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The Cleansing Power of Shabbat Preparations The Midrash ( Bereshit Rabbah 56:3) observes that in the Torah'saccount of עקידת יצחק – the story of Avraham Avinu placing his son, Yitzchak, on thealtar and preparing to slaughter him in compliance with Hashem's command – theTorah refers to Avraham's knife with the term מאכולת . A knife is occasionally called מאכולת , a term thatstems from the root א.כ.ל. ("eat"), because it is used to slaughter animals so their meetmay be consumed. In the specific contextof עקידת יצחק , however, the Midrash comments that this term alludes to thefact that the Jewish People, the descendants of Avraham Avinu, continue"eating" and benefiting from the merit of this great act of self-sacrifice andsubservience to the Divine Will, to this very day. The Vilna Gaon ( Kol Eliyahu , Parashat Vayera) raises thequestion of how to reconcile the Midrash's comment with the well-establishedprinciple of שכר מצוה בהאי עלמא ליכא – the reward for mitzvot is grantedin the next world, and not in this world. How do we benefit here in this world from the great mitzvah of עקידת יצחק , if our Sages teach that we receive reward for mitzvot only in the next world? The Gaon answers that the Midrash refers to the mitzvot for allthe extensive preparations that Avraham made to sacrifice his son. Of course, he never actually performed thesacrifice, as at the last moment Hashem ordered him to withdraw his knife. The rewards that we receive, then, are onlyfor the preparations – the three-day journey to Mount Moriah, tying Yitzchakupon the altar, preparing the knife, and so on. Preparing for any mitzvah yields very significant rewards. It is through the efforts we invest beforethe mitzvah is performed, in preparation for the act, that we earn greatmerit. This is especially true of Shabbat. The Torat Hayim (Eruvin 19a) writes that our preparation for Shabbat parallels our preparation in this world for our lives in the eternalworld. As Shabbat is מעין עולם הבא – aglimpse of the next world, our preparations for Shabbat are to resemble ourpreparations for the afterlife. In orderfor a person to earn a share in the next world, he must be spiritual pure. Those whose souls have been contaminated inthis world must undergo a "cleansing" process before they earn entry into thenext world. Correspondingly, halachah requires us to bathe with warm water on Erev Shabbat as part of ourpreparations for Shabbat. This cleansingof our bodies represents the cleansing of our souls, a necessary prerequisitefor experiencing the beauty and splendor of the next world. It emerges, then, that preparing for Shabbat has a "cleansing" effectupon our souls. The hard work and effortwe invest in preparing for Shabbat, even bathing, has a very significantspiritual impact, preparing our souls to receive the special kedushah ofShabbat. Further insight into this "cleansing" power can be gleaned from aremarkable comment by the Ben Ish Hai. Halachah requires washing our hands each morning when we awaken in order to remove the tum'ah (impurity) that descends upon our hands as we sleep. The Ben Ish Hai explains this concept by wayof an analogy to the body's circulatory system. When a person's blood is not circulating properly, then this conditionis manifest specifically in the body's extremities – the fingers and feet. They turn blue and do not function properly,because the blood does not reach these outermost regions of the body. Similarly, the Ben Ish Hai writes, when aperson wakes up in the morning, most of the contamination that descended overthe course of the night leaves, but it remains on the body's extremities. Therefore, one is required to washspecifically the hands each morning. However, as the Ben Ish Hai proceeds to note, this gives rise to thequestion of why halachah does not also require washing one's feet eachmorning. If the tum'ah on thebody's extremities remain when one awakens, then why must he wash only hishands? The Ben Ish Hai answers that halachah does not require washingone's feet in the morning because this would not suffice to eliminate the tum'ah . Since the feet tread continuously on theground, the tum'ah on the feet is so powerful that it cannot be removedthrough washing. The exception to thisrule, the Ben Ish Hai adds, is the kohanim in the Bet Ha'mikdash ,who are required to wash their hands and feet before entering the Mikdash . The special sanctity of the Mikdash makes it possible to eliminate the tum'ah even from the feet, and soalthough we are not required to wash our feet each morning, the kohanim are required to wash their feet before entering the Bet Ha'mikdash . Remarkably, there is also a second exception – Erev Shabbat. The Ben Ish Hai writes that halachah requires us to wash, minimally, our face, hands and feet every Erev Shabbat inpreparation for Shabbat. The reason isthat just as the sanctity of the Mikdash makes it possible for the kohanim to eliminate the tum'ah from their feet, the special sanctity of Shabbatsimilarly has this unique ability. Shabbatpreparations offer us an opportunity that is otherwise reserved exclusively forthe kohanim in the Bet Ha'mikdash – to thoroughly cleanse oursouls and achieve a pristine level of spiritual purity. This theme of preparation closely relates to the sefirat ha'omer period, when we spend forty-nine days preparing for Matan Torah . The period of sefirat ha'omer is intended to serve as a period ofintensive preparation, because the more we prepare for the event of Matan Toraah , the greater and more enduringan impact the experience of Matan Torah will have upon us. Our Sages note that although Avraham had numerous servants, he himselfsaddled his donkey and made the necessary preparations for עקידת יצחק . Years later, when Bilam set out to place acurse upon Beneh Yisrael , he specifically saddled his own donkey, ratherthan asking one of his servants to do so, in an effort to "counter" Avraham'senthusiasm. Bilam keenly understood thepower of preparation, and sought to use this power for his evil plot to destroy Beneh Yisrael . We are to followthe inspiring example of Avraham, who utilized the power of preparation for thepurpose of serving Hashem and bringing kedushah into the world. Let us, then, joyfully and enthusiasticallyprepare for Shabbat each week, recognizing the great benefits and impact ofthese efforts.
The Great Blessing and Merit of Shabbat
Friday, February 9, 2024 • Duration
Whenever we involve ourselves in some project or undertaking, it’s a good idea to properly appreciate the value of what we’re doing, in order to sustain our zeal and motivation to accomplish and achieve at the highest standard. This is true of Shabbat, as well. The more we understand and appreciate the immense value of Shabbat, the more driven we will be to enhance our Shabbat observance and bring it to a higher level. This is especially so as we prepare for the final Shabbat of the year. Performing any mitzvah is a great privilege. While we perform mitzvot first and foremost because we are obligated to do so, we must also recognize that it is a great privilege to serve the Almighty and accrue merits through the performance of a mitzvah . And one of the greatest rewards we earn through the performance of a mitzvah is the privilege of performing additional mitzvot . This concept is powerfully conveyed through a story told by the Ponevitcher Rav about a conversation he once had with the Hazon Ish. The Ponevitcher Rav occasionally traveled to the United States to raise money for the yeshiva, and after one of his trips, he asked the Hazon Ish about a curious phenomenon that he experienced. Every so often, when he approached a prospective donor to ask for a contribution, the man would ask him to come back the next day. “I just don’t understand,” the Ponevitcher Rav said. “If he wants to donate, then why doesn’t he just donate, and if he does not want to donate, then why doesn’t he just say so?” The Hazon Ish asked him what he thought the explanation was, and the Ponevitcher Rav said that perhaps people say this because they do not really wish to donate, and so they tell him to return the next day in the hope that he won’t, or that they would not be available when he comes. The Hazon Ish, however, said that this is not correct. The reason why they respond this way, he explained, is because they need a zechut (source of merit) with which to earn the mitzvah of supporting Torah study. If a person does not feel quite ready to donate, and so he asks the Rabbi to return the next day, it is because he needs an additional source of merit, such as another prayer, or another act of kindness, before he earns the great privilege of supporting Torah. Another story that illustrates this point is told by Rav Avraham Mordechai Shapiro, a famous student of Rav Aharon Kotler, in his work Imreh Mordechai . He tells that he was once in Tel-Aviv on a Friday in the 1950s, and he happened to be in front of a small shop. A customer came to the shop and asked to buy a pack of cigarettes. The shopkeeper looked at his watch, and told the man that he could not sell him the cigarettes because of the time. He explained that his practice was not to sell cigarettes after midday on Friday, because he did not want to facilitate Shabbat desecration. Rav Shapiro overheard this exchange, and was intrigued by the shopkeeper. He was further impressed when he saw that the shopkeeper had a volume of Mishnayot – Masechet Ma’aser Sheni – open on his desk as he sat waiting for customers. He approached the man and they started talking. The man told Rav Shapiro that his name was Yaakov, and that he used to be a butcher in the city of Minsk. Rav Shapiro mentioned that he was visiting from the United States. The man then asked if he knew anything about a certain Arkeleh Sislitzer. He had heard that this young man, Arkeleh, who was originally from Minsk, had gone to the United States and became very renowned among American Jewry. He wondered if Rav Shapiro had heard of him. Rav Shapiro soon realized that the man was referring to was his esteemed Rabbi – Rav Aharon Kotler. The man proceeded to tell him that during his years working as a butcher in Minsk, he would donate a few pennies for every kilo of meat he sold to hire tutors for children who had trouble learning. There was one orphan who exhibited an exceptional intellect, and at the age of 14, he was already too advanced for any Torah learning framework available in Minsk. And, as the Enlightenment movement was very influential in the city, he feared that this boy – Arkeleh – might come under the movement’s influence. So, the butcher donated the money to pay for tickets for him and for another student – whose name he did not remember – to travel to Slobodka and learn in the yeshiva there. Remarkably, this man had the privilege of sending 14-year-old Arkeleh Sislitzer to yeshiva, where he would eventually become the great Rav Aharon Kotler. Rav Shapiro told this story to Rav Yaakov Kaminetzky, who learned in Slobodka together with Rav Aharon Kotler. As he told this story, he asked Rav Yaakov if he knew the second boy whose trip to Slobodka was sponsored by this butcher. “You’re looking at him,” Rav Yaakov replied. This butcher obviously had a great zechut previously that enabled him to be the one to send two young men off to learn that eventually became gedolim that changed the face of America. Enhancing our observance of Shabbat has the ability to bring us great merit. The merit of this mitzvah is very powerful, and leads us to additional privileges and opportunity to earn rewards. In 2006, the community of Lakewood, NJ was graced by a visit by Rav Aharon Leib Steinman. This was a difficult time in Lakewood, when the community was struck by an unusually large number of tragedies. When Rav Steinman visited, the people of Lakewood asked what they could do to earn merit to improve the situation. Rav Steinman answered that Shabbat is the source of all blessing in the world, and so by accepting Shabbat a half-hour early, they will earn blessing. That Shabbat, the entire community of Lakewood accepted Shabbat a half-hour early. After the first hour of Shabbat, the local Hatzalah dispatcher noticed that he had not received any phone calls, and feared that there might be a problem with the communications system. Normally, within the first hour of Shabbat, Hatzalah would receive several calls of medical emergencies, but on that Shabbat, everything was silent. He checked the network and found that everything was in perfect working order. The silence continued throughout the night, and even throughout the next day. Hatzalah did not receive a single call that entire Shabbat. After Shabbat, Rav Malkiel Kotler excitedly phoned Rav Steinman and shared with him the news. On a typical Shabbat, he said, Hatzalah receives some 40 calls, but on that Shabbat, it did not receive any. This remarkable story should reinforce our appreciation for the great privilege that we have to observe Shabbat, and for the great blessings that we earn through this mitzvah . If we are looking to end the year the right way, and to begin the new year the right way, the best thing we can do is to enhance Shabbat, by beginning Shabbat a bit early, by spending it the right way, and by making it the spiritual and serene experience that it is meant to be. If we work to raise our standards of Shabbat observance, then we will access the great bounty of blessing that Shabbat offers us, and we will see the fulfillment of the wish תחל שנה וברכותיה – “May the year begin with its blessings.”
The Two Angels
Friday, January 26, 2024 • Duration
Welcome to Embrace Shabbat. The Yaarot Devash teaches that there are seven mazalot , which correspond to the seven days of the week, and Shabbat corresponds to a negative mazal . It is for this reason that other religions celebrate their Sabbath on Friday or Sunday, rather than Shabbat. They believe that connecting their day of rest to Shabbat will bring negativity upon them. However, as Jews, we believe that by celebrating Shabbat, we demonstrate that we do not believe in other forces, such as mazalot , controlling us. Rather, we know that it is HaKadosh Baruch Hu Who is in charge and determines the course of our lives. The Avudraham (as quoted in the Anaf Yosef in Ein Yaakov on Masechet Shabbat 119b) teaches that the mazal of Friday is named “ Tzedek ,” and it is accompanied by the angel Tzadkiel , a good angel. The power of this mazal remains in existence through the final moments of Erev Shabbat. The mazal of Shabbat is mahadim , from the root word edom - red. The Gemara teaches that one who is born under this mazal of redness has a bloodthirsty nature and will have a tendency to direct his energies to being a mohel, shochet, or murderer. Rav Wolbe explains that for such a person, his violent tendencies will not change. However, he can chanel it for a mitzvah , such as milah ; a positive action (though not a mitzvah ), such a preparing kosher meat; or murder. This mazal of redness is the mazal of Shabbat. The power of this mazal comes into effect right from the start of Shabbat and is accompanied by the malach is סמאל , a negative angel (it is preferred not to pronounce the name of this malach and therefore people refer to it as ס-מ ). The Avudarham explains the connection between these two angels and the famous Gemara in Shabbat: two angels accompany a person home from shul on Friday night, a good angel and a bad angel. The Avudarham explains that these two angles are the positive angel of Friday and the negative angel of Shabbat, who “change shifts” and walk a person home as Shabbat begins. When they reach his home, they check if the table is set, the bedroom is made up, and the candles are lit. Then, either the good angel blesses the home and the bad angel answers “Amen,” or vice versa. When we sing שלום עליכם מלאכי השרת on Friday night, we welcome in these two angels: Tzadkiel of Friday and the negative ס-מ of Shabbat. Commenting on the words ה' פֹּ֘קֵ֤חַ עִוְרִ֗ים , G-d opens up the eyes of the blind, the Chidah (Tehillim 146:8) explains that the root of the name ס-מ is סומה , a blind person ; he blinds others from seeing the difference between an aveira and a mitzvah . ה' פֹּ֘קֵ֤חַ עִוְרִ֗ים does not just refer to a blind person who cannot see, but also a person that is blinded by the yetzer hara and can’t see correctly . When a person does Teshuva , Hashem is ה' פֹּ֘קֵ֤חַ עִוְרִ֗ים , He opens up the eyes of the blind. On Shabbat, the angel of ס-מ brings darkness and negativity. Therefore, we light candles to symbolically light up that darkness. The Iyun Yaakov teaches that the two candles as well as the two angels represent Shamor and Zachur . It is our hope that lighting the two candles will bring light into our Shabbat. Have a Shabbat Shalom.
Shabbat Emunah
Friday, January 5, 2024 • Duration
Welcome to Embrace Shabbat. The Gemara in Masechet Shabbat 118b teaches: אָמַר רַבִּי יוֹחָנָן: כׇּל הַמְשַׁמֵּר שַׁבָּתכְּהִלְכָתוֹ, אֲפִילּוּ עוֹבֵד עֲבוֹדָה זָרָה [כְּדוֹר] אֱנוֹשׁ — מוֹחֲלִין לוֹ RabbiYochanan said: anyone who observes Shabbat properly, even if he worshipsidolatry, as in the generation of Enosh, he will be forgiven. Rashi explains that Enosh is specificallymentioned because in his generation, the people began serving avodah zara . The Rambam explains thedriving force behind Enosh's sin: at first, the people of the generationrecognized G-d's greatness, and felt that honoring His celestial beings wouldserve as a means of honoring Him, as the heavenly bodies serve as intermediariesthat assist G-d. With time, however, people forgot G-d- the original Source-and began serving the heavenly bodies themselves, thinking that the stars andmoon were controlling the world on their own. How, according to Rabbi Yochanan, can Shabbatserve as a counterforce to this belief?While Shabbat may serve as a reminder that G-d created the world in six daysand rested on the seventh, that belief does not counteract idolatry; a personmay believe that G-d created the world and put it in the hands ofintermediaries, with whom He wants us to communicate. How does Shabbat provethat a person should deal directly with G-d? The Sefer AhavatEitan, a commentary on the Ein Yaakov ,explains that when a person keeps Shabbat, he attests to the fact that G-dcontinues to run and supervise the world. Observing Shabbat demands of a personto put their parnassah in the handsof Hashem and trust that He will continue to sustain them. Therefore, when aperson keeps Shabbat, he attests to the fact that HaKadosh Baruch Hu deals withhim directly without any intermediary. The bracha of Shabbat only comes through refraining fromworking. On a deeper level, the Yearot Devash teaches that each day of the week has a differentmazal and the mazal of Shabbat is "Shabtai", the mazal of destruction. Peoplebelieved that order to appease this mazal, a person must be in a sad andmelancholy mood. Therefore, the Jewish people were happy and celebrated Shabbatto show that they were not influenced by the mazal, because they dealt directlywith HaKadosh Baruch Hu. When a person keeps Shabbat properly, he demonstratesthat he does not need to worry about mazalot or intermediaries, as they deal with HaKadosh Baruch Hu directly. It is for these reasons that Shabbat is a dayof strengthening Emunah. In addition to refraining from the 39 melachot , a person must guard Shabbat. A person can accomplishthis by pondering Hashem's hashgacha and supervision- that He deals with uswithout an intermediary. A person may think about the fact that they do notneed to worry about mazalot, which today refers to natural forces that appearto have some strength, because they don't actually do anything. May theseEmunah lessons strengthen us with every single Shabbat. Have a Shabbat Shalom, and bez'h throughkeeping Shabbat, our sins will be forgiven.
Shabbat Holiness and Blessing
Friday, December 29, 2023 • Duration
Welcome to Embrace Shabbat. Rav Gershon Edelstein zt"l, the Rosh Yeshiva of Ponevezh Yeshiva, shares a beautiful thought about Shabbat. In Beraishit it tells us, וַיְבָ֤רֶךְ אֱלֹהִים֙ אֶת־י֣וֹם הַשְּׁבִיעִ֔י וַיְקַדֵּ֖שׁ אֹת֑וֹ, G-d blessed the seventh day and He made it holy. Rav Edelstein points out that this is something that existed even before Matan Torah: Shabbat inherently had added blessing and kedusha. What is the added blessing? Shabbat is the mekor haBeracha , which refers to physical blessings. Shabbat provides bracha for a person’s body, their parnassah, their food and drink, and everything else needed for Shabbat and the rest of the year. In the merit of Shabbat, HaKadosh Baruch Hu gives us our parnassah. As the famous Chofetz Chaim teaches: when a person works on Shabbat, it is as if he put a seventh hole in an existing barrel. Nothing more will come out. Shabbat is the source of all physical blessings. וַיְקַדֵּ֖שׁ- Kedusha refers to the spiritual uplifting of Shabbat. On Shabbat, not only is the day itself holy, but a person themselves can become holier. This was true even before Matan Torah. Adam HaRishon and the avot kept Shabbat- inherently Shabbat brings Kedusha unto a person. Medrash Rabba (Beraishit 11:2) explains that this special kedusha refers to a person’s face. אֵינוֹ דוֹמֶה אוֹר פָּנָיו שֶׁל אָדָם כָּל יְמוֹת הַשַּׁבָּת, כְּמוֹ שֶׁהוּא דּוֹמֶה בְּשַׁבָּת. On Shabbat a person has a different face. The word פָּנִים, face, is connected to פְּנִים, your inside; a person’s face expresses what is going on inside of them. The Chofetz Chaim relates the following story to show that even a young child can recognize this. A father that was angry at his daughter during the week and was still walking around with an angry face. The girl said to her father, “Can you please have your Shabbat face on?” Even a little girl was able to pick up that there is a Shabbat face, there is something different there about the face of Shabbat. This concept that the face expresses what is inside explains why it is that there is a certain chein (grace) in young children. When we look at young children, we see a certain wholesomeness, because the child hasn’t sinned yet. Similarly, when Sarah Imeinu died, the Torah tells us that when she was 20, it was like she was a 7 in beauty. The obvious question is that 7 year olds are not beautiful! Why are we comparing her at 20 to be like a 7 year old? A seven year old has a wholesome beauty that does not have any sinful thought to it. Therefore, even though Sarah turned 20, it was still like she was stuck in a seven year old body. Let us tap into these two aspects of Shabbat: kedusha and bracha. May we have the holiness of kedusha and the physical blessings from our bracha. On Shabbat, we have to enhance and appreciate both of these things. Appreciate the physical blessing that Shabbat brings us. We start Shabbat off with kiddush, which has in it both aspects. We cannot eat before we say Kiddush, which means that we are acknowledging G-d’s holiness and the holiness of Shabbat before start the meal. May we merit to both gain from the kedusha, the holiness, and the bracha of Shabbat. Have a Shabbat Shalom.
Shabbat Keeps the Generation Going
Friday, November 17, 2023 • Duration
Welcome to Embrace Shabbat. ושמרו בני ישראל את השבת לעשות את השבת לדרתם , Bnei Yisrael should preserve Shabbat, to maintain Shabbat for their future generations. The Zohar highlights that the word לדרתם is written without a vuv , and therefore can be read as לְדִרֹתָם , for their dwellings . How does a person guarantee the continuation of their generations? לְדִרֹתָם - make Shabbat in their homes . We don’t appreciate the impact of Shabbat on our family’s continuity. In the early years of America, many people assimilated because they gave up on Shabbat. (We are not judging them. There were great challenges at the time.) Without Shabbat, the generations don’t continue. Rav Shach had a son who was not as strong as his father was. There was another Rosh Yeshiva who lived in the same apartment building, and all of his sons followed in his ways and became Roshei Yeshiva. Some once asked Rav Shach, “Why is it that you are a Rosh Yeshiva, but your son didn’t follow in your ways?” Rav Shach admitted that he made a mistake. When he was younger and was raising his children, he would finish the Shabbat meal very quickly so that he could go learn. The other Rosh Yeshiva spent time singing zemirot and making the Shabbat table into a special place. Rav Shach attributed it to this difference and learned from his mistake. There are stories about couples who came to him to ask for advice about their children who were going off the derech or assimilating. Rav Shach told them to turn Shabbat into a special time, and the kedusha of Shabbat will make an impact on the future generations. How does this work? Our Rabbis teach that Shabbat is strongly connected to the Beit HaMikdash. The 39 melachot (activities are prohibited on Shabbat) are the same activities that were performed in building the Mishkan. By guarding the 39 melachot of Shabbat, we are building the Beit HaMikdash in our own homes. We see many connections between the Beit HaMikdash and Shabbat in our homes today: 1. Lighting candles corresponds to lighting the Menorah. 2. The loaves of challah correspond to the 12 loaves of bread on the shulchan 3. At a minimum, a person must wash their hands and feet with hot water before Shabbat. Similarly, the Jewish people would wash their hands and feet at the kiyur before the service. 4. We have zemirot and wine at our Shabbat table. There is a concept of אין שירה אלא על היין , one only recites a song of praise over wine. In the Beit HaMikdash, song was always accompanied by wine and therefore kiddush , which is likened to song in the Beit HaMikdash, is recited over a cup of wine. 5. We wear special clothing on Shabbat, just like the kohanim wore special clothing in the Beit HaMikdash. 6. We mention arousing the Beit HaMikdash in our Friday night prayers. In Lecha Dodi we recite: מִקְדַּש מֶלֶךְ עִיר מְלוּכָה. קוּמִי צְאִי מִתּוךְ הַהֲפֵכָה. רַב לָךְ שבֶת בְּעֵמֶק הַבָּכָא , the Mikdash, city of royalty. Rise and get out of the rubble. You have been sitting in the valley of destruction for too long. 7. Further, many have a text in the Friday night prayers where they mention Yerushalayim- ופרושׂ עלינו ועל ירושלים עירך סוכת שלום or הַפּורֵש סֻכַּת שלום עָלֵינוּ וְעַל כָּל עַמּו יִשרָאֵל וְעַל יְרוּשלָיִם . We bring Yerushalayim into our prayers because our homes turn into a Beit HaMIkdash. The connection between the Beit Hamikdash and Shabbat explains how Shabbat ensures a continuation of the generations. There is nothing better for a person than being in a holy place. We don’t have the ability to enter the Beit HaMikdash today, but we do have the ability to keep Shabbat. When our homes are filled with kedusha from Shabbat, then our children are located in the Beit HaMikdash and that brings holiness upon us and ensures the future of our people. Have a wonderful day and a Shabbat Shalom.
Family Time on Shabbat: Preserving Tradition
Friday, November 10, 2023 • Duration
Shabbat is a day especially suited for quality family time, as parents and children sit around the table together for long periods. One might wonder, is this just a nice custom that evolved, or is there a source in the Torah for this aspect of Shabbat? The Torah commands in Parashat Kedoshim, קדושים תהיו...איש אמו ואביו תיראו ואת שבתותי תשמורו – “You shall be sacred… Each person shall revere his mother and his father, and you shall observe my Shabbatot.” These verses incorporate three different commands: being “sacred,” respecting parents, and observing Shabbat. To explain the connection between these mitzvot , the Hatam Sofer writes that kedushah is preserved among the Jewish People through the parent-child relationship. Parents transmit to their children the laws, traditions, values and customs that make us a sacred people, and this transmission succeeds only if the children respect their parents and heed their guidance and instructions. This process occurs primarily on Shabbat, when parents are free from work and thus have time to sit with their children. Thus, the command of קדושים תהיו , being a sacred nation, is fulfilled through the mitzvot of respecting parents and Shabbat, as it is by children spending time listening to their parents on Shabbat that the principles of kedushah are transmitted and thereby preserved. Rashi, in his comments to these verses in Sefer Vayikra, gives a different explanation for the connection between the commands of Shabbat and respecting parents. He writes that the Torah juxtaposed these two commands to teach us that one should not violate Shabbat for the sake of respecting his parents. If his father or mother asks him to perform some action on Shabbat that constitutes a Shabbat violation, he must refuse the request. Although he is required to obey his parents, his parents are required to obey G-d, and thus G-d’s laws take precedence over the parents’ wishes. The Meshech Hochmah raises the question of why such an inference was necessary. Is it not obvious that we should not violate G-d’s word for the sake of fulfilling the wishes of another human being? Wouldn’t we have intuitively understood that our obligations to Hashem take precedence over our obligations to other people, who are also bound by His laws? The Meshech Hochmah answers that although it is evident that we may not transgress G-d’s laws to grant another person’s request, one might have nevertheless assumed that obeying parents marks an exception to this rule. As we know, the Ten Commandments were engraved on two stones, one which contained the five commandments that relate to our duties to Hashem ( מצוות בין אדם למקום ), and the other which contained the five commandments governing our responsibilities to other people ( מצוות בין אדם לחבירו ). Revealingly, the command to respect parents – כבד את אביך ואת אמך – was engraved on the right stone, the stone which contained the מצוות בין אדם למקום . The Meshech Hochmah explains that our entire religion is based upon our belief in the Revelation at Sinai. We were not present when G-d revealed Himself to our ancestors at Sinai, but those who were present told of this event to their children, who conveyed this information to their children, and so on. This is how we know of the Revelation and why we believe in our obligation to Torah – through the transmission from parent to child over the course of the generations. It emerges, then, that our entire faith hinges upon the parent-child relationship. As such, honoring parents involves more than our appreciation to our parents for all they’ve done for us. It is the key to the successful transmission of our mesorah (tradition). For this reason, one might have assumed that honoring parents’ wishes overrides our responsibilities to Hashem, since our entire religion depends upon respect for parents. Similarly, the Ramban writes in this commentary to Sefer Devarim that the memory of the Revelation is preserved for all time by parents telling of the event to their children. Children understand that parents would not tell them nonsense, and we therefore do not entertain any doubts about the truth of this event. The Hatam Sofer , elsewhere in his writings (responsa, Y.D. 356), observes that with the exception of the story of Bilam, we have eye-witness testimony to all the events recorded in the Torah. All Am Yisrael – 600,000 adult men, plus the women and children – witnessed the miracles of the Exodus and the Revelation at Sinai. And as for the earlier events, Adam clearly knew that he and the whole earth were created, and he told about it to his offspring, including Noach, whom he knew. Noach lived long enough to know the patriarchs, and thus they heard firsthand accounts about events such as the flood, the Tower of Babel, and so on. They transmitted all this information to their offspring, and thus all Beneh Yisrael received this tradition. In essence, then, our tradition is testimony to the truth of all these events. This point is made also by the Sefer Ha’ikarim , who emphasizes that our religion cannot be sustained without children respecting their parents. For this reason, he writes, the Torah commands in Parashat Ha’azinu, שאל אביך ויגדך זקניך ויאמרו לך – “Ask your father, and he will inform you; your elders – and they will tell you.” On this basis, the Sefer Ha’ikarim explains the severe punishment the Torah decrees upon a בן סורר ומורה , the wayward thirteen-year-old son who shows signs of complete disobedience and utter disregard for his parents’ authority, such as stealing their money and using it for self-indulgence. The source of our faith is our tradition, and so a child who severs the connection to his parents undermines the entire foundation of our religion. Therefore, Shabbat, which is the day to bolster our emunah , is the day of tradition, the day when parents and children are to strengthen their bonds to ensure the successful transmission of our mesorah . Shabbat is the day of kedushah , and as the Hatam Sofer teaches, kedushah is maintained through the relationship between parents and children, which is strengthened specifically on Shabbat. Let us, then, use Shabbat as a time to reinforce the bonds between the generations, between parents and children, which will have the effect of reinforcing our faith and thus reinforcing our special bond to the Almighty.
Passing Life's Tests
Friday, October 20, 2023 • Duration
The Gemara in Masechet Berachot (18b) tells of a certain hasid (pious man) who once gave a significant sum of money to a poor person on Erev Rosh Hashanah, during a period of drought. When he arrived home, his wife became very angry that he gave away their money. The hasid left his home and went to sleep in the cemetery. (Rav Yisrael Salanter explained that the hasid felt himself harboring resentment towards his wife for her angry reaction, and he thus decided to undertake this drastic measure of sleeping in a cemetery to rid himself of his arrogance and negativity.) As he slept, he heard two spirits talking with one another. One went to find out what Hashem was decreeing upon the world for the coming year, and returned with the report that anything planted at the beginning of planting season would be destroyed by hail. Armed with this information, the hasid planted later than everybody else, and became wealthy. Rav Matisyahu Salomon explained that this hasid was slated to receive great blessing, but in order to receive it, he needed to first overcome tests and challenges. He first gave charity to help a needy person despite his own hardship, and then overcame the test posed by his wife’s angry reaction. By overcoming these challenges, he became worthy of the great bounty that G-d wished to give him. Life presents us with many challenges, and by withstanding them and passing our tests we prepare ourselves for receiving Hashem’s blessings. This is especially true about Shabbat, which is מקור הברכה – the source of all blessing. In order to access all the blessings that Shabbat makes available to us, we need to pass the difficult tests that Shabbat observance poses. Rav Shaul Semah of Lakewood told a story which he heard firsthand from the person involved. Rabbi Shalom Sklar, a Hassidic Rabbi, emigrated to the United States from Russia, and the Jewish Agency, which facilitated the resettlement of Jewish immigrants in the U.S. at that time, decided to send him to Chicago. Rabbi Sklar explored many different employment possibilities, but could not find a job. Every employer with whom he met said in no uncertain terms that if he would not work on Saturday, he would not have his job on Monday. He was intelligent, hard-working and talented, but nobody wanted to hire somebody who would not work on Saturday. Finally, he was hired to pluck feathers from geese to stuff blankets and pillows. This was a menial job, but he worked diligently and managed to keep the job for several months. But one Friday, his boss called him over and said that he had just received a very large order, and needed extra hours of work. As Rabbi Sklar was an exceptionally diligent worker, the boss wanted him to come into work on Saturday to produce the extra volume of merchandise. But Rabbi Sklar refused. “Why can’t you be like the others, who attend the early prayer services and then come into work?” the boss asked. “What’s the problem with that?” The Rabbi still refused, and he was fired. A short while later, whatever money he had ran out, and he did not even have any food. Finally, he stumbled upon a job shoveling coals into a heating furnace of an apartment building. He would go into the basement of the building each morning, clear out the furnace, and then shovel coals into the furnace. This entailed backbreaking work, but the Rabbi had no choice. A wealthy Jewish lawyer happened to live in a penthouse on the top floor of that building. One day, he mistakenly pressed the wrong button in the elevator, and ended up in the basement of the building, instead of the lobby. When he arrived at the basement, he saw a Hassidic Rabbi shoveling coals into the furnace. “Rabbi,” the attorney asked, “why are you shoveling coals?” Rabb Sklar explained that this was the only job he could find. “Clean yourself up and come into my office,” the lawyer said. “I want to speak with you.” Rabbi Sklar did as the man told him. He cleaned himself and went up to the office, where the lawyer’s secretary was told to let him in. He sat in the lawyer’s office, and the lawyer told him to look out the window at the Chicago skyline. “You see that building over there,” he told Rabbi Sklar, pointing. “I am planning to buy that building soon. I want to make you my 5% percent partner in this venture. You are a Rabbi, so you will be my ‘good luck charm’ in this enterprise.” “But I have no money,” the Rabbi said. “Don’t worry,” the lawyer assured him. “I will lend you the money, and you can pay me back with your earnings as a 5% partner after we sell the building.” The Rabbi agreed, and became this man’s partner. They embarked on numerous ventures together, and were very successful. Finally, they purchased a large piece of property on the outskirts of Chicago, which ultimately became the site of O’Hare International Airport. Practically overnight, Rabbi Sklar became a multimillionaire. He moved to Lakewood where he was a bastion of charity, extending generous assistance to all who needed it. He had to endure several grueling tests, losing his job because of Shabbat, and then having to perform backbreaking work, but these tests paved the way for Hashem’s blessings. Another story is told of a man named Mr. Friedman who opened a simple curtain business, and later developed it into a wholesale business. One day, at a trade show, he made an appointment with representatives from a large hotel chain. This was an opportunity to make a very large deal that would earn a huge profit. The meeting took place on Friday afternoon, and as the parties were negotiating, Mr. Friedman kept his eye on his watch to ensure that he would leave in time for Shabbat. Finally, as the hour drew late, he apologized to the hotel representatives, and said he needed to go. “We are leaving at the end of the trade show,” they said. “If you leave now, the deal is over.” The man explained he had no choice, and he left. He was not prepared to compromise Shabbat observance for the sake of a profit. On Monday, he received a call from the hotel chain. “After you left we reconsidered,” they said. “We realized that somebody could take advantage of us, which would cost us hundreds of thousands of dollars. But if you are so honest that you were prepared to lose all this money for the sake of your religion, then we can trust you.” They closed the deal. Before Hashem brings us blessing, He first has us withstand tests. Shabbat, the מקור הברכה , offers special tests for us to withstand, whereby we become deserving of great reward and the unlimited blessings that Hashem has in store for us.
Shabbat Succot- Hashem's Table
Friday, September 29, 2023 • Duration
Welcome to Embrace Shabbat. There is a special connection between Shabbat and Sukkot. The Midrash teaches that because Avraham Avinu enabled his guests to sit under the shade of a tree and be shielded from the sun’s heat, we merited the mitzvah of sukkah , sitting under the shadow of the schach. Avraham Avinu had an eshel , a tree, where he gave his guests food and drinks. When his guests thanked him after the meal, he told them, “Don’t thank me, thank the One that you ate from- the Creator.” Avraham Avinu understood the concept that we are at G-d’s table. That is the lesson of the sukkah. We sit out in nature, rather than in our homes, showing that we are in G-d’s home at the “table of nature.” Rav Meir Tzvi Bergman, son-in-law of Rav Shach and Rosh Yeshiva of Rashbi Yeshiva, teaches that after the war with the kings, Avraham Avinu refused to take any money from Sedom; he didn’t want the king of Sedom to claim that he made Avraham Avinu wealthy. Avraham Avinu always viewed himself like he was at the king’s table. If a person would be invited to the king’s table, they would never bring their own doggy bag of food- that would be insulting to the king’s kitchen! Similarly, Avraham Avinu said- “I cannot bring in something that looks like my own food. Everything that I have is from Hakadosh Baruch Hu- I cannot take anything from Sedom.” After the war, Malkei Tzedek gave Avraham Avinu a unique bracha- “ ברוך אברהם לקל עליון קונה שמים וארץ ,” blessed is Avraham to the G-d above, the One who acquires heaven and earth. This term was never previously used in the Torah. Rav Bergman highlights that on Friday nights, the Chazan uses a similar phrase in his repetition of מעין שבע . Why is this term from Avraham Avinu suddenly used? The Tur explains that the three prayers of Shabbat correspond to the three fundamentals of Emunah: Hakadosh Baruch Hu created the world, we received the Torah from Shamayim, and reward and punishment. The Rishonim teach that the three prayers of Shabbat also correspond to these three fundamentals of Emunah. On Friday nights, we say וַיְכֻלּוּ הַשָּׁמַיִם וְהָאָרֶץ וְכָל־צְבָאָם , discussing the creation of the world. In our Shacharit prayers, we read: יִשמַח משֶׁה בְּמַתְּנַת חֶלְקו , corresponding to Matan Torah. At Mincha, we recite אַתָּה אֶחָד וְשִׁמְךָ אֶחָד , discussing the final reward and punishment. Rav Bergman further highlights this concept of Avraham Avinu with the connection between Shemirat Shabbat and Shabbat Beraishit. When a person is at a king’s house, they “do as the Romans do.” If the king is taking a day off from work, then they will take a day off too! We are in Hashem house- Hashem created the world in six days and rested on the seventh, we rest too when we are in His house! This is the message of the sukkah. The mitzvah of Sukkah is a direct merit for Avraham Avinu’s attitude toward the angels. We, too, are in the King’s house and are His servants! We leave our permanent dwellings and go into G-d’s dwelling. שם שמים שחל על הסוכה , G-d’s name is on the sukkah . The more that we feel that we are in G-d’s dwelling, the more that we can connect to Hakadosh Baruch Hu. We mention the Sukkah every Friday night with the words ופרוש עלינו סוכת שלומך because Shabbat is closely connected with the message of Sukkot. In fact, Rav Chaim Palagi asks why we don’t we need to sit in the sukkah on every Friday night if there is a סוכת שלום ? I once asked Rav Yaakov Hillel whether this shaila was meant literally, and he said that if we understood what incredible things happen on a kabalistic level on Friday night, we would fully understand Rav Chaim Palagi’s question. Of course we should be sitting in a sukkah! This year, Sukkot falls out on Shabbat. What a powerful time to drill in this lesson of קונה שמים וארץ . We are at G-d’s table with the Avraham Avinu outlook. We are servants and we don’t bring in doggy bags- we realize that everything is from the Boss. Have a wonderful day. Shabbat Shalom and Chag Sameach!
The Special Angels That Visit Us on Shabbat Shuvah
Friday, September 22, 2023 • Duration
The Arizal taught us that the Ten Days of Repentance ( עשרת ימי תשובה ) have the power to atone for the sins we committed on each of the seven days of the week during the previous year. Leaving out the two days of Rosh Hashanah and the day of Yom Kippur, the period of עשרת ימי תשובה consists of seven days, and each of these seven days, the Arizal taught, is able to correct the mistakes made on that day during the year. On the Sunday of עשרת ימי תשובה , for example, we are able to atone for our sins committed on Sunday throughout the year. Each day of the week poses its own challenges, and we are prone to certain mistakes on each day of the week, and the period of the Ten Days of Repentance affords us the opportunity to correct the mistakes that we have made on each day. Accordingly, on Shabbat Shuvah, the Shabbat between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, we are able to earn atonement for all the mistakes made on the most important day of the week – Shabbat – throughout the year. And thus we should all be especially vigilant on Shabbat Shuvah to ensure that we observe Shabbat properly, both by avoiding all forms of forbidden activities (the שמור aspect of Shabbat) and by conducting ourselves with a level of kedushah that is appropriate for this sacred day (the זכור aspect). The unique importance of Shabbat Shuvah can be seen in a beautiful insight that I recently came across regarding the Shalom Alechem hymn which we traditionally sing on Friday night upon returning from the synagogue. In this hymn we greet the angels that have come into our home on Shabbat, and it is commonly understood that these angels represent the yetzer hara (evil inclination) and yetzer hatov (good inclination), the two forces within us that try to lead us, respectively, to sin and to good deeds. These angels come into our homes on Shabbat, and we hope that the angel representing the yetzer hatov blesses us and the angel representing the yetzer hara then answers “amen” to that blessing. But I saw a different interpretation, one which is based upon the well-known comment in Pirkeh Avot that every mitzvah we perform produces a protecting angel. Normally, although we create these angels, we do not earn the privilege of having these angels close to us. On Shabbat, however, the special sanctity of the day renders us worthy of having these angels which we have produced accompany us and join us in our home. These are the angels which we greet when we sing Shalom Alechem on Friday night. Understandably, the more significant and powerful the mitzvah is, the more distinguished and special the angels are. And thus when we sound and hear the shofar , we create especially powerful angels. The mitzvah of shofar is observed in a very special way, as everyone is together in the synagogue, concentrating intently and thinking thoughts of teshuvah . Indeed, the moments of the shofar blowing are among the most moving and serious times of the year in the synagogue. We can imagine, then, that the angels produced by our fulfillment of this mitzvah , which is done with such feeling, concentration, and thoughts of teshuvah , are particularly powerful. In fact, there is a Yehi Ratzon prayer which many people recite before the shofar blowing requesting that the angels created by the shofar sounds should ascend the heavens. It is told that Rabbi Efrayim Laniado, a Rabbi in Aleppo, Syria, would blow the shofar each year in the synagogue, but when he got older and did not have the strength to blow, he delegated this duty to his son, who was also experienced in sounding the shofar . Rav Efrayim prayed at home, and when he saw people returning from the synagogue, he asked them how his son blew the shofar . They told him that his son at first seemed anxious, and the sounds did not come out properly, but gradually the blowing grew stronger and steadier. The Rabbi asked his son about it when he came home, and his son explained that when he began blowing the shofar , he saw angels coming out of the shofar , and this worried him. “There is no need to worry,” the Rabbi said. “I see those angels every year.” We cannot even imagine the spiritual power of the shofar blowing and the feelings of teshuvah that accompany it, which is capable of producing very special angels, even more so than the other mitzvot that we perform. And these angels join us in our home on Shabbat Shuvah. Of course, we should endeavor to conduct ourselves properly every Shabbat, knowing that we are hosting angels in our homes. (It should be noted that according to one version of the Shalom Alechem text, we say not צאתכם לשלום – which indicates that the angels are leaving already then – but rather בצאתכם לשלום – “When you leave in peace” – in which case the angels do not necessarily leave then. It stands to reason that they remain in our homes throughout the entirety of Shabbat.) As we want these angels to grant us their blessing – as we sing, ברכני לשלום – we must certainly conduct ourselves on the highest standard possible. But this is especially vital on Shabbat Shuvah, when we are privileged to host in our home the angels of the shofar , the most distinguished and most powerful angels. Let us treat this Shabbat in a special way as we recognize that we are hosting these special angels, and thereby correct and elevate all the Shabbatot of the previous year. And through our observance we shall be deserving of complete redemption, as our Sages teach that our proper observance of two consecutive Shabbatot brings us our nation’s final redemption. תזכו לשנים רבות
