Explore every episode of the podcast Garden Dilemmas, Delights & Discoveries
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| Ep 249 - Living Mulch: Layering with Native Plants | 19 Apr 2026 | 00:13:11 | |
Replacing mulch with living layers that nourish soil, support wildlife, and gently teach us patience. What if you could stop mulching—and let plants do the work instead? In this episode, we explore “living mulch” with native groundcovers and layered plantings that support soil, wildlife, and a self-sustaining garden. Along the way: spring planting timing, a client story, and a gentle reminder—plants sleep, creep, then leap. 🌱 Related Episodes If you’d like to dig a little deeper, these earlier episodes pair beautifully with today’s conversation: · Ep 247: Leaf Mold, Mulch, and the Lesson of Letting Go · Ep 206: Soil Temperatures and Sowing Seeds · Ep 121: Admiration for Ants & Safe Remedies · Ep 31: Comedy of Crickets, Mayapple of My Eye 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories, as well as your thoughts on topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. You can also listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and your favorite podcast app. Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life,
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| Ep 248 - Healing After Winter: In the Garden—and in Life | 12 Apr 2026 | 00:12:32 | |
After a harsh winter, Mary Stone reflects on healing in the garden and in life—sharing spring pruning tips, plant care insights, and a humorous tale of “hotdog flies”—all woven with a gentle reminder to slow down, notice beauty, and make room for joy. Link to the Companion Post: Healing After Winter: In the Garden—and in Life Links to related Podcasts and Posts: Ep. 92: The Secret Life of Pinecones Ep 155. Spacing Plants and Splendid Smokebush Blog Post: Rejuvenation Pruning & Smokebush Blog post: Remedies for Boxwood Leaf Miner 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories, as well as your thoughts on topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. You can also listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and your favorite podcast app. Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life,
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| Ep 239 - What Yellow Leaves Teach Us | 01 Feb 2026 | 00:13:45 | |
What Yellow Leaves Teach Us Tending houseplants—and hearts—through seasons of change. Yellow leaves on a fiddle-leaf fig often point to watering issues—but they can also offer deeper lessons. In this episode, Mary Stone explores common houseplant dilemmas, from root-bound money trees to yellowing leaves and sneaky pests, while sharing a tender personal chapter. Through gardening wisdom and lived experience, she reflects on patience, balance, and how tending plants can help us tend our hearts during times of transition. Thank you for tuning in! Companion Blog Posts: When Fiddle-Leaf Figs Turn Yellow and Related Podcast and Posts you’ll enjoy: Ep 146 Money Tree-Houseplants in Duress A Money Tree Brings Abundance - Blog Post Ep 237. Roofs to Roots: Reviving Houseplants Harvesting Rainwater & Snowmelt Wisdom - Blog Post 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories, as well as your thoughts on topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 149. Straw Bale Gardening Builds Community | 25 Feb 2024 | 00:11:22 | |
In this episode, we talk about Straw Bale Gardening, used by Kearny Community Garden; an inexpensive way to grow vegetables in raised beds without tilling and weeding. We review other raised bed techniques. And the pros and cons of Community Gardens, how rules of conduct are sometimes broken, ending with a reflection on living by our "heart rules." I hope you enjoy the story.
Ep 28. Three Sisters, No-Till Gardening (No-till Gardening – Blog Post)
North Country Organics Cheep Cheep 4-3-3
Book on Straw Bale Gardens by Joel Karsten
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You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 148. Anatomy & Array of Beautiful Bark | 18 Feb 2024 | 00:10:38 | |
In this episode, we discuss the fascinating Anatomy and Array of Beautiful Bark, noting a selection of trees inspired by a talk given by Bruce Crawford, the Manager of Horticulture of the Morris County Park Commission (NJ). We wrap up with an analogy of our skin, which developed just as the bark of trees based on our areas of origin. And how metaphorically, we grow thicker skin with life challenges. But we can exfoliate by forgiving and begin to flourish. I hope you enjoy the story. Anatomy & Array of Beautiful Bark
Episode 45 Beloved Mr. Beech (Link to Blog Post Beloved Beech Trees)
Episode 132 Shagbark Hickories – Nutty Mast Years – (Link to Blog Post)
The story of my Unexpected Furry Messenger Episode 20 - (Link to Blog Post)
You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 147. Meaning of Roses - Valentine's Traditions | 11 Feb 2024 | 00:08:44 | |
Do you recall Valentine's Day traditions as a kid having to bring cards to school? It was an assignment that felt awkward. As adults, we give roses; each color has a special meaning. In this episode we also chat about an update on brother Rick's AC-Pallet Garden featured in Ep 145. Special Sedum and Succulent Gardens. I hope you enjoy the story.
Meaning of Roses and Valentine Traditions
Ep 72. Beauty and Beast of Roses
Ep 46. The Gift of Cut Flowers
You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 146. Money Tree of Abundance-Happier Houseplants | 04 Feb 2024 | 00:10:43 | |
Seeing Ruth and Jim's Money Tree reminds me of a Money Tree I met long ago, along with its Plant Parent, which turned out to be life-changing. Then we chat about houseplants in duress due to drying heat and tired soil and how to make them happier. Some plants like to be tight in their pots, much like tight-fitting jeans. A Money Tree brings Abundance
You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 145. Special Sedum and Succulent Gardens | 28 Jan 2024 | 00:09:31 | |
After the last episode, Festive Partridge Berry – Terrarium Basics, Jamie asked if the sedums used in the terrarium are succulents, reminding me of a special sedum and succulent garden. Plus, a family story about a pallet garden featuring sedums and other things not so ideal is sure to bring a chuckle. Ep 144. Partridge Berry – Terrarium Basics Penn State Extension article - Be Safe Around Wooden Pallets!
You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 144. Festive Partridge Berry-Terrarium Basics | 21 Jan 2024 | 00:10:47 | |
Seeking beauty amongst the muddy dreariness, I came upon Festive Partridge Berry amid a tapestry of moss, making me feel like a troll in a miniature forest lurking amongst a carpet of fur. The charming trailing plant decorates terrariums, leading to a story of an event at A & J Messina Greenhouses in Blairstown, NJ, where guests enjoyed building a Terrarium - a Mini Gardening Warmup. I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 143. Sowing the Treasures of Buckeye Seeds | 14 Jan 2024 | 00:09:23 | |
In this episode, Mary Stone shares the treasures encountered during her overdue fall cleanup in early winter, including dozens of Bottlebrush Buckeye seeds. We learn how to plant them and the benefits of the native beauty. Then, we end with reflections on early Winter Treasures in Nature and ideas of clearing spaces at home by giving a few treasures to those we cherish.
Sowing the Treasures of Buckeye Seeds Bottlebrush Buckeye Hide Tree Knees featured in Ep 118 The Magic of Sprouting Avocado Seeds - featured in Ep 39 We're All Just Seeds featured in Ep11. The Promise of Seeds 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 142. Berries for Winter Beauty and Wildlife | 07 Jan 2024 | 00:11:09 | |
In this episode, I share the story of a garden design client, Jacquie of Byram, NJ, and how we shared life stories that often happen in the garden and amongst nature. We chat about Beautyberry, her newest favorite plant. Then there's the Winter Beauty of Winterberry, which wildlife also loves. We wrap up with the Legend of Winterberry and what makes some berries good and some berries bad. Related Stories (and Episodes) and Helpful Links: Berries for Winter Beauty and Wildlife Ep 86. The Revival of an American Holly - featuring Ellie’s memorial tree 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 141. Essential Nutrients for Gardens and Life | 31 Dec 2023 | 00:09:43 | |
While opening a gifted box of green pencils, I noticed they were limited editon Gardening Pencils by Blackwing, leading to learning about the Essential Nutrients for Gardens and Life. The episode includes inspirational gardening quotes and an invitation to share your favorite nature or garden quotes.
Essential Nutrients for Gardens and Life
Wisdom in the Rhythm of Water - Ep 89. Wisdom in the Rhythm of Water About Blackwing Pencils and their story referenced.
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| Ep 140. Long Winter's Nap and Gift of Contentment | 24 Dec 2023 | 00:09:15 | |
In this episode, we reflect on the reason for the holiday season and have fun sharing the hilarity of the mad rush -- much like the rush of wrapping up the gardening season with a few late-season tips. Then comes the Long Winter's Nap from gardening we enjoy. We wrap up by contemplating the Gift of Contentment.
Father John's Animal House Garden
Overwintering Potted Perennials
Ep 20. Unexpected Furry Messenger, Father John's Memorial Garden
8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 238 - Hope Takes the Form of a Tree | 18 Jan 2026 | 00:12:08 | |
In this episode, Mary Stone reflects on the quiet wisdom of trees after receiving the New Jersey Tree Survey from the Arbor Day Foundation. She explores how trees support mental and emotional well-being, the realities behind tree-planting campaigns, and the value of nurturing growth over time. A flashback to a fallen Eastern Hemlock and a thriving young beech offers a gentle reminder that even after loss, new life emerges. Hope, it turns out, sometimes takes the form of a tree. Thanks for Tuning In! Related Episodes and Posts: Hope in the Form of a Tree - Blog Post Ep 130. A Pet Painted Turtle, Beech Leaf Disease Worrisome Beech Leaf Disease – Blog Post Beloved Beech Trees – Blog Post 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories and your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 139. Legends of Holly and Christmas Trees | 17 Dec 2023 | 00:09:50 | |
In this episode, I share the Legend of Holly and Christmas Trees. Then we chat about The Twelve Days of Christmas ending on January 6th,-- So keep your tree standing until after Little Christmas, and there are ways it repurpose it to extend the Joy. Related Stories (and Episodes) and Helpful Links: Legend of Holly & Christmas Trees
Ep 23. Season of Love, All About Poinsettias
8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 138. Honey Locust the Porcupine of Trees | 10 Dec 2023 | 00:09:13 | |
The defense mechanisms of Honey Locust trees are similar to porcupines. We chat about fascinating trees, their benefits, and thornless varieties. Plus, how the docile porcupine can be a nuisance in the garden, and ways to move them along. Related Stories (and Episodes) and Helpful Links: Honey Locust – the Porcupine of Trees Three Sisters Gardening & Jolee’s Emergency Also featured in Ep 28. Three Sisters, No-Till Gardening More Tips on How to Get Rid of Porcupines USDA Honey Locust Plant Fact Sheet 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 137. Overwintering Potted Perennials | 03 Dec 2023 | 00:11:41 | |
In this episode, we chat about garden ghosts, which I rarely have anymore—leading to how to overwinter garden pots, especially those filled with perennials and woody plants. Then, I share the story of Filling Naked Pots late in the season and the glorious assortment of shade-loving deer-resistant plants that decorate my adored Mother Earth Face Pot.
Overwintering Potted Perennials
Filling Late-Season Naked Pots
Overwintering Potted Perennials Filling Late-Season Naked Pots I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 136. Giving Thanks for the Gifts of Nature | 26 Nov 2023 | 00:09:44 | |
Giving Thanks for the Gifts of Nature and our Gardens as we delve into the holiday season teaches us not to rush things. We reflect on the beauty of the dormant landscape and treasures you can gather for winter decorating while leaving plenty for our feathered friends and other wildlife. Giving Thanks for Nature's Gifts Winter Decorating with Roadside Finds Ep 08. Late Fall To-Dos, Holiday Decorating with "Roadkill" 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 135. Significance of Poppies on Veterans Day | 19 Nov 2023 | 00:11:15 | |
It was confusing the day before Veterans Day this year; folks were off, and schools closed. It's usually observed on the actual day of November 11th. And there's a reason for that - a significance to 11-11-11. And why poppies are on the lapels on Veterans Day and in our gardens. We chat about the rich history of Veterans Day and the Significance of Poppies on lapels and in our gardens. And wrap up with the wisdom of the lyrics from Turn Off The News (Build A Garden). a song by Lukas Nelson & Promise of the Real. Related Stories (and Episodes) and Helpful Links: Significance of Veterans Day Poppies Mystery of Mutating Alberta Spruce 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 134. Avis Campbell Gardens Wheel of Life | 12 Nov 2023 | 00:11:32 | |
What a surprise to stumble upon Avis Campbell Gardens in Montclair, NJ. Enjoy a "tour" themed around the Wheel of Life and bits about Avis Campbell's legacy. Then we admire a grand Kousa Dogwood, leading to a discussion of Delightful Dogwoods, though there are many Dogwood Disease Dilemmas. We chat about hybrids and cultivars that resist disease and end with how we can make a difference in the Wheel of Life. Related Stories (and Episodes) and Helpful Links: Avis Campbell Gardens Wheel of Life Ep 03. Cicadas Back to School, Gardens Glow 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 133. Ripening Fall Tomato Hand-me-Downs | 05 Nov 2023 | 00:10:20 | |
Before the first Fall frost, you can harvest green tomatoes and ripen them indoors, a lesson from Ed, who gave me Hand-me-Down Tomatoes. We talk about how to ripen tomatoes to avoid critter carnage and improve their appearance by preventing shoulder cracks. And a quick way to freeze your over-abundance of tomatoes. Then, we wrap up with a funny scene of Ed's beloved lab feasting on Kousa Dogwood berries. Related Stories (and Episodes) and Helpful Links: Ripening Fall Tomato Hand-me-Downs Avoid Tomato Carnage-Ripen Indoors! Ep 66. Chipmunk Remedies and Legends 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 132. Shagbark Hickories and Nutty Mast Years | 29 Oct 2023 | 00:11:21 | |
It's a nutty time! When nuts are abundant, it's called a Mast Year. In this episode, we chat about what triggers Mast Years, somewhat mysterious, and Shagbark Hickory's three-year cycle of nuts. Shagbark Hickory are not often landscape trees-- what's beautiful to some is messy to others. But wildlife loves them. Find out why you may, too.
Related Stories (and Episodes) and Helpful Links:
· Shagbark Hickory and Mast Years · Fruits and Veggies near Black Walnut · Ep 32. Juglone Companions, Fascinating Fasciation · Ep 07. Swarming Blackbirds, Winter Folklore, Thankfulness · Swarming Common Grackles
I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in.
You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 131. Ponds vs. Lakes and Vernal Pools | 22 Oct 2023 | 00:08:46 | |
Enjoy a walk in the woods of Lodestar Park, Fredon, NJ, answering the question about the difference between Ponds vs. Lakes and Vernal Ponds. And how even pond-less waterfalls can benefit wildlife and soothe the soul. We wrap up the episode with how serving others can happen in our gardens and yards by creating a healthful environment for our precious wildlife. Plus, do whatever you do with love and kindness as you go about your daily life because kindness grows.
· Inconsistency over Pond vs. Lake · Ep 07. Swarming Blackbirds, Winter Folklore, Thankfulness 8888
I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in.
You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 130. A Pet Painted Turtle, Beech Leaf Disease | 15 Oct 2023 | 00:08:34 | |
This episode is a continuum of the last. We chat about a beloved Pet Painted Turtle and her lovable owner at the Karen Ann Quinlan Home for Hospice, who lifted our hearts. Then we talk about the Beech Leaf Disease dilemma and its cause and touch on remedies, not the least of which is Holding onto Hope with an analogy of how Fall leaves live forever. Saving Snapping Turtles Lifts Spirits Ep 129. Saving Snapping Turtles Lifts Spirits Rhode Island University's Beech Leaf Disease 2023 Update 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 237 - Roofs to Roots: Reviving Houseplants | 11 Jan 2026 | 00:11:05 | |
Mary Stone discusses the benefits of using rainwater and snowmelt for indoor plants and how to revive houseplants in duress. She explores the quiet wisdom of water through stories of Christmas cacti, Jolee's water bowl, and flowing streams, and reflects on patience, renewal, and trusting life's natural flow. Thanks for tuning in! Related Episodes and Posts: Harvesting Rainwater & Snowmelt Wisdom - Blog Post Ep 89. Wisdom in the Rhythm of Water Wisdom in the Rhythm of Water – Blog Post Houseplants in Duress Turn Happy – Blog Post Benefits of Watering with Rainwater – Blog Post 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories and your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 129. Saving Snapping Turtles Lifts Spirits | 08 Oct 2023 | 00:10:48 | |
In this episode, Mary Stone reflects on saving a baby snapping turtle she came upon soon after her brother Bill passed away, another a year ago, and helping a momma snapping turtle cross the road with kind passersby. We chat about turtles that are welcome garden guests and how to attract them into your garden. Then, wrap up with how serving others, including Mother Nature, lifts our spirits.
Saving Snapping Turtles Lifts Spirits Winter Season of Growth column and companion podcast episode: Ep 84. Winter Season of Growth Turtle Island column and companion podcast episode: Ep19. Turtle Island, Ugly Slug Remedies More about Common Snapping Turtle (from the Connecticut Department of Energy & Environmental Protection) 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 128. Women & Their Woods with Native Plants | 01 Oct 2023 | 00:10:13 | |
A Women and Their Woods retreat hosted by the Ridge and Valley Conservancy in Newton, NJ, helped landowners caring for their woods –filled with tips on native plants to help heal our land. And how our relationship with trees and nature can be symbiotic – mutually beneficial rather than parasitic. The episode features highlights from Sharon Wander's presentation about Pollinator Friendly Properties. Plus, artist Rita Baragona's Breathwork and Symbiosis helps us connect with trees and nature. And how to doodle or journal the beauty of the world around us. "What is your connection to the woods, a tree, a leaf, yourself?" Related Stories and Helpful Links Woman & Their Woods with Native Plants Ridge and Valley Conservancy – Preserving Natural Lands, Educating the Public About Rita Baragona Bottlebrush Buckey Hide Tree Knees Woodcock Dance & Making a Meadow Gift of Meadows and Mountain Mint PBS's article on What is Symbiosis? 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 127. Why Some Trees Remain Evergreen | 24 Sep 2023 | 00:09:36 | |
While meandering the rocky terrain peppered with hemlock and Spruce, my friend Barbara asked why some trees remain evergreen and others don't. Good question. Let's ask the trees. Towards the end of the episode, you'll enjoy the story of Jolee coming upon a baby squirrel. Related Stories and Helpful Links Why Some Trees Remain Evergreen Fall Needle Drop of Renewal column and companion Ep 79. Fall Needle Drop of Renewal Phil's Squirrel Dilemma is featured in Ep 81. Bulbs Extending Blooms & Deterring Squirrels 8888
You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 126. A Sunflower Maze Brings Happiness | 17 Sep 2023 | 00:09:29 | |
For special occasions, many come to Liberty Farm's Sussex County Sunflower Maze in Sandyston, NJ. What a treat for those benefiting from the Mental Health Association's services to roam the smiling faces of acres of sunflowers bringing us happiness. Sunflowers represent sunshine, and giving them conveys friendship, good luck, admiration, love, and friendship. Thank you, Raj Sinha and your family, for giving us all that sunshine. I think of them as smiley faces. May we all have more smiling faces to share. Related Stories and Helpful Links A Sunflower Maze Brings Happiness Other Late-Season Bloomers *** Liberty Farm's Sussex County Sunflower Maze – Facebook Page You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 125. Late-Season Bloomers-Glorious Goldenrod | 10 Sep 2023 | 00:09:23 | |
Late-season gardens can grow tired. Thankfully, there are late-season bloomers, many native plants I rely on to lift the drab and weedy. Glorious Goldenrod is among them. Despite rumors, they don't cause allergies and are not considered invasive by most authorities.
8888 You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 124. Moths and Bats are Beautiful Too | 03 Sep 2023 | 00:10:37 | |
Moths are like butterflies that party at night. Though many are considered ugly, like butterflies, moths are beautiful too and essential! We wrap up the episode by chatting about what moths and bats have in common, sure to bring a smile. Moths and Bats are Beautiful, Too
8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 123. Keeping Lighting Pollinator-Friendly | 27 Aug 2023 | 00:11:03 | |
A kind reader's concern about how artificial light impacts pollinators leads to a discussion with Blaine Rothauser, Senior Ecologist and Threatened and Endangered Species Specialist at GZA GeoEnvironmental, who offers advice on keeping lighting pollinator-friendly. Keeping Lighting Pollinator Friendly –Blog Post Blaine Rothauser's Blogs on LinkedIn 8888 You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 122. Rescuing Aloe Plants Helps Heal | 20 Aug 2023 | 00:10:05 | |
I was given an Aloe Vera plant by a client who confessed she neglected it. I know how that goes I said to console her. Rescuing the Aloe appeared hopeless and ended in the compost pile. Then it came to life. In this episode, we chat about Tips on Reviving Aloe Plants that help heal. Related Stories and Helpful Links Rescuing Aloe Plants Helps Heal Benefits of Watering with Rainwater Per PetalRepublic.com - Aloe Plant Temperature and Humidity Tolerances About my Unexpected Furry Messenger who taught me, neglect is abuse. 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 121. Admiration for Ants & Safe Remedies | 13 Aug 2023 | 00:10:43 | |
I have a newfound admiration for ants and how they benefit our gardens and work as a team which may contradict treatments to solve ant dilemmas shared over the years. This episode discusses safe remedies and ways to invite ants to live away from your home and patios. Related Stories and Helpful Links Admiration for Ants & Safe Remedies Carpenter Ants and Termites in Mulch 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 120. Blessing Moth & Bottle Trees | 06 Aug 2023 | 00:10:52 | |
As the legend goes, if you see a Clymene Moth, consider it a gift, as you will have a blessing coming forward in your life, as did I. And so they are known as Blessing Moths.
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| Ep 236 - What We Release, What We Grow | 04 Jan 2026 | 00:11:42 | |
Mary Stone reflects on releasing what no longer serves us and setting intentions that grow in their own time, inspired by nature's rhythms and a New Year water ceremony hosted by Rev. Dr. Christina Tillotson. Through garden metaphors and personal insights, she reminds us that what we let go of creates space for quiet, lasting growth. Thank you for tuning in! Link for more about Rev. Dr. Christina Tillotson Link to Companion Blog Post: What We Release, What We Grow Related Podcasts and Blog Posts you'll enjoy: Essential Nutrients for Gardens and Life - Blog Post Episode 141. Essential Nutrients for Gardens and Life Benefits of Gardening - Blog Post Ep 139. Legends of Holly and Christmas Trees Legend of Holly & Christmas Trees - Blog Post Live Christmas Trees - Blog 8888 I'd love to hear your garden and nature stories and your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. You can follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone. Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 119. Bachelor Buttons vs. Chicory Look-alike | 30 Jul 2023 | 00:08:40 | |
I recently discovered that Bachelor Buttons are also called Chicory and Chicory Bachelor Buttons. Learn about these blue roadside beauties' origins, similarities, differences, and love stories. And there's a Chicory Fairy poem sure to delight you, reflecting the Cycles of Nature that are never ending and the Hope that exists because of it. Related Stories and Helpful Links Link to The Chicory Fairy and Plant Love Stories.com The Flower that used to be a Girl. I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 118. Bottlebrush Buckeyes Hide Tree Knees | 23 Jul 2023 | 00:09:39 | |
In this episode, we meet my favorite understory shrub, Bottlebrush Buckeyes, and how I planted them to hide the Gnarly Tree Knees of Blue Spruce as they began dying from the bottom up from Canker Disease. We chat about recent flooding, downed Ash trees killed by emerald ash borers, and the declaration of mainstream media gloom and dooming the changes in climate. Nature is constantly changing. Nothing remains forever. But from endings come beginnings and renewal, encouraging listeners not to give up hope. Instead, be part of the change of kindness to our dear earth to help heal it. Nature is resilient. Related Stories and Helpful Links 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 117. Deer Remedies & Rat Snakes | 16 Jul 2023 | 00:10:03 | |
We start the episode with a fascinating follow-up of last week's (Ep 116) Owl and Hawk story – witnessing a rat snake snagged by a hawk. Leeding to the wisdom of not tampering with nature despite the biggest garden dilemma - Darn Deer. We chat about Non-stinky Deer Deterrents to spare your gardens and why feeding deer is detrimental. And wrap up with Eastern Rat Snakes' remarkable hunting and predator avoidance techniques. Related Stories and Helpful Links Link to last week's story Great-Horned Owl meets Hawk Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) report of Occurrence of Chronic Wasting Disease. 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep.116 - Great Horned Owl meets Hawk | 09 Jul 2023 | 00:08:32 | |
What looked like clusters of rusty brown leaves were remnants of our resident Red-shouldered Hawk—a heavy heart. The likely culprit is a Great-horned Owl. We chat about the behavior, history, and legends of Red-shouldered Hawks and Great-horned Owls and how they benefit the garden, including a humorous bit about a skunk family that took up residence in a client's basement. Related Stories and Helpful Links Visions of the Red-shouldered Hawk The Cornell Labs All About Birds: The Great Horned Owl and Red-shouldered Hawk 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 115. Oxymoron of Seedless Watermelon | 02 Jul 2023 | 00:08:00 | |
Remember the seed-spitting contests on the Fourth of July? It's hard to do nowadays as most watermelons are said to be seedless, but the truth is, it's not so. In this episode, we discuss how Seedless Watermelon came to be and why they compare to mules. Plus, we learn why they are not genetically modified (non-GMO) and can be organic. And the health benefits of the pink fleshy fruit. Related Stories and Helpful Links Are Seedless Watermelons GMO? Independence Day on the Top of the World 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 114.We are all Seeds Rooted in Love | 25 Jun 2023 | 00:08:42 | |
A country song by Kathy Mattea titled Seeds starts with "We're all just seeds in God's hands." I hope you enjoy the story of the magical transport systems of seeds and a reflection of how the song has circled through my life. We all carry seeds of opportunity to help our dear Earth and our communities and serve others. As we become aware of it, the roots of our spirits grow. And as we shine our light within, the seeds flourish and bloom, becoming a beautiful garden that others will admire, inspiring them to see the magnificent seeds within them. Related Stories and Helpful Links 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 113. Funky Vegetables - Non-GMO or Organic | 18 Jun 2023 | 00:10:15 | |
Green beans aren't only green anymore. And tomatoes come in all sorts of shades and mottled blends of colors. Are funky vegetables genetically modified? This episode discusses the differences between genetically modified (GMO) versus heirlooms versus hybrids. Then there are organic seeds and vegetables to consider and how funky vegetables can be non-GMO and even organic. We chat about the origin of the Safe Seed Pledge and how we can pressure big businesses to let them know that we care about our food. Related Stories and Helpful Links Are Funky Vegetables GMO? Previous Story with the Robin attacking his reflection- Wisteria Reflections on Invasiveness And Dennis Briede in Woodcock Dance-Making a Meadow More about Comfort Zone Camp 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 112. Seal Pup Surprise & Growing Forward | 11 Jun 2023 | 00:12:35 | |
After last week's chat about Fawn's Cry and Perennial Pilfering (Ep 111) and letting wildlife be, I thought you'd enjoy a story about running into Seal Pup Surprise at Island Beach State Park, NJ. We wrap up with an announcement of Growing Forward – how I finally submitted a book proposal for The Lesson of the Leaf to Hay House Publishing. I hope the story will inspire you to push through self-doubt too. Thank you, kind listeners, for all of your encouragement and support. Related Stories and Helpful Links Video to Hay House Publishing to introduce The Lesson of Leaf I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 111. Fawn's Cry & Perennial Pilfering | 04 Jun 2023 | 00:09:31 | |
While hearing a fawn's cry can cause concern, only when wildlife is injured, or a deceased mother is nearby should we assist by contacting a licensed wildlife rehabilitator. The story celebrates the generous spirit of Kelly Simonetti, founder of Antler Ridge, a revered Wildlife Sanctuary in Frelinghuysen, New Jersey, which sadly closed, unable to keep up after the passing of Kelly in November 2022. We wrap up with an addendum to the fawn's story about pilfering perennials (with permission) in the family plot. Related Stories and Helpful Links Let Fawns & Wildlife Be 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 110. Flowers and Meaning of Memorial Day | 28 May 2023 | 00:11:29 | |
In this episode, we discuss the history and Meaning of Memorial Day and the Flowers of Remembrance. And reflect on Comfort Zone Camp, a grief camp for kids that hosts a loss-by-suicide camp the week before Memorial Day. One year the camp theme was a Phoenix representing resurrection and renewal associated with the bird on the first great seal of the United States. We wrap up on a personal note about losing a family member to suicide and the importance of mental health, which impacts our physical health. And how being amongst nature and gardens helps heal and grow our lives. Related Stories and Helpful Links Flowers & Meaning of Memorial Day About the Poppies in Flanders Fields: History of Veterans Day Poppies NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 235. What Nature and Gardens Gifted Us | 28 Dec 2025 | 00:11:51 | |
Mary Stone reflects on lessons learned from a year of observation in the garden and wild places beyond it. From copperheads and moths to healing land and personal change, she explores how slowing down, trusting nature, and paying attention to what often goes unseen can lead to growth, understanding, and quiet transformation. Thanks for Tuning In! Link to the Companion Blog Post: What Nature & Gardens Taught Us 🌿 Featured Podcasts and Posts: Ep 234. Stillness Teaches Growth Through Nature Stillness Teaches Growth Through Nature – Blog
Ep 221. Curious Copperhead Encounters Curious Copperhead Encounters – Blog
Ep 195. Healing from Hyper-Humus Peat Mining Healing from Hyper-Humus Peat Mining - Blog
Ep 217. Moth Surveying in a NJ Mountain Meadow Moth Survey in a Mountain Meadow – Blog
Ep 200 A Milestone in Our Journey Together A Milestone in Our Journey Together - Blog Post
Ep 230. Lessons from a Late No-Till Garden Lessons from a Late No-Till Garden - Blog
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| Ep 109. Wisteria Reflections on Invasiveness | 21 May 2023 | 00:11:00 | |
We start the episode reflecting on invasive anger between neighbors and the analogy of the territorial behavior of the North American Robin crashing into windows, fighting their reflection out of fear. And ways to resolve it. Then chat about the Asian species of Wisteria, invasive in the US, and a native alternative, plus ways to encourage blooming and manage their size. Then we wrap up with a reflection on what makes plants invasive, which relates to choosing love over fear leading to growing a peaceful garden of life. Related Stories and Helpful Links Wisteria Reflections on Invasiveness Fine Gardening Magazine's Story - How to Train Wisteria - Turn your vine into a tree using these pruning and staking techniques Previous stories we make mention of in the episode: Merry Season of Love over Fear 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 108. Value of Virginia Creeper vs. Poison Ivy | 14 May 2023 | 00:11:02 | |
While it grows rampant in the wild, Virginia Creeper is native, therefore not considered invasive, and is valued as an ornamental plant. And, like its look-alike Poison Ivy, Virginia Creeper is loved by wildlife. In this episode, I share my big sister's "I dare you" challenge as a child and a fun review of how to tell the difference between Virginia Creeper and Poison Ivy. We wrap up with a sad sequel to Mending Fences with Forysthia (Ep 96), hoping to turn a neighbor's invasive anger around. Related Stories and Helpful Links Value of Virginia Creeper vs. Poison Ivy Removing Poison Ivy without Chemicals Previous stories we make mention of in the episode: One World / Memorial Day and Robins of Renewal in the Garden 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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| Ep 107. Mile-a-Minute Weed and Butterfly Plants | 07 May 2023 | 00:11:07 | |
In this episode, I share a story of an inundation of Mile-a-Minute Weed in Sarah's garden that turns into a garden filled with Deer Resistant Butterfly Plants. We chat about safe ways to get rid of Mile-a-Minute Weeds and a delicious lineup of host and nectar plants to attract butterflies that you'll adore too. Related Stories and Helpful Links Deer Resistant Butterfly Plants Native Plants, especially Oaks, are Essential For more information about the weevil to remediate Mile-a-Minute Weed: https://www.nj.gov/agriculture/divisions/pi/pdf/mileaminute.pdf 8888 I'd love to hear about your garden and nature stories. And your thoughts about topics for future podcast episodes. You can email me at AskMaryStone@gmail.com. Thanks so much for tuning in. You can Follow Garden Dilemmas on Facebook and Instagram #MaryElaineStone Episode web page —Garden Dilemmas Podcast Page Thank you for sharing the Garden of Life, Mary Stone, Columnist & Garden Designer
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