Have you ever wondered what it really takes to rebuild your confidence after a major heartbreak?  In Episode 430 of The Charisma Quotient, "Reclaiming Confidence, Flirting, and Visibility After Heartbreak with The Golden Bachelor's Cindy Cullers" Kimmy welcomes Golden Bachelor finalist, Cindy Culler, for an open and deeply personal conversation about dating confidence in the second act and the power of showing up. 

 

In this episode, Kimmy shares her signature "red dress moment"—the small outward change that catalyzed massive inward growth—and how taking action outside her comfort zone helped her step into confidence after her divorce. Cindy reveals how Kimmy's advice played a vital role in her own post-divorce journey, inspiring her to shed the "mom mode," say yes to new experiences, and ultimately land on national television.

 

You'll hear Cindy recount the real transformation that happened when she decided to show up boldly—both in life and love—including behind-the-scenes stories from the Golden Bachelor and how she used Kimmy's advice and became a "flirting coach" for her castmates.

 

You'll hear:

• Cindy's candid account of moving from the shadows to center stage, and how she reclaimed her sense of self after divorce.

• Why wearing red—and stepping into visibility—can be a game changer, with research-backed reasons men are drawn to this bold color.

• How to rebuild confidence from the outside in, not just by thinking, but by taking action.

• Playful and approachable flirting tips that work (straight from Cindy's Golden Bachelor adventures!)

• The importance of not settling—setting boundaries, getting clear on what you want, and refusing to play small in love or life.

 

If you're ready to reclaim your sexy confidence, join Kimmy's co-ed Flirting Made Easy Workshop. Register here www.stophatingdating.com and grab your spot. 

 

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com

 

What if sexual confidence isn't about effort or technique, but something deeper happening in your body and mind?  In Episode 429 of The Charisma Quotient, "Understanding Men's Sexual Confidence: Interview with Dr. Anne Truong" Kimmy dives into the hidden side of masculine confidence, exploring how pressure, stress, and nervous system responses can shut men down and how it affects women when dating—with special guest Dr. Anne Truong.

 

Together, they explore why so many men feel immense pressure to perform in dating and in the bedroom, and how these expectations can rob them of authentic confidence. She shares a powerful case study of a client struggling with sexual dysfunction, revealing how shame and self-doubt can create a self-fulfilling prophecy—keeping men stuck in the friend zone and away from healthy romantic chemistry. Dr. Anne brings her expertise as a board-certified physician in anti-aging and regenerative medicine, sharing both her professional insights and raw personal experience as a partner supporting her husband through erectile dysfunction caused by medication. The episode reveals the root causes of ED and why the answers lie beyond just popping a little blue pill.

 

You'll hear:

• Why pressure to perform shuts down men's confidence—and what actually builds it.

• The surprising role of the nervous system in sexual connection for both men and women.

• Real-life stories about overcoming sexual dysfunction and the path to restored confidence.

• How open communication can break destructive cycles of shame and misunderstanding in relationships.

• The four holistic pillars of sexual health—diet, exercise, sleep, and stress—and practical tips for improvement.

If you're ready to unlock your sexual confidence, join Kimmy's co-ed Flirting Made Easy Workshop. Register here www.stophatingdating.com and grab your spot. 

 

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com

Have you ever found yourself wondering if your spark has faded? Do you think it's possible to feel sexy, confident, and truly alive—no matter your age, your relationship status, or the life curveballs thrown your way? What does "age gracefully" really mean beyond creams, serums, and green juices? In Episode 420 of The Charisma Quotient, "Rediscovering Your Spark: Renee Halverson's Golden Bachelor Journey" Kimmy and her co-host Allison join pop culture guru and podcast host of So Bad It's Good, to peel back the layers of pop culture, personal stories, and hard-hitting dating advice.

 

In this episode, Kimmy is joined by Renee Halverson, a standout contestant from the first season of ABC's Golden Bachelor and former NFL Chicago Honey Bears cheer captain. Together, they dive into the real meaning of sexy confidence and aging vibrantly. Renee shares her whirlwind experience on the Golden Bachelor and how, even when stepping out of comfort zones, she learned the importance of self-focus, sisterhood, and maintaining her sparkle. Kimmy and Renee unpack not just the glamorous moments, but also the doubts, personal reinvention, and challenges faced when dating later in life—especially after years spent caretaking and putting others first.

 You'll hear:

• What "sexy confidence" and aging vibrantly mean—beyond physical appearance and beauty routines

• Renee's personal story: transitioning from caretaker to Golden Bachelor contestant

• The behind-the-scenes reality of casting, preparation, and life on the Golden Bachelor

• Honest revelations about comparing oneself to others and dealing with self-doubt

• The importance of female friendship, sisterhood, and support systems in later-life dating

 

If you're ready to rediscover your spark, book a free call with Kimmy here: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/

 

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com

Episode 330 of Charisma Quotient- Marketing Yourself for Love: Interview with Laura Belgray
Are you putting yourself out there as the best version of you?  Dating is a lot like marketing. You're kind of selling a product (yourself – but not in a literal way), and your potential suitors are the buyers.  In this episode, Kimmy gets into how to market and promote yourself for love with award-winning copywriter and author of national bestseller, 'Tough Titties: On Living Your Best Life When You're the F-ing Worst,' Laura Belgray. Marketing is not just for businesses with Instagram ads and catchy commercials. What if you could market you better so that you have more opportunities to find love? 
Episode 330 of Charisma Quotient- Marketing Yourself for Love: Interview with Laura Belgray is all about how to sell yourself to attract the suitors you want out in the real world. Kimmy and Laura explore the balance of self-promotion in business and in love, how to find your authentic voice, and how to attract the right kind of attention you crave.  These two dive into topics around the practice of boosting self-promotion and building confidence and connect with potential customers and daters.  Listen in to hear ways to let go of personal doubts and fear of annoying others when self-promoting.
If you're ready to elevate your marketing and self-promotion game to meet people in the real world, Kimmy has just the workshop for you on January 23 called How To Meet People IRL (in real life).  It's a perfect way to kick off the new year and motivate you to make some changes in your love life.  This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty. But hurry and register here www.stophatingdating.com to save your spot!
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Episode 329 of Charisma Quotient- 3 Months to Change Your Life: Where are They Now With Megan   In this episode, Kimmy catches up with podcast-listener-turned-client, Megan! Are you a long-time Charisma Quotient listener? Are you on the fence about booking a call with Kimmy? Let this be your sign to go for it! Episode 329 of Charisma Quotient- Change Your Life In 3 Months: Where are They Now With Megan is all about what can happen when you take that first step.    Hear about Megan's transformative dating journey from high-functioning, anxious overthinker, to a confident, authentic catch. Megan has always been invested in her personal growth, but it wasn't until coaching with Kimmy that she felt a real, targeted breakthrough.  Listen in to hear    how to work less at dating and totally enjoy the process, what it looks like to build trust in yourself and how to zoom out and think objectively about your dating process.  Megan reveals in this episode that working with Kimmy not only elevated her love life but improved her quality of life overall.    If you're ready to date BETTER in 2024, hop on a call with Kimmy personally to talk about ways to improve upon your dating journey. Book that here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣   And if you want help overcoming challenges of meeting the right people in the world and breaking your patterns, Kimmy has just the workshop for you on January 23 called How To Meet People IRL (in real life).  It's a perfect way to kick off the new year and motivate you to make some changes in your love life.  This is a co-ed interactive workshop to give you the best tips for confidently navigating the social scene without anxiety and uncertainty.  But hurry and register here www.stophatingdating.com to save your spot!   Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Who's in your tribe? Dating is not a solo sport…It takes a village! Ready to cultivate healthy relationships by creating a strong community? Join Kimmy and special guest Florence Ann Romano as they delve into the importance of building your village and how cultivating a supportive community boosts your love life.   Episode 328 of Charisma Quotient-Building A Dating Dream Team: Interview with Florence Ann Romano.     In this episode, Kimmy chats with Florence Ann Romano, a personal growth strategist and author of "Build Your Village." As Florence shares her journey from childcare provider to community-focused advocate, you'll hear about the importance of building a supportive tribe, and the power of positive energy. You'll hear stories of reshuffling friendships, creating intentional social plans, and finding supportive networks during challenging times. Kimmy and Florence also touch on finding passion and purpose, the significance of authentic conversation, and the value of philanthropy in building connections.   If you're feeling isolated and have a strong desire to build your tribe to gain support in your love life, then sign up for Kimmy's next upcoming Co-Ed interactive virtual workshop called Meeting People IRL: Tuesday, January 23rd www.stophatingdating.com. Join Kimmy personally with a group of singles who can become your tribe instantly!   But hurry spots are limited!   Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

 

Do you struggle with anxiety and fear? Have the events from your past led to an anxious attachment style and affect your dating experiences? In this Coaching With Kimmy episode, Kimmy dives deep into the journey of self-healing as she coaches her guest live on air.   Louis is a combat veteran who served two tours in Afghanistan, has a history of ADHD and PTSD.  This conversation highlights the intersection of mental health and relationships.    Episode 327 of Charisma Quotient:  Dating With Anxious Attachment Style:  Coaching with Kimmy.   Kimmy starts the episode by giving practical tips to help you navigate dating with an anxious attachment style.  Kimmy and Louis then explore the impact of childhood experiences on adult anxieties and how he can start to navigate dating.  During this episode, you'll hear Louis share his struggles with online dating and Kimmy's helpful reframe on how to use online dating as a "practice portal," rather than a place for finding a soulmate.  Catch the surprising moment from the episode when Kimmy talks through Louis's vision of himself as "Louis 2.0:" a more emotionally resilient and relaxed version of himself, someone who's willing to face relationship challenges with confidence.  You'll also hear ways to incorporate mindfulness, breathing exercises, and meditation into daily routines to help manage symptoms of anxiety and create a healthy life balance.   If you're ready to get out there and date, sign up for Kimmy's next upcoming Co-Ed interactive workshop called Meeting People IRL: Tuesday, January 23rd  at www.stophatingdating.com.   But hurry spots are limited!   Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you have a 'Type? Are you trying to find your perfect match and feel exhausted after not finding it?  More importantly, is your type working for you?  This week Kimmy interviews Polina Solda, founder of Love By Design who has an expertise in a personality-typing system called Eniostyle.

In Episode 326 of Charisma Quotient, Dating Beyond Your 'Type': Interview with Polina Solda, Kimmy and Polina explore ways to find the right type of partner for you.

Listen in to hear the two of them discuss the concept of shape-shifting, understanding compatibility based on personality types, and the sheer simplicity of finding the right match once you really get your own type. They even share some juicy stories, like Polina's story on how she met her "nice" husband!  You'll hear about why knowing the "south man" vs the "east man" is important and how their personality traits impact compatibility with women.  Listen to some key tips around how to avoid the "checklist approach" and focus on core values and compatibility.

If you are attracting the same person in a different costume and want to break the pattern, hop on a call with Kimmy personally to talk about ways to crack the code on the type that is NOT working for you.  Book that here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣   Tune in to Dating Beyond Your 'Type': Interview with Polina Solda on The Charisma Quotient podcast, available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and all major podcast platforms.  ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Ditch The Friendzone And Move Into The Flirtzone   Are you constantly getting friend-zoned?   Do you feel like your dates are boring?   This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy Seltzer unlocks the secrets to escaping the "friendzone" and moving into the "flirtzone", and becoming a person who's genuinely excited by not only dating, but life itself.   In Episode 325 of The Charisma Quotient, Ditch The Friendzone And Move Into The Flirtzone, Kimmy gets into what makes someone feel attracted and connected to you on a date.  Kimmy covers how to master the art of making people feel excited when they're around you, and how working on the delivery of your conversations and breaking routines in your everyday life can carry over into a more adventurous dating life.   Kimmy even gives real-life examples of folks who have conquered the friend zone by getting out of their heads, and into their feelings. Tune in to learn how to ditch the friendzone, and start living life in the flirtzone.     If you are getting burned out with dating, not flirting and feeling a lack of chemistry on your dates, then sign up for Kimmy's next upcoming Co-Ed interactive workshop called Flirting Made Easy: Unleashing Your Natural Charm and Charisma Tuesday, December 12th 4pm PST at www.stophatingdating.com. But hurry, spots are limited!   Tune in to Ditch The Friendzone And Move Into The Flirtzone on The Charisma Quotient podcast, available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and all major podcast platforms. 

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Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Intentional Dating:  Interview With Jillian Romero Chaves

Are you tired of going on countless dates that seem to lead nowhere?

This week on The Charisma Quotient, Kimmy Seltzer dives into the world of intentional dating with Jillian Romero Chavez, the creator of 'Clara for Daters', an innovative app designed to empower daters to become their own love scientists. 

In Episode 324 of The Charisma Quotient: Intentional Dating with Jillian Romero Chaves, sits down with Jillian, a former corporate professional turned dating app creator, as they discuss the importance of setting boundaries, collecting data, and making intentional choices when it comes to dating. 

Jillian brings a fresh perspective to the world of dating, sharing how tracking and reflecting on her own dating experiences led her to the creation of Clara.

Kimmy and Jillian explore the power of intentional dating and discuss the key questions that Clara prompts users to consider after each date—a unique approach that allows daters to assess chemistry, values, and various aspects of safety in relationships.

Hear Jillian share engaging stories about her own dating experiences, providing valuable insights on how to navigate the often challenging world of modern romance. 

Listen in to hear Kimmy's questions around flirting and how that might be impacting the men Jillian attracts.

If you are getting burned out with dating, not flirting and feeling a lack of chemistry on your dates, then sign up for Kimmy's next upcoming Co-Ed interactive workshop called Flirting Made Easy: Unleashing Your Natural Charm and Charisma Tuesday, December 12th at 4pm PST at www.stophatingdating.com. But hurry, spots are limited!

Tune in to "Intentional Dating with Jillian Romero Chaves" on The Charisma Quotient podcast, available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and all major podcast platforms. 

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Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

 

A Real Golden Bachelorette Finds Love: Where Are They Now with Leslie   Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient: Where are They Now? In this heartwarming episode, Kimmy sits down with former client Leslie, a widow who embarked on a journey to find love in her second act. Leslie's incredible transformation will leave you feeling inspired and hopeful.   Episode 323 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast: A Real Golden Bachelorette Finds Love: Where Are They Now with Leslie   Leslie joined Kimmy's coed dating retreat program after attending Kimmy's workshop about flirting and sexy confidence.    She was a relationship person with little dating experience and was finding herself feeling lost and not knowing how to put herself out there.  The thought of flirting horrified her and she realized that she was closed off, guarded and in her head a lot.  She also didn't realize that she was hiding in her clothes and didn't like bringing attention to herself.    Through undergoing a style makeover, learning dating and flirting skills, Leslie became more open and vulnerable, leading her to start dating men she wouldn't have considered before.   Eventually, she met someone who brought happiness into her life and is in a beautiful relationship today.   Leslie's success story highlights the importance of being present and enjoying the dating journey, as well as the power of self-discovery and embracing one's true self.    If you're ready to start dating again or having fears around it, sign up for Kimmy's next upcoming Co-Ed interactive workshop called Flirting Made Easy: Unleashing Your Natural Charm and Charisma Tuesday, December 12th 4pm PST.    Kimmy is doing a special holiday giveaway!  The first 20 listeners to subscribe, review our podcast on Apple or Spotify, and email a screenshot to hello@kimmyseltzer.com will get FREE access!    Subscribe, review and email her to grab those spots.  You can see more details at www.stophatingdating.com. But hurry, spots will go fast!   ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.   ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣   ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣   Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer   Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you tired of finding yourself in toxic relationships? It's time to break the cycle. Kimmy Seltzer dives deep into toxic patterns, red flags, and healing from emotional abuse with Dr. David Hawkins, a seasoned clinical psychologist and renowned author with over 45 years of experience in the field. 

 

Episode 322 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast:  Disrupting Toxic Relationship Patterns: Interview with Dr. David Hawkins

 

Kimmy and Dr. Hawkins dive into the world of toxic relationships, discussing how red flags are often ignored when there's chemistry and attraction. They explore the importance of setting boundaries and how reflecting on the costs and benefits of toxic relationships can help you gain clarity, and make the difficult choice to walk away. Drawing from their own experiences and expertise, as well as powerful examples of real-life people who have made small changes to disrupt toxic patterns, Kimmy and Dr. Hawkins delve into what it means to have effective communication, the power of emotional clarity, and strategies for breaking free and finding both transformative growth, and healthier relationships. 

 

If you are finding yourself in a cycle of emotionally abusive relationships and attracted to toxic people when dating, then hop on a private call with Kimmy to talk about ways to help you get out of the cycle and date smarter. Click this link to book it https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough   Tune in to "Disrupting Toxic Relationship Patterns: Interview with Dr. David Hawkins" on The Charisma Quotient podcast, available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and all major podcast platforms.  ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you someone who struggles with vulnerability and finds it challenging to open up? If so, you're not alone.  Kimmy dives deep into the topic of guardedness in this live coaching session and how it impacts the ability to form meaningful connections when dating. Guest Kimberly joins Kimmy this week to explore the reasons behind her guardedness and how it impacts her ability to connect with potential partners.    Episode 321 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast:  Struggles Of Dating When You Are Guarded: Coaching with Kimmy    Listen in to hear Kimmy live coach Kimberly to explore how her guardedness manifests in different ways from being secretive to avoiding personal sharing.  Kimberly shares how her past wounds have caused her to wear a love shield which prevents men from getting close to her.  She realized her fears and lack of dating experience have made it difficult to put herself out there.  They delve into the body language cues that often reveal guardedness and dissect the reasons behind these behaviors.  Kimmy talks about why being guarded in dating is a common defense mechanism, usually stemming from past hurts and a desire to protect oneself.  Listen in to hear powerful strategies to break the walls and take steps towards opening up and connecting with others on a deeper level.  Kimmy reveals some practical tips on how to show up authentically, communicate your needs, and express feelings without compromising your own boundaries.  This is a real-world perspective on overcoming guardedness and finding love.    If you're ready to unmask your guardedness and create authentic connections, sign up for Kimmy's next upcoming Co-Ed interactive workshop called Authentic Dating: Conquering Your Fears and Expressing Yourself! Tuesday, November 14th at www.stophatingdating.com.   But hurry spots are limited.   Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you ever wondered what actually happens behind the scenes at a dating retreat inspired by reality TV? How can you bring more excitement and authenticity to your dating life, especially as you navigate dating later in life? Can reality television actually teach us meaningful lessons about forming connections? In Episode 419 of The Charisma Quotient, "Dating Lessons from the Golden Bachelor Mansion Retreat: Golden Bachelor Recap S2 E8" Kimmy and her co-host Allison are live in the Golden Bachelor Mansion in Temecula. They give you the full tour of the place before diving into episodes on the latest episode and Kimmy's retreat!

In this lively episode recorded Live From the Golden Bachelor Mansion Retreat, hosts Kimmy Seltzer and Allison Melody invite you into the heart of their dating retreat in Southern California—where the glitz of reality TV meets the depth of personal transformation. They kick things off with a whimsical walk-through of the mansion, sharing behind-the-scenes details and honest vibes, all while prepping for the arrival of retreat guests. The conversation weaves through reflections on the latest Golden Bachelor episode—breaking down on-screen chemistry, emotional availability, and the real-world parallels to authentic relationships. Kimmy draws insight from her experience as a dating strategist, therapist, and image consultant, while Allison keeps things raw with practical suggestions and witty commentary.

 

You'll hear:

• A candid mansion tour revealing the setup for a transformational dating retreat.

• A recap and analysis of the latest Golden Bachelor episode—did Mel choose chemistry or compatibility?

• The importance of balancing playfulness, relaxation, and deep connection when dating later in life.

• Why emotional availability and boundary-setting are key (and how not to be boring on dates).

• The power of friendship and camaraderie in the dating journey—especially when facing life's transitions.

 

If you're ready to rediscover your spark, book a free call with Kimmy here: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/

 

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com

Have you ever heard of emotional attraction? Do you ever wonder how to create more meaningful connections with someone when you first meet?  Most of us are familiar with physical attraction, but to build a strong, connected relationship it's important to move beyond the physical and learn to be more open in letting the opposite sex really feel you.

 

Episode 320 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Creating An Authentic Emotional Attraction When Dating, 

 

Kimmy dives into ways you can create a deep emotional attraction with your dates from the minute you meet them. If you feel like your conversations just scratch the surface or feel a lack of chemistry on dates, Kimmy delivers tips on how you can take them to the next level. You can move beyond simply describing your day, or what you like, to using feeling words that show who you are. This episode is your guide to creating an emotional connection and being vulnerable without going overboard. Listen in to save yourself from the dread of divulging too much too soon or holding back with your guard up on the first date!  And, Kimmy dispels the myth that if you're not physically attracted to someone right away, you will never be.   If you want to learn how to build emotional attraction and you've been relying on physical attraction to carry you through, register for Kimmy's next upcoming Co-Ed interactive workshop called Authentic Dating: Conquering Your Fears and Expressing Yourself! Tuesday, November 14th here www.stophatingdating.com.   But hurry spots are limited.   Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzerJoin her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you consider yourself an introvert? How do you navigate the challenges of dating as an introvert? Have you ever felt overwhelmed by traditional dating expectations?  In this Coaching with Kimmy episode of The Charisma Quotient, host Kimmy Seltzer coaches Evan LIVE tap into his hidden potential and unlock the power of building confidence and self-assurance in dating and relationships.   EPISODE 319 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Navigating Dating as an Introvert: Coaching with Kimmy    Kimmy begins the episode with obstacles introverts typically have and ideas of how to address them. Evan discloses some personal challenges dating as an introvert and how it's affected his dating life.  Kimmy delves into some key strategies to help Evan step outside of his comfort zone and thrive.  From pursuing hobbies and passions, to practical tips on approaching potential dates and making authentic connections, Kimmy helps Evan see how his past experiences have caused him to get in his own way and nails down a simple action plan to start getting unstuck.   You'll hear: - The challenges introverts face in socializing and dating - Ways introverts can stop overthinking and start enjoying dating and flirting - How to alleviate stress when dating - Strategies for embracing discomfort and breaking patterns to create new habits   If you want help overcoming your introversion and overthinking challenges with dating, relating and flirting, sign up here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary private call with Kimmy to map out a strategy to help you.     Also, Kimmy has a few spots left for her upcoming co-ed dating retreat that has transformed the lives of many of her clients, apply here soon if interested! https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/datingreimagined/   Tune in to "Navigating Dating as an Introvert: Coaching with Kimmy" on The Charisma Quotient podcast, available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and all major podcast platforms.    ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you been dealing with a breakup and trying to heal to get back out there? Using the power of intuition and how to harness it as you heal and re-enter the dating scene which will empower you to trust your instincts, rebuild your confidence and attract new love after a breakup.  In this episode, Kimmy brings on Dr. Karin Luise, a renowned Spiritual Guide and Life Coach who specializes in helping individuals heal and reinvent themselves.

 

EPISODE 318 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Trusting Your Gut: Harnessing Intuition for Post-Breakup Healing and Dating

 

Kimmy and Dr. Karin Luise delve into the power of intuition and how it can be harnessed to create positive change. They discuss the importance of trusting your gut feeling, setting healthy boundaries, and breaking free from the cycle of victimization.  During the episode, you'll hear engaging stories of individuals who used their intuition to make big decisions, set boundaries, and ultimately find new love.  From realizing when and how to limit contact with a toxic ex-partner to embracing the freedom of opening up to new possibilities, these stories will inspire and empower you to take control of your own happiness.   If you are having a hard time letting go and moving on after a breakup and tapping into your intuition, then sign up with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary private call to map out a strategy to help you.     Also, Kimmy has a few spots left for her upcoming co-ed dating retreat that has transformed the lives of many of her clients, apply here soon if interested! https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/datingreimagined/   Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now.  Listen in to hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working together.  You'll hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success, and their biggest shifts since working with Kimmy.  These conversations are to motivate you to take action and get inspired by the successes of others.   Are you tired of being stuck in the friend zone?  Wish you could turn those platonic connections into something more?  In this week's episode of the Charisma Quotient podcast, Kimmy dives deep into a powerful story of transformation with her client Jim.   EPISODE 317 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Breaking Free From The Friendzone:  Where Are They Now With Jim   Jim found himself perpetually friend-zoned. But, he embarked on an incredible journey of self-discovery and personal growth that forever changed his social confidence.  From joining the game-changing coed dating retreat, Dating REimagined, to shedding his old habits and learning valuable dating and flirting skills, Jim's story is a true inspiration.   If you are finding yourself constantly falling into the friendzone and want to know how to break into the flirtzone to start creating more chemistry with your dates, then sign up with Kimmy here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary private call to map out a strategy to help you. Also, Kimmy has a few spots left for her upcoming co-ed dating retreat that transformed Jim's life so apply here soon if interested! https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/datingreimagined/   Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you ready to level up your dating game but is your self-image holding you back?  You might be surprised to learn that your body confidence can play a major role in attracting the love you desire.  In this week's episode of Charisma Quotient, Kimmy is diving into the connection between body confidence, health, and attraction.  To shed more light on this topic, she interviews Heather Wyatt, a weight loss coach and holistic health expert.

 

EPISODE 316 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Boost Your Body Confidence and Attract More Love with Heather Wyatt

 

Heather shares her own personal journey with weight fluctuation and body confidence.  She emphasizes the importance of mental wellness and offers practical strategies to create a balanced approach to health and self-love.  In this episode, Kimmy and Heather explore the correlation between feeling good about your body, eating well, and emitting positive energy.  Heather also shares insights on how body confidence impacts your overall well-being and the way others perceive you. Listen in to hear:

• The symbiotic relationship between health, body confidence, and attraction. Discover how feeling confident about your body can improve your dating life.
• Embracing your sexuality without guilt or shame. Learn how to overcome societal messaging and embrace your sexy self.
• Nourishing your body and mind for optimal well-being. Explore ways to prioritize mental wellness and find balance in your health journey.

 

And if you want to learn how to feel comfortable in your body and reignite your dating confidence after 40?  Come to Kimmy's live co-ed interactive workshop called the "First Impression Makeover" on October 10th.  It's your chance to learn and practice the skills you need to make lasting first impressions in dating.  Don't miss out on this opportunity to level up and take action in your dating game. Register now at www.stophatingdating.com

 

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

 

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

 

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Have you ever wondered why first impressions matter so much in dating?  It's not just about looking good or saying the right things! Your appearance and attitude play a crucial role in attracting potential partners and setting the tone for the entire relationship.  In this week's episode of the Charisma Quotient, host Kimmy Seltzer dives deep into the power of first impressions and how they can make or break your dating experiences. 

 

EPISODE 315 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mastering the Art of First Impressions

 

Kimmy shares some fascinating research findings, real life client stories, and actionable tips to help you make a lasting impression.  By the end of this episode, you'll understand why it's about finding your own style, learning to market yourself effectively, and paving the way for authentic connections… 

 

You'll Hear:

 

• The hidden impact of attitude and appearance: Discover why it's not just about what you say, but how you show up that truly influences others' perceptions of you.
• The power of wardrobe choices: Learn how dressing more intentionally with a dating costume can transform your confidence and attract the attention you deserve.
• Real-life success stories: Find inspiration in personal anecdotes of people who experienced incredible transformations in their dating lives by changing their first impression game.
• Taking action: Uncover the steps you can take today to improve your first impression skills, whether you're naturally shy or simply in need of a dating confidence boost.

 

Creating a great first impression is a skill that can be learned. It's not about changing who you are but finding ways to showcase your true self.  This episode will show you the tools to take control of your dating life and make a lasting impression that speaks volumes.   And to go even deeper, come to Kimmy's live co-ed interactive workshop called the "First Impression Makeover" on October 10th.  It's your chance to learn and practice the skills you need to make lasting first impressions in dating.  Don't miss out on this opportunity to level up and take action in your dating game. Register now at StopHatingDating.com!
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.   ************************************************⁣   Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣   ************************************************⁣   Ready to redefine your style and reignite your dating confidence after 40?

Join the "First Impression Makeover" workshop with Kimmy Seltzer at https://stophatingdating.com and embrace your vibrant, magnetic self!

 

Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Kimmy Seltzer's Dating Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you feeling overwhelmed and frustrated by the world of online dating?  Do you want to know how to approach it as a tool rather than a transactional experience?  In this Coaching With Kimmy episode of Charisma Quotient, host Kimmy Seltzer coaches special guest Sandi to discuss her struggles with dating, body confidence, and opening up after a divorce.    EPISODE 314 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Love in the Digital Age with Sandi    They explore the complexities of online dating, the importance of diversifying one's dating portfolio, and the challenges it can present in areas such as appearance, flirting, and engaging in meaningful conversations.  Kimmy and Sandi share insights and strategies to help listeners navigate the online dating world with confidence and authenticity.    You'll Hear:

• The importance of approaching online dating as a tool and diversifying your dating portfolio.
• How to overcome body confidence issues and open up after a divorce.
• Strategies for attracting the right kind of attention and filtering out incompatible matches.
• Practical ways to improve your appearance, flirting skills, and conversation techniques.

 

Don't miss this insightful discussion on how to overcome obstacles and find connections in online dating on the Charisma Quotient podcast.     Not only does this episode offer incredible insights into the world of modern dating, but Kimmy also announces an exciting opportunity for listeners. She shares details about her upcoming interactive workshop, The First Impression Makeover, where you will learn about personal style, body language, and making unforgettable impressions in the dating world.    Don't miss this opportunity to level up your dating game and attract the love you deserve.    Register now at StopHatingDating.com and start your journey to irresistible charisma!

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.   ************************************************⁣   Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣   ************************************************⁣   Ready to redefine your style and reignite your dating confidence after 40? 

Join the "First Impression Makeover" workshop with Kimmy Seltzer at https://stophatingdating.com and embrace your vibrant, magnetic self!   Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Kimmy Seltzer's Dating Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

How do you handle difficult situations? Are you ready to find out how to navigate challenges and create lasting connections? In this week's episode of Charisma Quotient, Kimmy dives deep into the transformative power of overcoming adversity in love with her interview with special guests, James Arthur Ray and Bersabeh Ray, who have each overcome significant challenges in their lives and are here to share their insights and strategies with you.

This episode is all about embracing the obstacles we face and using them as stepping stones towards personal growth and attracting the love we truly deserve.  James Arthur Ray is not only a bestselling author, consultant, and coach, but he's also someone who has experienced loss and rebuilt his life from scratch. After a tragic accident, James had to dig deep and use his own strategies to bounce back stronger than ever.  Bersabeh Ray, an intuitive consultant, was born in Iran during the Iran-Iraq war. She has faced great adversity and has provided invaluable support to James during his journey of rebuilding. Together, they have invaluable wisdom to share on how to navigate challenges in love and life.

EPISODE 313 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Embracing Adversity and Attracting Love with James Arthur Ray and Bersabeh

Prepare to be moved by James and Bersabeh's personal journeys of loss, rebuilding, and finding love amidst hardship.  As they share their own experiences of overcoming seemingly insurmountable obstacles, you'll be inspired to face your own challenges head-on and harness the power within you to create a life filled with love and authenticity.

Ready to overcome adversity and attract the love you deserve? Reach out to Kimmy Seltzer for personalized coaching and revolutionize your approach to relationships and personal growth by booking here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary private call to map out a strategy to help you.

EPISODE 313 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Embracing Adversity and Attracting Love with James Arthur Ray and Bersabeh Ray.

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Ready to redefine your style and reignite your dating confidence after 40?

Join the "First Impression Makeover" workshop with Kimmy Seltzer at https://stophatingdating.com and embrace your vibrant, magnetic self!

Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

 

 

 

 

Welcome back to one of our favorite segments on The Charisma Quotient, Where Are They Now. Listen in to hear intimate conversations with Kimmy and her clients who share candid thoughts about how their love lives have changed since working together. You'll hear what inspired them to invest in coaching, the secrets to their success, and their biggest shifts since working with Kimmy. We share these conversations to motivate you to take action and get inspired by the successes of others.
Are you ready to break free from the chains of self-sabotage and reach new heights in your love life? Our guest, Kim, shares her powerful story of realizing the need for guidance as she embarked on a new path in her life. She opens up about her previous experiences of rushing into relationships without truly getting to know the other person, and how this realization led her to seek support in her journey. Together, we explore the importance of investing in oneself and the positive outcomes that stem from personal growth and development. Kim reflects on her transformation of confidence, setting boundaries, and attracting healthier partners. As we delve into the topic of self-validation and the role it plays in relationships, we discuss the significance of recognizing internal validation and not relying solely on external sources for validation. We also touch upon the impact of family dynamics and past experiences on our present actions and beliefs. Listen in as Kim shares the exercises and skills that have helped her break old patterns and create a new, more fulfilling dating experience. We also discuss the profound moments of intimacy and authenticity that can truly transform our relationships and bring vibrant colors to our lives.
Are you tired of those old dating patterns and are ready to find your confidence and authenticity in the modern dating world? Reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary private call to map out a strategy to help you.
Make sure to tune in to Episode 312 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast titled "Internal Validation & Finding Love: Where Are They Now with Kim." 
Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.
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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣
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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣
Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer
Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

Are you ready to break free from the chains of self-sabotage and reach new heights in your love life? 

In this captivating episode of The Charisma Quotient Podcast, we dive deep into the world of personal discovery with the incredible Paul Hoffman. 

Strap in for an eye-opening conversation that will transform how you view yourself and your relationships.

Our guest, Paul Hoffman, is a personal discovery architect who has helped countless individuals identify and overcome the mind traps that have been holding them back. With a remarkable background that includes sharing stages with the likes of Jack Canfield and the Dalai Lama, Paul brings a wealth of expertise to our topic.

EPISODE 311 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Unlock Your Potential: Overcoming Self-Sabotage with Paul Hoffman

Join host Kimmy Seltzer as she delves into the secrets behind self-sabotage and how it impacts our ability to find love and happiness. From childhood messages to coping mechanisms, they explore the roots of self-sabotage and its effect on personal growth. 

One standout moment includes a powerful story from a dating retreat where a woman's rough exterior melted away, leading to newfound personal growth and romantic attention.

Feeling inspired? Take action today by reaching out to Kimmy Seltzer for coaching on how to break free from self-sabotage and shape a love life that truly aligns with your desires. 

Reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary private call to map out a strategy to help you.

EPISODE 311 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Unlock Your Potential: Overcoming Self-Sabotage with Paul Hoffman. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

How does confidence play a role in dating, reality TV, and the way we present ourselves to the world? What really separates genuine connection from fleeting chemistry, especially in the sometimes surreal world of reality dating shows? In Episode 418 of The Charisma Quotient, "Golden Bachelor Recap: Real Talk on Reality with Ryan Bailey" Kimmy and her co-host Allison join pop culture guru and podcast host of So Bad It's Good, to peel back the layers of pop culture, personal stories, and hard-hitting dating advice.

 

This episode dives deep into the intersection of entertainment and life as Kimmy, Allison, and Ryan discuss everything from the psychology of reality TV contestants, the allure and pitfalls of influencer culture, to what "sexy confidence" really means—especially for later-life daters. With honest, often hilarious storytelling, you'll hear candid confessions about personal struggles with confidence, lessons learned from coaching both real-world singles and reality stars, and the true magic that comes from leaning into your quirks, mistakes, and vulnerabilities. Plus, the Golden Bachelor gets dissected, from its friendships to its controversies, and we even get the inside scoop on Ryan Bailey's own romantic journey—including the baby news and his take on dating apps.

 You'll hear:

• Why reality TV makes confidence both easier and more complicated—and what happens when the cameras shut off.

• The truth behind pop culture's influence on dating trends and the rise of influencer-first attitudes.

• Kimmy's four Cs of dating: how being compelling, having chemistry, being compatible, and compromise are essential for a healthy relationship.

• Insights from the Golden Bachelor: friendships, disappointments, and what really goes on behind the scenes.

 

If you're ready to unlock love, book a free call with Kimmy here: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/

 

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣

Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣

Chat: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/

Instagram: @kimmyseltzer

Twitter: @kimmyseltzer

Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Take her Flirt Quiz to see what kind of flirt you are www.flirtover40.com

 

Did you know that there's science behind falling in love?  Love is fascinating and complex. Romantic love, in particular, seems to be a beautiful mystery that is hard to explain. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with best selling authors and love coaches Dr. Michael and Barbara Grossman, Ph.D. Barbara is a marriage and family therapist, and Michael specializes in regenerative medicine. After overcoming struggles in their marriage, this couple teaches other couples the skills they need to have happy, healthy, and loving marriages for life. 

EPISODE 310 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Sexy Science Of Falling In Love: Interview with Drs. Michael and Barbara Grossman   Dr. Michael and Dr. Barbara talk about how they got into this work, and share the challenges they experienced ten years into their marriage that almost led to a divorce. These two break down some key differences between men's and women's communication styles that can spark frustration in relationships. Listen in to hear how Dr. Barbara and Dr. Michael each had to grow personally to keep their relationship strong. Kimmy asks Dr. Michael to share his framework for the stages of growth we go through, and how it relates to our ability to form strong relationships and families in the future.  If you are a high achiever who has trouble feeling connected to your emotions, this conversation is for you. You can learn the skills to develop happy, healthy relationships at any stage in life. You get the make the choice to move forward for the better.

If you are wanting to learn how to attract a relationship and sustain it, then reach out to Kimmy here for a complimentary private call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Work with Kimmy to map out a plan to begin your journey to find love. 

EPISODE 310 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: The Sexy Science Of Falling In Love: Interview with Drs. Michael and Barbara Grossman.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

Is it possible to manifest the perfect partner out of thin air? If you set an intention to attract something or someone into your life, you have to deeply believe you are deserving of everything you say you desire.  This week, Kimmy has an enlightening conversation with Laura Michelle Powers, a celebrity psychic, author of seven books, actress, and host of the Healing Powers podcast. These two talk all about how to consciously manifest what you want in love, instead of feeling completely out of control.   EPISODE 309 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Manifesting Love:  Interview With Laura Michelle Powers   Kimmy asks Laura to share the story of how she went from experiencing childhood trauma to a toxic marriage to the incredible life she's manifested today after using her psychic abilities and re-discovering her intuition.  Kimmy and Laura talk about how the power of fear blocks you from moving forward.  Listen in on an important discussion of how understanding the difference between masculine and feminine energy plays a role in manifesting love.  Laura shares a story about someone she met on a dating app who misrepresented themselves online. Listen in to hear how Laura tackled that issue in future online dating interactions. Stay tuned to hear about the power of positive thinking, laughter and being more in tune with how you feel. If you approach a date with a serious attitude or stress from the workday, you might shut yourself down from connecting with that other person.   If you're ready to manifest a beautiful, loving relationship in your life, reach out to Kimmy here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a complimentary private call to map out a strategy to help you.   EPISODE 309 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Manifesting Love:  Interview With Laura Michelle Powers. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Do you ever feel like you're in a trance when it comes to dating? Are you present in your conversations or are you trapped inside your own head and missing out on what's right in front of you?  This week, Kimmy does a deep dive on the signs that you are emotionally disconnected and her top tips to be a mindful dater. Mindful dating is the process of becoming more aware and being more intentional on dates. That includes your own self-awareness of course, but also being present to connect with the person across from you.   EPISODE 308 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mindful Dating: Finding Meaning in Every Interaction   Kimmy kicks off with a story about her VIP client who finally recognized how disconnected she's been for nearly a decade since her marriage ended. She was going through the motions without recognizing how her own emotions, behaviors and values impacted her ability to make genuine connections with others.  Kimmy clearly outlines some top tips in how to date mindfully so that you approach dating with intention, authenticity, and a focus on meaningful connections. Kimmy shares a surprising tip about the early signs that indicate future relationship success. And, stay tuned to hear why dating outside of your type or dating multiple people can help you hone in on what you truly want in a partner.  If you're feeling burned out by dating, chances are you're not approaching it in a mindful way. Kimmy breaks down how to structure your time intentionally around dating so it doesn't become a burden. Numbing out can be a sign that you're self-sabotaging potential relationships in order to avoid the pain of rejection.  Listen in to hear about the value of approaching life with curiosity when opening your self up to love.    If you are numbing out and not being intentional or mindful when dating, hop on a private call with Kimmy so that she can wake you up and put you into a dating action plan. Click here to book it https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough   EPISODE 308 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Mindful Dating: Finding Meaning in Every Interaction. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Has the fear of rejection stopped you from embracing all of the possibilities life has to offer? If you want to find love, but you're terrified to put yourself out there this episode will show you that it's possible to make a change. This week, Kimmy has a conversation with William Hung, a motivational singer and former singer who became a household name after he was sent home on American Idol, auditioning with "She Bangs" by Ricky Martin. These two have a candid, vulnerable conversation about turning rejection into resilience and learning to honor your authentic self.   EPISODE 307 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: American Idol William Hung Interview: Regaining Confidence After Rejection   Kimmy asks William to talk about how he rebuilt his confidence after experiencing public rejection and maintained his signature positive outlook. William talks about his focus on his values and purpose as a way to reset when the fear of failure sets in.  William opens up and shares stories about his first two marriages and the lessons he learned that stick with him to this day. He speaks vulnerably about the challenges he faced with gambling and addiction and how that impacted his relationships. You'll hear all about how William's experience on American Idol catapulted him into a new world and how he navigated that time, emerging on the other side wiser, and more confident.  Stay tuned to hear key advice from Kimmy about the importance of cultivating your confidence to remain resilient when confronted with anxiety about an uncertain future.  This conversation is a reminder that being your authentic self above all is the best way to make a real, meaningful connection with someone.    If you are ready to get over your fear of rejection and put yourself back out there to find love, reach out to Kimmy for a free coaching call here: https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣.   Work with Kimmy to map out a plan to find your sexy self-confidence and feel like the best version of yourself.   EPISODE 307 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: American Idol William Hung Interview: Regaining Confidence After Rejection. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

How do you lead with your authentic voice? In your journey to find love, are you being true to who you are or are you shape-shifting into someone you're not?  If you are terrified to flirt, approach someone you've never met before, or don't feel confident showing up as your true self, this conversation is for you. This week, Kimmy has an enlightening conversation with Hersh Rephun, who is a brand voice expert and the host of the Yes, BRAND Podcast, with a background in comedy and entertainment. He helps people find their authentic brand voice to communicate with their audience in an honest way.   EPISODE 306 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Your Authentic Brand Voice:  Interview With Hersh Rephun   Kimmy and Hersh Rephun talk about the perils of "shape-shifting", where you prioritize pleasing others over being authentic to who you truly are.  Kimmy asks Hersh to share his story of how he transitioned from the world of stand-up comedy to being a brand strategist today. Hersh shares how difficult it was to transition from playing characters on stage to speaking honestly in his own voice. Stay tuned to hear some of Hersh's signature voices from his comedy days!  Kimmy and Hersh discuss how improvisational games and leaning into being silly and playful can help you discover the confidence you didn't know you had within you.  Kimmy asks Hersh to share tips about common misconceptions about how to express your authentic voice. You'll hear examples from Hersh's work with major brands and how that translates to communicating who you are personally.  Kimmy and Hersh break down how humor can be an incredible connector, but it can also cause distance between you and another person — or you and yourself.  Hersh and Kimmy have a fascinating conversation about how to flip that script and use your challenges to showcase your power.   If you are ready to develop your brand voice and start showing up authentically, get in touch with Kimmy here for a free call https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In just one session you could begin to map out a strategic dating plan alongside Kimmy to express yourself authentically and find love.   EPISODE 306 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Finding Your Authentic Brand Voice:  Interview With Hersh Rephun.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

How do you walk into a room and stand out from the crowd? Charisma is a skill that can be learned and this episode will show you how to up your dating game.  This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Christine Amerman an experienced media coach and strategist who helps people share their expertise in the podcasting space. These two have a vulnerable conversation about how to show up as your authentic self and shine!   EPISODE 305 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Stand Out To Attract Love:  Interview With Christine Amerman   Christine shares the story of how she found herself again her way following a personal loss. Kimmy asks Christine to talk about how she redefined her self identity and found purpose in her new reality. You'll hear about how Christine pushed herself to accept her desire to be seen in many areas of her life.  Kimmy and Christine talk about the importance of being playful and approaching life with a childlike wonder. If you bring a flirtatious attitude to your dating life, you'll become open to new connections and new possibilities. If you have struggled with fears of rejection from past wounds, this conversation is for you. You'll hear an actionable tip on how to boost your confidence, even when you're feeling insecure.  Find out why you don't have to be a hyper-extrovert in order to stand out and key character traits to foster to overcome insecurities.  Listen in to hear how you can use these qualities to attract a higher caliber of people.   If you are someone who hides and want to attract more opportunities in your dating and social life by standing out with charisma and confidence, hop on a call with Kimmy to strategize mapping out a plan to that here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough for a free call!    EPISODE 305 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Stand Out To Attract Love:  Interview With Christine Amerman.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers  

Are you an over-thinker and a little analytical in nature?  The last time you were on a date, did you feel present and playful or distant and disconnected?  Overthinking, difficulty expressing emotions, and an outcome-oriented mindset are just a few of the challenges that left-brained analytical thinkers encounter when it comes to matters of the heart. In this episode of Coaching With Kimmy, you'll hear honest conversations with Kimmy and real people about their progress on their dating journey.  This week on the show, Kimmy has a candid conversation with Jeff who refers to himself as "Data" (Trekkies will get this reference!). Jeff describes himself as an introvert with a highly technical and military background, who has struggled to make emotional connections with women after two divorces.  If you have a tendency to overthink, resist expressing your emotions, or are outcome-oriented, this conversation is for you.    EPISODE 304 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Challenges Of Analytical Thinkers:  Coaching With Kimmy    When you bring this energy to a date, it can result in your date not feeling the chemistry and you finding yourself in the friend zone.  Kimmy begins this episode in reviewing specific mistakes left-brained people often make when dating and how to overcome them.  You'll then hear Jeff talk about how his confidence lives in his professional life and how it doesn't always translate into his personal life. Jeff shares that many of his dates end up feeling like a business interview, and wants to understand how to get to the fun part where he can relax, share his sense of humor and banter back and forth.  Kimmy and Jeff identify the importance of creating a sense of safety in conversation. Jeff vulnerably shares that wounds from his past relationships have impacted his ability to make new connections when dating. Kimmy talks about the impact of experiencing rejection over time and how that can build fear about an uncertain future.  Stay tuned to hear actionable tips from Kimmy about how to chip away at the fear you feel around dating.  Kimmy shares key steps towards building emotional connections connections and instilling a mindset that will reduce fears of rejection. Listen in to hear about how to gamify social interactions so meeting new people can feel fun, light and not burdened by a potential future outcome.   If you are analytical, in your head and an overthinker which all is affecting your dating life, reach out to Kimmy here for a FREE consultation: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In just 30 minutes, you can work with Kimmy to map out a plan to find a fulfilling relationship with who loves and understands your unique self.    EPISODE 304 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Challenges Of Analytical Thinkers:  Coaching With Kimmy.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers    

Have you ever wanted to know how to make your date crave you? You might see this in the movies or even with some friends who seem to do it so easily…so what is it that they do that creates an attraction factor instantly? Confidence and charisma are key qualities that make others desire you and — they can be learned! This week, Kimmy teaches you all about how build your confidence and increase your charisma.  If you are tired of not progressing on dates, never getting asked out for a second date, and always being put in the friend zone, this episode is for you.    EPISODE 303 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Your Date To Crave You   Listen in to hear examples from Kimmy's work with her clients who go from closing themselves off to others to being open, curious and even flirtatious(!) with more people.  You'll hear 5 key tips from Kimmy about how to boost your sexy confidence and become irresistible to the people you actually want to attract. If you take less than 30 seconds to answer a text and are always available for dates, this could be a major turn off!  Listen in to these tips to give yourself permission to enjoy this process as it enriches your life.   This episode is a reminder that in order to change and make major shifts, you need to be uncomfortable. With support from a coach like Kimmy and clear goals, your path forward to gaining more sexy confidence and charisma could be just one phone call away. Get in touch with Kimmy here for a FREE coaching call: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough    EPISODE 303 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Getting Your Date To Crave You.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Dating is a marathon, not a sprint! If you are navigating online dating, exploring new social events or even numbing out on physical dates, motivation to keep going can be difficult to maintain.  On this episode, Kimmy has a conversation with Angela Henderson, who works with women around the world to help them find success in business.   EPISODE 302 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Staying Motivated To Date:  Interview With Angela Henderson   Kimmy asks Angela to share her story about her journey as a mental health professional and social worker into the work she does now. You'll hear how through it all, Angela made the choice to file for divorce, inspired by a mantra to choose the change she wants to see in her life.  Kimmy and Angela talk about what keeps her motivated to keep moving forward despite the challenges that arise. Angela asks a provocative question that will help you identify what you want to create more in your life that will help you reframe your view of yourself.  Kimmy breaks down the difference between external and internal motivation. Kimmy talks through the benefits of "gamifying" dating with rewards and consequences to keep you on track with your goals.  Kimmy and Angela deliver some tough love, acknowledging that things usually feel worse before they start to feel better. Truly working on yourself is not easy and when you make the decision to start, it's not always easy to keep going.  Kimmy and Angela discuss how positive reinforcement and corrective experiences helps manage your motivation. When you make a decision to acknowledge your baggage and commit to healing, you will start to find motivation that you never knew was within you.   If you are struggling being motivated in your dating life and are about to give up, reach out to Kimmy for a free breakthrough call to help you get out of feeling stuck and map out a plan to start making positive changes here: meetme.so/breakthrough    EPISODE 302 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Staying Motivated To Date:  Interview With Angela Henderson.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Co-ed Facebook Group Kimmy Seltzer's Dating Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

You cannot have a healthy relationship without trust. Maybe the people in your past were totally untrustworthy where you were ghosted, lied to, or completely betrayed.  If you are ready to get past your trust issues in a healthy and balanced way, this conversation is for you.  In this episode, Kimmy interviews Rob Greenlee, host of the Trust Factor Podcast, is well-known podcaster and radio broadcaster with over two decades after a storied career as a pioneer in new media and technology at Microsoft, PodcastOne, Spreaker, and Libsyn.   EPISODE 301 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Trust Issues:  Interview With Rob Greenlee   Kimmy asks Rob to share his personal story that led him to a career in new media and broadcasting and share more on the tips he gives around creating open, honest, and vulnerable lines of communication.  Listen in to hear Kimmy and Rob talk about the importance of keeping your commitments and following through.  This is a conversation that will remind you that showing up as authentically you and trusting yourself is the foundation to healthy communication.  If you are someone who experiences anxiety around being social, listen in to hear Rob talk about how public speaking, presenting and podcasting helped him overcome a speech impediment that he dealt with for many years. Stay tuned to hear some key tips on the power of listening and how to boost confidence in your everyday interactions, which can lead to more confidence in your search for love.   If you have a hard time trusting and are attracting lopsided relationships or worse, it's causing you to put your walls up and not meet anyone at all, hop on a free call with Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. In 30-minutes, you can work with Kimmy to map out a plan to start to build your trust in yourself and become more open to relationships with others.   EPISODE 301 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating With Trust Issues:  Interview With Rob Greenlee.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Co-ed Facebook Group Kimmy Seltzer's Dating Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

What does it really take to open your heart after heartbreak or divorce? Why do we attract certain types of partners, and how can we break free from guardedness to find authentic connection? How much should we share about our past traumas, and when is the right time to get real about what we truly want in a relationship? In Episode 417 of The Charisma Quotient, "Unlocking Love After Loss: Real Talk with Real Bachelors," you'll get a special look at Kimmy's new show Dating Real Talk where Kimmy and her co-host Allison Melody, and special guests Doug and Mark—two real-life bachelors sharing candid insights.

 

This episode explores the heightened emotions and drama of the "Golden Bachelor," but quickly goes beyond TV to extract powerful lessons for anyone dating in their second act. Kimmy Seltzer leads a lively discussion with co-host Allison Melody and two real-life bachelors, Doug Bass and Mark Primiano, about body language, pressure in dating, and the pitfalls of seeking commitment too soon, connecting reality show moments to what actually happens in the world of dating after divorce. The group tackles the differences (and surprising similarities) between men and women when it comes to vulnerability, attraction, and the pain of love lost. Plus, Doug and Mark reveal what it feels like to date post-divorce, how trauma and guardedness affect their desire for openness, and the lively banter around authentic connection versus superficial "fun." 

 

 You'll hear:

• The real-life male perspective on dating after divorce (what's different, what's hard, and what's hopeful)

• Insights from watching and dissecting "The Golden Bachelor"—and what applies to your own dating life

• How to recognize body language cues that reveal true feelings (and the risks of ignoring them)

• Candid discussion on when (and how) to share your past traumas with a new partner

• The power of authenticity, self-love, and real energy in attracting the right relationship

 

If you're ready to unlock love, book a free call with Kimmy here: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/

 

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Do you have a broken "picker"? If you have a pattern of attracting people who are not right for you then this episode is for you.  In this episode of Coaching With Kimmy, you'll hear Kimmy live coach her clients who are experiencing challenges when dating. Listen in to hear her give her guest actionable advice to help them get better results.   EPISODE 300 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Do You Have A Bad Picker? Coaching With Kimmy   This week, you'll meet Tracy, who finds herself back in the dating pool after a string of unsuccessful long term relationships. Tracy vulnerably shares the story of her first marriage to a man she met in the navy who unfortunately took his own life. After years of processing through grief, Tracy got into a series of relationships with men who took advantage of her giving nature and strung her along for years.  Tracy shares more about her traditional upbringing as the daughter of an Italian immigrant. As a latchkey kid, Tracy has always been raised to be independent.  Kimmy insightfully helps Tracy identify the source of the pattern she's repeating in her relationships. If you have a deep fear of rejection or abandonment, this conversation will help you release those fears for the sake of making a genuine connection.  When you've experienced trauma, abuse or just a bad breakup it can be difficult to get out of your own head and let go of the potential negative outcome when flirting and socializing.  Stay tuned to hear a juicy story from Tracy about approaching a cute guy at a bar! And, hear Kimmy's real-time tips about how to gamify conversations so you can encourage the person you're attracted to come to you.   If you're ready to fix your picker and start attracting the people who you really want to connect with, get in touch with Kimmy here for a free breakthrough call: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough    EPISODE 300 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:Do You Have A Bad Picker? Coaching With Kimmy.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Co-ed Facebook Group Kimmy Seltzer's Dating Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Are you tired of meeting emotionally unavailable people? But have you considered, how emotionally available are you?  Research has shown that emotionally intelligent people have healthier relationships, more success in work and are generally happier than those who are not as emotionally intelligent. Listen in to hear how you can identify if this is an area of growth for you, and how you can use it to improve your dating life.  Today, Kimmy has an enlightening conversation with Nada Lena, a bestselling author, TEDx speaker and founder of Rise Up For You, a company creating growth for top global organizations and leaders.    EPISODE 299 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Using Emotional Intelligence When Dating:  Interview With Nada Lena   This conversation is a powerful reminder that everything you have accomplished and gained can dissipate, but the pieces of yourself that make you human — the ability to connect, to express empathy, to be vulnerable — are what remain no matter what. Nada dissects the key aspects of emotional intelligence, and how vast it really is. Listen in to a key tip from Nada around using "I" statements intentionally to create space for empathy in others. Kimmy shares specific language-related nuances that can help you express yourself in a way that others will receive it.  Kimmy and Nada share tips on how to become more self aware. Kimmy asks Nada to share tangible strategies that you can implement in your life right away to build relationships that fuel you. You'll hear about the benefits of being able to identify specific emotions and their root cause. Stay tuned to understand more about the beliefs to hold and how they impact the actions and behaviors you take.   If you're ready to get past your fears and feel confident, playful and fun when dating in an authentic way, there are 2 new upcoming opportunities for you.  First, join Kimmy June 15 for her next co-ed interactive workshop called Authentic Dating: Conquering Your Fears And Expressing Yourself where you will learn to get out of feeling stuck in a cycle of fear and insecurity when it comes to dating. You'll leave the workshop inspired, confident, and ready to navigate the dating world with a fun positive attitude!  Just click the link to register but hurry these spots go quick www.stophatingdating.com
Also Kimmy is doing another one of her epic co-ed dating retreat programs that is coming up in June/July called Dating Reimagined in Southern California so if you are interested definitely contact her directly by going to www.askkimmy.com to see if it's fit.  She only has a few spots left for this so contact her sooner than later!
************************************************⁣ EPISODE 299 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Using Emotional Intelligence When Dating:  Interview With Nada Lena Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Co-ed Facebook Group Kimmy Seltzer's Dating Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

What are you afraid of when it comes to love and dating?  Being scared or worried about things like flirting, online dating, going on a first date, finding the right person are usually symptoms of underlying bigger fears like rejection or getting hurt.  This week you'll hear Kimmy's LIVE coaching session with Elena, a woman who wants to overcome her anxieties around dating after going through three divorces.    EPISODE 298 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Overcoming Your Dating Fears:  Coaching With Kimmy   Kimmy shares actionable tips and insights on how Elena can start to push past her fear of a failed future relationship.  Elena shares more about her upbringing and how watching her parents relationship has impacted her outlook on love. Elena talks through her biggest fears around finding love again. If you're like Elena, you've felt like you lost yourself in past relationships and are ready for something different. Kimmy gives Elena her top action items for her to rediscover her playful, flirtatious side!  Listen in to hear about Elena's sexy alter ego and how Kimmy uses this to help her get past her fears and out of her head.  It's not about dating to find your next partner or spouse, it's about finding out what you want and defining what makes you happy.   If you're ready to get past your fears and feel confident, playful and fun when dating in an authentic way, there are 2 new upcoming opportunities for you.  First, join Kimmy June 15 for her next co-ed interactive workshop called Authentic Dating: Conquering Your Fears And Expressing Yourself where you will learn to get out of feeling stuck in a cycle of fear and insecurity when it comes to dating. You'll leave the workshop inspired, confident, and ready to navigate the dating world with a fun positive attitude!  Just click the link to register but hurry these spots go quick www.stophatingdating.com
Also Kimmy is doing another one of her epic co-ed dating retreat programs that is coming up in June/July called Dating Reimagined in Southern California so if you are interested definitely contact her directly by going to www.askkimmy.com to see if it's fit.  She only has a few spots left for this so contact her sooner than later!   ************************************************⁣ EPISODE 298 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Overcoming Your Dating Fears:  Coaching With Kimmy Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Co-ed Facebook Group Kimmy Seltzer's Dating Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

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Are you always left with feeling no good enough? If you have found yourself writing affirmations to no end or envisioning a future that never seems to arrive, you may feel like you don't deserve to have the loving, fulfilling relationship you truly want.  This week, Kimmy has a conversation with Kat Polsinelli, a Business Organizing Powerhouse who works with people to overcome their limiting beliefs and build businesses that reflect their true selves.   EPISODE 297 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Overcoming Limiting Beliefs:  Interview With Kat Polsinelli   Kat tells Kimmy about having to start her life over multiple times as she dealt with struggles of raising children at an early age and leaving an abusive relationship. Kat shares some of the people pleasing and limiting beliefs she discovered as part of her healing journey. If you have ever been with a narcissist or abuser, you may begin to believe the untrue, negative labels that this person places on you.  Kimmy and Kat talk through some of the factors in Kat's upbringing that contribute to her people pleasing tendencies. These two talk through how these tendencies can leak into other areas of your life, like in relationships and business. Kat shares the key strategies that she used to begin to overcome these patterns and learn to recognize to her triggers. If you are having trouble setting boundaries, this episode is for you. Kat shares a tip on how to set small, incremental boundaries in order to reinforce the behavior you want.  Stick around to hear an excellent tip from Kat about how to ask questions in order to identify a challenge and rise to meet it. If you are struggling to identify and feel your feelings, Kat shines a light on the method she uses with clients to dig deeper.  This episode is a beautiful reminder to focus on all that you are, rather than all that you are not.    If you are having feelings of low self worth and have constant thoughts of not feeling enough, reach out to Kimmy for a complimentary coaching call to help you override thoughts and thrive in your life: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough. Remember, working on you is working on your dating life!    ************************************************⁣ EPISODE 297 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Overcoming Limiting Beliefs:  Interview With Kat Polsinelli. Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Co-ed Facebook Group Kimmy Seltzer's Dating Insiders:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovemakeovers

Does the thought of making small talk on a date make you cringe? When you think about being social to a total stranger at a bar or on a date, do you want to run and hide? Do you cherish your alone time? If this sounds like you, you might have introvert tendencies which can make dating hard.  This week, we're back with another episode of Coaching With Kimmy, where you'll hear a live, candid conversation with people like you about the challenges they face when dating and what they can do right now to start seeing different results. Listen to Kimmy's LIVE coaching session with Bernadette, an introverted woman who wants to come out of her shell and start to communicate in a more open, playful way.    EPISODE 296 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Introvert Dating Challenges:  Coaching with Kimmy   After her marriage ended more than a decade ago, she's ready to master the social skills she needs to find love again.  Kimmy asks Bernadette to share her dating history and experience in relationships. Bernadette talks about the challenges she faces when dating as an introvert such as an aversion to flirting, sharing her feelings and letting go of the intention of an outcome.  Stay tuned to hear key tips from Kimmy about how to start small and build up your ability to be "on" in social situations. You'll hear how by simply making the choice to dress up with intention or put on a bit of makeup can light you up instantly to attract more attention when you're out, and how you can use that to your advantage with confidence. This conversation is all about how to make an impactful impression and increasing your social confidence when dating.   If you're ready to get our of your introverted shell and feel sexy, playful and fun when dating, there are 2 new upcoming opportunities for you.  First, join Kimmy May 23 for her next co-ed interactive workshop called Flirting Made Easy where you will learn to unleash your natural charm and charisma. You'll leave the workshop inspired, confident, and ready to navigate the dating world with a fun positive attitude!  Just click the link to register but hurry these spots go quick www.stophatingdating.com   Also Kimmy is doing another one of her epic co-ed dating retreat programs that is coming up in June/July called Dating Reimagined in Southern California so if you are interested definitely contact her directly by going to www.askkimmy.com to see if it's fit.  She only has a few spots left for this so contact her sooner than later!

This week, Kimmy plays a classic throwback episode where she tells her story and dives deep on how to flirt, have fun and fall in love with everyone!    EPISODE 295 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirt & Have Fun With Everyone   Listen in to hear Kimmy's story of finding her sexy confidence again after divorce. You'll hear her talk about how she learned the value of being playful and flirty when dating. When you look the part, turn on the charm and become open to all the possibilities, you can be the most magnetic person in the room.  Kimmy breaks down the definition of flirting. She shares her key tips on how to let go of the intention of an outcome when flirting. Find out what flirting means to you, and use that to find your own style.  Stay tuned to hear how smiling, making eye contact, and talking to anyone can make everyone in the room notice you.   If you're ready to feel sexy, playful and fun when dating again, there are 2 new upcoming opportunities for you.  First, join Kimmy May 23 for her next co-ed interactive workshop called Flirting Made Easy where you will learn to unleash your natural charm and charisma. You'll leave the workshop inspired, confident, and ready to navigate the dating world with a fun positive attitude!  Just click the link to register but hurry these spots go quick www.stophatingdating.com Also Kimmy is doing another one of her epic co-ed dating retreat programs that is coming up in June/July called Dating Reimagined in Southern California so if you are interested definitely contact her directly by going to www.askkimmy.com to see if it's fit.  She only has a few spots left for this so contact her sooner than later!

************************************************⁣ EPISODE 295 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Flirt & Have Fun With Everyone.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

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Do you know how to find your JSpot? No you didn't read this wrong..the "J" stands for joy and if you are not feeling excitement and bogged down with a lot of stress, it will be hard to find dating fun!  You can make the process more enjoyable by approaching dating with a lighthearted joyful attitude, focusing on the present moment, and being yourself. 
This week on the show, Kimmy has a conversation with best-selling author and speaker Shari Alyse, who is known as the Joy Magnet who works with people to live joyful lives.    EPISODE 294 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Find Your JSpot:  Interview With Shari Alyse   Shari shares candidly about experiencing childhood sexual abuse and how that trauma impacted the trajectory of her life and her ability to feel true joy. Shari shares how she felt disconnected from herself and her journey to reconnect to herself, and her happiness.  Kimmy asks Shari what her life was like when she was in a dark place and what strategies she used to move forward. Shari discusses strategies around healing, starting with finding joy and acknowledging where you are and what really feels good to you.  Shari and Kimmy talk about Shari's dating life and how she started to turn her life around and prioritize what she wanted. Listen in to hear Shari's top tips about how to ignite joy in your life.    This conversation will remind you that joy, levity and play are within your reach! If you are not feeling the spark of joy or flirtiness in your life, there are 2 new upcoming opportunities for you.  First, join Kimmy May 23 for her next co-ed interactive workshop called Flirting Made Easy where you will learn to unleash your natural charm and charisma. You'll leave the workshop inspired, confident, and ready to navigate the dating world with a fun positive attitude!  Just click the link to register but hurry these spots go quick www.stophatingdating.com   Also Kimmy is doing another one of her epic co-ed dating retreat programs that is coming up in June/July called Dating Reimagined in Southern California so if you are interested definitely contact her directly by going to www.askkimmy.com to see if it's fit.  She only has a few spots left for this so contact her sooner than later!   ************************************************⁣ EPISODE 294 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: How To Find Your JSpot:  Interview With Shari Alyse.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

Have you been attracting emotionally unavailable people? Are you constantly frustrated by the quality of men or women you meet?  This week on Coaching With Kimmy, you'll hear a candid conversation with someone like you looking to date and find love. Kimmy addresses how to stop attracting emotionally unavailable people. Listen in to hear the signs that you are building walls in order to protect yourself, because of pain you experienced in the past and how it is acting as your love shield.    EPISODE 293 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Attracting The Emotionally Unavailable:  Coaching With Kimmy   Kimmy has a conversation with Bianca, a fun-loving person and successful professional who is struggling to make deeper emotional connections with men. Bianca has worked on herself and is aware of dynamics at play growing up that led her to gain confidence based on her achievements, instead of who she is at her core.  If you have trouble expressing your emotions or feel overwhelmed when you're being vulnerable, this conversation is for you.  Kimmy and Bianca talk through the barriers Bianca feels to diving back into the dating pool. Bianca vulnerably shares her journey with body confidence and self-worth. Kimmy and Bianca discuss her reluctance to open up and let men really get to know her.  If you want to stop attracting people that are not right for you, Kimmy dishes about how to become the Queen Bee and focus on what you really want!   If you feel after listening to this that you may have some emotional walls built up which is acting as your love shield, hop on a call with Kimmy to see how she can help you become more available for love. Book it here https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough   ************************************************⁣ EPISODE 293 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Stop Attracting The Emotionally Unavailable:  Coaching With Kimmy.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

 

Are you the hero or the villain in the story of your life? If you have experienced any level of trauma in your past, it's very likely that you're bringing remnants of that trauma into your journey to find love.  This week, Kimmy has a raw, vulnerable conversation with Michael Unbroken the Founder of Think Unbroken, best-selling author, award-winning speaker, podcast host, coach, and advocate for adult survivors of childhood trauma.   EPISODE 292 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting Go Of The Past:  Interview With Michael Unbroken   Michael shares his heart-wrenching story of trauma, abuse and the pain he experienced growing up. From enduring physical abuse as a child to battling addiction to nearly ending his life, Michael has come out the other side with a completely new perspective on his ability to control his future.  If you have struggled with your mental health and self worth due to trauma in your past, listen up. Kimmy and Michael share countless tangible tips and advice on how to reframe your mindset and get out of your own way to progress towards a new, healthy version of you.  Stay tuned to hear the difference between setting goals and finding true alignment. You may think you know exactly what you want, but have you ever asked yourself if that desire is internal or external?  If you are struggling with insecurity or low self-worth, it's more likely that you will attract people who hold the same qualities.  If you are struggling with behaviors that numb you out and disconnect you from your body, your mind or from supportive relationships, this conversation is for you.  This episode is packed with tough love and hard truths, but it may just be exactly what you need to hear to decide to make a change for the better.    If you are having a hard time letting go of the past to attract love in your life and want to find ways to move past the fear, take action by signing up for a free coaching call with Kimmy so that she can help you map out a plan to do that here  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣     ************************************************⁣ EPISODE 292 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Letting Go Of The Past:  Interview With Michael Unbroken.  Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups    

Creating healthy sexual boundaries is different for everyone. How and when do you decide to connect with someone in a sexually intimate way?  This week, Kimmy dives into the nitty gritty when it comes to sex in a revealing interview with Heather Shannon, a Certified Sex Therapist, who shares her personal journey about how she got into this work. Heather helps people discover their sexual selves and deepen their intimate relationships with one another.   EPISODE 291 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Healthy Sexual Boundaries:  Interview with Heather Shannon   Listen in to hear a story about a former client of Kimmy's who would use sexual interactions as a way to feel emotionally close to guys she dated. If you struggle to create boundaries or gravitate towards sex before making an emotional connection with someone, this conversation will help put that experience into perspective.  Heather and Kimmy talk about how sex is discussed and portrayed in culture and media, and how that can have a big impact on our own self-worth and confidence. Ultimately, you are the one in control of the choices you make.  Physical intimacy can be exhilarating, fun, vulnerable, and scary all at the same time. Stay tuned to hear some tips and tricks from Heather about how to communicate openly and honestly about your boundaries without having to over-explain or get into the weeds. This conversation will help remind you to embrace what you want and let go of what doesn't serve you!   If you are ready to learn how to create healthy boundaries around sex or anything else when dating, reach out to Kimmy here: meetme.so/kimbreakthrough and find time to speak with Kimmy for free for 30 minute coaching call. Just one conversation could change the trajectory of your love life for good!   EPISODE 291 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Healthy Sexual Boundaries:  Interview with Heather Shannon. The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups  

Have you ever looked in the mirror and questioned whether you're still desirable or wondered if finding love later in life is even possible? What if everything you've been told about aging — especially when it comes to love, relationships, and sensuality — was wrong? In Episode 416 of The Charisma Quotient, "Dating Over 50: Why Aging Is Your Superpower with Golden Bachelor's Natascha Hardee," Kimmy dives deep into the powerful truth that aging isn't a decline, but a dynamic redesign and a superpower for living vibrantly..

 

In this episode, Kimmy welcomes Natascha Hardy, a pro-aging advocate and one of the standout stars from The Golden Bachelor, for an honest and joyful conversation about reinvention, visibility, and reclaiming joy and flirtation in midlife. Kimmy and Natasha share transformative stories from their own lives and the lives of their clients—like the 85-year-old woman learning to flirt at a bar or the transformational moment when covering mirrors turned into rediscovering beauty in oneself.  You'll also hear funny behind-the-scenes moments from the first season of the Golden Bachelor. They explore why so many feel "past their prime" and reveal how you can cultivate radiance and confidence, rewrite your story, and connect meaningfully with others regardless of age.

 

You'll get expert insights on mindset, navigating the shifting landscape of relationships, and breaking free from societal expectations. From revelations about dating as a skill and tackling emotional intelligence, to actionable advice on self-love and setting boundaries, every moment is geared towards showing you how to live life large at any age.

 

 You'll hear:

• Tips for reinventing your dating life, even after decades away from the scene.

• Why aging amplifies your wisdom, confidence, and sensuality, not diminishes it.

• The skill of dating: how it's learned, practiced, and why it matters more now than ever.

• Real talk about emotional intelligence and the differences between how men and women approach relationships in midlife.

• Actionable ways to prioritize self-love, set boundaries, and cultivate community in your second act.

 

If you're ready to redefine sexy, book a free call with Kimmy here: https://www.kimmyseltzer.com/breakthrough-session/

 

Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels.

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Welcome back one of our favorite segments, Where Are They Now, a series of episodes designed to inspire and motivate you with the stories of Kimmy's past clients. Success looks different for everyone and it can happen for you too!  This week, you'll hear a celebratory conversation between Kimmy and Susan, a client she met a little more than a year ago who had some fears around flirting and being seen which was impacting her ability to put herself out there and date.   EPISODE 290 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Stop Feeling Invisible:  Where Are They Now With Susan   You'll hear Susan and Kimmy talk through Susan's journey going from feeling insecure and invisible to recognizing that she wanted to be seen despite her fear around it. Listen in to hear all about how Susan went from hiding herself and being controlled by her fear of being judged to feeling and looking effervescent.  If you have ever felt that if people got to know the "real" you, they wouldn't like what they saw, this episode is for you.  If you have struggled with people pleasing, this episode has tips and strategies you can use to help flip that script. This conversation touches of the importance of exploring what femininity means to you and the empowerment you can feel if you embrace that energy within yourself. Susan and Kimmy talk through the progress Susan has made since she started working with Kimmy and how she has become able to feel and express her feelings in an authentic way. Hear Susan's experience working through various workshops Kimmy has offered and the impact they had on her sexy confidence.    If you are ready to take the next step to put yourself out there but don't really know how, sign up for Kimmy's newest workshop April 11th, First Impression Makeover www.stophatingdating.com!  This coed, interactive workshop will help you increase your sexy confidence by focusing on being irresistibly sexy and confident, using your clothing and body language to create a powerful and unforgettable first impression.   EPISODE 290 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Stop Feeling Invisible:  Where Are They Now With Susan.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups

It only takes 7 seconds to make a first impression with someone you meet. Whether you want to make an impact in dating or in business, this episode will illuminate how you can create attraction from the moment you walk into the room.  On this episode, Kimmy brings back a fan-favorite episode with Scott Carson, an investor, entrepreneur, marketer and host of the Note Closers Show Podcast. As a proven expert in building relationships in business, Scott knows how to make a lasting first impression.    EPISODE 289 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: First Impression Mistakes:  Interview With Scott Carson   Kimmy and Scott recount their first impressions of one another at the New Media Podcast Summit. Listen in to hear what elements of your style and attitude are the most memorable to people you meet. If you show up with a curious, positive attitude you have the power to shift the energy of those around you.  When you socialize, network and date out in the world, owning who you are and what you're working with is key. These two talk wardrobe tips, including power colors and moving towards sexy confidence.  If you have ever stood in front of your mirror and wondered, "Does this dress look good on me?" or, "Does this outfit reflect a sexy dating image?", listen in how you can improve your image.  Scott and Kimmy talk about the common factors that define the most charismatic, confident people in business and in dating. You may be surprised to hear how these skills can be learned! The more you show up as intentionally and authentically as yourself, it helps people trust and believe you.  This lively, fun conversation will remind you to take the time to take care of yourself so that you can start attracting new love and opportunity.   If you are ready to make an impactful, memorable first impression for all the right reasons, here are two things you can do right now. First, dig into Kimmy's Style Guides at kimmyseltzer.com/style to find out your body type and what styles will flatter your figure today. Take it to the next level, and check out Kimmy's upcoming interactive co-ed First Impression Makeover Workshop.  Here you will learn how to create your own confident style and master body language for your dating success.  If you desire to feel confident in your skin, market yourself attractively and attract dream partners in a fun-fill experience grab your spot here www.stophatingdating.com.      EPISODE 289 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: First Impression Mistakes:  Interview With Scott Carson.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups      

Welcome back to another episode of Where Are They Now?! In this segment, you will hear inspiring conversations between Kimmy and her clients all about how their lives have transformed since working with Kimmy.  In this episode, you'll hear an intimate, candid conversation with Deirdre, who found Kimmy though a free flirting workshop she was leading on Facebook Live.   EPISODE 288 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Unleashing Dating Confidence With Style:  Where Are They Now With Deirdre   She decided to invest in coaching because she recognized that she needed a plan to increase her dating confidence, discover her sexy, flirtatious, playful side and learning how to emote to create vulnerability and attraction when dating.  Deirdre opens up by sharing how she made the decision to begin working with Kimmy at the onset of the pandemic, and how that global shift inspired her to look inward and uncover what she really wanted.  Kimmy asks Deirdre to share what her love life looked like before she chose to start working with Kimmy. Looking ahead towards her 50th birthday, Deirdre decided that she wanted to address the loneliness and disconnection she was feeling by finding herself and finding love.  Kimmy and Deirdre reflect back some of Deirdre's key learning moments throughout her coaching journey. If you struggle with a fear of rejection or a total lack of dating experience, this conversation will resonate with you.  Listen in to hear a deep dive into one of Deirdre's most transformational moments, a Virtual Makeover. Deirdre shares how she went from having a total of ZERO dresses in her closet, to finding her signature color to looking and feeling damn good in her clothes!  Deirdre shares more about how the skills she gained through working with Kimmy have translated into many areas of her life, even outside of love and relationships. When you create the space for yourself to be playful, confident, and show up knowing your worth, you will find that you start to make an impact the moment you enter the room and people will flock toward you.   If you are feeling frumpy and not very sexy in your dating life, Kimmy has a FREE style guide for men and women that you can download here www.kimmyseltzer.com/style.  These guides will help you determine your body type, what clothes flatter your figure, and provide specific fashion tips just for you so that you feel that sexy confidence in your clothes and body.   EPISODE 288 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled: Dating Confidence With Style:  Where Are They Now With Deirdre.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups