Black Girls Heal – Details, episodes & analysis

In this episode of Black Girls Heal, we're diving into the world of love avoidance and how to navigate new relationships when you're healing from it. We'll talk about understanding intimacy disorders, recovering from those avoidant patterns, and how to communicate your needs in a healthy way.

Whether you're just starting in your recovery, you're in a new relationship, or even in a long-term one, this episode is packed with tips to help you stay balanced and build stronger connections.

In this episode, we cover…

• 01:33 Understanding Love Avoidance
• 02:30 The different archetypes of intimacy disorders 
• 03:22 How to navigate love addiction and avoidance
• 05:26 Practical tips for love avoidants
• 10:12 Ways to share your life as a recovering love avoidant
• 19:00 How to initiate compliments and kindness
• 25:09 Why you should embrace vulnerability

Resources mentioned in the episode:

• Listen to Episode 258: What to Do When You Like Someone as a Love Addict
• Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Join The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled.
• Can’t find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast? Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements.

Connect with us:

• Website: Blackgirlsheal.org
• Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal
• TikTok: @blackgirlsheal
• Facebook: Black Girls Heal

Thanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, feel free to share this episode with your friends! There are so many amazing women waiting to discover the Black Girls Heal podcast, and I'd love you to help me spread the word. Don’t forget to come back next week for the new episode.

In this episode of Black Girls Heal, we dive into the intricacies of managing romantic relationships for those in recovery from love addiction. 

We discuss the importance of staying in touch with your body, practicing self-affirmation, and maintaining your own life and identity. These actionable tips are geared to help you stay balanced while developing healthy, secure connections. Whether you're in a new relationship or already partnered, these strategies will guide you towards emotional stability and personal growth.

In this episode, we cover…

• 01:08 Understanding love addiction
• 02:22 Symptoms of love addiction
• 04:07 Keys to staying balanced in relationships
• 13:38 The importance of self-affirmation
• 21:14 Why you should maintain your own life

Resources mentioned in the episode:

• Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Join The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled.
• Can’t find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast? Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements.

Connect with us:

• Website: Blackgirlsheal.org
• Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal
• TikTok: @blackgirlsheal
• Facebook: Black Girls Heal

Thanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, feel free to share this episode with your friends! There are so many amazing women waiting to discover the Black Girls Heal podcast, and I'd love you to help me spread the word. Don’t forget to come back next week for the new episode.

In this episode of Black Girls Heal, we discuss the crucial topic of feeling deserving and why it's essential for receiving the love you desire. We explore how internalizing negative beliefs and trauma can lead to feeling undeserving, even when we outwardly affirm our worth. 

You'll learn practical steps to identify the emotional 'weeds' that choke your growth, including energy-draining relationships and perfectionist tendencies. Additionally, we discuss the importance of self-love, self-compassion, and clearing stored trauma from your body. 

This episode aims to guide you through the first step of the four-step bloom method to help your relationships flourish, ensuring you are on the path to feeling truly deserving of love and happiness.

In this episode, we cover…

• 01:03 Understanding deservingness
• 03:04 Identifying emotional weeds
• 05:13 Clearing emotional blockages
• 05:29 Identifying energy drains in your relationships
• 09:43 How perfectionism plays a role in low self-worth
• 22:39 Tools for healing
• 27:24 Why you need to consider bodywork to heal trauma

Resources mentioned in the episode:

• Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Join The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled.
• Listen to Episode 248: Getting Out of the Negative in Relationships
• Can’t find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast? Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements.

Connect with us:

• Website: Blackgirlsheal.org
• Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal
• TikTok: @blackgirlsheal
• Facebook: Black Girls Heal

Thanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, feel free to share this episode with your friends! There are so many amazing women waiting to discover the Black Girls Heal podcast, and I'd love you to help me spread the word. Don’t forget to come back next week for the new episode.

In today’s episode, we’re talking about how to deal when you are in a season of conflict. Whether it be with people from your past or in the present, my hope is that the 4 things I share in this episode will support you navigate this season.

Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance?

Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled

Can’t find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast?

Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements

CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHERE

Website: Blackgirlsheal.org

Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal

TikTok: @blackgirlsheal

Facebook: Black Girls Heal

In today's episode, we review going from Love Avoidant to Love Available using the Healed and Loved Woman framework model.

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE

No Contact & Detox Support Kit

The Recovery School: Self Healing Track

Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance?

Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled

Can’t find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast?

Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements

CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHERE

Website: Blackgirlsheal.org

Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal

TikTok: @blackgirlsheal

Facebook: Black Girls Heal

In this episode, we're talking to anyone who is currently in a love addictive cycle and needs to pull back to reset and regain their sense of self.

This is not a full no contact episode, but just a challenge to pull back and not initiate for week to gain some clarity.

Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance?

Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled

Can’t find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast?

Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements

CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHERE

Website: Blackgirlsheal.org

Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal

TikTok: @blackgirlsheal

Facebook: Black Girls Heal

In this bonus episode, you can catch up with me about the things I am personally learning and applying in my life for pleasure, fun and healing that I'd like to share. A tiny bit of tea is spilled, and though impromptu lessons may happen, this is not a full teaching episode.

Feel free to stay and listen if you'd like to learn more about me or binge our archive. Either way, we hope you enjoy!

Things Mentioned:

Astro.com

Cosmic Vibrations (the TikTok astrocartographers I follow)

Book: The Art of Receiving and Giving by Dr. Betty Martin

Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance?

Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled

Can’t find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast?

Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements

CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHERE

Website: Blackgirlsheal.org

Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal

TikTok: @blackgirlsheal

Facebook: Black Girls Heal

In this episode, Shena coaches an audience member on how to not lose herself in her new relationship.

 Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance?

Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled

Can’t find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast?

Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements

CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHERE

Website: Blackgirlsheal.org

Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal

TikTok: @blackgirlsheal

Facebook: Black Girls Heal

What happens when running the household feels imbalanced, unfair, and it's causing discord with you and your partner?

In this episode, Laura Danger joins us to talk about the tool of the Fair Play Method and how to implement it into your relationship.

Connect with Our Guest

Website: thatdarnchat.com

Tiktok: @thatdarnchat

Instagram: @thatdarnchat

Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance?

Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled

Can’t find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast?

Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements

CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHERE

Website: Blackgirlsheal.org

Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal

TikTok: @blackgirlsheal

Facebook: Black Girls Heal

In this episode, we want to normalize that, even though the healing process can be difficult at first, it does get better and evens out.

We hope breaking down what happens and what to expect helps you know that the light is coming soon.

Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance?

Click here to join our The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled

Can’t find a program, freebie, or event mentioned in the podcast?

Click here to find the upgraded versions of previously announced programs and their replacements

CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHERE

Website: Blackgirlsheal.org

Instagram: @BlackGirlsHeal

TikTok: @blackgirlsheal

Facebook: Black Girls Heal