Explore every episode of the podcast Come Over to My House
| Title | Pub. Date | Duration | |
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| Victim Blaming | 15 Sep 2024 | 00:22:02 | |
Need I say more? I mentioned someone I know who works in actual anti-trafficking efforts, and I want to include the link to her website that contains resources, among many other things. If you're able to support her in any way, please do so! That includes helping to push her content on social media! The WhispHering Queen on TikTok The Baby WhispHerer Website with Resources Baby WhispHerer Ca$hApp Handle: WhispHerifyouhearme4 (Please note the placement of the letter "H" in the Ca$hApp handle!) And as usual, below is my LinkTree! Follow me on social media, subscribe to my Patreon, hear my guest spots on other podcasts, and much more! #victimblaming #decolonize #decolonization #antiestablishment #capitalism #poverty #traumahealing #lgbtqia #interpersonaltrauma #childhoodtrauma #systemicoppression #homelessness #homeless #mormons #exmo #exvangelical #religioustrauma | |||
| Hope is the Thing with Feathers | 30 Aug 2024 | 00:43:35 | |
Hope is quite literally the only thing keeping many people afloat in a society built upon the idea that people have the right to own others and to own the resources of the earth. But hope is fleeting right now, and I can feel it across the country. Emily Dickinson said, "Hope is the Thing with feathers," but today that feathered creature feels more like a vulture and less like a song bird. Let's dive into the darkness for this episode. Let's bring our light; I hope you know it's reach. To follow me on socials, or to hear more about my story, here's all you'll need (click the link below). #homeless #homelessness #systemicoppression #deconstruction #lgbtqia #queer #hope #hopeless #whitewomen #societalconditioning #society #capitalism #eattherich #society #revolution | |||
| Communal Narcissism in the Mormon Church and other Western Spirituality | 04 Aug 2024 | 00:31:52 | |
To check out the book I'm writing about my personal, true-crime type life and journey that got me here, follow my Patreon (link in LinkTree)! Chapter one will be available in its entirety by the end of day on 8/21/24! Here I connect the experiences I've had in the Mormon-influenced homeless shelter to consumerism and intentional perpetuation of complex trauma using spirituality. I also discuss the power of spirituality and in finding the sense of self. #traumahealing #spirituality #eXvangelical #mormons #homleless #homelesshelter #lgbtqia #crystals #earthmagic #witchcraft #spirituality #capitalism #consumerism | |||
| The Silencing of an Appalachian Trafficking Survivor in Mormon-Run Homeless Shelter | 02 Aug 2024 | 00:21:28 | |
To check out the book I'm writing about my personal, true-crime type life and journey that got me here, follow my Patreon (link in LinkTree)! Chapter one will be available in its entirety by the end of day on 8/21/24! I am the 41 year old survivor of child sex trafficking through pthe Pentecostal church in rural WV, and I am currently in a homeless shelter in Utah that has heavy ties to the Mormon Church. Yesterday I filed two grievances with HR regarding racist and non trauma-informed behavior by a staff against a Black woman AND the executive director's failure to effectively address the issue. Today, I was told that there's "concern" that I'm not progressing, a typical retaliatory abuse tactic by narcissists, but on a larger and more systemic level. I'm facing the potential of having my shelter here terminated and no other options given. I am a queer woman who practices witchcraft, looking at being on the streets here in Mormon Country Utah. I need your help. Below is my linktree. Any help you can provide, whether that's resources or making sure this podcast gets into the right hands, will be greatly appreciated. I've survived too much in my life to be silenced by a church and bullied into backing down from speaking out against injustice and danger towards a vulnerable community. And I have a lot to give back, beyond just using my voice and my story. As of August 5, I also will no longer have a phone plan. #traffickingsurvivor #utah #homeless #homelessness #homelessshelter #mormons #exvangelical #exmormons #legaladvice #lawyers #queer #lgbtqia #racism #systemicoppression #humanrights #traumahealing #healing #healingjourney #probonoattorney #attorney #humanrightsattorney #helpneeded #mormonchurch #domesticviolence #domesticviolencesurvivor #breakthesilence #truecrime #murder #attemptedmurder | |||
| EXCLUSIVE: Survivor's Journey & Chaos Magick | 25 Jul 2024 | 00:15:37 | |
To check out the book I'm writing about my personal, true-crime type life and journey that got me here, follow my Patreon (link in LinkTree)! Chapter one will be available in its entirety by the end of day on 8/21/24! Today is a special day for me, as it marks 2 years since I escaped domestic violence that nearly ended my life, as my ex wife was slowly poisoning me for a large sum of money that belonged to my sister, just like my dad had done to my mom exactly 30 years earlier. Except I didn't know this when I escaped. But something told me to stop at my car that day two years ago, and take a picture of myself. Months later I would see the date and time on the picture and understand a new significance to my escape. July 25, 2022 at 11:00 am. My mother had died on July 25, 1992 at 11:15 am after my dad and his cousin poisoned her for the last time, almost exactly 30 years earlier. I promised a bonus episode today that involved talking about my journey through homelessness over the past two years, but I realized that the trauma and the hardships themselves are no longer the highlight of my story. Instead, my story is about the ways in which I've found ways to make magic out of those significant portions of my life--just like my Appalachian momma taught me to do decades earlier. Enjoy this episode of hope, joy, and resilience, brought to you by my inner child. The same inner child who sweetly tugged at my sleeves today and reminded me that the adult version of me was trying to celebrate a loss that she never got to mourn. As always, check out my LinkTree to follow me on socials, to hear more about my story via guest spots I've done on other podcasts, and more!!! Thank you for coming over to my house once again! #deconstruction #chaosmagick #survivor #cptsd #joy #hope #innerchild #appalachian #wv #comeovertomyhouse #survivor #csasurvivor #domesticviolence #domesticviolencesurvivor #traffickingsurvivor #lgbtqia #queer #innerchildhealing #truecrime #childhoodtrauma #traumahealing #celebration #freeyourself #decolonize #decolonizeyourmind | |||
| Trending Authenticity and our "Healing Culture" | 21 Jul 2024 | 00:38:16 | |
To check out the book I'm writing about my personal, true-crime type life and journey that got me here, follow my Patreon (link in LinkTree)! Chapter one will be available in its entirety by the end of day on 8/21/24! Our western society tells us to heal our trauma, while also not giving us the tools or guidance to actually do so. And many of the schools of thought about healing still make us beholden to a person or entity that attempts to tell us how to heal and how to be authentic. Unfortunately, the people who suffer the most ongoing trauma don't often have any resources (or at least the ones society says we need) to address said trauma. And so the cycles continue. I've been homeless for two years in a few days, and I've both had the privilege and been forced to make hard decisions in favor of my mental health, but it has changed who I am inside. Let's deconstruct some of the issues with our "healing culture," and let's find out ways to disrupt this way of thinking. Check out my LinkTree for my socials, guest spots on other podcasts, and much more! Cassandra's LinkTree #deconstruction #homeless #homelessness #lgbtqia #queer #traumahealing #healingjourney #childhoodtrauma #dissociation #cptsd #cptsdrecovery #domesticviolence #domesticviolencesurvivor #survivor #psychopathicabusesurvivor #munchausenbyproxy #medicalptsd #truecrime #abuserecovery #actionableresources #appalachianrising #somaticexercises | |||
| The Systemic Weaponization of Food and Nutrition | 14 Jul 2024 | 00:30:38 | |
To check out the book I'm writing about my personal, true-crime type life and journey that got me here, follow my Patreon (link in LinkTree)! Chapter one will be available in its entirety by the end of day on 8/21/24! Capitalism, the patriarchy, white supremacy and other hierarchical structures have effectively not only made sure food is NOT a human right, but they have also ensured that food and nutrition are weaponzied against certain demographics. Because of some bizarre domestic violence I experienced that included being poisoned, I found myself in an oncologist's office being tested for some nutritional deficiencies that rarely get discussed, but are directly related to living in poverty. And I also discuss the ways in which weight/poverty issues are used to blame individuals for their health conditions, and the challenges that those same health conditions create when trying to access things like food banks. LinkTree for Etsy Shop, other podcast sets, and more! #poverty #foodbanks #fooddesert #foodcrisis #foodisahumanright #lgtbqia #domesticviolence #homeless #homelessness #shelfstablefood #nutrition #herbs #herbalmedicine #scurvy #beriberi #thiamine #vitaminC #chronicillness #rural #foodpantry #communityresources #communityfood #humanrights #mentalhealth #pyschopathy #munchausenbyproxy | |||
| White Women: A Call for Accountability | 07 Jul 2024 | 00:41:29 | |
To check out the book I'm writing about my personal, true-crime type life and journey that got me here, follow my Patreon (link in LinkTree)! Chapter one will be available in its entirety by the end of day on 8/21/24! I am a white woman from a very racist area of the United States, and over the past two years (and thinking back retrospectively to my life before that), I've seen why white women are not only problematic, but dangerous. Join me as I make a call to action for white women to take accountability for the parts that we actively play in not only perpetuating abuse systemically, but in also perpetuating abuse against ourselves and other women. Link to "They Were Her Property" PATREON to purchase prints from accompanying photo series and more! (Under construction, but up and running!) #eattherich #deconstruction #homeless #homelessness #storytelling #women #whitewomen #whitesupremacy #patriarchy #capitalism #latestagecapitalism #queer #lgbtqia #traumahealing #healing #systemicoppression #decolonizeyourmind #decolonization | |||
| The Supreme Court & the Monopoly on Homelessness | 01 Jul 2024 | 00:33:37 | |
To check out the book I'm writing about my personal, true-crime type life and journey that got me here, follow my Patreon (link in LinkTree)! Chapter one will be available in its entirety by the end of day on 8/21/24! To understand why oppressive systems don't want to end homelessness, it's important to deconstruct from how they benefit from it. In this episode, I begin the deconstruction process in light of the fact that the Supreme Court has made being homeless illegal and punishable by prison. #homeless #supremecourt #homelessness #deconstruction #utah #queer #lgbtqia #capitalism #whitesupremacy #patriarchy #trauma #traumahealing #systemicoppression #racism #organizedreligion #healing #covert #narcissism #psychopathy #sociopathy #industrializedprisoncomplex #charities #nonprofits #poverty #antiestablishment #humanrights #activism #dvsurvivor #csasurvivor #sasurvivor | |||
| "Home" is Where the Monsters Are | 24 Jun 2024 | 00:27:17 | |
To check out the book I'm writing about my personal, true-crime type life and journey that got me here, follow my Patreon (link in LinkTree)! Chapter one will be available in its entirety by the end of day on 8/21/24! We often run from the monsters of our pasts that created us via childhood trauma, but until we look them in the eyes and tell them NO MORE, they'll continue to chase us. This episode looks at this sentiment on both an interpersonal and societal level. Check out my LinkTree to follow me on social media and to support my endeavors in other capacities! | |||
| What Are You Watering? | 23 Jun 2024 | 00:28:48 | |
To check out the book I'm writing about my personal, true-crime type life and journey that got me here, follow my Patreon (link in LinkTree)! Chapter one will be available in its entirety by the end of day on 8/21/24! This episode connects one of the most bizarre things I've ever witnessed to the question of: What are we watering? Are we allowing systemic, abusive, colonizer suppression to tell us how to define our sense of self? Are we allowing unhealthy relationships with harmful people to influence our sense of self? Let's discuss! Check my LinkTree for ways to connect on social media, or to hear more about my story through spots I've done on other podcasts in the past! Next Week: "White Women: A Call to Accountability" PATREON link to purchase prints from accompanying photo series and more! (Still under construction, but up and running!) #eattherich #deconstruction #photography #beauty #chaosmagick #latestagecapitalism #creativity #homeless #homelessness #queer #traumahealing #healing #antiestablishment #art #sacralchakra #blackandwhitephotography #lgbtqia | |||
| I've Got No Roots | 16 Jun 2024 | 00:21:59 | |
To check out the book I'm writing about my personal, true-crime type life and journey that got me here, follow my Patreon (link in LinkTree)! Chapter one will be available in its entirety by the end of day on 8/21/24! In the first episode of this podcast, I tell you a little about who I am and what "home" means to me as a homeless person and survivor of severe complex trauma who has been deconstructing systemic oppression over the past 2 years. Join me each week as I tell stories about the past two years of my life, and the ways in which I've been navigating homelessness across the USA while finding beauty within chaos. To hear the story about a brutal childhood assault that I mention (but I do NOT tell in this podcast), please see the link below to my LinkTree. Also included, you'll see links to donate to my GoFundMe and other resources. Click hyperlink below! Links to SASS Podcast and more! #cptsd #traffickingsurvivor #csasurvivor #traumahealing #joy #art #lightanddark #photography #domesticviolencesurvior #survivor #healing #witch #chaosmagick #innerchildhealing #queer #poverty #deconstruction #eXvangelical #capitalism #patriarchy #whitesupremacy #generationaltrauma #traumahealing #healing #magic #joy | |||
| TRAILER | 09 Jun 2024 | 00:00:59 | |
"Come Over to My House" was my favorite childhood book that looked at the structural homes of kids across various cultures. Those lessons stuck. I've been navigating homelessness in the USA for 2 years, and finding the beauty within moments of chaos. But I clearly understand that we shouldn't have to find moments of joy within our suffering. Join me as I deconstruct the systems that prevent complex trauma survivors from rising beyond their circumstances. And I'll do it via Appalachian storytelling medicine, or narrative therapy. Check out my Patreon for my accompanying photo series! Follow my LinkTree for social media links and ways to purchase prints and merchandise based on my photo series of the same name, "Come Over to My House." To check out the book I'm writing about my personal, true-crime type life and journey that got me here, follow my Patreon (link in LinkTree)! Chapter one will be available in its entirety by the end of day on 8/21/24! #comeovertomyhouse #homeless #photography #visualart #queer #storytelling #storytellingmedicine #eattherich #deconstruction #csasurvivor #traffickingsurvivor #eXvangelical #healing #traumahealing #innerchild | |||