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The Pain We Carry: Father Wounds, Grief & Becoming Whole (ft. BJ Communicates) | Ep 47821 Jul 202500:44:46

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What if the pain you’ve buried is the very thing blocking you from becoming the man God created you to be?

In this raw and emotional episode, Jerrad sits down with Dr. Brad Johnson—also known as BJ Communicates—to talk about grief, father wounds, and how trauma shapes us more than we realize. BJ shares the heartbreaking story of holding his newborn son as he took his last breath, walking through the fog of loss in his marriage, and later grieving the death of his own father before reconciliation could happen.

Together, they unpack how fatherlessness, unprocessed emotions, and generational pain keep men stuck—and why ignoring it doesn’t make it go away. They talk about how grief shows up in unexpected ways (like road rage and burnout), why most men lack true friendships, and how healing begins with honest conversations.

This episode is an invitation to stop carrying what God has called you to cast—and to believe that the best version of you is on the other side of your pain.


What You’ll Learn:

  • Why men are emotional—even when they say they’re not
  • How father wounds affect your identity
  • The power of grief and what it reveals
  • What it means to carry trauma in your body
  • How to connect with your wife through emotional check-ins
  • Why men struggle to form deep friendships
  • How generational patterns repeat if we don’t interrupt them
  • Why healing is spiritual—and why it matters for your family

Mentioned in This Episode:


Lies That Are Destroying Your Peace | Ep 477 with Gary Thomas 14 Jul 202500:42:42

Watch this interview on Youtube: https://youtu.be/4c_qHfeSGAE

What if the lie you're believing is the very thing keeping you from peace?

In this powerful and convicting episode, Jerrad sits down with bestselling author Gary Thomas to dismantle one of the most common, but rarely admitted lies Christian men believe: God owes me. Together, they talk about the quiet entitlement that sneaks into our faith, why peace feels so elusive, and how the Gospel offers something far deeper than comfort or success.

Jerrad and Gary explore how social media fuels discontent, how unspoken expectations erode intimacy with God, and why healing begins when we face our sin instead of hiding it. They share personal stories, biblical truth, and hard-won wisdom for men who want more than just behavior change, they want transformation.

This episode is a much-needed reminder: God’s not holding out on you. He’s already given you more than you deserve.


What You’ll Learn:

  • Why entitlement might be the root of your spiritual frustration
  • How believing a lie can sabotage your faith
  • The difference between comfort and peace
  • What Gary learned through suffering, silence, and surrender
  • Why social media subtly kills gratitude
  • How to be a man of peace in a world full of chaos
  • Why facing your sin leads to deeper joy
  • How the Gospel frees you—from your past, for your future

Mentioned in This Episode:
Gary Thomas’ new book: The Life You Were Reborn to Live
Gary’s website: https://www.garythomas.com
Book Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
Grab Dad Tired and Loving It: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
Watch and subscribe on YouTube: https://youtu.be/4c_qHfeSGAE

Why Men Feel Spiritually Stuck (and How To Break Free) | Kyle Idleman 46812 May 202500:52:30

Why do so many men feel stuck—emotionally, spiritually, and relationally—even while doing all the “right” things? 
In this vulnerable conversation, Kyle Idleman talks about the inner battles men face in silence. He explains why many men hide behind performance and productivity, how healing begins with connection (not accomplishment), and what it really looks like to take every thought captive.

Kyle and Jerrad dig into thought patterns that keep men stuck, the mental load of leadership, and why confessing weakness isn’t whining—it’s spiritual obedience. If you’ve ever felt alone, overburdened, or ashamed of not “being further along,” this conversation will help you breathe again.

What You’ll Learn:

  • Why men around age 40 often face unexpected internal crisis
  • How emotional connection—not productivity—defines your health
  • What it looks like to take every thought captive in practical terms
  • The healing power of confession and friendship
  • How to recognize and break negative thought patterns
  • Morning routines, prayer habits, and spoken truth as tools for renewal


Mentioned in the Episode:

  1. Every Thought Captive (Kyle Idleman’s new book)
  2. Galatians 6: “Bear one another’s burdens”
  3. The power of saying Scripture aloud to renew your mind
  4. Healthy male friendships and confession as healing rhythms
  5. The “+/- 3 of 40” principle: why men change between 37–43

Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB

How to be a Man Who Adds Value at Work with Jeremy Utley |37820 Nov 202301:07:27

In this episode, Jerrad sits down with Jeremy Utley, author, speaker, and innovation expert from Stanford University. Jeremy is a husband, father of four girls, and a follower of Jesus. He shares how everyday men can walk into their jobs as disciples. Not just to work hard  but to be salt and light in their workplace.

They talk about:
 • How to have creative ideas without pressure
 • Why your work is not separate from your calling
 • What to do when you feel stuck in a job that drains you
 • How to build a culture of honesty and creativity
 • Why Jesus doesn't divide sacred and secular work
 • How dads can create small moments of discipleship at home

Tune in to hear how God can use you to make your workplace better and your family stronger.


Episode Resources:

  1. Samaritan’s Purse Shoebox: https://samaritanspurse.org/buildonline
  2. Oelo Lighting: https://www.oelo.com
  3. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
  4. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
  5. Donate to support Dad Tired: https://www.dadtired.com/donate
Practicing The Way of Jesus with John Mark Comer | 37713 Nov 202300:56:25

Jerrad talks with author and teacher John Mark Comer about discipleship, spiritual formation, and what it takes to follow Jesus in a culture that often pulls in the opposite direction. John Mark explains why spiritual disciplines matter, how they shape a man’s heart, and why comfort and complexity keep many men stuck.

What You’ll Hear:
• Why most Christians are living in the gap between belief and practice
• How to become a disciple, not just a churchgoer
• What apprenticeship to Jesus looks like in real life
• How the Church lost sight of discipleship
• What John Mark learned living in Portland and LA
• Why slowing down is the starting point of spiritual growth

Tune in for a  talk about what it means to follow Jesus with your whole life.


Episode Resources:

  1. John Mark Comer’s new book Practicing the Way: https://practicingtheway.org/book
  2. Operation Christmas Child: https://samaritanspurse.org/occ
  3. Oelo Lighting: https://www.oelo.com
  4. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
  5. Donate to support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate
  6. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
What Discipline Looks Like for Christian Fathers | 37606 Nov 202300:39:58

In this episode, Jerrad tells the story of two lost phones, one rebellious toddler, and a dad learning how to discipline without shame. He unpacks how anger often takes over and why the real work of discipline starts with the heart. You’ll hear biblical truth, real stories, and practical advice for disciplining with love and consistency.

What You’ll Hear:
• Why discipline is more than behavior correction
• How sin always brings the death of something
• What it means to parent the heart, not just the behavior
• Why young kids need consistent consequences
• How older kids need deeper conversations
• The difference between discipline and anger


Episode Resources:

  1. Operation Christmas Child – https://samaritanspurse.org/occ
  2. Oelo Permanent Lighting – https://www.oelo.com
  3. Read The Dad Tired Bookhttps://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
  4. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  5. Support the ministry – https://www.dadtired.com/donate
Tech, Kids, and The Gospel with Brent During | 37530 Oct 202300:28:47

Jerrad talks with Brent Dusing, founder and CEO of True Play. Brent shares why kids need more than just safe content but gospel-centered stories that shape their identity and worldview. They discuss parenting in the digital age, how predators use online games, and why the Church must meet kids where they are.

What You’ll Hear:
• How much time kids actually spend on screens
• Why safe content isn’t enough for Christian families
• How predators are using gaming platforms
• What good digital discipleship can look like
• Why boys are struggling to grow into godly men
• How tech can help share the gospel, not compete with it

Tune in to learn how to lead your family with wisdom in a digital world.


Episode Resources:

  1. Download the True Play app: https://www.truplaygames.com
  2. Brent’s recommended book – Boys Adrift by Leonard Sax
  3. Watch Sound of Freedom
  4. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
  5. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
  6. Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate
Why God Uses Weakness to Shape Strong Leaders| 37423 Oct 202300:25:03

 Kaleb talks about leading in weakness. He shares a moment with his daughter that reminded him how much he needs God. He draws from 2 Corinthians 12 and shows why spiritual strength starts with honesty. Kaleb helps you see how staying present and trusting God can shape the way you lead.


What You’ll Hear:
• What it means to be frail but full
• Why kids need to see you depend on God
• How to lead from a place of weakness without shame
• Why honesty builds trust more than confidence
• How to ask for wisdom when you don’t have the answers
• Why grace leads better than striving ever could

Tune in for a reminder that your limits don’t disqualify you; they make room for God’s power.


Episode Resources:

  1. Read 2 Corinthians 12:9
  2. Operation Christmas Child: https://samaritanspurse.org/occ
  3. Book – Boys Adrift by Leonard Sax
  4. Dad Tired Conferences: https://www.dadtired.com/conferences
  5. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
  6. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
  7. Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate
What Christian Parents Need to Know About Halloween | 37316 Oct 202300:31:03

Jerrad answers a big question many Christian parents face each October ; what do we do with Halloween? He breaks down the history, looks at biblical teaching, and lays out three responses Christians can take: reject, receive, or redeem.   Tune in to lead your family with wisdom  through hard cultural questions. 


 What You’ll Hear:
• What the Bible says  and doesn’t say about Halloween
• The difference between clear commands and conscience issues
• How to use scripture to make wise decisions
• Why unity matters even when families land in different places
• What Christian liberty looks like in parenting
• How to guide your kids without confusion or fear


Episode Resources:

  1. Join the Dad Tired Community: https://www.dadtired.com
  2. Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate
  3. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
  4. Bring a Dad Tired Conference to your church: https://www.dadtired.com/conferences
  5. Learn more about Samaritan Ministries: https://samaritanministries.org/dadtired
  6. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
Fostering Faith and Friendship in Our Families with Levi Lusko| 37209 Oct 202300:30:27

Jerrad sits down with pastor and author Levi Lusko to talk about parenting, friendship, and what it means to be present in a lonely world. Levi shares about his relationship with his dad, how that shaped his own parenting, and why real friendship takes more than good intentions.

What You’ll Hear:
• Why friendship is essential for spiritual and emotional health
• What Levi learned from his dad about presence and integrity
• How loneliness is harming families and communities
• Why men often don’t talk about what they’re really feeling
• What the Bible says about brotherhood and connection
• How to help your kids face fear, loss, and anxiety with faith

Tune in to see why friendship is more than a feeling and a fight worth showing up for.


Episode Resources:

  1. Levi Lusko’s children’s devotional – Marvel at the Moon
  2. Book – Through the Eyes of a Lion by Levi Lusko
  3. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
  4. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
  5. Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate
  6. Bring a Dad Tired Conference to your church: https://www.dadtired.com/conferences
Is God Annoying You? |37102 Oct 202300:36:29

In this episode, Jerrad reflects on a recent moment at the Dad Tired retreat and how God wouldn’t stop pressing into his heart. He shares how we often want God to speak to others but not to us. This episode is a challenge to check where you’ve grown comfortable, and whether you're still all in.

You’ll hear:
• Why God keeps poking at the places we’d rather ignore
• How the Holy Spirit annoys us to pull us closer
• What it means to follow Jesus with your whole life
• Why past faith doesn’t replace present surrender
• How real discipleship involves dying to self again and again
• What your family sees that others might not


Episode Resources:

  1. Dwell Differently: https://www.dwelldifferently.com — use promo code DADTired
  2. Register for the Dad Tired Retreat: https://www.dadtired.com/retreat
  3. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
  4. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
  5. Bring a Dad Tired Conference to your church: https://www.dadtired.com/conferences
  6. Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate
How to Find Purpose in your Profession with Dr. Greg Gilbaugh| 37025 Sep 202300:37:05

Greg joins Jerrad to share his story as a dentist, pastor, and father of nine. He opens up about work, calling, and what it looks like to honor God through your job. He challenges men to stop compartmentalizing their faith and work, and to start seeing Monday mornings as part of their mission.

You’ll hear:
• Why work is not a curse, but a calling
• How Greg found purpose in the marketplace
• What it means to steward your work, not just survive it
• How God shaped his life through loss, disability, and joy
• Why business can be a way to love people well
• What younger men need from older men and how to find it

Tune in to see how your daily work can become part of God’s plan to shape you and bless others.


Episode Resources:

  1. Learn about the Family Leadership Program: https://www.dadtired.com
  2. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
  3. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
  4. Bring a Dad Tired Conference to your church: https://www.dadtired.com/conferences
  5. Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate
The Connection Between Your Body and Soul | 36918 Sep 202300:37:28

Jerrad is joined by therapist and longtime friend Casey to talk about what our bodies reveal about our inner lives. They share real moments where anxiety, stress, and fear showed up first in the body. You’ll hear how recognizing these signals can help you lead with more self-awareness and care.


What You’ll Hear:

• How to notice physical signs of stress
 • Why your body responds before your words do
 • What a tight jaw or flushed face might be saying
 • How unresolved pain shows up in the body
 • Why being present helps you lead your home well
 • Simple ways to slow down and check in with yourself


Episode Resources:

  1. Join the Dad Tired Community: https://www.dadtired.com
  2. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
  3. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
  4. Bring a Dad Tired Conference to your church: https://www.dadtired.com/conferences
  5. Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate
The Subtle Sins We All Ignore & Building a Life of Integrity| 46705 May 202500:38:56


What do you do when something isn’t technically sin—but still doesn’t feel right? In this episode, Jerrad shares a vulnerable story from his week that left him convicted, even though no clear line was crossed. He unpacks the concept of “inner, middle, and outer circle behaviors”—a tool from recovery circles—and challenges Christian men to evaluate the subtle patterns that quietly lead to sin, disconnection, or hidden shame.

If you’re a husband or father wrestling with old habits, emotional isolation, or unspoken compromise, this episode gives practical language to your inner conflict—and a gospel-centered path toward integrity and healing.

What You’ll Learn:

  • How to identify subtle behaviors that lead to sin
  • The difference between self-care and numbing
  • Why “middle circle” habits matter for Christian men
  • Practical steps for radical honesty in marriage
  • How to confess without spiraling into shame
  • Why healing starts with small, honest steps—not perfection


Mentioned in the Episode:

  1. The “Inner, Middle, Outer Circle” tool from recovery work
  2. Dad Tired Retreat (September – signup at dadtired.com)
  3. Kids' News Sponsor -World Watch News 

Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB

The Hidden Idols Shaping Your Life | 36811 Sep 202300:30:47

Jerrad invites you to take a hard look at what’s really driving your life. Every man wrestles with something that competes for his heart. It might be control, comfort, or the need to be seen. These things don’t always look like sin, but they slowly take the place only God should hold. In this episode, Jerrad walks through how to recognize the patterns in your thoughts, actions, and habits that reveal your true loyalties. He shares how these hidden priorities show up in your parenting, marriage, and spiritual life and what it looks like to choose Christ instead.

Tune in to slow down, ask honest questions, and take the first step toward freedom.

  
What You’ll Hear:

• How to recognize what you’re really worshiping
 • Why your idols often seem like strengths
 • What power, comfort, and desire demand from you
 • How idolatry can shape your parenting and marriage
 • What your family feels when idols go unchecked
 • How to turn from false masters and return to Christ


Episode Resources:

  1. Family Leadership Program: https://www.dadtired.com/family-leadership-program
  2. Dwell Differently: https://www.dwelldifferently.com – use promo code DadTired
  3. Read Romans 7, John 10:10, and John 17
  4. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
  5. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
Faithfulness In Small Things Builds Real Leadership| 36704 Sep 202300:49:47

Kaleb and Jerrad reflect on a teaching from Luke 16 and what it means to be faithful in the little things. They talk about how the smallest choices ; a thought, a word, a hidden act are shaping who you're becoming. Integrity isn’t built in big moments. It's formed in quiet, daily decisions when no one else is watching.


What You’ll Hear:

• Why integrity begins in the unseen places
 • How faithfulness in small things leads to trust in big things
 • What Jesus teaches about managing what’s not your own
 • Why little compromises are never just little
 • How our daily choices are forming our character
 • What it means to lead with consistency and conviction


Episode Resources:

  1. Read Luke 16
  2. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
  3. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
  4. Join the Dad Tired Community: https://www.dadtired.com
  5. Bring a Dad Tired Conference to your church: https://www.dadtired.com/conferences

Tune in to see how small faithfulness can lead to lasting change in your life and leadership.

Fighting for Faith in a Digital World with Jay Kim | 36628 Aug 202300:38:18

Jay Kim joins Jerrad to talk about how digital habits are shaping our spiritual lives, our families, and the kind of men we’re becoming. They discuss how easy access to information affects attention, prayer, and parenting. Jay shares practical steps for raising kids who know how to live offline.

What You'll Hear:

  • How digital distractions are shaping our brains
  • What a tech-free evening looks like in Jay's home
  • Why spiritual attention matters more than good intentions
  • How smartphones are changing kids and parents alike
  • Why screen limits are a form of love
  • What a Christ-centered family rhythm can look like

Episode Resources

  1. Analog Christian by Jay Kim 
  2. Read The Dad Tired Bookhttps://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
  3. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com

Tune in for an honest look at technology, formation, and the need to slow down before it's too late.

The Power of Prayer in Marriage with Aaron and Jennifer Smith| 36521 Aug 202300:34:27

Aaron and Jennifer Smith join Jerrad to talk about how prayer has shaped their marriage. They open up about the real struggles they faced early on, including physical pain, unmet expectations, and emotional disconnection. The conversation dives into why small arguments often reveal deeper wounds and how couples can move toward healing. They show how spiritual and emotional intimacy are connected, and how prayer can soften hearts, rebuild trust, and deepen love. 


What You'll Hear:
 • Why surface-level conflicts often point to deeper issues
 • The early struggles Aaron and Jennifer faced and how they found healing
 • How to fight for intimacy when your spouse is distant
 • The difference between transactional and sacrificial love
 • Why daily prayer helps couples reconnect and realign
 • Encouragement for husbands to lead spiritually
 • How their new book can guide couples through intentional prayer

Tune in to hear practical ways to grow intimacy and fight for unity in marriage through prayer.

Episode Resources
1.
The Marriage Gift: 365 Prayers for Our Marriage – https://marriageaftergod.com/themarriagegift

2. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB

3. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com

The Meaning of Present and Sacrificial Fatherhood| 36414 Aug 202300:23:01

Jerrad shares a personal story that leads into a powerful teaching on what it means to live a crucified life as a dad. He shares the difference between just showing up and truly leading your family in the Spirit. This is a call to die to pride, ego, and selfish ambition, to become  a dad who mirrors Christ, not just in presence but in posture.


What You'll Hear:

  • The Galatians 2 confrontation between Paul and Peter
  • What it means to be a present and crucified father
  • The difference between cultural goodness and spiritual surrender
  • Learning to take your frustration and ego to Gethsemane
  • How daily practices like prayer, Scripture meditation, and fasting shape crucified living
  • Raising children from a place of humility, not just duty

Tune in to reflect on the kind of father your kids will remember.


Episode Resources

  1. Dwell Differently – Scripture memory tools for the whole family.
    Visit: https://www.dwelldifferently.com and use code DADTIRED for a discount.
  2. The Dad Tired Retreat – Details and sign-up: https://www.dadtired.com under the “Annual Retreat” tab.
  3. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  4. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
A Journey of Intentional Fatherhood with Chris Witt | 36307 Aug 202300:34:51

Chris Witt joins Jerrad for a conversation on what it means to be an intentional father. As a dad of grown sons and now a grandfather, Chris reflects on the rhythms, words, and habits that helped shape his boys into godly men. He shares how simple things like a shared language of manhood left a lasting impact. He also shares why being a present dad means choosing purpose over passivity. 

What You’ll Hear 

  • How to disciple your kids even when it seems like they’re not listening
  •  The power of yearly “manca” trips and milestone moments
  • Why presence and repentance matter more than perfection
  • How to create shared language around manhood and calling
  • What grandparenting teaches you about legacy and grace
  • The role of camp in creating spiritual breakthroughs for families
  •  Why everything you do adds to or takes away from the message your kids will carry

Tune in to be hear how your daily efforts as a dad are planting seeds that will bear fruit for generations.

Episode Resources

  1.  WinShape Camps & Family Camps – https://www.winshape.org
  2.  Raising a Modern-Day Knight by Robert Lewis – https://www.amazon.com/dp/1589973097
  3.  The Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – https://www.dadtired.com (Use code PODCAST for $100 off)
  4.  Dad Tired Labor Day Weekend at WinShape – https://www.dadtired.com/events
  5.  Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  6.  Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
Sharing The Mental Load in Parenthood and Marriage|36231 Jul 202300:53:54

Jerrad and Layla have an honest conversation about spiritual growth, emotional maturity, and what it looks like to share the mental load in marriage. Layla opens up about her journey from spiritual complacency to discipline, and how one small decision changed everything. They also dive into parenting, baptism, moving across the country, and how to lead your family with humility and purpose.


What You’ll Hear:

  • What it looks like to move from spiritual apathy to daily discipline
  • Why abiding in Christ—not behavior modification—produces lasting fruit
  • A real-life example of how small daily decisions impact the whole family
  • Understanding the invisible “mental load” and how to share it well in marriage
  • Why your kids may not be ready for baptism (and how to talk about it with grace)
  • How to know when it’s time for a new chapter in life or a new church
  • Why spiritual leadership starts with quiet obedience, not platform influence

Tune in to reflect on how abiding in Christ transforms your home, your marriage, and your legacy.
Episode Resources:

  1. The Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – https://www.dadtired.com (Use code PODCAST for $100 off)
  2. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  3. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
  4. Disciplines of a Godly Woman by Barbara Hughes – https://amzn.to/3WZ9Utp
  5. Chris Kins on Worry – Scroll back to the “Worry” episode on the Dad Tired Podcast
  6. Join the Free Dad Tired Community – https://www.dadtired.com/community
How to Become a Peacemaker in Your Home and Marriage| 361 24 Jul 202300:28:16

Jerrad shares a powerful message on what it means to be both protector and peacemaker in a culture where those ideas often feel at odds. From an unexpected lesson while watching a duck guard its family, to deep reflection on Jesus’ words in Matthew 5, this episode challenges men to take spiritual ownership of their homes. Jerrad unpacks how true peace isn’t passive—it’s courageous, intentional, and rooted in the heart of a father who fights for his family’s physical and spiritual well-being.

What You’ll Hear:

  • A surprising story about ducks, gators, and spiritual leadership
  • Why real protection involves far more than physical safety
  • The difference between being a peacekeeper and a peacemaker
  • How passivity in marriage and parenting sabotages spiritual growth
  • What it means to have your head “on a swivel” in today’s culture
  • Why owning hidden sin is part of leading with integrity
  • How peacemaking reveals your identity as a son of God

Tune in to hear what strength looks like in fatherhood and how courage and peace can go hand in hand.

Episode Resources:

  1. The Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – https://www.dadtired.com (Use code PODCAST for $100 off)
  2. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  3. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
  4. Join the free Dad Tired Community – https://connect.dadtired.com
  5. Matthew 5:9 – “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God”
  6. Romans 12:18 – “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone
Why Kids Backslide & How to Lead Them Back to Faith| 36017 Jul 202300:28:33

Many Christian parents fear their kids will one day walk away from their faith. In this episode, Jerrad explores six of the most common reasons students (and adults) backslide. Drawing from years of youth ministry and personal parenting experience, he shares clear warning signs and biblical wisdom to help you disciple your kids toward long-term faithfulness.

Tune in to learn how to spot the subtle patterns that pull families away from Jesus; and what you can do today to fight for your child’s heart and legacy.

What You’ll Hear:

  • The six most common reasons kids fall away from the faith
  • How spiritual atrophy sets in and what to do about it
  • Why relationships often pull teens away from Jesus
  • What it looks like when old sins quietly return
  • How to talk to your kids about unanswered prayers and hard seasons
  • The role of sin tampering and how it erodes spiritual conviction
  • What it means to finish the race and build a gospel-centered home

Episode Resources:

  1. The Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – https://www.dadtired.com (Use code PODCAST for $100 off)
  2. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  3. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
  4. Register for the Dad Tired Retreat – https://www.dadtired.com/events
  5. Romans 13 and 1 Timothy 4:8 on spiritual discipline
  6. James 1:13–15 and 1 Corinthians 15:33 on sin and influence
When Faith is Forbidden: Stories of Persecuted Christians with Todd Nettleton | 35910 Jul 202300:36:02

 Jerrad talks with Todd Nettleton from Voice of the Martyrs. They share stories from Christians who follow Jesus in places where faith is dangerous. Todd tells what he has seen in countries like North Korea and Iran. These believers face jail, beatings, and even death. Still, they stay faithful. Their stories remind us what it means to truly follow Christ.
What You’ll Hear:

  • What’s happening with persecuted Christians around the world
  • Why North Korea remains the most dangerous place for believers
  • How a drug dealer in Iran became a bold evangelist
  • The testimony of a Chinese woman imprisoned for hosting a Bible study
  • Creative ways the gospel is spreading in closed nations
  • Why kids need spiritual heroes rooted in eternity
  • What it means to treasure Scripture like your life depends on it
  • How persecuted believers redefine risk, obedience, and calling

Episode Resources:

  1. Voice of the Martyrs – https://www.persecution.com
  2. VOM Radio Podcast – https://www.vomradio.net
  3. Free Voice of the Martyrs Magazine – Sign up at persecution.com
  4. VOM Prayer App – Available in app stores
  5. “When Faith Is Forbidden” Book – https://amzn.to/3Rx5wM1
  6. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  7. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
How to Rebuild Your Rocky Marriage and Lead with Love|46628 Apr 202500:55:22

What do you do when your marriage feels broken—but you don’t know how to fix it?
 In this episode, Dave and Ann Wilson share their story of nearly losing their marriage at year 10, and how God brought them through bitterness, performance, and unmet expectations into healing and intimacy.

With over four decades of marriage experience and years of leading marriage ministries, they speak candidly about wounds from the past, what happens when a wife feels unseen, and why husbands often withdraw instead of engage. You’ll also hear practical tools for renewing your mind, healing emotional wounds, and building each other up instead of tearing each other down.

What You’ll Learn:

  • What to do when one spouse has “lost all feelings”
  • How past trauma affects your marriage today
  • Why healing starts with individual repentance and soul work
  • The power of affirmation and the damage of chronic critique
  • How to speak life to your spouse (instead of yelling)
  • What it means to be an “azer kenegdo” and partner in the spiritual battle
  • Why most men feel unloved and unliked in their marriage—and how to change that


 Links and Resources:

  1. Vertical Marriage and How to Speak Life to Your Husband by Dave & Ann Wilson
  2. Biblical Reference- Romans 12:2 – the daily renewing of your mind.
  3. Pre-order link: Amazon – How to Speak Life to Your Husband
  4. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
  5. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB


Seeing God As A Perfect Father with Louie Giglio | 35803 Jul 202300:40:30

Jerrad sits down with Louie Giglio to talk about what it means to see God as a perfect Father. Louie shares stories about his own dad, his struggles with approval and control. He also looks back to the moment he realized his view of God had been shaped by wounds he didn’t even know he had. This conversation will help you rethink who God really is and how your identity as His child changes everything.

Tune in to discover how healing your view of God can transform your life as a dad, husband, and man of faith.

What You’ll Hear:

  • Why your view of God is the most important thing about you
  • How our earthly dads shape the way we see God
  • Louie’s story of struggle, burnout, and the pressure to prove
  • What it means that God is not the reflection but the perfection of your earthly dad
  • How to break generational patterns and become a different kind of father
  • The difference between living for approval and living from approval
  • What it looks like to parent from a place of identity and grace
  • Why every man needs a Father—and how to begin that relationship

Episode Resources:

  1. Louie Giglio’s new book – Seeing God as a Perfect Father 
  2. Passion City Church – https://passioncitychurch.com
  3. Voice of the Martyrs Magazine – https://www.persecution.com
  4. “Indescribable” by Louie Giglio – widely available on YouTube
  5. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  6. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
The Worry-Free Parent: How to Lead with Confidence with Sissy Goff| 35726 Jun 202300:33:24

Jerrad talks with counselor and author Sissy Goff about parenting with peace. Sissy shares why today’s parents are more anxious than ever, how that anxiety gets passed down, and what you can do to change the tone of your home. They also talk about the mental load in marriage, the pressure to parent perfectly, and the quiet strength kids find in calm, connected dads.

Tune in to learn how to recognize your own worry, take back peace, and lead your family with steady confidence.


What You’ll Hear:

  • Why today’s parents are more anxious than ever
  • How worry shows up in parenting without us noticing
  • The link between adult anxiety and anxious kids
  • The parenting behaviors that actually increase fear
  • What dads bring to the table that anxious homes need
  • How to balance correction with connection
  • Why your anxiety might be contagious
  • Practical tools to help kids build real confidence

Episode Resources:

  1. The Worry-Free Parent by Sissy Goff
  2. Raising Worry-Free Girls
  3. Hope Town Summer Program – https://www.raisingboysandgirls.com
  4. Sissy Goff’s Website – https://www.raisingboysandgirls.com/about
  5. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  6. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
Grief, Parenting and God's Goodness with Levi and Jennie Lusko| 35619 Jun 202300:54:02

Jerrad talks with Levi and Jennie Lusko about walking through grief, parenting in pain, and choosing to trust God when everything falls apart. They share what it was like to lose their five-year-old daughter and how that tragedy shaped the way they lead, love, and live today. This is a raw  conversation about suffering, faith, and the goodness of God in the middle of heartbreak.

Tune in to learn how to anchor your family in hope, even in your hardest seasons.

What You’ll Hear:

  • What Levi and Jennie learned from losing their daughter
  • How grief impacts marriage and parenting
  • Why you don’t have to “fix” your kids’ emotions
  • How to stay rooted in God’s Word when life feels dark
  • The role of vulnerability in healing
  • How to walk with others through sorrow
  • What it means to trust God’s character over your circumstances
  • The hope that remains when nothing else makes sense

Episode Resources:

  1. Through the Eyes of a Lion by Levi Lusko -Amazon
  2. The Fight to Flourish by Jennie Lusko – Amazon
  3. Fresh Life Church – https://freshlife.church
  4. Levi and Jennie’s teaching and resources – https://levilusko.com
  5. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  6. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
How to Ditch Loneliness & Build Real Friendship with Justin Whitmel Early| 35512 Jun 202300:36:43

 Jerrad sits down with Justin Whitmel Earley to talk about why men often drift into isolation and how to push back against it. Justin shares the biblical and personal reasons friendship matters, and how to build deep, life-giving relationships even in a fast-paced and lonely culture. This episode is for every guy who feels alone, overwhelmed, or just unsure how to form lasting friendships.

What You’ll Hear:

  • Why loneliness is a spiritual issue, not just a social one
  • How friendship shapes your walk with Jesus
  • What the Bible says about being made for people
  • Why secrets and isolation wear you down
  • How to find friends who know and love the real you
  • Why commitment, honesty, and vulnerability matter
  • What it looks like to build a rhythm of friendship
  • How your family benefits when you choose real connection

Episode Resources:

  1. Made for People by Justin Whitmel Earley 
  2. Habits of the Household
  3. Learn more at https://justinwhitmelearley.com
  4. Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – https://www.dadtired.com
  5. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  6. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB







Worry-Free Parenting: What the Ravens Teach Us About Raising Children| 35505 Jun 202300:29:24

In this epiode, Jerrad reflects on how anxiety has become a norm in modern parenting—and what Jesus has to say about it. He shares honest stories about mental health, stress, and the lies we believe when we try to control everything. Through Scripture and personal loss, he walks through a better way of thinking, feeling, and leading your family. Jesus didn’t just say “stop worrying.” He invited us to consider the ravens.

Tune in to learn how renewing your mind can reshape your home.

What You’ll Hear:

  • Why anxiety feels normal, even in Christian homes
  • How tech and culture have amplified fear in families
  • What Jesus actually meant when He said “do not worry”
  • The mindset shift that leads to peace and presence
  • How to move from anxiety to action as a dad
  • The biblical pattern of mind, will, and affection
  • What ravens and flowers reveal about God’s care
  • How to lead your kids with calm instead of control

Episode Resources:

  1. Philippians 4:6–7 and Luke 12:24
  2. Romans 12:1–2 on renewing your mind
  3. Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – https://www.dadtired.com
  4. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  5. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
Raise Confident Kids in a Confusing World with Ed Drew | 35329 May 202300:38:35

Jerrad talks with Ed Drew about how to help kids find their identity in Christ. Ed shares how the church can support families, why identity matters more than behavior, and how to respond when kids feel lost, anxious, or confused. This is a practical and gospel-rooted conversation for every parent who wants to raise secure kids in an insecure world.


What You’ll Hear:

  • Why your child’s identity matters more than their behavior
  • How the church can help raise confident, Christ-rooted kids
  • Ways to shift your language from correction to connection
  • How to respond when kids are confused about gender or worth
  • Why calm, honest conversations matter more than perfect answers
  • The danger of finding value in achievement or image
  • How to prepare kids for real-world questions with gospel truth
  • What it means to be “God’s Plan A” for your family

Episode Resources:

  1. Raising Confident Kids in a Confusing World by Ed Drew
  2. Faith in Kids – https://www.faithinkids.org
  3. Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – https://www.dadtired.com
  4. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  5. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
Why You Can't Change Your Child's Heart with Paul David Tripp| 35222 May 202300:26:51

Jerrad sits down with Paul David Tripp to talk about the real goal of parenting. Paul shares why behavior change isn’t enough and how heart transformation only happens through God. They talk about what gets in the way, how parents often carry pressure they were never meant to hold, and why grace is what shapes lasting change.
 Tune in to hear how lasting change in your home starts with trust in God, not perfect parenting.

What You’ll Hear:

  • Why you can’t change your child’s heart—and you’re not supposed to
  • The danger of parenting for behavior instead of transformation
  • Five questions to help your kids understand their own heart
  • Why grace is essential when you mess up as a parent
  • How your identity can get wrongly tied to your child’s performance
  • What it means to be God’s tool, not His replacement
  • Why parenting requires patience, humility, and a long view
  • The difference between reacting and responding with purpose

Episode Resources:

  1. Parenting: 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family by Paul David Tripp 
  2. Paul David Tripp’s resources – https://www.paultripp.com
  3. Dwell Differently – Scripture memory tools for families – https://www.dwelldifferently.com (Use code DADTIRED for 10% off)
  4. Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – https://www.dadtired.com
  5. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  6. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
How Identity Shapes Fatherhood | 35115 May 202300:23:22

 In this episode, Jerrad shares how a small moment in the kitchen led to two days of silence. What seemed like a simple argument uncovered old pressure, unspoken expectations, and a deep fear of not being enough. He reflects on how that pattern formed in childhood, how it still shows up today, and what it looks like to let Jesus into places marked by shame and performance.

Tune in to hear how honesty can lead to healing, even in the quiet places you try to ignore.


What You’ll Hear:

  • How unhealed wounds show up in everyday parenting and marriage
  • Why a simple moment can expose deep identity struggles
  • The lie every man wrestles with: “I’m not good enough”
  • What childhood pain has to do with present behavior
  • Why silence and anger often point to something deeper
  • How your story can shift when you let Jesus speak into it
  • The importance of counseling, confession, and soul health
  • What your kids need more than a perfect dad

Episode Resources:

  1. Philippians 1:6, Romans 8:1, Revelation 21
  2. Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – https://www.dadtired.com
  3. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  4. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
No Rules in Spiritual Warfare with Kaleb Allen | 35008 May 202300:34:40

In this episode, Jerrad  and Kaleb Allen talk about spiritual warfare—specifically in the lives of children. Kaleb shares how moments of anger and insecurity in his home opened his eyes to something deeper happening in his kids’ hearts. He reflects on why discipline isn't always just about behavior, and how parents can miss the spiritual battle taking place underneath the surface. Together they talk about identity, prayer, and what it means to protect your home without fear or pressure.

Tune in to hear how spiritual covering begins with honesty, humility, and simple faithfulness.

What You’ll Hear:

  • Why our kids aren’t exempt from spiritual warfare
  • How unhealed wounds show up in childhood
  • Signs that your child may be under spiritual pressure
  • The difference between discipline and discipleship
  • What it means to create a spiritual covering over your home
  • Why simple prayers like the Lord’s Prayer still hold power
  • How to help your kids recognize lies and stand on truth
  • The role of confession and repentance in family leadership

Episode Resources:

  1. “The Christian in Complete Armour” by William Gurnall
  2. The Dad Tired Community (Free, off social media) – https://www.dadtired.com
  3. Dad Tired Q&A Mixtape – wherever books are sold
  4. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  5. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
Starve The Sumo: How to Kill What's Trying to Kill You | 34901 May 202300:24:08

In this episode, Jerrad shares the burden of watching good men fall. Not because they wanted to, but because they fed something that eventually took over. He talks about hidden addictions, quiet compromises, and the kind of decisions that seem small until they’re not. He tells the story of what it means to let sin grow, how it steals joy and freedom, and what it looks like to cut it out before it cuts you down. This is about finishing well, not through willpower, but by starving what’s trying to take you out.

Tune in to hear why your future depends on what you feed today.

What You’ll Hear:

  • Why moral failure doesn’t start big
  • How compromise grows into control
  • What the Bible says about desire, sin, and death
  • Why your habits shape the legacy your kids will remember
  • How to starve what’s killing you instead of trying to manage it
  • The difference between salvation and discipleship
  • What Jesus meant when He said to cut it off
  • Why finishing well requires sacrifice, not just intention

Episode Resources:

  1. James 1:15, Romans 12:1–2, Matthew 5:29–30
  2. Dad Tired Q&A Mixtape
  3. Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – https://www.dadtired.com
  4. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  5. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
Why You Keep Falling Into the Same Sin (And How to Break Free) |46521 Apr 202500:32:10

Why do so many christian men fall into the same sinful patterns over and over? Jerrad reveals how habitual sin is often rooted in emotional escape—in attempts to numb pain, stress, or fear. Drawing from his own experience in intensive counseling and a growing commitment to truth-telling, he helps men understand how to face uncomfortable emotions rather than flee from them.

This episode is for every man who feels stuck, ashamed, or exhausted by the cycle of sin and silence. You’ll walk away with practical tools to sit in discomfort, recognize your escape habits, and move toward healing and integrity in Christ.

 What You’ll Learn:

  • Why escaping pain fuels habitual sin in Christian men
  • How to recognize subtle behaviors that lead to deeper compromise
  • What it means to sit in discomfort instead of numbing out
  • The power of presence, meditation, and prayer for spiritual growth
  • Why truth-telling must be the foundation of healing
  • How to identify your personal “escape mechanisms” (like social media, work, food, or fantasy)


Resources & Links :

  1. Inner / Middle / Outer Circle framework for sin and coping
  2. Jerrad’s 156-day truth-telling streak
  3. Scripture Reference: Matthew 6:33 – Seek first the Kingdom
  4. Upcoming “Garage Groups” and online healing spaces (in development)
  5. Dad Tired fundraising needs & support at dadtired.com/donate
  6. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
  7. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB


Kyle Idleman on Fear, Fatherhood and Discipleship| 34824 Apr 202300:40:01

In this episode, Jerrad sits down with Kyle Idleman to talk about what it means to move from admiration to transformation. Kyle reflects on the challenge of being a father who wants to fix things but has to face the fear of not being in control. He shares stories of failure, frustration, and how real connection with Jesus shapes who we are at home. They also explore how staying connected to Christ produces lasting fruit in a world pushing performance.

Tune in to hear how surrender leads to strength and why connection matters more than control.

What You’ll Hear:

  • Why fear, not anger, drives many parenting responses
  • The pressure to fix vs. the need to trust
  • What it looks like to bear fruit by staying connected to Jesus
  • The lie of masculine independence and the power of asking for help
  • How honesty with friends can transform your inner world
  • What real spiritual leadership looks like in a home
  • Kyle’s reflections on John 15 and the danger of performance-driven faith
  • How to flip your calendar to prioritize connection over production

Episode Resources:

  1. “Not a Fan” by Kyle Idleman
  2. “When Your Way Isn’t Working” 
  3. Backgate Prayers – https://www.backgateprayers.com (use code DADTIRED for 10% off)
  4. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  5. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
Dads Who Dwell: How Presence Shapes Fatherhood| 34717 Apr 202300:24:21

In this episode, Jerrad reflects on what it means to be a dad who is fully present. He shares how growing up without his dad shaped the way he parents now. He also talks about how easy it is to be physically home but mentally somewhere else. Through Scripture, he traces the story of a God who shows up, and what that means for dads who want to lead with presence.

 Tune in to hear  what it means to dwell with your kids the way God dwells with you. 
What You’ll Hear:

  • Why presence matters more than performance
  • How your childhood shapes the kind of father you become
  • The difference between being around and being with
  • What the Bible says about God’s presence with His children
  • Why emotional and spiritual availability is part of leadership
  • The cost of distraction and the gift of full attention
  • How God’s story from Genesis to Revelation models fatherhood
  • Questions to ask about where your time and focus are going

Episode Resources:

  1. Dad Tired Community – free group for dads: https://www.dadtired.com
  2. Dad Tired Q&A Mixtape – https://amzn.to/4bXdfhd
  3. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  4. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
Jake Bodine on Fatherhood and Prison Ministry| 34610 Apr 202300:41:33

In this episode, Jerrad sits down with Jake Bodine to talk about the kind of hope that reaches beyond prison walls. Jake shares how his relationship with his father shaped his early struggles and how God used that brokenness to lead him into prison ministry. He tells stories from inside the walls—about the men he meets, the families impacted, and the surprising hunger for God in places most people overlook.

Tune in to hear how the gospel moves through the darkest places and why no one is too far gone.

What You’ll Hear:

  • Jake’s story of father wounds, identity, and redemption
  • How God Behind Bars started with one yes
  • Why prisons are filled with men desperate for truth
  • What it’s like to preach in a prison yard
  • How addiction and abandonment shape the lives of inmates
  • Why the Church often overlooks incarcerated men
  • What freedom really means when you're locked up
  • How to pray for and support men behind bars

Episode Resources:

  1. God Behind Bars – https://www.godbehindbars.com
  2. Jake Bodine’s story – featured at godbehindbars.com/about
  3. Dad Tired Family Leadership Program – https://www.dadtired.com
  4. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  5. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
More Than You Bargained For: Following Jesus When It Gets Hard| 34503 Apr 202300:30:14

In this episode, Jerrad shares what happened when he said yes to something that seemed simple and ended up with more than he expected. He reflects on a small coaching job that turned into a heavy load and how that experience mirrors the call to follow Jesus. Over time, what starts with excitement often turns into something harder and holier. Jerrad walks through the life of Peter and how Jesus kept asking one question, even when things got tough.

Tune in to hear why following Jesus means saying yes again especially when it's not easy.

What You’ll Hear:

  • The surprising cost of small commitments
  • Why Jesus kept asking Peter, “Are you still in?”
  • How tiredness can impact your faith and decisions
  • The link between physical exhaustion and spiritual drift
  • Why God doesn’t just want your belief, but your whole life
  • What sanctification really means in everyday life
  • How to protect your mind and heart when you’re worn out
  • The difference between being saved and being surrendered

Episode Resources:

  1. Classical Conversations – https://classicalconversations.com/dadtired
  2. John 6 and John 21 referenced in the teaching
  3. Dad Tired Q&A Mixtape 
  4. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  5. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
How Should You Pray With Your Kids? | 34427 Mar 202300:18:53

 In this episode, Jerrad shares a chapter from the Dad Tired Mixtape audiobook. He tells a story from early parenting; one night when exhaustion and insecurity hit hard. It raised a question he hadn’t fully answered: Are we praying with our kids the way we should?
He discusses the barriers that keep dads from praying out loud with their children. Jerrad also reflects on how Jesus prayed: simple, honest, and from the heart. Then he connects it to what it means to lead your family in prayer today. 

Tune in to hear how simple prayers can change the atmosphere in your home.

What You’ll Hear:

  • Why many dads feel stuck or insecure about praying with their kids
  • The power of short, spontaneous, and authentic prayer
  • What Scripture reveals about how Jesus prayed
  • Real stories from the Dad Tired community
  • Why spiritual leadership isn’t about performance
  • How to break through awkwardness and start praying out loud
  • The connection between your personal prayer life and family leadership
  • Practical ways to invite God into everyday moments

Episode Resources:

  1. Dad Tired Q&A Mixtape 
  2. The Dad Tired Community – https://www.dadtired.com
  3. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
  4. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
When You Feel Stuck As A Dad20 Mar 202300:22:11

Host Jerrad Lopes shares a recent story of when he felt stuck as a dad and how he handled it. Listen as he helps listeners process their own feelings of inadequacy and how they can point they can still point their family toward a better father.

Your Marriage Tells A Bigger Story (with Paul & Amy Hauser)13 Mar 202301:04:01

Host Jerrad Lopes sits down with award-winning actor Paul Walter Hauser and his wife Amy to hear the story of God's radical redemption of their hearts, marriage, and family.

Parenting Heart vs Parenting Behavior (with KB)06 Mar 202300:28:33

Host Jerrad Lopes sits down with award winning hip hop artist KB to discuss what it looks like to parent your child's heart vs. just parenting their behavior. The pair also talk about what it looks like to succeed in your home life as much as you do your work life.

Prophecy, The End Times & Other Things Dads Should Know (with Prophecy Pros)27 Feb 202300:39:16

Host Jerrad Lopes sits down with The Prophecy Pros to talk Biblical Prophecy, The End Times, and other things dads should know.

BONUS: What Is A Revival?21 Feb 202300:31:51

On today's episode hosts Jerrad Lopes and Chris Hilken sit down to discuss what is happening at Asbury University, and how we respond as spiritual leaders.

Porn, Shame, and the Journey to Real Healing (with Nick Stumbo) |46414 Apr 202500:53:15

In this episode, Nick Stumbo (Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries) shares his personal story of battling pornography addiction while serving as a pastor—and how it nearly cost him his marriage. Nick and Jerrad unpack the cycle of shame, hidden habits, emotional coping, and why true healing for Christian men requires more than confession.

If you've ever felt stuck in sin, numb to your marriage, or spiritually ashamed, this conversation offers a hopeful path toward recovery and freedom in Christ.

What You’ll Learn:

  • Why many Christian men deny the severity of their porn use
  • The real difference between struggle and addiction
  • How shame and secrecy keep men stuck
  • Understanding your middle circle behaviors (the warning signs)
  • Why confession alone doesn’t lead to freedom
  • How to identify your escape patterns 
  • What wives need to know (and how to avoid trauma-based confessions)


Episode Resources and Links :

  1. Pure Desire Ministries: puredesire.org
  2. Book: Setting Us Free by Nick Stumbo
  3. Recovery groups: Seven Pillars of Freedom (for men), Betrayal & Beyond (for wives)
  4. The “Three Questions” that define addiction
  5. Tools: Inner/Middle/Outer Circle framework, HALT (Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired)
  6. Sponsor: Dwell Bible App – dwellbible.com/dadtired
  7. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
  8. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB


Getting Your House In Order (with Stockton Shultz)20 Feb 202300:42:37

Join hosts Jerrad Lopes as he sits down with a fellow Dad Tired community member Stockton Shultz to discuss what it looks like to be a spiritual leader who practically gets his house in order from a financial perspective.

When Your Marriage Account Runs Low13 Feb 202300:27:14

How do you continue to invest into your marriage when you're working, have young kids, and are living a busy life? Too many couples live within a marriage account that is dangerously low. Join host Jerrad Lopes as he shares what it looks like to practically invest into your marriage before it runs empty.

Becoming A Man Of Courage (with Ken Harrison)06 Feb 202300:34:21

Jerrad sits down with Ken Harrison, President of Promise Keepers, to discuss what it looks like to become a man of courage in a cowardly world.

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