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Subjects: Halloween, Samhain, Festival of the Dead, traditions, global celebrations, cultural significance, All Hallows Eve, Krampus, Dia de Muertos, Bon Festival

I explore the multifaceted celebration of Halloween, tracing its origins back to the ancient Celtics. I discuss the evolution of Halloween traditions, the blending of Christian and Celtic customs, and the global variations of honouring the dead. I cover the cultural significance of these celebrations and the personal feelings surrounding life and death festivals.

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Subjects: fate, belief, destiny, personal crisis, free will, determinism, human connection, success, failure, coping mechanisms.

I explore the relationship between fate, belief, and personal agency. How is it that choices, no matter how different, keep leading back to the same place? Successful and learned people say no man is self-made. Is this an indication of fate or just a need for connection with others in order to flourish in life? I'm confused, I don't believe in it but for some reason my attention drifts towards the idea it maybe influencing my life. Maybe our subconscious plays the role of fate?

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Subjects: Podcasting, AI, quantum computing, listener engagement, societal issues, investment priorities, double standards, technology, human connection, existential concerns, mental health, technology, personal reflections,  authenticity, rebellion, simplicity, Groundhog Day.

I express my feelings of disconnection despite increasing podcast numbers, questioning the authenticity of listener engagement. I cover another disconnection, the World of AI and quantum computing, highlighting the ethical concerns surrounding technological advancements. I question the disproportionate investment, gloated over by Main Stream Media, in AI compared to pressing global issues like hunger and education, emphasizing a troubling trend of double standards in societal priorities.

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Subjects: dancing, psychology, self-expression, childhood, adulthood, personal experiences, social situations, movement, enjoyment, performance, DV8, Dead Dreams of Monochrome Men, the last dance.

I explore my personal aversion to dancing, contrasting it with his childhood enjoyment of the activity. I dig into the psychological aspects of dancing, discussing how self-consciousness and societal expectations can alter one's relationship with movement as they grow older. I also touch on the role of dance as a form of self-expression and the differences in motivations between children and adults. I share personal anecdotes and reflections on the nature of dance, ultimately concluding that while I may not enjoy participating, I appreciate it as an art form.

https://youtu.be/gefjRPpV7c8?si=yOXl5wdL7VncqhKA DV8 Dead Dreams of Monochrome Men

https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/news/international/us/psychology-says-people-who-dance-with-full-energy-on-the-floor-arent-attention-seekers-what-this-behavior-may-reveal-about-confidence-emotions-and-social-connection/articleshow/132523879.cms 

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Subjects: likeability, relationships, communication, genuine connections, personal growth

I explore the concept of likeability and how genuine connections can be formed through effective communication. I discuss the importance of making others feel valued and appreciated, emphasizing that true likeability stems from curiosity about others and the ability to give sincere compliments. I also touch upon the challenges of interpersonal relationships and the significance of treating others well.

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Subjects: brain injury, ultra-processed foods, health risks, cognitive decline, nutrition, inflammation, dietary choices, stroke prevention, mental health, food safety.

I discuss the impact of ultra-processed foods (UPFs) on brain health, highlighting research that links high consumption of these foods to long-term silent brain injuries, cognitive decline, and increased risk of strokes. I emphasize the importance of understanding what constitutes UPFs, the specific foods that pose the highest risks, and practical steps to reduce intake for better health outcomes.

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Keywords: AI fails, Just Eat, AI food images, AI-generated photos, AI in marketing, restaurant menus, AI backlash, AI helpers, opting out of AI, human photographers, robots, AI doom, social media ridicule, BBC News, podcast rant.

I talk about AI fails, like Just Eat's AI-generated food images: I also vent about AI helpers in online platforms, opting out of AI, human photographers, robots, and whether AI doom is real. It's my honest podcast take on artificial intelligence, which no doubt will be different due to the pace of change tomorrow.

Just Eat apologises for AI food mistakes after social media ridicule - BBC News

50 AI Art Fails That Are Both Horrifying And Hilarious | Bored Panda

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Keywords: Movement, Walking, Sport, V02Max, Boxlife, Health & Fitness, longevity.

My steps are down this month. Is there any harm in that? Should I not worry or not be bothered? Well there is a lot to be said for moving as opposed to staying still. You will live longer according to science. Which gives you more time to sit Infront of the TV or do more overtime at the office to pay for the kids inheritance.

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Keywords: Christmas trees, aquatic ecosystems, environmental science, biodiversity, Finland, ecological impact, sustainable practices, carbon emissions, habitat creation, marine life, recycling, sustainability, community action, holiday traditions, waste management, scientific inquiry.

I read an innovative experiment conducted in Finland where 1,500 Christmas trees were submerged in a lake to study their impact on aquatic ecosystems. The discussion highlights the significant increase in biodiversity resulting from the experiment, as well as the broader environmental implications of disposing of Christmas trees.

In 2021, scientists threw 1,500 Christmas trees into a lake; three years later, they had completely transformed the ecosystem - The Times of India

A “lost world” beneath the North Sea was once full of forests | ScienceDaily

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Keywords: burnout, emotional exhaustion, mental health, self-care, identity, sadness, coping strategies, mindfulness, connection, rest, Jay Shetty, School of Greatness

I'm done, I'm fried, I'm flatter than a space rock that just collied with Earth. But how can I fix this? How can I muster up the energy to come back? And the bigger question, how do I record an episode of this show without sounding like a reanimated corpse found in Datacentre's drainage ditch? Well I guess you will have to listen to find out!

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Keywords: burnout, mental health, emotional depletion, psychological overload, coping strategies, American Psycho.

In this conversation, I explore the topic of burnout, sharing my personal experience and insight into its symptoms and psychological mechanisms. I discuss my feelings of emotional depletion, reduced sense of accomplishment, and the desire to withdraw, all of which are indicative of burnout. I highlight the importance of recognizing burnout as a state that can be addressed through rest and recovery.

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Keywords: creativity, attachment, objects, psychology, workplace, identity, decision fatigue, personal items, human behaviour, emotional connection, The I.T. Crowd, burn after reading

In this momentary mental breakdown, I explore the themes of attachment to objects, and the psychological implications of these attachments. I highlight the cathartic process of deleting unworthy creations, the significance of personal items like mugs in the workplace, and how objects can serve as extensions of our identities. The discussion also touches on the emotional connections we form with everyday items, such as cars, and how these attachments reveal deeper aspects of human behaviour. I also probably offend brummies! But hey! You need to break a few eggs to make an omelette, right?

Subjects: cheating, sports, football, ethics, psychology, fairness, competition, hypocrisy, financial implications, everyday life, fairness, relationships, life lessons, morality, social norms, survival instincts, insider trading, trust, confessions, moral dilemmas, The Premier League, Manchester City, Oil Money, Aston Villa, Roman Abramovich, Qatar 2022.

In this conversation I ask my good friend Mark his opinion on the subject of cheating as it is not just a simple black and white subject. People have reasons for cheating, consciously or unconsciously decisions are made to win at all costs or with increased risk. But is it just a short term strategy or can it be justified long term, and if it is not breaking the law, then why should we care?

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Subjects: purpose, satisfaction, flow, energy, resilience, behavioural signs, emotional regulation, alignment, contribution, personal growth, job satisfaction, engagement, fulfilment, contentment, income, demographics

I explore the profound relationship between purpose and satisfaction, emphasizing that true fulfilment comes from aligning one's efforts with a meaningful purpose. I discuss various behavioural signs that indicate when someone is on their purpose. I highlight the importance of recognizing these signs to enhance personal growth and overall well-being. Making this episode had it's challenges, see prior episode, which ironically underlines the point I am making here. Which is spooky and weird!

https://youtu.be/NEjkftp7J7I?si=5haBbDrXsRPFksqw Rolling Stones live

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Subjects: technology, dissatisfaction, recording, irony, satisfaction, AI, simplicity, local recording, Silicon Valley, frustration, hatred

If you are looking for philosophies from Plato or the writings of Chaucer and Tolkien then maybe this episode is not for you. If you like listening to white middle aged males rant about first world problems then maybe this is your cup of tea. Mind the volume! Hopefully normal service resumes tomorrow and this podcast brings you a better standard of living then.

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Keywords: podcast, creativity, promotion, AI, audience, legacy, relationships, self-expression, creative process, personal growth, family support, Soundcloud, Jesus, George Soros

In this episode I explore the reasons behind my decision not to promote this podcast to friends and family. I discuss the importance of maintaining creative integrity, the role of AI in understanding human behaviour, and the apparent desire to create a legacy through my words.  I go into the complexities of relationships and the impact of external opinions on creative confidence, ultimately emphasizing the need for authentic audience engagement.

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Subjects: motivation, milestones, humour, minimalist, podcast, reflections, life insights, PayPal, angst.

To be fair this episode is not much use. It contains feelings of boredom, resentment and a lack of motivation, whilst I also contemplate the arbitrary nature of milestones like this 150th episode. So What? To me Milestones are meaningless even if deep within me my attention gravitates to such trinkets! I want to be of use even when I am not feeling useful and so I release this without deleting it so as to highlight that not every day is good or sugar coated like a TikTok lifestyle but is simply a passing of time with no significant event or gain.

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Subjects: Gen Z, social habits, coffee raves, soft clubbing, daytime socializing, alcohol consumption, nightlife, connection, sober curious, social events, zig & zag.

In this conversation I look at the evolving social habits of Gen Z, particularly their shift away from traditional nightlife towards more sober and daytime socializing options like coffee raves and soft clubbing. I highlight the appeal of these new social formats, which prioritize connection over alcohol consumption and cater to a generation that values mental well-being and meaningful interactions. But they are not the only generation to embrace this change in our times, because there's me for one!

https://youtu.be/WhnJfd1aiFM?si=q4C_RjPUYYpyGck0 Reel to Real 'I like to move it'

https://youtu.be/-BvdUw__JYw?si=T8DhGMCIn7cxhoaG Zig & Zag 'I like to move it'

events — beats & caffeine.

Soft Clubbing 2026: Coffee Raves, Run Raves & Sober Mornings Decoded | GRASS

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Keywords: nostalgia, goal setting, forgetfulness, emotional weight, systems for success, identity, self-discovery, humour, The Orb.

In this conversation, I reflect about forgetfulness and the challenges of setting and achieving goals. I explore the emotional weight of goals, the importance of creating systems to support success, and the journey of self-discovery. I also throw in a little humour, showing the lighter side of life's challenges.

Decision Jokes - 101 Hilarious Decision Jokes

https://youtu.be/8Ecdn5SGT1E?si=EaqZAUCklbJC9OLq The Orb Little Fluffy Clouds

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Subjects: US Comedy, UK Comedy, Bill Hicks, George Carlin, Richard Prior, Chris Rock, Jerry Seinfeld, Dave Chappelle, Joan Rivers, Billy Connolly, Ricky Gervais, Jimmy Carr, Frankie Boyle, Sean Locke, Les Dawson, Johnny Vegas, Lee Evans, Suzy Eddie Izzard. Ken Dodd, Dave Allen, Bill Burr.

Comedy has always been a mirror reflecting society, but what happens when that mirror becomes foggy or smaller? In this episode I delve into the changing landscape of comedy and the reasons behind the perception that humour isn't as sharp as it used to be.

Why modern ‘comedians’ like Romesh Ranganathan aren’t funny | The Spectator

Lee Evans (comedian) - Wikipedia

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Subjects: Writing, Psychology, Self-awareness, The mind, Mental Health, Subconscious, habbits.

You join me today as I reflect on a rather curious habit that many of us might not even recognize — the tendency to skip the word "I" when writing.

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Subjects: personal growth, health strategies, mental well-being, social connections, self-improvement, Coffee, Showers, Fasting, savouring, gratitude. 

The beginning of this year was bleak for me and was building on top of an already abysmal 2025. I felt I was done for physically, mentally and spiritually. Now, I certainly have not fixed the spiritual side of things, but I had to get the basics in, and that was by getting my body and mind in a place of productive use and place of stability. I needed to increase my energy to push back against the years of accumulated mental loss and toxic funk. So what has worked so far in this life resurgence and story of against all odds? 

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Subjects: Peltzman effect, risk compensation, safety measures, behavioral economics, medication, finance, betting, investments, overconfidence, safety nets

In this episode, I explores the Peltzman effect, a behavioural phenomenon where increased safety measures lead to riskier behaviour. I discuss various examples, including driving with seatbelts, medication reliance, and financial decisions, illustrating how perceived safety can reduce caution and lead to negative outcomes. I emphasize the importance of recognizing these patterns in everyday life and making informed choices to mitigate risks.

Sam Peltzman - Wikipedia

What gambling firms don’t want you to know – and how they keep you hooked | Gambling | The Guardian

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Subjects: Excitement, childhood, adulthood, adventure, psychology, sensory impact, mental health. 

We often hear that with age comes wisdom, but what about the thrill of excitement? I take us on a journey through how excitement transforms from childhood to adulthood and how we could possibly reignite that spark. 

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Subjects: reading, literacy, comprehension, gratitude, language, education, understanding, communication, evolution, copyright, Middle-east, Persia,

In this reflective conversation, I express my gratitude for the ability to read and explore the complexities of literacy. I discuss the different levels of literacy, the importance of comprehension beyond mere reading, and the evolution of language and copyright. 

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Subjects: I.T issues, rage, computer rage, anatomy of frustration, software issues, cognitive load, loss aversion

Why do I get so vexed at this thing called software? Nothing else in this mad despotic and war based economy World makes me so angry than this? So why? Join me as I ask software why I fall out with it so often.

Here are Limp Bizkit dismantling Woodstock: "Who here likes NSYNC?"😄

https://youtu.be/YPk7-fCvbao?si=xUy4YWonOoP7OmX1

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In this episode, I reflect on the nature of happiness, discussing insights from Dr. Laurie Santos, a Yale expert on happiness. I explore the idea that happiness is not a natural state but a skill that can be developed. I delve into the mind's deceptions that lead us astray in our pursuit of happiness and presents five actionable steps to rewire our brains for a happier, or less miserable, life.

Yale expert shares 5 steps to rewire your brain for happiness with no weird tricks - Upworthy

Ken Dodd – Happiness Lyrics | Genius Lyrics

is pharrell williams happy? - Search

Keywords: happiness, mental health, Dr. Laurie Santos, rewiring the brain, social connection, gratitude, exercise, mindfulness, self-care, emotional well-being.

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In this episode, I give gratitude to listeners for reaching a significant milestone of 400,000 downloads. I share insights into listener demographics, highlighting the countries and regions where the podcast is most popular. I delve into the reasons behind the popularity of podcasts in the USA and UK, as well as the challenges faced in regions with lower podcast production.

AI suggested the following description about a tune I hummed:

'This conversation delves into the complexities of copyright issues, exploring various themes and insights related to the topic.' Erm...No I didn't but thanks anyway, A.I. system!

Keywords: podcast, milestones, listener demographics, global podcasting, challenges in podcasting, media industry, audience engagement, podcast platforms, cultural preferences, podcast statistics

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In this episode I reflect in part on my journey of self-improvement inspired by Arnold Schwarzenegger. I discuss the importance of giving back to others and the philosophical implications of focusing on others rather than oneself. The next bit of description comes courtesy of Sky-Net:

Through personal anecdotes and insights, James encourage listeners to break their mirrors—both literally and metaphorically—to foster a more altruistic mindset. The conversation culminates in a call to action for listeners to reflect on their contributions to the world and to hold themselves accountable for their intentions.

Keywords: Arnold Schwarzenegger, inspiration, giving back, self-improvement, life lessons, personal growth, philosophy, motivation, podcast, self-reflection

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arnold schwarzenegger red heat images - Search Images

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I normally write everything myself but in keeping with the doom and gloom of AI eradicating our species I will let AI describe this episode for me with a strong sense of irony that AI will never know the feeling of family. One-nil to the humans!

"In this conversation, James reflects on the concept of family and the societal perceptions surrounding it. He shares personal anecdotes about his experiences with family dynamics, the importance of building connections, and the often-overlooked goal of pursuing a family life. Through humour and introspection, he questions the value of family in modern society and explores the idea of whether it is still a worthwhile pursuit at his age."

Subjects: family, goals, relationships, parenting, community, personal growth, family dynamics, life choices, societal values, connection.

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What makes some car enthusiasts modify their vehicles to produce obnoxious noises? In this episode, I drive deep into the psychology behind noisy exhausts and the behaviours of those who drive them. And I find out something society should really know in order to better our future selves.

Subjects: Loud Exhausts, Pop and Bang Mapping, identity signalling, insecurity, satanic, Honda Civic, Metro, VW Polo, Baseball caps.

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Ever found yourself unable to resist that tub of Pringles? I dive into the world of addictive foods, mouth first, by sharing personal anecdotes and research findings that reveal what makes certain snacks so hard to put down.

Subjects: University of Michigan, food, dopamine, addiction, cravings, obesity, yale food addiction scale, corporate greed.

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With tattoos having transcended their past associations, becoming a significant form of personal expression in modern culture. I delve into the complexities of tattoos, exploring why they have surged in popularity and what they signify for individuals today.

Subjects: Tattoos, Wallpaper, LA ink, Sleeves, rebellion, sailors, convicts, tribes, MRSA.

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After a stressful day of recording, I get a grip and share a reflection inspired by astronaut Ron Garan's experience aboard the International Space Station.

Ronald J. Garan Jr. - Wikipedia

Peaceful World — Peace Education for Everyone

Subjects: ISS, Earth, us versus them, stop dehumanisation, atmosphere, global trade, War

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I see so many cultural differences between the English and the Spanish yet Geographically we are not that far apart. Also it seems to be many an Englishman's dream to move to the Mediterranean, but why? After a short visit to Spain, despite feeling a little isolated as I speak no Spanish and spoke to no English people for four days, I really liked and respected the Spanish people. In hindsight I don't regret the loneliness felt as I feel it opened a door to something else, in a direction a lot more fulfilling.

Subjects: Spain, England, dust, rain, bus drivers, cigarettes, Mediterranean ladies, coffee, food, manners.

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I reflect on my recent trip to Spain, discussing my struggle with the concept of relaxation while on holiday. I question societal expectations around travel and relaxation, exploring psychological barriers that prevent some individuals from enjoying downtime. Am I broken for not wanting to or being able to do "relaxation"?

Subjects: Spain, relaxation, holiday, mental health, travel, personal experience, psychological barriers, rest, cultural differences, mindfulness

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The more people I'm surrounded by and the more places I go, the more I find loneliness. I'm not looking for it, I want the opposite, so why is this happening? Dr Carl Jung was aware of this problem it seems, maybe he to felt it?

Subjects: Carl Jung, psychology, empty, the weight of awareness, emotional v physical isolation.

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My experiment of not originating contact is wearing me down a little bit. Is the origination of communication and ideas evenly spread across our species or is it just a special group who have to do it?

Subjects: Communication, fear of rejection, Low confidence in leadership, group dynamics, social permission, influence, inspiration, initiation.

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I came across an article online that I had to share about three habits that impact peoples self-esteem. And so I read a good part of the feature and share my insights and experience in connection to these habits. Could I change and end these habits I, and possibly you, have picked up in life?

People With Exceptionally High Self-Esteem Refuse To Engage In 3 Common Habits | YourTango

Keywords: Self-esteem, Coke, habits, worrying, dwelling, rumination, wants and needs, macaroni cheese, Publix

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After hearing a relatives request that shocked me, I explore the concept of dying wishes, discussing various unusual requests people have made for their funerals. I reflect on the implications of these requests, both for the deceased and their loved ones, while also looking at what I might wish for at the end of life, leading to a light-hearted yet hopefully thought-provoking discussion about death and legacy.

Subjects: dying wishes, funeral requests, personal reflections, death, humour, life choices, legacy, memorials, unique funerals, end of life

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I share my personal experience and insight regarding the psychological aspects of holiday planning, including feelings of regret and anxiety after booking a trip. What are the common emotional responses to spending money on vacations and are there any strategies to mitigate regret? Additionally, what is the psychological impact of spending on experiences versus material goods? I can't keep what I have just bought, only in memories.

Subjects: travel, holiday planning, vacation regret, mental health, travel tips, budgeting, Spain, Ibiza, Alicante, psychological insights, vacation planning, post-booking audit, the what if loop.

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Is this above my pay grade to help you understand the concept? In this episode I describe the importance of striving for optimum living while humorously reflecting on personal experiences with socially unhealthy people. It's a critique of 'jobsworth' individuals, who rigidly adhere to rules, often complicating situations unnecessarily. I use cultural references and personal anecdotes to illustrate the impact of such behaviour on our society.

Keywords: health benefits, optimum living, jobsworth, bureaucracy, compliance, Sean Bean, UK culture, rules, societal issues, personal anecdotes, M&Ms, little Hitler, Nazis, Shrewsbury Park and Ride.

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Littering is a pervasive issue that often sparks strong opinions and emotions, certainly in me anyway. In this episode, I unpack the psychological and situational factors that apparently drive this behaviour, and decide what psychologists' give in answers may in itself belong in the bin as unsatisfactory.

Subjects: scum, littering, psychology, strong emotions, passing spitfires, Ven diagram

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Sometimes when I hit words or concepts I don't fully get I look up the words I can't clearly define. This one has had me confused or uncertain in the past (ed; that's ironic given what it means!) and so it is time for me to clear it up. I hope this helps you, as well as it does for me? But that is the point of the podcast after all.

Keywords: Gaslighting, manipulation, self-doubt, The Truman Show, dinner, confusion, identity, conversation, misunderstanding.

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In this episode I help a Professor increase his chances of breeding through the application of A.I. Goal setting. Not human goal setting, but how an A.I would approach a goal without that emotional garbage we like to litter things with.

Subjects: Science., A.I., halitosis, sex-axis, goal setting, failed goals, machine learning, achievement.

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In this episode I read the psychological factors influencing travel preferences, particularly the preference for train travel over flying. I delve into how personal experiences, mindfulness, and personality traits shape these choices, emphasizing the journey's value and the emotional benefits of train travel. Well sometimes, the emotional trauma of many a UK urban train journey can scar one for life, so obviously approach the concept with caution.

Keywords: travel preferences, train travel, psychology, mindfulness, personality traits, emotional well-being, environmental values, journey experience, self-determination theory, attention restoration theory, shopping trolleys

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Does engaging with our furry friends do wonders for our mental and physical health? In this episode I explore the relationship between humans and animals, particularly how reasoning with them can lead to significant health benefits. I thought it may lead to madness but AI does not...unless AI is wanting us to go mad?

Subjects: Dogs, cats, Spiders, Attractiveness, Pets on Horse back, Single life, loneliness.

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Why should I grow this podcast and if I want to, How do I grow my podcast? Well my Co-pilot explains how whilst I have an existential crisis upon my journey, again. 

Keywords: Podcast ranking, purpose, follows, subscriptions, spiders on coffee, Trump.

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Whilst sitting in the front door way, sweating in my pants gasping for oxygen, I came upon this story of animal protection versus economic benefit. Which wins and do I eventually stop sweating into my headphones when I record this?

Subjects: polar bear, wildlife disturbance, environmental law, Svalbard, animal rights, tourism impact, BBC news, climate change

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Whilst scrambling up the inside walls of a crumbling and burning hot crater I often think to myself "What is the cause of all this failure?" My personal hell is a groundhog day and that Groundhog needs electrocuting in the bath, anything to break the cycle. So whilst I'm in a hole why not go digging for answers as half the Earth has already been cleared for me? The answer explodes into view raining down hot lava into my camomile tea and muddies the windows of the passing aliens on their way to see the pyramids. It will all make sense if you listen.

Subjects: White middle aged men, identity, relationship breakdown, career stagnation, financial debt, self-doubt, mental health, beyond Earth.

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