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| 223. The Emotion Coaching Playbook: Handling Pushback and Building Trust (Part 2) | 04 Nov 2025 | 00:46:32 | |
You’re the parent, or stepparent, who wants less conflict and more connection. But a child’s resistance, sarcasm, isolation, or hurtful words, such as: “you’re not my dad,” can derail plans and result in hurtful interactions. We’ve been there. In part 2 of this mini-series, you'll discover how to respond well in tough moments of pushback by using John Gottman’s 5 steps of Emotion Coaching. You’ll hear us role-play around real-life pushback when a child is competing for a parent's love, making accusations and threats, and behaving oppositionally toward a stepparent. We'll offer a better way to manage those moments with words that help kids feel seen, heard, and understood. We'll also show you the best approach for addressing poor behavior and setting boundaries. The plan is simple: notice the emotion, treat it as an opportunity, listen and validate, help label feelings, then set limits while exploring solutions. Practice this, and you’ll be surprised at how you can lower the tension, build relational safety, and strengthen your connection with a struggling child. When pushback hits, it is possible to move away from reacting in ways that don't help and instead, create an atmosphere of mutual trust, respect, and real connection in your home. You'll Discover:
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| 222. Step-by-Step Guide: Facing Painful Pushback Without Making Things Worse (Part 1) | 28 Oct 2025 | 00:24:45 | |
We know that pushback moments can sting. Eye rolls, refusals, accusations, or shutting down are all things kids in blended families can tend to do. It’s easy for parents and stepparents to appease, minimize, deflect, control, try to 'fix-it' or simply avoid pushback (we’ve done it too). In this two-part series, we act as your guides and name the real struggle beneath kids' hurtful behavior: loss, grief, and fear that come with blending. Then we introduce a clear plan: Emotion Coaching. You’ll hear real-life scenarios, why common reactions backfire, and what to do instead to help your child feel seen and supported. The win? A calmer home, stronger bonds, and practical steps forward. The risk of doing nothing? Escalating conflict, shutdown, resentment, and power struggles. If you’re ready to respond to your child's pushback with calm, clarity, and care, this conversation is for you. You'll Discover:
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| Simple Step: How does your past impact your present? | 26 Aug 2025 | 00:07:31 | |
Resources Surviving & Thriving in Stepfamily Relationships by Patricia Papernow Episode 217. Feeling Overwhelmed and Powerless? How to Regain Hope with Tools that Heal [with EJ and Tarah Kerwin] Episode 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple Experiences Episode 206. Avoid These 5 Common Pitfalls to Ensure a Successful Partnership Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| Simple Step: Break Free From "Perfectionistic" Holiday Ideals | 28 Nov 2023 | 00:09:57 | |
Resources from this Episode Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 171. How to Experience More Fun, Connection, and Joy this Holiday Season [with Rich and Stacy] | 21 Nov 2023 | 00:50:01 | |
Have you ever felt like the holidays in your blended family are fraught with more challenges than there should be? It might seem like when the holidays hit, you get bombarded with chaotic schedules and difficult negotiations with Exes. The kids have high expectations and so do you — which just adds to the pressure. Relational tension and stress seem all too common as blended families struggle to cope with holiday hang-ups and disappointments. But that's not the whole story… …it's also possible to experience fun, connection, and joy through the holidays. In this episode, you'll hear from our friends Rich and Stacy who have been blending their holiday experiences for 12 years. They'll share a few of their highs and lows and how they've learned to navigate the challenging dynamics of blended family holidays. Rich and Stacy offer some real-life strategies and mindset shifts that will help you to intentionally prepare for the holiday season with greater understanding, realistic expectations, flexibility, and the right perspective — without sweating the small stuff or getting hung up on having to get everything perfect! You'll Discover:
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Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. | |||
| Simple Step: How to Improve Co-Parenting | 14 Nov 2023 | 00:05:32 | |
As I mentioned in this Simple Step, we encourage you to head back to Episode 67 to dive into more ideas on how to live out this simple strategy in your co-parenting dynamic. Here's the link: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/podcast/067 Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 170. Co-Parenting Pitfalls for Bio and Step Parents: How to Avoid "Milestone Mishaps" | 07 Nov 2023 | 00:26:32 | |
You probably know that kids moving between two homes thrive when all the adults — in both homes — cooperate to create stability and peace. That's absolutely true. It's also true that the adults (both bio and step-parents) thrive when trust and consideration exist between homes and tension is low. But when it comes to the art of healthy co-parenting, talk is cheap. Misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and communication breakdowns are hard to avoid. And they tend to shatter the peace for kids and adults in the delicate dynamics of co-parenting. We all need more than just talk — or information about co-parenting. What we really need is transformation. And the great news is that transformation is possible! A few simple strategies and a little mindfulness go a long, long way in reducing drama and cultivating peaceful cooperation. You can proactively avoid and recover from the most common co-parenting pitfalls. In this episode, we share some helpful tips for both bio and step-parents to improve co-parenting relationships so that everyone can enjoy more cooperation and peace! You'll Discover:
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Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| Simple Step: Parent's Remarriage with Adult Children | 31 Oct 2023 | 00:07:12 | |
Resources for this Episode Episode 147. Do sensitive conversations end up creating conflict in your relationship Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 169. Real Insight and Advice for Remarried Parents AND Their Concerned Adult Children | 24 Oct 2023 | 00:32:19 | |
Stepfamily expert Ron Deal says, "Never mind that your children are adults, this is a hard transition for them because it comes at a great cost". In this episode, we'll uncover the challenging family issues that often come up when a parent with adult children chooses to remarry or become romantically involved. We'll explore these sensitive issues from two unique perspectives. The perspective of the parent who is struggling to understand why their adult child is reacting emotionally to their decision to remarry… …AND… …from the perspective of the adult child who could be experiencing painful emotions as they struggle to accept their parent's remarriage. This episode is an opportunity for parent and adult child to help ease tensions, preserve your relationship, and take a step forward as a family. You'll Discover:
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Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| Simple Step: When Emotion Coaching Might Not Be Appropriate | 17 Oct 2023 | 00:05:02 | |
Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 168 (Part 4) Actionable Steps For Helping Kids Navigate Through Difficult Emotions and Problem Solve | 13 Oct 2023 | 00:34:02 | |
We've heard it said that behavior is the visible expression of invisible issues — it's the warning light on the dashboard. Often, it's the warning light of our child's misbehavior that catches our attention, but what are the invisible issues going on under the surface? Usually, it's difficult emotions. When kids experience something troubling, negative emotions will naturally arise and often they aren't even aware of what's going on inside. Because kids lack emotional maturity, they tend to misbehave simply because they haven't yet learned how to manage the difficult emotions they're experiencing. That means your kids and step-kids need your help! If the kids living in your home tend to emotionally express themselves by getting angry, disrespectful, anxious, acting out, or withdrawing from the family (just to name a few), this episode is for you. Learning to become 'Emotion Coaching Parents' has been a game changer for us and it's one of the best things we've done to equip our kids for adulthood. Discover the difference you can make in your kids' lives by following along this week with our 4 part mini-series on raising an emotionally intelligent child. Resources from this Episode:
Ready for some extra support? We're here to help. Schedule your free coaching call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession | |||
| 168 (Part 3) Actionable Steps For Helping Kids Navigate Through Difficult Emotions and Problem Solve | 12 Oct 2023 | 00:13:05 | |
We've heard it said that behavior is the visible expression of invisible issues — it's the warning light on the dashboard. Often, it's the warning light of our child's misbehavior that catches our attention, but what are the invisible issues going on under the surface? Usually, it's difficult emotions. When kids experience something troubling, negative emotions will naturally arise and often they aren't even aware of what's going on inside. Because kids lack emotional maturity, they tend to misbehave simply because they haven't yet learned how to manage the difficult emotions they're experiencing. That means your kids and step-kids need your help! If the kids living in your home tend to emotionally express themselves by getting angry, disrespectful, anxious, acting out, or withdrawing from the family (just to name a few), this episode is for you. Learning to become 'Emotion Coaching Parents' has been a game changer for us and it's one of the best things we've done to equip our kids for adulthood. Discover the difference you can make in your kids' lives by following along this week with our 4 part mini-series on raising an emotionally intelligent child. Resources from this Episode:
Ready for some extra support? We're here to help. Schedule your free coaching call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession | |||
| 168 (Part 2) Actionable Steps For Helping Kids Navigate Through Difficult Emotions and Problem Solve | 11 Oct 2023 | 00:16:19 | |
We've heard it said that behavior is the visible expression of invisible issues — it's the warning light on the dashboard. Often, it's the warning light of our child's misbehavior that catches our attention, but what are the invisible issues going on under the surface? Usually, it's difficult emotions. When kids experience something troubling, negative emotions will naturally arise and often they aren't even aware of what's going on inside. Because kids lack emotional maturity, they tend to misbehave simply because they haven't yet learned how to manage the difficult emotions they're experiencing. That means your kids and step-kids need your help! If the kids living in your home tend to emotionally express themselves by getting angry, disrespectful, anxious, acting out, or withdrawing from the family (just to name a few), this episode is for you. Learning to become 'Emotion Coaching Parents' has been a game changer for us and it's one of the best things we've done to equip our kids for adulthood. Discover the difference you can make in your kids' lives by following along this week with our 4 part mini-series on raising an emotionally intelligent child. Resources from this Episode:
Ready for some extra support? We're here to help. Schedule your free coaching call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession | |||
| 217. Feeling Overwhelmed and Powerless? How to Regain Hope with Tools that Heal [with EJ & Tarah Kerwin] | 19 Aug 2025 | 01:03:48 | |
If you’ve ever wondered why blending a family feels so hard—even when you're "doing everything right"—this episode is for you. In today’s conversation, we connect with EJ and Tarah Kerwin—professional therapists and co-founders of the Relationship Renovation Counseling Center—who open up about the very real and very raw struggles they faced when they merged their lives into one blended family. Despite all their training, nothing could have prepared them for the emotional rollercoaster of stepparenting, co-parenting, and navigating deep-seated personal triggers. But they didn’t give up. They got curious. They did the work. And they developed tools that not only brought healing to their own marriage, but are now helping countless couples thrive through their counseling center, podcast, and programs. This isn’t a story about perfection—it’s a story about partnership, growth, and hope. If you’ve ever felt powerless, stuck, or just plain exhausted, lean in. There’s light at the end of this tunnel. You'll Discover:
Resources from this Episode: Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 168 (Part 1) Actionable Steps For Helping Kids Navigate Through Difficult Emotions and Problem Solve | 10 Oct 2023 | 00:26:47 | |
We've heard it said that behavior is the visible expression of invisible issues — it's the warning light on the dashboard. Often, it's the warning light of our child's misbehavior that catches our attention, but what are the invisible issues going on under the surface? Usually, it's difficult emotions. When kids experience something troubling, negative emotions will naturally arise and often they aren't even aware of what's going on inside. Because kids lack emotional maturity, they tend to misbehave simply because they haven't yet learned how to manage the difficult emotions they're experiencing. That means your kids and step-kids need your help! If the kids living in your home tend to emotionally express themselves by getting angry, disrespectful, anxious, acting out, or withdrawing from the family (just to name a few), this episode is for you. Learning to become 'Emotion Coaching Parents' has been a game changer for us and it's one of the best things we've done to equip our kids for adulthood. Discover the difference you can make in your kids' lives by following along this week with our 4 part mini-series on raising an emotionally intelligent child. Resources from this Episode:
Ready for some extra support? We're here to help. Schedule your free coaching call here: https://calendl | |||
| Simple Step: Barriers to Building Your Foundation | 03 Oct 2023 | 00:07:25 | |
Resources Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 167. 3 Achievable Strategies to Make Your Marriage the Foundation of Your Blended Family | 26 Sep 2023 | 00:40:29 | |
Many of us tend to believe we need to quickly establish our couple relationship as the foundation of our home, right? And yes, that's the goal… …eventually. In a blended family, it's unrealistic to expect this to happen right away. And if you've been trying to "force it", you've probably run into all kinds of challenges. Successfully blending a family requires a well-thought-out strategy because the structure is simply different than a first family. This can be confusing and frustrating for blended couples who are ready to merge their family and make their relationship the foundation of their home. Why? Because it's just NOT as simple or easy as we think it should be. Often, our expectations and experiences seem to be at odds. Particularly when it comes to making decisions and prioritize our time, energy and resources. And, of course, our kids and step-kids have their own expectations as well. In this episode, we'll share 3 achievable strategies to appropriately prioritize your marriage to establish it as the foundation of your home. Understanding and managing these delicate dynamics is one of the most important aspects of blending. Doing this well can make or break the future of your relationship — and your family! You'll Discover:
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| Simple Step: Excelling Together | 19 Sep 2023 | 00:07:27 | |
Ready to join the "Blending Together" community? Just click this link: https://learning.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 166. Empowering Benefits of a Blended Family Community — and How to Get Plugged In | 12 Sep 2023 | 00:43:32 | |
Have the challenges of blending a family ever left you feeling alone? Maybe you've felt like you're the only one experiencing the unique realities of blended family life. Maybe you're struggling with parenting complexities and your friends just don't get it. Or communication is tense in your couple relationship and your extended family can't seem to understand why. Maybe the kids are acting out or shutting down and it's hard to explain to everyone around you. Or maybe there's ongoing chaos stirred up by a difficult Ex and everyone's "advice" doesn't seem to be helpful. The truth is, regardless of the challenges you're facing — you are NOT alone! In this episode, we're connecting with a couple from our blended family support community. Chris and Nicole are one of our founding members who felt "isolated" and "horrible" before getting connected to our community. Listen in to discover how a community of other blended couples can empower you to make a difference in your home — just like Chris and Nicole who didn't stay stuck in their pain and confusion. If you've ever felt alone in your blending journey, this is the episode for you. And who knows, you might discover that a community focused on growth, practical tools, and genuine support could be exactly what you're looking for. You'll Discover:
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Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on | |||
| 165. How important is your mindset when it comes to blended family life? | 05 Sep 2023 | 00:39:22 | |
If you're like me (Mike), when you encounter a challenging situation, you're determined to successfully conquer it. You'll jump right in by engaging with lots of resources like books or podcasts — and reaching out for professional support if needed. You don't want to stay stuck and you're all about new learning and growth. But if this does NOT describe you, maybe you're more naturally like Kim. She tends to be more comfortable staying stuck in a challenge much longer than I am. She has her own unique perspectives on how to approach a challenge and moves at a different pace than me. Seeking and engaging in new learning is outside her comfort zone and she's more resistant to growth. The truth is that Kim WAS like this in our early years of blending. Her "fixed" mindset and my "growth" mindset put us in opposition to how to move forward in facing our challenges. And our different mindsets ended up creating even MORE challenging situations for us as a couple - it was difficult to stay united and we were often frustrated with each other. But eventually, we figured out how to overcome our opposing mindsets and work as a team to make real progress in our blended family challenges. In this episode, we'll explore the importance of mindset and offer practical tips for cultivating a growth mindset (which Kim has used over the years). We'll also share how we were able to get on the same page with growth while honoring our individual differences. You'll Discover:
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Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| What we've learned this summer... | 29 Aug 2023 | 00:11:39 | |
It's been an exciting few months of planning and preparing to better serve you. In this short episode, we'll share a bit about what we've each been learning. Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 164. A Practical Tool to Help You Stay Focused on Your Biggest Blended Family Challenge | 30 May 2023 | 00:12:04 | |
Be sure to listen in on this quick episode to catch an important announcement and learn about the brand new Blended Family Breakthrough Quiz! Ready to hop into the Blended Family Breakthrough Quiz? Just click the link to get started. Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| Simple Step: Intentional Steps Toward Success | 23 May 2023 | 00:08:20 | |
To learn more about our Becoming Blended Program for nearly or newly blended couples OR our RelateStrong Program, click the link to schedule your FREE coaching call Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 163. How Intentionality Helped One Couple to Accomplish a Successful Blend (with Special Guests Sean & Staci) | 16 May 2023 | 00:47:33 | |
Have you ever wondered what it really takes to blend your family successfully? Whether you've been blending for years or you're just getting started, you're probably aware there are complex and difficult dynamics that come with the territory. Yet, you might not be sure what to do to lead your family forward. That's exactly where our special guests, Sean and Staci were 7 years ago when they fell in love and began moving toward marriage. They were aware that challenges would come with blending, but they weren't quite sure how they could navigate through them successfully. Listen in as Sean and Staci share the intentional steps they took to prepare and equip themselves to move their two families under one roof… …and how they continue to successfully face every challenge that comes their way — even now that they're more than 6 years into their blend. Discover how this couple intentionally 'beat the blending odds', by working together to build healthy bonds, safeguard their marriage and create a peaceful home for their blended family of six. You'll Discover:
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| Simple Step: Don't Believe Everything You Think | 12 Aug 2025 | 00:05:16 | |
Resources Episode 36. How to Change Your "Stories" and Grow Connection [with Mark Warren] Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| Simple Step: Mother's Day Tips for Husbands | 09 May 2023 | 00:06:41 | |
Resources from this Episode: Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 162. How do Healthy Step-Parent/Step-Child Dynamics Help Avoid the Pitfalls of Step-Parentification? [with Ron Deal and Lauren Reitsema] | 02 May 2023 | 00:40:01 | |
Parentification is one thing — but Step-Parentification is unique to itself. In this episode, we'll continue our conversation with experts Ron Deal and Lauren Reitsema to discuss the challenges of Step-Parentification. The reality is that kids whose parent has remarried are now navigating a relationship with a step-parent. Step-relationships can be tough for everyone involved. And navigating the expectations that come with new or not-yet-established relationships in the home can make any family susceptible to inadvertently slide into unhealthy roles or misplaced boundaries. No loving parent wants that for their kids — and neither does their caring step-parent. That's why it's important for all the adults to be aware of how blended family dynamics can often set the stage for Step-Parentification to emerge. Last week we talked with Ron and Lauren about Parentification, but step-parentification is an additional element we all need to understand so that we can avoid it. We're picking the conversation up right where we left off to help you identify and define healthy step-parent/step-child roles and establish appropriate boundaries in your home. You'll Discover:
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| 161. How do Healthy Parent/Child Roles Help Avoid the Pitfalls of Parentification? [with Ron Deal and Lauren Reitsema] | 25 Apr 2023 | 01:00:41 | |
Kids and adults experienced losses in their journey from first family to blended family life. Of course, we all want to protect our kids, but the reality is those previous losses can place each of us at risk of developing relational dysfunction. This certainly isn't what any caring parent wants to hear… …but it's critical for all of us to be aware of how we can inadvertently slide into unhealthy roles with our kids. Sometimes well meaning, but misplaced boundaries can set the stage for relational dysfunction. One type of dysfunctional result has a name: Parentification. Whether you've heard about Parentification before or you have no idea what we're talking about, you'll want to pay attention to today's essential discussion with our expert guests. Ron Deal and Lauren Reitsema are joining us in this episode to talk about what Parentification actually is, the ramifications of this dysfunction, and how to protect your kids by preserving their childhood. This is an informative conversation with deep insight that will help you identify and define healthy parent/child roles and establish appropriate boundaries in your home. You'll Discover:
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| Simple Step: Setting Reasonable Behavioral Expectations | 18 Apr 2023 | 00:05:47 | |
Want to join our virtual workshop called Stepfamilies that Make It! — simply click the link! Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 160. A 4-Part Framework for Achievable Expectations and How to Live Them Out | 11 Apr 2023 | 00:37:47 | |
You've probably heard the advice to lower your expectations when you're blending a family. But what does that really mean? Does it mean you're supposed to keep the bar low and not expect much of anything? Or is there something more to this common advice for blended families? In this episode, we'll explore the difference between lowering your expectations altogether vs. developing achievable expectations for your family. I (Mike) struggled for years holding onto unrealistic expectations that added a whole lot of pressure and stress to our situation. Eventually, I realized that holding onto my own "dreams" and expecting everyone else to comply was taking us in the opposite direction of what I wanted. My high expectations were sabotaging our progress. But realizing this didn't mean I needed to give up on my hopes for our family — I really wanted good things for all of us. Listen in as Kim and I discuss how we eventually learned to get united, to set realistic expectations for our home, and make real progress toward those things we each wanted to experience in our blended family. You'll Discover:
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| Simple Step: Build Meaningful Bonds with Your Stepchildren | 04 Apr 2023 | 00:08:25 | |
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| 159. How to Stay Hopeful as a Stepparent When You're Continually Rejected and Hurt | 28 Mar 2023 | 00:46:16 | |
Stepparents want to feel connected in their blended family. They often invest their energy and efforts into serving with a genuinely hopeful heart. But frequently, we hear from heartbroken stepparents that are exhausted. They feel like they've tried everything to break through the barriers with a resistant stepchild. But nothing seems to be working and they're starting to lose hope. Their stepchild continues to treat them with disrespect, push them away, or even act as if they don't exist. These stepparents feel frustrated, confused, hurt, annoyed, angry and hopeless… …it's a painful place to be. But the truth is — there is hope! In this episode, we'll explore real-life strategies for a real-life struggle that multitudes of stepparents experience across the world. The struggle? Rejection. If you’re a stepparent who feels rejected by a stepchild you simply want to love, this episode is for you. Hop into the discussion to discover what you can do to hold onto hope and create an environment where connection and healthy bonds can emerge in your home — even with a resistant stepchild. You'll Discover:
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| Simple Step: Building Trust with a Stepchild | 21 Mar 2023 | 00:06:11 | |
Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 158. An Effective Stepparenting Approach Focused on What Works — and What Doesn't | 14 Mar 2023 | 00:53:17 | |
Stepparents typically have great intentions and high expectations around the role they'll play in their blended family. But it doesn't take long for them to realize how daunting stepparenting can actually be! When a well-meaning stepparent finds themselves frustrated with the pre-established patterns of how their new partner tends to parent, they often make an easy wrong turn… …they attempt to jump into directing and correcting. And when that approach backfires, it often leads to a whole lot of pushback and tension in the home — within the step relationships AND between the adults. Whether you've inadvertently made this easy wrong turn or if you're simply hoping to avoid it, we've to some good news! There are practical ways to more effectively embrace your role as a stepparent — even when you're feeling frustrated. In this episode, we'll be sharing some helpful strategies from an excellent resource specifically for stepparents. (And the great thing is, many of the concepts also apply to bio-parents.) Discover how you can avoid power struggles, reduce conflict, gain confidence, and work together to become effective parenting partners. You'll Discover:
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| Simple Step: What Kind of Stepparent are You Becoming? | 07 Mar 2023 | 00:06:02 | |
If you're a stepparent, consider these important questions:
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| 216. Ten Kids, One Pandemic, and a Marriage on the Brink: Wes and Jennie’s Empowering Breakthrough | 05 Aug 2025 | 00:34:31 | |
If you're feeling stuck in a blended family marriage that’s filled with constant conflict, emotional disconnection, or overwhelming stress, you're not alone—and you're not without hope. Wes and Jennie were right where you are. Ten kids, a new marriage, and the chaos of the pandemic had pushed them into survival mode. Their arguments were frequent and intense. Their connection was fading fast. And they had no idea how to move forward. But instead of giving up, they chose to reach out for help. That’s when they found us—and together, we walked through a proven coaching process that provided them with tools to reconnect, resolve conflicts, and build a strong foundation in their marriage. In this episode, you’ll hear the breakthroughs they experienced and how they transformed not only their relationship but their entire family dynamic. You'll also hear the amazing update four years later—including BIG wins in building genuine connections with their kids, becoming grandparents, and a special first-time experience as a family. Listen in and be encouraged! You can experience transformation too - all it takes is one brave step forward. You'll Discover:
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| 157. 3 Seasoned Stepmoms Share How They've Survived and Thrived in Their Blended Family Journey | 28 Feb 2023 | 01:04:17 | |
It's been said that being a Stepmom is like setting your hair on fire and trying to put it out with a hammer! The reality for many stepmoms is a regular sense of rejection, pressure, disrespect, or even slander. It can be a struggle to hold onto their own identity — to find their place and their purpose as the family "blends". A stepmom's pain, confusion, and disappointment might feel overwhelming and can keep them stuck in survival mode. But there's always hope! In this episode, our friends Brenda, Tiffany, and Stacy candidly share all the ups and downs they've experienced as seasoned stepmoms. Brenda is a Stepmom, Life Coach, Author, and International Speaker who is passionate about helping marriages and families flourish, especially in the context of blended families. She and her husband founded the ministry "Restored and Remarried" where they provide encouragement and hope to couples in stepfamilies. Tiffany and Bryan married and began their blending journey almost 10 years ago. Bryan entered the marriage with 2 kids, (currently ages 17 and 19). Tiffany has 1 biological child that she placed for adoption at birth who is now reconnected and very much a part of the family. Tiffany leads a small group for stepmoms, and together with Bryan supplements pre-marriage mentoring for couples preparing to blend. Stacy has been married to Rich for almost 9 years and is a stepmom to 4 amazing young women. She does not want others to feel alone on their blending journey and is passionate about loving and encouraging other stepmoms and blended family couples. Each of these courageous stepmoms has struggled through difficult seasons but has stayed the course. They've decided not to settle for just surviving, but chosen to learn how they can truly thrive in their blended families! You won't want to miss the valuable lessons these three triumphant stepmoms have learned along the way. You'll Discover:
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| Simple Step: The Super Strength that Leaves a Legacy | 21 Feb 2023 | 00:06:04 | |
Thanks for joining me for this Simple Step. Here are the 3 questions I asked you to consider this week:
Grab a notepad or journal and capture your genuine answer to these questions. Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 156. The 3 Super Strengths of a Blended Family Marriage | 14 Feb 2023 | 00:38:29 | |
They say hindsight is 20/20. Wouldn't it be cool if you could temporarily fast forward your blending journey about 20 years? You could clarify the most important things to focus on that might lead to success. You'd come back from that trip through time better equipped to understand the things that matter — and maybe some of the things that don’t. Unfortunately, we don't have a modified Delorean like Doc Brown to take you to your future. What we do have is our own story of blending over the past 22 years. So, we can't offer your own personal hindsight… …but we can share some insight based on our experiences that could be helpful and hopeful in your journey. In this episode, we're sharing 3 specific insights we've had over the past couple of decades. We call them "Super Strengths". They are 3 of the most critical character traits we've each had to adopt and develop in our journey as a step-couple. We're confident that if you engage these Super Strengths in your marriage they will lead you to the blending experience you're hoping for. You'll Discover:
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| Simple Step: Connecting Together Intentionally | 07 Feb 2023 | 00:06:07 | |
Resources Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 155. How to Easily Enjoy Meaningful Conversations and More Connection with Your Spouse [with Jennifer Zumbiel] | 31 Jan 2023 | 01:01:07 | |
When we fall in love and choose to spend our life with someone, we might picture a beautiful vision of what we want our relationship to look like… …relaxed, romantic meals together, the exchange of sweet gestures and affection, supportive encouragement, and genuine heart-to-heart connection. All that sounds amazing, doesn't it? But we also know how easy it is for the busyness and business of life to take over. We might feel overwhelmed and discouraged as our connection with each other seems to fade. For a long time, Mike and I thought we were prioritizing each other. But all the stressful realities of blended family life quickly wedged their way between us. As a result, we endured a painful season of feeling disconnected and alone. The good news is we didn't stay stuck there — and you don't have to either. In this episode, our special guest Jennifer Zumbiel will share an easy way to safeguard your relationship and create genuine engagement and meaningful connection. Jennifer's resource is not only practical but it's fun too! She developed it because she and her hubby needed something to help them stay connected! As Valentine's Day approaches, how can you make your relationship a priority by going above and beyond the usual? Discover something new and creative to intentionally make a heart-to-heart connection with your sweetheart on February 14th AND beyond! Resources from this Episode:
Ready for some extra support: We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!
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| Simple Step: How to Focus on Imperfect Progress | 24 Jan 2023 | 00:03:56 | |
Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 154. What practical and emotional shifts can you expect as you blend your family? | 17 Jan 2023 | 00:40:51 | |
Everyone knows that change inevitably comes with blending families. You might already get that, but "getting it" and embracing it are two different things. Often, couples start off in their blended family journey understanding that change is inevitable, but not fully grasping what those changes ahead might look like — for them and their kids. Then they get blindsided. Why? Because moving everyone under the same roof feels like it's going to be a fresh start — an exciting new beginning! But the reality is that the formation of a blended family also comes with loss. That loss brings pain which impacts everyone's experience as you blend. We all know that change is hard. There are new things to adapt to. There are old, familiar things to let go of. There are practical logistics and routines that must be adjusted. And for most of us, emotional struggles come along as we figure out how to do life together in new and different ways. In this episode, we'll explore some healthy mindset shifts that will help you navigate the inevitable changes that come with blending. You'll Discover:
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| Simple Step: The 4 A's of Communicating with Your Ex | 10 Jan 2023 | 00:06:10 | |
Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 153. How to Empower Organization, Improve Communication and Create Peace Between Your Kids Two Homes [with Dr. James and Ginger Dellaripa] | 03 Jan 2023 | 01:13:42 | |
For kids who are moving between two homes, the BEST outcomes happen when their parents are able to collaborate well and work together. Kids need reliable support, stability and peace. You've probably heard that before… …but actually living that out can be fraught with challenges — especially if you and your former spouse struggle to communicate or stay on track with everything the kids have going on. It's common for Ex-Spouses to experience miscommunication, ambiguity, or misunderstandings when they're managing all the moving parts. Daily life for co-parents is often overwhelming and frustrating! But you don't have to stay stuck there. This week's special guests Dr. James and Ginger Dellaripa have developed a practical tool that will improve communication, empower organization AND create more peace for everyone. Kick off 2023 with a fresh resolve to implement something new that will help you rise above the co-parenting challenges and provide the reliable support, stability and peace your kids really need! You'll Discover:
Resources from this Episode: Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| Simple Step: Shift Your Energy and Focus | 27 Dec 2022 | 00:05:46 | |
Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| Simple Step: Choosing Love When it Matter's Most | 29 Jul 2025 | 00:07:46 | |
Resources Episode 215. Does Your Relationship Feel Hopeless? Why Giving Up Might Not Be the Answer The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman Episode 155. How to Easily Enjoy Meaningful Conversations and More Connection with Your Spouse [with Jennifer Zumbiel] Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||
| 152. What has the potential to steal your joy - and how can you hold onto it? (Part 2) | 20 Dec 2022 | 00:49:03 | |
How do you hold onto your joy — even in the midst of disappointment, negativity, and difficult emotions? In our last episode, we discussed some common senerios that have the potential to steal your joy and add tension to your blended family. We wanted to help you build more awareness about these joy-stealers and understand that you're not alone… …we've been robbed of our joy many times too! In this episode, we're sharing the strategies and mindset shifts that we've discovered throughout our own journey and how we've managed to experience more joy even when things don't go as planned. Don't let those joy-stealers take over. Hop into this discussion and find out how you can hold onto your joy this Christmas and in everyday life! You'll Discover:
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| 151. What has the potential to steal your joy - and how can you hold onto it? (Part 1) | 13 Dec 2022 | 00:31:42 | |
You want to experience joy when you gather with your family — not just during the holidays, but in everyday life as well. You might plan, dream, and anticipate how much fun and togetherness you'll experience as a family along the way. You probably look forward to joy-filled moments eating delicious meals, celebrating, and engaging in fun activities together. But in blended family dynamics, it's easy for your joy to unexpectedly be robbed. It doesn't take much for disappointment, confusion, or even conflict to come along and pull the joy right out from under us… …leaving us feeling discouraged, disconnected, and stuck. In this episode, we're uncovering the common pain points that can easily steal your joy. Why? So that you can build awareness and understanding around the sneaky dynamics that tend to emerge and often blindside us. This will set you up for next week's episode where we'll offer practical tips, strategies, and mindset shifts to help you hold onto more joy this holiday season and beyond.
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| Simple Step: Insights for Navigating Holiday Chaos | 06 Dec 2022 | 00:05:16 | |
Resource for this Episode Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.mikeandkimcoaching.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession Subscribe or Follow the Show Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode. Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts Click here to follow on Spotify Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts If you’re feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast — plus they’re fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select “Ratings and Reviews” and then select “Write a Review” — let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback! | |||