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You may think you're going to fight for a specific amount of custody or money, but you really have to know the myths of divorce, because it can be hard to pick the right battles. In this interview you'll hear how to manage your expectations around the cost, how long it'll take, alimony, custody and more. (Guest: Kara Chroback, Family Law Attorney)

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Divorce is a big change, and it can be a hard adjustment for everyone. But what if you could master how to deal with change by adopting 5 simple mindset hacks? In this episode, we talk to Divorce Coach Jenny Stevens and learn exactly how to accomplish this with tips you can apply right now. (Guest: Jenny Stevens, Divorce Coach)

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Everyone always asks what to do with their money to prepare for a divorce, as well as how to protect it when it's over. In this episode, you'll hear from a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst how to deal with those things, as well as how to leverage your resources to make your divorce less expensive and less hostile. (Guest: Nikki Tucker, CFDA)

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Red flags can be different for different people, but there are some universal red flags that we should all be wary of. How is it that we allow ourselves to overlook and ignore red flags, and even continue staying in a relationship when we're feeling unsettled? In this episode, Brianna McCabe spills it all about the red flags we all need to watch out for, how to determine what are red flags to you, and why she wrote all about it in The Red Flags I've (Repeatedly) Ignored. (Guest: Brianna McCabe, Author)

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Getting divorced means splitting up all your stuff, and then having to buy a lot of new things for your new household - kitchenware, bedding and more. All at a time when money is tight and you are probably trying to live on a budget. in this episode, hear why Olivia Howell created the Divorce Registry and how it works. (Guest: Olivia Howell, Founder, Divorce Registry)

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Coercive control is not something we knew much about, but it turns out it occurs is many marriages - and does not stop after a divorce. It can be scary and mentally and emotionally draining, but there are ways to strategize and make sure that you are able to protect yourself and your children. This is an eye-opening episode. (Guest: Courtney Gilmartin, Founder, NJ Protective Moms)

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We always want you to find the best information you need when you need it, and our mission is to help break it al down easily so that you can. Our website is even color-coded by category, so that you know just where to find what you're looking for. This mini Divorce etc... podcast episodes is a cheat sheet on the Top 5 podcasts we've done in the myFAMILY category - all about child custody, coparenting, visitation schedules and even pets and more.

1. Organizing Your Life for Divorce - S3, Ep. 12 with Laurie Palau
2. Covering Your Ass in Real Estate During Divorce - S3, Ep. 71 with Jill Sodafsky
3. Why you Must Have a New Trust & Estate Plan Post-Divorce - S1, Ep. 12 with Laura Cowan
4. Repurposing Your Engagement Ring After Divorce? - S3, Ep. 6 with Stephanie Gottlieb
5. Top Tips for Selling Your Home After Divorce - S2, Ep. 47 with Melissa Rubenstein

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We always want you to find the best information you need when you need it, and our mission is to help break it al down easily so that you can. Our website is even color-coded by category, so that you know just where to find what you're looking for. This mini Divorce etc... podcast episodes is a cheat sheet on the Top 5 podcasts we've done in the myFAMILY category - all about child custody, coparenting, visitation schedules and even pets and more.

1. Protecting Your Kids When Divorcing a Narcissist with Christina McGhee (3, Ep. 16)

2. How Divorce Affects Kids - Are they Ok? with Amy Armstrong (S3, Ep. 7)

3. Are you co-parenting with an Asshole? with Sabrina Cronin (3, Ep. 34)

4. Harmonious Co Parenting with Luke Entrup (S4, Ep. 6)

5. Divorce Tips for Moms and Dads with Grace Casper (S3, Ep. 33)

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It doesn't have to be confusing to find the information you want and need when it comes to dealing with divorce, We know that making things simple helps, which is why color-coded our website by category, so that you know just where to find what you're looking for. This mini Divorce etc... podcast episodes is a cheat sheet on the Top 5 podcasts we've done in the mySELF category - all about career, dating, self care, support and more.

1. Narcissist vs. Asshole, There's a Difference with Ina Hanson - Part 1 and Part 2 (S2, Ep. 57 & 58)

2. Dealing with a Sexless Marriage with Kim Bowan (S2, Ep. 68)

3. How to Divorce a Difficult Person with Nowal Houghton (S2, Ep. 46)

4. Personal Story of Divorcing a Narcissist with Alyssa Dineen (S3, Ep. 26)

5. Is Divorce the Right Answer with Karen McMahon (S3, Ep. 1)

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We are here to help you through every step of your divorce - and beyond - and we want to make it easy for you to find the best information you need when you need it. We color coded our website so you can easily find what you're looking for, and this podcast episode is a cheat sheet of the Top 5 podcasts in the myWALLET category, which is all the money-related stuff - alimony, child support, paying for your divorce, handling your finances after your divorce and more.

1. How to Find Hidden Money in Divorce with Melissa Gragg, S2, Ep. 60

2. Will I Be Able to Afford my House with Emilie Flowers, S3, Ep. 10

3. Common Financial Pitfalls in Divorce with Sara Chevere, S3, Ep. 29

4. Concerns About Money During Divorce with Rhonda Noordyk

5. Divorce and Your Money Personality with Mikelann Valterra

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Our goal is to always break things down easily so that you can find the best information you need when you need it. We even have our website color-coded by category, to help you find exactly what you're looking for. This mini Divorce etc... podcast episodes is a cheat sheet on the Top 5 podcasts we've done in the myDIVORCE category - all about legal issues, finding a lawyer, what kind of divorce you want, negotiating, mediation, litigation, collaborative divorce and more.

1. Best Tips for Divorce Settlement Negotiation with Joseph Willmore (S3, Ep. 4)

2. Divorce Do's and Don'ts with Dennis Vetrano (S3, Ep. 27)

3. What Can a Retired Judge Teach you About Divorce with Hon. Ronnie Siegal (S2, Ep. 56)

4. What Can Go Wrong in Divorce Mediation with Gabrielle Hartley (S4, Ep. 4)

5. Moving Forward Through the Divorce Process with Jennifer Warren Medwin (S3, Ep. 17)

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Aren't you shocked sometimes at the crazy and stupid things people say to you after hearing you're getting divorced? It happens all the time, and it leaves us feeling defensive when it should be the other way around. This episode, with the amazing author of the book "Don't Fucking Say That" will give you the words you need to get around those situations, and help you think about it all in a way you never have before. (Guest: Mellissa Librach, Coach, Trainer & Author)

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We learn our best tips form hearing others that have gone through it, and Ilyssa Panitz has been writing and reporting on divorce for years, so she's picked up some great tips and advice from interviewing others. Here's what she learned! (Ilyssa Panitz, Divorce Journalist)

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If you feel like you aren't quite sure how to help your kids navigate the divorce, join the club! There isn't one surefire thing to say or way to navigate, but there are some key things to think about when it comes to helping your kids move forward. Hear what they are. (Guest: Christina McGhee, Divorce Parenting Expert)

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We know, you probably aren't thinking about your taxes right now, but did you know that June is the second estimated prepaid tax payment for 2025, which you have to do to avoid penalties? And you are entitled to half of your spouse's IRA or 401k, but are you calculating the taxes you'll pay on that in your divorce settlement? Taxes can get messy during divorce, and we want you to be up on everything you need to know and when. In this episode of Divorce etc..., you'll find out why you can't wait until Feb to start dealing with your taxes, and why it's so important to actually consult with an accountant in the midst of your divorce process - so that you are factoring in all of the numbers that will impact you. (Guest: Donna Stern, CPA)

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Mediation is a method that it used is so many divorces (even when you are litigating) but you can waste a LOT of money and time if you don't know how to prepare yourself. In this episode we go through five things you must do before starting mediation that will save you money. (Guest: Rebecca Stern, Pearl Mediation)

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Even though we're always giving you two perspectives on everything, we're still both women. In this week's episode, T.H. sits down with one of our favorite good guys, Daren Douglas, to talk about his community Relationships Renewed, and what other good guys are going through as they get divorced. (Guest: Daren Douglas, Certified Divorce Specialist)

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Abuse is far too common in marriages and chances are you know someone that has been or is struggling in an abusive relationship. Whether it's physical, emotional, mental, financial or some other form, just leaving the marriage does not always put an end to the abuse. In this episode T.H. talks to an expert on the different types of abuse, how to know if that's what you're dealing with, and how to stay strong after you leave. (Guest: Tina Lynn Huggins, High Conflict Divorce Coach).

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If you're interested in dating after divorce, it seems like dating apps are kind of your only option. Have you tried Tawkify? Match? JDate? Hinge? The dating app burnout is a real thing, and the truth is, there are other options for you! In this episode, dating app expert Alyssa Dineen gives us some amazing and creative ways to meet a new partner IRL, as well as ways to stay fresh on apps if that's where you want to be. (Guest: Alyssa Dineen, Style My Profile)

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If you ever feel like you're living two parallel lives while going through your divorce - you're not alone! It's very hard to separate yourself from everything that's happening in the divorce, but this episode teaches you exactly how to do that, and how to unhook from your divorce story so you can move on! (Guest: Cherie Morris, Dear Divorce Coach)

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The financial implications of divorce aren't limited to how much the settlement is worth, or how much child support or alimony is being paid. The bigger implications come with how well you understand your own situation and how you prepare yourself - and protect yourself - moving forward. This episode tells you what you should be thinking about in order to make sure you're on the right track with your money. (Guest: Hazel Secco, Founder, Align Financial Solutions)

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Mother's Day can bring up a lot of emotions when you're divorced, but this inspiring episode shows how good it can get. T.H. talks to Michelle Dempsey Multack about how their Mother's Day experiences have improved since they were married, to the first one after they were divorced up until now. It's an uplifting conversation that shows how resilient we all are, while also dealing with co-parenting, the emotional side of divorce and trying to stay focused on the kids when you're struggling yourself. (Guest: Michelle Dempsey Multack, Moms Moving On)

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The ultimate girl gang leaders, Cat & Nat, join us for a lively and laughable episode all about real life, parenting, and being raised by single divorced moms. You'll walk away with both valuable nuggets you can apply to your every day, but also new friends who understand life has its ugly parts, but explain how that doesn't have to stop you from enjoying all the great ones! (Guest: Cat & Nat, Hosts of "Cat & Nat Unfiltered")

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We've got another round-up of hot topics questions about divorce - this time we cover everything from why you need a QDRO to whether or not you need permission to change your name to common divorce mistakes. Don't forget to send us your questions to hello@exexperts.com if you'd like them answered in an upcoming episode! (Guest: Tracy Moore Grant, Divorce Attorney, Amicable Divorce Network)

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From who files first (and why it matters) to how to avoid being bullied by your lawyer, this episode goes through rapid-fire questions on what you'll want to know, for every step of the process. (Guest: Jennifer Lazor, Divorce Attorney, Lazor Rantas)

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It's the oldest question in the book...why did my spouse cheat on me? We think we know the reasons, but there is so much more involved. And since both of us (T.H. and Jess) have been there - both of our husband's had affairs - we want to help you process the feelings you have for your cheating ex and move on with your life. This is a must-hear for anyone who's been cheated on! (Guest: Erica Bennett, Empowerment Coach)

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How long do you need to take a break in dating after a breakup? A month? 6 months? A year? Is there actually a "right" or "wrong" amount of time? In this episode, we talk to Luke Entrup and Kendra Cunov, both of whom offer courses on either male or female cleansing, aka taking a break from dating. You'll hear both the guy's and girl's perspective on what every person needs after a relationship ends, to understand how they can actually find the relationship they want. Luke and Kendra have some great advice and insight that will help you understand where you are and what you actually need. (Guests: Luke Entrup, Coach and Kendra Cunov, Coach)

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It's one of those situations that sounds shocking and also probably happens more often that you think. How do you get through a situation like this? How do you work through the betrayal or feeling like you never even really knew your spouse - and most importantly, how can you move forward in a way that still allows for a productive relationship and co-parenting situation? We speak to Jessica Frew, who has been through this, and has some valuable tips and wisdom to help anyone else in this position. (Guest: Jessica Frew, Relationship Crisis Coach, The BOLD Logic)

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It's easy to get caught up in dealing with the divorce settlement, and oftentimes the lawyers can even rile you up and set you off down a path that you hadn't intended. It's complicated and can get messy and emotional. But there is a different way to divorce, if you aren't planning to litigate, and we find out exactly how in this episode! (Guest: Heather MacKenzie, Hello Divorce)

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How do you define fair versus enough? Especially when it comes to a divorce settlement, when emotions are flying high and at least one spouse if likely feeling that the final result of the negotiation should reflect their "worth." In this episode, we dig into that conversation to help people understand the difference, and how to make sure what they end up with feels both fair and is enough to move on with. (Guest: Kimberly Nelson, CDFA, Financial Advisor to High Net Worth Individuals)

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When getting divorced, the first year is always the hardest. It's the time when you are figuring out what this new life will look like, for you and your kids. And it's a time when you exprience a lot of new firsts, as you learn how to navigate and adjust. In this episode, we speak to Sarah Armstrong, an executive at Google who knows how to get things done, about how she did it and why it prompted her to wrote the book "The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce". (Guest: Sarah Armstrong, Author, The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce")

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It's both exciting and scary to start dating again after divorce, but what are some of the warning signs to look out for? Nowadays, there are a lot of people who say they're divorced when it's not finalized yet, or who aren't totally truthful about their living situation and more. How to know if you're getting the real story? This is a must hear episode with dating stories from the one and only Carmindy! (Guest: Carmindy, Founder Carmindy Beauty, Entrepreneur)

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If you have kids, then there's a very good chance there will be some type of stepparent role after your divorce - either with your new partner and their kids or your ex's new partner and your own kids. We know it's hard to accept a stepparent in your kids' lives, mostly because we don't want someone else involved in decisions being made and of course the fear of how much our kids will like/love this new person, and how it will affect our relationships with our kids. But there are so many things to know about how to be a stepparent and how to handle your kids having a stepparent, and it really doesn't have to be the nightmare we've seen in movies. We dig deep in this episode and it will be a huge help to everyone out there trying to deal with this situation. (Guest: Maria Napatov, Stepparenting Coach)

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It's not a sexy topic, but tax time is coming and there are some specific things you need to know so you don't get hit with any penalties or fees if you're getting divorced. If your divorce wasn't finalized before the end of the year, do you file jointly or separately? If you have kids, how do you determine who claims them? We go through all the important basics so you're set up for success! (Guest: Donna Stern, CPA and Financial Expert)

FYI - Divorce and Taxes Part 1 is S2, Ep 26 with Michele Spence

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Have you ever heard of harmonious coparenting? Does the expression make you cringe or smile? If you want to know ways you can actually make peace and harmony with your coparent, then this is the episode for you. It is filled with such great, actionable tips and Jessica even used one with her own ex/coparent after we recorded it with great success! The advice here is priceless and could legit change the relationship you currently have with your ex! (Guest: Luke Entrup, Teacher and Coach)

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We have heard from so many people that need help recovering from marriages to narcissists, and this episode is a great primer on how to start your recovery and move on. There are specific coping skills that are important to understand, because these relationships are very different, often involving emotional abuse which can leave you feeling both scared and scarred. In this episode you'll learn the top tips for recovering from a narcissistic relationship - as well as what all of that even means. (Kimberly Weeks, Narcissistic Abuse Coach)

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SPONSORED BY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Kimberly Nelson at Coastal Bridge Advisors. Kimberly helps divorcees learn to focus on the life they want to live, and how your money can work for you to get there. Kimberly has been a financial advisor to high-net worth divorcees across the country for nearly 20 years and she understands what we go through during divorce. With offices on both coasts, if you’re ready to speak to someone to help you get your finances and all the money stuff in order, go to www.coastalbridgeadvisors.com

The type of divorce you choose depends on who your ex is, but mediation is a common practice in several kinds of divorce. But who does it serve? What can go wrong? In this episode you'll learn exactly what goes on in mediation, how to best prepare for it, what can go wrong and how to prevent that so you come out feeling good about your result. This is a must-listen for anyone getting divorced! (Guest: Gabrielle Hartley, Divorce Lawyer & Mediator, Author Better Apart)

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Do you sometimes wonder how you even married your ex in the first place? None of us get married thinking we'll get divorced, but if it happens, we all wonder how we got here - especially if you married an extremely difficult person. If you're wondering what's wrong with you or how you allowed this to happen because you wouldn't even be friends with them, then take comfort in knowing you are not alone! So many of us find ourselves asking those very same questions, and our guest in this episode will help you dig deep to find answers that can help you move forward in a positive way. (Guest: Tracy Ross, LCSW & Founder, Redefining Relationships)

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SPONSORED BY ⁠⁠SIMPLY B ORGANIZED⁠⁠. LAURIE PALAU HOSTS THE PODCAST, THIS ORGANIZED LIFE, WHERE SHE CHATS WITH EXPERTS, CELEBS, AND EVERYDAY PEOPLE (LIKE US!) ABOUT ORGANIZING EVERY ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE - WORK, PARENTING, HEALTH, FINANCES AND MORE. HEAR US AS GUESTS ON THIS ORGANIZED LIFE PODCAST ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ AND FOLLOW & SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE OR ANY PODCAST PLATFORM.

There's one thing both a new year and divorce have in common...and it's that both make you start thinking about who you are and who you want to be. Divorce is a huge change, but there are so many meaningful lessons to be learned about how to trust yourself, how to understand what it is you're looking for, and how to fully invest yourself in what you want. In this episode you will learn how to actually reintroduce yourself to you - what would you say? This concept will have a huge impact on your life. (Guest: Cheldin Barlatt Rumer , CEO of This is It Network)

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Finding yourself suddenly single sucks, no matter how old you are. But it can also be a time for reinvention, inspiration and rediscovery. In this episode, we hear about how one woman's divorce propelled her into a new business and into a second phase in life, and how her own story has inspired others to follow their own path. (Guest: Jennifer Polt, Making Up for Glossed Time)

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In this special episode, we invite Jessica's ex to come on and face the music...we mean share his feelings and opinions about their marriage and divorce. Hear from both of them on what worked, what didn't, and what they think of each other as exes today. (Guest: Daren Herzberg, Jessica's ex husband)

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There's a new trend we're hearing about when it comes to dating after divorce - mate poaching. This isn't cheating, exactly, but it's when someone sets up a situation with the ultimate goal of stealing someone's partner. The crazy part is that the one being poached has no idea...and it has real consequences and ruins relationships. One of our favorite relationship and dating coaches explains all the details, how to know if you're being poached and what you can (and should!) do to stop it. (Guest: ⁠Jennifer Hurvitz, Doing Relationships Right⁠)

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Have you ever been worried that your ex drinks too much or struggles with addiction? This is a very difficult issue to deal with, especially around the holidays, when experts say the problem can increase significantly. How do you keep yourself and your children safe? This episode will help you identify the patterns to watch out for, how to determine if there is truly a problem, and how you can deal with it. The tips and advice you'll hear can help anyone you know that is struggling with a partner who is an addict. (Guest: ⁠Kim Kassnove, Life & Relationship Coach⁠)

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Your ex may be an asshole, but how can you tell if what you're dealing with is considered emotional abuse? If you're struggling and not sure you can make it work, then you need to hear this episode. We talk to podcast host and author Kate Anthony, who helps us hear the hard things, while also helping you come to terms with where you are, and how to move forward. (Guest, Kate Anthony, host Divorce Survival Guide podcast, author The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision about Your Marriage)

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If you want to know the secrets on how to get your shit together after divorce, then you've come to the right place. We all wonder how everyone else does it, while we feel like we're barely keeping our heads above water. This episode shines light on how to help yourself so you're the one people are wondering about! (Guest: Jamie Hess, @NYCFitFam, Founder of Radical Wellness system & The Big Ask coaching program)

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Are you excited about or dreading the holidays? Either way, it's natural to have feelings around the holiday season, and we've learned a LOT over the years after our divorces. We've compiled some of our best tips to help you survive the holidays, including what to do about holiday cards, gifts, budgeting and what if you are solo - you can still enjoy the holidays, just make a plan. (T.H. & Jess)

It's an interesting phenomenon, but it's very common to find yourself back in the arms of an old flame after getting divorced. Whether it's a high school or college love, or even an old camp fling, almost everyone we know has been there. We talk to Dating and Relationship expert Jennifer Hurvitz about why this is the case, and whether or not it can ever work. (Guest: Jennifer Hurvitz, Doing Relationships Right)

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When is it worth taking your ex back to court? Just being unsatisfied with the settlement you reached probably won't be worth it, but if there have been material changes or you have solid reason that things should be changed, then it might be. We ask all those questions so you'll understand what your best options - and chances are - if you find yourself considering whether to back to court. (Guest: Kimberly Cook, Divorce Lawyer & Mediator, Host of Grown Girl Divorce podcast)

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So many women wonder what men are thinking when it comes to dating post divorce, and how to approach finding a new partner in a way men actually respond to. This week's episode sheds light on the way men think about all of this, because we talk to a dating coach that specializes in working with men. If you're single and ready to mingle, you have to listen to this! (Guest: Celeste Moore, Image & Dating Consultant)

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It's time to shift the narrative on divorce, and instead of looking at it as a source of trauma, what about understand it as a source of empowerment? Getting divorced is a huge decision and can be very scary, so you should try and recognize your own inner strength and what it takes to say no, that you won't stay in an unhappy relationship and that oyu deserve more. If you've never heard of holistic divorce, then this is your chance, and this episode is a powerful reminder of what you're capable of. (Guest: Olga Nadal, Holistic Divorce Coach)

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