Can't Host is a gay and queer men’s sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place! www.georgelizos.com
In this juicy episode, I’m spilling all the tea on my sexual adventures from this summer, including attending my first-ever sex party in New York! From navigating new sexual spaces to pushing myself out of my comfort zone, this journey has been eye-opening in so many ways. I’ll be sharing lessons learned on setting boundaries in intimate encounters, learning to respect your body’s needs and desires, and how to approach new experiences with curiosity and confidence.
During Pride Cyprus, I asked people whether Pride is important. I've edited their replies into this short episode, highlighting the issues and themes that our community continues to face. The spirit of Pride is especially lively in Cyprus, as we are still campaigning for equal human rights.
In this episode, we journey into healing shame and trauma with the author of Transcending Trauma and To Be Loved, Dr. Frank Anderson. Exploring the myriad types of trauma individuals encounter throughout their lives, Dr. Anderson sheds light on the specific challenges faced by gay men and members of the queer community. Drawing on his expertise, he distinguishes between trauma and PTSD, unraveling how trauma shapes our thoughts, behaviors, and emotions. Delve into the question of whether true healing from trauma is possible and whether forgiveness of perpetrators is a necessary part of the process. Additionally, Dr. Anderson addresses the complex issue of past traumas resurfacing post-healing, offering invaluable insights into navigating the ongoing journey of recovery.
'Can't Host' named one of the Top 30 Relationship Podcasts for Men by Feedspot:
Dr. Frank Anderson, Harvard educated psychiatrist, trauma specialist, and author of the upcoming memoir To Be Loved: A Story of Truth, Trauma, and Transformation. He is the go-to “Trauma Expert” and knows firsthand what it’s like to endure the pain.
Dr. Anderson has spent the past three decades studying neuroscience and trauma treatment, working to heal trauma and bring more love, compassion, and unity to the world. Dr. Anderson has been featured on PIX11, KTLA, and more and been praised and endorsed by many, including Bessel A. van der Kolk, MD, NYT-bestselling author of The Body Keeps the Score. Dr. Anderson also recently formed Trauma-Informed Media, which is composed of an Emmy-nominated team of diverse entertainment and mental health professionals who support the emergence of mental health content in the media.
Ep.44: OnlyFans Secrets, Gay Cruises, and Surprise Anal with Greg McKeon
Season 2 · Episode 13
Friday, February 9, 2024 • Duration 43:29
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In the second part of my chat with porn star Greg McKeon, we embark on a candid exploration of OnlyFans secrets, gay cruises, and the intricacies of surprise anal. Join us as we navigate through the complexities of modern-day sexual experiences, emphasizing the importance of consent, communication, and shedding shame around sex. Greg sheds light on the nuances of navigating overly aggressive Dom Tops, the prevalence of OnlyFan bots, and the empowering journey of reclaiming sex as a sacred act, only engaging when genuine desire arises. Our conversation delves into the resurgence of twinks and the vibrant world of gay cruises and cruising apps, while also exploring the taboo realm of glory holes and underground sex parties. Through our dialogue, we aim to challenge slut-shaming attitudes and foster a culture of open-mindedness, acceptance, and respect for all expressions of sexuality.
ABOUT GREG MCKEON
Greg McKeon (aka Bishop Manwaring, Grgisthewerd, Joe Manwaring) is a top who is best known for his performances with Bareback Network and Missionary Boyz. In 2020, he was a GayVN Best Fetish Scene nominee for "President Lewis: The Sacrament" (Missionary Boyz) and a StraightUpGayPorn nominee for Best Newcomer and Favorite Butt. His performance as a down-on-his-luck guy finding sexual comfort with his step-nephew in "Failed Inspection" from Disruptive Films is also one of the highlights of his career.
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Ep.43: Gay Porn Secrets: Fake Cum Shots, Stunt Dicks, Penile Injections with Greg McKeon
Season 2 · Episode 12
Friday, January 26, 2024 • Duration 43:06
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Explore the hidden facets of the gay porn industry in this revealing episode with porn star Greg McKeon. From unraveling industry secrets like fake cumshots and penile injections to delving into the financial side, Greg shares insights on how much money porn actors make and whether they have a say in choosing their scene partners. Gain a behind-the-scenes perspective on the intricacies of filming, including the time it takes and the challenges of working with fellow actors. Join us for a candid discussion as Greg peels back the curtain, offering a rare glimpse into the lesser-known aspects of the adult entertainment world.
ABOUT GREG MCKEON
Greg McKeon (aka Bishop Manwaring, Grgisthewerd, Joe Manwaring) is a top who is best known for his performances with Bareback Network and Missionary Boyz. In 2020, he was a GayVN Best Fetish Scene nominee for "President Lewis: The Sacrament" (Missionary Boyz) and a StraightUpGayPorn nominee for Best Newcomer and Favorite Butt. His performance as a down-on-his-luck guy finding sexual comfort with his step-nephew in "Failed Inspection" from Disruptive Films is also one of the highlights of his career.
This 25-minute subliminal track includes my top 30 affirmations for attracting hot and fulfilling sex, playing on repeat. As you listen to it, you'll subconsciously receive and believe these statements, and start attracting fun sexual experiences.
Subliminal affirmation typically include positive affirmations embedded at a subliminal level, meaning they are played at a volume or frequency that is not consciously perceived by the listener. The goal is to influence the subconscious mind and promote positive changes in thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors.
About Me
I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.
Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/
In this episode, herbalism and plant energetics expert Coby Michael guides us through the enchanting world of aphrodisiac herbs and psychoactive plants. Exploring the properties of roses, hawthorn, cacao, and more, Coby delves into herbal infusions, essential oils, and burning herbs, emphasizing their significance in connecting with plant spirits. The discussion extends to the effects of cannabis on sexuality, the energetic influence of poppers, and the use of magic mushrooms in enhancing intimacy. Join us as we unravel the mysteries of plant signatures, flower essences, and the profound connections between nature and our most intimate experiences.
ABOUT COBY
Coby Michael is an occult herbalist and magical practitioner specializing in the ritual use of poisonous and psychoactive plants. He studied religion at Arizona State University and has been a folk herbalist since a young age. He owns and operates The Poisoner's Apothecary, an online shop and educational resource for The Poison Path. Coby has been blogging since 2016 for Patheos Pagan and The House of Twigs, and has written articles for This Witch Magazine (2020),The Witches' Almanac (2022) The Poisoner's Guild (2023) . His first book The Poison Path Herbal came out in 2021 with Inner Traditions. He just finished his second book Leo Witch (2023) Llewellyn. He currently resides in St. Petersburg, Fl and travels the country teaching people about plant magic, the poison path and reconnecting with nature.
In this episode, we embark on a thoughtful exploration into the crucial topic of raising LGBTQIA+ allies with Chris Tompkins. Join us as we navigate the nuances of discussing LGBTQ issues with children, gaining insights into the right age to broach these conversations and foster understanding. Chris delves into the subconscious heteronormative norms ingrained in us from a young age and provides guidance on releasing them, paving the way for a more inclusive perspective. Our conversation extends to addressing the challenges posed by homophobic teachers, offering practical strategies to navigate these situations and ensure a supportive environment for all. We also delve into the proactive measures needed to prevent the adoption of homophobic and transphobic beliefs by new generations. Chris shares specific actions that parents, family members, and caregivers can take to initiate and navigate conversations that foster allyship and inclusivity.
ABOUT CHRIS TOMPKINS
Chris Tompkins is a therapist and educator based in Los Angeles, California. Chris specializes in helping gay men unburden past pain to wake up feeling a greater sense of purpose, self-acceptance, and belonging.
In addition to being a therapist, Chris is a TEDx speaker and author of the best-selling book, Raising LGBTQ Allies: A Parent’s Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground. While his book aims to help families prevent homophobia, transphobia, and bullying before they begin, Raising LGBTQ Allies is a peace offering for members of the LGBTQ community to heal from the effects of trauma and toxic shame.
The foundation of Chris’ work is built on the belief that connecting with our spirituality, loving ourselves, and taking full responsibility for our lives and choices is where our strength lies at the deepest level.
Join us on a transformative journey as we explore the top fears and limiting beliefs shaping the experiences of gay men. Britt East unravels the barriers hindering us from engaging in the essential work of healing, offering insightful tools and modalities for self discovery. Our conversation extends to redefining the concept of family within the LGBTQ+ community, exploring ways to create bonds that transcend the norms of a straight society. We also navigate the intricacies of cultivating sustainable gay friendships amid internalized homophobia, unveiling strategies for fostering genuine connections. In a world dominated by hook-up apps and disposable relationships, Britt shares profound insights into finding lasting love, providing a thoughtful perspective on building connections that withstand the challenges of a fast paced world.
ABOUT BRITT EAST
BRITT EAST is an author and speaker who uses his experience, strength, and hope to challenge and inspire change-oriented gay men to get down to the business of improving their lives. With over two decades of personal growth and development experience in a variety of modalities, such as the 12 Steps, Nonviolent Communication, yoga, meditation, talk therapy, and the Hoffman Process, Britt is committed to building a personal practice of self-discovery that he can then share with gay men everywhere. He lives in Seattle with his husband and their crazy dog.
In this episode, we explore the journey of coming out and coming of age with bestselling author Josh Sabarra. Join us as we navigate the challenges of stepping out of the closet, unraveling the fears and limiting beliefs that often hinder this transformative process. Josh shares profoun insights on coping with bullying, both in childhood and adulthood, offering a perspective that goes beyond the surface. Additionally, our conversation delves into a unique aspect — the mindful use of porn, shedding light on a topic often surrounded by stigma.
About Josh Sabarra
Two-time bestselling author Josh Sabarra is a veteran marketing executive and television producer who has held positions at The Walt Disney Company, Warner Bros. Studios, Miramax Films, New Line Cinema and A&E Networks. Having spearheaded campaigns for such blockbusters as THE NOTEBOOK, THE LORD OF THE RINGS, HARRY POTTER AND THE SORCERER'S STONE, WEDDING CRASHERS, THE SIXTH SENSE, among many others, he has remained a sought-after voice across all platforms of entertainment. His first book, PORN AGAIN: A MEMOIR, continues to sell out internationally, and his debut novel, ENEMIES CLOSER, has had similar success. Sabarra recently completed work on a Batman graphic novel for DC Entertainment/Warner Bros., GONE FROM GOTHAM, which is set to hit shelves in 2024. As an executive producer of the popular Hallmark Channel HAILEY DEAN MYSTERIES series, he oversaw the production of more than twelve films in addition to the recently aired CHRISTMAS BEDTIME STORIES. For A&E/Lifetime Networks, he has executive produced movies such as THE ELEVENTH VICTIM and THE GOOD FATHER with a new true crime film currently in development for the cable channel.
Sabarra resides in Los Angeles, CA, where he is hard at work outlining his next book. Website: www.joshsabarra.com Instagram: @joshsabarra Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSabarraAuthor/
I’m George Lizos, spiritual teacher, psychic healer, and #1 bestselling author. Growing up in a small Christian community, I was judged and rejected for being gay and different. After a futile two-year attempt to change who I was born to be, I called myself a human abomination and almost took my own life. Fortunately, in my darkest moment, I saw the light and ventured on a healing journey of love, forgiveness, and spiritual awakening.
Yet, my gay dating life since hasn’t always been all roses and rainbows, and my past dramas and traumas have definitely kept things spicy. Fast forward past many awkward dates and disappointing sex, I Created Can’t Host to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, explore the complex dynamics of gay sex and relationships, and create opportunities for healing and growth. https://georgelizos.com/
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