Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast – Details, episodes & analysis

This week, Ali & Erica are answering short-form listener questions, rapid fire style. We take turns asking each other things like: is it ever okay to be sexual in your dating app profile? Can you be friends with a past situationship? Is it better to be good on paper or have good chemistry? And are people ever actually bad texters, or do they just not like you that much? Plus many more!

In Updates, Erica explores a new app designed to meet people in person while Ali winds down at work and hangs out with Skyline’s friends without him.

Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 26.

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It’s our first time doing Ask A 40-Something Man, featuring Erica’s good friend and standup comedian Charles McBee. We asked our listeners: “What’s something you’ve always wanted to ask a man?” and y’all did not disappoint! Tune in for Charles’s thoughts things like: moving on after a breakup, how much men share with their friends, and whether you can tell your partner you don’t like their gifts.

In Updates, Erica’s Don’t Tell Comedy set is live!! Thanks to all of you for the support. Ali navigates an emotional milestone with Skyline.

Where to find Charles: On Instagram @charlesmcbee, on TikTok @charlesmcbee, at www.charlesmcbee.com.

Timestamps: Charles joins us at around minute 31.

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We had so much fun talking about our past beliefs the other week that we’re bringing it back for a series including your submissions! We discuss submissions such as “your person will complete you,” “trying hard isn’t cool,” and “you should share many common hobbies with your partner.” Let us know if you like this series and submit more of your past beliefs for future episodes!

But first, Erica has an exciting first date with (new nickname alert) Tony Soprano and Ali has a heck of weekend with old friends, volleyball wins, and a fun day with Skyline. We also chat about NYC’s dating scene vs other cities, emotional hangovers, and a new spot to meet men in LA.

Timestamps: Topic talk begins at around minute 34.

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It’s a podcast collab between Ali & Roark and Adam & Evan of the “I’ll Be the Judge of That” pod. The four debate common dating scenarios and ask – “can you?” Like – can you get engaged at another person’s party? Can you tell a friend you don’t like their partner? How about sitting on the same side of the table on a first date? You’ll hear just about every perspective on this episode. During Updates, Roark doesn’t want to go on a date, but is then pleasantly surprised, and Ali attends a Chaotic Singles Party.

Timestamps: Adam & Evan join the podcast at around minute 27.

Where to find Adam & Evan: listen to their podcast I’ll Be the Judge of That on any podcast platform, and follow them on Instagram @judgepod.

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Shockingly, Ali & Roark haven’t dedicated a podcast to the topic of cheating yet. Today changes that. They start by discussing a well-known dating question: once a cheater always a cheater? And then address listener questions such as how to not bring past cheating trauma to new partners, how to bring up suspicions of cheating with your partner, and when to tell someone you have suspicions of their partner. But first, Ali & Roark share a very big announcement regarding the podcast.

Timestamps: Myth Busters and Topic Talk begins at around minute 34.

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Ali & Roark can’t resist recording a super-sized episode when Therapy Jeff is the guest! Jeff joins the podcast for a Grab Bag episode that covers everything from the “ick” to the honeymoon phase to sleeping with someone “too early” to liking bad boys (and girls)! Of course, Jeff tackles all the questions like a pro. You won’t want to miss this one. During Updates, Roark goes to dinner with her Erewhon run-in, and Ali goes out with the Nomad. 

 

Timestamps: Jeff joins the podcast at around minute 29.

 

Where to find Jeff: @therapyjeff on TikTok and Instagram.

 

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Ali & Roark are doling out advice again on another Hot Topics episode. During Updates, Roark sees a friend on Bumble and shares bad news about The Writer; and Ali is scheduling dates now that she is illness free. Then, they answer listener questions about noticing a new dating prospect pulling away, feeling uncomfortable with a date’s alcohol consumption, and deciding whether to continue seeing someone when there is a complicated past. And finally, Roark introduces Ali to a new segment – adjudicating an “Am I The A**hole” post about a woman who fails to wake up her oversleeping boyfriend.

Timestamps: Mythbusters and Hot Topics begin at around minute 28.

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Ali records with author and financial expert Nicole Lapin this week. They talk about how finances can affect relationships and cover topics ranging from pre-nups, developing “FQ” (aka financial intelligence), and how to discuss your credit score, debt, and financial goals with your partner. During Updates, Roark describes her horse-girl adventure and Ali has to back-burner some dates due to illness. 

 

Timestamps: Nicole joins the show at around minute 28.

 

Where to find Nicole: at her website www.nicolelapin.com, and on Instagram @nicolelapin. Listen to her podcast “Money Rehab,” and of course, buy her books on Amazon and anywhere books are sold.

 

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Thoughts and prayers to Ali & Roark this week as they wade into the murky waters of dating and finances. Money can be quite the taboo topic and they hope to start breaking that down by discussing sensitive questions like how to split finances, financial power dynamics and insecurities, and of course, they couldn’t not discuss the classic – who pays on a first date? Ali tells Roark about a first date and another one set up for next week; and for once, Roark is the one on another continent!

Timestamps: Weird or Nah and Topic Talk begin at around minute 29.

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Ali & Roark record another Hot Topics episode this week – which is perfect because Roark’s entire personality is complaining about the LA heat wave. Don’t worry, she also updates on the Writer. Ali also has some big home-related life updates and has a few Bumble irons in the fire. Instead of Weird or Nah this week, Ali tries to find how many people are weird like her and use the “grimace emoji” like she does. Then, Ali & Roark tackle three Hot Topics: asking your partner to plan more dates, handling a partner’s job opportunity in another country, and whether to date a virgin.

Timestamps: Hot Topics begin at around minute 41.

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