Explore every episode of the podcast Find Love With Emily
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| Imagine If Dating Was Fun... | 05 Sep 2026 | 00:17:18 | |
If youâve spent years trying to figure out how to find love, thereâs a good chance youâve also consumed a LOT of dating advice. Which dating app should you use? Should you message first? How do you get past the talking stage? How do you get a man to actually ask you out? Should you be more in your feminine energy, less anxiously attached, play it cool, stop trying so hard? How do you "put yourself out there" more than you are already?? And yet despite doing all the ârightâ things, finding the relationship you want still feels ridiculously hard. In this episode of Find Love With Emily, you'll see exactly why typical dating advice is isn't what you want to be listening to AT ALL, if you genuinely want real, lasting love. It's actually what's been keeping you single. The recent experience of one of the women inside Attract YOUR Man illustrates this perfectly... Five weeks ago, she was utterly disheartened by dating, struggling to get past the talking stage and on a real date and it felt like it was just problem after problem she needed to somehow solve on her own. Now... She's talking to 5 men, has 2 dates planned and in her own words dating is "SO MUCH FUN!!" This wasn't because her luck changed, she found some new manipulative dating strategy, or rewrote her dating profile for the 75th time. Something much more fundamental changed and dating got easier. If youâre tired of dating advice, dating apps, situationships and constantly wondering what youâre doing wrong, hit play and listen to this episode now. You'll see:
đ§ Episodes to listen to next: Love Is Simpler Than You Think - Here's What's Been Missing Self-Assessment: Your Blocks To Love | PART 1 Self-Assessment: Your Blocks To Love | PART 2 The Uncomfortable Truth About Following The One Rule Love Does đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| The Balance Between Chasing Love And Not Doing Enough | 01 Sep 2026 | 00:22:35 | |
Are you trying too hard to find love⌠or are you actually not doing enough? Both can leave you in exactly the same place... Still single, still exhausted and frustrated by dating, unsure why you never get any closer to love and having absolutely no idea what you're meant to do differently. Are you supposed to "put yourself" out there more, meet more men, get on more dates?! Or is love simply going to happen when it's meant to?!? In this episode of Find Love With Emily I answer these questions and explain the fine line between chasing love and actually taking the steps that move you towards the meeting the man and having the relationship you want. And you'll know the questions to ask yourself so you can get this balance right. Because sometimes the thing that feels like "trusting love" is actually the thing keeping you stuck... And something "putting yourself out there" is doing the exact same thing. If youâve been dating for years, youâre exhausted by dating advice, and you genuinely donât know whether you need to do more or do less to find love, hit play and listen to this episode now. đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| What Makes It Easier To Find Love Over 30 | 29 Aug 2026 | 00:27:16 | |
If youâre single in your 30s or 40s, it probably feels like love's only getting harder for you to find. The dating pool is smaller. All the decent men are already taken. Men want younger women. It's harder to meet people. And after years of being single, dating the wrong men or watching seemingly everyone else find their person, it can start to feel less like a fear and more like a FACT... That finding love IS harder the older you get. But is that actually true? In the last episode, we talked about The REAL Reason Is Harder To Find Love After 30 (go listen to that one now if you haven't already) and in this episode we're taking that conversation one very important step further. Because if you want love to finally get easier, like you want it to happen for real, then you can't keep living in this story that love's harder for you to find with every year that passes. In this episode, I'm poking holes in some of the biggest âproofâ your brain has collected about why love is harder to find in your 30s, 40s and beyond because if you ever want to find love, we've got to pull this story apart. There's a VERY different way to look at your age, your dating life and whatâs possible for you in love. And once you see it, that rock-solid belief that finding love only gets harder the older you get might not feel quite so true anymore... Which is your FIRST step in finally finding love! đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| The REAL Reason It's Harder To Find Love After 30 | 25 Aug 2026 | 00:17:45 | |
Does it feel like finding love is hard because you're over 30, over 40? That there were more decent men to date when you were in your 20s? Dating was easier? You chances of finding love were better then? And now that you're in your 30s or 40s, it feels like you chance of meeting the right man and finding love are getting slimmer by the second? And 100%, you've got PLENTY of evidence that says yes, "the older I get the harder it is to find love"... But what if your age wasn't actually the problem? This episode uncovers the deeply ingrained belief that finding love gets harder after 30 and how that shapes what you see, how you date, the men you meet and whether or not you find love. Youâll discover:
If youâre a single woman in your 30s or 40s whoâs scared youâve left it too late, exhausted by dating apps, or wondering where all the good men have gone, this episode is one you need to hear. Because your age may not be the thing making love harder to find at all! Hit play to listen now. đ§ Episode to listen to next: Self-Assessment: Your Blocks To Love | PART 2 đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| "Is He Interested?" How To Know For Sure | 22 Aug 2026 | 00:13:06 | |
If you've got a crush on a man and you're wondering⌠Does he like me? Is he actually interested? Is there something here⌠or am I imagining it? Maybe it's the guy at the gym. Someone you work with. A friend. The man you see every morning getting coffee. There are glances. Smiles. Conversations that feel like something. And meanwhile, you've already imagined approximately 47 different versions of your future relationship together đ But if what you actually want is a loving, committed relationship, you can't spend the next six months wondering whether this man likes you. In this episode, I'm giving you the simplest way to find out if a guy is genuinely interested in you... and what to do if he isn't. But more importantly, I'm showing you why your crush might have very little to do with this particular man and everything to do with the next step love is asking you to take. Because whether he turns out to be your man or not, this can still move you closer to the relationship you actually want. In this episode you'll discover:
If there's a man you're interested and you want to know if he feels the same way... đ§ Hit play and listen to this epsiode now! Our next Loved Up Week: Dating To The REAL Relationship starts Monday 24th August inside Attract Your Man. If you're meeting men, getting matches, talking, maybe even going on a few dates, but it never seems to become the actual relationship, click the link below and come join us for this Loved Up Week. Over five days, we're changing the way you see dating and what you think it takes to get the relationship, so the relationship stops feeling like this enormous thing you have to somehow make happen and starts feeling like the natural next step. Join Attract Your Man đ đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| How To Go From Dating To The REAL Relationship | 20 Aug 2026 | 00:13:38 | |
If you're meeting men, getting matches, having conversations and going on 1st, 2nd maybe even 3rd dates but... It ends there and you NEVER the actual relationship 𤯠Hit play on this episode now! Because the answer isnât getting better at dating. Itâs not about learning what to say, how to act, when to text, how to keep him interested or how to finally get a man to commit. In this episode, I give you a sneak peek inside our next Loved Up Week: Dating To The REAL Relationship, that starts Monday 24th August 2026 inside Attract Your Man. Over five days, what you think it takes to go from meeting men to having the loving, committed relationship you want will radically shift, so that dating feels lighter, simpler and takes so much less energy and effort... And actually gets you the relationship you've wanted for so long. If youâre tired of being stuck on the dating merry-go-round and just want the relationship already... JOIN ATTRACT YOUR MAN and join us for this Loved Up Week đ đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| How To Meet The Right Man Without Obsessing | 18 Aug 2026 | 00:20:50 | |
If you just want to meet the right man, but in the back of your mind you're constantly thinking about: How, where and when you're going to meet him. And what else you could be doing to to finally find him... Hit play on this episode now! Because you know, that even if you focus on yourself, build a life you love, take up all kinds of new hobbies, say yes to every opportunity, even take a break from dating alotgether... You're still wondering: Will I meet him here? Should I be doing more? Am I getting any closer to meeting him? Where the F is he?!?!?! And THAT'S the part nobody tells you how to switch off. In this episode of Find Love With Emily, Iâm showing you what actually needs to change if you want to meet the right man without obsessing over how and when itâs going to happen:
Iâll also take you behind the scenes of Attract Your Man and show you the actual practices I teach you to use when the impatience, disappointment and I JUST WANT TO MEET HIM ALREADY feeling comes roaring back. So you donât end up right back in the cycle of overthinking, forcing and trying to make love happen. Because you donât need to stop wanting love. You need to know how to let love lead you there. đ§ Episode to listen to next: The Signs Youâre Missing That Love Is Happening For You đ Our next 5-day Loved Up Week: FROM DATING TO THE REAL RELATIONSHIP starts the 24th August 2026 inside Attract YOUR Man... Where I'll help you completely change your approach to dating, so you can get off the endless dating merry-go-round and finally (and easily) get the relationship you wanted all along. Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| Why You Just Can't Crack Finding Love | 15 Aug 2026 | 00:17:12 | |
If youâve been trying to find love for YEARS, there comes a point where you genuinely donât know what else youâre supposed to do. Youâve worked on yourself. Youâve used the dating apps. Youâve put yourself "out there". Youâve followed the advice, healed the patterns, tried to stay positive and kept going even after yet another promising man disappeared. And still⌠youâre single. So what the actual f are you missing?!?!? đ In this episode I share a realization that hit me HARD this when I found myself experience my own version of that same frustration... Trying so hard to create something I deeply want and just not know why it stilllll wasn't clicking. What happened next made me realize how easy it is to keep trying to âcrackâ finding love in a way that can actually make the whole thing feel infinitely harder. Weâre talking about why finding love can feel so frustrating when youâve already tried everything already... Why doing MORE isn't actually the answer... And how your approach to finding love changes when you understand how love really happens. If youâre tired of wondering why youâre still single, you just can't figure out what you're missing, or what else you need to do to finally meet the right man, hit play on this episode now. You'll discover:
And of course, what to do to to finally crack finding love! đ§ Episodes to listen to next: The Signs You're Missing That Love IS Happening For You đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| Why Dating Never Gets You The Relationship | 13 Aug 2026 | 00:13:11 | |
You can meet men. You can get matches, have great conversations, go on dates, even meet someone you think might actually have potential⌠But somehow dating never seems to get you to the actual relationship. So you start trying to work out what youâre doing wrong. Do you need to choose better men? Be less available? Play it cooler? Change your profile? Be more in your feminine energy? Finally fix whatever it is that keeps making men disappear? Because after years of dating, it starts to feel like dating is this thing you have to finally get "right" before you get the relationship. And thatâs exactly where the problem is. In this episode, I show you why trying to get dating "right" can actually keep the relationship feeling permanently out of reach. And why if you want to finally have the relationship, we have to entirely change the way that you see dating and what you think it takes to get the relationship. Because the relationship doesnât have to be this huge thing youâre trying so hard to finally get. It gets to become easy. A no-brainer. The natural next step. If youâre sick of another man, another talking stage, another couple of dates and then somehow ending up right back where you started, hit play and listen to this episode now. đ§ Episode to listen to next: How To Break The "3rd Date Curse" đ AND if this is exactly where you're stuck, be sure to join us inside Attract YOUR Man... Our next 5-day Loved Up Week: FROM DATING TO THE REAL RELATIONSHIP starts the 24th August 2026. Where I'll help you completely change your approach to dating, so you can get off the endless dating merry-go-round and finally (and easily) get the relationship you wanted all along. Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| The Signs You're Missing That Love IS Happening For You | 11 Aug 2026 | 00:18:14 | |
If you've been trying to find love for YEARS... You've been dating, swiping on the apps, following all the dating advice, but you still don't have the loving, committed relationship that you want... You get to the point where you'd do anything for some kind of sign, some glimmer of something that tells you love still possible. It's still worth holding onto hope for. When finding love hasn't happening yet, it's easy to assume that NOTHING is happening. ...but that's where so many single women over 30 get love all wrong. Because the signs that love IS already happening for you are there. They just don't look the way you expect them to. So you completely miss them. And finding love becomes a whole lot harder than it needs to be. In this episode, you'll learn:
So instead of stumbling around blindly, wondering "is any of this getting me any closer to love?!?!" đ§ Hit play and listen to this episode now. And finally see how love has been happening for you this whole time. đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| How To Find Love When You're Burnt Out By Trying To Find Love | 08 Aug 2026 | 00:20:14 | |
Feeling completely burnt out by dating and trying to find love? Maybe you're exhausted by swiping through (very!) average men on the dating apps. You're sick of investing in conversations that go nowhere. Tried of disappointing dates. Thinking you've finally found something that'll help you find love...and it doesn't. It feels like you've tried everything already to find love. All the dating strategies, manifestation techniques, anxious attachment advice, how to be more in your "feminine energy" tips... Yet you're still single, finding love feels more hopeless than ever and you're just so burnt out by trying so hard for so long. If that's you, this episode will bring you a whole lot of relief... Because the very thing that will heal your burnt out is the same thing that makes love infinitely easier to find. In this episode, you'll discover:
If you're getting closer and closer to the point where giving up on love would feel better than continuing how you have been... đ§ Press play and listen to this episode now. Because finding love isn't supposed to leave you feeling burnt out, soul destroyed and exhausted. And how you find love from here, is the very thing you most need đ đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| He's Nice⌠But There's No Physical Attraction | 02 Aug 2026 | 00:13:05 | |
Have you ever met a man who's everything you've been looking for... â He's kind â Emotionally available â You feel safe around him â He's exactly the sort of man you've been hoping to meet. But there's just no spark? No chemisty. 0 physical attraction đ So now what??! Do you keep dating him and hope attraction grows? Or is that your sign that he's simply not your person? This exact question came up inside Attract YOUR Man recently. And it sparked a fascinating conversation that revealed the truth about dating and physical attraction when what you want is a long term, lasting, loving relationship. Inside this episode, you'll discover:
If you've ever worried about settling... Walked away from a genuinely good man because something felt "missing"... Or wondered whether you're expecting the wrong things in the early stages of dating... đ§ Hit play and listen to this episode now! đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| Why Healing Your Anxious Attachment Doesn't Work | 01 Aug 2026 | 00:17:11 | |
If you've ever called yourself anxiously attached, chances are you've also spent MANY months trying to heal it. Youâve read the books. Followed all the experts. Tried distracting yourself. Keeping yourself busy with new hobbies and friends. Hid your phone. Worked on becoming more âsecureâ. And yet somehow⌠Youâre still caught up in the same exhausting cycle of overthinking, waiting, worrying, constantly checking your phone and ending up with emotionally unavailable men who only your anxious attachment worse. What if the problem isn't actually that you haven't healed your anxious attachment? In this episode, I'm sharing why your anxious attachment isnât the thing you need to focus on if you want to find love. Because I was the woman compulsively checking my phone, obsessing over mixed signals and wondering why I kept attracting avoidant men. I know exactly what itâs like to be anxiously attached⌠And I also know what makes becoming securely attached so much easier. Inside this episode, you'll hear: ⢠Why calling yourself "anxiously attached" makes it harder to overcome it and find love. ⢠The hidden trap that keeps so many women over 30 stuck trying to fix themselves instead of finding love. ⢠Why chasing every new piece of dating advice only delays the relationship you actually want. ⢠The one shift that changed everything for me (FINALLY!) ⢠How it transformed the way I dated ⢠How I went from years of being anxiously attached to meet my husband after just 4 weeks of dating. If you're exhausted from trying to overcome your anxious attachment so that love can happen for you to, this episode will completely change the way youâve been going about it. đ§ Hit play to listen now. This is an episode every anxiously attached woman needs to listen to, so be sure to share it with all your anxiously attached friends! đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| Dating Hasn't Worked? Don't Make This Mistake... | 26 Jul 2026 | 00:09:26 | |
If youâve been dating for years, youâre barely holding onto hope youâll find love while you still have chance⌠Youâll know how easily the fear, anxiety, overthinking and need to control comes back whenever dating doesnât go the way you hoped. Itâs a normal human reaction. What matters though is what you do next. In this episode, I explain why these moments donât mean youâve gone backwards, why theyâre not a sign to give up on love and what the women who go on to find love do differently when this happens. You'll learn:
If it feels like dating just hasnât and wonât work for you, then this episode will give you an entirely new perspective on whatâs happening and what this means you do from here to find love. Just because youâve had a moment where dating hasnât worked, it doesnât mean love isnât. đ Episode to listen to next: "Is It Too Late For Me To Find Love And Become A Mum?" đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| How To Break The "3rd Date Curse" | 25 Jul 2026 | 00:14:59 | |
What doesnât dating EVER lead you to love? To the relationship youâve always wanted? Why does it always end at date 2 or 3⌠if that?! If youâre stuck in this cycle, where you keep meeting men who have potential. The first date goes well. The second date feels even better. You get kinda excited! 𼳠And then⌠He pulls away. Says he isnât looking for anything serious. Ghosts you. Or things simply fizzle out before they ever become a real relationship đ đ§ Hit play on this episode now! Because inside, Iâll let you in on how to break what one of the women inside AYM calls the â3rd Date Curseâ. That frustrating pattern where dating goes well⌠until it doesnât. Youâll see why this pattern keeps repeating no matter what you do or how hard you try. And how it has NOTHING to do with a lack of decent, available men who want love or you being someone that the men you want, just donât âchooseâ. I also share a story youâll love from one of the women inside Attract Your man who couldnât get past a 3rd date for years. âŚuntil one simple question I asked her changed everything. Seriously. Sheâs now getting married to the man she once believed sheâd never meet (and on their sonâs first birthday too!). In this episode you'll learn:
If you're exhausted by getting excited about someone only to find yourself back at square one a few weeks later, this episode will help you understand why that keeps happening and how to finally break the cycle. đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| 3 Things That Determine Whether (Or Not) You Find Love | 22 Jul 2026 | 00:15:18 | |
Iâve had 1,633 women join Attract Your Man and honestly? Not every woman who joins finds love 𫣠Iâve watched 100s of women meet incredible men, engaged, married, become mothers. But this doesn't happen for everyone. And so Iâve spent the last year asking⌠WHY?  It's not because what I teach in AYM doesnât work. It's not because thereâs a lack of the right men. It's not because datingâs changed in a way that makes finding love harder. There are 3 clear reasons some women find love (and fast!) inside AYM and others simply don't. Inside this episode, I share those 3 reasons. And how Iâve now completely changed the structure of Attract Your Man, so no one who wants love gets left behind. In this episode you'll learn:
If you've ever bought a course, started strong and then slowly drifted away from it⌠Or wondered why nothing seems to help you actually find love⌠Then this episode will clear up all of this for you. đ§ Hit play to listen now! đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| Exhausted By Dating? [Do This For Love] | 19 Jul 2026 | 00:05:21 | |
Every week in Do This For Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does... And infinitely closer to actually finding love đ Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because: â There's something wrong with you â Dating in 2026 is hopeless â There's lack of genuine, loving, available men â Or that love's just not meant for you. It's simply that love ALWAYS follows the one rule: Love follows love. And right now, if: âď¸ You're scared you'll never find love âď¸ It feels like maybe love's not meant for you âď¸ You're exhausted by dating âď¸ You feel the pressure to find love fast (while you still have a chance) âď¸ And it's been months (or even years) since you've been on a decent date... Then those are big old signs that you're not following the one rule love does. Thankfully it's an easy fix. Be sure to follow Find Love With Emily and tune in every Monday for Do This To Find Love, where I show you how. Because it's these simple steps (not more of the usual BS dating advice) that make dating easier and are how love happens for you from here. Love always, Em xx đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| Finding Love Gets Easier When You Stop Doing This | 18 Jul 2026 | 00:11:45 | |
If the fact that youâre still single (after years of dating!) feels like the biggest problem in your life right now, this episode will tell you what needs to happen for you to actually solve this problem and find love. As you know, dating more, trying harder to be the kind of woman you think men want, overthinking, strategizing, following allllll the dating advice⌠While it makes logical sense, it doesnât actually help you find love. So what if finding love was never a problem you were supposed to solve in the first place? In this episode, I share a perspective that completely changes the way you'll think about dating and finding love. It explains why trying so hard has left you exhausted rather than closer to the relationship you want. And why finding love gets so much easier when you take an entirely different approach. Inside this episode, you'll see:
If you're tired of feeling like finding love is a problem you have to solve (and itâs ALL resting on your shoulders), this episode will leave you feeling relieved, hopeful and excited about finding love again đ đ§ Hit play to listen now! đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| Exhausted By Dating? [Do This For Love] | 12 Jul 2026 | 00:07:27 | |
Every week in Do This For Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does... And infinitely closer to actually finding love đ Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because: â There's something wrong with you â Dating in 2026 is hopeless â There's lack of genuine, loving, available men â Or that love's just not meant for you. It's simply that love ALWAYS follows the one rule: Love follows love. And right now, if: âď¸ You're scared you'll never find love âď¸ It feels like maybe love's not meant for you âď¸ You're exhausted by dating âď¸ You feel the pressure to find love fast (while you still have a chance) âď¸ And it's been months (or even years) since you've been on a decent date... Then those are big old signs that you're not following the one rule love does. Thankfully it's an easy fix. Be sure to follow Find Love With Emily and tune in every Monday for Do This To Find Love, where I show you how. Because it's these simple steps (not more of the usual BS dating advice) that make dating easier and are how love happens for you from here. Love always, Em xx đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| How To Feel Confident Dating | 11 Jul 2026 | 00:22:59 | |
If dating makes you feel nervous, insecure or you feel the pressure to get things ârightâ this episode is for you. So often single women over 30 are told to build your confidence dating, simply by dating more. But youâve been dating for 3+ years, youâve probably also realized that isnât actually true! In this episode, I share how you actually build dating confidence and why simply forcing yourself to date more isnât the answer. Because if on every date⦠𫣠The stakes feel HIGH 𫢠Youâre terrified or doing or saying the wrong thing đ Being rejected đ¤Śââď¸ Messing up this chance at love Then itâs almost impossible to relax, actually enjoy yourself and genuinely connect with the man youâre with. And love canât happen. In this episode youâll discover the 4 STEPS that build solid dating confidence. These are the steps I took that helped me go from cancelling on dates last minute because I was too scared to go, to genuinely loving dating!! And it was this confidence I gained that meant within ONLY 4 WEEKS Iâd met my husband đŤâ¤ď¸đ˛ In this episode you'll learn:
đ§ Listen to next: How To Use Dating Apps To Find Love Why The Right Men Donât Notice You [Do This For Love] đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| Why The Right Men Donât Notice You [Do This For Love] | 05 Jul 2026 | 00:09:49 | |
Every week in Do This For Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does... And infinitely closer to actually finding love đ Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because: â There's something wrong with you â Dating in 2026 is hopeless â There's lack of genuine, loving, available men â Or that love's just not meant for you. It's simply that love ALWAYS follows the one rule: Love follows love. And right now, if: âď¸ You're scared you'll never find love âď¸ It feels like maybe love's not meant for you âď¸ You're exhausted by dating âď¸ You feel the pressure to find love fast (while you still have a chance) âď¸ And it's been months (or even years) since you've been on a decent date... Then those are big old signs that you're not following the one rule love does. Thankfully it's an easy fix. Be sure to follow Find Love With Emily and tune in every Monday for Do This To Find Love, where I show you how. Because it's these simple steps (not more of the usual BS dating advice) that make dating easier and are how love happens for you from here. Love always, Em xx đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| How To Use Dating Apps To Find Love | 04 Jul 2026 | 00:19:41 | |
Dating apps can really suck đ Especially if youâve been swiping away for years⌠and all theyâve got you are men who disappoint you, average dates that go nowhere and conversations that feel like hard work. I get why youâd hate dating apps. I used to feel the same way. But what if theyâre not the actual problem?! ...it's how we're using them!?!? đĄ There was a point I got to when I was single where I genuinely LOVED dating (and using dating apps). Imagine that!??! I was meeting some really great men, going on 2-3 dates a week, getting out and about, having so much fun that when I met my husband and he asked me to be his girlfriend 𼚠there was a part of me that was actually a little sad to stop dating! Not because I didn't want to be with him. But because I'd finally figured out how to use dating apps in a completely different way that turned dating into an absolute playground where I was having the time of my life. In this episode, I share my unconventional way of using dating apps that changed my entire experience of dating for the better and was a BIG reason I meet my husband just a few weeks later. By the end of this episode you'll discover:
If youâre over dating apps, youâll want to listen to this episode before you give up on them entirely! Hit play now đ§ đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| Finding Love Feels Hopeless? [Do This For Love] | 28 Jun 2026 | 00:08:11 | |
Every week in Do This To Find Love you'll get a simple step to take this week that gets you following the one rule love does... And infinitely closer to actually finding love đ Because the reason love's so hard to find for so many single women over 30 isn't because: â There's something wrong with you â Dating in 2026 is hopeless â There's lack of genuine, loving, available men â Or that love's just not meant for you. It's simply that love ALWAYS follows the one rule: Love follows love. And right now, if: âď¸ You're scared you'll never find love âď¸ It feels like maybe love's not meant for you âď¸ You're exhausted by dating âď¸ You feel the pressure to find love fast (while you still have a chance) âď¸ And it's been months (or even years) since you've been on a decent date... Then those are big old signs that you're not following the one rule love does. Thankfully it's an easy fix. Be sure to follow Find Love With Emily and tune in every Monday for Do This To Find Love, where I show you how. Because it's these simple steps (not more of the usual BS dating advice) that make dating easier and are how love happens for you from here. Love always, Em xx PS And if you don't want to wait a whole week between steps, come join us inside Loved With Emily, where we get you back on track to find love (following the one rule love does, of course!). đ Loved With Emily: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| How To Actually Move On After Heartbreak | 27 Jun 2026 | 00:18:41 | |
Why is it that some women seem to move on from heartbreak in a matter of weeks... While you're still thinking about him months (sometimes even years) later? You're wondering what happened. What you did "wrong". Replaying conversations in your head and what you should've said. Still feeling that ache in your chest every time you think about what could've been đ Whether you're struggling to move on after a breakup, a situationship, being ghosted, rejected or you're simply heartbroken that you haven't found love yet... This episode is for you đ Because the reason it's so hard to move on, time doesn't seem to "heal your wounds" and you just can't stick to no contact... Actually has very little to do with the man you've lost or the relationship that's ended. And way more to do with what's happening under all the emotional pain you're feeling. In this episode you'll discover: âď¸ Why you're wasting your time if you're waiting for time to heal your wounds âď¸ Why most breakup advice is impossible to actually follow âď¸ Why the same heartbreak keeps happening time and time again âď¸ What's really keeping you stuck after rejection, disappointment and heartbreak âď¸ The deeper work that allows you to truly let go and find love If you've ever found yourself unable to fully move on after heartbreak or wondering why heartbreak seems to hit you harder than everyone else... Hit play now đ§ đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| This Week's Love Note: Love Wants You To Do This | 21 Jun 2026 | 00:05:22 | |
Each week in This Weekâs Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week youâll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesnât come from trying harder, âfixingâ yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know wonât work). Itâs only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| Love Does't Feel Like This | 20 Jun 2026 | 00:13:03 | |
For sure, dating can royally suck đŤ It can feel like one long string of disappointment, pain, heartbreak. You get your hopes up. Put yourself out there. Try to say positive. And then you always end up back at âsquare oneâ. It can be really easy to think that this is just the way dating is. That finding love is HARD. The struggle is just part of the process. âŚbut what if that isnât actually true? 𤠠In this episode, I challenge one of the biggest (and most detrimental) assumptions that single women over 30 make about dating and finding love. It might sound a little insane!! But challenging this assumption is the ONLY way you find love from here. If dating feels like a never-ending struggle that only leads to more struggle. đ§ Hit play and listen to this episode now. đ JOIN THE 5-DAY RESET TO GET BACK ON TRACK TO FIND LOVE: LOVED UP WEEK: THIS IS LOVE [22-26 June 2026] Here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| âI Have So Much Love To Give⌠So Why Am I Still Single?â | 17 Jun 2026 | 00:16:35 | |
You know whatâs really frustrating when youâre a woman, over 30 and still single?? Being told your whole life that if you're a good person, you work hard, treat people well, youâre kind and think of others, then good things happen. Then you start dating 𫣠And NONE of that seems to matter. You have such a big heart, so much love to give. Youâre thoughtful, youâd make an incredible partner, your intentions are so loving. Yet somehow, youâre still single?!?!? WTF?!?! 𼺠In this episode, I explain why. I share the realization (and most mortifying dating experiences) I had that got me back on track to actually find love. Because the problem isnât that youâre not loving enough. It isnât that all the genuine, decent, available men are taken. Itâs just that you donât realize youâre chasing something that makes it hard to find real, lasting love. Inside this episode you'll hear:
If you've ever found yourself wondering: "Why am I still single when Iâm a kind, loving woman with a whole lotta love to give?" This episode is for you đ đ§ Press play now. đ JOIN THE 5-DAY RESET TO GET BACK ON TRACK TO FIND LOVE: LOVED UP WEEK: THIS IS LOVE [22-26 June 2026] Here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| This Week's Love Note: Stop Letting Dating Decide If You Find Love | 14 Jun 2026 | 00:06:36 | |
Each week in This Weekâs Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week youâll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesnât come from trying harder, âfixingâ yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know wonât work). Itâs only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| The Sign Youâre Not Doomed To Be Single | 13 Jun 2026 | 00:19:49 | |
When you want love but youâve been single for years⌠Youâve tried the apps, taken breaks from dating, worked on yourself, done the healing, listened to even more advice⌠It can feel like youâre âdoomed to be singleâ. For real đđ All you want is to know if love itâs meant for you. If itâs still possible. So you have a reason to keep hoping, to keep going. Often the hardest part of being single, isnât being single. Itâs not knowing if love will actually happen for you. You donât know if what youâre doing to find love will eventually pay off. Or if itâs just a waste of your time. You donât know whether youâre on the right track at all. It feels like youâre riding blind, just hoping things somehow work out for you. You donât know if youâre wasting your time. Or if you shouldâve given up on love years ago. This episode gives you the certainty in love youâve been looking for. The sign that tells you really simple whether youâre moving towards love⌠or away from it. And why dating becomes so much easier when you have this kind of guidance. In this episode youâll learn:
If love feels impossible to find because dating never goes the way you want it to, this episode will feel like a huge exhale. Utter relief đŽâđ¨ đ§ Hit play to listen now. đ JOIN THE 5-DAY RESET TO GET BACK ON TRACK TO FIND LOVE: LOVED UP WEEK: THIS IS LOVE [22-26 June 2026] Here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/loved-with-emily đ Episodes to listen to next: Why Love Feels So Hard To Find (Even When You've Done Everything "Right") đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| This Week's Love Note: Your Dating Experiences Aren't Random | 07 Jun 2026 | 00:06:16 | |
Each week in This Weekâs Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week youâll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesnât come from trying harder, âfixingâ yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know wonât work). Itâs only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| How To Feel Safe With The Men Youâre Dating | 06 Jun 2026 | 00:19:53 | |
Dating can feel scary. Not just because there are men out there who don't have good intentions. But because at some point, you're supposed to trust someone you still don't fully know 𫣠Let your guard down. Believe they're who they say they are. And hope you've got it right đ¤ What if you miss the red flags? What if you trust the wrong man? What if you end up hurt, blindsided or wishing you'd listened to yourself sooner? It's a horrible position to be in. Because you want love. But you also want to feel safe. And it can feel like in order to have love, you have to leap at some point and just hope the man youâre on a date with, or dating seriously has the best intentions. Thankfully, that's not your only option. Because feeling safe with the man or men youâre dating isnât actually about putting your trust in men. Itâs about leaning more fully into something you already have access to and that prioritizes whatâs right for YOU above all else. In this episode youâll see:
If youâre a woman whoâs dating, this is an episode you NEEEED to take the time to listen to. Because your safety is what matters most đ and this is how you ensure it. đ§ Episodes to listen next: How To Find Love Without Using The Dating Apps đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| This Weekâs Love Note: Why Dating Feels Harder The Longer Youâre Single | 31 May 2026 | 00:07:58 | |
Each week in This Weekâs Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week youâll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesnât come from trying harder, âfixingâ yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know wonât work). Itâs only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| How To Find Love Without Using Dating Apps | 30 May 2026 | 00:24:41 | |
How do you find love when you absolutely hate or just donât want to use dating apps? When they make you feel judged, exhausted, hopeless or like finding love has somehow turned into one giant meat market?? Maybe you deleted and redownloaded the apps 100 times. Maybe you force yourself back on them because you feel like you âshould.â Or because youâre scared if you donât, youâll never meet your person. This episode is for the single woman over 30 whoâs exhausted by dating apps. But also terrified that without them, love wonât happen. Hereâs the thing no oneâs made clear to you yet: đ Dating apps are NOT your ticket to love. They weren't designed to be. And if youâve been treating them like they are⌠Then that explains why dating feels so endlessly disappointing, discouraging and confusing. In this episode, I break down:
If youâve been too scared to stop using the apps because then âWTF do I even do?!?!?â How will love happen?! This episode will give you the answer youâve been looking for. Maybe love was never about swiping harder⌠Maybe itâs always been about finally understand how love really happens. ⨠PLUS: I also share a personal BTS story about an unexpected turn of events in my work and life over the last 6 months that illustrates perfectly how a path to your biggest desires really unfolds. If dating has left you feeling hopeless, exhausted and unable to see how love will ever happen for you⌠đ§ Hit play and listen to this episode now⌠itâll help! đ LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE NEXT: Youâve Been Set Up To Stay Single đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| This Weekâs Love Note: Sneaky Ways Youâre Pushing Away Love | 24 May 2026 | 00:06:10 | |
Each week in This Weekâs Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week youâll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesnât come from trying harder, âfixingâ yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know wonât work). Itâs only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx đ§ Episodes to listen to next: Why Love Feels So Hard To Find (Even When You've Done Everything "Right") Love Is Simpler Than You Think (Here's What You've Been Missingďťż đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| You've Been Set Up To Stay Single | 23 May 2026 | 00:16:05 | |
Itâs not like you havenât tried⌠Youâve followed all the dating advice. Youâve tried healing your âanxious attachmentâ. Youâve been more in your feminine energy. Youâve swiped on the apps. Youâve treated dating like a ânumbers gameâ. Youâve done your best to stay position. Youâve even tried to stop caring. âŚso WHY THE F𤏠does love still feel so hard to find?!?! These are the BIG question this episode answers: đ Why does dating leave so many smart, self-aware, kind women feeling so exhausted, fearful, hopeless and disconnected from themselves and love? đ Why does it seem like the women who try the hardest to find love, are often the women who are single the longest?! In this episode, we go DEEP into a conversation every single, single woman over 30 who wants love needs to hear. What if the very advice youâve been told will help you find love⌠Is actually the thing keeping you stuck, single, doubting yourself, obsessing over what youâre going âwrongâ, and feeling like loveâs not meant for someone like you? If youâve ever:
đ§ Hit play and listen to this episode NOW!! Because this episode explains ALLLLL of this super clearly and what actually needs to happen from here if you want to get off the merry-go-round of dating and into real, lasting love. đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| This Weekâs Love Note: Let Love Catch Up | 17 May 2026 | 00:05:07 | |
Each week in This Weekâs Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week youâll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesnât come from trying harder, âfixingâ yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know wonât work). Itâs only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| âNo One Looks At You When Youâre 41 And Still Singleâ | 16 May 2026 | 00:15:10 | |
If youâre a single woman in your late 30s, 40s or beyond and it feels less and less likely that love will ever happen for you⌠This episode is for you. Thereâs a deep ache that comes with watching time move on while your life feels stuck in the same place... Your friends are married. Having babies. Established lives with their partners. Meanwhile youâre trying your best to hold onto the hope of love, while dating feels flatter, harder and more discouraging than ever⌠It feels like men donât really see you anymore. That younger women are what men your age want. That as time ticks on you only become less desirable, less valuable, less important. Inside this episode I break down the story so many single women over 35 have unknowingly absorbed about themselves, love, aging and their worth. And why this story changes the way you date, the men you attract, your relationships and life generally, without you even realizing. Because what if the problem was never you or your age? đ What if youâve simple been seeing yourself through a lens that disconnects you from love entirely?! Inside this episode youâll see:
And thereâs also a simple exercise for you to do this week that challenges you to see yourself and love in a way you never have before. đ§ Hit play and listen now!  đ Episodes to listen to next: âThereâs Nothing Embarrassing About Wanting Loveâ "Is Getting Harder To Hold Onto Hope I'll Ever Find Love" 38, Single And Feeling Forgotten? Listen To This đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| 7 Signs You're Single Because You're Not Following Love's One Rule | PART 2 | 13 May 2026 | 00:24:59 | |
Over the last 9 years, working with 100,000s of women, there are 7 SIGNS I see over and over again in women over 30 who find it hard to find love. And every single one points to the same thing⌠đ Youâre unknowingly working against the way love actually happens. Which is exactly why you can do alllll the things dating advice tells you to do:
And STILLLL end up withâŚ
 In Part 2 of this series, Iâm breaking down the last 4 signs that youâre still single because youâre not following the one rule love does. Youâll see exactly why:
And what actually needs to change for love to happen for you too.  Other episodes to listen to: đ Catch up on PART 1: 7 Signs You're Single Because You're Not Following Love's One Rule | PART 1 đ "Is It Too Late For Me To Find Love And Become A Mum?" đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| This Week's Love Note: The REAL Reason You Feel Unloved | 10 May 2026 | 00:06:46 | |
Each week in This Weekâs Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week youâll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesnât come from trying harder, âfixingâ yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know wonât work). Itâs only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. đ§ Listen to this episode next: "I Just Want A Man Who Chooses Me" Love always, Em xx đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| 7 Signs Youâre Single Because Youâre Not Following Loveâs One Rule | PART 1 | 09 May 2026 | 00:25:51 | |
Over the last 9 years, working with 100,000s of women, there are 7 SIGNS I see over and over again in women over 30 who find it hard to find love. And every single one points to the same thing⌠đ Youâre unknowingly working against the way love actually happens. Which is exactly why you can do alllll the things dating advice tells you to do:
And STILLLL end up withâŚ
 In Part 1 of this series, Iâm breaking down the first 3 signs that youâre still single because youâre not following the one rule love does. Youâll see exactly why:
And what actually needs to change for love to happen for you too.  đ Be sure to subscribe to Find Love With Emily so you donât miss Part 2 (and the other 4 signs!). đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| This Weekâs Love Note: Love Doesn't Happen How You Think | 03 May 2026 | 00:06:36 | |
Each week in This Weekâs Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week youâll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesnât come from trying harder, âfixingâ yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know wonât work). Itâs only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. đ JOURNAL QUESTIONS from this episode: What is the âseedâ you want to plant? What kind of relationship do you actually want (not the man), the relationship? How are you currently treating that seed? Are you expecting it to be a full-grown relationship already? Are you dismissing or âstamping onâ early signs of love Dates, connections, experiences, because theyâre not it yet? When things donât go to plan, how do you respond? Do you fall into âthis isnât workingâ⌠or do you come back to love? Are you giving your love life what it needs to grow? Calm, trust, openness, gratitude, emotional steadiness? Or are you feeding it doubt, frustration, and hopelessness? If love was already growing⌠how would you think, feel, and act differently right now? Love always, Em xx đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| Why You Attract Bare Minimum Men Who Breadcrumb You (And How To Break The Pattern) | 02 May 2026 | 00:18:51 | |
This is one of the most frustrating dating patterns for single women over 30⌠You meet a man you actually like... Thereâs chemistry. You see potential. But it never actually becomes something real đ He seems into you when youâre together⌠But when youâre not? Itâs no plans. Minimal effort. Just enough to keep you interested. And so without really realizing, you pick up the slack. You reach out. Plan dates. Try to turn it into something more, the relationship you really want. A lot of women believe that this is just how men are now. But thatâs not actually whatâs happening. And believing that is a BIG part of why you keep attracting these men who breadcrumb you. In this episode, youâll see exactly: ⢠Why you keep attracting the bare minimum men ⢠Why you canât help but try to turn their breadcrumbs into more ⢠The belief that keeps you stuck working hard for love (and why it never pays off!) ⢠Why putting effort into the wrong man wonât ever lead to love ⢠What actually needs to shift for you to attract a man who will shows up for you fully. Here's the truth that changes everything if what you want is love: You donât end up in one-sided relationships by accident. And until you understand the pattern that youâve been stuck in⌠Youâll keep trying hard for love with men who are never going to choose you. đ§ Hit play and listen to the full episode now! 𧲠Other episodes in the âWhy You AttractâŚâ series: Why You Attract Emotionally Unavailable, Avoidant Men (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Feel Invisible To Men (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Boring Men You're Not Attracted To (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract Men Who Pull Away (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Men That Only Want One Thing (And How To Break The Pattern) đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| "I Just Want A Man Who Chooses Me" | 29 Apr 2026 | 00:17:30 | |
Thereâs a very specific kind of pain that many single women over 30 feel⌠That deep ache, the longing to be chosen by a man you love just as much. You want to know what it feels like to have a man choose you. Easily, naturally, because he wants to. Because he wants you. And when you still donât have that after years of dating, it can become an ache that never seems to leave. Most women think that the solution to this is finding the right man. And so they keep dating. Keep hoping. But nothing changes. This episode explains exactly why and what to do to finally meet your man, the man who will choose you every damn day for the rest of his life. In this episode youâll see:
Because hereâs the thing that youâll rarely hear explained so clearly: That ache to be chosen that you feel? Itâs not coming from being single or because you donât yet have your man. And until you understand where it comes from, youâll keep grasping for the wrong solution. đ§ Hit play and listen to this episode now! đ Episodes to listen to next: Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 1 Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 2 đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| This Weekâs Love Note: Get Love Moving Towards You | 26 Apr 2026 | 00:05:50 | |
Each week in This Weekâs Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week youâll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesnât come from trying harder, âfixingâ yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know wonât work). Itâs only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| Why She Gets The Guy And You Don't | 25 Apr 2026 | 00:15:49 | |
There are women who find love easily⌠And then thereâs your experience đ âď¸ Youâve followed all the dating advice. âď¸ Youâre swiping on apps. âď¸ In your âfeminine energyâ. âď¸ Playing hard to get. âď¸ Trying really hard. And yet, youâre the one whoâs left confused, frustrated and why youâre always the single friend. This episode will take you deeper than any dating advice ever will. Because the reason she gets the guy and youâre perpetually single?? Itâs NOT because sheâs prettier. Better at dating. Someone men just like more. Youâre just unlucky. Or destined to be single forever. Thereâs something happening beneath the surface. Something you canât see⌠But that changes EVERYTHING! Inside this episode, youâll hear:
This episode will help you understand how love really happens, so it can finally happen for you too. If youâve ever asked yourself:
Hit play on this episode now! You'll get the answers you've been looking for. đ Episodes to listen to next: Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 1 Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 2 đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| This Week's Love Note: When Dating Feels Like the Same Disappointing Story | 19 Apr 2026 | 00:04:59 | |
Each week in This Weekâs Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week youâll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesnât come from trying harder, âfixingâ yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know wonât work). Itâs only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx 𧲠Episodes in the âWhy You AttractâŚâ series to listen to this week: Why You Attract Emotionally Unavailable, Avoidant Men (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Feel Invisible To Men (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Boring Men You're Not Attracted To (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract Men Who Pull Away (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Men That Only Want One Thing (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract Bare Minimum Men Who Breadcrumb You (And How To Break The Pattern) đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| Why You Attract The Men Who Only Want One Thing (And How To Break The Pattern) | 18 Apr 2026 | 00:19:08 | |
Men who only want sex. Men who run from commitment. Men who donât care about getting to know you. Men who only want casual.  â This isnât "just how dating is" in 2026.  There are still plenty of women in their 30s and 40s who are meeting genuine, kind, loyal men and ending up in committed, loving relationships.  If that not your experience and youâre stuck attracting the men who only want one thing⌠Thereâs a simple reason for this that typical dating advice rarely mentions.  Itâs the reason that it feels like all men are the same. No oneâs looking for commitment. You find it hard to cut men off who tell you they donât want âanything serious.â  Once you understand whatâs happening under the surface, then you get what you need to break out of this pattern. And finally attract the kind, genuine men who want the loving relationship you do.  Inside this episode, I walk you through:
This episode will stop you feeling like dating is something happening to you, as though thereâs nothing you can do but just hope for the better. You can change the men you attract. đ§ Hit play, so I can walk you through how! 𧲠Other episodes in the âWhy You AttractâŚâ series: Why You Attract Emotionally Unavailable, Avoidant Men (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Feel Invisible To Men (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Boring Men You're Not Attracted To (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract Men Who Pull Away (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract The Men That Only Want One Thing (And How To Break The Pattern) Why You Attract Bare Minimum Men Who Breadcrumb You (And How To Break The Pattern) đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| Dating Is NOT How You Find Love | 15 Apr 2026 | 00:15:26 | |
If dating feels exhausting đ No matter how much you try, nothing ever actually leads to love⌠This episode is going to hit HARD. ...because what if the reason itâs so hard for you to find love, isnât because you havenât figured out dating yet? What if itâs actually because dating was never the thing that creates love in the first place?!? I know. That probably goes against everything youâve been told: âď¸ Put yourself out there more. âď¸Go on more dates. âď¸ Fix your profile. âď¸ Get better at texting. âď¸ Learn how to âdo dating right.â And yet⌠Youâve done all of that. And youâre still here... Still single. Still trying. Still wondering why itâs not working. In this episode, Iâm breaking down the missing piece to find love that almost never gets mentioned in dating advice. Itâs the reason that dating can feel like a complete waste of time. Even when youâre doing everything ârightâ. Once you hear this, why dating hasnât helped you find love will finally make sense. Youâll understand:
Because finding love isnât about apps. Or strategies. Itâs not about doing the ârightâ things to have a man choose you. Itâs about something much deeper. You deserve love. You deserve to have it happen easily for you. This episode unlocks that for you. FINALLY! âŚso hit play and listen now!! đ§ đ Episodes to listen to next: Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 1 (Energy & Emotions) Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 2 (Thoughts, Beliefs & Subconscious Patterns) đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| This Week's Love Note: For When You Canât Get Dating âRightâ | 12 Apr 2026 | 00:05:58 | |
Each week in This Weekâs Love Note, I share a short reflection and a quick practice to take you through this week that will have you feeling a littler lighter, a litter clearer and a litter closer to the love you want. These simple, honest episodes are your weekly reminder of how love actually works and the small shifts that make ALLLLLL the difference to your experience of dating and finding love. Think of this as a little weekly reset for your heart. Each week youâll get an insight on love and a small step to that this week that will bring you closer to love. Because the kind of real, lasting love you want doesnât come from trying harder, âfixingâ yourself, waiting for you luck to change or following endless dating advice (you know wonât work). Itâs only when the way you feel, think and believe about love begins to shift that the way love shows up in your life begins to shift too. Remember: Love follows love. Love always, Em xx đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||
| "Is It Too Late To Find Love And Become A Mum?" | 11 Apr 2026 | 00:24:53 | |
If it feels like youâre running out of time to meet the right man and have the baby, family and life youâve always wanted⌠This episode will help no end đ Because the truth is: That pressure you feel to find love and start a family last, is the very thing stopping it from happening. I know thatâs hard to hear, but you already feel this, donât you? Dating feels hard. Connections feel forced. Nothing clicks the way you so badly want it to. This isnât because youâre doing anything wrong. But because of the energy youâre in when youâre dating. In this episode, I break down what actually happens when you feel like youâre ârunning out of timeâ and that intense pressure to find love and start a family while it feels like you still can. And why it creates a cycle that only pushes love further away. Youâll hear:
This isnât about âpretending like you donât careâ or not worrying anymore (you already know does advice doesnât help at all). This is about understand how love really works so you can stop pushing it away without realizing. âŚonly the most important lesson of your lifetime!! Because love doesnât respond to pressure. It responds to love. And once you see this, you unlock everything you need to finally live that vision youâve always had for your life. If youâre done with all the pressure, feeling like timeâs running out for you to find love and become a mum⌠đ§ Hit play and listen to this episode a few times over! Because this is love happens. đ Episodes to listen to next: Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 1 Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 2 đŠââ¤ď¸âđ¨ Get the trusted steps, tools, reminders and support that have helped 100s of women over 30 finally find real, lasting love: ATTRACT YOUR MAN Join Attract YOUR Man here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/attract-your-man You'll also find me on Instagram @findlovewithemily | |||