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In this candid conversation, Liliana and Melania open up about dating, singleness, and why it’s vital to break the silence around the taboos of sex, relationships, and love.

Marital rape is non-consensual sex within a marriage. It is a form of sexual violence and a violation of human rights. Despite being deeply traumatic, many women suffer in silence—trapped by fear, shame, or cultural expectations. Let’s break the silence. Let’s talk about marital rape.

Anne and Libby are two of the contributors to the newly released book Sex, Dating & Relationships. In this episode, they reflect on how much they wish they’d had a resource like this as teenagers — and share the lessons they believe would have made a difference in their own relationships.

Rev. Simione reflects on Fiji’s battle against drugs and shares his personal story of walking alongside his daughter as she fights her own struggle with addiction.

All these topics and much more were discussed on the latest episode with Miri Davila

Mercedes Swan is the founder of Mama Talano, a new support group dedicated to supporting Pasifika mothers. She shares her heartfelt reasons for starting the group and her hopes for the impact it will make.

For the first time, Jane (not her real name) opens up about her painful experiences—sharing her story to inspire healing, end silence, and break the cycle of shame across Fiji.

Sera, Vani & Amelia have played an important role in contributing to this resource. They talk about how the book has impacted and helped them and the need to get this book into the hands of our youth.

Daniel & Sereana Wood have been involved in the production of this new resource for Fijian Youth. In this episode they talk about why they are passionate to see this book spread far & wide and why as parents it's important that your kids get hold of this book.

Ps. Conan Hatch, a member of the pro-life organisation Life Runners in Fiji, joins this episode to discuss the reasons behind abortions and the vital role the church can play in supporting pregnant women and their partners. Learn more at preciouslifefiji.com

She was groomed from the age of 5 by her uncle and then fell pregnant at the age of 15. Reena shares about the rejection of her family and how she has rebuilt her life to become an overcomer.

In this episode, Ritchie and Letitia unpack the difference between love and lust.

Being a survivor herself, Etta has been a strong voice against the abuse of women. In light of the recent murders of women in Fiji, in this interview, Etta openly shares her heart. Let’s keep talking.

Adelyn was abused by the same man as Rosie (Episode 114). She is another young woman who is tired of the silence that surrounds abuse in Fiji. She is breaking her silence. It’s time for change, time that we report perpetrators & bring justice for the sake of future generations.

There is a new generation of young Fijian woman who are not willing to continue the culture of silence & shame. They are speaking out, sharing their stories and seeking healing. Be inspired by Talei and her journey.

Rosie was sexually abused as a young girl. In this episode she talks about the impact that experience has had on her life and the importance of seeking healing & help.

A Powerful Story - Tune in to this second episode for 2025 as Ps. Apenisa shares what led him into same sex relationships as a young boy, the struggles he endured and the freedom he found.

If you broke a leg, you would seek immediate medical attention. Similarly, when we experience abuse, it's crucial to reach out for help and healing. In this episode, I interview Amelia, a survivor of abuse, who bravely shares her personal healing journey. She discusses the important role her friend Sera has played in supporting her throughout this process. Sera runs healing camps for individuals who have experienced abuse. Tune in to learn more about this impactful initiative and how it is helping others on their journey to recovery. Fiji has a number of organisations that offer help and support. Check out https://disruptivevoicespacific.com/find-help/

Tupou is the mother of Mele, who I have interviewed twice. Mele was the first woman I spoke to three years ago when she courageously broke her silence about the abuse she experienced. In a culture where many issues are often ignored or hidden, Tupou emphasizes the significance of speaking. She shares how this openness has brought a sense of freedom and healing to her daughter, Mele.

We know them as the family that writes and sings. But in this interview they talk about their marriage, how they met, how they navigate the ups & downs of working so closely together. Thank you to the Lacanivalu Transformation Revival Sounds for your vulnerability and for sharing your lives with us.

Vani is back! In this episode, she talks about ways she has rebuilt her life after divorcing her abusive husband.

Ps Tiko is back to discuss the importance of coming alongside our youth while dating. Helping them understand boundaries, accountability and dating in a way to win.

There are specific warning signs in a guy's behaviour or lifestyle that should make us pause and ask, "Is this someone I really want to date?" Daniel returns to discuss the traits he notices in certain guys that he would never want his daughters to date.

Breakups can be painful and take time to get over. This episode with Joe covers some practical ways to help us move on in a healthy way.

What can youth be doing now in their single years that will prepare them for a healthy sex life when they are married? In this episode, Pastor Daniel Wood gives some very practical advice.

Interview with Retired Adventist Pastor Regarding Allegations against Fiji Adventist President. Ps Cakobau first became aware of the allegations against SDA president in 2020. At the time he spoke with Ps Nasoni urging him to do the right thing. Weighed down by the cover-ups, the silencing of leaders and criticism towards the victim Ps Cakobau has chosen to speak up.

Ps. Tiko has been married to his wife Shelley for 29 years. He discusses the values that have made their relationship healthy.

🎙️Why has the SDA Church Leadership in the Trans Pacific Union (TPUM) not allowed Adsafe Training for their Church leaders in Fiji, Samoa and Tonga? Was the South Pacific Division (SPD) Leadership aware, and why didn’t they intervene?

A local woman is breaking her silence. Recently she lodged a report to the Police against the President of the Seven Day Adventist Church Fiji for abduction & attempted rape. She is telling her story in the hope that other women might come forward too. Thank you for your courage. She has chosen to not show her face or name and remain anonymous. If you have a story please send me a message.

Breaking up from a relationship can be very painful and messy. In this episode we discuss some practical ways to break up well.

In this episode of the Disruptive Voices of the Pacific, Mele bravely opens up about her past life & how it has impacted her emotionally, physically & spiritually.

Last week you heard from the girls and this week it's time to hear from Joe & Terry what they wish girls knew about them.

Recently I sat down with Yashna Nand and Miss Hibiscus Melania Tora to discuss things that they wish guys knew, but you don't always get the chance to let them know.

This is a growing issue in Fiji and on this episode I interview Ruci Tukana who breaks down what technological facilitated abuse is and how it is impacting on people.

When it comes to helping our young people navigate sex, dating & relationships our fathers have a very important role. In this episode Ps. Daniel Wood discusses the impact the dad has in their children's lives.

Many young people dream of marrying that "special" one, but so often it can end in heartbreak. Matai & Mei have been married for 41 years and now run a marriage course to help other couples. In this episode they talk about marriage "killers" and what young people can start doing now to prepare for marriage.

There can be a lot of pressure as a single woman to be dating & in a relationship. There is nothing wrong with being single. In this interview Melania talks about her journey and how she is choosing to live in this season of her life. So much great wisdom in this episode.

Vani found herself in a very toxic relationship for a number of years which led her to believe particular lies. In this episode she uncovers these lies and why she believed them.

It’s Q & A with Ritchie on Sex Dating & Relationship. Answering some of your questions. Thanks for all your messages and questions!

Are you living in shame because of past mistakes, current addictions or things that have happened to you?? The great news is, there is hope for you. Listen to this episode in our series on Sex Dating & Relationships.

In this episode, Letitia discusses with Ps. Daniel what is the purpose of sex? God created sex for a specific purpose, with clear boundaries. When sex is used for other purposes, it brings pain, heartache and even disease. It's time to talk about sex!

I'm back with Ritchie & Terry talking about how they treat women in their lives, but also what are some of the red flags in how guys treat young women.

An open discussion with three great men - Ritchie, Naca & Terry - about how they were exposed to porn and how they stopped watching it.

Thanks Ritchie & Naca for sharing your dating experiences as young men.

Why date?

Who hasn't made mistakes during dating? But some mistakes can have a devastating impact on your life. Miri joins Letitia to discuss some of the mistakes she has made in past dating relationships. She speaks out in order to help others not to make the same mistakes.

Katrina is a disruptor for good. In this interview she talks about the change she is bringing to Tonga through leadership, business and helping the vulnerable. We all have the ability to bring change, be inspired by Katrina's life.

This episode is a positive story of an ordinary woman who saw an important need in her settlement and did something about it. Roko is a mother of 7, teaching 30-40 children literacy every Saturday morning in her home. Be inspired by her passion.

Molested as a young girl, Ela Waqanivavalagi is now part of the Breaking the Silence Team that speaks up to break the silence that exists around abuse. In this interview you will hear more about the work of Breaking the Silence and also you will be informed about there conference coming up in June. To register for Be The Voice Conference go to https://youengage.me/p/66314818981abb010002587e For more information email Ela at elafinauw@icloud.com

Louisa is the author of "Island Queen Journal." As a victim of abuse Louisa talks about the powerful role that journaling played in her own healing and wants to encourage women of all ages to write down what they are going through. Louisa will inspire you with hope. Grab your journal from JBROS in Nabua Suva today!