Zak Rosen, Elizabeth Newcamp, and Lucy Lopez share triumphs and fails and offer advice on parenting kids from toddler to teens.
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On this episode: Elizabeth, Lucy, and guest host Maribel Quezada-Smith circle up to talk about the viral moment surrounding Gus Walz’s appearance at the DNC last week — and what it meant to us, and our community, as parents of neurodivergent kids, and especially of boys.
We’ll also tackle a round of Triumphs & Fails — including a story about a very special language lesson.
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Podcast produced by Maura Currie.
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We Need to Stop Losing Library Books
Monday, August 26, 2024 • Duration 38:21
On this episode: Elizabeth, Lucy and Zak offer tips for a kid who’s really, really good at losing library books and incurring the dreaded fees. How can parents help keep track of library books… and, more broadly, do communal school supplies mean we don’t have to worry about labeling anymore?
We also check in on what’s happening in the hosts’ lives right now. And then, if you’re joining us for the Plus Playground — out now in your podcast feed — we’re sharing strategies for the after-school debrief.
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Lucy’s check-in: immersive theater!!
Elizabeth’s check-in: the kids do anniversary dinner
Zak’s check-in: honeymoon phase (covid included)
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Ugh, What’s For Dinner?
Monday, July 29, 2024 • Duration 32:44
On this episode: Lucy, Zak, and Chris Duffy answer a question from the Slate Parenting Facebook group about what to do when dinner rolls around. This member of the group would be perfectly happy with toast or popcorn, but also wants to make sure their toddler grows up with a healthy relationship to food. We’ll share some low-effort, high-tastiness ideas for the weeknight dinner rush.
We’ll also try out a new segment called Just Checking In — where we’ll share what’s on our mind this week. Then, for Slate Plus listeners – we’re circling up on the Playground and talking to Chris about his new ebook, all about making and keeping platonic relationships.
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Lucy’s check-in: a euphemism for Espresso
Chris’ check-in: how do you have a platform but also respect your kids’ privacy?
Zak’s check-in: moving across the world (soon)
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Should I Give My Kid an Allowance?
Monday, September 11, 2023 • Duration 31:16
On this episode: Zak Rosen, Jamilah Lemieux, and Elizabeth Newcamp tackle two listener questions. First: How young is too young for an allowance? The question-asker’s 4-year-old really likes asking for things when they go to the store and she’s wondering if an allowance will help him learn the value of money. Second: How to make time for playdates, especially when both parents work and the weekend is pretty packed.
Recommendations:
Jamilah recommends Curb Your Enthusiasm
Elizabeth recommends this fridge calendar
Zak recommends The Eyes & the Impossible by Dave Eggers
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Podcast produced by Rosemary Belson and Maura Currie.
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The Power Of Aunts and Uncles w/ Jake Gyllenhaal, Greta Caruso, and Dan Santat
Thursday, September 7, 2023 • Duration 33:25
On this episode: Zak interviews Jake Gyllenhaal, Greta Caruso, and Dan Santat about their new book, The Secret Society of Aunts & Uncles. They dive into what makes that particular relationship so special, why it’s overlooked in children’s literature, and even what goes into crafting a kids book.
We also go over our week in triumphs and fails. Then, if you’re sticking around for Slate Plus, we share some Instagram accounts that are actually making our lives better.
Zak recommends:
@owen.han
@daily dad
@inspiredtowrite (author Amy McNee)
Elizabeth recommends:
@games.4two (The Board Game Couple)
@sexpositive_families
@adailycloud
Jamilah recommends:
@singleblackmotherhood
@goodmoms_badchoices
And of course, you can always follow your hosts on Instagram, too:
Jamilah: @jamilahlemieux
Zak: @bestadviceshow
Elizabeth: @ejdn
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Decoder Ring: The Quest for a Homemade Hovercraft
Monday, September 4, 2023 • Duration 41:43
On this episode from our friends at Slate's Decoder Ring podcast: When Slate’s Evan Chung was a kid, he was obsessed with a mysterious advertisement that ran for decades in the scouting magazine Boys’ Life. Under the enticing headline “You Can Float on Air,” the ad assured Evan—and generations of scouts—that a personal hovercraft could be theirs for just a few bucks.
In this episode, the adult version of Evan journeys halfway across the country to wield power tools, summon his latent scouting skills, and conscript his father into a quest three decades in the making.
Will Evan float on air? Scout’s honor: You’ll just have to listen.
This episode was written by Evan Chung, who produced this episode with Decoder Ring’s Willa Paskin and Katie Shepherd. It was edited by Willa Paskin and Joel Meyer. Derek John is Slate’s executive producer of narrative podcasts. Merritt Jacob is our senior technical director.
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Lessons From a Racist Instagram and the Teens It Hurt
Thursday, August 31, 2023 • Duration 40:35
On this episode: Award-winning journalist Dashka Slater joins to talk about her new book, Accountable: The True Story of a Racist Social Media Account and the Teenagers Whose Lives It Changed. It’s a story of a teen sharing extremely racist memes and photos of classmates on a private instagram and what happened when the account was discovered. It led to even more hurt, protests, botched mediation, and a community-wide conversation about justice and what it means to be complicit.
Besides the interview, hosts Jamilah Lemieux, Elizabeth Newcamp, and Zak Rosen share their parenting ups and downs of the week—including a late night before the first day of kindergarten and big-kid summer camp. Then, on Slate Plus: we share lots of listener letters ranging from two player games to suggestions for handling the great bathroom conundrum of 2023.
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My Son Refuses to Pee at School Due to an Unreasonable Policy
Monday, August 28, 2023 • Duration 23:53
On this episode: Elizabeth, Zak and Jamilah help a listener who isn’t happy with her kid’s friend getting unrestricted phone access. Is there a way to enforce their family rules when they’re playing at the friend’s house? Then, Elizabeth has a back-to-school conundrum of her own and is seeking advice.
Recommendations:
Jamilah: Simply Light Lemonade with Raspberry.
Zak: Jazz Baby
Elizabeth: Caep phone strap
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Welcoming Everyone Into the School Community
Thursday, August 24, 2023 • Duration 27:11
On this episode: Elizabeth, Zak and Jamilah help a listener who’s realized their community at school is super tight knit… to the point that new families feel left out and lonely. How can this listener and the PTA help bring newbies into the fold?
We also go over our week in triumphs and fails — including potty training breakthroughs, overrated board games, and a mishap involving a glass wall. Then, on Slate Plus: handling little kids’ big feelings about going back to school.
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Family Meditation Made Easy (and Fun)
Monday, August 21, 2023 • Duration 22:17
On this episode: Zak Rosen, Jamilah Lemieux, and Elizabeth Newcamp help a parent who wants to give their youngest some mindfulness tools to help with their nighttime anxiety. They share a ton of resources—so you’re bound to find something that will work for your family!
This week’s non-meditation recommendations:
Jamilah: Black Cake by Charmaine Wilkerson
Elizabeth: Cino Linko
Zak: Goodles
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