Donny and I talk about 7 common mistakes we see people making in AB/DL. And you may be missing out because of these. 1. Thinking that women don't go to events. 2. Not going to event at all. 3. Not paying attention to red flags! 4. Pushing AB/DL onto others without consent. 5. Confusing fantasy with reality. 6. Pigeonholing yourself to one thing. 7. Finding a caregiver isn't the end goal. Do you agree or disagree? Sound off in the comments! Make sure to watch Part 1 "5 ABDL Mistakes You may be Making!" https://youtu.be/6PpAvU946JQ?si=b2Fqx-qsgUWoPklR And "5 Mistakes at AB/DL Conventions!" https://youtu.be/uD-ouZmEELs?si=9cbhUuvAhFCzB6sp

Get to know Baby Donny! You've seen him on my youtube videos, maybe seen him or hung with him at one of the many national events he attends... get to know Baby Donnys (Aka. famous pornstar Draven Navarro) ongoing ABDL journey & the secret to his diaper confidence.

All my links at Diaperperv.com

Baby Donny at Draven Navarro Twitter

There's been a lot more eyes on the terms AB/DL, ageplayer, diaper lovers & adult babies in the media lately! With that comes a LOT of misconceptions and stereotypes, mainly due to the media & those that aren't great representatives of the lifestyle that talk to the media. Adult babies are not... well you'll just have to watch it! Adult babies are: 1. productive members of society from all walks of life. 2. aware of cleanliness & hygeine.

3. keep listening! Joined by my long time non-abdl friend Ashley who's also learning about the lifestyle!! (Note: Ashley is a stage name she picked for this video & she'd forget when we referred to her as "Ashley." LOL) ABDL terminology & slang video: https://youtu.be/0r9vjSwFZ6I Adult Babies in media are false: https://youtu.be/fa082Ys80jQ

ALL my links at: http://www.diaperperv.com

Just in time for Capcon 2024! Baby Donny, my non-ABDL friend Ashley and I (Diaperperv) talk about ways to overcome shyness, get out there and engage with people! There's lot of tips and our own stories. I think almost all of us has been there and events can be quite intimidating when you're new, or not new. It's normal to feel nervous but what if your shyness is preventing you from living your life to the fullest! Ashley's got some great advice! Watch "Attending my 1st Capcon alone & how I dealt with shyness:    • AB/DL Event Anxiety - 1st Capcon was ...   In all honestly, I don't think we 3 were the best at giving "shyness tips" because we're not really shy or have social anxiety or anxiety in general. So take the discussion as it is & we'd like to do better next time.

All my links at: http://www.diaperperv.com

Thanks AB Universe for sending the new Tiny Tails positional printed, plastic backed adult diapers for us to try out! Ok, Donny and I have NEVER done an official product review and I can guarantee it is NOT professional or serious like the other channels that do diaper reviews... ours is a hot mess! But it does include the very important crinkle test!! Direct link to ABU Tiny Tails: http://us.abuniverse.com/products/tinytails Follow Donny on Twitter @Draven_navarro Diaperperv can be found at http://www.diaperperv.com

Ask me ANYTHING about my time as a Diaper Fantasy Facilitator from 2015-2020. Let's tackle some of the hard questions, I go on a mini-rant & what the most # of times someones finished in their diaper?? PART 2 of the questions YOU asked and I answered!!

Watch PART 1 of AMA as a diaper fantasy facilitator here: https://youtu.be/avHw8UTkhvI?si=yXPtcSlF8XNmfQRM

Next video will be a Youtube Live of my updated AB/DL Bucketlist!

Find and follow me at: http://www.diaperperv.com

Ask me ANYTHING about my time as a Diaper Fantasy Facilitator for 6 years, from 2015-2020. Let's tackle some of the hard questions, I go on a mini-rant & what the most # of times someones cum in their diaper??

PART 2 of the questions YOU asked and I answered!!

Watch PART 1 of AMA as a diaper fantasy facilitator here: https://youtu.be/avHw8UTkhvI?si=yXPtcSlF8XNmfQRM

Next video will be a Youtube Live of my updated AB/DL Bucketlist!

Find and follow me at: http://www.diaperperv.com

Incon Diaper reviewer & Youtuber ⁠@howtowearadultdiapers⁠  comes over to try on his new Changing Times Diaper Co onesie & I ask him awkward questions... topics he has never talked about on camera!! Yes, I kinda pushed his boundaries & I loved it! Also, Is Capcon too wild!?!? What do you think?! The IG media sure makes it out to be! Watch ⁠ @howtowearadultdiapers ⁠ & I shop at Changing Times here: ⁠https://youtu.be/Jxyz1XZYWoM?si=YAYW8EXUpGRiqFZw⁠ Diaperpervs links are all here: ⁠http://www.diaperperv.com

It's an ASK ME ANYTHING during my time as a pro diaper fantasy facilitator from 2015-late 2020!! You asked and I answered. I was actually hoping you'd ask some SPICIER questions, so these are all pretty tame.

This is part 1, where I answer 15 of your questions, no holds barred!!

How did I determine prices?

Grossest thing that happened?

Difficult clients?

Stay tuned for Part 2 next Friday.

Follow me at http://www.diaperperv.com or just Google my name!

It's an ASK ME ANYTHING during my time as a pro diaper fantasy facilitator from 2015-late 2020!! You asked and I answered. I was actually hoping you'd ask some SPICIER questions, so these are all pretty tame.

This is part 1, where I answer 15 of your questions, no holds barred!!

How did I determine prices?

Grossest thing that happened?

Difficult clients?

Stay tuned for Part 2 next Friday.

Follow me at http://www.diaperperv.com or just Google my name!

There's been a number of different books on the topic of AB/DL, ageplay and infantilism (whatever words is being used in that era.) So are they good or bad overall? I "try" to stay unbiased but I think you can tell by my facial expressions how I feel about certain authors I am holding.

 @howtowearadultdiapers  does a fantastic job of staying neutral and unbiased!! What do you think? Have you read any of the books & would you give them to your friends/family as guides? My personal fave authors have been Paul Rulof & Penny Barber because they don't try to explain being "ABDL" under generalizations but give examples on how to engage and enjoy it. Yes, this video was a tad rushed as  @howtowearadultdiapers  had to catch a flight & definitely needed a change first, hehehe. Be sure to follow him on his channel!!! You can find all my links here: http://www.diaperperv.com

Diaperperv has never been to any of the AB/DL smaller house party/weekend gatherings & she's only been to either conventions or munches.

Her friend Greejay has ONLY been to the smaller scale weekend house parties. So let's walk through how to go to one of these events & what happens.

If you're new to my podcast, I also have 3 years worth of AB/DL educational videos on my youtube.com/diaperperv channel where my friends and I discuss everything ageplay & adult diaper related! and sometimes we just ramble about whatever.

A very LONG WINDED conversation about how to find a good pro-diaper fantasy facilitator and mitigate your risks of getting ripped off. In short (really, this convo could have been a total of 6 minutes long)

1. Remove your emotions during the search process.

2. Vet them! Remember, they're working for you!

3. Communicate what you want out of the experience.

4. Do a video/text/voice session first. 5. If you don't have a good feeling, keep searching!

Finding a great facilitator who clicks with you might take some searching or traveling. Try out different people. And organize yourself and your thoughts before but also keep an open mind while you're meeting people. Don't forget to have fun. YOLO!

Diaperperv can be found at http://www.diaperperv.com

JayBDL is Switchbacks on FL.

Incon Diaper reviewer & Youtuber @howtowearadultdiapers  comes over to try on his new Changing Times Diaper Co onesie & I ask him awkward questions... topics he has never talked about on camera!! Yes, I kinda pushed his boundaries & I loved it! Also, Is Capcon too wild!?!? What do you think?! The IG media sure makes it out to be! Watch  @howtowearadultdiapers  & I shop at Changing Times here: https://youtu.be/Jxyz1XZYWoM?si=YAYW8EXUpGRiqFZw Diaperpervs links are all here: http://www.diaperperv.com

There's a lot of DL's (Diaper Lovers) that personally don't feel like events labelled as ABDL & ageplay don't pertain to them. So JayBDL and I (Diaperperv) chat about it!

There are indeed DLs that go to ABDL events & sometimes they do some of the ageplay things to fit in. There are a lot of ageplayers that started as DLs first.

If you're a DL, what would you like a DL only event to look like? What activities should there be? Do you think they should be separate from general ageplay & ABDL events?

7 Questions you may be asked if you come out as ABDL.

JayBDL can be found as "Switchbacks" on Fetlife.

Diaperperv can be found at http://www.diaperperv.com

JayBDL and I (Diaperperv) talk about when your interests in diapers wane/cycle off/don't interest you. We deep dive into why it might happen. How often it happens for us & if we get concerned when it does (I certainly do!) I question what we are & aren't in control of & how it worries me. Have you ever been not interested in diapers? NOT a purge, but more like a "No Urge?" How long did it last & what did you do to respark it?

Diaperpervs Forever Purge. Are we REALLY in control of what we like??? https://youtu.be/NnowWKMIDcE?si=vichOfrx7XW_KkVY

Diaperperv can be found at http://www.diaperperv.com

JayBDL is "Switchbacks" on Fetlife.

JayBDL and I have a casual conversation about my 1st Capcon experience & how nervous I was. I went alone & didn't know what to expect... What was it like walking into the hotel & what happened after?? IT WAS TERRIFIYING but I did it and 1000's of folks have done it over the years, so you can too!

I still have anxiety when I crush on someone; I'll freak out & clam up! Sorry for the bad audio; this was an impromptu recording using my cell phone.

You can find all my links at http://www.diaperperv.com

JayBDL is Switchbacks on Fetlife.

I answer your questions you asked me on social media, 2023 edition! Stuff like: How was the scene changed? How should I tell my family? Has my interests changed? Advice for living in rural areas? Would I have my own brand of AB/DL diapers & many more!

Find all my links at http://www.diaperperv.com

It's my first solo video in awhile so I panic attacked & blanked out through all of this video! Someone asked "How to ABDL cons compare to other cons" so I made a video about it! There's a lot of similarities regarding programming & activities but what are the differences? Who goes to cons & why? I do my best to try and answer these while blanking out. LOL. Sorry. I promise the next video will be better! Find all my links & sites at http://www.diaperperv.com

Are you ABDL & also either bi or bicurious?? You're NOT alone & there's quite a few of you out there from my personal experience (yay!) but it's kinda hard to share that with others when you're not comfortable with your own thoughts of being not entirely heterosexual. Let's talk about it!! Donny is bi & I (Diaperperv) have experimented when I was younger & I'm a 0 on the Kinsey scale. Kinsey scale: https://kinseyinstitute.org/research/publications/kinsey-scale.php Follow Donny at http://www.twitter.com/draven_navarro ALL Diaperpervs links http://www.diaperperv.com

I catch up with Baby Donny as he talks about his big New York trip for his 40th birthday! It just happened to be Folsom East in NY & how does it compare to Folsom West in San Fransisco? Fire island fun & also Pup Kenzo's Littlez Party NYC was a great turnout! Follow Donny at http://www.twitter.com/draven_navarro Find me (Diaperperv) at http://www.diaperperv.com

JayBDL & Diaperperv sit down to create his fantasy AB/DL medical scene. I've made a video about "Communicating your Fantasies" but what does person to person negotiations look like in real life? We talk about all the elements involved! From the storyline beginning-middle-end, to implements and props. THEN, we're gonna FILM IT!! (It'll be on my stores Friday, July 7th) Sorry for the weird look on my face; I hate being on camera & dread the filming portion of the scene we discuss.

PDF class on creating your fantasy: http://www.myvegasnursery.com/dreamscene.pdf Diaperpervs links at: http://www.diaperperv.com JayBDL is Swtichbacks on Fetlife

More SPICY ABDL questions Part 2. We answer random questions from a question box except this time, all 3 of us answer the same questions.!

This one isn't as exciting as the 1st one we did: https://youtu.be/ZHhkScsEDlY because the questions were kinda... meh.

At one point, I thought Donny fell asleep.

Diaperpervs links are all at http://www.diaperperv.com

Donny can be found at http://www.twitter.com/draven_navarro

Livewire25 is on Fetlife

I was highly amused while editing this because I was SO TRIGGERED just talking about it that I could not properly communicate and articulate myself, LOL. All I can do is laugh about it now. Ever since I got online at 19 and found out I was not alone in my interests... I've been scrutinized, been suspicious of, questioned about whether I'm "real" or if I actually have the fetishes I have & not believed. Why does this still happen?? Seriously though, I think there's enough of me online to show you who I am at this point.

Thank you to JayBDL (Switchbacks on FL) for talking through this with me & helping me see another point of view.

Why does it appear there's less kinky women online than men? I think I may have figured out one reason... because they're inundated with creepy messages right off the bat.... and I'm NOT even a diaper girl so I can't imagine how many crazy messages they get. This is why I chose to lurk online when I was younger. I read a small sampling of the ridiculous messages I get. NOTE: I am ALL for freedom of speech, so please write whatever you want but please be aware of how it can come across for the other person. My goal is... to see lifestyle kinksters of all genders & non-genders feel safe to be themselves online. WE CAME UP WITH SOLUTIONS for the folks that get these messages, on how to deal with them better! Solutions at 16.00 Are you female presenting & get a ton of non-appropriate messages? Comment below! JayBDL is Switchbacks on Fetlife. Diaperperv can be found at http://www.diaperperv.com

BB Donny & Diaperperv do a deep psychological exploration of why people enjoy spanking, both as the giver and the receiver. How and why does one enjoy it? How does it relate to his little space? and which implements to use for what purpose. I have SO many questions!

Do you enjoy spankings?

All diaperpervs links at http://www.diaperperv.com

Donny can be found at http://www.twitter.com/draven_navarro

BB Donny just came back from IML (International Mr Leather) in Chicago where there were diaper boys & diaper parties. We have a chill hangout & chat about his experiences at Mr Leather, diapers in kink/BDSM spaces & that we both can't go to Diaperactive in July, which totally sucks. I'm trying a NEW unstructured hangout, chill conversation format right now... Donny can be found at  @dravennavarro9136  & on http://www.Twitter.com/draven_navarro Diaperpervs links are at http://www.diaperperv.com

Have you been messaging other AB/DLs online and getting few or no responses? Even we message people and don't get responses because maybe we're not their thing. BUT let's evaluate what you're writing, what WE personally respond to and how we can craft interesting messages with intent for a higher probability for someone to respond to! Livewire25, Baby Donny! and Diaperperv all discuss our "no responses" messages, what gets our attention & what we personally respond to, which is all different and subjective! Follow Baby Donny! on his twitter

Diaperpervs links are all here

Livewire25 is on fetlife

I had made a "How to Join the Community" in early 2020 on my youtube channel, but here's a more updated version! Livewire25, Baby Donny! and I discuss stuff like: Does the AB/DL community even exist? Setting realistic expectations. Then we talk about the 4 most common things that people complain about when entering: "No ones getting back to me" "There's no events in my area" "I'm not getting what I want; I'm leaving!"

Donny is on www.twitter.com/draven_navarro

Livewire25 is on Fetlife

Diaperpervs links can be found at www.diaperperv.com

I bought a deck of random sex questions so guests Baby Donny & Livewire25 and I take turns in answering them pertaining to AB/DL and diapers. Just a light hearted, fun episode. How do you incorporate sex/intimacy with your fetish?

Diaperpervs youtube channel!

All Diaperpervs Links here!

Donny's on Twitter.

Livewire25 is on Fetlife

Welcome again friends! Todays video is a segway from  @ZaciRoo  last weeks video on breaking the "Binge & Purge" cycle. If we are accepting of our kinks/fetishes & interests, maybe we wouldn't purge as much or at all! We share our own personal stories of our journey & how we found our own internal acceptance!! With Zaciroo , Livewire25, Greejay & SailorinDips. Then we spin the wheel of random topics.

Diaperpervs links can be found here!

Zaciroos helpful youtube channel

Livewire25, Greejay & SailorinDips can all be found on Fetlife!

Diaperperv & BB Donny (@Draven_Navarro on Twitter) talks about his AB/DL convention, Capcon 2023 experience & why he had a meltdown one night. We reflect on how he would do it differently and how important communicating expectations are. Then we talk about why I chose not to go to Capcon "Because I don't believe in community" and get excited about Diaperactive this April 29th.

Follow BB Donny at on his @draven_navarro twitter

All Diaperpervs links are here!

Capcon Website here!

ALL MY RANTS everywhere all at once. I just need to get all my pet peeves out of my system since they're bleeding into other episodes in some way or another. I'm sure you have your own set of rants & peeves about the AB/DL world. My opinions are my own & I know my experiences will be unique to all your experiences. After this, let's try and concentrate on the things that we enjoy... diapers!

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My Youtube Channel

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The 4 letters of ABDL (adult baby diaper lover) can encompass any number of interests but not everyone even identifies as AB/DL?  Do you identify with this umbrella term & what does it mean to you.  Why is it important to define HOW you AB/DL?  So you can seat goals on what you want out of all this and also explain to others how you engage or want to engage in this world.
JayBDL is Switchbacks on Fetlife
Diaperpervs Links Found Here
Checklist of ABDL interests

I know it can get boring having ABDL kinks/interests by yourself but Donny, Livewire and JayBDL all chime in with ways they try to keep it entertaining and fun for themselves. Hope you get some new ideas or scenarios to try out & keep it light & fun everyone! Comment below with your favorite solo play ideas! Find me at http://www.diaperperv.com Some of my older ABDL videos that you may find helpful: Joining the ABDL Community (updated) https://youtu.be/9ukRSoNDTDE?si=YSMwwFpHwQUvQALF Being your own Big! https://youtu.be/UsROGSIN5NY?si=1ydOC3hDl_yZ-ib1 ABDL Events Guide: https://youtu.be/Aitf1O2KJdU?si=jAttKeYfoZ2Y3jvu

ABDL Lifestyle Podcast with your host Diaperperv & assorted friends!  In this first episode, we share our most embarrassing AB/DL stories involving our favorite article of clothing, our crinkly undies!  We've got Livewire25, SailorinDips and Greejay sharing some hilarious & horrifying stories, some on military ships!  Hit subscribe for more AB/DL lifestyle discussions!
All my links here!

Join Diaperperv & AB/DL friends, Zaciroo, Greejay, SailorinDips & Livewire25 on a panel discussion about dealing with emergency dip situations such as diaper tapes ripping, leaking in public and more!  
All my links here! This is diaperpervs new podcast covering AB/DL & Diaper Lover lifestyles, observations and opinions on a variety of topics! 

For many, diapers + "punishment" go hand in hand. For some, just having someone put the diaper on is punishment enough, but what else is there? I've had SO many requests for AB/DL's whose partners need help for "diaper punishment" ideas & they don't really know what to do. We all pitch in with ideas; Donny & Livewire have some great ones! We also do a show & tell of different devices & fun "toys" to enhance the experience! JayBDL does a great job of moderating us and keeping it flowing.

There's a LOT of toys shown so if you can, please watch it on Youtube

Do you have any favorite "diaper punishment" ideas? Share them below!!

That's right! JayBDL actually told his mom about his diaper fetish & ABDL interests. So how did she react? Listen & find out. Diaperperv & JayDBL discuss who we've all told in our lives & what their reactions were. Why would you even want anyone in your life to know about it?? We discuss that too! NOTE: We were driving as we recorded this (on my phone) so there's steady background road noise. I tried to de-noise it but it just sounded even weirder.

We cover this sex topic AGAIN but in much more detail. It really helps when JayBDL moderates us as we talk about all the different ways to incorporate our diaper fetish with penetrative adult fun! We also cut a hole into the ABU Tiny Tails to make a DSD (diaper s3x diaper!) for some wholesome crafting. Baby Donny can be found on twitter as @draven_navarro Livewire25 can be found on FL. Diaperperv & my socials can be found at http://www.diaperperv.com

Earlier this week,  @ZaciRoo  shared his 2024 ABDL wishlist so now it's my turn to share mine!! I don't think most of these will happen but let's but it out into the ABUniverse anyways. These are not my personal wishes, just general wishes that I think would benefit the community! What's on your AB/DL wishlist this year?? The current AB/DL worldwide events list is at http://www.whyabdl.org/events (email him if you want your event listed) http://www.diaperperv.com for all my links & socials!

Why are there so many scammers (successfully) trying to take advantage of AB's and DL's in the scene? What is considered a scam & what is not?  @ZaciRoo  & I talk about the different ways scammers try to fleece you & the warning signs to look for! More people are probably scammed than we know because it is embarrassing to admit it if you were. Please DON'T send anonymous online people face pics/vids of yourself & don't send anyone money that you don't know and trust. All Diaperpervs links!

You asked them on social media & we (Livewire25 & I) answer them. I actually missed a few questions that I had saved on my phone; whoopsies. I feel like some of our answers weren't the most thought out but we tried our best! Drop any advice below in the comments.

Diaperpervs Links are here!

Some are "WTH" moments in the modern ABDL timeline and some are actual mainstream events that involved diapers that have gone viral!

Joined by Greejay & SailorinDips plus an anonymous ABDL; we have a blast talking about all these fun & crazy things that have happened. Not all are bad things. All in-community drama avoided.

All Diaperpervs Links are here!

Join SleepySunflower (FetLife) and Diaperperv as we work out our personal ABDL boundaries on video, LOL. What happens when our boundaries get crossed, how to we discover our boundaries and learning how to say no. How do we communicate it to others?Then we try Jelly Belly "Beanboozled" where you don't know if the jelly bean is a yummy flavor or a GROSS flavor! Could it be Juicy Pear or Booger?! Find out with us!

My links can be found at http://www.diaperperv.com

I'm answering more of your questions today (from YT, FB & Twitter). Stuff like: How can we foster a better ABDL community to What to bring for babs on the go!

You can watch the AMA part 1 (Reddit edition) here: https://youtu.be/COthEmCT_bo?si=KmQrnpdJuBy8S2Dq

For my Ask Me Anything about ABDL Sessions (last year), here's part 1: https://youtu.be/avHw8UTkhvI?si=TQ9ueMgrNefQOroCand part 2: https://youtu.be/OnxJz1O_F7U?si=GnKAscmqySxiERmF

Thanks for all your interesting & fun questions! Until then, here are all my links: http://www.diaperperv.com

We've got Diaperperv (straight), MuscleDogSlayer (gay) and Baby Donny (bi) having a casual and honest discussion about the differences & similarities between gay, straight and mixed ABDL events. Is there drama in both circles? Do you go to different events or do you stick to one type only?Add MuscleBard https://bsky.app/profile/musclebard.bsky.social

BabyDonny is http://www.twitter.com/Draven_navarro on Twitter.

Diaperperv can be found at http://www.diaperperv.com

It's been 3 years since my last AMA. I did an "Ask Me Anything about being an EX-Pro Diaper Fantasy Facilitator" last year here: https://youtu.be/avHw8UTkhvI?si=Gk9YU0_eD4wv738H and Part 2 here: https://youtu.be/OnxJz1O_F7U?si=QKYkU4QR4DeRix0uThere were so many questions, I had to split it in two. I balanced them the best I could; most of these are from Reddit. Enjoy and leave any comments below. Join me next week for more of your questions answered! All my links at: http://www.diaperperv.com

It's Diaperperv, Livewire25, SleepySunflower and her daddy RecklessJay here to share some ABDL and general kink advice! We talk about some of the non engaging and less than stellar messages we've gotten and how that can affect peoples perceptions of you when you transition to a real life event! Aka. the cr*p that we deal with & how not to be that person. If you get inappropriate messages, link them to this video as an educational tool! All my links at http://www.diaperperv.com

We (LiveWire25 & SleepySunflower) do a mini review of the new Potty Training Dropouts - Beddy Bye adult abdl diapers. They have a heat pressed outer, non-plastic backed shell & can hold up to 6500ml of pee. They are hook & loop closure style & the inner lining has a "pearl embossed core" for max absorption. Sunflower also wets her first ever diaper and we all clap. SleepySunflower & Livewire25 can be found on fetlife. Diaperperv can be found at http://www.diaperperv.com