep 33. Hot Peppers into Cool Jelly, DIY Worm Castings 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories and your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 229. Flocking Together - Wisdom from Grackles | 09 nov. 2025 | 00:10:39 | |
Mary Stone shares a breathtaking encounter with a flock of grackles while visiting the Karen Ann Quinlan Home for Hospice in Fredon, NJ. Their synchronized flight inspires a reflection on the quiet wisdom of nature and the beauty of unity in motion. How the birds never collide opens a deeper exploration of how grackles — and all flocking birds — navigate together through separation, alignment, and cohesion. Their graceful movement offers a powerful metaphor for how we might live. Thanks for Tuning In! Related Podcasts and Posts: 🌳 Promises That Live Beyond Seasons – Blog Post 🎧 Episode 228 Promises That Live on Beyond Seasons Article on the University of Delaware website titled Blackbirds, Fly.
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| Ep 228. Promises That Live on Beyond Seasons | 02 nov. 2025 | 00:12:18 | |
Mary Stone shares an update on her friend and design colleague, Marty Carson, who is now in hospice care in Florida. At the same time, with a heavy heart, she shares news of the closure of the Karen and Quinlan Home for Hospice in Fredon, NJ, due to financial and staffing challenges. Mary and her singing partner, Ken Roberts, volunteer weekly, offering music therapy. To know that such compassionate care of our elderly and gravely ill is unsustainable is heartbreaking. Mary wraps up by reflecting on the unfolding of God —or, source, if you prefer —in everything and everyone, and much of it goes beyond our senses. It's in the unseen. There is an eternity in all things, and with that comes hope. Thanks for Tuning In! Related Podcast and Posts: Promises That Live Beyond Seasons - Blog Post Ep 47. Personal Growth with Houseplants Personal Growth with Houseplants - Blog Post 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories and your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 227. Sequence of Fall Leaves Brings New Life | 26 oct. 2025 | 00:10:23 | |
As fall unfolds, trees show us the art of letting go. From green to gold, orange to red, each leaf teaches us that change brings growth and beauty. In this episode, Mary Stone reflects on how nature mirrors our own seasons of transformation — and how letting go creates room for new life. Thank you for tuning in! Related Podcast and Posts: Sequence of Fall Leaves Brings Life – Blog Post https://askmarystone.com/sequence-of-fall-leaves-brings-new-life/ The Fall of the Leaf - Blog Post Forager Chef - How to Make Shagbark Hickory Syrup 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories and your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 226. Reader Sagas of Shagbark Hickories | 19 oct. 2025 | 00:11:12 | |
Mary Stone shares the delights and cleanup sagas of Shagbark Hickory trees, highlighting their shaggy bark, edible nuts, and benefits to wildlife. She shares personal experiences and reader anecdotes, such as a client who planted Shagbark hickory for pollination and a reader from Indiana dealing with an excessive amount of nuts. Mary explains the tree's three-year nut-producing cycle and how mast years and nutless years help balance populations through a process called predator satiation. Thanks for tuning in! Related Podcast and Posts: Acorns and a Ruckus of Blue Jays - Blog Post with Blaine Rothhauser's stunning photos. Ep 132. Shagbark Hickories and Nutty Mast Years Shagbark Hickories – Nutty Mast Years - Blog Post 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories and your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 225. Acorns and a Ruckus of Blue Jays | 12 oct. 2025 | 00:10:19 | |
Mary Stone recounts witnessing a bear in her pond overnight, perhaps feeding on acorns. The encounter led her to learn about the Acorn Float Test, which assesses the viability of acorns for propagation. Blue Jays flock to feast on acorns in the fall, making a ruckus. Like squirrels, they bury a stash, though many are never retrieved. Mary admits a previous grudge against Blue Jays, which shifted after observing their nature. She highlights the importance of Oak Trees and Blue Jays in the balance of our natural world. Thanks for tuning in! Related Podcast and Posts: Acorns and a Ruckus of Blue Jays - Blog Post Ep 35. Leaf Therapy, Essential Oaks Native Plants, especially Oaks, are Essential - Blog Post Ep 132. Shagbark Hickories and Nutty Mast Years Shagbark Hickories – Nutty Mast Years - Blog Post Growing the Home Garden's YouTube channel: The Float Test: Separating the Good from the Bad Acorns 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories and your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 224. A Sunflower Maze of Healing | 05 oct. 2025 | 00:10:06 | |
Mary Stone discusses the history, benefits, and healing aspects of sunflowers, sharing her return visit to Liberty Farms' Sunflower Maze in Sandyston. Raj Sinha graciously opens the maze to those who benefit from the services of the Mental Health Association in New Jersey each year. She features meeting Raj's son, who self-published a book, "Jill the Chick." His optimism and actions serve as a testament to younger generations who are increasingly aware of the importance of stewardship and kindness. Mary concludes with a personal note about a journey in healing, the therapeutic value of nature, and the importance of mental health awareness. Thanks for tuning in! Related Podcast and Posts: A Sunflower Maze of Healing - Blog Post Ep 213. The Gift of Carol Decker's Wildlife Art Ep 126. A Sunflower Maze Brings Happiness 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories and your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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