We live in the midst of the supernatural, and sometimes that can be rather scary. The good news of Scripture is we don’t have to fear the spiritual battle, because we have the power to win it. While there is an enemy trying to defeat us, we know that Jesus has already defeated him!

Life can be really hard for young adults today. Things like college debt and housing costs have created a negative vibe around an entire generation. In this episode we talk through how to handle these difficult life situations!

In this episode we talk to song writer and worship leader, Brett Younker, about the heart behind the song “The Lord Will Provide”. God has promised us that He’ll care for us, but how can we learn to trust Him? Brett shares about how and why the song has impacted young adults all over the world. 

One of the lies the enemy will try to get you to believe is that you aren’t good enough for God. When we sin, the worst thing you can do is stay where you are. God always wants you to come near and he’s eager to free you from shame.

Saying the thing you know you need to say can be really really hard. In this episode we talk about the importance of honesty and how to communicate the truth in love. If you’re looking for deeper, more authentic relationships this episode is for you!

We all have a soundtrack in our head of the things we tell ourselves. It’s vital for us to realize whether the soundtrack in our mind is giving us the truth or feeding us lies. In Jon’s new book he helps us remove and replace lies with the truth! Order his new book here:

https://acuff.me/playlist/

In this week’s episode we talk to legendary Christian artist, Matthew West. We discuss what he’s learned about God’s character through some of the hardest moments of his life. We also talk about the balance of performing for a living, while never wanting your life with Jesus to feel like a “performance”. Grab Matthew’s new book “The God Who Stays” here: https://www.amazon.com/God-Who-Stays-Looks-Different/dp/0785291628

The more you follow Jesus, the easier it can be to feel like you have it figured out. I mean what does it really matter if we miss a day or two (or a week) in the Bible or prayer? In this episode we talk about the necessity of time with Jesus and what it can look like. It’s essential for both for the new follower of Jesus and for the one who has known Him their whole life!

Your young adult years are filled with decisions that feel overwhelming. Everything from who should I marry, to where should I live, to what should I pursue as a career. Sometimes making a decision just feels crippling. In this episode we talk through fear of commitment and how to be more decisive!

Nate Hilgenkamp:
We know that Jesus calls us to forgive, but sometimes forgiveness can be really really hard. In this episode we talk through the process of forgiveness and how you can begin to take steps forward. We also talk through appropriate boundaries after forgiveness has taken place.

The songs you listen to and the shows you watch affect you more than you realize. That’s why it’s so important for us to pay attention to what we pay attention to. In this episode we talk about what you should or shouldn’t consume in regards to media.

Our greatest disappointments in life come from our miss expectations. The problem for many young adults is that their life doesn't go how they expected. In this episode we talk about the life you should want to live, and how to find contentment in any circumstance.

What should you do when the people around you only seem to make you worse? Is it ok to ever cut off a relationship? In this episode we help you make hard decisions and enter into hard conversations. If you’re looking for how to handle a tough friendship this episode is for you!

In this episode we talk through all you need to find out before you say “I do”. How can you determine if your boyfriend or girlfriend is really the one you should spend the rest of your life with? If you need help discerning, don’t miss this episode!”

We’ve heard a lot of you ask about things like manifestation and crystals. In this episode we talk about what they are, and if believers in Jesus should participate. If you’ve ever wondered if these things have power, check out this episode!

In this episode we tackle one of the most asked questions on dating. How important is physical attraction? If you’re looking for a spouse we talk about the role of attraction in marriage and how important it should be in your search!

Since the pandemic have you been feeling more irritable? Tired? Angry? It’s because we’ve all been through a lot! In this episode, we talk to author John Eldredge about how to build up our reserves so we can become more resilient. To get his new book follow this link:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09N8XS7Y4/ref=dbs_a_def_awm_bibl_vppi_i0

If God is good, why should I fear him? In this episode we talk about why Scripture says we should fear Him, and why it’s actually for our good. If you e ever struggled with this question, this episode is for you!

We live in a culture where absolute truth is absolutely evaporating. It is widely accepted that everyone has their own truth based on their life experiences. In this episode we talk about what Scripture has to say and how we can know what really is true.

Andy Crouch is an author and commentator on our culture through the lens of a Jesus follower. He specifically has written a game changing book called “The Tech Wise Family”, and we’re confident this book will have a similar impact. In this episode we talk about the importance of community and how technology has changed our relationships. To order Andy’s new book, click here:

https://www.amazon.com/Life-Were-Looking-Relationship-Technological/dp/059323734X/ref=asc_df_059323734X_nodl?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=533224334354&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=12889298266385288890&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9027505&hvtargid=pla-1467486165035&psc=1&dplnkId=586e9918-a9c6-4587-9596-9eee6dc80e6e

Is God mad at you every time you sin? Many of us feel like God puts up with us rather than actually loving us. In this episode we do our best to clarify who God is and what his intentions are towards you!

How can you tell if you are hearing from God or if it’s just a voice in your head? Is he telling you who to date and you just can’t hear him? Is he telling you where to live but you’re ignoring him? If you’re looking to discern the voice of God in your life, check out this episode!

What’s the right thing to do once you’ve been cheated on? Should you extend grace or immediately break things off? We talk through what it means to be cheated on, and how you can best respond. If you’ve been cheated on, or are looking to help a friend in this situation, this podcast will be helpful for you!

In this week’s episode we talk to Scott Harrison, author and founder of charity: water. Scott is an amazing example of how Jesus can take your mess and turn it into a ministry. He went from nightclub promoter, to the founder of one of the most well known charities in America. To hear more, check out this episode or buy Scott’s book at this link:

https://www.amazon.com/Thirst-Story-Redemption-Compassion-Mission/dp/1524762849/ref=asc_df_1524762849/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312143020546&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=4836135109016590742&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1026867&hvtargid=pla-526985540295&psc=1

On this episode we get to talk to the author of “Becoming Happy & Healthy”, Jeanine Amapola. She shares about times in her life where she didn’t have healthy habits, and what allowed her to find better ones. If you want to take a step into the abundant life has for you, check out this episode and pick up her book here: https://a.co/d/fvsbGvq

In this episode we talk to New York Times Best Selling author, Lisa Bevere about how her perception of God has changed over the course of her life. We discuss how our perception of God affects how we live our lives. We also talk about how to hear from God. To pick up her new book “Fiercely Loved” follow this link:

https://www.amazon.com/Fiercely-Loved-Gods-Thoughts-about/dp/0800741706

We asked our audience at BeSo Live what topic they wanted to hear and this is what the voted on for session 2! In this episode we talk about how to break the cycle of sin in your family. If you’re looking to start fresh from hurts/sins in your family’s past, check out this episode!

Many of you follow JP's Friday Q&A on Instagram but our BeSo Live participants got to ask him questions in person! In this episode, JP covers a wide range of topics and answers the questions that young adults are asking. We hope you enjoyed this as much as we did!

This week’s episode was our first recording from Becoming Something Live in Waco, TX. We let the audience decide what they wanted to hear and they chose contentment. In this episode we cover what it means to be content in your young adult years. If you’re struggling in your career, finances, singleness, or anything else this episode is for you!

One of the most uncomfortable conversations in a dating relationship is when your significant other asks about your past. In this episode we help you think through what to say and how to say it. We also try to help you figure out what you should know from your boyfriend or girlfriend before you marry them. We hope this will help you!

Do you know that Jesus said not all sins can be forgiven? There is one sin that actually cannot be forgiven. In this episode we help you figure out if you’ve committed it. Check out this episode for an in depth explanation!

Don't like your job? You're not alone! Many of us have a job, but don't know why we do it other than to get a paycheck. In this episode we talk about why we work, and how to find purpose in your work. You've got a job to do, so let us help you enjoy it!

When it comes to work, your attitude is everything. In this episode we do our best to give you a biblical perspective on work. You’ve got a purpose whether you’re scooping ice cream or preaching to thousands!

One of the most frequent questions on JP’s Friday Q&A is about masturbation. Is it a sin? And if so, what’s the big deal about it? Why does masturbation affect your relationships? And how can you stop? We cover all of that and more in this week’s episode!

So often in the church world, we form our own Christian bubbles where we don’t have to talk with anyone we disagree with. In this episode, we talk with the founder of The New Evangelicals who recently publicly disagreed with one of our previous podcasts. We reached out to him to have a conversation to show how we can talk through our disagreements.

Our conversation went a little longer than normal so we trimmed this episode for time. To listen to the full un-edited version visit our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz85jke2lw0mZrI4e7vjg3g

This week, we talk with Willie Robertson about the joy of sharing the gospel. Talking about Jesus doesn’t have to feel difficult! Willie gives us motivation to share about the most important thing in our life! Pick up his book “Gospeler” here: https://www.amazon.com/Gospeler-Turning-Darkness-Light-Conversation/dp/1400338484

You may not even realize it, but you act as your own brand manager. What that means is you’re in charge of what other people think about you! For many of us, this is crippling because we care deeply about what other people think of us. In this episode we talk about how you can be freed from your need to be perceived a certain way!

One of JP’s all time favorite quotes is, “If dependence is the goal, then weakness is the advantage.” On this week’s episode we talk about why dependence is the goal of our faith and what it practically looks like to be dependent. Don’t let your self-reliance get in the way of a growing faith!

In this week's episode we talk to Jennie Allen, New York Times bestselling author and founder of IF:Gathering, about our need for community. So many of feeling lonely and without community. In Jennie's new book "Find Your People", she explains why community is so important and how you can find your own. This was such a helpful conversation! To order "Find Your People", follow this link: https://www.amazon.com/Find-Your-People-Building-Community/dp/0593193385/ref=asc_df_0593193385/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=532476049386&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=761845783548781472&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1026867&hvtargid=pla-1459058127287&psc=1

The way we date isn’t working. People are getting married later and getting divorced more often. In this episode we talk about some improvements we can make to the way we date that will impact the health of our relationships. If you’re looking for dating help, look no further!

In this week's episode we talk about the margin in our lives and the busyness of our schedule. We often hide behind our busyness while putting our faith on pause. To hear how that might impact your life, take a listen to this episode!

“Deconstruction” is a buzzword in many Christian circles and we’re here to tell you the potential opportunities and dangers that can be found in deconstruction. If you’re going through a season of doubt or questioning, check out this podcast for a helpful resource!

Helpful resources mentioned in this weeks episode:

becomingsomething.com
gotquestions.org
carm.org
probe.org
bibleproject.org

In this week's episode we talk about the mathematics of following Jesus. What does that mean you ask? Every year, JP subtracts something from his life so that it might add to his faith. To hear how that might impact your life, take a listen to this episode!

Every single day of your life there is a battle for your mind, and we want to make sure you win it. The narrative that the media and social media gives you is rarely the good or godly narrative. In this episode, we do our best to equip you with the tools needed to keep yourself from conforming to the thoughts of this world.

This week we talk to Kyle Idleman who is the Senior Pastor at Southeast Christian Church. We talk with him about what it actually means to influence people. He just released a brand new book called "One at a Time". Pick up the book here: https://www.amazon.com/One-Time-Unexpected-Wants-Change-ebook/dp/B09B2PLJRZ

In this week's episode we compile a lot of listener's questions on sex and give you our answers! If you're looking for an honest conversation on what to expect with sex, check out this episode!

Maybe you’ve heard someone say that they “heard from God”. What does that mean? And is that even possible? Today we talk with our friend Grant Troutt on how to tune your ears to hear God’s voice!

In this week's episode we talk to the one and only Jackie Hill Perry about the topic of holiness. She wrote a brand new book on this topic and we had a great conversation about the character of God, the importance of Scripture, and how holiness is a better way to live. Get her book "Holier Than Thou" here: https://www.amazon.com/Holier-Than-Thou-Holiness-Helps/dp/1535975717/ref=asc_df_1535975717/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=509467422400&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=1380342126140334084&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1026867&hvtargid=pla-1249227234888&psc=1

This episode comes out the week of Christmas, and for many listeners Christmas means lots and lots of family time. We address what that time should look like when family time typically means conflict. We discuss forgiveness, boundaries, and making the most of time with family.

In this week's episode we talk about whether or not Christians can or should drink alcohol. Is it a sin to be tipsy? Is it a sin to drink around non-Christians? Find out the answers on this episode! (disclaimer: we exchanged gifts at the beginning. If you are just looking for the content on this topic skip ahead to 15:30)