The Grooms are in the building! Today, we welcome Selena and Chelsea’s hubbies into the studio to hear about wedding planning from the groom’s perspective. Plus, the foursome plays a round of “Do You Take This Plan?” and the answers may surprise you. Have a story to share or need some advice? Email us at brides@betches.com with your wedding questions and horror stories, or leave a voicemail at (646) 389-7804. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We are getting REAL about money on the podcast today. Selena breaks down her wedding budget down to the dollar. Plus, all three Brides play “Save or Splurge” and dish some advice to a bride abroad. Have a story to share or need some advice? Email us at brides@betches.com with your wedding questions and horror stories, or leave a voicemail at (646) 389-7804. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Did someone say road trip?! Today, the Brides hit the road with an episode recorded from THE Angry Orchard. Selena and Chelsea are talking all things bachelorette. Get ready for a game of bachelorette brackets, tips on how to plan without totally losing it, and listen in as the brides read your juicy write-ins of bachelorette “Bad Apples.” Need advice or have stories to share? Email us at brides@betches.com with your wedding questions and horror stories, or leave a voicemail at (646) 389-7804. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For her first episode, Samantha Bush brings on Fashion & Lifestyle Content Manager at Betches, Abigail Westlin to help crack the wedding dress code. Abigail starts off by sharing her fun weekend at a joint bachelorette to celebrate her close friends and how she preparing to officiate at their wedding a week later. Then, Samantha asks about her background in fashion and how guests can play off their own style while not outshining the bride on her big day. To end, they head over to the new Brides group chat on Geneva to answer a bride who is wondering if she is a bridezilla. If your guests are starting to complain about your dress code, what would you do? Join the Betches Brides group chat on Geneva: https://betches.co/bridesgroupchat Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Nicole is joined by very special guest, Samantha Bush. They begin by announcing that Samantha will now be the new host of Betches Brides and how she plans to bring a fun new outlook to the show. They jump into a voicemail about a bride trying to disinvite her maid of honor’s boyfriend. What’s the best way to test run a plus one? Then, they play a game of “Would You Rather” bridal edition. Would you rather someone else wear a white dress or someone get proposed to at your wedding? Lastly, they end on a “Happily Ever After” email where a groom is feeling the post wedding blues and his new wife is worried she’s next. Betches Brides Hotline: (646) 389-7804‬ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Nicole brings on sex therapist Dr. Emily Morse to chat about how to make the wedding night last the entire marriage. Dr. Morse starts with tips to building a good sex life with yourself and your partner. Her biggest advice? Communication is the best lubrication. Next, Nicole reads some listener questions so Dr. Morse can give her best advice to couples who are struggling in the bedroom. Lastly, they end on a “Happily Ever After” submission where a newlywed is being told her sex life is “all down-hill from here” and want’s to know if she should be freaking out. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nicole brings on our final Brides Ambassador, Sarah Fluegel. Sarah’s job as a project manager has perfectly prepped her for the crazy world of wedding planning. She shares every detail about her spreadsheets, all organized, of course, with hyperlinks functions and color coded in her wedding’s colors. When Nicole asks how she has found the time to do all of this, Sarah explains how she has the “Dream Team” of her Mother and future Mother-In-Law helping her along the way. They end on a “Happily Ever After” email where a couple is trying to figure out what to do after their friend dropped the ball officiating their wedding. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nicole brings back Betches Podcast Director, Sean Kilby, to answer all your wedding questions in this mailbag episode. The questions Sean and Nicole tackle range from: throwing a second wedding, being bougie on a budget, to figuring out who should be in your wedding party. As someone who played every wedding role, Sean confides that being an officiant is a job and not a privilege. To end, they bring back Happily Ever After, and listen to a voicemail where a bride isn’t happy with her wedding photos and doesn’t know what to do. Sean and Nicole give the only solution - give yourself a happy ending and reshoot it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Nicole helps you decipher your wedding contracts with the help of Nicole O’Toole, a Chicago-based attorney, and 2022 bride. They jump straight into a voicemail from a bride who has found her perfect venue and is ready to pony up the money, but should she ask a lawyer to look at her contract? What are some red flags she should look for? What should she be asking to make sure they put in writing? Nicole O. guides us through small, medium, and big contracts - reminding us along the way that every contract is negotiable. They end on a game of Unpopular Opinions, where they decide if couples should have a joint bank account, if you not only marry your partner, but their family as well, and if having different hobbies from your partner can be an issue. Disclaimer: this episode should NOT be considered “legal advice,” these are discussions based on personal experiences. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this bonus episode brought to you by High Noon, we meet our second Betches Brides Ambassador, Mila White. Mila is a self proclaimed “Type-A - Control Freak” and admits to struggling with the desire to have a hand in everything from start to finish. She then shares how her and her fiance are balancing their very different cultural, familial, and religious backgrounds - revealing that they have to hold two bridal parties AND two wedding ceremonies to accommodate. To end, they play a new game called “Noon! or No-Way!” where Nicole helps Mila decide what she wants her Bachelorette party to look like. To add a little sun to your wedding or batch party, head to your local liquor store to pick up some High Noon or you can find where to purchase High Noon near you by visiting highnoonspirits.com. Sun’s Up! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Nicole is joined by highly requested guest Kat L., creator of the website Brides Love A Sale. They start off by getting to know Kat, what inspired her to start Brides Love A Sale and how it has evolved into a tool to help future brides wear high fashion for half the price. Then, Nicole reads an email from a listener who is worried about the logistics of not only purchasing a secondhand dress, but how to work it into her timeline so it won’t outshine her original full price dress. Finally, they end on a round of “After The Wedding” Unpopular Opinions where we find out if telling your friends your partner’s secrets is okay, if changing your last name is too much work, and if it’s okay to go to bed mad at your partner. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Nicole is joined by Brides ambassador Hannah Chambers, for the first Betches Brides Ambassador episode. First, Hannah shares about her roots in wedding planning, her Meet-Cute, and her green-nail proposal fiasco. Of course, Nicole asks about Hannah’s wedding plans, specifically, how she is making vendor decisions more than a year out. Hannah discusses her plans for her guest list, florals, and her choice not to have bridesmaids. Hannah shares some obstacles she and her partner have run into with vendors as a same-sex couple. Then, they get into splurging and saving. Finally, they end on “Unpopular Opinions” to see if throwing the bouquet and sweetheart tables are over and if photo booths are a waste of money. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Nicole brings on Samantha Rosen, director of digital content at Betches, 2023 bride, and former travel editor from The Points Guy to give us all the tips and tricks for using credit card points and miles to your advantage for your next destination wedding or honeymoon abroad. Is there a way to basically pay for your entire honeymoon with points? Lastly, the end with “Unpopular Opinions” where we find out if a bride should pay for their bridal parties hair AND makeup, if your speech givers should read off their phone, or what are the rules of wedding transportation. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We hope you brought your appetites, listeners. Today on Betches Brides, Selena, Chelsea, and Jaz are chatting all things wedding food! Get ready to play a rousing game of Pass That App, and listen in for an unappetizing write-in about a serious catering nightmare. Plus, a fun segment brought to you by our friends at Angry Orchard. Need advice or have stories to share?Email us at brides@betches.com with your wedding questions and horror stories, or leave a voicemail at (646) 389-7804. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Nicole is joined by an honorary Betches Brides, Jorge Morales Picó and Marina Soucy to chat about their wedding and offer advice for creating the ultimate laid back wedding weekend. First they share how they went out of the regular order of things by booking their venue first. They explained just how they saved money by using the venue to its full potential rather than booking extra vendors. Nicole then asks about what they would have done differently and while the list isn’t long, inviting Summer Santa is at the very top. Lastly, they play a round of “Unpopular Opinions” to see if elaborate seating charts are necessary, and if the wedding should be paid for 50/50. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Nicole is joined by athlete, activist and 2022 bride, Taylor Rae Almonte to chat about bringing on inclusive and diverse vendors for your wedding. First we get to know Taylor, her fiance, and their wedding planning so far. Then, Nicole asks about Taylor’s activism and how it sparked the idea to seek out vendors of all backgrounds and her reasoning behind it. Next, they listen to a Voicemail from a bride wondering what to do when her fiance's family is expecting her parents to pay for the wedding. Lastly, they end on “Unpopular Opinions” discussing if you need to have every relative at your wedding, if you really need a wedding party, and if you need to go around and greet everyone at the reception. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Nicole brings back three-peat guest and Betches own Bryan Russell Smith for the final update on his destination wedding. Nicole reminds Bryan of his pre-wedding worries from his previous interview and Bryan assures us that everything went better than he could have imagined - How? Always over-prepare. Next they listen to a voicemail where a destination bride is asking how they can save money on the welcome party without making the guests feel cheated. Lastly, they end on a game of Unpopular Opinions where they discuss if a connection to your venue is necessary, if writing your own vows is cringe, and what it means to have an “overdone” wedding. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Back by popular demand, this week Nicole brings on Betches Podcast Director Sean Kilby to chat more about his numerous wedding opinions. Sean starts off by deconstructing his 5 layer speech sandwich that will guarantee to move a crowd. He explains that giving a successful speech is formulaic and with a little bit of practice (and tears) you will always kill it. Next, they listen to a voicemail about a listener wanting to mix wedding themes and while Sean praises the idea of throwing a fully themed wedding he recommends against mixing too many themes. Finally, they play Unpopular Opinions covering topics like - who pays for the afterparty, what is a reasonable time for last call, and the rules on after wedding brunches. Call the BETCHES Brides hotline at: (646) 389-7804‬ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Nicole sits down with bride-to-be and organization phenom Lauren Ladoucer. They dish on how to be the best kind of type-A bride: prioritizing communication. They cover her tik tok-famous bridesmaid survey, meant to break down their role throughout the planning process, during the bachelorette, and on the day-of. She also explains her “vendor presentation,” to streamline the couple’s vision on flowers, dining, and more. Lastly, they tune into the Betches Brides Voicemail, and advise an upcoming bride on a hair and makeup mishap that could jeopardize the entire day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Nicole is back with wedding and event planner Melissa Andre, one of our most listened to guests in Betches Brides history. In this episode Nicole and Melissa chat about how social media, especially TikTok, has changed the way people view the wedding planning industry. Did you know people have A LOT of opinions on the internet? Melissa then explains that, while your wedding day should be about you, keeping that Host/Guest relationship is what truly creates a welcoming atmosphere. They finish off with a game of Unpopular Opinions, leaning on Melissa’s 15 years of experience to cover topics like: How important are the getting ready photos? Are grand exits overrated? And the ongoing argument of Band vs. DJ. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Call the BETCHES Brides hotline at: (646) 389-7804‬ This week, Nicole is joined by Betches Podcast Director Sean Kilby to chat about his experience as a DOC - Day Of Coordinator. They go through his day step by step - discussing exactly what he did as a DOC and what qualities couples should look for when seeking one out. Sean then offers his advice to couples on how to make their wedding "Amazing!" vs. “it was nice” - The secret? Always offer shots. Lastly, they listen to Betches Brides first ever voicemail submission and offer reassurance to a nervous bride. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Nicole is joined by three-peat guest and wedding wardrobe queen, Caroline Crawford Patterson. They start off by reading listener-submitted emails covering everything from revealing wedding dresses, mismatched bridal party outfits, to dress shopping with a large group. Then, they play a new game called “Would You Rather” where they test which wedding faux pas they would rather experience. Finally, they close out with “Unpopular Opinions'' but with a twist. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Nicole is re-joined by Betches own Bryan Russell Smith to chat about his fast approaching destination wedding. They start off by Bryan giving the latest updates on his planning and how he is working through the last minute details - which includes learning how to address his fiancé's family in (almost) fluent Spanish. Then, they play a round of “Unpopular Opinions” discussing topics like, how long should a ceremony drag on, and do destination bach parties need to stop? Lastly, they read a listener's submitted email about wedding gift expectations from a guests point of view. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Nicole is joined by clinical psychologist Dr. Naomi Bernstein, co-host of the Betches Oversharing Podcast and Jordana’s sister. They start off by chatting about a very popular topic, “The Post Wedding Blues” and how it affects couples after their big day. Then, Nicole asks Dr. Bernstein how couples can set up solid groundwork for their marriage before and after the wedding day. Finally, they read a listener email and discuss how couples should handle arguments that pop up during wedding planning. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Take a deep breath, Bride. Today, we’re zenning out with pre-wedding self-care. On today’s episode of Betches Brides, Selena and Jaz dish hair and make-up trials, the importance of treating yourself, and your morning-of Bride Tribe. Plus, the gals answer questions from two brides in pre-wedding peril. Need advice or have stories to share? Email us at brides@betches.com with your wedding questions and horror stories, or leave a voicemail at (646) 389-7804. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Nicole is joined by her very own wedding photographer, Alex Ashman. They start off by reminiscing about Nicole’s wedding and just how they got the perfect wedding photos. Alex goes on to say just how difficult it can be to find a wedding photographer, because you need someone just as unique as your big day. Then, they talk about how your photographer can make the day easier for the couple and also how the couple can make it easier on the photographer (here's a hint - feed them). Finally, they end with a listener’s email, going into detail on how they should set up their timeline for the day from a photographer perspective. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week Nicole is re-joined by Caroline Ripa for a very special mail bag episode. They start by catching up with everything Caroline has been up to since she was last on the show. Then, they answer hot topic emails like debating the age-old question of “kids or no kids on the big day” and how it’s OK to be more nonchalant about your wedding. Next, Nicole debuts a new segment called “Wedding Regrets” where they read some listeners' wedding regrets to give their advice and reassurance. Lastly, they play a round of “Unpopular Opinions” where we get Caroline's opinions, as a designer, on wedding fonts, card boxes, and seating charts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nicole is joined this week by BETCHES very own, Amanda Duberman. In this episode, Amanda focuses on narrowing down her non-negotiables, which mainly consists of her need for good NYC food, and who can blame her? She then asks Nicole for her advice when it comes to DIYing a majority of her wedding. Nicole’s big tip is solidifying after party plans if you want the festivities to last all night. They then read an email submission about getting post engagement anxiety, and how Amanda combats this by focusing on making her special day very personal rather than traditional. How? By adding politics, of course. Lastly, they play a game of “Unpopular Opinions”, discussing topics like: having an open bar, wearing a cape vs. a veil, and if you should worry about “half-assing” your wedding planning. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Nicole is joined by Mikayla Nogueira, a successful makeup artist and 2023 bride. They chat about Mikayla’s dating journey with her fiance' and how it convinced her to believe in love at first sight. Then, Mikayla reveals that she actually gave direction when it came to her engagement ring, since you know, she'll be wearing it everyday. She then shares that a “clean and classic” aesthetic is her vision for the wedding, but will she pull a Christine Quinn and have a sloth make an appearance? Lastly, Nicole asks who Mikayla would trust to do her makeup on the big day and the answer will shock you. No, unfortunately it’s not Rihanna. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nicole is joined today by the one, the only, the new Jordana Marinelli (well, still Abraham for now). Refreshed from her honeymoon, Jordana is ready to relive every moment with us and share her tips along the way. Warning, she’s honest about what honeymooners have to suffer through… surrounded by cake, champagne, and rose petals, it’s truly horrible! First, they started their trip off in Sri Lanka with a tea tour and a wildlife safari in Yala National Park. Next, The Maldives, where they hopped on a sea plane to be transported to their picturesque overwater bungalow surrounded by clear blue water and relaxation. On their way home, they decided to take a 36 hour layover in Dubai, where in that short amount of time her husband, Michael, convinced her to go skydiving. Because why not fall (pun intended) in love all over again while plummeting down to earth. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nicole is back in the studio, and this week she’s joined by bride-to-be Taelor Pawnell (aka Stylish Sista) for a very informative wedding planning debrief. Taelor tells us all about how she met her fiancé, why she decided to hire a “budget” wedding planner, and how she ended up getting the engagement photos of her dreams. Plus, she fills us in on the bridesmaid powerpoint that went viral, along with how to get your hands on the ready-made template yourself. Never too early to get the bridesmaids organized, amirite? Next, Taelor shares her best advice for when you’re shopping for a plus size wedding dress. Finally, she tells us about the ingenious guest-experience she has planned for her upcoming wedding (hint: Ms. Pac-man would be proud). Download Taelor's template here: @Stylishsista - Bridesmaid Welcome Presentation Template Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nicole is joined by wedding planner and owner of Rheefined Company, Jason Rhee, for our most anticipated episode yet. Jason is to talk all things vendor tipping and more! Before getting into the nitty gritty of vendor tipping, they discuss the first and foremost important first step before you even start to consider vendor shopping. They also chat about tips for shopping around for ideal vendors, whether or not it's rude to negotiate with vendors, and what to expect in a vendor contract. Next, Nicole and Jason move over to hot topic discussion - which vendors exactly should we be tipping (and how much??). Then, it's time for a game of "Unpopular Opinions," this one about - chairs, silk bouquets, and inviting someone just because they invited you. Finally, they wrap with a game of "Save vs. Splurge," discussing things like renting nicer flatware/drinkware, reception experiences, and live music during cocktail hour. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we are joined by mental health and body image advocate, and host of the Real Pod podcast, Victoria Garrick! She is here to discuss all things wedding planning, starting off with her engagement story and how it all happened. They get into the inevitable and relatable pressure that comes with being a bride, and the pressure that society puts on us to "shed" for the wedding. Then, Victoria talks about how her dress shopping experience was and yes - not crying when she found "the" dress (and that's OK!). She also shares tangible tips on how to handle comments made about your body throughout the wedding planning process. Plus, she shares how she came to her decision to do a first look and why it's so important to her to have a positive wedding mindset. To close the show, they end with a Game of "Unpopular Opinions," including who should see your dress before the big day, donut walls, and Sunday weddings. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nicole is back for a bonus episode with celebrity skin specialist, Brittany Blancato! Brittany's here to talk all about skincare, starting off with her acne journey and finally getting to the point of clearing it. She shares her thoughts on slugging, before getting into everything you should know about the different skincare treatments including: facials, peels, and lasers. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today, Nicole is joined once again by Chris Burns AKA @fatcarriebradshaw to solve your wedding dilemmas! Before they jump into the emails, Chris catches us up on his wedding life, including the one he recently attended, and all the weddings he’s attending this year. Then, it's time for the listener emails about - uninviting guests, in-laws' unsolicited opinions, and friends who schedule their weddings too close to your's. After that, Chris and Nicole move over to some games, starting off with a brand new one called "Wedding Regrets" about hiring videographers, remembering to eat at your own wedding, and hosting vs. focusing on your partner. Finally, we close with our classic "Unpopular Opinions," this one about matching bridesmaids dresses, rustic decor, and cocktail hour receptions. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week on Betches Brides, Selena, Chelsea, and Jaz get personal while sharing how they met their partners and chat about how to make your special day feel like YOUR (collective) special day. The Brides dish grooms’ cakes, wedding fashion, and take some wild write-ins from you about the horror of Bridezillas and BYOB anything. Email us at brides@betches.com with your wedding questions and horror stories, or leave a voicemail at (646) 389-7804. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this week’s episode, Nicole is joined by host of the We Met At Acme podcast, Lindsey Metselaar! Lindsey is here to give us the scoop of her engagement, ring shopping, and not to mention — planning it all in just 5 months!! They begin with a flashback to how Lindsey met her husband, Steven, before getting to the engagement details, and jumping straight into the wedding planning process. Lindsey shares why she decided to having her wedding so soon, and how the shorter timeline actually helped her make decisions easier. She then gets into adding that extra pop of color her wedding, including her green dress and incorporating bright colors in her wedding decor. They chat about bridesmaids styling, wedding regrets, and what it was like having Sara Barailles perform at her reception. Then it’s time for “Unpopular Opinions,” where they discuss first looks, ditching the traditional white dress, and stopping the dance for the cake cutting. To round off the episode, they close with “Save vs. Splurge,” debating whether to skimp out or spend on pinspot lighting, wedding day jewelry, and bridesmaid gifts. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nicole is joined this week by Founder of Maya Moves, Maya Sank, to talk all things wedding dances. To start, Maya shares all about her background as a dance choreographer, and how that eventually led her to get into weddings. They get into listener questions about first dances, discussing things like choosing song suggestions, slow vs. fast songs, and easy moves anyone (literally— anyone) can incorporate into their first dance. Then it’s time for a listener email about a simultaneous father/daughter and mother/son dance. The next listener email gets into a bride who wants to include her step dad in her traditions while also honoring her dad who passed. Nicole and Maya round off this episode with a game of “Unpopular Opinions,” this time about photo booths, bach party etiquette, and partnered entrances at the wedding party. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nicole is back with a bonus episode with her college bestie and newlywed bride, Brooke Weislow! Brooke’s here to talk all about her recent wedding in the Dominican Republic, starting with how she came to her decision for the venue, weekend events, and her best wedding planning tool. She gets into some of the things that went wrong during her wedding — yup, a flat tire and not to mention her missing shoes! Plus, Brooke discusses packing tips, her fav part of the wedding, and any wedding day regrets (don’t we all have them?). Then Brooke shares her decor choices for her wedding, which decor upgrades she ended up skipping, and some of the unexpected costs you should be mindful of when planning a destination wedding. Finally, they close with some rapid fire questions about her wedding day look, gifts for her bridesmaids, and her 360 photo booth. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Nicole is joined by Betches’ own Integrated Marketing Director (and bride-to-be) Karla Barone! They start with all the deets on how she met her fiancé, Corey, and the day of her proposal (plus how far Corey was willing to go to make it all happen). Karla shares her wedding planning process, including her wedding venue, the meaning of her wedding date, and which vendors she’s booked thus far. Up next, they get into the backstory of her ring, and how she decided to upgrade a family heirloom engagement ring to fit her personal style. They discuss sentimental details Karla and Corey are working into the wedding decor (even taking inspo from the dating app they met on), and how a wedding planner saved her *literally* thousands of dollars. Then, it’s time for a listener email all about the overwhelming (and relatable) feeling of wedding planning. Finally, they close with a round of “Unpopular Opinions,” discussing things like dog-themed cocktails, wedding bands, and micro weddings. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nicole is back this week those a returning guest (and someone we all know and love), Caroline Crawford Patterson! They start off with an updated on how the married life is going, before diving into a rapid-fire round of questions to answer all things wedding dilemmas. They discuss things like the very first thing to do after getting engaged, invitation rules, and ideas for the groom and bride the morning of the wedding. Then, it’s time for the listener email, this one about a pregnant bridesmaid who can’t attend bachelorette party anymore. After that, they play a round of “Unpopular Opinions,” about getting ready photos, working out on the wedding day (do people really do that?), and destination bachelorettes when you already have a destination wedding. Finally, they close with a game of “Save vs. Splurge,” where they talk about aisle decor, champagne toasts, and appetizers for cocktail hour. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nicole is joined by a guest we are so excited about, transgender influencer and recent bride Jamie Pandit! To start off, Jamie shares her transgender journey, living in stealth for over half her life, and making the very brave decision to come out publicly. She discusses how she met her now husband, Phil, and what it was like coming out to him and his family prior to her wedding. She even talks all about the details of her proposal and wedding, and why it was so important for her to honor both her and her husband's unique cultures. Finally, it's time for a round of "Unpopular Opinions," about welcome bags, open seating, and honeymoons (should you leave right away or wait after the wedding?). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this episode, Nicole is joined once again by Betches' own Bryan Russell Smith to talk all about updates on his upcoming destination wedding in Spain. They discuss venue site visits, which vendors he's booked so far, and custom wedding invitations. They dive into some listener questions about wedding traditions (including ones he'll definitely be skipping), picking an officiator, and ideas for dress codes. Next, it's time for the first listener email about having two weddings (is it too much?). Then, the second email is about a conflicted bride who is struggling to overcome people-pleasing and unsolicited opinions while wedding planning. Finally, they they wrap with a round of "Unpopular Opinions," discussing things like first looks, plus ones, and welcome parties. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Nicole is joined by wedding planner, event stylist, and Real Housewives of Miami star, Guerdy Abraira! To start off, Guerdy shares how she got into the world of wedding planning experience, the difference between a wedding planner and an event stylist, and her favorite wedding that she’s ever designed. We of course can’t forget about listener questions, starting off with how to elevate your venue with tablescape decor (but also keeping it budget-friendly). Plus, they discuss the top five things you should do immediately after getting engaged, and practical tips to plan an afterparty. Finally, it’s time for our “Unpopular Opinions” segment, this one about welcome signs, grand exits, and DJs vs. bands. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Nicole is joined by Chris Burns, AKA @fatcarriebradshaw to talk all about what it’s like being a bridesman, best man, groomsman, and soon-to-be wedding officiant. We kick off with some listener questions, starting with how he affords attending so many weddings, whether you have to buy a wedding gift if you’re a bridesmaid, and if it's ever okay to not go to a bridal shower. Plus, Chris shares his favorite bridesman outfit, the best tips to keep the bride calm, and the number one thing a bride should never forget on the wedding day. Then, it’s time for a listener email all about how to line up your bridesmaids when everyone just can’t seem to agree (does the order really matter?). Finally, they close with their “Unpopular Opinions” segment, this one about gifting etiquette, who’s really supposed to pay for the bachelorette party, and couples showers vs. bridal showers (which one’s better?).  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Nicole is joined by Tori Williams, world-renowned celebrity event planner and star of VH1’s “My Celebrity Dream Wedding.” To kick off, they chat all how Tori dove head first into the wedding industry after starting off in wedding hair and makeup. Next, they discuss how she makes high budget weddings possible, expenses that you can definitely skip on, and even some of her favorite celeb weddings for wedding planning inspiration. Then, it’s time to get into our listener questions, starting with budget friendly ways to make your wedding feel more luxurious. Plus, Tori shares her thoughts on the biggest wedding trends of 2022, and advice for planners who are working with clients who don’t know what they want. They move onto the “Save or Splurge?” segment, where they discuss whether or not it’s worth spending on paper products, lighting, and tablescape decor. To round off the show, they close with “Unpopular Opinions,” this time about greeting all your wedding guests, the importance of flowers, and all white-florals (timeless or overrated?). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is the Macarena a must-have on your wedding playlist? This week on Betches Brides, Selena, Chelsea, and Jaz chat about wedding music, play “Woo or Boo”, and deep-dive on first dances. Plus, the trio read a listener email about a "viral" wedding nightmare, and reveal Selena’s non-traditional home run of a rehearsal dinner plan. Email us at brides@betches.com with your wedding questions and horror stories, or leave a voicemail at (646) 389-7804. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jordana and Nicole are back this week with another episode! They start off by discussing their first holidays as newly married couples, Nicole’s plans to adopt a dog, and Jordana’s upcoming honeymoon. Next, Jordana has a major announcement to share, and then we get into those listener emails. Up first, we have a bride who’s conflicted about a friend she hired for her wedding (and the moment she realized it probably wasn’t the best idea). The next listener email covers a couple questions, including some save the date advice, what to do with your wedding dress after the big day, and deciding between who should be walking you down the aisle. Then, it’s time for “Unpopular Opinions,” this time about wedding shower invitations, serving liquor, and boutonnieres (overrated or cute?). Next, they read their “Happily Ever After” email all about dealing with feeling jealous of others getting married before you, before closing with a round of “Save or Splurge?,” where they discuss which expenses are worth splurging on and which you should actually save your money on. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nicole is back for a special bonus episode with Betches Sales Director Kristin and her new husband Collin! They get into all the details of their recent wedding weekend, including the rehearsal dinner, the wedding day decor, the reception, and everything in between. They also talk about how collaborative their planning of the wedding was, and how Collin contributed to the process to make sure that Kristin wasn’t shouldering the entire responsibility on her shoulders. Make sure to follow @betchesbrides to see pictures from their incredible wedding! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week, Jordana and Nicole are back with Jordana’s bridesmaid and stylist Liza Lieberman! They get into the tricky business of styling your bridesmaids, and how to approach the whole ordeal so that everyone feels comfortable and looks amazing. They get into fabrics, colors, hairstyles, and everything else you should keep in mind as you plan. They also talk about the best ways of communicating with your bridesmaids so that you can let them know what you want without hurting anyone's feelings. To end the show, Jordana and Nicole play another round of Unpopular Opinions, this time about about bridal bouquets, cocktail receptions, and family invitations. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices