Explore every episode of the podcast Bayis Pnimi [women]

(BPJ #120).

• • relationship essentials - part 2.
    • speaking to God;
    • creating real intimacy;

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(LO #54).

• • beginner's mind;
  • secret to long life;
  • clothing of light;

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(BPW #111).

• • foundations;
    • 3. act as His Ally;
    • 4. love;
    • 5. see His strength as well;
    • 6. rely as a Rav;

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(LO #53).

• • women's torah study;
  • being a patient and dedicated teacher;
  • Hashem comforting us within our difficulty;
  • models of modesty from Sarah, Rochel, Shaul, Ester;

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(LO #52).

• • parent's discipline of children by earning their respect;
  • focusing on today each and every moment;
  • looking beneath the surface;
  • building our inner world;
  • even public actions can be infused with internal beauty;

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(BPW #110).

• • honoring parents;
  • protecting walls;
  • foundations;
    • 1. be realistic;
    • 2. carry on - dont disrupt daily routines in marriage;

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(BPJ #119).

• • relationship essentials - part 1.
    • grow up;
    • get real;
    • if you want something ask for it (don't expect mind reading);
    • spend some private time together;

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(LO #51).

• • making your own will Hashem's will;
  • beracha of "everything is created for His glory";
  • preciousness and emotional healing in private secluded prayer;
  • aligning our bodies and souls;
  • inner and outer;

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(BPW #109).

• • safeguarding your beauty;
  • physical hygiene;
  • your external actions affect your internal state;
  • on revealing flaws and inviting guests;

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(LO #50).

• • wise person's eyes in the head;
  • lead yourself by intellect;
  • be a shining example to other to influence;
  • leaving depression;
  • seeing good points;
  • tznius tells us there is more to a human being than just their outside appearance;

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(BPW #108).

• • starting anew;
  • adapting to differences;
  • the art of giving in;
  • being kind to each other even as you differ;

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(BPJ #118).

• • guidelines and advice in handling parents and in-laws within marriage;

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(LO #49).

• • handling anger;
  • being authentic to your spiritual growth;
  • begin the day by turning to Hashem first;
  • modesty is an internal middah;

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(BPW #107).

• • interdependence of your individuality and your oneness with your husband;
  • developing good middos and common sense;
  • half of a whole;
  • praying for sholom bayis as one with your husband;

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(BPJ #117).

• • marital intimacy - 2;
    • gift of physical separation in niddah period;
    • respecting spouse's privacy;
    • distance in niddah period does NOT mean coldness or ignoring;
    • don't waste this period;
    • avoid poison of unhealthy emotional connections and internet use;
    • satisfy your partner sexually.

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(LO #48).

• • a deeper look into real and healthy tznius which is "pnimi" an "internal" true experience, as a real true middah, not the shallow hyperfocus on external dress alone;

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(BPW #106).

• • your home is a miniature bais hamikdosh;
  • opportunity to renew when attending the chuppah;
  • guarding the breach;
  • break bad habits;
  • accept advice graciously;

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(BPJ #116).

• • marital intimacy - 1;

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(LO #47).

• • value of wisdom;
  • forgiving each other;
  • reasons for negative association to tznius;
  • talk to Hashem as you would talk to your absolute best friend;

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(BPW #105).

• • safeguards in the journey of marriage are good middos, torah, mitzvos;
  • the art of conceding and overlooking with, can avoid much suffering;
  • respect and live that brings Shechina in your home;

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(BPJ #115).

• • don't "go for the jugular";
  • generate feelings of love for your spouse;
  • leave your in-laws out of it;
  • don't use words like "always";
  • TRY WITH EVERY FIBER OF YOUR BEING NOT TO ARGUE IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILDREN;

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(LO #46).

• • avoiding destructive worrying;
  • no true barriers between Jews;
  • starting over;
  • unlearning the unhealthy perceptions about tznius;

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(BPW #104).

• • blueprint for a successful marriage;
  • being a source of encouragement for your husband;

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(BPJ #114).

• • listen actively;
  • stick to the subject;
  • don't be jealous of your own honor;
  • realize Hashem is sending you a message;
  • never disrupt the normal routine of marriage because of a fight;

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(LO #45).

• • do not cast a stone into the well from which you drank;
  • remove from yourself the negative effects of envy, lust and pursuit of glory;

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(BPW #103).

• • creating and adapting your marriage goals;
  • learn and grow together;
  • Eizer K'negdo;

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(BPJ #113).

• • wait before responding;
  • consider that your spouse may be right;
  • don't rush apologies;
  • check your emotions at the door;

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(LO #44).

• • healthy and unhealthy to view the past;
  • Hashem loves you for your loyalty to Him especially when you don't "feel" it;
  • being strong and encouraged even when you slip into a lower level;

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(BPW #102).

• • plan and prioritize physical intimacy;
  • create a record of the beautiful parts of your marriage;
  • focus on his positive traits building him up;

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(BPJ #112).

• • don't nag;
  • encourage good behaviors through honest compliments;
  • influence your spouse by setting a good example;
  • avoid initiating fights;
  • don't provoke;
  • talk sparingly and short when disagreeing;

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(EX #48).

• This episode features a compelling interview with Eli Goldbaum, a mediator specializing in divorces within the orthodox Jewish world.
• Eli's approach emphasizes the importance of preventing divorces when possible and facilitating peaceful resolutions when dissolution of marriage becomes inevitable.

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(BPW #101).

• • creating intimacy with your husband;
  • sharing your inner thoughts and feelings with him;
  • accepting his feelings;
  • sharing activities with each other;

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(BPJ #111).

• • address causes, not symptoms;
  • don't "pile on";

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(LO #43).

• • seeing the silver lining of chessed Hashem gives you even when things are hard;
  • working hard to be be joyful first externally, which will ultimately be awakened within;

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(BPW #100).

• • the gift of your encouragement to your husband - a true lifesaver for him with great rewarding returns;

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(BPJ #110).

• • don't terrorize, tyrannize, dictate, or demand;

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(LO #42).

• • Hashem widens things for me even in distress;
  • looking at your good points to build yourself up;

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(BPW #99).

• • making yourself physically attractive for your husband;
  • building a rich inner life for yourself and to share with your husband;

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(EX #47).

• Rabbi Avrohom Kass & Sarah Chana Radcliffe on Let's Get Real with Coach Menachem, Sunday July21, 2024 #195. Key Differences & Points of Contention in Marriage Between Men & Women - Understanding Our Spouses on a Deeper Level;

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(BPJ #109).

• • learn how to influence your spouse;
  • criticism is poison to a relationship;
  • develop healthy self-worth to prevent defensiveness;

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(LO #41).

• • (not 40 as mentioned);
  • a life changing birthday letter to a grandson;
  • God speaks to me in my mind, He speaks to me and says "be good, be kind";

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(BPW #98).

• • skill to act interested in your husband's life and interests;
  • deep listening and words of encouragement strengthens the bond with your husband;

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(BPJ #108).

• • learning a second language;
  • using both the language of the head and language of the heart;
  • for a husband and wife to speak and connect deeply using both languages;

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(LO #40).

• • never be idle;
  • learn something new every day;
  • fill your life with meaning and deep purpose;
  • bringing out your bina yeseirah by working on yourself;
  • pray for ability to give and receive sound advice;

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(BPW #97).

• • using healthy humor to promote simcha in the home;
  • avoid poison of sarcasm;
  • using positive imagery;

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(BPJ #107).

• • giving your spouse your full attention;
  • saving your marriage by shutting down technology and connect with each other with a single one-to-one focus;

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(LO #39).

• • be happy with your tafkid;
  • not to be jealous of someone else's tafkid;
  • appreciating your special nekudah and mission in life;

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(BPW #96).

• • doing things for your husband on a very personal level;
  • develop deep friendship;

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(BPJ #106).

• • set aside fixed times for communication;
  • distinguish between empathetic listening and offering advice;
  • husband's listening empathetically when wife needs to talk;
  • wife regulating her talking to avoid overloading;

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(LO #38).

• • making good use of ourselves;
  • discarding mental junk and emotional discouragements;
  • ayin tova;

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