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Defy the Norm Podcast

Nomads With A Purpose

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Frequency: 1 episode/27d. Total Eps: 82

We’re the Robledo Family and we're here to inspire you to boldly and unapologetically live outside the box, dream big, and question everything. We are here to show you how to DEFY THE NORM. Back in 2015, Robyn and her husband, Victor, decided to ditch the rat race with their 5 kids in tow. They moved their family into a 30 foot RV, and began traveling the world in search of epic trails to hike, rocks to climb, and waves to surf. Along with their full-time RV life, they traveled to 26 countries in search of adventure, fulfillment, and purpose. In the journey, they discovered a new reality. The reality that...Life is an endless sea of opportunity and it’s best experienced right outside your comfort zone. We’re here to inspire you to do the same. Robyn Robledo, Co-founder of Nomads With A Purpose, aims to share inspiration on life, confidence, purpose, and bravery to go against the grain as she interviews her family and other figures of radical bravery and stoke.

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132 We Escaped the Rat Race for 11 Years. Why Did We Come Back?

Episode 164

Sunday, October 18, 2026 • Duration 45:02

What happens when the life you worked so hard to create needs to change?

In 2015, Robyn Robledo and her family moved into an RV for what was supposed to be five months. Eleven years of travel, surfing, hiking, and climbing followed. Now, with a home base and children building lives of their own, she’s navigating a different kind of adventure.

In this honest conversation, Robyn explores freedom, family connection, rediscovering yourself beyond motherhood, and the discomfort of choosing a new chapter.

She shares why the family returned, how everyday commitments can quietly take over your calendar, and the simple practice that helped her begin changing her life: get curious, then take a step toward that curiosity.

A conversation for anyone who loves their family and still wonders what else life could hold.

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131 How We Stopped Living by Society’s Rules and Built a Life That Felt Like Ours

Episode 163

Tuesday, September 22, 2026 • Duration 47:59

00:01–01:22: Robyn and Victor reintroduce Nomads With a Purpose and the Defy the Norm podcast after a long break. They reflect on 11 years of full-time travel with five children and how challenges helped them grow individually, spiritually, and as a couple.
01:22–03:37: Victor describes how trying to remain likable and adapting his personality to each coaching client caused exhaustion and anxiety. His overworked nervous system kept inventing worst-case scenarios and made it difficult to distinguish real danger from fear.
03:37–07:40: They contrast familiar, controlled hardship—such as weight training or jiu-jitsu—with the uncertainty of travel and adventure. Robyn explains that repeated exposure to unfamiliar challenges develops self-trust, self-worth, risk assessment, and authenticity.
07:40–13:19: Their three-part framework for change is to calm the nervous system, step slightly outside the comfort zone, and question whether fearful reactions are based on facts, old conditioning, family patterns, or society’s expectations.
13:19–18:43: Traveling gave their children strong identities, confidence, and the ability to assess risk. Their current challenge is learning how to turn their authentic interests into sustainable work without falling into comparison, competition, conformity, or the pursuit of security at all costs.
18:43–24:55: A six-month European trip removed the pressure of extended-family expectations and strengthened the family as a team. However, Victor’s exhaustion, lack of involvement in planning, and fear of disappointing clients demonstrate how an overwhelmed nervous system can follow someone into even their dream lifestyle.
24:55–34:33: They revisit difficult periods in Bend and Breckenridge, including career setbacks, unsuitable jobs, financial strain, and an RV accident. In hindsight, they see these events as experiences that ultimately led them to their ideal Bend property and a more collaborative marriage.
34:33–40:17: Spirituality helped Victor move beyond seeing himself only as a provider and grinder. He now believes his gifts have a larger purpose and that it is healthy to desire abundance, influence, and income—especially when those resources allow him to help more people.
40:17–45:29: Victor explains his coaching approach: he identifies patterns in movement, posture, breathing, fascia, and emotional stress. He believes healing accelerates when physical retraining is combined with examining the emotions, experiences, and identities being held in the body.
45:29–47:45: Their central family lesson is to stop treating life as a collection of prescribed roles and schedules and begin operating as a team. Families can ask, “How do we want to live, thrive, and wake up excited?” instead of automatically following society’s definition of a good life.

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A Playful Life: Think To Play

Episode 156

Tuesday, February 3, 2026 • Duration 01:13:13

This is the MINDSET PROGRAM to Robyn's book, A Playful Life: Think, Move, & Eat Your Way to More Fun

Are you an adventure-seeking woman who would love to have more energy and a strong, capable body?

In this book, Robyn shares her mindset, workout, and nutrition plan, allowing her to spend her days chasing outdoor adventures like rock climbing, surfing, mountain biking, and skiing.

Click here to access the ebook version of A Playful Life for free.

Click here to order the paperback copy of A Playful Life, which is filled with delicious recipes and all the workouts.

Click here to sign up for coaching with Robyn or Victor.

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A Playful Life: Move To Play

Episode 155

Tuesday, February 3, 2026 • Duration 14:59

This is the WORKOUT PROGRAM to Robyn's book, A Playful Life: Think, Move, & Eat Your Way to More Fun

Are you an adventure-seeking woman who would love to have more energy and a strong, capable body?

In this book, Robyn shares her mindset, workout, and nutrition plan, allowing her to spend her days chasing outdoor adventures like rock climbing, surfing, mountain biking, and skiing.

Click here to access the ebook version of A Playful Life for free.

Click here to order the paperback copy of A Playful Life, which is filled with delicious recipes and all the workouts.

Click here to sign up for coaching with Robyn or Victor.

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A Playful Life: Eat To Play

Episode 154

Tuesday, February 3, 2026 • Duration 01:29:06

This is the NUTRITION PROGRAM to Robyn's book, A Playful Life: Think, Move, & Eat Your Way to More Fun

Are you an adventure-seeking woman who would love to have more energy and a strong, capable body?

In this book, Robyn shares her mindset, workout, and nutrition plan, allowing her to spend her days chasing outdoor adventures like rock climbing, surfing, mountain biking, and skiing.

Click here to access the ebook version of A Playful Life for free.

Click here to order the paperback copy of A Playful Life, which is filled with delicious recipes and all the workouts.

Click here to sign up for coaching with Robyn or Victor.

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130 Why Fun is the Secret to Living Your Best Life

Episode 162

Tuesday, January 14, 2025 • Duration 38:34

Are you stuck in a cycle of work, responsibilities, and endless routine?

Join Victor and Robyn as they challenge everything you thought you knew about living a fulfilling life.

In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into why fun isn't just a luxury—it's a necessity for personal growth, happiness, and true wellness.

Discover: - Why your "someday" might never come - How adventure sports can transform your mindset - The truth about health, wellness, and living with purpose - Practical strategies to break free from comfort zone limitations - Personal stories of overcoming fear and embracing excitement

Whether you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or just curious about injecting more joy into your life, this episode is your wake-up call.

Learn how to redefine your perfect day, challenge your limiting beliefs, and create a life that makes you jump out of bed with enthusiasm.

Warning: This episode may cause spontaneous adventure planning, sudden bursts of excitement, and a complete reimagining of what's possible in your life.

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128 Communication Is More Than Just Talking

Episode 160

Saturday, December 28, 2024 • Duration 59:17

In this week's episode, we are covering:

Communication: More Than Just Talking One of our biggest struggles has been truly understanding each other. Robyn would talk for hours, feeling unheard, while Victor would listen intently but miss the emotional core of what I was saying. It wasn't about the words, but about the feeling behind them. Victor's perspective was different. He was trying to find the core message, the one sentence that would validate my feelings. But our communication styles were fundamentally misaligned.

The Power of Understanding Personal Growth We discovered that our individual growth paths were crucial to our relationship. Victor, for instance, requires extensive self-care – sometimes up to 4-5 hours daily. This isn't indulgence, but a necessary process of emotional and physical reset. For Robyn, growth meant learning to trust the universe, to understand that I couldn't force change in Victor, but could only transform myself.

Breaking Down Our Communication Differences Our Myers-Briggs types play a significant role in how we communicate: - Victor is more focused on feelings, memories, and past experiences - Robyn is driven by future goals, efficiency, and forward momentum. This fundamental difference used to create conflict, but now we've learned to see it as a strength.

The Turning Point: Rediscovering Connection We started spending time together in our hot tub, reconnecting and trying to understand each other's perspectives. We realized that:

1. Individual growth is crucial 2. Communication is about understanding, not just talking 3. Relationships require constant intentional effort

Our Relationship Toolkit We've developed strategies that have helped us: - Practice radical open-mindedness - Communicate honestly - Respect individual journeys - Create shared goals - Maintain personal growth

A Message of Hope To couples struggling in long-term relationships, we want to say: Don't give up. Relationships are not about perfection, but about continuous growth and commitment.

Key Takeaways: - Prioritize your partnership - Communicate openly - Maintain individual growth - Be patient with yourself and your partner - Regularly reassess and realign your relationship

127 Choosing Your Spouse or Children: A Candid Conversation About Relationship Dynamics

Episode 159

Saturday, December 21, 2024 • Duration 30:22

In a raw and vulnerable podcast episode, Victor and Robyn share their journey of navigating marriage, parenthood, and personal growth.

Their story reveals a common relationship challenge: The delicate balance between prioritizing your spouse and your children.

The Roots of Disconnection:

Robyn candidly admits that for years, she chose her children over her husband. This wasn't a deliberate decision, but a gradual process rooted in several factors:

1. Changing Dynamics: As their family grew and children became more involved in activities, their relationship shifted from being couple-centered to child-centered.

2. Unaddressed Expectations: Small feelings of betrayal and unmet expectations began to create distance between them.

3. Individual Pursuits: Victor's jujitsu and Robyn's yoga and surfing became separate activities that further pulled them apart.

The Self-Care Connection: A key insight from their conversation is the critical role of self-care. Victor, in particular, requires extensive daily self-care - sometimes up to 4-5 hours - to feel grounded and balanced. This includes: - Listening to educational content - Stretching and mobility work - Breathwork - Workouts - Running - Mobility Therapy

What Keeps Them Together Despite their challenges? Two things have sustained their relationship:

1. Open-mindedness: Both are willing to listen and explore new ideas. 2. Self-discipline: Each are commitment to physical health and self-improvement

The Missing Piece: Shared Vision

Currently, they're working to develop a shared vision for their future. Robyn emphasizes the importance of not just existing, but actively creating something meaningful together.

Key Takeaways:

- Relationships require constant communication and realignment - Self-care is crucial, but shouldn't come at the expense of connection - Maintaining individual growth while nurturing the relationship is challenging but possible

126 Journey to Self-Love: My Transformative Ayahuasca Experience

Season 1 · Episode 1

Monday, September 16, 2024 • Duration 41:33

Welcome to the Defy the Norm podcast. In this solo cast, host Victor Robledo shares his deeply transformative experience from a recent ayahuasca retreat. Victor and his wife, Robin, have been living a life of adventure with their five children for the past 10 years, and this retreat marks a significant milestone in their spiritual journey.

Victor candidly discusses his initial trepidations, the build-up to the retreat, and the powerful self-love he discovered. He reflects on his struggles with ADD, anxiety, and past traumas, and how the retreat helped him confront and heal these issues. Through vivid storytelling, he recounts his interactions with the ayahuasca entity, the intense emotional purging, and the overwhelming feeling of peace and clarity that followed.

This episode is a raw and honest account of personal growth and the profound impact of ayahuasca. Whether you're considering a retreat yourself or simply curious about the experience, Victor's journey offers valuable insights and inspiration. Tune in to learn more about his path to self-discovery and the power of this sacred medicine.

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125 Navigating Marriage Growth: Communication, Understanding, and Personal Development

Episode 157

Saturday, January 6, 2024 • Duration 31:06

Tired of the constant battles with your spouse? In this video, we explore game-changing strategies that have helped us turn conflict into connection within our relationship.

Learn effective communication techniques, conflict resolution skills, and actionable tips to break the cycle of constant arguments.

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