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 In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Amy and Neil Thompson, also known as "Better With Age Together" on Instagram. This inspiring couple shares how they’ve embraced life as empty nesters by building healthier lifestyles and strengthening their marriage.

Amy and Neil talk about their journey with Faster Way to Fat Loss, why they focus on God’s food, the power of connection through shared goals, and how couples can navigate this new chapter with confidence. From balancing work, fitness, and personal time to overcoming challenges, their tips are practical, uplifting, and relatable for any couple.

🔗 Connect with Amy & Neil Thompson:
https://www.fasterwaycoach.com/#Neilandamy
amythompsonlifestyle@gmail.com
IG @betterwithage.together

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Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Jeff Nelligan, author of "The Four Lessons from My Three Sons," former congressional staffer, presidential appointee, Army veteran, and Georgetown Law graduate, for a refreshing, no-nonsense conversation about raising resilient kids. Jeff shares the strategies he used to build independence in his three boys (all of whom became military officers), from the famous "$5 in the mall" challenge to turning everyday errands into teaching moments.
 
Together they dig into the dangers of helicopter and snowplow parenting, why kids need to fail while the stakes are still small, and how letting children struggle actually builds the confidence and ambition they'll carry into adulthood. Julie offers a therapist's perspective on kids facing real adversity, and David presses Jeff on how two parents get on the same page about a firmer parenting style.
 
Whether you're raising toddlers or launching a teenager toward college, this episode is full of hidden gems on courtesy, confidence, resilience, and ambition — the four components of a "good kid."
 
Find Jeff and his book:
Website: https://www.nelliganbooks.com
Instagram: @Nelligan_books
X (Twitter): Resilient Sons
Facebook: Jeff Nelligan Books
 
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Julie Bulitt is a licensed clinical social worker and family therapist. David Bulitt is a divorce and family lawyer. This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

Money fights are one of the most common breaking points for couples, but they do not have to be. In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Dee Zimmerman, a financial relationship coach and money communication expert who blends Gottman informed communication tools with practical financial strategies to help couples manage money together, and manage it peacefully.

Dee walks through why money is so hard to talk about in the first place (hint: it starts with the different families we grew up in), how the Four Horsemen of criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling show up in money conversations, and how her Wealth Partnership Pathway helps couples build emotional safety before they ever look at a spreadsheet. Julie and David also open up about their own early struggles with debt and how working through it together made their marriage stronger.

What You'll Learn:

• Why couples so often have completely different "money wiring" and what to do about it
• How the Gottman Four Horsemen (criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling) show up specifically in financial conversations
• What the Wealth Partnership Pathway looks like and why emotional safety has to come before numbers and systems
• How to reignite honest conversations about money dreams without judgment
• Julie and David's personal story of digging out of debt together early in their marriage
• Dee's top two takeaways for couples who want to change how they talk about money

About Dee Zimmerman:
 Dee Zimmerman is a Financial Relationship Coach and Money Communication Expert, and the founder of Freedom Lab, where she helps couples lower the tension around money and build wealth as a team.

Website: https://www.dzimmermanfinance.com
Money Talks Quiz: https://www.dzimmermanfinance.com/quiz
7 Financial Blind Spots Guide: https://www.dzimmermanfinance.com/blind-spots
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dzimmermanfinance/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dzimmermanfinance
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dzimmermanfinance/
Email: dee@dzimmermanfinance.com

About Your Hosts:
 Julie Bulitt is a licensed clinical social worker and family therapist. David Bulitt is a divorce and family lawyer. Together they host Conversations for Couples, the podcast.

Website: https://thebulitts.com/
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Julie is not your therapist and David is not your lawyer. This podcast is meant for educational and entertainment purposes only.

In this episode, Julie and David interview Brad Weaber and Mitchell Plave, a couple who both came out later in life after years of marriage. Brad and Mitchell share their journeys of self-discovery, navigating divorce, co-parenting, and building an authentic life together. They discuss how they use business principles like goal-setting and performance reviews in their relationship, managing different parenting styles, upcoming grandparenthood, and planning for the next chapter of their lives. A candid and inspiring conversation about finding true authenticity and building a thriving partnership.
Hosts: Julie Bulitt (Licensed Clinical Social Worker & Family Therapist) and David Bulitt (Divorce & Family Attorney)
Guests: Brad Weaber and Mitchell Plave
Website: thebulitts.com
Social: @TheBulitts (all platforms)
YouTube: Conversations for Couples

Your brain is constantly filtering what you notice - and that filter might be sabotaging your relationship. Julie and David Bulitt explore the Reticular Activating System (RAS), a neuroscience concept that explains why you might only see the negative in your partner when you're disconnected, how it blinds you to red flags when you're newly in love, and most importantly, how to retrain your brain to notice the positive. They discuss the 5:1 ratio, the danger of affairs and disconnection, and practical tools like gratitude journaling and assuming good intentions to shift your RAS into positive territory. If you've ever wondered why your perception of your partner can change so dramatically, this episode has the answers.

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Julie is not your therapist and David is not your lawyer. This podcast is meant for educational and entertainment purposes only.

Money is one of the biggest sources of conflict in marriage — but it doesn't have to be. In this episode, Julie and David sit down with Rachel Cruze, two-time #1 national bestselling author, financial expert, and host of The Rachel Cruze Show, for an honest and insightful conversation about how money habits, money personalities, and money histories shape our most intimate relationships.

Rachel shares how growing up as Dave Ramsey's daughter — born just months before her parents filed bankruptcy — shaped her life's mission of helping people win with money before they hit rock bottom. Together, Julie, David, and Rachel dig into the real reasons couples fight about money, and what to do about it.

In this episode:

• The two most common money conflicts couples face — and how to navigate them
• Spenders vs. savers: how opposites can actually make each other stronger
• Why your "money story" from childhood may be running your finances today
• The shame and guilt cycle around money — and how to break it
• Why combining finances in marriage isn't about control, it's about intimacy
• The debt snowball method and zero-based budgeting explained
• Why both spouses need a seat at the financial table
• How tackling hard money conversations can actually deepen your relationship
• Julie and David's own debt story — and how Dave Ramsey's work changed their marriage
• Rachel's husband Winston, and how a spender married a saver (and made it work)
• Raising kids with a healthy money mindset in the age of Amazon and Apple Pay

Whether you're just starting out, merging finances later in life, or trying to get on the same page after years of conflict — this episode is packed with practical wisdom and real talk.

Connect with Rachel Cruze: Instagram: @rachelcruze Facebook: @rachelramseycruze The Rachel Cruze Show on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-rachel-cruze-show/id1447308241 
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Julie is not your therapist and David is not your lawyer. This podcast is meant for educational and entertainment purposes only.

What happens when two doctors fall in love, get married, go through medical school and residency together, survive a pandemic on the front lines and then get divorced? And then get married again? Julie and David sit down with trauma surgeon Dr. Brittany Bankhead and emergency physician Dr. Brian Kendall to unpack one of the most remarkable relationship stories they've ever heard.
Brittany and Brian met in college in a medical communications class, dated long distance while Brian was in the Peace Corps in Albania, got engaged after their first kiss on the beach, and married seven months later. Thirteen years, two kids, multiple cities, and the chaos of COVID later, their marriage crumbled. But the way they divorced was just as intentional as the way they came back together.
In this episode, Julie and David explore:
✔️ How Brittany and Brian navigated a whirlwind romance and early marriage shaped by cultural and religious expectations
✔️ The emotional weight of training together in medical school, long-distance residencies, and COVID on the front lines
✔️ Why Brittany was the one who said "enough" and how post-COVID PTSD and suicidal ideation led her to transform her own life
✔️ How they co-parented from houses in the same neighborhood (with a pool in between and a golf cart to get around)
✔️ The moment at the pool, two and a half years after the divorce, when they looked at each other and thought: wait
✔️ Their "rant or remedy" communication tool for supporting each other without trying to fix everything
✔️ How intentional scheduling, coffee walks, pickleball, and date days booked by their family virtual assistant keeps their relationship strong
✔️ Dr. Brittany Bankhead's passion project, Modern Mom Lab, pairing high-achieving moms with family virtual assistants to help both sides thrive
Dr. Brittany Bankhead, Trauma Surgeon, Associate Professor of Surgery at the Medical University of South Carolina, and Founder of Modern Mom Lab
🌐 https://www.modernmomlab.com
📱 TikTok & Instagram: @BBankheadMD
Dr. Brian Kendall, Emergency Medicine Physician and Medical Communicator
📱 TikTok: @BKendallMD | Instagram: @BriankendallMD
Family Virtual Assistant: Jessica Geist | 785-564-3997 | jessicageist.bbkt@gmail.com
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After 39 years of marriage, Jamie and Zane Tarence from Alabama have learned that the secret to a lasting relationship isn't doing everything together — it's knowing when to give each other space. In this candid conversation, Julie and David sit down with Jamie, creator of the popular lifestyle brand Family Savvy, and Zane, an entrepreneur and investment banker, to talk about what almost broke them, what ultimately saved them, and how they built an independent but deeply connected partnership. From taking separate cars to events to navigating completely different personalities, this episode is full of honest, practical wisdom for any couple trying to figure out how to grow together without losing themselves.

Julie is not your therapist and David is not your lawyer. This podcast is meant for educational and entertainment purposes only.

What You'll Learn:

• Why Jamie and Zane credit community, faith, and professional resources — not luck — for saving their marriage
• How understanding personality profiles (DISC, Enneagram) changed the way they see their differences
• The surprising habit that eliminated a major source of conflict in their marriage (hint: separate cars)
• Why healthy independence in a marriage is a strength, not a red flag
• How to meet your partner's top needs — and stop sweating the rest
• The story behind Family Savvy and Jamie's mission to empower women in their "second act"
• Why both spouses understanding family finances is essential, regardless of who earns the money

Connect with Jamie & Zane:

• The SavvyCast Podcast — available on all podcast platforms
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/family_savvy/
• Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/familysavvy/pins/
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/familysavvy/
• Email: letschat@familysavvy.com

Find Julie & David:

• Website: thebulitts.com
• Follow on all social media platforms: @thebulitts

What does building a business have in common with building a relationship? More than you'd think.
Carla Biesinger is a business mentor and Instagram marketing expert who helps women create profitable online businesses — and she's coached over 10,000 clients worldwide to do it. Based in Lisbon, Portugal, Carla's journey started in Buenos Aires, where she co-built the city's #1 restaurant on TripAdvisor with her then-boyfriend — only to walk away with $12,000 after five years of work. That moment became her turning point: she would never be financially dependent again.
Today, Carla teaches women how to grow on Instagram, build an email list, and sell without feeling pushy — so they can create real income on their own terms.
Julie and David Bulitt talk with Carla about what it takes to rebuild after a relationship and a business fall apart at the same time, why financial independence matters in relationships, and how the same intentionality required to grow a business is the same intentionality every couple needs.
What You'll Learn:

How to grow on Instagram without a big following
Instagram Stories vs. feed posts — what actually drives sales
Building an email list that converts
How to sell authentically if you hate selling
Why financial independence strengthens relationships
The confidence gap holding women back from entrepreneurship

Connect with Carla Biesinger:
Instagram: @carlabiesinger
Free Webinar: Available in Carla's Instagram bio
Learn more about Julie and David at thebulitts.com

Julie and David Bulitt never expected a simple shower video to rack up over 20 million views — but it did, and the comments it unleashed revealed something far more profound than they anticipated. In this solo episode, Julie and David break down the three major waves of reaction to their viral Instagram and TikTok reel: the critics who found it uncomfortable, the couples who were inspired and saw themselves in it, and — most strikingly — the flood of men quietly confessing they've given up on intimacy in their marriages. Julie and David get personal about what it means to feel unseen in a long-term relationship, why staying intentional about attraction and appreciation matters at every age, and why one anonymous comment from a man in a sexless marriage stopped them both in their tracks.

📱 Watch the viral shower reel: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DVV08f1AL0q/ 🌐 Website: thebulitts.com

Rob Scheer, founder of Comfort Cases and author of A Forever Family: Fostering Change One Child at a Time, joins Julie and David to share his deeply personal journey — from growing up in the foster care system himself, to adopting four children and witnessing firsthand that nothing had changed. When his kids arrived carrying trash bags, Rob didn't just feel the pain — he built a movement. In thirteen years, Comfort Cases has delivered over 300,000 backpacks filled with essential, dignity-restoring items to foster children across all 50 states, Washington D.C., and Puerto Rico. Rob shares what goes into every case (and why every detail matters), how he built a national organization powered by everyday people, and why he believes our legacy is defined by what we give — not what we take.

Learn more and donate at comfortcases.org Rob's podcast: Fostering Change Rob's book: A Forever Family: Fostering Change One Child at a Time

Join hosts Julie and David Bulitt as they explore an unexpected connection between body art and relationship healing with Tina Marie, founder of Tantric Tattoo in Sandy Spring, Maryland. From couples getting matching tattoos to commemorate their commitment, to paramedical tattooing that helps women reclaim their bodies and intimacy after breast cancer, Tina shares powerful stories of transformation and connection. Discover how the art of tattooing creates healing moments—whether it's reframing trauma through scar coverage, honoring lost loved ones, or helping couples rebuild intimacy after medical challenges. Tina's compassionate approach goes beyond ink; she creates a therapeutic space where clients process grief, celebrate resilience, and literally wear their healing journey on their skin.

Connect with Tina Marie: Email: tantrictattoos@gmail.com Location: Tantric Tattoo, Sandy Spring, Maryland

Learn more about Julie and David Bulitt: Website: https://thebulitts.com/

Join marriage therapist Julie Bulitt and divorce attorney David Bulitt as they launch their exciting "26 for 26" campaign - 26 creative dates throughout 2026 to keep relationships fresh and fun! In this candid conversation, the Bulitts share why consistent, intentional dating is crucial for long-term relationships and reveal their upcoming date plans including dance lessons, cooking challenges, speakeasies, and more. They discuss the neuroscience behind new experiences with your partner, offer budget-friendly date ideas, and invite listeners to join them on this year-long journey of rediscovering romance. Whether you've been together for 4 months or 40 years, this episode will inspire you to prioritize fun and connection in your relationship.

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In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David sit down with Rick Cognata, founder of Legacy of a Grandpa and author of "Connecting Across Generations: One Conversation at a Time." Rick shares invaluable insights on intentional grandparenting, creating core memories, and building lasting relationships with grandchildren. From navigating boundaries to understanding the importance of presence over perfection, this conversation explores how to be the grandparent your grandchildren will cherish for a lifetime.

Rick discusses his journey from leadership developer to grandparenting advocate, the importance of starting early to build strong foundations, and practical strategies for long-distance grandparenting. Whether you're already a grandparent, soon to be one, or simply interested in multi-generational relationships, this episode offers wisdom, humor, and actionable advice.

Connect with Rick Cognata:
Instagram: @legacyofagrandpa
Website: https://legacyofagrandpa.com
Email: legacyofagrandpa@gmail.com
Book: "Connecting Across Generations: One Conversation at a Time" (available on Amazon)

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Join Julie and David Bulitt in this insightful episode as they welcome relationship therapist Jamie Bronstein, LCSW, to discuss the keys to finding and maintaining healthy relationships. Jamie shares her expertise on healing unresolved issues, trusting your intuition, and knowing when you've found "the one." They explore common relationship challenges including infidelity and financial issues, the importance of empathy and communication, and how to differentiate between past trauma triggers and genuine red flags. Jamie also reveals her unique approach to helping couples reconnect and discusses her book "Manifesting" and upcoming Ready for Love Summit. Plus, hear candid insights about how relationship professionals navigate their own partnerships.

Guest: Jamie Bronstein, LCSW
Website: https://therelationshipexpert.com
Instagram: @therelationshipxpert
Book: Manifesting (available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble)
Ready for Love Summit: https://readyforlovesummit.com
Podcast: Love Talk Live
The Bulitts Website: https://thebulitts.com/

In this special New Year’s episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt take a break from interviews and deep conversations to reflect on their favorite memories, moments, products, and experiences from 2025 — and what they’re looking forward to in 2026.

From wedding memories and Western bars to binge-worthy TV, eye drops that work like magic, and matching tattoos inspired by a streaming show — this episode is a mix of fun, laughs, nostalgia, and recommendations for anyone looking to close out the year on a high note.

📦 Favorite Things Include:

• 👰 Best moment: Officiating their daughter’s wedding
• 💃 Best date night: Salt + Vine & cowboy dance lessons in Wyoming
• 🧴 Favorite products: Lumify eye drops, RevitaLash, La Roche-Posay B5 serum
• 🎵 Music finds: The Dip, Red Clay Strays, and Ashley McBryde
• 🎥 Best shows: The Beast in Me, Landman, Shrinking, Nobody Wants This
• 🍔 Best food: Cheeseburger at No Name Saloon & Costco’s croissant pastry
• 📚 Best book: The Many Lives of Mama Love by Lara Love Hardin
• 🏔️ Best view: Snake River and Tetons on horseback in Jackson Hole
  
  

Join us as we toast to all the good stuff, and maybe inspire you to reflect on what you’re most grateful for too.

🥂 Cheers to love, laughter, and connection in 2026!
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This week on Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt talk with nationally recognized marriage and family therapist Dr. Becky Whetstone, also known as the Marriage Crisis Manager. Becky is the author of I Think I Want Out and brings her decades of experience helping couples navigate the brink of divorce with honesty, strategy, and heart.

In this episode, the three dive deep into what really happens when one partner quietly checks out, the surprising traits that predict a happy marriage (hint: flexibility matters more than romance), and why so many people never say they’re unhappy—until it’s too late.

📘 Dr. Becky shares:

• ✅ The Gottman-backed traits that predict marital success
  
  
• ⚠️ What a “decider” is and how to catch unhappiness before it blows up
  
  
• 🧠 Why trauma, shame, and grandiosity destroy communication
  
  
• 🔄 The power of “repair conversations” and how to do them the right way
  
  
• 💬 Real-life examples from couples in crisis (and how they pulled back from the edge)
  
  
• 🛑 How to use separation therapeutically instead of rushing into divorce
  
  

Plus, hear Julie & David’s own take on decades of marriage, how they resolve conflict using “Safe Talk,” and why they never want to go back into the dating pool again.

🔗 Learn More About Dr. Becky Whetstone

📚 Author: I Think I Want Out: What to Do When One of You Wants to End Your Marriage
🌐 Website: www.marriagecrisismanager.com
📝 Blog: Becky Whetstone on Medium
💌 Email: (if you'd like to include it—optional)

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In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Tisha and Phil Jordan — a Baltimore couple whose love story started on Bumble and grew into a six‑kid blended family, a thriving home renovation business, and soon—a podcast of their own.

Tisha is a social worker turned powerhouse contractor and founder of ContractHER, a mission‑driven business teaching women how to take control of home projects and empower themselves through skilled trades. Phil, her husband, biggest supporter and partner in both love and life, shares their story of fast love, deep respect, co‑parenting, career changes, and doing the work of building everything together.

🎙 What’s Inside:

• 💖 Falling in love in just a few days and marrying within 10 months
• 👷🏽‍♀️ Why Tisha left her social work career to start ContractHER
• 🧰 How ContractHER empowers women with real skills — from power tools to confidence
• 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Blending a family of 6 kids and navigating co‑parenting across households
• 😂 How laughter (and dressing up!) became their love language
• 💬 Honest talk about finances, working together, and carving out healthy space
• 🎧 A sneak peek at their upcoming podcast: The Love Build Podcast
  
  

This episode is packed with love, grit, inspiration, and plenty of laughs. Whether you’re building a relationship, a business — or both — Tisha & Phil show that it’s never too late to start over and build something beautiful.

🔗 Get to Know Tisha & Phil

ContractHER — Home improvement & empowerment for women
✉️ Email: info@thecontracther.com
🌐 Website: www.thecontracther.com
📸 Instagram (business): @contract_her — share, follow & learn: https://www.instagram.com/contract_her
🎙 Podcast: The Love Build Podcast — YT & IG: @thelovebuild

🔹 Connect with Julie & David Bulitt

🌐 Website: thebulitts.com
 📸 Instagram: @thebulitts — https://www.instagram.com/thebulitts
 📘 Facebook: The Bulitts — https://www.facebook.com/thebulitts
 📺 YouTube Channel: @TheBulitts — https://www.youtube.com/@thebulitts

Divorce Mediation, Virtual Breakups & Real Boundaries — with Joe Dillon

On this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Joe Dillon, co-founder of Equitable Mediation Services, to dive deep into the world of divorce mediation, emotional intelligence, and how money and emotion often collide during the end of a marriage.

Joe combines his MBA in Finance with extensive training from Harvard, MIT, and Northwestern, and has been a virtual mediation pioneer since 2011—long before it became the norm. But what really stands out is Joe’s personal story as a child of a highly litigated divorce, which fuels his compassionate, process-driven approach to helping couples separate without destroying their families.

🎙 What’s Inside:
💼 Why most divorce mediators are lawyers—and why Joe isn’t
🔍 How deceit, ego, and entitlement derail divorce
🧠 Using coaching and emotional preparation to mediate better
⚖️ What Joe learned from growing up in a courtroom (literally)
👥 How he and his wife, Cheryl, balance working together and staying connected
📍 Which states are actually mediation-friendly—and why that matters

This episode is full of real-life insight, warmth, and practical advice for couples thinking about divorce, in the middle of it, or supporting others through it.

🖥️ Learn more about Joe's work:
🌐 https://www.equitablemediation.com

🔗 Free resources, videos, blog posts, and eBooks available
📞 Free intro calls available directly on the site

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In this milestone episode, Julie and David Bullitt reflect on their journey through 50 episodes of Conversations for Couples. From matchmakers to marriage therapists, Golden Bachelor celebrities to international couples, they’ve welcomed 41 guests from around the world to share insights on love, sex, grief, parenting, etiquette, fashion, and everything in between.

You’ll hear them revisit some of the most memorable moments—from arranged marriages and Appalachian Trail love stories to etiquette lessons and yoni massages. They also highlight guests like Joan Vassos, Sydnée Sadick, Andrea McGinty, and Susan Bratton, and share what they’ve learned from each.

Whether you're a long-time listener or new to the show, this episode offers a heartfelt recap, meaningful takeaways, and a few laughs (and barks from Archie the dog) along the way.

👇 Watch, listen, follow, and share. Help us get to episode 100!

🎧 Featured Guests Mentioned

🔹 Andrea McGinty (Founder, It's Just Lunch)
https://www.33000dates.com/
📧 33kdates@gmail.com
📢 PR: Kat at ceo@do-tellpr.com

🔹 Alison M. Cheperdak (Founder, Elevate Etiquette, LLC)
🌐 https://elevateetiquette.com/
📧 alison@elevateetiquette.com
📱 c. 774.278.0649

🔹 Sydney Sadick (Fashion & Lifestyle Expert)
📺 sydneysadick.com

🔹 Susan Bratton (Sex & Intimacy Expert)
🌐 https://susanbratton.com

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In this special episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with real-life adventurers Annie Kane and Jake Lebert—a couple who met while hiking the Appalachian Trail solo... and ended up hiking all 2,200 miles together.

💍 They now live in Virginia, are planning a wedding at the exact spot where they met (Fontana Dam), and have an incredible love story built around mud, sweat, blisters, and heart.

🎙 Inside this episode:
 🥾 What it’s like to hike for 6 months straight with someone you just met
 💬 How deep conversations (and zero distractions) built their relationship
 ⚠️ Falling, rattlesnakes, weather—and how they supported each other through it
 🚐 Living together in a converted school bus post-trail
 🐾 Life now with two dachshunds, a pottery class, and a new puppy
 ❤️ Lessons about love, patience, independence, and adventure

If you’ve ever dreamed of hiking the Appalachian Trail, or wondered how connection can grow in the most unexpected places—this episode will inspire you.

📍Their advice? Go for it. And never quit on a bad day.

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Connect with Julie & David Bulitt
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On this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt return from their summer hiatus with an inspiring, stylish, and high-energy guest—Sydney Sadick, national fashion/media commentator, editor, and founder of Spotlight Magazine.

You’ve seen her on Good Morning America, The Today Show, Access Hollywood, and Fox 5 DC—and today, she sits down with the Bulitts to talk about how fashion can impact confidence, relationships, and identity, as well as the behind-the-scenes world of entrepreneurship and publishing.

🎙 What’s inside:
 👠 How clothing choices influence self-esteem and connection
 🧥 Why couples should still dress up for each other (yes, even after 10+ years!)
👜 Starting a luxury magazine from scratch—Spotlight’s rise in NYC, the Hamptons, Palm Beach & Miami
💬 What makes a strong personal brand—and how to stay authentic
💼 How she navigates marriage, business, beauty, and ambition (with support from her husband and mom!)

Sydney also shares stories about shopping smart, reusing pieces, trusting your team, and that hilarious moment when her husband raised an eyebrow at a very glamorous photo shoot.

📘 Check out her book: Aim High: How to Style Your Life and Achieve Your Goals
📰 Follow her magazine: Spotlight Magazine
📲 Follow Sydney on Instagram: @sydneysadick

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On this date-night edition of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt grab a cocktail and dive into a conversation that started on their recent Fox 5 “Lion Lunch” appearance—celebrity marriages and whether public relationships can actually survive.

From Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s engagement to Billy Joel and Christie Brinkley’s struggles, the Bulitts explore what makes high-profile relationships so difficult—and what lessons we all can take from them. With honesty, humor, and a few personal stories (including a proposal with a hotdog 🐶💍), they break down:

💔 Why 80% of celebrity marriages end in divorce
 🔐 The power of privacy and boundaries in a relationship
 🧠 Ego, attention, and the human brain’s need for more
 📱 How social media has changed every relationship—celebrity or not
 💬 The importance of curiosity, mutual respect, and open communication
 🥂 And of course… what Travis and Taylor can do to beat the odds

This is an honest, fun, and insightful episode you won’t want to miss—especially if you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to balance love and limelight.

🎧 Subscribe to Conversations for Couples for real talk about love, marriage, conflict, dating, and everything in between.

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This week on Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt are joined by Andrea McGinty, a leading national dating expert and founder of both It’s Just Lunch and 33,000 Dates. With decades of experience helping people navigate the often confusing (and sometimes comical) world of modern dating, Andrea offers a fresh and empowering take on finding love—especially over 40, 50, or beyond.

In this candid and energetic conversation, Andrea breaks down:
 💬 How dating apps have changed everything (for better or worse)
 📸 Why your photos matter—and what not to do
💔 Rejection and confidence: How to bounce back
💡 What makes a great first date
🧠 How to emotionally prepare for dating again
🔥 Yes, they talk about sex, too.

Whether you’re single, divorced, widowed, or just curious about the state of dating today, this episode offers real insight, expert advice, and a little tough love.

📘 Andrea’s Book: Second Acts: Winning Strategies for Dating Over 50
🌐 Website: https://www.33000dates.com
📧 Email: 33kdates@gmail.com
📣 PR Contact: Kat – ceo@do-tellpr.com

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In this powerful episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt are joined by artist, author, and mental health advocate Tracy Yoka Kos, whose memoir Bloodlines: A Memoir of Harm and Healing explores her family’s painful but inspiring journey through mental illness, eating disorders, and the complicated healing process that followed.

Tracy shares the story of her daughter’s sudden descent into severe anorexia, depression, and anxiety following the unexpected death of Tracy’s mother—and how it impacted not only their daughter’s life, but their marriage and personal histories. Tracy opens up about her own background with trauma, her late diagnosis of chronic PTSD, and the emotional hurdles she and her husband faced in learning to support their daughter and themselves.

The conversation dives deep into parenting under pressure, the dynamics between partners during a crisis, the generational impact of trauma, and the role of creativity in healing. Tracy also discusses how mixed media art became a tool for emotional regulation and self-care—and how she now helps others reconnect with themselves through creative practices.

📖 Learn more about Tracy & her book:
🌐 https://www.tracyyokacreates.com

📘 Bloodlines: A Memoir of Harm and Healing — Available wherever books are sold

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In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt return to their roots with a guest-free conversation about emotional regulation, communication, and how to respond instead of react in your relationship. Inspired by a clip they came across on social media, the Bulitts unpack the powerful concept of being a thermostat—someone who sets the emotional tone—instead of a thermometer that merely reflects the mood of others or the environment.

Through real-life examples (like spilled water on a laptop and the chaos of moving into a new house), they share how they’ve each succeeded and struggled with staying grounded during life’s curveballs. They also dive into how this concept plays out between partners and explore the role of clarity, co-regulation, respect, and gratitude in building a stable, healthy connection.

Whether you're in a new relationship or married for decades, this episode offers relatable stories and practical advice for being more intentional in your day-to-day life and relationship dynamics.

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In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Alison M. Cheperdak, J.D., Founder of Elevate Etiquette, to explore the role of etiquette in modern relationships.

From wedding invitations to everyday communication with your partner, Alison shares how etiquette isn’t just about which fork to use—it’s about kindness, respect, and emotional intelligence. They discuss the importance of dressing with intention, praising in public, communicating clearly, and handling conflict thoughtfully. Whether you're newly dating or decades into a marriage, this episode offers insightful, practical tips for navigating relationships with grace.

🔗 Learn more about Alison and Elevate Etiquette:
 🌐 elevateetiquette.com
 📧 alison@elevateetiquette.com
 📱 774-278-0649
 💬 Instagram | YouTube | TikTok | Threads → @elevateetiquette

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In this emotional and powerful episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with author, speaker, and advocate Jessica Fein to talk about love, loss, and resilience in the face of unimaginable challenges. Jessica opens up about her marriage, infertility journey, the international adoption of her three children, and the heartbreaking experience of losing her daughter Dahlia to a rare mitochondrial disease.

Together, they explore the strength of partnership through adversity, how grief reshapes relationships, and what it means to truly “lean in” as a couple. Jessica also shares how she honors Dahlia’s memory and continues to advocate for families navigating rare diseases and grief.

📖 Learn more about Jessica’s book Breathtaking: A Memoir of Family, Dreams, and Broken Genes
🌐 Visit Jessica at https://jessicafeinstories.com
📧 Subscribe to her Substack: Fine By Me
🐾 Plus, the heartwarming story of Dahlia’s dog, Blacko 🐶

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In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Dr. Elliott Justin, a physician, entrepreneur, and the founder of FirmTech—a company pioneering sexual wellness and performance through smart ring technology. Together, they discuss men’s health, intimacy, the stigma around erectile dysfunction, and how Dr. Justin’s innovation is changing the conversation around relationships and sexual connection.

Tune in as we explore:

• Why male sexual health is so often overlooked in relationships
  
  
• How technology like FirmTech’s ring is giving couples insights into their physical connection
  
  
• The emotional and relational impacts of ED
  
  
• Ways to open communication around intimacy and performance in your relationship
  
  

Dr. Justin brings warmth, honesty, and groundbreaking knowledge to a conversation that so many couples shy away from—but desperately need to have.

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💍 Visit FirmTech: www.myfirmtech.com

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🎧 Hosted by:
Julie Bulitt – Licensed Clinical Social Worker & Family Therapist
David Bulitt – Divorce & Family Lawyer

Welcome to Conversations for Couples — the podcast where Julie and David Bulitt dive into the real conversations that every relationship needs to have. With over 30 years of experience in family therapy and over 35 years in divorce and family law, Julie and David bring their insights into navigating life’s toughest challenges.

In today’s episode, we sit down with Kyle and Vashonda Arrington, a powerhouse couple who’ve been married for 13 years and share their journey from high school sweethearts to building their own successful careers. Kyle, a former New England Patriots Super Bowl champion, and Vashonda, a business executive and entrepreneur, reveal how they balance family, careers, and philanthropy.

Together, they discuss the challenges they’ve faced, the personal growth they’ve experienced, and the transition from Kyle’s football career to life after sports. Kyle shares the emotional rollercoaster of dealing with a career-ending concussion and how his relationship with Vashonda helped him through it.

Vashonda also talks about the powerful work they’re doing with the Evolve Foundation, which is committed to helping marginalized communities through educational initiatives and support programs for children and families.

Tune in for an inspiring conversation about resilience, love, and finding your way through life’s toughest seasons.

🔹 Follow the Evolve Foundation:
Website: www.theevolvefoundation.org
Instagram: @TheEvolveFoundation

Can fighting over text actually help your relationship? Therapist and author Jonathan Van Viegen thinks so—and his no-nonsense, anti-jargon approach to couples therapy is reshaping how partners communicate, connect, and build lasting love.

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Jonathan to discuss:

Why emotional flooding shuts down productive conversation

The problem with over-focusing on "triggers"

Why traditional therapy labels like "attachment styles" can be harmful

How to shift focus from problems to possibilities

The power of physical connection as a relationship barometer

Jonathan’s take on curiosity, self-reflection, and shared identity

Whether you’re newlyweds or decades in, this conversation challenges the conventional and encourages couples to reimagine how they show up for one another—every single day.

🧠 Learn more about Jonathan: Instagram: @jonathanvanviegen
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In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Jan and Jillian Yuhas—sisters, authors, and relationship consultants behind the book Boundary Badass. Based in Dallas, Jan and Jillian specialize in helping couples navigate communication, conflict, boundaries, and power imbalances—especially during marriage or divorce.

Together, they explore:

• What coercive control looks like and how to recognize it
  
  
• How to negotiate vs. compromise in a relationship
  
  
• Setting personal and relationship boundaries
  
  
• Speaking from your “authentic voice”
  
  
• How unresolved childhood wounds affect adult dynamics
  
  
• How to shift from conflict to connection in healthy ways
  
  

Whether you're trying to repair a marriage, end one respectfully, or just deepen your connection, this episode offers practical advice from experts with years of experience.

📘 Check out their book: Boundary Badass
🌐 Learn more at: www.janandjillian.com
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In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bullitt dive into The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt—a powerful and eye-opening look at how the rise of smartphones, social media, and a decline in real-world play are fueling an epidemic of anxiety and depression in kids.

As a family therapist and a divorce lawyer with decades of experience—and as parents and grandparents—Julie and David bring personal stories, professional insight, and practical takeaways to help families navigate modern parenting.

They explore:

• The importance of free play for healthy brain development
  
  
• How overprotection in the real world and underprotection online is hurting kids
  
  
• Concrete steps to reduce anxiety and build resilience
  
  
• Why schools and parents should rethink kids and smartphones
  
  

If you're raising children, working with kids, or simply wondering what’s changed in the past decade, this is a must-listen.

🎧 Learn more at: www.afloodoflove.com
📲 Follow us on all platforms: @TheBullitts

📖 Book discussed: The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Kyle and Ariel from Couple Entrepreneurs—a married couple in South Florida who not only run a successful business together but also coach other entrepreneurial couples on how to grow their business without growing apart.

They share their personal journey of moving from the “anti-honeymoon” phase to becoming business partners and co-founders. Together, we explore:

• The early struggles of working with your spouse
  
  
• Boundaries that protect both the relationship and the business
  
  
• Communication tactics that build respect and clarity
  
  
• The "four-part framework" every couple in business should know: Vision, Goals, Strategy, and Roles
  
  
• How to reignite romance after work mode
  
  
• Why building couple confidence is essential for long-term success
  
  

💡 Whether you're in business with your partner or just want to communicate better, this episode is packed with practical advice, heartfelt moments, and real talk.

Links & Resources:

🔗 Learn more about Kyle & Ariel's work:
 https://kyleandariel.com/cplive

📲 Follow them on Instagram:
 https://instagram.com/couplepreneurs
DM the word “VISION” for their free Vision Date guide!

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Why is it so hard for couples to talk about sex and intimacy—even after years together?

In this powerful episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bullitt sit down with licensed therapist and intimacy expert Steph Flood to talk all things sex, shame, vulnerability, and communication in long-term relationships.

Steph has worked with over 1,000 couples, helping them reignite their intimacy and navigate issues like mismatched libidos, infidelity, low sex drive, and that all-too-common post-kid disconnect. She brings honesty, humor, and professional insight into one of the most vulnerable topics couples face.

💬 What We Cover in This Episode:

• Why we’re never taught how to talk about sex
  
  
• The shame and silence around intimacy in relationships
  
  
• Why parenting and menopause are intimacy killers—and how to reconnect
  
  
• What really happens with mismatched sex drives
  
  
• The truth about porn, performance anxiety, and unrealistic expectations
  
  
• How to rekindle desire when your bodies—and routines—have changed
  
  
• The “daily affection” tip that helps couples stay close
  
  
• Why honest check-ins and communication may save your marriage
  
  
• Steph’s 3 go-to tips for couples struggling with sex
  
  

📌 Steph’s Top 3 Tips:

1. Have regular intimacy check-ins: "How’s this going for you?" goes a long way.
   
   
2. Practice daily affection: Hugs, touch, and physical closeness—not just sex—keep your bond strong.
   
   
3. Be honest about your needs before they turn into resentments. Vulnerability builds connection.
   
   

👩‍💻 More About Steph Flood:
Steph is a Nashville-based marriage and family therapist who offers virtual therapy, courses, and coaching for couples across the country.

📲 Find her at:
 🔗 Website: www.afloodoflove.com
📸 Instagram: @stephfloodoflove

💑 Hosted by Julie & David Bullitt
Julie is a licensed family therapist. David is a divorce and family lawyer. Married for 38 years, they've worked with couples through the toughest of times—and come out stronger.

📍 Chapters:
00:00 Welcome to the Podcast
02:00 Why Is Sex So Hard to Talk About?
06:40 Shame, Religion, and the Messages We Inherit
09:50 Common Points Where Couples Drift
12:20 How to Talk About Intimacy Without Blame
15:15 Post-Kids, Menopause, and Low Libido
20:00 When Porn Becomes a Problem
23:30 Communication Tools: Check-Ins, Affection & Honesty
28:10 Daily Touch & the “Are You Needing More?” Conversation
31:00 Safe Communication for When You Feel Disconnected
34:00 Steph’s Online Course & How to Work With Her
36:00 Final Takeaways

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🎧 Listen to Conversations for Couples on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.
🌐 Learn more at www.thebullitts.com

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, we’re joined by Golden Bachelorette Joan Vassos and her fiancé Chock, the fan-favorite from The Golden Bachelor! 💛

It’s been a year since Joan left the Golden Bachelor and began a journey with Chuck—and now, they’re falling in love, managing life in different states, merging families, and navigating a relationship later in life. We dive into real-life love after 60, communication styles, intimacy, family blending, and how they’ve handled being in the spotlight while building something authentic.

🌟 In This Episode, We Discuss:

• How Joan & Chock built a relationship after The Golden Bachelor
  
  
• Why communication is at the heart of their connection
  
  
• Navigating intimacy and connection later in life
  
  
• Merging adult families and celebrating the holidays together
  
  
• Managing long-distance love with intention
  
  
• Dealing with public pressure, fans, and the doubters
  
  
• Their honest take on what it’s really like dating on TV
  
  
• Chock’s sock situation (yes, you read that right 😂)
  
  

💬 Favorite Quotes:
➡️ "Do you want me to just listen or give my opinion?"
➡️ "You can be right, or you can be married."
➡️ "We make each other a priority—every single day."

🔗 Follow Joan & Chock
📸 Joan: @joan_vassos
📸 Chock: @chockchapple
💘 Show: The Golden Bachelor on ABC

📍 Chapters
00:00 Intro: Welcome Back to Conversations for Couples
01:30 Life After The Golden Bachelor
05:45 Long-Distance Love & Making It Fun
09:20 Merging Families for the Holidays
13:00 Building Trust & Blocking Out the Noise
17:45 Relationship Communication Styles: Rant or Remedy
23:00 Silver Bullets & Safe Talk – Handling Disagreements
28:50 Intimacy Later in Life: A Real Conversation
34:10 Spark, Closeness & What They’ve Learned
40:00 Parking Spot Drama & The Great Sock Debate
46:00 Dealing with Public Attention & Jealousy
51:00 Final Thoughts: Building a Love That Lasts

💌 We’re Julie & David Bullitt
🔹 Married 38 years, therapist & divorce attorney duo
🔹 Follow us @TheBulitts
🔹 Website: www.thebulitts.com
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Welcome back to Conversations for Couples! Today, we're diving into the incredible love story of Dolly Parton and her husband, Carl Dean, who were married for nearly 60 years before his recent passing. 💔

Dolly and Carl had one of the most unique and private marriages in Hollywood history. They spent months apart, lived independent lives, and still remained deeply in love. What can we learn from their relationship? In this episode, we explore:

💘 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

How Dolly & Carl met at a laundromat in 1964
The story behind “Jolene” & Dolly’s famous response to the real-life woman
Why Carl never attended Dolly’s performances after the 1960s
How they balanced time apart & built a lasting relationship
The importance of secure attachment & trust in relationships
Why they chose not to have children and how they made that decision together
What made their love so strong despite their differences
✨ Resources & Links Mentioned:
🎶 Dolly Parton’s Official Website: https://dollyparton.com
📖 Dolly’s Book “Dolly: My Life and Other Unfinished Business”
💡 Read More About Attachment Styles: Attachment Theory Resource

🎧 Chapters:
00:00 Intro: Welcome Back to Conversations for Couples
01:20 How Dolly & Carl Met: A Love Story at the Laundromat
04:10 The Story Behind “Jolene” & Dolly’s Response to the Woman
07:30 Why Carl Dean Avoided the Spotlight for 50+ Years
10:45 The Secret to Their Long-Lasting Love: Time Apart & Trust
14:30 Secure Attachment & How It Strengthens Relationships
19:15 Why Dolly & Carl Chose to Be Child-Free
22:40 Independence & Connection: The Key to Their Happiness
27:10 Final Thoughts: What We Can Learn from Dolly & Dean
30:00 Share Your Thoughts: How Do You Balance Space & Connection?

💬 What do you think about Dolly & Carl’s relationship? Do you and your partner spend time apart? Let us know in the comments!

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Welcome back to Conversations for Couples! Today, we’re diving into the world of elite matchmaking with Kate O’Connor, a Vice President & Executive Matchmaker at Select Date Society. If you're tired of dating apps, looking for real connections, or ready for a fresh start in love, this episode is for you!

Kate shares insider secrets on matchmaking for high-net-worth individuals, overcoming dating fears, and building strong relationships that last. Whether it's your first, second, or third time looking for love, this episode is packed with dating wisdom, relationship insights, and expert advice to help you find your person.

💘 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How elite matchmaking works (and why high-net-worth individuals use it)
• Why checklist dating doesn’t work (and what to focus on instead)
• The top relationship challenges & how to overcome them
• Understanding attachment styles & personality types in dating
• How to flirt naturally and build genuine attraction
• Dealing with fear of rejection & past relationship baggage
• Finding love after divorce or loss
• Kate’s personal love story & what she learned along the way

✨ Resources & Links Mentioned:
🔗 Select Date Society - Find a Match
🔗 Kate O’Connor on LinkedIn

🎧 Chapters:
00:00 Intro: Welcome Back to Conversations for Couples
01:05 Meet Kate O’Connor: Elite Matchmaker
04:10 What Does a Matchmaker Actually Do?
07:20 The Psychology of Dating: Attachment & Personality Types
12:35 Why High-Net-Worth Individuals Use Matchmakers
16:45 Overcoming Fear of Rejection & Past Relationship Trauma
22:15 The Truth About Dating “Checklists”
26:00 How to Naturally Flirt & Build Connection
30:40 Finding Love After Divorce or Loss
36:50 Kate’s Personal Love Story & What She Learned
42:10 How to Work with Kate & Select Date Society
45:30 Final Thoughts & Relationship Advice

💬 What’s your biggest dating challenge? Drop a comment below!

Follow Kate O’Connor & Select Date Society:
🔹 Website: SelectDateSociety.com
🔹 LinkedIn: Kate O’Connor - VIP Matchmaker
🔹 Instagram: @SelectDateSociety

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YouTube Tags:
Matchmaking, high-net-worth dating, finding love, dating tips, elite matchmaking, attachment styles, personality types, flirting tips, dating after divorce, overcoming dating fears, relationship coaching, dating advice, Conversations for Couples, Kate O’Connor, Select Date Society, relationship success, dating after loss.

In this steamy episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with intimacy expert Susan Bratton for a deep dive into reigniting passion, closing the libido gap, and strengthening long-term relationships through better sex and deeper connection.

Susan, a sexual biohacker, CEO, and bestselling author, shares powerful insights on how couples can maintain a fulfilling sex life, why mismatched libidos are a myth, and how to bring more pleasure into your relationship. From orgasmic techniques and libido hacks to sensory seduction and sex-life bucket lists, this episode is packed with game-changing strategies for couples who want to reignite desire and make love that lasts a lifetime.

🔥 Topics Covered:

Why "mismatched libidos" is a myth
The difference between libido, desire, and arousal
How women’s and men’s sexual operating systems differ
Why foreplay vs. sex is a misleading concept
The role of safety, relaxation & emotional connection in arousal
Practical steps to revive your sex life after months or years of disconnect
Techniques for orgasmic intercourse & pleasure mapping
How small seduction offers can bring back passion
The Sex Life Bucket List and how it transforms relationships
Biohacking for better intimacy: Nitric oxide, GainsWave, and more
✨ Resources Mentioned:
🔗 Orgasmic Intercourse Techniques (Game-changing techniques for deeper pleasure)
🔗 Magic Pill Method (Step-by-step guide for couples to revive their intimacy)
🔗 Better Lover Newsletter (Weekly expert sex tips & techniques)
🔗 Sex Life Bucket List (48 erotic playdate ideas for couples)
🔗 Pumping Guide (How to increase sensitivity & pleasure)

💬 What was your biggest takeaway? Drop a comment below!

Follow Susan Bratton:
🔹 Instagram: @SusanBratton
🔹 Website: BetterLover.com
🔹 YouTube: Susan Bratton - Intimacy Expert

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In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Andrea and Brian Ward for an insightful discussion on parenting, marriage, and balancing it all. Brian, a Marine Corps veteran and host of The Dad Up Podcast, and Andrea, a dedicated teacher, share their journey of raising two boys, building a strong marriage, and how Brian’s decision to quit drinking reshaped their family.

The couple opens up about how they maintained a strong connection through the busiest years of parenting, their approach to communication and self-care, and why investing in their marriage—including working with a marriage coach—has made all the difference. Whether you’re in the thick of raising kids or navigating the empty nest phase, this episode is packed with wisdom on maintaining a healthy, thriving relationship.

🔗 Topics Discussed:

• The importance of being an all-in dad
• Brian’s decision to quit drinking for his family
• Balancing parenting responsibilities as a team
• Communicating effectively while raising kids
• The role of self-care in a healthy relationship
• Why they work with a marriage coach & how it helps
• Navigating the transition to an empty nest
• Brian’s journey with The Dad Up Podcast

✨ Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

• The Dad Up Podcast: Available on YouTube, Apple, Spotify, iHeart & more
• Follow Brian on Instagram: @DadUpPodcast
• Email Brian: daduppodcast@gmail.com

🎧 Chapters:
00:00 Introduction: Meet Julie & David Bulitt
00:30 Welcome Andrea & Brian Ward
02:45 What It Means to Be an All-In Dad
06:30 Brian’s Decision to Quit Drinking for His Family
10:15 Balancing Parenting Responsibilities as a Couple
15:00 The Importance of Scheduling & Communication in Marriage
18:45 Carving Out Time for Self-Care & Personal Space
22:30 Transitioning to the Empty Nest Phase
26:45 The Role of a Marriage Coach in a Healthy Relationship
30:30 How The Dad Up Podcast Started & Its Impact
35:00 Where to Find Brian & Final Thoughts

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• Facebook: The Bulitts
• Website: www.thebulitts.com

🎙️ Hosted by Julie & David Bulitt: Licensed Clinical Social Worker & Divorce and Family Lawyer
💬 Drop a comment with your thoughts and don’t forget to subscribe for more insightful conversations on relationships!

In this empowering episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt talk to Nerissa "Risa" Stewart, an inspiring author, coach, and CEO of the Bariatric Society. Together with her husband Chris, Nerissa has transformed not only their health but also their relationship after undergoing bariatric surgery.

Nerissa shares her journey of losing 250 pounds as a couple, the challenges and triumphs of maintaining a healthy lifestyle, and how the experience reshaped their marriage. From hosting retreats for bariatric patients to offering tools for personal and relational growth, Nerissa opens up about her mission to help others embrace their best selves.

🔗 Topics Discussed:

• Nerissa and Chris’ journey through bariatric surgery and lifestyle changes
• How bariatric surgery impacts relationships and self-confidence
• Navigating jealousy, intimacy, and communication post-surgery
• Building a supportive community through the Bariatric Society
• Details about the annual Bariatric Retreat and its resources

✨ Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

• Nerissa on Instagram: @RisaRecharged
• Chris on Instagram: @Bariatric_Bro
• Bariatric Society: www.bariatricsociety.com

🎧 Chapters:
00:00 Introduction: Meet Julie & David Bulitt
00:30 Welcome Nerissa Stewart: Bariatric Surgery & Building Community
04:15 The Decision to Have Bariatric Surgery as a Couple
09:45 Life After Surgery: Lifestyle Changes & Support Systems
13:00 Impact of Bariatric Surgery on Relationships & Intimacy
17:30 Navigating Challenges: Jealousy, Attention, and Confidence
22:00 Bariatric Retreat: Connecting Patients with Resources & Support
26:45 Building Community: Coaching, Book Clubs, and More
30:00 How to Connect with Nerissa & Upcoming Events

Follow Conversations for Couples:

• Instagram: @TheBulitts
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• Website: www.thebulitts.com

🎙️ Hosted by Julie & David Bulitt: Licensed Clinical Social Worker & Divorce and Family Lawyer
💬 Don’t forget to leave your thoughts in the comments and subscribe for more inspiring conversations about relationships!

In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt are joined by Corey Nichols, financial coach and CEO of Yes Life Financial. Together, they dive into how couples can navigate financial challenges and improve communication about money. Corey shares his approach to financial planning, focusing on the human side of finance and how understanding each other’s habits and backgrounds can strengthen your relationship.

Key topics include:

• The importance of goal-setting for financial success.
• The Rule of 72 and how it helps younger couples with long-term savings.
• How open and honest conversations about money can enhance trust and communication.
• Tips for managing financial stress and working as a team.

This episode offers practical advice for couples seeking to manage their finances better while deepening their bond.

For more financial guidance, visit Corey’s website:
Yes Life Financial

Follow Corey on Instagram for more insights:
@Corey_Nichols

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In this heartfelt episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Anjali and Gorang, a couple from India who have been married for over 32 years. They share their inspiring journey from an arranged marriage to a deep, lasting love.

Discover how commitment, communication, and shared struggles strengthened their bond. Anjali and Gorang also discuss navigating multi-generational living, overcoming personal challenges, and how their shared experiences inspired their mission to uplift and educate couples around the world.

🔗 Topics Discussed:

• What is an arranged marriage? Insights into Indian culture and traditions
• How Anjali and Gorang’s relationship evolved from strangers to life partners
• Overcoming hardships: Miscarriages, health crises, and finding strength in unity
• The importance of setting boundaries and fostering connection in relationships
• Multi-generational living: Balancing family bonds and independence
• Their journey to becoming Instagram creators and advocates for strong marriages

✨ Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

• Anjali & Gorang on Instagram: @anjali.gorang
• Learn more about their journey and upcoming book through their social media.

🎧 Chapters:
00:00 Introduction: Meet Julie & David Bulitt
00:30 Welcome Anjali & Gorang: 32 Years of Marriage and Counting
05:00 Arranged Marriages: How They Work and Cultural Insights
09:30 Love After Marriage: Commitment as the Foundation
13:00 Overcoming Hardships: Loss, Miscarriages, and Unity
18:00 Navigating Multi-Generational Living: Tips and Boundaries
23:00 The Power of Communication: Building a Safe Space for Hard Talks
26:00 Matching Outfits & Unity: A Symbol of Connection
28:30 Why They Share Their Journey: From Personal Struggles to Public Advocacy

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🎙️ Hosted by Julie & David Bulitt: Licensed Clinical Social Worker & Divorce and Family Lawyer
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In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Casey and Meygan Caston, founders of Marriage365. The Castons open up about their early marriage struggles, how they were on the brink of divorce, and how they turned things around to build a thriving relationship.

Now, with over 21 years of marriage, the Castons share the practical tools, strategies, and insights they’ve used to help over 100,000 couples strengthen their marriages through the Marriage365 app, retreats, books, and courses.

🔗 Topics Discussed:

The Castons’ personal story: overcoming trauma and finding healing
Common marriage challenges: poor communication, in-law boundaries, and money issues
Tools for couples: intentionality, curiosity, and practical strategies
The importance of self-care and personal growth in a relationship
How Marriage365 helps couples navigate intimacy, connection, and challenges
✨ Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

Marriage365 Website: https://Marriage365.com
Instagram: @Marriage365
Upcoming Marriage Retreat (October 2025): Marriage365 Retreat Info
New Book Release: 365 Connecting Questions for Couples by Meygan and Casey Caston – Available NOW! - https://a.co/d/8X8fipI

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 In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt sit down with Amy and Neil Thompson, also known as "Better With Age Together" on Instagram. This inspiring couple shares how they’ve embraced life as empty nesters by building healthier lifestyles and strengthening their marriage.

Amy and Neil talk about their journey with Faster Way to Fat Loss, why they focus on God’s food, the power of connection through shared goals, and how couples can navigate this new chapter with confidence. From balancing work, fitness, and personal time to overcoming challenges, their tips are practical, uplifting, and relatable for any couple.

🔗 Connect with Amy & Neil Thompson:
https://www.fasterwaycoach.com/#Neilandamy
amythompsonlifestyle@gmail.com
IG @betterwithage.together 

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🎙️ Hosted by Julie & David Bulitt: Licensed Clinical Social Worker & Divorce and Family Lawyer
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In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David Bulitt chat with Nikki Lamberti, a certified wine professional and the founder of Sollevato Wines. They explore the fascinating parallels between wine and relationships, discussing how wine evolves with every sip—just like love does over time. Nikki shares her personal journey from New Jersey to Napa Valley, her experience in the wine industry, and how the right wine can elevate any occasion. Whether you're navigating holidays, romantic dinners, or your first fight as a couple, this episode is packed with insights and wine pairing tips for any relationship.

For more information on Nikki's wine and to order a bottle, visit: https://www.sollevatowines.com/purchase

Where to find the Sip With Nikki Podcast:
https://sip-with-nikki.captivate.fm/listen

Visit Nikki's website:
www.sipwithnikki.com

For more details on Julie and David Bulitt's podcast, visit https://thebulitts.com.

Join Julie and David Bulitt as they sit down with Sara and her husband Asa, sharing a deeply moving story of rediscovering identity, navigating family ties, and redefining love. Adopted from Chile and raised in the United States, Sara’s life took an unexpected turn as she uncovered her roots in adulthood. This episode dives into her emotional journey to connect with her birth family, the resilience in facing complex family dynamics, and the beautiful way her marriage and family have grown stronger through it all.

Together, the couples explore themes of adoption, identity, and the conversations every relationship needs to have to strengthen bonds. Sara and her husband’s experiences reflect the power of communication, trust, and support in navigating life’s biggest surprises and challenges. Tune in for insights on family, resilience, and how to build connections that withstand the test of time.

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In this episode of Conversations for Couples, hosts Julie and David Bulitt welcome Max and Mariana, a young couple navigating the challenges of marriage and individual growth. Max, a sports and exercise psychologist, and Mariana, a health and wellness coach, open up about their experiences balancing personal goals with the demands of a relationship.

Join us as we explore how fitness, healthy habits, and communication play key roles in their partnership, from meeting in Israel to settling back in the U.S. They share insights on managing time together, the importance of embracing discomfort for growth, and how technology affects their relationship.

Whether you've been married for one year or 38 like Julie and David, there's something to learn from this honest and thoughtful conversation.

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Website: thebulitts.com

Connect with Max & Mariana
IG: @maxandmariana

In this episode of "Conversations for Couples," Julie and David Bulitt are joined by Melissa and Dan Postell, a dynamic couple juggling the demands of family, work, and parenting. Married for 11 years with four young children, Melissa and Dan share their strategies for keeping their household running smoothly through structured systems and a strong partnership. From managing morning routines to running multiple businesses, the Postells discuss how they apply executive functioning skills to family life, ensuring both work and family obligations are met. We dive into topics such as shared goal setting, balancing traditional and modern parenting styles, and how they stay connected amidst the chaos. Tune in to learn practical tips for building a more organized and connected family life.

Melissa and Dan Postell
melissabagherian@gmail.com  
On IG: @melissa.b.postell

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We decided to replay this conversation along with the release of "The Golden Bachelor"

In this heartfelt episode of "Conversations for Couples," we explore the transformative journey of Joan Vassos, whose story of love, loss, and resurgence captivates and inspires. Joan, a widow after 32 years of marriage, shares her intimate experiences from the depths of grief to the unexpected adventure on a reality TV show, "The Golden Bachelor." We delve into the complexities of seeking companionship and love in later life, the trials of online dating, and the courage to step back into the spotlight of romance. Joan’s candid recount of her venture into the world of televised dating and her pursuit of happiness post-tragedy offers a raw and uplifting perspective on starting anew. Join us as we navigate the emotions and realities of finding love again, with wisdom, humor, and the unyielding belief in second chances.

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Find Joan on IG: @joan_vassos   &  @thegoldenbacheloretteabc