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| Respecting Your Spouse’s Brain Wiring | 10 nov. 2026 | 00:09:55 | |
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| Communication Mistakes Spouses Make | 05 nov. 2026 | 00:13:09 | |
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| How Often Should We be Intimate? | 03 nov. 2026 | 00:12:11 | |
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| The Key to a Closer Marriage | 29 oct. 2026 | 00:10:40 | |
What if the thing you're most afraid to share with your spouse is exactly what could bring you closer together? Ryan and Selena Frederick join Jim Daly to talk about how honesty and vulnerability transformed their marriage — from buried childhood shame to a deeper emotional connection than ever before. | |||
| Identifying Abuse in Marriage | 27 oct. 2026 | 00:09:45 | |
Today, counselor Darby Strickland helps us unpack the difficult topic of domestic abuse. Learn how to distinguish between normal conflict and a pattern of coercive control, recognize the signs of emotional and verbal abuse, and find out when and how to get help. | |||
| Rebuilding Trust in Marriage | 22 oct. 2026 | 00:16:11 | |
When trust is broken in a marriage can it ever be restored? John Fuller sits down with Dr. Greg Smalley and Dr. Erin Smalley to explore how couples can move past broken trust and toward healing. They share practical wisdom from Dr. Henry Cloud on unprompted transparency, self-trust, and the ongoing work of repair. Get "Trust" free with your gift Learning to Build Healthy Trust
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| Why Boundaries Make Your Marriage Stronger | 20 oct. 2026 | 00:14:06 | |
When you hear "boundaries in marriage," it might sound like building walls between you and your spouse. But what if the right boundaries actually keep your hearts more open? In this episode, John Fuller sits down with Greg and Erin Smalley to unpack why healthy boundaries are essential for emotional safety in marriage, from protecting your couple time to maintaining financial transparency and avoiding harmful opposite-sex friendships. Then, Dr. John Townsend, explains the biblical case for boundaries. How To Set Healthy Boundaries In Your Marriage
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| Navigating Grief Together in Your Marriage | 15 oct. 2026 | 00:10:40 | |
Grief is inevitable in every marriage — but how you and your spouse process loss can look very different. In this episode, Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley join John Fuller to explore how couples can support each other through grief, even when their coping styles and timelines don't match. Holding On to Love After You’ve Lost a Baby Embracing Hope and Love After a Loss
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| From Critic to Cheerleader: The Power of Encouraging Your Spouse | 13 oct. 2026 | 00:08:50 | |
We're wired to crave our spouse's affirmation more than anyone else's, yet too often, we become their chief critic. In this episode, Dave and Ann Wilson share a candid story about the moment Ann realized her husband needed encouragement, not criticism, and how that shift transformed their marriage. Dr. Greg and Dr. Aaron Smalley unpack what true biblical encouragement looks like and how understanding your spouse's unique encouragement "language" can breathe life back into your relationship. How to Speak Life to Your Husband Revive Your Marriage By Becoming Your Husband’s Biggest Cheerleader | |||
| When You Feel Like Married Roommates: Overcoming Emotional Disconnection | 08 oct. 2026 | 00:11:55 | |
Up to 70% of couples in counseling say they feel emotionally disconnected from their spouse. In this episode, Jim Daly opens up about the blind spots that cost him his first marriage, and Jim Turner shares what it looks like for men to finally lean in emotionally. Dr. Greg and Dr. Erin Smalley unpack the pursuer-withdrawer dynamic, explain how to spot your spouse's bids for connection, and offer practical steps you can take today even if your partner isn't on board yet. Dealing with Emotional Disconnection in Marriage
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| Finding the Root of Your Anger and Worry | 06 oct. 2026 | 00:13:29 | |
When anger flares or worry takes over, there's usually something deeper underneath. John Fuller, Dr. Greg, and Erin Smalley unpack a conversation with counselor Debra Fileta about what's really driving our emotions and share practical habits to help couples connect beneath the surface. | |||
| Beyond the Bruises: Naming the Abuse You Can't See | 01 oct. 2026 | 00:09:09 | |
This month's theme is emotional safety. John Fuller, Dr. Greg and Dr. Erin Smalley, and guest Karen DeArmond Garner unpack the many forms abuse can take physical, verbal, and emotional why it's so hard to recognize, and how faith has been misused to keep victims trapped. A compassionate guide toward help and healing. Hope for Healing from Domestic Abuse Finding Hope In The Aftermath Of Domestic Violence (Digital Download) | |||
| Plan for a Successful Marriage | 29 sept. 2026 | 00:11:09 | |
No couple signs up to lose at marriage but without a game plan, many marriages drift. In this episode, John Fuller and Dr. Greg Smalley talk with George and Tondra Gregory, authors of The Marriage Game Plan, about a five-part strategy for marital success. From defining what "winning" looks like to knowing your opponents and creating vision together, this conversation offers practical hope for couples at every stage even those who feel hopelessly behind at halftime. | |||
| If You're Teammates with Different Personalities | 24 sept. 2026 | 00:12:56 | |
Your spouse's differences aren't a bug, they're a feature. Kathi Lipp and Sheri Gregory, authors of Overwhelmed, join the Focus on the Family Marriage podcast to explore how personality differences—expressives vs. analytics, introverts vs. extroverts, can clash in marriage yet ultimately complement each other when couples learn to value what each brings to the table. Discover why the traits that first attracted you are the ones that later drive you crazy, and how honest conversations and the right perspective can turn frustration into appreciation | |||
| Staying a Team When Kids Come | 22 sept. 2026 | 00:12:26 | |
Children are a blessing — but they're also one of the biggest disruptors a marriage will face. In this episode of the Focus on the Family Marriage Podcast, host John Fuller sits down with Dr. Greg and Dr. Erin Smalley to discuss how couples can protect their relationship amid the chaos of parenting, navigate disagreements about roles and responsibilities, and stay unified when their parenting styles differ. You'll also hear a candid and humorous conversation Jim Daly had with Pat and Ruth Schwenk, authors of For Better or For Kids, about the unpredictable early years of raising kids — including one unforgettable story involving a yellow umbrella and a Michigan football game — and why fighting for your marriage matters in every season of parenthood | |||
| Love that Fuels Decision Making | 17 sept. 2026 | 00:09:52 | |
Teamwork takes intentionality. No matter how hard it gets, it's worth the effort. Erin Smalley shares some exciting news about how teamwork has paid off in her marriage. Then, Dr. Randy Schroeder joins Jim Daly to give couples a framework for encouraging each other in your daily lives. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| Jesus Can Restore a Broken Team | 15 sept. 2026 | 00:10:42 | |
Do you wish you could go back to the way things were? Have you lost hope? There is good news. Jim Daly joins Vicki Rose to share how God worked in her heart during a separation period with her husband Bill. At the end, Greg Smalley will explain why it's not too late for you and your spouse to be restored. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| Creating Emotional Safety So You Can Work Together | 10 sept. 2026 | 00:09:38 | |
Without feeling emotionally safe, it's hard to work together as a couple. Josh Straub and his wife Christi talk to Jim Daly about how he learned to make her feel seen and heard. Also, Greg opens up about why it's so meaningful when Erin encourages him. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| What Makes a Marriage Happy | 08 sept. 2026 | 00:12:58 | |
What if you could make your marriage happier? Shaunti Feldhahn joins Jim Daly to share research findings on what happy couples do. Also, if your spouse is getting on your nerves, John and the Smalley's will encourage you to assume the best. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| If a Spouse is Misusing Money | 03 sept. 2026 | 00:15:41 | |
Are you and your mate struggling to work together on money? Chuck and Ann Bentley share with Jim Daly how they struggled to communicate about their finances for two decades. Also, Greg and Erin provide some ideas for couples can get on the same page with your money. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| 3 Tips for Better Conversations with Your Spouse | 01 sept. 2026 | 00:14:18 | |
What if you and your spouse had regular conversations that left you feeling encouraged? Bill and Pam Farrel talk with Jim Daly about how to do something called a marriage meet up. Then, Erin and Greg explain why scheduling time to talk together can lead to greater marital satisfaction. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| Facing Past Trauma | 27 août 2026 | 00:12:12 | |
Many times, when people make poor choices, it might be rooted in some unresolved past trauma. Justin and Trisha Davis talk with Jim Daly about learning to forgive some of the bad decisions their parents made. Also, John and the Smalley's will encourage you to be honest if you've made a bad choice and seek appropriate help. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| Finding Stability in a Tough Season | 25 août 2026 | 00:12:39 | |
How do you get along with your mate when circumstances are tough? Jeff and Sarah Walton have faced a number of challenges, and they speak with Jim Daly on some things they've learned. Then, Greg and Erin discuss what it means for a couple to give their struggles to the Lord. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| Your Spouse Isn’t a Mind-Reader | 20 août 2026 | 00:09:02 | |
It's best to listen to your spouse instead of assuming you already know what he or she thinks. Dr. Randy Schroeder speaks with Jim Daly about the need to tell your spouse what you're actually thinking. You'll also hear Greg and Erin discuss how you can better communicate with your mate if you've had trouble doing so. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| Indicators for Blended Family Success | 18 août 2026 | 00:11:01 | |
Learning to adapt well as a blended family is not a simple process. Jim Daly talks with Ron Deal on some of the top stressors in blended marriages. Then, Greg and Erin encourage all couples to deal with issues when they're small before they turn into something problematic. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| Midlife Doesn’t Have to be a Crisis | 13 août 2026 | 00:14:12 | |
What if the midlife years of your marriage could be some of the richest? Bill and Pam Farrel share how to do some healthy life reflections in the middle years. Then, Erin Smalley encourages you and your mate to have a vision for your current season of life. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| When an Unfaithful Spouse Confesses | 11 août 2026 | 00:13:43 | |
If one or both spouses have been unfaithful, it's a horrible betrayal to the marriage. Tim and Kathy Bush join Jim Daly to share how they survived a time where both of them had been unfaithful in the relationship. Also, Erin Smalley discusses some of the key indicators that a marriage will make it, even if there's been infidelity. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| Learning to See the Positive | 06 août 2026 | 00:14:57 | |
If your mate is getting on your nerves, it's good to pause and focus on their best qualities. Ted Lowe joins Jim Daly to give couples a framework on seeing the best in each other. Plus, John and the Smalley's share about how you need to have honest and constructive conversations, even if your mate is bugging you. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| The Merge Moment | 04 août 2026 | 00:15:40 | |
How do you learn to accept the differences between you and your mate even when they rub you the wrong way? John and the Smalley's open up about times they've worked through annoyances in their own marriages. Plus, Joey and Kari Stageberg tell Jim Daly a funny story about how cleaning a sink created a misunderstanding. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| A Thoughtful Conversation Goes a Long Way | 30 juil. 2026 | 00:09:07 | |
When your spouse is getting on your nerves, it's good to remember the qualities that attracted you to him or her. Karen Leann Murphy joins Jim Daly to share how she reminded herself of the good things about her husband. Also, John, Greg and Erin discuss how dating and engaged couples can focus on the best in their potential mate before they walk the aisle. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| Focus on the Good Qualities | 28 juil. 2026 | 00:10:05 | |
When your spouse is getting on your nerves, it's good to remember the qualities that attracted you to him or her. Karen Leann Murphy joins Jim Daly to share how she reminded herself of the good things about her husband. Also, John, Greg and Erin discuss how dating and engaged couples can focus on the best in their potential mate before they walk the aisle. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| Be Slow to Speak | 23 juil. 2026 | 00:12:29 | |
When tension is high, how do you avoid saying something to your spouse that you'll end up regretting? Deborah Pegues and Jim Daly offer some helpful thoughts on what it means and looks like to control your tongue. Then, the Smalley's share how to calm down and get collected even when an argument gets intense. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| Learning to Work in Tandem | 21 juil. 2026 | 00:09:57 | |
When conflict arises, does one of you tend to get aggressive, and does the other withdraw? Dr. Josh and Christi Straub talk with Jim and Jean Daly about how to recognize your patterns in conflict and how you can handle arguments in a more constructive way. Plus, Greg and Erin offer some helpful advice on how to recognize if you're playing the victim in marital conflict. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| Overcoming Financial Feuding | 16 juil. 2026 | 00:14:56 | |
Money is one of the biggest reasons couples fight. Erin and Greg Smalley discuss how a tennis ball can sparked a big fight between them. Also, Jim Daly talks to Chuck and Ann Bentley about how Chuck repented of idolizing money. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| Making Good Marital Choices | 14 juil. 2026 | 00:13:45 | |
How do you know if you're actually making the best decisions for your marriage? We don't always get it right. Greg Smalley opens up about some mistakes he made and how he learned from them. You'll also hear Dr. Ron Welch and his wife Jan speak to Jim Daly about something they call "unspoken truths," and how they can influence your choices. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY | |||
| Building Boundaries With In-Laws | 09 juil. 2026 | 00:11:27 | |
What do you do if your in-laws are making things difficult for you and your spouse? Drs. John Townsend and Henry Cloud talk with Jim Daly about how to respond if an in-law is pressuring you to do things that hinder you from prioritizing your marriage. Plus, Greg Smalley describes how he's learned to focus more on his marriage while not relying on his parents as much. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. | |||
| Navigating Inevitable Conflict | 07 juil. 2026 | 00:09:36 | |
When the tension is high in your marriage, how do you and your spouse work through it? Fawn Weaver and Jim Daly share about ways you can de-escalate an argument with your mate. Then, Erin and Greg open up about how they've learned to get better at working through a conflict as a team. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY Focus on Marriage Assessment Take the Reactive Cycle Assessment Counseling Consultation and Referrals
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| When You’re Not Getting Along with In-Laws | 02 juil. 2026 | 00:12:54 | |
In-law relationships can be some of the most complex after you get married. Dr. Gary Chapman joins Jim Daly to talk about responding in a Christ-like manner when your in-laws are not treating you fairly. Also, Erin Smalley discusses how this is a common issue for a lot of couples, and why you're not alone if this is your story.
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Becoming Friends With Your In-Laws
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| What Do You Appreciate About Your Mate? | 30 juin 2026 | 00:11:14 | |
What would happen in your marriage if you simply told your spouse what you love about them? Kathy Lipp joins Jim Daly to share about an experiment she and her church did with couples. Then, Erin Smalley discusses the difference that giving your spouse regular compliments can make.
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Fun Ways to Pep Up Your Marriage
Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage
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| 4 Simple Things You Can Do | 25 juin 2026 | 00:10:58 | |
What if your marriage was only a small adjustment away from going to the next level? Scott and Vanessa Martindale talk to Jim Daly about 4 things you can do that'll keep the communication strong with your spouse. Also, Greg Smalley breaks down why simple habits add up over time.
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Redeeming Your Blended Marriage
Conversation Starters for Date Nights
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| Building Trust & Friendship | 23 juin 2026 | 00:11:16 | |
Just like your house needs a solid foundation, your marriage needs trust. Dr. Henry Cloud joins Jim Daly to share about why showing empathy is required for building trust. Then, Erin Smalley explains why trust is necessary for having a deeper friendship with your spouse.
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Learning to Build Healthy Trust
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| What Every Woman Wants from a Man | 18 juin 2026 | 00:13:47 | |
Every wife longs to feel safe in her marriage. Jim Daly and Brant Hansen discuss why women find it so attractive if a man seeks to protect them. Also, Greg Smalley talks about how men need to step up and take responsibility for leading their wives well
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Being the Man Your Family Needs
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| The Male & Female Brains | 16 juin 2026 | 00:13:25 | |
Men and women tend to respond to stress and situations very differently. Jim Daly and Gary Thomas address the differences in brain chemistry between husbands and wives. Then, John and the Smalley's discuss what a husband can do if a wife keeps bringing up the same problem in conversations.
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How to Positively Influence Your Husband
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| Accepting When Your Mate Says "No" | 11 juin 2026 | 00:13:09 | |
If you want a good relationship, you sometimes have to tell your spouse, "No." Arlene Pellicane talks about a time where she had to have a tough conversation with her husband on learning to accept her "No." Also, Greg and Erin share how working through tough scenarios can lead to better friendship with your mate.
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How To Avoid Bad Influences On Your Marriage
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| When Kids Get in the Way | 09 juin 2026 | 00:15:07 | |
Kids are a blessing, but they also require you to be more intentional to spend time with your spouse. John and the Smalley's open up about times they felt disconnected in their marriages when raising children. Plus, Jim Daly talks to Dave and Ashley Willis about making time for dates with your spouse, even if you have little kids.
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How To Avoid Bad Influences On Your Marriage
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| Dates Don’t Need to be Expensive | 04 juin 2026 | 00:09:21 | |
What if some of the best date nights didn't cost money? Jim Daly talks with Jay and Laura Laffoon about how you can have a wonderful date with your spouse for not much money. Also, John asks Greg and Erin how they're learning to still have dates together, in a season with grown adult children.
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Discovering God's Design for Your Marriage
Is Your Husband or Wife Your Best Friend?
3 Ways to Create a Godly Marriage
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| Your Spouse is Still Your Friend | 02 juin 2026 | 00:14:36 | |
Are you and your mate best friends? Howard and Danielle Taylor join Jim Daly to make the case for why friendship in marriage is necessary for a thriving relationship. Then, Dr. Greg Smalley shares the most important thing you can do to keep your friendship alive.
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Discovering God's Design for Your Marriage
Is Your Husband or Wife Your Best Friend?
3 Ways to Create a Godly Marriage
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| P.L.A.N. for a Better Marriage | 27 mai 2026 | 00:14:03 | |
What if a small change you made had the biggest impact on your marriage? Marcus Warner and Chris Coursey share four steps you can take to improve your relationship. Also, Greg and Erin explain why it's good to make time for having fun, even if you are very busy.
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Filling Your Marriage With Joy
Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage
Unhappy Marriage? Fix it With These Simple Habits for Marital Happiness
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| The Needs of Military Spouses | 25 mai 2026 | 00:10:34 | |
Today, we honor the sacrifices of our military and spouses of veterans. Erin Smalley shares some of the statistics of how military families battle loneliness. You'll also hear from Jessica Manfre, who joins Jim Daly to share about how you can reach out to those serving in the armed forces.
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Hope and Encouragement for Military Families
Counseling Consultation and Referrals
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| When Your Spouse Needs to Get Healthier | 21 mai 2026 | 00:11:54 | |
What do you do if your spouse is making unhealthy lifestyle choices? Dave Willis talks with Jim Daly about how his wife Ashley encouraged him to go to the doctor and deal with his health issues. Plus, Greg and Erin address how to respond well if you've tried talking to your mate about their diet and lifestyle, but he or she hasn't listened yet.
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Taking a Health Journey With Your Spouse
Counseling Consultation and Referrals
Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage
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