Explore every episode of the podcast Find Your Voice: How to Write When You're Not a Writer
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| Where I’ve Been | 23 Aug 2023 | 00:11:51 | |
It’s been more than two years since I last posted an episode to this show. Here’s a little update about where I’ve been and what I’m doing now. | |||
| Josh Harris on publishing regret and how to keep writing | 16 Sep 2021 | 00:39:47 | |
Have you ever voiced an idea or opinion, and then wished you could take it back? If you're familiar with Josh Harris, you might know him as the author of 1997 book, I Kissed Dating Goodbye, or its sequel, Boy Meets Girl. He has a lot of regret over these books and other writing. After moving on from his position as pastor and publicly deconstructing long-held religious beliefs, he now finds himself in a new role: coaching all kinds of people as they, too, learn to live authentically through change.
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| FYV Staff Picks: Summer Reads with Substance | 15 Jul 2021 | 00:32:22 | |
We're all about summer beach reads—but we also know that not everyone is looking for light poolside distraction. For those of you wanting a book with more substance this summer, our FYV Director of Operations, Ashley Scoby, has five recommendations. Ashley's background in is journalism and sportswriting. She’s written about Olympic athletes, covered a Final Four, and traveled to France to write about the 2019 Women’s World Cup. But on this episode of FYV staff picks, the conversation goes beyond sports to her many other interests: the failings of the American prison system, the significance of single women in our political system, and how important it is for every woman to find their own way in the world and to speak their truth.
*FYV uses affiliate links Mentioned in this episode: innocenceproject.org | |||
| Kirbee Miller on Writing While Balancing it All | 08 Jul 2021 | 00:47:00 | |
If you've ever thought, "I want to write a book, but I'm not sure if I have time for it," then may we introduce you to Kirbee Miller.
*FYV uses affiliate links | |||
| Shari Medini: Writing a Book with Your Friend | 01 Jul 2021 | 00:42:43 | |
So many people write to support their business and bolster their credibility. Sometimes, that book is a group project. | |||
| How to Overcome Writers Block and Other Secrets of the Creative Life | 24 Jun 2021 | 00:22:19 | |
Have you ever started a creative project and somewhere along the way become ... stuck? | |||
| Mary Marantz: How do I make my story interesting? | 17 Jun 2021 | 00:49:10 | |
If you have a dream of writing a personal story, but worry that your story isn't interesting, this episode is for you. | |||
| Amy Young on the Gift of Burnout | 10 Jun 2021 | 00:47:34 | |
So many of us are burnt out: but, for some of us, it's not our fault. We've been led to believe lies about what we need or what we should be — and it has us running in circles. | |||
| Seven Books Every Writer Should Own | 03 Jun 2021 | 00:25:23 | |
What books should I read as a writer? If you're a writer (or want to be), your bookshelf might need these: 3. The War of Art. Steven Pressfield addresses resistance in the creative life. 5. Stein on Writing. Sol Stein answers your questions on writing technique. 6. Bird by Bird. Anne Lamott's classic on writing and life. 7. If You Want to Write. Brenda Ueland on how everyone has an interesting perspective worth writing down. *FYV uses affiliate links. | |||
| Enuma Okoro: Writing as Soul Care | 27 May 2021 | 00:45:05 | |
If you've ever dreamt of having more than one writing desk, this episode is for you.
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| Laura Tremaine: what to do when you feel alone | 20 May 2021 | 00:44:53 | |
If so many of us feel lonely, what keeps us from reaching out to other people? | |||
| Katie Gustafson on how the Enneagram helps us rewrite our stories | 13 May 2021 | 00:41:35 | |
You may have heard of the Enneagram: the personality typing system that we mention fairly frequently on this show. This episode, therapist and Enneagram coach Katie Gustafson gives an overview of the Enneagram and its connection to narrative. instagram.com/katieagustafson | |||
| Thad Cockrell: When is my Big Break? | 09 Sep 2021 | 00:48:30 | |
Have you ever asked, "When is my big break?" | |||
| Ashley Abercrombie: So you're a ghostwriter? | 06 May 2021 | 00:48:15 | |
You may have heard the term “ghostwriter.” And you might have some questions. (So did the author write the book or not?) Not every author comes up with every sentence of their book. Many times, there’s a behind-the-scenes person (or team) involved. And it’s not as scandalous as it sounds. In this episode, writer (and ghostwriter) Allison Fallon interviews another ghostwriter and author, Ashley Abercrombie. Both Allison and Ashley have both published under their own name and have written for other people. They talk about the challenges of each, when to know if you’re ready to share a personal story, and what it's like to help someone else’s voice come clear on the page. And check out Ashley’s book, Rise of the Truth Teller. * *Find Your Voice uses affiliate links. | |||
| Why you should write your life story even if no one reads it | 29 Apr 2021 | 00:22:29 | |
We all have our doubts. Maybe you want to write your story, but you're not sure: not sure it's worth the effort, not sure you want to publish. What if no one even wants to read it? | |||
| Morgan Harper Nichols: wondering if your words connect | 22 Apr 2021 | 00:42:35 | |
Artist, poet, musician and author Morgan Harper Nichols' work has already touched so many people's lives—including ours! | |||
| Sandie Spotts on Cultivating a Love of Reading in Young Kids | 15 Apr 2021 | 00:33:14 | |
So often, it's a childhood love of books and reading which inspires our own writing. But what makes a kid excited about reading and writing? How can we pass that on? | |||
| Sara Lewis on making your personal story public | 08 Apr 2021 | 00:49:55 | |
So many of us are so focused on getting our stories out there that we forget that becoming "known" has consequences. When you decide to publish (or share your story in any public way), what was once personal and private becomes open for discussion. People will have opinions on your story—and you might not like all of those opinions. | |||
| Elyse Murphy on advocating for yourself through your words | 01 Apr 2021 | 00:50:48 | |
Is there someone in your life trying to silence you? How do you fight for your voice when you are challenged, and what do you do when that resistance comes from someone close to you? | |||
| Five Myths About How Books Get Written | 25 Mar 2021 | 00:24:40 | |
Maybe you doubt if you really have what it takes to write a book. | |||
| Melissa Joulwan on going against your audience to find your voice | 18 Mar 2021 | 00:47:05 | |
Is it worth writing even if no one will pay attention? twitter.com/meljoulwan | |||
| Amy Wolff on doing something in the face of hopelessness | 11 Mar 2021 | 00:48:33 | |
Sometimes, we can see the light at the end of the tunnel. But what do we do when we feel hopeless? | |||
| Jessica Martindale: Can writing be therapy? | 04 Mar 2021 | 00:47:52 | |
As we approach the anniversary of the 2020 shutdown, we all need a place to process.
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| Caroline Cook: When is Your Window to Write? | 02 Sep 2021 | 00:43:05 | |
When is the right time to publish? And, can a “normal” (and busy) person like me actually write a book? Writer, speaker, teacher Caroline Cook has always seen herself as a writer, but the time was never quite right. Caroline is a regular person, with a job and with kids and with lots of responsibilities on her plate. Now, as her kids start leaving the nest, she has found an opportunity to share a message that’s been on her heart for a long time. Caroline is taking her shot, and so can you. Your story is worth it. Instagram: @caroline.b.cook | |||
| Audrey Assad: On healing, creativity, and showing up as yourself | 25 Feb 2021 | 00:43:37 | |
There's no getting around it: over time, we change. | |||
| Mark McGuinness: Make your creativity your security | 18 Feb 2021 | 00:43:14 | |
Do you feel like you're living in an unstable world? (We sure do!)
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| Bunmi Laditan: writing (as a mother) in the margins of your day | 11 Feb 2021 | 00:52:17 | |
Mothers notoriously have no time in the day and no grace for themselves. Bunmi Laditan, writer and mother living in Quebec, Canada, does it differently. Twitter: @honesttoddler | |||
| John White: Writing myself into freedom | 04 Feb 2021 | 00:36:47 | |
In the face of collective, systemic problems—where does one start? | |||
| Alex Hudgens on leaving her Hollywood dream job | 28 Jan 2021 | 00:44:57 | |
Sometimes we get what we want in life ... and it's not what we imagined. Despite the fact that there were a lot of glamorous elements to her work in Hollywood, Alex Hudgens found herself feeling more and more distant from her true self the longer she worked in television—unsure of the difference between what she truly wanted versus what she was told she should want—until finally she couldn’t stand it anymore. Contrary to what popular opinion might suggest, Alex left behind the glamorous life in the spotlight to see if she could get back in contact with something that mattered much more to her than the success she always thought she wanted. Since then, she’s spent the past few years taking back her voice. | |||
| Dr. Eric Maisel on how know you (and your work) matter | 21 Jan 2021 | 00:41:19 | |
Do you feel like you matter? Like—really matter? If you do feel like you matter, how do you know? Today’s guest is a man who argues that one way to know that we matter—really know—is to do a thing that we tell you to do all the time: it’s to write. But not just write. It’s to have a daily practice of creativity (like writing) that brings you back to this conclusion everyday: I matter. My words matter. Dr. Eric Maisel, the author of over 50 books, renowned coach to creatives, a columnist for Psychology Today and mental health advocate. His latest book The Power of Daily Practice teaches artists and creative people how to overcome blockages so they can finally meet their goals. So if you’re sure you’re an artist or a writer but you keep thinking to yourself that you don’t have the “discipline” to follow-through on your creative dreams, you aren’t going to want to miss what Eric has to share with you today. Maybe more discipline isn’t what you need at all. As for what you do need… well, let’s get into the conversation. | |||
| Allison Fallon: a Simple Habit to Unlock Your Brain and Reimagine Your Life | 14 Jan 2021 | 00:41:28 | |
Most people go their whole lives without ever actually saying what's on their hearts. Yet we all have something we want to say. What's getting in our way? | |||
| Ruthie Lindsey on Writing and Chronic Pain: The Power of Writing it Down Part 6 | 07 Jan 2021 | 00:47:46 | |
In this final episode of our special podcast series called The Power of Writing it Down, I talk with my friend and someone you probably have heard about — her name is Ruthie Lindsey. This episode is the perfect capstone to what we’ve been talking about…
Ruthie puts all these pieces together as she shares her incredible and powerful personal story of using writing as a tool to heal from chronic pain (check out her book about her story here). She also shares a simple writing practice that you can use right away to put this tool to work for you in your personal life. | |||
| Who actually has time to write? The Power of Writing it Down Part 5 | 31 Dec 2020 | 00:23:59 | |
Maybe you want to write — but life gets in the way. You’re busy, you’re tired. You don’t have a cabin in the woods. How do all of these people actually get writing done? | |||
| Who Gets to Be A Writer? The Power of Writing it Down Part 4 | 24 Dec 2020 | 00:33:26 | |
Who gets to be a writer? It’s a question so many people ask themselves. On today’s episode, I chat with some voices you’ll recognize, including Science Mike and therapist Elyse Snipes as well as a new voice: Rafik Wahbi, whose program with hip hop writing helped men in jail feel a sense of empowerment over their own stories. We talk about the voices we’ve silenced and the importance of diversifying the content we consume. If you have ever felt like your story isn’t represented in books and articles—or maybe you’ve worried that your story isn’t all that different or interesting, you’re not going to want to miss this episode. We need you. Your voice matters. Today’s guests will remind you why. This is the fourth episode of a special series that’s all about the power of a writing process to create positive change in your personal life. We’re covering topics like why writing can be so challenging, what’s happening in your brain when you write, why writing is therapeutic, what it costs us when voices are silenced, and what a regular practice of writing looks like in real life. | |||
| Memoir: How to write about the people who hurt you | 26 Aug 2021 | 00:28:19 | |
Everyone has that one person (or people) in their lives: the people who have made life difficult. They might be loved, hated, or just inconveniently around, and you might find it hard to write about them honestly. In this episode, author and writing coach Allison Fallon covers:
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| Can I write myself a new story? The Power of Writing it Down Part 3 | 17 Dec 2020 | 00:30:24 | |
If your life was a movie, what kind of story would it be? This week you’ll hear, again, from therapist Elyse Snipes and also from singer and songwriter Audrey Assad. You’ll get a sense of how writing about your own personal story might help you to reframe it and feel like the hero of your life — rather than just like things happen to you without meaning or purpose. This is the third episode of a special series that’s all about the power of a writing process to create positive change in your personal life. We’re covering topics like why writing can be so challenging, what’s happening in your brain when you write, why writing is therapeutic, what it costs us when voices are silenced, and what a regular practice of writing looks like in real life. | |||
| What if change were just one sentence away? The Power of Writing it Down Part 2 | 10 Dec 2020 | 00:29:11 | |
The big secret about writing is: it doesn’t actually have to be that hard. It’s really simple to tap into the therapeutic aspects of writing. This week you’ll hear from our favorite experts, Journal Therapist Deborah Ross and the infamous Science Mike, and I’ll introduce you to therapist Elyse Snipes, who will walk us through the Cognitive Behavioral Model. You’ll get a sense of how easy it is to change your life: just write it down. | |||
| Why is writing so hard for me? The Power of Writing It Down Part 1 | 03 Dec 2020 | 00:29:46 | |
If I’m really a writer, why is writing so hard for me? Most people are shocked to find that writing is not only hard for them, it’s hard for anyone and everyone who has ever tried to write—even those people who are very gifted at their craft. In this episode, we hear from: Psychotherapist and Journal Therapist Deborah Ross, author of the book Your Brain on Ink: A Workbook on Neuroplasticity and the Journal Ladder and the infamous Science Mike on what happens in our brain as we write—and why it's so difficult. This is the first episode of a special series that’s all about the power of a writing process to create positive change in your personal life. We’re covering topics like why writing can be so challenging, what’s happening in your brain when you write, why writing is therapeutic, what it costs us when voices are silenced, and what a regular practice of writing looks like in real life. | |||
| Nicole Gulotta: Writing with the (changing) Seasons | 26 Nov 2020 | 00:41:45 | |
You know how sometimes no matter how hard you try to write, you just can’t seem to get any words on the page? Hello 2020. Today, poet, writer, two-time author and writing coach Nicole Gulotta shares why that can sometimes be a good thing, how inspiration ebbs and flows, and how in learning to be more present with our writing we do eventually get more writing done. facebook.com/yourwildwords | |||
| Hilary Billings on how to live into confidence | 19 Nov 2020 | 00:50:53 | |
Do you consider yourself a confident person? If not, what's getting in your way? | |||
| Christine Owenell: how to move through (and utilize) chaos | 12 Nov 2020 | 00:44:21 | |
The chaos of 2020 can make us feel like our lives are going off track. But what if the frustrating detours of life weren't detours at all? | |||
| Kim Chestney: how to overcome your intuition block | 05 Nov 2020 | 00:41:45 | |
No matter who you are, it's sometimes difficult to access your intuition. Kim Chestney, author, creative business incubator, and intuition expert, joins us on this episode to dive into what intuition is, what keeps us from trusting ourselves, and how to use intuition to fuel a creative life. | |||
| Ally's birth story: How to use writing to work through trauma | 29 Oct 2020 | 00:51:41 | |
What happens when the story we've been working towards takes a sharp turn? What do we do when, despite our best attempts to prepare, difficult and painful moments come our way anyways? What do we do when we think to ourselves, "This is not how this story was supposed to go"? | |||
| Tim Schurrer on setting mindset for success | 22 Oct 2020 | 00:38:23 | |
Why are some people happier and more successful than others? And is there anything we can do to move ourselves from here (discontent, striving, always looking for the next thing) to there? | |||
| Brittany Ross: Did you feel empowered? | 15 Oct 2020 | 00:44:27 | |
So often are we wonder, "Did I do it the 'right way'?" | |||
| Julie Broad on the surprising advantages of self publishing | 19 Aug 2021 | 00:42:01 | |
If you're writing a book for the first time, chances are you're hoping to traditionally publish.
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| Hannah Brencher on writing as a full time job | 08 Oct 2020 | 00:40:06 | |
So many of us write for ourselves, but we wonder, “Could this be my full time gig?” Author, TED speaker, blogger, and writing coach Hannah Brencher shares why (and how) she's made "writer" her professional title. She also reflects on her publishing experience: what she learned publishing her first book and all the ways she’s writing differently now. Most importantly, Brencher demystifies what it means to write professionally and encourages all writers to fall in love with the process.
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| Paria Hassouri: “My story was missing” | 01 Oct 2020 | 00:42:47 | |
What do you do when no one else seems to understand the story you’re living? You write your story. And, in that process, you change yourself, your community, and make space for others who, like you, feel alone. Paria Hassouri is a pediatrician, Iranian-American, and mother of three. Her book Found in Transition details her journey as a mother as her teenage transgender daughter transitioned. On this episode, Hassouri shares her wisdom on identity, healing, motherhood, and our own capacity to evolve and to love. | |||
| Matthew Ford: Is everyone really a writer? | 24 Sep 2020 | 00:49:07 | |
Maybe some people just don’t find value in writing. Or maybe not. Matthew Ford is not a writerly type. Founder and Executive Producer of an experiential marketing agency, he always had plenty to keep him busy with work and never felt the need to process through writing. But like many entrepreneurs, he felt locked in the exhaustion of a 80-hour work week and weighed down by the relentless pressure of leading a growing business. Then COVID hit, and he lost over a million dollars in business overnight. So he turned to the tool he hadn’t really given a fair chance. And what came of it turned his life in a whole new direction. | |||
| Melissa Johnson on rewriting beauty | 17 Sep 2020 | 00:37:42 | |
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