After Wednesdays school lunch episodes, i have recieved several DM's asking for hints and tips about schools - and without asking everyone to go back listeniing to the numerous episodes we already have in our archive - I decided to magpie this episode, and grab a selection of learnings from previous episodes and also add in a few of my own.
In the Netherlands children start basisschool the day after their fourth birthday, so your child may walk into a class that's already formed. This episode covers what to expect in groep 1 and 2, what to send them in, and what to do in those first overwhelming weeks — for parents new to the Dutch system and for anyone heading back after the six-week summer holiday.
WHAT'S IN THIS EPISODE
- The Dutch school words nobody translates: groep 1, 2 and 3, kleuters, juf and meester, wennen, BSO, TSO, luizenzak, het tien-uurtje, gymles
- Why gym day means your kleuter may be asked to strip to their underwear
- Clothes, shoes, rain gear and mittens — Isabel Cruz's four practical rules
- Leerplicht: your four-year-old is not legally required to be at school until they turn five, and what that means for half days and BSO
- The summer slide, and why groep 1 and 2 have nothing to catch up on
- What to say at pickup instead of "how was your day"
- What to do when your child says someone was mean to them
QUICK ANSWERS
What is groep 1? The first year of Dutch primary school, for four-year-olds. Groep 1 and 2 run almost entirely on play; formal reading and writing start in groep 3.
What is wennen? Settling-in practice mornings before your child officially starts. Ask your school how many they offer.
What is BSO? Buitenschoolse opvang — after-school care, booked and waitlisted separately from school.
When does school become compulsory? Leerplicht starts at five, from the first school day of the month after your child's fifth birthday.
When do Dutch schools go back? Summer holidays are staggered across three regions, so return dates differ by where you live.
MENTIONED
Isabel Cruz, Kaleidoscope Consulting — school choice and school-readiness workshops in Amsterdam
Faye Poole, child psychologist — the emotional support and "someone was mean" frameworks
Melody, Petit Gourmet Academy — our school lunch box episode, where she went through eleven real listener lunch boxes
Our paediatric dentist episode — why you're still brushing their teeth for them at nine
It's a scramble of an episode at 9pm on a Friday night, but I hope it answers an unasked question for you.
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