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| Trans History, Soft Masculinity, and Genealogy with Cai Shirley | 14 Oct 2026 | 01:16:33 | |
How important is it to see examples of soft masculinity? To see men cry and express themselves. To see masculine folks find joy and love. Well, I always say visibility equals possibility because once we see it, it becomes an example of what is possible for yourself. That is a huge part of this conversation with Cai Shirley, black trans poet and educator. In this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, Cai shares his journey of self-discovery, exploring themes of genealogy, family dynamics, and the complexities of transitioning. We talk: 3:04 - Exploring genealogy and family history 17:59 - Conversations about transition 36:54 - Embracing change and identity 42:04 - Redefining masculinity through family influence 58:08 - Visibility equals possibility 1:05:21 - Excavating Black Trans histories Episode References: The Will to Change by bell hooks Stone Butch Blues by Leslie Feinberg Read more about Cai in his bio below: Cai Sherley is a Black trans poet-educator with roots in Boston, MA. A two-time Pushcart Prize nominee, his work can be found in Best New Poets, swamp pink, Peach Mag, and Tupelo, among others, as well as the anthology I Feel Nothing Like Good: Poets Against Genocide. He has found homes at The Watering Hole, Brooklyn Poets, Tin House, Lambda, and the Chicago Poetry Center, and is a member of Trans Corner Poets. His work centers Black trans life, past and present, in the United States, and his debut chapbook, Out of Yearning, was released in October 2026. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| The Heart of Dem Bois Podcast: A Conversation with Syir and Shawn Aaron | 07 Oct 2026 | 00:55:54 | |
Welcome back to season 5 of Dem Bois Podcast! Today we are flipping the script and instead of me asking all the questions, I’m being interviewed by a special guest host, Syir. In this episode, I share my journey of founding Dem Bois Inc. and the evolution of the podcast. I discuss personal experiences with identity, masculinity, and personal growth. And, I highlight the importance of community support, the need for self-discovery, and the crucial role of therapy in healing. We talk: 9:08 - Exploring masculinity and identity 14:55 - Navigating relationships during transition 24:08 - Continuing the journey of healing 32:15 - Living authentically 47:20 - Advice for self-discovery Episode References: Finding Your Voice to Live with No Regrets with Syir Dem Bois Podcast New Sound with Syir aka MoLa Flo Transitioning at Work with Shawn Aaron Finding Affirmation in Everyday Moments with Shawn Aaron Building Confidence to Become Your True Self with Vee Martin Building Brotherhood Using Unconditional Love with Kalvin Byrd Read more about Shawn in his bio below: Shawn Aaron (he/him) is a Black queer trans man, nonprofit leader, and host of Dem Bois Podcast. He is the Founder + Executive Director of Dem Bois Inc., an organization dedicated to affirming and supporting trans men of color through access to gender-affirming care, health equity, and visibility. Drawing from his lived experience with homelessness, Shawn’s mission is rooted in community care and systemic change. Whether through storytelling or advocacy, his work amplifies the voices of those too often unheard. His signature belief: Visibility = Possibility™ Read more about Syir in his bio below: Syir (he/they) is a multidisciplinary artist, creative entrepreneur, and aspiring filmmaker based in Tucson, Arizona. As an artist, Syir uses music and storytelling to explore identity, freedom, healing, and self-expression. He is also the CEO and Founder of LaFlo Entertainment, a creative platform focused on music, live events, artist showcases, youth programming, and community connection. Currently studying Film and Television Production, Syir is developing his voice as a filmmaker while continuing to build spaces where artists, creatives, and communities can connect and be seen. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Finding Affirmation in Everyday Moments with Shawn Aaron | 26 Aug 2026 | 00:53:07 | |
I want to end this season of Dem Bois Podcast by encouraging you to reflect. Reflect on moments of affirmation throughout your life and recognize the small wins that lead to the bigger wins. In this episode I do just that. I discuss different events in my life where I really felt affirmed in my body and how they transformed the way I see myself and pushed me to accept myself. The conversation highlights the significance of visibility, support from loved ones, and the power of positive reinforcement in your journey of self-discovery. I talk: 05:58 - Reflections on body image 17:54 - Cherished memories and lasting impact 27:08 - Family dynamics and personal affirmation 35:56 - Unexpected connections and humor 49:55 - Healthy masculinity and self-affirmation Episode References: Ep. 98 - The Collection of Encouragement Series; Part 1 Ep. 112 - Breaking Free from Conventional Femininity with denim {d} chang Jaylen Hands lifts up teammate after turnover - video Ep. 127 - Extracting Closure; Dear Father, Read more about Shawn in his bio below: Shawn Aaron (he/him) is a Black queer trans man, nonprofit leader, and host of Dem Bois Podcast. He is the Founder + Executive Director of Dem Bois Inc., an organization dedicated to affirming and supporting trans men of color through access to gender-affirming care, health equity, and visibility. Drawing from his lived experience with homelessness, Shawn’s mission is rooted in community care and systemic change. Whether through storytelling or advocacy, his work amplifies the voices of those too often unheard. His signature belief: Visibility = Possibility™ Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Extracting Closure; Dear Father, with Shawn Aaron | 19 Aug 2026 | 01:04:46 | |
If you’ve been rocking with Dem Bois Podcast for a while, then you may have heard me briefly talk about my father. But in this episode I talk about his role in my life in detail. This episode is another in this mini series about extracting closure and today I reflect on the emotional impact of my father's absence, the longing for paternal love, and the journey towards healing. I talk: 10:44 - Reflections on fatherhood and absence 22:27 - Seeking closure: the letter to my father 37:20 - Navigating parental relationships 45:56 - The complexity of family dynamics 55:05 - Our final conversations and lasting effects Episode References: Ep. 126 - Extracting Closure; Dear Mama, with Shawn Aaron Ep. 106 - Extracting Closure From a Past Situation with Shawn Aaron Ep. 103 - Building Brotherhood Using Unconditional Love with Kalvin Byrd Read more about Shawn in his bio below: Shawn Aaron (he/him) is a Black queer trans man, nonprofit leader, and host of Dem Bois Podcast. He is the Founder + Executive Director of Dem Bois Inc., an organization dedicated to affirming and supporting trans men of color through access to gender-affirming care, health equity, and visibility. Drawing from his lived experience with homelessness, Shawn’s mission is rooted in community care and systemic change. Whether through storytelling or advocacy, his work amplifies the voices of those too often unheard. His signature belief: Visibility = Possibility™ Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Extracting Closure; Dear Mama, with Shawn Aaron | 12 Aug 2026 | 00:56:46 | |
This episode of Dem Bois Podcast is a continuation of my reflection on extracting closure, and this one focuses on my mother. I talk about my mother and our relationship often, but today I’m taking it a step further by reading a letter that I wrote to her, one that really helped me heal. I also discuss the process of writing this letter, the impact of my past traumas, and the importance of telling my story. I talk: 03:37 - Exploring past relationships and closure 12:45 - Personal stories of trauma and healing 21:55 - Writing for healing and control of narrative 27:28 - The power of healing and community 35:20 - Dear Mama: A Journey of Healing 43:10 - Transforming pain into purpose Episode References: Ep. 123 - Fulfillment Through Authenticity and Art as Self-Discovery with Wen Neale Ep. 122 - The Weight of Trauma: Unpacking Adoption, Love, and Identity with Felix-Long Laneri Ep. 119 - Breaking Cycles of Trauma through Art and Love with Sunny Ep. 106 - Extracting Closure From a Past Situation with Shawn Aaron Ep. 103 - Building Brotherhood Using Unconditional Love with Kalvin Byrd Ep 48 - Repairing the Relationship with My Birth Mother and the Death of My Chosen Mother Ep. 12 - Healing Generational Trauma Through Transformative Parenting Ep. 3 - Surviving Homelessness 30 Days of Black Trans Reflection: Abolition, Anti-capitalism, and Black Queer Feminism Read more about Shawn in his bio below: Shawn Aaron (he/him) is a Black queer trans man, nonprofit leader, and host of Dem Bois Podcast. He is the Founder + Executive Director of Dem Bois Inc., an organization dedicated to affirming and supporting trans men of color through access to gender-affirming care, health equity, and visibility. Drawing from his lived experience with homelessness, Shawn’s mission is rooted in community care and systemic change. Whether through storytelling or advocacy, his work amplifies the voices of those too often unheard. His signature belief: Visibility = Possibility™ Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Cultural Resilience Through Music and Drumming with EN'B | 05 Aug 2026 | 01:14:15 | |
“Right now the most invaluable resource (besides water) is empathy.” This quote from EN’B definitely sets the tone for this episode of Dem Bois Podcast. Today, EN’B shares their journey through music, their cultural identity, and the significance of drumming as a form of meditation and community connection. We also discuss the impact of colonization on cultural practices, humor as a survival mechanism, and the intersections of diaspora and cultural trauma. We talk: 10:02 - Growing up Korean American in Arkansas 21:19 - The spiritual significance of drumming 39:46 - Exploring diaspora blues and ancestral connections 54:07 - Remembering life before colonization 01:06:03 - Self-love and body awareness Episode References: Ep. 123 - Fulfillment Through Authenticity and Art as Self-Discovery with Wen Neale Ep. 95 - Having Faith and Knowing That You’re Worthy with Alexander Rey Simon-Perez Palestinian Pole Dancer: Farrahthedoll Read more about EN’B in their bio below: EN'B 은비 they/he is a Korean American non-binary transmasc producer, singer-songwriter, Korean traditional percussionist, and actor. Their work channels Han 한—collective grief and unavenged injustice—alongside heung 흥, the joy found in resilience. Born in LA, raised in Arkansas, and shaped by their studies in Baltimore, EN’B navigates the intersections of diaspora and dysphoria to express what they call their “diaspora blues.” They’ve performed across the U.S., including the Kennedy Center, Broadwater Theater stages, with a mission to ancestral dreams through performance and media Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Autonomy and Authorship: Transitioning Into Visibility and Self-Definition with Noah Arhm Choi | 29 Jul 2026 | 01:10:45 | |
Many of us spend most of our lives hiding. Because society tells us that we are different and should be ashamed, we hide our bodies, our sexuality, ourselves. And that is why visibility is so important, because it equals possibility. And in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, my guest and I consider how true that really is. Today’s guest is Noah Arhm Choi and together we discuss the significance of media literacy in combating anti-trans propaganda, the impact of societal narratives on personal identity, and the intersection of gender identity with societal structures like capitalism. We talk: 11:11 - Coming out and using articles to bridge understanding 24:04 - Media literacy and anti-trans propaganda 33:09 - Autonomy and authorship: moving from invisibility to visibility 45:16 - Gender-affirming care and why joy feels threatening to systems 51:21 - Colonialism, binaries, and managing anxiety 63:31 - Noah’s Poem: My Passport Doesn’t Protect Me Anymore Episode References: Ace Ventura: Pet Detective (1994) Written on the Body by Jeanette Winterson Read more about Noah in their bio below: Noah Arhm Choi is the author of Cut to Bloom, winner of the 2019 Jack McCarthy Book Prize. A Lambda Literary Poet-In-Residence and Valentines Editor for Honey Literary, they received an MFA from Sarah Lawrence, and their work has appeared in Adroit, Split this Rock, Poetry Daily, The Rumpus, and elsewhere. Noah was shortlisted for the Poetry International Prize and received the Ellen Conroy Kennedy Poetry Prize, alongside fellowships from Kundiman, the Sewanee Writers’ Conference, and the Adirondack Center for Writing. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Fulfillment Through Authenticity and Art as Self-Discovery with Wen Neale | 22 Jul 2026 | 01:09:00 | |
Mainstream education doesn’t teach much, if anything, about the history of Trans people, but we have existed forever! And we will continue to exist forever! In this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, my guest Wen Neal shares how learning Trans history helped him understand gender more deeply. Wen also discusses the importance of online communities in understanding gender identity, the complexities of familial relationships, and the ongoing journey of understanding yourself and your place in the world. We talk: 9:27 - The role of online communities in self-discovery 17:26 - Family dynamics and growing up 24:03 - Navigating difficult conversations with parents 37:19 - Healthcare disparities: Florida vs. California 43:30 - The importance of Trans history education 52:40 - Art as a reflection of identity Episode References: Read more about Wen in his bio below: Wen Neale is a Asian American transman who's been on HRT for over 10 years (and has four cats) - since the beginning of his transition, he's been an open book on the internet about his transgender journey, and was able to share his experiences as a speaker in UC Davis. Wen is an inspirational figure in the Asian American trans community for his outspoken experiences about living authentically and taking calculated risks in finding his own path to happiness, from personal life to his career. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| The Weight of Trauma: Unpacking Adoption, Love, and Identity with Felix-Long Laneri | 15 Jul 2026 | 01:01:21 | |
If you’ve ever wondered what it really takes to love yourself and be loved for exactly who you are, this episode of Dem Bois Podcast will challenge your beliefs and inspire your journey. Today I sit down with Felix-Long Laneri, and he shares his story of how embracing his trans identity, healing from a complicated adoption story, and leaning into community transformed his life. From unpacking the weight of human trafficking behind his adoption story to navigating relationships with a distant adoptive mother, he offers raw insights into the complexities of identity, family, and belonging. We talk: 05:14 - Adoption, loss of heritage, and the complexity of trafficking 06:20 - China’s one-child policy, uncertainty around his birth story, and lost origins 11:28 - Childhood memories that revealed gender alignment 19:08 - Felix’s relationship with his adoptive mother 32:59 - Community, engagement, and the love that currently supports him 45:19 - Somatic therapy, healing through the body, and why it matters for trans folks Episode References: Dem Bois Podcast Ep. #95 Having Faith and Knowing That You’re Worthy with Alexander Rey Simon-Perez Read more about Felix in his bio below: Felix-Long Laneri is a social worker, somatic practitioner, organizer, trans, transracial adoptee. He currently works as a gender therapist in a therapy group practice, providing space for predominantly trans folks across the life span to explore identity, relationships, and healing. On his off time he organizes Philly TMOC, a transmasc of color group focused on relationship building and expansive boyhood. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| The Power of Community and Representation in Parenthood with Keo and Mason | 08 Jul 2026 | 00:57:30 | |
Pregnancy and birth are beautiful things that I don’t get to talk about enough. But in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, those are the main topics of conversation! Today I sit down with Keo and Mason, a Black trans masculine couple, and we discuss their journey through pregnancy, birthing, and parenting. Keo and Mason also share their experiences with healthcare, their evolving perspectives on family, and the importance of community support. Together, we emphasize the significance of love, understanding, and preparation in raising a child in today's world. We talk: 5:59 - Navigating healthcare as a Trans couple 17:51 - Future aspirations for Lou (their daughter) 23:56 - Family dynamics and identity 31:33 - Sharing life experiences with children 40:10 - Adjusting to parenthood and new responsibilities 54:37 - Celebrating milestones and fatherhood Episode References: Ep. 109 - Unapologetically Black, Trans, and Pregnant with Keo Ruiz-O’Neal Ep. 15 - Growing Beyond Insecurities and Healing from Trauma with Xavier Jones Read more about Keo and Mason in their bio below: Keo & Mason are a Black transmasculine couple who have been together for 9 years and have been married for 6 & a half. The couple recently welcomed a baby girl who Keo carried. Keo and Mason are very proud of the life they’ve built together and even more proud of what their love has manifested into. The pair live in Colorado with their daughter, 3 cats, & dog. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| A Body Made Home: Reflection with Shawn Aaron and Joël Simeu | 27 May 2026 | 01:04:25 | |
What does “home” mean to you? This is a word with multiple definitions and Kai Marshall Green explores many of them in his memoir, A Body Made Home: They Black Trans Love. And that is what this episode of Dem Bois Podcast is all about. Today I sit down with our Production Assistant, Joël Simeu, and we discuss the themes of identity, home, mental health, and the transformative power of writing. We also reflect on our personal experiences and the significance of the book's structure, emphasizing the importance of breaks and self-care in the reading process. We talk: 08:49 - The power of writing and memory 15:12 - The structure and style of the memoir 21:02 - The importance of breaks in reading 33:15 - Reflections on mental health and identity 46:47 - The power of vulnerability in healing 01:00:05 - The impact of storytelling and visibility Episode References: A Body Made Home by Kai Marshal Green Ep. 69 - What if Everyone Leads with Love? with Joël Simeu Ep. 77 - Dem Bois Highlight Series Part 5; with Joël Simeu Ep. 102 - Navigating Gender Expressions and Expectations with Kai Marshall Green Phenomenal Woman by Maya Angelou Read more about Shawn in his bio below: Shawn Aaron (he/him) is a Black queer trans man, nonprofit leader, and host of Dem Bois Podcast. He is the Founder + Executive Director of Dem Bois Inc., an organization dedicated to affirming and supporting trans men of color through access to gender-affirming care, health equity, and visibility. Drawing from his lived experience with homelessness, Shawn’s mission is rooted in community care and systemic change. Whether through storytelling or advocacy, his work amplifies the voices of those too often unheard. His signature belief: Visibility = Possibility™ Read more about Joël in his bio below: Joël Simeu Juegouo is a poet, musician, and griot from Cameroon. His writing is featured in HarperCollins' Here to Stay: Poetry and Prose from the Undocumented Diaspora. And he was selected as 2026 Undocupoet Fellow. Joël has served as manager for Outpost Foundation’s writing residency program and assesses submissions for the program’s fellowship candidates. He also works towards amplifying the voices of transmasculine folks of color, as Production Assistant to Dem Bois, Inc. Simeu earned his M.A. in Literatures in English from Cornell University, where he teaches writing seminars. His doctoral dissertation contends with poetics of Black transmasculine cultural epistemology. These days find him craving that which is tender and slow. Each day, he strives to become a menace to his enemies and prays for the liberation of all oppressed people. Each day he gives his gorgeous calico, all of his love. Today, and always, he invites you to stay rooted in your breath. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Breaking Cycles of Trauma through Art and Love with Sunny | 20 May 2026 | 01:13:50 | |
I didn’t have the best relationship with my mother growing up, so when I became a father, I leveled up on my healing so I could break that cycle. And, healing is a huge part of this conversation with Sunny, a nonbinary trans artist, photographer, and advertising creative. In this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, Sunny and I discuss the impact of their upbringing, the complexities of maternal relationships, and the significance of therapy in their life. Sunny also explains the concepts of Afrofuturism and surrealism, highlighting how these artistic movements influence their work. We talk: 08:55 - Navigating gender identity and expression 14:56 - Cultural expectations and parenting 27:13 - Defining nonbinary identity 36:21 - Navigating family dynamics 48:04 - The power of art and community 59:29 - Building confidence through photography Episode References: Dem Bois Highlight Series Part 5; with Joël Simeu A video of an adopted person speaking to their birth parent Dem Bois Episode 12 - Healing Generational Trauma Through Transformative Parenting Read more about Sunny in their bio below: Sunny (They/He) is a nonbinary, transmasc artist, photographer and advertising creative with a background in Black feminist theory, gender studies and pedagogy. Through “poetry in motion,” their art centers afrofuturism, surrealism and the radical beauty of joy. ehS3yVOhZc8ntLSLuf9z Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Queer Representation in Healthcare: A Conversation with Taylor Chiang | 13 May 2026 | 01:08:17 | |
Visibility equals possibility, and that is especially true in the medical field. In this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, I sit down with Taylor Chiang, a non-binary general surgery resident at the University of Chicago, and we discuss Taylor's journey through medical school, their experiences with gender identity, and the challenges of being queer in a traditionally conservative field. The conversation also touches on family dynamics, the importance of representation in medicine, and advice for aspiring medical professionals from gender-diverse backgrounds. We talk: 05:58 - Understanding non-binary identity 12:04 - Navigating family dynamics and gender identity 29:04 - Queer representation in medicine 34:11 - Advice for aspiring gender diverse medical professionals 46:51 - Navigating medical school admissions 55:59 - Access to healthcare challenges Episode References: Ep. 107 - The Complexities and Phases of Gender Awakening with Taj Taylor Read more about Taylor in their bio below: Taylor is a non-binary, queer PGY2 general surgery resident at the University of Chicago. Originally from NJ, they received their BA from Swarthmore College, and MD from Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson. They recently moved to IL and the last year and a half has been marked by a lot of change. New city, new job, new friends. Outside the hospital they enjoy running and lifting to keep them sane. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Love Over Ignorance: Customizing Your Life with Wenjamin Nguyen-Gilmore | 06 May 2026 | 01:11:11 | |
Life is customizable! I know that society tries to pretend that it isn’t, but the truth is, you get to choose! And in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, my guest Wenjamin Nguyen-Gilmore drives that point home. Wenjaman is a queer business boy and retired runway model, and today we discuss Wen's journey of gender identity, the challenges faced in the modeling industry, and the importance of community and education in understanding diverse identities. We talk: 8:10 - Exploring gender identity 25:35 - Modeling career and its challenges 39:08 - Understanding autism and gender identity 42:25 - The importance of education and empathy 51:38 - The need for cultural understanding and acceptance 1:06:20 - Traveling and self-discovery Episode References: Dem Bois Podcast Ep. 72 - Autism, Queerness, Parenting and Family Dynamics with Schereéya Read more about Wenjamin in their bio below: Retired runway model, queer business boy-wonder, and cat father to the stars. How does one juggle between parenthood, being in college for 3 degrees, and a job working with autistic kids? Insane, yes, but not impossible. Wenjamin is a trans-nonbinary, multilinguist of colour on the rise to get their doctorate, here to give advice on queer social mobility, as well as navigating life’s hardships from everyday struggles to geosociopolitical levels of intersectionality.
Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Redefining Masculinity Through Writing and Vulnerability with Bodi | 29 Apr 2026 | 01:00:30 | |
I say this all the time and I will say it again! Masculinity is what you choose to make of it. You don’t have to subscribe to the toxic masculinity of our fathers and uncles. We can choose a softer side, and we talk all about that in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast. Today’s guest is fiction writer and poet, Bodi, and we explore the themes of masculinity, identity, and community. We emphasize the power of vulnerability and the role of writing in healing. And, we address the privileges and challenges at the intersections of race and gender. We talk: 3:45 - How we met at Camp Lost Boys 9:59 - Bodi’s journey of self-discovery 29:58 - Navigating race and identity in germany 40:10 - Embracing change and positive masculinity 48:31 - The role of art in expression 53:29 - Bodi’s poem Episode References: Math jokes page? Read more about Bodi in his bio below: Bodi (he/him), a fiction writer poet is a fire sun and rising, moon in cute. His work guides him to process what life blessed him with like dreams and water, spirituality, ancestry, love and affection but also body politics around gender, queerness and disability. Bodi has a background in cultural science and has been working with queer communities of colour in Berlin Germany as a project manager, educator and social worker for more than 10 years. He loves to sing, he loves to cook, give massages and he thinks about qualities of rest. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Trans Time: Escaping Linear Narratives with Alexis N. Garcia | 22 Apr 2026 | 01:04:01 | |
What do you know about “trans time?” I had never heard the term before my interview with poet and educator, Alexis N. Garcia, but in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, Alexis teaches all about this concept and more! In this episode, Alexis also discusses their identity, exploring themes of gender, ancestry, and the importance of community. They reflect on the role of play and imagination in our lives, the journey of writing and creativity, the significance of support systems, and the essence of freedom. We talk: 2:44 - Exploring identity and ancestry 18:26 - The journey of gender and transition 33:21 - Healing generational trauma 40:05 - Understanding “Trans Time” and nonlinear existence 54:35 - Support systems and community connections Episode References: The Hips on the Drag Queen Go Swish, Swish, Swish Read more about Alexis is their bio below: Alexis N. Garcia is a t-boy poet & educator dreaming against the state. Their cross-discipline experiments glitch traditional poetic form to construct trans time & non-linear meaning-making. You can find their work in The Hopkins Review, Poets.org’s “Poem-A-Day” series, The Slowdown, The Best of the Net Anthology 2022, among others. Aceves Garcia has received fellowships from The Outpost Foundation, Jack Jones Literary Arts, and the Tin House Summer Workshop. Their latest callings include bringing plant offerings to the ocean and escaping linear time. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Building Support: A Hater's Guide to Comedy with Jonnea Herman | 16 Apr 2026 | 01:11:37 | |
Laughter is a powerful tool for connection! It breaks down barriers and cools fires, and in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast Jonnea talks about how he connects with people through comedy. Jonnea is a stand-up comedian and artist/designer, and he shares insights on embracing his hater side, the significance of his name, and girlhood and womanhood. We also discuss the importance of relationships and support systems, the impact of perception on identity, and the intersection of humor and identity, particularly as a trans individual. We talk: 02:58 - Embracing the hater within 15:03 - Menstruation and body experiences 24:03 - Perception and identity 36:33 - The journey into stand-up comedy 49:50 - The power of laughter 53:29 - Comedy and gender identity 01:01:31 - The intellectual side of comedy Click here for Episode References! Read more about Jonnea in his bio below: Jonnea Herman is a queer, afrolatinx, part storyteller and part hater, stand up comedian, and artist/designer based in Brooklyn, New York.
Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| The Importance of Community and Connection in Queerness with KB Brookins | 08 Apr 2026 | 01:09:40 | |
Connection is like a light in a dark space. The more light there is, the brighter the room becomes. And the more trans men of color connect with each other, the bigger our families become. In this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, my guest, award-winning author KB Brookins, shares their journey of navigating identity, writing, and family dynamics. We discuss the importance of visibility and connection, the nuances of Black womanhood and manhood, the precarity of these identities, and the significance of diverse representation in literature. We talk: 09:05 - Understanding gender and self-discovery 21:14 - Advice for navigating queerness and family 34:22 - The journey of writing a memoir 44:36 - Exploring freedom through poetry 55:18 - Trans News That Doesn't Suck Episode References: Dearborn (book) By Ghassan Zeineddine Learning to Shut Out the Noise with Ja’Mel Ashely Ware Read more about KB in their bio below: KB Brookins is the author of three books, including Pretty (2024), winner of the Lambda Literary Award in Transgender Nonfiction. They are an ACLU of Texas Artist-in-Residence and a Black Mountain Institute Shearing Fellow at UNLV.
Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Breaking Free from Conventional Femininity with denim {d} chang | 25 Feb 2026 | 01:02:19 | |
When you think about masculinity and vulnerability, you may not think they work together, but they do! And in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, denim chang tells us how. He also shares personal experiences with conventional femininity, healing from toxic patterns, and the role of spirituality in healing processes. Together we discuss the importance of community care, the significance of names and pronouns, and the journey of gender identity and transition. We talk: Chapters 05:56 - The significance of names and pronouns 18:04 - The role of spirituality in healing 35:35 - Embracing vertical alignment and masculinity 43:44 - Creating a space for learning and growth 47:22 - The journey of self-discovery 55:59 - Visibility equals possibility Episode References: Ep. 106 - Extracting Closure From a Past Situation with Shawn Aaron Audre Lorde: Uses of the Erotic: The Erotic as Power Read more about denim in his bio below: denim {d} chang is a somatic trauma resolution practitioner and erotic power enthusiast. In his work, he bridges body-based intelligence, the ancestral wisdom of his taoist lineage, and his love for relationship anarchy to support our healing work in feeling more vulnerability, intimacy and belonging. He is the creator of Somatics for the People, an emerging school for liberatory embodiment and identifies as a transmasculine nonbinary immigrant and survivor on the autism spectrum, and a love and sex addict in recovery. When not avoiding his writing practice, he's in muay thai or at the drums. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Staying Connected to Humanity in Chaos with Simran Chugani | 18 Feb 2026 | 01:05:17 | |
Think about anger like a pot of boiling water. If the fire keeps burning when all the water is boiled, the pot will eventually catch fire. And if you allow your anger to boil over, your body will pay the price. And we dive deeper into this concept in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast. Today’s guest is Simran Chugani and we discuss the role of poetry in self-discovery, the intersection of cultural expectations, and the importance of staying connected to humanity amidst societal chaos. We also explore the multifaceted nature of activism, emphasizing the importance of community, healing, and the balance between anger and joy. We talk: 08:53 - Martial Arts and the concept of peace 17:48 - Cultural expectations and assimilation 39:28 - Balancing anger and joy in activism 44:51 - Alternative forms of contribution 54:46 - Marathons as a metaphor for life's struggles 01:00:13 - The beauty of humanity in shared experiences Episode References: Read more about Simran in their bio below: Simran Chugani is a health researcher, poet, and marathoner based in Orlando, Florida whose work lies at the intersection of storytelling, community-building, and having as much fun as possible. As a researcher, Chugani aims to make health care more integrated, responsive, and accessible. As a poet, they aim to tell stories that capture the beauty in the everyday. As a marathoner, Chugani promotes visibility for trans athletes and leads initiatives that improve inclusivity in sports. At their core, Chugani is grounded in ancestral knowledge and powered by joy. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Finding Community Through Visibility and Fitness with Miles | 11 Feb 2026 | 01:05:51 | |
Finding community is something we discuss often on Dem Bois Podcast. Why? Because it is important! And in this episode, Miles and I emphasize the significance of community, confidence, and visibility, as well as the challenges and triumphs faced during transition. We also discuss fitness, exploring the harmful stereotypes and gatekeeping present in gyms and sharing our personal journeys of self-acceptance and expression. We talk: 03:52 - Exploring identity and gender journey 13:00 - Family support and relationships 25:47 - Navigating visibility and transition 34:02 - Challenging fitness norms and gatekeeping 46:55 - The importance of visibility in healthcare 55:18 - Fluidity in gender identity and self-expression Episode References: Ep. 96 Episode of Empowerment with Alexander Rey Simon-Perez Read more about Miles in their bio below: I’m a transmasc creative working across nightlife, modeling, and wrestling. Known for my confident energy, I’ve hit stages with Butch Hooters, Dykes & Dolls, The Bush, Gingers, Mascarade, and Masc House, walked TGS NYFW with Dapper Q, been featured in BINADW, and thrown down in Lesbian Oil Wrestling and Tboy Wrestling. I’ve also co-produced shoots recently! I love blending seduction, strength, and storytelling, exploring masculinity through many lenses. I’m driven by a vision where trans men and transmascs are celebrated and adored — never treated as an afterthought. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Unapologetically Black, Trans, and Pregnant with Keo Ruiz-O’Neal | 04 Feb 2026 | 01:07:54 | |
I say it all the time and I will continue to say it: “Children are a blessing!” They are innocent beings that deserve love and care, and that is the basis of my conversation with Keo Ruiz-O’Neal on this episode of Dem Bois Podcast. Keo is our first guest who is actively pregnant and we talk all about it. We also discuss the importance of community care, the journey of identity, and the challenges faced by trans individuals, particularly in family dynamics and societal acceptance. Keo shares his experiences of being unapologetically Black and Trans, navigating family acceptance, and the beauty of pregnancy as a trans man. We talk: 05:29 - The power of being unapologetically Black and Trans 13:40 - Navigating family dynamics and acceptance 24:13 - Keo’s experience with Pregnancy as a Trans man 38:16 - Navigating parenthood in this complex world 51:11 - Family dynamics and support systems 01:00:42 - Embracing identity and open conversations Read more about Keo in his bio below: Keo Ruiz-O’Neal is a married Black transman carrying his own baby. He is unapologetically Black and trans. Keo has been medically transitioned for 9 years before deciding to carry his baby and grow his family. Keo fiercely believes in equity and serving the most vulnerable and marginalized of the population. He lives up to that through his work and life by advocating for those populations as he is among them as a multiply marginalized individual. He currently lives in Colorado with his husband, dog, and 3 cats. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Embracing Sex Positivity and Freedom with Gabe Tha Babe | 28 Jan 2026 | 00:58:03 | |
What would society look like if we could all be ourselves with no repercussions? I can’t be sure, but we touch on it in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast. Today’s guest is Gabe Tha Babe, a multidisciplinary artist and community organizer, and we discuss the importance of family support, the challenges of navigating masculinity and mental health, and our vision for a supportive community space that encourages authenticity and visibility as pathways to empowerment. The episode also delves into the topic of sex positivity, emphasizing the need to break free from societal shame and embrace one's identity and desires. We talk: 03:50 - Gabe's journey to self-discovery 14:19 - The role of family in identity 21:17 - Navigating masculinity and mental health 35:55 - Combatting negativity and gatekeeping 46:54 - The impact of houselessness on youth 51:24 - A vision for community support Episode References: History of Downtown Los Angeles “Skid Row” Containment and Community: The History of Skid Row… Read more about Gabe in his bio below: Gabe Tha Babe is a Brown Latino TransMasc multidisciplinary artist, public figure, night life personality, event producer, sex worker and community organizer and leader. Originally from rural South Texas, he understands the importance of Trans PoC visibility and strives to represent and center that in all the work that he does. He’s been living in Los Angeles almost 10 years and has been organizing and advocating for the queer, trans and houseless communities since 2018. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| The Complexities and Phases of Gender Awakening with Taj Taylor | 21 Jan 2026 | 01:18:05 | |
One thing we don’t get to talk about often is the role that fashion can play in gender awakening and identity. But in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, our guest Taj Taylor brings it to the forefront of the conversation. Today we discuss family dynamics, self-acceptance, and the importance of community support. Taj emphasizes the significance of self-love and acceptance as foundational elements for finding love and building meaningful relationships. And, together we encourage listeners to embrace your true selves and recognize the power of love and authenticity in your lives. We talk: 07:22 - Understanding self: the journey of gender identity 15:20 - Navigating acceptance: the struggle with identity 27:10 - Navigating family dynamics and acceptance 39:46 - Cultural challenges and personal growth in Taiwan 45:51 - Reaffirming identity and building relationships 58:09 - The power of visibility and self-expression 01:10:22 - Finding love through self-discovery Episode References: Read more about Taj in their bio below: Taj is a 29-year-old nonbinary content creator, tattoo artist and spiritual medium. They’re an advocate for love, authenticity, and trusting in the divine, and their work blends intuition, storytelling, and art to help their community feel safer and more rooted in who they are. Taj also creates tools for healing, including their queer love manifestation journal, designed to help people attract deeper love, connection, and emotional safety. Taj’s mission is to hold space for transformation and remind others that they are always worthy of a life that feels aligned and deeply loving. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Extracting Closure From a Past Situation with Shawn Aaron | 14 Jan 2026 | 00:38:05 | |
Why is it so important to express your feelings? Because people aren’t mind readers and if you don’t express yourself, they may never know how you feel. And, I had to learn this the hard way. This episode of Dem Bois Podcast is a solo episode where I discuss extracting closure from past relationships. I share a story about a lost love and the impact of my unexpressed feelings, and I emphasize the need to communicate love and care to those people in our lives. I talk: 07:33 - The impact of isolation and suicide 09:19 - Extracting closure from past relationships 11:44 - Navigating love and loss 27:07 - The importance of expressing love Episode References: Ep. 3 - Surviving Homelessness Ep. 103 - Building Brotherhood Using Unconditional Love with Kalvin Byrd Read more about Shawn in his bio below: Shawn Aaron (he/him) is a Black queer trans man, nonprofit leader, and host of Dem Bois Podcast. He is the Founder + Executive Director of Dem Bois Inc., an organization dedicated to affirming and supporting trans men of color through access to gender-affirming care, health equity, and visibility. Drawing from his lived experience with homelessness, Shawn’s mission is rooted in community care and systemic change. Whether through storytelling or advocacy, his work amplifies the voices of those too often unheard. His signature belief: Visibility = Possibility™ Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Exploring Gender Identity in the Ballroom Scene with Jota & Calvin | 07 Jan 2026 | 01:07:05 | |
A recurring theme on Dem Bois Podcast is the importance of friendship and chosen family. And in this episode, I sit down with two friends who have become family. Today I talk to Jota and Calvin, and we discuss the impact of community, the intersections of race and gender, and the importance of representation and self-acceptance in the trans community. Jota and Calvin also share their personal journeys and experiences, including the creation of workdatcxnt. We talk: 11:58 - Visibility and self-identity 23:44 - Reflections on masculinity and gender experiences 36:34 - Building community and chosen family 40:02 - Personal journeys into Ballroom 51:11 - Work Dat Cunt Click here for episode references! Read more about Jota in his bio below: Jota Kayodê Ramos is a Brazilian transmasculine multidisciplinary artist and activist based in Berlin. Holding a master's degree in Applied Social Sciences, his practice in performance, installation video and poetry is deeply informed by academic research. An active member of the Ballroom scene since 2019, he walks in AA Runway and TM Realness categories and has walked internationally in cities such as New York, Paris, Brussels, and across Brazil and Germany. Ramos is also one of the heads of Workdatcxnt and a member of the Brazilian Institute of Transmasculinity (IBRAT). Read more about Calvin in his bio below: My name is Calvin - I'm 31 y/o and based in Berlin. I entered ballroom in spring 2023, walking TM Realness so far. By the end of 2023 I joined workdatcxnt and found this to be the perfect place for me to discover different categories in a masculine space. I started my transition in 2014 in an area with little to no queer BIPOC representation, so the workshops are also an amazing opportunity to just connect with fellow TM's and watch the transmasc community grow. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Trailer | 18 Dec 2025 | 00:01:27 | |
Welcome to Dem Bois Podcast! This podcast aims to serve as a platform to highlight and amplify the voices of trans men of color as we share our transition stories, discuss mental health, fitness, parenthood, and many other issues that are relatable to trans men of color and our existence. The goal behind the podcast is not only to amplify our voices, but to raise awareness and discourse around our lived experiences. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Advocating for Trans Equality and Resilience with Devon Ojeda, PhD | 26 Nov 2025 | 01:08:39 | |
In this episode of Dem Bois Podcast I have an amazing conversation with Devon Ojeda, about the importance of community, identity, and resilience in the face of adversity. Devon shares their personal journey, including their experiences with trauma, spirituality, and the significance of their name change. They emphasize the radical act of living authentically and the importance of supporting trans rights through community and unionization. And, we touch on the potential for change and hope for the future of trans rights, highlighting the importance of visibility and collective action. We talk: 05:53 - Finding home in Baltimore 12:10 - Devon’s journey of name change and identity 20:51 - Survival, healing, and spirituality 30:08 - Parenting and acceptance of identity 40:55 - Intersectionality in the Trans Movement 52:08 - The importance of community and solidarity Episode References: Dem Bois Podcast Ep. 3 - Surviving Homelessness Read more about Devon in their bio below: Devon Ojeda (they/he) is the Senior National Organizer at Advocates for Trans Equality (A4TE), where they build coalitions and work with government partners to advance policies supporting trans communities, including healthcare and housing. Devon describes their hormone journey as a meaningful source of healing as a trans person and survivor. Previously, he served as the 2018–2019 James Marshall Public Policy Fellow with the Society for the Psychological Study of Social Issues, working for the Senate HELP Subcommittee. Devon holds a Ph.D. in Community Psychology from Wichita State University.
Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Building Brotherhood Using Unconditional Love with Kalvin Byrd | 19 Nov 2025 | 01:13:15 | |
Did you know that there are people in the world that will love you for free? People that will hold space for you with no conditions whatsoever… And that is pretty much the message of this episode of Dem Bois Podcast. Today I sit down with Kalvin Byrd, and we discuss the importance of community, the challenges faced during transition, and the significance of visibility for trans men. Kalvin shares his personal journey, including the struggles of isolation, the importance of brotherhood, and the need for unconditional love in relationships. And, we emphasize the necessity of open dialogue about the realities of transitioning and the support systems that can help individuals navigate their journeys. We talk: 09:09 - Navigating relationships during transition 14:52 - Brotherhood and support systems 21:06 - Unconditional love and healthy masculinity 38:54 - The mission of Uncloak 52:04 - The importance of self-care Episode References: Finding Spiritual Balance and Peace Amongst Obsession with Zyon Aijon Read more about Kalvin in his bio below: Kalvin Byrd is the Founder and Executive Director of Uncloak, an uplifting organization dedicated to the health, wellness, and healing of men of trans experience. Since 2021, he has grown Uncloak to a national scale, focusing on connection, empowerment, and suicide prevention by partnering with healthcare providers and community leaders to build safe, affirming spaces. Kalvin’s work is rooted in a deep commitment to disrupting isolation and cultivating brotherhood among trans men. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Navigating Gender Expressions and Expectations with Kai Marshall Green | 12 Nov 2025 | 00:50:30 | |
We all fail at gender, trans and cis folks. We don’t fit into the rigid boxes society has created for us because binary rules are flawed. And in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, we dive into this concept. Today’s guest is Kai Marshall Green, and together we explore themes of identity, transformation, and gender. Kai shares personal experiences, including the significance of his name change and the challenges faced in navigating societal expectations. And, we highlight the importance of visibility for trans individuals and the connections between Black lesbian spaces and trans identity. We talk: 07:00 - Kai’s journey of identity and transformation 12:04 - Navigating gender expectations and advice 28:39 - Mental health and its complexities 38:40 - Writing a memoir 44:38 - Reflections on growth and healing Episode References: Black Spaces: Reclaim & Remain: July 18, 2025—Sunday, March 1, 2026 at the Oakland Museum of California (OMCA) Read more about Kai in his bio below: K. Marshall Green is a shape-shifting Black Queer Feminist nerd; an Afro-Future, freedom-dreaming, rhyme slinging dragon slayer in search of a new world; a scholar, poet, facilitator, filmmaker; & an Assistant Professor of Africana Studies at The University of Delaware. He earned his Ph.D. from the Department of American Studies & Ethnicity w/ specializations in Gender Studies & Visual Anthropology at USC. His debut memoir, A Body Made Home: They Black Trans Love, is coming out 2/24/26 (The Feminist Press).
Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Building Your Best Life, Brick by Brick with Olíver Eluz Infante | 05 Nov 2025 | 01:04:20 | |
The life you want doesn’t just happen. You have to build it! And, in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, my guest Olíver Eluz Infante tells us how he is building the life of his dreams, brick by brick. Today we discuss the importance of mutual aid, the intersection of gender identity, religion, and family, and the challenges faced by trans youth. Olíver also talks about the mission of Transanta, which aims to support trans kids who lack familial support, and the role of a campaign manager in processing letters and connecting youth with resources. We talk: 12:01 - The mission of Transanta 18:41 - The Role of a campaign manager 32:34 - Feeding your younger self 40:13 - The intersectionality of faith and gender identity 55:02 - Finding love and healing Episode References: Read more about Olíver in his bio below: Olíver Eluz Infante is Afro Latine transmasc who is the campaign manager for Transanta, a mutual aid project that connects anonymous gift-givers with trans youth who are unhoused, in foster care, or otherwise without crucial support they need to thrive. He also participates in mutual aid efforts in his town of Ithaca, NY and does free house cleanings for folks with executive function issues. During the day he works as a tournant chef and is soon to begin earning his degree in early childhood education. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Celebration of the 100th Episode with Shawn Aaron | 29 Oct 2025 | 01:11:46 | |
This is the 100th episode of Dem Bois Podcast! And I am so grateful to each and every listener, whether you’ve been rocking with us since episode one or if you’re just tuning in today. Thank you! In this milestone episode, I take the guest role while our producer, Jasmine from Pink Lady Productions hosts. We discuss the origins and growth of the podcast and the importance of community and visibility for trans men of color. We also highlight the transformative power of therapy, the significance of asking for help, and the challenges of navigating rejection and boundaries in friendships. We talk: 03:02 - The birth of Dem Bois, Inc. 14:58 - The purpose of Dem Bois Podcast 23:46 - Shawn’s reflections on visibility 39:05 - Building community through vulnerability 47:05 - Navigating rejection and boundaries in friendships 52:43 - Affirming gender identity and personal growth Episode References: Ep. 37 - Advice for Mental Health and Passion for Social Work with Emilio Perdomo Ep. 94 - Dem Bois Highlight Series Part 6; Visibility = Possibility™️ with Zyon Aijon Ep. 11 - Building Confidence to Become Your True Self with Vee Martin Ep. 99 - Dem Bois Highlight Series Part 7; with Jasmine Gary aka Pink Lady Read more about Shawn in his bio below: Shawn Aaron (he/him) is a Black queer trans man, nonprofit leader, and host of Dem Bois Podcast. He is the Founder + Executive Director of Dem Bois Inc., an organization dedicated to affirming and supporting trans men of color through access to gender-affirming care, health equity, and visibility. Drawing from his lived experience with homelessness, Shawn’s mission is rooted in community care and systemic change. Whether through storytelling or advocacy, his work amplifies the voices of those too often unheard. His signature belief: Visibility = Possibility™ Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Dem Bois Highlight Series Part 7; with Jasmine Gary aka Pink Lady | 22 Oct 2025 | 00:41:21 | |
Wow! We have almost made it to the 100th episode of Dem Bois Podcast, and our producer Jasmine Gary aka Pink Lady has been rocking with us since episode one. In this episode we discuss the evolution of the podcast, the importance of amplifying marginalized voices, and the growth both the podcast and Shawn have experienced over time. Jasmine shares insights on the podcasting industry, the significance of community engagement, and the need for more representation of Black women in the podcasting world. We talk: 09:19 - Reflections on growth and change 16:23 - Understanding diverse perspectives in the trans community 25:31 - The value of professional podcast production 32:00 - Empowering Black women in podcasting 35:27 - Random questions and personal insights Episode References: Afros and Audio Podcast Festival Shirlz Rejouis (The Millenni-HER Podcast) Nicole M. Young-Martin (Black Writers Read) Vena J. (The Konfessions Korner) Read more about Jasmine in her bio below: Jasmine Gary is the founder and lead producer of Pink Lady Productions, a production company specializing in podcasts, founded in 2019. Jasmine became an avid listener of podcasts in 2017. So in 2019, she began editing and producing them. While developing Pink Lady Productions, she realized a gap in the representation of queer entrepreneurs and women of color in the podcasting world. Both in front of the microphone and behind-the-scenes, queer entrepreneurs and women of color and their stories continue to be underrepresented. So Jasmine’s mission is simple: close that gap! Join us live! In honor of our 100th episode, Shawn Aaron and Jasmine from Pink Lady Production will be going live on Thursday, October 30th at 1:30pm PT / 4:30pm ET. So tune in to watch me answer questions about my personal journey, Dem Bois Podcast, and Dem Bois Inc. You will get the opportunity to ask questions and hear them answered live, unrehearsed and unscripted. Hope to see you there! Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| The Collection of Encouragement Series; Part 1 | 15 Oct 2025 | 00:26:04 | |
This episode of Dem Bois Podcast is part 1 of our new encouragement series. It features sound bites from various episodes that highlight themes of self-worth, identity, and resilience. The clips explore non-binary identity, the journey of self-acceptance, the importance of choosing oneself amidst societal pressures, and more. We talk: 03:02 - Loving yourself through gender dysphoria 06:46 - The importance of individual journeys 12:02 - Choosing yourself and worthiness 16:02 - The power of self-love Read more about Shawn in his bio below: Shawn Aaron (he/him) is a Black queer trans man, nonprofit leader, and host of Dem Bois Podcast. He is the Founder + Executive Director of Dem Bois Inc., an organization dedicated to affirming and supporting trans men of color through access to gender-affirming care, health equity, and visibility. Drawing from his lived experience with homelessness, Shawn’s mission is rooted in community care and systemic change. Whether through storytelling or advocacy, his work amplifies the voices of those too often unheard. His signature belief: Visibility = Possibility™ Join us live! In honor of our 100th episode, Shawn Aaron and Jasmine from Pink Lady Productions will be going live on Thursday, October 30th at 1:30pm PT / 4:30pm ET. Tune in to watch me answer questions about my personal journey, Dem Bois Podcast, and Dem Bois Inc. You will get the opportunity to ask questions and hear them answered live. Hope to see you there! Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Dem Bois is More Than a Podcast with Shawn Aaron | 08 Oct 2025 | 00:28:29 | |
Did you know that Dem Bois Podcast is an extension of Dem Bois Inc.? Well in this episode, I’m going to tell you all about it! Today I discuss the history and mission of Dem Bois, Inc. I reflect on the journey of the podcast, its impact on the community, and the importance of visibility and representation. I also highlight the significance of creating a supportive ecosystem for trans men of color, emphasizing the need for community support and strategic planning for the future. I talk: 05:54 - Mission and vision of Dem Bois Inc. 11:52 - Community impact and personal stories 18:10 - Building a supportive ecosystem 24:08 - Future directions and strategic planning Episode References: 30 Days of Black Trans Reflection: Abolition, Healing, Legacy Read more about Shawn in his bio below: Shawn Aaron (he/him) is a Black queer trans man, nonprofit leader, and host of Dem Bois Podcast. He is the Founder + Executive Director of Dem Bois Inc., an organization dedicated to affirming and supporting trans men of color through access to gender-affirming care, health equity, and visibility. Drawing from his lived experience with homelessness, Shawn’s mission is rooted in community care and systemic change. Whether through storytelling or advocacy, his work amplifies the voices of those too often unheard. His signature belief: Visibility = Possibility™ Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Season 3 Finale - Episode of Empowerment with Alexander Rey Simon-Perez | 27 Aug 2025 | 00:36:31 | |
I wanted to do something different to end season 3 of Dem Bois Podcast. So, in this episode, you will hear a voice you’ve already heard. Alexander Rey Perez is back and today we are talking all about empowerment, mental health, and personal journeys. Alexander shares insights from his experiences, emphasizing the importance of self-worth, community support, and the healing power of travel. We also reflect on the significance of trusting yourself and the journey of self-discovery. We talk: 09:54 - Navigating mental health and community support 16:21 - Traveling as a pathway to trust and empowerment 23:41 - Andrxgenisis LLC: A new beginning 31:52 - Final thoughts on empowerment and self-discovery Read more about Alexander in his bio below: Alexander Rey Perez is a sovereign, multidimensional divine being led by heart. A two-spirit man of trans experience, spiritualist, and social justice advocate, he bridges activism, healing, and creativity to inspire transformation. As the founder of Andrxgenisis, he cultivates spaces for radical authenticity, holistic empowerment, and systemic change. With over 13 years in advocacy, his work integrates lived experience, ancestral wisdom, and strategic leadership. A speaker, oracle, and conscious creator, he uplifts truth, resilience, and liberation, challenging scarcity mindsets and igniting collective awakening through storytelling, energy work, and spiritual embodiment. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Having Faith and Knowing That You’re Worthy with Alexander Rey Simon-Perez | 20 Aug 2025 | 00:41:41 | |
What does loving yourself actually mean? In this episode, we answer that question. Today I sit down with Alexander Rey Simon-Perez, sharing their journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and the importance of community support. Alexander discusses the significance of his name, the meaning of being two-spirit, and the unconditional love he received from his grandmother. He emphasizes the importance of self-love as a continuous journey and the need to nurture one's inner child. The conversation also touches on the challenges faced in the transition journey and the power of vulnerability and connection in healing. We talk: 11:47 - Alexander’s transition journey and family support 19:57 - The power of unconditional love 24:01 - Self-love and personal growth 29:49 - The importance of nurturing the inner child Episode References Dem Bois Podcast Ep. 8 - Advocating for Trans Lives with Luckie Alexander Read more about Alexander in their bio below: Alexander Rey Perez is a sovereign, multidimensional divine being led by heart. A two-spirit man of trans experience, spiritualist, and social justice advocate, he bridges activism, healing, and creativity to inspire transformation. As the founder of Andrxgenisis, he cultivates spaces for radical authenticity, holistic empowerment, and systemic change. With over 13 years in advocacy, his work integrates lived experience, ancestral wisdom, and strategic leadership. A speaker, oracle, and conscious creator, he uplifts truth, resilience, and liberation, challenging scarcity mindsets and igniting collective awakening through storytelling, energy work, and spiritual embodiment. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Dem Bois Highlight Series Part 6; Visibility = Possibility™️ with Zyon Aijon | 13 Aug 2025 | 00:27:11 | |
Visibility equals possibility! You hear it all the time on this show, but now I’m giving you a peak behind the scenes of how that phrase operates at Dem Bois Inc. Today, on Dem Bois Podcast, I sit down with Zyon Aijon, one of our brand collaborators, and we discuss the creative process behind our “visibility equals possibility” merch. Zyon also highlights the importance of feeling safe and celebrated in his new location and his aspirations for community building and social change. We talk: 03:04 - Zyon's journey and creative freedom 11:46 - The meaning of visibility equals possibility 15:47 - The impact and risk of visibility in the community 20:12 - Future aspirations and community building Episode References: Dem Bois Pod Ep 31 - Speaking Truth to Power Leading Up to Knowing Your Worth with Amari Leach Dem Bois Pod Ep. 37 - Advice for Mental Health and Passion for Social Work with Emilio Perdomo Dem Bois Pod Ep. 53 - Finding Spiritual Balance and Peace Amongst Obsession with Zyon Aijon Read more about Zyon in his bio below: Zyon Lewis is a black trans artist born in Bridgeport, CT and raised between there and the south. He is a Vegan, Artist, Leader, activist and Innovator. He is a music artist, making music under the alias “1000 Percent”. He also produces gaming, lifestyle, creative and motivational content. He has been a digital artist/graphic designer since age 13. Zyon started his medical transition (HRT) August 19th, 2021 and he had top surgery in March of 2022. He continues to live his truth daily, by finding balance and peace in his daily experience.
Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Navigating Identity While Learning and Healing with Maxx | 06 Aug 2025 | 01:02:30 | |
In this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, my guest Maxx and I discuss his journey of healing and learning, identity, and the complexities of navigating race and gender in various spaces. Maxx shares personal experiences with choosing their name, living up to societal expectations, going to the military, and the impact of grief after losing their mom. We emphasize the importance of support systems, friendships, and the need for research and self-awareness in today's fast-paced world. We talk: 05:51 - Navigating race and gender in professional spaces 14:29 - Military experience and gender identity 26:39 - Grief and loss of a parent 38:45 - Advice on healing and moving forward 50:53 - Research and critical thinking in the digital age Episode References: Dem Bois Podcast Ep #85 Exploring Nonbinary Identity and Queer Masculinity with Kelz Read more about Maxx in his bio below: I'm from Charleston SC. I love food. I’m a chef on a break. I lost my mom about 2 years ago so coping and dealing with that is really all I have been focusing on. I have a wife and a 10 year old daughter and a 5 year old son. My son is a dog. Learning and healing is the journey I’m on.
Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Breaking Barriers and Advocating for the South with Demarco Lord | 30 Jul 2025 | 01:12:07 | |
I’ve said it once on this podcast and I will say it again: you don’t have to have surgery to be a trans man! You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do. You just have to feel comfortable in your body and do what is best for you! And that is what this episode of Dem Bois Podcast is all about. Today I sit down with Demarco Lord, and he shares his journey as an intersex male of trans experience and discusses the challenges faced by the Black LGBTQ+ community in the South. We discuss the need for mental health support and resources for marginalized individuals and the importance of resilience and love in moving forward. We talk: 11:50 - Intersex identity and personal experiences 21:01 - Challenges and triumphs in the south 40:11 - Creating inclusive spaces in mental health 49:13 - Navigating social media and mental health 59:59 - Building infrastructure for trans rights Episode References: Read more about Demarco in his bio below: ADVOCATES OF THE SOUTH INC. , was founded by a intersex male of Trans experience, through the lived experiences with dealing with the many disparities in the South, lack of resources and oppression in black communities ADVOCATES OF THE SOUTH INC. was born. A message from the Founder: DeMarco T Lord When we say all, Black lives matter, when we say no one left behind, it begins to bring a true Love and an atmosphere that we can all thrive in. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Navigating Identity, Activism, and Culture with Nat Moghe | 23 Jul 2025 | 01:03:54 | |
Gender affirming care is not just for trans folks. It is for everyone! And gender affirming care doesn’t have to mean surgery. It could mean wearing clothes that feel comfortable to you! And we dive deeper into this topic on this episode of Dem Bois Podcast. Today, my guest Nat Moghe shares their journey of navigating identity, community, and activism. They discuss the importance of visibility, mutual aid, and the need for intersectional discourse in the fight for trans rights. We talk: 08:59 - Navigating transphobia and mental health 20:53 - The intersection of gender and culture 29:34 - The future of gender affirming care 35:41 - The impact of masculinity on the trans community 43:46 - Challenging misconceptions about trans existence 54:45 - Taking action in a challenging political climate Episode References: A Map of Gender-Diverse Cultures The Body Is Not An Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love, book by Sonya Renee Taylor Read more about Nat in their bio below: Nat Moghe (they/he) is a South Asian, transmasc, queer content creator and activist. As a workplace justice organizer he works to improve programs and policies to ensure that all working families have paid time to care, and advocates for fair and inclusive workplaces through community engagement. They are passionate about addressing the intersection of racial justice and LGBTQIA+ rights. They recently were appointed to the Board of Directors for Trans Lifeline, and are also a volunteer gender advocate with the Trans Advocacy & Care Team, providing free and sliding-scale peer counseling to other trans and nonbinary folks. Nat graduated from the University of Pittsburgh with a Bachelor of Arts in Sociology and Gender, Sexuality, and Women's Studies.
Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Finding Peace and Harmony Beyond Identity with Jay Moton | 16 Jul 2025 | 01:07:13 | |
If you don’t learn anything else from this podcast, please learn to choose yourself first! In a way that’s what this episode is all about. Today on Dem Bois Podcast, my guest Jay Moten shares his journey of self-discovery and healing through self-care practices such as yoga, meditation, and breathwork. He discusses the intersectionality of race, gender, and identity, and how these elements shape his experiences as a trans man. Jay emphasizes the importance of community support and the need for safe spaces for trans individuals, particularly men of color. We talk: 05:55 - Jay’s journey of identity and name selection 14:27 - Spirituality and personal growth 20:41 - Transitioning and finding community 33:25 - Exploring family and identity 41:58 - Finding wholeness beyond labels 51:43 - Integrating self-care practices 01:01:06 - Creating a legacy through storytelling Episode References: Dem Bois Podcast Ep. 85 with Kelz Read more about Jay in his bio below: Jay Moton is a dedicated teacher, speaker, healer, and guide, passionate about fostering authentic transformation and self-discovery. Since embarking on his yogic journey in 2007, Jay has integrated Yoga, Breathwork, Meditation, and Sound Healing into his work, helping individuals cultivate self-love and deepen their inner awareness. As the lead facilitator of The Intentional Man Project, he creates space for transmen to find community, connection, and inner alignment. Known for his heart-centered and uplifting approach, Jay inspires compassion and personal growth. Through his classes, workshops, and retreats, he empowers individuals to release fears, transcend limitations, and embrace their highest potential.
Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| The Intersection of Identity and Creativity with Cowboy Poet Grayson Thompson | 09 Jul 2025 | 01:03:46 | |
It is really important to center grace in your life, especially right now with everything going on in the world. So I’m excited to introduce today’s guest on Dem Bois Podcast, because he went so far as to use the word “grace” in his name. In this episode, Grayson Thompson, a Black Jamaican American queer transgender cowboy poet and mental health therapist, shares his journey of identity, family dynamics, and the art of writing. He discusses the significance of his name, the complexities of his relationship with his mother, and the impact of his transition on his life and work. Grayson also reads his poetry, which reflects his experiences and thoughts on love, loss, and acceptance, emphasizing the importance of visibility and representation in the LGBTQ+ community. We talk: 03:03 Grayson’s name and identity journey 11:46 The role of a mental health therapist 20:23 The significance of family and legacy 31:34 Eldership and visibility 43:15 Reflections on life and death 50:52 The importance of community and support Episode References: Read more about Grayson in his bio below: Grayson Thompson [he/him] is a Black, Jamaican-American, queer transgender cowboy poet who moonlights as a mental health therapist. A mouthful, Grayson is Foglifter Press's 2024 Start A Riot! Chapbook Prize Winner with “Sand Bodied Florida Boy” (June 2025) and Winner of Write Bloody Publishing's 2024 Jack McCarthy Book Prize (forthcoming September 2025). Grayson has been featured in Cathexis Northwest Press, Cleaver (nominated for Best of the Net Anthology), Poetry Online, and other spaces. A teaching assistant for poet Buddy Wakefield’s Writer’s Anonymous, he supports emerging and established writers. A wanderer, he lives in Northern California and in awe of the ocean
Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Building Confidence in Queerness and Self-Expression with Dr. Van Bailey | 28 May 2025 | 01:16:08 | |
The anxiety we are collectively feeling in this post-election climate is real! That’s why it’s so important to ground yourself and be kind to yourself. And, in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, my guest, Dr. Van Bailey and I discuss grounding practices, mental health, and the impact of kindness. The discussion also covers the challenges and triumphs of modeling as a trans person, advocating for greater representation in the fashion industry. And, we explore themes of queerness, self-expression, and the importance of community support for trans youth. We talk: 09:56 - Dr. Van’s journey of identity and transition 20:07 - Modeling as a trans person 30:03 - Understanding non-binary identity and gender dynamics 40:05 - Navigating barbershop conversations 51:06 - The importance of self-care and grooming 01:05:12 - Navigating political challenges for trans rights Episode References: Campaign for Southern Equality - IG Read more about Dr. Van in their bio below: Dr. Van Bailey (they/them/theirs) is an award-winning educator and consultant. Their speeches, content, and workshops relate to LGBTQ+ equity, mental health, and belonging in the workplace. They have experience overseeing offices that address implicit bias, LGBTQ+ equity, and diversity and inclusion. As a past director for diversity and inclusion, they have spoken on the importance of gender equity, authenticity, and belonging in the workplace. Dr. Bailey was listed in the Out 100 and Business Equality Magazine's 40 under 40. Dr. Bailey holds a BA from Denison University in English and Black Studies, an MA from Ohio State University in Higher Education and Student Affairs, and a Doctorate in Educational Leadership from California State University - Northridge.
Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Building Technology for Social and Cultural Good with Dr. Kortney Ziegler | 21 May 2025 | 01:10:26 | |
In this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, we get to talk about the impact of visibility equalling possibility and the significance of building technology for social good. Today I sit down with Dr. Kortney Ziegler, a serial social entrepreneur, and we discuss the importance of community and compassion, grief after losing a parent, and cultural dynamics of living in South Africa. The conversation touches on themes of aging, representation in media, and the complexities of identity within the diaspora. We talk: 06:14 Embracing aging and wisdom 17:59 Visibility and representation in media 24:33 Life in South Africa from a trans perspective 37:21 Cultural displacement and loneliness 46:52 Grief and loss 55:44 Building technology for social good Episode References: Still Black: A Portrait of Black Transmen (2008) The Changemakers Guide - preorder Read more about Kortney in his bio below: Kortney Ziegler, PhD, is the founder and CEO of WellMoney, a money-sharing community that enables members to both receive and provide monetary aid during times of financial emergencies. Kortney is a serial social entrepreneur who previously co-founded a crowdfunding platform—Appolition—that raised over $1 million to pay bail for people who couldn’t afford it and Trans*H4CK, a nonprofit that creates tech for the transgender community and visibility for trans technologists and entrepreneurs. Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Fostering Community and Collaboration through Creative Expression with rommy torrico | 14 May 2025 | 01:00:18 | |
How do you foster community and collaboration? One way is through art and activism. And, we dive into that in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast. Today I sit down with rommy torico, a formerly undocumented queer, trans, non-binary visual artist, and they share their experiences navigating identity, survival, and self-discovery. We also discuss the impact of being undocumented on their gender journey, the importance of college as a space for exploration, the complexities of family dynamics during the coming out process, and the significance of mental health support. We talk: 11:22 The Impact of Survival on Self-Discovery 20:10 The Role of Chosen Family and Community 24:19 Navigating Relationships and Trauma 39:34 Art as a Medium for Social Justice 49:31 Future Aspirations and Uncertainties Episode References: Read more about rommy in their bio below: rommy torrico is a formerly undocumented, queer, trans nonbinary visual artist born in Iquique, Chile and raised in Florida. They have been involved in social movement spaces encompassing (im)migrant, queer and trans rights struggles for over a decade and infuse much of their work with personal experience and the stories their communities share. Over the years, Torrico’s work has been included in several publications and exhibited at the Getty Museum, the Smithsonian Museum, the Library of Congress and the Museo Nacional Centro de Arte Reina Sofía as well as many galleries and museums throughout the Americas and internationally.
Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Exploring Nonbinary Identity and Queer Masculinity with Kelz | 07 May 2025 | 01:04:29 | |
Many times when we hear or read the phrase soul mate, we think of it in a very romantic way. But, soul mate relationships can be platonic. They can be found in friendships that love us down and encourage us to be our full selves. And, in this Dem Bois Podcast first, I sit down with Kelz and we discuss what that term actually means. In this conversation, we dive into critical analysis, identity, and the significance of friendship and community. And, Kelz emphasizes the importance of visibility in queer narratives and the personal nature of identity language. They also recite a really great poem at the end of the episode, so be sure to listen! We talk: 09:07 Exploring gender identity and fluidity 18:04 The significance of the term 'stud' and class privilege 26:08 Understanding non-binary identities 34:58 Kelz work, 'we was boys together' 45:55 Rekindling friendship and identity 01:00:55 Kelz’ poetry Episode References The Aggressives (Documentary 2005) Between Women (TV Series 2011-2013) we was bois together by Kelsey L. Smoot Read more about Kelz in thier bio below: Kelsey L. Smoot (They/Them/He/Him) is a full-time PhD student in the interdisciplinary social sciences and humanities, as well as a poet, advocate, and frequent writer of critical analysis. They are the author of a chapbook titled We Was Bois Together (CLASH! an Imprint of Mouthfeel Press). Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Finding Comfort in this Uncomfortable World with Monroe Banuelos | 30 Apr 2025 | 00:49:45 | |
Self-affirmation has become a buzzword in this day and age, but its power isn’t debatable. When you are consistently affirming yourself, words from others won’t affect you as much. We talk about that in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast. Today I sit down with Monroe, a model, author, and influencer, and we discuss challenges of name changes, gender expression, and the evolving landscape of social media. Monroe also shares his journey of self-discovery, including his transition, the importance of self-care, and the significance of visibility in the trans community. We talk: 05:07 The importance of self-care during transition 15:13 Understanding gender expression 24:38 The power of digital reach 31:36 Mental health and social media 42:16 Creating for the community Episode References: Read more about Monroe in his bio below: Monroe Banuelos is a transgender man, best known for his influence on Instagram and TikTok. Aside from that, Monroe is also known for modeling, his ebook for trans men, and his clothing brand 'Lucky Ba$tard'.
Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Loving Yourself Through Gender Dysphoria with Tommy Colby McCray | 23 Apr 2025 | 00:58:01 | |
In this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, I get the chance to sit down with someone who is just starting out on their gender journey, Tommy Colby McCray. Tommy is a serial writer and uses writing as a therapeutic outlet for stabilizing their mental health. They share their journey of self-discovery, navigating gender dysphoria, and the complexities of choosing a name that resonates with their identity. We also discuss family dynamics, personal loss, and the impact of these experiences on mental health. Please note: Tommy changed his name after this recording. We talk: 10:01 Navigating gender identity and name selection 19:58 Family dynamics and personal loss 29:51 Creative aspirations and Tommy’s writing process 40:06 Finding community and support 50:53 Reflections on loss and regret Episode References: Read more about Tommy in his bio below: I am just learning myself as not only a serial tv writer but as a person who's just been diagnosed with gender dysphoria
Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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| Financial Advice for Building Queer and Trans Wealth with Leo Aquino | 16 Apr 2025 | 00:55:40 | |
Many people have a bad relationship with money. There is shame and guilt surrounding income and spending, and we don’t talk about it enough. So, in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, we share some advice from financial coach Leo Aquino. Leo discusses their journey of self-discovery, the importance of financial literacy, especially within the queer and trans community, and the founding of Queer and Trans Wealth, an organization that provides financial coaching and education focused on the needs of queer & trans communities across the US. We talk: 08:24 Understanding Leo’s non-binary identity 20:15 The birth of Queer and Trans Wealth 31:02 Practical advice for managing debt 41:42 The Pay It Forward Fund 49:15 Building financial literacy for future generations Episode References: Read more about Leo in their bio below: Leo Aquino is a financial coach, multidisciplinary artist, and award-winning journalist. Leo is the founder of Queer & Trans Wealth, an organization that provides financial coaching and education focused on the needs of queer & trans communities across the US.
Celebrate 10 years of Dem Bois Inc.! 2026 marks ten years of Dem Bois Inc. To honor this milestone, we invite you to join our 10 for 10 campaign by giving $10 a month to help sustain the care, leadership, and visibility that trans men of color deserve. Your support helps build a future rooted in care, visibility, and possibility. Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color! The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here! - Not just merch, but a movement! Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.
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