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Dr Norman Swan on What's Good For Your Kids29 Aug 202400:43:38

Where does your kids' temperament come from, how strict should you be & is it okay to be a 'good enough' parent?

Honestly, the last few months have truly humbled me - being a parent is HARD and with so much advice out there, it’s VERY tricky to know what’s best for your children. So what IS good for your kids?

Luckily, Dr Norman Swan has done the work for us - from birth to ten years old in his new book So You Want To Know What’s Good For Your Kids. If you’re an Aussie, you’ll know his name - he trained in pediatrics and he’s also a dad, so he knows the struggle!!

We talk through some of the biggest takeaways - everything from where our kids' temperament comes from, how to strike the right balance when it comes to discipline and what it means to be a ‘good enough parent’.

Want to become a podcast sponsor, got some feedback for me or just fancy a chat? Email me - thatshelpful@edstott.com

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with ⁠That's Helpful on Instagram.

BOOKS
So You Want To Know What's Good For Your Kids

TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Introduction and Challenges of Parenting 05:15 Learning Your Baby and Parenting for Life 08:10 Crying Babies and the Evidence Behind It 10:32 The Importance of Pregnancy and Breastfeeding 15:31 Breastfeeding and Introducing Solid Foods 19:09 Introducing Solids and Allergies in Children 23:34 Understanding Your Child's Temperament 27:29 The Canvas of Genes and Environment 29:18 The Importance of Consistency and Setting Expectations 34:09 The Concept of 'Good Enough' Parenting 38:01 The Impact of Parental Match Fitness 40:08 Cleaning the House and Order in Parenting 43:37 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

 

Aging Against the Machine with Mel Doyle22 Aug 202400:34:35

Aging can be a fairly daunting experience & when the topic comes to mind most of us try to move on  and clear it from our thoughts as quickly as possible.

But award-winning journalist Melissa Doyle is urging us to take an active role in aging to push back against ageism and make the experience healthier and more connected for us all.

In this conversation Mel shares her aging toolkit & the lessons she’s learnt from the experts on how to normalize aging and embrace some of our most challenging and transformative years.

Want to become a podcast sponsor, got some feedback for me or just fancy a chat? Email me - thatshelpful@edstott.com

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with ⁠That's Helpful on Instagram.
Find Mel on Instagram⁠ & via ⁠her website.

BOOKS
How To Age Against The Machine

The First 2 Hours: How to Maximise your Most Valuable Time20 Jun 202400:38:23

The saying goes - win the morning, win the day. But, if you’re anything like me - your morning will be determined by your inbox, who calls first or what’s been dropped in your lap that day.

Productivity expert Donna McGeorge says this way of working is a big mistake and could see the quality of your work suffer, not to mention the extra hours spent at your desk later in the day.

So how can we take back control, maximise our time & spend less of it working?

 Donna is my guest today & she’s the author of The First 2 Hours: Make Better Use of Your Most Valuable Time.

Want to become a podcast sponsor, got some feedback for me or just fancy a chat? Email me - thatshelpful@edstott.com

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with ⁠That's Helpful on Instagram.
Find Donna on Instagram⁠ & via ⁠her website.

BOOKS
The First 2 Hours: Make Better Use of Your Most Valuable Time

PODCASTS
How To Supercharge Your Day with ChatGPT Productivity Hacks
The Happiness Lab: Ask for help...spread happiness

TIMESTAMPS

00:00:00 - Intro

00:01:10 - Why the first 2 hours are so important

00:03:06 - How to best structure your day for max productivity

00:05:30 - Tools for structuring your day & protecting your mornings

00:09:30 - How to write a to-do list that’s actually helpful

00:13:30 - How to tailor your day to your circadian rhythm

00:21:00 - Don’t give 100%, 100% of the time

00:26:40 - Bad habits that are costing your productivity

00:29:30 - Being mindful of the time you’ve gained back

00:34:00 - How to avoid social media stealing your saved time

00:36:00 - Being kind to your future self

 

Thought For The Week: The Mindset Shifts That Will Instantly Get you Closer to your Goals19 Feb 202300:03:51

Get closer to your goals without lifting a finger thanks to these these simple tips.

SUPPORT THE PODCAST
Support the podcast, sign up for bonus content & community, or have your business become a That's Helpful sponsor via Patreon.

CONNECT WITH ME
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram.

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

Transform your Life With Radical Humility15 Feb 202300:31:05
Humility can improve your relationships, work & sense of purpose. It's a trait that's been lauded since the Greek gods were pushing it, but more recently it's earned a bit of a bad wrap. So where's the line between humility & door mat? And what's the science behind humility's superpowers?       Dr Daryl Van Tongeren, he’s an associate professor at Hope College & the author of Humble; Free Yourself from the Traps of a Narcissistic world.

You can find the transcript of our conversation here.

SUPPORT THE PODCAST
Support the podcast, sign up for bonus content & community, or have your business become a That's Helpful sponsor via Patreon.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram & Facebook.
Connect with Daryl on Instagram & via his website.

BOOK
Humble: Free Yourself from the Traps of a Narcissistic World

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

Thought for the Week: Embrace The Beginner's Mindset12 Feb 202300:04:15

In a little over 4 minutes, your eyes will be opened to the power of a beginner’s mindset, helping you to remove the fear & doubt & get you excited to dive into the unknown.

SUPPORT THE PODCAST
Support the podcast, sign up for bonus content & community, or have your business become a That's Helpful sponsor via Patreon.

CONNECT WITH ME
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram.

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

How To Make Working From Home Work For You08 Feb 202300:33:56

Working from home has given most of us more freedom over our workday than we’ve ever had before, but are you really making the most of it?

Today - how to make working from home work for you - boost your productivity, reduce your stress and take advantage of this new world of work.

My guest is Laura Vanderkam she’s an expert in time management & author of The New Corner Office: How The Most Successful People Work From Home.

You can find the transcript of our conversation here.

SUPPORT THE PODCAST
Support the podcast, sign up for bonus content & community, or have your business become a That's Helpful sponsor via Patreon.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram.
Find Laura on Instagram, Facebook via her website.

BOOK
The New Corner Office: How the most successful people work from home

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

Thought for the Week: The Secret to Creativity05 Feb 202300:04:38

You're told that it’s healthy to have total control over your mind, but how often do you let it out for a wander? Here's why you should & how to do it.

SUPPORT THE PODCAST
Support the podcast, sign up for bonus content & community, or have your business become a That's Helpful sponsor via Patreon.

CONNECT WITH ME
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram.

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

A Guide to Grief: How to Process Loss01 Feb 202300:43:17

After losing her father as a child, her brother in her early twenties & her baby son only a couple of days after giving birth, Edwina Shaw has dealt with more than her fair share of grief.

But she couldn't find the book she needed to help her process her loss, so she wrote it.

She's the author of A Guide Through Grief, First Aid for your Heart & Soul.

Whether you’re dealing with grief or you know someone who’s going through it, you’re really going to get so much from this conversation.

Edwina talks about the stages of grief, dealing with anger, learning to live with the pain of loss & how to best support someone who's going through it. I promise you, this is an uplifting & inspiring conversation & one everyone should listen to.

*TRIGGER WARNING: Though brief, there are mentions of suicide in this conversation*

You can find the transcript of our conversation here.

SUPPORT THE PODCAST
Support the podcast, sign up for bonus content & community, or have your business become a That's Helpful sponsor via Patreon.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram.
Find Edwina on Instagram, Facebook via her website.

BOOK
A Guide Through Grief, First Aid for your Heart & Soul

MEDITATION
Edwina's meditation for comfort & joy

EVENTS
Edwina is running a Grief Workshop in Brisbane on Sunday March 26th 2023
She also runs Relax & Write Retreats throughout the year

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

Life Lessons in Divorce & Break-Ups with Helen Thorn25 Jan 202300:44:08

In March 2020, just a few days before the UK lockdowns, Helen Thorn's life took a turn she never saw coming. Stood in her husband's closet, she found a piece of paper that would see her life unravel.

Helen is a comedian and one half of the Scummy Mummies duo, she’s since written a book about that discovery.

Her book ‘Get Divorced, Be Happy’ details her first year of separation - it’s a book about surviving break-ups and thriving as a single person.

Helen talks about the biggest lessons from divorce & her break-up, how to cope, how to guide children through the process & learning that her separation wasn't the end, more a messy begining.

You can find the transcript of our conversation here.

 

SUPPORT THE PODCAST
Support the podcast, sign up for bonus content & community, or have your business become a That's Helpful sponsor via Patreon.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram.
Find Helen on Instagram, Twitter via her website.

BOOK
Get Divorced, Be Happy

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

How to Get Your Doctor to Listen to You & Take You Seriously18 Jan 202300:43:05

If you’ve ever been to the doctor's office and felt like you're not being listened to or you've left in a cloud of rage over how you've been treated, today's conversation is for you.

Ragen Chastain is a certified health coach, functional fitness specialist, author & speaker who holds the world record for the heaviest woman to complete a marathon.

In this episode, Ragen explains how you can get healthcare professionals to take you seriously, the preparations you should make before your appointments, how to find a good healthcare practitioner plus a whole bunch of other great advice that will really help make your healthcare a lot less frustrating.

SUPPORT THE PODCAST
Support the podcast, sign up for bonus content & community, or have your business become a That's Helpful sponsor via Patreon.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram.
Find Ragen on Instagram, Facebook & via her website.

ADDITIONAL INFO
HAES Australia

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

 

Is Dry January worth it?11 Jan 202300:29:54

Is there really anything to be gained from just one month of sobriety? The research says yes!

Dr Richard DeVisser has been working in health psychology & public health for the past 25 years and is currently based at the University of Sussex.

His research has found that Dry January can give your health a boost until August, possibly beyond!

Plus, you're not too late to start. Richard explains the benefits of Dry Jan, how to get started & how to make sure you stick to it.

SUPPORT THE PODCAST
Support the podcast, sign up for bonus content & community, or have your business become a That's Helpful sponsor via Patreon.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram.

RESEARCH
How 'Dry January' is the secret to better sleep, saving money & losing weight

ADDITIONAL INFO
Dry January's: Are you in?

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

Here's What Your Dreams Really Mean04 Jan 202300:49:17

Your dreams may be telling you things that your concious mind can't. So how do you understand what they mean?

Dr Deidre Barrett is a dream researcher from Harvard University & the author of Pandemic Dreams & The Committee of Sleep.

In this episode she'll teach you how to read your dreams, the meanings of common dreams & how to harness the power of your dreams to help heal trauma.

SUPPORT THE PODCAST
Support the podcast, sign up for bonus content & community, or have your business become a That's Helpful sponsor via Patreon.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram.
Connect with Deidre on InstagramFacebook.

BOOKS
The Committee of Sleep & Pandemic Dreams

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

How to Make Life Changing, Deep Connections with Kasley Killam13 Jun 202400:47:09

If I were to ask you how healthy you are right now, what would you say? Would you tell me about your social life? How many friends have you connected with in the last week? Or how connected you feel with your local community?

Probably not, but Kasley Killam says that social health is vital to our physical health & by ignoring it, we’re missing out on some huge benefits. She’s the Author of The Art and Science of Connection: Why Social Health Is the Missing Key to Living Longer, Healthier, and Happier.

Want to become a podcast sponsor, got some feedback for me or just fancy a chat? Email me - thatshelpful@edstott.com

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with ⁠That's Helpful on Instagram.
Find Kasley on Instagram⁠ & via ⁠her website.

BOOKS
The Art and Science of Connection: Why Social Health Is the Missing Key to Living Longer, Healthier, and Happier.

TIMESTAMPS
00:00:00 - Intro
00:01:20 - Kasley’s definition of social health
00:03:29 - The importance of social health
00:05:35 - How social connection changes us physically
00:09:50 - Quality over quantity
00:11:15 - Signs of a good social connection
00:13:14 - How to do a social audit
00:17:34 - How to deepen connections
00:20:30 - The 4 social styles
00:26:00 - The ebb & flow of relationships throughout our lives?
00:29:00 - How to find your people
00:32:33 - The common barriers to making genuine connections
00:37:00 - When it’s time to let a friendship go

 

Your Resolution Should be to Join a Choir (Especially if You Think You Can't Sing)28 Dec 202200:35:30

What if I told you that no matter how bad a singer you think you are, you can learn?

Libby O’Donovan is a critically acclaimed Jazz & Cabaret performer & an award-winning Musical Director.

She says anyone can sing & if you assume you can’t, you’re missing out on so many incredible benefits!

Today, she explains why joining a choir should be your New Years resolution & how you can embrace all the benefits wrapped up in embracing your voice.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram. 
Connect with Libby on Instagram & Facebook.

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

 

Learn to Flirt in Five Minutes26 Dec 202200:06:30

Perhaps your flirting game could do with a little upgrade?

With the holiday season in full swing, it’s a great opportunity to get out there, meet new people & make some connections.

But if you feel like your flirting is letting you down, I’ve got you.

Samantha Jayne is a dating coach & relationship expert.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram. 
Connect with Samantha Jayne on Facebook, Instagram & via her website.

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

A Teary Little Christmas Thank You, From Me to You25 Dec 202200:01:11

Thank you, thank you, thank you. x

How your Belly Could Heal your Brain21 Dec 202200:34:13

As we start to learn more about our gut microbiome and its effect on the rest of the body, we’re starting to understand the valuable role it plays in our health.

So today, we’re levelling up our gut bacteria knowledge and learning a little more about the gut brain connection.

Dr Amy Loughman, is a research psychologist, Senior Research Fellow and Head of Microbiome Research at Deakin University’s Food & Mood Centre.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram. 
Connect with Amy on Instagram, Twitter & via her website.

LINKS TO RESEARCH
A resource on fibre
Tool on the levels of scientific evidence for probiotics available
More info on gut-directed hypnotherapy

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

A Psychologist's Advice on Dealing with Difficult Relationships this Christmas19 Dec 202200:33:44

Christmas is a fun time and all but for so many of us it can be full of relationships that are super tricky to navigate - sibling rivalries, to tricky parenting dynamics and of course the in-laws.

Fear not - I am your Christmas elf and I’ve called in some help.

Dr Terri Apter is a psychologist and Cambridge University academic who specialises in dealing with difficult relationships. She’s also the author of What Do You Want From Me? Learning To Get Along with In-Laws & Passing Judgement: Praise & Blame in Everyday Life.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram. 
Connect with Terri on Twitter & via her website.

BOOKS
Find Terri's books here

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

Beat Your Fear of Flying17 Dec 202200:30:47

Whilst we love to travel, so many of us are terrified of flying. So what can we do to ease those fears and fly fearlessly into the holiday season?

Captain Tom Bunn is an airline pilot and licensed therapist & the president of SOAR, an organisation that he’s been running for the last 30 years helping people to overcome their fear of flying.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram. 
Connect with Captain Tom on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter.

COURSES
Find out more about SOAR via the website.

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

How to Raise Kind Kids14 Dec 202200:39:44

It’s around this time that we all try and spread a little extra kindness and that is a very good thing indeed.

But if you’re keen to go one step further and pass on the kindness for future generations, how do you raise kind kids?

Dr Thomas Lickona is a professor of education & psychologist and the author of 9 books on moral development and character education, including the book How to Raise Kind Kids, he also has a whole host of other accolades - trust me, when it comes to kindness he’s our man.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram. 
Connect with Tom Twitter & via his website.

BOOKS
How To Raise Kind Kids

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

Blue Mind: How Water Makes you Happier12 Dec 202200:37:52

We are a nation that love the water, but we’re not alone. As a species, humans are universally drawn to it & there’s a reason for that. It’s really good for us.

This effect is called Blue Mind, it was named by Dr Wallace J Nichols & it's also the title of his book.

He’s a marine biologist & has devoted most of his life to this phenomenon. 

So what is Blue Mind & how can we harness it?

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram. 
Connect with Wallace on Twitter & via his website.

BOOK
Blue Mind

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

How to Stop Dieting & Actually Get Healthy in 202309 Dec 202200:45:20

Now is the time of year that more than ever we’re bombarded with diet culture messages - that unwanted comment from your aunt at the dinner table, the constant reference to guilty food choices and of course those new year diet ads. 

So here’s my gift to you - a full episode of anti-diet culture fabulousness.

It is my goal that by the end of this episode you’ll be significantly less tempted to start a new years diet or to let guilt around food ruin this time of year for you.

For this though, I need back - up.

Claire Chewning is a registered dietician, certified intuitive eating counselor and the host of the Yours Chewly Podcast. 

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram. 
Connect with Claire on Instagram & via her website.

PODCAST
Yours Chewly Podcast

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

What you Need to Know Before you Share About Kids Online07 Dec 202200:41:20

Today - a conversation that will likely make you re-think the way you share about the children in your life online & it's one that's particularly relevant over Christmas & New Year as the snapping, posting & recording goes into overdrive.

Things have changed considerably since I, and probably you. Now, raising kids is a totally different ball game - children are connected to the internet in one way or another from the day they’re born & their safety online is a huge concern.

Of course, teaching children how to be mindful of technology is vital, but it’s just as important that we, as adults, consider what we share about the children in our lives online.

Leah Plunkett, is the author of Sharenthood; Why We Should Think Before We Talk About Our Kids Online.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram. 
Connect with Leah on Twitter & via her website.

BOOK
Sharenthood: Why we Should Think Before we Share About our Kids Online

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

Banish Your Imposter Syndrome with Dr Jessamy Hibberd06 Jun 202400:46:28

If you’ve ever shared that you’re feeling it, the most common reaction is ‘oh my gosh me too’. I’m talking about Imposter Syndrome - it’s brutal, unhelpful and feels horrible. So why do we experience it and how can we tackle it?

That’s exactly what we’re going to take down today - by the way this episode was requested by Jess on Instagram - if there’s something you’re struggling with follow me @thatshelpfulpod and send me a DM, because if you’re going through it likely many of us out here are too!

My guest today is the wonderful Dr Jessamy Hibberd, she‘s a Clinical Psychologist & the Author The Imposter Cure: How to stop feeling like a fraud and escape the mind-trap of imposter syndrome.

Want to become a podcast sponsor, got some feedback for me or just fancy a chat? Email me - thatshelpful@edstott.com

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with ⁠That's Helpful on Instagram.
Find Jessamy on Instagram⁠ & via ⁠her website.

BOOKS
The Imposter Cure: How to stop feeling like a fraud and escape the mind-trap of imposter syndrome

OTHER MENTIONS
Forget the Dream Job, You Need a Good Enough Job-

TIMESTAMPS

00:00:00 - Intro

00:01:22 - What is imposter syndrome?

00:02:28 - How is imposter syndrome different from normal self doubt?

00:04:20 - How many people suffer with imposter syndrome?

00:05:45 - Imposter syndrome isn’t just a problem in the workplace

00:06:45 - Can you have imposter syndrome & not know?

00:08:05 - The link between imposter syndrome and perfectionism

00:10:55 - How perfected life is now

00:13:23 - The common types of imposter syndrome

00:20:00 - How can we start to overcome it?

00:25:00 - Keeping a running document of achievements

00:27:48 - Thoughts aren’t facts

00:30:45 - The balance between humility & imposter syndrome

00:35:00 - Sharing these feelings

00:37:50 - The stories you share help you understand yourself

00:40:00 - Jessamy’s experience of imposter syndrome

00:42:33 - The importance of remembering you’re human

 

The Secret to Unlocking your Stress Cycle with Dr Amelia Nagoski05 Dec 202200:48:12

It’s around this time of year that many of us take a little break & if you're anything like me, as soon as you stop, you'll get sick.

This is just one of the indicators that you may be burnt out. 

So what can you do about it? How can you break the cycle & stop living in this endless cycle of fatigue?

Dr Amelia Nagoski is the co-author of Burnout: The Secret To Unlocking The Stress Cycle which she wrote with her sister Dr Emily Nagoski.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram. 
Connect with Amelia on Instagram & the Burn Out Book Group.

BOOK
Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking The Stress Cycle

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

The Expectation Effect: Transform Your Mindset03 Dec 202200:38:46

You might have heard of the placebo effect or even manifesting, but what about the expectation effect?

The idea that your mindset can completely change your life. Research shows that it absolutely works. So how effective is it and how can we harness it for the year ahead?

That’s where David Robson comes in, he’s a science journalist & the author of The Expectation Effect: How Your Mindset Can Transform Your Life.

In this episode, you'll learn how to use this simple mindset shift to transform every area of your life.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram. 
Connect with David on Twitter & via his website.

BOOK
The Expectation Effect, How Your Mindset Can Transform Your Life

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

Become a Better Negotiator & Transform Your Relationships30 Nov 202200:58:12

Throughout the month of December, I’m bringing you the 12 pods of Christmas - released every Tuesday, Thursday & Sunday to guide you through your best holiday season yet.

We’re going to maximise the joy, minimise the stress and set you up for 2023.

And boy are we starting off with a bang - today, how to negotiate your dream Christmas.

Sick of spending every year trudging round to your in-laws or abiding by holiday traditions that you really don’t enjoy?

In this episode, we’re going to learn the art of negotiation, how it can help you to get what you want & improve pretty much every relationship in your life.

Rachel Moore Best is the founder of the Human Factor - an organisation dedicated to making negotiation and advocacy accessible to everyone.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram
Connect with Rachel on Instagram & LinkedIn

BOOKS
Getting to Yes, Roger Fisher
Difficult Conversations, Bruce Patton, Douglas Stone, and Sheila Heen

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

How to Make the Change you Want to See in the World with Gina Martin23 Nov 202200:49:01

Is there something in your world that you’d love to change but just have no idea how to make it happen? Perhaps you think that you’re just one person and that you won’t make a jott of difference?

Well, Gina Martin is living proof that’s just not true.

She’s an activist who fought to make upskirting illegal in the UK. Upskirting is the act of taking a sexually intrusive photograph of someone without their permission.

Since this landmark achievement an allegation of upskirting has been reported to police nearly every single day since the law was changed.

She’s also the author of Be The Change: A Toolkit for the Activist in You.

If you’ve ever wanted to change something but had no idea how to go about it, this is the episode for you.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram. 
Connect with Gina on Instagram & Twitter.

BOOK
Be The Change, A Toolkit For The Activist in You

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

How To Deal With Your Career Regret16 Nov 202200:38:39

Ever feel like you should have pursued something different or you're heading back to work after a break & dreading returning to the job you hate? BUT, you feel like you’ve invested so much in your career that it’s too late or irresponsible to change?

Well Leah Lambert, is a Career & Interview Coach & the Director of Relaunch Me. She’s successfully pulled off several career changes & a career break so she knows what it takes to overcome career regret.

Leah talks us through her step by step remedy & her fool proof guide for finding a career that truly sets you on fire.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram.
Connect with Leah via her website.
You can also find her on Instagram & Facebook.

PODCAST
Relaunch Your Career Podcast

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

Are You Burnt Out?09 Nov 202200:48:13

Burnout is on the rise everywhere, but the way we live is making it harder to identify & handle. If you feel drained, emotionally exhausted & like you don’t have anything left in the tank then you may well be experiencing it.

Dr Michelle Woolhouse has been there. She’s a fellow of the Royal Australian College of General Practitioners, the Australasian College of Nutritional and Environmental Medicine and the Australasian Society of Lifestyle Medicine.

But she’s also been completely burnt out & she’s written a book about it. It’s called The Wonder Within - it explains the physical effects of burnout & some simple things we can all be doing to recover.

This week she talks us through identifying burn-out & recovering from it.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram.
Connect with Michelle via her website.
You can also find her on Instagram & Facebook.

BOOKS
The Wonder Within

PODCASTS
That's Helpful; Breathe to Thrive, Not Just Survive

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com 

Trash Imposter Syndrome & Live The Life You Deserve02 Nov 202200:39:18

Ash Ambirge will completely changed the way you think about work.

If your job isn’t really setting your world on fire and you’re dreaming of doing something you truly love, Ash is your girl.

She’s the author of The Middle Finger Project & an advocate for women doing disobedient things. 

She’s also the boss of The Vivette - they’re on a mission to help people quit their jobs and travel the world.

CONNECT WITH US
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Connect with Ash via her website.
You can also find her on Instagram, FacebookTwitter.

BOOKS
The Middle Finger Project

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com

An FBI Spy Recruiter's Guide to Networking26 Oct 202200:43:21

Walking into a room full of people you don’t know at a party, starting a new job, trying to network at an event, making a good impression on your new boss.

If you’re anything like me, the thought of all of these things will fill you with sheer dread.

But, what if you had a step by step guide to building a rapport & gaining trust? Plus - a way of figuring out if you can trust them!

Well, that’s Robin Dreeke’s bread & butter.

He’s the CEO of People Formula and Behavioral Analysis Expert & he spent over 20 years with the FBI recruiting Russian spies!

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Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram.
Connect with Robin via his website.
You can also find him on Instagram & Facebook.

BOOKS
Sizing People Up
The Code of Trust

PODCASTS
Forged By Trust Podcast

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How to Handle a Narcissist19 Oct 202200:47:25

In a world of social media, selfies and self obsession it’s hardly surprising that we’re hearing the word narcissism pop up more & more.

But what really is narcissism, how do we identify narcissist and how can we best deal with them?

That’s exactly what we’re talking about today.

Professor Keith Campbell, Author of The New Narcissism.

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Connect with Keith via his website.

BOOKS
The New Science of Narcissism

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When 'People Pleasing' is Actually Codependency & How to Deal With it12 Oct 202200:33:45

Would you say you’re a people pleaser? A lot of us have these tendencies and for some of us these traits can really cause a lot of trouble in our lives.

Jo Westwood says that this is when we’re probably in codependency territory and we’ve got some work to do. Jo is a recovering codependent person & a codependency coach.

In this conversation we talk about recognising codependency in your relationships, the way that it can manifest itself in your life including attracting narcissists and how to take back control.

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Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com

The Happiness Curve: Why Life Gets Better Later with Jonathon Rauch30 May 202400:40:13

So many of us expect to become less happy as we age, BUT science says you couldn’t be more wrong - you’ll likely become happier as you get into old age, you’ll be more content and more able to live in the present moment.

This phenomenon is called the happiness curve and it’s a concept that award winning journalist Jonathon Rauch is incredibly passionate about.

Jonathan is a senior fellow at the Brookings Institution in Washington and the author of The Happiness Curve, Why Life Gets Better After 50.

So what does the research say, how can we avoid the midlife crisis we hear so much about & how might the happiness curve help us to reframe the way we approach aging?

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Find Jonathon on Twitter & via his website.

BOOKS
The Happiness Curve, Why Life Gets Better After 50

Want to become a podcast sponsor, got some feedback for me or just fancy a chat? Email me - thatshelpful@edstott.com

TIMESTAMPS

00:00:00 - Intro

00:01:16 - How did Jonathon discover the happiness curve?

00:04:45 - How does the happiness curve play out in different countries?

00:07:24 - The forecasting error

00:13:13 - Why so many of us feel ashamed of the midlife slump

00:17:37 - Step don’t leap

00:23:35 - How to overcome the time trap of the happiness curve

00:26:26 - The happiness curve is fuelled by false assumptions around age

00:31:21 - It isn’t just teenagers who go through transitional times of life

00:33:31 - The power in giving yourself time to reset

00:35:51 - The things that truly bring life satisfaction

00:38:12 - The one thing to remember

 

The Time Tricks of Highly Effective People05 Oct 202200:30:53

Do you ever get to the end of the day unable to identify what you've achieved or how you've spent your time?

Well, this is the episode for you.

Dr Amantha Imber, organisational psychologist & the author of Time Wise - Powerful Habits, More Time, Greater Joy.

In this episode, Amantha shares the hacks that high achievers rely on to accomplish more than the average person.

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Connect with Amantha on Instagram 

BOOKS
Time Wise

PODCAST
How I Work

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com

Become a Friend-Making Machine28 Sep 202200:42:05

Friendships are super important, not just for our mental health, but for our physical health.

So how do we go about making new friends when we have no idea where to start?

Dr Melanie Mills is a friendship expert & the Author of ‘The Friendship Bond’.

CONNECT WITH US
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Connect with Dr Mel on Instagram & Facebook

BOOKS
Dr Mel's Life Bonds Series

PODCAST
Subscribe to The Life Bond Podcast

Got an episode suggestion or feedback for me? Email me - ed@edwinastott.com

How to Kick Your Screen Addiction21 Sep 202200:45:52

Addiction is a scary word, but it’s likely we’ll have all come across it in some form or another throughout our lives.

David Gillespie is the author of Brain Reset and he says that we’re more addicted than ever before and it’s having a devastating impact on our mental health. 

The good news is that there is a solution and that’s the focus of David’s latest book.

In this conversation we chat through how addiction works, how your smartphone is designed to hack your mind and how to break the cycle.

If addiction is a problem for you or anyone you know you can call Lifeline on 13 11 14 anytime for support.

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Connect with David on TwitterInstagram & Facebook

BOOK
Brain Reset

PODCAST
How to Spot a Psychopath with David Gillespie

Become a More Confident Feminist with Clementine Ford14 Sep 202201:32:52

Clementine Ford is a feminist, author & host of the Dear Clementine podcast.

In this episode, we talk about:

- How patriarchy works

- The ways in which patriarchy pits women against each other

- The joys of feminism

- When to step in on misogynistic conversations

- Steps you can take to better support feminism

Enjoy!

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Connect with Clementine on Instagram & Facebook

CHARITIES TO SUPPORT
Djirra
Safe Steps

BOOKS
Clementine's Books
White Feminism, Koa Beck
So You Want To Talk About Race, Ijeoma Oluo
Princesses & Pornstars, Emily Maguire
Anything by Bell Hooks

PODCAST
Subscribe to Dear Clementine

Unf*ck Your Finances08 Sep 202200:33:33

Understanding our finances is an essential skill, but most of us don’t have it.

Mel Browne is an entrepreneur, financial expert and the author of Unf*ck Your Finances.

She's also on a mission to increase your financial literacy & confidence.

In this episode we talk about why budgets don't work, what does, the best ways to save, to tackle debt and why YOU need to be in control of YOUR finances.

CONNECT WITH US
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Connect with Melanie Browne on Instagram

RESOURCES
That's Helpful Resources from Mel Browne

Learn to Love Living Anywhere31 Aug 202200:42:07

What if I told you that you’d never have to move again? Most of us will move 10 times during our lifetime and it’s often one of the most stressful things we’ll ever do. But you can absolutely learn to love where you live and build a strong attachment to your town or city no matter where it is.

Melody Warnick is the author of This Is Where You Belong and If You Could Live Anywhere, she's discovered the secrets of making anywhere feel like home.

She’s also got an amazing framework for you if you’re one of those people who can now work from anywhere on finding where you’re meant to be.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram
Connect with Melody Warnick through her website, on Instagram, & on Facebook

BOOKS
This is Where You Belong & If You Could Live Anywhere

Taming your inner-critic & self care for busy people24 Aug 202200:33:22

This week - you’re in for a real treat. Two interviews in one magnificent episode!

Behavioural and emotional expert, Maureen Fearon will introduce you to Neuro Linguistic Programming - a tool that could help you to control your inner critic.

Plus - how many times have you told yourself ‘I’ll just get through this week and everything will calm down’? Suzanne Falter says it’s time to stop. She’s a podcaster, speaker and the author of The Extremely Busy Woman’s Guide to Self Care. 

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram
Connect with Suzanne Falter through her website, on Instagram, & on Facebook
Connect with Maureen Fearon through her website

BOOKS
The Extremely Busy Women's Guide To Self Care by Suzanne Falter
Shoo: The Destructive Demon Within by Maureen Fearon

OTHER
Join Suzanne's Facebook group; The Self Care Group for Extremely Busy Women

How to pull a career 18017 Aug 202200:39:57

Sick of your job and ready to do something completely different? 

We spend ⅓ of our lives at work and the majority of us don’t like what we do. The world of work has completely changed thanks to the internet and we’re more empowered than ever before to do work that makes us happy. But with so much choice comes great confusion and it can be really tricky to figure out what you want to do let alone how you should go about doing it.

Monique Ross is the co-author of ‘This Working Life - How to navigate your career in uncertain times’ and she quit her job as an Editor for ABC news to become a Forest Therapy Guide.

In this episode she shares everything she's learnt along the way as well as a few tips for figuring out what you should be doing and how to get started.

CONNECT WITH US
Connect with That's Helpful & Ed Stott on Instagram
Connect with Monique at Heartwood Nature Bathing on Instagram & Facebook or her website

BOOKS
- This Working Life - How to navigate your career in uncertain times 
- The Middle Finger Project  (Ed's recommendation) 

How to spot a psychopath10 Aug 202200:42:29

5-10% of people are psychopaths - so how do you identify them & how should you deal with them?

David Gillespie is the author of Taming Toxic People: The Science of Identifying and Dealing With Psychopaths At Work and At Home.

David was inspired to write the book by his previous career as a corporate lawyer that saw him cross paths with so many people who he suspected could be psychopaths. He couldn't find any good information on how to identify & deal with them so he decided to do his own research.

In this episode, he talks us through the signs of a psychopath and reveals how we should deal with them both in the workplace & in our personal lives.

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Connect with David on Twitter, Instagram & Facebook

Injectables 10103 Aug 202200:38:01

Anti-wrinkle injections & fillers aren't for everyone, but for some they are absolutely life changing. It can be so hard to get good impartial information when you’re thinking about getting something done though.

Enter - Rachael Hornbuckle, she’s a cosmetic injector with over 8 years experience as a Registered Nurse in Cosmetic Dermatology. She’s incredible at what she does.

In this conversation, Rachael covers everything from how to find a good injector, what’s fixable, the risks, what to do if something goes wrong, plus a bunch of other useful things.

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Simple Gratitude Hacks to Transform Your Health23 May 202400:39:38

Gratitude is one of those words that’s everywhere - particularly if you’re interested in self-improvement & your health. BUT what does the science actually say about introducing a little more gratitude into our lives & the best ways to do it?

Well, Professor Fuschia Sirois is a psychologist from the University of Durham who’s been studying gratitude for much of her career.

Today we’re going to get answers to those questions and take a look at how gratitude can bring us closer to our future selves.

CONNECT WITH US
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Find Fuschia on Twitter⁠ & via ⁠her website.

BOOKS
Procrastination: What It Is, Why It's A Problem & What You Can Do About It

Want to become a podcast sponsor, got some feedback for me or just fancy a chat? Email me - thatshelpful@edstott.com

TIMESTAMPS 

00:00:00 - Intro

00:01:05 - What is gratitude?

00:03:29 - Why do some people have more gratitude than others?

00:06:27 - When did we start to study gratitude?

00:08:47 - Gratitude’s influence on health

00:10:46 - Impact on gratitude for people with fibromyalgia 

00:12:46 - Gratitude & future orientation

00:16:33 - The benefits of being future oriented

00:19:50 - Simple ways to incorporate more gratitude

00:25:06 - How to practice group gratitude

00:29:10 - How gratitude helps us find meaning

00:29:47 - What to focus your gratitude on

00:32:15 - Gratitude pitfalls

00:33:37 - Acknowledging joy in other ways

00:34:51 - Gratitude & society

00:37:45 - The one thing to remember

 

Supercharge your motivation27 Jul 202200:34:49

This week it’s all about getting motivated.

Professor Ayelet Fishbach is an expert on motivation and decision making, she’s the author of Get It Done: Surprising Lessons from the science of Motivation and is a past president of the Society for the Science of Motivation.

She explains how you can create better goals, increase your motivation and achieve more. 

CONNECT WITH US
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Connect with Ayelet on Instagram & Twitter

LINKS
Check out Ayelet's website
Find Ayelet's book Get It Done: Surprising Lessons From The Science of Motivation here

 

Quit the Toxic Diet Cycle20 Jul 202200:44:17

The bad news is that most of us will try 162 diets in our lifetime, the good news is that it is possible to quit the toxic diet cycle.

Evelyn Tribole is one of the creators of Intuitive Eating, A Revolutionary Anti-Diet Approach and she’s my guest this week.

If you want to stop dieting, enjoy food and get rid of your negative thoughts while improving your body image then this conversation is for you.

If you enjoy the show, please leave us a five star review!

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Connect with Evelyn on Instagram & Twitter

LINKS
Check out Evelyn's website
Find the book Intuitive Eating: A Revolutionary Anti-Diet Approach here

Finding your purpose13 Jul 202200:42:34

Finding your purpose can seem so unachievable that most of us don’t even bother to look for it. But according to Professor Christine Whelan it can make you happier, healthier and help you to live longer.

Christine is an expert in purpose, she's written three best selling books on the topic and studied the self help industry for her Phd.

Over the next 40 minutes you’ll hear what Christine’s learnt from her studies, plus she’ll break down the formula for finding your own purpose.

CONNECT WITH US
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Connect with Christine on Instagram & Twitter

LINKS
Check out Christine's website
Find Christine's Finding Your Purpose lecture series on Audible & her books here

 

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