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Beating Burnout01 Apr 202600:40:07

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our book club discussion of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, shifting from diagnosing the problem of hurry to uncovering the solution.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, burnt out, or stuck in a cycle of doing too much, this episode is your invitation to something deeper: the lifestyle of Jesus.

We explore what it truly means to follow Jesus—not just in belief, but in daily practice—and how embracing an apprenticeship mindset can transform your pace, your peace, and your purpose.

Key Takeaways:1. The Answer Isn’t More Time—It’s a New Way to Live

We often think the solution to overwhelm is more hours in the day. But more time doesn’t fix a misaligned life—it just gives us more space to stay busy. True freedom comes from reordering our lives around God, not productivity.

2. You’re Not Just a Believer—You’re an Apprentice

To follow Jesus is to apprentice under Him:

  • Be with Jesus
  • Become like Jesus
  • Do what He would do

This perspective shifts your posture from control to humility, from striving to learning.

3. Your Life Reflects Your Lifestyle

If you’re experiencing:

  • Anxiety
  • Burnout
  • Constant stress
  • Disconnection from God

…it’s not random. Your current systems and rhythms are producing those results.

“Every system is perfectly designed to get the results that it gets.”4. You Can’t Want Jesus’ Life Without Adopting His Lifestyle

Many of us want:

  • His peace
  • His clarity
  • His joy

…but we’re not willing to live how He lived.

Following Jesus is not compartmentalized—it’s a full-life transformation, not just Sunday behavior or spiritual moments.

5. Burnout Is a Sign You’re Living Outside of God’s Design

Burnout isn’t just exhaustion—it’s a signal.

It often means you’ve made your dwelling place somewhere God never intended.

The invitation? Come back home.

6. Stop Praying Your Will—Start Seeking His

A powerful personal story highlights how easy it is to pray what we want instead of surrendering to God’s will.

When you approach God as an apprentice—not the one in charge—you:

  • Release control
  • Stay open to correction
  • Avoid unnecessary frustration and confusion
7. Self-Awareness Is a Spiritual Discipline

Slowing down enough to:

  • Notice your reactions
  • Evaluate your routines
  • Check your alignment

…is key to transformation.

Self-awareness allows you to course correct in real time and grow in spiritual maturity.

8. Jesus Doesn’t Offer Escape—He Offers Equipment

Life is hard. That’s not changing.

But instead of removing the weight, Jesus teaches us how to carry it differently:

  • With Him
  • At His pace
  • With His peace
An easy life isn’t promised—but an easy yoke is.Practical Application:

This week, begin living like an apprentice:

  • Pause throughout your day and ask: “What would Jesus do?”
  • Set reminders to check in with your thoughts, reactions, and stress levels
  • Pay attention to moments where you feel rushed, anxious, or out of alignment
  • Surrender areas where you’ve been forcing your will
Scripture Highlight:

Matthew 11:28–30

“Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest…”

Final Thought:

If you want the life of Jesus, you have to adopt the lifestyle of Jesus.

This isn’t about doing more—it’s about living differently.

Resources Mentioned:
  • The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer 




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You Don't Need More Time30 Mar 202600:38:37

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our book club series on The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, stepping into Part 2: The Solution.

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, stretched thin, or like there aren’t enough hours in the day, this conversation will challenge the way you think about productivity, ambition, and success.

Tatum shares a candid life update—navigating motherhood, law school, entrepreneurship, and a recent season of burnout—and how God is shifting her perspective on pace, priorities, and what success really means in this season.

This episode centers on a powerful truth: the solution to an overbusy life is not more time, but a slower, more intentional life rooted in what actually matters.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode
  • Why more time will not fix your overwhelm
  • How to simplify your business model without sacrificing success
  • The difference between active income and asset-based wealth
  • Why you do not have to follow grind culture to build a successful business
  • How embracing your limitations can bring peace and clarity
  • What it means to define success as pleasing God, not producing outcomes
  • How surrendering control leads to true freedom
Key Takeaways
  • You do not have to be rushed to be rich or successful
  • Every yes requires a thousand no’s—choose wisely
  • Your capacity is limited, and that is by design
  • God is not asking you to do everything, only what He assigned to you
  • True success is obedience to God, not money, influence, or recognition
Faith + Business Insight

This episode explores the tension between potential and limitation. While we are made in the image of God and filled with purpose, we are still human and finite.

Learning to accept both your potential and your limitations is essential to building a life and business that is sustainable, peaceful, and aligned with God’s will.

Notable Quote

“You don’t have to be rushed to be rich. You don’t have to be rushed to be successful.”

Book Club Pick

We’re reading: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer - https://amzn.to/3Obiks5

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Every High Achieving Woman Needs This20 Mar 202600:58:03

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum takes time to rest and recover while revisiting one of the most impactful teachings she’s shared: the God Math Formula.

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, stretched thin, or stuck in survival mode, this episode invites you to take a different approach. Instead of striving, multitasking, and trying to do everything, Tatum breaks down a faith-based framework that brings clarity, peace, and alignment.

This episode is not about doing more. It is about doing what matters most and trusting God to handle the rest.

What You’ll Learn
  • Why survival mode requires deeper reflection, not quick fixes
  • The difference between worldly peace and God’s peace
  • How hustle culture and internalized stress are affecting women
  • Why slowing down can feel uncomfortable and what God may be refining in that process
  • The truth about multitasking versus multiplication

The God Math Formula

Consecration + Concentration = Multiplication

Consecration (Your Responsibility)

Setting your life apart for God through your daily decisions, habits, and priorities.

Key Scriptures:

Romans 12:1–2

1 Peter 1:15–16

Concentration (Your Responsibility)

Maintaining focused, intentional attention on God’s will by eliminating distractions and staying aligned.

Key Scripture:

Matthew 4:1–11

Multiplication (God’s Responsibility)

God expands what you offer Him beyond your natural capacity.

Key Insight:

Multitasking is not multiplication. Trying to do everything is stepping into a role that belongs to God.

Biblical Examples of God Math in Action
  • Mary, mother of Jesus: Her obedience positioned her to carry out God’s plan for salvation
  • The Shunammite woman: Her generosity led to supernatural provision
  • The disciples: Their obedience with limited resources led to abundance
  • The widow of Zarephath: Her faith in scarcity resulted in overflow
Practical Application

Tatum outlines a realistic, faith-centered daily rhythm that includes:

  • Starting the day with prayer, Scripture, and stillness
  • Being intentional with family and relationships
  • Working with focus and minimizing distractions
  • Practicing gratitude throughout the day
  • Prioritizing rest and restoration in the evening

Key takeaway:

Harmony is not about having more time. It is about being intentional with the time you already have.

Key Takeaways
  • Alignment is more important than activity
  • Peace is not the absence of chaos but the presence of God
  • Discipline is the key to sustainable transformation
  • God multiplies what you surrender and steward well




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Align Your Ambition with God & Build Life Harmony15 Mar 202600:43:41

In this inspiring episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, Christian entrepreneur Tatum Temia answers listener questions about aligning ambition with God’s will, managing work-life harmony, and creating faith-based communities for women. She also shares a powerful testimony of her grandmother’s miraculous healing from stage four cancer, reminding listeners that God is faithful and sees every part of our lives.

Whether you are a busy mom, entrepreneur, or professional, this episode is packed with practical guidance, spiritual encouragement, and real-life strategies to live a God-centered, purpose-driven life.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:1. Miraculous Healing Testimony

Tatum shares the story of her grandmother. Through faith, prayer, and God’s guidance, she is now in remission. This testimony highlights:

  • The power of trusting God in difficult seasons
  • How prayer and faith can bring peace and restoration
  • Why God’s timing is perfect and how He works behind the scenes
2. Aligning Ambition with God’s Will

Tatum answers a listener’s question about determining if their ambition is God-aligned. Key takeaways include:

  • Pause and recalibrate: Avoid operating in hurry and burnout
  • Examine the root of ambition: Is it fueled by brokenness or a spirit of excellence?
  • Apply the God Math Formula:
  • Consecration: Abide in God daily
  • Concentration: Focus on what God assigns
  • Multiplication: Experience supernatural results beyond your own efforts
3. Work-Life Harmony for Moms and Entrepreneurs

Tatum addresses the challenges of balancing career, business, ministry, and family life. She advises:

  • Take a hard stop to evaluate priorities and health
  • Use your job as an investor: Save for your business or ministry
  • Schedule time for spiritual growth: waking early, praying throughout the day
  • Transition from surviving to savoring every moment with family and God
4. Building a Faith-Based Community for Women Trying to Conceive

For women seeking support while navigating fertility journeys, Tatum provides tips on:

  • Researching existing communities to understand needs and pain points
  • Emphasizing peace, trust, and patience over anxiety
  • Combining faith with practical steps like health, vitamins, or IVF guidance
  • Using social media strategically to connect with your audience and grow community
Actionable Steps from This Episode:
  1. Take a recalibration pause to evaluate the alignment of your ambition and priorities.
  2. Apply the God Math Formula in daily life to multiply your efforts spiritually and practically.
  3. Carve out dedicated time for prayer, ministry, or your business while keeping your career stable.
  4. Build or join a faith-based community that provides spiritual encouragement and practical resources.
  5. Savor your life: prioritize health, family, and God over constant productivity and achievement.
Resources Mentioned:
  • Previous episode: God Math Formula: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/1f420cff/god-math-the-spiritual-formula-every-busy-woman-needs




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Holding Your Desires While Trusting God’s Timing11 Mar 202600:40:50

This week on Blessed and Bossed Up, Tatum Temia dives deep into listener questions about balancing personal desires with God’s timing and navigating the complexities of Christian entrepreneurship. As we close out the first quarter of the year, this episode is a reminder to check in with your goals, your heart, and your faith.

Tatum covers:

  • Holding space for longings like marriage and motherhood without letting them consume your focus, even when God is calling you to pursue other seasons of life.
  • Healthy ways to process disappointment and desire without shutting down emotionally or disassociating.
  • The importance of enjoying your current season while preparing for future roles in life and leadership.
  • Discerning action versus waiting in business: how to know when to move forward and when to sit and seek guidance from the Lord.
  • The dwelling and abiding lifestyle—making God your constant dwelling place to cultivate peace, clarity, and confidence in your decisions.
  • Real talk on the mental and spiritual challenges of Christian entrepreneurship and how to navigate the pressure, self-doubt, and decision paralysis with faith and wisdom.

Whether you’re navigating personal desires, business growth, or both, this episode provides practical guidance and encouragement to live fully surrendered to God while pursuing your destiny.

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Why Rest Feels Unproductive (But Isn’t)05 Mar 202600:40:56

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue the book club discussion of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, exploring chapters 2 and 3. Tatum dives into the history of speed in modern culture and how technological advancement, shifting cultural values, and the rise of the attention economy have created a lifestyle of chronic busyness.

From alarm clocks and the invention of the light bulb to smartphones and social media platforms, we unpack how the modern world has conditioned us to move faster, do more, and measure productivity by output rather than spiritual depth.

But what is the real cost of this constant hurry?

This episode challenges Christian entrepreneurs and busy believers to reconsider their definition of productivity, confront the hidden addiction to digital devices, and examine whether busyness is crowding out intimacy with God.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, constantly rushed, or spiritually disconnected despite being productive, this conversation will help you recognize the deeper root of the problem—and prepare you for the solutions coming in the next episode.

In This Episode We Discuss
  • Why hurry is considered the greatest enemy of the spiritual life
  • The historical shift from natural rhythms to artificial schedules
  • How the invention of the light bulb and industrial work culture changed sleep and productivity
  • The cultural shift from leisure as wealth to busyness as status
  • The decline of Sabbath practices in modern society
  • How the digital age and smartphones fuel distraction and addiction
  • The psychology behind the attention economy
  • The concept of “hurry sickness” and its symptoms
  • How constant busyness can damage our spiritual health
  • Why redefining productivity is essential for believers

Key Takeaways

1. Modern life is built around speed—not soul care.

Historically, people lived according to natural rhythms—waking with the sun and resting after sunset. Today, alarm clocks, work schedules, and digital connectivity push us into an artificial pace that our bodies and spirits were never designed for.

2. Busyness has become a status symbol.

Where wealth once meant leisure and rest, modern culture celebrates packed calendars, long work hours, and constant productivity.

3. Technology competes for your attention.

Smartphones and social media platforms are intentionally designed to capture and keep your attention through dopamine-driven feedback loops.

4. Hurry isn’t just stressful—it’s spiritual.

When our lives move too quickly, we lose the space required for reflection, prayer, and genuine connection with God.

5. Many of us are experiencing “hurry sickness.”

This condition describes the constant feeling of being rushed, anxious about time, and trying to accomplish more in less time.

Reflection Questions

Take a moment to sit with these questions:

  • Do you feel most productive only when you’re accomplishing tasks?
  • Do you struggle to rest without feeling lazy or unproductive?
  • Has busyness replaced intentional time with God?
  • Could your pace of life be preventing you from hearing God clearly?
Community Challenge: Digital Sabbath

The episode proposes a powerful challenge inspired by the book:

Turn off your phone for 24 hours.

A digital Sabbath allows you to:

  • Reset your mind
  • Break compulsive phone habits
  • Create space for rest and spiritual reflection

Consider trying this with the Blessed + Bossed Up community and observe what shifts in your awareness and connection with God.

What’s Coming Next

This episode focuses on diagnosing the problem of hurry. In the next episode, we’ll begin exploring the practical solutions John Mark Comer presents for slowing down and restoring spiritual health in a fast-paced world.

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How Busyness Is Hurting Your Spiritual Life26 Feb 202600:41:02

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum kicks off the next book club series: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer. https://amzn.to/4c9jPAK

This national bestseller, with over one million copies sold, presents a compelling spiritual and emotional case against hurry and challenges the culture of busyness that defines modern life.

For ambitious women balancing business, motherhood, marriage, leadership, and personal growth, this conversation is both timely and necessary.

Although originally planning to wait until after midterms, Tatum began rereading this book sooner because she recognized subtle signs of internal hurry resurfacing in her own life. This episode is not just a book discussion—it is a personal reset and an invitation for listeners to do the same.

In this episode, she explores:

  • Why high-achieving women are especially vulnerable to chronic overload
  • What current research reveals about women, stress, burnout, and time poverty
  • How busyness impacts cortisol levels, sleep, hormonal balance, and long-term health
  • The invisible mental load many women carry daily
  • The tension between ambition and contentment
  • Why hurry is incompatible with love, joy, and peace
  • The foundational question raised in the book: Who am I becoming?

Drawing from both the book and her own experience in therapy, Tatum also shares practical tools that help interrupt internal hurry, including:

  • Creating intentional transition time between responsibilities
  • Practicing single-tasking instead of multitasking
  • Scheduling real lunch breaks without scrolling
  • Grounding exercises to regulate the nervous system
  • Pausing in moments of rush to return to presence

One of the central themes discussed in this episode is the idea that hurry is not merely a productivity issue—it is a spiritual formation issue.

As the book argues, love, joy, and peace are core characteristics of apprenticeship to Jesus. Yet all three are incompatible with a life lived in constant speed. Presence is required for love. Stillness is required for joy. Margin is required for peace.

Tatum challenges listeners to reflect deeply:

  • Who are they becoming if nothing changes?
  • Has hurry negatively impacted their marriage, parenting, friendships, or worship?
  • Are they rushing toward a version of success they may not even like?
  • Where has busyness quietly replaced intimacy with God?

This episode also addresses a sobering reality: many Christians are not in danger of renouncing their faith—but of settling for a distracted, shallow version of it.

The invitation is clear: eliminate hurry before it eliminates depth.

Listeners are encouraged to grab a copy of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry and follow along as the book club continues in the next episode.

Because building a successful life should never come at the cost of the soul.

If this episode resonates, share it with another ambitious woman who needs permission—and accountability—to slow down.

Tune in next week as the discussion continues.




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AI & the Christian Entrepreneur23 Feb 202600:51:31

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we’re having a sober, faith-centered conversation about artificial intelligence—what it is, how it already shows up in daily life, and how Christian entrepreneurs should engage with it wisely.

What AI Is (and why you’re already using it)

AI is software trained on data to predict, recommend, recognize, or generate without being told every step. It’s embedded in:

  • Google search suggestions
  • Autocorrect and text prediction
  • YouTube/Netflix/Spotify recommendations
  • Banking fraud alerts
  • Email spam filters and inbox sorting
  • Face ID, photo tagging, voice-to-text

AI isn’t just ChatGPT—and it’s here to stay.

The tension people feel

Many people want AI’s benefits but feel cautious about trust, jobs, privacy, and misinformation. Others either avoid it completely or rely on it too heavily.

The core boundary for believers

Use AI for labor, not revelation.

Don’t use AI to interpret scripture, replace prayer, or seek direction for what God told you to build. Use it for support work—drafting, organizing, brainstorming, or saving time—without replacing dependence on the Holy Spirit. AI can easily become an idol because it’s designed to learn you and feed you what you want.

Why this is good news for entrepreneurs

As AI content becomes overly polished, the market is shifting toward authentic, human-led content. People want real stories, real connection, and less perfection—meaning you don’t need “TV-level” production to show up and stand out.

Practical ways to use AI wisely
  • Draft captions, emails, descriptions, SEO
  • Repurpose audio/video into clips
  • Create basic graphics aligned to a brand guide
  • Automate simple customer support/FAQs
  • Streamline admin and back-office tasks

Keep the human connection: respond, engage, and make sure your voice stays present.

Closing encouragement

Now is a great time to launch what God called you to—without perfection—while using AI as a tool with wisdom, restraint, and spiritual discernment.



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Neutrality, Wisdom & Walking in the Spirit19 Feb 202600:44:11

In the previous episode, we were supposed to wrap up The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley. After waking up at 3 a.m. to record a full 57-minute episode, the final 17 minutes didn’t save. Rather than end abruptly, this episode finishes the discussion properly.

We conclude our book club conversation by examining two final spiritual markers of the Spirit-filled life:

  • The Word of God
  • Wisdom

We also prepare for our next book club selection: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer. We will begin in about two weeks after midterms, so go ahead and grab your copy now.

Marker #3: The Word of God

Charles Stanley outlines three key reading principles that help believers live a Spirit-filled life.

1. Look for Principles, Not Just Promises

Many believers are promise-centered, always searching for what God will do for them. But principles are more powerful for decision-making.

A principle works like an equation:

  • If you do A, expect B.
  • If you ignore A, expect C.

When you consistently study the Word, those principles become ingrained. You won’t need to pause life to search for answers. The Holy Spirit will bring truth to your mind in real time.

For Christian entrepreneurs especially, this is critical. You must be able to:

  • Make decisions quickly
  • Maintain spiritual accuracy
  • Move without paralysis

That kind of discernment only comes when the Word is already in you.

2. Read with Context — Remain Neutral

One of the most important themes of this episode is neutrality.

Do not approach Scripture trying to get something out of it. Approach it to know Him.

In an age of algorithms constantly feeding us what we already want to see, neutrality is difficult. But it is essential. Otherwise, we risk:

  • Confusing digital marketing for confirmation
  • Confusing algorithms for the Holy Spirit
  • Reading our desires into the text instead of receiving what it actually says

When you read neutrally, you allow the Word to confront you instead of you manipulating it to support what you already want.

Neutrality produces peace, clarity, sensitivity, and maturity.

If you approach Scripture asking, “How can I get God to work for me?” you will miss it.

When you approach asking, “How can I be closer to Him?” everything changes.

3. Look for General Promises

There are promises given to all believers for all time, including:

  • Jesus’ promise not to leave us as orphans (John 14:18)
  • Grace and mercy when we approach God (Hebrews 4:16)
  • Strength for the weary (Isaiah 40:31)

While God still speaks, He has already spoken extensively through Scripture. Personal revelation should always be filtered through biblical truth.

Approaching the Word strictly from a mystical or subjective lens is dangerous. Spiritual maturity requires emotional maturity, restraint, and accountability.

Marker #4: Wisdom

The final spiritual marker of a Spirit-filled life is wisdom.

The defining question:

What is the wise thing for me to do?

Wisdom exposes hidden motives. It shines light on greed, selfishness, pride, and lust.

Wisdom goes beyond right and wrong.

Something may not be sinful — but it may still not be wise.

The Holy Spirit does not merely pull us away from sin. He keeps us far from the edge.

Walking in Wisdom

Examples discussed in this episode include:

  • Disengaging instead of escalating when triggered
  • Avoiding environments that may not be sinful but are not wise
  • Listening to internal promptings before temptation escalates
  • Leaving a social setting when wisdom says it is time to go

The Spirit-filled life is not about seeing how close you can get to the line without crossing it. It is about walking wisely and staying far from the brink.

The Three-Dimensional Wisdom Question

When making decisions, ask:

  1. What is the wise thing to do in light of my past experience?
  2. What is the wise thing to do in light of my present situation?
  3. What is the wise thing to do in light of my future hopes and calling?

The Holy Spirit takes into account your history, your vulnerabilities, and your destiny. When He prompts you, it is for protection.

Ignoring wisdom can have lasting consequences.

Final Charge

If you are not reading your Bible daily, start now.

Buy a translation you understand. Read a little every day.

Through daily reading, you give the Holy Spirit access to your mind and heart — access necessary for transformation.


Next Book Club Pick

The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry – John Mark Comer

We will begin in approximately two weeks. Grab your copy and begin reading so you are ready when we start.


Additional Bible Study Resources Recommended by Charles Stanley
  1. 30 Days to Understanding the Bible – Max Anders
  2. How to Read the Bible for All Its Worth – Gordon D. Fee & Douglas Stewart
  3. How to Study the Bible – James Braga
  4. How to Understand Your Bible – T. Norton Sterrick
  5. Talk Through the Bible – Bruce Wilkinson & Kenneth Boa
  6. Living by the Book: The Art and Science of Reading the Bible – Howard Hendricks & William Hendricks




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The Bible Is the Holy Spirit’s Thoughts on Paper12 Feb 202600:43:37

In this episode of the Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club, we continue wrapping up The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley by exploring one of the most important markers of living in step with the Holy Spirit: the Word of God.

If you want to know what the Holy Spirit is saying, you must know what He has already said. The Bible is not just a collection of stories—it is the Holy Spirit’s thoughts on paper. It is objective, timeless truth that anchors us when our emotions, desires, and circumstances try to pull us in different directions.

In this episode, I share why Scripture is the most reliable way to discern God’s will, the difference between subjective and objective study, and how to approach the Word in a way that produces spiritual maturity. I also share personal reflections on discipleship, parenting, and how God uses everyday moments to redirect us back to His truth.

We also announce our next Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club pick: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer—a powerful follow-up that will help us establish a pace of life that keeps us aligned with the Spirit.

Key Takeaways
  • The Bible is the Holy Spirit’s most objective tool for revealing God’s will
  • Scripture is not just stories—it is a living, relevant, and authoritative guide for our lives
  • Many believers rely too heavily on subjective feelings instead of objective truth
  • Spiritual maturity requires balancing personal application with disciplined, objective study
  • Principles in Scripture provide timeless guidance for decision-making
  • Eliminating hurry is essential to maintaining sensitivity to the Holy Spirit
  • Discipleship begins at home and in everyday conversations
Scripture References
  • 2 Peter 1:20–21 — Scripture inspired by the Holy Spirit
  • Galatians 6:7 — You reap what you sow
  • Proverbs 13:20 — The influence of your associations
  • Proverbs 12:1 — Correction produces wisdom
  • Proverbs 12:19 — Truth endures
  • 2 Corinthians 9:6 — Generosity produces increase
  • Philippians 4:19 — God provides for His people

Book Club Announcement: Our Next Read

Our next Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club selection is:

The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer

This book addresses one of the greatest threats to our spiritual sensitivity: hurry. It will help us establish rhythms that allow us to remain emotionally healthy, spiritually alive, and aligned with God’s pace.

Get your copy and read along with us. https://a.co/d/0cBAB6G0

Resources Mentioned
  • The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley: https://a.co/d/0cBAB6G0
  • The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer https://a.co/d/0cBAB6G0




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Train Your Spirit Before the Test Comes06 Feb 202600:42:45

In this episode, Tatum shares a timely message about building spiritual muscle memory—the discipline of training your spirit to respond automatically to God, especially in seasons of pressure, warfare, and transition.

Just as physical muscle memory develops through consistent repetition, spiritual muscle memory develops through daily prayer, studying the Word, obedience, and intentional separation from environments that weaken your spiritual strength.

This episode serves as both an encouragement and a call to action for those who know they are being stretched, tested, and prepared for greater responsibility. Tatum explains why spiritual consistency—not emotional intensity—is what sustains you through seasons of elevation and opposition.

If you have been feeling pressure in multiple areas of your life, this episode will help you understand what is happening, how to respond, and how to strengthen your spiritual posture so you can stand firm in what God has called you to do.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
  • What spiritual muscle memory is and why it matters
  • Why spiritual disciplines must become automatic, not occasional
  • How consistent prayer strengthens your spiritual resilience
  • The difference between repetition and quality repetition in spiritual growth
  • Why studying and understanding scripture deeply increases its effectiveness in your life
  • How environments and habits can either strengthen or weaken your spiritual position
  • The importance of accountability in maintaining spiritual discipline
  • How to proactively prepare for seasons of elevation and opposition
Key Concepts Discussed

Spiritual Muscle Memory

Training your spirit to respond to God automatically through consistent prayer, scripture study, and obedience.

Quality Repetition

Not just hearing the Word, but studying it, writing it down, understanding it, and applying it so it becomes embedded within you.

Proactive Spiritual Discipline

Building strength before crisis occurs so your response is rooted in truth, not emotion.

Separation and Protection

Removing yourself from environments and habits that weaken your spiritual clarity and authority.

Accountability and Spiritual Covering

Strengthening your spiritual consistency through prayer partnerships and community.

Scripture Referenced
  • Ephesians 6:13–17 — The Armor of God
  • James 5:16 — “The prayer of the righteous is powerful and effective.”
  • Ephesians 6:12 — Spiritual warfare is not against flesh and blood
Practical Ways to Build Spiritual Muscle Memory
  • Pray daily and consistently
  • Study and write down scripture to deepen understanding
  • Put on the armor of God intentionally
  • Remove yourself from environments that weaken your discipline
  • Establish accountability through prayer partnerships or community
  • Meditate on the Word so it becomes your automatic response
Reflection Questions
  • What spiritual disciplines have become inconsistent in your life?
  • Where is God calling you to strengthen your spiritual foundation?
  • What environments, habits, or distractions may be weakening your spiritual clarity?
  • What daily practices can you implement to build spiritual muscle memory?
Resources Mentioned
  • BibleHub.com
  • BibleStudyTools.com
  • GotQuestions.org
  • A study Bible for deeper context and understanding




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The Core Competencies of Commitment30 Jan 202600:41:53

In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, Tatum reframes commitment from a biblical perspective. Rather than defining commitment as discipline, motivation, or consistency, she defines it as spiritual restraint—the willingness to restrict your freedom of action in order to fully submit to God’s way.

This teaching explores why commitment is a distinguishing mark of believers and how inconsistent restraint can quietly lead us from dependence on the Holy Spirit into self-sufficiency.

Episode Highlights
  • A biblical definition of commitment as restraint
  • Why commitment is a marker of spiritual maturity
  • How good intentions can still lead to compromise
  • The difference between good ideas and God ideas
  • Why God cares about how we start, continue, and finish
Biblical Foundation: Asa and Jehoshaphat (2 Chronicles)

Tatum examines the lives of King Asa and King Jehoshaphat to show how waning commitment and partial obedience produced long-term consequences.

Both kings were generally faithful but inconsistent in restraint:

  • Asa obeyed God early in his reign but later relied on alliances rather than the Lord.
  • Jehoshaphat followed God in major decisions but compromised in daily and strategic ones.

Their stories reveal that partial obedience and strategic compromise can open doors we never intended to open.

The Five Core Competencies of Commitment

Commitment to the Lord should be distinguishable. These five competencies serve as markers of true spiritual commitment:

  1. A Clear and Clean Heart
  2. Commitment begins with the inner condition of the heart. Unaddressed pride, bitterness, anger, and self-reliance hinder obedience.
  3. Scriptures: Matthew 5:8; 1 Samuel 16:7
  4. Courage
  5. Courage is the spiritual strength to obey God despite fear, risk, or opposition. Obedience often requires moving forward without certainty.
  6. Scripture: Joshua 1:9
  7. Diligence
  8. Diligence is steady, faithful obedience over time. Longevity in calling, business, and ministry is built on faithfulness, not motivation.
  9. Scripture: Proverbs 21:5
  10. Precision
  11. Precision means doing exactly what God said—no more and no less. Dependence on God is required to walk out assignments with accuracy.
  12. Contentment
  13. Contentment is an inner sufficiency rooted in trust in God’s sovereignty, independent of external circumstances.
  14. Scriptures: Philippians 4:11–13; 1 Timothy 6:6–8
Faith and Human Behavior

Research shows that commitment bridges the gap between intention and action. Many people struggle not because they lack desire, but because they lack commitment.

This biblical framework for commitment not only produces consistency in action, but also spiritual fruit, deeper intimacy with God, and alignment with His will.

Closing Thought

Commitment is not about productivity alone. It is about pleasing the Father, finishing the assignment, and stewarding the life God entrusted to us.

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Understanding Peace as a Spiritual Marker26 Jan 202600:44:19

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our book club discussion of The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley, wrapping up Part Three of the book. These final chapters focus on the spiritual markers the Holy Spirit uses to confirm God’s will—and today’s conversation dives into the first two: peace and the conscience.

Tatum unpacks why peace is often the first and clearest indicator that the Holy Spirit is either affirming or resisting a decision. Through a powerful story from Charles Stanley’s own ministry—where waiting on God led to a debt-free miracle—this episode challenges the tendency to panic, self-rely, or rationalize disobedience when God seems silent.

The episode also includes several personal testimonies illustrating how the absence or presence of peace has guided major life decisions, from entrepreneurship and ministry to relationships and family choices. These stories highlight that spiritual maturity is not a prerequisite for the Holy Spirit to lead—He speaks from the very beginning of our walk with God.

In the second half of the episode, the discussion turns to Stanley’s second marker: the conscience. While acknowledging the biblical framework presented in the book, Tatum offers honest reflection and thoughtful critique, questioning whether the conscience should be treated as a distinct marker separate from the Holy Spirit’s work of renewing the mind. This portion of the conversation invites listeners into deeper discernment, encouraging them to study Scripture, pray intentionally, and test what resonates with the Spirit.

The episode closes with practical reflection questions from the book to help listeners evaluate decisions they may be facing—especially when peace seems unclear or external advice conflicts with inner conviction.

This episode is an invitation to slow down, listen closely, and trust that the Holy Spirit is actively leading—even when His direction doesn’t make logical sense



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Kingdom Economics + Generational Wealth (w/ Raevyn Hokett)22 Jan 202600:52:48

Today’s episode is a special one—Tatum sits down with Raevyn Hokett, a longtime friend and fan-favorite guest who first entered Tatum’s life as her business coach back in 2014, helping her transition from employee to full-time entrepreneur. Their relationship has grown over the years into genuine friendship (Tatum even officiated Raevyn and her husband Tim’s wedding!), and in this conversation they go deep on what it really means to build a legacy God’s way.

Together, they unpack legacy and longevity in entrepreneurship, how to steward influence and resources, and why “doing business God’s way” often includes wilderness seasons that teach dependence, humility, and true alignment.

Want to watch the interview? This episode is also available on YouTube (link in the show notes).

In This Episode, We Talk About
  • Why Raevyn is an OG guest and always a listener favorite
  • What legacy looks like when you’re building with eternity in mind
  • The difference between being self-made vs. submitted to God
  • How success without God can become a “cocktail for danger”
  • Learning to trust God in manna seasons—daily provision and dependency
  • When obedience doesn’t look like immediate overflow
  • The moment God told Raevyn to shut down a lucrative coaching business
  • How God uses closed doors as protection (including a major 2020 “dodged bullet”)
  • How spiritual gifts (especially prophecy + discernment) protect and guide in business
  • Why business models must evolve—and how God leads transitions ahead of time
  • Guarding your gates: distraction, comparison, AI “busy work,” and spiritual compromise
  • The power of abiding—stillness, hearing God, and resisting hustle culture

Resource Mentioned + Listener Discount

Raevyn is currently offering Rich Disciples Academy, specifically the Calling to Cash Flow Starter Kit, designed to help believers turn their God-given calling into sustainable income.

Blessed + Bossed Up listeners get 50% off with code: BLESSED

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The Power of Neutrality17 Jan 202600:41:21

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, the host continues the book club series with The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley, covering Chapters 13 and 14, which focus on the Holy Spirit’s role in guidance, decision-making, sensitivity, and neutrality before God.

The episode opens with an invitation to the Clarity Reset, a free two-week challenge inside The Society, designed to help participants realign their capacity, priorities, and spiritual focus by slowing down rather than adding more.

Episode Highlights:
  • Why many people struggle due to lack of clarity—not discipline or work ethic
  • How busyness and goal-driven living can dull spiritual sensitivity
  • The Holy Spirit as a guide, not a controller
  • Four key truths about the Holy Spirit:
  • He guides
  • He is trustworthy
  • He is God’s mouthpiece to believers
  • The Holy Spirit speaks
  • Real-life examples of Spirit-led guidance in parenting, career decisions, and resisting distractions
  • Why God cares about both major and seemingly small decisions
  • The importance of recognizing and trusting how the Holy Spirit communicates personally
Chapter 14 Focus: The Principle of Neutrality
  • Why God often remains silent when believers approach Him with fixed agendas
  • The danger of asking God to bless plans already made
  • How emotional attachment can distort discernment
  • Why worship helps cultivate neutrality and clarity
  • How misplaced faith in promises God never made leads to disappointment
  • The connection between neutrality, obedience, and peace

Key Takeaway:

Clarity comes from sensitivity, and sensitivity grows when believers approach God with a neutral heart—willing to release their own agendas and fully submit to His will.

Resources Mentioned:
  • The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley: https://amzn.to/45Jzcf6
  • The Clarity Reset (free two-week challenge inside The Society): thesocietychallenge.com




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The Position of Your Mind Determines the Posture of Your Life (w/ Kristen Hopkins Vincent)14 Jan 202601:04:09

In this episode, I’m joined by my friend and podcast fave Kristen Hopkins Vincent—and yes, we’re talking about the Vincent part today! Kristen returns with powerful updates on her life (she’s a wife and a mom now!) and on the incredible work happening through Black SEL.

We dig into Kristen’s transition from Dangers of the Mind to Black SEL, why culturally-rooted social and emotional learning is essential for Black communities, and what it looks like to build a mission-driven organization with radical obedience to God. Kristen shares moments where obedience didn’t make sense—like moving forward with a major conference during a hurricane—and how God confirmed the vision through provision, research, and undeniable fruit.

We also talk about the very real emotions that come up when you’re following God’s timing: shame, guilt, feeling unseen, and learning how to embrace seasons of being hidden. And Kristen’s testimony around marriage and motherhood is such a needed reminder: it’s not too late, and God is always intentional.

Before we get into it: Kristen and her husband received the Presidential Lifetime Achievement Award—and she forgot to mention it in the conversation because that’s what happens when you’re focused on obedience and doing the Lord’s work.

In this episode, we cover:
  • What Black SEL is and why it’s necessary
  • Kristen’s transition from Dangers of the Mind to launching a nonprofit
  • The 5 core competencies of social-emotional learning (and how Black SEL frames them)
  • Why SEL must be culturally affirming to truly serve Black students and communities
  • Building “God’s way” vs. building in your own might
  • The difference between a “me” assignment and a “we” assignment
  • Navigating shame, guilt, and the pressure to be seen
  • Seasons where God hides you—and why that protection matters
  • Kristen’s hurricane conference testimony and how God made the way
  • The research that revealed how little SEL scholarship centers Black communities
  • Waiting on God for marriage and motherhood—and what it means to pray for alignment with your assignment
  • A word for the woman juggling purpose, business, love, and obedience
  • “The position of your mind determines the posture of your life”


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Doing God’s Work God’s Way09 Jan 202600:46:45

In this bonus episode, we officially pick back up our book club read of The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley after pausing in Q4 due to major life transitions, including starting law school and welcoming a new baby. The goal now is simple: finish the book together and apply it practically as we move into a new year.

If you are new to the book club, all previous episodes are linked in the show notes, along with the link to purchase the book. This remains one of my top Christian books of all time and one I believe should be reread regularly, especially at the beginning of the year.

Today’s Focus: Chapter 11 — Doing God’s Work God’s Way

While this episode technically covers Chapters 11 and 12, the primary focus is Chapter 11. Chapter 12 largely reiterates themes already covered earlier in the book regarding the Holy Spirit, so today’s discussion centers on what it truly looks like to build, work, and live by God’s Spirit rather than our own strength.

The chapter opens with Zechariah 4:6–7:

“Not by might nor by power, but by My Spirit, says the Lord of hosts.”

Using the story of Zerubbabel rebuilding the temple, Charles Stanley reminds us that:

  • God knows we will face opposition
  • God does not always remove obstacles
  • God prepares us instead
  • Self-sufficiency is often the greatest opposition

This scripture is a critical anchor for anyone building a business, pursuing goals, or stepping into God-ordained work.

No Separation Between Spiritual and Secular Work

Colossians 3:23–24 reminds us that “whatever you do” is service to the Lord. God does not divide life into sacred and secular categories. Your job, business, career, and daily responsibilities are all part of your calling.

Even in environments where faith cannot be openly expressed, excellence, humility, integrity, and Spirit-dependence still glorify God. Your work ethic and posture can be a bridge to someone who may never step into a church.

Two Ways to Approach God’s Work

Doing God’s work in the flesh looks like:

  • relying on skill, experience, influence, and strategy
  • planning first and asking God to bless it later
  • measuring success by numbers, money, or visibility
  • operating in stress, pressure, and control

Doing God’s work by the Spirit looks like:

  • beginning with dependency
  • hearing from God before planning
  • remaining flexible and surrendered
  • allowing God to receive the glory

God’s work done God’s way carries an unmistakable mark. It produces transformation, not just emotional stimulation or surface-level success.

Five Indicators You’re Doing God’s Work God’s Way

According to Charles Stanley, Spirit-led work is marked by:

  1. Knowing the work will fail if God does not intervene
  2. Seeing God as your only true source
  3. Looking for evidence of the Spirit’s intervention
  4. Living without chronic stress
  5. Spending more time thanking God than asking Him

If these are not currently descriptive of you, that is not condemnation—it is an invitation to course-correct.

Final Encouragement

This episode is especially timely for the beginning of the year, when many of us are setting goals and making plans. If you started the year operating in the flesh, now is the time to bring those plans back to God, repent of self-sufficiency, and realign your posture.

Write these five indicators down. Keep Zechariah 4:6 somewhere visible. Check yourself often and intentionally choose to do God’s work God’s way.

We have two more bonus episodes to finish the book before moving on to our next book club pick.

Thank you for listening to another episode of the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast.

Previous episodes:

https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/39405540/the-joy-youve-been-missing-starts-with-the-holy-spirit

https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/3255ebb2/the-holy-spirit-is-not-an-it-or-a-ghost

https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/20f3c1c7/faith-over-formula

https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/4df616ba/abiding-over-achieving

https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/2213e340/the-faith-factor

https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/28425033/keeping-in-step-with-the-spirit



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9 Years In: What God Taught Me About Business & Consistency04 Jan 202600:52:03

Welcome to the first episode of 2026—and the 9-year anniversary year of Blessed + Bossed Up! In this special New Year kickoff, Tatum opens with prayer, gratitude, and a powerful reflection on what God has taught her through nine years of consistent podcasting and nine years of full-time entrepreneurship (11 years as an entrepreneur overall).

This episode is part celebration, part reset, and part practical mentorship: nine lessons to help you build what God called you to build—with skill, strategy, and spiritual sensitivity.

In This Episode, You’ll Hear
  • A New Year prayer + encouragement for anyone coming out of a hard 2025
  • A thank-you message to listeners who’ve supported the show over the years
  • Why year 10 is a big deal—and what may be coming next (YouTube + format experiments)
  • An invitation to join The Society (with a free trial) and what’s being added in 2026
  • The core teaching: 9 lessons from 9 years of entrepreneurship and podcasting

Church Announcements + Updates1) Subscribe on YouTube

Tatum shares that she’s not committing to a full video podcast, but you can expect more video elements in 2026:

  • YouTube-exclusive episodes that may also be added to the podcast feed
  • Some podcast episodes recorded live
  • More experimentation with format as the landscape continues shifting

Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TatumTemia


2) Join The Society (Free Trial + New 2026 Modules)

Tatum invites you to activate a free 2-week trial in The Society, the membership community created for Christian entrepreneurs who want a space where they don’t have to “leave Jesus out” or “leave entrepreneurship out.”

New for 2026: She’s bringing her former coaching program, She Is Uncompromising Executive Leadership Training, into The Society—broken into monthly modules (about 12 total).

  • Topics include operations, marketing, business planning, strategic planning, and accounting (modules taught by her CPA)
  • The legal module will NOT be included (permission was for the original program only)
  • Membership is $19.99/month, and the first module drops end of January

Link to join: blessedandbossedupsociety.com

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How to Make Spirit-Led Business Decisions pt. 301 Jan 202600:36:29

**Disclaimer** We are currently on our annual winter break. This is a replay of an episode that aired earlier in 2025.

In this continuation of the Bible on Business series, Tatum walks through Acts 16:6–10 to illustrate how critical it is for Christian entrepreneurs to embrace mobility and flexibility when building a business God’s way. Using Paul’s second missionary journey as a framework, this episode explores what it looks like to make strategic plans while remaining fully open to divine redirection.

If you’re someone who knows you’re called but keeps facing closed doors, delays, or redirections that don’t make sense, this message is for you. Tatum speaks to the emotional and spiritual tension of following God with excellence while trusting Him to guide every step—even when plans change.

She also shares a personal story about obeying the Holy Spirit with no confirmation and how that decision ultimately protected her and her family. This episode will shift your mindset around delays, reframe how you view closed doors, and help you move forward with peace and confidence.

Key Takeaways
  • A closed door is not failure—it can be divine redirection.
  • The Holy Spirit often leads us as we move, not before.
  • Flexibility and mobility are vital for kingdom entrepreneurs.
  • Being spiritual is not the same as being Spirit-led.
  • Obedience does not always come with external confirmation.
  • The people God is calling you to serve are already prepared to receive you.
Scripture Focus
  • Acts 16:6–10 (ESV and The Message)
  • Proverbs 16:9
  • Romans 8:14
  • Galatians 5:25
This Episode is For You If:
  • You are clear about your calling but uncertain about next steps.
  • You’ve experienced unexpected closed doors and felt discouraged.
  • You struggle to distinguish between faith and fear in business decisions.
  • You are tired of waiting for external confirmation before obeying God.
  • You want to operate in peace rather than anxiety as you build your business.
Topics Covered
  • Strategic planning vs. spiritual discernment
  • What to do when you face delays, pivots, or redirections
  • The importance of maintaining spiritual rhythm in business
  • How over-attachment to your vision can block divine movement
  • The role of fear and anxiety in clouding discernment
  • How obedience leads to favor and alignment with your ideal clients




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How to Make Spirit-Led Business Decisions pt. 223 Dec 202500:39:54

**Disclaimer** We are currently on our annual winter break. This is a replay of an episode that aired earlier in 2025.

In this continuation of our Bible on Business series, we dive deeper into the process of making Holy Spirit-led business decisions. Picking up from Part 1 (based on Acts 8), today’s discussion focuses on Acts 13:1-4 and how divine strategy and clarity are birthed from a lifestyle of worship, fasting, and consistent submission to God. Tatum also shares critical biblical principles for discerning the spirit behind those who claim to be sent by God, offering practical steps to avoid deception and remain anchored in the truth.

Key Points:
  • Context of Acts 13: Shift from Jerusalem to Antioch, highlighting the transition from Peter’s leadership to Paul’s.
  • Divine Strategy is Birthed from Worship and Fasting:
  • Barnabas and Saul’s commissioning came in the middle of an existing posture of worship, not a strategic session seeking next steps.
  • Application: Do not seek God only for strategy—pursue a lifestyle of submission, intimacy, and service.
  • Beware of Misaligned Spiritual Leadership:
  • Many modern Christian entrepreneurs and believers are spiritually "thirsty," making them vulnerable to deception.
  • Importance of properly discerning who lays hands on you or influences your spiritual walk and business decisions.
  • Principles for Discerning Spiritual Leadership:
  1. Test their confession of Jesus (1 John 4:1-3).
  2. Test the fruit of their life (Matthew 7:15-20).
  3. Test alignment with Scripture (Galatians 1:8-9; Isaiah 8:20).
  4. Test through the witness of the Holy Spirit (John 16:13).
  • Practical Application:
  • Ask key questions:
  • Does this person exalt the true Jesus or themselves?
  • Does their life consistently produce holy fruit?
  • Are their teachings aligned fully with Scripture?
  • Does the Holy Spirit bear witness within you regarding their message and conduct?
  • Take your time before accepting any prophetic word or impartation. It is wise to "wait and see" rather than rushing based on emotions.
  • Personal Story:
  • Tatum shares her own journey of being patient during a wilderness season and how God’s deposits led to the launch of Anchored Media and her continued success, underscoring the power of patience and submission.
Resources Mentioned:
  • The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley – [Grab your copy here] https://a.co/d/cBARYuE
  • Bible references: Acts 13:1-4, 1 John 4:1-3, Matthew 7:15-20, Galatians 1:8-9, Isaiah 8:20, John 16:13

Call to Action:
  • Reflect: Are you seeking God’s hand or His heart first?
  • Evaluate: Apply the principles of spiritual discernment shared today to your current business community and spiritual influences.
  • Prepare: Join the Blessed + Bossed Up Book Club as we start The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley. The journey to spirit-led entrepreneurship continues.





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How to Make Spirit-Led Business Decisions pt. 116 Dec 202500:36:36

**Disclaimer** We are currently on our annual winter break. This is a replay of an episode that aired earlier in 2025.

In today’s episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our Bible on Business series with a deep dive into what it looks like to make strategic business decisions led by the Holy Spirit. Drawing from Acts 8:26–40, Tatum unpacks the story of Philip and the Ethiopian eunuch to reveal how obedience to God—even when it seems illogical—can produce generational and global impact.

Tatum also shares a powerful testimony about Anchored Media Studios being awarded the 2025 Peerspace Open Doors Award and reflects on the importance of celebrating wins, even when they don’t directly reflect financial gain. With personal insight and biblical application, this episode gives you practical tools to discern God's voice, remain obedient in seasons of uncertainty, and be led by the Spirit in every decision you make.

What You’ll Learn:

  • Why Spirit-led strategy always outperforms worldly business tactics
  • The biblical context and business application of Acts 8
  • How to know if what you're hearing is truly from God
  • What to do when your platform, profits, or progress feel like they’re shrinking
  • The power of journaling and intentional reflection in building spiritual sensitivity
  • Why one act of obedience can change nations
  • How Tatum is applying these lessons in her own businesses and platform


Resources Mentioned:

  • Book Club Pick: The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley: https://amzn.to/4ji32MG
  • Episode referenced: Testimony of building Anchored Media Studios https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/24590588/faith-endurance-and-eight-years-of-gods-grace
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His Strategic Timing12 Dec 202500:35:20

**Disclaimer** We are currently on our annual winter break. This is a replay of an episode that aired earlier in 2025.

 In this episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our Bible on Business series by diving into the significance of strategic timing. Tatum unpacks the powerful lessons from Acts 2, examining how the Lord orchestrated the perfect moment for Pentecost and how this applies to our business and leadership journeys. She discusses why waiting on God’s timing is crucial, how to avoid premature leadership, and how divine strategy ensures maximum impact.

Through the transformation of Peter, the example of Chick-fil-A’s success, and personal reflections on her own journey, Tatum emphasizes the importance of trusting God's plan. If you’re in a season of waiting or feeling impatient about your business or calling, this episode will encourage and challenge you to surrender to God's divine orchestration.

Key Takeaways:

  • God’s Timing Ensures Maximum Impact: Pentecost happened at the exact right moment to maximize the spread of the gospel. Likewise, waiting on God's timing in your business will lead to greater impact.
  • The Right People Will Be in Place When It's Time: God gathers the right audience, customers, and community when the timing aligns with His plan.
  • Strategic Preparation Precedes Breakthrough: Just as Peter had to go through a transformation process, we must embrace personal and professional development while waiting for God’s move.
  • Sudden Breakthroughs Are Often Years in the Making: From Jesus preparing 30 years for a 3-year ministry to Chick-fil-A’s 20-year foundation before expansion, major success takes time and patience.
  • Avoid Premature Leadership & Decision-Making: Acting ahead of God’s plan can lead to consequences. Learning to wait well is key to success in both business and faith.

Scriptures Mentioned:

  • Acts 2:1-5 – The divine timing of Pentecost
  • Leviticus 23:15-16 – The significance of the Feast of Weeks
  • Deuteronomy 16:16 – The biblical foundation for gathering at Pentecost
  • Matthew 16:16-23 – Peter’s faith and spiritual immaturity
  • John 18:10-11 – Peter’s rash decision-making




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Patterns of Behavior That Pull Us Away From God — And How to Change Them04 Dec 202500:36:41

Before we get into today’s episode, I want to let you know that the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast is currently on a brief break as I reset, refocus, and prepare for what’s next in this new season. While we’re away, I’ll be sharing powerful sessions, teachings, and listener favorites from our community to continue pouring into you. Today’s replay is one of those sessions. Enjoy, and I pray it blesses you right where you are.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • Key lessons from the book of Isaiah and its relevance to our daily lives.
  • How patterns of behavior like fear, self-reliance, and worldly influences keep us from fully depending on God.
  • The concept of the habit loop and how it shapes our actions.
  • Practical strategies to disrupt unhealthy habits and replace them with faith-driven behaviors.


Scripture Focus:

  • Isaiah 30:21 (NLT): “Your own ears will hear him. Right behind you a voice will say, ‘This is the way you should go,’ whether to the right or to the left.”


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When Obedience Costs You Everything01 Dec 202500:53:07

In this vulnerable end-of-year episode, Tatum opens up about navigating a year of big transition—welcoming a new baby, starting law school, stewarding family and business, and still choosing to make God the CEO of it all. She shares how 2025 has exposed areas for growth, internal “shoulds,” and noise… but also how her foundation in God has kept her steady.

Tatum also announces that the podcast will be on pause for December as she focuses on finals, rest, and seeking God for the next phase of the Bible on Business series—coming back in the new year with more teaching and visual, behind-the-scenes content.

Then we dive back into Part 2 of her powerful conversation with Pastor Tiffany Sowah. Tiffany shares the real cost of obedience: relocating in 30 days off fragmented instructions from God, losing a major federal contract, walking through a “manna season” where she and her husband had just enough for each day, and even surrendering her dream car and apartment. She talks honestly about anger, depression, and feeling like she’d “lost everything”—and how God reframed it as giving everything up to follow Him.

This episode is for the entrepreneur, leader, or believer who is:

  • Wrestling with hesitation around a big instruction from God
  • Questioning if they “heard Him right” because obedience led to hardship
  • In a season where it feels like everything is being stripped, not added
  • Wanting to understand what it really means to count the cost and still say “yes”

We also share the heart behind the New Year’s Eve Prayer-a-thon, how it was birthed in the middle of Tiffany’s lowest financial season, and why you absolutely want to be in the virtual room this year.

The Prayer-a-thon: Heart + Invitation
  • How the first Prayer-a-thon (Dec 2023) was birthed while Tiffany was working a seasonal job at Ross, living with her parents, and rebuilding from scratch
  • The purpose of the Prayer-a-thon: to end the year and enter the next one in the only place that sustains us—God’s presence
  • Growing from an 8–12 hour broadcast to an 18–20 hour global prayer experience with people joining from all over the world
  • Testimonies of people who planned to “hop on for a bit” and ended up staying all day
  • Why you should come ready to log in “for an hour”… but be prepared to want to stay much longer

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The Cost of Obedience w| Pastor Tiffany Sowah20 Nov 202500:52:09

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum sits down with one of our favorites, Pastor Tiffany Sowah, for a real and raw conversation about what it actually looks like to depend on God in business, ministry, and life.

The last time Tiffany was on the show was in 2020. Since then, everything has changed: she’s become Pastor Tiffany, married, relocated twice (from Philly to North Carolina and now living full-time in Ghana), shifted from multi–six-figure consulting to full-time ministry, and has walked through some of the hardest financial and emotional seasons of her life.

In Part 1 of this conversation, Tatum and Tiffany talk about the Bible on Business journey, the difference between worldly “Christian-branded” strategies and truly building from the Word, and the uncomfortable reality of learning to really depend on God when everything in you wants to lean on hustle, self-reliance, or what looks “practical” on paper.

Tiffany shares how God:

  • Took her from a busy life in Philly as a property owner and multi–six-figure business owner
  • Led her to North Carolina for a softer, more peaceful lifestyle and deeper feminine identity
  • Began quietly preparing her heart to slow down in business and ramp up in ministry
  • Used isolation, relocation, and hidden seasons to cultivate boldness, honesty, and a lifestyle of obedience

They also talk about:

  • Growing up in church vs. actually forming a personal relationship with God
  • How Catalyst Church in Philly became Tiffany’s training ground for intercession, obedience, and spiritual maturity
  • Why accountability, therapy, and spiritual covering matter so much when you’re hungry for God
  • The danger of consuming only digital, “sound bite” faith and how to slow down and discern voices online
  • Why wanting “more” (peace, better quality of life, financial freedom, the ability to be a kingdom financier) isn’t wrong—but must be submitted to God

This conversation is a masterclass in counting the cost, moving when God says move, and allowing Him to reshape your identity beyond hustle, proximity-based friendships, and public success.

Stay tuned for Part 2, where they dig into what happened when Tiffany’s business unraveled, the reality of manna seasons, grief in transitions, and how God used it all to expand her global ministry and birth the Prayerthon.

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Faith Doesn’t Replace Fundamentals14 Nov 202500:53:44

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum continues the Bible on Business series with a sobering reminder: faith does not replace fundamentals. Yes, we pray, fast, and follow God’s leading—but we also have to be good stewards who understand the basic building blocks of business. Tatum walks you through what it really means to count the cost (Luke 14:28–30) and breaks down the core fundamentals every God-led entrepreneur needs in place so you’re not just starting things… you’re able to sustain and scale them with integrity.

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In This Episode, We Cover:
  • Why “being super saved” isn’t enough to build a sustainable business
  • – How many Christian entrepreneurs skip the unglamorous fundamentals and then blame God for what’s really mismanagement.
  • Exegesis of Luke 14:28–30
  • – What Jesus meant when He said to count the cost before building.
  • – How this applies directly to launching and running a business in 2025 and beyond.
  • Faith + Fundamentals = Fruit that Lasts
  • – Why spiritual disciplines (prayer, fasting, obedience) must be paired with practical disciplines (planning, numbers, systems).
  • – How to avoid building businesses that look spiritual on the surface but are structurally weak underneath.
  • The Core Fundamentals Every Business Needs
  • Tatum breaks down “Business 101” in simple, God-first language:
  1. Executive Summary – Your God-given assignment in business and what you’re really here to do.
  2. Market Research – How to stop guessing and actually understand your industry + the people you’re called to serve.
  3. Products & Services – Clarifying what you’re selling and how it solves a real problem.
  4. Marketing & Sales Plan – Why “posting on social” isn’t a strategy and how to think in terms of your customer’s journey.
  5. Operations Plan – Systems, structure, and stewardship so your business can function without chaos.
  6. Financial Plan – Startup costs, pricing, margins, and budgeting so you’re not “successful” online but broke in real life.
  7. Risk & Legal Structure – Why you need professional counsel (attorney + accountant) and can’t skip this step.
  • How Fundamentals Protect Your Witness
  • – Why half-finished projects, abandoned brands, and messy business practices misrepresent the God you claim to serve.
  • – How counting the cost upfront protects your name and His.

Free Resources Mentioned:
  • The Clarity Cleanse (30-Day Guided Detox) A free 30-day guide to help you quiet the noise, detox from distraction, and sharpen your ability to hear God concerning your business decisions. Download: https://blessed-bossed-up.kit.com/claritycleanse?_gl=1%2Ajrpgn0%2A_gcl_au%2ANTA2NDAzNC4xNzYxOTU5MDU2LjE4MDQzOTc3LjE3NjIyMDAzMzcuMTc2MjIwMDMzNg..
  • Business Plan Templates: https://blessed-bossed-up.kit.com/faithandfundamentals

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We are partnering again with the Mornings with God community for a 12+ hour Prayer-thon on December 31, 2025—a global time of teaching, intercession, and focused prayer as we prepare to step into 2026.

We’ll be praying into:

  • Spiritual Wellness & Development
  • Health & Physical Wellbeing
  • Mental & Emotional Health
  • Finances & Vocation
  • Community & The Nations
  • Relationships

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Scripture Reference:

  • Luke 14:25–33


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Start With Sobriety01 Nov 202500:57:33

Episode summary:

Today we kick off a new how-to series answering a listener’s question: “I study what you teach, but I still feel stuck.” Tatum lays the foundation—sobriety of mind and spirit—so you can actually apply the Bible to your business. She shares her pruning season (fasting, laying down a growing business, guarding inputs), why entrepreneurship can be intoxicating, and how to detox the influences that dull your sensitivity to the Holy Spirit. You’ll get a free 30-day Clarity Cleanse to practice sober-minded focus before we ever talk funnels, launches, or plans.

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Scriptures referenced
  • 1 Peter 5:8 – Be sober-minded and watchful.
  • 1 Thessalonians 5:6–8 – Stay awake and sober; breastplate of faith and love.
  • Mark 14:38 – Watch and pray; spirit willing, flesh weak.
  • (Also mentioned across the episode: Romans 12:2; Philippians 4:8; 2 Corinthians 10:5; Psalm 119:37; Matthew 6:22; Psalm 139:23–24; Matthew 6:33; Proverbs 16:3)

Key takeaways
  • Clarity precedes strategy. If you’re not sober-minded, you’ll chase metrics and momentum instead of God’s voice.
  • “With” not “for.” You’re building with God as CEO—His timing, His blueprint, His outcomes.
  • Guard your inputs. Influence creep is subtle: self-help replaces Scripture, “quick wins” replace consecration.
  • Two paths. Mixed mentorship + hurry = wasted time and money; obedience in His timing = preserved energy, precise results, lasting fruit.
  • Kingdom metrics ≠ vanity metrics. Success = pleasing God. Revenue follows revelation in due season.

5 intoxicating influences to detox
  1. Success culture & performance pressure
  2. Digital noise & comparison
  3. Mixed mentorship (many voices before The Voice)
  4. Materialism & metrics-based validation
  5. Over-independence (DIY vs. dependence on God)

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From Revelation to Practice24 Oct 202500:47:44

A listener wrote in after the Bible on Business series saying they’re inspired, but struggle to get the same revelation when reading the Bible on their own—and don’t know how to apply it to business. That honest question surfaced a real gap between hearing and doing, which Tatum will address with a brand-new, step-by-step practical series on building a business with God today (not 2017).

Before the series starts next episode, we’re reposting this foundational teaching to set perspective: revelation isn’t just for revenue—it’s for building eternally sound work that will withstand God’s testing. Listen with fresh ears, take notes, and get ready for a practical “how” series starting next.


Episode Summary

Tatum frames business-building through 1 Corinthians 3:13–15: everything we build will be tried by fire, revealing whether it was constructed on Christ or on straw. She walks through the tension between earthly success and eternal reward, invites honest heart work (contentment, motives, obedience), and gives a practical inspection checklist to evaluate what you’re building—so it lasts.

Anchor Scripture
  • 1 Corinthians 3:13–15 — God’s fire reveals the quality of our work; only what’s built on Christ endures.
  • Also referenced: 1 Cor. 3:11, 2 Cor. 5:10, Matthew 6:19–20, Galatians 6:9, James 1:12, Mark 10:45, Hebrews 11:6, 2 Timothy 4:8, 1 Peter 5:4, 1 Thessalonians 2:19, Romans 6:23, John 3:16, Revelation 21:4, 1 Corinthians 15:42, 52.
Key Themes
  • Perspective reset: We’re not only building for launches and KPIs—we’re building for Judgment Day.
  • Foundation matters: Only Christ is a durable foundation (1 Cor. 3:11).
  • Eternal rewards: Salvation is by grace; rewards relate to faithfulness and obedience.
  • Heart inspection: Contentment, motives, service, perseverance, and faith over sight.
  • From revelation to practice: The upcoming series will translate Scripture → systems, decisions, and daily leadership.

Checklist (from the episode)

Ask and answer honestly—by your actions, not lip service:

  1. Foundation: Is this truly built on Jesus—or on trends, ambition, and metrics?
  2. Faithfulness & Obedience: Are your policies, leadership, and operations aligned with Scripture (not just intuition)?
  3. Service vs. Sales: Are you serving the people you’re called to, or merely selling? (Mark 10:45)
  4. Fruit: Do your processes reflect God’s character (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control)?
  5. Perseverance: Do you endure God-assignments when it’s hard, or quit? (Gal. 6:9; James 1:12)
  6. Faith in Practice: Do you operate by faith, not sight—especially when results lag? (Heb. 11:6; 2 Cor. 5:7)

Reflection Prompts
  • If God’s plan looked nothing like your vision board, would you still follow Him?
  • Where is contentment still being formed in you?
  • Which part of your business would burn under testing—and why?
  • What one policy or practice can you realign to Scripture this week?




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Hearing God, Spirit-Led Pivots, and Thriving in School as a Mompreneur17 Oct 202500:52:45

Tatum answers your submitted questions on (1) what to do when you feel like you’re not hearing from God, (2) discerning whether a pivot is Spirit-led, and (3) how to pursue higher education as a wife, mom, and entrepreneur—plus why she said “yes” to law school. Expect practical rhythms, biblical anchors, and real-life systems that protect your peace, family, and focus.

Topics & Timestamps (from listener questions)
  • [0:27] What do you do when you feel like you are not hearing from God?
  • [15:18] How do you know when something is (or should be) a Spirit-led pivot?
  • [21:11] What made you pursue law school?
  • [31:52] Advice for a mom, wife, and entrepreneur pursuing higher education

Key Takeaways
  • When God feels “quiet,” first lower the noise: reduce information overload, step back from social feeds, and create space to hear His still, small voice. Watch for personal “warning lights” (anxiety, irritability, impatience) that signal it’s time to unplug and recentre.
  • Sometimes silence is intentional—a season to apply what He already taught you. Keep communing with God, act in obedience, and recognize His hand even when He isn’t verbose.
  • Discerning a Spirit-led pivot:
  • Scripture check—God will not contradict His Word.
  • History with God—does this align with recent themes in prayer, journaling, and conviction?
  • Wise counsel + practical confirmations—agreement from trusted voices and doors God opens.
  • Order matters—obedience first, clarity often follows.
  • Pursuing school as a mompreneur: count the cost, build the team, design systems.
  • Scale business responsibly, design childcare that gives peace of mind, and budget with realistic/committed revenue.
  • Protect mind, body, and spirit: fuel with protein-forward meals, rest when your body says pause, and use tools that lower cognitive load.
  • Tools Tatum loves for study & life design:
  • Google Notebook to turn class notes into podcasts, videos, quizzes, flashcards, and mind maps.
  • A custom “LifeOS” in ChatGPT trained on syllabi, calendars, and family logistics to auto-draft weekly plans.

Scriptures & Biblical Themes Mentioned
  • God speaking in a still small voice (1 Kings 19:11–13)
  • Fruit of the Spirit as behavioural gauge (Galatians 5:22–23)
  • Abraham’s move as a model for faith steps (Genesis 12)
  • Counting the cost before building (Luke 14:28)
  • Spirit-led redirection in Acts (e.g., Acts 16)

Resources Mentioned
  • Study Bible (with cross-references, concordance, index, maps) - https://amzn.to/4hgpEww
  • Google Notebook: https://notebooklm.google/
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Faith, Contentment & Boundaries09 Oct 202500:47:12

Tatum opens the episode reflecting on her recent midterm fatigue and decision to take a mental health day. She thanks listeners for their patience and reminds them that the podcast is a ministry, not a job. This space is about service — not clout, income, or obligation.

“Part of taking what God entrusts to us seriously is knowing when we don’t have it to give — and honoring that.”[1:56] Listener Q&A Introduction

After receiving dozens of thoughtful questions from her audience, Tatum shares that she’ll be answering them over two upcoming episodes. She also hints at bringing back past guests whose lives and testimonies have evolved since their first appearance.

[3:02] Question 1: Why Does It Feel Like Everyone Else Is Getting Blessed But Me?

A listener in her 30s shares feelings of discouragement watching others get married, have children, and advance in their careers while she continues to wait on God.

Scripture Focus: Philippians 4:10–13 (NLT)

“I have learned how to be content with whatever I have… for I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.”

Highlights:

  • [4:26] Paul’s contentment wasn’t rooted in circumstances, but in Christ.
  • [6:02] The enemy often exploits waiting seasons to sow doubt and comparison.
  • [7:29] Protect your vulnerabilities — unfollow triggers, set digital boundaries.
  • [9:18] Learn to desire the Giver more than the gift.
  • [10:11] Tatum shares how she met her husband in God’s timing, not her own.
  • [13:18] Create “safeguards of contentment” through prayer, scripture, and boundaries.

Key Takeaway:

True peace in waiting comes when your fulfillment is anchored in God’s presence, not His performance.[15:23] Question 2: How Do I Set Boundaries as a Mom Starting a Business?

A listener asks for guidance on balancing motherhood and entrepreneurship without losing focus on God’s purpose.

Highlights:

  • [16:30] The first boundary to establish is with yourself.
  • [17:05] Balance is a myth — pursue harmony through alignment with God.
  • [18:30] Tatum’s 3 personal boundaries:
  1. Stay connected to the Vine (John 15).
  2. Keep priorities in divine order.
  3. Do every assignment with excellence.
  • [21:07] Boundaries are about stewardship, not restriction.

Spiritual Insight:

“Your ambition should never come at the expense of your assignment at home.”[22:22] Bonus Segment: God-Led Business Strategy

Tatum shifts into strategist mode, walking listeners through how to build a business from the ground up with divine order and practicality.

Highlights:

  • [23:28] Start with a clear business plan — use SBA.gov templates.
  • [24:31] Validate your idea before marketing it.
  • [25:47] Businesses fail when they don’t solve real problems.
  • [26:30] Marketing is a byproduct of strategy, not the starting point.

Takeaway:

Build from the blueprint God gives you — not the algorithm’s trends.[27:00] Question 3: How Did You Stay Focused When People Doubted You?

A listener who recently quit her 9–5 asks how to stay steadfast when others question her calling.

Highlights:

  • [28:01] Tatum recalls the doubtful reactions when she left her job to start Anchored Media.
  • [28:48] How she turned fear into fuel by focusing on work, not validation.
  • [29:58] The importance of a supportive community of faith-driven entrepreneurs.
  • [31:09] Stay quiet about your progress — let the fruit speak.

Key Takeaway:

“When God gives you the vision, He’ll also give you the proof — but you have to build first.”[32:32] Question 4: Preparing for Motherhood as a Married Entrepreneur

A listener asks how to spiritually and practically prepare for motherhood while running a business.

Highlights:

  • [33:48] Create a relationship bucket list — enjoy your marriage before kids.
  • [36:02] Build rhythms of connection (weekly date nights, intentional check-ins).
  • [36:41] Individual and joint therapy before kids is an act of preparation, not repair.
  • [38:07] Men need emotional support too — they carry provision pressure.
  • [39:29] Protect your marriage from being consumed by parenthood.
  • [40:46] Create a “Happy List” for postpartum joy and mental health support.
  • [42:59] Audit your business:
  • Increase passive income streams
  • Automate workflows
  • Cut unnecessary costs
  • [45:37] Make your business lean for freedom — not pressure.

Key Takeaway:

“Motherhood should multiply your grace, not your chaos. Prepare now so peace leads the transition.”

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Your Reminder to focus on Rhythm29 Sep 202500:44:29

In this honest check-in, I share why I’m temporarily shifting from two episodes a week while juggling law school, newborn life, and midterms—and I re-air one of your most requested episodes: Rhythm over Routine. We close out the “How to Make Spirit-Led Business Decisions” mini-series with a practical framework for building a business in step with the Spirit, not driven by hustle or ego. If you’ve ever felt productive yet disconnected from God, this one will set you free.

What You’ll Learn
  • The difference between routine (checkbox faith) and rhythm (daily dependence)
  • Why “keeping in step with the Spirit” (Galatians 5:16–26) is a lifestyle, not a morning checklist
  • The 4-part framework: Abide → Align → Act → Assess
  • How digital distraction, time scarcity, and information overload sabotage intimacy with God—and what to do about it
  • Practical ways to reduce noise (limits, notifications, sacred windows) and protect your secret place
  • How to evaluate fruit and course-correct with grace (not performance)

Key Scriptures
  • Galatians 5:16–26 – Walk by the Spirit; fruit of the Spirit; keep in step
  • John 15:5 – Abiding in the Vine to bear fruit
  • Luke 10:38–42 – Martha vs. Mary (routine vs. rhythm)
  • Exodus 16 – Daily manna: dependence over hoarding
  • Mark 1:35; John 5:19 – Jesus’ pace and posture: presence over pressure

The Rhythm Framework (Quick Reference)
  • Abide: Guard intimacy with God; create sacred windows; reduce digital noise.
  • Align: Test ideas, opportunities, and pivots against Scripture, God’s character, and the peace of the Spirit.
  • Act: Move with faith and flexibility—be interruptible and obedient.
  • Assess: Measure fruit (Gal. 5:22–23), review outcomes with the Spirit, and course-correct as needed.
Practical Tips Mentioned
  • Put time limits on social apps; silence non-essential notifications.
  • Try an information fast (step back from extra voices/content).
  • Schedule sacred windows (daily/weekly) for prayer, stillness, and listening.
  • Run decisions through discernment filters: Scripture consistency, peace, timing, assignment fit.
Series Recap (Parts 1–3)
  • Part 1: Acts 8:26–40 — Strategic decisions led by the Holy Spirit
  • Part 2: Acts 13:1–4 — Worship, fasting, submission → divine clarity
  • Part 3: Acts 16:6–10 — Mobility and flexibility in Spirit-led pivots

Q&A

I’m lining up Q&A episodes to pour out what God’s been teaching me during this season.

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Your Reminder to be Bold19 Sep 202500:43:23

In this week’s episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we’re continuing our Bible on Business series by unpacking the power of holy boldness through the lens of Acts 4:13–22. As Christian entrepreneurs, we are called to do more than just add scripture to our captions—we are called to build businesses that reflect the character of Christ and disrupt worldly systems with Kingdom values.

This episode digs deep into what it truly means to be bold, not in a self-glorifying or performative way, but with a courage that is empowered by the Holy Spirit. We define boldness biblically, exploring its Greek root (parrēsia) and how it shows up in the lives of Peter and John as they stand before the Sanhedrin with confidence and conviction.

Tatum also brings in Numbers 30 to confront how many of us mask passiveness as patience or humility when it is actually disobedience. You’ll walk away from this episode with the clarity to recognize whether your hesitation is humility or hidden fear, and the spiritual tools to begin choosing obedience over comfort.

Other key takeaways:

  • The biblical definition of boldness and how to cultivate it
  • The difference between boldness, pride, and ego
  • What happens when we confuse self-glorification with Spirit-led courage
  • Why passiveness is not humility—and how to confront it in yourself
  • Examples of modern-day Kingdom businesses that disrupt worldly systems
  • The connection between time with Jesus and confidence in your calling
  • How boldness helps you become a witness, not just an entrepreneur

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Keeping in Step with the Spirit08 Sep 202500:47:17

We pick the book club back up with Part II (“Looking Within”) of The Spirit-Filled Life by Dr. Charles Stanley. Tatum recaps the biblical foundation of the Holy Spirit’s indwelling (for all believers at salvation) versus His influencing (our moment-by-moment leading). Building on the recent Internal Harmony series, she explains that walking by the Spirit is not distant, rule-based “directions,” but a close, personal leading—a lifestyle of sensitivity, dependence, and cooperation. You’ll learn why the Spirit’s primary goal is to form Christ-likeness, how to fight the “battle before the battle” in your mind, and why Scripture is the Holy Spirit’s weapon of choice (the sword of the Spirit) for dismantling lies, speculations, and flesh-driven desires. Tatum shares practical examples from entrepreneurship and life, showing how obedience positions us to avoid unnecessary suffering and walk into God’s wise, timely provision. Grab your copy: https://amzn.to/4mSGGTN

Key Takeaways
  • Indwelt & Led: All believers receive the Holy Spirit at salvation; the ongoing call is to be led by Him (Gal. 5:16, 18, 25).
  • Rhythm > Routine: Don’t confine God to a devotional “director’s chair.” Cultivate a moment-by-moment rhythm with Him.
  • Holiness is the Goal: The Spirit’s primary work is Christ-likeness, not quick answers about jobs, money, or moves.
  • Battle Before the Battle: Win the mental war first—guard thoughts, take them captive, and preoccupy your mind with truth.
  • Scripture = Sword: Use specific verses to confront specific lies; memorize and speak them out loud.
  • Focus Forms Direction: “What we focus on, we drift toward.” Set your mind on the Spirit to avoid fulfilling the flesh.
Scripture References
  • Galatians 5:16, 18, 25 — Walk/keep in step with the Spirit
  • Ephesians 5:18 — Filled with the Spirit
  • 1 Corinthians 12:13 — One Spirit, one body
  • 1 John 4:13 — Assurance by His Spirit
  • Romans 6:11–14 — Dead to sin, alive to God
  • Romans 12:2 — Renew your mind
  • Colossians 3:2 — Set your mind on things above
  • Philippians 4:8 — Think on what is true
  • 2 Corinthians 10:5 — Take thoughts captive
  • 1 Peter 1:13; 3:9; 4:19 — Sober-minded, repay evil with blessing, entrust to a faithful Creator
  • Ephesians 6:17 — The word as the sword of the Spirit
Practical Homework
  1. List Your Speculations & Struggles: Recurring daydreams, fantasies, mental loops.
  2. Find Targeted Verses: Use a study Bible/concordance to match each area with Scripture.
  3. Memorize & Speak Aloud: Put verses on cards, phone lock screen, mirror, or desk. Say them out loud daily.
  4. Accountability: Share your list with a trusted friend and review weekly.
  5. Pray for Sensitivity: Ask the Holy Spirit to flag thoughts not in harmony with truth.


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Addicted to Control30 Aug 202500:50:50

In this final episode of the Internal Harmony Series, we’re tackling the “big C word” — control. Control isn’t just a personality trait; it’s a spiritual stronghold that keeps us bound, quenches the Spirit, and robs us of God’s peace.

In this episode, I share a recent testimony about what happened when I surrendered control, unpack why the Bible calls us to release it, and walk through case studies of the Rich Young Ruler and Paul to show the difference between clinging to control and living surrendered.

You’ll learn:

  • Why control is a stronghold and how it quenches the Spirit (1 Thessalonians 5:19)
  • How control shows up as a cognitive distortion
  • The root issue of trust and how to rebuild it
  • A practical Weekly Surrender Challenge to live this out

This episode will equip you to exchange control for surrender and experience the internal harmony God desires for you.



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We don't supress, we submit21 Aug 202500:49:30

In this powerful conclusion to the Internal Harmony Series, Tatum shares what it's looked like to live in true peace while managing law school, motherhood, business, and ministry. Through personal testimony and Spirit-led insight, she unpacks the third psychological barrier to inner peace: emotional suppression.

Tatum explains how suppression—pushing down emotions like sadness, joy, fear, or anger—creates distance between us and the Holy Spirit, damages our bodies, and leads to emotional isolation. Drawing from biblical truth, she highlights how Jesus and David modeled emotional embodiment, reminding listeners that emotional honesty is not weakness—it’s worship.

This episode is a call to stop striving and start surrendering. You’ll walk away with biblical study tools, a mantra (“We don’t suppress, we submit”), and simple, life-changing practices that foster rhythm, not routine.

Inside this episode:

  • The difference between disembodiment and suppression
  • How suppression affects your business and leadership
  • Real-life strategies for walking in internal harmony
  • Biblical case studies from Psalms + the life of Jesus
  • Encouragement for Black women & high-achieving Christian entrepreneurs


Scripture focus includes John 11:35, Luke 22:44, Psalm 6, Psalm 51, and more.




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When Hustle Becomes Harmful: Ambition or Anxiety?15 Aug 202500:54:48

In this special episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, I’m sharing an episode from one of my favorite shows — the Prescription for Purpose Podcast hosted by my friend, Dr. Sharla Walker. This message, Is It Ambition or Anxiety That’s Driving You?, fits perfectly with our Internal Harmony series and will challenge you to evaluate the true motivation behind your hustle.

Dr. Sharla breaks down the difference between holy ambition — God-given zeal rooted in peace, identity, and purpose — versus anxious ambition fueled by pressure, fear, and the need to prove yourself. Using biblical examples like Saul, Martha, and Nehemiah, she unpacks how to discern your drive, pace yourself with God, and protect your assignment from distraction.

Whether you’re in business, ministry, or simply navigating life, this episode will give you practical tools to align your ambition with God’s will — so you’re moving in purpose, not just in motion.

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How Disembodiment Is Keeping You Dysregulated (and Out of Alignment)09 Aug 202500:38:10

In this week’s episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our Internal Harmony Series with Part 2 — unpacking the psychological factor of disembodiment. This is when we operate from our heads while ignoring our body’s signals, emotions, and even the Holy Spirit’s nudges. It’s been one of my biggest personal battles, and I’m sharing both biblical truth and practical tools to help you recognize and overcome it.

You’ll learn:

Key Takeaways

  • Why harmony is more sustainable than balance in life and business
  • The difference between external harmony (systems, productivity) and internal harmony (peace, alignment, presence)
  • How disembodiment looks in daily life: ignoring hunger, pushing through pain, numbing emotions, and being physically present but mentally absent
  • How it shows up in business: over-functioning, leading from performance instead of presence, disconnected identity, and neglecting Spirit-led decision making
  • Root causes backed by research — including trauma, perfectionism, performance-based childhoods, church culture, and over-reliance on logic
  • Generational breakdown of how Gen X, Millennials, and Gen Z experience disembodiment differently
  • What the Bible shows us about embodiment through the life of Jesus: feeling emotions (John 11:35), resting even in storms (Mark 4:38), and being present enough to sense spiritual exchange (Luke 8:45–46)


Practical Steps to Reconnect:

  • Address the root cause — through therapy, prayer, fasting, and surrender to God
  • Body scans — regularly pause to check in with how you feel physically and emotionally
  • Schedule pauses & stillness — add intentional breaks to slow down and be present
  • Involve your support system — ask heart questions, not just head questions, and invite accountability
  • Replace old habits — build patterns that align with your identity in Christ instead of survival mode

If you’ve ever felt productive on the outside but disconnected on the inside, this episode will help you:

-Recognize the signs of disembodiment

- Identify your personal root causes

-Begin practical and spiritual steps toward true embodiment that honors God, fosters peace, and strengthens your leadership in life and business



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The Faith Factor30 Jul 202500:32:34

In this powerful episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our Book Club series on The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley, diving into Part 2: Looking Within. Tatum unpacks Chapter 6, "The Faith Factor," where the focus shifts from understanding the Holy Spirit to practically living a Spirit-filled life. Drawing from her own transitional season—navigating motherhood and preparing for law school—Tatum shares how she’s applying this book’s wisdom in real-time.

This episode explores the difference between reacting and responding, how to stop intellectualizing your faith, and why focus is the bridge between anxiety and peace. Tatum breaks down three biblical truths that can become daily affirmations rooted in scripture:

  1. The Holy Spirit indwells you,
  2. He is the life of Christ in you,
  3. He is willing and able to produce Christ's character through you.

She encourages listeners to shift their focus from self-help affirmations to Holy Spirit-led declarations and offers strategies like building God's track record, preemptive morning declarations, and journaling answered prayers. Using the story of David and Goliath, she outlines how to activate faith before willpower, reminding us that walking in the Spirit is about surrender, focus, and confidence in God's promises.

Whether you're facing daily stressors, emotional overwhelm, or spiritual stagnation, this episode gives you the tools to live a Spirit-filled life—not just on Sundays, but every single day.

Prayer to Start Your Day in Victory:

Lord, I claim the victory right now over the giant of [insert your giant here]. I recognize that this giant is coming up against the Christ in me. Just as you defeated this giant when you walked on this earth, you can defeat it through me now—for you are my life. I trust you to produce peace and self-control through me. I cannot handle what is to come, but you can. Respond through me. When the pressure comes, remind me that the battle is yours. Amen.




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How Cognitive Overload Blocks Your Spiritual Sensitivity24 Jul 202500:38:56

In this powerful kickoff to the Internal Harmony Series, Tatum invites high-achieving Christian women into a much-needed conversation about the hidden chaos beneath our productivity: cognitive overload. As a mom of three, business owner, and soon-to-be law student, Tatum shares vulnerably about the transition she's navigating and how God is leading her into a new understanding of internal harmony over external balance. This episode breaks down the psychological and spiritual toll of cognitive overload—what happens when our prefrontal cortex is overstimulated, and we lose our ability to hear the voice of God clearly, regulate our emotions, or even recognize how we feel.

Tatum introduces the concept of internal vs. external harmony, showing that while routines and logistics matter, true peace comes from spiritual alignment, emotional presence, and abiding in Christ. She offers biblically-rooted, science-backed tools to help you slow down, re-engage your senses, and practice stillness so you can reconnect with God and yourself.

Whether you're a woman juggling multiple roles or simply longing for more peace and clarity, this episode offers a holistic path forward. Expect to walk away with practical steps—like mindful breathing, meditating on scripture, nature walks, grounding exercises, sleep routines, journaling prompts, and fasting from information overload—to combat mental fatigue and restore harmony from the inside out.

Plus, Tatum opens up about meditating on Galatians 2:20 and why high-performing women often turn to productivity over presence. Don’t miss this deep, transparent, and transformational conversation on the path to peace through God’s presence.



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Abiding Over Achieving18 Jul 202500:43:13

In this powerful episode of the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast, we return to our book club pick, The Spirit-Filled Life by Dr. Charles Stanley. Tatum shares how this book, one of her top three faith-based reads, is personally guiding her through a season of transition—navigating life with a new baby, two businesses, marriage, and preparing to return to school. She unpacks Chapter 3’s key revelations on surrender, highlighting Dr. Stanley’s honest reflections on secret sin, burnout in ministry, and the life-changing realization that fruitfulness doesn’t come from striving—but abiding.

Tatum draws a striking parallel between Charles Stanley’s breakthrough and her own need to resist self-sufficiency and embrace the Holy Spirit’s power. Through practical takeaways—like meditating on Galatians 2:20, creating margin for God’s presence, and allowing grace to reset your internal pace—this episode offers a refreshing invitation to stop doing and start depending. Whether you’re in ministry, motherhood, business, or all three, this episode will help you reposition your heart, reclaim your peace, and surrender control so the Spirit can bear fruit through you.

Resources Mentioned:

  • Book: The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley – https://a.co/d/9kGb5fB
  • Key Scripture: Galatians 2:20, John 15:1-5, Romans 8:9-10, Colossians 3:4


Key Takeaways:

  • The Christian life is not about producing fruit—it's about abiding so the Spirit can bear fruit through you.
  • The dangers of spiritual compartmentalization—when the Spirit is active in ministry but absent in private life.
  • Strategies for reconnecting with the Holy Spirit when life gets overwhelming.
  • Why busyness and blessings can still be distractions from intimacy with God.
  • How Charles Stanley’s surrender moment unlocked continuous victory and how you can apply the same posture of prayer.




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Contextualize Without Compromise12 Jul 202500:36:33

In this powerful episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum dives deep into Acts 17:22–31 and pulls out two key strategies every Kingdom entrepreneur needs: cultural intelligence (CQ) and contextualizing your message.

Using Paul’s sermon to the intellectual elite in Athens as the foundation, this episode breaks down how Paul studied the culture, respected his audience, and delivered the Gospel in a way that resonated deeply—all without compromising the truth.

Tatum explains how these same strategies apply to business today, from adjusting your brand messaging based on audience psychographics to adapting your offers and content for different platforms or markets. She also shares practical examples (from YouVersion to McDonald’s global menus) and offers 3 concrete ways to start applying these principles in your own brand—whether you’re already in business or preparing to launch.

If you’re a faith-led entrepreneur looking to improve your marketing, messaging, or audience engagement while staying true to the Word, this episode is your blueprint.

📖 Scripture:

Acts 17:22–31 (NLT)

Paul contextualizes the gospel for the Athenians at the Areopagus, modeling how to reach new audiences with truth and strategy.

Key Takeaways:
  • Cultural Intelligence (CQ) is the ability to understand the values, behaviors, and worldview of the people you're called to serve.
  • Contextualization is delivering your message in a way that’s relevant, understandable, and compelling—without changing the truth.
  • Paul didn’t compromise; he customized the way he shared truth to meet people where they were.
  • Business owners must do the same with their brand messaging, sales strategies, and offers.

3 Ways to Apply This in Your Business:
  1. Use Your Audience’s Language – Mirror the words your audience uses to describe their problems and desires.
  2. Tailor Messaging for Each Platform – Adapt your content for Instagram vs. TikTok vs. LinkedIn vs. YouTube.
  3. Adapt Your Offers for Specific Audiences – Adjust your product packaging, pricing, or delivery to match the needs of different segments within your niche.




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Trusting God After Disappointment08 Jul 202500:41:06

In today’s deeply personal episode, Tatum steps away from her usual teaching to share a raw and unfiltered story from her recent postpartum journey. After believing she heard clearly from God that she would have a VBAC (vaginal birth after cesarean), Tatum walks us through the heartbreak, confusion, and emotional toll of experiencing an outcome that looked very different from what she believed God promised.

This episode isn’t tied up in a bow. It’s a real-time reflection on what it means to be holy and human—to love God deeply, but also feel hurt, to trust Him fully, and still ask “Why?”

If you've ever:

  • Felt sure you heard from God but the result didn’t match,
  • Struggled with disappointment while trying to remain faithful,
  • Wrestled with postpartum emotions, trauma, or spiritual confusion,
  • Needed language for navigating your feelings while staying close to God...

This episode is for you.

Tatum reminds us that even in our confusion, God is still near, and we can give Him our broken hearts to heal—even before the revelation comes.

Key Takeaways:
  • How to process disappointment with God without pulling away from Him
  • Why your feelings are valid and don’t disqualify your faith
  • The enemy’s strategy to use spiritual vulnerability for warfare
  • How to stay committed even when you don’t have clarity
  • The beauty of surrendering your heart before the “aha moment” comes

Scriptures Mentioned:
  • Job 13:15 – “Though He slay me, yet will I trust Him.”
  • Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted…”
  • Isaiah 55:8–9 – “My thoughts are not your thoughts…”
  • Proverbs 3:5 – “Trust in the Lord with all your heart…”
  • John 11 (Martha & Lazarus – the tension of faith and grief)

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  • A woman navigating postpartum emotions or birth trauma
  • Anyone who feels disappointed by God or let down by an outcome
  • A friend who needs a reminder that God can handle her questions and still be trusted




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What the Bible Teaches Us About Leading Like Christ30 Jun 202500:41:06

Still on a Brief Break

Tatum kicks off this episode by sharing a major life update—she is officially a mom of three, having welcomed her baby girl on June 10th. While she’s not taking a full maternity leave, she’ll be easing back into content with a mix of fresh and replayed episodes through the start of July. She invites listeners to lean into these timely throwbacks, trusting that the Holy Spirit is still speaking through them.

Bible on Business Series Begins

This episode officially launches the Bible on Business series—a comprehensive, in-depth look at how biblical principles apply to leadership and entrepreneurship. Tatum unpacks the first message in the series, focusing on what it means to be a shepherd in business and how entrepreneurs can adopt the characteristics of Christ in how they serve their audiences.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

  • Why God is calling Christian entrepreneurs to shepherd His people, not just serve customers
  • The surprising similarities between sheep and consumer behavior (brand loyalty, dependency, vulnerability, and more)
  • How to lead with love, patience, and spiritual integrity—even when things go wrong
  • Biblical examples of shepherding leadership: Matthew 18, John 21, Acts 20, and 1 Peter 2
  • How to recover from mistakes in business with humility and restoration
  • Why consecration and devotion are essential for long-term leadership impact


Practical Applications:

  • How to re-engage inactive clients or community members like the parable of the lost sheep
  • Tips for sacrificial leadership in tough business seasons
  • Creating systems and rhythms to stay spiritually aligned while leading in the marketplace


Featured Scriptures:

  • Matthew 18:12–14
  • John 21:15–17
  • Acts 20:28
  • 1 Peter 2:25
  • 1 John 2:27




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Endurance Is a Business Strategy27 Jun 202500:51:20

I'm still on a quick podcast break as I adjust to life as a new mom of three—yes, I welcomed a beautiful baby girl on June 10th! During this short break, I’ll be sharing some previously released episodes that the Holy Spirit led me to revisit. Today’s replay is no accident—trust that it’s exactly what you need right now.

Episode Summary:

In this powerful episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum shares an unfiltered testimony of entrepreneurship, spiritual warfare, and God's faithfulness through seasons of pressure. Beginning with a prophetic insight about not being swayed by metrics in this current season, she unpacks the biblical story of Noah as a template for endurance in business.

Tatum walks us through her real-life journey of purchasing Anchored Media Studios, facing unexpected financial pressure, laying off team members, and enduring what felt like a wilderness season—all while staying obedient to God's instructions. This episode is more than encouragement; it's a blueprint for those navigating long seasons of testing and waiting.

Whether you're in a slow season, feeling discouraged, or questioning if your business will survive, this episode reminds you that endurance is part of the calling—and God rewards those who remain faithful under pressure.

Key Takeaways:

  • Endurance ≠ failure. It’s the strategy that qualifies you for promotion.
  • Do not misread your season. Lack of results does not mean lack of favor.
  • Remain under the weight. Some suffering is your portion, not your punishment.
  • Obedience breeds provision. God gave Tatum specific instructions that led to breakthrough.
  • Testimonies inspire transformation. Your perseverance encourages others to keep going.

Scriptural References:

  • Genesis 6–9 (Noah’s obedience during corrupt times)
  • James 5:11 (Job and endurance)
  • Romans 4:20–21 (Abraham’s faith)
  • Hebrews 11:1 (Faith in the unseen)

Practical Applications:

  1. Have faith in the unseen. Follow God’s instruction even if you see no results.
  2. Persevere through the challenges. Know that pressure is producing something.
  3. Endure delayed gratification. God’s timing is not your timing—but it’s perfect.
  4. Trust God’s timeline. Waiting is a sign of maturity, not a waste of time.
  5. Know your testimony matters. Someone else’s breakthrough depends on your endurance.

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It’s Time for a Digital Detox25 Jun 202500:48:13

Tatum is still on a quick break after welcoming her beautiful baby girl on June 10th! While she recovers and adjusts to life as a mom of three, we’re revisiting a few powerful past episodes that are still deeply relevant today. This one originally aired in 2019, but the message is timeless.

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In This Episode:

Whether you’re already planning for the new year or trying to catch your breath from the current one, this episode is a wake-up call. Tatum shares why now is the perfect time to take a digital detox—especially if you're constantly consuming content, hopping on trends, or feeling pressure to do more just because everyone else is.

She breaks down the two types of entrepreneurs who often spiral in Q4 (“super consumers” and “super strategists”) and offers practical advice on how to unplug and hear from God clearly. You’ll walk away with clarity, strategy, and peace of mind.



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Shift from Content Creator to Thought Leader19 Jun 202500:41:41

In this heartfelt and strategy-packed episode, Tatum opens with a long-awaited announcement: she has officially welcomed her third child—a beautiful baby girl born on June 10th. After a deeply personal journey of prayer and faith, God has answered her desire to be a girl mom. While she’s taking two weeks to adjust to life as a mom of three, she’s also dropping one of her most transformative episodes yet.

Tatum shares the full message she gave during the Christian Content Creator Town Hall—one that God originally gave her in private prayer. In it, she challenges believers to stop striving to be content creators and step fully into their call as thought leaders. She explains the difference between the two, gives a biblical foundation (including how Jesus, Paul, and other leaders demonstrated thought leadership), and offers actionable steps to make the shift.

Whether you're a podcaster, coach, author, or creative—this episode will reframe your mindset, align your purpose with heaven’s agenda, and help you build something with eternal impact.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

  • The distinction between content creators and thought leaders
  • Why building solely on social platforms is a risky strategy
  • How Jesus and Paul modeled thought leadership in scripture
  • The long-term benefits of creating original frameworks and IP
  • Practical ways to build a thought leadership brand that glorifies God
  • Why thought leadership is a form of consecrated creativity

Scripture References:

  • Romans 12:2
  • Matthew 7:28–29
  • Matthew 13
  • Matthew 5:21–22
  • 1 Corinthians, Galatians, and other Pauline epistles

Your Homework:

Study these biblical figures as thought leaders:

  • Moses
  • Nehemiah
  • Daniel
  • Esther
  • Solomon
  • John the Baptist
  • Paul




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Special Announcement17 Jun 202500:55:54

In this special episode, Tatum shares a personal and long-awaited announcement—she has officially welcomed her third child, a beautiful baby girl, born on June 10th. After a deeply personal journey of faith, prayer, and waiting, God has answered her heart’s desire in a way only He could. With deep gratitude and joy, Tatum reflects on what it means to now be a mother of three and why she chose to keep this part of her story private until now.

Though she won’t be taking an official maternity leave, she shares what listeners can expect in the coming weeks, including a few re-aired episodes handpicked by the Holy Spirit to speak to listeners in this season. This episode, recorded before baby girl's arrival, is part of the ongoing Bible on Business series and explores a message that’s been brewing in Tatum's heart: redefining success from a kingdom perspective.

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Episode Summary:

In this powerfully honest episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum shares the joyous news of becoming a mother of three and opens up about how this life transition has deeply influenced her perspective on success. As part of the ongoing Bible on Business series, Tatum dives into the book of Ecclesiastes, unpacking its sobering wisdom and how it challenges our modern pursuit of wealth, achievement, and recognition.

This isn’t just another motivational message—this is a spiritual detox. Tatum dismantles the false doctrine of prosperity theology, exposes the hidden costs of hustle culture, and reveals how many Christian entrepreneurs are unknowingly caught in a counterfeit version of success. Through scripture, statistics, and heartfelt reflection, she encourages us to reevaluate what we’re building and why.

If you’ve ever felt anxious about not being "far enough along," tired from trying to keep up with others, or confused about what God really wants for your life and business—this episode will set you free. It’s time to reset your vision with a biblically grounded point of view.

In This Episode, You'll Learn:

  • Why Tatum kept her third pregnancy private and how her faith journey shaped the experience
  • How Ecclesiastes brings clarity about purpose, mortality, and God’s sovereignty
  • Why the world’s definition of success leads to burnout, anxiety, and discontent
  • How prosperity theology twists scripture and keeps believers bound
  • The truth about biblical success, contentment, and God’s provision
  • How to reset your mindset before planning your next business move or setting 2025 goals

Scripture References:

  • Ecclesiastes (entire book)
  • Philippians 4:19
  • Malachi 3:10
  • Matthew 6:24, 6:31–33
  • Joshua 1:8
  • 1 Timothy 6:17–19
  • James 1:2–4
  • Philippians 4:11–13


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Faith Over Formula05 Jun 202500:36:51

In this powerful installment of the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast, Tatum continues the deep dive into The Spirit-Filled Life by Dr. Charles Stanley—specifically, Chapter 4: “D-Day.” This episode unpacks what it truly means to be filled with the Holy Spirit, debunking common misconceptions about waiting, working, or striving to receive what is already promised.

Tatum shares her own personal reflections and struggles as she, like many of us, wrestles with the temptation to take control instead of surrendering to God. Drawing from Charles Stanley’s vulnerable moment of spiritual breakthrough and her own season of faith, she explores the liberating truth that the Spirit-filled life is not a formula—it’s a relationship.

You’ll learn:

  • Why striving, begging, or waiting for the Holy Spirit misses the point
  • The theological and biblical basis for understanding Spirit-infilling as immediate at salvation—not a second-hand experience
  • The critical distinction between being filled with the Spirit vs. being filled by the Spirit (Ephesians 5:18)
  • How to recognize if you’re living in survival mode instead of surrender mode—and how to switch postures
  • Why dependence and surrender are the prerequisites for Spirit-led leadership, peace, and purpose
  • How to study the Holy Spirit biblically: comparing Acts vs. the Epistles

This is more than a book club episode—this is a call to shift your spiritual posture from doing for God to being with God. Let this episode lead you into deeper intimacy, greater peace, and more powerful impact.

📌 Reflection Questions from Chapter 4:

Take time to prayerfully reflect and journal your answers:

  1. Have you ever found yourself begging, bargaining, or pleading with God for some spiritual change in your life?
  2. Have you worked hard trying to earn something from God that’s freely given?
  3. Have you assumed it's your responsibility to wait on the Holy Spirit to fill you?
  4. Have you been frustrated with how to be filled with the Holy Spirit?
  5. Have you come to a place of total dependence and total surrender to God?




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Working While Bleeding03 Jun 202500:39:25

In this powerful installment of the Bible on Business series, Tatum unpacks the biblical principle of perseverance and its critical role in building a legacy business. Drawing from Acts 14 and Acts 16, we examine the unwavering resilience of Paul—stoned, rejected, and imprisoned—yet unshaken in his mission. Tatum shares personal stories of business disappointment, failed launches, and doubt, while teaching listeners how to endure well with hope and strategy. She also bridges the Word to the marketplace by highlighting the perseverance of Howard Schultz, former CEO of Starbucks, who was rejected over 200 times before transforming the coffee industry. If you’ve ever faced discouragement in your entrepreneurial journey, this episode will re-center your focus, rekindle your faith, and equip you to keep going.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • What biblical perseverance really means (hint: it’s not just “pushing through”)
  • How to apply Acts 14 & 16 to your business strategy
  • The difference between godly grit and emotional striving
  • How to view business failure through a Kingdom lens
  • Why legacy takes long-term faith, not short-term emotion
  • How Howard Schultz used perseverance to build Starbucks after hundreds of rejections

Referenced Episode:

➡️ Pushing Through vs Persevering: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/236ef1be/perseverance-vs-pushing-through



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Marriage, Motherhood & PTSD: Burnout, Balance, and God's Blueprint for Rest30 May 202500:38:37

This week on Blessed + Bossed Up, we’re doing something a little different—and very needed.

We’re spotlighting an incredible episode from the Marriage, Motherhood & PTSD podcast, hosted by Coach Leah Huggins. Originally created for military wives navigating the effects of PTSD in marriage, this show now speaks to every woman carrying the weight of life, relationships, motherhood, and purpose—especially those doing it all while feeling like they’re running on empty.

In this featured episode, Beating Burnout: Reclaiming Peace When Running On Fumes, Coach Leah unpacks what burnout really looks like and how to begin healing from it—mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. If you’ve been stretched too thin, silently struggling, or just trying to keep it all together, this episode offers biblical truth, personal wisdom, and practical tools to help you reset.

You’ll learn:

  • The hidden signs of burnout (and why it’s not always obvious)
  • How PTSD, trauma, and chronic stress affect your energy and peace
  • Biblical examples of emotional fatigue—like Elijah—and how God responds
  • Tools for nervous system regulation, rest, and soul-care
  • How to start setting boundaries that honor both God and yourself
  • An introduction to the Stress Less Workbook, a life budgeting tool for your peace

🎧 Tune in now and discover why Marriage, Motherhood & PTSD is becoming a go-to podcast for Christian women navigating hard seasons without losing themselves in the process.

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