Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality. – Details, episodes & analysis

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Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.

Brian Janes and Mark Dembo

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Frequency: 1 episode/18d. Total Eps: 73

Coming Inside OUT is a heartfelt podcast where hosts Brian Janes and Mark Dembo create a safe space for gay fathers, men coming out later in life, and anyone exploring their identity within the LGBTQ+ community. Through candid conversations they explore the emotional journey of self-discovery, relationships, and the power of living authentically.

Each episode dives into real stories of courage, healing, and connection—covering topics like mental health, therapy, mixed-orientation marriages, dating, fatherhood, and community support. Whether it’s navigating guilt and shame, celebrating Pride, or confronting societal challenges, Brian and Mark remind listeners that no one walks this path alone.

✨ It’s never too late to come home to yourself. Tune in for inspiration, solidarity, and a reminder that authenticity is not just freedom—it’s leadership.

📩 Contact: cominginsideout@gmail.com 🌈

#Gay #LGBTQPodcast #GayFathers #ComingOut #Authenticity #MentalHealth #Pride365 #LGBTQ #LoveIsLove

Keywords: LGBTQ, coming out, relationships, gay parent, gay podcast, gay men, personal growth, gay fathers, pride,

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28/06/2026
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07/05/2026
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06/05/2026
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17/03/2026
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16/03/2026
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🇨🇦 Canada - sexuality
21/02/2026
#96
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07/02/2026
#97

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https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1
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https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1
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https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1
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https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC_Xz1Z1q3OY5bx06NVKsagA
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Ep.#24 Gay Fathers - Building Relationships Beyond Hookups. Importance of Community in LGBTQ Lives

Season 1 · Episode 24

Tuesday, October 15, 2024 • Duration 35:49

In this episode of 'Come In Inside Out', hosts Brian and John discuss various themes surrounding the LGBTQ community, including the importance of community engagement, health awareness initiatives like Movember, and the challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals today. They share personal stories, listener feedback, and insights on navigating relationships and family dynamics while coming out. The conversation also touches on the political landscape affecting LGBTQ rights and the importance of supporting one another in both personal and professional realms.

Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men.

There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.

MOVEMBER donations links:

How do I donate?

1. Copy the link for your preferred currency

2. Choose the amount you want to donate

3. Select the black “Donate to Team” button

4. Follow the instructions and pay; you can request a receipt (and maybe claim a tax deduction if allowed in your country).

Links below:

Australian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1

US Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1

Canadian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1

European Euros. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-europe?mc=1

UK Pounds. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-uk?mc=1

#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #church #religion #movember

Keywords: LGBTQ, gay fathers, coming out, Movember, men's health, community, acceptance, relationships, pride, political issues

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Ep #28 - Gay Fathers, Celebrating Pride: A Journey of Self-Discovery. Power of the LGBTQ Community

Season 1 · Episode 28

Tuesday, November 12, 2024 • Duration 39:35

In this episode, John and Brian discuss their experiences at Pride, reflecting on personal growth, identity, and the importance of community support. They share emotional moments from the parade, the liberating feeling of being oneself, and the significance of vulnerability in friendships. The conversation also touches on listener engagement and the journey of coming out, emphasizing the need for support and connection within the LGBTQ community.

Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers.

In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

MOVEMBER donations links: How do I donate? 1. Copy the link for your preferred currency 2. Choose the amount you want to donate 3. Select the black “Donate to Team” button 4. Follow the instructions and pay; you can request a receipt (and maybe claim a tax deduction if allowed in your country). Links below:

Australian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1 US Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1

Canadian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1 European Euros. Link here:

Ep. 18 - Gay Fathers - Receiving Gifts and Expressing Gratitude. Sharing our Coming Out Journey's

Season 1 · Episode 18

Tuesday, September 10, 2024 • Duration 30:21

In this conversation, Brian and John discuss various topics including their recent podcast appearances, receiving gifts from listeners, the feedback they've received, coming out stories, the challenges of being accepted by religious communities, and the importance of being receptive to receiving. They express gratitude for the support they've received and the opportunity to help others through their podcast.

We will talk about when we knew we were gay, how we lived as closeted gay fathers and how we came out. There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.

#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #church #religion

Keywords: podcast, appearances, gifts, feedback, coming out stories, challenges, acceptance, religious communities, receptive, gratitude, support

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Ep. #17 - Brian appears as guest on - Out Late With David podcast and shares his coming out journey

Season 1 · Episode 17

Tuesday, September 3, 2024 • Duration 30:50

As a guest on Out late With David #18 - Brian Janes shares coming out after 26 years of marriage, now finding his place in his new community.

Summary:

Brian Janes, a successful real estate broker, came out as gay at age 50 after 26 years of marriage. He loved being married and had a strong connection with his wife, but deep down, he had a sexual desire that didn't match up with her. After years of therapy and self-help, his wife eventually told him she wanted a divorce. Brian knew he was gay from a young age but didn't know how to embrace it. He suppressed his true self and lived in fear of being found out. After his divorce, he made the decision to come out and started a podcast for men coming out later in life.

Keywords: comingout, marriage, divorce, self-discovery, suppression, fear, loneliness, podcast, outlate, gay, alwaysgay, depression.

Takeaways:

Suppressing your true self can lead to frustration and strain in relationships.

Coming out later in life can be a difficult and lonely process.

Embracing your true self can lead to personal growth and a more fulfilling life.

Sharing your story and being vulnerable can help others going through similar experiences.

Titles The Journey of Coming Out Later in Life Embracing Your True Self and Finding Personal Growth

Sound Bites "Don't Let Your Wonder Turn Into Closure" "Here I Am, a Proud Gay Man" "You're Not Alone, We're All Out Here" Chapters (video) 00:00 Introduction and Background 03:04 Suppressing True Self in a Marriage 07:50 The Decision to Come Out 10:43 The Power of Wonder and Curiosity 13:36 Coming Out to Ex-Wife and Children 17:23 Exploring the New World 19:17 Regrets and Self-Kindness 21:20 Loneliness and Self-Discovery 24:19 Starting the Podcast 27:37 Advice for Married Men Struggling with Acceptance 29:54 Summary and Closing Song Lyric Reflection: Ben Platt's "Older." Older lyrics: https://www.google.com/search?q=ben+platt+older+lyrics&oq=ben+platt+older+lyrics&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOTIKCAEQABiABBiiBDIKCAIQABiABBiiBNIBCDQ2NzdqMGo3qAIIsAIB&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8 Older on YouTube: Podcast website and resources: YouTube Edition: YouTube Channel: Certified Professional Life Coach, David Cotton: Contact David:

Ep. 16 - Gay Fathers - Navigating the Divorce Process as a Gay Father Dealing with Grief and Loss.

Season 1 · Episode 16

Tuesday, August 27, 2024 • Duration 37:55

In this conversation, Jim Kennedy shares his experiences as a gay father and the challenges he faced during his coming out journey and divorce. He emphasizes the importance of finding support and community, as well as seeking professional help during difficult times. Jim also discusses the process of divorce and the emotional impact it had on him. He shares his thoughts on dating and relationships after coming out, including the need for a period of time before introducing a new partner to his children. In this conversation, Jim and Brian discuss their experiences with divorce and the challenges they faced as gay men. They talk about the importance of respecting their children's comfort levels when introducing new partners, the impact of divorce on their personal growth and authenticity, and the ongoing grief and loss they feel. They also touch on the adversarial nature of heterosexual divorces compared to their own experiences. Overall, the conversation highlights the complexities and emotions involved in divorce and the importance of navigating it with kindness and understanding.

There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.

#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

Keywords: gay father, coming out, divorce, support, community, professional help, dating, relationships, children, divorce, gay men, children, comfort levels, authenticity, grief, loss, adversarial, personal growth

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Ep. #15 - Gay Fathers - Rebuilding Life After Loss. The Challenges of Coming Out for Gay Dads

Season 1 · Episode 15

Tuesday, August 20, 2024 • Duration 42:19

In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes share their personal journeys of coming out as gay, the impact of divorce on their identities, and the challenges of navigating family dynamics post-separation. They discuss the emotional turmoil of losing a spouse and the struggle to rebuild their lives while seeking new relationships. The conversation also touches on the loneliness often felt within the LGBTQ+ community and the importance of intimacy and connection in new relationships. The hosts emphasize the need for planning when coming out and the significance of self-discovery and personal growth in the process.

There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.

#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

Keywords: coming out, LGBTQ+, divorce, family dynamics, personal growth, relationships, identity, hypersexuality, intimacy, support

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Ep. #14 - Gay Fathers - The Power of Listener Engagement. Creating a Safe Space for LGBTQ+ Voices

Season 1 · Episode 14

Tuesday, August 13, 2024 • Duration 35:31

In this episode, Brian and John discuss their experiences as gay fathers, the importance of listener engagement, and the vulnerability involved in sharing personal stories. They reflect on the impact of their podcast on listeners, particularly those who are navigating their own coming out journeys. The conversation highlights the joy and connection found within the LGBTQ+ community, as well as the ongoing process of identity and acceptance.

There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.

#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

Keywords - LGBTQ+, coming out, personal stories, vulnerability, listener feedback, gay fathers, podcast, community, support, identity

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Ep. #13 - Gay Fathers - Being True to Oneself. Dealing with Guilt and Shame assoc. with Coming Out

Season 1 · Episode 13

Tuesday, August 6, 2024 • Duration 32:43

In this conversation, Brian and John discuss their upcoming guest therapist and encourage listeners to send in questions. They also talk about a Facebook group for gay fathers and the support they find there. Brian shares his experience of coming out and the guilt and shame he felt for cheating on his wife. They discuss the fear of rejection from loved ones and the financial challenges of divorce. They emphasize the importance of being true to oneself and finding support during the coming out process.

There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.

#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

Keywords: coming out, therapist, support, Facebook group, gay fathers, guilt, shame, cheating, rejection, financial challenges, true to oneself, support

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Ep. #12 - Gay Fathers - Ralf Schumacher's Coming Out. Political Humor. Transgender Equality

Season 1 · Episode 12

Tuesday, July 30, 2024 • Duration 35:54

In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts Brian and John engage in a lively discussion that covers a range of topics including listener feedback, the importance of therapy, political commentary surrounding the recent Republican National Convention, personal coming out stories, and the significance of support within the LGBTQ+ community. They also celebrate LGBTQ+ figures who have come out, discuss the reclamation of language within the community, and emphasize the importance of empathy and understanding. The episode concludes with a promise of future guests and continued discussions.

There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.

#gayparents #lgbt #lgbtq #pride #gayman #gaypride #love #gaymen #gayguy #loveislove #gaylife #lesbian #queer #gaylove #follow #trans #gaybear #men #transgender #gayworld #gaycouple #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #elonmusk #ralfshumacher #formula1

Keywords: LGBTQ+, coming out, therapy, Grindr, political commentary, personal stories, support, empathy, representation, reclaiming language

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Ep. #11 - Gay Fathers - Identity, Mental Health, and Personal Experiences as Gay Men Coming Out

Season 1 · Episode 11

Tuesday, July 23, 2024 • Duration 41:29

In this episode, hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes discuss various themes surrounding identity, mental health, and personal experiences as gay men. They share stories about identity theft, the importance of mental health awareness, and the impact of personal relationships. The conversation also touches on self-expression, body image, and the significance of compliments in social interactions. The episode concludes with book recommendations and a reminder to be cautious about personal information.

There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.

#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

Keywords: gay men, identity theft, mental health, suicide awareness, self-expression, relationships, compliments, personal stories, podcast, LGBTQ+

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