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Kabir Bhatia on Helping Aging Parents Stay Home Safely Without Watching Them06 juil. 202600:54:26

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Most aging parents want to stay home, but how do caregivers keep them safe without taking away their independence, dignity, or privacy?

In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates talks with Kabir Bhatia, co-founder and CEO of Hello Everyday, about aging in place, caregiver worry, senior safety technology, and how families can support loved ones without making them feel watched.

Kabir’s work began from personal experience. After supporting his father through three rounds of cancer and watching his mother adjust to living alone after his father passed, he began thinking deeply about one of the hardest questions caregivers face: how do we help loved ones stay in their own homes safely without turning every conversation into a check-in?

Jeanette and Kabir discuss what aging in place actually requires beyond physical safety, including autonomy, community, financial readiness, purpose, and dignity. Kabir also explains why many older adults resist complicated technology, why cameras and apps are not always the right answer, and how Hello Everyday was designed to offer reassurance without surveillance.

They also talk about solo aging, advance directives, family conversations before a crisis, dementia-friendly technology, and Hello Tunes — a simple music and reminder device created for people living with cognitive decline or dementia.

This conversation is for family caregivers, adult children, solo agers, and anyone trying to help an aging parent, spouse, or loved one stay home safely while still protecting their independence and quality of life.


Episode Summary

In this episode, Jeanette Yates speaks with Kabir Bhatia, co-founder and CEO of Hello Everyday, about how caregivers can help aging parents and loved ones stay safe at home without taking away their independence or privacy.

Kabir shares the personal caregiving experience that shaped his work, including supporting his father through three rounds of cancer and helping his mother adjust to life alone after his father passed. That experience led him to think about the emotional reality many caregivers face: wanting reassurance that a loved one is okay, while also wanting to respect their dignity and autonomy.

The conversation explores what aging in place really requires beyond physical safety. Kabir explains that older adults need financial stability, community, purpose, and support systems that allow them to remain connected without feeling monitored. He and Jeanette also discuss why advance directives and care conversations are easier before a crisis, and why families often wait too long to talk about what an aging parent actually wants.

Kabir explains the design principles behind Hello Everyday, a simple safety sensor built for older adults who want to live independently. The device does not use cameras, microphones, apps, or Wi-Fi setup. Instead, it helps caregivers know when something may be wrong while allowing the older adult to control privacy settings and avoid feeling watched.

Jeanette and Kabir also discuss Hello Tunes, a dementia-friendly music and reminder device designed for people living with cognitive decline. Kabir explains how familiar music, simple controls, reminders, routine, and presence detection can support both the person living with dementia and the caregiver.

This episode gives caregivers a clearer way to think about aging in place: not just as staying home safely, but as staying home with dignity, connection, purpose, and the right kind of support.


Audio Chapters

00:00 — Helping Aging Parents Stay Home Safely
01:20 — Meet Kabir Bhatia, Co-Founder and CEO of Hello Everyday
02:00 — Caring for His Father Through Three Rounds of Cancer
05:05 — How His Mother Adjusted to Living Alone
06:40 — Why Constant Check-Ins Can Feel Like a Microscope
08:40 — Grief, Identity, and Learning to Live Differently
11:20 — What Aging in Place Actually Requires
13:20 — Planning Ahead Before a Crisis Happens
15:20 — How to Talk About an Aging Parent’s Wishes
17:40 — Why Advance Directives Are Easier Before the Hospital
19:20 — What Makes Hello Everyday Different
20:14 — Safety vs. Autonomy in Aging in Place
21:40 — Why Older Adults Struggle With Complicated Technology
23:20 — The Story That Inspired Hello Everyday’s Sensor
24:40 — A Safety Device With No Cameras, No Microphones, and No App
26:20 — How Privacy Settings Work for Families
27:40 — When Caregivers Only Get Alerts if Something Is Wrong
28:40 — Daily Texts, Activity Updates, and Family Peace of Mind
30:27 — Supporting Both the Older Adult and the Caregiver
31:07 — Why Hello Everyday Supports Existing Relationships
32:40 — The In-Between Stage: Not Nothing, Not Full Monitoring
33:27 — Solo Agers, Peer Support, and Aging in Community
35:40 — Hello Tunes for Dementia and Cognitive Decline
37:20 — Why Music Helps People Living With Dementia
39:00 — Reminders, Routine, and Reducing Caregiver Friction
40:20 — Call Buttons, Presence Detection, and Dementia Care Support
41:20 — Designing Technology Older Adults Actually Want to Use
42:40 — Aging in Place Successfully, Not Just Safely
45:40 — Being Mortal, Elderhood, and What Medicine Misses About Aging
48:40 — What to Do if You Worry About a Parent Living Alone
51:20 — Helping Loved Ones Stay Home Without Constant Fear


Guest Bio

Kabir Bhatia is the co-founder and CEO of Hello Everyday, a company building simple safety technology for older adults who want to age in place without giving up their independence or privacy.

Before Hello Everyday, Kabir held senior leadership roles at Nike, Bank of America, and Merrill Lynch, and led two biotech companies as CEO. He is a mechanical engineer by training, an entrepreneur by choice, and a caregiver by experience.

Kabir’s work is shaped by his own caregiving journey, including supporting his father through three battles with cancer and helping his mother adjust to life alone after his father passed. Through Hello Everyday and Hello Tunes, he focuses on creating technology that supports safety, dignity, autonomy, connection, and human relationships.


Resources / Links 

Hello Everyday
Hello Tunes:
Kabir Bhatia LinkedIn
Being Mortal by Atul Gawande
Elderhood by Louise Aronson
Buried in Work
Jeanette’s website



Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Arvind Sarin on How AI Is Changing Home Health Care Without Replacing Nurses30 juin 202600:52:40

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AI is already changing home health care, but does that mean it is replacing nurses?


In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates talks with Arvind Sarin, founder and CEO of Copper Digital, about how AI can support home health clinicians without taking the human out of care.


Arvind explains what many family caregivers never see: the paperwork, documentation, compliance forms, billing pressure, visit notes, and after-hours charting that home health nurses often carry long after they leave a patient’s home.


Jeanette and Arvind discuss why documentation overload contributes to clinician burnout, how that burnout can affect patient care, and how AI can help reduce administrative friction so nurses can spend more time focused on patients and families.


They also talk about what caregivers should ask before choosing a home health agency, why privacy and HIPAA compliance matter, and how technology can be used to protect human care rather than replace it.


This conversation is for anyone navigating home health care for a parent, spouse, or loved one who wants to better understand what happens behind the scenes and how to advocate for safer, more human-centered care.

00:00 — Why Home Health Nurses Spend Less Time at the Bedside

02:38 — Arvind Sarin’s Connection to Caregiving and Clinician Burnout

06:37 — Building Copper Digital After the Loss of His Brother

10:58 — Why Home Health Became the Focus for AI Automation

14:22 — What a Home Health Nurse’s Day Actually Looks Like

18:27 — Why Nurses Still Rely on Paper Notes and Memory

21:16 — Charting at Night, Weekend Paperwork, and Clinician Burnout

23:43 — How Missing Notes Affect Billing, Paychecks, and Patient Care

26:47 — What AI Actually Does in Home Health Care

28:06 — How AI Turns a Nurse’s Voice Note Into Documentation

30:13 — Human Review, EMRs, and Keeping Care Safe

33:09 — What’s Coming Next for AI in Home Health

36:19 — Why Hospital Discharges Create Repetitive Paperwork

39:41 — Teach-Back Videos, Patient Education, and Reducing Nurse Burden

40:58 — Why AI Should Protect Human Care, Not Replace It

43:58 — What Families Should Ask About Home Health Technology

45:28 — Choosing a Home Health Agency That Actually Cares

47:27 — AI Wellness Calls and When Caregivers Need a Human

51:08 — Questions Caregivers Should Ask Before Choosing Home Health

53:47 — Caregivers as Experts in Their Loved One’s Care

54:46 — Technology’s Real Job: Putting Humans Back at the Center of Care

56:13 — Where to Learn More About Copper Digital and Arvind’s Work


Guest Bio

Arvind Sarin is the founder and CEO of Copper Digital, a company building AI-powered automation for home healthcare. With more than 15 years of experience building technology solutions for real operational problems, Arvind has focused Copper Digital’s work on helping home health clinicians reduce documentation burden and spend more time with patients.


He is also the host of the Inside Home Health Podcast, where he explores the challenges, innovations, and future of home health care. His work centers on using technology to remove administrative friction while keeping the human side of care at the center.


Resources / Links 

Copper Digital

Inside Home Health Podcast

Arvind Sarin LinkedIn

Teachback.video

Jeanette’s website

From Guilt to Good Podcast



Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Annalee Kruger on Caregiver Burnout, Guilt, and Why Families Need an Aging Plan22 juin 202601:00:54

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Caregiver burnout does not happen all at once. It often starts with love, responsibility, and the belief that you can keep figuring things out as you go.
In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates talks with Annalee Kruger, founder and CEO of Care Right Inc. and author of The Invisible Patient, about what happens when family caregivers become overwhelmed, invisible, and responsible for decisions they were never prepared to make.


Annalee explains why so many adult children and spouse caregivers end up in crisis, why guilt keeps caregivers saying yes long after care becomes unsafe or unsustainable, and why saying no can be an act of love rather than abandonment. She also shares why every family needs an aging plan, what families often get wrong about senior care, and why planning before a crisis can protect both the caregiver and the person receiving care.


This conversation is for anyone caring for an aging parent, spouse, or loved one who feels exhausted, guilty, resentful, unsupported, or afraid they are disappearing in the process.


Episode Summary


In this episode, Jeanette Yates speaks with Annalee Kruger about what happens when caregivers try to care without a plan. Annalee explains why so many family caregivers become overwhelmed by medical decisions, senior care costs, legal confusion, sibling conflict, and guilt before they even realize they are in crisis.


The conversation explores Annalee’s concept of “The Invisible Patient,” the family caregiver who is doing everything for everyone while receiving care from no one. Jeanette and Annalee discuss what caregiver burnout actually looks like, why guilt appears so quickly, and how saying no can be one of the most loving things a caregiver does.


Annalee also explains what an aging plan is, why families resist planning until crisis hits, and what caregivers can do if they are already in the middle of a crisis. This episode offers validation, language, and practical direction for caregivers who are trying to care for an aging loved one without losing themselves.

Audio Chapters

00:00 — Why Caregiving Without a Plan Leads to Burnout
05:31 — Why Families Are Unprepared for Senior Care Decisions
09:27 — What Families Get Wrong About Power of Attorney, Medicare, and Care Plans
12:14 — The Invisible Patient: Why Family Caregivers Disappear
15:55 — Why Caregiver Burnout Is So Hard to Prevent
19:44 — Caregiver Burnout Symptoms: When Stress Becomes Dangerous
24:45 — Caregiver Guilt: Why It Shows Up Everywhere
27:06 — Why Saying No to an Aging Parent Is Not Abandonment
32:30 — What Is an Aging Plan for Aging Parents?
34:40 — Aging in Place Costs: What Families Usually Underestimate
37:43 — Grab and Go Binder: What Caregivers Should Organize Before a Crisis
40:50 — Power of Attorney Is Not Enough: Why Families Need Real Conversations
45:57 — How to Choose the Right Power of Attorney Decision Maker
47:21 — Is It Too Late to Make a Caregiving Plan?
50:20 — How to Talk to Parents Who Refuse an Aging Plan
52:13 — Why a Neutral Third Party Helps Family Caregiving Conversations
53:57 — What Caregivers Should Do First When They Are Burned Out


Guest Bio

Annalee Kruger, MBA, is the founder and CEO of Care Right Inc., a national elder care consulting firm. She has spent more than 28 years in the senior care industry helping families navigate caregiving, dementia, aging parent decisions, crisis planning, senior care options, and family conflict.

Annalee is also a speaker, corporate trainer, podcast host, and author of The Invisible Patient, a practical guide for family caregivers. Her work helps families create aging plans, prepare before crisis, and support caregivers who are overwhelmed by care decisions and burnout.

Resources / Links
Care Right Inc.
The Invisible Patient by Annalee Kruger
E-Grab and Go Binder
DIY Aging Guide
Free 30-minute consultation with Care Right
Plan4Life
Jeanette’s website

Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Dr. Rondalyn Whitney on Why Grief Changes Your Body, Identity, and Daily Life16 juin 202600:48:22

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Grief is not just sadness. It can affect your body, your brain, your routines, your relationships, and your sense of who you are.

In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates talks with Dr. Rondalyn Varney Whitney, an occupational therapist, narrative medicine practitioner, and author of Habits of Widows and Lies in the Afterlife. After the traumatic death of her husband in 2020, Rondalyn began writing every day for a year and a day, using the same evidence-based journaling practices she had studied in her academic work.

Together, Jeanette and Rondalyn explore caregiver grief, the widowhood effect, occupational identity, and what it means to rebuild a life after loss. Rondalyn explains why grief can show up as fatigue, brain fog, physical symptoms, disrupted routines, and a feeling that the world is suddenly “off kilter.” She also shares how writing became a place where grief could be honest, messy, funny, angry, and true.

This conversation is for caregivers, grievers, and anyone who has ever felt like they are not only losing someone they love, but also losing the version of themselves that existed before the loss.


Episode summary

In this episode, Jeanette Yates speaks with Dr. Rondalyn Varney Whitney about grief as a full-body, full-life experience. Rondalyn explains how her work as an occupational therapist shaped the way she understands care, loss, routines, and identity. She shares why grief can affect the body like a stress response, why caregivers often feel disoriented after loss, and why the widowhood effect deserves more attention as a real health risk.

The conversation also explores journaling as a healing practice, Rondalyn’s year-and-a-day writing process after her husband’s death, and the two very different books that emerged from that season: Habits of Widows and Lies in the Afterlife. This episode offers language, validation, and practical care for anyone grieving after caregiving.


Audio chapters

00:00 Why Caregiver Grief Is Different

05:00 What “Care” Really Means in Caregiving

10:00 Why Grief Affects the Body and Brain

15:00 Grief as a Stress Response

20:00 The Widowhood Effect and Health Risks After Loss

25:00 How to Support a Grieving Caregiver

30:00 Self-Care After Grief and Caregiving

35:00 Journaling for Grief and Healing

40:00 Caregiver Guilt, Loss, and Emotional Truth

45:00 Rondalyn Whitney’s Books and Grief Resources



Guest bio

Dr. Rondalyn Varney Whitney is an occupational therapist, narrative medicine practitioner, researcher, mother, widow, and author of 15 books. She holds advanced certificates in Narrative Medicine from Columbia University and spent more than 25 years in academia. After the traumatic death of her husband in 2020, she wrote two grief memoirs: Habits of Widows and Lies in the Afterlife. Her work explores grief, caregiving, occupational identity, writing, and the daily practices that help people live on after loss.


Resources / links to include

Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Dr. Julie Merriman on Why Midlife Women Feel Exhausted Even After Rest08 juin 202600:48:01

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Dr. Julie Merriman explains why so many midlife women feel exhausted in a way rest no longer fixes.

In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates talks with Dr. Julie Merriman, a counselor educator, licensed clinician, speaker, author, and podcast host who works with professional women over 50 experiencing burnout, compassion fatigue, nervous system depletion, disconnection, and shutdown.

Julie’s work focuses on women who are high-achieving, high-responsibility, and still functioning — but operating far beyond capacity. These are women who have spent years holding families, workplaces, caregiving responsibilities, and entire systems together, often while ignoring the signals from their own bodies.

Together, Jeanette and Julie explore why chronic exhaustion in midlife women is often not a time management issue, a mindset issue, or a failure of self-care. Instead, it may be a sign of a nervous system that has been shaped by years of caregiving, performance pressure, emotional labor, and over-functioning.

Julie also shares her own caregiving experience, including caring professionally as a therapist for 30 years, helping her mother navigate health challenges, supporting her husband through brain cancer, and living with her own breast cancer diagnosis. Her story gives the conversation a deeply personal lens, not just a clinical one.

Jeanette and Julie discuss what most productivity hacks and self-care advice miss, why women are often socialized to live over capacity, how resentment can become important information, why midlife can be a homecoming instead of a crisis, and what it means to take a nervous-system-first approach to healing.

This episode is for midlife women, caregivers, women over 50, adult daughters caring for aging parents, professional women carrying too much, and anyone who has ever wondered why they are still exhausted after doing “all the right things.”

In this episode, we talk about
  • Why midlife women can feel exhausted even after rest
  • The difference between being tired and experiencing nervous system depletion
  • Why productivity hacks and mindset advice often fail burned-out caregivers
  • How women are socialized to over-function and tie their worth to performance
  • What “nervous system first” actually means
  • Why resentment can be a sacred signal instead of something to shame
  • How menopause, caregiving, family responsibility, and work can create a perfect storm
  • Why “should” and “must” can reveal old rules that no longer fit
  • Small ways women can begin coming back into their bodies with curiosity and compassion

Connect with Dr. Julie Merriman:
 Website: juliemerrimanphd.com
 Book: In Pursuit of Soul Joy
 Book: Are We Going to Have Sex or What?
 Podcast: Compassion Fatigue Cure
 Podcast: Sexy After 50

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Recommended because this episode also explores how caregivers can stop blaming themselves and begin understanding what their bodies are trying to tell them.


Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Mark Wilson on the 5-Pillar Framework Every Dementia Caregiver Needs01 juin 202600:56:59

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Mark Wilson shares the 5-pillar framework every dementia caregiver needs to lead care.

Mark Wilson believes dementia caregivers need more than love and good intentions — they need a system.

In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates talks with Mark Wilson, author of Breakthrough Alzheimer’s Care, about what happened when he brought executive leadership skills into hands-on Alzheimer’s and dementia caregiving.

Mark spent more than 25 years leading leadership development, organizational effectiveness, and HR functions at Fortune 500 companies, including PepsiCo and Taco Bell. But when his mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and vascular dementia, he made the decision to leave his corporate career and care for her at home.

What followed was not one single solution. Mark built a care system around his mother that included nutrition changes, supplements, art therapy, weekly physical therapy, home safety changes, a dedicated care team, and an extended network of doctors, therapists, specialists, and home care resources.

Together, Jeanette and Mark discuss the Bold Care Leadership Framework and the Five Breakthrough Pillars from his book, including self-care, safety, identifying and keeping the finest care team, brain and body health, and what Mark calls “surround sound care” — the idea that every touchpoint in a person’s world should support safety, joy, love, and connection.

They also talk about caregiver burnout, why dementia care cannot be done alone, how to motivate and retain caregivers, how to work with doctors, how to advocate for better care, and why becoming a care leader does not mean being perfect — it means building the right support around your loved one.

This episode is for dementia caregivers, Alzheimer’s caregivers, adult children caring for aging parents, family caregivers building a care team, and anyone who feels overwhelmed trying to manage care alone.


In this episode, we talk about

  • How Mark left his executive career to care for his mother after her Alzheimer’s and vascular dementia diagnosis
  • Why dementia caregivers need to become care leaders, not just people trying to do everything alone
  • The 5 pillars of better dementia care: self-care, safety, care team, brain and body health, and surround sound care
  • How to build, motivate, and retain a strong care team around your loved one
  • Practical ways to make dementia care safer at home, from fall prevention to eating safety
  • Why caregiver burnout, resentment, and asking for help need to be part of the conversation


Guest bio

Mark Wilson is the author of Breakthrough Alzheimer’s Care and the creator of the Bold Care Leadership Framework. Before becoming a full-time caregiver for his mother, Mark spent more than 25 years in executive leadership, organizational effectiveness, and HR roles at Fortune 500 companies, including PepsiCo and Taco Bell.

After his mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and vascular dementia, Mark left his corporate career to care for her at home. He used his leadership background to build a care system around her that included caregivers, doctors, therapists, home safety, nutrition, physical therapy, and daily joy.

Today, Mark helps families think differently about dementia care by teaching caregivers how to become care leaders, build better care teams, and create safer, happier environments for their loved ones.


Links:

Connect with Mark Wilson:
 Website: https://boldcareleader.com
Book: Breakthrough Alzheimer’s Care available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble

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Kait Giordano on Raising a Baby While Caring for Parents With Dementia

Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Kait Giordano on Raising a Baby While Caring for Parents With Dementia25 mai 202600:31:20

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Kait Giordano is raising a baby while caring for both parents with dementia.



In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates talks with Kait Giordano, co-founder of The Melty Middle, about life inside the sandwich generation and what it really looks like to build a home, routine, and family life around dementia care.

Kait shares how caregiving became part of her life long before motherhood, beginning with her grandmother and sister, and later continuing as both of her parents were diagnosed with dementia. After her father, who has Alzheimer’s, had already moved in with her, Kait learned that her mother could no longer live alone — and just two weeks later, she found out she was pregnant.

That moment forced Kait and her husband to rethink almost everything: their home, their layout, their safety systems, their routines, and the way they helped her parents stay involved in daily life. From moving into a house with two main-floor bedrooms to adding cameras, gates, an induction stove, and even raising the dishwasher so her mom could still help, Kait’s story shows how care can be built into the home with intention.

Together, Jeanette and Kait discuss multigenerational living, dementia care at home, Alzheimer’s care, parenting while caregiving, preserving autonomy, balancing safety with dignity, and the emotional reality of living where “first words and forgotten words collide.”

They also talk about why dementia does not take every ability at once, why structure matters more than a strict schedule, and why caregiving does not mean putting your life on hold.

This episode is for sandwich generation caregivers, dementia caregivers, adult children caring for aging parents, parents caring across generations, and anyone trying to keep living while caring for the people they love.

In this episode, we talk about
  • How Kait’s caregiving story began
  • Caring for both parents with dementia
  • Finding out she was pregnant while caregiving
  • Moving homes to make dementia care work
  • Creating safety systems for aging parents and a baby
  • Why they chose an induction stove
  • Raising the dishwasher so her mom could still help
  • Preserving dignity and autonomy in dementia care
  • Why dementia does not take every ability at once
  • Balancing safety and independence
  • Parenting while caregiving
  • Life inside the sandwich generation
  • Building structure without needing a strict schedule
  • Why care happens in all directions
  • Why caregiving is not putting your life on hold
Guest bio

Kait Giordano is the co-founder of The Melty Middle, a platform focused on rethinking how families approach care across generations. Living in the sandwich generation, Kait is raising a young child while caring for both of her parents with dementia at home. Through The Melty Middle, she shares the ethical, practical, and emotional realities of multigenerational living, dementia care, and building a family life around care, dignity, and continued participation.

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Connect with Kait / The Melty Middle:
 Instagram
TikTok
Facebook
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Recommended because this episode also explores how caregivers can care for others without losing themselves in the process.


Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

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At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Why Family Caregiving Feels So Overwhelming Featuring Lance A. Slatton18 mai 202600:37:45

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Most families become caregivers before anyone tells them what help exists.

In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates talks with Lance A. Slatton, host of All Home Care Matters, senior care advocate, author, healthcare professional, and president of AlzAuthors.

Lance shares how caregiving entered his life unexpectedly when his father needed serious medical care after a fall, infection, surgery, and a long recovery. What was supposed to be “a couple of weeks” of support turned into almost three years of caregiving. During that time, Lance realized how little guidance families often receive, even as they move through hospitals, rehab, home healthcare, and veteran care systems.

Together, Jeanette and Lance discuss why caregivers often do not know what resources are available, why asking for help can feel like guilt or failure, and how outside support can actually help family members return to being a spouse, son, daughter, or loved one — not only “the caregiver.”

They also talk about the origin of All Home Care Matters, the role of AlzAuthors in helping families find trusted dementia and Alzheimer’s resources, and the promise and limits of AI and caregiving technology.

This conversation is for any caregiver who feels overwhelmed, under-supported, or unsure where to begin.


In this episode, we talk about:

  • Why caregiving often begins unexpectedly
  • Why families do not know what help exists
  • The guilt many caregivers feel when asking for support
  • Why bringing in help is still caregiving
  • How healthcare systems can better support family caregivers
  • Trusted dementia and Alzheimer’s resources through AlzAuthors
  • AI, caregiver technology, and where families need to be careful
  • Why caregivers should be recognized as part of the healthcare system


Guest bio
Lance A. Slatton is the host of All Home Care Matters, an award-winning podcast and YouTube channel focused on caregiving, aging, dementia, long-term care, and home care resources. He is known as the Senior Care Influencer, has more than 20 years of experience in healthcare, and serves as president of AlzAuthors, a trusted resource for Alzheimer’s and dementia books and education.


Connect with Lance:
 All Home Care Matters
Lance A. Slatton
AlzAuthors
Caregiver Companion AI

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 Recommended because this episode also explores how caregivers can find support without feeling guilty.


Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


When Your Phone Is the Problem: Emotional Firewalls, Boundaries, and Caregiving with Sol Kennedy05 mai 202600:42:17

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Caregivers are used to being “on call” for the person they care for. But what happens when the person blowing up your phone is just as stressful as the person you’re caring for—and you can’t simply block or mute them?

In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette talks with Sol Kennedy, founder of BestInterest, an AI-powered co-parenting communication app built to help people navigate high-conflict relationships after divorce. Sol shares how his own high-conflict divorce and co-parenting experience led him to create what he calls an “emotional firewall”—a layer of protection between you and hostile digital messages that keeps your nervous system, your legal safety, and your peace in mind.

Together, they explore what constant digital conflict and phone notifications do to your body, why delaying your response can be one of the most powerful boundaries you set, and how tools like BestInterest can filter out harmful messages while surfacing true emergencies. They also talk about codependency, the fear of being “the bad guy” when you set boundaries, and simple, concrete steps caregivers can take—today—to create enough space to heal, even when they can’t walk away from a difficult relationship.

Links & Resources

If this episode resonates with you, please share it with a caregiver in your life who is struggling with a difficult relationship and an always-buzzing phone.

And as always: you’re allowed to feel good, not guilty.

Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


FINDING JOY IN THE RUINS: A STORY OF CAREGIVING, LOSS, AND UNWAVERING LOVE27 avr. 202600:50:11

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In this heartfelt interview, Susie McNamara shares her caregiving journey through her husband's early-onset Alzheimer's, exploring themes of grief, dignity, and finding joy among ruins. Jeanette Yates delves into the importance of honoring loved ones' identities and the power of storytelling in healing.

00:00 Introduction to Caregiving and Grief
01:48 Suzy's Caregiving Journey
04:16 The Invisible Weight of Grief
06:23 Finding Joy Among Ruins
14:01 Preserving Dignity and Autonomy
20:39 Navigating Family Dynamics in Caregiving
24:25 Navigating Grief and Change
26:51 The Impact of Caregiving on Family Dynamics
29:33 Understanding Grief as a Lonely Journey
33:09 The Importance of Sharing Memories
36:44 Honoring Loved Ones Through Storytelling
44:07 Finding Hope Amidst Despair
46:47 The Journey of Writing and Healing

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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Caregiving Must Be Designed For, Not Endured: Childhood Caregiving, Long-Term Care, and Real Self-Care with Tim Otis14 avr. 202600:46:20

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Caregiving that starts in childhood changes everything. In this episode, Jeanette talks with Empaira founder and “care-led innovator” Tim Otis, who became a caregiver at four and later cared for his dad with Parkinson’s. They unpack long-term caregiving, complicated parent-child dynamics, and why most self-care advice fails caregivers—and what more realistic support can look like.


Resources

Empaira Community
JeanetteYates.com


Tim on TikTok (The Care-Led Innovator)
TikTok we discussed in the episode!

Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


The Power of Conversation in Estate Planning with HeirLight Founder, Jermaine Ee07 avr. 202600:29:37

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In this episode, Jermaine Ee shares his journey of building HeirLight, a tool that transforms difficult conversations about estate planning into meaningful storytelling...and a legal document! Discover how technology can facilitate family discussions, honor loved ones' stories, and simplify legal planning, all rooted in real human connection.

This is about tech, but more than that, Jermaine shares his heartfelt story about how having conversations with his mother and grandmother inspired him to do the hard work of creating HeirLight. 

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Use  this link to get 50% off HeirLight (just for podcast listeners!)

Watch video of Jermaine & his mom here.

Learn more about technology in caregiving from a caregiver's perspective on my website.

Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Revolutionizing Care: How Care2U Brings ER-Level Treatment to Your Home30 mars 202600:27:43

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In this episode, healthcare executive and caregiver Lon Hecht shares insights on high acuity care at home through Care2U, the importance of timely intervention, and how innovative healthcare models are transforming caregiving and patient outcomes.

Topics

  • High acuity care in the home
  • Care2U's model and services
  • The importance of timely intervention and avoiding hospital visits
  • Collaboration with primary care and specialists
  • Privacy and data security in healthcare services


Resources
Care2U Official Website 




Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Advocating Personalized Care & Workplace Support for Caregivers with Brooke Holmes, American Senior Home Finders10 mars 202600:38:39

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In this episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, host Jeanette Yates welcomes Brooke Holmes, CEO of American Senior Home Finders. They discuss the challenges caregivers face, the importance of personalized care, and the need for workplace support for caregivers. Brooke shares her unique journey into senior care and how her company helps families navigate complex decisions around aging. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding caregiver guilt, raising awareness, and the need for workplace flexibility to support caregivers effectively.

Takeaways

Caregivers often feel guilt and fear when making decisions.

Personalized care is essential for the well-being of aging loved ones.

Workplace support for caregivers is crucial as many are balancing jobs and caregiving responsibilities.

Understanding when to seek help is a common concern for caregivers.

Advocacy for caregiver awareness is necessary in the workplace.

Caregivers need to communicate their needs to employers for better support.

The importance of maintaining routines for aging loved ones cannot be overstated.

Education about caregiving should be provided in workplaces.

Caregivers should not feel ashamed of their role; it’s a part of life.

Building connections with other caregivers can alleviate feelings of isolation.

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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Building Family Support Systems: With "Stay At Home Grandbaby" Jazmyn Rivers03 mars 202600:30:53

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In this episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, Jeanette Yates and Jazmyn Rivers discuss the multifaceted journey of caregiving, focusing on family dynamics, community support, and the role of technology. They explore the importance of intentional sharing on social media, the need for self-care among caregivers, and the innovations in care tech that can enhance the caregiving experience. The conversation emphasizes the significance of communication within families and the value of sharing caregiver stories to foster a supportive community.

Takeaways

* Caregiving is often a complex family dynamic that requires open communication.

* Regular family check-ins can help keep everyone informed and involved.

* Social media can be a powerful tool for sharing caregiving experiences.

* Intentional sharing on social media is crucial for maintaining dignity.

* Self-care is essential for caregivers to effectively support their loved ones.

* Learning from other caregivers can provide valuable insights and support.

* Technology can play a significant role in organizing caregiving tasks.

* Innovations in care tech are needed to improve the caregiving experience.

* Balancing privacy and accessibility in care tech is vital.

* Building a community around caregiving can help alleviate feelings of isolation.


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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Navigating AI Companions: Are They the Solution to Senior Loneliness?24 févr. 202600:25:10

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Quick Bonus Episode today based on this recent article on my blog

In this episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, I discuss the role of AI companions in alleviating loneliness among seniors and caregivers. I explore the benefits and risks associated with these technologies, emphasizing the importance of informed decision-making. I cover the emotional isolation faced by older adults, the potential for AI to provide companionship, and the critical privacy concerns that arise from using such tools. I also highlight manipulation tactics used by AI systems and the vulnerability of users with mental health challenges. I offer best-practice suggestions for caregivers to ensure AI companions are used safely and effectively while maintaining essential human connections.


Helpful Links:

NYT article

OpenAI statement on ads

Not Understanding AI? A Guide For Caregivers


Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Building Healthy Digital Relationships in Caregiving: A conversation with Offline.Now founder, Eli Singer17 févr. 202600:38:05

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In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates speaks with Eli Singer about the dual nature of technology in caregiving. They explore how digital tools can both support and hinder caregivers, emphasizing the importance of balance and self-awareness in technology use. Eli shares insights from his book and platform, Offline.Now, which aims to help individuals create healthier relationships with their devices. The conversation also touches on community building, the impact of AI, and the nuances of digital engagement, including the concepts of zombie scrolling and doom scrolling.

To learn more about Offline.Now, take their 2-minute “Phone Stress” quiz, head to the website here.

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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Navigating Tech Decisions When The Tech Keeps Changing | Ring Camera "Search Party" Considerations12 févr. 202600:12:26

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In this episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, Jeanette Yates discusses the emotional impact of technology on caregivers, with a particular focus on the Ring Search Party feature introduced in a Super Bowl ad. She emphasizes the importance of understanding how this technology works, the implications for privacy and dignity, and the need for caregivers to make informed choices that align with their values. The conversation also addresses the guilt caregivers may feel when making decisions about technology use and encourages open discussions within care circles.

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Challenges for Caregivers in AI Adoption with Billy Miranda, Licensed Therapist and Family Caregiver02 févr. 202600:40:46

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In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates speaks with Billy Miranda, a licensed therapist and caregiver, about the intersection of caregiving and technology, particularly artificial intelligence (AI). They discuss the emotional realities of caregiving, the potential benefits and ethical considerations of using AI tools, and the importance of self-care for caregivers. Billy shares his personal caregiving journey and insights into how AI can support mental health and caregiving tasks, while also emphasizing the need for awareness of privacy and compliance with regulations such as HIPAA. The conversation highlights the promise of AI in enhancing caregiver support while navigating its challenges.


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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


The Power of Communication in Caregiving: A Conversation with Caily Co-founder, Wynter Johnson20 janv. 202600:28:06

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In this episode of 'From Guilt to Good,' host Jeanette Yates talks with Wynter Johnson, co-founder of Caily, about communication challenges and solutions in caregiving. They discuss the inception of Caily, a platform designed to streamline caregiving tasks and improve communication among family members. Wynter shares personal stories that highlight the importance of effective communication and the role of safe technology in caregiving.

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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


The Ethics of Sharing Caregiving Advice Online with Stephanie Muskat, MSW05 janv. 202600:39:15

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In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates and Stephanie Muskat discuss the complexities of caregiving, with a particular focus on the emotional and mental health challenges caregivers face. Stephanie shares her personal journey as a caregiver and how it led her to create Compassion and Caregiving, a platform that supports caregivers. They delve into the importance of acknowledging feelings of guilt, shame, and grief, and how these emotions can impact caregiving. The conversation also touches on the role of content creation in the caregiving space, the ethics of sharing advice, and the need for professional support. Overall, the episode emphasizes the importance of community and understanding in the caregiving experience.

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In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


The Future of AI in Caregiving with Dr. Ashish Aggarwal of JubileeTV22 déc. 202500:32:01

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In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates interviews Dr. Ashish Aggarwal, founder of Jubilee TV, discussing the intersection of caregiving and technology. They explore personal caregiving experiences, the innovative features of Jubilee TV that enhance remote caregiving, and the transformative role of AI in improving the lives of caregivers and their aging loved ones. The conversation emphasizes the importance of technology in fostering social connections and reducing caregiver guilt, while also addressing the future of AI in personalizing care.

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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Navigating Elder Law and Estate Planning, Essential Insights for Caregivers with Michelangelo Mortellaro08 déc. 202500:37:41

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In this episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, Jeanette speaks with Michelangelo Mortellaro, an elder law attorney, about the critical aspects of caregiving, estate planning, and elder law. They discuss the importance of understanding the differences between elder law and general estate planning, the necessity of having the right legal documents in place, and the impact of Medicaid on asset protection. The conversation emphasizes the need for proactive planning to ensure that caregivers and their loved ones are prepared for future care needs, highlighting the emotional and financial benefits of proper estate planning.

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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


The Emotional Landscape of Caregiving with Mark J Ropeleski, host of The Caregivers Podcast24 nov. 202500:51:51

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In the latest episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, host Jeanette Yates sits down with Mark J Ropeleski , a seasoned physician and host of The Caregivers Podcast. Together, they explore the multifaceted nature of caregiving, reflecting on personal experiences and the often unspoken challenges that caregivers face. This conversation sheds light on the importance of self-care, the emotional complexities of caregiving, and the rationalizations we make that can hinder our well-being.

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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


The Hidden Struggles of Caregiving Youth with Dr. Connie Siskowski 10 nov. 202500:34:24

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In this episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, Jeanette Yates speaks with Dr. Connie Siskowski, founder of the American Association for Caregiving Youth (AACY). They discuss the challenges faced by youth caregivers, the impact of caregiving on education, and the importance of raising awareness and support for these children. Dr. Siskowski shares her personal caregiving journey and the research findings that highlight the need for resources and flexibility in schools for caregiving youth. The conversation emphasizes the importance of community support and advocacy to improve the lives of these young caregivers.

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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


From Guilt To Good Enough: An Introduction27 oct. 202500:14:16

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In this short episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, Jeanette Yates reads from her book, From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood Trauma

.  You can get your copy here: https://www.theselfcaregiver.com/book


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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Men Are Caregivers Too with Jeff Rossi13 oct. 202500:41:15

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In this episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, Jeanette Yates speaks with Jeff Rossi, caregiver for his elderly parents. They discuss the complexities of caregiving, including the emotional challenges, the balance between personal life and caregiving responsibilities, and the importance of advocacy. Jeff shares his personal journey, the guilt he sometimes feels, and the frustrations that arise in caregiving situations. They also address common myths about caregiving and emphasize the need for caregivers to maintain their own lives outside of their caregiving roles.

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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Understanding Temperament in Caregiving Relationships with Edla Prevette29 sept. 202500:56:55

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In this episode of From Guilt to Good, Jeanette Yates speaks with Edla Prevette, a licensed clinical mental health counselor and caregiver, about the complexities of caregiving, particularly the emotional and psychological challenges faced by caregivers. They discuss the importance of understanding temperament in caregiving relationships, the dynamics of role reversals between parents and children, and practical strategies for managing these relationships effectively. Edla shares insights from her own caregiving journey and emphasizes the need for self-care and communication in navigating the caregiving experience.


Key Takeaways

  • Caregiving often involves navigating complex family dynamics.
  • Understanding temperament can improve caregiver and care recipient relationships.
  • Self-regulation is crucial for effective caregiving.
  • Setting boundaries is essential for maintaining healthy relationships.
  • Communication strategies can help reduce power struggles in caregiving.
  • Planning ahead can alleviate stress during caregiving emergencies.
  • Caregivers should prioritize their own mental and emotional safety.
  • Building strong relationships with care recipients fosters cooperation.
  • Flexibility and adaptability are key traits in caregiving.
  • It's important to recognize and address the unique needs of each care recipient.

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FREE RESOURCES:

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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Caregiving For The Long Haul with Bernadette Evans15 sept. 202500:47:12

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In this episode of the From Guilt To Good podcast, host Jeanette Yates speaks with Bernadette Evans about the complexities of caregiving, particularly in the context of family dynamics and personal health. Bernadette shares her ten-year journey caring for her elderly parents, discussing the challenges of setting boundaries, the impact of sibling relationships, and the importance of self-care. The conversation emphasizes the need for caregivers to prioritize their own health and well-being while navigating the emotional landscape of caring for aging loved ones.

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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


We Have To Talk About Hospice (with Matthew Tyler, MD) 01 sept. 202500:38:25

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In this episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, host Jeanette Yates interviews Matthew Tyler, a dual board-certified physician in internal medicine and hospice and palliative care. They discuss the often misunderstood concepts of palliative and hospice care, emphasizing the importance of quality of life and support for both patients and caregivers. Matthew shares insights on how social media can educate the public about these services, the role of the family in caring for their loved ones, and the critical need for effective communication in healthcare. The conversation aims to empower caregivers with the knowledge and resources they need to navigate the complexities of caring for a loved one at near-end-of-life care.

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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


The Things No One Wants To Say About Caregiving with Nina McCollum18 août 202500:52:19

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When I first saw Nina on TikTok sharing the harsh realities of caregiving in a no-b.s. way, I KNEW I had to have her on the  From Guilt to Good podcast! Nina McCollum is a caregiver navigating the complexities of caring for her mother, and we discuss the emotional and physical challenges of caregiving, the importance of legal preparations, and the guilt often felt by caregivers. Nina shares openly about the impact of caregiving on her life, emphasizing the need for community support and understanding. Be warned! In this episode, we don't hold back. We talk about the realities of aging, the humor found in difficult situations, and the importance of self-care for caregivers.

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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


"It's Complicated" and other Caregiving Truths with Elizabeth Miller, The Happy Healthy Caregiver04 août 202500:43:32

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I met the GOAT!  In this week's episode, I chat with Elizabeth Miller, founder of Happy Healthy Caregiver. We talk about how complicated things can be, the challenges of guilt, and the need for community support. We also bust some myths about self-care, share realistic ideas for healthy routines, and get real about managing frustration while caring for loved ones. 

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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


The Healing Power of Hypnosis for Caregivers with Christina Honkonen, CH23 juil. 202500:31:47

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In this episode of From Guilt to Good, host Jeanette Yates discusses the transformative power of hypnosis in caregiving. Joined by certified consulting hypnotist Christina Honkonen, they explore the misconceptions surrounding hypnosis, its practical applications for stress relief and pain management, and the profound impact it can have on both caregivers and their loved ones. Jeanette shares personal anecdotes about her and her mom's experience working with Christina, highlighting the importance of finding joy in memories and navigating caregiver guilt.


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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Care, Court Cases, and Healing from Traumatic Caregiving Experiences02 juil. 202500:49:07

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In this episode of From Guilt to Good, host Jeanette Yates speaks with RubySam, a former caregiver based in the UK, and current energy medicine practitioner. RubySam shares her compelling caregiving journey, the challenges she faced, and the trauma that followed. They discuss the importance of self-care, the heart-brain-body connection, and how caregivers can reconnect with themselves amidst the demands of caregiving. Sam emphasizes the significance of mindfulness and listening to one's body as essential tools for healing and emotional health.

Learn more about RubySam's story and her work by going to her website.

Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Why Everyone (even you) Needs An Estate Plan with Adam Zuckerman16 juin 202500:28:25

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In this episode of the From Guilt to Good podcast, Jeanette Yates speaks with Adam Zuckerman, founder of Buried in Work, about the complexities of caregiving, estate planning, and the emotional challenges that come with end-of-life tasks. Adam shares his personal caregiving journey, the inspiration behind his company, and the importance of having a comprehensive estate plan. They discuss the need for open conversations about healthcare decisions and the resources available to help caregivers navigate these difficult topics. Adam emphasizes the importance of being proactive in organizing information to ease the burden on loved ones during stressful times.

Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Navigating Grief with Death Doula, Jen Venegas19 mai 202500:33:11

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In this episode of 'From Guilt to Good', I speak with Jen Venegas, a death doula and spiritual activist, about the complexities of caregiving and grief. 

She helps us understand the role of a death doula in providing emotional support during the dying process, the importance of legacy projects, and how to incorporate joy into the final days of life. I learned a lot during this conversation and I hope you do too!

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Check out the website to learn more about Jen and how grief and loss support services can help you.

Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


A Guide to Understanding Dementia with Morgan Donahue05 mai 202500:34:01

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In this episode of 'From Guilt to Good', I speak with Morgan Donahue, a dementia care expert, about the challenges caregivers face when caring for loved ones with dementia. We discuss the importance of understanding dementia, recognizing early signs, the significance of socialization, and the need for caregiver self-care. Morgan shares insights on navigating family dynamics and busts some myths about dementia. 


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Find out more about Morgan's work on her website.

Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Caregiving: The Blessing, The Burden, The Bat-💩 Crazy... We Spill It All21 avr. 202500:54:08

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In this conversation, Catherine Miguel shares her experiences as a caregiver for her mother. Her insights offer a candid glimpse into the realities of caregiving, and we discuss what we've lost and gained as caregivers, the "blessing" and burden, and the bat-💩 crazy parts of caregiving.



Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Boundaries, Burnout, and Caregiver Battles (and how to succeed!)07 avr. 202500:59:37

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"Even warriors know when to rest, " says Susanne White, founder of Caregiver Warrior. 

In this week's episode, Susanne and I share our experiences and insights into our caregiving stories. 

We discuss:

  • the emotional complexities of caregiving
  • the challenges of codependency
  • the importance of self-awareness
  • the necessity of setting boundaries for self-care
  • the reality of caregiver burnout
  • the need for caregivers to reevaluate promises made to loved ones regarding care options. 

And so much more! 

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TikTok: Jeanette & Susanne

Websites: Jeanette & Susanne

Buy the BOOK(s)!:

From Guilt To Good Enough by Jeanette Yates

Self-Care for Caregivers by Susanne White

Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Two caregivers, one podcast, and ZERO filter...Welcome to the NEW From Guilt To Good Enough Podcast26 mars 202501:01:35

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Welcome to the NEW season and format of From Guilt To Good!

In this conversation,  host Jeanette Yates and fellow caregiver Joanna, discuss the challenges and emotional toll of caregiving, particularly in the context of dementia. 

We talk about:

-the importance of community support

-the complexities of navigating legal and financial aspects

-the need for mindfulness in caregiving. 


Grab your copy of Jeanette's best-selling book, From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood Trauma:  https://www.theselfcaregiver.com/book

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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Unmasking EFT Tapping - An Emotional Stress Buster for Caregivers12 août 202400:36:28

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[This episode was originally aired in November 2023. As one of our top episodes, we decided to share it with you now while we take a recording break!]

Unmasking EFT Tapping - An Emotional Stress Buster for Caregivers

Dive into the world of EFT tapping with our host Jeanette Yates and certified EFT professional, Denise Kleinman, in this insightful episode of 'From Guilt to Good: Self-Care Solutions for Busy Caregivers.' 

Discover how 'emotional acupuncture,' as EFT is often dubbed, can radically aid self-care practices, particularly for caregivers. Listen as Denise illustrates her personal journey with EFT, its healing potential, and its ease of integration into daily routines. 

Covering practical tips, expert insights, and heartfelt stories, this episode demystifies EFT as an effective, holistic means of self-care. A must-listen for caregivers seeking alternative self-care methods!

View the video of the EFT Tapping demonstration with Denise and Jeanette

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Learn more about Denise's work: TapIntuition

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At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Beating Burnout with Boundaries (with Guest Jason Young)06 août 202400:40:20

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[This episode was originally aired in November 2023. As one of our top episodes, we decided to share it with you now while we take a recording break!]

Jason Young, is a nationally recognized consultant and leadership guide, keynote speaker, best-selling author, and university professor. He has over 25 years of experience working alongside well-respected churches and companies, a doctoral degree in hospitality, and is currently working on his Ph.D. in leadership trauma. And THIS is why I asked him to join us today. Jason recently wrote a book, Don’t Burn Out, Burn Bright, focusing on pastors and ministry leaders and how they can perform their roles well without exhaustion, discouragement, and burnout. While caregivers aren’t pastors, we certainly have much in common as both roles focus on caring for others. We’ll discuss how burnout happens to people serving and leading others and what we need to do so we can not burn out but burn bright.


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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Coming in August: The Top 5 Self-Care & Caregiving Expert Interviews Playlist29 juil. 202400:00:50

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Hey there!
Coming up in August, enjoy 5 weeks of my top interviews with self-care and caregiving experts to help you kick guilt and self-doubt, feel confident in caregiving, and start giving yourself the same love and care you give others.

You'll learn about:

  • Compassion Fatigue
  • Burnout & Boundary-setting
  • Nutrition & Fitness
  • Stress-busting techniques

and more!

While we are on a recording break, I'll be sharing my caregiving and burnout recovery journey on my Instagram as I work on editing my upcoming book coming out this fall.
Follow me on Instagram and let's stay connected here.


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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


3 Effective Emergency Plans for Caregivers: Ensuring Care and Self-Care During Crises22 juil. 202400:41:08

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In this episode of "Feeling Full & Finally Free," Jeanette Yates emphasizes the importance of comprehensive emergency plans for caregivers, whether caring for their loved ones at home or taking a well-deserved break. 

Learn how to identify potential emergencies, establish emergency contacts, and implement immediate actions during crises. 

Discover the benefits of a communication plan, having essential documents ready, and practicing self-care during and after a crisis. 

Jeanette also shares a self-care checklist to help caregivers maintain their well-being during challenging times.


Show Notes:

Summary: Jeanette Yates shares valuable insights on the importance of having detailed emergency plans for caregivers. Whether you're with your care recipient or taking a break, these plans ensure that your loved one receives the necessary care and that you maintain peace of mind. The episode covers identifying potential emergencies, establishing emergency contacts, and taking immediate action during crises. Jeanette emphasizes the need for communication plans and keeping essential documents accessible. Plus, she provides a self-care checklist to help caregivers care for themselves during and after a crisis. 

Takeaways:

  • Creating a detailed emergency plan is essential for caregivers.
  • Identify potential emergencies and have a list of trusted emergency contacts.
  • Establish a communication plan to stay informed and updated during a crisis.
  • Keep essential documents like medical records, insurance information, and advance directives accessible.
  • Practice self-care during and after a crisis to maintain well-being and resilience.

Sound Bites:

  • "Having an emergency plan in place ensures that your loved one gets the care they need while you maintain peace of mind."
  • "Whether you're with your care recipient or taking a break, identify reliable backup caregivers and provide them with detailed care plans."
  • "During a crisis, taking care of yourself is just as important as taking care of your loved one."

Links and Resources:


Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


How to Actually Enjoy Your "Break" from Caregiving: Setting Boundaries and Practicing Mindfulness15 juil. 202400:32:36

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Summary

Jeanette shares her personal story about going on vacation while her mom was hospitalized. She discusses how setting boundaries, practicing mindfulness, and using positive self-talk helped her relax and be present with her family. Jeanette also emphasizes the importance of intuitive self-care and how it contributed to a more memorable vacation. She encourages caregivers to prioritize their own well-being and seek help when needed.

Takeaways

  • Setting boundaries and practicing mindfulness can help caregivers relax and be present with their families.
  • Positive self-talk can combat guilt and worry and remind caregivers of their own worth and the importance of self-care.
  • Intuitive self-care, such as listening to one's body and prioritizing rest and nourishment, contributes to a more enjoyable vacation.
  • Caregivers should prioritize their own well-being and seek help when needed.


Resources:
Say No and Mean It Boundaries Workshop
Mindfulness of Breath Videos (access through Facebook Group)
Intuitive Self-Care Workbook

Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Understanding The 3 Types of Boundaries To Use So That You Get The Break You Need07 juil. 202400:27:51

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In this episode, Jeanette discusses the importance of setting boundaries as a caregiver and focuses explicitly on different types of boundaries that come into play when taking a break. She explains the physical, time, and emotional/mental boundaries and how they all work together to provide a true respite. Jeanette provides practical steps for setting boundaries, such as communicating with the person you care for and scheduling your break on your calendar. She also offers strategies for overcoming worry and guilt during your break, including practicing mindfulness, reflecting on past successful breaks, and seeking support from friends and family. Jeanette concludes with a guided meditation to help caregivers release worry and guilt and fully enjoy their breaks.

Takeaways

  • Setting boundaries is essential to caregiving and allows caregivers to enjoy their breaks fully.
  • When taking a break, different types of boundaries should be considered, including physical, time, and emotional/mental boundaries.
  • Practical steps for setting boundaries include communicating with the person you care for and scheduling your break on your calendar.
  • Strategies for overcoming worry and guilt during your break include practicing mindfulness, reflecting on past successful breaks, and seeking support from friends and family.
  • Taking care of yourself is not only okay but also necessary for effective caregiving.




Resources:
Meditation Script:  "No Worry / No Guilt" (BONUS* This link allows you to sign up for my Hit Pause & Press On Guided Meditation Series! In addition to the No Worry, No Guilt Script, you'll get access to additional 5-minute guided meditations made just for you!)

Workshop:  “Say No and Mean It Without Being Mean”

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Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


How Setting Healthy Boundaries Helps Caregivers Make Better Decisions | Tips for Reducing Guilt and Stress01 juil. 202400:36:57

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In this episode of "Feeling Full & Finally Free," Jeanette Yates explores the importance of setting healthy boundaries for caregivers.

She shares her recent experience of making critical decisions for her mom in the ICU and how boundaries have helped her make confident choices without the weight of guilt.

Learn practical steps to establish boundaries, the role of self-care, and how to let go of worry and doubt.

There’s still time to join the Summer Book Club to learn more about boundary-setting and self-care. Discover how boundaries and self-care empower you to navigate caregiving challenges with clarity and peace.

Resources Mentioned In Episode:
The Self-Caregiver Community Facebook Group

Hit Pause & Press On (Meditations to Keep You Grounded when the Bottom Drops Out!)

Boundaries Workshop (Say NO! and Mean It, Without Being Mean)

Connect with Jeanette on Instagram



Feeling overwhelmed by caregiving? 

In From Guilt to Good Enough, Jeanette Yates offers a powerful guide for struggling caregivers. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her healing journey, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life.

Grab your copy TODAY!

Support the show

NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Setting Healthy Boundaries As An Adult Caregiver of Aging Parents24 juin 202400:14:25

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In this episode of “Feeling Full & Finally Free,” Jeanette Yates discusses setting healthy boundaries for adult caregivers. 

Using her "blueprint" strategy, Jeanette guides listeners through self-awareness, self-advocacy, and self-assertion to establish effective boundaries. 

This episode incorporates insights from boundary experts Henry Cloud, John Townsend, and Melody Beattie. It offers practical steps and encouraging wisdom to help caregivers create balanced, fulfilling lives. 

Don’t miss the invitation to join the Summer Book Club starting June 25, where we will explore Melody Beattie’s "The New Codependency." Tune in to learn how to care for your loved ones while maintaining your own well-being.


Join the Summer Book Club!
Download The Boundary Blueprint Workbook

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Healthy Caregiving vs. Enabling: What's the difference? 16 juin 202400:19:11

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The other day, I posted a 15-second clip on TikTok that went viral. Some people were so thankful for my quick thoughts, and others said I was a really big jerk! 

What was all the fuss about? Sometimes, what we think of as caregiving is really enabling behavior. 

In this week's episode, we explore the fine line between supporting and caring for our loved ones without detriment to ourselves or shirking our caregiving responsibilities. 

And I’ll be giving more context to explain the difference between healthy acts of care and those that can potentially be enabling and harmful to our loved ones and us.


Let’s dive into how we can support our loved ones in ways that empower them rather than undermine their independence and well-being.

Continue the conversation in The Self-Caregiver Facebook Group.

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Join the SUMMER BOOK CLUB!


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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


Understanding Codependency in Caregiving10 juin 202400:18:10

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In this special episode of "Feeling Full & Finally Free," host Jeanette Yates delves into codependency and its profound impact on caregiving relationships. Drawing inspiration from Melody Beattie’s transformative work, Jeanette offers listeners a clear understanding of codependency, how it manifests, and why it matters.

Discover the common signs of codependency, such as over-responsibility, boundary issues, and the need for control. Hear her personal stories and real examples that resonate with the journey of caregivers who often find their identity tied to their caregiving roles.

Jeanette also shares steps to recognize and overcome codependency, emphasizing the importance of setting healthy boundaries, prioritizing self-love and self-care, and seeking professional support when needed.

And don’t miss the exciting announcement about the upcoming *Summer Book Club* starting on June 25, where Jeanette and listeners will explore Melody Beattie’s book, "The New Codependency," together.

Join the Summer Book Club Today!

Join us for this eye-opening episode, encouraging caregivers to reclaim their lives and embrace a journey toward healing, fulfillment, and freedom.

Tune in and take the first step towards healing your wounds, overcoming burnout, and living your life guilt-free!

Other Resources Mentioned:

Boundaries Workshop: "Say NO and Mean It Without Being Mean"

FREE>>SELF-CARE CAPACITY QUIZ

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NOW AVAILABLE! From Guilt To Good Enough: A Caregiver’s Journey of Overcoming Burnout Through Healing Childhood by Jeanette Yates. Having been a caregiver for her mother since childhood, Jeanette knows firsthand the emotional toll caregiving can take. In this memoir-turned-self-help guide, she shares her journey of healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her life. Click here to purchase your copy!



At The Self-Caregiver LLC we guide women caring for their aging parents overcome burnout and release guilt to create more freedom and fulfillment in their life. 

We believe you cannot give more of yourself until you heal the wounds, replenish your being and reconnect to the fullness of who you are, embracing the purpose you‘ve been called to live. 


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