Dating tips and advice that will transform your life. Ray has talked with thousands of women and men, and provides advice on how to date online, be on dates, and what you should put up with and expect. Subscribe to listen to Ad-free episodes, and exclusive content updated daily.
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Take it from a guy who went down different rabbit holes, from getting into a very good shape to becoming fashionable and getting fancy cars. Each of those helped a bit, maybe, but nothing worked as well as making them laugh.
I think being funny comes from being confident, which in turn comes from having a lot of reps under your belt.
If you get those “didn’t feel a spark”, “no chemistry”, etc. texts after a first date just means you were probably too nervous and talked about surface level things and bored her. I probably got those on the first 10-15 dates I went on, but somewhere around the 50th, the nerves had fully settled in, and I could be myself and develop that chemistry on the date.
Having a good job, dressing well, looking good, etc., will get you dates, but what turns that first date into a second and third is being pleasant to be around.
And you don’t need to go on dates to sharpen those skills. You can start with your guy friends, then make some women's friends, and the skills will transfer to dating.
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Don't Revenge Date
Season 2022
Friday, June 17, 2022 • Duration 18:40
Don't Revenge Date, host Ray Brown discusses how it's best to stay away from that energy and not have it have you sucked into their toxic patterns.
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Dating Someone You Don't Trust
Season 2022
Thursday, June 9, 2022 • Duration 24:42
In this episode of Dating Someone You Don't Trust, Ray looks at what happens when you give someone the benefit of the doubt too early.
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What Happened To Strong Men: Preview
Season 2021 · Episode 1
Monday, June 21, 2021 • Duration 05:45
What happened to Strong Men is a topic of discussion that comes up too often, so let’s talk about it. How do you define a strong man? Subscribe to listen to Ad-free, exclusive content.
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Dating 101: How-tos
Sunday, August 18, 2019 • Duration 46:36
In this Podcast, “Online Dating 101: What Happens, Reality, How-tos,” Ray Brown and Ginger G talk about what happens in Online Dating, the Reality of it all, and How-tos. Subscribe to listen to Ad-Free, Exclusive Episodes.
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Why People Cheat and Lie
Thursday, July 4, 2019 • Duration 23:24
Subscriber Content Why People Cheat and Lie in Relationships is a question on the minds of many. So Ray Brown answers the “Why People Cheat and Lie In Relationships,” in a podcast below. Subscriber today to listen to Ad-Free, exclusive episodes.
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Dating: Games Of Love
Season 2019 · Episode 6
Tuesday, June 4, 2019 • Duration 26:17
Dating: Games Of Love happen all the time in relationships and dating. Ray Brown discusses in his Podcast how and why they happen and how to steer away! Life is not about someone keeping you in their mind trap, or you becoming someone else’s prisoner to entertain your own self-worth or validation. Snap out of… Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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