Explore every episode of the podcast Come Together with Erin + Abe Lichy
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| This is Come Together | 31 Mar 2025 | 00:01:48 | |
Come Together is Coming April 7th Time to cut the cameras and turn ON the mic — Erin and Abe Lichy are pulling back the curtain on the wild ride of marriage, sex, business, and everything in between in Come Together. As a powerhouse couple who’ve built empires together—Erin as a serial entrepreneur, interior designer, and Real Housewives of New York star, and Abe as a sharp legal mind and founder of The Advisory—they’re the couple you want at your dinner party, the ones you want to grab a drink with, and the first ones you’ll turn to for advice. Each week, the duo will dive into the real, raw, and often unspoken realities of blending parenting, business, and love — all while keeping it real. With their signature honesty, wit, and easygoing vibe, they’re baring it all. Whether they’re talking business wins, how to keep the spark alive after nearly 15 years, or just the chaos of everyday life, no topic is off-limits. Tune in Monday, April 7th for the real secret behind what it really takes to Come Together. Produced by Dear Media Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Let's Talk About Sex, Baby! | 07 Apr 2025 | 00:38:48 | |
Welcome to the very first episode of Come Together! This week we're talking all about – you guessed it! Sex. From how to keep the spark alive, to navigating "dry spells" + Abe's gross solution to the age old 'pick your socks off the floor' debate – you're in for a wild ride. Get More Erin + Abe Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Spilling Our Pre-Baby Confessions | 14 Apr 2025 | 00:41:04 | |
In this brutally honest and hilarious episode, Abe and Erin dive into the chaos of being super pregnant with baby #4—insomnia, discomfort, and the deep need for a Mezcalum margarita. The two reflect on how their past pregnancies affected their relationship, share wild memories from their COVID escape to Myrtle Beach (spoiler: it turned into a 40-person commune), and talk about the unexpected journey of building their mezcal business. Things get really real when they veer into sex during pregnancy, solo freedom post-birth, and… prostitutes and lie-down baths? Feeling confused? Us too. But don't worry, in the end, it all comes together. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Secrets, Influence, and Love Life: Deuxmoi Gets Real | 28 Apr 2025 | 00:56:27 | |
Deuxmoi knows all the secrets – but in this episode, she shares her own. From private connections to public rumors, we talk about the influence she's built, the lines she won't cross, and the trust that keeps her circle tight. Abe and Erin open up about their role in it all, and the surprising stories they've kept off the record – until now. Get More Erin + Abe Get more Deux Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Plan A Girl Meets Jam Band Guy | 21 Apr 2025 | 00:36:31 | |
One always gets into the club. The other runs marathons to Phish. Together, they make a case for live music, laughter, and not letting your kids hijack your personality. A feel-good, funny dive into relationships, raves, and real talk on parenting. Get More Erin + Abe Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Coachella Clout and the Orgasm Gap with Tinx | 05 May 2025 | 00:49:42 | |
What happens when an influencer, a reality couple, and a few thousand horny thoughts collide? This episode. Tinx unpacks hookup culture, power dynamics, and the real reasons women evolve while men… well, don’t. Get More Erin + Abe Get More Tinx @tinx See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Dating is A Game. Don't Play Yourself. | 12 May 2025 | 00:48:16 | |
Early dating is a strategy—and if you don’t have one, you’re winging it. Erin and Abe get into the game: when to text, when to wait, and when to move on. They talk first dates, second dates, attraction, sex, and the subtle power dynamics that play out along the way. Also in this episode: Erin’s cookbook announcement, her billboard debut in Times Square, Met Gala afterparties, and what it’s really like trying to date your spouse while raising four kids. Want to jump straight into the convo? Skip to 12:24. Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Cancel Culture, Hot Takes & Ugly Babies: Amanda Hirsch Unfiltered | 19 May 2025 | 01:15:03 | |
Amanda Hirsch of Not Skinny But Not Fat joins Erin and Abe for a wildly honest, laugh-out-loud conversation covering cancel culture, work and marriage dynamics, and why the internet is obsessed with tearing women down. From wrestling with postpartum identity to wondering whether you’d know if your baby wasn’t cute, no topic is off-limits. Amanda opens up about her path from meme queen to media powerhouse, how she handles online hate, and why “independence” might be overrated in modern relationships. Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Don’t Talk to Me, I’m 38 Weeks Pregnant | 26 May 2025 | 00:49:46 | |
(and other things Erin says to Abe) It’s the final countdown—Erin’s 38 weeks pregnant, wildly introspective, low-key enraged at Abe (for breathing), and more powerful than ever. The couple unpacks everything: Pitocin horror stories, why working out while pregnant is underrated, what moms actually want from their partners, and how pregnancy has Erin firing on all cylinders creatively. It’s vulnerable, hilarious, and full of truth bombs about rest, resentment, rituals—and the sexiest thing a partner can do in the third trimester. (Hint: it’s not foreplay.) Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| You Asked, We Answered: Sex, Cheating, Chores & Kids | 02 Jun 2025 | 00:46:37 | |
This AMA-style episode tackles the hard stuff in relationships—straight from your DMs. We get into: • How to manage parenting with completely different styles • When to talk vs. when to take space during a fight • Why some cheating might be forgivable—and some isn’t • Balancing work, marriage, and four kids without losing it • Whether attraction can grow if it’s not there on day one • The real cost of divorce vs. investing in your relationship • Prioritizing alone time and protecting your sanity as a couple Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Sex, Trash, and Neuroplasticity: What They Don’t Tell You About New Parenthood with Dr. Nicole Pensak | 09 Jun 2025 | 00:54:18 | |
Why does the trash matter more than sex? Why do new moms feel like they’re drowning—and new dads feel helpless? And is “mom brain” actually… genius? Erin and Abe go deep with psychologist Dr. Nicole Pensak on what nobody tells you about postpartum life—and how couples can stay close through the chaos. Get More Nicole @drnikkipensak — for more on the latest science of parenthood Looking for Postpartum Support? Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| The Heart of Mezcal: Identity, Partnership & Pride with Carlos Mendez | 16 Jun 2025 | 00:31:14 | |
Carlos Mendez isn’t just our partner—he’s the soul behind our mezcal. He opens up about growing up gay in rural Mexico, redefining tradition, and building a brand that reflects his values. This is about more than spirits. It’s about courage, culture, and creating change. Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Two Good Jewish Boys and One Damn Good Spritz with Ben Soffer | 30 Jun 2025 | 00:50:34 | |
From the early days of Instagram memes to building a national beverage brand, Ben Soffer has seen it all. In this episode, he joins Abe to talk about turning “Boy With No Job” into a launchpad for Spritz Society, the secrets to scaling without VCs, and how being married to Claudia Oshry sharpened his edge and grounded his life. They get into the social media shift, why TikTok is both genius and dangerous, and what it really means to balance love, business, and a brand that actually sells. Get More Ben Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| The Art of Reinvention: Jake Cohen on Love, Sex, and Letting Go | 23 Jun 2025 | 00:50:01 | |
Author and chef Jake Cohen opens up about his marriage, divorce, partying in Berlin, and what it means to love deeply while still evolving. Erin and Jake unpack relationship dynamics, sexual freedom, emotional growth—and yes, what’s in Jake’s fridge after a hookup. Get More Jake PRE-ORDER JAKE'S NEW BOOK 'Dinner Party Animal' HERE! Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Wire Hoarding, Nanny Drama & Jewish Dating Rules | 14 Jul 2025 | 00:29:34 | |
What do HDMI cables, reality TV, and nanny trauma have in common? This episode. Erin and Abe unpack a nightmare child care situation, NYC parenting hacks, and their surprising take on faith, tradition, and why sometimes you should test your partner’s love with a little crazy. Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| I Think I'm Gonna Go Cry in the Shower (But First, Let’s Catch Up) | 07 Jul 2025 | 00:41:18 | |
In this week's episode, Erin and Abe tackle the chaos of moving, parenthood, and grief. Erin opens up about her journey with grief and how it’s starting to catch up with her, while Abe shares his own reflections. They also talk about the shift in their relationship post-baby and balancing it all with four kids. It’s real, raw, and a reminder that sometimes, you still might end up crying on your birthday – and that’s okay. Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| The Secret Guide To Better Sex with Sex Therapist Couple Vanessa + Xander Marin | 04 Aug 2025 | 00:44:21 | |
This week, Erin and Abe chat with Vanessa and Xander Marin, a couple of 18 years who’ve turned their expertise in sex therapy into a mission to help long-term couples keep their spark alive. Vanessa, a sex therapist, and Xander, a former Google guy turned business partner, share their insights on how to maintain intimacy and connection through simple practices like communication, eye contact, and non-sexual touch. They also tackle the myths around spontaneous sex and dive into how AI (Abe's favorite) is shaping modern relationships. Get More Vanessa + Xander Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Chore Play Meets Foreplay with Shan Boodram | 28 Jul 2025 | 00:39:11 | |
In this episode, Erin and Abe are joined by intimacy expert Shan Boodram to talk about Arya—the service that’s blending AI with real expertise to give couples fresh ways to connect (yes, really). They dive into the wild world of male and female sexuality, how modern tech is shaking things up in relationships, and how to keep things spicy without the cringe. The trio also shares personal stories and expert advice on creating a judgment-free zone when it comes to intimacy, while exploring how breaking old norms can lead to a more fulfilling sex life. Get More Shan Arya: Intimacy Concierge for Couples' Connection Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Leah Van Dale on Pregnancy, Power Moves & Why She Left the Ring | 21 Jul 2025 | 00:42:37 | |
Leah Van Dale (formerly WWE’s Carmella) joins Erin and Abe to talk about postpartum recovery, blended family dynamics, and how her own experience led her to create Snatch, a platform for women navigating life after birth. They also get into life behind the scenes of reality TV—and Abe does his best to explain why he refuses to get a vasectomy. Get More Leah EXPLORE LEAH'S COMMUNITY, SNATCH FOR HER Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Love, Work & MDMA: Omani & Jeanie Carson on 43 Years, Separation, and Healing | 11 Aug 2025 | 00:46:45 | |
Abe and Erin sit down with Omani & Jeanie Carson—partners for 43 years—to unpack what actually sustains a long relationship: losing and re-finding yourself, taking space (they separated for three years), and then doing the hard work to come back stronger. We go inside their five-hour, therapist-guided MDMA-assisted session—how prep, boundaries, and integration dropped defenses and reignited intimacy—and why they now help other couples pursue similar, medically supervised healing at Carson Healing Ranch and the Heartland Gathering. We also hit practicals: why moms can’t “disappear” into motherhood, men’s mental health and vulnerability, and a simple practice they swear by—the “Perfect Year” exercise. Candid, useful, and very human. (Psychedelic therapy is discussed; this episode isn’t medical advice.) Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Love Story: JFK + CBK Has Us Feeling Nostalgic AF | 23 Mar 2026 | 00:41:30 | |
We get into Love Story, the JFK Jr. casting (including the lisp debate), and why the whole thing feels like peak ’90s New York. From there, it turns into a bigger convo about dating before phones, why relationships feel harder now, and the myth of the forever honeymoon phase. We also talk about how social media has completely warped expectations — and why reality TV might actually be the most honest thing left. Get More Erin + Abe ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Opening Our Core Wounds with Marriage Therapist Vienna Pharon | 23 Feb 2026 | 01:10:14 | |
This week we sit down with Vienna Pharon – couples therapist, boundary queen, and someone who will lovingly call you out (spoiler: she definitely did for us). We talk about how the stories we tell ourselves about childhood (“it didn’t affect me”) usually… did, and how those early dynamics show up in our marriages, our nervous systems, and the way we fight. Vienna breaks down her five “origin wounds” — worthiness, belonging, prioritization, trust, and safety — and why conflict isn’t the problem, it’s what happens after that matters. We get into real-life examples from our own relationship (including an early Ultra Music Festival spiral), how to regulate instead of react, and why modeling repair is one of the greatest gifts you can give your kids. Get More Vienna Get More Erin + Abe ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Biohacking is the New Anti-Aging with Dr. Amanda Kahn | 01 Dec 2025 | 00:49:38 | |
This week, Abe's chatting with Dr. Amanda Kahn — the longevity queen who basically makes aging feel… optional. We get into why longevity is the new luxury, what’s actually happening at the cellular level, and how things like NAD, peptides, and hormones can make a real difference. We also talk stress, pollution, diet, and why waiting until something’s wrong to deal with your health is the worst strategy. Dr. Kahn breaks everything down in a way that actually makes sense, and we get real about what it looks like to stay healthy, energized, and feeling good as we get older. It’s smart, it’s approachable, and honestly — it’ll make you want to book a blood panel. Get More Erin + Abe ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| 73 Questions with Erin + Abe Lichy | 24 Nov 2025 | 00:38:01 | |
This week, we’re talking about the glow-up that comes after your twenties—the new wave of people in their 30s, 40s, and 50s getting into the best shape of their lives. We dig into how the conversation around health and fitness has evolved, and of course, debate the age-old question: is it really about diet, or is it all in the workout? Later, we switch gears with a Vogue-style rapid-fire round where we spill everything from our biggest weaknesses to our best life advice. We wrap with some thoughts on ambition, reinvention, and how even in a world run by AI, there’s still no substitute for hustle and heart. Get More Erin + Abe ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Vogue Says Boyfriends Are Out, Abe Says AI Girlfriends Are... In? | 17 Nov 2025 | 00:42:53 | |
This week, we’re talking about the new rules of love — because apparently, having a boyfriend is now uncool. Inspired by a recent Vogue piece, we get into how younger generations are redefining relationships, independence, and what “commitment” even means anymore. We also touch on the weird rise of AI romance (yes, people are actually dating chatbots) and what that says about connection in the digital age. It’s a real look at how social media, tech, and “self-empowerment” culture have changed the way we love, date, and relate — and whether that’s actually progress or just another trend we’ll outgrow. Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Scents and Sensibility: Building Brands From The Ground Up with Preston Konrad | 10 Nov 2025 | 00:46:07 | |
This week, Abe reunites with his best friend, Preston Konrad, for a catch-up that’s part Miami flashback, part business masterclass. They swap stories from Art Basel, debate city life versus vacation-home dreams, and dig into Preston’s latest ventures—his luxury home-fragrance line and the new Preston Lane Home Collection. They talk about finding the right business partner, learning when to let smarter people lead, and what it really takes to build something from scratch. It’s equal parts personal, practical, and a little bougie — just the way we like it. Get More Erin + Abe ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| The Cancel Culture Comeback Kid with Charlie Walk | 03 Nov 2025 | 00:36:55 | |
This week, Abe sits down with Charlie Walk – music exec, brand builder, and comeback king. He started as a college intern at Sony and went on to run Republic, Columbia, and Epic, working with everyone from Mariah Carey to The Weeknd. After decades at the top of the music game (and a few major life curveballs), he’s now focused on brand investment and cultural A&R with projects like Charlie’s Angels and Angel House. We talk about resilience, cancel culture, and raising kids who actually follow their passions. Oh, and he still somehow finds time to look like he hasn’t aged since the early 2000s — so there’s that. Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Abe's Psychedelic Transformation + Harnessing Trickster Energy | 27 Oct 2025 | 00:46:39 | |
We’re finally back in the studio and yeah, we’re talking psychedelics now. Abe went on a guided retreat led by Omani and Jeannie from Omya, and let’s just say things got… enlightening. There were breakthroughs, a few tears, maybe some messages from the other side— get ready. We get into Abe's “trickster energy,” facing your own chaos, and why sometimes the universe has to knock you upside the head to wake you up. Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Beyond the Honeymoon Phase: Keeping the Spark Alive as Business Partners | 22 Sep 2025 | 00:43:14 | |
In this episode, Erin and Abe get real about what it’s like to mix marriage and business without losing your mind — or each other. They spill on establishing roles, communicating like adults, and building systems so no one ends up stepping on toes (or egos). From pausing before big decisions to celebrating the wins — both tiny and huge — they show how a business partnership can boost your relationship instead of draining it. Plus, they share tips for keeping your personal life intact, staying sane, and even sneaking in a little meditation while hustling together. Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| The 4 Questions You Need To Answer To Take Your Business From Zero to Abracadabra | 15 Sep 2025 | 00:30:27 | |
Thinking about starting a business but don’t know where to start? Erin and Abe break it down – sharing the messy, the magical, and the downright unexpected parts of launching anything from handbags to Mezcal. They spill on spotting opportunities, leaning into your passions, and finding partners who actually get you. Plus, real talk on using the networks you have, knowing yourself, and surviving the chaos of entrepreneurship. No fluff, just stories, laughs, and actionable tips to get your idea off the ground. Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| The 'More Life' Mentality with Danielle Robay | 08 Sep 2025 | 00:59:51 | |
Erin sits down with Danielle Robay for a conversation that’s equal parts heart-to-heart and real talk. They cover everything from the messy (and magical) parts of motherhood, to relationship ups and downs, to the little rituals that keep happiness alive. They reflect on life’s big moments - loss, love, career, and friendship - while sharing how asking the right questions can change everything. Get More Danielle Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| The Recipe for Partnership with Ben + Zikki Siman Tov | 18 Aug 2025 | 00:45:59 | |
Ben and Zikki are a culinary power couple you need to know. In this episode, we dive into their upcoming cookbook and how they make the kitchen – and life – work as a team. From meeting in the Italian Alps to surviving long-distance during COVID, they’ve built a business and a life together that’s equal parts love and hustle. We talk teamwork, shared goals, the highs and lows of parenthood, and the small rituals that keep them grounded. Bonus: some real talk about self-care and finding balance when work and home collide. Get More Ben + Zikki ORDER BEN + ZIKKI'S BOOK 'Eat Small Plates' HERE! Get More Erin + Abe PRE-ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Chivalry Isn’t Dead (It’s on a Yacht) with Captain Jason Chambers | 16 Feb 2026 | 00:53:39 | |
This week we sit down with Captain Jason — yes, that Captain Jason — and talk about what life actually looks like off the yacht. From filming six weeks straight on Below Deck (with basically no sleep) to building a villa in Bali, launching a gender-neutral fragrance, and structuring his entire career around being present for his daughter, there’s a lot more depth than the slow-mo beach shots suggest. We get into production realities, environmental work in Indonesia, dating while nomadic (and not getting into Raya), and why he skipped drinking at BravoCon. It’s equal parts charming, grounded, and unexpectedly thoughtful — with a little chivalry discourse for good measure. Get More Erin + Abe ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| How to Make Forever Last | 09 Feb 2026 | 00:44:25 | |
Season two, baby. In this episode, we kick off the new season by looking back at what we learned from season one — and then get into what everyone actually wants to talk about: how to make a relationship last. We break down “the spark,” why it’s overrated if you don’t build something underneath it, how to fight without blowing everything up, and what spontaneity really looks like once you have kids, careers, and responsibilities. We talk celebrity longevity, friends dating in their thirties, and the different phases of marriage — from early heat to that third chapter where the kids are older and you actually get to like each other again. It’s honest, a little blunt, and very much about playing the long game. Get More Erin + Abe ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Put The Phone Down (We’re Begging) | 02 Feb 2026 | 00:25:54 | |
This week, we cover a very glamorous mix of topics: Erin's back injury, why Dry January is a scam (sorry), and the rise of Analog January—aka putting your phone down and remembering how to be a person. We talk about the chokehold screens have on adults and kids, what parenting looks like in a world of Roblox and endless content, and why boredom might actually be a good thing. Get More Erin + Abe ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| A Jewish Mother’s Nightmare with Max Cohen (@murrayhillboy) | 26 Jan 2026 | 00:51:53 | |
This week, Abe sits down with Max Cohen, better known as Murray Hill Boy. Max talks about walking away from a legal career at 25, accidentally finding success on TikTok, and why growing up Jewish in New York gave him endless material. They get into what it’s actually like to build a following online, the not-so-fun parts of visibility, and being a gay guy in mostly straight friend circles without turning it into a “thing.” It’s funny, self-aware, and refreshingly honest about the work behind a career that looks effortless from the outside. Get More Erin + Abe ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Running on Snacks, Startups, and Kid Math with Cadootz! Founders Rachel Mansfield and Jordan Carpenter | 20 Jan 2026 | 00:48:23 | |
This week, we sit down with Rachel and Jordan — entrepreneur parents, investors, and the brains behind of your kids’ favorite snacks – cadootz!. We talk about what it’s really like to build multiple businesses while raising a family, feeding kids real food, and working together without losing your minds (or your marriage). They share how their insistence on real ingredients shaped their brands, what’s coming next in their product line, and how they handle conflict, communication, and carving out actual quality time. Get More Erin + Abe ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Owning Manhattan (and Surviving It) with Jade Shenker | 22 Dec 2025 | 00:47:40 | |
This week, Abe sits down with Jade Shanker from Netflix’s Owning Manhattan for a real, behind-the-scenes conversation. Jade opens up about breaking into NYC real estate, what it was really like being cast on the show, and the competitive dynamics inside the office once the cameras were rolling. She also gets personal about navigating a separation in the public eye, handling scrutiny, and finding her footing while everything was playing out on screen. The conversation touches on ambition, spirituality, and what’s next for Jade as she builds beyond reality TV — because in New York, nothing ever slows down for long. Get More Erin + Abe ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Erin Answers Your Burning Questions (RHONY, Having Different Politics Than Your Partner, and Handling Fame) | 15 Dec 2025 | 00:29:07 | |
This week, Erin's answering all your questions — nothing off limits. She gets into her favorite furniture and home décor sources (and why she's constantly designing my own pieces), baby essentials she actually uses, and the renovation chaos currently happening in the Lichy house. I also cover BravoCon, Australia plans, beauty routines, pregnancy cravings, and what it’s really like having cameras in your home. From interiors and fashion to family, friendships, and real-life logistics, it’s a full catch-up. Get More Erin + Abe ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| The Real Househusbands of Agave City with John Barlow | 08 Dec 2025 | 00:54:55 | |
This week, Abe teams up with fellow Househusband John Barlow to shake things up behind the bar. Between laughs, they talk reality TV fame, business hustle, and what really goes down when cameras stop rolling. The convo naturally drifts into the spirits world — from agave aging to distribution headaches — before wrapping with some solid advice on staying grounded, supportive, and (mostly) sober through the chaos of reality TV. Get More Erin + Abe ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| There's Nothing Hotter Than a Dad Who Takes the Toddler w/ Lindsey Metselaar | 13 Apr 2026 | 01:04:32 | |
Lindsey Metselaar has been in our lives since before she had a following, a husband, or a sleep schedule. Now she has all three, plus a 2.5-month-old. We reminisce about our extremely unproductive work era together, and then somehow spend the next hour covering postpartum bodies, C-sections, cosmetic work, the filler rabbit hole, sobriety, and why today's weed is genuinely not the same conversation it was fifteen years ago. Abe makes his case against the filler rabbit hole. Lindsay makes her case for a "beauty broker." We cover the NICU, postpartum resentment, and why watching your husband handle a toddler and a newborn at the same time is, apparently, very attractive. Get More Erin + Abe ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||
| Are We In A Sex Recession? | 30 Mar 2026 | 00:25:20 | |
We’re officially making sex a recurring topic because clearly, no one’s saying what’s actually happening. We get into the so-called “sex recession,” why Gen Z might be having less sex than anyone expected, and how phones, gaming, and living at home are quietly changing the whole dynamic. Then it turns into a very real debate about one-night stands, sleepover etiquette (or lack thereof), and what actually flies vs. what absolutely does not. And then we get honest about marriage. Kids, routines, exhaustion — all of it — and how that actually impacts your sex life. We talk about the whole “twice a week” narrative, why it feels a little fake, and what matters more than just checking a box. Get More Erin + Abe ORDER ERIN'S NEW BOOK 'She's A Host' HERE! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. | |||