Show 88: Two Most Important Types of Dog Walks EVERY Dog Owner Needs to Know
Episode 103
Wednesday, January 3, 2024 • Duration 08:26
Walking your dog is a crucial part of raising and training them; thus, knowing the two types of dog walks can make a HUGE difference to your training experience.
"Doggy Dan, is there more than just one way to do dog walks?"
Yes… and my goal is to help dog owners tap into the power of switching walking styles to make the most out of dog walks.
In this blog, I will talk about the two types of dog walks, why you need to know both, and how to know which type to use best.
Read on to learn more.
The Two Types of Dog Walks: Why You Need More Than Just One Type of Walk
All walk and no play makes your dog a very irritable and restless pet.
A common misconception among dog owners regarding walking dogs is that there's only one walking style to follow from start to finish.
As a dog trainer who has helped dogs and their owners make walks effective while having fun, I know that sticking to one walking style can make your time outdoors an absolute struggle!
Because let's be honest: our dogs are playful, and the outdoors is the perfect setting for unleashing their love for fun!
Expecting them to follow one style of walking (and nothing else!) sets you and your dog up for frustration!
So, what do you do to make outdoor walks more effective? Here are the two types of dog walks you should follow.
The Structured Walk
The first dog-walking style is the “structured walk”.
Even though it is not THE ONLY walk you can do, it is undoubtedly the most important walk you should master.
Most dog owners feel this type of walk is the gold standard, the only way to do things. (More on this later.)
During the structured walk, your dog walks with a leash, and you absolutely are in control of the entire walk.
You give commands, you decide what your dog can and can't do, and your dog is expected to follow your charge.
This is the walking style that tells your dog, "I am in charge of the walk. I make the decisions. You listen to my commands."
When you engage in a structured walk, you drive the entire walk, and your dog has to follow YOUR charge.
The Social Walk
Now, this walking style is what your dog loves!
The walk becomes social when your dog can roam free and do what they want for a time.
The walk doesn't have a structure, and dogs are more accessible to sniff posts, or check out areas they want to see.
Compared to The Structured Walk, this more relaxed option allows your dog to really have fun and socialize!
Two Types of Dog Walks: What the Structured Walk Teaches Your Dog
Walking your dog the structured way sends them this important message: you're in charge of the walk, not them.
The Structured Walk is crucial because it can solve typical dog walking problems such as leash pulling, aggression, overexcitement, and outdoor anxiety.
Sure, you will be giving your dog the freedom to roam around and freely explore, but before you do that, your dog must understand you make the calls.
And it is during the structured walks that your dog firmly gets the message that makes them say, "Ahh, I should listen to my owner's commands before I do anything during the walk."
I actually talk more about The Structured Walk in my blog on the best way to walk dogs, the fifth in my Five Golden Rules series.
In a nutshell, The Structured walk is critical because it teaches your dog they're not in charge. And when your dog knows they don't make the calls, they relax, they become less aggressive, and they come to your call (which is an absolute need if you're going to switch to The Social Walk).
What the Social Walk Teaches Your Dog
The Social Walk is about having fun!
Here's the truth: we can't expect our dogs to spend the entire 30 minutes of their time outdoors just following a structured walk.
They're already outdoors; they need to explore, run, sniff, and play.
The social walk allows your dog to enjoy a little fun and downtime during your walk.
Which Should You Do With Your Dog: How to Know Which Walk to Choose
So, how do you know which walk to choose between the types of dog walks?
When To Use the Structured Walk
If you live in a city with limited free space for your dog to roam around, most of your dog walks will be structured (aka, dog on a leash with you commanding your dog what to do).
However, if your place has ample space, I recommend using the first five to ten minutes of your time outdoors doing a structured walk BEFORE letting your dog walk more freely.
I also recommend using a Structured Walk at the start and the end of EVERY walk to establish and re-establish your role as the one in charge of your time outside.
Before you stop the Structured walk to make the switch to Social, I encourage you to ask the following questions:
Is my dog coming to me when I call them?
Do they have spiked-up energy levels?
Do they tend to be aggressive?
Does my dog understand boundaries?
Have I established clear dog-walking commands with my dog?
If safety is an issue for your dog and others, I recommend staying on structured walks before it's absolutely safe to give them freedom.
When to Use the Social Walk
Your dog WILL become restless after a few minutes of Structured Walks. The outdoors is so exciting for them to stay still.
There is a problem if you wait for your dog to pull the leash before you allow them to have their free time.
Because a simple tug on the leash is like your dog saying, "Hey, it's fun time!" when you give in to the pull, you're sending the message that your dog makes the call.
So here's what I recommend you do:
Assess when your dog starts becoming restless. Observe how long into the walk they start pulling the leash.
Start the walk structured. Continue with the structured walk for five to ten minutes before they tell you to let them run.
Let them enjoy their social walks.
Before you end, switch back to the Structured Walk to re-establish leadership.
How Using Two Types of Dog Walks Can Change Your Walking Experience With Your Dogs
Perfect Balance
Think of structured walks like school time, where your dog learns the rules, and social walks like playtime, where they just get to be a dog. Mixing it up means your dog gets a healthy dose of discipline and fun!
More Fun for Everyone
Ever get bored of the same old routine? Your dog does, too! Switching between structured and social walks keeps things interesting for both of you. It's like sometimes you're the teacher, and other times you're both just pals exploring the world together.
Clear Leadership and Joy
On structured walks, you're the boss, and your dog learns to follow the leader — that's you! But you show them you're not the uptight, no-fun leader during social walks. You still let them have fun. This balance shows your dog that you're not just in charge, but you're also their buddy who loves to see them happy.
Spot-On Walks
With a clear plan for each walk, you're not juggling too much at once. Structured walks focus on training, while social walks are all about exploration and play. This means your dog learns better and faster, and you both enjoy your time more.
Fewer Problems
Mixing walks can really cut down on those pesky walking issues. Structured walks nip destructive behaviors in the bud by reinforcing your leadership. Social walks let your dog burn off that extra energy and curiosity in a positive way. Together, they make for a smoother, more enjoyable walk.
Learn How to Do The Two Types of Dog Walks Better with the Dog Calming Code™️
Dog walks are my favorite thing in the world.
It gives me and my dogs a mighty great time when done right!
However, I understand so many things can go wrong when walking a dog. This is why The Walk is a big part of The Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules. When dog walks are done right, YOU CAN BE THE ABSOLUTE LEADER IN THE EYES OF YOUR DOGS.
If you want to do both types of dog walks, I recommend you check out The Dog Calming Code where I talk more about Rule #5: Dog Walks.
Because when your time outdoors with your dog is done well, the benefits are amazing!
Show 87: Why Dogs Pull On Leash At The Start of Every Walk: The BIGGEST Reason + Stop Leash Pulling Hack
Episode 102
Thursday, December 28, 2023 • Duration 06:59
When dog owners come to me for help on how to stop leash pulling, I feel for them, especially when I hear the frustration in their voices.
It's understandable why having a dog pulling the leash can be such a pain! If all you want is to enjoy a quiet, peaceful walk with your dog, the constant struggle for control can be exhausting.
And most of the time, the leash pulling happens at the start of the walk, making you wonder, "Is going out for a walk even worth it?"
Why do dogs do this? Why is there even a power struggle? And should you persist?
In this blog, I will talk about my biggest theory of why dogs pull the leash at the start of every walk… and what you can do to change it.
Read on to learn more.
Key Takeaways:
Understand the Instincts: Dogs pull on the leash due to instincts derived from their wolf ancestors, seeing walks as a time for hunting and leading. They will naturally take the Alpha role if they don't sense a leader, hence the pulling.
Be the Alpha Leader: To stop leash pulling, you must establish yourself as the leader in all aspects of your dog's life, not just during walks. This means setting boundaries, giving consistent consequences for pulling, and showing calm, assertive energy.
Prepare and React Appropriately: How you start the walk sets the tone. Go out first, decide when to walk, and be ready with calm responses to pulling, like pauses or changing direction. Letting your dog lead or not giving consequences encourages pulling.
Stop Leash Pulling: Understanding Why Dogs Pull the Leash Right Before You Start Your Walk
You walk to the door; your is already pulling on the leash.
You step outside down the stairs, and your dog pulls and pulls as if telling you to "Hurry up!"
Your time outdoors is all about having to regain control of the leash.
If you've experienced the things I mentioned above, you get how challenging it is to have a dog who wants to
To Stop Leash Pulling, You Have to Know That Control Matters to Dogs
5 Things You Can Do To Stop The Dog From Pulling the Leash
#1: Be the Leader in Everything
#2: Set Boundaries and Consequences
Consequence #1: The Pause
Consequence #2: The 180
#3: Know What to Do Before Stepping Out of the House
Tip #1: You Go First
Tip #2: You Decide When To Go for a Walk
Tip #3: You Decide If A Walk Should Actually Happen
#4: Stay Calm
4 Things You Should Not Do If You Want to Stop Leash Pulling
#1: Get Angry With Your Dogs
#2: Giving Up and Letting Your Dog Have Their Way
#3: Not Giving Consequences
#4: Letting Your Dog Make the Decisions
Stop Leash Pulling By Being the Strong, Smart, Confident, and Capable Alpha. The Dog Calming Code Will Help You!
Show 86: How to Exit the Car with Dogs: Why Dogs Need to Calmly Exit the Car
Episode 101
Wednesday, December 20, 2023 • Duration 06:16
Seeing dog owners letting their dogs run wild when the car door opens is quite a familiar scene. It’s adorable at face value… but it’s a tricky if you want to have calm walks with dogs.
“Doggy Dan, do you mean I also have to keep an eye on how my dogs exit the car so I can have peace while I walk outdoors with them?”
Yes, you’re right.
All your problems with leash pulling, aggression, overexcitement, and yes, even protectiveness will be reduced by simply ensuring you take control WAY BEFORE your dog steps out of the car.
Key Takeaways:
Control Starts with the Car Exit: The way dogs exit the car sets the tone for the walk. Controlling this aspect ensures a more manageable and enjoyable outdoor experience.
Calmness is Key: Encouraging calm behavior from the start, such as opening the car door calmly and giving clear commands, can significantly influence your dog's energy and responsiveness during the walk.
Establishing Leadership: Teaching dogs to exit cars calmly reinforces the idea that you are in control. This understanding helps in reducing undesirable behaviors like leash pulling and overexcitement, leading to more peaceful and enjoyable walks.
A Quick Recap of Doggy Dan Rule #5: How You Can Control the Walk
The Way Dogs Exit Cars Influences How Your Walks Will Go
How to Help Dogs Exit Calmly
#1: Open the Door Calmly
#2: Give Clear Commands
#3: Use a Leash if Necessary
#4: Give the Go Signal
What Happens When You Help Your Dogs Calmly Exit Cars
Dogs Listen to You More
Their Energy Levels Are Retained to an Adequate Number
They Recognize Boundaries
They Know They Are Not in Control
It Creates Better Walking Habits
Learn More About How You Can Take Charge of Your Dog's Walks with the Dog Calming Code
Show 85: Take Control: How to Make Dog Walks Work EVERYTIME!
Episode 100
Wednesday, December 13, 2023 • Duration 05:31
If I asked you to write down at least three dog-walking problems, I am sure I’d find leash pulling and misbehaving somewhere on that list.
Stop Dog-walking Problems By Taking Control of the Walk
#1: Take Control Even Before You Start the Walk
#2: Your Dog Will Persist in Regaining Control… You Can Gently Remind Them With This Move
#3: And If Your Dog Insists on Taking Charge of The Walk, Pausing for a While Works
#4: Wrap Up the Walk When Needed
Stop Dog-Walking Problems: What Happens When You Take Control of the Walk with Dogs
Chill on the Protective Stuff
No More Leash Tug-of-War
Relaxed Vibes All Around
Making Friends, Not Frenemies
Building Trust, Like a Boss
Good Manners, Not Just Outside
Stop Dog-Walking Problems By Taking Charge… Not Only On Walks. The Dog Calming Code Will Help You!
Show 84: How To Train Your Dog To Be Calm - The Easy Way
Episode 99
Thursday, December 7, 2023 • Duration 35:43
Show 83 - Doggy Rumbles: What It Means When Your Dog Yelps Out of Nowhere
Each sound our dog makes is crucial; it can signify hunger, distress, and pain.
So it’s no surprise our dogs’ sudden yelping sounds can make us spring into protective, worrying mode.
Yes, a yelping dog can be a dog in pain. But a dog letting out a high-pitched, petrifying sound isn’t always a pained dog… and it’s an essential truth owners should understand.
Key Takeaways:
Dogs yelp for various reasons, not always due to pain. It's important to discern the context of their yelping, which can indicate hunger, distress, or leadership struggles.
Yelping during interactions with other dogs can be a way of establishing or conceding leadership, not necessarily a sign of pain.
The concept of The Dog Calming Code emphasizes the importance of human leadership in a dog's life. By establishing themselves as the leader, owners can reduce dog fights and power struggles.
The Other Reason Why Dogs Yelp: For Dogs, It’s All About Leadership
Why Do Dogs Yelp During an Intense Interaction With Other Dogs
Why Dogs Yelp Reason #1: Yelping is a Sound of Conceding
Why Dogs Yelp Reason #2: Yelping is a Shock Factor to Make the Other Dog Stop Charging
Why You Should Not Immediately Intervene Between Two Dogs in a Rumble
Dealing with Dog Rumbles: When Do I Step In?
The Doggy Dan Dog Calming Code: Becoming the Leader In Your Dog’s Eyes… The Gentle Way
Show 82 - How to Calm Dogs Down: Top Dog Trainer Doggy Dan Shows the Power of The Calm Freeze
Episode 97
Friday, December 1, 2023 • Duration 06:47
What do you do when your dog's energy levels spike from a 3 to an 8? My answer as a top dog trainer: the Calm Freeze.
But here's an important fact I've learned from years of working with dogs and their owners: you, as a dog owner, possess the remarkable ability to transform your dog's behavior from hyperactive and agitated to calm and relaxed.
And the Calm Freeze has been proven to bring back your dog's calm and relaxed demeanor WITHOUT having to use any product or tool.
I trust it so much I even use it on my dogs.
In today's blog, I will talk about the Calm Freeze and how this technique can calm your dogs without tools, words, products, or even force.
Key Takeaways
The technique is effective in various situations, including overexcitement, aggression, dog fights, disobedience, and anxiety.
It reinforces the owner's leadership by showing calm confidence in handling different dog behaviors.
The Calm Freeze is about understanding a dog's emotional state, not just a physical technique.
What is a Calm Freeze?
How Do You Perform The Calm Freeze? Here's a Step-by-Step Process
Step 1: Begin By Calmly Guiding Your Dog Towards You
Step 2: With a Gentle, Upturned hand, Lightly Hold Your Dog's Collar
Step 3: Maintain Your Calm Demeanor
Step 4: If Your Dog Tries to Bite You, Put Them in Timeout
Step 5: Gradually Loosen Your Hold and Release Your Dog
Why The Calm Freeze Works in Calming Dogs
It's a Technique That Dogs Understand
The Operative Word is "Calm"
Non-Forceful
It Helps De-Escalate Stressful Situations Fast
When Can You Use the Calm Freeze?
Handling Overexcitement
Countering Aggression
Interrupting Dog Fights
Dealing with Disobedience
Easing Anxiety
The Calm Freeze is a Great Way to Let Your Dogs Know You're in Charge
The Calm Freeze: The Technique That Tells Dogs "Look at Me, I'm Calm. I Want You to Be Calm, Too."
Show 81 - Timeout for Dogs: The Number 1 Tool for Disciplining Dogs!
If you want to give consequences or correction for a specific dog behavior, you must speak a language your dog totally understands.
And that’s where timeouts come in.
The thing about timeout for dogs is that it's so simple. And because it's so simple, it's also so easy to overcomplicate and done wrong.
Some dog owners don't tap into the power of using timeouts to correct behavior. Some also fail to apply it effectively, leaving dogs to miss the significance of their actions' consequences.
As a top dog trainer who swears by timeouts, I'm here to tell you that if you're training your dog, timeout is something you should NEVER overlook or toss aside.
Read on to know more.
Key Takeaways
Unlike shouting or using force, timeouts provide a clear, non-violent message to dogs that their behavior is unacceptable. It offers a direct and consistent response, teaching dogs that their actions have consequences.
Dogs, like humans, learn from consequences. Timeout serves as a powerful consequence, indicating that certain behaviors are not acceptable. Gentle consistency is key, avoiding the need for force or intimidation.
Combining attention and love when deserved with timeouts for correction helps dogs understand both rewards and consequences. The key to an effective timeout lies in maintaining calm consistency and ensuring control during and after the timeout, reinforcing your role as a reliable leader.
DOG CALMING CODE: THE TRAINING PROGRAM FOR RAISING CALMER, WELL-BEHAVED DOGS
Table of Contents
Dogs Need Timeout: The Number One Mistake Dog Owners Do When Correcting Negative Behavior
Why Dogs Need Timeout: Why a Timeout Is An Effective Way of Disciplining Dogs
Why Dogs Need Timeout
Consequences for Actions
Gentle Correction
When Coupled with Attention and Love, Timeouts Help Dogs Understand Rewards and Consequences
The Two Things You Can Do to Make Timeout for Dogs Effective
Calm, Consistent Consequence For Dogs
Ensuring That You Have Control of the Timeout
Remember, yielding to their requests — during and after — this critical learning period undermines your position as a reliable leader.
FAQs About Timeout for Dogs
How Long Should a Timeout Last?
Is There a Tool I Can Use If I Do a Timeout for My Dog?
What if My Dog Barks During Timeout?
Should I Interact With My Dog During and After Timeout?
What if My Dog Repeats the Behavior?
Can the Timeout Spot be Where They Sleep, Like the Laundry Room?
What Are the Safety Considerations During Timeout?
How Do I Use Timeout for Aggressive Behaviors, Like Nipping?
Using Timeout for Dogs Can Speed Up Your Training Success!
Show 80 - Short Line for Dogs: How this Powerful Dog Training Tool Helps You Gain Control
Episode 95
Wednesday, November 15, 2023 • Duration 08:05
The reason for using a short line for dogs boils down to this: control.
It sounds extreme, but in dog psychology, the one in control is the one in charge.
And when your dog runs under tables and around the garden uncontrollably, and you're having a hard time catching them, you're not in control!
The short line for dogs helps you regain control without raising your voice, resorting to harsh strategies, and losing your composure (news flash: in your dog's eyes, a rattled dog owner is NOT a worthy pack leader).
Let's talk more about why you should ABSOLUTELY include the short line in your arsenal of helpful dog training tools.
Key Takeaways
The short line helps establish control, signaling to the dog that the owner is in charge and can guide behavior effectively.
The short line makes training sessions cooperative, reducing power struggles and distractions. It facilitates quicker learning without resorting to harsh measures.
Acting as a physical boundary, the short line helps the dog understand limits, enabling quick corrections and reinforcing the owner's authority.
Using The Short Line for Dogs: What Is It?
5 Reasons Why Using the Short Line for Dogs Can Change Your Dog
Reason #1: It Makes Training Easier
Reason #2: You Regain Control
Reason #3: You Establish Boundaries
Reason #4: You Show You're a Confident and Capable Leader
Reason #5: You Teach Your Dogs What Is and What Is Not Expected of Them
Reason #6: The Short Line for Dogs Makes Catching Your Dog So Much Easier!
Guide to Using the Short Line for Dogs
#1: Choose a Lead That's 1-2 Meters Long
#2: Attach the Lead to the Harness
#3: Let the Dog Roam Around With the Short Line Trailing Behind
#4: Always Keep an Eye On Your Dog If a Short Line is Attached to Them. Safety First!
#5: You Don't Use the Short Line Forever. Put it On For Several Minutes Until Your Dog Behaves Better.
Using The Short Line + The Dog Calming Code Can Transform Your Dogs
Show 79 - Whistle for Recall Training: This Tool ABSOLUTELY Makes My Dogs Run to Me Every Single Time!
Episode 94
Thursday, November 9, 2023 • Duration 09:07
A whistle for dog recall training is a very important tool that some dog owners overlook.
Of course, I recommend you go for solutions that work best for you and your dog.
If you've put in all possible effort to train your dog to come when called, and still haven't had any success, the dog recall training whistle is a tool that you absolutely must not underestimate.
In this blog, we're going to talk about using a whistle, and why it's a need especially if you want to have dog training success.
Let's dive in.
Key Takeaways
Incorporating a whistle into dog training can enhance recall training, allowing for clear communication and prompt responses without straining your voice.
When selecting a whistle for dog recall training, prioritize durability, portability, and sound quality to ensure effective communication with your dog during outdoor activities.
Consistency in using the same whistle sound and emphasizing leadership based on guidance and safety are crucial in successful dog training. Patience and a calm approach in handling setbacks are essential for continued progress.
Why I Recommend the Whistle for Dog Recall Training
Dog Recall Whistle Comes With a Powerful Sound That Dogs Can Associate With
You Reserve Your Voice for The Really Important Commands
It Reaches Longer Distances and Stands Out Among the Sounds
Whistle for Dog Recall Training Has a Sound Dogs Can Get Familiar With
What to Look for in a Whistle for Dog Recall Training
Durable Material
Easy to Bring Outdoors
With Good Sound Quality
The Doggy Dan Whistle
Whistle for Dog Recall Training: Strategies and Tips Dog Owners Should Understand
Start by Creating Association
Build on the Positive
Move to Distractions
The Importance of Consistency
Maintaining Leadership
Handling Setbacks
Safety as a Priority
Is Your Dog Still Not Responding To Your Calls?
You see, our dogs have the DNA of a wolf — 99.98%, to be exact. Why is this significant? Because how your dog acts can be connected to how wolves act in the wild.
For the wolves, everything is about survival. When they head outdoors, a walk is not just a walk; it's all about hunting for food.
The most interesting thing about wolves is they don't push through with their walk until the Alpha — the pack leader — steps in to lead the way, signals "Let's go!" and goes on to make all the big decisions.
Even though our dogs have become more domesticated than their ancestors, they still think like wolves.
Someone has to lead, someone has to decide, someone has to be followed, someone has to call the BIG shots.
FACT: If your dog doesn't feel like an Alpha is in charge, they will take over.
Why? Because your dog knows control is essential for survival. The Alpha is their protector! The Alpha tells them how to survive the wild and find food.
Your dog pulling the leash shows they have taken the role of the Alpha. Their pulling sends the message, "I'm making the big decisions now. I will tell you what to do!"
So when your dog pulls the lead, they aren't deliberately disobeying you or getting on your nerves.
They pull the lead because they feel they're the pack leader, and they need to make every crucial decision to make the walk successful because that's what pack leaders do.
The biggest solution to stop leash pulling is to actually show your dog they can pass on the hat of leadership to you.
Here are some ways you can do it.
Just as the Alpha wolf leads the pack, you need to establish yourself as the leader of your pack.
Some dog owners assume they only need to show their authority and leadership during the walk, and what happens before or after the walk doesn't matter.
Becoming the leader in your dog's eyes requires an all-round approach, and that's why I made my online dog training program, The Dog Calming Code™️.
This dog training program is dedicated to helping you become an all-round leader in your dog's eyes by guiding you on how to feed dogs, give attention, respond to calls for danger, and how walks should be done.
So when you need to go outdoors, your dog already knows who to listen to!
When it comes to walking, I recommend these simple options if you're looking for a way to incorporate discipline during your time outdoors.
Do the pause if your dog starts pulling the leash. This consequence is your way of saying "Hey, we won't continue walking if you keep on pulling."
Wait 2-5 minutes and see if your dog stops the pulling the lead.
If pulling, aggression, or rowdiness doesn't stop after a couple of pauses, turn the other way around and abandon the walk. I know this could be heartbreaking, especially when your dog has been looking forward to time outdoors. However, doing the 180 can help your dog understand that ultimately, YOU are the decision maker, the one in charge, and they should be listening to you.
Your dog will eventually get it, and will follow habits you expect them to do.
This one is crucial because how you walk out of the house predicts how your walk will go.
Even if you've already showed you're the leader, one power move from your dog can change the dynamics.
What do I mean by this?
I mentioned earlier that dogs are all about control. Your dog is smart and will subtly challenge your leadership before the walk.
Some dogs will attempt to jump through the door before you do as if to say "Ha! I lead now!"
Sometimes, dogs will attempt to take control by tugging at you, or handing you the leash to tell you "Hey, it's time for my walk!"
Sure, your dog will attempt to convince you to bring them outside whenever they want. This could be tempting, especially when they can't hide their eagerness. But stay strong, furmom and furdad.
Ignore the request for a few minutes then call your dog. Doing this establishes that you — not them — decide when the walk should happen.
Keep an eye on your dog's behavior to see if you should push through with the walk.
Some factors that indicate you should not push through include:
persistent leash pulling even after you reprimand them
If you see these factors in your dogs, don't hesitate to call a rain check on your walk.
Your dog can sense your emotions, so if you're tense or frustrated, they'll pick up on that and may become more difficult to manage. Keep your cool, even when they're testing your patience. A calm demeanor reinforces your role as the leader.
Yelling or getting frustrated only escalates the situation.
For your dog, the one who doesn't easily flinch or fold wins and takes the leadership hat.
But what do you do when the constant leash pulling becomes too much for you?
A consequence given with calmness can teach your dog what they need to do more than shouting or using force can.
When you're angry, your dog will more likely become stressed, making it hard for them to really understand you.
Before you continue reading, I want you to know I completely understand your frustrations.
I've had conversations with dog owners where I asked them "What happens during the walk?"
A lot of them said "Well, the leash pulling becomes too much, we just let them lead the way. We figured it was better than abandoning the walk altogether."
Definitely a big misconception!
If you are a dog owner who thinks giving in to your dog will make training easier along the way, I'm here to tell you it won't.
Show them you're the Alpha by letting them know "Hey, you can chill. I make the big decisions here." And stick with it.
The entire concept of dog leadership includes a lot of concepts, and it's easy to fall into the cracks when you're working to become a true leader in your dog's eyes.
I created The Dog Calming Code for dog owners who really want to set the leadership right. The Dog Calming Code discusses the Five Golden Rules of dog leadership; five essential concepts that — when done right — will cement your place as the Alpha your dogs WILL trust.
Because when you're the Alpha, you won't only be able to stop leash pulling; you can always enjoy a peaceful, calm, successful walk.
In my previous blog about the Doggy Dan Golden Rule #5, I discussed how you can truly gain control of the walk.
In the same blog, I mentioned three pillars for a successful walking experience:
#1: You control the walk and the energy.
#2: You set the rules on what is acceptable and what is not.
#3: Your dog has to know that it’s you who calls the shots.
Using this Golden Rule as a guide, letting your overexcited dog run out of the car like a sprinter immediately strikes out your chances of becoming in control of the walk.
Read on to learn more about why the way dogs exit cars can make or break your outdoor walks.
Now, most dog owners don't make anything big out of the way your dog eject themselves out of cars.
But I'm here to tell you that how they leave the car matters in the grand scheme of your dog's time outside.
Let me give you an analogy…
When I was younger, my parents brought us to exciting trips. My siblings and I would run out of the car, so excited to just be out there. That often gave my parents a hard time because calling us back was impossible once we were out.
They needed our help, but we shut them off.
My parents learned some hard lessons from those experiences.
The next time we went on a trip, they made sure to talk to us before we headed out.
"You help out first before you play," mom and dad would say.
It was easier for us to follow their orders since they set the instructions. And if they did ask us to do something, we immediately listened.
We knew what we had to do. We knew what was expected of us.
It's pretty much the same with our dogs! If you've ever gone outdoors with your dog, you’ve probably experienced dealing with a hyperactive dog that just doesn't listen no matter how many times you call!
They pull the leash no matter how hard you pull back.
You can encourage your dogs to also be in a calm mood by not being agitated, anxious, or restless yourself. Try not to be jittery or preoccupied before opening the car door.
Be firm with your commands. Say "stay" if you want them to stay and "sit" if you want them to be still. Make sure your dogs understand these commands way before you use them on your walk.
Just attach a leash onto your dog to help them ready for their walk… the calm way.
This is the most important part.
The outdoors has many distractions: leaves, flying birds, kids playing in the park, and other dogs.
Your dog — especially when they're already too distracted — will jump so fast you won't have time to react… or even chase them!
They sprinted even without your signal. You've already lost control. They've already shut you out.
This is why the go signal for your dogs to run free SHOULD COME FROM YOU. Your dogs must understand that everything — walks included — happens on your own terms.
(Why does doing things on your own terms matter in dog training? I talk about it here.)
You know that moment when your dog seems to tune into your every word? That's what happens when they learn to exit calmly.
When you don't allow them to run away from you without your command, they understand the language of patience and respect.
When you're in control, your dog doesn't just hear you; they listen. They become more attentive and more tuned into your cues.
They aren't bubbling pots of hyperactivity waiting to spill over.
Instead, they maintain a steady, manageable energy level. Their energy stays in the level 2 or 3.
Now, They're still the playful, spirited companions we adore, just without the chaotic overdrive.
When dogs understand how to exit calmly, they also understand the invisible lines we draw in our lives.
These boundaries could be anything from not rushing out the door to waiting patiently for their food.
They learn that not everything is a free-for-all.
This recognition is crucial. It's not about limiting their freedom; it's about teaching them respect and safety, ensuring they know where they can and cannot go, what is theirs to explore, and what is off-limits.
A dog that understands calm exiting also understands they're not the one calling the shots. This understanding significantly reduces tendencies like aggression, overprotectiveness, or leash pulling.
They realize that you're the leader, and with this realization, comes a sense of security and peace for them.
They don't feel the need to be overly protective or assertive because they trust in your guidance. It's a beautiful shift from chaos to harmony, from uncertainty to trust.
The great thing about dogs is they're fast learners.
Once habits are formed, our dogs will stick to them.
Sure, you're going to experience frustrating, really challenging walks at first. But stick with the essentials — including teaching dogs to exit cars calmly — and your dog will catch on quickly!
A dog who knows how to be calm during a walk is a dog who understands these:
a. They're not in charge.
b. Their owner is in charge.
c. They are expected to behave a certain way during their outdoor walks.
And teaching these things to your dog goes beyond simple commands.
In my online dog training program, The Dog Calming Code™️, I talk about how you can train dogs to be calm, chill, and happy while enjoying the walk outdoors.
Because when you're bonding and spending time with your dog outdoors, there's nothing better than a walk that’s free from the stress that commonly comes with dog walks!
The most common cause of dog-walking issues like leash pulling, barking, and getting excited by just about anything is this: your dog thinks they're in control.
It's like the case of "whoever gets in the driver's seat first decides where the trip goes."
The great thing about dogs is they're quick to get the message. Once you do something that tells them "Hey, I got it. I'm in charge," they will adapt.
If your dog makes a run for the door to ensure they go first, do this gentle move: calmly block their way with your legs, open the door, and go first.
If your dog persists, insisting on being the one in charge, stop the steps. Refrain from continuing the walk until they get the message that you decide what happens with your time outdoors.
Doing this simple step is like giving your dog an outdoor timeout. Once your dog gets that you stopped because of their rowdy behavior, they will listen to you.
If rowdiness persists, you should be quick on stopping and heading back home.
I know this can feel heartbreaking for you and your dog, but it's one of the most powerful ways of telling your dog, "Hey, what you did is not going to make this walk continue. Please remember that."
Deciding to end the walk right there and then will establish to your dog that, indeed, you have the final word.
You know how some dogs get all barky and uppity around other dogs? That's them being overprotective. But guess what?
When you take charge of the walk, your dog starts to chill out. They look to you for cues, and pretty soon, they're not so quick to bark or get feisty with other dogs. It's like they're thinking, "My human's got this, no need for me to go all superhero."
Ever feel like you're in a tug-of-war match with your dog on walks? You're not alone. A lot of us deal with dogs pulling on the leash.
But here's a cool thing – when you're clearly in charge, your dog starts to get it. They follow your lead instead of dragging you around. It turns the walk into something you both can actually enjoy.
But when you step up as the leader, it's a game changer. Your dog gets the memo that you're handling the big stuff, so they can kick back and enjoy the walk. They get to sniff around, see the sights, and just be a happy dog.
Leading the walk also means smoother run-ins with other dogs and their humans. When your dog is behaving and not causing drama, it's way easier to have friendly encounters. No awkward apologies or tense moments.
Just good, sociable walks.
Consistency is key. When you lead the walk the same way every time, your dog learns to trust your decisions.
Being in charge during the walks is just one of the many facets of being a true blue pack leader dogs respect and listen to.
You see, being in control is business #1 for the dogs. And if you don't get this (or how to do this!) you will find yourself dealing with the same issues not just on walking but with almost all the challenges that come with dog ownership.
The Dog Calming Code™️ can help you understand what it means to really be a pack leader, and how to take control from your dog who thinks they are in charge. Because when you're a pack leader who knows, your dog will just follow.
Somewhere during the brawl, one of the dogs might let out a sharp cry. (Think: loud, human shriek). It’s a sound that can make any dog owner spring to their feet.
In a more dominant dog’s mind, the other dog is still not conceding. The power struggle will still continue. There will be more chasing, fighting, screaming.
If you’re dealing with more frequent dog rumbles, I recommend being quick in observing the severity of the dog fight.
We don’t always need to get involved in the middle of the fight, BUT we still have to keep an eye on when the rumble becomes serious.
When there are increased levels of aggression (forceful biting, blood, deep scratches), quickly stop the fight and place dogs on timeout if necessary to help them regulate their emotions.
By using the Calm Freeze, you're not just controlling your dog's actions but also influencing their emotional state, bringing them from a place of hyper to stillness.
This initial step sets the tone for the entire process — it's crucial that your approach is cool and composed.
Don't start the Calm Freeze by shouting or forcing your dog to come to you; this can potentially create more resistance.
Your calming presence also helps your dog regulate their energy and emotions.
If your dog reacts negatively, such as attempting to bite, guide them calmly into a timeout. This pause allows both you and your dog to settle any heightened emotions.
Once you start to sense their energy levels going down to a 2 or a 3, slowly release your hold.
This step is important as it signifies the end of the calming process and a return to normalcy.
Dogs are acutely sensitive to energy. When you, their owner, embody calmness, you're speaking their language. You're giving them cues they understand better than any verbal signal.
The ultimate goal of the Calm Freeze is to help dogs bring down their spiked energy levels.
Imagine this: asking your dog to calm down through shouting, or threatening them, or getting angry.
It doesn't make sense. In your dog's eyes, your words and actions don't click. Following your instructions becomes so much harder.
Also, remember that a pack leader always chooses a gentle and calm approach. Once your dog sees even their antics, anxiety, and aggression don't affect you, their respect for you will increase.
With increased respect comes an increased ability to follow your directions. When you gently hold their collar, they get what you mean: "You can calm down now."
The Calm Freeze is handy when dogs are rowdy and do not respond to verbal commands. This technique is also effective in making dogs turn their focus on you.
It's a gentle way to comfort anxious dogs, especially in unfamiliar or stressful environments like when they’re dealing with strangers and perceived threats.
Holding your dog still is like telling them, "It's okay, I'm here. I'm the one in charge, so I can confidently handle what you're worried about."
Your dog's restlessness, aggression, protectiveness, overexcitement, anxiety… basically, any strong, heavy emotion can be traced back to them feeling they're in charge.
Let me share a common scenario I'm sure you're familiar with.
Your dog shows negative behaviors — perhaps barking non-stop or chewing on cables, or jumping on guests — which finally gets to your nerves.
If you don't do timeouts, you’d more than likely reprimand your dog in a booming voice, "STOP IT!" and then never follow through with a correction or a form of discipline that teaches the dog not to repeat the behavior.
The dog knows you are angry, but do they know why?
The dog, bewildered and possibly frightened, may temporarily stop the behavior, yet the underlying issue remains unaddressed.
In such circumstances, your dog is likely to repeat the undesirable action, as the shouting has not effectively communicated correction or what is expected of them.
This is where the concept of timeout plays a pivotal role in behavioral correction.
In dog communication, a timeout is an essential tool. It's not just the act of separation; it's a clear, non-violent message that the dog's behavior was unacceptable.
Unlike shouting, which can be both unclear and stressful, a timeout is a direct and consistent response. It teaches the dog that their actions have direct consequences.
Dogs love their freedom! Dogs love you! And when you're nearby, they're all about being near you.
This is why during a timeout — when dogs are temporarily separated from you and denied their chance of running around — correcting negative dog behavior becomes impactful.
This removal is not about isolation but about providing a moment of pause, a break in the pattern that leads to undesirable behavior.
They will also begin to figure out why they were put in timeout. Dogs are so fast in associating actions to consequences, they'll get the reason why they are in timeout quickly.
A timeout allows you to tell your dog "That behavior is not acceptable." Timeout POWERFULLY sends that message.
Yelling at a misbehaving dog often proves ineffective. Dogs ignore shouting as it doesn't translate into a tangible outcome for their negative behavior.
Additionally, when dogs see you always angry, rattled and frustrated, they won't be able to associate you with calm, confident, capable leadership.
Which — proven time and time again — does not have much effect.
The two-fold approach of giving attention when deserved and using timeouts to correct bad behavior can help your dog understand what is expected of them… without you having to use extreme remedies.
Consistency and firmness are vital, but they must be tempered with kindness.
Avoid giving in to your dog's whims during a timeout.
As much as possible, do not entertain them if they are still whining on the other side of the door. Only take them outside the room when they've completely relaxed and behaved.
The duration can vary – from a minute to ten minutes, depending on the situation and the dog's response.
I absolutely recommend the short line! It makes controlling dogs 10 times easier! If you have a dog that is constantly running around when you're training them, the short line can really help.
I talk more about the Shore Line in this blog.
Don't let them out if they're still barking. Wait until they have calmed down before ending the timeout.
No. Avoid any interaction, including pats and cuddles, during this period.
Once you let them out, don't immediately give cuddles and treats. It will confuse your dog as to who really is in charge (which can be equal to them choosing not to listen to you).
Consistency is key. If they repeat the misbehavior, apply another timeout. This can be repeated as necessary and is effective for many minor misdemeanors.
It's not about the location, but how you conduct the timeout. The key is to create a clear separation. Just make sure the timeout area is NOT in the room you’r
You could use a toilet or bathroom, a separate room, garage, or somewhere where they are isolated and can't see you. There needs to be a door separating you, not a window or gate where they can still interact with you.
Immediate timeouts are effective for aggressive behaviors. It helps the dog associate negative behavior like nipping with the consequence of isolation.
The short line is a fairly simple tool: a basic lead attached to a dog's harness. This lead's length ranges between 1-2 meters. No fancy instructions are involved; all you need to do is to attach it to your dog's harness safely.
As simple as it is, the short line can transform training.
Dogs are brilliant, and they understand the concept of control.
Do you notice how they run away whenever you chase them? The reason is this: dogs know that as long as you miss them, they win. They're in charge. You have lost control and, therefore, also lose your authority.
When the dogs perceive that they can do whatever they want without you being able to correct it, they assume leadership. They see themselves as the pack leader.
And the pack leader is firm in their ways. When dogs think they're the leader, they are much harder to train.
This is the reason why I love the short line.
When you use a short line, you tell your dog, "No, you're not in charge. I am. I can control you when I need to."
Slowly, as your dog sees that you can simply use the line to catch them, they will realize that they are not the leader.
It's like playing a game of tag!
When it's apparent that someone can't catch us no matter what they do, we feel like we rule the game.
It's a different story when the opponent is capable in every way! We become more aware that we're not the top players, and we have to be mindful of what other people will do.
There's so much that goes into training a dog THE RIGHT WAY. Using a tool like the short line can improve training and address issues such as:
protectiveness
fear-based aggression
resource guarding
lack of boundaries
non-stop barking
recall problems
dog anxiety
One single short line = tons of perks.
Here are three reasons why using the short line can change your dog… and your overall training experience!
It's hard to train a dog that is always running away from you.
With the short line, training sessions become less of a power struggle and more of a cooperative effort between you and your dog.
Using a short leash helps you handle your dog better in different situations without needing to shout. It creates a peaceful atmosphere for both you and your dog.
When your dog knows you have the end of the short line, they pay closer attention, learning commands more quickly. In their eyes, you have taken the leadership from them.
The short line reduces distractions for your dog, making it easier for them to focus on your instructions and smooths out the training process for both of you.
A short line is a physical representation of these limits.
It helps your dog learn where their space ends and where yours begins.
When they are like a running fireball around the house, correcting them won't come with a chase and a shout anymore. You can simply pick up the short line and put them to timeout.
Dogs are fast learners! They WILL GET why you guided them into timeout.
Dogs are pack animals and naturally look for a leader—someone who is confident and capable.
By effectively using a short line, you are demonstrating these qualities. Your calm assertiveness tells your dog that you are in charge, not out of intimidation but out of competence.
One of the fundamental aspects of training with a short line is setting clear expectations.
When your dog understands what behaviors are rewarded and which are corrected, they make better choices.
The short line is a constant, gentle guide that helps communicate these lessons.
It's not just about preventing unwanted behaviors; it's about encouraging your dog to make the right decisions on their own, promoting a sense of achievement and confidence in their daily life.
The short line not only saves you from the stress and exhaustion of running after your dogs all the time; it also prevents you from catching the dog via the collar (which is a feat on its own!).
With the short line, you can just grab the leash OR stand on the end of the leash as soon as you sense your dog gearing to bolt out.
NEVER LEAVE THE SHORT LINE ATTACHED WITHOUT ANY SUPERVISION.
Use the short line for short intervals, giving your dog a chance to learn proper behavior. Gradually increase the time as they begin to exhibit improved conduct.
The short line is effective. It has worked for tens of thousands of dogs.
But the short line is just a tool. You have to get the strategies that will make dogs know that short line = your control, first and foremost. Or else… the short line will be less effective, especially if your dog struggles to see you as the leader.
Don’t worry, I have the solution for that!
My online dog training program, The Dog Calming Code™️, helps dog owners like you learn how to be the calm, confident AND capable leader that dogs listen to!
So when you do have to use the short line, your dog already knows YOU MEAN BUSINESS and you want them to listen.
I live in the countryside where roads come with rushing cars. I love letting my dogs explore freely, but I also make sure they're still safe.
My dogs are trained, and they come when I call. But, I still carry a whistle with me every time we go out because my dogs are also adventurous; I need to make sure they don't stray off to dangerous places.
You can say that I'm a top dog trainer that doesn't rely on my voice alone for dog recall training.
Unlike the complex modulations of the human voice, a whistle emits a clear, piercing tone that a dog's ear can pick up and distinguish from the distraction of everyday sounds.
This crisp sound is unique, making it easier for dogs to associate it with a specific command: recall.
Using your voice all the time, especially over distances or in distracting environments, won't be as effective over time.
If you're constantly shouting your dog's name during recall training, your dog will find it hard to understand that your voice = urgent.
The whistle? It's calm, it's controlled, and it's constant. Because they know the sound of the whistle means "Come back here!" your dogs will come running back to you, no shouting involved.
A dog's hearing is finely tuned to pick up high-pitched sounds, which is why a whistle's sound can travel further than the human voice, standing out amongst nature's buzz or the clamor of the city.
Consistency is key in any form of training.
Unlike our voices, which can sound different when we are tired, frustrated, or excited, a whistle's tone doesn't change.
If you're going for a whistle for dog recall, what should you choose? I recommend checking out these factors, so you'll get the whistle that's best for you.
When you're in the market for a whistle, think of it as an investment in your dog's safety.
You'll want one that withstands the elements, accidental drops, and even the occasional chew if it falls into curious jaws.
Durability ensures the sound remains consistent, which is what matters most for effective recall training.
Your whistle should be as ready for adventure as your dog is.
Look for something lightweight with an option to attach to your keychain, belt loop, or around your neck.
It shouldn't be a hassle to carry; instead, it should be an extension of your outdoor gear as you go outdoors for exercise.
Sound quality isn't about music to your ears; it's about a clear, distinct signal to your dog.
A whistle with poor sound quality can fluctuate in tone, which can confuse your dog and undermine your training efforts.
It's a straightforward, trainer-endorsed tool that can help improve your training sessions. In my years of testing various whistles, this one stands out in terms of sound quality and durability.
Blow it gently before meal times or right before a play session. The goal is to get your dog to connect the sound with moments that mean, "Hey, something good is waiting for me!"
If your dog does not see you as the pack leader who is in control of everything (including them!), they will be thinking, "Why should I respond to their calls? I'm the one in charge here!"
I've seen the recall finally work for dog owners after months of training. The secret? Really becoming the leader their dogs look up to, listen to, and respond to.
With the right leadership and a great whistle on your side, you can transform your dog training journey.
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