Explore every episode of the podcast Dear Bianca: LGBTQ+ Dating, Sex & Relationships
| Title | Pub. Date | Duration | |
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| The Power of a Stranger: Is Who You Meet a Coincidence? | 14 Aug 2025 | 00:19:28 | |
Ever had a random compliment from a stranger live in your head all week? Same. This episode dives into the power of a stranger—how micro-connections boost confidence, calm anxiety, and add a little magic. I share the moment that flipped my mood, no-cringe scripts to start a convo, how to give a great compliment, and when to set boundaries. Is who you meet really a coincidence…or something you called in? We have a quick chat about my unexpected Nashville night before a Vegas weekend. If you love Dear Bianca, please follow, rate & review the podcast—it seriously helps the show grow. And check my Instagram @dearbiancapodcast for a Dear Bianca giveaway (submissions close August 15 at 11:59 PM ET). Go make a stranger smile today. 💫 Follow Bianca: @dearbiancapodcast Have a topic you want me to cover or a story to share? Email me: dearbiancapodcast@gmail.com xx B | |||
| What Not to Do If You’re Having an Affair | 05 Aug 2025 | 00:31:18 | |
Picture this: Coldplay hits the stage, the arena cameras sweep the crowd, and—boom—two people busy having an affair go full-PDA under 60,000 phones. In this week’s Dear Bianca I roast that Jumbotron-level misfire and wonder why anyone thinks “secret” and “stadium” belong in the same sentence. Meanwhile, I pulled a ten-hour “let’s just go to Italy” stunt—booked, realized I have too much going on, cancelled, and now I’m babysitting €1200 in cash. Next stop? Vegas. Almost four months alcohol-free and betting on mineral water instead of martinis. We also peel apart three tracks from Fletcher’s new album, Would You Still Love Me If You Really Knew Me. Do you think you can love someone from a D i s t a n c e? Also, is anyone else ready for Fall? I’m craving hoodie season.
Follow Bianca: @dearbiancapodcast Have a topic you want me to cover or a story to share? Email me: dearbiancapodcast@gmail.com xx B | |||
| Lauren Sanderson: The Rise of a Queer Icon | 12 Oct 2023 | 00:45:32 | |
"I feel like I've lived a million lives and this is my last life to just do it all" | In this episode, we get up close and personal with sensational queer singer/songwriter, Lauren Sanderson as she takes us behind the scenes of her electrifying tour, the 'IDC AT ALL Tour'. Hailing from the Midwest, now capturing hearts worldwide with her music journey that began on YouTube. Fast forward to today, and she's not just selling out shows, but she's doing it with a purpose.
Follow Lauren on TikTok & Instagram: @laurensanderson | |||
| Jet-Setting with Pride: LGBTQ Travel with @OnAirplaneMode__ | 14 Sep 2023 | 01:00:30 | |
"To us, traveling is about learning someone else's culture, not imposing ours on them" | We're BACK in the Dear Bianca studio - fuck, I missed you all. Kirstie and Christine, the dynamic duo behind @OnAirplaneMode__ take us on a journey through their extraordinary world of LGBTQ travel influencing. Listen to how they transformed their passion into a profession and learn the insider secrets to turning wanderlust into a thriving career. | |||
| Falling For Straight Women | 03 Aug 2023 | 00:50:03 | |
"With straight women, there's no committment" | We have a very special guest joining us on the show - Sara, my childhood friend and the only lesbian friend from my hometown. We go way back to our travel softball days when we were kids. | |||
| Mind Games In A Relationship + Q&A with Bianca | 20 Jul 2023 | 00:25:09 | |
"I'm in love with a girl who likes to play with my emotions, what's your advice?" | Taylor Swift, Noah Beck, Relationship Mind Games, and The Importance of Kissing - let's dive TF in. Bianca takes the hot seat this week for a solo episode as she answers questions submitted by her followers on Instagram. | |||
| Iris Dailey: The World of Psychedelics and the Power of Human Connection | 06 Jul 2023 | 01:11:22 | |
"I can help people facilitate their awakenings with psychedelics" | Bianca is in Los Angeles this episode to connect with beautiful soul, Iris Dailey. Known for her unique perspective on life and the profound impact of psychedelics, Iris takes us on a deeply personal journey of self-discovery and healing. In this candid and vulnerable conversation, Iris shares never-before-told stories of the emotional and mental abuse she endured as a child. Through her remarkable strength and resilience, Iris emerged from these dark experiences, finding solace and transformation in the realm of psychedelics. Exploring how and why she welcomed these substances into her life as a teenager, Iris unveils the profound impact they had on her spiritual journey. | |||
| The Ultimatum: Queer Love | 04 Jun 2023 | 00:52:44 | |
Let's dive into the latest Netflix sensation, 'The Ultimatum: Queer Love,' dissecting each couple's journey with our own unique perspectives and sharing our unfiltered opinions. Follow Bianca on TikTok & Instagram: @dearbiancapodcast | |||
| The Ex-Files: To Keep or Not to Keep Gifts from an Ex? | 01 Jun 2023 | 00:21:59 | |
"I fucking ripped apart every single letter that she ever wrote me" | Get ready, folks, because Bianca is back and she's bringing the heat in this one! Today, she's diving headfirst into a topic that's sure to stir up some controversy: should you keep gifts and letters from your ex? Should you hold on to those sentimental trinkets that remind you of a past love, or is it time to get that shit out of your life? Bianca also takes a moment to spill the tea on the new season of everyone's new favorite Netflix show, "The Ultimatum: Queer Love." With June officially kicking off Pride Month, she's celebrating like a boss and bringing all the queer love vibes to your eardrums. So, grab your headphones, turn up the volume, and get ready to dive into this one. Happy MF Pride Month, bitches! | |||
| Gay and Catholic | 12 May 2023 | 00:15:23 | |
"Heterosexuals sin just as much as we do" | Being gay and having to go to church is kind of weird. Bianca touches on the challenges of finding acceptance in a community that traditionally condemns homosexuality. | |||
| Breaking Free: A Gay Woman in a Heterosexual Marriage | 26 Apr 2023 | 00:40:01 | |
"I would have lived what I thought was the perfect American dream because I cared so much about what other people thought about me." | Well-known in the queer TikTok world for her "Are You Gay?" videos, Lindsay Perrin shares her journey as a gay woman who was married to a man for nine years. She opens up about the challenges of living a life that didn't feel true to herself, and how coming out and divorcing her husband allowed her to feel more alive and authentic than ever before. From happiness and love to breakups, divorce, and navigating new sexual experiences, Lindsay and Bianca discuss it all in this candid and inspiring conversation. Buckle up for a wild one. | |||
| Georgia Bridgers: Bisexual to Lesbian | 21 Mar 2023 | 00:38:34 | |
"And at that moment, I did not want to fuck Harry Styles" | She's insanely funny, fashion-forward, and newly single - it's MF, Georgia Bridgers. Georgia started her social media journey as quite the YouTube star, but has also recently become a TikTok sensation. On this episode of Dear Bianca, Georgia shares the moment she realized she was no longer bisexual + never-shared details about her recent breakup, and so much more. This is an episode you don't want to miss, so listen tf in. | |||
| Healthier, Happier, Still Healing | 12 Jul 2025 | 00:25:37 | |
I’m back — and life’s been lifing. After a few months away, we have lots to catch up on: I haven’t had a drink in 3 months, I’m deep in my healthy girl era (yes, I read every label now), and emotionally? Let’s just say… i'm working on it. In this episode, I open up about starting therapy and leaning into meditation. I also share the conversation that reignited my purpose for this podcast (spoiler: I missed you). Oh, and yes… we have to talk about Fletcher dating a man and JoJo Siwa’s new relationship. If you’re into personal growth, queer stories, real-life wellness, and honest convos with zero fluff — this one’s for you.
Follow Bianca: @dearbiancapodcast Follow Saphyx: @saphyxsociety Have a topic you want me to cover or a story to share? Email me: dearbiancapodcast@gmail.com
xx B | |||
| The Impact Of Social Media On Relationships | 22 Feb 2023 | 00:11:47 | |
"I will address this here once and for all, so everybody can calm the fuck down" | Do you think posting your significant other on social media validates your relationship? Does your boyfriend or girlfriend get upset if you don't post them? + Bianca addresses questions that have been thrown at her recently, providing the clarity these people may need to carry on. Let's get into it, welcome to Dear Bianca . | |||
| Sexual Health & Wellness, Queer Sex Toys, How To Reignite Your Sex Life | 15 Feb 2023 | 00:30:29 | |
"Get out of your comfort zone" | Happy MF Valentine's Day, bitches. In this week's episode we talk a whole lot about sex. I sit down with Alice Derock - founder of the queer sex toy company, Wet For Her. Alice sheds light on many thought-about, but rarely spoken about topics. Sit back, relax and listen tf in. | |||
| Turks & Caicos, Here I Come | 08 Feb 2023 | 00:06:15 | |
"What you see with the human eye is unreal" | Bianca is off to the beautiful islands of Turks and Caicos. This is a super short and sweet episode, a quick check in with the Dear Bianca fam. Full episodes are scheduled to resume next week on February 14th! | |||
| Making Time To Rebalance Yourself And Not Being Sorry For It | 25 Jan 2023 | 00:08:18 | |
On this weeks episode, Bianca gets real and vulnerable. She shares the current reality of her life. This episode is short and sweet, but a powerful and important episode that Bianca wants everyone to hear. Take time for yourself and recognize when it's time to reset. | |||
| How To Let Go Of A Relationship | 18 Jan 2023 | 00:19:07 | |
"Who the fuck cares" | Bianca is back for another solo episode. People are loving these solo episodes, so turn it the fuck up and listen in. Bianca touches on a bunch of random shit like why Valentine's Day is overrated. She also answers the questions you submitted to her on Instagram. As a lovely example, "How do you make a girl squirt"? In addition, Bianca gives her perspective on how to let go of a relationship and why your energy with another human being means more than their sexual orientation. | |||
| Liam Lazore: Life As A Transgender Man | 11 Jan 2023 | 00:41:14 | |
"It was hard for me to truly accept that I was transgender" | Liam Lazore is a Transgender Man . When did he know he was trans? How did he come out to his parents? What surgeries has he gotten so far? What d*ck size has he committed to for his bottom surgery? He shares it all on this episode of Dear Bianca. | |||
| Manda Malina: What It's Like To Date A Woman, a Female Perspective | 04 Jan 2023 | 00:31:27 | |
"In every relationship with a man, I felt like I was suffocating" | Singer-songwriter, Manda Malina was once bisexual, but officially identifies as a lesbian. In this episode, she brings us through what her queer journey looked like and why dating women is just...better tbh. | |||
| JoJo Siwa + Avery Cyrus + Soph Mosca, The Love Triangle | 28 Dec 2022 | 00:12:38 | |
"It's a reality show playing out on social media" | The drama continues. JoJo Siwa and Avery Cyrus call it quits. Soph Mosca and Avery have rekindled and are going on a trip to Europe?! What the f**k is happening. | |||
| Alissa Butt: Healing After a Breakup | 21 Dec 2022 | 00:36:04 | |
"I don't want a public relationship ever again" | They're newly single, living in California, friends with Fletcher, on a journey of self-love, and their career is thriving. Alissa sheds light on the intimate moments of their healing journey, post-breakup. They take us back in time to the first crush they had and shares the reality of what it was like to come out to their family. | |||
| Dating a Fuck Girl, Life As An Independent Artist, A Relationship vs. A Situationship | 14 Dec 2022 | 00:35:40 | |
"She knew it hurt me and she kept doing it" | Have you ever been in a relationship, situationship, or an entanglement with a fuck girl or fuck boy? Listen to Bianca's advice on how to deal with one. Damn does it feel like a never ending shitshow. | |||
| Love, Loss, and My Best Friend Shannon | 21 Feb 2025 | 00:29:35 | |
This episode means so to me. But before you hit play, do yourself a favor—grab a box of tissues, because I cannot keep it together. Today, February 21st, is my best friend Shannon’s birthday. She should be here celebrating, but instead, I’m honoring her memory. Shannon passed away at just 28 years old due to alcohol addiction, which led to acute kidney and liver failure. Losing her changed me forever. In this episode, I take you through the journey of our friendship—the laughter, the love, and the moments that still make me smile. But I also open up about the guilt I carry, the what-ifs that haunt me, and the things I would give anything to change. I miss her every single day, and if I had known that our last phone call would truly be the last, I would have said so much more. If you or someone you love is struggling with addiction, please know you’re not alone. There is help out there: 📞 SAMHSA National Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357) Shannon, I love you always. Happy birthday, my beautiful best friend. 💙 | |||
| Dixie D'Amelio Coming Out, LGBTQ Challenges At The World Cup, The L Word | 07 Dec 2022 | 00:17:26 | |
"Kehlani, sit on my face" | On this week's episode, Bianca discusses all the LGBTQ-related issues that fans, teams, and locals are experiencing at the World Cup in Qatar. Bianca discusses The L Word + The L Word: Generation Q on the podcast for the first time. We are also looking for clarity on if Dixie D'Amelio actually came out as a lesbian this week. If so, welcome to the MF community babygirl. Let's get it. | |||
| Happy Holigays | 30 Nov 2022 | 00:19:36 | |
"Let’s talk about something a little lighter, let’s talk about Only Fans" | A tech issue causes Bianca to record a solo episode on the fly - no agenda, no preparation. Just you, her, and the mic tonight. Have fun listening to this shitshow :) Follow Bianca on TikTok: @dearbiancapodcast xx B | |||
| Building a Makeup Empire, A Dip In The Lady Pond | 23 Nov 2022 | 00:28:00 | |
“In 2011 to be exact, Bianca was in my bed” | With over a quarter of a million followers on social, international celebrity makeup artist Jamie Saunders takes us through her journey of building her makeup business empire. She voices how hateful comments on social effect her and why she now avoids posting on TikTok. Jamie and Bianca may have also made out a few times... Follow Jamie on TikTok: @makeupbyjaysaunz Follow Bianca on TikTok: @dearbiancapodcast xx B | |||
| Interracial Relationship Challenges & Making Queer Friends | 16 Nov 2022 | 00:28:28 | |
"Just the feeling of a man on my body, I can't do this." | Jess Gesto gives Bianca insight into what her experience was like being gay in the military. Jess also takes us through the societal challenges that her and her girlfriend face because they are in an interracial relationship. Follow Jess on TikTok: @jma.ree Follow Bianca on TikTok: @dearbiancapodcast xx B | |||
| Why We Think People Cheat + Coming Out At 26 | 09 Nov 2022 | 00:52:44 | |
"I became gay and then the world shut down. So, if that's not the devils work I don't know what is." | Bianca sits down with TikTok sensation, Clara Cox to discuss what her first experience with a woman was like and how it changed her life forever. Clara shares why her relationship with her partner is so special and why a non-limiting relationship works for them. Follow Clara on TikTok: @clarajordancox Follow Bianca on TikTok: @dearbiancapodcast xx B | |||
| About Your Host, Bianca Duran (Part 2) | 27 Oct 2022 | 01:06:34 | |
"She told her husband about me, but I don't know to the depth of what she told him about our five year relationship" | In this episode, Bianca shares intimate details of her first love - a love that was so beautiful and special, but ultimately ended up in devastating heartbreak. xx B | |||
| About Your Host, Bianca Duran (Part 1) | 23 Oct 2022 | 00:34:57 | |
"I have silenced myself for years out of respect for her and her family, but no more" | To kick things off here on Dear Bianca, a friend interviews Bianca to give listeners a glimpse into what makes her....her. Bianca shares why she decided to start a podcast, why she was a part of an intensive meditation group for two years, and what coming out was like to her family. Thank you to all of you who are here starting this journey with me. This show holds no boundaries, be prepared for a wild ride :) xx B | |||
| How to Handle Friendship Changes in Your 30s | 19 Feb 2025 | 00:14:36 | |
Hi lovers! Friendships in your 30s are definitely a whole vibe—some stick, some fade, and some just look totally different. In this episode, I’m chatting about why friendships change as you grow and how to navigate those shifts without losing your mind (or your squad). Plus, I’ll mention that I’m getting yoga certified—because let’s be real, a little zen goes a long way when you're juggling it all. Whether you’re queer, figuring it out, or just looking for some guidance, this episode’s got you covered. So get comfy, and let’s chat :) Follow Bianca: @dearbiancapodcast Follow Saphyx: @saphyxsociety Have a topic you want me to cover or a story to share? Email me: dearbiancapodcast@gmail.com xx | |||
| Queer, Thriving, and The Struggles of Finding a Therapist in 2025 | 05 Jan 2025 | 00:23:15 | |
Happy New Year, babes! We’re kicking off 2025 with a little self-love because what’s a new year without some fresh goals, a little therapy chat, and of course, queer vibes all around? In this episode, I’m diving into the wild world of therapist hunting (trust me, it’s a journey), what I look for in a therapist and why insurance makes it feel like we’re just trying to survive the system. Plus, I’ll share the deets on how I’m starting my yoga certification this month—yes, I’m getting even more zen—and finally, I’m revealing my words of the year to set my 2025 intentions. So grab your favorite drink, get comfy, and let’s chat about all the things that make this new year feel like the perfect time for growth! Follow Bianca: @dearbiancapodcasrt Follow Saphyx: @saphyxsociety Have a topic you want me to cover or a story to share? Email me: dearbiancapodcast@gmail.com
xx B | |||
| The Straight Guy Shuffle: When They Find Out I'm Gay | 26 Dec 2024 | 00:19:02 | |
Ever noticed how the vibe can suddenly shift when a guy finds out you're gay? On this episode of Dear Bianca, I'm diving deep into the "Straight Guy Shuffle" – that awkward dance they do when their initial interest takes an unexpected turn. From the subtle cues to the more obvious changes, I'm sharing my candid observations on how some men react when their attraction goes from "interested" to "uh oh" just because they find out you're gay - weirdos! Plus, we're chatting about uncertain stress of the holiday season and sending out happy holiday vibes to all! Oh, and did I mention the exciting launch of Saphyx Society – my elite community for sapphic women? I'll be sharing some of the juicy details on this exclusive club. Follow Bianca: @dearbiancapodcast Follow Saphyx Society: @saphyxsociety Have a topic you want me to cover or a story to share? Email me: dearbiancapodcast@gmail.com xx B | |||
| A Lesbian's Journey into Surrogacy | 05 Sep 2024 | 00:40:03 | |
🎥 First Video Episode Alert! (Apologies for the focus issues on this one—I promise, we're getting it together!) ANYWAY - let's get the fuck into it: How did she get here? What does it take to become a surrogate? Oh, and the best part? The baby is being delivered by a woman Lindsay had a threesome with a few years ago—can't make this shit up. | |||
| Love, Lessons & Red Flags: Sedona Prince Scandal + Season 2 Premiere | 22 Aug 2024 | 00:25:14 | |
"This is a new light, a new energy, a new chapter" | Bianca is back bitches, and Season 2 of Dear Bianca is about to take you on another wild ride! In this premiere, Bianca dives into the jaw-dropping scandal involving college basketball player Sedona Prince and her tangled mess of exes, flings, and everyone in between. Alex Cooper’s new SiriusXM deal for Call Her Daddy - insane. But that's not all—Bianca shares her rollercoaster of a life, moving three times in just a few months. Plus, get a taste of what's coming this season with fresh guests and a mix of sexy and not-so-sexy topics. Welcome BACK to Dear Bianca <3 🏳️🌈 | |||
| Living With An Ex - Lesbian Edition | 27 Jan 2024 | 00:14:28 | |
Living with an Ex - Lesbian Edition. "How the fuck is everybody doing?" - Join me on a whirlwind emotional journey in this short, but special episode. Living through the aftermath of a breakup while sharing space with your ex can be tumultuous, but here I am diving deep into my feelings, giving you an intimate peek into where my soul is at. I bare it all, expressing the exhaustion and hope coexisting within me. In this quick check-in, I share the excitement pulsating through my veins as I anticipate a fresh start in a space I can truly call my own. Feeling the void of connection, I open up about the yearning to reconnect with my audience - I miss the fuck out of you all! My soul may be tired, but the spark of hope and excitement is undeniable! But wait, there's more! Chicago awaits, and so does the Lesbian Social Club Event! Next weekend, I'm set to embark on a new adventure, ready to revel in the company of friends, forge new connections, and raise a glass to a promising new chapter. I'm inching closer to the threshold of normalcy. Welcome (almost) back to "Dear Bianca," where vulnerability meets resilience, and every ending is a prelude to a beautiful new beginning! | |||