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In this episode of Becoming You - The Podcast, John Fleming sits down with Moira Geary, also known as The Recombobulator, to explore the hidden impact of limiting beliefs, how they shape our thoughts, and how we can begin to break free from them. 

Moira shares her personal journey of self-discovery, from struggling with anxiety and fear of rejection to understanding the subconscious patterns that held her back. Through deep self-work and neuroscience-backed techniques, she learned how to reprogram her thinking and now helps others do the same.

This conversation is raw, insightful, and deeply practical, offering you tools and perspectives to begin shifting the beliefs that limit them.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

• Moira’s personal journey – How she overcame years of anxiety, fear of rejection, and self-doubt
• What are limiting beliefs, and how do they form? 
• How do our past experiences shape the way we see ourselves? 
• The role of language and self-talk in shaping our identity – How small shifts in how we speak to ourselves can transform our reality
• How to tell the difference between ego-driven decisions and intuitive choices
• Practical techniques to rewire limiting beliefs

Moira’s insights are refreshingly real and deeply transformative, offering a powerful perspective to overcoming the beliefs that keep us stuck.

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Visit her website: https://www.moirageary.com/

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Download Your Free Self Led Workbook: https://www.becomingyou.ie/#workbook

Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast represents the personal experiences, opinions, and insights of the host, guests, and contributors. It is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, whether medical, psychological, therapeutic, legal, or financial.

If you are experiencing mental health challenges, emotional distress, or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek guidance from a qualified professional or relevant support services.

Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast represents the personal experiences, opinions, and insights of the host, guests, and contributors. It is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, whether medical, psychological, therapeutic, legal, or financial.

If you are experiencing mental health challenges, emotional distress, or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek guidance from a qualified professional or relevant support services.

In this very first episode of Becoming You - The Podcast, host John Fleming sits down for a deeply personal and reflective conversation with his colleague Jayne Morris to explore what it really means to become yourself.

This episode sets the foundation for what Becoming You is all about - a space for open, honest, and raw discussions on identity, authenticity, and personal transformation. 

John shares the pivotal moments that shaped his journey, how he navigated self-doubt and societal expectations, and why this podcast is an extension of his lifelong passion for supporting others in their own path of becoming.

In this episode, John and Jayne explore:

• The deeply personal origins of Becoming You and why John felt called to create this space
• What it truly means to become yourself and why this journey is different for everyone
• Moments that shaped John’s identity, including a pivotal childhood experience and moments of self-awareness
• The role of different healing modalities - therapy, coaching, holistic practices - and why no single approach works for everyone
• The vision for the podcast and what to expect this season

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Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast represents the personal experiences, opinions, and insights of the host, guests, and contributors. It is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, whether medical, psychological, therapeutic, legal, or financial.

If you are experiencing mental health challenges, emotional distress, or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek guidance publicly via the primary or emergency healthcare services in your area or privately from an appropriate qualified professional or relevant support service.

Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast represents the personal experiences, opinions, and insights of the host, guests, and contributors. It is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, whether medical, psychological, therapeutic, legal, or financial.

If you are experiencing mental health challenges, emotional distress, or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek guidance from a qualified professional or relevant support services.

Welcome to Becoming You - The Podcast with John Fleming.

A podcast about uncovering, embracing, and being your authentic self.

Hosted by John Fleming, founder and lead practitioner of Becoming You, this podcast is a space for open, honest, and raw conversations about identity, self-discovery, and personal transformation.

Each episode will dive into deep conversations about identity and authenticity. 

In season one, expect personal stories and lived experiences from guests on their own journeys of becoming, as well as insights from professionals who guide others through transformation. 

The podcast takes a holistic approach, integrating mind, body, heart, and spirit to support lasting change.

The podcast is launching on March 22nd 2025.

New episodes drop every Saturday, so if you would like to join the journey, make sure to click follow on your favourite streaming platform so you know when we release an episode.

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For questions, feedback, or to share your story, email john@becomingyou.ie

Visit the website at www.becomingyou.ie

Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast represents the personal experiences, opinions, and insights of the host, guests, and contributors. It is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, whether medical, psychological, therapeutic, legal, or financial.

If you are experiencing mental health challenges, emotional distress, or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek guidance from a qualified professional or relevant support services.

In this episode of Becoming You – The Podcast, John Fleming welcomes Dr. Luke Beardon, senior lecturer at Sheffield Hallam University. 

Luke has worked for over three decades in the autism field. He is an advocate of autistic individuals’ rights and seeks to redress inequalities often faced by the autistic community. He has published several books on autism and has won several autism - related awards.

Together, they explore what it really means to support neurodivergent people - not by trying to fix them, but by changing the systems, expectations, and environments that get in their way.

Luke shares how his own journey began as a child when he first realised that adults - even those closest to us - don’t always know what’s right for you. Since then, his work has centred around challenging the assumption that neurodivergent people need to change or be “fixed” - and instead focusing on creating environments where people can be exactly who they are.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

• The childhood moment that sparked Luke’s questioning of normative behaviour
• What masking means and why people do it
• What “autistic courtesy” means and how we can use it to create more inclusive spaces
• How environments - not individuals - are often the biggest barrier to inclusion
• The importance of lived experience and participatory research, especially in autism studies

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Connect with our guest Dr. Luke Beardon: https://www.shu.ac.uk/about-us/our-people/staff-profiles/luke-beardon#firstSection

Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast represents the personal experiences, opinions, and insights of the host, guests, and contributors. It is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, whether medical, psychological, therapeutic, legal, or financial.

If you are experiencing mental health challenges, emotional distress, or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek guidance from a qualified professional or relevant support services.

In this episode of Becoming You – The Podcast, John Fleming welcomes Martin Duffy, shamanic practitioner, psychotherapist, and founder of The Irish Centre for Shamanic Studies, for a moving and expansive conversation about healing, soul retrieval, and what it means to truly come home to yourself.

"People are now waking up to the idea that they need to take on their own spiritual autonomy and that there's more to life than the simulated reality that we see in our digital world nowadays."

Martin shares how his own journey led him away from the psychiatric system, where he spent over 35 years as a nurse, into the world of counselling, psychology, shamanic practice, and ancestral wisdom. 

In a world that’s becoming louder, faster, and more disconnected, this episode is an invitation to return to something deeper.

Together, John and Martin explore what it means to feel fully alive, and how healing can be found not through fixing, but through deep listening - to our dreams, our bodies, our memories, and the earth beneath our feet.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

• Why Martin left psychiatric nursing - and what he learned by stepping outside the medical model
• What shamanism, soul loss and soul retrieval mean in the context of trauma, grief, and identity
• How we can reconnect with the parts of ourselves that were lost through pain or disconnection
• The role of dreams, spirit guides, and ancestors in personal and collective healing
• Martin’s thoughts about technology, AI, and digital overload - and the invitation to return to body, earth, and soul

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Connect with Martin Duffy and Shamanism Ireland

Shamanism Ireland Website: https://www.shamanismireland.com/

Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/shamanism_courses/

Would you like to explore the idea of uncovering, embracing and being your true self?

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If you are experiencing mental health challenges, emotional distress, or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek guidance from a qualified professional or relevant support services.

In this episode of Becoming You – The Podcast, John Fleming speaks with Jayne Morris, a burnout coach, psychotherapist, and author, who shares the deeply personal story of how burnout became the turning point in her life - and the start of her own becoming.

Jayne reflects on how this pursuit of endless self-improvement, coupled with masking, people-pleasing, and societal expectations, left her physically, emotionally, and spiritually depleted.

Her burnout became a pivotal moment that eventually allowed her to reimagine success, reclaim her creativity, and begin to live in alignment with her truest self.

John and Jayne reflect on rest as a radical act, how burnout relates to identity suppression, and why we need to challenge the systems and beliefs that keep us stuck in cycles of overextension.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

• Jayne’s own experience with burnout and how it became the catalyst for reconnecting with her values and true identity.
• How people-pleasing, perfectionism, and striving to prove herself contributed to her burnout.
• How the inner critic and unconscious beliefs slowly chip away at identity.
• Why rest isn’t a luxury - but a fundamental part of wellbeing.
• How systems that reward constant output and hustle culture quietly lead us to burnout

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John would love to hear from you! If this episode resonated with you, send an email to john@becomingyou.ie

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Connect with Jayne Morris

Website: https://www.jaynemorris.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/burnouttobrilliance/

Would you like to explore the idea of uncovering, embracing and being your true self?

Download your free self led workbook: https://www.becomingyou.ie/#workbook

Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast represents the personal experiences, opinions, and insights of the host, guests, and contributors. It is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, whether medical, psychological, therapeutic, legal, or financial.

If you are experiencing mental health challenges, emotional distress, or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek guidance from a qualified professional or relevant support services.

Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast represents the personal experiences, opinions, and insights of the host, guests, and contributors. It is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, whether medical, psychological, therapeutic, legal, or financial.

If you are experiencing mental health challenges, emotional distress, or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek guidance from a qualified professional or relevant support services.

In this episode of Becoming You - The Podcast, John Fleming sits down with Viv Grant, a coach and director of Integrity Coaching, to explore the deeply personal moments that forced her to redefine her identity and the impact of race on her own journey to becoming.

From sadly losing her mother to facing her own diagnosis, Viv opens up about life events that asked her to challenge her old ideas of achievement and identity. She also speaks about the impact of race on her journey and what it really means to build a life that is yours.

Viv also shares her perspective on soul activism - what it means, why it matters, and how it ties into her own becoming.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

• How her mother’s passing and her own diagnosis reshaped her sense of self
• Viv’s personal story to discovering what truly matters
• The relationship between race and identity in the journey of self-discovery
• What soul activism means to Viv and how it shapes her work

Whether you’re curious or just beginning to question the role of race in the identity process, this episode will give you the insights to start shifting your perspective.

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Share Your Story:

John would love to hear from you! If this episode resonated with you, send an email to john@becomingyou.ie

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Would you like to explore the idea of uncovering, embracing and being your true self?

Download your free self led workbook: https://www.becomingyou.ie/#workbook

Connect with Viv Grant

Website: https://www.integritycoaching.co.uk

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/Integritycoaching

Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast represents the personal experiences, opinions, and insights of the host, guests, and contributors. It is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, whether medical, psychological, therapeutic, legal, or financial.

If you are experiencing mental health challenges, emotional distress, or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek guidance from a qualified professional or relevant support services.

Content Advice: This episode contains discussions about race, grief, and illness, including personal experiences of losing a loved one and facing a cancer diagnosis. This conversation is shared with deep care and honesty, and we acknowledge it may be challenging for some listeners.

Disclaimer: The content shared in this podcast represents the personal experiences, opinions, and insights of the host, guests, and contributors. It is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, whether medical, psychological, therapeutic, legal, or financial.

If you are experiencing mental health challenges, emotional distress, or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek guidance from a qualified professional or relevant support services.