From Christianity Today, Being Human with Steve Cuss is Christian counseling in podcast form. Steve Cuss, a former trauma and hospice chaplain, pastor, and leadership coach, guides listeners with a gospel-informed journey of discovery into the world of emotional health: everything from anxiety and reactivity, to triangulation, overfunctioning, and the Enneagram.
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Play, Pray, Repeat: Unlock the Power of Life Giving Habits to Defuse Reactivity with Steve Cuss & Clarissa Moll
Monday, June 1, 2026 ⢠Duration 28:55
In this episode of Being Human with Steve Cuss, Steve and Clarissa Moll explore the concept of "life-giving habits" â intentional practices categorized into people, places, and activities that help reduce reactivity and deepen awareness of God's presence. Steve explains how building a personalized list of God-given pleasures, from micro-habits like holding a spouse's hand to larger experiences like fly fishing, transforms everyday moments into acts of worship and gratitude. The conversation highlights how these habits build resilience, support community, and transcend cultural boundaries, ultimately inviting listeners to recognize and receive God's gifts more intentionally.
Episode Resources:
Download Steve Cussâs Life Giving List
Steve Cussâs Managing Leadership Anxiety
G.K. Chestertonâs Orthodoxy
Zephaniah 3:17 (ESV)Â
More From Clarissa Moll:
Explore Clarissa Mollâs website
Read Clarissa Mollâs substack
Sign up for Steveâs Newsletter & Podcast Reminders
Capable Life Newsletter
Get the Assets & Liabilities pdf and the Life Giving List
Join Steve at an Upcoming Intensive
Capable Life Intensives
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Steve & Lisa Cuss: Parenting and Healing From Generational Patterns with Dr. Lee Warren, Clarissa Moll, and Judson & Ryan Poling
Monday, May 25, 2026 ⢠Duration 41:33
In this episode of Being Human with Steve and Lisa Cuss, we recap the current series on family of origin, exploring how inherited patterns shape us spiritually and emotionally. Brain surgeon Dr. Lee Warren explains neuroplasticity and synaptic pruning, showing how early experiences wire the brain. Father-son duo Judson and Ryan Poling share their journey of breaking generational cycles, while Clarissa Moll discusses family roles and how upbringing shapes our view of God. Steve and Lisa weave in attachment theory, genograms, and parenting insights, offering a blend of neuroscience, personal storytelling, and faith-based wisdom to guide listeners toward healing and transformation.
Episode Resources:
Genograms in Practice Explainer (pdf)
Learn more about Attachment Theory
Listen to Prayer, Neuroscience, and the Presence of God with Strahan Coleman
More From Clarissa Moll:
Explore Clarissa Mollâs website
Read Clarissa Mollâs substack
More From Dr. Lee Warren:
Dr. Lee Warrenâs The Life Changing Art of Self Brain Surgery
Listen to The Dr. Lee Warren Podcast
More From Judson & Ryan Poling:
Books by Judson Poling
Redwood Psychology
Judson Polingâs articles at The Crucible Project
Sign up for Steveâs Newsletter & Podcast Reminders:
Capable Life Newsletter
Get the Communication Styles Guide
https://capablelife.com/pages/podcast
Join Steve at an Upcoming Intensive
Capable Life Intensives
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Judson and Ryan Poling Share Their Father & Son Journey Through Masculinity, Emotions, and Faith
Monday, May 18, 2026 ⢠Duration 51:14
In this episode of Being Human with Steve Cuss, father and son Judson Poling, Ryan Poling explore masculinity, emotional health, and generational patterns. Judson, a Christian author and men's ministry leader, and Ryan, a clinical psychologist specializing in male identity, discuss why men struggle to access and express emotions, the socialization behind emotional suppression, and how unresolved family-of-origin patterns are passed down. They share personal reflections on their own relationship, including inherited strengths and liabilities, and emphasize that healing happens in community.
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Dr. Lee Warren on Using Neuroscience and Scripture to Rewire Your Brain
Monday, May 11, 2026 ⢠Duration 45:33
In this episode of Being Human, host Steve Cuss welcomes Dr. Lee Warren, neurosurgeon and author of The Life Changing Art of Self Brain Surgery. Drawing from his experiences as a military surgeon in Iraq and the devastating loss of his son, Dr. Warren explains how functional MRI technology revealed the profound mind-brain-body connection. He discusses how intentionally choosing our thoughts can literally restructure the brainâwhat he calls "self brain surgery"âand how concepts like selective attention and gratitude offer genuine agency over emotional suffering. The conversation also explores how deeply ingrained family patterns shape our thinking and faith.
Episode Resources:
Dr. Lee Warrenâs The Life Changing Art of Self Brain Surgery
Philippians 4:8 (ESV)
Gabor MatĂŠâs The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic CultureÂ
Functional MRI explainer
More From Dr. Lee Warren:
Listen to The Dr. Lee Warren Podcast
Dr. Warrenâs website
Dr. Warrenâs No Place to Hide
Dr. Warrenâs Hope Is the First Dose
Dr. Warrenâs I've Seen the End of You
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How Do Family Roles Shape Our Faith and Freedom? with Clarissa Moll & Steve Cuss
Monday, May 4, 2026 ⢠Duration 27:27
In this episode of Being Human with Steve Cuss, host Steve Cuss and Clarissa Moll explore how family of origin shapes behavior, workplace dynamics, and faith. They discuss family roles, birth order, triangulation, and unspoken emotional rules, examining how these patterns follow us into adulthood. Steve shares personal reflections on suppressing emotions and struggling to grieve, while Clarissa draws from her experience as a widowed parent. Together, they offer practical guidance on identifying triggers, finding trusted support, and using boundaries to pursue healing and freedom in Christ.
Episode Resources:
Genograms in Practice Explainer (pdf)
Pete Scazzeroâs Emotionally Healthy Spirituality
Biography of Murray BowenÂ
Family Systems Theoryâs Eight Concepts
Circle of Permitted Emotions
More From Clarissa Moll:
Clarissa Mollâs The Bulletin podcast
Explore Clarissa Mollâs website
Read Clarissa Mollâs substack
Sign up for Steveâs Newsletter & Podcast Reminders:
Capable Life Newsletter
Get the Communication Styles Guide:
https://capablelife.com/pages/podcast
Join Steve at an Upcoming Intensive:Â
Capable Life Intensives
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Steve & Lisa Cuss: Shame, Sexual Abuse, and Gaslighting with Christine Caine & Yana Jenay Conner
Monday, April 27, 2026 ⢠Duration 48:38
In this episode of Being Human with Steve Cuss, hosts Steve and Lisa Cuss explore how upbringing shapes relationship dynamics, feelings of shame, and our faith. Guest Christine Caine shares her powerful journey through adoption trauma, childhood sexual abuse, and healing. Bible scholar Yana Jenay Conner reframes Jesus' "turn the other cheek" teaching as a dignified response to dehumanization. Steve and Lisa also address gaslighting and its impact on trust. Throughout, the episode emphasizes that family of origin work isn't about blame, but about pursuing healing, forgiveness, and flourishing rooted in God's transformative love.
Episode Resources:
Yana Jenay Connerâs Living Beyond Offence: Finding the Shalom of Jesus on the Path to Forgiveness
Christine Cainâs The Faith to Flourish: God's Design for a Rooted, Resilient, and Fruitful Life
More From Christine and Yanna:
Other books by Christine Caine
Christine Caineâs website
Yana Jenay Connerâs website
Yana Jenay Connerâs podcast â Living Single with Yana Jenayâ
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Beyond Offense: Unpacking Forgiveness, Conflict, and Identity with Yana Jenay Conner
Monday, April 20, 2026 ⢠Duration 49:57
In this episode of Being Human, host Steve Cus sits down with Yana Jenay Conner, author of Living Beyond Offence: Finding the Shalom of Jesus on the Path to Forgiveness. They explore practical forgiveness, family of origin influences, and conflict avoidance. Yana shares insights on "turning the other cheek," the difference between hurt and harm, and setting boundaries the Jesus way. She also reflects personally on trust issues, self-reliance, and the challenge of praying for herselfârevealing how childhood experiences shape our relationships with others and with God.
Episode Resources:
Yana Jenay Connerâs Living Beyond a Fence: Finding the Shalom of Jesus on the Path to Forgiveness
Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsendâs Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life
Check out The Bible Project
Psalm 139 (ESV)
More From Yana:
Yana Jenay Connerâs website
Yana Jenay Connerâs podcast â Living Single with Yana Jenayâ
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Christine Caine Shares Her Adoption Story, Abuse Recovery, and Faith to Flourish
Monday, April 13, 2026 ⢠Duration 51:50
In this episode of Being Human, Steve Cuss talks with Christine Caineâspeaker, bestselling author, and co-founder of A21âabout her adoption story, childhood trauma, emotional healing, and identity in Christ. Christine shares how she discovered at age 33 that she was adopted, how she began healing from childhood sexual abuse, and how Scripture memorization helped renew her mind and strengthen her faith. She also reflects on the role of mentors Alan and Deb Hirsch in her recovery and discusses her book, The Faith to Flourish, explaining how the olive tree reveals Godâs design for a rooted, resilient, and fruitful lifeâeven in hardship. This conversation explores family of origin, Christian healing, resilience, and what it means to flourish in faith.
Episode Resources:
Christine Cainâs The Faith to Flourish: God's Design for a Rooted, Resilient, and Fruitful Life
Dan Allenderâs The Wounded Heart: Hope for Adult Victims of Childhood Sexual Abuse
More about Alan and Deb Hirsch
More From Christine Caine:
Other books by Christine Caine
Christine Caineâs website
Sign up for Steveâs Newsletter & Podcast Reminders:
Capable Life Newsletter
Get the Communication Styles Guide:
https://capablelife.com/pages/podcast
Join Steve at an Upcoming Intensive:Â
Capable Life Intensives
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Why Family Patterns Still Run Your Life with Steve Cuss & Clarissa Moll
Monday, April 6, 2026 ⢠Duration 25:50
In this episode of Being Human, host Steve Cuss and monthly guest Clarissa Moll from The Bulletin explore how family-of-origin dynamics shape individuals' relationships with themselves, others, and God. Drawing on family systems theory, they discuss how families function as interconnected systems where dysfunction is shared rather than isolated. They introduce the genogram as a tool for mapping generational patterns, values, and beliefs. Emphasizing curiosity and kindness over blame, they encourage listeners to examine inherited "family propaganda" and discern how it alignsâor conflictsâwith their Christian faith.
Episode Resources:
Genograms in Practice Explainer (pdf)
Pete Scazzeroâs Emotionally Healthy Spirituality
Biography of Murray BowenÂ
Family Systems Theoryâs Eight Concepts
Scripture referenced:
Genesis 28 (ESV)
Luke 24 (ESV)
Exodus 20:5â6 (ESV)
Jeremiah 31:29 (ESV)
Genesis 25â27 (ESV)
More From Clarissa Moll:
Clarissa Mollâs The Bulletin podcast
Explore Clarissa Mollâs website
Read Clarissa Mollâs substack
Sign up for Steveâs Newsletter & Podcast Reminders:
Capable Life Newsletter
Get the Communication Styles Guide:
https://capablelife.com/pages/podcast
Join Steve at an Upcoming Intensive:Â
Capable Life Intensives
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Steve & Lisa Cuss: Trauma, Thought Loops, and the Lies You Inherited with Shane J. Wood, Justin Heap, and Dr. Craig Mattson
Monday, March 30, 2026 ⢠Duration 42:52
In this episode of Being Human with Steve Cuss, Steve and Lisa do a raw, provocative deeper dive into the current âfamily of originâ series. They feature standout insights from Shane Wood, Dr. Craig Mattson, and Justin Heap on trauma, Revelation, social media, marriage loops, and the inherited, subconscious beliefs secretly shaping your relationships with yourself, others, and God. The second half of this episode explores childhood wounds and abuse that remained buried for decades. There is definitely a hidden cost of unresolved painâmaking it a must-listen for anyone exploring the Christian mental health space, family systems therapy, emotional healing, and faith-based relationship advice.Â
Episode Resources:
Dr. Mattsonâs Digital Overwhelm: A Mid-Career Guide to Coping at Work
Substack: Shane J. Wood: Letters from the Desert
Shane J. Woodâs website
Shane J. Woodâs Between Two Trees: Our Transformation from Death to Life
Justinâs Nine Spaces Enneagram Coaching
Justinâs Lines & Spaces podcast
Read Justinâs book By & By & Never: Poetry & Art
Being Human episode: âAre You Carrying Your Family's Emotional Baggage? with Steve & Lisa Cussâ
Sign up for Steveâs Newsletter & Podcast Reminders:
Capable Life Newsletter
Get the Communication Styles Guide:
https://capablelife.com/pages/podcast
Join Steve at an Upcoming Intensive:Â
Capable Life Intensives
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