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Confessions of a Recovering Micromanaging Perfectionist Martyr
Mags DePetris
Frequency: 1 episode/8d. Total Eps: 359

As a mother of four and a self-proclaimed micromanaging - perfectionist - martyr, I constantly need to be reminded that control leaves me lonely, perfection canĀ paralyze me, and caring for others over myself leads to resentment. Join me as I try to navigate being a structure-luvin' gal, in an absolutely chaotic household.
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01/11/2024#75
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Summer Rewind #1: Putting Too Much Weight on Weight ā Breaking Free from Decades of Shame
Season 9 Ā· Episode 42
vendredi 20 juin 2025 ⢠Duration 04:34
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On this week's Summer Rewind...
Weight gain and self-acceptance can feel at odds, especially when societal pressures linger. In this episode, we explore a new perspective on embracing lifeās changes with compassion. From stepping into family photos to easing self-criticism, this journey is about finding peace with your body at any size. Tune in to discover how self-acceptance can empower us to live freelyāno matter the stage weāre in.
This is how I put it together that we learn from one anotherā¦
Monkey See Monkey Do - If I donāt know what it looks like, I canāt do it.
Wrapping Season 9 - Rest, Rewinds, and a Little Summer Connection
Season 9 Ā· Episode 41
vendredi 13 juin 2025 ⢠Duration 05:48
Season 9ādone and dusted! š This wrap-up covers what we learned, whatās ahead, and why āless phone, more restā might be the perfect summer plan. āļøš“ Plus, a sneak peek at a special summer rewind collab with C2 Care Redefined and my dream of bringing guests into the studio. ššļø
Overcorrecting - Caring Too Much About Kidsā Feelings
Season 9 Ā· Episode 32
vendredi 11 avril 2025 ⢠Duration 07:08
Ever wonder if weāre swinging too far the other way when it comes to parenting? š¬ Letās talk about choices, feelings, and aunts who smells like mothballsāin a completely loving way. ā¤ļø A little discomfort can go a long way. Come hang with us for a fresh take on raising brave humans.
Link from this episode:
Explanations vs. Excuses
A Tiger In A Cage - Breaking Free From the Constraints of My Own Obsessive Thinking
Season 7 Ā· Episode 17
vendredi 28 avril 2023 ⢠Duration 03:20
Like a tiger pacing in an imaginary cage, we sometimes limit ourselves with patterns of negative thinking. In this episode, we explore how easy it is to trap ourselves in cycles of stress and frustration, overlooking the expansive freedom available in our lives. Join us as we discuss ways to recognize these mental cages and embrace a more open, positive perspective on the world around us.
And some more about getting unstuckā¦
A River Runs Through It - How I Get Myself Unstuck
And this, which has really been a golden nugget of recovery for meā¦
If I Want Self-Confidence I Just Have to do THIS?
Acting Like a Child - Pretending Myself Into the Person I Want to Be
Season 7 Ā· Episode 16
vendredi 21 avril 2023 ⢠Duration 03:23
Sometimes, pretending is more than just playāitās a powerful tool for handling lifeās unexpected spills (like oatmeal everywhere). In this episode, we explore how āfaking it till you make itā can help you manage difficult moments, build confidence, and grow into the person you want to be. Tune in for a lighthearted take on using the art of pretending to handle frustrations, challenges, and everyday moments with a little extra grace.
Apparently, I dig this topicā¦
Fake It Till You Make It ā When Playing Pretend is the Best Option
The Cycles of Life - Ride āEm, Donāt Fight āEm
Season 7 Ā· Episode 15
vendredi 14 avril 2023 ⢠Duration 03:32
Family life can feel like a whirlwind of shifting moods and cycles, especially with teenagers in the mix. In this episode, we discuss the value of recognizing lifeās natural rhythms instead of jumping to fix every minor crisis. By learning to ride out the ups and downs, we can reduce stress and find peace amidst the chaos. Tune in for insights on managing family dynamics with patience, perspective, and self-compassion.
And a link to my inspiration for riding āThe Cycleāā¦
Reacting - Getting Schooled by My Husband in Parenting 101
Easterās Here - Letās Talk About Resurrecting Thisā¦
Season 7 Ā· Episode 14
vendredi 7 avril 2023 ⢠Duration 02:47
Generosity can be tough when fears of scarcity creep in. Inspired by singer Jewel's perspective on generosity, this episode explores the struggle with sharing whatās closest to us and the deeper faith it requires. Join us as we examine the value of giving, the illusions of control, and the journey to believe that, in life, thereās always enough to go aroundāeven if it means holding our "stuff" a little more loosely.
More on sharing (I love the quote in this post)ā¦
Are You Good At Sharing? You Must Be the Oldest
Putting Too Much Weight on Weight - Breaking Free from Decades of Shame
Season 7 Ā· Episode 13
vendredi 31 mars 2023 ⢠Duration 03:16
Weight gain and self-acceptance can feel at odds, especially when societal pressures linger. In this episode, we explore a new perspective on embracing lifeās changes with compassion. From stepping into family photos to easing self-criticism, this journey is about finding peace with your body at any size. Tune in to discover how self-acceptance can empower us to live freelyāno matter the stage weāre in.
This is how I put it together that we learn from one anotherā¦
Monkey See Monkey Do - If I donāt know what it looks like, I canāt do it.
When Somethingās Not Working - Maybe Itās Time to Fix the Oven, Not Me
Season 7 Ā· Episode 12
vendredi 24 mars 2023 ⢠Duration 03:27
Sometimes, we blame ourselves when things go wrong, whether in the kitchen or in life. In this episode, we explore how a broken oven became an unexpected teacher, revealing the importance of examining the āsystemsā around us instead of always blaming ourselves. Join us for a lighthearted look at why sometimes, itās not youāitās the ovenāand how shifting our perspective can open new doors in life, work, and yes, even cooking!
How I learned to get help with every problemā¦(Thank you Aunt Maureen!)
Throw Money - The Solution To Almost Every Problem
When I vowed to never cookā¦(maybe this is how long my crappy ovenās been broken!)
Crappy Mom List - 5 Things Iām Never Gonna Change
Ambition Revised - Itās Not Just a Work Thing
Season 7 Ā· Episode 11
vendredi 17 mars 2023 ⢠Duration 03:32
Ambition isn't just about career milestones or financial successāitās the quiet, everyday determination to show up in every area of life. In this episode, we redefine ambition beyond societyās standards, exploring how it shows up in relationships, home life, personal growth, and all the little, repeated efforts that keep us moving forward. Tune in for a refreshing perspective on success and the power of simply showing up.
Post referenced in this episode:
Slow Is The New Fast - Shifting My Perspective on Speed
And, another look at Ambition:
Ambition Came to Talk to Me and this Is What She Said
