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How Are We Going To Get Through This? | Surviving Marriage Crisis16 Oct 202600:50:37

What Do You Have in Your House? | Trusting God Through Marriage and Hardship

What do you do when your marriage faces financial pressure, broken trust, or circumstances that feel impossible to overcome?

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy unpack 2 Kings 4:1–7 and the powerful story of the widow whose small jar of oil became the starting point for God's provision.

Discover how husbands and wives can face difficult seasons together by bringing problems into the light, recognizing what God has already provided, walking in obedience, strengthening marital unity, and practicing wise stewardship.

Your current crisis does not have to define your future. Learn how to stop fighting each other, seek God's direction together, and take the next faithful step toward a stronger, Christ centered marriage.

📖 Key Scripture: 2 Kings 4:1–7

⚔️ Your Marriage Battle Plan: Reveal the need. Recognize what remains. Respond in obedience. Work as one. Steward the outcome.

Don't despise the small jar. God can use what you already have as you trust His wisdom and faithfully follow His direction.

Follow the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast for practical biblical marriage advice, Christian marriage encouragement, and Scripture centered guidance to help you fight for your covenant, not against each other.

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When Your Marriage Is Spiritually Dry: Rebuild the Altar07 Oct 202601:09:13

What happens when your marriage is in a spiritual drought?

In 1 Kings 18, Elijah confronted a nation that had drifted from God, rebuilt the broken altar, and called the people back to the Lord.

The same message speaks directly to marriage.

Sometimes the problem isn’t communication, intimacy, finances, or circumstances. Sometimes the marriage is spiritually dry because the altar has been neglected.

In this episode, Brent and Lucy unpack 1 Kings 18 and challenge husbands and wives to stop trying to solve spiritual problems with practical solutions. Get back to God. Get back in His Word. Rebuild prayer. Restore spiritual unity. Put Jesus back where He belongs.

And when all you see is a small cloud, don’t give up. That cloud may be the beginning of your breakthrough.

If your marriage feels dry, divided, or broken, this episode is a call to rebuild the altar and fight for your covenant.

Your marriage isn’t finished. Rebuild. Pray. Stand. Believe.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction and overview of Elijah's story

08:06 The spiritual crisis of Israel and its reflection in marriage

16:59 The significance of rebuilding the altar in marriage

27:06 The showdown on Mount Carmel: Faith and obedience

37:02 The fire from heaven and God's power to restore

47:46 The importance of expecting God's work in your life

57:11 The Spirit of God enabling us to overcome impossible situations

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When the Brook Dries Up: Trusting God in the Unknown02 Oct 202600:48:13

What happens when you simply open the Bible with your spouse and ask God to reveal Himself?

In this special Covenant Army Marriage Bible Talk, Brent and Lucy invite you into a real, unscripted husband and wife Bible study through 1 Kings 17 and the story of the prophet Elijah. This conversation is about more than Bible knowledge. It is about learning to know God, recognize His character, trust His Word, and walk in obedience even when you cannot see what He is doing.

As Brent and Lucy unpack Elijah’s journey, they explore powerful themes of faith, obedience, prayer, spiritual growth, God’s provision, trusting God in difficult seasons, and hearing His voice. From ravens feeding Elijah, to the widow whose flour and oil never ran out, to the restoration of her son, this chapter reveals a God who is faithful, powerful, and able to provide in the most unlikely circumstances.

They also talk honestly about seasons when the brook seems to dry up, when circumstances do not make sense, and when we are tempted to question whether God is still working. Drawing from their own marriage, family, ministry, and experiences of God’s provision, Brent and Lucy share why obedience often comes before understanding and why faith grows when we look back and recognize the ways God has already been faithful.

This episode is also a reminder that husbands and wives do not have to be Bible scholars or theologians to study Scripture together. You can sit down with your spouse, open the Word of God, pray, ask questions, listen to each other, and invite the Holy Spirit to reveal what God wants to show you.

If you want to grow in Christian marriage, biblical marriage, spiritual intimacy, Bible study for couples, prayer, faith, obedience, and a deeper relationship with God, this conversation is for you.

Grab your Bible, sit down with your spouse, and join Brent and Lucy as they pull back the curtain on what it looks like to seek God together.

Key Scripture: 1 Kings 17

Topics: Christian Marriage, Biblical Marriage, Bible Study for Couples, Husband and Wife Bible Study, Elijah, 1 Kings 17, Faith, Obedience, Prayer, God's Provision, Spiritual Intimacy, Hearing God, Trusting God, Christian Couples, Marriage and Faith


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Bible study as a couple

01:58 The importance of seeking God personally

03:59 Walking through the Bible together for the first time

06:59 Elijah's role and God's purpose in his ministry

09:56 God's miraculous provision for Elijah and the widow

15:00 The power of faith and obedience in miracles

20:03 The significance of Elijah's prayer and life restoration

25:04 God's faithfulness in provision and protection

30:06 Personal stories of God's miraculous work in life

40:03 Encouragement to trust and seek God daily

44:46 Closing thoughts and prayer for spiritual growth

The Enemy’s Strategy: Why Your Marriage Is Being Targeted30 Sep 202600:53:06

Your marriage is not the only thing happening beneath the surface.

In this powerful episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy unpack the reality of spiritual warfare in marriage and how the enemy uses deception, temptation, division, unforgiveness, secret sin, fear, compromise, and repeated patterns to attack Christian couples and families.

Grounded in Scripture, this conversation exposes how spiritual attacks can begin subtly in the mind, thoughts, emotions, habits, and choices before developing into oppression, bondage, and strongholds. Brent and Lucy also discuss how spiritual warfare can affect marital unity, peace, intimacy, prayer, personal purity, and the atmosphere of the home.

You will learn how to recognize the enemy’s schemes, guard your thoughts, identify destructive patterns, resist temptation, and close the doors that allow sin and compromise to gain influence.

Most importantly, this episode points couples back to the authority and freedom found in Jesus Christ. Through submission to God, prayer, repentance, worship, fasting, Scripture, discernment, holiness, and honest communication, couples can stand together instead of allowing the enemy to turn husband against wife.

If you are struggling with marriage conflict, spiritual strongholds, temptation, unforgiveness, pornography, sexual sin, addiction, division, anxiety, loss of peace, or spiritual heaviness, this episode will challenge you to bring what is happening in the darkness into the light of Christ.

Your spouse is not your enemy. The battle is bigger than the disagreement in front of you.

God has not called your marriage to live in fear, confusion, or bondage. In Christ, there is freedom, restoration, healing, and victory.

Key Scriptures: Ephesians 6:11, 2 Corinthians 2:11, Matthew 4:1–11, James 1:14–15, Luke 22:31, James 4:7, 2 Corinthians 10:4–5, John 8:36, Romans 10:9.

Listen, share this episode with another couple, and join Brent and Lucy as they equip husbands and wives to fight for their covenant instead of fighting against each other.

The Unseen War Behind the Wedding Altar23 Sep 202600:48:32

You said “I do.” You exchanged vows. You became one flesh. But what many couples never realize is that there is a spiritual battle surrounding the covenant they just entered.

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy pull back the curtain on the unseen war behind the wedding altar and share why Christian couples must learn to recognize the real enemy instead of turning their weapons on each other.

Marriage is God’s design, and a husband and wife united in Christ can powerfully reflect His image to the world. That is why division is so dangerous. The enemy wants to turn disagreements into accusations, misunderstandings into offenses, and your spouse into the enemy.

But Scripture reminds us:

“For our struggle is not against flesh and blood…” — Ephesians 6:12

Brent and Lucy unpack three powerful truths for every Kingdom marriage:

ONE FLESH: You are no longer operating as two independent people pursuing separate agendas. God has joined you together. Unity must be protected, pursued, and fought for.

ONE FIGHT: Your spouse is not your enemy. Learn to recognize the three primary battlefronts attacking marriage: the flesh, the world, and the devil. Stop fighting each other and start fighting together.

ONE MISSION: Your marriage was created for more than happiness. God designed your covenant to reflect His image, disciple your family, impact others, and advance His Kingdom.

You’ll also hear Brent and Lucy share openly about experiencing intense communication struggles leading up to a marriage conference and how surrendering the situation to God changed everything. Their experience became another reminder that knowing biblical principles does not exempt a marriage from battle. It teaches you how to fight the battle together.

The enemy doesn’t fear your love. He fears your alignment.

You are not fighting to earn victory. Through Christ, you are fighting from victory.

Husband and wife, remember your marching orders:

Remain united in Christ. Fight for your covenant, not against each other. Walk in victory together for the glory of God.

One Flesh. One Fight. One Mission.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction and overview of the conference

04:00 Spiritual warfare before the conference

07:06 Experiencing God's presence at the conference

11:08 The covenant of marriage and the spiritual battle

17:01 Unity in marriage and fighting as one flesh

22:01 The significance of vows and commitment

28:03 The role of God's Word and prayer in marriage

34:08 The enemy's tactics and spiritual influences

40:02 Victory in Christ and our mission in marriage

Are you married, but spiritually single? 02 Sep 202601:10:21

You can sleep in the same bed, raise the same children, attend the same church, and still be moving in two completely different spiritual directions.

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy unpack what it means to become spiritually aligned as husband and wife and why spiritual unity is critical to building a strong, biblical marriage.

Spiritual alignment does not mean you pray the same, think the same, or have identical spiritual gifts. It means you are surrendered to the same Lord, governed by the same biblical truth, and committed to the same Kingdom mission.

Discover the warning signs of spiritual misalignment in marriage, how busyness, unresolved hurt, spiritual passivity, secret sin, and competing priorities can create division, and practical ways to rebuild spiritual intimacy, prayer, unity, communication, and purpose.

Brent and Lucy also address one of the hardest situations in Christian marriage: What do you do when one spouse wants to grow spiritually and the other doesn’t?

Plus, they give couples a practical Spiritual Alignment Meeting to help identify areas of drift and begin moving back toward Christ and each other.

Jesus should not simply be included in your marriage. He should be the Commander of your marriage.

When a husband and wife stand shoulder to shoulder under the authority of Jesus Christ, hell does not see two isolated believers. It sees a Covenant Army.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the importance of spiritual alignment

02:10 Celebrating birthdays and cultural differences in celebration

04:07 Recap of the Leadership Table event and Mark Whitaker's story

06:47 Upcoming Power of Marriage Conference in Orlando

08:59 Understanding what spiritual alignment means in marriage

13:07 The biblical foundation for unity and alignment

15:49 Differences in connecting with God and their strengths

19:50 The importance of humility and shared spiritual leadership

24:02 Practical steps to build and maintain spiritual alignment

30:03 Signs of spiritual misalignment in marriage

39:53 Overcoming passivity, secret sin, and lack of shared mission

50:12 The power of prayer, repentance, and seeking counsel

59:57 Creating a shared spiritual rhythm and mission

01:05:05 Encouragement to take action and seek God’s guidance


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Are Your Marriage Struggles Actually a Broken Vow?26 Aug 202601:10:57

What if the vows you spoke on your wedding day were never meant to be beautiful words you simply said once, but a covenant you were called to live out every single day?

In this powerful episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy take you back to the wedding altar and break down the traditional Christian wedding vows from a biblical covenant perspective.

What does it really mean to say, “I take you,” “to have and to hold,” “for better or for worse,” “for richer or for poorer,” “in sickness and in health,” “to love and to cherish,” “until death do us part,” and “I pledge you my faithfulness”?

These aren't merely romantic promises. They are a blueprint for how husbands and wives are called to love, serve, protect, remain faithful, and fight together through every season of marriage.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• Why God is a witness to your marriage covenant
• Why marriage cannot survive on feelings alone
• What it really means to intentionally choose your spouse every day
• How “to have and to hold” points to biblical oneness
• Why emotional safety is essential in a covenant marriage
• How husbands and wives can move forward together instead of living separate lives
• What “for better or for worse” really means when marriage gets difficult
• How financial pressure can either divide a couple or strengthen their unity
• What “in sickness and in health” looks like in real life
• Why loving and cherishing your spouse must continue even during conflict
• How your words can either protect or destroy the covenant
• Why using the word “divorce” as a weapon can damage safety and trust
• What biblical faithfulness looks like beyond simply avoiding an affair
• Why your marriage belongs under God's authority, not cultural definitions
• How to evaluate whether your marriage is actually reflecting the covenant you promised before God
• Three powerful questions every married couple should ask about their vows

Most importantly, Brent and Lucy challenge couples to stop simply remembering their vows and start living them.

Your wedding day was one day. Your covenant is lived out every day.

When you are tired. When money is tight. When communication breaks down. When temptation comes. When forgiveness is difficult. When your spouse disappoints you. When life doesn't look anything like you expected.

That is where your vows become real.

As believers, marriage is more than staying married. It is about becoming one flesh, fighting together, and fulfilling the mission God has entrusted to your marriage and family.

If you're ready to strengthen your covenant, protect your marriage, and put God back at the center of your relationship, this episode is for you.

One Flesh. One Fight. One Mission.

Listen together with your spouse, pull out your wedding vows, and ask each other:

What part of our vows are we living out well?
What part have we neglected?
What is one thing I can begin doing this week to better live out my vows?
Does our marriage currently reflect the covenant we promised before God?


Chapters

00:00 Introduction and purpose of the episode

02:16 Reflecting on marriage anniversaries and vows

04:53 Remembering what was promised at the altar

12:05 The purpose and power of wedding vows as a battle plan

19:49 Living as one and the importance of unity

28:18 Understanding 'For better or for worse' and enduring seasons

44:03 Loving and cherishing unconditionally

49:21 The seriousness of 'Till death do us part' and covenant fidelity

01:02:11 Living out vows daily and the importance of faithfulness

01:04:29 The role of Jesus Christ in marriage and covenant faithfulness

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What Table Are You Sitting At? The Warning Every Married Couple Needs19 Aug 202600:53:02

You Cannot Sit at Two Tables: Guarding Your Marriage from Spiritual Compromise

What table are you sitting at?

In this powerful episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy unpack the sobering warning of 1 Corinthians 10:21: “You cannot drink the cup of the Lord and the cup of demons. You cannot partake of the table of the Lord and the table of demons.”

This isn't just a warning about what you believe. It is a warning about what you allow into your marriage, home, heart, mind, and family.

As Christian husbands and wives, we can’t ask God to bless our covenant while continually making room for the things that undermine it. Pornography, inappropriate relationships, old flames, social media, resentment, bitterness, unforgiveness, entertainment, worldly influences, emotional connections outside the marriage, and compromise can slowly become comfortable guests at our table.

And the enemy rarely announces himself.

Often, spiritual compromise begins with something that seems small, harmless, or insignificant. One compromise becomes another. Eventually, something that once convicted us becomes something we tolerate.

In this episode, Brent and Lucy challenge husbands and wives to take an honest spiritual inventory of their marriage and ask:

What have we allowed to sit at the table of our marriage that God never invited?

You’ll discover why:

• Your spouse is not the enemy
• The battle in marriage is often flesh versus Spirit
• Small compromises can create significant spiritual consequences
• What you repeatedly consume eventually influences what you believe and how you behave
• Husbands are called to take responsibility for the spiritual direction of their households
• Wives have a powerful role in guarding the atmosphere and influences within the home
• Not every friendship, relationship, entertainment choice, or influence belongs at your marriage table
• Godly counsel strengthens marriage, while unhealthy counsel can create division
• Repentance means more than feeling sorry. It means turning around and changing direction
• Your covenant is worth protecting because it is valuable to God

Most importantly, this episode is not about condemning imperfect marriages. It is about conviction, repentance, restoration, spiritual alignment, and choosing God again.

If you've been asking God to strengthen your marriage while continuing to hold onto something He is asking you to surrender, this episode is your invitation to get up from the wrong table.

Choose the table of the Lord.

Choose your covenant.

Choose holiness.

Choose unity.

Choose the mission God has given you.

One Flesh. One Fight. One Mission.

If this episode challenges you, don't just listen to it. Listen to it with your spouse. Then ask each other:

“What table have we been sitting at, and what is God calling us to leave?”

That conversation could be the beginning of a powerful change in your marriage.

For more biblical marriage resources, training, and encouragement, visit CovenantArmyMarriage.com.

Why Unforgiveness Is a Demonic Doorway In Marriage12 Aug 202600:41:54

What if the greatest threat to your marriage isn't the argument you're having, but the offense you refuse to release?

In this powerful episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy tackle one of the most underestimated threats to a covenant marriage: unforgiveness.

Unresolved offenses don't simply disappear. They can become bitterness, resentment, contempt, emotional withdrawal, intimacy problems, spiritual dryness, and division within your home. More importantly, Scripture warns us that unresolved anger can give the enemy a foothold.

Brent and Lucy break down what unforgiveness really is, how it quietly manifests in marriage, and why forgiveness does not mean pretending the hurt never happened, restoring trust instantly, or removing necessary boundaries.

You'll discover:

• How unforgiveness can create spiritual and emotional territory for the enemy
• The difference between pain, forgiveness, trust, and reconciliation
• Five warning signs that unforgiveness may be operating in your marriage
• Why keeping a mental scorecard is destroying intimacy
• How unforgiveness can affect your prayer life and spiritual intimacy
• Practical steps to identify, release, and close the door on bitterness
• Why forgiveness is a decision of obedience, not a feeling
• How couples can handle old wounds when painful memories resurface
• Why husbands and wives must learn to fight together instead of fighting each other

This episode also includes a deeply personal testimony about the freedom that came when unforgiveness was finally surrendered to God.

If there is an offense you've been carrying for months or even years, this conversation may be the wake up call your marriage needs.

You can't close a door you refuse to identify.

It's time to stop keeping score, release the debt to God, and protect the covenant.

Listen now, and remember:

One Flesh. One Fight. One Mission.


Chapters

00:00 The Wall of Unresolved Offenses in Marriage

02:11 Unforgiveness as a Demonic Doorway

04:04 The Parable of the Unforgiving Servant and Its Lessons

06:51 The Spiritual Consequences of Unforgiveness

10:09 Practical Steps to Forgive and Close the Door

15:07 The Power of Daily Forgiveness and Accountability

19:59 Misconceptions About Forgiveness, Trust, and Reconciliation

24:50 Renouncing Unforgiveness and Closing Spiritual Doors

30:11 The Role of Prayer and Faith in Healing

Eternity-Minded Marriage: Why Most Couples Fail05 Aug 202600:49:10

Is your marriage focused on temporary happiness or eternal purpose?

In this powerful episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy challenge Christian couples to shift their perspective from the distractions of everyday life to God's eternal calling for marriage. Discover how a biblical marriage is designed to glorify Christ, strengthen your relationship, and prepare both husband and wife for eternity.

Through practical marriage advice, personal stories, and biblical teaching, you'll learn why every conversation, every decision, and every act of love matters. If you're looking to build a stronger Christian marriage rooted in God's Word, this episode will encourage you to stop merely surviving marriage and start living with eternal purpose.

Whether you're newly married, have been together for decades, or are navigating a difficult season, this marriage podcast offers biblical encouragement and practical tools to help Christian couples grow closer to God and each other.

In This Episode:

• How an eternal mindset transforms your Christian marriage

• Why marriage is about more than happiness and comfort

• Practical biblical marriage habits that strengthen your relationship

• How to pray, study Scripture, and serve God together as a couple

• Raising the next generation with a lasting spiritual legacy

• Marriage advice for staying united through life's temporary struggles

If you're searching for practical Christian marriage advice, biblical marriage encouragement, or a marriage podcast that keeps Jesus at the center, this episode is for you.

Scriptures: Colossians 3:2, 2 Corinthians 4:17–18, Hebrews 10:24, Psalm 78:4–7, Romans 10:9


Chapters

00:00 Introduction: The Urgency of Eternity in Marriage

02:02 Reflecting on the Summer Break and Spiritual Renewal

03:54 The History and Significance of St. Augustine, Florida

06:15 The Call to Prepare for Eternity, Not Just Earthly Life

08:06 Marriage as a Reflection of Christ and Discipleship

12:07 The Power of God's Word and Spiritual Transformation

15:11 Refining Through Marriage and Overcoming Selfishness

17:54 Focusing on Eternal Priorities in Daily Life

22:00 The Importance of Prayer, Bible Study, and Spiritual Discipline

28:02 Teaching the Next Generation About Eternity

34:00 Practical Steps to Keep Eternity in Focus

40:00 Serving Others and Spreading the Gospel as a Couple

43:05 Closing Prayer and Call to Action


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The Battle Inside Your Head Is Destroying Your Relationship24 Jun 202600:22:55

What if the greatest threat to your marriage isn't financial stress, poor communication, or even unresolved conflict? What if the real battle is happening in your mind?

In this powerful episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy unpack the life changing truth of Romans 12:2 and reveal how renewing your mind can completely transform your marriage. Discover how worldly thinking creates resentment, division, and scorekeeping, while God's truth produces unity, peace, and covenant love.

You'll learn:

• Why negative thought patterns are silently sabotaging your marriage


• How to stop seeing your spouse as the enemy and start seeing them as your teammate


• The difference between a contractual mindset and a covenant mindset


• Three practical daily strategies to renew your mind and strengthen your marriage


• How taking thoughts captive can prevent unnecessary conflict and restore connection


• Why changing your mind is often the first step to changing your marriage

Brent and Lucy also share personal experiences from their own marriage, offering practical wisdom and biblical encouragement for couples facing daily battles. Plus, they present the hope of the Gospel and explain how a relationship with Jesus Christ is the ultimate foundation for a thriving marriage.

If you're tired of living in cycles of frustration and want to experience God's good, pleasing, and perfect will for your marriage, this episode is for you.When you change your mind, you change your marriage.

Listen now and learn how to win the battle for your thoughts, protect your covenant, and build a marriage that stands strong through every season.

For marriage resources, training, and community support, visit Covenant Army Marriage.

Chapters

00:00 The Battlefield of the Mind in Marriage

04:54 Transforming Your Mind for a Stronger Marriage

09:35 Practical Steps to Renew Your Mind

14:25 The Power of Faith in Marriage


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The Oldest Battle Plan Against Your Marriage (Don't Ignore This)17 Jun 202600:45:48

The enemy's strategy against marriage hasn't changed since the Garden of Eden.

In this powerful episode of Covenant Army Marriage, Brent and Lucy expose the enemy's oldest battle plan against husbands and wives and reveal how the same three temptations used against Eve and Jesus are still being used to attack marriages today: the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life.

Discover how these hidden attacks often show up as arguments, distance, bitterness, pornography, comparison, control, and selfishness, and learn why many couples spend years fighting symptoms while missing the real source of the battle.

In this episode, you'll learn:

  • Why the enemy targets marriage so aggressively

  • How comparison quietly destroys covenant

  • Why pride is one of the most dangerous forces in a relationship

  • How Jesus defeated temptation and what that means for your marriage

  • Practical battle strategies to protect and strengthen your covenant

  • Why couples who pray, fast, and stay in God's Word together become difficult to divide

This is more than a marriage conversation. It's a spiritual battle plan. If you're ready to stop fighting each other and start fighting for your covenant together, this episode will encourage, challenge, and equip you to stand shoulder to shoulder against the real enemy.

What God has joined together, the enemy wants to separate. But in Christ, husband and wife can fight as one and walk in victory.

🎧 Listen now and discover how to recognize the enemy's schemes, protect your marriage, and fight for the covenant God has entrusted to you.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Enemy's Tactics Against Marriage

05:37 Understanding the Enemy's Strategy

11:34 The Lust of the Flesh: Temptations in Marriage

22:53 The Lust of the Eyes: Seeking Power and Influence

23:47 The Illusion of Shortcuts

28:44 The Dangers of Comparison

33:38 Guarding Against Temptation

37:44 Strategies for Humility and Reconciliation

40:50 Recognizing the Real Enemy


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Is Your Smartphone Destroying Your Marriage?10 Jun 202601:00:32

Is your marriage being quietly pulled apart by the device in your pocket?

In this powerful episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy expose the hidden threat of micro infidelity and how seemingly harmless digital habits can slowly erode trust, intimacy, and emotional connection in marriage. From social media interactions and private messages to the constant pursuit of online validation, they reveal how the enemy uses subtle compromises to create cracks in even the strongest relationships.

Drawing from biblical truth and their own marriage journey, Brent and Lucy discuss practical ways couples can establish healthy digital boundaries, embrace radical transparency, and reclaim emotional exclusivity within their covenant. They share real life struggles, victories, and safeguards that have helped protect their marriage while serving in ministry in an increasingly connected world.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• What micro infidelity is and why it is so dangerous
• How social media and digital distractions can weaken marital intimacy
• The warning signs that emotional boundaries are being crossed
• Practical digital guardrails every Christian couple should consider
• How to rebuild trust, strengthen transparency, and protect your covenant
• Biblical principles for guarding your heart in a digital age

Whether your marriage is thriving or struggling, this conversation will challenge you to examine the role technology plays in your relationship and equip you to fight for the unity God intended.


Chapters

00:00 The Silent Attack on Marriage

08:26 Understanding Digital Adultery

12:13 Defining Micro Infidelity

24:41 Recognizing the Signs of Micro Infidelity

28:17 Navigating Insecurities and Spiritual Blind Spots

31:03 Establishing Radical Transparency in Relationships

39:13 Reclaiming Emotional Exclusivity

50:07 Creating a Battle Plan for Digital Boundaries


Scriptures Referenced: Proverbs 4:23, Matthew 5:28, 1 Corinthians 10:13, Romans 10:9

Resources: Learn more about strengthening your marriage through the Forged for Mission: The Sacred Blueprint of Marriage training at Covenant Army.

Remember: Your marriage is worth protecting. Guard your heart, strengthen your boundaries, and stay united in Christ.


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Respect vs. Love: Why Your Marriage Needs Both to Survive03 Jun 202600:30:33

Most couples are getting this completely wrong. In this powerful episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy unpack the unexpected power of respect and reveal four biblical ways respect can literally save your marriage.

Through honest conversations, real marriage struggles, and practical wisdom rooted in Scripture, this episode dives deep into how respect can stop the “crazy cycle” of conflict, create emotional safety, guard your marriage against outside temptations, and even help resurrect feelings that seem dead and gone.

You’ll discover why love may be the fuel of marriage, but respect is the steering wheel. Brent and Lucy share personal stories, biblical truth from Ephesians 5:33, and practical strategies couples can apply immediately to strengthen connection, restore honor, and fight for their covenant.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
• How respect de-escalates conflict before it destroys connection
• Why emotional safety is essential for vulnerability in marriage
• How honoring your spouse protects your marriage from outside threats
• The surprising connection between respect and rekindling love
• Why feelings should never lead your covenant
• A practical 24-hour “Respect Challenge” to transform your home atmosphere

This episode is a call for husbands and wives to stop fighting each other and start fighting for each other. If your marriage feels stuck, strained, or spiritually exhausted, this conversation will encourage you to step off the crazy cycle, restore honor in your communication, and invite God back to the center of your marriage.

Your covenant marriage is worth fighting for.

Scriptures referenced:
• Ephesians 5:33
• Romans 10:9

Be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with another couple who needs hope and encouragement in their marriage battle.


Chapters

00:00 The Power of Respect in Marriage

02:58 Understanding Respect: A Biblical Perspective

05:40 Respect as a Conflict Resolution Tool

11:33 Creating a Safe Space for Vulnerability

15:48 Building Resilience Against External Threats

19:55 Resurrecting Dead Feelings Through Respect

23:54 The Respect Challenge: Practical Steps for Couples


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Is Your Wife Begging For These? 4 Critical Marriage Needs27 May 202600:40:10

In this powerful and convicting episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy Howell confront four critical things a wife should never have to beg her husband for in marriage.

From spiritual leadership and emotional connection to protection, faithfulness, and honor, this episode challenges husbands to step back into their God given role and calls couples to fight for unity instead of surrendering ground to the enemy.

Brent and Lucy unpack how passivity, emotional distance, hidden compromise, and lack of protection can slowly erode trust and security in a marriage. Through biblical truth, raw honesty, and practical wisdom from their own journey, they remind couples that marriage is not a competition, but a covenant battlefield where husband and wife must stand side by side.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why spiritual passivity damages the order of the home
• The importance of emotional connection and fidelity in marriage
• How husbands are called to protect and defend their wives
• Why wives should never have to beg to be heard, valued, or honored
• How to recognize the enemy’s attacks against your marriage
• What true biblical leadership and partnership look like
• The power of repentance, restoration, and fighting together in Christ

This episode is a wake up call for husbands, encouragement for weary wives, and a reminder that healthy covenant marriages are built through intentional love, sacrifice, spiritual warfare, and unwavering commitment to God.

Whether your marriage is thriving or struggling, this conversation will equip you to strengthen your relationship, guard your covenant, and walk together in unity and purpose.

Walk in truth. Fight in love. Stay united in Christ.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Marriage Dynamics

01:06 The Call for Spiritual Leadership

09:29 The Importance of Emotional Fidelity

20:25 Defending Your Partner

26:39 Equal Partnership in Marriage


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The Remarriage Question: Can Grace Really Cover This?20 May 202600:52:18

Can God’s Grace Truly Cover a Remarriage?
In this deeply personal and powerful episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and his Lucy tackle one of the most difficult and emotionally charged questions many Christian couples silently wrestle with: Can God still bless and redeem a remarriage?

Drawing from their own testimony as a remarried couple, they open up about the shame, condemnation, and spiritual attacks they faced early in ministry when others questioned whether God could truly use them because of their past. Through honest conversation and biblical truth, they confront the lies of the enemy with the redeeming power of God’s grace.

This episode dives into:
• What the Bible really says about divorce, remarriage, and redemption
• Why God’s grace does not erase truth, but transforms broken people
• How shame keeps believers spiritually trapped in their past
• The story of the Samaritan woman at the well and the power of restoration
• Why your past failures do not cancel God’s future calling on your life
• How remarried couples can build a Christ-centered covenant moving forward
• The difference between conviction and condemnation
• Why no surrendered life is beyond God’s mercy and healing

With raw honesty, biblical encouragement, and practical wisdom, this episode is for anyone carrying guilt from divorce, questioning their worthiness, or wondering if God can still restore, use, and bless their marriage today.

No matter your past, the cross was enough.

Scriptures Featured:
Romans 8:1
Ecclesiastes 4:12
John 4
2 Corinthians 5:17
Micah 7:18
Romans 10:9

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Battle Tested & Spirit Bound: The Journey of Three Cord Marriage13 May 202601:32:15

Most couples underestimate the spiritual battle for their marriage — until chaos erupts. Brent, Lucy, Raymond, and Leslie Funk reveal the hidden warfare every believer faces and how they turned their mess into a ministry of hope and victory.

In this transformative episode, you'll discover the powerful story of a marriage dragged through addiction, betrayal, and nearly destroyed by the enemy — yet redeemed through obedience, prayer, and the Holy Spirit's unwavering power.

Raymond and Leslie Funk share how God took their brokenness and birthed Three Cord Marriage, a ministry rooted in biblical truth and practical warfare strategies that equip couples to fight for their union.We break down their groundbreaking Tactical Marriage Training, a high-impact experience designed to strengthen marriages by teaching couples how to deploy spiritual weapons during real-life battles.

Raymond and Leslie share how fighting with faith, boldness, and unity can expose lies, rebuke darkness, and restore hope even in the darkest moments. You'll also hear their candid testimony of overcoming addiction, infidelity, and spiritual deception — lessons that can save your marriage from the enemy’s schemes.

Why does this matter? Because your marriage isn’t just about you — it’s a legacy that influences generations. The enemy wants to divide and destroy what God has joined, but through spiritual warfare, obedience, and relentless faith, your marriage can become a mighty example of God's victory. This is not just another episode — it's a battle-cry for every couple fighting to stay united under God's purpose.

Whether you're in the storm or seeking to prevent one, this episode offers spiritual tools, real-life grace, and a message of hope that will leave you equipped and encouraged to stand firm. Perfect for couples, ministry leaders, or anyone desperate for a breakthrough in their marriage — this is your call to fight in love, walk in truth, and walk in God's victory.Raymond and Leslie Funk are founders of Three Cord Marriage, devoted to helping couples discover their divine purpose and build resilient, faith-centered unions.

Their journey from brokenness to breakthrough proves that with God, nothing is impossible.If you’re ready to lead your marriage into victory, don’t miss this episode. Every couple needs this spiritual warfare strategy — because the fight for your marriage is worth it, and you’re already equipped for the victory.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections

02:44 The Birth of Three Cord Marriage

05:44 The Journey of Faith and Obedience

08:28 The Transformation of Raymond and Leslie's Marriage

11:02 Facing Challenges and Seeking Restoration

13:46 The Power of Vulnerability and Sharing Testimonies

29:29 Confronting Chaos: A Moment of Truth

31:48 Spiritual Warfare in Marriage

34:47 The Power of Prayer and Faith

36:24 The Journey of Healing and Reconciliation

42:01 Building Trust and New Beginnings

45:15 The Importance of Inner Healing

48:54 Navigating the Path to Restoration

52:36 The Influence of Christ-like Responses

54:56 The Power of Response in Leadership

56:20 Three-Cord Marriage: A Journey of Healing

57:35 Fighting for Your Marriage: The Covenant Army

59:58 Tactical Marriage Training: A Unique Experience

01:06:05 Building a Legacy Through Marriage

01:17:15 Final Thoughts: The Impact of Marriage on Generations


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Before Marriage, Nobody Told Us This About Conflict06 May 202600:33:30

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy dive deep into the often misunderstood topic of conflict in marriage. They candidly share their personal journey, revealing how they initially believed love and commitment would shield them from conflict, only to discover that it is a natural part of any relationship. Through heartfelt discussions, they explore how conflict can be a powerful tool for growth and unity when handled in a God-honoring way. Listeners will learn practical strategies for navigating disagreements, the importance of humility, and the transformative power of inviting God into their marriage. Whether you're newlyweds or have been married for decades, this episode offers valuable insights to strengthen your relationship and embrace conflict as a path to deeper connection and understanding.


Chapters

00:00 Understanding Conflict in Marriage

06:19 The Nature of Conflict

09:58 Handling Conflict Effectively

18:27 The Role of God in Conflict Resolution

25:24 Seeking Help and Community Support


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You’re Marrying More Than Each Other: You’re Marrying Your Upbringing Too29 Apr 202600:31:34

Nobody tells you this before marriage, but they should. You’re not starting from scratch. You’re bringing patterns. The way you handle conflict, show love, shut down, or take control was shaped long before your spouse ever came into your life. And when pressure hits, you don’t rise to your intentions, you fall back on what trained you. That’s why so many couples feel blindsided. Marriage doesn’t create problems. It reveals patterns. In this week's episode on the Covenant Army Marriage podcast, Brent and Lucy breakdown this poweful topic.

Here’s the truth and the hope. You are not stuck with what shaped you, but you are responsible for what you build. If you don’t confront it, you will repeat it. But in Christ, you can break cycles, choose a different blueprint, and build a marriage that reflects Him, not your past. You’re not just inheriting a tree. You have the power to plant a new one.


Chapters

00:00 Celebrating 18 Years of Marriage

02:39 The Importance of Community in Marriage

05:15 Tactical Marriage Training Experience

08:30 Understanding Baggage in Marriage

11:14 Expectations and Upbringing in Marriage

13:58 Navigating Conflict and Communication

16:46 Breaking Unhealthy Patterns

19:59 Building a New Foundation in Marriage

22:51 The Role of Faith in Marriage

25:41 Invitation to a Relationship with Christ


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The 1 Mistake Every Couple Makes Before Marriage22 Apr 202600:49:09

Falling in love feels powerful, but it’s not enough to sustain a healthy, God-honoring marriage. In this episode, we break down the truth most couples overlook before saying “I do.” You’ll learn why feelings alone cannot carry a marriage, what actually builds lasting unity, and how to prepare for a covenant that thrives through every season. If you’re dating, engaged, or even married and struggling, this episode will challenge and equip you to build your relationship God’s way.


Chapters

00:00 The Foundation of Love in Marriage

09:14 Navigating the Journey of Commitment

18:52 Understanding the Difference Between Love and Infatuation

23:29 Covenant vs. Convenience in Marriage

26:33 Commitment Over Emotion

30:07 Growing Together Spiritually and Emotionally

34:10 Building a Marriage on a Strong Foundation

37:26 Choosing Love Daily

40:40 Transforming Marriages Through God

43:55 The Power of Prayer and Faith


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This Is How Your Kids Lose Their Faith… (And Most Parents Miss It!)15 Apr 202600:39:46

How does one generation walk closely with God… and the next forget Him completely?

This episode unpacks the warning from Book of Judges 2:10 and brings it straight into your marriage and home. The truth is simple but urgent: faith isn’t inherited, it’s imparted.

If it’s not lived out in your marriage, it won’t last in your children.

You’ll be challenged to stop assuming and start leading as the spiritual gatekeepers of your home. Because your kids won’t follow what you say, they’ll follow what you model.

But here’s the hope:
If faith can be lost in one generation, it can be restored in one too.

It starts with you. Right now.

Build more than a marriage. Build a legacy that points your family to God.


Chapters

00:00 Generational Faith and Spiritual Warfare

09:11 Building a Legacy of Faith

18:16 Intentional Parenting and Spiritual Training

27:56 The Power of Prayer and Worship in Family Life

33:45 Invitation to Faith and Community Engagement


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Why You and Your Spouse Feel Spiritually Out Of Sync (And How To Fix It)08 Apr 202600:50:39

How can two people share a life… yet slowly drift in opposite directions?

This episode confronts one of the most common and dangerous realities in marriage: being committed, but not aligned.

Fresh off a deeply moving Resurrection Sunday, Brent and Lucy unpack how the sacrifice of Jesus doesn’t just save your soul, it sets the standard for your marriage. Through raw reflection, biblical truth, and real counseling insight, they expose why so many couples feel disconnected even while living under the same roof.

This is not about falling out of love. It’s about falling out of alignment.

From spiritual division and silent expectations to pride, miscommunication, and unclear direction, this episode gets to the root of why marriages lose unity and what it actually takes to restore it.

You’ll discover why spiritual unity is the foundation, how unspoken frustrations quietly destroy connection, and what it really means to be “on the same page” in a God-honoring marriage.

If your marriage feels off, distant, or directionless, this conversation will challenge you, awaken you, and give you a clear path forward.

Because a divided marriage will always struggle…
but a marriage aligned under God becomes powerful, peaceful, and purpose-driven.

It’s time to stop assuming you’re aligned and start building it intentionally.


Chapters

00:00 The Disconnection in Marriage

05:55 The Impact of Resurrection Sunday

11:50 Understanding Alignment in Marriage

18:33 Walking Together in Agreement

23:42 Navigating Imperfections in Relationships

25:08 The Importance of Spiritual Unity

26:33 Unspoken Expectations and Their Impact

28:23 Communication: The Key to Alignment

30:10 Misconceptions About Unity in Marriage

32:18 Aligning Values and Roles in Marriage

34:08 Practical Steps for Alignment

36:25 Intentional Conversations for Unity

38:13 Establishing Roles and Responsibilities

39:37 Ongoing Alignment: A Lifestyle Choice

42:48 The Call to Surrender and Seek God


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What Biblical Respect Really Looks Like for Wives (And Why It Changes Everything)01 Apr 202600:38:06

Respect in marriage isn’t optional… it’s biblical.

In this episode, we tackle a hard truth: Respect isn’t based on your husband’s performance. It’s rooted in your obedience to God. We break down what respect is not: Not silence. Not weakness. Not tolerating wrong. But also expose what many miss: Disrespect often shows up in tone, correction, and public criticism… and it slowly tears a marriage down.

Here’s the reality: A disrespected man withdraws. A respected man rises. If you want real change in your marriage, this will challenge you. 🔥 Listen now and learn how to build unity, not division.


Chapters

00:00 Understanding Respect in Marriage

05:36 What Respect Is Not

12:09 The Importance of Communication

18:35 Why Respect Matters to Men

21:46 Defining Biblical Respect

25:51 What Respect Doesn't Mean

29:03 The Call to Action for Wives


Resources

Ephesians 5:22-24 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ephesians+5%3A22-24&version=NIV


Romans 12:10 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Romans+12%3A10&version=NIV


1 Peter 3:1 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Peter+3%3A1&version=NIV


Proverbs 14:1 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+14%3A1&version=NIV


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Irreconcilable Differences?25 Mar 202601:09:49

In this episode of Covenant Army Marriage podcast, Brent and Lucy challenge the notion that some marital conflicts can't be resolved. Discover how pride and spiritual warfare can turn minor issues into major divides, and learn how God's Word offers a path to healing and unity.

Explore the origins of “irreconcilable differences” and how it became a tool for easy divorce. Brent shares biblical insights on overcoming pride and embracing humility and forgiveness to transform your marriage.

Perfect for couples on the brink of separation or anyone committed to a biblical marriage, this episode provides practical tools to turn conflicts into opportunities for growth.

Is your marriage fully submitted to God? Tune in to find out how to fight for your covenant and see God's power restore what the enemy has tried to steal.

Join us to discover how your marriage can reflect Christ’s glory and stand firm against the enemy’s tactics.


Chapters

00:00 Understanding Irreconcilable Differences

08:25 The Impact of Compassion Weekend

16:47 The Origins of No-Fault Divorce

27:52 The Purpose of Marriage and Conflict

31:53 The Battle Within: Pride and Selfishness

35:28 Unresolved Issues: The Roots of Conflict

40:00 Covenant vs. Contract: Understanding Marriage

45:24 The Power of Forgiveness in Relationships

48:09 Embracing Differences: Strengths in Marriage

53:12 Transformation: The Key to Reconciliation

57:50 Faith and Unity: The Path Forward


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The Real Reason You Keep Having the Same Fight18 Mar 202600:40:55

Most couples don’t keep having the same fight because of what they’re arguing about… they keep having it because they’re missing what’s underneath it.

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage podcast, Brent and Lucy unpack why surface-level issues like money, communication, or household responsibilities are often just symptoms of deeper heart needs like respect, security, and feeling heard. When those needs go unaddressed, conflict repeats itself.

You’ll discover how pride, unresolved wounds, and even spiritual warfare can keep couples stuck in cycles of frustration and division. But through biblical truth, humility, intentional communication, and inviting God into the process, those same conflicts can become catalysts for healing, unity, and deeper intimacy.

If you’re tired of having the same argument, this episode will help you stop fighting each other and start fighting for your marriage God’s way.


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My Spouse Cheated... Now What?11 Mar 202600:34:36

When infidelity enters a marriage, it can feel like everything shatters in an instant. Trust is broken, emotions are overwhelming, and the question many couples ask is simple but painful… Now what?

In this powerful episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy tackle one of the most devastating battles a marriage can face. They talk honestly about the deep wound of betrayal, what God says about adultery, and whether restoration is truly possible.

You’ll learn the biblical path forward after infidelity, including the importance of truth, repentance, forgiveness, and rebuilding trust. They also explain the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation, why the battle is ultimately spiritual, and how God can redeem even the most broken situations when hearts surrender to Him.

If your marriage has been touched by betrayal, this episode offers biblical truth, practical guidance, and real hope. Because while infidelity can break a marriage, it does not have to be the end of the story when God is invited into the healing.

Listen in and discover how couples can fight for restoration, rebuild trust, and allow God to transform even the deepest wounds into a testimony of redemption.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction: The Deep Wounds of Infidelity

00:38 Serving Together in Church and Marriage

01:33 Preparing for a Communication Breakout Session

02:00 Challenges in Communication During Crisis

03:52 The Wisdom of Long-Term Marriages

04:38 The Heavy Weight of Infidelity

05:36 Personal Experience with Past Infidelity

06:30 The Need for Heart-to-Heart Conversations

07:29 The Impact of Betrayal on Trust and Emotions

08:24 Can a Marriage Survive Infidelity?

09:46 Acknowledging the Reality of the Wound

11:04 The Importance of Honesty and Transparency

12:28 Ownership and Genuine Repentance

13:23 Rebuilding Trust Through Consistent Actions

14:17 Deciding to End or Fight for the Marriage

15:42 Biblical Perspectives on Divorce and Infidelity

16:36 God’s Power to Restore Marriages

20:17 Steps to Rebuild a Marriage After Betrayal

23:02 The Role of Forgiveness and Spiritual Healing

24:00 Transforming Hearts with God’s Love

25:52 Walking in Faith and Hope During Recovery

26:50 The Power of Jesus’ Sacrifice and Salvation

28:43 Starting Anew with God’s Guidance

30:05 Invitation to Receive Christ and Find Restoration

31:32 Encouragement and Resources for Healing and Growth


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Why Christian Marriages Quietly Fall Apart04 Mar 202600:43:44

Why do Christian marriages drift when both spouses love God and said “until death do us part”?

In this honest and eye-opening episode, Brent and Lucy pull back the curtain on a hard truth: most Christian marriages do not explode overnight. They erode quietly. The connection fades. Conversations get shallow. Intimacy is replaced with activity. And before long, two believers who serve God faithfully feel like roommates under the same roof.

They break down the subtle warning signs many couples miss. Spiritual drifting. Avoiding hard conversations. Tolerating small compromises. Replacing affection with function. Keeping score instead of fighting for unity. These are the little foxes that slowly spoil the vineyard.

Drawing from Scripture like Song of Solomon, Ecclesiastes, and Revelation, they remind couples that loving Jesus is not the same as tending your marriage. You can attend church and still neglect your covenant. You can serve in ministry and still lose heart connection at home.

This episode is a wake-up call and an invitation. Guard your garden. Fight for your oneness. Seek God together. Because a marriage surrendered to Christ is not easily divided.

If your relationship feels distant, this conversation might be the turning point.


Chapters

00:00 The Decline of Christian Marriages

11:01 Spiritual Drift and Its Consequences

16:12 Replacing Intimacy with Activity

21:12 The Importance of Hard Conversations

28:32 Avoiding Compromises and Keeping Score

33:32 Rebuilding Connection and Restoration


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Be A Husband Worth Following25 Feb 202600:21:55

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent addresses the vital role of husbands in marriage, emphasizing the importance of biblical leadership, integrity, and spiritual growth. He encourages husbands to take initiative, have a clear vision for their families, and lead with both strength and gentleness. The conversation culminates in an invitation to deepen one's relationship with Jesus, highlighting the transformative power of faith in marriage.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Army Marriage Podcast

01:25 The Role of Husbands in Marriage

01:54 Understanding Biblical Leadership

03:45 The Importance of Integrity and Trust

07:28 Strength and Gentleness in Leadership

09:15 Taking Initiative as a Husband

10:58 Vision and Direction for the Family

12:05 Spiritual Warfare and Protection

13:28 Consistency in Leadership

14:30 Surrendering to Christ as a Leader

17:01 Invitation to a Relationship with Jesus

18:50 Conclusion and Call to Action


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Is Divorce My Only Option?18 Feb 202600:42:00

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy address the heavy question of whether divorce is the only option for struggling couples. They emphasizes the importance of understanding marriage as a sacred covenant established by God, and the need for couples to explore all biblical avenues for restoration before considering divorce.

The conversation covers God's perspective on divorce, the significance of seeking godly counsel, and the necessity of owning one's part in marital issues.

Brent and Lucy also discuss the dangers of making emotional decisions and the importance of accountability and community support in navigating marital challenges.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Covenant Army Marriage Podcast

00:57 Exploring the Question: Is Divorce My Only Option?

03:16 Understanding the Weight of Divorce

06:58 God's Perspective on Divorce

09:39 The Nature of Marriage as a Covenant

11:04 Pursuing Restoration Before Divorce

14:51 The Importance of Godly Counsel

18:25 Owning Your Part in the Relationship

20:40 Distinguishing Between Struggle and Rebellion

22:48 The Dangers of Emotional Decisions

24:59 God's Power to Transform Hearts

28:30 Your Responsibility in the Marriage

30:21 The Role of Accountability and Community

32:22 Addressing Abuse in Relationships

33:40 Spiritual Warfare in Marriage

36:35 Invitation to a Relationship with Jesus


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Kill What Is Killing Your Marriage11 Feb 202600:26:38

In this sobering and hope filled episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy confront a hard but necessary question: what needs to die in your marriage so covenant can live?

Rooted in 1 John 3, this conversation exposes how unrepented sin is never private and never harmless. It always invades intimacy, erodes trust, weakens spiritual authority, and creates distance between husband and wife. This episode draws a clear line between abiding in Christ and quietly making peace with sin, reminding couples that drifting rarely starts loud but always ends costly.

If your marriage feels disconnected, stagnant, or under attack, this episode will help you see the spiritual root and guide you back to unity, intimacy, and power through abiding fully in Christ. Covenant warriors, this is your call to fight together and choose holiness over hiding.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Covenant Army Marriage Podcast

00:56 Recognizing Challenges in Marriage

01:48 Understanding Sin in Marriage

04:37 The Impact of Unrepented Sin

09:33 The Consequences of Ongoing Sin

11:49 The Role of Conviction and Repentance

15:03 Husbands and Wives: A Call to Action

16:57 Practical Steps for Couples

20:58 The Importance of Surrendering to Christ


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Building a Wise Marriage in Evil Days04 Feb 202600:33:18

We are living in evil days and your marriage is not exempt from the pressure. In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy issue a clear, biblical call for husbands and wives to stop walking carelessly and start building wisely.

Rooted in Ephesians 5:15–17, this conversation exposes how distraction, busyness, emotional reactions, and passive faith quietly erode covenant marriages. You will hear why wisdom in marriage is not about feelings or convenience, but about obedience, intentionality, and daily surrender to God. This episode challenges couples to redeem their time, guard their unity, pray before crisis hits, and align their marriage with the will of the Lord in a spiritually hostile culture.

This is not about chasing happiness. It is about kingdom impact. A Christ-centered marriage is not an easy target, and unity shuts doors the enemy is desperate to open. If you want a marriage that stands firm, walks wisely, and honors God in dark days, this episode will both confront you and encourage you to fight for your covenant with purpose.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Covenant Army Marriage Podcast

01:37 Building a Wise Marriage in Evil Days

05:20 Walking Carefully in Marriage

08:57 The Importance of Prayer in Marriage

12:43 Redeeming Time for Spiritual Connection

16:50 Navigating Distractions in Modern Life

20:31 The Urgency of Building Intimacy

24:04 Understanding God's Will for Marriage

28:14 Conclusion and Call to Action


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Unauthorized Intimacy?!28 Jan 202600:40:08

This episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast tackles a word most people avoid, but Scripture does not. Fornication. Not as a shock tactic, but as a serious, loving call to guard what God calls holy.

Brent and Lucy pull back the curtain on how sexual sin is one of the enemy’s most strategic weapons against marriage. Not just physical affairs, but pornography, lustful thoughts, emotional attachments, comparison, media consumption, and private messages that quietly erode covenant intimacy. Using Scripture, real talk, and practical wisdom, they expose how fornication goes far beyond behavior and strikes at the heart of trust, unity, spiritual authority, and oneness.


Chapters

00:00 Understanding Fornication: A Forgotten Term

02:27 The Impact of Sexual Sin on Marriage

05:41 Cultural Influences and the Normalization of Fornication

09:15 The Spiritual and Emotional Consequences of Fornication

12:49 Guarding the Marriage Bed: Honoring the Covenant

17:43 Husbands' Responsibility: Leading with Purity

22:17 Wives' Role: Guarding Hearts and Emotional Intimacy

27:21 Practical Applications for a Stronger Marriage

29:04 Restoration and Accountability in Marriage


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Fascination With The Supernatural?21 Jan 202600:22:55

In this powerful episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy confront a question shaping today’s culture and quietly impacting Christian marriages. Why are people so fascinated with the supernatural?

This fascination is not random and it is not harmless. God placed eternity in the human heart, and when people reject Him, that hunger does not disappear. It gets redirected. What begins as curiosity or entertainment can become a spiritual foothold, opening doors God warned us about long ago.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Supernatural Fascination

00:50 Personal Experiences with the Supernatural

04:44 The Reality of Spiritual Warfare

09:51 The Impact of Materialism on Belief

14:24 Discernment in the Face of Curiosity

16:45 The Supernatural Life God Offers


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When Words Become Weapons14 Jan 202600:47:14

Words don’t just express conflict. They shape it.

In this powerful episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy confront a hard truth many couples avoid: when harsh language, cussing, sarcasm, and verbal aggression enter marriage conflict, the covenant itself becomes the battlefield.

This conversation is not about shame or finger pointing. It is about freedom, healing, and bringing Christ back to the center of how couples fight.

The episode exposes how profanity and verbal attacks are never neutral. According to Scripture, words carry either life or death. When emotions run high and words turn toxic, something deeper is happening beneath the surface.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Conflict in Marriage

02:20 The Impact of Words in Conflict

05:05 Understanding the Source of Harsh Words

08:21 The Role of Boundaries in Communication

11:09 The Importance of Self-Control and Accountability

13:48 Practical Tools for Healthy Communication

16:24 The Spiritual Aspect of Communication

19:38 The Power of Healing and Forgiveness

22:21 The Role of God in Marriage

25:04 Conclusion and Call to Action


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Seeking God Together07 Jan 202600:40:37

🔥 Two believers. One marriage. One direction. 🔥

You don’t drift into spiritual unity—you build it. And when a husband and wife stop seeking God together, everything else eventually falls out of alignment.

In this bold, no-fluff episode, Brent and Lucy challenge Covenant Warriors to face a hard truth: going to church, loving Jesus individually, and doing life together is not the same as following God together.

You’ll uncover:

  • Why spiritual drift happens in Christian marriages

  • The difference between unity and control

  • How real biblical agreement works (Amos 3:3)

  • Why the enemy fears unified covenant marriages

  • One simple spiritual rhythm that can reset your marriage

This episode isn’t about perfection—it’s about direction.
Not pressure—but alignment.
Not feelings—but a decision.

⚔️ As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.

Start 2026 on the right footing. Choose one small act of obedience this week—and watch God build momentum in your marriage.

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Wise Words Or Poisonous Punchlines?17 Dec 202500:23:34

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy Howell deliver a clear, convicting call to action for husbands and wives. This is not about entertainment. These are marching orders for covenant couples who are serious about honoring God and protecting their marriage.

The heart of the episode centers on a growing concern with dishonor in the way spouses speak to and about one another. What culture laughs off as sarcasm, jokes, or harmless fun, God calls poison. Words are never neutral. According to Scripture, they reveal the condition of the heart and either build a home or slowly tear it down.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Covenant Marriage Podcast

00:32 The Burden for Purity in Marriage

02:26 The Power of Words in Marriage

05:12 The Dangers of Sarcasm and Dishonor

08:01 The Impact of Dishonor on Marriages

10:41 Practical Steps to Honor in Speech

13:55 The Call to Holiness in Communication

16:42 Conclusion and Call to Action


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What's Killing Marriage?10 Dec 202500:20:20

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy tackle one of the biggest cultural and spiritual battles of our time. Everyone has an opinion about why marriage is declining. Some blame irresponsible men. Others blame modern, progressive women. But the truth runs much deeper. Behind the statistics, behind the narratives, and behind the shifting desires of the next generation is a spiritual attack shaping both men and women.


Chapters

00:00 The Attack on Marriage

01:32 Cultural Influences on Marriage

04:01 The Role of Men and Women

09:06 The Impact of Modern Ideologies

13:11 Finding Hope in God's Design

16:48 Equipping Couples for the Battle


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How Is Social Media Threatening Your Covenant?03 Dec 202500:29:16

In this eye-opening episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy pull back the curtain on a threat most couples underestimate. It isn’t dramatic. It rarely feels dangerous. But if left unchecked, it quietly chips away at trust, intimacy and unity. They call it what it is. The silent threat of social media.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast

00:30 The Silent Threat of Social Media

01:56 Recognizing the Subtle Dangers

04:39 The Heart Behind Boundaries

06:26 Signs Social Media is Impacting Your Marriage

13:20 Protecting Your Marriage with Scriptural Guidance

19:28 Practical Steps for Couples

25:26 Restoration and Hope for Couples


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Stanger Spouse26 Nov 202500:30:13

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy tackle a reality most couples eventually face. The person you married won’t stay the same, and neither will you. Change can feel unsettling. It can make you look across the room at the one you love and silently wonder, “Who are you becoming?” But instead of running from that tension, this episode shows you how to lean into it with grace and courage.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Covenant Army Marriage Podcast

02:19 The Reality of Change in Marriage

04:53 Understanding Different Types of Change

07:44 Practical Strategies for Navigating Change

10:55 Spiritual Warfare and Its Impact on Marriage

13:42 Fighting for Your Spouse

16:30 The Importance of Communication and Connection

19:13 Embracing Growth Together

21:58 Conclusion and Call to Action


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Divorce Glow-Up?19 Nov 202500:20:50

In this hard-hitting Covenant Army Marriage episode, we confront a painful but common reality-many people let themselves go in their marriage, and don’t start taking care of themselves, physically, emotionally, mentally, or spiritually, until after their marriage has already fallen apart. We unpack why this happens, how complacency slowly kills connection, and why pain becomes a wake-up call for so many who ignored the call to grow inside their covenant.


Chapters

0:00 Introduction and Welcome1:30 Why Wait Until After Divorce?4:00 Emotional and Spiritual Growth7:30 The Pain of Divorce10:00 Rediscovering Identity13:30 The Importance of Stewardship16:00 Marriage and Personal Growth19:30 The Role of Faith in Marriage22:00 Avoiding Complacency25:30 Conclusion and Call to Action


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The Secret Divorce12 Nov 202500:23:09

Many couples stay together “for the kids,” but secretly, one spouse is already planning their exit. It’s called The Secret Divorce — a quiet decision to leave once the children are grown.

In this raw and truth-filled episode, we expose the spiritual deception behind this hidden plan and the damage it does to hearts, homes, and generations.


Whether you’re the one planning to leave, or the one sensing something is wrong, this episode will help you confront the lies, find healing, and invite God to restore what’s been broken.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast

02:22 Understanding the Concept of Secret Divorce

06:22 The Impact of Parenting on Marriage

09:51 The Dangers of Apathy and Silence

13:51 The Path to Healing and Restoration


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Strength That Kneels (Warrior Husband)05 Nov 202500:25:28

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, hosts Brent and Lucy delve into the essence of biblical manhood, emphasizing that true leadership begins with submission to Christ. They challenge the worldly view of leadership as power and control, presenting a transformative perspective where leadership is rooted in love, humility, and service, as exemplified by Jesus.


Chapters

00:00 - Introduction to Covenant Army Marriage Podcast01:00 - True Leadership Begins with Submission to Christ02:30 - The World's View vs. God's View of Leadership04:00 - The Importance of Order in God's Kingdom06:00 - Leadership Without Submission Turns into Control08:00 - Biblical Submission and Its Impact on Marriage10:00 - Jesus as the Ultimate Example of Servant Leadership12:00 - The Role of Humility in Leadership14:00 - The Power of Prayer in Strengthening Leadership16:00 - Overcoming Pride and Embracing True Boldness18:00 - The Spiritual Role of a Husband in the Home20:00 - Practical Steps for Leading Under God's Authority22:00 - The Covenant Challenge for Husbands and Wives24:00 - Closing Prayer and Call to Action


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The Quiet Key To Lasting Love29 Oct 202500:20:10

In this powerful and heartfelt episode of The Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy unpack one of the most overlooked, yet most powerful, spiritual weapons in marriage—humility.

They get real about how pride quietly sneaks into relationships, turning every disagreement into a battlefield and every conversation into a competition. Through biblical truth, raw honesty, and relatable examples, they remind couples that pride destroys faster than almost anything else—but humility rebuilds what pride has torn down.


Chapters

00:00 – Welcome to Covenant Army Marriage Podcast

Brent and Lucy kick off the episode with warmth, energy, and a call to subscribe and join the mission to strengthen God-honoring marriages.


01:30 – Why We’re Talking About Humility

They introduce today’s topic: the most overlooked yet powerful weapon in marriage—humility.


02:45 – The Destructive Power of Pride

How pride quietly creeps into marriages and becomes one of the fastest destroyers of unity.


03:40 – Biblical Foundation: Philippians 2:3–4

Learning that humility isn’t weakness—it’s Christlikeness.


04:30 – What Humility Looks Like in Marriage

Practical ways humility shows up in everyday moments—listening, choosing peace, and letting go of control.


06:00 – Choosing Peace Over Pride

Understanding the difference between being a peacekeeper and a true peacemaker in your marriage.


07:20 – When Pride Steps In, God Steps Back

Why God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble (James 4:6).


08:40 – Exposing the Enemy’s Tactics

How pride opens the door for spiritual attack and how humility shuts it.


09:30 – A Heart Check Moment

Could disconnection in your marriage actually be a humility issue, not just a communication problem?


10:00 – Can You Handle the Truth?

A lighthearted but powerful reminder that real change starts when we’re willing to face God’s truth about ourselves.


10:40 – Five Ways to Walk in Humility Daily

1. Be quick to apologize

2. Stop interrupting

3. Stop competing

4. Serve in secret

5. Pray together humbly


13:50 – The Power of Praying Together

Why couples who bow before God together disarm the enemy’s attacks.


14:50 – Real-Life Story: David and Lisa

How one spouse’s humility transformed an entire marriage and shifted the spiritual atmosphere in their home.


16:00 – Your Weekly Challenge

Practice one act of humility every day—because pride can’t stand where humility walks.


17:20 – Scriptures to Remember

1 Peter 5:6 – “Humble yourselves under God’s mighty hand, that He may lift you up in due time.”


18:00 – Final Truth: Humility Isn’t Weakness

It’s Kingdom strength. When you bow before God, every plan of the enemy loses power.


19:00 – Closing and Encouragement

A powerful reminder: Marriage isn’t about who’s right—it’s about being right before God together.


19:45 – Go Deeper with Covenant Army Marriage

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Can God Resurrect A Lifeless Marriage?22 Oct 202500:18:45

In this powerful episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy speak directly to spouses who feel stuck in a marriage that feels lifeless or beyond repair. With raw honesty and biblical truth, they remind listeners that what looks dead to man is never too far gone for God.

Chapters

0:00 Introduction and Welcome1:30 Addressing Lifeless Marriages3:45 The Power of God's Word6:15 Steps to Revive Your Marriage8:30 Repentance and Rebuilding the Altar11:00 The Importance of Forgiveness13:15 Obedience Over Emotion15:45 Testimonies of Restoration18:00 Closing Prayer and Encouragement


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The Altar’d Marriage: Where “Me” Dies and “We” Rise15 Oct 202500:39:11

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy discuss the transformative power of sacrifice in marriage, drawing parallels between biblical altars and the marriage altar. They emphasize the importance of daily sacrifice, surrender, and unity in a God-honoring marriage, sharing personal anecdotes and biblical insights to inspire couples to strengthen their covenant.


Chapters

00:00:00 Introduction to Sacrifice in Marriage

00:03:00 The Altar: Symbol of Sacrifice

00:06:00 Daily Surrender and Unity

00:09:00 Biblical Insights and Personal Stories

00:12:00 Practical Steps for a Strong Marriage

00:15:00 Conclusion and Call to Action


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The Danger of Being A Passive Spouse08 Oct 202500:30:26

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, hosts Brent and Lucy delve into the critical issue of passivity in marriage. They explore how passivity can manifest in relationships, its dangers, and how it can lead to emotional and spiritual disconnect.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Covenant Love and Purpose

00:57 Understanding Passivity in Marriage

04:08 Biblical Insights on Passivity

10:11 Identifying Signs of Passivity

16:21 Consequences of Passivity

19:33 Breaking Free from Passivity

27:03 Closing Prayer and Call to Action


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When Independence Destroys Oneness01 Oct 202500:25:54

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy discuss the detrimental effects of an independent mindset on marriage. They emphasizes that marriage is designed for oneness, not independence, and explore how this mindset can create cracks in relationships. The conversation includes biblical references to support the idea of unity in marriage and offers practical steps for couples to foster oneness, build trust, and communicate effectively. The episode concludes with a challenge for listeners to identify areas of independence in their own marriages and commit to walking in unity.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Covenant Marriage Podcast

01:24 The Dangers of Independence in Marriage

03:13 Understanding Oneness in Marriage

05:59 The Impact of Independent Mindsets

11:58 Identifying Cracks in Marriage

15:11 The Importance of Agreement in Marriage

17:48 Practical Steps to Foster Unity

22:44 Challenge to Embrace Oneness


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Whispers That Outlive Us24 Sep 202500:28:24

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, we explore the foundational scripture of Deuteronomy 6:5-7, which calls us to love the Lord with all our heart, soul, and strength, and to impress these commandments upon our children.

We discuss practical ways to integrate this scripture into our marriages and families, ensuring that our faith is not just a part of our lives but the very core of it. Join us as we break down this powerful passage and discover how to build a God-centered marriage that leaves a lasting legacy.

Thriving in Marriage
Understanding Deuteronomy 6:5-7
Loving God with Everything
Keeping His Word Close
Impressing Faith on Future Generations
Faith in Daily Rhythms
Conclusion: Building a Legacy of Faith


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Spiritual Warfare Rising: Battling Darkness and Awakening Revival17 Sep 202500:26:54

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent & Lucy dive into the pressing topic of spiritual warfare amidst a global revival. They discuss the increasing hunger for God, the significance of spiritual battles, and the role of prayer and repentance in reclaiming strongholds. The conversation emphasizes the importance of unity in marriage and the power of spiritual weapons in navigating these challenging times.

Chapters:

0:00 - Introduction to Spiritual Warfare and Revival
2:20 - Recognizing Spiritual Warfare
4:38 - The Power of Spiritual Weapons
6:59 - Unity in Marriage as a Spiritual Stronghold
9:18 - Revival Begins at Home
11:46 - Practical Steps for Spiritual Growth
14:06 - Conclusion and Call to Action


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Walking On Eggshells: When a Wife’s Voice Gets Buried Under Anger10 Sep 202500:29:09

In this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, we confront one of the most painful dynamics in marriage—when a wife courageously shares her hurt, but instead of being heard, she’s met with anger, blame, or defensiveness. What begins as an attempt to bring healing often turns into another wound, leaving her voice buried under silence and frustration.

We expose the enemy’s lie that a woman’s feelings are “too much” or “inconvenient” and remind husbands of their high calling to love like Christ—listening with humility and guarding their wife’s heart with honor. We remind wives that their voice matters and their words are not an attack but a gift of hope for closeness and restoration.

Through Scripture, truth, and practical steps, we equip couples to break the cycle of defensiveness, lean into listening, and embrace communication as a path to intimacy rather than division. This episode is a call to both husbands and wives: stop burying pain under anger or silence, and start building covenant unity by listening, honoring, and responding in love.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Covenant Army Marriage Podcast

06:57 Understanding Communication in Marriage

20:14 The Importance of Listening and Responding

27:34 Closing Thoughts and Encouragement


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