Beauty and the Gi: Gripping Conversations about Jiu-Jitsu and Life – Details, episodes & analysis

Have you ever reached a goal, only to skip the celebration and immediately focus on what's next? We are challenging you to slow down and revel in even your small Jiu-Jitsu accomplishments.

Jiu-Jitsu is hard. There are days when just getting on the mat is a victory. We’re using AJ's recent experience at Pans as an example of what to celebrate and why.

It’s about more than just getting your hand raised; it's about acknowledging personal growth and improved performance. Whether you've executed a flying armbar or just showed up on a day you didn't feel like it, celebrating those victories can reshape your mindset entirely.

Learn which rule violations AJ saw most at the recent IBJJF Pans tournament.

Chapters

(00:00) Finding a win to celebrate

(01:00) AJ’s experience at Pans

(04:14) Submission preferences

(05:23) Celebrating small Jiu-Jitsu wins

(15:38) Celebrating Roll Model Week

(17:09) IBJJF Federation Rules - making weight and gi size

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AJ on Instagram @ajclingerman

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Recording, Theme Music, Editing, and Production of this podcast by Jen at The Brassy Broadcasting Company

Disclaimer: The Beauty and the Gi podcast and content posted by Beauty and the Gi is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

Feeling like you're trapped under a mountain of pressure both on and off the mats? Ever wondered what to do when you're wrestling with exhaustion, frustration, and a whirlwind of self-doubt?

We’re here to help you navigate those rollercoaster days when Jiu-Jitsu imitates life just a little too well.

Imagine walking into a class, already battling the heavyweight pressures of life, only to face the physical might of super heavyweights on the mats. Do you tap out, or do you find a way to roll through it?

How do you leave the baggage at the door and make Jiu-Jitsu your enchanting two-hour vacation from life? We've got practical tools for reframing mindsets, energizing playlists to build you up, and maybe even some tips for crying it out mid-roll.

This episode has something for everyone grappling with the ups and downs of Jiu-Jitsu.

Chapters

(00:00) Do You Ever Feel This Way During Class?

(01:24) Taking Breaks and Knowing Your Limits

(03:16) How to shift your cranky mindset BEFORE Jiu-Jitsu class

(10:57) Coping strategies when you’re having a rough round

(13:48) Conserving energy and flow rolling

(16:26) How to reframe negative thoughts

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Jen on Instagram @brassybroadjen

Jen on TikTok @brassybroadjen

AJ on Instagram @ajclingerman

AJ on TikTok @roll_model rollmodelhq 

on Instagram @BeautyAndTheGi

Links and Resources

Recording, Theme Music, Editing, and Production of this podcast by Jen at The Brassy Broadcasting Company

Disclaimer: The Beauty and the Gi podcast and content posted by Beauty and the Gi is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

How important is your Jiu-Jitsu community? On a bad day, it might be the one thing that gets you to come back. On a good day, your teammates are there to cheer you on and celebrate your victories.

Community forms the backbone of our Jiu Jitsu journey, whether it's the encouragement from a favorite training partner or the magnetic pull of the friendships we've formed along the way.

This episode is packed with actionable advice on building and sustaining community, whether it’s being intentional about welcoming newcomers, hosting out-of-gym activities, or encouraging people to reach out when they haven’t seen a training buddy in a while.

So, if you're curious about how to create or enrich your Jiu-Jitsu community, or if you need a boost to get you back on the mat, this episode is one you don’t want to miss. 

And if we haven’t met yet, know that we’re glad you’re here.

Welcome to the Beauty and the Gi community!

Chapters

(00:00) The power of your Jiu-Jitsu community (04:58) Growing the Roll Model Community (07:07) How to create a welcoming environment (08:46) Strengthening your gym community off the mat (14:09) How to build your community when you’re an introvert  (17:59) How to get the kids parents to start training (25:11) Shoutouts to some of our Roll Model community members

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Learn More about Roll Model Grappling Camp

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Roll Model Radio Podcast

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Connect with Jen and AJ

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AJ on Instagram @ajclingerman

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Links and Resources

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Starting Women's Jiu-Jitsu Program epiosode

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Recording, Theme Music, Editing, and Production of this podcast by Jen at The Brassy Broadcasting Company

Disclaimer: The Beauty and the Gi podcast and content posted by Beauty and the Gi is presented solely for general informational, educational, and entertainment purposes. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have and should seek the assistance of their healthcare professionals for any such conditions.

We are revisiting some of our highlights and takeaways from Roll Model Camp 2021.

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Jiu-Jitsu Links and Resources

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We are visiting the Beauty and the Gi vault for this episode!

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Darion Murdock is a blue belt and occupational therapy assistant. She will be leading the Injury Prevention 101 workshop at this year’s Roll Model Grappling Camp.

Connect with Darion on Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/missdeebjj/

Women’s Healthy Living Club

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BJJ Black Belt and Founder of Conscious Kitchen LLC Sarah Block joins us to talk about eating healthy and jiu-jitsu.

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Sean Patrick Flanery is talking to us about making Born a Champion, his movie about Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. He shares some great on and off the mat wisdom as we wrap up the episode.

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Even though we compete individually, Jiu-Jitsu is really a team sport. This episode is packed with ways you can show up and support your teammates.

Roll Model Radio - AJ’s new podcast

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The UkuDaily Dispatch - Jen’s new podcast

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Torrie O'neil and Jessica Sunier discuss creating inclusive and affirming spaces and their upcoming session at Roll Model Camp.

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Happier Podcast Episode mentioned

https://gretchenrubin.com/podcast-episode/317-just-work-kim-scott-trier-bryant

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The Might Dames on Facebook

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