In this episode of Bow Down!, Dennis and Reese explore the themes and impact of Spike Jonze’ movie 'Her', focusing on the complexities of human relationships, the impact of AI on emotional connections, and the societal expectations placed on women. The conversation centers around analyzing the infamous “blind date” scene and they discuss their gut reactions to the scene, and how they conceive of the scene upon further reflection. The conversation delves into the nature of vulnerability, communication, and the ethics surrounding AI in relationships, ultimately questioning what it means to be human, in a world increasingly influenced by technology.

CW: 1:29 – Discussion of Self-H*rm and Philosophical Su*cide

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In this conversation, Reese and Dennis explore the complexities of change, the brain's response to it, and the power of belief in shaping our reality. They discuss how our perceptions and assumptions about change can influence our experiences and outcomes, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and intention in personal growth. The dialogue also touches on the interconnectedness of self-perception and interpersonal relationships, highlighting how our beliefs about ourselves reflect in how we treat others.

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This week, Reese and Dennis continue their conversation about Severance and the lessons we can learn from the patriarchal and capitalistic themes.

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Watch Severance: https://tv.apple.com/us/episode/good-news-about-hell/umc.cmc.s80mx1ic96pu6ewupz8pfasf?showId=umc.cmc.1srk2goyh2q2zdxcx605w8vtx

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This week, Reese and Dennis explore the world of Severance and how womanhood impacts the narrative of storytelling within the show. This conversation explores the ideas of selfhood, identity, and the intersection of capitalism and patriarchy. Be a part of the Collective and tune in to Bow Down! every week.

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Below are quotes, links, and resources for further understanding and research on a variety of mentioned topics.

Watch Severance: https://tv.apple.com/us/episode/good-news-about-hell/umc.cmc.s80mx1ic96pu6ewupz8pfasf?showId=umc.cmc.1srk2goyh2q2zdxcx605w8vtx

Darren Mooney's Blog: https://them0vieblog.com/

Smack, Reese

Founder, The Cohere Collective

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This week, Dennis leads Reese through a guides affirmation meditation that focuses on Lilithian energy and feminine empowerment. Join us to go through the experience yourself, and listen to our reflections.

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Below are quotes, links, and resources for further understanding and research on a variety of mentioned topics.

Affirmations from Squeaky’s Cauldron: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s0kKK13XrsM

Inside by Bo Burnham: https://www.netflix.com/title/81289483

The 72 spirits of the Goetia are listed in the grimoire "The Lesser Key of Solomon," also known as "Lemegeton Clavicula Salomonis." This text was compiled in the mid-17th century from older sources. Ose (also spelled Osé, Oze, Oso, or Voso) is indeed listed as the 57th spirit (not the 47th). Ose is described as a Great President of Hell, ruling three legions of demons

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Lesser_Key_of_Solomon

The story of Hernán Cortés burning or sinking his ships upon arriving in Mexico is a well-known historical anecdote, though its accuracy is debated. According to historical sources, Cortés did not actually burn his ships, but rather beached and scuttled them. This was done to prevent dissent among his men and to cut off the possibility of returning to Cuba. Cortés himself stated in a letter that he beached the boats, while other accounts suggest he stripped them of useful parts before sinking some of them

https://www.pbs.org/conquistadors/cortes/cortes_d00.html

https://mexicapodcast.com/2021/05/03/burning-the-boats-and-sinking-the-ships/

In the King James Version, Psalm 91:1 reads: "He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty."

Smack,

Reese

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This week, Reese and Dennis chat about the nuanced world of mental health and de-stigmatizing medicine, owning your power as your ultimate authority, the difference between acceptance and tolerance, and some of the most powerful societal examples of sexism.

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Below are quotes, links, and resources for further understanding and research on a variety of mentioned topics.

The Purpose Paradigm: https://youtu.be/xzLb7Okgdsc

Psychology of Your 20s with Jemma Sbeg: https://www.psychologyofyour20s.com

Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert: https://www.elizabethgilbert.com/books/big-magic/

Mice and Electric Shocks, Dias and Ressler, 2013:

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/24292232/

https://www.nature.com/articles/nn.3594

Bic for Her Marketing Campaign: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjg-1qbaBN8&t=1s

Men Enlighten, Women Return and Claim from No Nonsense Spirituality: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DFVssj0R_gs/?igsh=YzFrZTVtajJxbnI0

Smack, Reese

Founder, The Cohere Collective

Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week.

Join Therapist, Coach, and TTRPG Enthusiast, Dennis Carlson, and Writer, Coach, and Witch, Reese Brown, every Friday for conversations ranging from personal narratives to philosophical manifestos all about the same topic: The Terrifyingly Beautiful Divine Woman.

This week, Reese and Dennis open up the podcast with their hopes for Bow Down!, some personal stories, and their passion for empowering women.

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Below are links for further research on a variety of mentioned topics.

Certified Life Coaching Institute where Reese and Dennis met and were certified: https://www.certifiedlifecoachinstitute.com/

Lilith Myth and History: https://youtu.be/n1EKccz4fS0?si=y9dL-w4vUopRKjK6

Akashic Records Reading that Reese Mentioned: https://youtu.be/I0eVSzxQxPs?si=PxEUbMwkODjPclxw

Hartt and Soul Acting with Catherine Hartt, Reese’s Mentor: https://harttandsoul.com/

Author, Speaker, and Activist Ursula K. LeGuin: https://www.ursulakleguin.com/ I

nternal Family Systems: https://ifs-institute.com

Smack, Reese

Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week.

Join Therapist, Coach, and TTRPG Enthusiast Dennis Carlson, and Writer, Coach, and Witch Reese Brown every Friday for conversations ranging from personal narratives to philosophical manifestos all about the same topic: The Terrifyingly Beautiful Divine Woman.

Be a part of the Collective and tune in to Bow Down! every week.

Smack,

Reese

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In this conversation, Reese and Dennis discuss the intricate relationship between manifestation, luck, and free will. They delve into the philosophical implications of free will, questioning its existence and how it relates to the concept of manifestation. The discussion touches on the nature of consciousness, the role of affirmations, and the paradox of desires, ultimately leading to a deeper understanding of how beliefs shape our reality and experiences.

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This week, we discuss the important intersection of the physical and the metaphysical in spiritual practices, how our bodies impact our minds and vice versa, and the delineation between spirituality and religious practices.

Content Warning Time Stamps:

Emetophobia and Family Trauma/Violence 6:45 - 14:45

Emetophobia and Illness 27:35 - 32:45

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With empowered Coherence,

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Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week.

This week, we continue our conversation about Jezebel and her legacy.

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This week, Reese and Dennis return to their series on Biblical Womanhood and discuss the empowered messages we can glean from the Jezebel story, as well as the nature of makeup, and briefly discuss some themes from Wicked!

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Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week.

This week Dennis and Reese discuss the sublimity inherent in womanhood, and what “Sublime Feminine” and “Sublime Masculine” archetypes would mean in relationship to the “Divine Feminine” and “Divine Masculine.”

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Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week.

This week, Reese and Dennis discuss The Madonna, The Virgin Mary, the idea(l) of the "perfect" woman, and the ripple effects of this mythology.

CW: Non-consensual physical intimacy is discussed briefly at 16:15. Jump to 17:45 to skip this portion of conversation.

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Smack,

Reese

Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week.

This week, Reese and Dennis discuss the root of self-love, and the fear that it can inspire. How do we truly own our sovereignty without devolving into conceit? This is explored through a guided meditation from Creator Edward Art Supply Hands, linked below, and extended conversation!

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References and Resources:

• “Road‑to‑Damascus experience.” — Reference to Paul’s sudden conversion on the Damascus road (Acts 9 : 1‑19).
• “Shadow work.” — Concept introduced by Carl Jung for integrating unconscious aspects of the psyche; now a staple of depth psychology and spirituality. Plus by APN
• “Edward Art Supply Hands” meditation. — YouTube creator Edward Art; known for Neville‑Goddard‑inspired meditations such as I Am the Creator. YouTube
• “The man who has no enemies has never stood for anything.” — Frequently mis‑attributed to Winston Churchill; nearest traceable form appears in Ed Greenwood’s Forgotten Realms epigraph (1993) and earlier 19th‑century variants. Quote Investigator
• “Lovecraftian… cryptid monster.” — “Lovecraftian” references the cosmic‑horror fiction of H. P. Lovecraft (1890‑1937), noted for creatures beyond human comprehension. Wikipedia
• “Technological futurism / Heidegger’s enframing.” — Alludes to Martin Heidegger’s essay The Question Concerning Technology (1954) and the concept of Gestell (“enframing”)—a worldview that turns beings into resources. Wikipedia
• “If you stumble, make it part of the dance.” — Popular internet affirmation (Pinterest, greeting‑card culture); no authoritative source—classified as a “popular maxim; no definitive origin.” Pinterest

With sovereign Coherence,

Dennis and Reese

Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week.

This week, Dennis and Reese discuss love, past relationships, tradwives, and more!

Note: For the discussion around Tradwives, we failed to explicitly clarify the difference between women who enjoy aspects of femininity considered “traditional” from the ideology of “Tradwives.” Staying at home, enjoying baking, making certain clothing choices, etc. are not exclusive to Tradwife ideology, and are not discordant with feminism.

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Below are quotes, links, and resources for further understanding and research on a variety of mentioned topics.

Percy Bysshe Shelley’s Alastor: https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poems/45113/alastor-or-the-spirit-of-solitude?utm_source=chatgpt.com

Transgender Education and Advocacy:

The Trevor Project: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/

Resources from The Trevor Project: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/category/gender-identity/#:~:text=The%20Trevor%20Project%20offers%20several,and%20non%2Dbinary%20young%20people

Healthy Relationships:

The Gottman Institute: https://www.gottman.com/

The PACT Institute: https://www.thepactinstitute.com/

Tradwife Discourse:

Original Ballerina Farm Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hannal.ballerinafarm/video/7388115073476168990?lang=en&q=ballerina farm egg apron&t=1744918746225

Shanspeare’s Video on Tradwives and Feminism (a must-watch for feminists who want to be supportive of all women while critiquing those working against the feminist movement): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iouC24jhn2E&t=950s

Lilith Myth and Biblical References:

Dan McClellan: https://www.youtube.com/@maklelan

Esoterica: https://www.youtube.com/@TheEsotericaChannel

Smack,

Reese

What does “masculinity” mean in today’s society? Are we still defining manhood based on the violence of the past, or based on our hopes for the future?

In this episode, Reese and Dennis unpack Equimundo’s study, State of UK Men 2025, exploring how patriarchal expectations, socialization, and emotional stunting shape the daily reality of men today. Why do so many men feel disconnected? We must go back to the underlying issues behind the cultural symptoms to begin unlearning internalized beliefs around dominance, violence, and self-worth are formed.

This conversation dives into:

• Conflicting norms of masculinity
• The dissonance between men’s reported and behaved values
• The illusion of being “the provider”
• Stoicism vs. emotional repression v.s. violence
• Attraction, biology, and unlearning subconscious bias
• Mindfulness as a tool for deprogramming automatic thoughts
• The difference between false purpose and True Purpose
• Emotional alchemy as a tool for cultural healing
• How patriarchy harms men while granting them privilege

If you’re interested in psychology, philosophy, gender, or culture, or if you’re a man trying to make sense of your own inner world, this episode offers grounding, nuance, and a fresh perspective on the complex dynamics facing gendered experiences in the modern world.

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References and Resources:

Equimundo’s State of UK Men Report, 2025: https://www.equimundo.org/resources/state-of-uk-men-2025/

Maxine the Princess on TikTok’s discussion of the Study: https://www.tiktok.com/@maxinetheprincess/video/7572611907115420950?lang=en

Jamaal Burkmar’s Tik Tok discussing the Study and Maxine’s video: https://www.tiktok.com/@jamaalburkmar/video/7572967714742963479?lang=en

Follow Maxine: https://www.tiktok.com/@maxinetheprincess

Follow Jamaal: https://www.tiktok.com/@jamaalburkmar?lang=en

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Dennis and Reese

We’ve all seen the clips of churches refusing to give a struggling mom baby formula for her hungry child, but what are the real implications of this experiment? What does this actually tell us about our current society, the state of Christian Nationalism, and our relationship to community?

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

• Why so many churches refused the request
• The church leaders attacking the woman
• The witch archetype as resistance and reclamation
• What Jesus actually said vs. what Christians practice
• The loneliness, repression, and fear shaping our culture
• What modern Christianity has become and what we need to do to change it, or ditch it altogether

Whether you’re deconstructing, spiritually curious, or just trying to make sense of the world right now, this episode goes there.

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To work with Dennis: http://heartstoybox.com

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References and Resources:

Find and support the TikToker, Nikalie Monroe, here: https://www.tiktok.com/@nikalie.monroe

Learn More about Richard Dawkins’ “Cultural Christianity” Claim: https://www.breakpoint.org/richard-dawkins-a-cultural-christian/

Read and Learn More about the Phoenix Pastor’s Offensive Tweet: https://www.phoenixnewtimes.com/news/phoenix-pastor-says-church-shouldnt-help-single-mother-whores-40620567/

Learn More about the Louisiana Pastor Claiming the “Spirit of the Witch”: https://www.shreveporttimes.com/story/news/2025/11/11/did-baton-rouge-louisiana-church-deny-mother-baby-formula-for-starving-baby-tiktok-social-experiment/87212519007/

Learn More About the Tik Tok Trend and Appalachian Pastor Johnny Dunbar: https://ca.news.yahoo.com/tiktoker-calling-churches-see-help-184321348.html

Learn More about Dropping U.S. Birth Rates: https://www.cbsnews.com/news/us-birth-rate-all-time-low-cdc-data/

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Dennis and Reese

What if Eve wasn’t the downfall of humanity, but the first voice of empowerment, self-discovery, and divine feminine wisdom? In this episode, we deconstruct the story of Eve and Lilith through the lenses of feminist practice, gender dynamics, and radical spirituality.

From communication skills to cis men’s roles in relationships, from shame to empowerment, we explore how this ancient myth still shapes modern conversations around women’s empowerment, spiritual feminism, and life after evangelicalism.

We’ll also connect Eve’s choice to modern manifestation techniques, mindset development, and the law of attraction/detachment, reframing her not as a sinner, but as the first seeker of knowledge and empowerment. If you’re exvangelical, exploring progressive spirituality, or on a journey of personal growth, this conversation invites you into the sacred feminine, where deconstruction leads to transformation.

Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week.

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References and Resources:

David Foster Wallace Kenyon College Commencement Address, “This is Water”: https://fs.blog/david-foster-wallace-this-is-water/

Robert Alter’s ”The Hebrew Bible: A Translation with Commentary”: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/38212108-the-hebrew-bible

Diane Wolkstein’s “Inanna, Queen of Heaven and Earth”: https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/868595.Inanna_Queen_of_Heaven_and_Earth

Ibram X. Kendi’s ”How to Be an Antiracist”: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/40265832-how-to-be-an-antiracist

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We’re exposing patriarchy, invisible labor, toxic masculinity, and modern gender roles in today’s episode of Bow Down! as we dive into the shockingly relevant 1970’s Feminist Manifesto, “I Want a Wife” by Judy Brady Syfers. Expect laughs, raw truth, and a few “wait… what?!” moments.

From laughter to frustration to deep reflection, Reese and Dennis unpack why the essay hit so hard in 1971, why it still sparks debate now, and how its message connects to today’s struggles with toxic masculinity, the divine feminine, and the hidden costs of “helping” roles in relationships.

Expect candid stories, vulnerable insights, and plenty of moments that will make you say: “My God… who wouldn’t want a wife?!”

This episode expresses the powerful combination of spirituality and feminism that Reese and Dennis do best; challenging what we think we know about love, partnership, and freedom.

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References and Resources:

I Want a Wife from The Cut: https://www.thecut.com/2017/11/i-want-a-wife-by-judy-brady-syfers-new-york-mag-1971.html

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In this episode of Bow Down! Reese Brown and Dennis Carlson break down the controversial “10 Things Women Always Notice but Never Admit” article, and uncover the complex and layered ways that masculinity, patriarchy, and relationship expectations affect every individual. They dive into topics like toxic masculinity playbooks, alpha-male courses, dating “tests,” vulnerability, financial pressures, and modern feminism, revealing how “traditional” societal rules play into the systemic structures that keep us insecure and disconnected.

Reese and Dennis challenge the harmful narratives around masculinity showing why authenticity, self-acceptance, and rejecting the patriarchy are the real keys to healthy relationships. Whether you’re navigating dating, personal growth, or gender dynamics, this episode exposes the games people play—and why you don’t have to play along.

Watch to learn:

• How the “masculinity playbook” hurts men as much as it hurts women
• Why testing, scoring, and societal expectations aren’t just unnecessary, they’re harmful
• The power of authenticity, confidence, and self-acceptance in relationships

Hit play now to break free from outdated gender rules and embrace your true self!

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References and Resources:

Substack Article: https://substack.com/home/post/p-162724111

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In this episode of Bow Down! Reese and Dennis delve into the themes of Squid Game Season 3, including their emotional investment, deep character analysis, and the show’s implications of motherhood, sacrifice, and feminism. They also discuss gender dynamics, the impact of capitalism on women, and the representation of transgender identity in the series. The conversation highlights the complexities of power dynamics and the societal structures that influence the characters' actions and motivations, ultimately questioning how these themes resonate with real-world issues.

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References and Resources:

Watch Squid Game: https://www.netflix.com/watch/81262746?source=35

CNN Video on Christian Nationalist Pastor Doug Wilson: https://www.cnn.com/2025/08/08/politics/video/christian-nationalist-doug-wilson-pam-brown-digvid

Watch The Conjuring: https://www.google.com/search?q=where+to+watch+the+conjuring&oq=where+to+watch+the+conjuring&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUqCggAEAAYsQMYgAQyCggAEAAYsQMYgAQyBwgBEAAYgAQyBwgCEAAYgAQyBwgDEAAYgAQyBwgEEAAYgAQyBwgFEAAYgAQyBwgGEAAYgAQyBwgHEAAYgAQyBwgIEAAYgAQyBwgJEAAYgATSAQg0MjU3ajBqNKgCALACAA&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8

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In this episode of Bow Down!, a podcast exploring esoteric feminism, Reese Brown and Dennis Carlson delve into the biblical story of Delilah, exploring themes of power, agency, and morality. They discuss the historical context of Delilah's actions, the implications of her choices, and the nature of love and manipulation in relationships. They also explore the symbolism of hair in relation to masculinity and femininity, and how these themes intersect with empowerment and agency in women's stories. The conversation challenges traditional narratives and highlights the complexities of female characters in biblical stories.

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In this episode of Bow Down! a podcast that explores spiritual and esoteric feminism, our magical roots, and re-awakening the divine feminine, Reese Brown and Dennis Carlson explore the movie, The Devil Wears Prada, a favorite of our hosts! Using the film’s themes of self-perception, societal pressures, womanhood, and ambition, they discuss the realities of being a professional woman, the impossible dilemma of womanly perfection, the complexity and support of female friendships, and the layered nuances of feminism. Reese and Dennis also reflect on the evolution of the conversation around womanhood and feminism since the film’s release, the film’s strengths and shortcomings, and the importance of acknowledging media’s messaging, especially to younger generations.

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References and Resources:

Watch The Devil Wears Prada: https://www.google.com/search?client=safari&sca_esv=84a972cf9bb6250a&rls=en&sxsrf=AE3TifN5d_0Jh_MlUTtcu5oUT3V4DBK_zQ:1754588448080&q=watch+the+devil+wears+prada&si=AMgyJEuCJcJkYNc1qTITpP0OA7OMqQKd2nnk6mel-nCfD06GK4pI5DeDP8z5vjfzPrTXHjo9w0yCbe55jT5xxAUv-Iaudd1GOCUe38lvqWJmjejt1o01CB1-Hlu4Iq8YIPlLuGGcvK_pgGstXmq8lufgd0c0wv8zezyHoDCZ4UwxXc9ht7jtAJM%3D&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwiP47Kpn_mOAxWGgGoFHYPGGCkQyNoBKAB6BAgYEAA&ictx=1

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This week, Reese and Dennis explore the significant astrological transit of Uranus moving into Gemini, discussing its implications for personal transformation, relationships, and societal change. They reflect on their personal experiences with the transit, emphasizing the themes of chaos, revolution, and the unveiling of truths. The discussion also touches on the political landscape and the importance of recognizing one's worthiness in the face of change. Ultimately, they encourage listeners to embrace their authentic selves and navigate the upcoming transformations with confidence and openness.

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References and Resources:

Reddit Post from Anxious-Vacation9850: https://www.reddit.com/r/LetsFuckWithAstrology/comments/1ltv3zc/the_full_7_years_system_reboot_with_uranus_in/

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In this episode of Bow Down! Reese draws on her 13 years of tarot experience to give Dennis a reading on his current energy and life circumstances. Before diving into the reading, Dennis and Reese briefly discuss their personal relationship to tarot and how being raised in the Christian Church impacts a connection to the metaphysical practice. Reese dives into how she discovered tarot and how she currently uses it in her daily spiritual practice. The reading itself delves into themes of trust, emotional alchemy, and the importance of self-compassion during periods of pause and healing before new beginnings. Reese and Dennis highlight the power of agency, autonomy, and self-sovereignty in co-creating life with the universe, supported by guides and inner wisdom.

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In this episode of Bow Down! Reese and Dennis discuss Biblical Womanhood through the lens of Mary Magdalene. The first apostle, arguably the first Christian, and a feminist icon, Mary’s legacy has been veiled, reinvented, rediscovered, and morphed by so many voices throughout history. Most of these voices? Men leaders in the church, with everything to gain from undermining a woman’s power. In this conversation we touch on the Gnostic Gospel of Mary, Pope Gregory’s impact of mary Magdalene’s legacy, the denigration of women in the Bible and Christian Church, and the modern reclamation of her narrative as a symbol of empowerment and spiritual truth.

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In this episode, Reese and Dennis explore the concept of Human Design, focusing on its transformative potential for self-discovery and personal growth. They discuss the importance of understanding one's strategy and authority, particularly for Generators, and how frustration can serve as a signal for misalignment. The conversation delves into the significance of meaningful work, the challenges of navigating projections from others, and the unique traits of the Five-One profile.

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References and Resources:

Basics on Human Design: https://www.jovianarchive.com

Episode of Making Meaning featuring Human Design Coach, Abigail Rebecca: https://youtu.be/ykUakhrHs-k

Episode of Making Meaning featuring Astrologer and Human Design Coach, Kelly Kasle: https://youtu.be/NfbwMuSjfAI

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How many times have you been told “You’re being too sensitive” or asked “Are you on your period?” How many times have you said these things? In this deeply honest and fiery episode, Reese and Dennis flip the script on classic gendered micro-aggressions. Drawing from their own experiences, emotional intelligence research, IFS Parts-Work, and an open-hearted desire to improve relationships, they unpack gender dynamics and how digging deep is the way to truly deepen connection.

If you're interested in the male loneliness epidemic, the embarrassment of boyfriends, conscious partnership, gender dynamics, emotional depth, and unlearning cultural patterns that keep us disconnected, this episode is for you. Whether you’re a man trying to “get it,” a woman tired of being dismissed, or someone navigating relational sensitivity from any gender, you’ll leave with practical tools and a deeper understanding of each other.

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References and Resources:

How to Piss off Women by The Pissoff Krew: https://www.amazon.com/How-Piss-Off-Women-Clueless/dp/B0F9SSDTYW

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In this conversation, Reese gives Dennis an amateur Astrology reading, and through this, they discuss the complexities of self-discovery, the nuance of astrology and spiritual practices, and the struggle of striking balance between the self and our relationships. They explore the importance of personal grounding practices, especially amidst today’s chaos and the power that the exchange between self-knowledge and self-love can bring to our lives.

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In this conversation, Reese Brown and Dennis explore the intersection of AI and feminism, discussing the implications of AI relationships, the role of parenting, and the ethics surrounding emotional connections with AI. They delve into the complexities of emotional intimacy, the nature of relationships, and the potential for AI to replace human connections. The discussion culminates in a philosophical debate about the nature of truth and the choices we make in our relationships.

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Why do men mistake anger for power? And how can humor, play, and philosophy help us heal the wounds beneath the rage? Reese Brown and Dennis dive deep into Kyle Prue’s ”How to Piss Off Men,” exploring masculinity, anger, emotional literacy, and the playful path toward dismantling the patriarchy.

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References and Resources:

Read “How to Piss Off Men”: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/197036073-how-to-piss-off-men

Introduction to Emotional Bids from The Gottman Institute: https://www.gottman.com/blog/an-introduction-to-emotional-bids-and-trust/

More from The Gottman Institute on Bids: https://www.gottman.com/blog/want-to-improve-your-relationship-start-paying-more-attention-to-bids/

Brené Brown’s book, Rising Strong (where she discusses, “the story I’m telling myself…”): https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/23317538-rising-strong

An essay on Brené Brown’s “The story I’m telling myself…”: https://www.livmindfully.com/new-blog/2025/6/4/the-story-im-telling-myself

Tik Tok discussing Dating App Hot Takes from Angelica on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@an9ele/video/7561154002579197191

Follow the Creator: https://www.tiktok.com/@an9ele

Listen to Our Discussion of Free Will: https://youtu.be/Wyn5JSBUE9g

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Esther’s story isn’t the tale of sweet obedience your Sunday School teacher told you. It’s a complex, political, and feminist **narrative about women navigating power in a patriarchal system.

In this episode of Bow Down, Reese and Dennis unpack the Book of Esther through a feminist and deconstructionist lens, exploring Vashti’s revolutionary “no,” Esther’s strategic “yes,” and what both reveal about women, autonomy, and power in faith communities.

In this episode, we explore…

• Why Vashti’s defiance still scares the church
• How Esther’s silence and strategy challenge purity culture
• The “obedience” myth and Christian control narratives
• Why deconstructing scripture is an act of liberation

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References and Resources:

Read The Book of Esther: https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Esther 1&version=NIV

Marion Ann Taylor, Professor of the Old Testament at Wycliff College and Author of “Esther” in “The Story of God Bible Commentary,” on Vashti: https://youtu.be/f6QGxfZ0SIo?si=ALqpnXcOARYgEsta

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In this episode of Bow Down, Reese Brown and Dennis dive deep into the viral ”Tradwife*”* trend, the so-called ”male loneliness epidemic,” and what “authentic masculinity” really looks like in 2025.

From choice feminism to the shame surrounding vulnerability and sex work, Reese and Dennis unpack how social media shapes our ideas of gender, power, and love — and what it takes to live authentically in an algorithm-driven world.

A HUGE thank you to DevidMiller62 on TikTok for inspiring this episode! Please go support his work!

Drop your thoughts in the reviews: do you think the “tradwife” trend empowers or misleads?

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References and Resources:

Watch the Orginial Tik Tok and Support @devidmiller62: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTM9kgWDu/

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At the height of the “Male Loneliness Epidemic,” and when getting married is provably the most detrimental financial and health decision a woman can make, did we need a movie where the our leading lady must pick a man in the face of the false dichotomy between love and money? Maybe, maybe not, but it certainly gave us a lot of talk about!

In this episode of Bow Down, Reese and Dennis unpack Materialists, the new film stirring up heated debates about love, money, power, and feminism.

They dive into:

• Whether you can truly have both emotional and financial security
• How gender, class, and modern dating culture shape our idea of “love”
• The ethics of matchmaking and how money complicates relationships
• What this movie reveals about male vulnerability
• Why some viewers adored it — and others couldn’t stand it

It’s a vulnerable, insightful, and sometimes spicy discussion about love in the age of luxury and late-stage capitalism.

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References and Resources:

Watch Materialists: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mxTcRHNlHQM

Dr. Brené Brown on Vulnerability: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iCvmsMzlF7o

Dr. Brené Brown on Shame v.s. Guilt: https://brenebrown.com/articles/2013/01/15/shame-v-guilt/

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What do Twilight, Game of Thrones, Downton Abbey, and Rick & Morty have in common? They all reveal something about YOU.

In this episode of Bow Down! Dennis and Reese dive into the Open Source Psychometric Character Quiz to discover which iconic fictional characters they are most like — and the results are surprising (and hilarious). From Scarlett O’Hara to Luna Lovegood, Lady Macbeth to Willy Wonka, Sam Obisanya to Moira Rose, this conversation explores:

• Why personality quizzes captivate us
• How fictional characters reflect our archetypes & inner selves
• The divine masculine & feminine through literature and film
• Neurodivergence, survival, and identity in pop culture
• What it means to resonate with “heroes” and “villains”

Whether you’re curious about your own character match or just love hearing passionate banter about movies, TV, and self-discovery — this episode is for you.

Take the test yourself: https://openpsychometrics.org/tests/characters/

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Take the test yourself: https://openpsychometrics.org/tests/characters/

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How do boundaries, safety, tools, and feminism powerfully intersect at our TTRPG gaming tables?

In this episode of Bow Down, Reese and Dennis continue their deep dive into the intersection of feminism, womanhood, and tabletop RPGs. From Reddit horror stories to real-life roleplay challenges, they explore how boundaries, safety tools, and unspoken social dynamics impact marginalized folks at the table, and how we all have a responsibility to our communcal growth in gaming, and global, settings.

The conversation unpacks issues of romance at the table, roleplay bleed, emotional maturity, toxic masculinity, and insidious sexism in D&D and other TTRPG spaces. With honesty, empathy, and humor, Reese and Dennis ask the tough questions:

• How can GMs foster safer, more inclusive tables?
• What happens when fantasy and real-life feelings collide?
• Why do subtle patterns of sexism go unnoticed, and how can allies step up?

Whether you’re a DM, player, or simply curious about how gender, consent, and roleplay intersect, this episode offers fresh insights and thoughtful discussion on creating inclusive gaming spaces.

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References and Resources:

Reddit Stories Sources from r/rpghorrorstories (https://www.reddit.com/r/rpghorrorstories/)

First Story (Now Deleted): https://www.reddit.com/r/dndhorrorstories/comments/1hmbadh/my_player_fell_in_love_with_me_the_dm_but_im/

Second Story: https://www.reddit.com/r/rpghorrorstories/comments/eomg8k/playing_a_woman_i_think_i_got_the_tinniest_taste/

Liz Plank’s For the Love of Men: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/43263540-for-the-love-of-men

Liz Plank has a new show called Boy Problems, which you can find here: https://open.spotify.com/show/4svjcgqVBmWOcGYUxsABw1?si=d87bd335ce174c99

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What’s the intersection between TTRPGs, empowerment, and the divine feminine? In this episode of Bow Down! Reese and Dennis unpack how Dungeons & Dragons has evolved from a male-centric, exclusionary game to one of today’s most inclusive storytelling spaces for women, femmes, queer folks, and exvangelicals navigating life through creative story telling and meaningful community.

In this episode, we dive into:

• The healing potential of TTRPGs through storytelling and role-play
• The sexist and racist history of D&D (including some jaw-dropping examples) and how the TTRPG space has transformed into a beautiful, inclusive, and expansive community
• The Satanic Panic and finding empowerment in D&D despite growing up in evangelical families/communities
• The connection between the sacred feminine and spiritual practice and the history of D&D and how storytelling can be a mystical, spiritually connective experience
• How TTRPGs allow us to learn about and practice consent, boundaries, and safety tools that transform gaming tables into spaces of growth and self-discovery

Through our personal stories with TTRPGs and storytelling as well as honest conversation about systemic racism and sexism, we explore how storytelling is a microcosm of our broader zeitgeist, and how TTRPGs can become an expansive and inclusive playground for practicing pro-social behavior, exploring personal identity, and building radical, progressive spirituality all while telling epic stories with your besties!

Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week.

Be a part of the Collective and tune in to Bow Down! every week.

To work with Reese: https://www.thecoherecollective.com/coherent-design

To work with Dennis: http://heartstoybox.com

Follow The Cohere Collective: https://www.instagram.com/thecoherecollective/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoherecollective

For more information, head to www.thecoherecollective.com

To support The Cohere Collective, head to https://www.thecoherecollective.com/support

References and Resources:

• Dimension 20 (Dropout TV): https://www.dropout.tv/dimension-20
• Critical Role: https://critrole.com/
• The 20 Sided Tavern: https://thetwentysidedtavern.com/
• Original Quiz on Sexism in Early D&D from @DnD Shorts: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BSvCP401kK0

With empowered Coherence,

Dennis and Reese

Is Human Consciousness Special?

***Spoilers for S1 of Pluribus throughout***

Join us to dive deep Pluribus, a show that quietly asks each of us to confront our own ego and if individuality is worth our capacity for harm.

We cover it all, from comparing Pluribus to similar popular shows like Severance, unpacking the philosophical undertones of panpsychism, existentialism, and hedonism, the role of purpose in society and individual lives, and how frustratingly gorgeous this show is.

In a time where we’re all searching so deeply for community, can connection eventually become too much?

Welcome to Bow Down! a podcast by The Cohere Collective that discusses esoteric and empowered feminism every week. Be a part of the Collective and tune in to Bow Down! every week.

To work with Reese: https://www.thecoherecollective.com/coherent-design

To work with Dennis: http://heartstoybox.com

Follow The Cohere Collective:

https://www.instagram.com/thecoherecollective/

https://www.tiktok.com/@thecoherecollective

For more information, head to www.thecoherecollective.com

To support The Cohere Collective, head to https://www.thecoherecollective.com/support

References and Resources: Pluribus Season 1: https://www.google.com/aclk?sa=L&ai=DChsSEwjyxvKg0PiSAxVtJ9QBHUQ9AlQYACICCAEQABoCb2E&co=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA-__MBhAKEiwASBmsBI8IkJT60ev1ZJQAT-loWxOpvynfKdCDzDmAuVnGSKSDG8YodRMyNRoCEjIQAvD_BwE&cid=CAASWuRoYEe3ecmZ2E64RRY5l5bZlqdGgcraycmH9PPX9CuBBpI1HqiYr16KlS4K7o-60p7iJeQPB-sVDXIp4vnO9jW3h6cl27A6z9XtIKTp9pMBqxdlum4fZP9lcQ&cce=1&sig=AOD64_12WFafPMmzGlygQNasivFqTVI4eQ&q&adurl&ved=2ahUKEwi24uqg0PiSAxUJwskDHckBPX8Q0Qx6BAgHEAE

With empowered Coherence,

Dennis and Reese