Hey DT Fam! This bonus episode features Suzannah Weiss, sex writer, educator, and author of Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject. Her book dives into changing the narrative around how women can shift from the object of their sex lives, to the subject of their sex lives. This was a deeply insightful conversation, and be sure to get your copy of her book on Amazon today!

Hey DT Fam! We've got some announcements, that's all we will say here. Love you all, and can't wait to see how everything goes! Head over to tryjoymode.com and use code DoubleTeam for savings on your order :) Claim your 20% off and embrace the pleasure revolution with Vazoplex at Vazoplex.com, using code DTFAM!

Hey DT Fam! We've been bringing a few of our vanilla friends to lifestyle events, and it's honestly gone great. So if you're looking to introduce any of the vanillas in your circle to the lifestyle, we've got some tips and pointers for how to do that. This episode is short and sweet, since we are leaving for Europe literally yesterday. We've got a Vanilla Sunday scheduled for July 14th and 28th, a bonus episode the last week of July, and then we will be back for our next season on August 1st. Get some sun, try some butt stuff, and see you all soon! Turn your downtime into fun time, visit Love2Play and claim 50 free spins— exclusively for the first 500 users using promo code DOUBLE. Get into sport-mode with Joymode! Head on over to usejoymode.com and use code DoubleTeam for savings! Elevate your open relationships with Leveled Up Love, and use this link for a free consultation. Try our favorite gummies at VIIAHemp and use code DTFAM! Be sure to check out Niki's P*ssy Masterclass, and learn all about pleasuring a woman :)

Welcome back DT Fam & Happy Thanksgiving! Today we talk low libidos during the winter season, holiday romps, and we answer a listener's question regarding her two partners and a "no marks rule" that is getting in the way. Be sure to follow our new IG account @camiandniki All relevant links: www.doubleteamedpodcast.com Check out Afterglow and use code DTFAM for a FREE 7-day trial See you next week!

For those of you who didn't get to attend the live show in person, here's the full episode:) We start with a lovely intro from our beloved HK & Rose. :') Then, we went into a lovely story time with Niki that spurred many fun convos!! It got a little chaotic, and some of us got a little drunk, but we had SO much fun and we're so grateful we got to meet some of our fans & listeners. HUGE SHOUT OUT TO OUR SPONSORS for helping us make this show happen! Peepshowtoys.com Use code DTFAM for 10% off some beautiful sensation toys, or vibesss. Peepshow sponsored the d*ck challenge between HK and Niki (def go to Youtube for this part of the episode) Goodcleanlove.com Use code DOUBLE20 for 20% off & get yourself some QUALITY lube. Firstroundsonme.co go back to *real* dating. This is an amazing new dating app taking over the field! Bellesa Another wonderful toy brand we love!! Bellesa sponsored our prizes for audience participation! Many attendees left with some lovely pleasure vibes. ;) afterglow Your new GO TO p*rn site!! Ethical p*rn, advice columns, pleasure exercises, they have it ALL. The Hive LA an amazing LA hair salon that has supported Steff from day 1. Please go check them out! & of course, a big shoutout to our drink sponsors Liquid Death, Onda, Bev, June Shine, & Pink Agua!! PLEASE GO FOLLOW OUR BACK UP IG @camiandniki UNTIL OUR MAIN ACCT RETURNS :')

If you watch Broke Girl Therapy, then you're well acquainted with our special guest today - Rose!! We brought her on Double Teamed today to discuss anything and everything under the sun. Birth control, water brands, dating as a 5'11" female, hat tricks/the perfect game, and recovered exes. She's a comedic screenwriter so this episode is FULL of laughs! All relevant links: DISCOUNT CODES: https://linktr.ee/doubleteamedads https://www.doubleteamedpodcast.com/ https://thenewblogontheblock.com/

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Joe and Steve from the dating app First Rounds On Me (FROME). We've got some dating horror stories, some endearing moments, and some tips and tricks regarding dating in general.  Everyone PLEASE go follow our back up IG account: @camiandniki, we are working hard to get our normal account back. You can find First Rounds On Me in the app store or Google Play! Get back to real dating!! (Also give them a follow on IG: @firstroundsonme) Go to Amorus.net/DTF to download Amorus for FREE to spice up your sexy chat. Use code DTF for 20% off our new favorite game: Chat Sparks. Go to RexMD.com/DTF today to get started with a starter pack prescription of generic Viagra or Cialis. All orders come with FREE 2-day shipping. Rex MD – the authority in men’s telehealth! All relevant links: www.doubleteamedpodcast.com

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki play a game of Chat Sparks, from the Amorus app. This leads to a few discoveries regarding Niki's sex noises, arousing movie scenes, and favorite textures. ... I told y'all I'd link it, so if you wanna feel lux in slippers, there you go. ;) Also, safewords for platonic relationships! And how the color purple ties in to all of that. See you at the live show LA!! Can't wait to meet you. Go to Amorus.net/DTF to download Amorus for FREE to spice up your sexy chat. Use code DTF for 20% off our new favorite game: Chat Sparks. Go to RexMD.com/DTF today to get started with a starter pack prescription of generic Viagra or Cialis. All orders come with FREE 2-day shipping. Rex MD – the authority in men’s telehealth!

Today on Double Teamed, Cami & Niki recount their recent experience performing as ambient twins and subs for a sex club in Los Angeles. Aside from the fun stories and amazing outfits, they reflect on how different aspects of kink and BDSM bring pleasure vs arousal. Tune in to join the discussion! Final call for tickets to our live show Oct 20th in LA! COME THROUGH LA! Link to our sponsors & promo codes! All other links: www.doubleteamedpodcast.com

Today on Double Teamed, Cami & Niki welcome back our favorite astrologer, Danny Santos, to discuss the Mercury signs and dirty talk/communication. Topics include: telling your mother you think you have herpes, telling your mother your dog died, dirty talk that sounds like a business email, and who are the real charmers of the zodiac. Pull out your astrology birth chart and let's see if you resonate with what we have to say about each sign! LIVE SHOW IN LA, OCT 20th!! GET UR TIX HERE. Download Amorus today for delicious sexy games with your partner! Www.amorus.net/DTF All relevant links: www.doubleteamedpodcast.com Check out Danny's Astro Daddy Podcast coming out Oct. 25th!

Today on Double Teamed, Cami & Niki dive deeper into insecurities, jealousy, comparison, and feeling valued. Niki had a recent insecurity episode that spurred this topic. Also, monogamous electricity... tune in to find out what tf that means. LIVE SHOW IN LA OCT 20TH, buy tix!! All relevant links @ doubleteamedpodcast.com Exclusive content on Patreon. Helix is offering up to $200 off all mattress orders AND two free pillows for our listeners! Go to HelixSleep.com/Double & treat yourself to a comfy new mattress!

Hello DT Fam! Amy Chan, author of the Breakup Bootcamp, joins us today and we talk all about the science behind love, breakups, and friendships. Rest assured, after that horrible breakup, you're not crazy - its all the chemicals in your brain that are going haywire. Amy also walks us through her Dating Bootcamp, her path from anxious attachment to secure attachment, and the breakup that lead her on this journey. She is wise, insightful, and so inspiring! We hope you enjoy her as much as we do. Check out her website for the next bootcamp near you, and give her a follow! Get Usejoymode.com to boost your performance in the bedroom! Use code DTFAM for savings :) Claim your 50 free spins with code DOUBLE at Love2Play ! Work with the experts and coaches at Leveled Up Love to level up your relationships.

What brings you more pleasure, food or sex? Today on Double Teamed, Nadège joins Cami and Niki to tackle this yummy subject. Don't forget our live show, Oct 20th in LA. BUY TIX HERE. Come support :) ALSO, DT Fam, one of our favorite Pleasure Podcasts, Good Moms Bad Choices, is going on tour. If you're in Chicago, NYC, Philly, Atlanta, or DC: get your tickets! Milah & Erica are SO FUN and we absolutely love them so give them some support & go see their live show. As always, Find all links on our site. Give us that 5 star review Subscribe to our YouTube! Love you all DT fam!

Have you watched Netflix's "How To Build A Sex Room" yet? If so, Cami & Niki are here to discuss the show today. The show sparked some reactions on social media, and we just wanted to throw out our thoughts and opinions on it. Don't worry- no spoilers ahead really. Also, we dive into Cami's newfound foot journey because well, the feet feel f*cking good. Don't forget, pls come see us if you're in LA on Oct 20th. Buy tix here. As always, all links on our site.

Hey DT fam, Incoming: bonus ep/NSFW short story ;) I know how many of y'all love audio erotica, so today we introduce to you: Erotic Short Stories podcast. Join Mia Hart every Friday for a new erotic episode. Mia's stories are pure escapism and a chance for you to indulge in some sensual erotica whenever you feel in the mood.  Loved this ep & want to hear more?? Check out Erotic Short Stories!

"She may be a homie hopper, but your friends are fckin groupies. Figure it out." - wise words from a TikToker (@nothanksalex) Welcome back DT Fam! Today Cami & Niki talk about homie hopping. How did we decide on this subject you may ask? Well, it first began with the group chat submissions on IG where someone submitted their bro groupchat called "Tunnel Buddies" AKA guys who have all had relations with the same girl. WHICH then sparked Cami to tell Patreon her stories about a time she made two groups of friends tunnel buddies in college. WHICH ALSO sparked a conversation between Niki & Cami on how when you're non-monogamous or poly.. deciding if friends are on or off the table can be tricky. SO, listen up to hear all about that, and then we answer a listener's question about cis men exploring sex & dating. DON'T FORGET, live show in LA October 20th, 2022. Buy your tickets here :) All relevant links on our site!! Doubleteamedpodcast.com

Whalecum back to Season 3 DT Fam! In today's episode, Cami & Niki start off with a few quick updates, sex party recaps, and a touching story from Niki. We also answered some of your questions from IG's Q&A! We talk about rimming, men wearing lingerie, women approaching women, advice to submissives, and more. Don't forget our live show on Oct 20th in LA with Broke Girl Therapy! Click here to purchase your tickets. Cum have a good time with us, we hope to see you there. Find all relevant links on doubleteamedpodcast.com

In today’s episode, Cami and Niki wrap up season 2 of the pod and celebrate Double Teamed’s one-year anniversary. We made it guys! DT pod turned one on June 24th :’) As we look back on the last year, we dive into some new perspectives, a new position involving both doggy and missionary, and DP vs DV. Listen up!   We want to thank our listeners for becoming a part of the DT fam and supporting us throughout this first year. Of course, we’ll be back for Season 3 of the pod in August so stay tuned!! We’ll still be active and connecting on our socials and Patreon so catch us on there.    We love you all.  Wear condoms. See you in August!   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Patreon YouTube Website

Today, Cami and Niki welcome ASMR Daddy a.k.a. Rick, a content creator of sexy audio p*rn for women.   Have you ever heard of audio p*rn? If so, have you listened to one? Audio p*rn hits differently. This is because, minus the visuals, listeners are encouraged to use their imagination, to run wild and be creative while pleasuring themselves. We get to listen to the behind the scenes of ASMR Daddy’s routine when creating content for his platform, what type of content engages more audience, and appreciate the beauty of m*sturbating to the sound of sex-positive scenes that will not only turn you on but would also raise your pleasure and satisfaction bar.     Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 01:45 Where can you find ASMR Daddy? 06:17 What content do people gravitate towards? 10:06 Audience-engaging audio content 12:16 How do you prepare your voice when making content? 16:14 Do you masturbate while recording? 18:03 Audio porn is clear communication 25:22 Creating content for the BDSM trope 31:19 What kind of dynamics do you want to explore? 37:14 Do you edit a lot of the audio? 39:30 Plans for ASMR Daddy     Connect with ASMR Daddy on: Instagram Patreon OnlyFans   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter Patreon YouTube Website

Hey DT Fam! We spent the weekend on a lake with our lifestyle friends, and of course, a lot of sexy fun was had. And of course, we are here to share those stories. A lot of foot action, which is always exciting, eight inch rods, seven person showers, and rocking the boat - literally. Hope you all enjoy, and we will see you again next week! Be sure to check out our amazing sponsors: Sens MYLO if you're looking for your next favorite toy! Use code DTF at checkout. Get Usejoymode.com to boost your performance in the bedroom! Use code DTFAM for savings :) Try our favorite gummies at VIIA Hemp and save some coin with code DTFAM! Claim your 50 free spins with code DOUBLE at Love2Play ! Work with the experts and coaches at Leveled Up Love to level up your relationships.

Today, Cami and Niki welcome, once again, Claire Louise Travers, who runs the podcast, research hubs, and events for Poly Pages - an academic non-monogamous podcast and platform, focused on the texts which have shaped polyamorous community and culture.   In the first season, Claire talked about rich and insightful resources about the poly world. Today, we dive into poly breakups. We get to look at how non-monogamous and polyamorous people deal with multiple breakups and failed relationships, what can be learned from them, and why we all need a good set of friends who can view poly breakups as a new beginning. AND, it’s okay to be with yourself from time to time when you need to heal and recuperate, ‘hoe’ phase included of course! Just keep it healthy!      Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 01:21 Experience with polyamorous breakups 05:20 Handling a partner that is going through a breakup 10:03 Shifting relationships around 16:21 You are going to change during the relationship 22:55 Suppressing yourself to make something work 26:23 Deciding to have children is different for men and women 36:51 Some people would blame being polyamorous for the breakup 41:02 Operating your relationships from a place of fear 48:23 “We hoe phase from a place of healthiness.”   52:40 Have a primary partnership with yourself 01:00:13 For anyone going through a poly breakup…   Connect with Claire on: Instagram TikTok Poly Pages Poly Pages Podcast   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter Patreon YouTube Website

Today, Cami and Niki welcome Sir Ren, also known as Black Queer Dom. We dive into the dynamics of being a sensual Daddi and primal Dominant, and discuss the preparation one should consider when exploring becoming a Dom. We also cover the power exchange in kinks and how it leads to self discovery and a form of healing. The power this dynamic has allows both partners to continuously explore their kinky side and become a better version of themselves all the while having fun!   HAPPY PRIDE MONTH EVERYONE!! We wish all of our queer/ LGBTQIA+ community a happy Pride month. We celebrate you this month and every month.     Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 03:20 Variety in having multiple subs 07:15 Are you switchy at all? 12:25 What does it take to be a good Dominant? 18:38 Choosing names and honorifics 21:49 Kink is a power exchange 25:20 Reclaiming personal trauma through kink and BDSM 26:02 Helping your subs to discover more of themselves 29:15 Discovering a lot of new kinks 32:21 What are your rituals for self-care? 34:32 Kink is both addictive and exhausting 37:05 Do you like shibari?   Follow Black Queer Dom on: Instagram Website   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter Patreon YouTube Website

Today, Cami and Niki welcome Nicoletta Heidegger, a licensed marriage and family therapist and sexologist. She hosts Sluts and Scholars Podcast, a sex positive, shame free, educational podcast where they try to help make your sex smarter and your smarts sexier.    This week, we are doing a 2-part episode, the first half you can listen to by checking out the Sluts and Scholars podcast and then the second half is here. We start off with the question, “What was your introduction to kink?” We then shift into talking about how monogamy is ingrained in us and why it’s okay to come to terms with yourself before getting a new partner. The fun part is, this seems more like a therapy session. It’s free, it’s fun, and it’s hilarious! Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 01:05 What was your introduction to kink? 10:12 Find a partner who’s willing to support your preferences 18:51 We are all conditioned to be monogamous 24:36 Slow down and take time to be with yourself 38:52 Do you see it as a waste of time? 46:53 Dealing with panic attacks and anxiety 54:48 Do you read reverse harem? Follow Sluts & Scholars on: Instagram Twitter Website Podcast Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter Patreon YouTube Website 

Today, Cami and Niki welcome adult performer, cosmic explorer, and spiritual babe, Rory Knox. She performed at the LA sex party where Cami performed as well. Surprise! Surprise!   Anyway, it’s been a long time coming, but we’re finally here to talk about the p*rn industry. Yep! We get to learn things about the crew, how to get your butthole ready before play, and the techniques to getting good an*l. We talk about VR p*rn too and every scene starts with setting up clear boundaries between the performers.      Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 04:09 How close the cameras get? 07:31 How did you get into the p*rn industry? 11:30 What’s the normal camera crew during filming? 14:12 How do you make an*l feel good? 18:38 How do you connect with your fellow performers? 21:07 Is there a script? 25:30 Doing it with other female performers 26:32 Have you tried VR p*rn? 30:56 Do you orgasm every time? 35:52 Into non-monogamous relationships 43:35 Exchanging sexual energy 47:35 Pulling away from the hardcore stuff 51:36 Have you explored your erogenous zones? 53:56 What do you want to see less of? 56:30 Have you worked with big names? 58:02 Where do you take your porn career? 01:00:04 Getting comfort from performing in sex parties   Follow Rory Knox on: Instagram Twitter   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter Patreon Website 

Today, Cami and Niki talk about autonomy, veto power, and how restricting autonomy won’t necessarily fix or mask your incompatibilities. When it comes to veto power in polyamory, to each their own, but this is our take! Anyways, we’ve got some kinky stories from the sex party we attended this past weekend. Cami had her switch moment while flogging a girl, Niki and “C” are not convinced she’s strictly a sub! Is she finally acknowledging her Domme side? Listen up to find out! For your next purchase at goodcleanlove.com use this discount code: DOUBLE20 for 20% off!  Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 00:46 So we went to a sex party over the weekend… 06:44 Guess what? Cami flogged a girl! 19:33 You can’t expect to get everything from one partner 23:29 Do you need to have veto power? 24:44 What would be an alternative to a veto power? 32:44 Autonomy and tough love 37:42 I love big boobs! Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter Patreon Website

Co-releasing this episode with Broke Girl Therapy Podcast because we just LOVED IT so much Warning: Explicit content ahead... PS - check out BGT below https://open.spotify.com/show/6xsBPNydno74vM2rvXoWrj

Today, Cami and Niki welcome Nadège, a sex scholar and astrologer who graduated from Berkeley. She founded Pleasure Science, a brand that helps people feel healthy and empowered in their sexuality. She writes articles and eBooks and hosts erotic wellness events in Los Angeles.   We talk about fun things like appreciating the pleasure of sex in porn films, how you gotta relax to be able to have pleasurable sex, and why anal play is so underrated. We even discover our shared fantasy for hot girls in films, series, and even anime!   Get a copy of your own Erotic Astrology eBook. You can use the code DOUBLE TEAMED and get 20% off your astrology sign AT pleasurescience.com/shop.    Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 00:49 How did you start Pleasure Science? 02:52 What's your relationship like with porn? 10:57 We’re evolving and we evolve with technology 15:17 Have you ever heard of erotic journaling? 24:01 We have different ways to relax 29:36 The sexcalator doesn’t work for everybody   33:41 The seven sexual fantasies 37:37 What’ your biggest sex organ? 39:52 Anal play is so underrated 46:06 Characters that turn you on 53:51 Meditation time Follow Pleasure Science on: Instagram TikTok LinkedIn Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter Patreon Website

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki ventures on a two-part episode. We start the first half with a silly banter about our cleaning and organizational skills before we dive into the FinDom / FinSub dynamic and Niki’s first hand experience about it.   The second half, well, we talk about how men can separate orgasm and ejaculation, the trick to having a dry orgasm, and the controversial topics narrated in the Love Satisfies book. Is it possible to have a dry orgasm as a male? Let’s talk about it. Who’s done it?    Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 01:54 Why have we been fighting a lot lately? 05:13 Getting upset over using a certain tone 08:08 What is FinDom / FinSub?  25:16 July is our bi-annual break! 27:01 Men can separate orgasm and ejaculation 29:16 The Love Satisfies book 37:31 Here’s how to have a dry orgasm 47:08 Other topics in the book worth discussing   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter Patreon Website 

Hey DT Fam :) Bit of a housekeeping episode today! We've got some announcements. We're launching a new segment of the pod, which we are discussing here on this episode today. Gotta listen if you wanna learn more. We're stoked for it, and definitely looking forward to hearing your feedback. Niki is also dropping her own little masterclass, which she will be releasing on our OF. There's quite a funny story as to how this came to be, which we of course share with you all. And lastly, we dive into some new strategies we are trying out with new connections to avoid getting attached too quickly. ALSO big shoutout to MarieMur, the brand that sponsored this episode. They're one of our all time favorite kink-wear brands, and we are beyond excited to work with them. Hope you all get a chance to check out their stuff and give it a try. Use code DTFAM for 15% off. Check out VIIA Hemp and use code DTFAM for savings plus a free sample! Must be 21 or older. Expand your relationship with the help of Leveled Up Love, check them out! Head on over to usejoymode.com and use code DOUBLETEAM for savings! Go to SENSMYLO.COM and use code DTF for 15% off your MYLO wand. Check out Pleasure Science and enroll in the Empowered Sex Course today to elevate and empower your intimacy.

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome The Male Submissive once again to answer questions about service submission from his Q&A. This type of submission under the D/s dynamic is all about serving your Dominant or Owner through a variety of tasks and chores - little maid outfit optional! ..but encouraged? Tap that play button now, you might discover a hidden service sub within you! Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 00:56 Normal sub versus a service sub 05:36 Slave vs service sub 14:25 What’s the service you like doing the most? 18:26 How do you balance being a service sub? 21:35 What truly makes you feel like a service sub? 23:23 A form of reward after completing a task 30:15 How to Dom/me a service sub 38:50 Do you gift each other kinky and normal things? 47:14 I always knew I wanted to be a Sub 51:47 What connects you to your submission?    Follow The Male Submissive on: Instagram Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter Patreon Website 

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki share some steamy stories! Yes! We’ve been talking about it. We’ve been throwing in the subject here and there, BUT we’ve never had an episode solely about SEX PARTIES! This is it! Let’s start off with Cami’s sensual experience as a performer at a sex party. There were roleplays, live shows, flogging lessons, and a cute little submissive bear cub! If you’re interested in how to get into one of these parties, you gotta settle down and start listening.   Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 01:55 I got to performer at a sex party! 13:12 Are you an exhibitionist? 20:05 There’s lots of ways to find sex parties 23:36 You can walk around and just watch 30:20 What is a good sex like? 34:52 Consent is important at sex parties 42:45 People are often safety conscious in these events      Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter Patreon Website

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Danny Santos of Santos & The Crystal Visions. He is a professional astrologer, spiritual healer, and an Ayahuasca shaman in training.  We start the show with a lengthy but totally worth it chart read. We then dive into the different zodiac placements and how they are likely to perform in non-monogamous relationships. Danny shares his remarkable knowledge on astrology and his views of things in an entirely different light.   Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 01:33 Let’s start with a chart read 17:31 Which placements are more non-monogamy? 22:02 There’s a lot of sex in Gemini-Venuses 27:25 Take your time with Aquarius placements 34:56 Mars placement and non-monogamy 43:18 It’s about letting go 46:30 “Stabbed by the person I hooked up with.” 51:29 How should we interpret dreams? 57:38 Get yourself a Sagittarius? Follow Danny Santos: Instagram Facebook Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter Patreon Website 

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki share some life updates. Caution: Some heavy topics ahead. It involves life changing decisions that resulted from a trip in Greece that had an unexpected turn. Curious? Listen in, and OH, you might want to grab some tissue.  Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 02:21 Life update! 20:33 People will show you different sides of yourself 41:26 Talks on having children Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter Linktree

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome back Ms. Nighteyes, the Funny Dom’s owned submissive, for a Q&A session about her switchy side. If you’ve always been curious to explore both sides of D/s dynamic, this one’s for you. Also, our sincere apologies - the audio quality isn’t tip top shape in this episode due to some minor technical issues during recording. Our Patreon page is coming soon! Also, check out our Linktree page. Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 01:00 Does everyone have a switchy side? 04:34 Finding balance being a sub and a switch 12:58 How to keep yourself from topping during subbing? 25:00 What is your preferred title with your subs? 28:43 Ways to get in Dom space before play 33:40 What’s your primary mode? 38:37 Always have a safe space for yourself and your partners 43:05 Topping your switchy Dom as service submission 54:12 The flogging session at a sex party Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter You can find Ms. Nighteyes on: Instagram

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Ashley Manta, an award-winning sex educator and coach that has become a sought-after authority on mindfully combining sex and cannabis as part of her CannaSexual® brand. She is the author of The CBD Solution: Sex, published in 2020 in conjunction with Merry Jane and Chronicle Books. She writes for Playboy as a Playboy Advisor.  Ashley’s exploration and experiences have brought her mind-blowing, pain free sex that transcends time and space, and now she’s teaching the world how to get there. Curious? Listen & find out! Our Patreon page is coming soon! Also, check out our Linktree page. Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 02:54 How did it all begin? 04:31 The magic oil for your p*ssy 09:17 Products to incorporate during partnered play 13:08 Getting terrible sex education 16:33 Sex with any kind of enhancement 26:17 Sex with the universe 35:22 Setting boundaries between coaching and personal relationships 42:47 Sex with sexuality professionals 46:00 Letting them know you have herpes 48:29 How to sex educate the youth? 50:31 Merry Jane’s The CBD Solution: Sex book 56:03 The course on vulva gazing and shedding shame 01:02:15 Astrology, astrology, astrology  Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter You can find Ashley on: CannaSexual Instagram Cosmic Pussy Elevated Intimacy Academy Elevated Intimacy Podcast

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki celebrate Threesome Day! Yey! And since this day is worth celebrating, we collaborated with Good Clean Love to help answer some questions from people getting curious about having a threesome, wanting to start having one but unsure how to start, and those who are already in one and want to spice things up some more! For your next purchase at goodcleanlove.com use this discount code: DOUBLE20 for 20% off! Our Patreon page is coming soon! Also, check out our Linktree page. Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 01:45 Who wants to have outdoor sex? 09:47 March 3rd is threesome day! 12:29 How should a monogamous couple approach a threesome? 23:05 How should couples choose a partner? 31:08 Tips for an enjoyable threesome 36:14 How do you start a threesome? 40:19 The acronyms you should know about Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Jessica Esfandiary of the Open Late Podcast. What started as a fun night with her husband and a friend turned into a pleasurable threesome that opened their world. Eight years later, their non-monogamous partnership remains strong. Her secret? Allowing a fluid relationship where boundaries are dynamic and communication remains open.  Our Patreon page is coming soon! Also, check out our Linktree page. Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 02:22 Why did you start a podcast? 08:47 The accidental threesome started it all 13:38 Not sticking to one non-monogamous structure 17:45 Learning and experiencing triad 31:06 Relationship agreements and boundaries 36:11 People think being non-monogamous is always sexual 39:27 Having kids but staying poly 50:24 Have you dated a lot of men? 58:50 Still staying open to possibilities Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter You can find Jessica Esfandiary on: Instagram Facebook LinkedIn Website Open Late the Podcast on YouTube | Instagram | Twitter

Hey DT Fam :) Tia is back and we are discussing fluffers, gang bangs, pretty p*ssies, and so much more. If you don't know what a fluffer is - this episode will catch you right up. She was also at the play party we were at, so it was super fun to hear her recap some of her favorite stories and moments. Be sure to check out her podcast, Sexy Biz Babe, anywhere you listen to podcasts. Check out our brand partners on our Linktree! Get 15% off your MYLO Wand at sensmylo.com/dtf Go to bloomstories.com and use code DTFAM to save on your subscription!

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome the Male Submissive. Let’s take a peek into the daily life of a male sub where dressing up, pegging, and chastity help him find balance, self love, and pleasure. Coming from a small, rural town where kink wasn’t a common practice, his journey with D is both inspirational and heartwarming, as they came together to discover a space where the two of them could flourish.   Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 01:47 How did you discover kink? 09:29 The struggle in adjusting to the kink dynamic 17:09 Abstinence for five days or more? 23:13 Meeting other male subs from the followers 25:44 Finding community support online 33:12 Pegging 40:45 Degradation versus Humiliation 44:32 Are you open to non-monogamy? 48:30 Becoming more open with the Dom/sub dynamic 53:58 Having a partner that embraces your choices 01:01:13 Getting caught up in how society wants to see us  Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Danica Mitchell, a LCSW and certified sex therapist, once again. This time, they talk about ED! Did you know that erectile dysfunction is often due to anxiety? But don’t freak out yet! You can still get a full hard on even when there’s tension and pressure, and lots of opportunity to make a come back ;) Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 01:29 How common is ED? 03:05 Getting past anxiety-caused dysfunction 13:24 Erectile dysfunction during a group play? 16:51 Other ways to keep yourself relaxed 22:07 Now, how do you make that erection last? 27:22 Premature ejaculation is just way too much excitement 32:46 Best practices that works 33:25 Could be an individual or couple sessions 39:25 Women like a lot more variety  44:02 Emotional intelligence, so sexy! 47:34 Deeply connected vulnerable sex with causal partners 55:08 Men are taught that sex should be easy 01:00:14 Resources for performance anxiety issues Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter You can find Danica Mitchell on: Psychology Today

I know this sounds like a bad Cosmo article! Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki talk about exploring erogenous zones! Have you found the perfect spot to stimulate your partner? Do licking and biting excite you? Well, you have to explore these erogenous spots that will surely send you and your partner into an overdrive! For your next purchase at goodcleanlove.com use this discount code: DOUBLE20 for 20% off! Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 01:57 What’s up with you this year? 05:47 Ooh! Erogenous zones! 07:21 Zone 1: The ears 15:27 Zone 2: Feet and toes 22:41 Zone 3: The armpits 29:16 Other areas you can bite and tug  Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki touch base on the different types of kinks and fetishes. There’s objectification, degradation, humiliation, and wait… what? A pregnancy fetish? If you’re curious and want to know more, you know what to do. :)     Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 02:34 You can have kinks and fetishes but not into BDSM 03:27 Objectification: arousal by being dehumanized 05:37 Degradation: degrading your partner’s ego 10:54 Humiliation: deconstruction of their image or perception 16:12 Praise vs worship kinks 23:33 Pregnancy fetish or breeding kink? 26:19 Take the BDSM test! 29:09 How about a primal kink?   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki have wrapped up the Convo series for now, but first let’s reflect on those guests and the many things we learned from them. Which one did you resonate with the most? Moving right along, let’s catch up with Niki’s V and discuss the issues and complications that may occur in a kitchen table dynamic, especially when there is a lack of clear communication. Sometimes, we fuck things up, and that is okay.    For your next purchase at goodcleanlove.com use this discount code: DOUBLE20 for 20% off!   Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 03:07 Still working it out with the assh*le relationship 10:05 The kitchen table polyamory dynamic 20:21 Codependent marriage doesn’t work in a polyamorous relationship 28:52 Have you watched the Girlfriend’s Guide to Divorce? 33:36 Have you been having sh*tty sex?   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Leanne Yau, the founder of Poly Philia, now the largest social media platform dedicated to non-monogamy awareness in Europe. Leanne’s work is influenced by her own experiences as a Gen Z bisexual and Chinese non-binary woman, and she hopes to bring visibility and representation to these intersectional identities.    Personally, we love Polyphiliablog for all of the knowledge she shares on terms and definitions within non-monogamy and polyamory. So, let’s discuss those! But also, let’s dive into the hottest shows that portray, explain, narrate, and very shortly show non-monogamous relationships. Some are good, some so-so, and some are just totally wrong...    Listen Up:   00:00 Intro 01:15 How Polyphiliablog started 04:13 Peer support service  08:42 Facebook groups are much more moderated 11:20 The four different types of non-monogamy 15:32 Open relationships don’t necessarily equal being swingers 20:39 Sex parties! 23:41 You can’t be perfect in non-monogamy 31:31 Hierarchical vs non-hierarchical relationships 37:48 What does marriage really mean? 41:31 Myths about harems 44:28 One partner can be monogamous, the other can be a poly 46:08 Reacting to Netflix series YOU season 3 59:57 Shows that depict non-monogamy 01:12:02 Continue to raise awareness around polyamory   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter   You can find Leanne Yau on: Instagram Twitter Facebook TikTok Website

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Wendy Strgar, the founder and CEO of Good Clean Love - a brand that helps improve reproductive health and sexual pleasure since 2003. Starting in her kitchen back in 2003, Wendy founded Good Clean Love after hearing from many women about, and experiencing for herself, the painful side effects of using petrochemical-based hygiene and intimacy products.   What can help you enjoy sex a lot more? Clitoral orgasms and the right products. Yes, work on that clit for maximum pleasure. This is what Wendy shares with us as she continuously enjoys sex with her husband of 40+ years. She also dives deep into the science behind the good and bad lubes, why some intercourse is painful, the best form of vaginal stimulation, and how one should practice sexual liberation.   For your next purchase at goodcleanlove.com use this discount code: DOUBLE20 for 20% off!   Listen Up:   00:00 Intro 01:05 The most common misconception about lube 06:40 Safety in sex  07:47 Sexual traumas can prevent you from lubricating 09:19 Getting BV from a single use of the wrong lube 13:22 What is a good lube formulation? 21:17 Ask yourself where the money is going 22:43 How it affects the vaginal biome   26:25 Some women suffer from vaginal discomfort daily 27:27 Look out for uncircumcised men 30:48 Go for a clitoral orgasm first 34:09 How do you wake up your arousal? 37:31 Sexual liberation is being responsible for your sexual desire 40:47 Are you losing the ability to have sex? 49:31 Love oils and aphrodisiac scents 56:06 The way we use sex on people 59:21 The Transcendent Sex by Jenny Wade   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter   You can find Good Clean Love on: Website Facebook YouTube Pinterest Instagram   You can find Wendy on: Website Twitter Facebook YouTube Instagram

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Claire Louise Travers, the person behind Poly Pages -  an academic non-monogamous podcast and platform, focused on the texts which have shaped polyamorous community and culture. She identifies as a solo-polyamorous relationship anarchist and is living life by the value of ruthless honesty.   If you’re a bookworm and into non-monogamy, then you’re in for a treat! Claire, being the academic researcher that she is, shares tons of book resources rich in insightful thoughts from authors who know the poly world. Of course, we begin with The Ethical Slut - a must read that is loaded with unconventional and witty comebacks on how non-monogamous relationships should and could work. We also talk about breakups, the relationship escalator, and queer + polyamory!   Listen Up: 00:00 Intro 00:56 Check out Poly Pages podcast 02:47 Reading articles about non-monogamy from academic space 04:15 The Ethical Slut: the author’s view on sex and relationships 07:59 When you’re dating you’re constantly learning about yourself 08:45 The Polysecure book by Jessica Fern  14:38 Are you reading non-monogamous books with your partner? 20:14 The Long Way to a Small, Angry Planet by Becky Chambers  21:17 Poly representations in reverse harem books   30:23 Book recommendations on non-monogamy 37:11 A narrow idea about what breakups look like for poly 44:20 Looking at friendships with a different lens  49:50 Kinky relationships are still a form of loving relationships 50:59 Sex doesn't have to be about one thing either 53:08 A lot of queer representation in polyamorous spaces 58:33 At my first sex party 01:01:20 Queer just means that you resist being civilized into a norm 01:06:50 Digital events for polyamorous and non-monogamous creators and followers   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter   You can find Claire on: Instagram Poly Pages Poly Pages Podcast Polyamory Day 2021 Digital Showcase 

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Ms. Nighteyes, The Funny Dom’s Owned sub. She is an Owned submissive and Switch who is fond of sharing funny and witty memes about polyamory, Dom/sub, and BDSM.   Owned but not collared, let’s talk about it. We discuss 24/7 tasks, self care, slip-ups, the journey of being switchy, and more. We also get a look into how kinks are discovered, punishment, special toys, forming bonds through BDSM, flogging, and a side story about a little Shibari session. Let’s get kinky!   Listen Up:   00:00 Intro 01:04 Getting interested in the Dom/subworld 04:20 Dom/sub interest came naturally 07:48 What tasks fulfills you? 08:26 Owned but not collared 11:17 When was your last vanilla sex? 13:27 Becoming open about being poly and linky 15:13 Slip ups  17:51 What does being called “Baby” make you feel? 23:58 Floggers just gives you a different sensation 25:19 Switch: more sub-leaning 29:01 Discovering the Switch energy 32:07 Slip ups between Dom/sub 35:07 Sub brats gets punished more 37:51 Playing with a cane 41:44 Using unconventional things as sex toys 44:29 Representation of BDSM in media 49:28 Clothing preferences in the Dom/sub space 53:06 Shibari session with your partner 57:54 Favorite form of after care   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter   You can find Ms. Nighteyes on: Instagram

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Kirah (The Strology), the author of the Zodiac Signs: Pisces book. Besides being an astrologer, writer, educator, and creator, she is also passionate about intersectionality and inclusiveness within the field of astrology.    What do the planets and stars have to say about our monogamous or non-monogamous tendencies? Does your birth chart reflect your relationship style and attractions? Even if you’re not super into astrology, Kirah walks us through the placements and simplifies it all for us, so we can use this tool to better understand ourselves and our partners. Listen in for more interesting revelations about what your sign means and which ones are more likely open to non-monogamous relationships.    Listen Up:   00:00 Intro 01:45 How to apply astrology in your daily life? 03:42 Look for a good astrology chart 07:17 Signs that gravitates towards monogamy 09:06 The different houses of astrology 15:44 What is your love language? 17:04 Aspects of Pluto and non-monogamy 22:42 Aspects of Uranus tend to speak to non-monogamy 26:34 Pluto and Sagittarius are more open to non-monogamy 31:35 There has to be another way than unhappy marriages  33:14 Mutable signs: Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, and Pisces 36:50 When you have Aquarius, Capricorn or Saturn in the 7th house  40:10 Signs and how they are in relationships 48:17 Planets in the 7th house speak a lot about your partner 51:51 When his charts don’t match with yours 56:28 Can one person be both a source of stability and excitement? 58:31 Venus retrogrades every eight years 01:00:32 A bad day is probably a Mercury retrograde    Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter   You can find Kirah on: Instagram Twitter Facebook The Strology Show Podcast

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Brittany Brave, a NYC-based comedian, actress, writer, producer and host with a line of comedy that is as animated as it is cerebral. She founded Cat Call and hosts the weekly podcast, Bad Women, where she interviews women-to-know and a table for conversations on creating community, driving change and tough topics.    Now, let’s talk about sex toys. Raise your hand if you own a vibrator! What about a butt plug? Maybe some Scratchy Pokey fingers? What does Christmas have to do with it? Come join us as we give some recommendations for your starter pack and some fun stories along the way.   Listen Up:   00:00 Intro 01:07 Let’s talk about sex toys 06:40 How do you break a vibrator?  10:55 Men should own vibrators too 12:45 “My go-to vibrator options.” - Brittany 17:33 Let’s talk about strap ons 20:43 Nipple clamps! 24:23 Anal beads are a different kind of animal 31:21 Hot pink butt plug with a bunny tail 34:33 Introduction to a full-blown anal sex 37:10 You can’t use a silicone lube with silicone products 40:56 Cat Nail Claw/Finger Claw for sensation play 40:33 Edible handcuffs, food selections foreplay 48:34 Be interested in someone who’s more experienced with toys 49:01 Spreader bars are amazing!   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter   You can find Brittany on: Instagram Twitter Facebook Website

Today on Double Teamed, Cami and Niki welcome Gabrielle Smith, a Brooklyn-based intersectional sex/relationship writer and poly educator. She offers support sessions focused on sharing education and information that affirms, reassures and resonates.    In some cases, marriage isn’t always the happily ever after we all hope for. Without clearly defining what each partner wants and what they need from each other and from the marriage itself, things eventually may not work out. But marriage isn’t the only way to secure a partnership or commit to one! You can be in an open relationship with several people with clearly defined needs, wants, and expectations and still live a fulfilled and satisfied life.   Listen Up:   00:00 Intro 00:54 How did you get introduced into non-monogamy? 03:50 What the first relationship felt like 08:18 “Don’t ask, don’t tell,” means you’re not ready  12:27 You always have to do a test drive 15:13 Identifying as a solo polyamorous 19:12 The relationship escalator isn’t for everyone 25:41 Marriage can be fragile and can provide a false sense of security 30:30 Dating a monogamous person is a lot of labor 34:58 Sharing and gathering resources  38:56 Communicate what you want and what you need 41:42 Give yourself that freedom to find what you like 43:12 Live a life where you don’t feel restricted 45:40 A directory of poly-friendly therapists 48:38 Should polyamory and non-monogamy be normalized? 52:04 Know what type of non-monogamy works for you   Follow Us on: Instagram TikTok Twitter   You can find Gabrielle on: By Gabrielle Smith Twitter Instagram LinkedIn