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Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse

Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.

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Frequency: 1 episode/6d. Total Eps: 290

Confused by your relationship? Do you catch yourself second-guessing, walking on eggshells, or feeling emotionally drained? Whether you’re still in the chaos or trying to rebuild after leaving, this podcast is your lifeline.

Join retired psychologist Dr. Kerry McAvoy as she exposes the hidden dynamics of toxic relationships. You’ll learn how destructive personalities operate, the manipulative tactics they use, and the stages of abuse—plus the practical steps to heal and reclaim your life.

If you’re ready to break free, rebuild your self-worth, and find lasting emotional freedom, hit play and start your recovery journey today.

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🇨🇦 Canada - mentalHealth
22/08/2026
#85
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22/08/2026
#99
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🇨🇦 Canada - mentalHealth
15/08/2026
#86
🇺🇸 USA - mentalHealth
15/08/2026
#93

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Why Family Court Too Often Takes the Side of the Narcissistic Abuser

Season 3 · Episode 79

Monday, August 26, 2024 • Duration 24:12

Have you noticed that too off family court becomes just another battle ground for the narcissist?

Lisa Sonni joins me this week to discuss post-separation of abuse. Most of us passionately want to protect our children from our toxic ex only to experience more helplessness in the mediation and courtrooms.

To learn how to tip the scales in your favor legally, join me for the Podcast Extra interview by becoming a paid subscriber. Learn the common mistake too many parents make, and what to do instead. Get immediate access here: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse?utm_source=edit-profile-page

Resources Referenced:
Emotionally Bulletproof Kids
https://strongerthanbefore.ca/webinar-bulletproof-kids

When Dad Hurts Mom by Lundy Bancroft: https://amzn.to/3Xbg8mj

Angela - Family Court Corner: https://www.familycourtcorner.com

Follow Dr. McAvoy!

YouTube: @kerrymcavoyphd
Instagram: @kerrymcavoyphd
Facebook: @kerrymcavoyphd
E-mail: hello@kerrymcavoyphd.com
Newsletter: https://breakingfreenarcabuse.substack.com/
Website: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com/

Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., a mental health specialist and author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships, deconstructing narcissism, and understanding various other mental health-related issues. Her memoir, Love You More: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross, gives an uncensored glimpse into the dynamics of narcissistic abuse.

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Disclaimer: This podcast/video is for educational purposes only. It does not constitute therapy, counseling, or professional mental health advice. If you are in crisis, please call 911 or your local emergency number.

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Why Most People, Including the Victim, Fail to Recognize Narcissistic Abuse

Season 3 · Episode 78

Monday, August 19, 2024 • Duration 29:11

Are you being abused and don’t know it? Not only is society blind to narcissistic abuse, but so are most victims.

In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to talk about why narcissistic abuse is so difficult to spot, even to the victims, and the role this plays in the difficulty of getting help.

To learn how to break your silence and society’s denial in this week’s podcast extra interview with Lisa. You get access to this resource along with twenty other amazing interviews with experts like Dr. Les Carter and Bill Eddy. Get that help today: substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse

Resources Mentioned:
More on Hannah Neeleman & the Ballerina Farms controversy: https://www.thetimes.com/magazines/the-sunday-times-magazine/article/meet-the-queen-of-the-trad-wives-and-her-eight-children-plfr50cgk

How He Gets Into Her Head by Don Hennessey: https://amzn.to/3WICNET

How I Met, Married, and Got Scammed by a Gold Digger TikTok series: https://www.tiktok.com/@kerrymcavoyphd/playlist/Gold%20Digger%20Series-7391205894526176031?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc

New Powerful You Group Coaching: https://kerrymcavoyphd.com/new-powerful-you/

Follow Dr. McAvoy!

YouTube: @kerrymcavoyphd
Instagram: @kerrymcavoyphd
Facebook: @kerrymcavoyphd
E-mail: hello@kerrymcavoyphd.com
Newsletter: https://breakingfreenarcabuse.substack.com/
Website: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com/

I desperately love and fear them: The Terrifying Power of a Trauma Bond

Season 3 · Episode 69

Monday, June 17, 2024 • Duration 29:37

Could you be trauma-bonded to a narcissist? Are you battling a strange mix of love and fear?

Lisa Sonni joins me this week to discuss trauma bonds--an intense connection to another person that is very difficult to break. We think we feel love when it's based on fear.

Learn more about how to recognize if you're trauma-bonded and why it's so difficult to leave.

Become a subscriber and get the Podcast Extra exclusive conversation about WHY identifying and breaking a trauma bond is so difficult. substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse or https://ko-fi.com/kerrymcavoyphd- Two places, the same cost, and the same great content!

Books Mentioned:
The Betrayal Bond by Patrick Carnes, PhD
The Passionate Marriage by David Schnarch, PhD
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay Gibson, PhD
Recovering From Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay Gibson, PhD (Appendix contains the 10 Emotional Bill of Rights)

Resources Mentioned:
Strong & Unstoppable Retreat for Women Oct 3-6
Healing Strong 12-Week Group Coaching with Lisa and Kerry
Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club
1:1 Coaching with Lisa Sonni

Follow Dr. McAvoy!

YouTube: @kerrymcavoyphd
Instagram: @kerrymcavoyphd
Facebook: @kerrymcavoyphd
E-mail: hello@kerrymcavoyphd.com
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Is this really abuse? Maybe my partner or parent just lacks kindness

Season 1 · Episode 49

Monday, October 10, 2022 • Duration 24:31

What constitutes abuse? Have you ever stopped to consider the definition? Is it something that hurts a person’s feelings? In this episode, take a closer look at abuse and its subtleties. We’ll also discuss why narcissists often struggle to hold a job and the difference between narcissistic personality disorder and narcissistic traits.

"Isn’t Having Sex My Right: Why Sexual Coercion is Abuse"

Come listen to a panel of experts, including two psychologists, a pastor, and a reformed husband, discuss sex, intimacy, and sexual coercion on October 20th at 6:30 p.m.

Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd

Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club!

Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?

LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross

Available here at the following online stores.

And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises!

Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast!

How can my narcissistic ex move on so easily after saying they loved me?

Season 1 · Episode 48

Thursday, October 6, 2022 • Duration 27:21

Victims spend a lot of time trying to make sense of what happened. This is understandable since doing an analysis is part of improving our sense of safety. It goes awry when it is based on the wrong information. Men and women view the world differently but so do narcissists and the rest of the population.

In this episode, we’ll take a closer look at these different frameworks and their impact on understanding ourselves and the world.

Learn more about Deborah Tannen’s work.

Sandra L. Brown Webinar: "How Could I've Fallen for a Dangerous Man?" Nov 10 6:30 p.m. EST -Get you ticket now! All ticketholders will get a free replay of the event after it concludes.

Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd

Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club!

Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?

LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross

Available here at the following online stores.

And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises!

How does a narcissist or a psychopath differ? Aren't both abusive?

Season 1 · Episode 47

Monday, October 3, 2022 • Duration 24:48

What is the difference between a narcissist and a psychopath? Do those characteristics matter if both groups are abusive?

In this episode, we’ll take a closer look at the core motivations and relationship styles of both groups as well as get into why a trauma bond is so challenging to break.

What is narcissistic abuse? Dr. Milstead’s proposed definition in PsychCentral

Looking to understand why you can’t leave? Dr. Milstead explains what traps us in this video.

Get your tickets to the Sandra L. Brown Webinar: "How Could I've Fallen for a Dangerous Man?" Nov 10 6:30 p.m. EST. All ticketholders will get a free replay of the event after it concludes.

Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd

Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club!

Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?

LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross

Available here at the following online stores.

I think my partner is an addict. Will they become a narcissist too?

Season 1 · Episode 46

Thursday, September 29, 2022 • Duration 23:20

It’s not uncommon for narcissists to struggle with addictions, but it isn’t unusual for addicts to behave narcissistically. Does that mean those with addictions also have a personality disorder?

In this episode, we explore the effects of addiction on personality, the roots of narcissism, and if we should hold out hope for our narcissistic partner to make changes.

Is your partner dangerous, toxic, or capable of change? Take this free survey and find out!

Meet the Narcavengers and book an interaction with me at the Austin Meet-up, TX

Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd

Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club!

Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?

LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross

Available here at the following online stores.

And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises!

Consider to support this podcast!

How could I've fallen for the narcissist's love-bombing tactics?

Season 1 · Episode 45

Monday, September 26, 2022 • Duration 24:50

After an abusive relationship is over, most victims want to know how they couldn’t have fallen for the narcissist’s love-bombing. They often are blamed for missing the red flags, as if they were naive or, worse yet, stupid.

In this episode, we’ll analyze the five elements of love-bombing and what makes each of these strategies so effective.

"Isn’t Having Sex My Right: Why Sexual Coercion is Abuse"

Come listen to a panel of experts, including two psychologists, a pastor, and a reformed husband, discuss sex, intimacy, and sexual coercion on October 20th at 6:30 p.m.

Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd

Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club!

Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?

LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross

Available here at the following online stores.

And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises!

Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast!

What's wrong with me? Why isn't my partner interested in sex?

Season 1 · Episode 44

Thursday, September 22, 2022 • Duration 25:32

Sexual intimacy is a common problem in narcissistically abusive relationships. It's often a sign that the narcissist is becoming disillusioned.

In this episode, we address why some couples experience a loss of sexual interest in the bedroom. We'll also explore the defense mechanisms narcissists prefer to use, why hoovering is so prevalent, and what causes so many victims to fear romantic relationships after abuse.

Meet the Narcavengers and book an interaction with me at the Austin Meet-up, TX

Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd

Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club!

Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?

LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross

Available here at the following online stores.

And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises!

Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast!

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What emotional voodoo has the narcissist used to keep me trapped?

Season 1 · Episode 43

Monday, September 19, 2022 • Duration 23:25

During the last months of narcissistic abuse, I knew I was in trouble, yet I couldn’t leave. The paralysis was palpable. A physical pain. In this episode, we’ll explore the psychological reinforcement style used and why this is so paralyzing.

Meet the Narcavengers and book a interaction with me at the Austin Meet-up, TX

Follow me on Tiktok, Instagram, Youtube and Facebook! @kerrymcavoyphd

Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club!

Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?

LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross

Available here at the following online stores.

And be sure to sign up for Dr. McAvoy's 50 free Surviving Narcissism tips & exercises!

Consider donating the cost of a cup of coffee to support this podcast!

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Submit your question to be answered on air to the Fan Mail link below!

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