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Stop Projecting In Your Relationships

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1. How do I know if I'm projecting my insecurities onto my partner?
2. Why do people project their emotions and fears in relationships?
3. What are the signs that projection is causing problems in my relationship?
4. How can I stop projecting my past experiences onto my current relationship?

Projecting Your Emotions in Your Relationship

Projection in relationships is a common but often unnoticed behavior that can lead to misunderstandings, unnecessary conflicts, and emotional distance. When we project, we take our own fears, insecurities, and unresolved feelings and attribute them to our partner, seeing them not as they are but as a reflection of our inner landscape. This unconscious habit can erode intimacy, leaving us feeling isolated and disconnected.

Understanding the Roots of Projection

Projection often stems from unresolved trauma; limiting beliefs, false identities, or negative emotions we carry within ourselves. For instance, if we struggle with feelings of inadequacy, we might project this insecurity onto our partner by interpreting their actions as criticism or disinterest, even when this isn't the case. Projection acts as a mirror for our inner struggles, bringing our fears and doubts to the surface, yet projecting them outward rather than addressing them within.

Signs You Might Be Projecting

Do you find yourself blaming your partner for issues that, upon reflection, might stem from your own fears? Do you interpret neutral actions or words through the lens of past hurts or anxieties? When we project, we often feel triggered by small things, experiencing reactions that may seem out of proportion to the situation. Recognizing these signs is the first step to healing the pattern of projection.

The Path to Greater Intimacy

When we stop projecting, we open the door to genuine, authentic connection. We see our partner as they are, not as a reflection of our fears. This clarity builds trust, understanding, and intimacy, fostering a relationship grounded in truth and mutual respect. By recognizing and healing our projections, we move closer to the loving and fulfilling relationships we truly desire.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: Live from the universe. This is Dr. Erin signing in to say, Hello! How are my divine loves? How's my community? How are you guys doing.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: What I know for sure is that you are divine. You are an all-knowing, all-powerful, spiritual being, having a human experience. And so today, I want to get our mind right.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: and really come tapping into source within, so that you can take on this week powerfully living in alignment with your truth

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: and in your mission and in your purpose and calling. So let's do this thing, taking a deep breath into the nose.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: taking such deep breath that when you inhale your actual diaphragm is completely expanding

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: and holding the breath at the top and exhaling out.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: And I'd like you to do this 3 times, inhaling and holding and what you're doing when you are expanding that diaphragm, you are resetting the neurological system

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: and exhaling out. And as you do this at your own pace, breathing in as slow as possible as deep as possible. What we are doing is we are tuning in.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: We are resetting the neurological system

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: so that we can come into

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: the peace and the silence, and coming into the higher frequency

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: that is actually so finite that that is the stillness, and at the very center point is no frequency. It's called 0 point field.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: and that is the God source within you.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: And so tapping into that today.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: into that all-knowing, unified essence of who you are.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: I know today

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: is a session to remember who you are, and to live in alignment with the highest order, no longer handing your power over to the external world. Being a sovereign being, which means you are not the effect of anything of the external world, because this is all an illusion, the matrix we are coming into 1st Cause 1st source the I am. And in that I'm declaring for myself

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: and for each and everyone who is listening today, and for everyone across the globe, the galaxies, all sentient beings, all masters, all angels, all guides. I know we are one, and I say yes

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: to what we choose to focus on and create and manifest the highest, highest thing which is you, which is the unique divine expression of God's source.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: I simply release this as my word is law, as together we say. And so it is. And so it is okay.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: So today, what I want to go over is this week's universal law distinction. There is only one universal law. It's a law of cause and effect, and there's different distinctions of understanding how the law works, which is the spiritual law of manifesting. It's the very advanced teaching of law of attraction.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: So today, first, st I want to go over this. And then what I want to do is talk to you about a case, study about toxic relationships, and really stop projecting in your relationships. And what that really takes and how to spot when you're projecting, or somebody in your life is projecting, and how to actually handle it from both sides.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: So let's do this thing. So first, st let's just do our spiritual daily spiritual practice. You know, everyone has their own daily spiritual practice. If you're in

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: my membership or in any of my programs we teach having a powerful daily spiritual practice. And the reason why is because even if you do all your inner work.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: even if you you know

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: you know, do all your trauma work. You're still going to need to get your mind right? Okay, you need to get your mind right, and having a daily spiritual practice is imperative. I don't care how much work you've done. If you don't have a spiritual practice, you're going to come back into the effect. It's like, imagine that at every cell

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: there is the frequency again, at the point is 0 point, and it gets really high vibration in the very center. And as you go way out to the outside like a torus field, it gets into a lower frequency. That's the world that we see out here. That's the external world.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: So we don't want to live in the external world. We want to be really tapped into that inner source.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: But having this external experience. Okay. So having a daily spiritual practice is all about always staying connected to your true self.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: So

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: the universal law distinction of this week we live. This also. We want to embody the universal law, to know it in our logical mind, and who we are and who we embody what we embody. So this week's law is the law of forgiveness

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: which comes down to this mantra or this affirmation.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: Release all judgments and set yourself free

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: when you release judgment right? You've cast yourself out of the Garden of Eden the moment that you judge or put a positive or negative meaning. That's polarization.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: So this is a law of releasing

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: and really being released also from the chains of judgment. Right? We don't have to judge anyone because universal law just takes care of everyone's cause and effect of whatever they've done. We don't have to act like God for somebody else. Okay, that's not our place in this universe. Okay, when you forgive, you get yourself back.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: When you forgive, you get your energetics back, you cut all cords, you do soul retrieval right when you forgive

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: you. Give yourself back to yourself. You're no longer the victim. It doesn't mean that you, when you forgive somebody, doesn't mean it, don't you? Don't have the cause and effect of maybe you don't want them in your life, or maybe there's legal things you have to do, whatever. But forgiving is really about energetics.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: Right? This is the restoration of energetic ties of bondage. It is not about letting someone off the hook of cause and effect. Universal law will do that

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: it's about freeing yourself from the jail of victimhood.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: Okay, so just taking that into our day, our week, our life embodying that, remembering that anytime we have judgment anytime. We want to, you know. Hold resentment for anyone we get to remember, hey? If I do that it's not going to turn out very well for me, I'm going to become the effect of that. Okay?

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: So the law of forgiveness may you take that into this week and into this day?

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: the topic today is stop projecting in your relationships.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: So we 1st wanted to define what is projecting. Right projecting is really pointing the finger. You made me feel this way because of you. I'm experiencing this because of you. This is your fault. Right? That's projecting.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: Projecting is also like looking through a filter, because all of us have this filter. It's called a trauma filter.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: and we will literally

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: hear every conversation.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: experience everything within our relationship through a filter. Okay, so this client case study is a client came to me, and she actually wanted to be more expressed in her business. She wanted to be more expressed, and making more money, and and being, you know, finding her truth in her business and her mission, but she kept feeling like something was holding her back.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: And what often happens because people come for different things, you know, to work with me.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: But 9 out of 10 clients are dealing with dysfunctional relationships. Okay, whether it be with a parent, whether it be with a sibling, whether it be with their partner, a peer or a client. Right?

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: 9 out of 10 people are dealing with dysfunctional relationships. Some are more extreme, some are less extreme, but the truth is that they usually come, and they have upsets and their upsets in their relationships are zapping their energy, and that is impacting their ability to make more money or get more clarity in their business, or show up at whatever level.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: So pretty much every client I work with we have to deal with their relationships, their dysfunctional relationship. Because if we don't clear up their energetics, it's not it. It leaks into all different areas of their life, right?

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: So the upsets that usually happen

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: are what is called projecting. I'm upset because my partner, you know, whatever isn't being empathetic enough to me, they're not. He's not hearing me right, or I'm upset because my partner or my mom did this, and and she's, you know, doing XY, and Z right. It's always an upset and that upset is taking their energy and their focus. So we have to deal with the this projecting and deal with the upset and obviously deal with deeper going on

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: so that they can get freed up in their energetics.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: So the topic is how you know, stop projecting in your relationships. So we have to again define what is projecting. It's pointing the finger. Right? It's blame, shame, guilt, game. It is saying. You're making me feel this way. So one. We have to educate ourselves in, not a blunt way, but a metaphysical way. The truth is that no one can make you feel

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: any way. You are the creator of your emotions. You're the creator of your thoughts, your feelings, your emotions, and your reality right?

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: You are choosing to either. Stay in that environment, right? We can't say we're not going to be effective. If we put our hand in the fire, we're going to feel something right. If we stay in an environment we're going to feel something we can only control. We can control within our own meaning and attachment and energetics around. But we can choose to put ourselves into an environment where we have choice over our thoughts, our feelings, our emotions. Okay.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: so we have to 1st educate ourselves and understand truth.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: The metaphysics is that you're the creator of your reality. Okay? So then, we have to really take a look at. So what's happening?

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: You know, the upset

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: emotions are amazing. You know, we're all usually so afraid of emotions.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: and for me, I'm a very like my emotions are so intense. I'm empathetic. I feel the whole race consciousness. It's intense in my body sometimes. Okay, so it's taken me a long time to master my emotions and use my emotions instead of being used by my emotions.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: So in this, obviously, you can't go into the whole lesson. If you're in my membership and in one of my programs, you will really understand and go through the processes of transforming the emotion going through the process of doing the deep trauma work. But we have to recognize that one. We have to know that we do not. No one can create our emotions same for our clients. If you're listening because you want to master spiritual coaching for yourself.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: or you want to master spiritual coaching for your clients to have clients. Right?

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: So one, we have to know that no one can create someone else's emotions.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: Number 2 is we have to look at what is being projected right? What is being projected? It's usually through a trauma filter. So having to do one's trauma work is imperative. I don't know how anyone coaches or does any work with any client without doing their trauma work. It'd be impossible on mine, because it always is the trauma identity. What happens in trauma is something happens.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: Trauma is not what happens to you. Trauma from a spiritual perspective is what happens within you. It's the decisions that are made in that traumatic incident, and it usually looks like, Hey, I'm not lovable. Something's wrong with me. I can't trust anyone. Everyone leaves, whatever it is. It's called the trauma command. Okay, it's an imprint, it is. It's the energetic. It can also come from trauma in this lifetime.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: Trauma of last time of trauma from your ancestor lineage. Right? It's it's what calls it's like the curse in the it's the masterclass of the soul. It's the soul's assignment. It's this masterclass, this lifetime, and this is a repetitive things that will project out into

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: your character, your persona in this lifetime right? So this client came for wanting to make more money, wanting to be more expressed in their business. But we had to deal with the upsets and had to clear up the energetics in her relationship. And once we cleared up the things in her relationship automatically

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: she started making more money. There was just more flow in her business. Everything started happening right. So people come with certain things. But you, as you know, or for yourself.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: you have to realize, hey? It may not even be the issue over here with money and expression in my business it may be actually the command of I'm not worthy is projecting into my relationship and the money and my career. It's 1 identity and that identity, that false identity, that limited perception, identity.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: is actually out picturing into what we call the vibrational match of your life. Okay.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: so

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: again, stop projecting in your relationships. You need to realize you're the creator of your emotions and feelings.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: and that you are seen through your own trauma filter. And so once you've done your inner work, people have a delusion, they think oh, you'll just never be triggered in a relationship again. You're never going to be, you know, having emotions, I feel like that is a lie. But what it does is you birth, your truth. We actually create our life's manual within the membership portal, right within. And when we really clear of what are our standards.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: what are our core values. What is our ideal scene with the people who are around? What are our deal breakers around who are around? And when we do that then we can know when we're getting triggered in a relationship or upset and go, hey, what's really going on?

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: Is this something pulling up for me within myself. Or is this something that I'm not aligning in this relationship? So I can either go, hey, I'm just not vibing this relationship, and I can go my separate way without making them wrong, and me wrong, and I can just accept it and go. Hey, we're just not on the same. We just don't see life the same. We don't vibe, or I can say, Hey, I care about this relationship.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: And I'm actually willing to work through this and and have an inspiring conversation, instead of blaming and shaming the person

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: of how they're not listening to me or hearing me, or whatever I can actually have an enrolling conversation, and I can actually embody that which I seek. And usually, if you don't say anything to the other party, and you embody what you seek.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: they will begin to rise, or they'll take themselves out of your universe. It's really simple, it's magic.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: I'll tell you. It's miraculous.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: it is divine principle. It is spiritual law it is manifesting. This is the embodiment of the spiritual mastering, spiritual coaching truly and truly. Okay. So in this, I'm knowing a powerful week.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: As we went over the universal law of forgiveness, knowing there's only one universal law, and we went over the distinction that all clients, including yourself, have to deal with your relationship issues, because that is what is actually the same identity that's projecting your relationships. It's zapping. All your energy is projecting into your health

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: and your career, and your vitality, and your money, and all of the above. And so I'm just knowing a beautiful divine life, taking

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: and exhaling out and knowing a powerful week, living in principle, living in truth.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: recognize that all of life is a masterclass for us to get developed in our spiritual abilities.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: so that when we leave the spiritual realm we can go through all consciousness and know exactly how to direct consciousness

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: for eternity.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: I say, yes, this I release this. Let go ask that we say, and so it is, and if you have not already, you can grab the spiritual coach planner, the coach session planner below, and you can also join the the membership and get your mind right, and do all this deep, deep work, all your deep work for yourself or for your clients. Okay, have a beautiful blessed day.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: And so if you haven't already, you can grab the coach session Planner Link, below, and if you're ready to do your deep dive into doing your trauma work, really doing your inner work and birthing your life's purpose and your life's manual.

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DR. ERIN | Doctor of Divinity: you can come and grab the link below to join the membership there, as well as for people who want to get developed in business and get certified in our work. There's other programs as well have a beautiful, blessed day. You guys, you can go to drarintv. That's DRER. IN, TV, have a beautiful, blessed day, and may you live your truth.

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This is live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

(00:23):

One is a spiritual coach. Let's break this on down. You may be asking yourself what is a traditional life coach versus a spiritual coach versus all the different types of coaches in the industry. First of all, I just wanna say that I'm super honored to take this journey with you, because I believe that there is a very big misunderstanding of how important a spiritual coach truly is. We have all different types of people that come to us for coaching. I have dealt with high end celebrities, top CEOs. I have trained single women, people with, uh, different, you know, business issues to people dealing with addiction issues to people really just being stopped in life. People being overwhelmed, confused, all different things. But the reality is is that every last one of them needs spiritual coaching. And so we're gonna break on down. What is a spiritual coach?

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The reality is that spirituality is the reality that everything comes from spirit. Everything comes from mind. Everything comes from consciousness. Everything comes from the one source. And so spiritual coaches really clear out the soul release, limited beliefs, reprogram the subconscious mind, transform trauma and help people restore the truth of who they are birthing their truth, birthing their purpose, birthing their legacy of life. Being able to put boundaries on people, places, and things, and accept people in places and things. So they can truly live in their bliss and live in their power, live in their passion and live in their purpose. So spirituality spirituality is the reality that everything is created by spirit. You are higher self. So anywhere in life, where you are struggling anywhere in life, where you're not feeling empowered anywhere in life, where you are feeling confused or overwhelmed or sad or lonely or upset or any of those emotions, they're all being created by you.

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You are an almighty, powerful, spiritual being, and the moment that you even consider yourself to be anything other than the, I am, you are setting universal law into motion. And in this, I recognize the truth of who you are. And so as a spiritual coach, what we are truly doing is we're revealing the truth of who you are. Transformation actually happens. The moment that someone actually recognizes that they created their perspective and the circumstances of their life, because everything comes from identity, which identity creates beliefs, beliefs, create thoughts and thoughts, create feelings and feelings, create the circumstances of your life.

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So in this, let's just recognize that really, what are we doing when we're spiritually coaching somebody when somebody's come to us, whether that be through a program, whether it be through one oh ones, whether it be through a retreat, whether it be through whatever the reality is, what we're really doing is we're having people come from being the fact, being the victim, feeling like they're not caused over their life to becoming the cause, becoming the creator of their life, becoming somebody who realizes that they can create manifest and demonstrate what they desire. And that's the confusing part of life, because why do we know what we're supposed to do? But we don't do it. So we have to break on down. How do you become somebody? Who's the cause of your life instead of the effect and the victim? So we have two primary things that we're doing in our spiritual awakening and dealing with clients as spiritual coaches.

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Number one, we are pulling back all the limited beliefs, all the traumas, everything at a soul level and the soul consists of all the energetic ties of your DNA and all of all the, all of your lineage, all of your ancestors, everything, all the considerations of anything other than the I am. So all spiritual awakening is restoring the true identity. So the first thing we're doing is doing this by things like the E four trauma method by things like releasing all the emotions, neutralizing it at a DNL DNA level because epigenic now teaches us that what happens in trauma over many lifetimes, it's actually showing that we have the memory, the good memory and the bad memory is stored in our DNA. And whenever there is a trauma, they call it a tag and it actually bounds the DNA. And you actually are not able to perceive as much.

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You're not as able, you're not as, as capable of doing things and you actually condense, condense yourself. So I always like to think of it, like if there's a sun up above, which is your true consciousness, which is a part of you, that's really all powerful, almighty and has all innovation. It has all capability to handle anything. If there's clouds in between you and the sun, those are what be called limited beliefs. And in the limited beliefs, that is what restricts your ability to actually be more able to be able to perceive, to be able to innovate, to be able to do anything, handle things like upsets in your relationships, like the economy changing, like, you know, different health issues. You're not able to cope with it, right? So everything we're doing in our spiritual awakening with our clients is we are releasing those limited beliefs, transforming the trauma, reprogram the subconscious mind.

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And we're first getting our clients to restore the truth of who they are taking the veil off of their consciousness. So they can really realize the truth of who they are, which is one with everything. And also really, truly the source. They created all of life. The source that created the entire universe, coming back to that truth that you always have choice, no matter what, the hand you were dealt, you always have choice. There is a great coach. His name is Nick, and he has no arms and no legs. And he is one of the biggest motivational coaches there is. And, and I mean, he, he obviously has a deck of cars. He is been dealt that someone would say, well, that's not fair or there's limitation to that. But the truth is just like Thomas truer teaches us. There's there's infinite equations and ways of dealing with the deck that you're dealt.

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So when you know that I am, you have all choice and possibility. The second thing that we're doing with our clients is we are birthing their unique divine expression and their unique truth. We're birthing our client's truth and how we do this is really by getting outta the way when we do that trauma work. And we transmute the energy, naturally trauma minus emotion equals wisdom. And someone's truth is naturally born. When they transmute and have triumph over their trauma, they're birthing their truth by actually all the negative things in their life like where they're upset, where they're confused, all those things, when that energy and emotions are transmuted, actually the clients' truth is born. And so your unique divine expression is born of really two primary things, which is all the suffering that's happened on your DNA for you to actually be the neutralization. You are universal law.

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So you actually have a divine calling it's already written on your DNA. And also there's a part of you that has a unique expression. It's the gift of you. It's that place where you lose track of time. It's that part of you? That is that artist, that creative factor, that place within you, that no one else can do what you do. And so, again, as spiritual coaches, helping our clients do spiritual awakening, we are helping them birth. The truth of who they are, which is the I am. And then we have them birth their truth, which is their unique divine expression. There's only one of you, there's only one of your client. And that is what we're here to do. You are the fractal of the divine. You are, there's only one of you in the entire universe. And the greatest gift you can give to yourself and to the world is the most authentic expressed you.

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And so these are really the two primary things that we're doing with our client. So as a spiritual coach in, in society and new thought global, we teach universal law. We teach the creative process. We are in the new thought movement, which is ancient thought. And it really is the metaphysics of how we create. And so we're constantly educating our clients and helping them understand how they have created all their limitations, all their scarcity, all their lack, and that that same energy can create abundance and love and vitality. So if you take a look at universal law or the creative process in general, we have kind of like, it looks like a big circle with a V that goes down, and this is the universal chart of how we create. And at the top of the, you know, what we call open at the top, at the top of this kind of circle, uh, when it's open, it really is the creative conscious mind that part of you that can create, decide, choose that's the conscious mind.

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And that goes down into kind of the middle, which is what we consider the subconscious mind, which is conscious as well. But it's subconscious. It has an great intelligence in it. It beats the heart. It doesn't the mathematical chemical equations in your body that no mathematician on this planet could do. It is so intelligent. It's what would consider the soul. It also has all the great wisdom, but it also has all the trauma. It also has all the limitations. It has that yin and yang. It has that good and bad. It has universal law in it, right? And out of that at the bottom, we consider the fact, the form, the body of life. So there's always spirit at the top, the soul in the middle and the body at the bottom. And this is just a demonstration. We recognize all one thing going on, but the truth is that universal law, we have the choice.

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We're in a relative, it's a relative creation. We can create heaven, or we can create hell. We can create dev vision, or we can create our divine union. We can create all the above. And this one thing, it's the out picture of every last drop of life. And this is who creative process. So as we're coaching our clients, we're helping them understand that when they were in that traumatic incident and decided I'll never love again, I'm not enough. Something's wrong with me. That is a creation, just like creating, you know, a billion dollars or love, or the greatest trip of your life or the greatest expression. It's all creation. Universal law

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This is

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Live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

(00:21):

Welcome divine legends. Oh my gosh. If you are somebody who is dealing with needing to set boundaries, you definitely want to listen to this podcast and watch this video. I have so much experience on those. You guys, you have no idea coming from being someone who is completely co-dependent and dysfunctional years back and mastering how to create boundaries, how to hold boundaries and still being tested, being tested, being tested, and working with, you know, hundreds of women, uh, in our community and thousands of women's hundreds of thousands of women across the globe. I just wanna say that this is very normal and natural to be trying to figure out how to create boundaries. So I'm Dr. Aaron, I'm a doctor divinity, founder of new thought global and society and teaching universal law, metaphysics of mind, science of mind, and how our subconscious mind gets reprogrammed through E four trauma method and all of our different modalities that we teach and certify all of our spiritual coaches, practitioners, law of attraction ministers, and yes, doctors of divinity.

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So let's break this on down. You guys boundaries how to create healthy boundaries, how to live your truth, how to truly, truly be able to not make people wrong, see them for the divinity and stay in your power. And let me tell you, I don't think that you ever stop this masterclass of life. So it's so funny because, um, you know, years back I was completely codependent and dis dysfunctional in my relationships. And I remember, you know, hearing this thing called boundaries and boundaries for me meant blocking people. That was the only sense I knew of like boundaries, cuz it was all or nothing when you're kind of an addict. And when you're, you know, in this realm. And so it is taken me many, many years to understand and be able to implement, being able to hold healthy boundaries for myself in the realm of relationship, but also in the realm of friendships, in the realm of, you know, social media in the realm of everything.

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So I invite you to take your pin and paper out. If you do not already subscribe to the, um, podcast, if you do not subscribe to the YouTube, this goes on both platforms. And so please subscribe tele a friend tag, a friend, because this work is super important for us to be able to have our friends, our inner circle, our family be able to all rise together. Our mission in society is to waken a billion people. And how I know we will fulfill upon that mission is by developing the most doctors of divinity on this planet. That truly is my goal. So let's break this on down. It's all the buzz and all the rage to, to create boundaries right now. There's books coming out on it. Everyone's talking about it. It's nothing new. It's something that we've had to learn for for all of all of time, but today we're gonna break it on down.

(03:15):

So there's a great fairytale. It's called Goldie locks and the three bears. And it's a really funny little fairy tale because it's a story of Goldie locks, this little girl who kind of, I think she gets lost out in the woods and she stumbles upon this like little house, a little log cabin out in the woods. She says, well, maybe somebody can help me find my way back home. And so she knocks three times on the door and she goes inside and she realizes nobody's there. So she starts kind of looking around and she goes, well, I'm a little hungry. And I don't think anyone really mind that. And there's three bowls of porridge and she, you know, eats one and she's like, Ooh, this is too hot. She eats another. And she goes, Ooh, this is too cold. And she eats the third and she says, just right, right.

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Then she goes onto the living room and she finds, I think three chairs sits in one and thinks it's too hard. One's too soft. And the other one's just right. And then she goes up in the bed and, and lays on the bed and tries all three beds. And again, one's too hard, one too soft. And one's just right. And she falls asleep and lo and behold three bears come home. A mom bear, a daddy bear and a baby bear. And they come in and they're like, who's eating our porch. Who's broken our chairs. And they go up and they find little girl and she runs out cuz of course she's afraid of the bears. She runs home and she decides she's never going back to the woods and the bears never see Goldilocks again. So what's the moral of the story. Little weird really right.

(04:40):

If you think about it. But the point is, as you know, a mentor of mine, a metaphysical mentor told me years ago, years ago that all relationships are the opportunity to discover what you like and what you don't like, what works and doesn't work. Right. And another concept is that all the relationships are the opportunity for us to develop our spiritual mastery, to accept people exactly as they are in their total divinity, but also being able to know and make the distinction between who they are and who we are and what works and doesn't work. So, you know, diving in further into relationships that have no boundaries and that are what we call, you know, enmeshed and really don't work. They end up, you know, being, getting together, breaking up, going around the circles, all the dysfunction of a relationship. We recognize that it's important to, to be able to place boundaries, to have two healthy individuals that are complete themselves and that can come together in the parts of them that do work, the parts that they create together, whether it be, you know, that they just enjoy being friends, whether they enjoy, you know, creating a family together, whether they enjoy creating something for the world.

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And we, we recognize all relationships and we celebrate all relationships, whether you're gay straight, no matter what, your definition of a relationship, we're just talking about the generality of all relationship, because guess what? All of life is a relationship. So we have to understand that all of life is going to be pushing us to see what our boundaries are. So another word for boundaries is living your truth, right? So I, I, I don't really care for the word boundaries so much because I don't feel like I need to place bounds on anything. And cuz I'm boundless. My love is boundless. My expression is boundless, but where it's received may, you know, be different for, you know, it may not be received and we call it boundaries, whatever it is. But it really is more about boundaries. It's not about the other person. Boundaries is about yourself.

(06:47):

And let me explain. So I remember, uh, years back being in a dysfunctional relationship and thinking if he just changed, then I wouldn't have to, you know, be a, a B, right? If he just didn't do this, then I wouldn't have to be controlling. If he just did this, then I wouldn't get upset, eh, wrong answer, right? From a metaphysical standpoint, everything is just a reflection and projection of our beliefs. And if we're having beliefs that love hurts or love is chaotic or relationships are hard, hence they will be hard. Hence you'll always be going in the ups and downs of the roller coasters out there. So placing the boundaries is more about getting clear about yourself, about what works for you. What doesn't work for you, where, you know, everyone has different cycles, how you sleep may be different than somebody else, what you like to do.

(07:39):

And when you like to do it, it might be different than somebody else. How, you know, you go about in work may be different than say your boss or your peers, right? Everything is about getting clarity of who you are so that you can show up fully as you are and people can accept you. And you can accept people, places and things as they are because the gap of suffering is wanting people, places and things to be different than they are. So our gap of boundaries is really getting clear of accepting others exactly are, but also, and more importantly, accepting ourselves for who we are so that we can fully state and be clear of who we are. So other people can accept us or not accept us and place their own boundaries of living their own truth for themselves. So how the hell do we do this?

(08:24):

Right? So for me, it took a lot of self work, a lot of, uh, transforming my trauma, a lot of 12 step programs, a lot of practice and failing and practicing and failing, right? And making amends and then making amends again and so on and so forth. So today I can honestly say that building your boundaries primarily has to do with understanding and the universal law in that we recognize that everything is frequency, right? All of life is frequency. And so we understand that if we inform our subconscious mind and universal law with upsets and sadness and frustrations and arguments, we're going to disrupt our soul and we're going to actually create this even more tribulation, that's gonna create more tribulation in the world. So as I say, there's only, the only thing to fear is fear itself because fear itself is what's informing your subconscious mind in the divine mind.

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So it's not about another person that can upset you. It's not about because no one can upset you. You are responsible for your own emotion. So boundaries are not about somebody else. They're actually about taking responsibility around your own emotions and around your own vibration and your own energy. So we always say that, you know, when I'm working with somebody and they're trying to heal the bare minimum, I need someone to stay is at peace. Okay. If you're going, if the, the goal is to get into bliss and ecstasy and in that flow and in the manifestation, like creation factor of all of it, right? But if you go down and you're upset and you're, I turbulate, and you're reacting, then you're going to go into a spiral of downward spiral versus up here, you're gonna go into an upward spiral, right? So if you are not being able to set boundaries and you're getting into upsets, then that's dangerous because you're gonna start creating your whole life is gonna out picture from those upsets.

(10:19):

And it's gonna be a downward spiral. So plac

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(00:01):

This is

(00:02):

Live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We come together each day to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with the universal law. We also come together to know the truth of who we are and claim our birthright of prosperity. So if you're somebody who has dealt with co-dependency dysfunctional relationships, or just really feeling inadequate or not totally fulfilled without somebody in your life, this is for you. I'm Dr. Aaron, I'm a doctor of divinity teaching universal law, metaphysics of mind, and how to reprogram your subconscious mind. I, um, am the founder of new thought global and society, and I have trained and developed, you know, thousands of women across the globe. And today I wanna break down how you truly can live and empower life, how you can heal from codependency dysfunctional relationships and what that process is. And if you're a coach, how to deal with somebody who's dealing with codependency.

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So let's do this in you guys. Okay. So welcome again to this, um, this series R from you doing a series on codependency, dysfunctional relationships and all the above, because this is a big issue. You guys is a huge issue in our world, in our culture. And if you're somebody who's really seeking that freedom in your relationships, you're ready to really live a life where you are generating love and you don't have bounds to your love. And you're also able to accept people, places, and things as they are, and be able to fully step into your power. This is for you. So again, I'm Dr. Aaron and I know this very well because I was codependent for majority of my life. I came from an upbringing where I watched my mom as a total codependent in and out of relationships, ups and downs in her emotions.

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And I too carried it into my, uh, young adulthood. And I ended up being in relationships where, um, I got married to somebody that I didn't even love because I thought that it would complete my life. Right. Um, I was with somebody that was an alcoholic and a drug addict, a very kind of famous a rockstar that was a complete disaster and dysfunctional relationship. And I'm not pointing the finger at him because I was just as dysfunctional, uh, because I didn't, I thought that if I, you know, if he just changed, then you know, I was only acting out or sending mean texts or screaming or yelling or doing whatever, because it was his problem and what he was doing and the lies and the cheating and all that stuff that he did. Therefore, I justified everything that I did. And then I came to a really screeching halt when I had to surrender and get down on my knees and pray to my higher self and say, I need help.

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This is not working. And I cannot, I can no longer live like this. So believe me, I know a lot about codependency. And so today we're gonna break on down. How do you deal with this? Because when I train and develop spiritual entrepreneurs and coaches, we take 'em through a certification program. One of the big conversations is how do we deal with somebody that's dealing with addiction? Because codependency and dysfunctional relationships is an addiction because it's a looping process that happens, you know, within the mind. And as a meta physicians, we recognize that everything begins in mind and everything begins with our identity, with our limiting beliefs and are limited identity. And so for me, I know exactly where it came from. It came from the traumas of this lifetime and past lifetimes and the command and the identity I had was I'm not lovable and love has to hurt, love, has to abandon.

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And so it was a self-fulfilling prophecy in my life for me to be able to pick people that were not available or me to make sure that it turned into some drama. For sure. Okay. So when I'm working with, um, developing a certifying coaches, it's really interesting because when we come to this topic, we have to recognize that, uh, you know, codependency and addiction stems from trauma. Trauma is not what people think it just is. It's not just a physical thing. If you're human, you've had emotional trauma, meaning that you've had times of high states of negative emotions that cause frequency and vibration, which, which informs a subconscious mind backed by what we call a command. And the command sometimes will go like this. I don't, I, you know, I'm not enough, something's wrong with me. I don't wanna live, you know, love hurts, love abandons.

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I'm not lovable, whatever that command is and it plays out, right? So the issue is when we're dealing with a client that has codependency or dysfunctional relationship, the issue is that if they're still in that relationship, they're still in that environment and they're not able to not re-trigger those traumas. It's kind of like having a wound and you have a scab on it, right? And if you keep picking up the scab, it keeps bleeding. So if you have trauma and you are inner dysfunctional or codependent relationship, and you're constantly getting triggered, getting upset, re-opening those wounds. Then as a coach, it's almost impossible to have you really have true growth, which means that, yes, we recognize that trauma works on that and, you know, awareness and birthing your core values and healing. Everything has to happen, but we have to recognize sometimes we need to remove ourselves from the environment or from the relationship in order to heal.

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So I remember, you know, years back being in a dysfunctional relationship and I loved him, you know, I, there, it was not a lie. I actually did love him, but there was also parts of it that did not work. And I was unable to be in the relationship, right. So it was a really hard thing. And they say it is stronger than heroin addiction in that when you love somebody and you have all those emotions, there's a high that people get off of the emotions of, you know, the high of falling in love. And let's say it's stronger than cocaine, right. And then, you know, coming out of it and being going through withdrawals and the whole cycle, the Merry go round cycle. Right. And we do wanna state that there's some incredible programs like coda.org or 12 step programs. And we highly recommend those for breaking the cycle.

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We also recommend checking yourself into a facility. If you can't start to get help on your own, and you can't start to do it on your own. Okay. So beyond that as a spiritual coach, as somebody who trains and develops and certifies spiritual coach, there is a process to it in that as the individual coach getting trained certified each individual as a coach needs to decide if this is something that they want to handle, and they want to work with clients that are dealing with codependency or, you know, dysfunctional relationships. Me, I have come to my truth. And my truth is that I, um, will have an agreement. The first session I have with a client, or even before first session, we will talk about co-dependency and addiction. And in that, if, if somebody is dealing with that, then we have an agreement that they're either able to, you know, start to manage that and be able to not get too reactive or drink too much, or be in any abusive relationship.

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Otherwise, our agreement is after 30 days working together or after a few sessions, that if they're not able to stabilize in their environment, then they need to remove themselves from the environment or we'll put our coaching on hold until they're able to. Okay. Because it's really important. And I wanna speak to the person that is going through codependency and going through dysfunction out there in the world right now. First of all, I just wanna say, I am holding you in my heart. I know the perfection of whatever you're going through. I really truly do. I don't. We, as, as divine teachers as understand the power of mine, I do not look at as bad or good in that it is for your growth. And I recognize that when I went through codependency and a very dysfunctional relationship, it was a huge blessing in disguise because it was the one thing that de that demanded me to do my inner healing and demanded me to get to my low so that I would surrender so that I would say, I, I decided to powerfully heal myself.

(08:25):

And so right now I'm holding you in my heart, knowing the perfection of wherever you're at. Okay. And I recognize that as you know, it's not about trying to get better. It's really surrendering to what is, and if you need to stay in that relationship, then you know what you need to stay there as long as you need to stay there until you are ready to say no more. And that's what I know for sure. And as a coach, I have one goal and one goal only is to help you get clear what your true goal is. And if you, you know, your goal is to be, be healthy, loving, completely, have an expressed, loving, functioning, amazing relationships in your life. But you're over here in dysfunction, discord, codependency, and suffering, and the insanity of it. Then we wanna know what is it that you truly want?

(09:11):

Are you committed to staying in that for a while and trying to figure it out? Are you committed to healing and completely getting over it? Only you can answer that. Okay. But in that, when you come to understand what you truly want, cuz some people are just committed to the misery. Some people really truly are committed to staying in the drama and saying there, my invitation is free to get real with yourself and ask yourself, what is it you truly are committed to. And in that you should get real with yourself. And if you're really ready to heal and do the work, my invitation is for you to get out of that environment. Okay. That I'm not telling anybody to get a divorce. I'm not telling anybody to break up with anybody. I'm not telling anybody anything I'm saying to get out of the environment so that you're able to have space so that your triggers from your trauma, aren't getting retried.

(09:59):

And then of course, so that's all about getting aware, waking up to how you are creating reality, no matter what they're doing, no matter if you're with a narcissist, no matter if they'v

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This is live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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Live from Los Angeles. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and yes, align with universal law. I'm Dr. Aaron, I'm Dr. Divinity, and we come together on this podcast to teach the metaphysics of mine, universal law, and really understanding how we're manifesting 24 7. How does this entire dynamic called you the universe work and break it all down so that you can be the most empowered in your personal professional life? Yes, yes. Yes. So today we wanna talk about trauma versus prayer, which is a really interesting concept. How do those two even relate what's going on? And the point is, why do we even care about this, this conversation? The point is that if you are somebody who is still kind of reacting in life still, you don't feel totally healed. Yes, you may consider you need trauma work. Maybe you don't even understand what trauma work is.

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And then maybe you're somebody who has heard of this thing called prayer. Maybe you hate prayer. Maybe you do need to believe in prayer. But the point is is that we all want to have powerful lives. We all wanna be empowered. We all wanna live our greatest version of ourselves. We wanna be fully expressed, have prosperity, love, abundance, all the above. Well, if you want that, this podcast is for you because I'm gonna break on down. Why doing your trauma work and doing what we call a affirm mind treatment? AKA prayer is imperative. Those two things we use primarily in new thought global and society. And why, why do you need both or why? You know, one might work more for you than the other, right? Okay. So let's break this on down as a community. We recognize that we're here to really restore the truth of who we are.

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Really. We just remember the truth of who we are and unveiling this via truth. We heal by revealing truth in new thought global. We, we teach metaphysic of mind and understand how your subconscious is, is the universal law and breaking this all down. So someone asked me the other day, you know, why do we need E four trauma method? If we do spiritual mind treatment. And first I wanna break on down, what is trauma work and what is, you know, prayer from a metaphysical standpoint. Okay. I'm sure if you've been in my tribe or community, you're like, okay, we already know this, right. But it's always good to remember what these are. Okay. Trauma is a state that is basically, uh, place on the track where you had a really high state of negative emotion. And we recognize that the subconscious mind is, is programmed and received by frequency and vibration.

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And you're such a powerful, spiritual being the moment you place a positive or negative, meaning on something you instantaneously are, are informing your subconscious mind, which is one with a divine mind, universal law. Okay. So a state of a trauma experience is when you're in a high, high state of a negative emotion, you've placed a major negative thing onto it. Maybe, you know, you're dealing with a big breakup. Maybe you heard really bad news. Maybe you, you know, had an incident where you were sexually abused, whatever that may be. It's a state of a high state of a negative emotion backed by a limiting belief. Something's wrong with me? I'm not enough. I will never love again. It's called a command. And it, it places into the subconscious mind, um, and Ingram into the neurological system and it also tags the DNA. Okay. So there's trauma.

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Okay. That basically is a very brief summary of trauma. So we recognize trauma work is imperative because it's really neutralizing the mental pictures, which actually ends up neutralizing that negative charge on your DNA, releasing that, and being able to have you be more able for you read the dynamics of who you are. One with the universe exponentially not have huge upsets and reactions, and just be the effect of what you've created at a subconscious level, but begin to be someone who can restore freedom of choice and free will, and be able to be able, um, to not be, you know, uh, used by your emotions, but to use your emotions instead. So trauma that's breaking it down. Okay. Just a real gist of it versus prayer. And a lot of people out there may be like, I don't believe in prayer, that's delusional. We don't teach prayer to some man in the sky we teach what's called affirmative prayer or spiritual mind treatment.

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And spiritual mind treatment is basically not praying for something it's praying to become something it's actually expanding one's consciousness. And when we expand the consciousness, just like we expand the DNA, we basically begin to have all answers already. A prayer is answered instantaneously. It's not about going out and doing something it's revealing that there's always, there's already that choice. It's already in front of your face, right? It's literally like the answer is already there. And so we know in spiritual mind treatment that this is, um, is in consciousness. And when we do spiritual mind treatment, we are going through five steps, which is about acknowledging the one power that is the second is identifying, recognizing that you are that divine power. You are, that that essence that's created the entire universe and you have all the wisdom right now and all the resources right now.

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Third is, um, declaration of declaring what it is that you choose to direct energy upon mind to experience in this, in this life. And right now, and next is releasing, releasing, or sorry, gratitude, gratitude, energizing from the mind, doesn't know the difference between something that's not happened, or it has happened in mind. It's called like biofeedback. It's literally like you're energizing the mental pictures and it has to out picture into the world. Okay. And then the last is releasing, recognizing there's nothing to do that you've informed universal law in your subconscious mind and therefore it's done in the divine mind. Okay. So what spiritual mind treatment should work period, right? But the issue is this spiritual mind treatment is, is not contingent upon anything, but it is contingent upon the person that you're either praying for, or that you pray for yourself how receptive you are to receive the truth of who you are, how receptive you are to, to actually, you know, being able to receive the goodness and the abundance.

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And some people can't receive it, right. They literally can't receive the abundance and love and everything. And so we wanna break this on down because it's imperative. We recognize that there's really only, you know, there's, the subconscious mind is very specific. You know, it's so specific. It's one with universal law. It's basically negatively charged, neutral or positive, a negative zero or positive, that's it, we're a binary system. We are literally like a computer system. So we wanna break on down if this is the case, if we're in a new thought movement and we're having, this is our practice is to live the highest, expand the consciousness and reap the rewards of this entire universe. Right. Then we've gotta get our mind, right. And we either need to neutralize that, um, the trauma or we need to do prayer or both. Right. And so someone asked me a brilliant, it's a really brilliant question.

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Why if prayer works right, if prayer really works spiritual mind treatment, why do we need E four trauma method? Why don't we just go straight to truth? And it's a great question. And so what happened was years ago, I was in a spiritual center for years, training developing, and, and I was around, you know, all the people in that center. And I would witness people and I was like, huh, these people keep praying, but it doesn't seem like things are shifting in their life. And then other people would pray, do S mind treatment and things would shift dramatically. And so I began to inquire into what what's going on. Like, why is this working for one person versus not another person? And, and all of a sudden I realized what was really going on and the best, um, analogy would be, imagine you're a farmer and you have this plot of land.

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You have, you know, you're ready to, it's a new, you know, year, whatever, and you're, you're planting the seeds for your crops, but the issue is there are weeds all through your entire land. And so if you plant these new seeds, it's, it's not really gonna work. You know, the seeds are gonna actually take over and destroy your seeds. So what are you gonna do? You know what I mean? So the point is, is that E four trauma method and trauma work is kind of like going in and getting out and getting to the root of all those weeds before you see the plant of truth, which is through spiritual mind treatment. So as practitioners, which I love developing spiritual practitioners and you thought, um, global so amazing is we're really teaching to no truth. That's all we're doing. Spiritual practitioners are masters of, of being able to spot the limited belief, those weeds in your garden.

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And they're also masters of doing spiritual mind treatment, right. This, and they're also coaches, those coaches are, are developed in all the actual, um, E for trauma method and all of the different, uh, processes to clear out the weeds and to bur someone's truth. Okay. So now imagine here you are the farmer, you you're ready to plant your seed. You're like, I know I want these crops. I'm gonna plant these, um, you know, avocado, whatever avocado trees or whatever we're gonna plant, we're going to harvest, but I've got all these weeds. And if I plant these avocado trees, it it's just not gonna work. Like I literally it's like asking for problems and you may even lose all the investment that you made in all the seeds that you're ready to plant. So E for trauma method and dealing with your trauma is really about getting the soil, right?

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Because what I noticed when I was in that spiritual center is that people there, they weren't able to receive. They had so much trauma that they were, there were, they had so much limited beliefs cuz limited beliefs come from trauma. That's what it comes from. It comes from your epigenetics, from your DNA. It comes from everything in your lineage. But all of that comes from the experiences and putting limited beliefs, which can only be done to itself. Right? So I

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This is

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Live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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Are you ready to own an investment that has an endless supply? Well, if you do, you definitely wanna listen to this podcast. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron podcast. We come together each day to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We truly believe that somebody awakens, they have a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. Our mission is to awaken a billion people and how I know that we will fulfill upon that is by developing world renowned, spiritual entrepreneurs, spiritual coaches, spiritual practitioners, law of attraction ministers, and yes, doctors of divinity. You heard me, right? Yeah. We have people lining up for it. Are you kidding? So let's do this. We are on the money breakthrough. We are on 12 of 12. You guys, this is it. This is it. We've done so many great conversations around money breakthrough.

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I hope that you are just experiencing so many things. We've gone through everything from supply and demand to understanding consciousness, to understanding your subconscious, to understanding how to create your inner circle back and forth all over place. And I'd love to know what breakthroughs you've had. If you could DM me or tag me in Instagram or on Facebook, or you can slide it into my DMS, whatever you want. I wanna hear, we wanna hear your money breakthroughs because it's super important. We learn from one another and I'm telling you that the biggest money breakthroughs I've had is witnessing my girlfriends. My amazing, uh, girlfriends have breakthroughs watching them have their first a hundred thousand dollars months and being like what I don't even know that's possible. Right? And then all of a sudden you do have a hundred thousand dollars month, right? It's important to understand that you sharing your breakthroughs, you sharing your wins helps one other person on this planet and that trickles into a butterfly effect.

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Okay? So today we're talking about money breakthrough we're on 12 of 12 and the title of today's podcast is the greatest investment. You, your consciousness, right? The greatest investment you. So if you're ready to own an investment that has an endless supply, this podcast is for you, right? If you're ready to be the owner of a multi billion dollar investment, that's the possibility, that's the potential of a strong consciousness of understanding and innovating and knowing the truth of who you are. So just sharing a little bit about my, my journey, my journey into investing in my own consciousness. So I remember when I was in my twenties actually had someone give me a gift of going to landmark forum. And it was great. I went, um, I got a lot out of it. In fact, what I got was making everyone else wrong, kind of one of those spiritual elite things like I'm starting to have my, you know, I know everything and therefore I'm gonna make everyone wrong.

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Right. But the point is is that I actually didn't get much out of it. And the reason why I think I didn't was because I didn't pay for it. And it's really interesting because I find that now we've tried different things. We've tried given people scholarships, um, into society. And every last time I've done that. It doesn't work. People don't show up a hundred percent because when you pay for things, you got skin in the game and you actually get a lot out of it. So as I went along in my twenties, I began to invest my own money. Yes, I invested, of course, in tons of books, I invested in seminars, in leadership programs, in coaching, in spiritual advancement. I actually ended up investing, um, having, I worked with a shaman that I would fly in, not any Iowa. So anything like that, just straight understanding metaphysics and energy and all the different work with that I invested in of course, tons and tons and tons of leadership programs.

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Um, I invested in becoming a KMI teacher. I invested in subconscious repoing techniques. I've invested in obviously becoming a spiritual practitioner. I invested in becoming a law of attraction minister. I invested in becoming a doctorate divinity. I've invested in training and coaching with seven figure coaches I've invested with, um, going to Tony Robbins events and other miscellaneous things from David data events to, you know, going on retreats with people to meditation, things, you name it, I've spent well over $250,000 on my own consciousness, not to mention the tons and tons of hours that I've put into it. I've invested. Of course, you know, probably I don't even know. I have never even calculated how many hours I've put into meditation and my spiritual practice. But what I know for sure is that every time I have ever invested in anything that advances my consciousness, it always comes back exponentially any time that I've invested in my own consciousness and expanding my consciousness and my mindset or skillset, it has always come back exponentially.

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So tell me, is there one investment that has always come back exponentially, right? Maybe what it's a 4% gain. It's an 8% gain. Maybe if it's really good, it could be like 12 to 20% if it's in the stock market, that's like over the top. Right? Well, I would say that investing in my consciousness has always come back at least tenfold. What percentage is that? Right? It's not even a hundred percent. Is that a thousand percent? Right? Is what is the return on your investment? The ROI return on investment is exponential every last time when I put it into my own consciousness. And the coolest thing about our industry, you guys, I mean, the coolest thing is I have, uh, you know, a lot of girlfriends that are coaches and things, and I will invest in their programs because them or someone, another friend of mine will invest in my program, right?

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So there's always a way, and every time I have invested in anything, it comes back exponentially. And what I know is that this is the law, it's the law. So we have to take a look at what is the cost of not investing. What would be the cost? Let's just say today, you know, I'm in my late forties. Imagine that I hadn't done my inner work. Imagine that I hadn't done my trauma work. Imagine that I still was what I consider. I was a hot mess, right? What if I was still co-dependent what would be the cost of my sanity? What would be the cost of my happiness? What would be the cost of my health? If I was getting upset every day of the week, what would be the cost of my life? If I was upset and I couldn't show up to, to coach, I couldn't show up to even build a business.

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If I hadn't done my inner work, right? What's the cost millions upon millions of dollars, the cost of not having a life that you love, the cost of not being able to have my son, witness his mother, become an extraordinary, and having that role model for him, what's the cost of not investing in yourself. And I really want you to get that. Like, if you don't overcome the codependency, if you don't overcome, you know, not loving yourself, if you don't overcome and you end up having your parents transition before you can actually heal and be at peace with everybody in your life. What's the cost of that. Right? Recently, I have so many friends that are into Bitcoin and, and I'm not, I'm not obviously I'm for it from a technology perspective, a thousand percent, but as far as an investment perspective, um, you know, I'm not educated enough to make that, that choice, but it has never really added up to me because isn't, I've always been like, isn't that the point of Bitcoin is to have it be something that is, is just a stable thing that actually makes it, so it can't be manipulated by a few people on the planet.

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Right. And now they're doing investments at Bitcoin. I'm like, oh, cool. Like if that speaks to people, that's fine. But recently it's taken a big, um, a big, uh, hit right. Went down. I don't know how much exactly, but have a lot of friends in it. And this is my litmus test. Okay. If you lost all of your investments, let's just say, you're like, I don't have any investments. What are you talking about? Like, let's just pretend, let's pretend that you invested money into real estate or into Bitcoin or into whatever. Right. And let's just pretend for a minute that you lost the entire investment, that the Bitcoin that you went into went away or the real estate, whatever you lost it all, cuz the whole market went upside down. You couldn't pay the mortgage and you had to let it go. The litmus test for me is if you lost all of your investments tomorrow, would you regret the investment?

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Meaning that say some of my friends that are into Bitcoin, they actually truly love Bitcoin. They like the conversation around it. They learn about it. They learn about technology. They learn whatever. And maybe they would say, even if I lost all Bitcoin, I wouldn't regret it because I love the process of investing in Bitcoin. Whereas the next person would be like, I would be so bummed because I didn't really care about Bitcoin because I just invested cuz I thought it was a good investment. But if I lost all my money, then I'd be really bummed. Right. Or someone who invests in real estate might be like, no, I don't regret it. Cuz I understand real estate now. And I can go out in any market, whether it's the top of the market or the bottom of the market and I can invest again and I can make money because I love the conversation and the growth of investing in real estate. Right? So the litmus test for you is where you putting your time and energy and money. And if you lost all the things, would it in advance you in your own consciousness? Right?

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And so whether you are, you know, you're probably you're listening to this podcast. Look, you've had a spiritual calling and you care a lot about your spiritual development and you probably are a spiritual coach at some level. And you care about being able to become the best coach. You can be. You care about making an impact in the world. And so we have to ask ourselves, right? What is the best investment for you to make? Would it be in being Bitcoin? Would it be in real estate or would it be in your unconsciousness to become the embodiment? Because whether money comes and goes, no one can take away my consciousness, no one can take away

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This is

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Live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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What if I told you that your net worth is going to be the average of the five to 10 people you surround yourself with, if you're ready to create your rich inner circle, you wanna listen to this podcast. This is Dr. Aaron welcome. We come together each day to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with universal law. We truly believe that when somebody awakens, they have a gift message to bring to the world and together we're awakening the world. Our mission is to awaken a billion people. And now I know that we're gonna fulfill upon that mission is by developing world renowned, spiritual entrepreneurs, spiritual coaches, spiritual practitioners, law of attraction ministers, and yes, doctors of divinity. So let's break this on down. You guys, we're on number 11 of 12, a money breakthrough podcast series. This title is creating your rich inner circle, and yes, there is a saying your net worth is going to be the average of the five to 10 people you surround yourself with.

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I'm not sure if that is a scientific , you know, data or not, but boy, do I know how much the influence of the people around me make in my life and my consciousness and yes, in my bank account. So let's break this on down yesterday. I was actually at the Rosewood up in Montecito and I was at a brunch. I was with, there was nine women around this table in this beautiful, gorgeous room at the Rosewood. And Montecito had this beautiful chandelier with crystals over it, beautiful roses in the middle of the table. And I had a moment where I kind of looked around the room and I kind of almost had like a moment of imposter syndrome. But then I realized it was actually just a pinch me moment of realizing that I clearly had manifested this, that I had chosen within my own soul, that I wanted to surround myself with women that were extraordinary women that were soul based women that were committed to making a difference on this planet and every single woman across this table.

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I don't think there was, there may have been somebody that made under seven figures, but regardless, I don't know, some of them probably made multiple, multiple seven figures. One of which worked with Oprah Winfrey, building her entire brand, other coaches in the room, doing deep, deep conscious work with clients, profound, profound spirit. Let's just put it that way. And what I knew in that moment was I was like, whoa, this is such a recognition, a reflection of a consciousness and a choice that I'd made years ago. And I remember there was a moment in my spiritual development that I had to let go of some friends, not because they weren't good enough or whatever, just they weren't in alignment with what I was, was truly committed to. And I know today as I sit here that my life would never be as rich as it is, my life would never be fulfilled.

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My life would never be at the level it's at. If it weren't for the people that I surround myself with. So I just wanna give acknowledgement to my own coaches, to my own girlfriends and guy, friends that are making a difference that impact my life in every conversation we have. I'm just so grateful for my inner circle. So on that note, you know, we have to recognize that our network equals our net worth truly. And truly, if you think about it, we're one, we have mirroring cells, we have all these things. And so today I wanna help you create your rich inner circle because it's not a passive thing. It's a very active thing to get clear of what works for you. And doesn't work for you around the people that you are have in your life. If you're truly committed to claiming your birthright prosperity and having a money breakthrough, it goes into all areas of your life and definitely around the people that you surround yourself with.

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So let's just say, you know, that, that people either they either rise, raise you up or they bring you down, like truly. And truly, if you think about it, like your life either gets better and expands with somebody you're hanging out with, or it gets more dramatic and chaotic and dysfunctional period, you know, and you have to weigh out the pros and cons. And I remember doing this, there was a, I had a really dear friend years ago and it just was, there was a lot of drama and I know it wasn't just her. It was probably both of us together, but there was a point in time where I had to release her to the universe. And I was like, you know what, I'm gonna release her with love. It's just that whether it be us together or whether it be that she's just committed to her drama, I to let it go, there was other friends that were good.

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I mean, they were up to something, they were up to some growth. Um, and I would find that when I was around them, it was fine. You know, whether it be girlfriends I grew up with or girlfriends, I went to high school with, they're amazing. And they're still in my life and I do love them. Okay. But there's a whole other level of relationship that I'm really committed to. And it doesn't mean it can't be with the women that I grew up with or high school friends, cuz some of them absolutely fall into this category and some don't. So what I had to get clear is that what my own core commitments are, and we go through this, whether it be in an intimate relationship you're in, or whether it's in your girlfriends circle, guy, friend circle, or whether it's people you hire in your company, there has to be a level of core values that you're up to for you to truly thrive and be you.

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And so I've gotten really clear of what mine are and I'm gonna help you get clear of what yours are, so that whether you even have those people in your life or not the people that you really truly wanna call into your life, you can begin to manifest this inner circle for yourself. Okay. So, you know, it's interesting because years ago, when I talk about how in my twenties, I saved a million dollars, I had read the book, what, you know, the millionaire next door and some of the things that were in those books, I actually live by, right? And I'm gonna read the list of what this was. So the millionaire next door, uh, was all about saving money, living under means and slowly moving up truly. And truly that's really the concept of it. And there's nothing wrong with that. It's wonderful to be a millionaire and have passive income, but it doesn't mean that you're living abundantly.

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And so the, I wanna read these characteristics for you so that you can decide for yourself who you wanna hang out with and who you don't wanna hang out with. Right? So some of the characteristics of the millionaire next door is they leave. They live beneath their means. They use their time and money efficiently to build wealth. They prioritize attaining financial independence over displaying social status. They're skilled at identifying investment opportunities. They choose the right line of work. They didn't inherit their wealth. They built it. 80% are first generation millionaires. Many have self are self-employed. Um, and they are extremely frugal and budget their expenses. And then an average, they invest 20% of their realized household income per year. Okay, cool. Sounds good. Not necessarily my inner circle anymore. Okay. It doesn't mean that I would not have somebody around me that has all these means, but I, there is a distinction for me and the distinction is yes, it's good to save wealth.

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Yes. Maybe it's good to be conservative to live beneath your means. Yes, that's all good and fine and Dany. But the difference is, is the women that I'm really, really into circling surrounding myself with are women that are, are willing to live on the edge, to grow exponentially and allow the universe to create miracles in the process. So the, the issue for me with the millionaire next door conversation is very linear. It's like, I'm gonna make a little bit more money. I'm gonna save 20% of my income. I'm gonna build a little bit more asset and then I'm gonna get financially free so that I can, you know, die a great, comfortable death. Right. It's like, cool. That's cool. There's something wrong with that. It's just that it's not really, it's it, there's a level of going even beyond that. And so we have to take a look at the billionaires mindset instead of the millionaires mindset.

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And it's very different. It's very different. Okay. The billionaires mindset, and this is maybe not totally factual. This is based off a book. Um, the billionaire mindset. And, um, it is basically, these are five unique kind of parts of it. But the key billionaire mindset is there's, there's confidence. There's creativity, there's ambition, there's passion, there's adaptivity, there's scalability, there's energetic and there's leadership. So the billionaire thinks a little bit different than the, you know, somebody who's just trying to save, right? Anybody could save a million dollars. These days is not that hard to do, um, a millionaires millionaires, not much money these days. Right. But to become, somebody has extraordinary life and living into the billionaires way of thinking. It's more about how they think they think truly deeply, right? One of the most important facts of a billionaire is the traits that they think they don't think of.

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Like, I wanna make another billion dollars. They're thinking of basically, how can I get more free time? How can I help others to get more free time? Right. They're thinking of how do people spend most of their day? How much time do they spend at the office? How much do they do they get into the deep depths of like, how do I make someone's life better? How do I solve problems for people so that I can begin to help them? And also claim my birthright prosperity. Right? I did this in society. It's like, how do I help enlighten people? How do I help them become the most able in their life? How do I help them from, you know, becoming codependent to becoming empowered? How do I help them end their suffering and the trauma to transform, to birth their purpose and legacy? How do I do all that?

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This is

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Live from Los Angeles. Welcome to the Dr. Aaron show. We're all about manifestation transformation and breakthroughs. It's time to claim your birthright of prosperity, vitality and love. So grab your tea coffee, because together we're awakening the world. May you live your truth?

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Are you ready to take a big leap, a quantum leap in your money breakthrough? Well, if you are, this podcast is for you. This is a Dr. Aaron podcast. We come together to know the truth, live on spiritual principle and align with the universal law. We truly believe and know that when somebody awakens a have a gift and message to bring to the world and together we're awaken the world. In fact, our mission is to awaken a billion people. And how I know we will fulfill upon this mission is by developing world renowned, spiritual entrepreneurs, spiritual coaches, spiritual practitioners, law of attraction ministers, and yes, doctors of divinity. So let's do this thing. We are on a series, a money breakthrough series. We're on number 10 of 12. So today's title is the big leap. Are you ready to conquer your interfere and take life to the next level?

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This is the question. Yes. If it's not a hell yes, then this podcast is not for you. So the big leap, it's a very well known book in the coaching world by gay Hendrix. And it's all about your upper limit mindset and really getting out of your comfort zone and looking at what fears are there. What do you need to let go of and how are you gonna get to the next level? Right. So gay Hendrick says each of us has an inner thermostat setting. When we exceed our inner thermostat setting, we will often do something to sabotage ourselves, causing us to drop back into the old familiar zone where we feel secure. So my question for you today is what's your comfort zone, right? We've all seen that little, little symbol that has a, a circle that says comfort zone. And then it has an arrow pointing out of this of the circle and it says magic, magic and mystery lie beyond the comfort zone, right?

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Don't confuse comfort with happiness, right? We all think, and I remember thinking this as a little girl, thinking that one day you'd like arrive to some place in your life and it would all work out and like, you know, you'd have enough money, you'd have the house, you'd have the kids you'd have whatever. And, and I just remember that was like one of the biggest like aha moments as I was adulting, right. Was realizing like, oh, life keeps you keep having to grow. You keep getting uncomfortable. You keep having to, you know, we're just, we're not designed to stay in one place we're designed for growth. Life is a masterclass. And so let's break this on down. This book is an interesting book because it really does talk about what does it take. And so I wanna, I wanna just have you kind of break this down within yourself, what's your thermostat, right?

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If each of us has an inner thermostat, when it comes to money, what's your thermostat? My thermostat used to be that I, I would, anytime I shopped, I had to either go to the sale rack. Right. I had to always, um, save, I couldn't afford full retail. Like that was my kind of like, just the way it is. You know what I mean? What's your thermostat around, right? My thermostat, you know, for many years when I was in my twenties, before I began to save and saved a million dollars and was still feeling like total scarcity is I, you know, I was, I never allowed myself to eat out because I was saving money. I would never do certain, I never ever pay for a trip. There's no way, how would I, why would I ever spend anything that wasn't going towards saving money, right?

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Where's your inner thermostat. Maybe your thermostat is always to be in debt. And you're like, I love to shop. And my thermostat is that I'm always in debt. And then I get stressed and stressed and stressed about debt, right? What's your thermostat? What are you comfortable? What's your identity? And one of the reasons why fear is such a big part of having a, a big leap, a quantum leap in your money breakthrough is because we recognize that fear is kinda like a thermostat, right? What is it that what's your normal, what's your identity and why fear is so interesting in taking the quantum leap. And the big leap is because it's actually a threat to your identity. Who would you be if you weren't your money problems, right? Who would you be? If you weren't saying I can't afford that, I can't afford it. It's like, it's so fascinating cuz I have all these different friends and we're actually gonna get into this in the next podcast.

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Um, creating your inner circle of abundance. Right? But it's really interesting cuz each person I'm around has different conversations of their comfort zone and you can listen to their identity. So my question for you is what's your identity around money? Right? Um, Dan Sullivan, uh, is one of a great life coach, one of the OGs in coaching and he talks about the glass ceiling and each and every one of us has to take a look at what is our glass ceiling and as entrepreneurs, spiritual entrepreneurs, generally our, our glass ceiling might be, you know, maybe it's a hundred thousand, maybe it's 200,000, maybe it's 300,000 and you're constantly like staying in this one place. You can't quite break free or pass that comfort zone, that glass ceiling. And it's the same with your own, your own, your own way of being in money. What's your comfort zone.

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I want you to write, you know, you can pause this podcast if you want, but I want you to think about what is your PO, what's your, what's your comfort zone? You know, is it okay if you, you know, are making whatever $3,000 a month or maybe you're someone who's used to making 10,000, but you can't quite break through that, whatever that is. What's your comfort zone. Are you comfortable when you only eat out? But it can only be a, you know, lower end restaurant. It can't be a high end restaurant or I can only, you know, I can't afford X, Y, and Z, but I can't afford X, Y, and Z. Right? What is your comfort zone? What's your comfort zone. And we wanna take a look at what's the fear. And I've been noticing and taking inventory within myself of when I'm getting outta my comfort zone, cuz we recognize there is this law of supply and demand, which we already went through in one of the money breakthroughs.

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But the law of supply and demand is like until you push yourself and get outta your comfort zone, that demand that you demand from yourself, from your subconscious mind that you demand from the universe can't work, its magic, right? So where's that fine line. It's like almost on the edge of the comfort zone. So say your comfort zone is, you know, I'm comfortable with having X amount of a mortgage or rent. I'm comfortable with making X amount of money. I'm comfortable for only paying for these amount of services. I'm comfortable only eating out once a week. All these things are like comfort zones. So what happens when you push yourself? What happens when you commit to something, right? What happens when you go, I'm going to, you know, take on that personal assistant, I'm going to take on that bigger team. I'm gonna take on, um, a bigger place for, you know, the company or for my family or for whatever it is.

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And I don't know how exactly, but I'm gonna figure it out. Right? And we don't want you to do financially. You know? Um, we would never give advice if someone to go spend money when, when you're not comfortable with it or whatever it is in your, uh, this is your decision. This is what's up to you, right? For me, I've been really looking at this because if I stay in my comfort zone and, and move real slowly, that's fine. But what if, what if you took that quantum leap and you committed to the CEO of your company? What if you committed to, to taking on a, having someone come into your business or something that was, you know, gonna free up a lot of time, what's possible, right? If you could stay in your comfort zone, you're gonna stay exactly where you're at. So in order to have a money breakthrough, this is why, you know, um, having to coach or mentor or whatever, usually when you invest in yourself and we're gonna get into that and actually the 12th podcast of money breakthrough.

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When you invest in yourself, when you put yourself in a uncomfortable situation of coming up with money, to invest in yourself, things happen because you have to rise to the occasion over and over again, right? Deepak trucker says commitment is the ultimate assertion of human freedom. Commitment is the ultimate assertion of human freedom. It releases all the energy you possess and enables you to take quantum leaps and creativity. When you set a one pointed intention and absolutely refuse to allow obstacles, to dissipate the focus, quality of your attention, you engage the infinite organizing power of the universe. Do you get that? Like what if you decided, I decide today that I'm going to live in prosperity. Right? So what would that look like? Let's just try this on for a minute. Who would it be that you hire that coach that you've always wanted, but you think I can't afford that, right?

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Would it be that you move to a city that's a little bit more expensive than you're used to, but you know, there's something in your soul. It's like, I know I would expand. I know it would grow. Is there something like, say it's that you're, you know, needing to have a new environment and up your game and in even your automobile or having somebody come into your company or whatever that is, what would it look like? Like just paint that picture for a minute. What would it look like if you got, if you didn't ask how you actually just committed, what if you just committed and you, and, and you just had faith right on the front of the book of this, of this, um, the big leap. There's a picture of, uh, a goldfish in a small little round, uh, fish tank, right? Uh, like a, what do they call a goldfish tank?

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I don't even know, forgot what it's called. And it's a, and they're jumping. The little fish is jumping up to a bigger, a bigger little fish tank. And the point is, is that when we take the jump, it's the unknown. It's scary. It's actually really uncomfortable. But we have to know that the universe is going to catch us, right? This is wh