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🎙️ Welcome to the very first episode of Dear Tisia — a space for real, raw, and unfiltered conversations about relationships, healing, and becoming the best version of yourself.
In this episode, I’m joined by my good friend Samira as we dive into what it means to hold your standards, trust yourself, and protect your peace — even when life (and love) gets messy. We’re talking red flags, dating preferences, confidence after a breakup, and why investing in yourself always pays off.

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On this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re talking: Would you marry someone and get divorced less than two months later? On this episode of Dear Tisia, we unpack Brittany Renner’s viral reveal that she and Kevin Gates got married — and separated just 52 days later. Is that fearless love… or a red flag? Then we get into a wild clip where a man says he doesn’t care if a woman is “good” — because he’ll perfect her. Alpha energy or manipulative mindset?

And in our voicemails:
💔 A woman walks away from her engagement after feeling constantly unprotected by her fiancé — even in front of their child.
 💬 Another woman’s new boo suddenly goes cold, blaming it on work… but is that the truth or just the typical ghosting lie?

Tisia breaks it all down — with honesty, heart, and that signature real talk.
👇 Sound off in the comments. What’s the biggest red flag you see?

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On this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re talking about love, power, and what happens when waiting goes way too far. Would you ever get down on one knee and propose to your man? A viral video sparks the question — and we unpack the real power dynamics behind who proposes and why.

Then we dive into another trending topic: what happens when someone finally gets the person they chased for years… and suddenly switches up? Is it love, or resentment in disguise? And as always, we answer your voicemails. From a woman who got ghosted and gaslit after a phone call exposed the truth… to someone questioning if lunch with “just a friend” is a red flag when it’s being hidden. Grab your tea, press play, and drop your thoughts in the comments:

💬 Should women propose to men?
💬 Do you believe some people pursue you just to punish you?
💬 Would you trust a “just friends” lunch you had to find out about?


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This episode of Dear Tisia dives deep into four stories that’ll have you feeling everything — heartbreak, betrayal, silence, and survival.

We start with the devastating story of Jade Damarell, a seasoned skydiver who tragically lost her life just one day after a breakup. With questions swirling and pain echoing through the headlines, we explore what it means to support people through quiet suffering.

Then, we meet Precious — a woman who gave up everything for her husband, only to discover he was cheating with her cousin. Her story isn’t just about betrayal — it’s about the brave road back to self-worth.

Next, we unpack the trauma of being ghosted while pregnant — a woman who went through an ectopic pregnancy with no real support from the man who helped create the child. And finally, a woman torn between love and letting go asks the hardest question: how do you get over someone who was never going to choose you?

🖤 If you’ve ever loved hard, lost deeply, or healed loudly — this episode is for you.

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Tisia breaks it all down — with honesty, heart, and that signature real talk. 
👇 Sound off in the comments. What’s the biggest red flag you see? 

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This week on Dear Tisia, we’re diving into the deep, complicated, and often heartbreaking sides of modern love and friendship. First, we hear from a woman torn between love and loyalty — after watching her close friend marry a man who’s repeatedly cheated and disrespected her. Their friendship is now on the rocks. Is she wrong for no longer supporting the marriage? Then, a caller opens up about getting back with an ex after years of growth… but his old drama isn’t fully gone. His ex keeps calling her nonstop. How do you protect your peace while navigating someone else’s chaos? And finally, a powerful and self-aware 26-year-old wonders why, despite doing the inner work, therapy, and staying true to her standards, she’s still attracting the wrong kinds of men. She’s not settling — but she’s still single. If you’ve ever felt stuck between your values and your feelings, or questioned whether love will show up for you in the right way — this episode is for you.

👇 Drop your advice in the comments and share your experience. You never know who it might help.

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In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re diving into the real dilemmas women are facing in today’s dating world.

➡️ One caller is stuck between red flags and potential — after a seemingly great Bumble date, she discovers he lied about his height and his interests. Is it petty to walk away now… or smart to trust her gut?

➡️ Another woman is trying to decode mixed signals when a guy asks for her Instagram instead of her number. Is this the new norm… or a sign he’s not serious?

➡️ And then we hear from Julie — a 35-year-old single mom who’s feeling emotionally drained and stuck in her journey to find a husband. She’s putting herself out there, but keeps coming up short. Her vulnerability will hit home for anyone dating with intention.

Plus: We touch on Nelly & Ashanti’s latest moment and what it reveals about love, timing, and second chances. 

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This week on Dear Tisia, we’re diving into the raw, real, and sometimes heartbreaking side of modern relationships. First up: the rise of the silent divorce — when couples are still married on paper, but emotionally tapped out. Is staying out of duty more dangerous than walking away? Then we unpack the latest from the Cardi B and Offset divorce saga — including Offset’s request for spousal support and what that says about power, parenting, and partnership. We also answer a listener’s question about trusting your gut: how do you know if he’s playing you or if you’re self-sabotaging something real? And finally, we talk about dating while raising a teenage son. Are single moms unfairly written off in the dating world? If you’ve ever questioned your relationship, your choices, or your worth — this episode is for you. Drop a comment with your thoughts and stories. We’re all figuring it out together 💬👇

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In this episode of Dear Tisia, the questions hit hard and the stories are even harder to believe. One caller is struggling with a shift in her relationship dynamic—her boyfriend, who’s always paid for everything, now wants her to offer to contribute. Is this a red flag or just a healthy boundary? Another woman from Colorado opens up about being labeled “too friendly” since moving to the DMV. Can you be warm and approachable without being mistaken for a flirt? We also get a heartbreaking call from a sister worried about her sibling re-entering a dangerous relationship after finding out her boyfriend slapped her—again. Should she intervene, or will that push her sister away? And finally… a viral story that has everyone talking. A woman stands by her man after he gets shot by the boyfriend of the woman he cheated with. With a baby at home and three other women at the hospital—she still chose to stay. Would you? Drop your thoughts in the comments. Let’s talk about it.

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In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re diving deep into the messy middle of love, respect, and knowing when to walk away.

💌 First, we hear from a confident woman juggling multiple casual situations — no commitment on either side — but now she’s wondering if respect can survive after the physical is involved. Can you keep it fun and still protect your heart?

💍 Next, a caller in the “rebuilding” stage of a relationship asks the question many face: When is it time to make it official again? After months of healing, how long is too long to wait for a commitment?

🚪 Then, a woman in a six-year situationship with zero emotional, financial, or spiritual support is desperate to finally leave… but keeps letting him back in. With her 40th birthday approaching, she wants to reclaim her peace, her space, and her future.

🌹 Fragrance Break: We’re featuring Soie Malaquais by Dries Van Noten — notes of bergamot, black currant, rose, silk, chestnut, and cocoa.

🚩 Red Flag Report: We unpack the internet debate around Keyshia Ka’oir Davis’ viral comments about how she cares for her husband Gucci Mane. Is it empowering devotion… or self-sacrifice disguised as love language?

👇 Sound off in the comments — Can casual sex and respect co-exist? Would you wait months to be “official” again? And is too much love even a thing?

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In this emotional and revealing episode of Dear Tisia, we’re talking about the heartbreak, healing, and hard truths behind modern relationships and dating.

💔 First up, a woman shares how a promising six-week romance turned devastating — when she found out she was pregnant and the man completely ghosted her. No response, blocked everywhere. Now she’s asking: Should she keep trying to reach out… or let go and protect her peace?

🗣️ Then, we meet a brave caller reentering the dating world after 20 years — three years post-divorce and introverted by nature, she’s struggling with what to say and how to not feel awkward. We’re giving her real tools and encouragement for building confidence in this new dating era.

💍 And finally, what happens when five years, a child, and love aren’t enough? A woman who gave her man a marriage ultimatum finds herself back in the same cycle when he suddenly changes his mind… again. Is it love, fear, or manipulation? 

🚩 Plus, in this week’s Red Flag Report, we’re diving into the Tea App drama — an anonymous gossip platform that started as fun and quickly turned toxic. From false rumors to identity leaks, we’re asking: Is this tea… or trauma?

👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments — have you experienced something similar? Let’s talk.

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In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking some of the rawest, most relatable questions women are asking in today’s dating world. 💌 First, we hear from a confident, successful single mom who’s over chasing men in what she calls the “Sassy Era.” She’s wondering: Where are the masculine men who actually want to lead and provide? 💍 Then, we tackle a heartfelt dilemma from a woman torn between love and tradition. Should she move across the country for a man she loves — without a ring? Or is she risking it all for the “girlfriend” title? ⚖️ And finally, one caller opens up about the unexpected shift in her friendships after a 100+ pound weight loss. Now that she’s smaller, men who once saw her platonically are acting… different. Can men and women really be just friends? This episode is full of honesty, growth, and hard conversations about love, gender roles, and evolving expectations. Whether you’re single, in a situationship, or navigating life after a glow-up — there’s something here for you.

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This episode of Dear Tisia is packed with real, raw questions about modern love, betrayal, and boundaries.

💌 A newly confident woman wants to know why men can talk endlessly but won’t actually plan the date — and what dating looks like when you’re abstinent.

💔 Another caller shares how her longtime friend turned lover dropped a devastating secret: his “soon-to-be ex-wife” is pregnant. Can trust survive when the truth comes out too late?

😤 And one woman isn’t satisfied with the weakest apology of all time. After finding out her partner cheated years ago, she’s wondering: Is “I’m sorry” enough when the betrayal still cuts deep?

 🚩 Plus, in the Red Flag Report, we dive into Love & Hip Hop drama after Yandy Smith admitted to having an emotional affair. Is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating?

👇 Join the conversation in the comments — would YOU forgive any of these situations?

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This episode of Dear Tisia is full of real-life struggles, shocking stories, and lessons about love and self-respect.

💌 A 33-year-old single mom wonders if she’s protecting her peace or blocking her blessings by keeping her dating life and her son separate.

💔 Another caller shares a wild story about her friend’s toxic ex — a man who told her to prove she could have a babybefore committing, then cruelly flipped the script after she did.

😤 And one woman is finally standing up for herself with boundaries — but instead of support, she’s being called “mean.” We break down why women often face guilt when choosing self-love.

🚩 In the Red Flag Report, David Justice’s resurfaced comments about Halle Berry spark a debate on “traditional” gender roles, respect for exes, and what it really means to be “motherly.”

👇 Share your thoughts in the comments — are standards, boundaries, and clapbacks always a good thing in love?

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This episode of Dear Tisia is full of real-life struggles, shocking stories, and lessons about love and self-respect. This episode of Dear Tisia is full of love lessons, red flags, and tough decisions.

💌 First, a woman questions why—after eight years—her boyfriend still hides her from his mother. Is it work stress, or just avoidance?

💔 Next, another caller shares how her new man went from passionate to distant after she said she wasn’t ready for sex. Is that respect… or punishment?

😬 And one woman considers reconciling with her ex — but he cheated with a coworker he still sees every day. Can trust really be rebuilt in that situation?

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🚩 And in the Red Flag Report, Ayesha Curry’s candid reveal about never wanting marriage or kids raises questions: Did love change her mind… or is it a red flag when someone shifts so quickly?

👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments — would YOU stay in any of these situations?

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This week’s Dear Tisia is all about hard choices, hidden truths, and redefining what love really means.

💌 First, a woman fears she’s helping a man heal spiritually and emotionally — only for him to say he’s not ready for a relationship. Is she building him up for someone else?

💔 Another caller is dating a financially stable man with everything “on paper,” but wonders if emotional and intellectual gaps mean he’s not truly her match.

😬 And one woman thought she found the perfect man — until she discovered he was cheating, even after giving her full access to his phone. Now he wants her back, but does he even deserve it?

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🚩 And in the Red Flag Report, Ciara shuts down critics calling Russell Wilson “corny” — raising the question: if honoring your wife is corny, is the problem him… or all of us?

👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments — would YOU stay in any of these situations?

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This episode of Dear Tisia dives into real dilemmas, shocking betrayals, and a viral red flag that shook the internet.

💌 First, a 26-year-old is ready for love but feels trapped in her small-town dating pool. Should she stay local or hit bigger cities to find the right one?

💔 Then, a mom of one is devastated after her man moved his ex and her kids into his home, leaving her and their daughter sidelined. Is there any way forward?

😳 Next, a woman planning marriage with her man has one big issue — his mama. From shaving his back to kissing him on the mouth, their closeness feels way too close.

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🚩 And in the Red Flag Report, we unpack UK influencer Ginga Jay’s viral “I hate Black women” rant on BK Chat London. Was it just for controversy, or a massive red flag about character?

 👇 Join the conversation in the comments — would YOU stay in any of these situations?

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This week’s Dear Tisia is about being honest with yourself, setting boundaries, and asking the hard questions in love.

💌 First, a woman is tired of being the “option” instead of the priority — even though she’s attractive, intentional, and ready for love. Why do men treat her like a backup plan?

🔥 Next, a friends-with-benefits situation gets messy when he catches feelings after a year — but she’s still firmly in the casual lane. Can it end respectfully, or does she need to walk away?

💔 And one caller’s relationship unraveled after a conversation about money and timelines. Was she asking too much — or was he avoiding accountability?

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🚩 And in the Red Flag Report, influencer Jayda Cheaves admits she’s a boss in business but struggles to apply that same power in love. Why do so many strong women stay in relationships that don’t serve them?

👇 Join the conversation in the comments — which story hit you hardest?

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Today, Dear Tisia welcomes its first-ever guest — Demetri Wiley, Chicago native, musician, and host of The Lost Loverboy Podcast. Known for his emotional honesty and poetic perspective on love, heartbreak, and healing, Demetri opens up about his journey as a man learning to love deeply and intentionally.

💬 From his parents’ influence and personal heartbreaks to his views on dating, marriage, and modern masculinity — this is one of the most honest conversations we’ve had yet.

💌 Then, we dive into two powerful Dear Tisia voicemails:• A woman ghosted after finally letting her guard down.• Another left alone in the hospital by the man she loved.

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👇 Join the conversation in the comments — which part of this episode hit you the hardest?

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This Dear Tisia episode dives into emotional endurance, boundaries, and redefining love when life keeps testing your patience.

💌 A woman is drained after three years with a man who’s unemployed (again), grieving, and leaning on her support. How long is too long to wait when love starts to feel like a burden?

🎁 Another caller wonders how much is too much when it comes to early love — should you go all out on a one-month anniversary gift, or pace your “lover girl” energy?

💔 A lifelong friendship turned romantic — and then chaotic — leaves one woman wondering if things can ever go back to how they were.

💍 And a caller thought she’d found “the one”… until jealousy and distrust shattered it all, forcing her to rebuild again — this time, in solitude.

🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we unpack two hot takes:1️⃣ The viral “Mercedes = feminine car” debate — what does that really say about our views of masculinity?2️⃣ Regina Hall and Amy Poehler’s convo on why men avoid marriage, even though they benefit from it most.
👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments — would YOU wait, stay, or walk away?

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This week’s Dear Tisia gets deep, raw, and real — exploring what happens when love looks right on paper but doesn’t feelright in practice.

💌 First, a woman finds her dream man — thoughtful, spiritual, generous — but there’s one problem: the sex just isn’t satisfying. Is it settling if everything else aligns but the chemistry doesn’t?

💔 Next, another caller faces the painful truth that love alone isn’t enough when your partner is financially unstable. Can emotional connection survive without financial compatibility?

😤 Then, a mother shares how the man who abandoned her during pregnancy came back — only to betray her again. She’s standing on business this time, fighting guilt, and reclaiming her power.

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🚩 And in the Red Flag Report, new Hinge data shows that while many men think women want money, what most women really value is effort. So if effort isn’t rooted in what your partner actually needs — is it still love, or just performance?

👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments — which situation would be hardest for you to walk away from?

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This Dear Tisia episode dives deep into the heart — from the pain of first love to the power of self-worth and the truth about emotional needs.

💌 First, a 19-year-old caller opens up about escaping her first toxic relationship — filled with emotional abuse, manipulation, and a desperate hunger for validation. Now she’s asking how to heal and rebuild her confidence so she never mistakes pain for love again.

💔 Next, another woman shares how she walked away from a man who loved her deeply — just not in her love language. Can love survive when emotional needs go unmet, or is walking away the only way to honor yourself?

😞 Then, a woman finds herself emotionally exhausted by a friend who constantly trauma dumps — and she’s torn between compassion and protecting her peace.

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🚩 And in the Red Flag Report, we unpack Jennifer Lopez’s viral revelation that after four marriages, she’s never truly felt loved. Is that a reflection of her partners… or proof that self-love has to come first?

👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments — which story or confession hit you the hardest?

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This week on Dear Tisia, we’re talking about heartbreak, hard truths, and the courage to protect your peace — even when love complicates everything.

💌 A wife discovers that her husband’s “growth” came after 11 years of deception. He’s in therapy and finally stable… but how do you heal when his transformation came too late?

💔 A 23-year-old Navy woman opens up about losing love in the middle of deployment — and how to rebuild when your ex still shares your workspace and your memories.

🏡 And a woman in love with her stud girlfriend faces the question: Should she move in to save money, even when her spirit says no?

✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we feature House by Zernell Gillie, a unisex fragrance inspired by Chicago’s house music — bold, smooth, and full of rhythm.

🚩 Finally, the Red Flag Report explores how dating in isolation may be doing us more harm than good. Have we lost the power of our village — and with it, the guidance that once protected our hearts?

👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments — Would you stay, move in, or walk away?
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This week’s Dear Tisia goes from DMs to dollars to dating after healing — and every story hits a nerve.

💌 First, a confident Ohio beauty wants to shoot her shot at a celebrity — but how do you slide into a famous man’s DMs without looking like a groupie?

💸 Next, a 36-year-old woman is in love with a good man who can’t get his money right. She’s tired of carrying the emotional and financial load and wonders if love alone can really sustain a future.

💞 Then, after eight years single and raising kids alone, a mother is ready to date again — but the modern dating world feels foreign. How does she start over with confidence?

✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we feature Tom Ford Black Orchid — a dark, luxurious blend of orchid, chocolate, and amber that’s as bold as the women we talk about.

🚩 And in the Red Flag Report, Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson spark debate over “how soon is too soon” to go public with love. Is it confidence — or a performance for the internet?

👇 Comment your thoughts below — Would you shoot your shot at a celebrity or keep it low-key?

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This week on Dear Tisia, we’re diving into emotional cycles, adult friendship struggles, confusing situationships, and one wild viral debate that has the internet divided.

💌 Voicemail #1: A woman is stuck in an on-again, off-again toxic relationship filled with manipulation, verbal abuse, and heartbreak. She knows she deserves better, but the emotional addiction won’t let her go.

💔 Voicemail #2: At 26, another caller feels disconnected from her peers. She’s intentional, mature, and ready for deep friendships — but everyone around her feels surface-level or inconsistent. Is she asking for too much, or just surrounded by the wrong people?

😩 Voicemail #3: Then a woman dating a man who acts like her boyfriend — while saying he’s “not ready for a relationship.” His actions say yes. His words say no. So what does she do?

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🚩 Red Flag Report: A woman went viral for wanting to invoice her ex for wasting 10 years of her life and “stealing her childbearing years.” Should someone be compensated for time lost — or is the real red flag staying that long hoping someone would change?

👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments — Would YOU invoice an ex, or take the L and move forward?

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This episode of Dear Tisia is about protecting your heart without hardening it — even after betrayal, abandonment, and deep disappointment.

💌 One woman asks how to stay soft after years of being let down by the men closest to her — including family, friends, and now someone she trusted deeply.

🤰 Another caller is navigating pregnancy, abandonment, and a father who wants to parent through his girlfriend instead of directly. She’s trying to decide whether co-parenting is even worth the emotional cost.

💔 And a 22-year-old woman opens up about staying with a man who cheated — with someone nothing like her — and how race, identity, and broken promises have shattered her confidence.

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🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we unpack the viral debate around chest-to-chest hugs with married men. Is it about respect… or control?

👇 Join the conversation in the comments. Where do you draw the line?

This episode of Dear Tisia is heavy, honest, and necessary. We’re talking about emotional detachment after hurt, cheating cycles that won’t heal, loving someone who never chooses you, and the growing trend of relationships with no titles — but all the intimacy.

💔 One woman ended a three-year relationship after her partner admitted he wasn’t attracted to her — only for him to come back once she lost weight. Now he’s doing everything right… but her feelings are gone.

💣 Another couple cheated on each other — but only one mistake is being weaponized. Can trust ever be rebuilt when accountability turns into punishment?

😔 And a 23-year-old single mom opens up about loving a man who barely calls, never committed, and only shows up for sex — yet still feels impossible to let go of.

✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we feature Montblanc Signature, a soft, feminine, comforting fragrance that smells like warmth and self-assurance.

🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we discuss Teyana Taylor and Aaron Pierre — doing everything that looks like a relationship… without calling it one. Is avoiding labels emotional maturity — or avoidance?

👇 Let’s talk in the comments. Which story hit you the hardest?

This week on Dear Tisia, we’re talking emotional effort, silent red flags, confusion disguised as compatibility, and one viral “move-in strategy” that has the internet screaming.

💌 Voicemail #1: After eight months of dating, she feels like she is leading the emotional progress — from “I love you” to holiday plans. Is he emotionally passive… or emotionally unavailable?

💬 Voicemail #2: She’s tired of men lying about nothing — gym trips, meals, tiny details. Is that immaturity, insecurity, or a communication red flag?

❤️ Voicemail #3: He’s kind, consistent, generous — but something still feels off. Does she like him… or just the way he treats her?

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🚩 Red Flag Report: A man has gone viral for a “step-by-step guide” teaching men how to move into your home without ever asking you.At what point does “getting comfortable” turn into calculated control?

👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments — Which situation could YOU relate to the most?

This week’s Dear Tisia dives into long-distance love, emotional avoidance, situationship cycles, separation with strings attached, and a viral celebrity controversy exposing age-gap power dynamics.

💌 Voicemail #1: She’s five months into a long-distance romance that feels like a fairytale — aligned values, support, fun, and intention. But his logical, matter-of-fact style leaves her craving deeper emotional clarity. Is he emotionally invested… or is she misreading his calm demeanor?

💔 Voicemail #2: One argument changed everything with a man she liked — now he only resurfaces when he wants intimacy. She’s torn between missing him and realizing she’s being breadcrumbed into a monthly situationship.

💍 Voicemail #3: After a year separated, her husband still isn’t putting in the work — but wants sex, emotional access, and the benefits of marriage. Should she finally close the chapter or wait for change that hasn’t come?

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🚩 Red Flag Report: Kevin Gates faces backlash for dating a 26-year-old and doubling down with disrespectful comments toward Black women. Is the age gap the issue — or what it reveals about power, control, and emotional maturity?

👇 Comment your thoughts — Would YOU stay, leave, or demand more clarity?

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This episode of Dear Tisia confronts uncomfortable truths about commitment, protection, visibility, and the modern dating culture that keeps people emotionally half-in.

💔 One woman discovers her “boyfriend” is living a double life — claiming love while still asking for other women’s Instagram handles. Is that love… or entitlement?

🚨 Another mother faces a terrifying reality when her child’s father wants to co-parent — despite his girlfriend having abused her son. How do you protect your child without being painted as bitter?

🫥 A woman questions whether love can survive without public acknowledgment after her partner repeatedly refuses to introduce her — even at major life moments.

✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we feature Hundred Silent Ways by Nishane — soft, sensual, and quietly powerful.

🚩 And in the Red Flag Report, we unpack nanoships — tiny love stories that feel good in the moment but quietly rob you of real commitment.

👇 Sound off in the comments — which red flag would you walk away from immediately?

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This episode of Dear Tisia sits at the intersection of compassion, discernment, and self-protection.

💔 One woman wonders if a man grieving multiple family suicides can truly be ready for love — or if she’s being pulled into emotional labor too soon.

🚨 Another caller admits she’s caught feelings for a client she met while working in a prison — and now chaos, overlap, and emotional unavailability are clouding her judgment.

🤍 And a single mom, still healing from trauma, asks how to eventually date the right way — without letting fear or past mistakes dictate her future.

✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we revisit Montblanc Signature, a soft, comforting scent that feels like calm confidence.

🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we debate whether living together before marriage is a smart test run — or marriage rehearsal without commitment.

👇 Join the conversation — Where do you draw the line between empathy and self-betrayal?

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In thiis episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking what happens when love ends without closure, when generosity turns into resentment, and when being “too nice” costs you clarity.

🎄 One woman is blindsided when her fiancé leaves the day after Christmas — no conversation, no explanation — after years of her supporting his dreams and building a shared life with her son.

💔 Another caller is labeled a “gold digger” after she refuses sex post-breakup — exposing how unhealed grief and emotional immaturity can masquerade as “nice guys.”

🧠 And we talk about the sweet spot — how women can lead with warmth and boundaries from the very beginning.

✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we feature Bond No. 9 Nolita, a fresh floral-woody scent that smells like confidence, clarity, and moving on with grace.

🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we unpack the revelation that Yandy Smith and Mendeecees Harris were never legally married — despite nearly a decade of playing husband and wife — and what that means for commitment, protection, and accountability.

👇 Let’s talk about it.

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In This episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking the moments that leave women confused, disappointed, and questioning themselves — even when they did nothing wrong.

✈️ One woman meets a man in the airport who chases her down, asks for her number… then switches up completely.

💸 Another caller is asked to put her car up for a loan by a man she’s been dating — and guilt-tripped when she says no.

👻 A third woman opens her heart, shows up fully, and gets ghosted right after.
✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we explore FORVR Mood – I Am Her, a warm gourmand scent that smells like confidence and boundaries.

🚩 And in the Red Flag Report, we revisit the no-labels debate through the rise and quiet end of Teyana Taylor and Aaron Pierre — asking whether undefined love can really last.
👇 Let’s talk. Because clarity is the bare minimum.

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In this powerful guest episode, Tisia sits down with Nate Cottman for an honest, grounded conversation about love, purpose, healing, and what actually matters when choosing a partner.
Nate brings a refreshing perspective on masculinity, integrity, and emotional depth, reminding us that a man’s purpose should come before partnership. Drawing from spirituality and the biblical story of Adam being given purpose before Eve, Nate explains why diligence, alignment, and character matter more than charm or chemistry.
Together, Tisia and Nate explore:

• What women should truly look for in a man beyond attraction
• Why integrity and purpose are non-negotiables
• Emotional transparency and being known for your heart
• How family dynamics and father wounds shape how we love
• The role of faith and staying aligned with God
• Emotional regulation vs shrinking yourself in relationships
• When effort is reciprocal… and when it’s not
• Therapy, healing, and timing in relationships

💌 Dear Tisia Voicemail SegmentThey also unpack a listener voicemail from a woman who feels like she’s losing herself trying to stay chosen in her relationship. The discussion breaks down:

• Emotional regulation without silencing your needs
• Whether effort after conflict is growth or a red flag
• How to tell if a relationship needs boundaries — or an ending

This episode is for anyone navigating love while trying to stay whole, aligned, and emotionally honest — without over-investing in relationships that cost you yourself.
🎁 The episode closes with a heartfelt moment of appreciation and a surprise gift for Nate, celebrating friendship, empathy, and seeing the value in one another.
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In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re breaking down one of the most frustrating dating realities… when someone wants all the benefits of a relationship, but refuses to actually commit.

🏡 One woman is living with her child’s father. They share a home, a child, and a life together… but he still says they’re not in a relationship. So what do you do when someone is building a life with you, but refuses to claim you?

⏳ Another woman has been dealing with the same man for nine months. Dates, holidays, conversations… but still no title. At what point does “taking it slow” turn into wasting your time?

💔 And one caller is stuck in a cycle of cheating and trying to fix it. When you’re the only one putting in effort, can love actually be enough to save the relationship?

🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we react to comments from Ari Lennox about choosing “toxic” partners over stable ones… and ask the real question:

Are people struggling to find healthy love… or are they overlooking it because it doesn’t feel exciting?

👇 Let’s talk about it.

In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re diving into one of the most frustrating parts of modern dating… confusion.

💭 One woman is stuck trying to figure out where she stands. The conversations are there, the connection feels real, but the effort doesn’t fully match. So now she’s asking the question so many people are thinking… is this actually going somewhere, or am I just wasting my time?

📱 Another situation highlights what happens when someone gives just enough to keep you interested, but never enough to give you clarity. When consistency is missing, how long do you wait before you walk away?

❤️ And we’re breaking down the emotional toll of dealing with mixed signals. Because at some point, confusion isn’t accidental… it’s a sign.

🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we unpack a trending conversation around dating expectations and accountability, and ask the bigger question:

Are people really confused… or are they just avoiding being clear?

👇 Let’s talk about it.

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In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking what it really takes to move on — especially when the connection doesn’t fully go away.

💔 One woman is trying to stay friends with her ex of six years — but she’s still deeply connected to his family. From being a godmother to maintaining close relationships with his mom and sister, she’s asking: can you truly move on while still holding onto those ties?

🏡 Another caller is dealing with a breakup… but there’s one problem. He lives right next door. How do you emotionally detach when you can’t create physical distance — and when the relationship ended with unresolved feelings?

📱 And one woman is questioning whether she’s actually dating someone — or just entertaining inconsistent communication. When effort doesn’t match interest, how long do you wait before walking away?

🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we unpack the conversation sparked by Yung Miami’s dating standards — and ask the bigger question:

When someone sets high standards and it triggers people… is the problem the standard — or the reaction to it?

👇 Let’s talk about it.

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In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking what it takes to break unhealthy patterns, protect your boundaries, and navigate complicated relationships.

💔 One caller knows a man in her life isn’t good for her — he ghosted, crossed boundaries, and keeps finding ways back into her life even after being blocked. She sees the pattern clearly, but emotionally detaching has been harder than expected.

🎓 Another listener is in a healthy relationship while finishing college, but graduate school could take them to different cities. When two people are pursuing big dreams, how do you decide whether long distance is worth it — or whether it’s time to let go?

👨‍👩‍👧 And one woman is dating a man who wants to meet her family, but she isn’t even speaking to them right now. How do you honor your partner’s desire for connection while protecting your own boundaries?

🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we discuss a viral story about a couple vacationing together for Valentine’s Day — while the boyfriend posted content pretending he was somewhere else. In the age of social media, is that protecting privacy… or hiding the relationship from someone else?

👇 Let’s talk about it.

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In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking the uncertainty that shows up in modern dating — when feelings are real, but consistency is questionable.

✈️ One woman meets a man who flies to see her, asks for a relationship… then changes his mind about long distance later the same day. Two weeks later he’s back saying he made a mistake and wants to try again. Was his hesitation honesty… or a warning sign?

🤔 Another caller is dating a single dad she met online, but something about his living situation is making her uncomfortable. He lives with a gay roommate and plans to continue living with him. Is this a real concern… or an assumption that needs to be unpacked?

🏠 And one woman is nervous to tell the man she’s dating that she still lives with her parents. When does transparency matter in dating — and how do you share where you are in life without shame?

🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we discuss the growing conversation around what some are calling the “Crush Recession.”Many singles say they rarely develop real romantic feelings anymore due to dating app fatigue, situationships, and the emotional exhaustion of modern dating.

👇 Let’s talk about it.

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In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking what happens when love is strong… but stability isn’t.

💔 One woman has been with her children’s father since high school. Four kids. Years of history. Deep love. But he’s inconsistent, emotionally unreliable, and possibly involved with another woman — while still wanting marriage and access. How do you let go of someone whose potential feels bigger than their reality?

👻 Another caller fell hard for a guy from run club — daily calls, dates, FaceTime nights. Then he ghosted her during a stressful season. Months later, he’s back with apologies and effort. Is that growth… or a preview of what’s to come?

✨ And we talk about being warm, bubbly, and magnetic — without it being mistaken for flirting. How do you protect your energy at work without dimming your personality?

🧴 In B*tch You Smell Good, we feature Tiziana Terenzi – Cassiopea, a fruity floral woody musk that feels radiant, feminine, and unforgettable.

🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we unpack the public tension between Chris Brown’s ex Diamond Brown and rumored girlfriend Jada Wallace — and ask the bigger question:
When the baby mama and the new girlfriend are beefing publicly… is the real red flag the women — or the man who hasn’t created clear boundaries?

👇 Let’s talk about it.

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In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking what happens when growth forces you to date differently — when silence is clarity, and when fast love might be the real red flag.

🌆 One woman is moving to Columbus for her dream job — big raise, fresh start, new city. But she’s self-aware enough to admit she’s dated from loneliness before. Now she wants to build love from confidence, not isolation. And with her income rising, she’s asking: is it fair to require a man to match her financially?

📞 Another caller felt chemistry and alignment — until one phone call revealed dismissiveness and subtle disrespect. Now she’s wondering: does she owe him an explanation… or is quiet detachment enough?

🤝 And we talk about platonic friendships with men. Is it realistic to expect genuine male friends without romantic undertones? Or are blurred lines inevitable without intentional boundaries?
✨ This episode is about discernment, emotional clarity, and building a foundation before romance becomes your whole support system.

🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we unpack the breakup of Cardi B and Stefon Diggs — a relationship that escalated quickly, went public fast, and ended just as dramatically.

When a relationship moves from hard launch to heartbreak in under a year… was the red flag the breakup? Or how quickly everything accelerated before the foundation had time to stabilize?
And if you’re no longer with someone but still fiercely protecting them… is that maturity — or unfinished attachment?

👇 Let’s talk about it.

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On this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re talking: Would you marry someone and get divorced less than two months later? On this episode of Dear Tisia, we unpack Brittany Renner’s viral reveal that she and Kevin Gates got married — and separated just 52 days later. Is that fearless love… or a red flag? Then we get into a wild clip where a man says he doesn’t care if a woman is “good” — because he’ll perfect her. Alpha energy or manipulative mindset?

And in our voicemails:
💔 A woman walks away from her engagement after feeling constantly unprotected by her fiancé — even in front of their child.
 💬 Another woman’s new boo suddenly goes cold, blaming it on work… but is that the truth or just the typical ghosting lie?

Tisia breaks it all down — with honesty, heart, and that signature real talk.
👇 Sound off in the comments. What’s the biggest red flag you see?

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In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re talking about what it really means to live well — not in the material sense, but in the freedom to be yourself without apology.

✨ Tisia sits down with Ron David, a content creator, fashion icon, and dream chaser from Washington, DC, whose energy, style, and authenticity speak louder than labels. From the very start, Ron makes one thing clear: real luxury is comfort in who you are.

🧠 Ron opens up about his journey — growing up in a religious environment, coming out as gay, and learning how to stay true to himself while navigating complicated family dynamics. He reflects on the powerful influence of his Aunt Deborah, the perseverance it took to chase his dreams, and the choice to reject society’s material definitions of success in favor of connection, growth, and purpose.

🏡 The conversation also explores Ron’s love for fashion and real estate, and how both are expressions of the same belief: people deserve to live beautifully, comfortably, and authentically — inside and out.

💌 Throughout the episode, Tisia and Ron respond to listener voicemails, offering thoughtful relationship advice and grounding reminders about self-worth, boundaries, and alignment.

✨ In You Smell Good, Tisia gifts Ron a carefully chosen fragrance that reflects his presence, style, and spirit — a small but meaningful gesture of appreciation for someone who shows up fully as himself.

This episode is for anyone learning how to:

• Be authentic without shrinking
• Choose self-trust over performance
• Build a life that actually feels good

👇 Let’s talk about it.

#DearTisia #Authenticity #ChoosingYourself #FaithAndIdentity #LivingWell #YouSmellGood

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In this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking what happens when love is built in survival mode — and what it takes to move forward when healing begins.

🩺 One woman opens up about beating stage 4 cancer — only to feel trapped in a relationship that still sees her as fragile. What happens when care turns into control, and how do you reclaim your identity after surviving something that changed everything?

💍 Another caller’s world is shattered when her partner of 16 years confesses to cheating just one week before their wedding. We talk about betrayal, forgiveness, and how to grieve the future you thought you were walking into.

🧾 And we explore the emotional limbo of separation — when a husband has moved on romantically but won’t fully let go emotionally, leaving a woman stuck between hope, fear, and finally choosing herself.

✨ In B*tch You Smell Good, we feature Casablanca by Swiss Arabian — a warm, caramel-apple, amber scent that mirrors this episode’s themes of depth, sweetness, and emotional complexity.

🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we unpack the quiet divorce of social media couple Kristy Scott and Desmond Scott, and ask the bigger question:When love is performed publicly but falls apart privately, what was the real red flag — the actions, the communication, or the image?

👇 Let’s talk about it.