Tired of pretending everything's picture-perfect? Welcome to DANG! Join actor Todd Bridges and his wife Bettijo for raw, candid chats about life's messy realities — the stuff you won't see in those perfectly filtered feeds. We delve into everything from love and family to mental health struggles like anxiety and addiction. Whether you’re feeling lost in life’s maze or just need a friendly voice, join us weekly for inspiring stories, expert insights, and more!
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How Todd Met Bettijo: Dating App Disasters & Our Love Story - Ep. 1
Season 1 · Episode 1
Tuesday, December 3, 2024 • Duration 36:03
Todd Bridges and his wife Bettijo share their love story, packed with jaw-dropping, hilarious dating app disasters. Discover the real scoop on how they met and fell in love — you won’t want to miss this episode!
SUMMARY
Swipe left, right, or accidentally end up on a dating app you didn’t mean to join — Todd and Bettijo’s love story is one for the books! In this episode, they spill all the hilarious, cringe-worthy, and downright bizarre details of their dating lives before meeting each other. From mac-and-cheese selfies to a locked bus with questionable curtains, you'll laugh, gasp, and maybe even thank your lucky stars for your own dating disasters.
Discover how Bettijo’s well-meaning friend turned a matchmaking experiment into fate and how Todd managed to impress Bettijo despite some skeptical first impressions. It’s a tale of mishaps, miracles, and modern love you won’t want to miss!
HIGHLIGHTS
The accidental creation of Bettijo’s Facebook dating profile
Bettijo’s first (and last) date involving a padlocked bus
Todd’s single-guy perspective and why he swore off dating apps
How a friend’s meddling led to their first text—and the rest is history
TRANSCRIPT EXCERPT
Bettijo: "The minute I stepped onto that bus, I knew this date was a mistake... especially when he sat on the bed and asked me to join him!"
Todd: "Wait, there was a padlock on the bus? That’s straight out of a horror movie!"
Bettijo: "Exactly. And six months later, I’d sworn off dating entirely—until my friend sneakily set me up with you!"
Listen now to hear how the worst dating experiences paved the way for one of the best love stories!
DANG! is produced by Loop 101 Media, Bettijo Bridges & Attalie Anne
For more information contact info@loop101media.com
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Season 1
Friday, November 1, 2024 • Duration 00:42
Join actor Todd Bridges and his wife Bettijo, as they dive headfirst into the messy, unpolished side of life. Each week, we share real stories, hard-earned wisdom, and a hefty dose of laughter. Whether you’re navigating family drama, grappling with mental health, or just trying to keep your sanity intact, we’re here to remind you that nobody has it all together (despite what social media might suggest).
If you’re looking for hard-earned wisdom, expert advice, or just some down-to-earth reassurance, you’re in the right place. Tune in each week and let’s get real together. Please subscribe now so you won't miss an episode! Online at DangPodcast.com
Beyond Diverse: Building Deep Cross-Racial Connections with Dr. Deborah Plummer - Ep. 41
Season 2 · Episode 41
Wednesday, September 10, 2025 • Duration 59:38
Ever wonder why true cross-racial friendships are so rare? Todd and Bettijo get into it with Dr. Deborah L. Plummer, breaking down the myths we tell ourselves about race, why fear keeps us divided, and how to actually build friendships that go deeper than skin.
SUMMARY
Today on DANG!, we’re getting real about what it takes to build deep, authentic relationships across racial lines. Our guest is Dr. Deborah L. Plummer—a psychologist, educator, and bestselling author who has worked with Fortune 500 companies, hospitals, schools, and faith communities, helping them build stronger diversity strategies and organizations. She also founded the master’s program in diversity management at Cleveland State and has spent decades guiding people through the complexities of race, identity, and connection.
Dr. Plummer explains how one simple question—“Why are all your friends white?”—sparked her lifelong work in diversity and inclusion, revealing just how rare cross-racial friendships are and why that matters. Todd and Bettijo share their own early run-ins with racism, showing how where you grow up can shape what you do—or don’t—understand about race. Together, they dig into the difference between personal prejudice and systemic barriers baked into our institutions. Dr. Plummer breaks down why fear fuels division, why saying “I don’t see color” doesn’t get us where we need to go, and how embracing your own racial identity actually makes cross-racial relationships stronger—not weaker.
This episode isn’t about finger-pointing; it’s about breaking down walls, moving past “us versus them,” and figuring out how we can start living as a bigger, bolder “we”—together.
HIGHLIGHTS
Dr. Plummer shares how a friend's question about her white friends led her to research cross-racial relationships. (1:47)
Todd recounts a discriminatory experience when trying to buy a house in Culver City and hearing the N-word for the first time. (5:42)
Dr. Plummer shares her first experience being called a racial slur at Girls Scout camp. (6:55)
Joe Henderson on Fixing Addiction Treatment - Ep. 40
Season 2 · Episode 40
Wednesday, September 3, 2025 • Duration 01:04:36
Meet Joe Henderson—CEO and change-maker—who saw a broken system and said “DANG, someone’s got to fix this.” With only a $10,000 credit card and a fire in his gut, he built a sober living empire from the ground up.
SUMMARY
Joseph Henderson didn’t come to addiction treatment through his own recovery story—he came to it through a family legacy of service and one unforgettable moment that changed everything. After walking into a substandard treatment center and seeing patients forced to sleep in hallways, he knew the system was broken. Today, as founder and CEO of Sierra Health and Wellness and The Elijiah House Foundation, Joe has turned that spark into one of the leading behavioral health networks in California and Nevada.
Armed with nothing more than a $10,000 credit card and a mission, Joe opened a small sober living house that grew into a network dedicated to dignity and quality in care. In this conversation with Todd and Bettijo, Joe pulls back the curtain on the messy realities of the recovery industry—patient-brokering scandals, the stubborn stigma of addiction, and the hard truths about insurance companies that too often put profits before people. Joe also explains why the 2008 law that redefined addiction as a medical condition was both a blessing and a curse, opening doors for treatment while also unleashing fraud and inadequate reimbursement that still haunt the system.
But this isn’t just an exposé—it’s also a story of hope and humor. Joe shares how Sierra’s holistic model goes beyond substance use to address the mental and physical health issues at the root of addiction, while Todd adds levity with a hilarious, all-too-relatable story from his own early recovery. Together, they explore why “luxury rehab” shouldn’t be a privilege, but a standard of care available to everyone.
This episode is raw, urgent, and at times laugh-out-loud funny—a behind-the-scenes look at how one man is fighting to bring dignity, quality, and compassion back to addiction treatment. It’s the kind of story that’ll make you say… well, DANG!
HIGHLIGHTS
Stop Pretending: Why Perfectionism is a Trap (and How to Escape It!) - Ep. 31
Season 2 · Episode 31
Wednesday, July 2, 2025 • Duration 34:33
Tired of trying to look perfect, be perfect, do perfect? In this episode of DANG!, Todd and Bettijo crack open the myth of perfection—from Hollywood pressure to perfectly curated Instagram squares. They explore what happens when the facade breaks and why letting go of control might be the key to authentic joy. Plus, a simple mindset shift that could change how you handle… well, everything.
SUMMARY
In this eye-opening episode of DANG!, Todd and Bettijo Bridges dive deep into the pervasive perfection myth that bombards us daily, from perfectly curated social media feeds to the unrealistic expectations in our own lives. Todd shares his unique perspective of growing up under the constant scrutiny of Hollywood, where the pressure to be flawless was immense and often suffocating. He reveals the moment his "perfect facade" cracked, leading to a powerful realization that authenticity trumps manufactured flawlessness.
Bettijo, too, reflects on her own journey with perfectionism, particularly how it manifested in her early blogging days, where she could meticulously control small, cropped "perfect" online images. They explore the idea that perfectionism often stems from a desire for control in chaotic lives and how releasing that need can lead to genuine happiness. The conversation also touches on the shift in media and news consumption, contrasting the "safer" perception of yesteryear with today's information overload and the rise of opinion as "fact." They discuss the transformative "Let Them" theory, a powerful concept about focusing on what you can control (yourself) rather than wasting energy trying to influence others.
HIGHLIGHTS
The Pressure to Be Perfect: Todd and Bettijo introduce the concept of the perfection myth and how it infiltrates our lives. (0:45)
Todd's Cracking Facade: Todd reveals when his "perfect" Hollywood persona finally gave way to authenticity. (1:35)
Overcoming Media Scrutiny: Todd shares how he learned to navigate public mistakes and constant media attention. (6:15)
Bettijo's Perfectionism High: Bettijo talks about her battle with perfectionism. (4:33)
Beyond the Laughter: Stardom, Race, & Gary Coleman's Legacy with Dion Mial - Ep. 30
Season 2 · Episode 30
Wednesday, June 25, 2025 • Duration 58:12
Get ready for a wild ride down memory lane as Todd and Bettijo welcome special guest Dion Mial! This episode reveals what it was really like growing up in Hollywood, including never-before-heard details about Gary Coleman's life and legacy.
SUMMARY
Hosts Todd & Bettijo Bridges welcome Todd’s childhood friend, designer Dion Mial—Gary Coleman’s best friend—for a behind-the-scenes tour of Diff'rent Strokes. Expect wild go-kart adventures, on-set pranks, Dana Plato’s Universal Studios driving fiasco, and lots of nostalgia! Plus, hear about Dion and Gary’s music collab, Todd’s secret album, and how Diff’rent Strokes broke barriers long before social media pulled back the curtain on fame.
On a heavier note, Dion & Todd share Gary’s 30‑year fight with renal disease (far exceeding his prognosis), his abusive relationship with Shannon Price, and the troubling aftermath of his death. Plus, get exclusive insight into the Gary documentary and A&E’s upcoming Lie Detector series premiere —both aiming to uncover the truth and honor Gary’s legacy.
HIGHLIGHTS
Growing up in Hollywood - Todd and Dion share how they met and became friends. (02:23)
Life on the Diff'rent Strokes Set - Insights into sitcom filming schedules and the dynamic between the child actors. (04:32)
Dana Plato's Mischievous Antics - Todd and Dion recall Dana's daring drive through the Universal Studios spinning tunnel. (7:51)
Gary and Todd Were Like Brothers - Todd's relationship with Gary Coleman and what drove a wedge between them. (10:16)
Reconciliation - The crazy circumstances that brought Todd and Gary back together. (12:19)
Pranks on Set - Hilarious stories of Todd and Gary rigging cigarettes with poppers and other mischief. (15:16)
On-Set Politics & Pioneering Diversity - Todd discusses a director's replacement due to personal bias, leading to a significant step in racial representation for . (18:08)
From Dope Dealer to Hope Dealer: Christin Day's Addiction Recovery Story - Ep. 29
Season 2 · Episode 29
Wednesday, June 18, 2025 • Duration 37:19
Todd and Bettijo Bridges sit down with Christin Day, a self-proclaimed “Hope Dealer” from Crossroads Addiction Treatment Center, to talk about her journey from addiction to recovery. It’s raw, real, and somehow funny—because if you can't laugh at rock bottom, what can you do?
SUMMARY
In this episode Todd & Bettijo are joined by Christin Day, the "Hope Dealer" from Crossroads Addiction Treatment Center and Recovery On Air Podcast. Christin, who has seven years in recovery, shares her deeply personal and often painful journey, from losing her children to finding sobriety and becoming a beacon of hope for others. She candidly discusses the turning point that forced her to confront her addiction, the ongoing process of making amends with her family, and the crucial work of getting in touch with her true feelings after years of suppression.
The conversation delves into the origins of Christin's addiction, starting as a teenager looking to fit in, and Todd shares his own unique path into substance abuse, highlighting the societal stigma surrounding addiction. Christin emphasizes the vital role of consistent effort and a complete lifestyle change in maintaining sobriety, advocating for finding balance and setting boundaries even within the recovery community. She also sheds light on her impactful work at Crossroads, taking meetings into jails and prisons, and reimagining corrections to help others find their path to a clean life. The episode underscores the importance of empathy, understanding, and the transformative power of giving back as essential components of lasting recovery.
HIGHLIGHTS
Christin's journey from "dope dealer" to "Hope Dealer." (0:56)
Can People Really Change? Transformation, Addiction & Dexter - Ep. 28
Season 2 · Episode 28
Wednesday, June 11, 2025 • Duration 27:42
Is true change possible? Todd and Bettijo tackle this universal personal growth query head-on! Join them for a humorous exploration of addiction, mindset, and habits, inspired by a famous serial killer show, plus relatable stories of family life and the quest for self-improvement.
SUMMARY
In this lively episode, Todd and Bettijo kick off by debating the "gore" (or lack thereof) in their current binge-watch, Dexter, and Bettijo is worried she has become desensitized to on-screen violence. This leads them to a fascinating discussion about change itself, particularly in the context of addiction. Todd shares his strong belief that personal change is absolutely possible through hard work and a willingness to confront your own patterns. They explore the idea of addiction as a disease, the perils of experimentation, and the common human tendency to resist uncomfortable growth.
Bettijo introduces the powerful concept that change begins in the mind and that we often mistakenly expect others to change before ourselves. They wrap up with humorous anecdotes about go-kart racing, the realities of parenting young children, and Todd's own journey of significant personal change.
HIGHLIGHTS
Todd and Bettijo's differing views on "gore" in Dexter and desensitization. (1:15)
The premise of Dexter and its connection to the possibility of change. (2:57)
Discussion on the phrase "once an addict, always an addict" and the nature of addiction as a disease. (5:10)
Todd shares his personal belief that change is possible with work. (9:10)
Bettijo emphasizes that change begins in the mind and requires visualization. (9:39)
The importance of being realistic about the "cost" of change and goals. (9:54)
Todd's humorous (and debated) insistence on professional go-kart racing as a job. (12:11)
Todd's personal example of changing with the responsibilities of having younger children. (17:00)
Todd's journey from being a "hoe" to a married man, proving change is possible. (15:30)
I’m The Problem, It’s Me - Ep. 27
Season 2 · Episode 27
Wednesday, June 4, 2025 • Duration 30:06
Ever feel like the world is against you—or that your happiness depends on someone else (like, say, Taylor Swift… if only she returned our calls)? This week, Todd and Bettijo dive into a surprisingly empowering truth: if you’re the problem, you’re also the solution.
SUMMARY
In this eye-opening episode, Todd and Bettijo tackle the empowering concept that taking responsibility for your own emotions and reactions is the key to unlocking true happiness. They explore how our thoughts create our feelings and how we often unknowingly punish ourselves when we feel bad, and even sometimes when we feel good.
Bettijo shares insights from therapy about resisting the natural urge to "mirror" others' negative energy and instead choosing curiosity or confusion over defensiveness in conflicts. Todd brings a relatable perspective, sharing how past trauma can filter positive comments into negative interpretations, emphasizing the importance of re-filtering thoughts.
While they might playfully disagree on some generalizations, they both wholeheartedly agree that cultivating internal happiness is a personal journey, free from reliance on external factors. The episode also features a lively "ToddFlix" segment where Todd recommends the historical drama "1923" and shares some fun Hollywood trivia.
HIGHLIGHTS
Taylor Swift’s “Anti-Hero” song inspiration. (0:45)
You're the problem, you're the solution. (1:17)
We are the only ones who feel our emotions. (1:32)
Rewarding ourselves when we feel good, punishing ourselves when we feel bad. (2:18)
Todd Turns 60! Untold Family Stories with Jimmy Bridges - Ep. 26
Season 2 · Episode 26
Wednesday, May 28, 2025 • Duration 38:12
You’re cordially invited to Todd Bridges’ 60th birthday bash, and trust us, this party’s got stories. Todd's big brother Jimmy Bridges takes us on a wild ride down memory lane — sharing never-before-heard stories, roasting and toasting Todd, and revealing what it was really like growing up with a superstar. It’s part birthday party, part comedy hour, and all kinds of fun.
SUMMARY
In this special 60th birthday episode, Todd and Bettijo are joined by Todd’s older brother Jimmy, for a nostalgic trip back to 1965, the year Todd was born. Bettijo sets the scene with fascinating facts about the pop culture, politics, and technology of the time — from the top songs and movies to the top car to significant historical events like the signing of the Voting Rights Act and the beginnings of Disney World.
Then Jimmy steals the show with outrageous stories from Todd’s childhood, revealing Todd's mischievous nature, surprising fighting prowess, and the kind of ridiculous pranks only brothers could survive. From suspension notices and skipping school to their escapades with the eighties "wet look" hair and waterbeds, this episode is a blast from the past in the best possible way.
HIGHLIGHTS
A 1965 Time Capsule: Bettijo reveals surprising facts from the year Todd was born, including the number one song ("Help Me Rhonda" by The Beach Boys) and movie (The Sound of Music). (1:15)
Todd's Childhood Shenanigans: Jimmy exposes Todd's messy habits, secret stash of suspension notices and where Todd really went when he was supposed to be at school. (5:11)
A Childhood Fighter:Jimmy recounts a hilarious story of Todd, as a young boy, single-handedly taking down two bullies who had jumped him. (7:14)
The Wild World of 80s Fashion - Eyeliner and Tight Pants: Todd and Jimmy reminisce about the outlandish club attire of the 80s, including tight pants, eyeliner, and the iconic "wet look" hairstyle. (11:16)
Waterbed Woes and Dangers: The brothers share their experiences with waterbeds, and question who thought waterbeds were a good idea, highlighting the potential hazards. (13:10)
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Dr. Plummer explains that fear is a major driver of mistrust and limits human potential in cross-racial interactions. (9:46)
The conversation delves into the concept of systemic racism. (12:20)
Dr. Plummer discusses how fear is the root all around. (16:01)
The episode explores the myth that individuals in interracial relationships might lose their identity, emphasizing the importance of racial identity development. (19:00)
Todd reflects on the historical significance of seeing a Black president, Barack Obama, and the impact it had on his perspective. (24:50)
Dr. Plummer introduces her nonprofit, "Getting to We," and its mission to transform "us and them" into "we" by fostering trust and empowering storytelling. (27:32)
Dr. Plummer explains how everyone goes through a “Racial Socialization Process.” (43:23)
ToddFlix: Chicago PD (55:55)
LISTEN TO LEARN
Recognize societal and systemic barriers to cross-racial friendships.
Understand how fear affects trust and connection.
Learn strategies for building authentic, cross-racial relationships.
Understanding the barriers to true cross-racial connection is the first step. Ready to move beyond ‘diverse’ and see what ‘we’ can be? Hit play.
Follow on Instagram: Todd @toddbridges & Bettijo @pagingsupermom
DANG! is produced by Loop 101 Media, Bettijo Bridges, Todd Bridges & Attalie Anne
For more information contact info@loop101media.com
Joe’s roots in service: how a family legacy with the Salvation Army shaped his calling. (1:23)
The “spark” moment—patients sleeping on hallway floors—that lit the fire for change. (3:08)
Joe shares that he is a "normie," but his family's struggles with polyuse addiction inspired his work. (5:44)
Launching the Elijah House Foundation with nothing but a $10,000 credit card and a 10-bed men’s program. (8:24)
Joe explains that Sierra Health & Wellness was built on the belief that ‘luxury rehab’ should be a standard of care, not an exclusive privilege. (19:35)
The messy truth about the 2008 law, insurance companies, and how good intentions went sideways. (15:40)
The rampant fraud that is festering in the addiction treatment industry. (19:55)
Treating the whole person: why recovery means healing the mind, body, and addiction together. (23:19)
A day in the life of a patient at Sierra Health and Wellness, from admissions to the nursing team, detailed in the movie short Joe produced Troy's Story. (27:00)
Do they really tie people down in rehab? (31:20)
If Joe had a magic wand, this is the one thing he’d fix in addiction care. (46:16)
ToddFlix: Countdown (55:51)
This isn’t just a conversation about addiction—it’s about fighting for dignity, compassion, and real change in a broken system. Joe’s work is proof that better is possible. You’ll want to hear this one. Hit play!
DANG! is produced by Loop 101 Media, Bettijo Bridges, Todd Bridges & Attalie Anne
For more information contact info@loop101media.com
Perfectionism as a Need for Control: Bettijo connects perfectionism to the desire for control amidst life's chaos. (5:43)
The "Let Them" Theory: Bettijo discusses Mel Robbins’ powerful book Let Them. (7:19)
The Dangers of Controlling Others: Bettijo shares a story illustrating how naturally we push back when someone tries to control us. (8:38)
Shifting Perceptions of Safety: A fascinating discussion on whether the world is truly more dangerous now or if information access has changed our perception. (11:45)
The Power of Self-Control: Exploring how personal happiness comes from controlling only yourself. (22:27)
ToddFlix Pick: Todd shares his current must-watch show–Shrinking on Apple TV. (30:20)
LISTEN TO LEARN
How societal pressures create an unrealistic standard of perfection.
Why trying to control others is a futile and draining endeavor.
The personal freedom found in embracing your imperfections.
How to prioritize your own happiness and well-being without feeling selfish.
Perfection’s overrated. Real life is messy—and that’s where the magic is. Hit play and start living for real.
Follow on Instagram: Todd @toddbridges & Bettijo @pagingsupermom
DANG! is produced by Loop 101 Media, Bettijo Bridges, Todd Bridges & Attalie Anne
For more information contact info@loop101media.com
Diff'rent Strokes
Cancelled - What finally took Diff’rent Strokes off the air. (21:45)
The Social Media Effect - Reflections on the differences in Hollywood life with and without social media. (25:35)
Gary Coleman's Lifelong Health Battle - Dion explains Gary's childhood prognosis and his continuous fight with renal disease. (33:20)
Gary's Troubled Relationship with Shannon Price - Discussions about abuse and his later-revealed secret divorce. (36:40)
Todd Meets Shannon Price - Todd's direct encounter with Shannon Price with Gary in a wheelchair. (38:09)
The Circumstances of Gary's Death - Todd and Dion recount the puzzling details surrounding Gary's hospital stay and Shannon's actions. (43:00)
A&E Lie Detector Premier - Shannon Price has taken a lie detector test featured in the series of A&E new true crime seriesLie Detector: Truth or Deception premieres July 10, 2025 at 9pm ET/PT. (47:00)
Don't miss this unforgettable journey back in time with Todd, Bettijo, and Dion. Hit play now to hear incredible untold stories straight from the source!
Follow on Instagram: Todd @toddbridges & Bettijo @pagingsupermom
DANG! is produced by Loop 101 Media, Bettijo Bridges, Todd Bridges & Attalie Anne
For more information contact info@loop101media.com
Beverly Hills Beatdown and Arrests: Todd tells a wild story about a fight with a group of guys in Beverly Hills, where the police surprisingly sided with him and his friends. (16:38)
Identity Theft (Sibling Edition): Jimmy reveals Todd's sneaky move of using Jimmy’s name to get out of a moving violation. (20:27)
The Exorcist and Childhood Scares: Todd recounts the lasting nightmares he had after his brothers and cousin took him to see The Exorcist at just seven years old. (23:49)
The "Bigger" Money Trick: Older siblings Jimmy and Bettijo admit to tricking their younger siblings into trading dimes for nickels by claiming the nickel was "bigger." (24:30)
ToddFlix: This week Todd shares his favorite childhood TV shows Little Rascals and Sanford & Son. (32:39)
Cake Time: Join us to sing Happy Birthday to Todd! (36:00)
LISTEN TO LEARN
Discover surprising facts about the year Todd Bridges was born.
Hear hilarious and untold stories from Todd's childhood.
Find out what kind of trouble Todd and Jimmy got into growing up.
Learn about the fashion and trends of the 80s, including some questionable choices!
Don’t miss this birthday bash full of laughs, throwbacks, and sibling chaos. Hit play and party like it’s 1965!
Follow on Instagram: Todd @toddbridges & Bettijo @pagingsupermom
